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| 875 | My HVM was actually just a golddigger | RANT | FREEBRITNEYBITCHH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 11:00 PM |
| 744 | Shout out to everyone who told me to lower my standards, that no one would ever meet them | FDS SUCCESS! | FREEBRITNEYBITCHH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 07:15 PM |
| 656 | What do we think about a man wanting to be treated like a trophy wife? | RANT | FREEBRITNEYBITCHH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 01:32 AM |
| 439 | Imagine you welcome a new baby and your husband responds by wearing earplugs to bed every night | FREEBRITNEYBITCHH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 05:30 AM | |
| 1 | What do we think about a wanting to be treated like a trophy wife? | RANT | FREEBRITNEYBITCHH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 01:30 AM |
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| 47 | What do we think about a man wanting to be treated like a trophy wife?You can choose to be single sis. Surround yourself by friends and pets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 04:56 AM |
| 157 | What do we think about a man wanting to be treated like a trophy wife?Even just my one cat (who is, ironically, male) provides me more love, care, emotional labor, and happiness than any romantic relationship I’ve ever had. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 04:21 AM |
| 55 | What do we think about a man wanting to be treated like a trophy wife?The Audacity of [wave gesture] is a whole mood sis. Sometimes I feel like every time I engage with a man I’m just asking to be disappointed But seriously I’m glad to hear my post was helpful to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 03:19 AM |
| 138 | What do we think about a man wanting to be treated like a trophy wife?Men are a cross that we choose to bear and they should remember that. Like, I’m sorry dude, I don’t deal with discrimination, misogyny, lower pay, lower legal status, the entire physical burden of bearing children, so that you can sit at home playing video games, watching porn, and being a delicate little flower. Men need to earn their keep or they will not be kept. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 02:22 AM |
| 120 | What do we think about a man wanting to be treated like a trophy wife?Yeah. Maybe your mommy thinks that’s an ok deal, but nobody else lives to cater to your average ass✌️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 01:59 AM |
| 1 | He lied to this woman (and pretty much everyone else) for TWO YEARS and, of course, she's the problem.I’m dating a guy who’s 5’6”, I’m 5’8”. It’s not a deal breaker. He seems to be a HVM so far 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 01:14 PM |
| 116 | No second date, so he wants moneyOoof he's in for an ugly surprise when he realizes how much my La Mer foundation evens out to per use | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 10:23 PM |
| 35 | Being single protects men from drama and politics, ladies. Leave them alone.I mean this it true for me as a woman. I dumped my ex who asked me to keep grocery items “under $5” when he was buying groceries but had no problem eating lobster out of my fridge. Home is peaceful and quiet, I don’t have a hobosexual squatted on my couch, judging what I want to watch on TV, exercising his weird control issues and MRA sentiments, jacking up the thermostat and taking long hot showers everyday because he’s not paying for it, breaking things and not replacing them because he doesn’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 09:49 PM |
| 86 | Can we talk about Drake’s hot sauce condom incident?Right?! When a woman gets stealthed, it’s crickets and shrugs. Non-newsworthy. It’s her fault for having the poor judgment to sleep with that man. Meanwhile, everyone’s clutching their pearls and gasping for Community Dick Drake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 07:26 AM |
| 30 | Can we talk about Drake’s hot sauce condom incident?Nah sis he’ll taint the water supply with his hot sauce | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 07:18 AM |
| 38 | Can we talk about Drake’s hot sauce condom incident?2022’s R Kelly 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 07:17 AM |
| 17 | Can we talk about Drake’s hot sauce condom incident?Maybe he keeps it under the sink with his cleaning supplies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 07:16 AM |
| 9 | I’m just going to leave this here: “Mick Jagger, 78, is finally settling down with 35-year-old ‘gal pal.’”Side note, Jerry Hall can still get it though. She is still wholly gorgeous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 01:13 AM |
| 103 | I’m just going to leave this here: “Mick Jagger, 78, is finally settling down with 35-year-old ‘gal pal.’”Someone’s literal great grandpa when he had a child. His son was born a great uncle… his oldest daughter is over 20yrs older than his wife… I feel so sad. All hail Queen of the Pickmeishas | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 01:10 AM |
| 45 | I’m just going to leave this here: “Mick Jagger, 78, is finally settling down with 35-year-old ‘gal pal.’”my lady friend. when y’all have a child together. Jfc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 01:06 AM |
| 32 | I’m just going to leave this here: “Mick Jagger, 78, is finally settling down with 35-year-old ‘gal pal.’”At that age, someone saying he has a flock of girls gives big “not allowed within 300yrds of an elementary school” vibes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 01:05 AM |
| 19 | I’m just going to leave this here: “Mick Jagger, 78, is finally settling down with 35-year-old ‘gal pal.’”OH MY GOD CAN YOU IMAGINE HAVING TO FUCK THAT CRUSTY OLD SCROTE I NEED TO SAGE MY HOUSE JUST THINKING ABOUT IT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 01:01 AM |
| 5 | I can't get over my ex-LVM dating someone 15 years younger than him. Also, thank god for this sub.Venmo just makes me sad for pickmeishas | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 12:48 AM |
| 130 | Why do they keep romanticizing “toxic love” ?Other than that Megan Fox is a pickmeisha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 06:25 AM |
| 93 | Foolproof vetting strategy : tell him "a man did something to you"It's so unnecessary. It's just an excuse for NVM to be verbally abusive via framing their hurtful shit as hypothetical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 02:26 AM |
| 12 | Advice: He seems wonderful but isn’t as financially secure as meis this what all (eventually) successful entrepreneurs are like in the beginning No. As someone who owns one business and is launching a second, all of this after my traditional career in law, I have a great mental image of this guy, professionally speaking. Scatterbrained and halfassed planned, poor execution, lack of funds or ability to raise them, jumping ship because it's unsustainable and immediately jumping into something else. These guys are never successful. I work in real estate, and if… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 10:27 AM |
| 20 | Advice: He seems wonderful but isn’t as financially secure as meOmg no never get a househusband, you'll end up with a guy who's emasculated, kids who were raised lazily, and half-assed homemaking galore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 10:20 AM |
| 18 | Advice: He seems wonderful but isn’t as financially secure as meWhat you are potentially to him, is a savings account he can draw from to purse his shaky dreams Oof I felt this in my soul. Men are absolute trash when it comes to this. The moment I knew it was over with my ex was when I mentioned being excited about our future, and his response was "and not having a mortgage" (because he knows I own my houses outright). Broke men with shaky dreams will keep the mask on indefinitely, but all you'll ever be to them is a safety net so they can continue to live c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 10:16 AM |
| 21 | That would be instant ICK for me followed by my departure and blocking everywhere. If he is doing something this gross in front of you, imagine the filthy shit he's doing secretly 🤮Throw all of it in the trash. The man, the soap, the ass hair. Set the trash can on fire. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 09:19 AM |
| 3 | Facts Dont Care About Feelings: Study reveals men and men alone are worse off when theyre alone or suffer from divorce/breakups. Women are unaffectedMy most recent ex used to leech on all of my friends, who surprise didn’t still want to hang out with him when we broke up. On top of not being able or willing to care for themselves physically or environmentally, most men are basically just giant ill mannered children | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 06:42 AM |
| 71 | Sigh…male depravity/ego knows no bounds. Yet another reason to seek a female physician 😫Lawyer here, can confirm. It's also virtually impossible to sue a doctor, practice, or medical facility unless someone dies and even then it's kind of sketchy. During my summer internship, we had a client whose leg was amputated as a direct result of a medical student fucking up his surgery and an attending failing to adequately proof their work before they closed up, and then attendings failing to adequately supervise students and residents at the same teaching hospital's clinic that the client… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 06:32 AM |
| 48 | Trust your intuitionThis is very helpful. I struggled to dump a LVM just because he sometimes did the minimum and was generally decent. I absolutely deserve a HVM and owe it to myself to hold out for one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 08:50 PM |
| 45 | Angry right nowOh they know it isn’t. It never was. But it’s so easy to “other” the men who rape to meet the patriarchy’s end goal of the most dangerous men being able to continue to victimize women unhindered | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 04:23 AM |
| 121 | Visited an interior design subreddit dedicated for men, and the results were atrocious.Imagine being such a piece of shit that no material item on earth can make you attractive to women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 11:23 PM |
| 18 | Marriage and prenups which truly benefit womenYeah, sometimes I feel sad about not getting married ever but then I think about some other woman in my beach house and having to pay alimony to an LVM and I suddenly feel much better about it lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 10:28 PM |
| 135 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)Yup. I too was banned. That sub is mostly just men who encourage anti-female rhetoric and then try and brand it as feminist and empowering. Like, no bitch, you’re just gaslighting women getting screwed over to think they’re empowered. Not today, Satan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 10:17 PM |
| 7 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerLol right!! Also when we had that fight, and we've had a couple this past week that he's been slipping up, he would straighten that mask and pretend to be perfect again. Gaslighting at its finest. It's so easy to question yourself and be disarmed by men's nonsense because it's so out of pocket. It's very good progress for me that I only let this go on a week instead of making excuses for months on end until I was totally miserable tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 06:29 AM |
| 5 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerAli Wong's husband being LVM makes me kind of sad ngl she comes across as so strong and comfortable with herself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 06:18 AM |
| 5 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerSecond & third hand embarassment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 06:15 AM |
| 9 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerRight!! His car was never “our car”, his bank account wasn’t “ours”, but waltz on into MY home and all of a sudden that shit is “ours”??? 🤡🤡🤡 His dad actually seems to be HVM? His mom was saying he cooked the whole thanksgiving meal and then cleaned the house for guests because she was way into her book or something random like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 05:41 AM |
| 22 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerHe did. He always paid for everything until he started attempting to taper that off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 03:29 AM |
| 29 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerYour tone was controlling, trying to weaponize “we” statements to shame me into submitting to your opinion (also, who is this “we”? You’re not a mod, you can’t speak for this sub). Saying “we don’t use” to an adult is also incredibly disrespectful and patronizing, aside from being manipulative. Then also trying to insinuate that I’m not a feminist because I disagree with your opinion, which is incredibly rude. Glad I could clear that up for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 03:12 AM |
| 57 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerHe tried to argue with me, I put on my lawyer hat and treated him like a hostile witness and gave zero fucks. It culminated in me walking to the door, pointing to it, and telling him to get the fuck out Sis when I tell you he cried… he deadass sat in my living room and cried. I let him watch an episode of TV to calm down before he went home, like a child So pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 03:06 AM |
| 24 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerThank you sis 💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 01:58 AM |
| 35 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerSo sweet thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 01:56 AM |
| 129 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerYup. But not today, Satan | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 01:55 AM |
| 57 | My HVM was actually just a golddigger“poor Sims lifestyle you only show men” I love this!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 01:52 AM |
| 35 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerHey not to be rude proceeds to be rude There’s actually nothing I’ve heard or read in FDS that says I shouldn’t call some scrote a bitch. So maybe just block me and keep it moving if you don’t like what I have to say | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 01:19 AM |
| 47 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerNo, he’s just been staying over too much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 01:10 AM |
| 91 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerIt’s a smart lock and I have a security system with cameras everywhere around the perimeter that are monitored by a third party in real time, as well as my own ring camera. I already texted my security guy, so unless he wants to be confronted by a big Hawaiian ex-cop who was open carrying an assault rifle when they first met, he knows better than to show his face around here. I’ll tell some friends tomorrow probably, I think I’m just going to enjoy some solitary self care tonight and my best fri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 01:08 AM |
| 54 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerI handed him my phone to look at the menu to then call and pay for it himself (or so he led me to believe) but then I caught him trying to use my Apple Pay He’s so gone sis. Thank you for the support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 12:54 AM |
| 48 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerIt’s a cool history fact though. But yeah, it’s really tough out there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 12:51 AM |
| 83 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerI said “Oh is that my credit card you’re using?” And he’s said, “Yes, is that ok?” Like fuck I guess so you already did it. The audacity of this bitch. He would be pissed if I did that to him. Luckily I have smart locks and security, I’ve changed everything before he’s even left. I shudder to think digging through my CC statements later though. Edit at your edit: holy shit, what did you do about this?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 12:47 AM |
| 47 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerLmao girl I would love to but I can’t, gotta be careful with men they’ll go psycho on you. Don’t need anymore probs from this 🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 12:41 AM |
| 117 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerSis I just dumped him in real time. He’s sitting in my living room crying as we speak. I’m mommying him enough so that I won’t have to worry about an angry man coming back to my house, but he’s outta here and conveniently I’m flying out of town tomorrow and I’ll be gone for a month so it’s a clean break. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 12:37 AM |
| 60 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerYeah, regrettably we went to the same school, I’ve spent most of my adult life at this point dating losers from the Ivy League. It’s either that or guys who’ve treated me like shit because they’re insecure that I’m smarter than them. It’s a lose/lose situation I guess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 12:35 AM |
| 87 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerIt legit has been over a year. He held that mask for a while. It’s creepy and it’s rude, I’m about to go back through with a fine comb and see if he’s done this before. I mean it doesn’t matter, because his ass legit was just dumped in real time, but I want to know | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 12:32 AM |
| 109 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerYUP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 11:52 PM |
| 315 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerThis man legit has tried to stop me from texting while watching TV in my own house. Tried to enforce it by turning off the tv “until I was finished”. IN MY OWN HOUSE. Imagine the audacity to be a guest in someone’s home and then try and boss them around. Lol what was I thinking. I should have dumped him on the spot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 11:48 PM |
| 92 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerThat’s the worst part, he has one. But why spend his when he can try and spend mine, apparently? Lol he thought. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 11:47 PM |
| 164 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerYeah, I’m seriously about to go buy a beat up 50000 year old car just to drive on dates and make up some fake roommates or something, maybe just crash in my shittiest rental condo for a while. I literally never talk about my finances but… it’s just obvious to an extent. There’s no way this guy actually knows how wealthy I am, but apparently the message he has from the visuals is “it’s enough”. I don’t know. I don’t like the idea of downgrading my lifestyle forever just so some bum won’t try and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 11:45 PM |
| 317 | My HVM was actually just a golddiggerI feel you. We’ve been dating for a little over a year. I fully vetted him, even met his parents before deciding to become exclusive. He passed with flying colors, he did everything right. He’s almost done with his doctorate and moved back in with his parents during the pandemic to save money since his school/work was now all remote, which a lot of my friends did and I don’t think is inherently a red flag during the pandemic at least, but maybe I’m wrong. I think the problem here is that I’m rea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 11:21 PM |
| 124 | Ladies, please do not sleep with a man early on. This is what will happen.“You’re not responsible for her feeling and reactions” ACTUALLY YOU ARE, IF THE ROOT CAUSE OF THEIR PAIN AND ANGUISH IS THE FACT THAT YOU HARMED THEM, YA EGREGIOUS DUMPSTER FIRE. IT IS CALLED EMPATHY AND YOU SHOULD WORK ON YOUR PREFRONTAL CORTEX DEVELOPMENT ENOUGH TO STOP YOURSELF FROM HARMING OTHER PEOPLE. ugh I hate hate hate hate abusers who weaponize therapeutic language to try and legitimize their antisocial behavior | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 12:31 PM |
| 56 | Scrotes will be scrotes. NEVER move in with a boyfriend.As a lawyer, I would say she does. Typically if she’s been residing there for 30 consecutive days, she’s established residency. If she’s smart, she can go get a domestic violence restraining order on this scrote and the judge will potentially kick him out for a period of time. But it’s a hell of a lot to put children through | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 01:47 AM |
| 5 | Part 2 of the sh*t scrotes say about women vs. how THEY look, inspired by a previous postHe looks homeless. Maybe he's delirious from the cold. Quick, someone call 211 to get him a hot meal and a shower. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 03:38 AM |
| -16 | Bikini waxing?I mean a doctor literally told me pubic hair was unnecessary. My stepmom had this same issue with me shaving when she found out I was doing it. Is it natural? Sure. But so are my head hair (for lack of a better distinction lol) and fingernails and I cut those too. It’s nothing more than a personal choice. There’s no benefit to be gained from shaving/not shaving outside of what you personally assign value to. I’m glad you’ve decided on something that works for you and feels authentic to you, and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 02:00 PM |
| 27 | Bikini waxing?I just like it The sensory output of undies on pubic hair bothers me. It’s nice to not scrape blood out of pubic hair. Do you believe that about men’s body hair? Yes. Anytime I see a sweaty, smelly man with a bunch of odor-trapping hair, I just wish he’d get rid of it. The evolutionary reason for body hair stems from a lack of good access to sanitation. My own female OB/GYN said that there’s no health benefit to pubic hair anymore in the developed world because we shower every day. I think women… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 12:34 PM |
| 10 | Bikini waxing?If you like it and it makes you feel good, it is not inherently pickme. I get mine done because it feels more comfortable for me, it also feels much cleaner during my period. It’s only pickme if you do it for the male gaze. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 12:27 PM |
| 38 | Here’s What Women Say About Their [Male] Partners In TherapyOh goodness yes. Police officers are pretty much automatically LVM just like the military. Regardless of your political views, the statistics on domestic violence don’t lie. I used to be a free attorney for domestic violence survivors, and the cases where the respondent was a police officer were always the scariest because the other men would help the abuser “brother officer” (🤡🤡🤡🤡) cover up the abuse and discredit the woman. No justice for women under the patriarchy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 02:49 PM |
| 13 | Here’s What Women Say About Their [Male] Partners In TherapyOh absofucklutely. I would feel so badly for them if they weren’t so vitriolic and misogynistic. The barracks everywhere are full of really sad, hopeless young men with poor education and low socioeconomic status who see the military as a shiny, dazzling route out of the trailer park and a gateway to the middle class. But it’s not, and they end up trapped—too old and institutionalized to transfer successfully back into civilian life, no money, no transferable skills. Nobody else but the most dep… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 12:35 PM |
| 37 | Here’s What Women Say About Their [Male] Partners In TherapyI think the issue stems from militaries being historically male dominated spaces that center around toxic machismo and violence, resulting in unprocessed trauma in young men which then manifests as widespread domestic violence/violence against women and alcoholism. But that’s just my hot take. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 07:39 AM |
| 17 | Here’s What Women Say About Their [Male] Partners In TherapyEh, the situation with officer/enlistment and structure is different but it was basically the same toxic cesspool in Israel also. My ZVM ex served in both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 07:34 AM |
| 63 | Here’s What Women Say About Their [Male] Partners In TherapyEh. A mixed bag. I knew some officers who I could potentially see as being HV, the common denominator being guys who had ALREADY GRADUATED COLLEGE and joined for the educational benefits to cover further education. A family friend I would consider HVM joined so they would pay for his medical school. But these guys basically just do their time and get the hell out. Steer clear of anyone whose “career” is the military aka guys who “worked their way up”, meaning that they already drank the toxic en… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 07:29 AM |
| 160 | Here’s What Women Say About Their [Male] Partners In TherapyI feel like FDS doesn’t touch on the fact that basically all men in the military are trash, but it’s true. The culture of enlistment is toxic and breeds nothing but trauma and abuse. Good for you leaving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 04:46 AM |
| 171 | Here’s What Women Say About Their [Male] Partners In TherapySame. Her exact words “you and your son don’t need this” ☠️☠️☠️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 04:41 AM |
| 11 | Degrees don’t always equate to success. Be on the look-out for Dr. Hobo.I’m picturing a bunch of sad adjuncts who live with roommates and pay more than the average mortgage in monthly student loan payments. I almost want to feel sad, but I don’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 06:57 AM |
| 59 | A List of LovebombsOmg what would his parents think? He’d have to have low value parents also. I’m thinking of my bf’s mom and she puts so much effort into getting to know me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 10:48 PM |
| 4 | Shout out to everyone who told me to lower my standards, that no one would ever meet themWe spent over a month talking before actually meeting for our first date. I think it depends on your views on sex? I don’t see it as something that I give to someone or make them wait for, but rather let it happen organically/when I want to after it’s reached a point that I feel that they’re a serious prospect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 06:04 PM |
| 18 | Shout out to everyone who told me to lower my standards, that no one would ever meet themOLD 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 01:33 AM |
| 6 | The Baby Trap ScamI’m going to kick myself for asking, but what exactly does “failure to bond” entail? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 07:08 AM |
| 1 | HV relationships, age difference, and poll.Not even a full year. My boyfriend and I are only ~6mos apart in age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 09:05 AM |
| 96 | Woman killed by apartment maintenance man, who had a key. We need to push for a Miya Marcano law. I was always scared of this happening.I had a landlord come in to my unit while I was asleep (I sleep naked) and HOLY SHIT was it terrifying. I just pulled the covers tight and pretended to be asleep. It’s honestly fucking insane that you can pay money to live somewhere and then people are constructively free to just violate your privacy at their leisure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 07:17 AM |
| 45 | Hurt feelings on InstagramAlso fat and bald. Great. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 05:52 AM |
| 11 | Why they neg, straight from the horse’s mouth.Omg this has to be a troll. Too funny. Your dick is too close to those shriveled hairy little prunes, how about that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 04:23 AM |
| 37 | [Update] Good news about the post with the fiance telling his fiancee he wasn't attracted to her for two years. She left him.I’m happy and sad here. Happy because sis has leveled up, sad because she spent SIX YEARS on this bullshit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 03:37 AM |
| 20 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.Lmao same, I was like “oh ok so he likes a nice beach wave” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 11:50 PM |
| 109 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.What does he bring to the table? Other than being a neckbeard still in undergrad? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 07:47 PM |
| 10 | As a woman looking to buy a property in the next few years. It’s so important to legally NEVER give a man this much financial/ legal leverage over me. Any advice from you ladies???Ah yes, I can help here. Ok, so I'm a lawyer. Of course, your mileage may vary, I'm not able to offer you any specific legal advice. But generally check reviews (Avvo is solid), check your state bar association (google for the phone number) to check if they have any sanctions, and call around talking to lawyers. You'll need a family lawyer for this type of matter. Usually, consultation on your specific case costs money ($150 is average for my VHCOL area), but you should be able to ask questions … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 02:48 AM |
| 23 | As a woman looking to buy a property in the next few years. It’s so important to legally NEVER give a man this much financial/ legal leverage over me. Any advice from you ladies???NEVER Even if you get married | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 02:34 AM |
| 24 | As a woman looking to buy a property in the next few years. It’s so important to legally NEVER give a man this much financial/ legal leverage over me. Any advice from you ladies???Oh of course not, buy a flashy car and a condo and go live the Tinder carousel bachelor life on his wife's (and her parents') dime, while she struggles as a single mom who just had to sell her house and may not have enough to buy another one. He doesn't give two shits about his child or what this would do to their future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 02:31 AM |
| 35 | As a woman looking to buy a property in the next few years. It’s so important to legally NEVER give a man this much financial/ legal leverage over me. Any advice from you ladies???Lawyer here. Can confirm this is solid info. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 02:28 AM |
| 7 | As a woman looking to buy a property in the next few years. It’s so important to legally NEVER give a man this much financial/ legal leverage over me. Any advice from you ladies???Lmao this scrote calling it "our home" and in the same breath saying his wife and her parents paid for the whole thing. So that means you move out, bitch. Not your house, not your money. Imagine the audacity of wanting to force someone to sell a home that they bought themselves so that you can leech off the equity before you leave your wife a single mom. Fuck this man. Honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Imagine you welcome a new baby and your husband responds by wearing earplugs to bed every nightMack's Maximum Protection (the orange ones). I wholly recommend them, I've bought them by the bucket for years. Best I've ever tried. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 02:08 AM |
| 13 | Imagine you welcome a new baby and your husband responds by wearing earplugs to bed every nightEven that is not acceptable. Because his wife is also working while he’s gone, providing childcare at least and likely other homemaking as well. So when the man is home, whenever the man is home, all childcare duties need to be shared. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 03:09 PM |
| 27 | Imagine you welcome a new baby and your husband responds by wearing earplugs to bed every nightAmen, sister | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 06:49 AM |
| 113 | Imagine you welcome a new baby and your husband responds by wearing earplugs to bed every nightLmao they would throw a woman in jail for this. Seriously. A mom would be on the 6 o’clock news for abandoning her child | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 06:48 AM |
| 55 | Sis needs helpThis is the most devastating pickmeisha narrative I’ve ever read | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 06:35 PM |
| 328 | Excuse me?Hooooollyyy “cases where babies had to be given formula milk because partners wanted the breast milk, and where women came to clinic with infected or bitten nipples caused by a man suckling” When I say scrotes are trash, this specifically is what I’m talking about | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 04:47 AM |
| 254 | Excuse me?Yup. The first man I started dating after leaving my husband asked me if I breastfed and then followed up saying it was sexy. I got the fuck up and walked out of that expensive ass restaurant and he caused a scene chasing me. 0/10 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 04:29 AM |
| 30 | It amazes me how many men don’t take responsibility for their sperm.And then it turns out he actually does have like 5 kids but he dodges paternity testing and refuses to acknowledge their existence until he gets sued | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 12:31 AM |
| 77 | It amazes me how many men don’t take responsibility for their sperm.Yup. Because these same scrotes yelling about ThEiR BaBiES are the same fuckboys who have tantrums about paying child support and make disparaging comments about single moms (crickets on deadbeats though) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 12:29 AM |
| 49 | It amazes me how many men don’t take responsibility for their sperm.Funny how the “she lied and baby trapped me” energy goes out the window when the conversation is about sexual assault victims. Then somehow is just “eh, was your consent really violated?” 🤔🤔🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 12:25 AM |
| 5 | we were having a nice convo and then he hits me with this "date" suggestion. 🤏🏼🤡HAHAHAHA Omg 🤡🤡🤡 Tell me you’re just looking for someone to make you less lonely, fuck, and clean/cook for you without saying it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 09:46 PM |
| 14 | The entire pole is a red flagI hear this and I agree with where you’re coming from, but I’ve seen a lot of community members (not just this woman, not meaning to single her out) flippantly mention various mental illness and disabilities using clinically incorrect and sometimes offensive language. Women especially are shamed and stigmatized heavily by society and branded with words such as “crazy” and “hysterical” that accompany mental illness, not to mention the history of asylums is largely a saga of abusing women and weap… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 03:34 AM |
| 102 | The entire pole is a red flagLmao this exactly, I did this when I was a teenager posting babysitting ads | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 02:40 AM |
| 47 | I just learned that one of the biggest catalysts for men leaving their wives is having a child with special needs (the divorce rate climbs to 80 percent).Can confirm anecdotally. My ex husband left the same day our disabled son was born and we found out. He said either put my son up for adoption or he would leave. As if I would pick some scrote over my baby, so sorry he thought he was that important | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 06:54 PM |
| 65 | Be Wary Of Male DoctorsNot to mention, it’s unsafe for the woman. I held firm to this refusal when I was pregnant and they actually called social work, a psychiatrist, and CPS on me at a hospital after I upset an old scrote OB/GYN telling him to fuck off and take his male students with him. I’m afraid what could have happened if I had been alone trying to hold that boundary. Luckily I’m an Orthodox Jew and showing my body/being touched by men who aren’t related to me is forbidden, and my LVM (now ex)husband started ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 04:21 AM |
| 23 | Reality of a future with any scrote that uses porn. This poor woman.Air it on social media too. Let his friends and family know that he chose to end his marriage because he’s a porn addict | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 06:23 PM |
| 24 | Reality of a future with any scrote that uses porn. This poor woman.Need to order a nice lunch for whatever poor soul of an accountant has to perform that audit🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 06:22 PM |
| 85 | Reality of a future with any scrote that uses porn. This poor woman.I’d take his laptop and sell it and come back with a thousand bottles of face wash, and after I was finished making my ridiculous show, I would take the extra face wash to a women’s shelter. Because fuck that dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 06:19 PM |
| 81 | This really backs up the study on a majority of men leaving/cheating on their terminally ill wives. 🙄Yeah, I wouldn’t have even called her a mistress, I would have called her a hoe and told her that I hope she wakes up one day with some self respect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 12:25 AM |
| 97 | This really backs up the study on a majority of men leaving/cheating on their terminally ill wives. 🙄I don’t even like my mother, but if I was OP, I would have stood up and roasted the fuck out of that scrote. “How could she have wasted your time if you’re already worthless?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 12:22 AM |
| 160 | One of the MANY things I’ll never do for a man: compete for him. You think you found better, then go!!!!!! Please!!! Get as far from me as you can!!!!! Feel so bad for this woman…Not basically, actually. My ex husband was in the military and was charged with adultery for shit similar to this. Jail and dishonorable discharge—meaning no free college and no healthcare for the rest of his life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 04:36 AM |
| 38 | There’s no way these ladies are serious…🙃Girl not even that, I pay $60hr+ in my city. Good housekeepers are expensive af | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 12:21 AM |
| 100 | Porn actress on TikTok admitted that stopping a scene had consequencesAnd will pretty much never be able to work with children or in a corporate environment ever again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 05:35 PM |
| 111 | Porn actress on TikTok admitted that stopping a scene had consequencesOh fuck I cried during that film, there’s a sequel too. I would encourage anyone interested to look into the girls after filming. Tessa left the industry, got married, and seems ok; Rachel Bernard is struggling on Twitter with things like drugs and severe pickme syndrome and it’s hard to watch. It was just really upsetting to watch teenage girls have sex with men twice their age, do stuff like anal, at one point a dildo the size of my arm, and admit that they didn’t want to. Also the scrote who … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 05:34 PM |
| 73 | Another series of men projecting Ep. 124842: Women using men for free foodYeah, my Natasha Denona palette alone laughs at $15 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 04:47 PM |
| 109 | NEVER 👏 STOP 👏 VETTING 👏"coupons for rogaine" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 10:35 AM |
| 122 | What are some of the reddest red flags you’ve ever seen on a date or during a relationship?Lawyer here, can confirm. Male lawyers are mostly all trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 01:28 AM |
| 17 | This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us.Peak example of zero value male 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 11:40 AM |
| 88 | That’s why you should always demand proof, don’t just accept their wordsThat’s why you gotta get the annulment sis, divorce = alimony and annulment = you’re a lying scrote who wasted my time and you get nothing 💁♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 12:00 AM |
| 219 | Skip the date rape and just move in. These scrotes actually believe porn can be reality while they capitalize on sky high rent prices and openly take advantage of naive young women. He's even gleefully admitting to not having thought the situation through. Wow.Rip that TV off the wall and take it straight to a women’s shelter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 02:24 AM |
| 196 | Skip the date rape and just move in. These scrotes actually believe porn can be reality while they capitalize on sky high rent prices and openly take advantage of naive young women. He's even gleefully admitting to not having thought the situation through. Wow.Also poor personal hygiene and plays loud video games 24/7 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 02:23 AM |
| 223 | Skip the date rape and just move in. These scrotes actually believe porn can be reality while they capitalize on sky high rent prices and openly take advantage of naive young women. He's even gleefully admitting to not having thought the situation through. Wow.I saw these ads in my city all the time… truly sincerely disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Excellent reality check for older men who think they’re about to trade up“You better go listen to Lemonade and pray about it, You don't have the cholesterol to be out here” ICONIC!!! Somebody give this man an award. Woke HVM philosophy right here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 12:25 AM |
| 22 | Breaking news! Poor man had to sit hungry because his wife didn’t make his plate, even though his arms work and he is perfectly capable of standing :( so sad. Thoughts and prayers. /sOh my gosh sis, I’m dying 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 01:00 AM |
| 24 | The edit is hilarious. Why do they make it so easy for us? Keep telling on yourselves scrotesLOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!! Our confidence in ourselves and conviction in knowing our worth and refusing to settle for less scares them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 04:16 AM |
| 12 | A male friend of mine said something interesting to me recently about leveling up.YMMV honestly. I would consider my bf very much a HVM, he’s working on his PhD. Sure, he’ll likely make less money than me indefinitely, but he’s very very successful in his field, he more than carries his weight in emotional and domestic labor (without being asked!!), and I still feel like he takes care of me. There are scrotes in every discipline and field, that’s the worst part about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 04:36 PM |
| 4 | oop 👀Scalding us with that tea sis 🙌🙌🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 04:26 PM |
| 11 | Nick Cannon is a devoted father lol“I have no ownership over this person” Wow, Scrotes, what a poetic way to say you’re about to bounce and get hounded for child support 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 08:09 AM |
| 42 | Why is it the most hideous men that are Ethically Non Monogamous (ENM)?Literally nothing ethical about using a young woman for sex under the guise of wanting a relationship and being socially progressive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 03:52 AM |
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