F3mi Archive

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3	What’s the one book, seminar, video that gave you a good basic understanding of flirting and social skills/intelligence that you could build on? It’s easy to get lost in material. The truth is mindset matters more than anything. Let your curiosity do the work. If you want a comprehensive breakdown, Magic Bullets by Savoy is pretty legit. It expands on the mystery method and explains the rules of attraction	/r/seduction	03/10/25 03:54 AM
1	What’s the one book, seminar, video that gave you a good basic understanding of flirting and social skills/intelligence that you could build on? It’s easy to get lost in material. The truth is mindset matters more than anything. Let your curiosity do the work. If you want a comprehensive breakdown, Magic Bullets by Savoy is pretty legit. It expands on the mystery method and explains the rules of attraction	/r/seduction	03/10/25 03:54 AM
5	What’s the one book, seminar, video that gave you a good basic understanding of flirting and social skills/intelligence that you could build on? Get out there and practice. That’s the only possible next step	/r/seduction	03/10/25 03:29 AM
21	18(M) How do I get a gf? Need Help As I Am Struggling To Find One The way to get a GF? Stop looking for a GF. Read Models by Mark Manson, figure out why it means so much to you to get a girl and then let it go. The inferiority complex especially relative to women, is the first thing that has to go. You don’t “need” to be anything to get a girl. You don’t need to meet some fancy criteria. You do need to occupy your ego with things that matter to you and focus on growing. That energy alone attracts women. You can read The Mystery Method or Magic Bullets to under…	/r/seduction	02/10/25 03:51 PM
1	Am i a second choice or a bestie? Escalate. Make your intentions known and physically escalate when possible. Flirt, make things just above friendly so she knows where your head is at. If she reciprocates, you know where you stand. If she doesn’t, polarize her and make her decide where she’s at, so you can stop asking questions and finally move on. The friend zone isn’t a real place.	/r/seduction	29/09/25 09:36 PM
13	Seducing without playing games - A reflection I hear you dude. I started to feel the same way when I realized that getting a girl sometimes felt like when you try to hold onto something in a dream. Your hands can’t quite seem to close and your grip turns to mush. I switched up my standards and told this one girl that one of my deal breakers was game playing and that I wanted to be present and real. We broke up shortly after when she lost attraction. One of the comments points out a key issue: when you behave a certain way, you attract a cer…	/r/seduction	28/09/25 09:07 PM
2	How to destory self-limiting beliefs It’s a good way to dissolve the ego and learn detachment, not so much acceptance	/r/seduction	13/07/25 09:21 AM
3	How do you check if the friend that said "No" to a date is having a change of heart ? This. She’ll use you for attention as long as you let her. If you get butthurt, she’ll blame you for having an ulterior motive. The key is to flirt and add a sexual vibe. Polarize her into making a decision. She could be having a change of heart or she could be trying to cement your new friend zone persona. Only one way to find out.	/r/seduction	12/07/25 11:12 PM
3	Tried talking to Anody, but not sure how to keep the conversation going—help? She’s waiting for you to say something. Ask her to grab drinks.	/r/seduction	04/07/25 05:23 PM
1	Why women reject even the most attractive men and how romance fixes it In this case, you don’t need the whole Romance prescription, although it’s necessary in the broader scheme of things. You simply didn’t qualify her. Tell her a few things you like about her beyond her looks—like real genuine compliments—and she’ll feel more secure. They can be like that sometimes	/r/seduction	19/03/25 09:02 PM