FDS_Alt Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
157	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually	Discussion	FDS_Alt	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 02:23 AM
4	Psychopath loser dumbass beats his sister, nothing but support in the comments. Stay aware and wise, ladies. So many men are unsafe, even those in our own families.	MALE DEPRAVITY	FDS_Alt	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/11/19 04:59 PM
1	Read between the lines, queens	MALE DEPRAVITY	FDS_Alt	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/10/19 02:39 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
31	Women: Birth Control Causes me agonizing ongoing pain both physically and mentally. Men: BUT HWAT ABOUT MUH PENIS?!! CONDOMS SUCK. YOU HAVE TO MEET US HALFWAY!!😡😡🤦‍♀️ (Scrotes mad about my last post) Literally fucking insane	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/19 08:43 AM
6	Is it just me or has there been a major tone change when (beauty) standards stopped being something only men held women to? I think the lion's share of the pressure is still on women, physically. Most of the first dates I've been on have been with guys who could be attractive but put in very little effort. My last first date, the man showed up in AN ANIME EMBROIDERED HOODIE. I almost walked out. He looked put together in his pictures and showed up looking wack. And it's doubly stupid because looking "good" for men is so freaking easy and they still don't do the bare minimum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/19 08:45 AM
17	How do you think the opposite gender should approach dating? I think men should decide what they want, work towards being their best selves to deserve what they want, and then stop settling. If you want to date a wealthy, tall, blonde lawyer, stop dating short, brunette nurses. You just waste their time and yours. I see a lot of men with high standards who settle and the resent the girl they settled for, blaming her for not living up to the expectations they set and then didn't attempt to attain. I think I do this to a certain extent too. I have an idea o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/19 08:43 AM
2	Dating for three days does not equate to getting sex. If you HAVE to have sex early to keep a man, it was never going to work out because he wasn't looking for a partner, he was looking for sex. A good, quality man will wait and won't pressure you. They're out there, I promise.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/19 02:25 AM
1	Dating for three days does not equate to getting sex. Good for you for standing up for yourself. He doesn't deserve you and he showed his true colors very early. You will find someone that respects you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/19 02:23 AM
22	On Sunday I decided to stop being the one to message (or snap) him first...he hasn’t contacted me since💅 Are you doing okay?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/19 03:36 AM
6	Ladies, what is ur opinion on dating men with kids, when u don’t have any? Yeah I would be horrified to be a single father's main priority	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/19 09:36 PM
1	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually Its a common and well documented tactic	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 08:58 PM
1	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually Yes, expecting any pleasure from my partner makes me a listless floppy noodle, very good point. Men are just better off masturbating tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 10:57 AM
1	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually Lol you mean he can pay $25 a month in child support for 18 years (IF that, IF he doesn't disappear altogether). Acting like pregnancy is worse for men is literally the stupidest thing I've ever heard lmfaooo so stupid	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 10:38 AM
1	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually So my feelings are invalid and my "post doesn't convince" you because you think gay men are promiscuous? Instead of taking away some understanding or having some humility to another person's perspective, you'd rather justify why my feelings and those of other women in the thread are irrelevant. Seems like a waste of everyone's time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 08:43 AM
1	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually I don't give a shit about that. You're slut shaming me instead of listening to my actual post, and that's shitty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 08:05 AM
1	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually Yeah. 100% can't tell.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 07:26 AM
28	Ladies, what is ur opinion on dating men with kids, when u don’t have any? I used to be okay with it. I dated single dads. I don't anymore. I'm not going to pretend I like or want kids just so a guy will like me. And that's not fair to the kids, either.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/19 06:55 AM
2	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually You don't care to understand. That's obvious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 06:45 AM
0	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually Fuck off	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 06:34 AM
3	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually Foreplay Asking what she likes Communicating what you like Respect for boundaries	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 06:29 AM
1	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually Very selfish of you, who cares if she has a good time, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 06:05 AM
5	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually That's crazy. I literally can't tell the difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 05:50 AM
5	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually I've hooked up with guys into their 40s and they were some of the worst lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 05:47 AM
1	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually Nobody would ever have sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 05:44 AM
4	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually I assure you, I've done my part for the unattractive men and have been deeply and repeatedly disappointed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 05:36 AM
4	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually Damn. All that corn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 05:34 AM
1	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually Because chocolate COULD be good if men gave a shit, but they habitually choose not to	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 05:31 AM
3	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually I stayed in a pretty unsatisfying relationship for longer than I should have out of guilt, but in small part because the reliable sex. I broke it off because it wasn't fair to him to use him like that but not wanting to vet poor sexual partners was part of the reason I didn't want to end the relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 05:30 AM
3	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually Because I kept getting the same dumbass accusation that I'm out here drooling after highly attractive dudes because it DOES invalidate my experiences and it ISN'T accurate, they're speaking out of bitterness and assuming I deserve poor sexual experiences because they incorrectly assume I'm as shallow as they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 05:28 AM
6	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually Because they don't think women are worthy of effort 🤷🏻‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 05:25 AM
1	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually That's actually a fucking amazing idea, assuming the men wouldn't do like they do on tinder and report/downvote out of bitterness or to ruin her metrics to keep her from other partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 05:22 AM
1	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually Its so so so so rare	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 05:11 AM
5	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually I see what you're saying and can see that side. But I also feel like they shoot themselves in the foot because when I DO hook up with guys, they are so terrible that we never meet again. If they had put in any effort we would have a great time but they ruin it and shoot themselves in the foot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 04:43 AM
4	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually I guess fat guys don't really bother me so I dont get the hate 🤷🏻‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 04:39 AM
1	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually Damn. Guess I'm going for hotter guys then. I've never really been with attractive men and almost never have had a good time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 04:29 AM
2	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually Yeah that's what I meant. Why does that matter so much?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 04:26 AM
3	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually I've given incredibly average men a chance and they have repeatedly proven themselves selfish and indifferent so we're at an impasse	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 04:01 AM
2	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually Weight is literally the only thing men care about, huh?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 04:00 AM
3	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually Nope. You're wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 03:57 AM
4	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually You're wrong. I mostly hook up with very average guys. But you're attempting to invalidate my perspective by insinuating that I deserve to be dissatisfied because I'm shallow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 03:45 AM
0	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually If women are so terrible, why am I (and all my female friends) so frequently pressured or guilted or shamed or harassed into hooking up?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 03:38 AM
2	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually You're right. I agree. I also think it's more of a systemic problem than just a me problem but that doesn't take away my personable responsibly in choosing better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 03:37 AM
5	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually You're wrong. I mostly hook up with very average guys. But you're attempting to invalidate my perspective by insinuating that I deserve to be dissatisfied because I'm shallow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 03:36 AM
2	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually But men can reasonably expect it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 03:35 AM
1	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually You're wrong. I mostly hook up with very average guys. But you're attempting to invalidate my perspective by insinuating that I deserve to be dissatisfied because I'm shallow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 03:34 AM
6	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually And that's why they're such bitches about condoms too	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 03:32 AM
2	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually You're wrong. I mostly hook up with very average guys. But you're attempting to invalidate my perspective by insinuating that I deserve to be dissatisfied because I'm shallow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 03:27 AM
0	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually Because it's what we're taught we're worth. Guys don't want to commit and push the casual thing. Don't believe me, get on any OLD app or walk into any bar. That's what is normal now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 03:15 AM
16	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually Because it fills a void: actual female benefit without men explaining how we feel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 03:11 AM
22	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually No, female performance is a GIVEN. Give head, dirty talk, please him. Those are all general standards. Men go down on women way way less frequently than women are expected to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 03:10 AM
1	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually Men who criticize and pressure women into having casual sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 03:08 AM
36	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually That's a fair point. I think that's a symptom of our hook up culture in general. Sex is most fun with a connection and there's a lot more sex and a lot less communication happening now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 03:06 AM
15	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually Or that bowl of ice cream blocked you after because it got what it wanted. I’m losing the metaphor a little but you get it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 02:37 AM
14	Most men have a fundamental misunderstanding of what women experience sexually I can’t tell if you’re trolling or shaming but I’ll address it anyway: I rarely enjoy it but I’m craving the peripheral feelings that come with it. Feeling desired, attractive, connected, validated. I always say “maybe this time will be better?” But like a giant bowl of ice cream that seems like such a good idea beforehand, I always just feel sick and nauseated afterward.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/19 02:28 AM
6	How to avoid ending up with someone that fetishizes young women: Controlling. There's no normal reason to want that	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/11/19 09:12 PM
58	How to avoid ending up with someone that fetishizes young women: To add: He mentions liking extremely small/thin/fragile looking women. Screams abusive tendencies. Doesn't spend time or have relationships with people his own age. Rationalizes that "they don't get him". I dated someone who was 37 when I was 21, and someone 23 when I was 16. There is no reason for men that much older to be with someone that much younger, unless it's a power/control dynamic. Yes, 37/21 was legal, but it was not healthy and he was not healthy. If he cannot connect to women his ag…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/11/19 04:52 PM