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Married men are happier and live longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:58 AM
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No I did it myself as I didn't want to be bloated on the day
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:09 AM
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I did lol. I did period maths two years in advance. Had zero desire to be bloated and cranky on my wedding day
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:22 AM
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No thanks. Read a history book.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:05 PM
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The average woman is at sodding work and has no time for such nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:03 PM
4

You mean childfree, childless is people who want kids but can't have them. I met my husband. He was and is awesome. We fell in love and built a life together. I wanted a partner, a team mate. My person. Luckily I found him completely by accident and have the most fun with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:01 PM
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What? To prove a basic knowledge of history that you should already know?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:59 PM
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You'd need to ask both height and weight to find out the info you are after. 10 stone on 5'2 looks a lot different on 5'7
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:55 AM
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If you want kids. Otherwise not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:52 AM
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My husband and are childfree. Very happy with each other, cats, travel and dining out. He's mid-40s and I'm mid-30s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:49 AM
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This time has never existed. It's a fairytale.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:36 AM
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For me it would depend on how the partners were obtained. 3 long term relationships? Not promiscuous. 1 one night stand? Promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 03:46 PM
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She looks far better and prettier on the left. Also that amount of makeup will destroy her skin. Let it breathe!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:56 AM
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Women are not a hive mind. Some want fun and frivolity. Some of us love and stability. Some want blokey blokes, some want men in touch with their feminine side. Some don't want a relationship at all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:41 AM
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My husband works out mainly because he likes it and it makes him feel good. Looking good is a benefit. Same for me. We both like feeling fit and being active
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:14 AM
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I am a woman who knows a lot of women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 08:47 PM
1

And to you!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:33 PM
1

Personally I don't. Far prefer honest and straightforward truth
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 07:24 PM
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I have never met any women who talk like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 06:08 PM
2

I cooked my husband loads of hangover food today whilst also having a hangover.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:49 PM
5

Reason 998 for being grateful to be be British.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:46 PM
2

I would never commit infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:39 PM
1

Money spent on good food and wine is never a waste
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 04:38 PM
1

Ah I see! Sorry, didn't catch on! Are you childfree? If so that's something else we agree on!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:20 PM
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Seriously- I'm not unusual. Perhaps broaden your social group
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:19 PM
2

Sorry - did you respond to the wrong post?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:18 PM
2

Sounds like you need friends with a bit of depth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:17 PM
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Well I'm quite eclectic with music as I play several instruments but I'm not overly keen on pop - very much into classical as well as 40s to 60s music. I studied literature specialising in Victorian literature but I do like fantasy for light reading, just about to start The Witcher but I do like Jane Austen as well. Fine Dining - love going wine tasting as well as good Italian and French. As a group we try to try out a bew restaurant at least once a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:14 PM
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Do you know any actual real life women or do you gain all your insight in to women from 90s romcoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:08 PM
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Lol of course that all we are interested in. Better tell my friends that my interests in music, literature and fine dining are completely made up. Also that they've been imagining all those hours we've spent watching films and gaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:06 PM
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No shared interests at all?!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:01 PM
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Never have and never will
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:58 PM
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I have male friends who have never shit talked my husband. Its perfectly fine and normal to have opposite sex friends. My husband has female friends too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:37 AM
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So you cheated on your wife and ruined your marriage then?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:41 AM
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New Year was epic. Hubs and went to an Italian restaurant and everyone was dancing on tables at midnight. Also Espresso Martinis are fabulous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:35 AM
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The content of your character isn't important? I disagree to the highest degree!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:42 AM
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No there isn't, but the content of your character is far more important. They were right in their approach
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:23 PM
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Yeah - my parents taught me (rightly) that I am far more than my looks and the content of my character was far more vital. They were right!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:21 PM
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I stand corrected. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 06:21 PM
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It is not a need. You do not need to survive ergo not a need. It is a want. It is a desire. And for many of us ( myself included) it is something we WANT from our relationships. However, the discussion this came from was about men cheating after childbirth. If you choose to have a child but cannot comprehend that will involve less sex for at least 6 months to a year then you are a moron. If you expect your relationship to stay the same after a child you are a moron. At the end of the day- commun…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:36 PM
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Fair enough. My grandmother is still going to them!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:29 PM
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It's a desire and a want. It is not a need. In a happy relationship sex is a want, a good want for both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:26 PM
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How old is old?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:23 PM
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Still risking your life to give birth. I believe it's one of the biggest killers of women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:17 PM
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Shocking that after giving birth women may be not that keen on intercourse for a while! A decent husband should be understanding of this and, tbh, expect it. Also sex is not a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:11 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:09 PM
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Out for a meal at the really good local Italian restaurant with the husband
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:08 PM
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It makes complete sense. He’s very masculine and fit but also extremely clever. Hot as hell. The beginning of my love for sexy clever men - my husband is the same!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:29 AM
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Why? I didn’t date him because he was 35. I dated him because of who he was and is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:07 AM
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That’s still not that weird but then again I met my husband at 25 and he was 35 - didn’t seem weird to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:02 AM
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That’s a fairly normal age gap? Why would he need to be rich if she’s 25 and he’s 30!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:58 PM
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Why don’t they have a key?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:57 PM
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Jeff Goldblum was my first ever crush. Sexy as hell in Independence Day
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 11:56 PM
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Lol you sound like my husband and I, we're childfree and always making comments like that! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:54 PM
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I concur. The most environmentally friendly thing you can do is not have kids!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:17 PM
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Birth rates diminishing is a good thing, far too many people currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:07 PM
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Neither. I'd rather have a good man who I'm attracted to. Also what do you mean by alpha/beta - the definitions seem to change so much around here!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 06:05 PM
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Lol my husband would be delighted. Childfree for life!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 11:54 PM
1

Sadly this was for me as a young teenager after my Dad died. Absolutely horrendous
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 10:10 PM
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Fair enough. But my reasoning is - I am driven and ambitious and thus wanted the same in the man I married and built my life with. I would have been bored stiff by someone who was not driven. I know myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:35 PM
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Where’s the double standard? As I said - my husband is just as ambitious as I am. In fact - I work longer hours! And neither of us are doing 80 hour weeks, that would be insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:30 PM
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My husband is just as ambitious as I am, one of the reasons we were attracted to each other. Stagnation is a huge turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:18 PM
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Extremely. The sort of poor where you have to choose between food and electricity
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:53 PM
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Not at all, they are just very analytical
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:40 PM
1

It’s been my Christmas drink! With cherries!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:19 PM
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Kraken, pineapple juice and disaronno is the way to go
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:12 PM
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For me money is not important. Ambition and the desire to achieve is very much vital
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:11 PM
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I dated a man who loved and had a cat. Married him and now we have four cats
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:07 PM
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Most of my in-laws are psychologists - can’t say hello without being analysed!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:07 PM
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Lol this post is from someone who has never actually been poor
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:58 PM
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Well my husband and I write love letters to each other which is lovely. I think an apology that is written would certainly mean more
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:06 PM
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Yes. I would not have dated a man who had one night stands
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 08:55 PM
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Yes. She is raven haired and beautiful. Skin colour is irrelevant here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 04:48 PM
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No she was not. She was cast perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:22 PM
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She’s quite obviously of Indian descent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 03:22 PM
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Or she simply wants to only share that with her life partner? I was like this and I’m not alone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 12:26 PM
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Mid - 30s now. Female. Lost it in my mid-20s to my now-husband
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 12:23 PM
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Both. The second my husband even kissed another woman my heart would be broken and I would divorce him immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 10:35 AM
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If you are acting chivalrous for a reward then you are not being chivalrous in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 11:00 PM
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I don’t know how many times this has to be said. Women have always worked. This is not new.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:37 PM
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Woman, married. Me - 1 No more than 2. But no one night stands
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:19 PM
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Both are shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:39 PM
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That’s not quite I was saying. What I meant was that someone’s personality can enhance ( or reduce) their physical attractiveness. Like I found my husband good looking when we met but then I got to know him and now I think he’s the best looking person I’ve ever met.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:07 PM
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I also think what cannot be disregarded is how much personality influences how attractive you find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:35 PM
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Why is half of the green flags here to do with things other than the woman herself? Why is this hypothetical woman being blamed for the sins of her parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 10:24 AM
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The pub will always be essential lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 07:38 AM
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Pretty much all of the popular romance novels (Pride and Prejudice, Jane Eyre, North and South) all involve the hero having to do some emotional reflection and serious personal growth before the heroine falls for them. It’s very rare that the heroine is a wallflower, she’s often quite forthright and knows her mind. And she is often calling him out on his crap. So no the red pill is not applicable here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 11:44 AM
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Potential human life is not actual human life. At the stage an abortion takes place it is simply a clump of cells
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 10:28 PM
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No it isn’t murder. It’s the removal of cells
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:19 PM
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It’s good to have the option.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 09:11 PM
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Women aren’t spontaneously having kids solo - if women are a net drain because of kids then so are men on an equal basis
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:14 AM
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Wouldn’t care. It’s for art.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:20 PM
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Never had one. Didn’t appeal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:18 PM
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They are AWESOME
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:25 PM
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I’d say yes (and I responded to him). His entire attitude is highly offputting, hints of being controlling and unable to stand up to his family
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:24 PM
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Some men like them, some men don't. My husband for example would find someone who simply obeyed him, was submissive and agreeable and kept house incredibly boring, he likes that we challenge each other, have debates, discuss intellectual topics and he is incredibly proud of me (as I am of him). However we are a team - I do not bossy him around (and he wouldn't let me if I tried) and he doesn't order me around. ​ We both are very career and education focused and it is important to both of us so w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:57 AM
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My husband and I go to the pub most Fridays. We get drunk rarely but when we were younger we would get a bit merry pretty much every week. It’s social, we meet several other friends at our local
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 10:16 PM
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Got very fit. Spent more time with hubby. Twas good apart from the lack of pub visits (I’m English. The pub is an essential part of life)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 05:09 PM
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Ok. Maybe you simply live in an area that doesn’t do it so much? In my city in England it’s something that alot of men are doing. Had a laugh with one of the most neat men I know about it yesterday, he’s finding it torturous. In the pub a very large portion were clearly partaking and all the men I work with are as well
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:23 PM
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It’s really not. Every bloke I know is doing Movember. Moustaches everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:17 PM
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Lol. Pretty much every bloke I know is sporting a moustache for it right now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:05 PM
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Pretty much every knows about Movember don’t they?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:02 PM
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No they won’t. Men, as a rule, will not seek help even if it is available for fear of judgement. It’s a societal problem that needs solving
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 07:02 PM
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My own
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 10:50 PM
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Because it kills your sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 07:01 PM
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Yes it is realistic. Am in love in a very loving marriage. Divorce rates for first marriages are low and getting lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 02:30 PM
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Thanks! It’s actually my Friday as I’ve booked tomorrow off to go around Christmas markets so it very much is a Happy Thursday!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:34 PM
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Happy Thanksgiving to all on the other side of the pond!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 04:31 PM
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London is not more dangerous than New York by any stretch of the imagination. 2020 figures show 460 murders in New York and 101 in London.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:59 PM
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No and no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:51 PM
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It’s not bad by any statistics, pretty low overall
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:42 PM
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Yet another reason why I am delighted to live in Britain. Bloody hell!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 12:19 PM
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You don’t see why you should make your SO feel special and loved?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 11:03 AM
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Not just women. My husband loves to be celebrated on his birthday and would be most put out if all we did was have a takeaway. We always go all out for our birthdays and our anniversary however we do not do gifts at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 10:06 AM
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For SOME men and SOME women. My husband and I for example would hate this scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:59 PM
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As I said - we express the same emotions in DIFFERENT ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:40 PM
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No, both genders have the same emotions but they are shown in different ways. Plus women in general as just as mature (or immature) as men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:22 PM
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Yes you can. That’s the freedom you have. The freedom to make that decision with your husband. I work in construction, pretty much all of my colleagues wives are sahm or at least mostly stay at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:18 PM
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The reason you can choose to be a housewife and are not forced to do so is down to the choice feminism has given you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:03 PM
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Ah the movies are a poor representation of the books, especially of the main characters
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:00 PM
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‘ sometimes it crossed the line a bit’ Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 09:13 PM
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I think that’s shown through Hermione, she the least confident and able dueller of the main 3/4 characters. She’s also far less adventurous than the two boys. Also with Fleur as well. Ginny is a great counterpoint of the other side of that coin - very physically able and confident
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 08:54 PM
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Harry Potter (Book only). The variety and strength of all different types of female characters is fantastic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 08:14 PM
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Blunt but kind honesty, clarity, sensitivity and being a team in all senses of the word. Treating each other with respect and putting the other person first. Being deeply in love with each other. Choosing to be happy rather than right. Attacking problems together
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 10:41 PM
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I am between a 9 and a 10 2. Far, far, far happier now than I ever was then. As are all the women I know! Plus we all look a damn sight better. I think it's about even.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:57 AM
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Who are these chaps doing this? I have mainly male friends and they are not doing these things. We’re there for each other when we need to be and we are pretty even on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 10:42 PM
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Am woman. Am infuriating when travelling
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:21 PM
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It’s a bit odd - what’s wrong with a self made chap? Or a carpenter?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:20 PM
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I made no assumption on any of that - that would be an odd thing to consider wouldn't it? Although if he did do casual dating I would not have gone out with him to start with. My main thoughts were - 'he's witty, funny and handsome - hope he asks me out!'
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:35 PM
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When you first met them, how did you naturally assume they did with dating? Not sure I understand this question ​ If they were to reenter the dating scene today, do you think they'd struggle? Not at all. ​ What makes you think the answer to either question? Is it because of their personality and/or values or because of more...superficial reasons? Both. He's a kind, smart, honest, irritating, genuine man who happens to share a strong similarity in looks to Daniel Craig.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:28 PM
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Middle of the day here!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 12:13 PM
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In my personal opinion most men do not dress well, they live in the clothes of children as adults. But that’s just me. Luckily my husband dresses well (in my opinion) plus he likes the clothes I wear. Saying that Hubby didn’t iron anything before he met so he does look a bit more groomed now. His mother has commented on it several times!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 12:00 PM
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When a girl is young, say in that teen to early 20s age range, she’s the most attractive she will ever be A woman is no more mature in her 30s than she is when she’s a teenager A woman is only as good as her beauty allows her to be A woman’s moral character needs to be judged based on how she acted when she was young because her young self is her true self. This is all so incorrect it is actually hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 08:56 AM
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It’s a green flag. Good sign of a man taking care of his emotional health
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:47 PM
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Kind, masculine, attentive with a backbone
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:27 PM
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My favourite is Jane Eyre. I find anything by Charles Dickens severely overrated
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 08:12 AM
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It’s about 38% divorce rate for first marriages and in the uk the rate of infidelity is about 25%
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 06:48 PM
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Well if that happened to me I’d sit all day in silence - all my colleagues are men!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 03:06 PM
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Not a man. Definitely a lady. I don’t know a single woman who has not loved or fancied the man she’s with. I certainly did not ‘settle’, I mean what would be the point?!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 10:58 PM
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Not a man, I’m a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:15 PM
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Right back at you. But I'm pretty confident that I have good knowledge of my own relationship, my close friends relationships, my family and in-law relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:08 PM
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Pretty much every longterm relationship I know, including my own, is comprised of couples still very much attracted to each other. Attraction in these types of relationships can and often do deepen over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 02:45 PM
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What about the food?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:33 AM
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He was not a stranger when he asked me out. We'd know each other a week and played tennis
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:21 AM
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Sounds like you are in the wrong relationship. My marriage to my husband enriched both of our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:55 AM
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No I think my husband asking me out wasn’t harassment. I made it clear I liked him and we’d played and bantered quite a bit by the time he did. Also asking someone out is not harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 10:55 PM
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He wasn’t a stranger, I met him through tennis and he’d known me a week before he asked me out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 09:27 PM
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There was no harassing involved
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 09:09 PM
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Pink ones. £25. Very comfy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:44 PM
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I met my husband through a shared hobby (tennis) which was a good way to meet. Hubby asked me out after a week then it went from there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 07:39 PM
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What about fat men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:26 PM
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It is a complete lie of omission and no ‘conservative’ woman (of which I am one) would put up with it or forgive it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:46 PM
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So you want a lower body count woman but don’t keep the same standard for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:42 PM
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Our motto in life is ‘ Be kind, be brave and don’t be a dick’
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:51 PM
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Agreed. Have a splendid day!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 10:33 AM
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These are friends we've both had for years and from before we met each other. My husband is mine and I am his, doesn't mean we can't have friends. I trust him and he trusts me and these friends (my two male friends that I have nerd nights with and his female friend) are also friends with the other spouse, just not as close. One on one - as in my friend (steve) comes to our place for movie nights or I go to his or we go to a bar. Husband generally goes out for spicy food as that is the interest h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 10:24 AM
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My husband frequently hangs out one on one with his female friend and I do the same with male friends. There is no attraction there, they are just mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 10:16 AM
8

Then just be friends or not. At least you've been upfront and she knows that you want (or wanted ) to date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 10:14 AM
2

What’s LJBF?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 10:08 AM
14

If your only goal in befriending me is to date me then you are becoming my friend under false pretenses and that is underhand and manipulative. Want to date me? Then ask me out. I would respect you far more for the latter and certainly would never (when I was single) date the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 08:11 AM
1

Both my husband and I used to smoke 2 cigs a day. Never used drugs though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 10:36 PM
2

I’m married. I wanted an ambitious, honest, serious, childfree man with the same life values as me and who had not casually dated. Sorry forgot to add: Lady, mid-30s, not pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 05:01 PM
1

Why? It’s such an odd place to do that!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 02:37 PM
1

Evening. I remove my makeup as working out in makeup is bad for your skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:24 AM
2

Since when did the gym become a fashion show? I go to the gym 3/4 times a week with hubby - he goes off to do weights and I go off to cardio and bits. I wear general gym-going gear - joggers, t-shirt and trainers, no make up (as I'm at the gym) and hair up. All good. Recently I have started going to some classes (yoga, spin, aerobics) and all the women at these classes appear to dress up! At the gym! They are there with curled hair, full make up, tailored gym clothes. What's the point? You are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:00 AM
3

I married a man 10 years my senior because I loved (and still love) him. Does that count? But I would never have dated someone 20 years older than me in my 20s, that would have been crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 08:26 AM
7

The reason is love, adore and fancy my husband and only my husband. He is mine and I am his. I just don’t feel that way about anyone else now. I don’t want to That is not even a consideration I would never cheat. It is morally repugnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:09 PM
5

Married and in a relationship over 10 years. I can appreciate attractive people but i certainly don’t fancy them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 06:02 PM
3

Love, companionship, commitment, emotional support,a team mate for life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 02:48 PM
2

Honesty kindly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 07:02 PM
1

Yes and yes. Married men are happier and live longer. Also those statistics are incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 06:57 PM
10

She was his teacher. It’s completely creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 06:04 PM
6

From the point I got married to now I have only been with my husband (before and after marriage)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 03:22 PM
11

Yes, was and still is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 06:32 PM
25

I only really wanted to ever sleep with the man I was going to build a life with so we waited until we were sure we were going to be long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 05:43 PM
1

Women are not one entity. Some of us want to have fun and find out who we are in our 20s. Some of us want stability and find that one person and get married. We are all different. And women are not cars. We are not ‘used products’!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:59 AM
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Not sure if you replied to the right person? I asked my husband his as it was important for me to know before embarking on a serious relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:04 PM
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I asked my husband and then he asked me back.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:56 PM
3

The coil. I’ll likely get my tubes tied after in cones out though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 09:01 AM
1

Harry Potter is not high literature nor is it high fantasy, I never suggested that. But what it does have, and what Rowling is eminently skilled at, is fantastic characterisation. And anyone who says Harry Potter is just for children needs to read the final three books. My degree was far from useless and I loved everyday I spent on it. I loved learning. I look forward to doing further study in the near future.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:26 PM
1

The sheer range of female characters from all ranges of life with all facets of female life represented without any apology or hesitation. Hermione and Ginny in particular are fantastic. It’s just wonderful. I always recommend Harry Potter to young women - Hermione, Ginny, Luna, Fluer, Molly, Lily, Narcissa, Minerva,Bellatrix - all are so well rounded and full characters that are rare to see. Personally I loved Hermione as a girl - she was the first character like me that I had read about and ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 09:00 PM
1

I read voraciously and have an English Literature degree with a Masters specialising in Renaissance Literature.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 08:54 PM
2

Leave and divorce him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:51 PM
2

Not the man I’m married to. He loves going to the gym and lifting weights. He’s also happy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:51 PM
2

Yes sorrow for everyone. Nothing built on the shaky foundation of deceit will work out well for anyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:35 PM
3

One can appreciate the art and disapprove of the artist. Plus the Harry Potter books have some of the best female characters in fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:26 PM
1

100%. He’s the chef of the house and is happy to make me food when I want it. Plus he loves his kitchen
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:03 PM
1

Tennis and tennis
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:01 PM
16

Dishonesty in relationships will only lead to sorrow for everyone. It’s far healthier and better for everyone to be honest and transparent. And, you know, it’s part of being a decent person
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 04:37 PM
13

In what universe are sahm obedient and not bossy? Have you met any sahm? They run their homes like a military leader and certainly boss around their spouses!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 09:15 AM
4

I don’t want kids. Happily married though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 08:19 PM
5

Women can simply marry for love as opposed to for survival Women can pursue the career of their choice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 08:03 PM
2

I love shoes. So much. So pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 06:51 PM
1

No, not at all. His previous relationship split years before we met
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 06:41 PM
1

No. When we met I was and he had had one long term relationship. I had no desire to wait for marriage but simply wanted to share that part of myself with someone I was in love with and planning a life with
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 06:28 PM
1

For me, sexual intimacy is the closest you can be to another person and it’s something I only want to share with someone I want to spend my life with. Someone who would share that part of themselves with all and sundry is not someone I could be with. I also value honesty, sincerity and always wanted to be with someone as serious as myself. Luckily I married someone with the same attitude as me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 06:20 PM
2

Yes. But it depends - is it 5 from significant relationships or 30 from one night stands? I would not have dated (when I was single) a person with a high number, i would have not be interested in such a man and it would mean our values would not match
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 01:09 PM
1

No and no
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:35 PM
2

My husband is reserved, certainly more introverted than I am but he enjoys socialising a lot. I am outgoing. It works well
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:33 PM
6

Please what? It’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 03:51 PM
8

Not for an athlete as she is, muscle weighs more than fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 03:47 PM
4

Aikido is a challenging martial art
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 02:44 PM
11

Oh this is fantastic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 12:59 PM
23

I have seen my husband crying more than once and my reaction was empathy, love and concern
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 12:58 PM
1

Really not important. When I was single all I wanted was that he be my height or taller but really it was very, very low on the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:42 AM
5

Ew. Just so creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 02:19 PM
2

Yes they are. I am work within the construction industry and it is very rare that any of my colleagues are unmarried or single. Also pretty much all of their other halves are sah partners or only work part time. They are salt of the earth blokes and are some of the nicest men I have ever met.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 11:20 AM
3

We are equal but we are not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 09:12 PM
1

Yes it does. That’s exactly what it means
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:22 PM
1

Yes. Several.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:35 PM
1

Well none of my many, many male friends or relatives have experienced this (I would have heard about it!). Nor have my lady friends done this. Nor have I!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:43 PM
2

I’ve never seen or heard of a man being turned down for not being tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:28 PM
1

Sahm. The key part is ‘m’. Plus the amount of money really should not come into it in a true partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 02:53 PM
3

We’re discussing chores here, not the other items. Why are you changing the basis of what conversation is about? No I mean why would anyone (man or woman) put up with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 02:12 PM
1

My husband moved from another city to my city and met me within a month. He’d been single for a long time before that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 02:10 PM
4

Why would anyone put up with that? Hubby and I work and split the chores fairly. As I do more hours due to the nature of my job he does more overall plus the driving.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 01:37 PM
8

No. Both should pay their share.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 12:40 PM
2

Not torture if they are decent shoes. I like a good pair of heels.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 12:39 PM
5

It amazes me how many men want this but then don’t accept that the money being brought into the household belongs to both of them and that both have them have an equal say to its use.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 12:39 PM
2

Oh I’m with you there. I’ll add anyone who says or writes ‘should of’
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:04 PM
56

Bad dresser. Just turns me right off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:51 PM
1

Tailored, well fitting clothes. Not jeans and not T-shirt’s. No trainers. No hoodies.Dress like an adult not a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 10:37 AM
0

Women want a sweet caring guy with a spine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:15 AM
24

Cat calling has always been sexual harassment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:24 PM
10

You ignored her for 5 days? Of course she’s going to break up with you for that!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 10:57 AM
3

What about if you are childfree?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:09 AM
1

Very rarely. Pretty much every couple I see are equal in attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:16 PM
1

Negging is horrid, don't do that. ‘I like your hair’ is fine
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:13 AM
1

Can you give an example of the compliment you want to give?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 06:15 AM
2

So stunning!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 06:32 PM
4

My husband proposed to me on a beach at sunset in Italy. I organised him dream birthday. Also sent him a romantic letter on our wedding day with a gift. We equal out on romance really
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 05:32 PM
4

He’s Dylan Moran. He’s superb.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:11 PM
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