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6	The seeming controversy over first dates being dinner. (Help)	Fundamentals	FALSECHARLATAN	/r/seduction	08/08/25 08:00 AM

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1	The seeming controversy over first dates being dinner. (Help) hmm i guess most dinners neither of us really eat much and we spend most of the time talking	/r/seduction	11/09/25 06:14 PM
1	The seeming controversy over first dates being dinner. (Help) why are they so dumb and beta? genuine question. and because there is very little to do in this town....and ive done most of it...	/r/seduction	11/09/25 05:28 PM
1	The seeming controversy over first dates being dinner. (Help) Wow, incredible advice man. thanks so much seriously for your write up, I've saved your post to my date notes and dating notes/reddit to re-read. You are SO RIGHT about the playfulness. I get a lot of feedback that I am a very silly/playful (for better or worse) dude. When I used to go on dates I would write down some silly jokes (bad business ideas, things that made me laugh, etc.) and just try to have fun with MYSELF first. I feel like I've been more stilted in recent convo with planning/ove…	/r/seduction	09/08/25 01:58 AM
1	The seeming controversy over first dates being dinner. (Help) I'm not, but there are two places I can think of where that would happen, my country club which may be inappropriate for a first meetup, and this one little restaurant where a table/bar would certainly not be guaranteed....but I definitely have to keep this in mind in the future. It sounds to me like the park/picnic restaurant is way better option then as there's more chances to sit next to eachother and move/create touch. hmmm...i guess i should focus on the tension building. would saying somet…	/r/seduction	08/08/25 11:57 PM
1	The seeming controversy over first dates being dinner. (Help) They seem to but it could be that the majority of girls just wanted to be together no matter what in the first place. I've had plenty bail on me last second and could be because of the commitment of dinner. or sometimes ill just say 'meet me here at xyz' and then have reservations - saying well pop in for apps and walk around. For instance the more upscale place is an outdoor mall they you can walk around and the other has a park next door you can drink in. I could be wrong but I feel like it …	/r/seduction	08/08/25 08:37 PM
1	The seeming controversy over first dates being dinner. (Help) this seems like the common throughline. I have multiple places lined up but I thought of an idea that may be too cutesy or dumb. one of the fancier places in town which has a great patio and is easy to just get sushi and drinks at is located in a large open air mall, but its actually right by a panda express. i was going to ask her to meet me at the panda express as a joke. then take a casual stroll to the nicer place for apps at 6 and if things are carrying dinner. that sounded to me like a fun…	/r/seduction	08/08/25 08:16 PM
1	The seeming controversy over first dates being dinner. (Help) this was a really great response, especially the part 'implies you are not enough' to take to a fancy place. I like to do one spot for apps/with multiple dinner reservations after. maybe i should throw out the more high end sushi places now which i actually think are good spots because I was thinking of asking her to seriously meet me at a panda express lol in a shopping strip. which is located a very short walk to a high end place as a unique sort of 'change of venue'. high end place you can ju…	/r/seduction	08/08/25 08:06 PM