F_EM_ALL_ Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Custody Exchange Help		F_EM_ALL_	/r/Divorce_Men	24/01/20 03:46 PM
1	Typical- She Cheats, Gets Pregnant, Has Abortion, Waits 2 Years Before Telling BF About the Cheating, Wants Sympathy		F_EM_ALL_	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	11/03/20 04:46 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	My encounter with a feminist co-worker of mine Keeping emotions in check IMO is one of the most logical practices one can exhibit.	/r/MensRights	20/08/21 01:04 PM
28	My encounter with a feminist co-worker of mine Exactly. However, in this particular case, winning the argument could mean losing everything. Cost > benefit. Bar/alcohol, work, feminist - that’s all I needed to know to know this could be bad and therefore, “do not engage” loud and clear.	/r/MensRights	20/08/21 12:46 PM
331	My encounter with a feminist co-worker of mine I think you must have the biggest balls ever. You went to a bar, with coworkers, one of whom is a huge feminist. In my world, that could be a recipe for disaster. Everything about that says “RUN AWAY!!!”. Have you ever argued with a feminist? You can’t win an argument with them. They don’t give a shit about facts. You give them facts and logic and their voices get louder. Then they start with the insults. Then ALL the other women automatically take their side. Then a bunch of white-knights swoop…	/r/MensRights	20/08/21 04:09 AM
24	Seen this on a feminist page. Made me chuckle Married men supposedly live longer. Because men take take it seriously and will engage less in shit that might kill them and leave their family in peril. The wife will nag him to go for regular health checks. Probably not so much because she cares about his health, but more to make sure he is able to support her and the kids. Married men make more money. Because, well, you know, it takes a lot of money to support an entire family and pay for vacations, etc. especially when the wife decides not t…	/r/MGTOW2	29/05/21 03:42 AM
2	Regarding child support/alimony Also in PA. It’s gross income. And a gross lack of common sense. They’ll reduce the support by anything you pay on behalf of mom and kids eg auto/health insurance, tuition etc. sounds like you’re in the beginning stages. Prepare yourself for a level of corruption so conspicuous it’s hard to comprehend. PA is a presumptive 50/50 state so there’s that at least. Best of luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/05/21 02:14 AM
3	To those who subscribe to feminism: you can't expect me not to shiver after a life in the cold. I'm done acquiescing to being treated like something you're entitled to control. Thanks for sharing your experience and perspective. It’s a courageous and well written commentary. A lot of what you’ve said really resonated with me. As much as I’m against what I know to be feminism, I’m not sure I’ve ever thought about it this deeply. I’m sorry you’ve had to experience the pain you’ve suffered, and I hope you’re doing okay.	/r/MensRights	15/01/21 01:26 PM
5	First Time poster - I am absolutely astonished at what I'm reading It’s amazing that all of the people claiming that women have no protection in these situations are conveniently forgetting about um...the legal system. They have an entire legal system that will provide them with everything they need and more, but sure the $25k she has squirreled away will be a nice add-on to at least half of his shit she’ll get out of the divorce in addition to alimony and child support. My stbxw decided she wasn’t going back to work right after we got married. Since we’ve been…	/r/MensRights	19/08/20 03:54 AM
10	Just paid retainer so here’s a rant Sounds like my stbxw. Record everything. That’s the advice I was given when I was here asking. If I hadn’t followed it I probably would’ve offed myself. She might claim you hit her and that’s pretty much all it takes to send your world into a death spin. Once the crazy ones are handed those papers something snaps. And women are well protected when it comes to...well, everything, but the truly evil ones will literally try to destroy you and they’ll exploit the system in anyway they can to make it…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/08/20 03:22 AM
4	Roy Den Hollander,A US Lawyer suspected of murdering a Judge Esther Salas' son may seem just like your average loon. Does anyone know what mental illness this might be? Well said. I agree. Immediately after learning a little about him I thought the foundation for his arguments seemed reasonable. somewhere along the way he lost his shit and, ironically and sadly, took the life of a male - who he was ultimately fighting for. For me, it’s also disappointing because we need lawyers who are willing to fight and be loud about the issues. However, this puts a blemish on the movement. A MRA who just murdered an innocent kid is exactly what is not needed. The media is c…	/r/MensRights	22/07/20 10:43 AM
15	3 years ago I was dealing with an abusive, unfaithful wife. This is my journey since. Well done, brother. To me, you are a shining example of mgtow. Little more complicated with kids tho lol.	/r/MGTOW2	12/07/20 05:36 PM
3	Does Anyone Have Some Credible Sources? Damn, that was beautiful.	/r/MensRights	12/07/20 05:28 PM
5	Can someone answer? Pretty much. I have 50/50 but because my stbxw only made 33% of the gross total of household income, I have to pay 67% of her portion of child support to make it “equal”. And that’s on top of the spousal support I pay TO her, and the expenses I pay FOR her. The courts don’t care about differences in gross/net income. Or that she literally has NO bills. Her life is 100% subsidized through me or her parents. Meanwhile I have all the same bills we had when we were together plus a shitload more now …	/r/MensRights	24/06/20 06:04 PM
5	Why MEN get screwed in Family Court - it only takes ONE bitter mom TO RUIN an entire FATHERHOOD Ironic. This is exactly what I’m dealing with. Custody hearing tomorrow. Inconceivable nightmare.	/r/MensRights	05/06/20 02:14 AM
2	Will other men always pick women over me I agree. Reflect on these situations, and maybe your life, as a whole. What could you have done to prevent these things from happening? What can you do now to prevent them from happening again? I used to have “friends” like that. Any and all emotional talk was met with ball-busting and humiliation. Thinking about the relationship I had with them helped me realize that they were never really my friends at all. I dissociated myself from those people and have become all the better for it. I’ve trie…	/r/MensRights	22/04/20 04:16 PM
1	A lesson in gender equality Amen. Great article. I’m still amazed at a woman’s uncanny ability to see things in a vacuum. For men, this is a typical day in family court, and it’s been happening for decades. Let it happen to a women though and suddenly there’s outrage. Typical.	/r/MGTOW2	12/04/20 08:48 PM
1	Men can Love... Wrong. First, you’re generalizing. Of course we’re all capable of horrible and great things. Second, saying “Not buying it” you’re using your beliefs to argue the facts of human nature. Not a strong argument. Seems your lens might be the one that’s broken.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/20 01:45 PM
3	Told Ex want Divorce Late Feb - World Shit Storm leaving me Depressed Try to understand it could be worse. Many have it much worse. Consider yourself lucky. You don’t have kids, you have a place to stay, you’re not stuck with her, you get to keep your job and work remotely, and you’re still young. Know that this is temporary. You need to be ready to tackle the world once you get out of this. Deal with the depression now and don’t let it drag you down. Feel it. Try to understand it. Pinpointing the specific sources of the depression could lead you to solutions. Tal…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/03/20 09:01 AM
1	Hearing will be a year from now, she won't mediate 100% THIS!!! DO IT NOW!!! She’s probably already plotting. Get cameras. Record everything. Otherwise, she might do it to you. You’ll be kicked out and still have to pay all the bills. She’ll file for spousal and child support. You could be paying all the bills plus spousal support plus child support and can’t even enter your home or see your kids. You’re sleeping on your buddy’s couch and she living the dream. This is a death blow for many. It makes me sick even typing this. Protect yourself and…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/03/20 07:28 PM
2	Thoughts on the stimulus? Exactly. Stimulus - as in stimulate the economy. This isn’t to provide help to people in need. The whole point is to capitalize on poor (financial) decisions made by people who need the most help. Poor decisions that got many of the same people in the position they’re currently facing. Waiving mortgage/rent/utility, etc. payments would probably help people the most, but that wouldn’t necessarily stimulate the economy. Instead, give them $1200 and hope that instead of paying the mortgage they’ll …	/r/MGTOW2	21/03/20 10:28 PM
1	Typical- She Cheats, Gets Pregnant, Has Abortion, Waits 2 Years Before Telling BF About the Cheating, Wants Sympathy I mean, you cant make this stuff up. Take heed. I wish this kind of info was readily available in the late 90’s/early 2k’s. I’d probably be living the dream for real.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	11/03/20 04:46 PM
2	50/50 physical custody I have a temporary order for 50/50. Fingers crossed it stays that way after the upcoming final hearing. I do a 2/2/3 schedule that flips every week. She doesn’t work. I work from the office mon-thurs and work from home on Fridays. It’s a damn grind in the beginning, but as you can see from these posts, it can be done. To be honest, it’s made me a better father and I’m actually proud of myself for making it happen. You should be lining up child care now if you haven’t already started. Interviewin…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/03/20 04:11 AM
30	Are you anti-women or pro-self? Let’s not fool ourselves here. These are not mutually exclusive and for many of us, one is the catalyst that leads to the other. For me, there were stages, but I had to go through the rage before I could come to the understanding that I was spending too much time and energy on things I can’t control, were in the past and generally unproductive. I control what I do with what I have left of this life and that is where I am. I couldn’t have gotten to this point without going through the process. An…	/r/MGTOW2	06/03/20 05:21 PM
3	Who's idea was it to get divorced .. Man or woman? Fuck this. I’m sorry, brother. Hang in there!	/r/Divorce_Men	02/03/20 09:07 PM
20	Wealthy career woman divorces her husband and realizes no man is going to pick up the slack. "No one wants broken, old, fat, ugly, and damaged goods. I could go on dates. What I can't do is find a lasting relationship. I'm lonely. I'm so damn lonely I ache." Amazing that’s all in one sentence. “We’re better at investing but, ultimately, we’re worse at investing.”	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	21/02/20 03:49 PM
2	Wifey left me a day before Valentine’s Day! Sorry to hear, brother - stay strong for the kids (and yourself). Under the circumstances, this could be good for you. She left you with the house and the kids and may have set the precedent. This would be a dream for many of us. You could get the kids and the house. Talk to your lawyer about what constitutes “abandonment” in your state. Also, document everything she has taken (and “damaged”). Find out if filing for exclusive possession of the marital home is possible. I wouldn’t change locks un…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/02/20 04:15 AM
3	fixing laws Yup. Was just saying this the other day. For men, there should absolutely be a required course, like 16 hours, that clearly details the probability of divorce and the related consequences. Marriage rates would likely plummet. But, you know, marriage is an industry. Disrupting the industry would cause a lot of wealthy people to make a lot less money and we can’t have that now, can we. My stb-pos-xw literally has zero bills now. All the money I pay for child/spousal support is her play money. Mean…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/02/20 01:50 AM
1	fixing laws Sign me up	/r/Divorce_Men	13/02/20 01:11 AM
2	Custody Exchange Help Yeah, she would act the same. Grandma spoils her, and I get it - that’s what grandparents do.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/01/20 03:56 PM
2	Custody Exchange Help Thanks man. She’s almost 5. Im not a “mean” or strict father. I do, however, have boundaries, so when she’s behaving a certain way, I’ll talk to her about why we don’t hit, or make fun of people, for example. Maybe things have changed (doubtful) since stbx and I have separated, but there have been very few if any boundaries with mom and grandma. Maybe this plays a part. Maybe because I’m still in our house and moms not here. I’m sure there’s a lot to it, but it hurts all the same.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/01/20 04:29 PM
3	Custody Exchange Help It’s about as personal as it can get for me right now. Thanks, I’ll remember that she’s young and also going through this as well.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/01/20 04:14 PM