FADITY7559 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
89	Quote to repeat to yourself EVERY DAY		FADITY7559	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/24 04:42 PM
8	How to prove cohabitation		FADITY7559	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/23 05:34 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Can you men remind me not to beg for her back? The urge is strong to ask her to come back. She’s an ex for a reason.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/26 10:39 PM
2	How long did your divorce take? 3 long years	/r/Divorce_Men	26/03/25 04:03 PM
8	Those who remarried after divorce… I was also married to a narcissist and my therapist actually diagnosed me with PTSD after the divorce. It’s been 8 years and I’m just starting to date again. I have a couple of fears. I have not looked into the validity of them, but I will later. 1) if I remarry, could my new spouse’s income be used for my ex to request a redo of her alimony payments? The courts may/may not see my new spouse’s assets fair game. If they don’t and 2) my new spouse happens to pass away and leave me property and/or …	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/24 04:31 PM
1	Engagement Ring I don’t think that’s considered martial property since it was a gift to her before the marriage. So the judge likely won’t consider it when distributing marital property.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/08/24 01:57 AM
2	Quote to repeat to yourself EVERY DAY My healing went in stages. First was the physical healing. Thru the proceedings I had put on a lot of weight. I also had numerous panic attacks with fainting spells. That led to 3-4 concussions within a few months that caused some brain damage. That it turn caused me to get vertigo and some major hearing loss. So the first part of my healing was to lose the weight with the help of a great registered dietitian and finding the right ENT to help counter the vertigo. It took me over a year to lose 1…	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/24 12:40 PM
10	Quote to repeat to yourself EVERY DAY Hang in there my friend. My divorce was final in Aug 2016. This year, I finally feel healed, happy and at peace. Over 7 years to heal for me - and I was the one that filed for the divorce.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/24 09:43 PM
5	What’s the point of life if she is going to take half eventually It’s just stuff. She gets stuff, you get your life back.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/24 03:47 PM
4	Who initiated the separation/divorce? You or the wife? Me. She was verbally and mentally abusive to the kids as well as me. I finally had enough and filed.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/07/24 02:17 PM
3	Has anyone ever asked for the value of their spouses ring to be considered in the assets and split 50/50? I don’t think an engagement ring would be considered marital property. It was a gift given to her before you married her. Keep in mind that I’m not a lawyer though.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/07/24 03:51 AM
8	She filed today I’m lost Also set up a new bank account that she doesn’t have access to for your paychecks and have them direct deposited to that new account. Get a PO Box that only you have access to. Have all your mail changed to deliver to that PO Box. ESPECIALLY ANY FINANCIAL mail. Instead of cancelling your credit cards, remove her from the account and have a new card sent to your PO Box. Cancelling credit cards can hit your credit score and you don’t need that too.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/01/24 02:44 PM
2	How to prove cohabitation I didn’t think about serving him with a subpoena. That sounds great when I move on this. It may take a year before I can proceed with the court actions.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/23 04:32 PM
1	How to prove cohabitation I’m thinking this may be the best way to proceed for now.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/23 04:29 PM
2	How to prove cohabitation I’m sure she still has everything still connected to her own place as far as addresses go. So she will still have bills going to her own place, in her name. Same with drivers license. And I don’t really want to subpoena anything at the moment that could tip her off that I’m watching.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/23 04:29 PM
1	How to prove cohabitation They both still own a separate home. But I think that’s just for appearances. Her place has no mortgage and is owned free and clear by her and her mother. We actually helped her mother buy the place outright prior to my even thinking of a divorce and the mother put her on the deed at purchase time.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/23 04:26 PM
2	How to prove cohabitation Payment is until either death, she remarries, or cohabitates as a family for at least a year. I’m 64. She’s 60. Monthly alimony is $24,000/year or $2,000/month. So I’m thinking it would be cheaper to pay something now to save in the future.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/23 04:22 PM