F34r-L0ath1ng Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
34	[Q4ALL] What do you consider to be the biggest issues with “modern dating” and what is the solution?	Discussion	F34r-L0ath1ng	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/22 08:41 PM

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2	If a 100 Year Old Dude Looked Young He Could Date 18 Y/O Highschoolers without Ramification We all know Edward Cullen was a massive virgin till he met bella, he was saving himself till marriage, like everyone in the series. He spends his life reliving senior years at high schools, he’s not exactly got the life experience of an actual 100 year old. Besides this argument is stupid, these vampire stories are fictional! This is not a realistic scenario and you know it. And of course looks matter and effect relationships that’s not news. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be with someone…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 12:51 PM
11	If you desire a traditional man or woman, you better be traditional yourself Yep, modern people’s idea of “traditional” is so warped. People weren’t as squeaky clean as they made out to be. Also many qualities of traditional relationships are just unhealthy, there’s a reason people are moving away from that kind of lifestyle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/22 06:48 PM
5	If you desire a traditional man or woman, you better be traditional yourself This is why I find discussing “traditional relationships” pointless, many have their own definitions of what makes someone “traditional” and It usually boils down to arbitrary qualities and stereotyping. I don’t meet any of these examples you’ve made, yet am very non traditional. At this point “traditional women” is a caricature, made up by people who have no idea what a traditional relationship actually is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/22 06:24 PM
1	What are your thoughts on TRP's idea of texting for logistics only? personally I don’t like to go on dates with someone without texting a bit first. I like to know a bit about the person so I know what to talk about if it gets awkward. Also for safety, it’s best not to go out with someone you don’t know at all. You do you of course. And everyone is different, but I would not accept a date without a bit of texting first. If I was asked I would politely ask to text a bit first, and if they weren’t interested in that and only text for logistics I would block and mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/22 02:12 PM
4	How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff? Ah yes because women dumb right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/22 01:28 PM
4	How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff? I think you missed the point. They are saying play dumb, because people say things to people they consider dumb that they wouldn’t otherwise say. And if he has unsavoury red pill beliefs end things. This is a tack-tick to weed out red pill men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/22 01:15 PM
1	Why does comfort and familiarity kill attraction with women? Have you ever considered that what you might deem to be “comfort and familiarity” isn’t the same as what the average women deems to be so? That maybe traits that you consider to be beta or unattractive qualities aren’t things women care about? You keep making conclusions from an observation based on your assumptions alone and ignoring or shooting down anyone who disagrees. Ever considered that maybe the reason you are struggling to find the answer to these questions is because your assumptions a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/22 01:03 PM
0	Your opinions: Men using their vulnerability as a sh*t test? I understand guys being vulnerable isn’t as acceptable as it should be, and that terrible people exist - I don’t doubt some women would be cruel to a man for being vulnerable. But the truth is there are some men who are selfish in their vulnerability (i.e hijacking normal conversations to talk about his trauma, only ever talking about his issue and never asking the women if she’s okay) , and there is nothing wrong with women not wanting to be with these men. Yes men being vulnerable should be as…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/22 11:46 PM
2	Your opinions: Men using their vulnerability as a sh*t test? I’m not fan of these tests. They are childish and deceitful, I honestly think anyone “failing” them has also dodged a bullet - it’s building a relationship on whether or not someone passes or fails a test usually set up for them to fail. In this test your vulnerability is performative, you can’t accurately gauge how a women is actually going to react when you are being vulnerable for real. The issue with vulnerability is that some men aren’t great at knowing when’s appropriate and how much is ap…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/22 03:54 PM