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EyesForYou21/r/RedPillWomen12/03/21 03:47 AM
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Following..I’m in the same boat and it’s hard 😕
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/26 09:55 PM
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He will and does without complaint, but I offer to pay for a meal every once in a while to treat him and he (almost) always takes me up on it without me having to twist his arm haha 😉 I know he appreciates it.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/25 02:58 AM
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This would be such a turnoff for me I would immediately stop feeling it and let him know lol (who cares if you look like a weirdo for noticing his profile changed). And yes, I would date (but not sleep with) multiple men at once until you find the one you really mesh with.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/25 07:48 PM
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Ok you’re right, it is real life and we all just have to suck it up and accept it. But that doesn’t mean it’s working, and doesn’t change the fact that it IS exhausting and hard for many. If OP doesn’t feel like a sex goddess up to having sex 4-5 times a week with a full plate of adult responsibilities, I’d say that’s perfectly normal, and not a reason to call her doctor or be given a lecture. Grace is needed here.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 10:06 PM
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(First off just wanted to say I didn’t take any offense, and I’m genuinely sorry you’re going through what you are!) Ok but you’re still deliberately ignoring that 40 hrs isn’t ~just~ 40 hrs…it’s 40 hrs PLUS getting ready PLUS a commute (mine is 45 mins each way, RIP me) PLUS cooking for yourself and (if applicable) a spouse/family PLUS getting groceries/running errands PLUS the upkeep that goes into keeping yourself attractive (which takes time and work) PLUS basic household chores/keeping a ni…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 08:13 PM
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Whoa, where did I say anything about women being lazy, or that being a stay at home mom is less work than working 40 hrs a week? I know that’s not true, and I’m not even a mom. I said full time employment is largely not fulfilling to a majority of women, which I thought was kind of common knowledge around here. Grinding, rushing, stressing, and climbing the career ladder is inherently contrary to what MOST women find fulfilling, which is a slower pace of life and the nurturing of a family and a …
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 05:54 PM
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I’m genuinely kind of surprised to see some of these responses here…claiming it’s “only” 40 hrs a week, so why should you be exhausted and burnt out? Idk, I may be a low-energy person, but 40 hrs is still far too much time to be working in this modern age imho, and I’m sure as hell beat and burnt out by the time I’ve put in my 40, on top of the added chores and gym time and cooking and spending time looking pretty and feminine for the limited hours I get to spend with my boyfriend haha. I though…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/25 01:53 AM
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Oh I love this question! For some indie flavor, a few of my current favorites are Tae, Clairo, Men I Trust, Victoria Bigelow, and Remi Wolf. Pop any of these on and I’m dancing sensually in front of the nearest mirror immediately 😇
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/23 06:30 AM
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Oh man…I’ve BEEN here. Several times. And I’ve done both the reaching out to “shame” him for ghosting/attempting to regain the moral high ground, and the ghosting back and moving on. Nothing came of the first scenario but needless drama, regret, and embarrassment. But when I tell you the explosion of self-worth that resulted from choosing to ghost back and move on with my life…it sounds cliché, but it happened, and it forever changed the way I view myself and allow others to treat me. I went to …
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/22 01:27 AM
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Aw, this post tugged on my heart for some reason. I'm also very introverted, but get super chatty and excitable around men I'm interested in haha, so I thought I would offer my perspective. What you're describing are very feminine traits, which men tend to respond well to because it complements their masculinity. I agree with the other responses - please don't fake a persona in an effort to be what you think a man will like! Being yourself and owning who you are is the absolute best thing you ca…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/21 02:03 AM
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Not crazy, I was the same way with my ex after he would spend the entire afternoon doing yard work. I used to hang out in his armpit area just inhaling deeply every time we would be laying in bed together. I felt like such a freak haha :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/21 10:48 PM
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The way we consciously or subconsciously respond to other humans' body chemistry will never not be fascinating to me. I had no idea about the father tie-in!
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/21 10:43 PM
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Yeah, I questioned whether or not I should add that, in light of his actions and what I said about him in my original post. Let me rephrase: he was very kind and considerate TO ME haha
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/21 01:41 AM
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I don't think men encourage women to be dumb. They just don't necessarily care about a woman's (career) success. People (all of us, not just men) like being around people who are happy, agreeable, make us feel good. Your success means nothing if you are unpleasant company. Don't take life so seriously. You attract people when you are happy and fulfilled on your own.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/21 09:30 PM
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Thank you so much! :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/21 04:14 AM
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Same story for me! I was a very late bloomer and didn't really grow into my looks until about 28-29 and the baby fat ~finally~ started to melt off my face a little haha. I've gotten way more attention from 28 on than I ever got in my early and mid twenties. Some of us just take a bit longer to peak! And I agree with you, I think the confidence that comes when you hit your late twenties/early thirties has so much to do with attractiveness as well. :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/21 07:54 PM
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I have not, I wasn't even aware there was such a thing! I totally get why many men opt to hide/downplay their masculinity in various respects, and I think it's such a shame that society has reached this point. I even dated one (very masculine) guy that didn't hold the door for me until I teased him about it, and he said he was hesitant to because he "didn't know where we stand." He always got the door for me after that conversation tho, and it was so endearing the way he would perk up each time …
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/21 12:16 AM
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Pretty much what happened. Needless to say, we didn't last long. ;) Speaking of suspicious, I want to click your link but am afraid to lol
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/21 12:11 AM
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That's all I'm trying to doooo haha. It's near impossible to find a guy into the liberal arts who isn't a liberal as well. Slightly off topic but I met my ex through community theater, and looking back, he was the most beta man I've ever known. This was long before I knew anything about RP, and I couldn't fully articulate to myself why I so desperately dried up when one day he proudly announced: "I'm a feminist"
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/21 06:56 PM
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For those asking why I turned down a second date - it came down to a lack of physical attraction (which is important to me), some quite racist comments he made about his Hispanic coworkers (instant turnoff), and the slightly rude and argumentative way he responded to our waitress when she asked him to put on a mask to be seated (another instant turnoff). He was a nice guy otherwise, and we got along well, but I just couldn't ignore those factors when considering whether or not I wanted to take t…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/21 04:25 PM
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There was certainly a lot to like about him! Just some red flags I couldn't really ignore. It was very refreshing to meet a man that held a lot of the same values I do tho :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/21 04:19 PM
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He did not, we just hugged goodbye :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/21 04:17 PM
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Completely agree, most of those accounts aren't racist in and of themselves, and I'm quite proud of my Scandinavian/European heritage myself! I've just noticed that unfortunately a lot of the people that follow those accounts (but certainly not all!) are very bitter and given to white supremacy tendencies. The fact that this guy followed a lot of those accounts when paired with the things he was saying about his Hispanic coworkers just raised some major red flags for me
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/21 04:16 PM
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We exist! You guys are pretty hard to find yourselves. :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/21 04:10 PM
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