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I have dealt with my daughter's mom creeping into 2 years now and OP is correct - they never change. Hell even "counseling" and "medications" can't stop the crazy train fully with these types of people. I just remember the massive idealization in the beginning of our dating/relationship like yesterday and the very subtle (frog in boiling water) games, lies, manipulation, ultimatums, insecurity exploitation (every castle has a hole in it: deal with it on a personal level), stealing, gas lighting,…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/18 12:59 AM
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I believe it is a maturity aspect to TRP - which is a complete husk of what once was a great place to vent, post progress, get advice, and make dreams come alive with the right tools. TRP has turned into a 24/7/365 bitter spergfest of the same shit repeated over, over, over, over, and OVER. You also have a mix of incels, MGTOW, and other toxicity into the cocktail too. As a single father to a 4 month old it is really appalling how fucking retarded some of the content is on here. When you become …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/18 12:52 AM
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I revisited this thread since my ex and I have a daughter together. The comment you made regarding red flags and gut feeling is spot on. The first couple of dates with my ex I felt something was off and the red flags carpeted a whole room - no job, living on mommy & daddy's dollar while talking horribly about them, having tons of "guy friends" & ex's still in the picture, and so much more. I knew this chick was fucking insane by the end of the first date but since we reconnected from our fling I…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 04:44 PM
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Always get a paternity test. DEFINITELY get a paternity test if she makes effort to dodge it - she knows something that would bulldoze her hamster into the ground.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 04:08 AM
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Honestly this goes against TRP hivemind but honestly dude you don't deserve her. Everyone is here for different reasons - plates, LTR, FWB, etc.. however if she is really a sweet girl and she treats you good please let her go OP. I got burned by my last ex pretty bad and I wouldn't mind a nice sweet women to have around my daughter.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:38 AM
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Get out before you brush up on the edges of suicide. I am not joking here. Myself and other men have nearly been at the point of ending it all. The abuse, gaslighting, triangulation, games, and pain will drive you to that point. Block, ghost, and never look back if you have no kids/no marriage. Get out before it gets too late.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 11:39 PM
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That is the way to go. Expect him and the other chicks to laugh/rattle you. Ignore it. Life is too short to give a fuck what some faggots laugh at you about.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 10:08 PM
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Get the fuck out OP. Time to rip the bandaid off because a lot of us here including myself had to face this: It is highly probable she found a new chad/fucktoy/prospect and wants to give it a run. Expect her to torpedo things with stupid amounts of drama so she can rationalize why she left you. Don't break up in front of her friends or yours. It just creates drama and they both are looking for a good story to laugh with the new chad. Ghost her. Block her social media, phone number, and everythin…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 09:54 PM
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Not give a fuck and keep doing you.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 09:47 PM
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Don't take anything personally. Literally the best bet in this situation is to: - Rehearse a good witty comeback(s) - Ignore it and show complete indifference (attack didn't even register) Showing indifference to an attack conveys the messages unconsciously to the group dynamic: "I don't give a fuck and im confident enough to not take it seriously" If you are annoyed just stop hanging out with these people - it's really simple.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 09:45 PM
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This happened with my BM during her PREGNANCY (believe me it was willpower not to murder the smug fucker) you need to disconnect yourself from her, stop being an option, and keep it business only with your child. She gets off knowing she can have her BD safety to fall back on and chad to slurp on when things are good. Get out of this love triangle circus ASAP.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 12:52 AM
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Bravo. My ex exhibits nearly all of these especially when it comes to responsibility. Saved.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 07:18 AM
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Odd enough this is true OP. My child's mother parades her new man & his family in family court. I laugh when they keep hamstering in their group how he is a "good guy" and "nice" yet every single time she is always checking me out in front of him, tried adding me on social media midst of the battle, and so forth. I didn't bite any of her bait and I can tell it drives her crazy that I moved on to which she cannot have me easily. Women are just interesting creatures.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 08:22 PM
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That's the whole plan. Had a few weeks on the protective order so far and im completely over my ex 100% she is HARD NEXTED for life. However I still will be respectful in regards to her when it comes to our little girl.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 10:57 PM
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Ditto. My mom is a widow (dad was an alcoholic and smoker) I fucked up and had a kid at 21 - she witnessed me go from a man on a mission (college, work, lifting, etc..) to a dad bod college dropout. Just today she slammed me with harsh redpill truths: "Son, the family and I love you and want the absolute best for you. We are not going to help you financially in this mess YOU created with every opportunity to walk away from in the beginning - You will face the courts on your own and own up to you…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 02:19 AM
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Agreed. In essence she got sloppy with her pills and surprise.. I am known as the condom fairy among my social circle whenever my friends start talking about banging chicks.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 08:55 AM
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It's not funny. Many fathers out there commit suicide because of such shitty situations let alone not being able to see their children.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 08:35 AM
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Yes. Maternal instinct will fight you to the death - tread with caution.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 06:12 AM
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Gentleman take /u/Dmva100 fucking seriously on this one. I played with the loaded gun and now less than 3 months from becoming a father. Another piece of advice: GET A PATERNITY TEST! NO QUESTIONS ASKED. I don't give a fuck if your wife/gf/cousin/whatever is trustworthy. Paternity fraud is no joke nowadays.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 03:09 AM
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Indeed. The only way is up from this costly lesson. I have my own paid off car, $7,000 saved up, decent credit, and enrolling back into school this spring.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 02:00 AM
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It is definitely a war. I had to let the "relationshit" pieces fall though. This is truly a way to experience the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 01:59 AM
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I was slightly RP but this whole experience truly threw me back in the matrix in the most violent way possible and spit me out. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 01:56 AM
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You are lucky. My ex didn't abort. We have discussed adoption and she ain't budging one bit. The next 18 years is going to be a war fought to complete mental, spiritual, and economic exhaustion.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 01:54 AM
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Fucking run.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 11:10 PM
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Run like hell NOW. I have a similar personal experience except mine involved a child who was not mine, playing my cards right, and dodging an artillery shell. When you corner them and they start crying those tears are guilt tears homie. Got kids? Have a house? figure that shit out as fast as you can. If not get started on a divorce ASAP. She will try to reel you anyway possible from the sex you had when first dating, acting feminine, and so forth. Don't fall for this trap. She doesn't respect yo…
/r/askTRP02/01/18 04:40 PM
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This is why any man must have their "EJECTION" switch painted in the brightest red with fucking sparkles covering the whole handle. Unfortunately with most of guys and some of us on here we end up slowly dismantling that "EJECTION" handle one nut at a time via LTR's, kids, marriage, co-habitation, etc... and naively letting a 5 year old air traffic controller (women) give us proper speeds, altitudes, and directions. Then when we lose control and plummeting straight into earth... when we go for t…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 10:38 PM
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This is probably the most important step for any man on this journey. Kudos to handling the situation maturely when you saw her... no need to be sperging out like a beta: it just makes you look pathetic. As time goes on you will develop a lower tolerance for women who waste your time or just want attention. The power of NEXT is severely underrated in today's dating market.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 03:14 AM
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