FabuliciousFruitLoop Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Reading this makes me both sad and mad at the same time!!! He was so dismissive and superior to women of his own age, ridiculous really as he couldn’t stand toe to toe with a mental / life experience equal. Go figure.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/20 08:11 PM
28	Reading this makes me both sad and mad at the same time!!! What astounds me is how I’ve politely put up with listening to this shit from two creepy, sleazy old men in my life now. The entitlement is so ingrained in our culture it comes as no surprise to hear balding has beens talk about women as if they are shopping in a grocery store picking the freshest lettuce. I am not listening to that from an older man ever again without challenging the misogyny. People don’t guess my age correctly. They aim around 10 years lower, putting me mid 30s. One man calle…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/08/20 12:26 PM
61	Reading this makes me both sad and mad at the same time!!! High fives for every single time you backed a woman in this situation 💪	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/08/20 12:08 PM
7	Unconventional red flags Not interested in taking photos with you. And, variant of this, isn’t able to take a good photo of you. The second one might sound weird. But in my LTR where it was Not About Me, he just couldn’t get a picture of me where I was the point of the photo, and the photo made me look good. It was a low noise signal that I just wasn’t of interest.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/08/20 11:19 AM
14	How many times I used to say this 😩 🤡 OMG so much this. How can a man that slept with THAT many women be SO BAD AT IT? Oh wait. Because he literally used me as a talking wank bucket.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/08/20 07:41 PM
7	Imagine being so insecure you can’t event hold a conversation Wow. DV sitch waiting to happen.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/07/20 09:03 PM
6	The guy I was dating gaslighted me about my own boundary regarding Instagram Models 1) the men are crappy and disrespectful. 100% 2) something I often see on Reddit is confusion between boundaries and control. Boundaries are your behaviour, your limits, how you will act. If a boundary requires someone else doing something to maintain it, that is control. So, in this instance: “I will not date men who look at other women.” = boundary “You will not look at other women whilst you date me” = control. I mean, you can and should clearly state your expectation that they behave respect…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/07/20 08:59 PM
1	I’m still making excuses for him even though he’s the one that hurt me. A One: Sorry you went through this. I have too. Two: You had a lucky escape. Lovebombing. It’s a form of abuse. Future faking, flip flopping, Mr Unavailable. All bad. Three: He’s an asshole, yes, but you went for this and so there are lessons for you to take on board to protect “future you” and not keep replaying this cycle. Now you need to go and work on you, heal yourself so that next time a man plays these steps you run a mile instead of thinking “how great”. Four: I repeat. He’s an asshole. Do…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/07/20 09:41 AM
5	For those of us that have been gas lighted, told we are too much or not enough, or called toxic by a man... delete and block him. Learn to vet to avoid more of this 100% this and mine would literally say it less than 5 minutes after the utterance. It was the first time I ever encountered such blatant reality distortion. I mean, where can you go from “I did NOT say that”? It’s a great way to shut down every single avenue of discussion.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/07/20 09:47 PM