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MALE DEPRAVITYFabulousGrand/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:14 AM
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Yes, and yes. I decide that maybe he was shy because he was at least respectful. No swearing or anything rude. But that was it for me. Done! Next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 08:24 PM
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Urgh, this makes me so mad. Women always have to be the ones that are accountable, NEVER them. We are even blamed for erectile dysfunction. Grrr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 08:20 PM
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I said anything! He could of said "I've got a cat named Charlie" and that would have been more interesting than "I watch porn" lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 08:14 PM
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This was me earlier today... Men that live for porn They are such a disappointment every single time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 08:12 PM
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It is. What you described is where porn was born. Once men stated what their tastes were... Well, here we are!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:07 PM
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Yeah, it's weird. It's like saying "racism and bigotry are bad for everyone but if we just got the victims to create some reverse racism and bigotry then it will be more acceptable".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:26 PM
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I honestly think you give men too much credit for actually thinking beyond an object they want to stick their dick in. It doesn't matter if they are watching women enjoying themselves because they are masturbating and only thinking of their pleasure. A man isn't getting off by watching a woman orgasm because if that was true then that would be the predominant genres in porn. It's men finishing, men railing and jackhammer fucking a pussy into oblivion. No man spontaneously shot his load by watchi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 02:05 PM
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This thread is equally encouraging and depressing. I'm encouraged by the number of women looking at porn and realising the dark side to it. What I find discouraging is the odd comments here that think objectify men in porn is the answer or antidote to the status quo. It isn't. If you're watching porn as a woman, what makes it any different from a man watching porn? Just because you're not abusing men doesn't mean that you're not objectifying them for your own pleasure. Also the suggestion that w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:34 PM
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we need female owned porn sites How does that stop the objectification of women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:26 PM
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I got called “insecure” and “uncomfortable with my sexuality” This is an argument you can't win. I got called "narcissistic and think too much of yourself" because I don't like porn users. My dislike for porn use isn't about me, it's about wanting to protect people. PEOPLE includes men and women. I don't want men with porn-induced erectile dysfunction popping viagra now or in the future. I also don't want women sexualised and abused. It's always a two-way street but porn sick scrotes will only t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:08 PM
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I hate the fact that women are now making porn under the pretence it's made for women by women. No matter what they will never escape the fact that women's bodies are being sexualised and used for gratuitous reasons. Porn can be soft and sensual but at the end of the day it's just a new starting point. We know that porn consumers will need to find harder porn to get the same satisfaction. It's still mentally cheating if you're in a relationship. There never is "good porn" no matter what the cont…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:00 PM
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The best relationships I've ever had (2) we're with guys that don't watch porn. The sex was better, the connection was better the affection more so, not to mention greater respect, no abuse, no violence, less insecurity. Those relationships stand out from the others because of no porn. They were better men, not perfect but if take a no porn guy over a porn sick scrote any day. Be warned though... Red pill guys advocate for no porn no fap, so keep your wits about you until you're sure of his inte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 12:24 PM
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That's me skipping lunch today...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:37 AM
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‘can you cover your outgoings?’. I hate this put-down. It implies that women are financially irresponsible and incompetent. Yet in 2008 we had a global financial crisis that was caused by men in the financial industry and banking. Historically, women have been working with shoestring housekeeping funds making it stretch during hard times, finely balancing meals and outgoing's to accommodate cyclical recessions caused by men's incompetent financial decisions. Yet these small brain morons have the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 10:47 AM
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Nothing I love more than hearing about women taking on the challenge of a business. You'll be an employer of women in the future and hopefully, the change women want in the workforce will be enacted by ourselves. No more waiting around for sick misogynistic men to increase wages or accommodate childcare issues, no more being oppressed by the one thing we need to be independent and that's an income that matches male salaries. I applaud you for your diligence and determination. All the luck in the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 10:13 AM
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So, guys that wear those platform shoes (they incels talk of wearing) are not faking their height?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:57 AM
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Shows how they see us as flesh to be brought at a meat market.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:49 AM
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There was a guy on either bumble or tinder asking for help on his profile. His first picture was so up close that you didn't see the top of his head... And the second was further away, again no top of the head... Forth picture in still no full headshot so I say "dude, you're bald on top aren't you?" And he claims his friends took the pictures and they are really bad at doing it and always lob his head off... Yeah, he wasn't fully bald but was so thin on top it was nearly transparent with a hairl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:46 AM
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She is so cute with her sassiness!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:25 AM
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That's the breakup the cheeks to moobs so he does appear to have a neck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:44 PM
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Hahaha I thought it was just me that does that! I love reporting them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:42 PM
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I agree with all you said! I always thought I would do a handfasting ceremony (old Pagan tradition of a pre-marriage, none legal and lasts 1 year and 1 day before naturally dissolving). I see marriage as possession, it always has that connotation by being given away by your father, then renaming yourself/partner. I hate the thought of having to wrangle with the law in order to end the relationship. It seems too caught up in capitalism for me to get on board. Here in the UK, we have something cal…
/r/ExRedPill02/10/20 10:01 PM
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Each time they say "they are fat, old ugly hags" I just think they spend their time cruising dementia care homes. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:46 PM
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Red pill men are inherently selfish. If it doesn't benefit them then they disagree with it. It's funny because all I see in the red pill sub is egotistical memoirs and yet they slate this sub for us "not sharing our success stories" and see that as a sign we are failures. They want us to be as egotistical as they are and are furious this sub isn't run like theirs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:06 PM
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There is a red-pilled guy on the sub purplepilldebate that commented on a thread about this sub... "All the women there are fat, ugly and old with no SMV". It was obvious to me that the reason he was so disgusted by this sub is because it makes his life so much harder. He also said this sub doesn't have anything about improving ourselves until someone pointed out that r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy is a separate sub! He didn't like that. Red pill men love that pickmes are available and they are scared …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 09:57 AM
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He turned up for a date in an orange hoodie! 🤡 Edit: I needed to see his lies "let's me tell you where I am a gentleman here..." Oh please I would like to see that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:15 AM
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"No one ever does this for me, so why should I ever do this for someone else" mentality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:23 AM
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That was the "perfectest" (new personal dictionary entry) example of a scrote ever!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:21 AM
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"I want to make more money than my partner so I can take take of our family so I can feel superior, Lord it over her when it suits me (until she divorces me), use it to control her and all aspects of our life, make sure I'm taken care of first, buy toys I'll only play with for a week, keep her poor enough so she can't run away, go on the holidays I want to, but more importantly, when I get the feelz she is about to leave me I can start stashing money away then plead poverty whilst having enough …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:36 PM
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They listened to Sean "puffy" Combs too much as a kid "she ain't nothing but a gold digger... We want prenup, we want prenup" prenup what you broke ass? Your banged out Skoda? Dude can't even get 'webuyanycar' to come collect it because it would cost more to get there and haul it away than what it's worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:21 PM
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I was surprised the second guy took the bait so quickly Men are lazy, when you hand it to them on a plate they will gobble it up like a hungry hound. Once you know this is the true nature of men nothing they do after that surprises you anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:27 PM
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TIL... I read that daddy issues makes you go for unavailable men while mommy issues makes you go for clingy man children. That makes so much sense to me now. I sincerely hope you find the middle ground that works in your favour to create the kind of happiness you deserve. I'm sorry your formative years we're lacking in the love and compassion all children need. Don't be afraid to look after your own interests first, you owe nothing to anyone else and you'll still be a good person even if you rej…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 07:35 AM
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I hear you sis! Better late than never! Happy healing :]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:27 PM
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Yeah I was just using the absentee father as an example. It could be as simple as your first love interest or a special friendship that went south. It's just something that went wrong and you try and fix it through subconsciously repeating it. We can also feel more comfortable around individuals that behave how we are used to being treated and mistake that for chemistry. Agreed. We are attracted to familiarity so if you grew up with unhealthy parents then you'll feel comfortable in their company…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:12 PM
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Yeah it wasn't until I read this article that I realised some of the stuff I kept repeating. It made so much sense when I was aware and critically and retrospectively looked at my history
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:08 PM
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I read an interesting article about people trying to psychologically fix past trauma by trying to repeat history. So if your father was absent and cold you're likely to be attracted to distant and cold men. It feeds into your self-esteem, so if you manage to make that man accept you and love you as you wanted your father to then it shows you you were worthy. However, it doesn't work like that but it's what the subconscious tries to get you to heal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:41 PM
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I feel a divorce is coming on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 11:24 AM
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"Interesting" this is cognitive dissonance kicking in... "Interesting... But she say no, yet I'm the prize so why she say no? She must mean no so I try harder, she for sure wants me so I must ask more".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 10:50 AM
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Dude, I my weight fluctuates but you're permanently stupid. Idk but this made me laugh hard! (Probably because it's true).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:37 AM
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If that was a woman she would be fired for sure. The things I've seen men getting away with at work that women are not privy to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:41 AM
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If not a job it's for sure a damn hobby!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:40 AM
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I'm not surprised by this because I've been looking at how porn affects men for sometime now. It's interesting to me and I do enjoy reading it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:49 PM
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Present!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 10:37 AM
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Watching the manosphere regularly shows that men are aware of their increasing irrelevance in society. I think that's why misogyny is on the rise because the more important we make ourselves men are behind the scenes trying to undo everything so they can feel important again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 10:28 AM
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Glad to hear you're doing better. Don't be hard on yourself we've all been there sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:16 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheBluePill/comments/i8y7ft/pinned_post_no_mean_no_means_what_to_red_pill_men/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:14 PM
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We aren't responsible for other people's behaviour and decisions. We should all be operating on trust for a happy and cohesive society but as we have to operate on endless suspicion and anxiety of a 'what if society' we all just end up unhappy and sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:08 PM
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"yeah I put it in and she comes right away". Moron. Lol I had this conversation with my (m) cousin and he was literally shocked that women fake good sex and argued for too long that it was a myth and I was being weird. It only finally landed when we were in the company of other women and I deliberately brought the subject up to get a headcount of how many women faked it. 100% in favour and we all saw the blood drain from his face at the fact he probably experienced it many times but he thought h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:57 PM
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who couldn’t have sex with me unless he looked at porn in the bathroom first If you weren't aware of that situation that's got to damage some confidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 07:51 PM
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For me, it's worse if it's on a date because that's what's on their mind. I watch their words on the first 10 dates very closely because they are either lying to impress you, trying go manipulate you or are looking for ways you'll be useful to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:50 AM
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So, what these men are saying is that they would change their behaviour based on how popular they are, how much clunge is about and how rich they are?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 11:24 PM
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As a CF woman I have experienced this also and it does piss me off. I particularly hate "so do you want children?" Being asked on the first date because what I hear is "I see you as a incubator for my spawn" and it is dehumanising
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 11:18 PM
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Those sexy peep toes though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:34 PM
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Thank you for the reminder I have learned my lesson! I've spoken to the guy and he found it funny but I won't be doing it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:46 AM
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I just choked on my boobs and spit my boobies out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:43 PM
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Ikr! They think AWALT so deeply that they project their inferior thought processes onto us because god forbid a woman is able to comprehend the complexity of human behaviour more so than themselves. We are saying that there are men that supersede a group of men that don't match up. High-value men... Should be a clue but they are such narcissistic dimwits that they can not comprehend, nor will they ever. Oh and for the lurkers... HVM will not take these comments as a personal attack because they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:42 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/ikc4cp/time_to_begin_crossposting/ they're coming! Edit: I just looked at that sub and there are just 2 guys there and 32 members. They trying to start a dancefloor scuffle with those numbers lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:02 PM
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Make sure your last will and testament is airtight too. Particularly now your assets have increased. People usually forget about that and then the spouse (depending on country) is able to go after it if something happens to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:53 PM
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Wow that's a 3rd degree burn with 100% coverage... Off to the burns ward you go neckbeards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:22 PM
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This comment made me boob my boobs off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:14 PM
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There are many tribes that operate like this. In fact it's more common than not. The Himba tribe in Africa, also Brazil, Peru, Amazon, ancient China etc and so on. It interested me so I did some research and we in the west used to do this too. Apparently, the Bible was rewritten to include monogamy as men were unsure if their genetics were being passed down. They wanted to guarantee it and so marriage and being faithful was utilised because of the male fragile ego. The saying "it takes a village…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:58 PM
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This truth post needs to be pinned. Every lurker needs to read this. I applaud the eloquent way it was written! Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 11:11 PM
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Really wish I hadn't seen this post on MGTOW and read the comments over there...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:55 PM
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That was my first thought. They are always doing this shit. However, we don't know her story. She might be a people pleasure from childhood abuse which is causing some co-dependency issues. It sounds like it could be that rather than stupidity. However, no matter what I still think it's MGTOW because it will give them something to bitch about. Let's see if they have posted it there lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:32 PM
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Exactly. If it's safe and consensual then no one is stopping you from doing anything. I just think people like this have a blatant disregard for life and are banking on it as a back up if things go south. To me, this is akin to someone complaining they can not drink and drive anymore because they been doing it and haven't killed anyone or had an accident yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:24 PM
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Not myself but my cousin did. She ended up installing a key logger on his devices and set up the firewall to block porn content. It never stopped him watching porn on his friends phones and computers but it did stop it at home. It's more of a limitation kind if things because they will see it. It's unavoidable. Even with "the talk" they figure you're telling them something to control them and will buck against it. So, many of us talked about sex with her son in the room to open up the discussion…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:14 PM
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His lawyers argued the term was “too long” but the appeal was rejected by three senior judges, who said it was “not manifestly excessive”. What a joke his sentence was. 3 years... Out in 1.5 for good behaviour. This case is disturbing in many ways and makes me feel sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:01 PM
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I have found that almost all people in that community have a sexual dysfunction born from unresolved past trauma. You can't say that though because they scream "dOn'T pOlicE mY VaGiNa", as someone said above the men have fetishised misogyny. It's a legit way to enact violence on women. The women allow it because of past unresolved trauma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:49 PM
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Sometimes I am filled with disappointment when I have to block someone I clicked with, but only briefly. I just remind myself of spending a decade with a negative VM and I'm not willing to do that again. I'm just grateful they showed it so I could block instead of getting some time down the road and realising I was dating a NVM. That perks me right up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:32 PM
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It feels special when the majority of men are NOT like this. I'm pretty sure I would be surprised if I ever found a guy like that because in 20+ years of dating I've never met a single one, and I don't men just my personal experience I mean that of my friends and family too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:15 PM
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Good choice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:15 PM
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You can't change anyone. They have to do it themselves because they see there is value in it for themselves. Why is up to us to continue to parent men long after their mothers stopped doing it? I've never ever known a man to say "you know, you're right... You've got a point... I'm wrong". Why even waste your breath trying because it will just end up in him doubling down. Men listen to men. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:12 PM
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Twix, bounty, malteasers, Galaxy, milky way, snickers, Mars bar are in celebrations. Edit: forgot Galaxy caramel 😋 Twirls are in heroes. (And other shit chocolate)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:29 PM
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So true. If it doesn't apply to you then why would it affect you? If it's touched a nerve then I can understand it might invoke some emotions. However, I've seen the way men behave with other men and they are just horrible to one another so if this weak male needs to find someone to blame then he should look at the company of men he keeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:22 PM
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His user name though... Sex obsessed is his personality and that's all he can offer. When you spend all day gaming in the basement, occasionally whacking off to porn and thinking about vagina the rest of the time it's no wonder your social skills are limited. "You're a bitch" is just evidence because it's a low effort insult. Edit: thank you for my award kind redditor :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 09:20 AM
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I honestly think it was just an unhealthy outlet for his emotions. He drove a lot for his job. This is a man who only once got angry with me but he never put me down or put a finger on me. He was very placid and dealt with things well. I was with him for 5 years. We talked about it and he realised it was scary for me because I would just go silent and hold on for dear life so he didn't pick up on it while driving. I think if he didn't care he wouldn't have relented to allowing me to drive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:07 AM
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I'm child free and I can say whenever is see a profile like this I am like Hell No. There is something wrong with men who won't raise another man's child. It shows how judgemental, selfish and self absorbed they are. I see guys on other subs all the time talking about this and their hubris is a massive turn off. Imagine dating a guy with preconceived ideas, judgements and conditions. If he is doing that before he even gets to know you or your circumstances then he is never willing to. It's a fun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:34 PM
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"If you want to see me smile back up 500 yards and let's see if we can make this happen"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:24 PM
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I doubt they are as smart as they make out. Men exaggerate and lie all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:15 PM
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Men just want to see as many women naked as possible and porn allows them to do that legitimately. They will defend anything that serves their interests to death. Porn is also micro cheating which they love. It's so socially acceptable now that they're unable to see how it kills relationships because they are selfish morons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:13 PM
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"Ok smegma settle down."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:27 PM
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"Love me and only me" red flag, red flag, red flag... Run!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:25 PM
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Yeah my ex would do the same! I will never date another gamer as long as I live. Lazy entitled boys who need a Mummy. They are all the same by the looks of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:10 PM
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"If you hadn't come to your senses now we could of continued this for years and you would of watched me hand you and invitation to my wedding" that hurt my eyes reading that. Just shows that men will use women until they find something better then discard you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:57 PM
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It's not a hard and fast rule I know but I have a story which was an exception to the rule. I had an ex who was actually a great guy in every aspect of his personality except when he drove. He would have major road rage and always scared the crap out of me driving. It was a white knuckle ride. We talked about it and agreed I would drive us everywhere. I was ok with that. But he just turned into a psycho behind the wheel lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:46 PM
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I came here to say that. Why can't we share the ways in which a man will manipulate women to use us for sex, babies, carers, home nurses, housekeepers and all the other shit we have to do for men? For me the more people get offended by it the more it's needed because it means they are just supporting the status quo. We can not move towards a more equal society when things are so unequal. We get wiser as we get older but it's usually too late by then. Women get fucked over by the manipulators and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:40 PM
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The toxic red pill effect. Those dudes need cutting off from women altogether. I wish no one would have sex with them ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:26 PM
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I'm sorry but I'm completely right and always will be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:19 PM
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This made me genuinely lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:15 PM
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I don't get what men think will happen when they do this? Do they think they are so irresistible than women would change their minds? Has that ever happened?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:07 PM
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Yep. Mine did the same. He said he would take me out for my birthday, but it was release day so it was " I'll cook for you instead" so he roasted some potatoes, left them on the side and disappeared upstairs for 6 hours, came back down because he was hungry, got annoyed I didn't take them out the fat. Then half arsed a meal before going to play with the lads. That was my last birthday with him. That was basically my life. I had a lodger who played games 4pm until 3 am every day and all day and n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 06:52 PM
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At 12 your brain is still developing and research has shown is it immensely detrimental. Kids exposed to crimes have shown to have smaller hippocampus and amygdalas which results in less empathy and more violent people. Porn has a similar effect on the neural networks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:32 PM
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You try telling them it does this though and you're met with "stop controlling me... You're jealous... You can't handle my looking at other naked women... You're insecure". It couldn't possibly be that we also like sex and would also like a guy who can do the job without going soft, oh no, it's our fault... As always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:26 PM
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This is a rare find. I have a twinge of envy lol although I'm happy someone out there is getting treated like a queen, it gives me hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 09:41 AM
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It helps him with his other hobbies lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 12:05 PM
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"So what do you do Jason?". "Oh, I'm a Butcher". "That's great everyone needs a good trade skill. What're your hobbies?" "I make art with a buzz saw, whittling, taxidermy stuff and I like running"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 10:50 AM
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Her mistake was not making sure her she shed was made first! Men are so lazy and so long as they get what they want they down tools. That's been my experience this far with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:30 AM
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Once you get happy with your single life something amazing happens all by itself. You suddenly start to realise if a person is adding value or not. If they are not then you won't want to compromise your current happiness for the sake of "one more friend, one more lover". You're happy enough without that negativity and why should you have less than you've already attained by yourself? You've dragged yourself from those dark corners of your life and it's easier to cut the dead weight to remain in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:27 AM
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I told my ex about my childhood trauma and he turned it into a competition... "I had it so bad because I went to private school and my dad lost his job and I had to go to public school where I got bullied. Then we had to move out from our million pound home into a bed 'small' box of a house (not that small actually) and it was literally hell". Which compared to my being evicted from my parents house aged 15 and how I had to have a part time job and go to school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:12 AM
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My ex tried dread on me. What he did was bang on about this woman at the garage he saw daily. He told me how she had done these carvings for Halloween and how great they were, how talented she was, how he spoke to her but she was kind of shy but spoke only to him and scurried away from other men. My reaction was "you should ask her out on a date because she can take you off my hands because I no longer care for you", then I laughedhard and walked away. He looked kind of shocked and hurt that thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 08:54 AM
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The most shocking revelation is that there are actually people like me, that think like me. FDS shares my thoughts on BDSM, porn and generally about men. My friends do not share these views and so I thought I was alone and it's great to be in a group with people who also support these views. The side bar has one of the most comprehensive and useful books list I've ever come across which has been immensely useful. I've also learned a lost about myself and how my people-pleasing has caused me to d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 11:25 PM
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If I'm here to entertain, I'm going to need your entire salary hun. I don't get paid and with all this <points head to toe> you're getting it for free, so pay up or stfu. *crickets*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 03:48 PM
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This is why it's important to listen to your intuition... If you get butterflies ask is it because it's excitement or apprehension? If you cry, reflect on what caused it. If you feel worried, reflect on what is causing it. Meditate, take note of the things that come into your mind in that moment. Meditation will help improve your intuition skills. Look inward and outward. Cry no more tears over men that don't deserve your emotions and dedication. Stay safe and keep good mental health. 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 11:54 AM
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MGTOW sub is just one long whinge about how they hate women and even "I hate those fucking bitches". Also... TotallyNotTheWall Where are all the good men The red pill All the good men are here MGTOW2 Incelswithouthate Abuse porn And so many more Edit: let's not forget comedians who have been using their own wives as the butt of their jokes since the inception of standup comedy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 11:01 AM
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This has been my mission in life since hearing my own father say "we've been married for 29 years and I could have murdered someone, under a life sentence I would be free by now" repeatedly. If you have nothing nice to say about your life long partner then why even bother on all counts? I started holding up a mirror to these mofos so they would start being accountable for how they make people feel. It doesn't make anyone feel good. It's not even funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 10:56 AM
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I keep reading in the manosphere that women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of relationships... But only when they say so, it seems. Urgh men, they can never pick something and stick to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 10:13 AM
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I've got a cat that visits me, I don't know who owns it but that cat is more loyal and loving to me than any man has ever been. She knows my routine and comes running when she hears me unlock my door. It's kind of cute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:59 PM
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Is the author Robert Greene? I'm personally not interested in power but I am interested in combating techniques that wish to assert power over me so knowing what they are is useful. Unfortunately, our libraries are closed at due to covid. I'm looking online to see if I can buy one used.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:40 PM
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If I can can a second hand version I will. I refuse to give my money to the authors of these types of things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:34 PM
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I should really read those books.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:29 PM
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They are hedging their bets. They still want a woman to look after their every need but they also want to fuck other women. So his logic is 'let's see what happens and if I can get away with it' in the hope he has destroyed her enough that she stays due to low self-esteem. It's all fucking gross and makes me sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:28 PM
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a non provider is usually a turnoff, given all the extra duties a woman takes on when she agrees to be in a relationship. This. This is what is keeping me from a serious relationship atm. I just don't want to look after another adult in any shape or form. I've raised several man-children and I'm done. I don't want to be therapist, housekeeper, nurse, cook or cleaner anymore. I'm just happy being taken out for dinner, have someone else pay for it and not have to do the dishes after, they can ente…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:07 PM
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Why am I not surprised by this? This was part of the reason I left Facebook. Men just made endless fake profiles so they could come troll rape victims in a closed Facebook group. It really pisses me off that they have to do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 10:53 PM
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This reminds me of the film I watched last night, Hustler. It's based on a true story about a bunch of strippers that drugged and maxed out their customers credit cards after the 2008 crash. These guys reported it to the police eventually and one police officer was laughing his tits off at the fact one went back 3 times... I was laughing my tits off and kept think about all those moaning blokes in MGTOW complaining about women fleecing them for money... Like dudes, come on now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 10:39 PM
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To be honest I don't think these idiots are capable of thinking. If they did then there would be a number of things, safety for themselves being one and the most important of all is... What if they genuinely traumatise a person through their actions? What if someone had been through something similar and this just traumatised them again. The girl is on hyper alert, the first guy went bonkers and obviously didn't think it was funny and put the boot in long after knowing it was a prank. Things lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 10:02 PM
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Yes that rings a bell, I read it some time ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:54 AM
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This is so true. I never want to get married. I've had 5 proposals. They think they would be special if I ever said yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 10:34 AM
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I read a book about men always see you naked and in there it says men will lie about anything just to see you nude. They must of known they had no chance with you so lied about their sexuality in the hope of seeing you less guarded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 10:25 AM
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"Not all men"... Well, I'd like to find at least one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 10:15 AM
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I find pranks like this highly triggering. That girl is the epitome of what it's like for women out there. See how she hesitated to get in the lift, then stood as far away from him as possible and was on high alert. Men don't notice these types of body language cues when observing their surroundings. The comments section of that were mad at the girl... As usual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 09:50 AM
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I don't think their dicks are capable of fiscal responsibility like that. The dick is a hungry monster and rather than waiting for that quality meal it binges on McDonald's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:39 PM
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I've thought about this and couldn't help thinking that the reason men want women to sleep around is that they want free sex available at any time. They don't want to pay a prostitute for it and they want more variety to choose from so what better way to get that than to encourage Tinder culture. With prostitution, there are just a few niche women to go to and we know men look at almost all women as being cumdumpsters. The secondary benefit of them is genetics. They don't want LTR with a cumdump…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 11:08 AM
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The only thing I fix these days is houses which at least provide me with some return on my efforts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 08:44 AM
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This is perfect! Where I live yellow bins are for human waste lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 06:03 PM
2

This is it, I found it for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 11:11 AM
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The irony that men don't give a shit about themselves but lament endlessly about how women don't give a shit about them either. Like, where is the individual responsibility to sort yourself out? When I was made homeless I got off my arse and did what was necessary I didn't sit around saying "ahhh men they don't care about meeeeeeeee" because no one will if you don't do it for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 10:22 AM
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This is just so typically lazy of men... Leaving it up to women as per usual. It makes me increasingly angry how men are just inherently lazy bums. Funny they are never that lazy when it comes to buying a new game or wasting money on crap they never use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 10:19 AM
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Some dudes are going to need some savlon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:09 AM
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"I'm not a mind reader" is funny because that man can make all kinds of assumptions about why I am doing XYZ whilst skillfully ignoring my repeated explanations of why I am doing XYZ. They repeat this behaviour in the hope that one day you relent and start doing it their way just to keep the peace. That argument about putting your clothes in the laundry hamper was always about me "controlling him" and was never about him being a grown arse man who could stop throwing his clothes at it and leavin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 09:55 AM
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This is the truest thing I'll read all day. They are boys that can't share.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 09:36 AM
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Here, not having children because I've already done that and I'm enjoying my child free existence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 09:28 AM
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My phone has dual sim slots so I brought myself a pay as you go sim with a little credit on there. I give that number out to guys and keep my real phone number separated. If they end up being a boyfriend I move them onto my contract sim. If things go south you just throw that PAYG sim away and get a new one. I did this after I had a stalker and it's kept me safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:20 AM
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It took me a long time to realise why I was attracting abusive men like my mother... Familiarity. I looked into this and the reason why we pick abusive men if we come from abusive homes is because we recognise the behaviour. In our subconscious we notice how familiar it feels and we are comfortable around it because we grew up with it and normalised it. Social scientists and therapists have looked into it and think that we also get into those types of relationships because we try to fix them in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:05 AM
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I'm the same I say "I said no, but you seem not to respect my boundaries. Do you usually push people until you get what you want?". I make it about them and make sure they know I've observed their behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 09:26 AM
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This humpty dumpty hasn't seen his dick in over 250 pounds and he is complaining about her? Lol I had to watch some videos and so I read some comments one said "her search history: how to strangle a man with no neck... How to break up with a pink balloon"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 02:00 PM
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I wish I took a screen shot but I received a first message that said "I like anal fisting and double hand fucking"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:07 AM
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Wow this really hit home. Yes. I had a 8-year tormenting-ship with a narc and my vagina and labido slammed shut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 10:34 PM
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women seek advice... *gave examples of two subs of predominately women seeking advice*
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 03:22 PM
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So like I said. Women cannot love a man unconditionally. Men do not love unconditionally! It works both ways my man. A man falls in lust. He will easily not love her if she gives up offering her pussy on a platter. He will soon grow his contempt for her via rejection. That is not unconditional. His list is "give me sex, look good". You absolutely must look at both sides of this argument rather than trying to prove men are superior. Men are not. Women are not. Women however require men to have mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 01:05 PM
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Yes everyone has conditions but come on lets be honest mens lists is much shorter. Not really. You can't agree that every persons list is different and then go on to say this. That's like you're trying to be superior because of your gender rather than facts. The point is, it's is different, it is complicated. My list is short because I am self sufficient and I don't want kids. Taking kids out of the equation changes things a lot. Mostly because women rely on the men to provide while she is havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 12:50 PM
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I said every girl has a list of requirements when dating a man. When he breaks those then she leaves him. To be fair if that's her list of requirements then she will leave. My list is to be respected at all times. I don't get that then yes I will leave. Everyone has their own list. The point of compatibility is finding needs and wants you can both deliver on. The rest we agree on. Like I said my point was women do not have unconditional love. Only dogs can love unconditionally. Everyone has cond…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 12:32 PM
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Ask literally any girl if they want to marry a loser(loser is a summary of how girls rate men socially and financially)....ask literally any they will say no. Listen, if a woman has designs on having a baby then it IS in her best interests to find an who CAN hold down a job. She will require this stability to raise a child which she is on maternity leave and beyond. Raising a kid is hard enough and yes raising one with a man who doesn't have his shit together is a monumental task no one is willi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 12:16 PM
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He never supported me. He lived here in MY house rent-free I might add. I have been financially stable since I was in my early 20's. I have always been the breadwinner in all my relationships and I have taken the financial burden because of it. 3rdly if he was controlling, than thats why you didnt leave. You were being controlled. Because he was living here in MY house. I had to make sure he had somewhere to go as I wasn't going to kick him out on the streets. I'm not a cunt you see. However, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 12:11 PM
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If you want that kind of information then I can already do that. My partner supported me when my business went belly up. We support one another during hard times. That's what relationships are. If you have someone dumping you because you're down and out then you got the wrong person. Period. They were not in love with you either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 12:05 PM
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I'm not sure what you're basing that information on. It certainly isn't statistics or facts. Is it anecdotal?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 12:02 PM
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https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america Just google it dude there are loads of links. This isn't the one I read but there are plenty out there in the scholar section.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 11:59 AM
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Women are not stupid. Say what you mean. As a man I find sex with a woman faking it to be completely unenjoyable. So do a certain % of men too. So do women and yes men do fake it sometimes. So I was trying to find an analogy she could understand. Conflating love and sex makes you the one to not understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 11:54 AM
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Nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 11:17 AM
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it’s fair to suggest cheating is a big reason and one women over index on. No it's not fair. It's a blanket statement not based on any facts. You can't bend statistics to fit your own bias
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 11:17 AM
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Secondly, go read any infidelity board. Women have a tendency to share and ask for advice... This is not an indication of who cheats more but more of 'who shares information more'.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 11:07 AM
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This is the most sensible thing I've read so far. The whole post seems to be about garnering support for a biased opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 11:06 AM
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Love and sex are not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 11:04 AM
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Her dream is to have a marriage, kids and a nice life that makes other girls jealous. And if a man stops providing that or wont provide it in the future. She will leave you without a 2nd thought. You picked the wrong girl then! Not all women are like that. I supported my ex through his long period of unemployment. He demanded to be kept in the lifestyle prior to his redundancy. We had to cut back. I kept him for 2 years like that. Then I dumped him a year after that when he was back in work and …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 11:03 AM
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Women care more about lifestyle than love. Have you asked all women? Where are you getting this information from?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 10:56 AM
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(women lie) And men don't? Who are all these women cheating with?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 10:51 AM
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You realise that only your parents will love you unconditionally right? If you're not treating the woman in your life right then she will most likely not love you in the end. Relationships are about giving things to one another. That also includes respect, understanding, affection, kindness etc. It's not all materalistic. It's unrealistic to think people will love you anyways even when you behave like a douche bag. If someone put me down all the time I sure as shit wouldn't just "love them for b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 10:42 AM
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Their father may have owned several...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 10:37 AM
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Divorce is not exclusive to cheating. A woman may divorce for many reasons which may include domestic violence, crime (he is in prison a lot), child abuse, irreconcilable differences etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 10:35 AM
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This is not a good way to measure cheating. Women always seek advice from other women which is why r/deadbedrooms and r/adultery are predominantly women. It doesn't take into account behaviours of seeking advice. Etc. It's not scientific to look at these subs and then deduce an opinion off them when you ignore all the other variables.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 10:32 AM
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Studies have shown that the more successful a man is the more likely he is to cheat. There is a direct correlation between income, psychopathy and cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 10:23 AM
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I'm with you dude. It's so steeped in judgement. Life ebbs and flows. A few years I had a swanky job title and when I told perspective men some would bulk at it because they made judgments. However, the reality was very different. My life has changed again since then. I have never been so snobby as to judge a person by income or asset, job title or social status, I hope I need do either, it's gross. I don't subscribe to all this HV and LV crap. I know plenty of people who have met the love of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 06:06 PM
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Thanks for the clarification. I was thinking along the lines of nitpicking V being raped or DM. I understand what you're getting at now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 06:06 PM
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No it hasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 04:19 PM
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I do live on my own. I have done since I was 15
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 02:58 PM
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The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 01:30 PM
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I don't. I understand that women aren't going to be attracted to me for my living situation. Fair enough. In order to attract women I need to already be in a position of "independence" though which means signing a contract to rent a house on top of bills and tax just so I can look for a compatible partner who then wants to move in together soon ad share the costs of another house? No, it's a different choice. Point being your situation always depends on the choices you make. Buy a house alone > …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 10:59 AM
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If you conduct yourself in life as you have here, then this is a problem. I am not sat here giving advice for the good of my health or for nefarious reasons. I'm honest and upfront in life as I am here. It's up to you to listen. I can't force that on you. Your knee jerk reactionaand subsequent projection needs to be worked on. Best of luck to you buddy. I appreciate the apology and I graciously accept. It is nice you took the time to explain and repair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 10:49 AM
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That's entirely your choice but you don't get to complain that you're single and unattractive to women. You made a choice that makes you unattractive. Just like a guy that looks a scruff and doesn't shower. Or the guy with abundant arrogance that refuses to take advice because "he knows better" yet hasn't managed to progress. These are all sacrifices you make through your choice and you're entirely entitled to do this. Like I said previously, you could rent and look to buy with a stable partner.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 10:41 AM
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Nobody is forcing women to date these men, you don't have to. We don't. Yet there is a group on here complaining about being relationship-less, overlooked and not seen as a viable mate. If you're not willing to learn from women then women will continue to reject you. No one wants an arrogant partner who keeps telling women what to do. Edit: I get that you have a life plan and want to buy a house. However, if you're in a good relationship then why can't you commit by buying one together? You don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 10:29 AM
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Well isn't that similar to the house situation? No. The house is an asset yes. But that isn't the reason I would date you for the asset. Renting is just a good and you wouldn't own that. You're missing the point that it isn't about that, it's the fact that you are able to live by yourself and manage to do all the things that adults do. Work, pay bills, eat healthy, cook, clean, organise yourself and be able to spend time alone without the constant attention of someone else. That is the reason. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 10:25 AM
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The fact that you've dismissed my very valid reason, is also an explanation of why women baulk at the chance of a relationship with you. The attitude that you think you know better when you're not even female is part of the problem. Arrogance is not attractive to women. But what am I saying? I'm a woman and I don't know anything right? Well, it seems like things are really working out well for you, as you intended, so best of luck to you and enjoy your chast. I'm sure it keeps you warm and night…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 10:16 AM
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Yes, the financial burden I have to place on myself in order to be considered relationship material is not better than saving money and becoming upper-class in my opinion. I don't think money is the issue. I personally wouldn't want to date anyone because I had something materialistic like money and that was their main attraction to me. Money can go and if I became poor then they are just left with me. I'm pretty sure they would leave if that's all there was. Being able to spend without worry is…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 09:50 AM
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Whilst I like your list and find it admirable in an ideal world I can see why women are put off by it. People that do have sex with their partners know that sex plays a part in the emotional intelligence area of relationships. This is also a skill that people need for successful relationships. With your insistence of chast it means you're completely lacking in this area, hence women not being all that into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 09:45 AM
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So money is your goal rather than a relationship? I mean that's cool dude, whatever you think makes you happy. Personally I've never chased money because that ultimately never brings happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 09:31 AM
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So when are you going to move out? When you have enough money to buy the place outright? Come on!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 09:27 AM
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Then get your own place then! It shows a level of maturity when you can support yourself entirely. I wouldn't dare date a guy still living at home with his parents. It just shows how risk-averse you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 09:19 AM
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This. Absolutely this. It means he isn't mature and no one wants to live with a spoiled man-baby. I don't care if you're a billionaire I wouldn't date a guy that's still living with his parents when he has the means to buy his own house.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 09:15 AM
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In my experience, guys that fuck loads of women are the worst in bed. They are egotistical and believe they are the best, which makes them the worst. Also, sex is all about themselves because it's about them getting off and moving to the next one. It takes time to learn how each individual woman likes sex. So even if your not a virgin and have a new partner, you still have to learn. Women have the best sex when they are relaxed and comfortable with their partner and that doesn't always happen wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 09:01 AM
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Pffft I don't believe that. Most women I know wouldn't have the confidence to. That would mean 80% of all men are dateless, or have nothing in the works... I think that stat is a lie perpetuated by incels to feed into their already abysmal self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 08:50 AM
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I'm sorry but I don't understand what the group level comment has to do with your original post unless you're talking about hive mind mentality? Correct me if I'm wrong. For now I shall assume you are speaking about that so I will say... Hive mind and collective groups do more harm than good. For the good part it gives people a sense of belonging and so understanding of issues, a place to exchange information however this is both helpful and detrimental. Groups of like minded people create echo …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 07:54 PM
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I respectfully disagree. Women love the company of men and visa versa. Men like the company of men also. What needs to be eliminated is bitterness, hate, game playing, alt objectives, unachievable expectations, disrespect and all the other nefarious crap that goes along with the battle of the sexes. Life is better when we work together. Life becomes hard when we fight one another for power or superiority. That's down to us as individuals to create the kind of environment for us all to thrive. In…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 06:32 PM
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I personally find it much easier to get over small stings. The point is you don't allow the effects to accumulate. If you do then those wounds amount to something. That's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 04:34 PM
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Nagging: asking over and over again because a job was never done and still isn't done 8 years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 04:05 PM
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I don't believe that. Men and women need one another like it or not. Unless we stop fighting one another and work shit out we are going to die as a species.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 03:57 PM
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Exactly what does "but miss she pulled my hair and I didn't like it" kind of arguments achieve? It just causes hostility and divisiveness for the sake of it. There are far worse things that can happen to you via the other gender, and visas verse, than being called an idiot don't you think? It's just petty.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 03:55 PM
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Its stinging with a million seemingly innocent nibbles that break men down, vs mens violent predatory bite. If you have been taught correctly, it is much easier to recover from small stings. It's like a mother slapping your hand away from something that can harm you. Better you learn that way rather than her letting you put your hand in the meat grinder to teach you that you shouldn't touch that. However, for the most part we have lost the ability to psychologically repair small stings. The rise…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 03:40 PM
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They simply don't like these men because they don't serve their self interest. How do you know this? Other subs have talked about these ones and there is a consensus of women that MGTOW is a good thing because they have removed themselves from the dating pool. With their blatant hate for women this is a good result for both. TRP are to be avoided, also beneficial to women in that they can use them for sex but avoid them for relationships. Incels well they have their own issues and are generally …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 03:21 PM
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The boys seemed very uninterested in girls at least compared to when I was in school. And the girls, I had a daughter in high school at the time, seemed much more aggressive than girls were in my day. I couldn’t help but think how much more sexual activity I would have had in high school If the girls then were like the girls of today. This. In our day we had guys attention all the time because they wanted sex, so us women could afford to relax. So in a world when women are starved of this attent…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 05:37 PM
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I would say you're an outlier. Possibly due to your age. I too am from that era of borrowing a VHS tape of porn. The difference from today is that studies have shown the porn usage has changed the neurological make up of the brain. Young men watching porn these days are not the same minds of men watching occasional porn of our era. Also back in our time we learned skills to obtain sex because that's the only way we could experience it. With available porn the skills to obtain sex are lost to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 04:53 PM
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Yep. They create laziness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 04:45 PM
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Recent studies have found that porn actually changes men's neurological networks. In other words, it changes their brains. It's been proven time and time again that porn is detrimental to relationships and men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 04:40 PM
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Or men... Porn induced erectile dysfunction is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 04:16 PM
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Also, porn-induced erectile dysfunction is a real thing. Porn isn't a great thing to be using in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 04:07 PM
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Women talk about their problems more and have less output for sexual energy since it's harder for them to climax from self stimulation. I've never read anything so ignorant! I can get myself off in 1 minute 25 seconds is my record. Faster than any man can get me off. That's without the use of toys or porn. That's purely from my mind and manual stimulation. It's a top tier orgasm at that!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:54 PM
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I found small breaks of complete abstinence by us both helps with this. No porn, no masturbation of any kind. Then we build up like we are a new couple again. It helps stoke the fire. I think people think that they need to have full on sex all the time but it can be boring just because of the routine of it all. I think finding how to rekindle is an essential skill to a healthy sex life. There is no shame in having a break. So long as you're both on the same page and no one is left feeling a loss…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:25 PM
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Indeed. There are many reasons why a person withdraws sex in a relationship. It's complicated but people try to apply reductionist reasoning to an issue that involves 2 separate people and together they create a unique situation. There is no simple answer. I'm sick women being blamed for everything by default. We play our part but this "HurR Hurr woMEn aRe FaT" is the most immature response to issues that also involve men, as the top expressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 02:26 PM
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This is the best advice ever. I went through something similar. My ex-boyfriend was a narcissist and he withheld sex as a form of control over me. He watched porn to satisfy himself and cheated many times. He made me feel bad for 'being unattractive ' yet I had many men interested in me. The gaslighting that went on really destroyed me for a while. Getting out of that situation was the best thing. I took time to heal then got back into dating. The fact I can attract a man with no issues confirme…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 02:06 PM
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Yeah, I recoiled when I read it and wondered what other shallow reasons men had for proposing to their spouses. Bodies change, I would be devastated if someone asked me to marry them based on my body because that's not flattering at all. It's just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 09:50 PM
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There is a guy on r/vagina that said "the moment I saw my (now) wife's labia I knew I had to marry her, we got on OK and that was it for me". Read that a while back and another said he married his woman because of her tits. Both settled IMO for just one like. It happens. Note they said " we got on OK".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 09:38 PM
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That's pretty accurate! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 04:20 PM
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With as much good intentions in the world you will end up settling... "He makes me laugh and we get along but his penis size is too small... She is amazing in every way but I don't like the way her labia looks". No one is perfect and sometimes you have to work with priorities instead. If you're sitting around waiting for perfect then you'll wait all your breathing days. Not even nature is perfect. If you're repulsed by the idea of settling then you have problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 04:16 PM
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