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| 53 | What to say to girls at the club? | Outer Game | Fabulous-Designer626 | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 03:08 PM |
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| 8 | Successful Date but no escalationNot all first dates lead to a kiss. Plan a second date. But you have to kiss her | /r/seduction | 16/02/26 11:02 AM |
| 4 | How to record yourself when cold approaching?These youtubers use the meta rayban glasses. But please. Don't do that | /r/seduction | 13/02/26 02:13 PM |
| 8 | Does she (37F) actually want something to happen at the Christmas Party, or am I (33M) delulu?Is this a serious post? | /r/seduction | 27/11/25 06:58 PM |
| 1 | What to say to girls at the club?Exactly bro. Last week I went out with a friend and I saw a girl that was making eye contact with me all the time.It was so obvious. However, I knew she wasn't the type of my friend so I was afraid he would make fun of me. So I didn't go. If I was alone I would have went! When I went alone I did what you said I was dancing by myself and one girl came and asked to dance with me. Then I got confident and I went and danced with another one. As you mentioned, I'm afraid too of being rejected in fron… | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 01:38 AM |
| 1 | What to say to girls at the club?When you go out with friends, do you get the same results? Especially with friends that are exactly how you describe? Because all of my friends are like this so when I go out with them I'm mostly like this | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 01:15 AM |
| 1 | What to say to girls at the club?Thanks for the advice. I will try again next friday. How did it go for you? | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Why I quit dating apps forever (and what I now do instead)Can you elaborate on public speaking meetups? | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 08:13 PM |
| 41 | What were the dumbest "hints" you got from a woman?I was walking and a cute girl stopped me to tell me I'm really cute. I said thanks you too and kept on walking 🙃 | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 07:56 PM |
| 14 | What were the dumbest "hints" you got from a woman?My fwb always tells me what turns her on about me are my hands lol. Some girls are into hands | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 07:54 PM |
| 0 | What to say to girls at the club?That's really great | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 05:09 PM |
| 2 | What to say to girls at the club?Someone told me it's the best way to captivate someone when you tell something that is supposed to be boring | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Tips on the dating app 'Feeld'I don't even have matches anymore. How to make a good profile? I used to have some sucess last year | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Avoiding dinner first date — how would you guys handle this?Yeah same or I say I have a supper with my colleagues lol | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Avoiding dinner first date — how would you guys handle this?Go eat with your friends🤣 | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 01:52 AM |
| 16 | Avoiding dinner first date — how would you guys handle this?You don't let her choose the first date. Say you want to go for drinks. Choose a time like 8pm so you both have time to eat before. | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 02:49 PM |
| 4 | Girl told me she’s not able to date right now but still trying to see meask if she wants a fwb. Well ask her what she wants. Maybe she wants a platonic friend? In that case let her go but at least hear her version lol | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 05:26 PM |
| 1 | How many cold approaches do you guys do per week?zero because I've got no balls | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Getting laid, but feeling emptytry to find a fwb with whom youcan have a connection but would not be in a relationship. do this until you find a girlfriend. I think its better than sleeping with many girls which can be fun but only for a while. | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 06:21 PM |
| 1 | How long do women you meet from apps tend to stick around?No the conversation is not about having dates but having girls stick around as fwb after the following dates. Obviously you want the first date to be as quick as possible | /r/seduction | 28/03/25 11:56 PM |
| 6 | How long do women you meet from apps tend to stick around?For sure it depends on your lifestyle. But you have to make some time for them, even if it's a few minutes a day lol | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 05:52 PM |
| 8 | How long do women you meet from apps tend to stick around?To keep some girls hooked you have no choice but to be a better texter. They love to have someone to talk about their day lol Obviously us guy we don't really care but the girls they do | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 05:31 PM |
| 37 | How long do women you meet from apps tend to stick around?I've hooked with a lot of girls this last year but the only ones that sticked are the ones that I talk to daily. If you only text to set up dates, then it's only a bootytalk so they get bored after a while and want to see someone else. In FWB you have the word friend so you need to treat them as friends that you fuck lol. Also plenty of girls like to see many guys while other girls like to fuck one guy. You have to find the ones that need a connection to have sex. These ones will only fuck one g… | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 05:00 PM |
| 5 | First ever cold approachMore balls than I will ever will | /r/seduction | 05/03/25 06:38 PM |
| 21 | Which option should I chose to get maximum results with girlsOptions 1 and 2 are bad options. Notthat they are necessarly bad but you want them for wrong reason. Never spend money on expensive stuff to impress girls, do it for you. They will not care. Even if you have a nice flat, you still need to bring them home. If you are not even to do that you pay a lot for nothing. And no, a car will not impress the ladies. They dont care/ know anyhting about cars lol Option 3 we don't know your situation so we cannot say anything but move out when you are ready, n… | /r/seduction | 25/02/25 08:48 PM |
| 3 | To all the experienced guys here: Does casual sex increase happiness?You said it. It's like having a job, you need to make the efforts. Go to the gym, go to the barber shop more often. Hire a photographer to take nice pictures of you then post them on every dating app. Swipe everyday. Even if you get no match, keep swiping. After a week or two delete your profile and start again. Go to events and meet new people. That way you improve your social skills. Basically, if you are not a 10, like my friend who girls stop him on the street, you need to put in the work!! | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 06:47 PM |
| 2 | To all the experienced guys here: Does casual sex increase happiness?On the long run no,but for sure you will not be frustrated. My friends that have no sex are constantly frustrated by their lack of sex. And I was too when I did not | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 04:21 PM |
| 31 | Low bodycount headacheIt's nice to sleep with different girls when you are single. But it's not better than being in a good relationship. You should not break up for that | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 08:21 PM |
| 6 | What do you even do if girls dont even ask you question?No they don't have to talk to you a lot before the date and it's better like that otherwise you won't have anything to talk about | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 02:54 PM |
| 33 | To get an specific woman to date you, you need to have experience seducing womenI agree. I am 100% not ready to be in another relationship night now, but I try to see many women to improve. Then I hope when I am ready I will have enough skills to have a great woman | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 10:57 PM |
| 9 | Muslim girl Rejected me ( I'm an atheist)No that's not true. In Islam a girl can only marry a muslim guy. It's because the religion is passed to the kids from the father. So if a girl marries a non muslim guy, the kids won't be considerd muslim which is a sin. The other way around, a guy can marry a jewish a christian girl only if the kids will then be muslim (not always respected but the marriage is permitted) | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 03:39 PM |
| 17 | Muslim girl Rejected me ( I'm an atheist)They can't marry unless he converts to being a muslim. Just so you know, guys can marry non muslim girls lol | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 03:32 PM |
| 97 | Muslim girl Rejected me ( I'm an atheist)It's strickly forbiden for a muslim girl to be with a non muslim guy. If she is serious about her faith, your chances are close to 0 | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 03:18 PM |
| 22 | I want to use Dating Apps for HOOK UPS rather than dating/relationships - how to go about this?Before meeting, say you are not looking for a serious relationship. They will understand. When meeting them, do the moves first date! No time to lose | /r/seduction | 16/01/25 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Here’s the 1 & only way to do itDo they really answer if snapchat? Or are they of girls or hookers | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 05:26 AM |
| 10 | Do you pay on the first date?If I am not expecting anything serious, I don't say anthing when the bill comes and I wait. A lot of girls will say two bills and I still get laid. If she does not say anything I take the bill. But it's never more than a drink. Don't ever spend a lot for a for first date. | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 04:37 PM |
| 8 | Should I stop focusing on "my type" and just date other women who are attractive but I'm not super enthusiastic about?You can go date and hook up with those who you are not interested for long term to gain experience. But tell them beforehand | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 09:12 PM |
| 35 | Should I stop focusing on "my type" and just date other women who are attractive but I'm not super enthusiastic about?No, take your time and don't rush it | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 09:05 PM |
| 10 | How is the dating world after 30?It depends on what you want. Older women for serious relationships = will want kids soon | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 10:15 PM |
| 194 | How is the dating world after 30?Work on yourself go to the gym, improve yourself. Get nice pics. Try to aim for younger girls 😂 | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 06:53 PM |
| 2 | She says she likes activities or dinners. What to do?Obviously you can't have her come watch a movie everytime, you need to vary. She's muslim, do you know if she even willing to have sex with you? First thing to check. | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 07:03 PM |
| 2 | For beginners: 15 points to become better at approachingGreat list | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 05:52 AM |
| 3 | People who get laid,how?Tell them from the beginning that you are not looking for a relationship. That way you don't lose time. | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Push pulled… now dead 🤷🏼♂️Well as someone mentioned you won't be able to get girls home at the first date 100% of the time. See her once or twice and for sure it will happen! You made out so she is attracted to you | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Push pulled… now dead 🤷🏼♂️I like to kiss before going asking back to my place. If I was at your place, after the sushi I would have taken a walk and tried to escalate the touching and if she's receptive, I go for the kiss. Many ways to do it, you can find a bench and sit on it and ask to kiss her for example. When you have the kiss then you can ask her if she wants to come home with you. I believe that kissing her beforehand excite her so she would be more open to come. (maybe I'm wrong but it always work lol) | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Am I their gay friend now?Bounce | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 09:51 PM |
| 11 | I approached a beautiful woman at the bar, here’s how it went.You can have a wank at his profile | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 05:28 AM |
| 1 | How to transition into sex when in bedI don't know what to say | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 11:12 PM |
| 49 | Understanding Christian girls?You should leave her, it will cause issues down the road. The problem is not the Christianity, a lot of Christians have sex before marriage. But this one doesn't want and you want. So you are not compatible sexually which will result in a lot of frustration on your end. I speak from experience, it will cause issues. Either you leave her, or you marry her quickly | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Met amazing girl I asked her out but she seems hesitant? PLS HELPTake her out of town if you have a car | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 12:42 PM |
| 2 | How to get friends with benefits / casual hooks ups in big city as an average at best guyAvoid the girls that say they want serious relationship. It's no use. Swipe on those who have, casual, short term, nothing serious etc depending on the app. They are looking for that. Just tell them your are looking for nothing serious and most of them will be okay with what. But if you try with one that wants a serious relationship, it's ultra hard. Try the Feeld app as well | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 02:13 AM |
| -3 | How to get friends with benefits / casual hooks ups in big city as an average at best guyTry dating app, plenty of girls look for that | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 10:07 PM |
| 1 | first date with french girl - UPDATEGreat job | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 12:59 PM |
| 18 | First night out solo, ended in two digits and a hookupHow did you introduce yourself and what was the discussion? | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 09:44 PM |
| 20 | Casual sexIf you want drama, choose the second option | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 01:12 PM |
| 11 | Have you ever gotten a woman to have sex who had initially laid it as a hard boundary? How did you get her to change her mind?Yes and she kept switching between doing it and not doing. It was hell. We had sex than she was crying, and wanted to stop, until she couldnt wait, we had sex, than she cried. It was horrible. It was like this for years. Avoid these religous woman if you wanna have sex before mariage. Dont change your fundamentals otherwise you will suffer. I lost 4 years of my life because of that | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Girl asked to be exclusive on second date—how to not give boyfriend?Next time, before you go on a date, ask the girl what she is looking for | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 07:31 PM |
| 1 | How do you talk to different women if you’re solo in the Club?Hey sorry I got to go to the toilet. | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Older lady touching me, why?I mean sure must be really old😂 i guess it was maternal gestures | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 09:00 PM |
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