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| 4 | Okay 100 approaches to learn is cool. But how do you guys deal with the fear of being labelled as creepy or guy who tries to hit on every girl?Wow, you actually gave me something that make sense. Yeah, I feel that. I ended up losing a few people because of excuse or inaction. If I had known then that I'd lose them anyway, I wouldn't have thought much about it. | /r/seduction | 18/01/26 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Okay 100 approaches to learn is cool. But how do you guys deal with the fear of being labelled as creepy or guy who tries to hit on every girl?I get the idea behind your argument but knowing and embodying are two different things. It's like knowing what you should be and how to actually be. There's a gap there. So how do you actually manage to be more comfortable with your type of woman? I find that the more attracted I am, the dumber or more restrained I am. | /r/seduction | 18/01/26 03:45 PM |
| 5 | Have you ever tried tell something negative (i.e., diarrhea) about yourself to a hot girl?Guttural groan incoming. | /r/seduction | 24/12/25 01:09 AM |
| 1 | I am sick of not being able attract womenSure. There needs to be some filtering on which woman you set yourself to seduce. But then again, if I have to decide not to go for a woman on the very basis that every other man also wants her, I ain't gonna like my options. At the end of the day, it's up to you. I am just saying they tend to behave this way. | /r/seduction | 23/12/25 10:41 AM |
| 1 | I am sick of not being able attract womenOf course there are always exceptions. But OP was mostly complaining about initial attraction, which I believe can be generalised as I explained. Of course many women love being out on a pedestal. But if the ones you want are the attractive ones, chances are they are already there all the time and by every other stranger, if you ain't any different, they won't even spare you a glance. | /r/seduction | 23/12/25 09:47 AM |
| 2 | I am sick of not being able attract womenI understand. Thank you. This is worth thinking things over. | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 06:13 PM |
| 0 | I am sick of not being able attract womenI was just trying to rationalize where those I want to attract will tend to be. People keep inviting me or telling me to go to clubs but clubs just tire me tf out and I've denied it to the point where I am not even invited anymore, and thus, not meeting as many attractive women. It's not even about game anymore. Are you trying to tell me not to worry about this and double down on inner development? | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 05:59 PM |
| 3 | I am sick of not being able attract womenI do have a question on logistics though. I know it's all about getting out there. But the real question is where? It's easy to meet women in night events etc... but most often, they're not the type of women I am looking for. I know your answer is highlighting attraction and the physicality of it. But if you've been with that many women. Did you notice how to find higher quality ones and filter them? | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 05:15 PM |
| 123 | I am sick of not being able attract womenWomen are weird creatures. If they feel that getting their attention is your first priority, you're not attractive to them. If they feel that your first priority is something else, they'll be attracted to you. You're 23. Get a drive for something and make it your priority. If they feel your drive, they'll flock like pigeons. | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 05:06 PM |
| 36 | How do you actually attract the calm, grounded guys instead of the high-energy party types?Yeah, cute beats hot any day. | /r/seduction | 02/12/25 09:20 PM |
| 1 | What’s wrong with me? There are girls into me but the ones I’m interested in are not interested in me?By setting yourself apart, do you mean making your interest known? Then, move on until and regardless of whether she reacts or not. Makes sense up to here. Uncertainty definitely works on the mind. But then, can you elaborate on the rest? Kinda unclear. | /r/seduction | 04/10/25 03:06 PM |
| 2 | What’s wrong with me? There are girls into me but the ones I’m interested in are not interested in me?Nah dog XD. It was for me. | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 08:37 PM |
| 2 | What’s wrong with me? There are girls into me but the ones I’m interested in are not interested in me?Nah, that's fucked up. What the other guy mentioned is a genuine attraction phenomenon that I genuinely want an answer to. | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 07:53 PM |
| 2 | What’s wrong with me? There are girls into me but the ones I’m interested in are not interested in me?But then, how do you chase without chasing but still chasing them? | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Why liberals get more casual sexOh, he pretty much convinced me that "IF" the goal was to have casual sex, a huge premise here, then judgment is a turnoff. But it was framed as you can only blame yourself if you don't have sex. But I'd rather not have sex with most people than approving of certain practices. | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 05:35 PM |
| 0 | Hookup texting help?Send it to me. | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Going to a singles event with about 100+ women in attendance (and 100+ men). Any tips on sticking out of the crowd?Even better, dress in a way that makes you stand out | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 07:30 PM |
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