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| 1 | The average man cares about looks more than the average woman. | Fabulous-Town8590 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 06:40 PM | |
| 0 | The average man care more about looks than the average woman | CMV | Fabulous-Town8590 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 06:42 PM |
| 0 | The average man cares about looks more than the average woman. | Fabulous-Town8590 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 06:36 PM |
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| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanAlso what is it with redditors using irony as a burn too much? Having the opinion that men care about looks more than woman is again one of the most common opinions in the world because it’s so painstakingly obvious. So it is not ironic that I told someone describing a personal situation that it was a “you” thing in this post. Try actually thinking about what you’re saying before you act like you’re being clever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 12:47 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanNot at all. Men caring about looks more than women is one of the most obvious and universal aspects of human existence there is. The fact that people are arguing against just goes to show the lengths redditors will go to argue just to argue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 12:44 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanThat dynamic exists because men care about looks more than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 11:32 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanI see waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay fewer trophy husbands than trophy wives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 09:43 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average woman1 I’m not fully convinced Greek culture objectified women more. 2 Women have been objectified more than men for all of human history in yearly every culture. Read any writings or art from any culture that involves women and they are attractive. Almost no one writes poems or stories or sculpts or paints ugly women. Humans think women have to be hot to have value by and large. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 09:43 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanThey had statues of hot women too. I’m not fully convinced considering how few human cultures objectify men more than women and at how old the culture is and how little artifacts we have left. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 09:40 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanYou’re the one injecting negativity. I like wandering the world looking for sex. I just think we should stop shaming people for being “shallow”because it’s not a choice it biological imperative. It can be a choice to a certain extent but I really don’t think you can just decide to not be attracted to hot people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 09:21 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanAnd all the cultures stemming from Greece. WAIT prove that Greece objectified men more than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 09:18 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanWeird that the modern world objectifies women more than men then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 09:17 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanTHANKS!!! Name some more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 09:11 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanHoly shit you’re such a virgin you must have been a c section. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 09:11 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanI’ve never gotten more neck beard incel energy from a comment before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 09:07 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanWhat are you talking about? I don’t hate men. Nothing anyone has said has changed my mind because they haven’t made a good point. Except for that one guy who posted a peer reviews article. Stop making assumptions about my character because you are frustrated and just stop taking to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 09:06 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanNo you’d see those dudes at some point settle down with a woman who’s much more attractive than them after the make their economic bones. As I said I very very rarely see an ugly woman in a relationship with a hot guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 09:04 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanThis is not the behavior of this weird alpha archetype you think you are. If you were you wouldn’t have a Reddit account and would be accomplishing something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 09:00 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanMake a point about the topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:50 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanI’m sorry women find you discusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:47 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanAll men are real. If you didn’t care about useless things you wouldn’t be on r/purplepilldebate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:45 PM |
| 0 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanI’m not saying I know you are lying I’m saying you are either lying (the more likely option because I have met many men who lied about this and their behavior demonstrated the exact opposite view) or you are an outlier in which case good for you but you are an outlier and aren’t the average man. It is not an egregious assumption because most men are roaming the earth looking for nothing but sex. Again I never said that men only or should only care about looks when looking for a partner so I have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:44 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanWomen do care about looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:37 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanExplain what it is I’m wrong about or be quiet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:37 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanthe sun said where the article I was referencing was and so does that news article. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:34 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanWhat irony? Just because you know how to say that someone is wrong doesn’t mean they are until you can explain why, which you can’t because you’re wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:33 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanApparently not because women date ugly men all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:30 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanNo you are forgetting that. Or at least misunderstanding it in a really comical way. https://www.abc.net.au/news/2009-07-29/evolution-makes-women-more-attractive/1371676 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:25 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanYou’re right. Kind find that article, but there are plenty others. I don’t think a scientific study on the matter has ever said that women objectify men more so google is your friend. https://www.abc.net.au/news/2009-07-29/evolution-makes-women-more-attractive/1371676 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:23 PM |
| 2 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanIf that was true then men would have evolved to be more attractive than women instead of the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:21 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanJournal plos one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:17 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanThe sun says where it was published, if you can’t find the study it’s referencing look harder. I have made no shitty arguments so far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:16 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanAlso I stated a lot more reasons other than studies in my comment but thank you for doing your best to find a logical fallacy you can use to pedantically write everything I’ve said off. I LOVE REDDIT. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:14 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanNo I found it before but am having trouble finding it. The sun says where it was published | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:13 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanYou are a troll. Those studies were whack. Sorry you can’t meet women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:08 PM |
| 3 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanYUP. Reality is dead everyone is just rationalizing to meet their emotional needs. The most obvious facets of reality are being questioned for questionings sake. Don’t like being ugly? just pretend you aren’t! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:07 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanThat women are objectified more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:04 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanPeople like you are the reason discourse is so shitty. You make a bunch of assumptions and ignore details so that you can be “right” in your simple black and white mind. This thread is not about debating wether or not women objectify men, they absolutely do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:02 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanI never said women don’t objectify men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:00 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanYes women objectify men too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:55 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanDid you even name a country? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:52 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanExamining someone’s form | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:51 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanIt’s not it’s absolutely true, just pick a country watch it’s media and count the ugly men and ugly women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:50 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanWhy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:48 PM |
| 0 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanIt would benefit you because getting laid is so important to you as a man that you actually believe your own lies if they help you achieve the ultimate truth of getting laid. Lots of people lie on Reddit to feel better about themselves. Yes you did you said “I don’t agree with you in terms of seeking a partner” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:48 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average woman28. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:42 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanNo why are you talking about this and what does it have to do with my post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:42 PM |
| 2 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanMore hot women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:41 PM |
| 2 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanNo they aren’t, watch a bunch of media and count the ugly women and ugly men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:38 PM |
| 0 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanI think sun has a link on it. Sorry should have said before I shared trash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:37 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanYou know who you want to be and have no idea who you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:36 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanWeird how all artists and people in power in all of human history have objectified women more than men. There are lots of reasons to think women and men have wildly different functions for attractions because they have wildly different roles in reproducing people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:36 PM |
| -3 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanName one society where women are objectified the same as men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:32 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanHaven’t looked into it. I’m willing to bet it’s the same proportion but paired down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:30 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanOf course you’re 18. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:30 PM |
| 0 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanSuch a good point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:27 PM |
| 0 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanThis seems like a you thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:27 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanLike literally, I have no idea what point you are trying to make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:26 PM |
| 0 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanWhy would you say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:25 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanIf you cum from looking at womens bodies you cum from looking at womens bodies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:25 PM |
| -1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanName one society that objectifies men more than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:24 PM |
| -1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanActually I’d say it’s much harder for a woman to become attractive. Women can’t workout hard enough to have an hourglass figure but almost every man can get ripped. The bar for male attractiveness is much much lower btw, just watch any media from any country ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:24 PM |
| 0 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanI am saying you and your friends are probably lying, or you’re not average. I never said how to look for a mate and I definitely never said that you should chose your mate off of looks exclusively. You are assuming a lot of things about me for no reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:22 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanIt’s not mutually exclusive, you can be attracted to someone physically and mentally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:19 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanhttps://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2018/02/12/in-experiments-researchers-figured-out-what-men-and-women-really-want-in-a-mate/ https://www.the-sun.com/lifestyle/tech-old/2920056/science-women-charm-men-looks/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:18 PM |
| 2 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanI totally agree with the first part and mostly the second part. But I think female sexuality can be extremely complicated. Some women are attracted to the weirdest traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:11 PM |
| 0 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanYou don’t seem to be disagreeing with me yet you keep saying you are. I never said all men or women I very deliberately said average. variations on what? I truly don’t think you read my whole post as most of your points are addressed in my original post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:10 PM |
| -1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanExperienced men care about looks more than experienced women. They may care about looks less than young men but still more than their female counter point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:08 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanThat’s great for you if true, I really mean that. I have just met so many men who say they don’t care about looks as a way to sleep with hotter women. If you jerk off to conventionally attractive women then I kinda don’t believe you care more about personally than looks. Does personality of the pornstars make you cum? Is it the personality of your partner that makes you cum? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:07 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanWhat do the women you jerk off too look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 06:56 PM |
| -2 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanOne I didn’t ask anything so learn what words mean before you use them. Two based on my anecdotal experience with others Two My own brain as I am a hetero man. Three all of human history. Four every single scientific study on the matter. Five the way gay guys pick partners and the way lesbians pick partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 06:54 PM |
| -1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanI think women can be attracted to a man for a plethora of reasons(generally boils down to being good at something but not always) and men are attracted to woman for mostly one reason. Face/body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 06:52 PM |
| 1 | The average man care more about looks than the average womanNot to mention all of the scientific studies that prove this. people should stop acting like caring about looks has anything to do with the quality of someone’s character. Unless it’s extreme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 06:46 PM |
| – | The average man cares about looks more than the average woman.I tried! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Attractive men dating ugly women is proof that love exists?You’re the one who specified that it was straight men in power btw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Attractive men dating ugly women is proof that love exists?I think that even if men objectifying women more than women objectifying men is completely a social construct it doesn’t matter. You can’t make people be attracted to something they aren’t attracted to, sexuality isn’t a choice for anyone. I totally agree that society does affect the way we objectify each other and gender I just also think that since men caring about looks more than women is universal in all human societies it’s probably got some basis in nature just like men being more violent.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Attractive men dating ugly women is proof that love exists?But why does every human society to ever exist have similar trends? I’d like to live in a world where we are all just balls of light and consciousness but we aren’t. We are animals with biological drives and desires and we have to come to terms with the fact that somethings about us can be changed and somethings can’t. It would be nice if males objectifying their sexual partners was just a social trend and we could change it but I believe it’s probably based in biology. If objectifying women was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Attractive men dating ugly women is proof that love exists?If it isn’t genetic in origin then why has practically every human culture to ever exist objectified women more than men? Why is porn for men based on visual stimulation more than women’s porn? There isn’t a country on the planet where the roles are reversed. I am a man and I remember when I first started to be horny and it was for boobs and butts not personalities and charm. Even if mens sexuality being based off of visual stimulation was 100% a social creation so what? Male sexuality still is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Women ARE Selected More For Looks, And Men For Pretty Much Everything ElseHot guys don’t wanna fuck her as much as hot women wanna fuck ugly rich guys. To the exact extent idk but i know it’s less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Women ARE Selected More For Looks, And Men For Pretty Much Everything ElseIf your personality is shit almost no women will date you. If your rich and nice lots will even if you’re ugly. If a women is rich and nice but ugly no one wants to fuck her. This is a generalization I am aware there are outliers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 05:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: a woman telling a man he's handsome isn't really an indicator that she's interested in himYa women don’t care about looks as much as men on average. Male sexuality is basically 100% visual stimulation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 05:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV : You can only be attracted and aroused to biological aspects of a human being, not abstract qualities such as wealth and careerMen*. Women seem to be attracted to lots of different traits that change person to person. At least when compared to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Attractive men dating ugly women is proof that love exists?I’ve never really seen it. Women tend to date across or down in looks and men across and up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 05:40 PM |
| 5 | Attractive men dating ugly women is proof that love exists?Because female sexuality is based off of multiple things other than visual stimulation. Male sexuality is almost entirely based on visual stimulation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Women's standards are giving men body dysmorphiaSo why do women almost never date up in terms of looks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 05:38 PM |
| 3 | How are women finding dates in 2022?Being attractive in public. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 05:03 PM |
| 1 | What is the worst thing about being a man?Having your sexuality based almost entirely off of visual stimulation. I could meet the perfect partner for me but if she isn’t physically attractive to me I can’t force myself to be attracted to her. Women’s sexuality seems to be based off of a combo of physical attractiveness and a bunch of other factors that seem to be unique woman to woman. A friend once told me that “women learn to be attracted to who they love and men learn to love who they’re attracted too”, now while I think this is pain… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 09:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: I don't think men are "bad at communicating" like we women often tell each other. I think this stereotype is false and men are fantastic communicators... when they want to be. I think most men, however, are bad at pretending to care about things they don't.The stereotype that men are bad at communicating comes from toxic masculinity. Men who buy into masculinity hard think that self expression is a sign of weakness unless it’s anger. I’ve met men who literally won’t ask questions because having someone inform you of something is weakness to them, listening to someone’s point of view is weakness, not knowing something is weakness. It’s a sad prison of fear to be locked into. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 09:23 PM |
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