FFistMad Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Stop glorifying "masculinity" here is what I'm understanding; straight masculinity -> how men are when women are involved gay masculinity -> how men are when women aren't involved Accusing feminists of being the cause of homophobia as a result of a blindspot about men's capacity to fulfill each other is a new one. So, when gay men are framed as 'lacking in masculinity', its actually a comment on how that man lacks connection to women? I do find it strange how when one asks about the characteristics of masculinity (usually me…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/06/25 01:21 PM
1	Stop glorifying "masculinity" 'Masculinity and femininity aren’t specific tasks' ...proceeds to list specific fundamental tasks of masculinity and femininity if 'femininity' is another way of saying 'complimentary other' then why not just speak in terms of complimentary relationships instead of being weird about it by speaking out of both sides of your mouth?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/06/25 12:16 PM
2	Stop glorifying "masculinity" tbh...without examples of what feminine service is, this reads like either 'gay men should try be straight in order to live complete lives' or "in gay relationships, one person is 'the masculine', the other is 'the feminine', thus they balance each other" many, including hetero men, conclude that cooking and cleaning are 'feminine services'...but then if a man was to cook and clean in his gay marriage can he be said to be masculine? or is that an 'apple and pear' situation and gay men shouldn't …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/06/25 04:16 PM
1	Stop glorifying "masculinity" i suppose that the problem then. men focusing on each other outside 'gender roles' is generally understood as 'gay'...somehow, at some point, the conclusion is that there is a sexual or romantic motivation to be a human towards another male as a male. and this kinda forces straight men to either speak against gay men or at least performing a series of a kind of coming out as straight (because people are gonna code your capacity to be human as 'not of hetero-masculinity') when in the attempt to b…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/06/25 04:00 PM
1	Stop glorifying "masculinity" not sure what a masculinity that is confused by gay men has to do with either of those two. Do you find your own masculinity 'unsettled' when asked to include a gay man into the same definition?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/06/25 03:46 PM
2	Stop glorifying "masculinity" so...how do gay men fit in your response?...especially since 'alone and incomplete' was mentioned, also 'Incompatible for living a complete and fulfilled life'	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/06/25 03:41 PM
1	Stop glorifying "masculinity" yeah, many got quite confused by the meaning of masculinity when they felt they were also expected to include gay dudes... like how does a straight man be masculine while next to a gay man...who is now also supposedly masculine?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/06/25 01:40 PM
1	Stop glorifying "masculinity" what is 'gay masculinity'? is 'gay men masculinity' the 'top-bottom' thing with the associated characteristics?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/06/25 01:23 PM
2	Stop glorifying "masculinity" 'feminine service'... can a man freely do this 'feminine service' and still be considered masculine?.. could a man freely not seek 'feminine service' and still be considered masculine?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/06/25 01:11 PM