| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 31 | Do y'all remember this video? Thoughts?! Let's discuss! | LVM LOGIC | F1shB1rd | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 03:55 AM |
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| 3 | Anyone else find men who are into and proud of violent things (such as street fighting) and then claiming it to be ‘alpha’ as a huge red flag?That and how much they love boxing and mma or whatever its called. I don't get the appeal. You're watching people punch each other for sport! That's so horrible! It's such a turn off and so trashy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 01:30 AM |
| 49 | Don’t rush to feel the butterflies and passion when you’re meeting these men. That’s actually your intuition telling you somethings up! Love isn’t extreme passion. It is gentle, warming and safe.I love her page! She talks about love bombing, trauma bonds, and so much more! Her page is LovingMeAfterWe on Insta | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 12:11 AM |
| 47 | Everything I thought I knew is wrongWelcome home, sis! Step into your power!! hugs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 05:30 PM |
| 5 | NYC woman finds love on OkCupid - confirms what we already know about OnlineDating (OLD). OLD is one of the most effective tools you have in your "2020 dating toolbox". It WORKS, ladies. Be selective, be RUTHLESS, be persistent, and TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN, WHO ARE A PENNY A DOZEN ON OLD APPS.Hate that journey for me, no thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 12:27 AM |
| 10 | From my time online dating. . .I knew a KeLvin, just as bad, but with flair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 11:21 PM |
| 24 | Reminder.That too! A pick me who settles because she can't be alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Yesterday we agreed that Pisces men are wack, what about other signs?Thanks, sis! 💙 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 12:39 AM |
| 8 | Yesterday we agreed that Pisces men are wack, what about other signs?My ex-husband is a Capricorn and he's the worst! Most selfish and cold-hearted. They love bomb you and are too good to be true at first, then the mask starts to fall off and as soon as you are no benefit to them, they treat you like you don't matter or fucking exist. They only love you for loving them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:52 PM |
| 3 | My LVM sent me this mestoday after weeks of no contact. 4 years on and off, lived together, and I moved out a few months ago after I grew tired of playing wife and not getting my needs met. Leave these LVM the fuck behind sis, it’ll have him questioning his whole existence.Thank you, I appreciate that! I did notice he would be overly helpful towards her. And she would say weird things like, "I love how you talk to each other. You just ask him whatever and he answers, my ex and I got to the point where we didn't talk to each other at all. We sat on opposite sides of the couch and I would say something and he would just turn and smile and that's it." And during the time we hung out, she was having an on and off thing with a guy she liked. One day he finally asked he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 04:29 PM |
| 3 | My LVM sent me this mestoday after weeks of no contact. 4 years on and off, lived together, and I moved out a few months ago after I grew tired of playing wife and not getting my needs met. Leave these LVM the fuck behind sis, it’ll have him questioning his whole existence.Exactly!! Thank you!!! I was betrayed by 2 people close to me, they are both 100% to blame. She even told me herself, "I knew it was wrong but I was so lonely, sometimes I go days without any texts or messages from anyone, he was always there for me and I don't want to lose him." Oh ok, sure, then, I totally understand, after all I'm just his WIFE. 🙄 She has some serious issues and she is 100% a homewrecker. AND come to find out she did the same thing to a mutual girlfriend of ours years ago! Sh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:38 PM |
| 10 | My LVM sent me this mestoday after weeks of no contact. 4 years on and off, lived together, and I moved out a few months ago after I grew tired of playing wife and not getting my needs met. Leave these LVM the fuck behind sis, it’ll have him questioning his whole existence.It was, but you are right, sis. I wasn't dating her, he could have chosen not to go down that path but men are weak af when it comes to sex, its pathetic! It was definitely a shitty situation all around, but they deserve each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:06 AM |
| 25 | My LVM sent me this mestoday after weeks of no contact. 4 years on and off, lived together, and I moved out a few months ago after I grew tired of playing wife and not getting my needs met. Leave these LVM the fuck behind sis, it’ll have him questioning his whole existence.I see what you're saying, but she was a friend of mine and knew we were married, I would say that's the definition of a homewrecker too. They both were, she was by no means innocent. Though, he decided to pursue her and I'm sure manipulated her pick me behavior, she still sucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 12:48 AM |
| 59 | My LVM sent me this mestoday after weeks of no contact. 4 years on and off, lived together, and I moved out a few months ago after I grew tired of playing wife and not getting my needs met. Leave these LVM the fuck behind sis, it’ll have him questioning his whole existence.Same, my ex would also say shit like, "I lack empathy," "Idk, I'm just an asshole, I guess," or "you know idk how to communicate, talking isn't my strong suit" but, he would definitely pull conversations out of his ass to text the pickme homewrecker all day long. It gets old, they don't truly believe anything is wrong them, they just use buzzwords to make excuses to gain your sympathy like a child trying to get out of trouble with mom. Fuck that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 11:45 PM |
| 3 | Thought of you all... the answer is obviousNope, US...oh no, that means there's 2 of them! 😫😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 12:31 AM |
| 9 | Thought of you all... the answer is obvious😂💁🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 06:44 PM |
| 42 | Thought of you all... the answer is obviousOmg my ex-husband is a Capricorn! He was the WORST! Capricorn + Nerd type + engineer + introverted + porn sick. Ugh, glad he's an ex. He's now with another Capricorn. She's perfect for him cuz she's a Capricorn + 2 time homewrecker + pickme + zero personality gal. Glad they are together and away from the rest of the dating world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:59 PM |
| 20 | 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 it’s this seriousY'all rang? 💁🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 11:49 PM |
| 7 | Someone recently posted a cute comic about buying yourself flowers, so I went and bought myself flowers!Sooo pretty!! You're a lucky gal! ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 07:58 PM |
| 9 | Someone talk me out of this insanity1000%!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 07:11 PM |
| 9 | The song 'Lose You to Love Me' is great for all FDS Newbies!That song helped me through my divorce. It's a great song! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:52 PM |
| 54 | Nothing but factsExactly, don't fucking touch my hair! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:16 PM |
| 21 | Imagine....You know what I just thought about, if our exes say something along the lines of, "good luck finding someone who will put up with you or meet all your demanding criteria..." To me, if it takes a while to find someone who does, that says waaay more about men than it does about me and my FDS queens! They have lots of issues if I can't find someone who respects boundaries and respects me, period. 💁🏻♀️💅🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 06:31 PM |
| 14 | Donna Meagle from Parks and Rec should be FDS mascot, in my opinion.Yaass! She was the absolute BEST!!! 🙌🏼💙 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 12:21 AM |
| 42 | Donna Meagle from Parks and Rec should be FDS mascot, in my opinion.Donna was the best and also that Jen Berkley lady that was Ben and Leslie's rival. Total FDS QUEENS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 11:02 PM |
| 3 | Another daily stitched reminder ✨💕Yaassss!!!! Love it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 05:46 PM |
| 13 | You guys would have a field day in the commentsDon't worry sis, you'll definitely get picked. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Do y'all remember this video? Thoughts?! Let's discuss!Hahaha, yaasss!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 11:12 PM |
| 18 | Do y'all remember this video? Thoughts?! Let's discuss!Exactly! I like how they ignored the crazy man scale and just did a lame ass cute and money one. Men are absolutely more crazy. They range from punching walls, trolling, stalking, domestic violence, rape, murder, you name it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 01:27 PM |
| 36 | You can get more money and respect as a prostitute 🙄Wtf?! I once got chips and salsa lmao, I can't!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 09:14 PM |
| 1 | It took a while to figure this out for myself.Held* 🤦🏻♀️ lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 05:55 AM |
| 6 | It took a while to figure this out for myself.Exactly!!! I can't hear what the scrotes are saying, my head is head too high! 👸🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:07 PM |
| 17 | It took a while to figure this out for myself.Same! After my divorce is when I purchased sexy lingerie for myself and no one else. Nothing wrong with liking pretty things for yourself to give you a confidence boost and remember who the fuck you are! 💁🏻♀️💅🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 06:17 PM |
| 7 | All I see is red flags. 🚩Omg I love that! Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 11:47 PM |
| 25 | Excuse me, what? She shouldn't have even stayed the night, much less even THINK about moving in with him.Even birds leave a nest when they grow the fuck up! Sis, throw the whole man away! 🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 04:28 PM |
| 33 | Men and farting/burping.Yep and at the same time will think its gross if you were to fart or queef in front of him by accident! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 03:33 PM |
| 47 | That’s gonna be a no from me😂😂😂☠ funny because its horribly true! 😫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 02:38 PM |
| 5 | Thank you to this sub for being a safe space for womenI'm so so sorry all of that happened to you! I am horrified and infuriated for you! You are brave and resilient af, sis! I wish I could give you a hug! This group changed my life too and I am forever grateful! We are not alone! 💙 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Advice for dating religious men?I recently got back into religion and though I was hopeful that I could possibly find a good man through church or church groups (my ex-husband is atheist) my christian friend made a great point. She said, yes, you could meet someone, but be careful. You came to God broken, so chances are so are a lot of men who go to church. So, yes, definitely proceed with caution. You don't know why people go to church or started going. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Just AvoidI think this means they hate the things young girls like because they don't like what people his age like. No shit dude, she's still a kid! Gross! 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 09:11 PM |
| 1 | He thinks he’s a real catchOmg, "horoscopes for straight men" 😂😂😂 love it!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Hilariously true! Of course men in the comments are having temper tantrums over this, how straight white (even though race wasnt mentioned) males are the most opressed etcDaaaaamn! BURN!!! lol, they definitely understand that REAL quick! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Do complacent men ever change?Had you talked to him about how you felt before you messaged your ex? I feel like you're being too hard on yourself and putting yourself down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020Yeah! Exactly! You never know! I am proud of her daughters on the show, they are breaking the cycle and not falling for anything. That's how we should all be, including the sass lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 11:57 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020Anyone watch Dirty John on Nerflix? Ever since FDS, omg the red flags and the cringe pick me behavior from the lead actress and her mom, I cannot! Was I this cringey in my pickme days?! Holy shit! This is a great show to watch after you first get acquainted with FDS. It's a good little "pop quiz" to check ourselves, the red flags to look for and how NOT to react. Thoughts?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 01:36 AM |
| 2 | "Love is not enough" - the article that gets me through the dark daysLOVE that! It's so true! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Was looking for some q-tine entertainment, left with some q-tine nausea and despairExactly! Idk why they think girls your age would be interested!! That's so disgusting! When I went back to school at like 25-26, my classmate made fun of me (in a friendly way!) She asked how old I was and I told her and she yelled back, WHERE'S YOUR WALKER?! We busted out laughing. So I always think of this when I see guys talking about wanting younger girls. Also, you ever had a nice or nephew ask how old you are and they are blown away and call you old? How do these creeps not see that?! 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Scrotes be scroting: the tale of yet another NVMOmg, you're describing my ex! Lol, same polo, different colors and jeans for work. And, he only washes them every few wears! Cargo shorts and tshirts on his free time. When I met him he was wearing old tshirts. One was a faded out shirt from one of his jobs he had in college! He wears different t shirts now, but still! Lol. He was the same about dying hair and tattoos. He called his ex before me a liar because she wasn't a natural redhead. He told me he likes natural hair, redheads and brunettes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 05:39 PM |
| 13 | ExactlyWhere can we find it? Is it a YouTube series or podcast? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 04:38 PM |
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