FAR2Go9926 Archive

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1	Wife left me today Progesterone is calming, actually. Maybe she also takes testosterone? Or that all has little to nothing to do with it. Sounds like there is a ton of resentment built up over the years. Often, women feel that men simply don't listen to them or take their concerns seriously until it's too late. Some couple of IG came up with a theory--that as boys, men got used to not changing their behaviors unless they were being screamed at -- e.g., by a coach.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/09/25 05:49 PM
2	Wife left me today I'm glad you have a therapist and friends. It sounds like the anger/silent treatment/PA pattern goes back quite a while (pre-menopause). Not to be an armchair psychologist, but is it possible she's a narcissist or has tendencies? I'd also be looking at the dynamic between your primary caregivers and you. Unfortunately a lot of us chase what feels familiar.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/09/25 05:34 PM
3	Wife left me today Keep reading. The two primary hormones that decline in menopause are estrogen and progesterone. To a lesser extent, a decline in testosterone plays a role. Estrogen and progesterone are separate hormones. Progesterone does not "address the lack of estrogen."When a woman who has a uterus goes on estrogen, she also has to go on progesterone to protect against uterine cancer. (Estrogen builds up the lining and cells can go haywire.)	/r/Divorce_Men	21/09/25 03:53 PM
5	Wife left me today She's on progesterone, which can actually exacerbate depression It's the other way around. Declining progesterone is what can cause or exacerbate depression, anxiety, insomnia... If she's on progesterone, she's obviously also on estrogen. So she is, in fact, treating menopause symptoms.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/09/25 02:28 PM
2	Wife left me today I suggest you do not bring up/blame menopause, especially with her mom, jeez. These guys love to point the blame at women's hormonal shift instead of looking in the mirror. It's beside the point anyway--she's gone. Not ordering food for you was -- oof -- though.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/09/25 02:24 PM
1	Wife left me today Don't they come home during breaks though? You said they were around this summer. Kids in college view the family home as "home" and --especially now--they may not be able to afford a post-college apartment etc.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/09/25 02:20 PM
2	66 and headed for divorce, older guys, what is is like after? IDGAF also caught the post history. I didn't come up with that out of the blue. Edit--I see you're Indian. Perhaps you are unaware that "escort"= prostitute/hooker.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/07/25 11:04 PM
5	66 and headed for divorce, older guys, what is is like after? For a lot of reasons that really don't matter, I'm pretty sure we are headed for divorce. Like you fucking prostitutes?	/r/Divorce_Men	15/07/25 02:37 PM