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That has never been the reason. People just get bored of sex with the same person. Some people settle with less sex, others become more adventurous or cheat. My gf has become objectively more atteactive to me yet I crave less sex with her. Thats how LTR’s just are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 09:55 PM
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I think you're looking at stuff like this too black & white. Hookups are more sexual due to the newness of it attraction has very little to do with it. Like 90% of those hookup material men will still notice a decrease in sexual activity if they go into a LTR with these women. I know couples that started out as FWB's where the sex life has degraded considerably, according to your own metric the guy was hot enough to be an FWB but the amount of sex he gets in a relationship has still tapered off …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:57 AM
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Similar experience here with my gf. She is way less interested in oral/fingering to make her orgasm than just PIV sex with no orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:47 AM
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A lot of people coming from healthy parental relationships engage in casual sex. Either people in this subreddit are lying to make themselves feel better or it's just a very skewed portion of the population that's answering here. Actually kinda disgusting the pick me stuff I see in this thread, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:11 PM
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This has always been the case. Almost all the Long Term couples I know aren't madly in love like they were in the first few months. Some couples fight more than others, but I've maybe met 1 or 2 couples in my entire life that still seem to share that puppy love between them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 10:27 AM
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Bro you need to go outside and talk to people, if someone connects really well with someone else then the size of his peen won't fill the other party with "disgust". If that was the true turn off she never gave much of a shit about you anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:02 AM
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I got blood work done by a doctor otherwise I wouldn’t have known my testosterone level. Maybe I didn’t eat enough or took enough protein, but I did take a shake during. I trained also 3 days straight, break day, repeat. But I only did so for a couple of months. Just the results I saw after those months were pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:26 PM
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Most women I know and date are very private or low level about their sex life. My gf has an abudance of friends and they don't pry about their sex life at all bar surface level stuff. Honest question: why do all of you date such stereotypes for women? Is this a country thing? Are all american women just this basic? Everytime I see a stereotypical post about women on this subreddit it completely contradicts what I see in real life, who are these women you people talk about? Seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:01 PM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:54 AM
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It was a while ago but it was during a period that I went to the gym. I’m not sure about the other things I guess there could be tons of reasons why my muscles didn’t really develop. I think most of my testosterone manifested in libido. It kinda runs in the family since my brother had a testosterone of like 1050 ngl/dl.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:22 PM
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When I checked my bloodwork I’d have around 900-1000 ng/dL.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:29 PM
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Bro I won't lie but you're very concerning. You have an insane amount of mental issues. You're putting you're entire self-worth on the opinion someone else has off you. That alone will prohibit you from achieving what you want to achieve, you'll never get what you want with this mindset. You really should try out therapy and try to figure out why your entire self-worth is dependant on what women think of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:39 AM
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Analogical evidence for me personally says that testosteron doesn't really help much for muscle gain. I have an abundance of testosteron but always struggled to gain muscle and was always the skinny kid in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:23 AM
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I've never said you needed to be rich, but most of the men these women fall for aren't straight up assholes since day 1. Atleast from my experience. The second part I personally don't believe in but it's a red pill rhetoric that gets spammed around a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:44 AM
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No, not really. These are usually guys that come off to strong or are guys where they have a very sporadic relationship with. I've had a one night stand with a girl where we both didn't want anything to do with eachother afterwards. Girls really have sex with men they just find hot without necessarily expecting anything more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:53 AM
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Just also not true. Most of these men that "don't give a fuck" about women first treat them like absolute queens before ghosting them. Most of these womanizer men take women on expensive dates, court them with homecooked three course meals and do a lot more shit than you or I would ever do. There's some weird logic going on with you red pill men. Women need to be emotionally invested to have sex with a guy, but also all the guys who she has sex with treat her like shit. How can she be emotionall…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:41 AM
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This just isn't true. I've known plenty of college girls in my life who've had a fwb with no intention of making it something more or who've had a ONS and then ghosted the guy afterwards. Sometimes the guy even become obsessed over them while they've rejected him AFTER sex. Some women can also fuck without emotions, you're talking from a narrative that doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 07:37 AM
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I guess I can't really relate to that. I've never struggled with feeling "Forever Alone" and I can only make comparisons from how I've experienced life myself. The unhappiest I've ever felt in my life was after a breakup that I caused, nothing up until that point had made me nearly as unhappy. My first relationship was also at 21, so not forever alone but definitely late. I also have a brother, 34, who heavily prefers being alone than being in a relationship. But I'm not going to pretend that wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:58 PM
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That's true I guess I'm actually wrong and by definition a loser is someone who is last place. I guess I'd rather be a loser who knows that this division is something I'm not good at rather than never trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:50 PM
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I think the advice is marketed wrong, it shouldn't be given as advice to help you get laid but rather because self-improvement in general is very rewarding. You will generally feel better about yourself if you improve yourself, even if it doesn't directly help you get laid. Getting laid won't be a source for happiness and for a lot of people being a piece of shit also isn't good for their menta health. Striving to be a good person believing in your principals, might not help you get laid but pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:48 PM
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I agree with that but I took your statement literally and assumed you would rather never have tried than have tried and failed. Most people who give up are people who have tried and than failed afterwards. I agree that life isn't fair and that some people will achieve far more than others. But I think everyone should atleast try, knowing your limits as a person is a very integral part to knowing who you are as a person. And in my opinion knowing who you are and accepting that is the biggest Win …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:40 PM
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Thats is by definition just loser mentality lol. "Failure is worse than not trying". Without wanting to be hurtful, that's just being a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:32 PM
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Possibly, but I've yet to meet any woman in real life that cares about this. So if that's the female equivalent than they're really a lot more secure than us. I guess I can understand having had 10 girlfriends would be a dealbreaker for a woman (the extreme in our example).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 09:49 AM
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They shouldn't, but why wouldn't women be able to do the same? Plenty of women can have FWB's without taking it further, plenty of men also have fwb's that they are emotionally attached to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:03 PM
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If a girl would talk very fondly about a one night stand she had in a way that makes it sound like I'm not enough, I would also not really deal with it well. But this goes both ways, a girl wouldn't like it if a man was talking fondly about a one night stand he had. I think men can take solace in the fact that most one night stands really aren't good sex. The sex you'll have in a relationship will always be better than one night stand sex. Plus there's a lot to explore when it comes to sex, sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:07 AM
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If this is your opinion about sex then I definitely agree a high body count would be a turn-off. But there are plenty of men who would fuck pretty much anything, so for those men we can't really use the intimacy argument. I guess this topic is more of a personal thing rather than a gendered thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:59 AM
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I think you're misunderestanding me. My comment came purely from what OP described, when I typed this comment there weren't many other comments in the thread. OP wrote an entire paragraph basically saying women their only value is their sex life. I mostly agree with what you've said, having a high body count would also make me uncomfortable, but I think it's more of a spectrum. The extremes would still be dealbreakers. I'm not sure why we get so uncomfortable with a high body count. And unfortun…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:57 AM
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I’m just a bit confused why you posted your initial comment under mine. It felt like you were mocking my point of OP being a woman hater. Boundaries exist for everyone but I was talking about OP and people like OP in my initial comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:40 PM
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OP made an entire essay about how women their value can only be defined by her sex life lol. Not exactly female friendly right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:32 PM
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I feel like people who share this view don’t actually like women. It’s like the only thing that can make a woman special is her sex. She has no value other than giving you sex and only ever giving it to you. The perks of what makes a relationship special to someone is not the sex you’re having but rather all the experiences you’ve shared with eachother. Nobody is special, every personality type and every body type has already existed. A woman who is a virgin can have the most obnoxious, boring p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 10:16 PM
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I don't get this point you're trying to make? In what universe would the reason for divorce not matter when looking at the divorce rates? If 70% of women initiated divorce but in most of those cases the man was unfaithful or did something else abusive I think you should probably take that into account. Sounds absolutely wild to me that you're just dismissing the reason for the statistic to push your own narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 09:39 AM
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