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| 1 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?I think there’s a happy medium. In my experience I’ve pursued a lot of girls and sometimes it works but generally I do a lot better if I make it known that I’m interested but then let things settle and develop naturally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?I understand. But I think you’ll have better luck if you sort of reframe this stuff in your head. There are plenty of beautiful short women who would definitely have no problem dating a guy as dashing as you say you are. But I think most people and certainly most girls will pick up on a guy that feels entitled or has some of the toxic views about relationships and people that you’ve expressed. I think you’d do well to take a step back and try to enjoy what you have going for you, feel confident … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 05:51 PM |
| 4 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?My point is is that if you think ‘uglies’ are inferior and not worth your time, despite the fact that you could have wonderful and rewarding relationships with them regardless of romance. If your criteria for whether someone is worth spending time with is their attractiveness, people can tell. They’re no longer people with thoughts and feelings, they’re a badge that you get to put on your jacket to make yourself look better. I’m saying this whole mentality is a trap. Get to know people just for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 05:43 PM |
| 4 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?Bruh if you consider dating ‘uglies’ to be wasting your time with ‘lesser mortals’ do you think that mindset is hard to pick up on. You gotta find a way to let go of that seriously toxic line of thinking. If you try to get to know people for who they are and not where they line up on whatever social hierarchy you subscribe to, it becomes a lot less about your looks and positive traits and about making a genuine connection with people. Doesn’t have to end in sex or anything, but I’d bet your chan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 05:15 PM |
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