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Sex and lust is not what motivates women to enter into relationships with men. Being in a relationship with a woman in no way suggests she’s physically attracted to the man in question. We can’t possibly be attracted to objectively average guys because that would completely disprove all of your theories about how women are shallow whores! Why does that make women “shallow whores”? Why can’t they just be motivated by different things from men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:59 PM
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Nope. Women sleep with plenty of men they’re not attracted to such as their husbands and boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:43 PM
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Acknowledging that women want to sleep with attractive men, which in a woman’s eyes, is a small minority of men, isn’t a narrow world view. It’s completely normal. And again, I highly doubt you checked their driver’s licenses to confirm their height or even ask them out of curiosity (why would you if you weren’t interested to begin with?) or made them pose shirtless for you to accurately gauge their level of fitness. Nice face is believable, but that falls under “Kinda cute, comparatively speaki…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:39 PM
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The vast majority of men are of absolutely zero romantic or sexual interest to women. Finding one that truly appeals to a woman on a purely physical basis is rare and few and far between. The fact you’ve supposedly met “plenty” of them means they weren’t actually attractive and were more along the lines of “He’s kinda cute compared to the rest of these slobs, I guess”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:18 PM
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Then they weren’t that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:10 PM
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If you’re attractive, nothing you say will be the wrong thing. If you’re unattractive, nothing you say will be the right thing. Women say that they will turn down Chad’s advances if he says the “wrong” thing and if you actually believe that, I have a bridge to sell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 10:26 AM
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Approaching as in approaching. The way women behave around Chad is the way men behave around women: Awkward, self-conscious, desperate, and pathetic while at the same time trying desperately to maintain some air of confidence and grace.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:29 AM
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Women do approach men that they’re genuinely physically attracted to. The reason most men believe women don’t/won’t approach men is because they’re not at the level of attractiveness and they don’t socialize with anyone who is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:56 AM
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No, it’s not a small subset who want to have sex with attractive men, it’s all women. And there’s nothing wrong with that. Why attack and criticize them for being attracted to attractive men despite them being bad people as being pathetic, psychotic, crazy, or mentally ill? Pussy isn’t a prize that’s awarded only to the most righteous and morally upright men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:12 AM
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Women don’t compete for men. Unless exceptional measures are taken to prevent this dynamic, there is nothing more abundant, and therefore absolutely worthless, in a woman’s life than male attention. They compete for a very small minority of the male population which they genuinely find attractive. As well they should. Limited supply with unlimited demand dictates that nothing will be gained without competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:07 PM
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Now some guys will say AWALT Yes. Correct. Women cannot bullshit, lie, and gaslight men into believing their personality is the reason for their romantic failures when they continuously demonstrate that they will happily either compromise or outright throw their morality right out the fucking window to sleep with an attractive man. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with enjoying sex with attractive men despite the fact they may be horrific human beings, but either admit that pErSoNaLiTy as a deci…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:34 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:46 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 04:36 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:28 PM
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Whenever anyone addresses an entire segment of any given population, they’re speaking about the broad majority. You already know that, though, but it’s more fun to pretend like I’m moving the goalposts and back-pedaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:20 PM
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There’s also a campaign against men chatting about sports at work because of the claim that it’s exclusionary towards women. https://www.express.co.uk/news/uk/1234013/ban-football-chat-work-Ann-Francke-radio-4?int_source=amp_continue_reading&int_medium=amp&int_campaign=continue_reading_button#amp-readmore-target https://www.newsweek.com/generation-z-wants-ban-talking-about-sports-work-1894288 Does this mean the average woman gives a shit? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:07 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:28 AM
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Women do not and will not care about men having sex with robots. Unless one too many Chads begin shunning women in favor of said sex robots. Then they will care a great deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:41 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:23 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:49 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:44 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:34 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 06:03 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:29 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:25 AM
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Women have zero trouble finding men who want to be with them within any capacity, be that dating, sex, FWB, flings, affairs, or marriage. However, they have a lot of trouble finding men for whom those feelings are mutual.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:17 AM
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Why such a big difference between the sexes? This is a difference between types of men. The behavior presented in the first premise is the behavior of the minority of men who have options and therefore have very little incentive to settle. The behavior presented in the second premise is the behavior of the majority of men who have no options and therefore have very little incentive to throw away the one relationship they’ll likely ever have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:51 AM
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but a guy looking to score is immediately threat profiled as a "creep" who views women as "fleshlights" instead of people It’s quite simple. Man’s sexuality: Nasty, predatory, and perverted. This is because a man’s sexual attention is unwanted. Chad’s sexuality: Normal, healthy, and flattering. This is because Chad’s sexual attention is wanted. If you’re a man, and you want to express any sexual interest in women in any way at all ever, follow rules 1 and 2. Be attractive. Don’t be unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:43 PM
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Nope. They’re under no illusions that they either make the one relationship they lucked their way into work or die alone. Women always blame men for staying in bad relationships because they’re terrified of ending up alone whereas they would rather be alone than accept a bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:15 AM
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Because men know it’s pointless. All the women direct their attention to the one Chad, and if one is not present, they stay to one side of the venue, pretending the men aren’t there and talking amongst themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:02 AM
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What advice would you give to a man looking meet/date people Be attractive. Don’t be unattractive. Now, you have access to all the women outdoors or you can stay indoors and watch those dating apps suddenly start working for you, as if by magic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:14 PM
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Women mostly have sex with average guys in relationships, they're the non-chads I am talking about Seldomly and begrudgingly because these women are not in these relationships for sexual satisfaction. These Beta Blueballs also don’t leave. They get left. and you're over here thinking she's had relationships with chads. She did. They didn’t last very long, they still fucked around, and eventually left her, but she got them committed for a small amount of time. Most women receive zero commitment, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 11:09 PM
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Maybe non-chads deceive women to get laid regularly don't you think? Women aren’t deceived by a man being ugly. I swear, they think no one else can get laid. Women like physically attractive men. There’s nothing wrong with that. Sometimes they’re of a pleasant disposition, sometimes they’re not. She rolled the dice and took the chance. Most women just get sex from attractive men, she got a few relationships out of it. She made out better than most.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:52 PM
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So my question is, why do so many guys leave a real/genuine woman for someone else, only to end up miserable? Why not stay with that woman who makes you feel happy and who loves you with all her heart, and would take a bullet for you? Men don’t do this. Chad does this. Instead of dwelling on the negative outcome, focus on the positive experience: You had all the fun and sex you wanted with a very physically attractive man while he was around. Be grateful. He had options but still graced you with…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 08:16 PM
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but instead of the woman recognizing it for what it is and reacting appropriately They do react appropriately, men are just stupid. They go out of their way to use shallow, emotionally distant language with a fraternal, markedly non-feminine tone when an unattractive man pulls one of these stunts. Typically, this is done by referring to him as “bro” or “my dude”. But men just hold on for dear life, convincing themselves this is just how she talks to every guy. If you think for one second they pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 08:08 PM
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It basically means more women for the men that take pleasure in pursuing women Yep. Unless they’re not physically attractive, then they can pursue all they want, they’re not getting shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:47 PM
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All of the ugly ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:39 PM
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If they’re being sexualized by other men, yes, that’s of no interest to us. If they’re being sexualized by women, that’s interesting to us. We often masturbate it for sexual pleasure in the form of something called “pornography”. I promise you, you would. And I take your promise to heart because you know exactly what men think and how they feel. After all, you’re a man yourself. Oh, wait …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:23 AM
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No, you feel discomfort, experience body image issues, and feel dehumanized when you’re sexually objectified. We can’t, don’t, and never will. We’re not women. Again, go be mad at God about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:11 AM
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Yes. Homoerotic imagery generally does not interest heterosexual men. However, what would be of enormous interest to heterosexual men would be enormous amounts of women feeling lustful over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 08:12 AM
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There is no such thing as being “way over objectified” for a man. It could never and would never be an issue. Go be mad at God about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:46 AM
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What would be the downsides? None. Men’s lives would be better because they would stop having hope that continually gets crushed and incrementally dulls their sense of worth and women’s lives would be better because men would finally stop pestering and pursuing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:34 AM
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https://theredarchive.com/archive/242368 Openly says he wants to rape these women. What a trustworthy guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 03:21 AM
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The husbands should be told, if they haven’t figured it out in their own already. What women want from marriage doesn’t require attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:05 AM
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Whatever helps you sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:57 PM
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When women are genuinely physically attracted to the guy, all that “men are selfish, clueless, and do nothing about the orgasm gap” goes flying right out of the fucking window.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:41 PM
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not sure why the results came out this way The gender that is never desired sexually and often feels ugly and unwanted as a result of it appreciates any form of sexual attention from the opposite gender. Who would have thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:38 PM
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a man’s desire for sex and a woman’s desire for sex are 2 completely different things. They’re the exact same. The onion is the ointment is that men want sex with something that doesn’t like them (women) and women want sex with something that doesn’t appear often (Chad).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:35 PM
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I love how they just automatically assume that overweight women would accept them without question. They wouldn’t. They don’t like you, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:47 AM
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The party which holds all the leverage, has nothing invested, and nothing to lose can have as many delusions, double standards, and nonsensical complaints as they want. If they actually cared about you or what you thought or felt, they would behave themselves accordingly, much like they do when Chad breathes in their direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:20 AM
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Yes. She can also say all the cringe-worthy shit she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:11 AM
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Women date men to determine if they’re of sufficient financial standing, not have sex with them. Low effort and cheap dates are a poor way of gauging this metric. The men women seek out are for sex are the ones she sees immediately prior to or after the conclusion of your audition. I mean date.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:08 AM
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Yep. It’s also quite odd that economic constraints and the failures of the capitalistic free market never stopped Chad from getting his dick wet a day in his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:24 AM
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Under no circumstances would I be financially dependent on my husband. Of course not. You’d be stuck if that were the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:10 AM
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So here’s the challenge: if you truly believe men as a group are inherently dangerous, let’s have that debate. But if you recognize this bias for what it is, then stop excusing it. Women do not think all men are dangerous. Women think ugly men are dangerous. It’s just an unfortunate fact of nature that the majority of men fall into that category in a woman’s eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:52 PM
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If I had one, I’d feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:27 PM
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50/50 is the woman taking half the monetary burden, isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:24 PM
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I do. Dick is never worth paying for. At all. Ever. Under any circumstance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:17 PM
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They are attracted to them, they just shame men into believing that if they feel a speck of discomfort or unease about these “male friends” that he’s an insecure, abusive, controlling, misogynistic pig. For a man to be a full and active part of a woman’s social life, he still has to pass the looks threshold. There’s a reason why all those “male friends” she tells you not to worry about are all good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:36 PM
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Good. They’re divorcing them. They’re not accepting any bullshit treatment. So, what’s the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:50 PM
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you're saying other women would be fine with these things? No. That’s why I responded the way the way that I did. i dont think anyone here cares that this happened to me in the past or if it was currently happening. i actually dont get your argument at all. You made absolutely certain to let everyone know how miserable relationships make you, but made no effort to let everyone know you no longer deal with men because of it. This pushes the bullshit “men bad” angle and that you’re being victimize…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 07:59 PM
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You listed reasons why relationships with men are bad arrangements for you. Then, a sensible person would have finished that post off with “And that’s why I stopped dating men”. But you left that part off and just left the list of negative aspects dangling in the wind for people to just assume you’re being subjected to unreasonable treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 07:43 PM
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Yet you didn’t mention that in your post. But if you did, it wouldn’t have had that bullshit “women have it so hard” angle and that’s no fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 07:28 PM
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Tell him no or leave and then go shack up with another man desperate to keep you happy. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 07:17 PM
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I’m glad it happens. It’s proving my point. Women don’t tolerate this bullshit treatment. But somehow, every single woman you know is experiencing spousal rape and an entirely unfair burden of responsibilities in the home and going out and working their fingers to the bone with absolutely zero benefit. That’s believable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:46 PM
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Uh huh. And why does their life suddenly stop being intertwined with their husband when he loses his job?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:42 PM
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Most don’t even though half of all marriages go right out the window and divorce rates in subsequent remarried couples only goes up from there. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:41 PM
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They value and tolerate the bad behavior of their spouses so much that they initiate the lion’s share of divorces. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:28 PM
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Uh huh. And what is stopping from exiting this master-slave arrangement?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:33 PM
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They actually believe personality matters and therefore men must be behaving in a way that is somehow off putting or unsettling and if you just engage with women in a nice, normal, respectful fashion, they will respond in kind. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:39 PM
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For Chad, yes, women will drop all those demands of equal partnership and division of labor and turn into a Saudi slave bride. For the Beta Blueballs who she’s fleecing in broad daylight, no, he is her housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:56 PM
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Do you know a single woman who indulges her partner’s every sexual whim, does all the cooking, all the cleaning, all the childcare, basically living in domestic indentured servitude, and splits everything 50/50 all on top of that without a word of protest? Yeah, me neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:19 PM
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A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted. A woman would rather just endure the mugging or assault than be rescued by a sub-5.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:31 AM
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If they were never colonized, but still developed into advanced first world economies with equal rights for men and women, they would have the same outcome: Happy women, unhappy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:40 AM
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When a woman says that women have the shorter end of the stick on the dating market, she is being biased The men who behave like you described are men with options. These men have options because they’re attractive. Women are only attracted to the same, small pool of attractive men. If these are the only men worth pursuing and the price to pay for pursuing them is bad treatment, then yes, women get the very short end of the stick. You can’t help what you’re attracted to, no matter the potential …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:46 AM
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I searched the word “insecure” and most of the posts were not only acknowledging the woman was being insecure, but that it was understandable and justified. Yet when the male feels the slightest inkling of discomfort about his partner going out to get shitfaced with her girlfriends in venues full of strange men without him, he needs serious psychiatric evaluation, therapy, and to voluntarily remove himself from the dating pool altogether so as to not terrorize women with his toxic personality. R…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:51 PM
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Why do men who clearly dislike women still want to date them? They’re angry because they like women, want to have relationships with women, but are rejected. This creates irritation, anger, bitterness, and despair. You aren’t stupid and already know this, but feigning ignorance and pretending as if men are wildly unreasonable and illogical is much more fun. Do men with these views not think there could be a correlation in how they view women as the enemy and the fact they can't find one who want…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:25 PM
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How does a bad mom effect someone ? My mother, she jumped up and started hollerin' "What'd you kill Jesse for? What'd you kill Jesse for?,” Well, come to find out, I don't think my mother minded what Jesse was a-doin' to her. I reckon that made me madder than what Jesse'd made me. So, I take the kaiser blade, some folks call it a sling blade, I call it a kaiser blade, and I hit my mother upside the head with it. Killed her, mhm …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:35 AM
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I take out my genitals and expose myself to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:38 PM
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There is no resource in the known galaxy more abundant and therefore absolutely worthless to women than dick. It’s not worth paying for, they know it and you know it, if she pays for herself or insists on splitting the bill, she doesn’t like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:23 PM
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And that’s a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 06:13 AM
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Women largely have no civil institutions enforcing their equal rights, and even in countries where a functioning legal system exists, many of them deny certain rights to women. On top of this, even if they do enjoy equal legal status, they’re likely to be less educated or employed and more reliant on men for survival. But in the developed 1st world, including the East Asian economies, when women have complete equality to men, including access to education and the labor market, they don’t need to…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:53 AM
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There’s the whole archive of the Chadfish subreddit: https://theredarchive.com/r/Chadfish This is life-changing for me man. I’m getting less matches and effort than a serial pedophile… https://theredarchive.com/r/Chadfish/quit-it-with-the-underaged-chads-honeypots-if-the.332263 As you can see in this thread, just to see how far they could go before a woman turned down a Chad, they made him underage and women were still willing to sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:42 AM
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There is no fascination. Women are attracted to physically attractive men. Unfortunately for them, those men make up a very small minority of the male population. Standards have nothing to do with it, you cannot force or negotiate attraction. It’s either there or it’s not. And for most men, it’s just not there. So, there’s no order to bring. Their mate selection is perfectly fine. Most men are ugly, so they may settle depending on how large the financial, economic, and lifestyle upgrade will be …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 05:34 AM
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What women want from marriage doesn’t require attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:46 AM
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Yep. They’re more than happy to be a “cum dumpster”. For Chad. Not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:21 AM
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They know good and goddamn well Chad wasn’t going to commit to them, she just wanted to get her back blown out. They start caterwauling about how they were deceived and were promised undying loyalty before getting deep dicked whenever Billy Beta Bucks finds out she didn’t make him wait, but made him wait the entire summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:12 AM
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Your looks are your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:41 AM
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That would be optimal. Mr. Sub-5 builds up his confidence with all this YouTube Redpill bullshit, goes out there, gets either iced out immediately, flaked, or ghosted yet again and then just takes a stroll down to the pharmacy and hops into that disintegration pod from Star Trek and ends it. No mess, no fuss. But that’s bad for business. We need to keep the hamsters on the wheel to keep that Social Security solvent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 02:11 AM
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Yeah, it does. What’s driving this trend? For starters, more women are delaying marriage, choosing to stay single or divorcing in their 50s and 60s. Women are also delaying childbirth or having fewer children than in the past. Not looking. Quite the opposite. That’s still less than half. Yep. And unless this trend reverses, and there’s absolutely zero reason to believe that it will, it will soon be the majority and eventually the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:36 AM
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They say they want to be DINKs - dual income and no kids. That’s awesome they say that, but that’s not actually what they’re doing. Based on Census Bureau historical data and Morgan Stanley forecasts, 45% of prime working age women (ages 25-44) will be single by 2030—the largest share in history—up from 41% in 2018. https://www.morganstanley.com/ideas/womens-impact-on-the-economy#:~:text=Based%20on%20Census%20Bureau%20historical,up%20from%2041%25%20in%202018.&text=What's%20driving%20this%20trend…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:18 AM
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They don’t want men. If they’re settling and marrying, then obviously the man provides something the woman wants and it damn sure isn’t physical attraction or sex. So, why would you expect anything other than a dead bedroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:13 AM
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They are absolutely expecting a fit guy. But unlike men, women don’t mind being single if they can’t get exactly what they want. Men want women. Women don’t want men. They want Chad. And if they can’t get him, they can at least sleep with him, and if they can’t sleep with him, then they’d rather just be alone. I don’t think you quite understand just how frigidly disinterested women are in men, no matter their level of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:47 AM
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there is no real solution Be attractive. Don’t be unattractive. That is the only solution. If you can’t accomplish this, then get a dog for companionship and don’t bother anyone with your creepy sociopathic behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:43 AM
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45% of women between 25 and 45 will be unpartnered by 2030 and the entire developed 1st world is undergoing a massive fertility crisis. Once women began outpacing men in college and the college-educated labor force, they abandoned settling for unattractive men in exchange for financial provisioning and a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:38 AM
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Pointless aggression. I said there’s nothing wrong with women behaving this way, you can’t force attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:27 AM
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No, they’re not. Women are choosing to remain single rather settle with a man who doesn’t meet their standards. They can still enjoy sex with Chad when the mood strikes and it’s never been easier with all the dating apps, but that doesn’t mean they’re expecting commitment out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 12:26 AM
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Women generally don’t want to approach men, they still want to be approached by men. No, they don’t want unattractive men approaching them, which in their eyes, is the majority of men. They have zero problem messaging Chad first. Women know exactly they want. Most men just don’t fit the requirements. And there’s nothing wrong with that, you can’t help what you find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:24 PM
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Who is complaining? The guy is a walking red flag, but he’s handsome. You can’t control, force, or negotiate physical attraction. Why are women supposed to avoid sleeping with attractive men unless they first prove they’re an absolute saint? She’s not fucking the angels of his better nature, she’s fucking him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:09 PM
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We know. Plenty of men are walking red flags on fire, but women ignore all that because they’re handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:44 PM
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Attractive woman wants to have a loyal, committed relationship with you. One problem: She doesn’t have any friends. So, naturally you turn her down.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:08 PM
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Yet when men say something you disagree with, they’re suddenly all lying through their teeth. Why don’t you cast this suspicion over their words when it’s a statement that you want to hear?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 05:06 PM
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You haven’t ventured too far outside of comprehensive 6th grade vocabulary yourself. I have been very clear in the post and every comment that it was my decision to stay home. My ex was not looking for a trad wife at all. I am interested in what other types think. Maybe you should include this in the OP instead of just saying “life happened”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:55 PM
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Again, it shuts out a pool of great people. Men. It shuts out a pool of great men. Men don’t give a shit about a woman’s social circle or lack thereof. And why is it so easy to shut these potentially great men out because they don’t have any friends? Because they’re physically unattractive. Chad never lost a single shred of pussy because no one wanted to be friends with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:39 PM
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So, it’s the SAHM part you’re resenting which by your own admission was your decision. Seems awfully odd to create a thread asking men if they get a hard on from forcing their wives to stay in the house with the kids when you’re not bothered by the marriage and the staying at home part your own decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:29 PM
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Because then I’d be worse off How? The SAHM part isn’t what you’re resenting, it’s the marriage part.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:07 PM
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I hadn’t ever thought about these issues when I decided to become a SAHM You decided this. Would you still have decided to be a SAHM, exact same arrangement, without being married?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:47 PM
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Oh you’re a delulu incel. You see you live in an echo chamber where a whole lot of 3/10 men congregate and make up fictional beliefs. I know you are, but what am I? Truth is most average guys are not desperate. Like AT ALL. Most don’t even care about women or relationships. The majority of men don’t even approach women. Bullshit. Why are dating apps so gender imbalanced with men making up the lion’s share of the user base? Because men are desperate, willing, and interested. Women aren’t. Why? Be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:38 PM
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But that doesn’t mean it’s the only thing that matters for relationships Right. But his career, grooming, and emotional intelligence are of no concern if you’re not planning on romantic interaction. And what determines romantic interaction? Being physically attractive. Men are more likely to forgive things for looks than women. Most hot women have shit personalities but men don’t care. Men are more likely to forgive everything in a woman regardless of attractiveness level because men have no opt…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:10 PM
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doesn’t prove shit. Yeah, it does. It proves all those other reasons you listed are horseshit. Just say dating is hard for women because most men are ugly. There’s nothing wrong with it, you can’t force attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:48 AM
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A lot of them have absolutely nothing going for them. No career, no grooming, no emotional intelligence. Sure. That’s the problem. https://imgur.com/atomic-blackpill-R3yX2As A lot of guys on dating apps are also very unattractive and below looks match of the average women. This is the only reason for your lack of interest. Go ahead and delete the rest of those horseshit reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:38 AM
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You’re assuming trustworthiness, once recognized, is equivalent to attractiveness or at least capable of replacing it. It isn’t. She still doesn’t like you. She knew if she liked you within the first 5 seconds of looking at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:20 AM
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not attractive enough Yes. not trust worthy enough. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:48 AM
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Young men have repeatedly been found in recent years to be apathetic towards voting, with young women in recent election cycles constantly turning out to vote at higher rates than young men. From a societal perspective, it could signal potential danger if young men feel less tied to democracy and feel no need to participate in the democratic process while increasingly becoming disheartened with their social status. Suicide rates among men in 2021 were four times higher among males than females. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:05 AM
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They approach men, but only men they’re physically attracted to, which is basically no one. That’s why men never see it happen and develop all these bizarre theories about taking initiative, approaching, and making the first move. No, they don’t want you taking initiative, approaching, or making any moves whatsoever. If they did, they would give you their attention freely and unprompted and you would need to suffer from a type of autism not yet discovered to not notice she’s giving you the green…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:14 PM
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Dating for women sucks because they attract guys they don't find attractive They also attract men that they do find attractive. The difference is they don’t force these men to jump through the hoops of courting them, they just fuck them and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:06 PM
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The feminist idea that it’s “natural” that dating for men is hard is peak toxic masculinity It is natural. Women don’t like men. There’s talking your way around human biology. There’s two ways to mitigate this: Be hot. The lion’s share of the features which define this were determined the moment the sperm hit the egg and the majority of men lost that cosmic roll of the dice. Provide material or economic benefit. This arrangement shit the bed when women started outpacing men in college education …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:45 AM
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But I have seen the same women who say they only find 1-2% of men physically attractive That’s all women. Women are not attracted to men unless they’re part of an extremely small genetically gifted minority. So, if that’s all they’re genuinely attracted to, through no fault of their own, attraction cannot be negotiated or forced, how is dating supposed to be enjoyable for a woman? It’s endlessly digging for a needle in a haystack.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:40 AM
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in the animal kingdom leaders don't allow people to come and eat up the young people in the pack while they stand and watch. So, you meant it’s okay if the human male alpha kills kids as long as they’re not his? Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:43 PM
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Many women live double lives, concealing affairs behind a facade of loyalty. They are adept at juggling multiple partners, monkey-branching, racking up high body counts while maintaining an image of virtue, and they want to maintain this image, seeing as how they clutch their pearls at being judged for their slutty pasts. Is there supposed to be anything wrong with any of this? They’re enjoying sex with men they’re actually attracted to. And when they’re afraid of being judged for it and being u…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:40 PM
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You made a direct 1:1 comparison to the “animal kingdom”. This comparison falls flat on its face because the alpha literally kills the children in some species. He’s not a terrorist, he’s not a threat, he’s the alpha, he’s there to protect the pride and his own cubs that he made himself, not those of another male, he kills those. There’s no talking your way out of this, just don’t make appeals to nature or the kingdom when you’re trying to explain the behavior of humans in a civilized society.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:26 PM
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What about the current dating landscape where men say their lives are worse being single? Must be that damned patriarchy again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:04 PM
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Nope. He’s the alpha, the top of the pride, and he kills the cubs and plants his superior seed in all the females. Let’s not make anymore appeals to nature and the animal kingdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 08:40 PM
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in the animal kingdom leaders don't allow people to come and eat up the young people in the pack while they stand and watch. The new alpha lion who takes over the pride kills all the cubs and makes his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:40 PM
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I can’t even comprehend the amount of autism it takes to not understand that I was making a sarcastic comment about hypocritical behavior. Well done, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:39 PM
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I know, I just find it mighty curious that women exhibit the exact same behaviors they constantly chastise and shame men about when the shoe is on the other foot and they’re the ones attracted to the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:18 PM
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If the men doing this were exclusively brilliantly talented and intelligent, but just dealt a bad genetic hand, possibly. But as it stands right now, it seems to be creating more of an “old ugly balding short man” drain.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:51 PM
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Yep. And if he’s attractive, he can tell her he just wants to fuck her, not have a relationship. Or he can say the opposite and get that, too. Whatever suits his wants and needs at the point in his life, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:35 PM
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And sometimes people have mutual attraction and fuck each other for the fun of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:30 PM
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Women literally stare down guys they want in real life, they will touch your arms and chest when you approach, laugh at the dumbest jokes. Girls will make things painfully obvious when they want you Yep. Why don’t they view men they’re attracted to as a complete human being instead of a vending machine that dispenses sex when you put in enough “flirtatious attention” tokens?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:28 PM
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How do you account though By the fact this thread is about meeting women and how to speak to them, not couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:35 PM
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What bluepillers never address Are these two universal truths: If you’re unattractive, nothing you say is the “right” thing. If you’re attractive, nothing you say is the “wrong” thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:56 PM
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If the woman doesn’t like the way the man spends his free time, why doesn’t she offer an alternative that they can do and enjoy together? After all, they all claim they wouldn’t touch a man with any negative personality traits and who also wasn’t their absolute best friend in the whole wide world, so it should be easy to suggest something else they could do, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:12 AM
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Can men and women be "just" friends" Let her pack on a good, hefty half a buck and then see how much interest those men still have in “platonic friendship”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:47 AM
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So I ask, what is a "healthy male hobby" and is it true that women are in fact put off by men who play video games? The level of acceptance of your hobby is directly proportional to your level of physical attractiveness. If you’re hot, your hobby could be feeding live babies to alligators and the woman would just say “I’m down. Do you feed them head or feet first?” Though I agree that there’s something off putting about grown adults making video games their main hobby. There’s something so juven…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:46 PM
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That’s not how anyone defines a relationship in this context of this thread. If you said “Women expect the guy they’re giving non-committal sex to to be their best friend,” then that would make sense But you didn’t, so it doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:03 AM
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Some women say that men not caring about this kind of stuff means he doesn’t value her, he is insecure and so on. This is only used to demonize men they’re not attracted to, which is most men. This is to shame them into believing that they don’t view women as “complete human beings” and this is why they struggle romantically. But they magically forget to hold Chad’s feet to the fire about his opinions of a woman’s career, education, hopes, dreams, aspirations, interests, hobbies, and how he feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:37 AM
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No it doesn’t. Women do not marry men because they’re motivated by sex. So this leaves only one other motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:23 AM
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What relationship isn’t based on his income? Women do not marry men because they want their brains fucked out, that’s what the attractive men she texts behind his back are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:09 AM
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Why do you think women hold this requirement more strongly than males? What proof is there that they do? How long would they still be the bestest buddies if he gets laid off or just decided he’s going to stop paying for shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:14 AM
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Step 1: Be attractive. Step 2: Don’t be unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:06 AM
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In a recent survey, 53% of single men said that the fear of being called “creepy” reduced their likelihood of interacting with women. About 18% of all women in the sample and 22% of women in the age 18-25 group stated that they reported someone to an authority figure for approaching them sexually or romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:36 PM
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There is no deflection. I stated my point, you try to argue she would be in just as much mental agony with the Chad babbling about himself. That’s bullshit because there’s a pay off to it which isn’t there with the unattractive male. But above this, a woman made the point originally and then agreed with me. That’s two posts supporting, from a woman, stating and agreeing with exactly the same sentiment. But for who you assume to be the male poster, there’s protest. But for the identified and flai…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:35 PM
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Nice edit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:24 PM
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Okay, now a woman originally made the point yet you didn’t say a word to her. I am very unsurprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:20 PM
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Yep. Chad babbling about himself: “I feel so close to him”. Non-Chad babbling about himself: “I do him a favor by giving him a chance to take me out and he makes it all about himself. Typical”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:12 PM
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Even the accepted definition confirms it's mostly one-sided. My question is why? The woman has leverage because she can always leave and find someone else. The man is replaceable. This gives the woman the freedom to express discontent at the slightest transgression.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:15 PM
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It does indeed. Luckily, women have the patience of a rock whenever the guy in question is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:43 PM
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See, that's completely untrue No, it’s true. and from the bitter tone it sounds to me like you're speaking from personal experience You can watch something happen without it personally happening to you. I know that if you aggravate an animal enough, it will eventually retaliate. Doesn’t mean I go around poking rattlesnakes with sticks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:41 PM
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And those ugly women are more desired than any man of comparable standing could or would ever dream of being.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:00 AM
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It's not being rude or an asshole like you guys think I never said nor insinuated that it did. Nor would I ever say or insinuate that because I’m a somewhat rational person of at least average intelligence which is sufficient to steer me away from absolutely fucking stupid thoughts like that one. No it's not, confidence and charisma will take you a long way, good looking or not. If you've never seen this is action, you either don't go outside No, you don’t go outside. This is what happens outsid…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:39 PM
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Bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:39 PM
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What world do you live in? A lot of women receive zero attention from men! And what world do you live on? Bizarro World? If your source of self esteem comes from how other people see you, you will always have low self esteem no matter how you look or what gender you are. Yet somehow, Chad never lacks self-esteem. Just the damndest thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:34 PM
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I didn’t read anything you said, but you brought up celebrities. Into the trash it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:31 PM
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Yeah, it is. You said some people are do good looking, that they’re terrified of losing their looks because they think that’s all their valued for. Irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:29 PM
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Because as a woman, you’re spoiled rotten with male attention to the point that you can turn your nose up at it. Appreciating attention from the opposite gender is an absolutely alien concept to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:20 PM
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And what does that have to do with anything I said? I said the confidence comes from positive reinforcement. Whatever happens after that is incidental. That’s like asking “How do I become a better footballer?” and being told “Some people are so good at football that they play it professionally and that’s how they earn their living and they are terrified about their careers ending because of a serious injury.” Okay? Good for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 04:15 PM
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Sure. Unfortunately, they can tell within 5 seconds of looking at you if you’re attractive. What’s informing this reaction? Hint: It’s something they can see. They can’t see confidence, so this leaves only one other option.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:53 PM
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No, being confident and ugly is definitely worse because people, in the majority, do not suffer from blindness or significant vision impairment. They can see you’re a hideous ghoul and wholly unfit to be confident. If you’re ugly and reserved or not drawing attention to yourself, they definitely can see why and will understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:47 PM
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Some say career, education, hobbies No. attractive Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:31 PM
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Then maybe the advice should be “you’re just ugly, make peace with it” instead of “just be confident”. Or keep lying to him. Either way, it won’t change anything about his predicament.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:28 PM
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If you were stunningly physically attractive, but had absolutely no self-confidence, women would be bending over backwards to give you that confidence with unwarranted, unprompted, positive attention. And also pussy. The confidence comes from positive reinforcement, not out of thin air. Shocking, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:02 PM
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I know, but there’s no bigger thrill in life for a woman than for the one, single, solitary desirable male picking her out of her gaggle of girlfriends. If cold approaching died off entirely, then that scenario they dream of dies with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 09:47 PM
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I understood it the first time, that’s why I was careful to phrase my rely in the way that I did. Crying and whining that “men don’t owe you anything” falls on deaf ears when the intended audience doesn’t even want most of the male population breathing in their direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 09:44 PM
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Women don’t want any of that shit from men. They don’t even want men anywhere physically near them. Now, Chad, on the other hand, his love, friendship, sex, effort, and respect is always in high demand and is highly coveted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:53 PM
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Do you personally read their DMs? No. You’re making shit up. All you have to go by is what they post about the men messaging them and the overwhelmingly sentiment is this: Whether they’re polite and respectful and just looking to chat or looking for a relationship, there’s just too many men messaging them and they can’t even read all the messages, much less respond to them. That’s why they just keep the DMs closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:22 AM
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I’m going to by what was actually posted (and in some instances, removed by mods to keep up the facade that these women are actually forever alone) and you’re just making shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:01 AM
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The women themselves say they’re pestered by men wanting to chat with them, not rape them. One woman was so “forever alone” that she actually said she was open to chatting with all the men private messaging the women on that sub … strictly on the basis of forming platonic friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 05:28 AM
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Men in these pieces of fiction are handsome. Men in real life are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:15 AM
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about how men won’t stop bothering them wanting to chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:54 PM
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Meanwhile, the men she’s actually attracted to don’t invest an ounce of time or money or commitment and still fuck her whenever they want. A man’s face is how he “proves” himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:50 PM
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I still see the myth being floated around that women on the lonely women subreddit were "flooded with marriage proposals and had to shut down". When it was literally due to 4chan trolls spreading gore on there if you do roughly five seconds of research No, they were getting too much male attention, any other explanation is made-up bullshit. To this day, they still tell their members to disable their DMs to prevent men from reaching out to them and they hurriedly delete/remove threads and comment…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:18 PM
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Men and women are just sex objects to one another Chad: Sex object. Men of satisfactory financial standing: Life support system for a wallet. Men not of satisfactory financial standing: Invisible. FTFY.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:35 PM
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no u
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:10 PM
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Cold approaching dying altogether has the benefit of men not approaching which is what women want. But it would also mean Chad not approaching which is what women don’t want. Quite the pickle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:46 AM
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You’re talking about the Reddit post, I’m talking about the poster you’re replying to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:08 AM
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I'm not into that, so I don't want any woman I'd date to have been into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:07 AM
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if he didn’t ask? So, the problem is that the woman was ready and willing to answer, he just didn’t ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:06 AM
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He said he wouldn’t date a woman who has done that before, he didn’t say he already fucked her and then started a game of Truth or Dare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:55 AM
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But how is that helping anything? She’s not divulging the pertinent information he wants to know. How does he know he’s throwing away purity on a woman if she doesn’t answer him?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:51 AM
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I thought the past is the past and any man who asks is an insecure, misogynist piece of shit who needs to mind his own business?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:45 AM
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We all believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 06:20 AM
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since that's what's attracting them Are you attracted to unattractive women with great personalities?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:14 AM
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Yeah, you did. You said all the man had to do was pick them and the women would need no convincing otherwise. So, now there’s a chance of rejection? And why date? What if he doesn’t want to date? What if just wants to pick her and be done with it? You said men can do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:39 AM
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you'll use sex as a relief against stress and find time to be intimate with your partner. Yep. That’s what all those men she’s texting behind his back are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:34 AM
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You’re both women. You should debate each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:08 AM
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Uh huh. You made it sound so simple and now all of a sudden, there’s all these stipulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:07 AM
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She said attraction is a “unique” phenomenon. You made it sound like there’s nothing unique about it, a woman can just tell which man is her exact equal and she’ll be attracted to him. Then all he has to do is walk over and pick her. This doesn’t sound unique at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:05 AM
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No one said a word about any of that shit. You said women are naturally attracted to their looks match, they need no convincing, to the point that the man can just pick them and the woman will never reject the proposal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:58 AM
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No, men suffer from ravenous lust and desperation. No woman at any level of attractiveness suffers these two afflictions. The barrier entry is for the man to cross, not the woman. What if the man had no job and would be entirely financially dependent on the woman? This man is her looksmatch. She would accept him. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:46 AM
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You date white collar professionals who take an interest in your level of education and want to share “milestones” with you. That sounds perfect. So, the question is, why are still dating instead of being married with children? None of those amazing men have met your standards for desirability as a partner yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:41 AM
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I’m not wrong. I said men are born at the wall. Life’s great for minority percentage who weren’t, but for the other 90%, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:29 AM
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That’s not what u/Economy-Shake-1448 said. Are you saying she’s wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:18 AM
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No one said a word about any of that shit. You said women are naturally attracted to their looks match, they need no convincing, to the point that the man can just pick them and the woman will never reject the proposal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:17 AM
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Yesterday, u/Economy-Shake-1448 said all women are naturally attracted to their exact “looksmatch”, so how is it a “unique” phenomenon? Woman sees man, thinks he’s her “looksmatch”, and then throws herself at him. Sounds pre-programmed with no thought required.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:06 AM
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Those women are like all other women: They’d rather be alone than be in a relationship with a man they’re not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:54 AM
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men don’t find them desirable anymore. There’s always men who find you desirable. The problem is you don’t find them desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:24 AM
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Men are born at the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:03 PM
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Every post, screenshot, member, and account are all fake? Is everything on this sub fake, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 11:00 PM
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Except the attractive minority you would never in your wildest dreams hold to such scrutiny, But the rest? OOGA BOOGA FUCK SEX WANT.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:31 PM
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She’s not fucking your personality and your vibe can’t pay the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:26 PM
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Great. Then why is it rage bait when something suggests that women may compromise their morals a bit to sleep with a very attractive man?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:24 PM
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No, you don’t. You have absolutely zero physical attraction or romantic interest in the overwhelmingly large majority of men, just like all women. What the fuck do you care what they think about your hobbies? You don’t think about most men unless you want to make yourself a victim. Now you employ them for their only use: To be painted as a caricature of sex-crazed lunatics who want to drag women back into the Stone Age. Gaslighting, bullshit, and theatrics. That’s all this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:21 PM
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That’s a sub from this website you’re posting on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 10:10 PM
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https://theredarchive.com/r/Chadfish There’s the whole archive of the sub. It’s all fake?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:52 PM
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Nope. He’s just good looking. https://theredarchive.com/r/Chadfish/meet-chad-the-child-rapist.241965
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:49 PM
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Very reasonable, rational expectation. You sound like a completely normal man, wanting what any man would want. But part of being a normal man is being absolutely invisible to women as a sexual entity. That’s a privilege reserved for a select minority who hit the genetic jackpot. It’s a statistical anomaly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:47 PM
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women care about a man's money a lot and more than vice versa Why is this a bad thing? The alternative is to be judged solely by your appearance. You may one day acquire better financial security, but you’ll never acquire better DNA.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:32 PM
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The concept is a physically attractive man. Women never question these men about whether or not they care about a woman’s education, hobbies, or interests, how much feminist literature he reads, or how many books and films he enjoys created by female authors and directors. Never an issue, never a problem. Yet when Billy Beta Blueballs airs a slight annoyance about his romantic difficulties, he’s shamed endlessly about not viewing women as human beings. It’s just so shameless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:26 PM
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Attractive men are all 2D, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:17 PM
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Chad doesn’t care, either. Where’s his dead bedroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:12 PM
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I’ve read it. I still read it from time to time. Search “FtM regret” and you’ll see this is a common experience: Women absolutely shocked at how cold, unkind, and uncaring people are when you’re a man. And of course, the classic: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=2uz3JJ50erc&t=11s&pp=ygUSSmFtZXMgYmFybmVzIHRyYW5z
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 05:45 PM
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No one here was touched on why that famous racist killer is getting tons of women simping over him and sending him nudes. Which one? This is so common, I honestly don’t know which serial killer you’re referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 12:06 AM
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In this clip a woman shares my opinion that the bar is so low, all a male needs to do is act like a gentleman to get a good girlfriend No, she needs to be physically attracted. Most women find most men unattractive. Why should women waste time on men who are perfectly nice, but for whom they have no attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:21 PM
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Yep. The world is ill-prepared for the global crash in children being born which is set to have a "jaw-dropping" impact on societies, say researchers Why are fertility rates falling? It has nothing to do with sperm counts or the usual things that come to mind when discussing fertility. Instead it is being driven by more women in education and work, as well as greater access to contraception, leading to women choosing to have fewer children. In many ways, falling fertility rates are a success sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:15 PM
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If any of that shit was directly impacting people, absolutely no one, man or woman, would be complaining about dating. But it’s not, so they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:00 PM
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The same men who share the same physical features.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:41 PM
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It’s weird how you’re refusing to listen to men that women are only attracted to a minority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:16 PM
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This makes absolutely zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:14 PM
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Look at all the screenshots women post online about the disrespect and verbal abuse they receive before even meeting men on apps. I then said men post screenshots of them receiving poor treatment as well. I addressed the other half of her post separately. You’re either mentally ill or cannot read or do not read the posts of the people you’re replying to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:50 PM
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That’s why it’s news. If it happened so often that it just became an unfortunate incident like purse-snatching, it wouldn’t cross the headlines. Look at all the screenshots women post online about the disrespect and verbal abuse they receive before even meeting men on apps. Look at all the screenshots of men being disrespected for being 5 and a half feet tall, being broke, being bald, or some other physical flaw. You just as easily engage with men who make an honest attempt to have a genuine con…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:22 PM
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I said nothing racist. That makes their attention and their horniness cheap and meaningless. No shit. Eggs and fertility are rare and expensive. Women aren't going to gamble on sex with men who will fuck the Correct. That’s why they save their effort for the men who are worth it, that being the small minority of Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:14 PM
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No, they’re not. There’s plenty of good, decent men just looking for a girlfriend. Most of them are just ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:11 PM
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Most people are in relationships. Clearly most men have a woman who finds them attractive. Being in a relationship/married does not indicate attraction. You know what women do to men they’re physically attracted to? Fuck them and leave. They don’t demand financial and emotional investment first. All a man has to do to be attractive to me is be physically fit and have nice hair that isn’t too short and frames his face well Plenty of men are physically fit and absolutely atrocious looking. Short m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:02 PM
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Why Fewer Women Use Dating Apps Nope, the minority of Chads monopolize the attention of the majority of the women, regardless if it’s for dating or flings. Why Women Aren't Terribly Interested in Dating Strangers You date people to get to know them. You can discern whether or not they’re worth a chance by a variety of things, namely phyducal anppearsnce and financial standing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:50 AM
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If women have such varied taste in men, why is the instance of them finding one physically attractive enough to bother with romantically so few and far between?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:45 AM
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Women have WAY more varied tastes than this “Chad” stuff lets on. Horseshit. Women go weeks, months, sometimes even literal years without ever laying eyes on a genuinely attractive male. The dating apps don’t help women, either. They’re full of men with “varied” looks which deviate significantly from Chad. And what are the apps? Absolutely devoid of women. If they had such varied tastes, they’d represent at least 50% of the user base. Nope. Never happens. Never reaches equilibrium. I wonder why.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:34 AM
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Yes, women are insanely lustful for the small minority of Chads. We’re well aware of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:18 AM
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Most people are average and achieve nothing of note in life no matter the status of their romantic life. The point is men won’t needlessly work themselves to death if they don’t need to. What’s the most typical cause of the need to do that? Wife and children,
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:33 AM
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I never said a word about the young women until you brought them up out of nowhere a moment ago. I think it’s apparent you’re not going to defend your statement of “here’s some wealthy unattractive women he could have picked”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:20 AM
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Her are some unattractive rich women he could have picked. This is what you said. Why could he have “picked” them? Why do you assume they would want anything to do with a man who is “ugly and trash with nothing to offer”?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:55 AM
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No, if those women choose to hold their nose while that gelatinous blob gets his jollies off for a few minutes in exchange for monetary compensation, that’s their choice. And I’ve asked the same question twice and you won’t answer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:46 AM
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And why exactly would those rich women want anything to do with that fat tub of shit? His only leverage is money and they already have their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:38 AM
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They already know it and other women already know it. It’s not a flex. It’s also the reason no one believes this bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:37 AM
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And why exactly would those rich women want anything to do with that fat tub of shit? His only leverage is money and they already have their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:55 AM
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Not this. Unless these men are attractive and desired by other women, their attention means like absolute dick. This is because any other woman could have it. They just don’t want it, at all, on any level.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:50 AM
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Right. There’s social benefit to “distinguish” yourself in front of other people by willfully engaging with men that other women are absolutely repulsed by. This totally happens and is a real thing. Besides, fat nerdy pick mes exist. Yes, and fat, nerdy women want the exact same men as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:04 PM
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It isn’t misandrist because it doesn’t apply to all men. It only applies to unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:31 PM
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Including big, fat mouthbreathers in anime t-shirts that would creep the fuck out of any normal woman, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:41 PM
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Sure, women love nerds. As long as they’re tall, lean, and handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:35 PM
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Yeah, they’re dying for attention from those big, fat, bearded fucks playing with their Pokemon cards at the GameStop. That’s really something they’re going to brag about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:33 PM
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No, they approach those men by giving signs or signals instead of jsut asking No, they approach just like men do. They treat Chad the same way men treat women: Desperate to get their attention and keep it, trying desperately hard to seem funny, dropping flirtatious hints and fucking them up horribly, agreeing with whatever they say and telling them whatever they want to hear, ect. It’s both cringe-inducing and fascinating to watch them exhibit all the same behaviors they chastise men for when th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:23 PM
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Women's refusal to actively approach men is sexist They approach men, just men they’re actually attracted to. Most men don’t fit this criteria or know anyone who does, so they’ve never actually seen it happen. From here, they deduce that women just don’t actively engage with men and therefore they need to make the first move. Then they get rejected over and over again and end up on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:02 PM
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"Pickmes never prosper" Pickmes are also not real. They want approval from the same small minority of physically attractive men as every other woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:52 PM
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Do you really mean “all” Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:47 PM
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sex, dating, marriage, and relationships. Women have all the power in these things and pretend like they don’t. Men have no power in these things and don’t pretend like they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:26 AM
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If they’re behaving in such a way that’s to show off for their friends or do something unbecoming because they think they’ll get away with it, then sure. They have no interest in you, you’re just a prop in whatever stunt they’re pulling for attention. But a woman, just randomly and out of nowhere, asking for your number or to go out sometime or something equally benign? Suspicious, maybe. Insulted, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:06 AM
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Suspicious, maybe. Insulted, no. You’re a drama queen, miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:04 AM
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No, the other guys you described wanted nothing to do with you, expressing that sentiment with full and open anger. Just admit you’re a liar and you’ll say and agree with anything to make men look bad. There’s nothing wrong with that in and of itself, but lying, and lying poorly at that, is just insulting to the intelligence of everyone on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:14 PM
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No, they’re extremely contradictory. They want your attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:08 PM
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I don't know if I'm just ugly or what but men get angry if I so much as try to start a conversation at the bar. Older men are nice but not men my age. So you went from so hideously unattractive that men actually, literally become angry at you for even trying to speak to them, that’s how awful receiving your attention is, to being catcalled and harassed from the age of 9 until this very moment. Uh huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:02 PM
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My advice - just give up; if you have to ask in the first place then it’s already over Yep. Women know within 5 seconds of looking at you if they’re attracted or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:51 PM
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Male sexuality is beautiful If Chad, it’s beautiful. If not, it’s predatory, perverted, nasty, and degrading.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:48 PM
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I wasn’t defending it. I was explaining that using analogies does not in any way insinuate that the speaker views the listener as being an object. But you thought I was because you can’t read and flew right into the “wOmEn aRe HuMaN BeiNgS!!!112” bullshit that no one was calling into question in the first place by simply using an analogy. Holy shit, lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:13 AM
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Women play dumb when presented with analogies, comparisons, and hypotheticals and accuse the person in question of objectification because they just have no other argument against the logic being used. Already did. And that’s exactly what you did without prompting with an analogy I wasn’t even personally using and a line of logic behind the analogy that I don’t even ageee with. You paid zero attention to what I actually said. Reading comprehension. Non-existent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:52 AM
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Thank you for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:37 AM
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I usually see that in response to men treating or referring to women as objects (lock/key thing comes to mind) Verbatim what she said. Absolutely no one is “treating” or “referring” to women as an object. It’s drawing a comparison to objects to make a point. It’s an analogy. No need to be condescending and act like women are too stupid to know what an analogy is lol Already addressed. Women play dumb when presented with analogies, comparisons, and hypotheticals and accuse the person in question …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:51 AM
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usually see that in response to men treating or referring to women as objects (lock/key thing comes to mind) That is called an “analogy,” where you compare two things which are familiar to the listener for ease of explanation and clarification of the point. That has absolutely nothing to do with literally believing a woman is a lock or any inanimate object for that matter. Women play dumb when presented with analogies, comparisons, and hypotheticals and accuse the person in question of objectifi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 03:24 AM
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https://saidit.net/s/PinkPillFeminism/ https://www.saidit.net/s/BlackPillFeminism/ Forgot the two SaidIt incarnations,
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:48 AM
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Archive of PinkPillFeminism: https://archive.vn/rwohN Archive of BlackPillFeminism: https://www.itsafetish.org/archives/blackpillfeminism/ Plenty of mean, nasty, hateful rhetoric and generalizations. Have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:34 AM
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Here’s 19 year old Demi Moore making out with a 15 year old boy. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=pjl8pK7x24w&pp=ygUZRGVtaSBtb29yZSBwaGlsaXAgdGFuemluaQ%3D%3D Even the kid is uncomfortable and tries to deflect her at 2:35. And she was already married at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:07 PM
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Assigning blame on a such a scale requires more than one level of thinking. Women do not think about men at all, on any level.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:56 PM
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So men have no agency and are simply slaves to their ballsacks. Nope. They have plenty of free will. You know what else they have? Strong libido, ravenous lust, desperation for female company, and an extreme lack of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 05:24 PM
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while rest other guys have to deal with things like responsive desire or woo me Or the latest piece of vaginal nonsense: i’M DeMiSeXuaL~~~
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:04 AM
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No. You’re good looking. You can be the biggest sap or a serial pederast, it makes zero difference, he’s still going to be drowning in pussy. https://theredarchive.com/archive/241965
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:59 AM
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Women are Chadsexual. The alpha/beta horseshit does not apply when you’re physically attractive enough to actually inspire genuine lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:51 AM
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Don't just tell me I suck and give me self improvement riddle. You don’t “suck” and there’s nothing you need to “improve”. You sound like a genuine, self-aware, intelligent young man. You’re perfectly normal. And part of being perfectly normal as a man is being absolutely invisible to women. They are physically attracted to a very small minority of men. If you were born genetically gifted enough to be placed in this minority, then that would be weird. But you’re not weird, you’re statistically a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:29 AM
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What advantages or benefits do women get out of having sex? With men? Nothing. Men aren’t attractive and you don’t enjoy it. With Chad? Everything. Chad is attractive and you enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:43 PM
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Relationships don’t happen unless the woman decides they will happen. Don’t like an age gap relationship? Blame the woman. If she didn’t want him or his shriveled ballbag, she would have rejected him like she does to men every single day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:52 PM
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they just don't have to tolarate male sexuality anymore and it enrages men. Yep. Any man in his right mind would feel a sigh of relief at the openness and honesty which proves everything he was told was gaslighting and lies, as he always knew it was. Slight correction: Why do men think they're entitled to free porn sex when they're unattractive? This is horseshit. Entitlement and expectation are alien to the average man who struggles to get anything from women. Disappointment, irritation, and de…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:20 PM
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Yep. He’s absolutely aware of his worth and that he is indeed worth “keeping around”. He thinks it, he knows it, he feels it, no one knows him better than he knows himself. But to suggest he has low self-esteem because he’s perfectly aware that the other party involved may begin to disagree with his own personal perception of himself because someone better came along is just horseshit. I think I’m too special and precious to ever die. Plus, it terrifies me, but why would anything terrifying happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:51 AM
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Which sounds like someone who doesn't like themselves very much. Or they’re absolutely fine with themselves, but don’t attempt to deny the reality that they are entirely expendable because the woman in question will always have other options. Unless Chad. Then the dynamic is reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:32 AM
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Are men the employer or employee of relationships? Employee of everything regarding intimacy with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:42 AM
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How is this not a scary power imbalance, and what can we as a society do to rectify it? Personal anecdote which means absolutely nothing, but is tangentially related to the topic: Two separate women I know had well known public figures in their DMs. One had one of the most famous rappers in a certain European country thirsting and the other had another well known musician and one of the most prominent television presenters in another certain European thirsting. I never would have believed it if …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:40 PM
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Do you mean romantically? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:50 PM
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MEN DO NOT LIKE OLDER WOMEN And most women don’t like most men of any age, so it all evens out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:32 PM
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Women don’t give a shit about what men say, think, or want. Unless Chad, as it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 07:53 PM
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Okay, your dad makes the book wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:15 PM
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Yet both have more romantic options on both ends of the spectrum and everything in between than any man of comparable standing could ever dream of.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:14 PM
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Young women are outperforming their male peers on every measure of achievement — they do better in school, get more degrees, get better jobs, make more money, buy more homes, and so on. The only thing they don’t do is marry the men they’ve left in their dust The median age of marriage for women in 1960 was 20; now it’s 26, and closer to 30 for those with graduate training The strange thing about this development is that no one seems very upset about any of it — men are either content with their …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:40 PM
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Looks threshold still applies. Physically attractive single father: Responsible, caring, nurturing. Physically unattractive single father: Parasitic opportunist just looking for a free babysitter/bangmaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:23 PM
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Or you feel flattered that a woman, out of nowhere, showed interest in you. Either/or.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 06:17 AM
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She didn’t provide the clip. That’s not silly?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:55 AM
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Where did I ever say or insinuate that women fucking Chad for free was wrong? He was born genetically gifted, that’s one of the perks. Life isn’t fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:12 PM
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Then why are women appealing to men? Because looking at you causes arousal which causes blood to fill the penis and create something called an erection. This is then used to vaginally penetrate the female in question so that offspring will be produced. The sensation of this act can only be described as “orgasmic”. This no one’s fault. Blame human biology for that. And why do men comment on what women are wearing, a lot, good and bad? They don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:02 PM
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You just said men have nothing to do with it Correct. Heterosexual men have nothing to do with women’s fashion. Women and homosexual men do. Who's we? Heterosexual men. Straight men absolutely give a fuck what women wear Nope. We don’t. If we did, we wouldn’t daydream about what you look like underneath all that shit. Your clothes alone would suffice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:54 PM
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Women are appealing to straight men. We don’t give a flying fiddler’s fuck about what you’re wearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:48 PM
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Yes. Men who have absolutely zero romantic or sexual interest in women and therefore don’t know what heterosexual men find attractive. They find other men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:45 PM
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Men have nothing to do with women’s fashion, the trends, marketing, sales, or the industry as a whole. Women and homosexuals are at the helm of that ship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:38 PM
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There is no “game” to up. There is absolutely nothing wrong with men. Most women just simply aren’t attracted to most men. They aren’t supposed to be. Nature never intended for most men to reproduce. The sole mitigating factor was economic provisioning and now that women are doing that on their own, they don’t bother with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:32 PM
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Men, in the majority, are not homosexuals. The point is women will not bother with men unless 1. Economic incentive or barring that 2. Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:56 AM
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You’re TRP, not me. This is the same general trend in the entire developed world: The more economic and educational equity between the sexes, the less women want to bother with men and children hence the plummeting birth rates all across the 1st world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:55 AM
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This is why heterosexuality is horrible for men. It’s the only sexual orientation you have to pay to participate in. Women are outpacing men in college education, the labor market, home ownership, etc. Men have become largely economically non-viable as partners, so most women would rather just not bother or waste their time with men. Unless Chad. He fucks for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:12 AM
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They either turned off by it or they’re not. As we can’t personally poll all 4 billion men on the planet, the sentiment expressed loudly, clearly, and in the majority will have to suffice. The sentiment? They’re not turned off by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:01 AM
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Men are turned off by women approaching them That would be the contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:03 AM
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I don't believe in leagues. I've approached and talked to men of every look, style, shape, size and color. Okay, but … If he's built like a man, you know broad shoulders, average muscle mass, masculine face, etc. I don't think height matters very much. Most women just want the guy to be taller than men. 5'6" is taller than me, so it's all good. Now on the other hand, if he's that height and built like a prepubescent boy (and I have seen men like this) then that's way bad. I feel sorry for those …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:02 AM
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It’s an unfortunate consequence of posting here that you’re forced to engage with every single person without the freedom to choose to just ignore them or not read what they wrote. They should really change that rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:50 PM
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They’re very draining. It’s just not worth the effort. That’s why there isn’t a single subreddit dedicated to discussions, questions, and debates which by their nature will provoke an opposing or argumentative view from the other side. And if there were, you certainly wouldn’t waste time posting there. Oh, wait …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:19 PM
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Non-Chad male with differing opinion which provokes an argument: Weird loner shut-in incel who wants all women literally caged, leashed, and lobotomized.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:33 PM
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Those overweight and obese women aren’t tripping over themselves to get to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:28 PM
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Horseshit. Average men who receive next to zero female attention, especially unwarranted, unprompted, and unexpected attention. This is flattering because it never happens. Now, Chad on the other hand, he might very well feel mild inconvenience for having to turn down yet another one for the 10th time that week.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:25 PM
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If only particular women in particular places feign interest in you for particular reasons, Western women don’t suck, you’re just unattractive. And that’s okay. Most women think most men are unattractive. It doesn’t make you a bad person, it just means you’re a normal, average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:34 PM
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Why do bluepillers act like being a passportbro means having to pay for women Probably because it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:28 PM
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Using the plurals “men” and “women” in no way insinuates that one particular man is trying to fuck all of the said women. Reading comprehension is notably absent among posters here, so I’m not at all surprised I’m having to explain this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:40 PM
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That’s because you’re not terribly bright.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:37 PM
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The gender that struggles with receiving any sort of interest is the one turned off by the thought of being approached. Air tight logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:20 PM
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That's not the same as wanting to fuck everything though No one said that. You're more likely to be social, make friends, form social bonds. No. You’re more likely to develop romantic feelings for whoever is around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:11 PM
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If women do not acknowledge your existence to the point that you feel to make anything happen is to approach them out of nowhere, women are not attracted to you. If they were, they would give you their attention freely without prompting. The problem is most women find most men unattractive therefore they think they’re required to approach and make the first move. Nope, they don’t want you making any moves. If they did, they’d make that abundantly clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:16 PM
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I’m not red pill. It’s a studied phenomenon: The closer in proximity, the more likely you are see and interact with someone which you will eventually develop romantic attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:06 PM
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Sure. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=AR3YR1ZTonc&pp=ygUYRGF0ZWxpbmUgMjAvMjAgc2hvcnQgbWVu
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:52 PM
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Nope. Her claim: Social caliber. My claim/reality: Physical proximity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:36 PM
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He can be ripped as he wants. He’s still an old, ugly, bald, short man. You think Chad has more power than one of the richest men on earth Sexually? Absolutely. Women do not feel genuine lust or desire for Jeff Bald Bezos. Jeff has a magic radius where no woman below the age of 30 is allowed. Therefore he couldn't find such a woman. This age/wall talking point is red pill bullshit. Women have options at any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:34 PM
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She was near him. That’s where men steer all their effort. It takes an inordinate amount of effort for a non-Chad male to secure a mate. He could do a lot of different things to meet women now, including traveling anywhere around the world. He doesn’t. Men fuck who is near them. Where did he meet this melting mannequin who used to bang professional athletes? Amazon Studios. She was near him. She expressed interest. That’s where his effort went. Men don’t give a shit about your “social caliber,” …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:26 PM
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You're telling me Jeff couldn't book a ticket to a beauty pagent and ask the dumbest,hottest bimbo to marry him? Now, yes. When he met his wife, no. Men fuck who is near them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:12 PM
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Again social class is the biggest thing men of a certain caliber care about Nope. Those men don’t give a shit about that. Men fuck whoever is near them. If you spend most of your time surrounded by people of similar ilk, the men will end up trying to fuck those women. Jeff Bezos met his wife because they both worked at the same investment management firm. Imagine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:39 PM
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I know many men who had minimal success in their youth and literally got married to the first woman who showed them interest. This is not settling, this is being grateful for an opportunity. Being grateful for a relationship is a concept entirely alien to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:03 PM
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The double standards around male standards So, which of these are true..? If you’re handsome, none of them. If you’re not, all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:18 PM
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Like, how is the math, mathing? It does, you’re just being disingenuous. Do you make every single man wait? Great, no problem. Do you selectively choose to let Chad blow your back out the same day you meet him? Turn around and march directly into the ocean.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:23 AM
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The reason why there are so many articles about how highly successful career women struggle with relationships is because most males are simply intimidated by her accomplishments. No, men don’t give a shit about her accomplishments. It takes just as much effort to get a CEO into bed as it does the girl working at McDonald’s. Those women have trouble with men and relationships for the same reason all women do: They’re only attracted to a small minority of men and these men are either hard to find…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:19 AM
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Sure. Not having attraction to/sexual interest in anything, woman or man, seems optimal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:10 PM
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It isn’t, but Roy Baumeister blogs on that site and is a published psychologist. https://scholar.google.com/citations?user=ShSEUuoAAAAJ Edit: Baumeister is the one quoted in the article for all the dumbasses downvoting this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:57 PM
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they will not project a personality onto her like women do with handsome men Women know exactly what they’re doing, they’re not stupid. They justify their actions and choices with this “personality” bullshit they always say the man possesses because they refuse to admit that they just think the guy is hot. This would make them seem shallow and therefore somewhat imperfect by allowing their lust to override everything else, including logic, judgement of character, and morality. And we can’t have …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:11 PM
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how do you reconcile that with your heterosexuality They have zero problem expressing their heterosexuality to the fullest extent possible … with an extremely small minority of men who all just so happen to look the exact same. The majority of the male gender? Blobs. Genderless, non-sexual blobs of mashed turnips just aimlessly wondering in the background. This how women view the opposite gender, so it’s not difficult to see why they appear lesbianic and non-heteronormative when compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 07:34 AM
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Chads are men like lions and house cats are both felines
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 12:46 AM
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Do you think the world would be better for women with no men in it? No men? Yes. No Chads? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 12:16 AM
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When he could date normie chubby average women Why is it assumed that these women have any interest in their equivalent normal, average, fat men? Do these women not have standards, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 08:45 AM
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The "Hawk Tuah" girl represents what most men want, and women are angry by this Women don’t give a flying fuck about what men want. Unless Chad. Then they care a great deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:27 AM
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And this was back when OkCupid had a fairly even split of male and female users, so no one can hide behind that “there’s way more men than women, so obviously women get more messages” bullshit like they do with modern dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:05 AM
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Women in that OkCupid study received 8 times as many messages as men across every percentile of attractiveness. This means the most attractive men received about as many messages as the most unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:55 AM
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Why are they drawn to these top tier men to begin with? And why do they leap at every chance to sleep with these men well out of their league? It’s all perception. So, where is this perception that these men are high tier coming from to start with?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:07 AM
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That isn’t stopping men who are increasingly becoming lonely, isolated, and going insane. Again the wars in countries with legal polygamy, and crime rates in areas with high male to female ratios. Yes, sometimes crime and bad things happen somewhere. Also attraction is often perception No, it’s not. “Honey, you’re not REALLY grossed out by my grotesque, swinging gut, that’s just your perception”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:26 PM
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and should absolutely be regulated It is regulated. We can’t harm each other with physical violence or rape without harsh punishment. Deciding who to have sex with harms no one. And no amount of debate or discussion about the benefits of monogamy and foregoing flings with Chad for a committed relationship with an average uggo of modest finances is going to change anything. Attraction cannot be negotiated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:13 PM
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So who wins? Women and an extremely small percentage of men. The answer clearly isn’t to “act according to nature” Everything you described is nature playing out as it should. Women have negative zero in the lion’s share of men as sexual or romantic options, the average man is a beige-colored genderless blob passing by in the background in the eyes of women. Women aren’t supposed to desire most men because most men aren’t supposed to reproduce. The biggest myth is that if you’re a man and you’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:49 PM
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they're fickle, impulsive and poor communicators Is there any reason for them to behave differently? One small infraction, whether real or imagined? Gone. She wants something and you’re not providing it? Gone. Doesn’t feel like explaining herself and it’s just easier to stop talking to you? Gone. I don’t think you quite understand how aggressively indifferent women are towards men. They’re not behaving this way to be rude, that requires an actual emotional response, they just do it because they …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:50 AM
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Cool. Then he got the data from Aviv Goldgeier, data scientist working for Hinge.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:11 PM
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That data in Medium comes straight from Aviv Goldgeier, data scientist working for Hinge.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:22 PM
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Horseshit. Women between 80% and 100% attractiveness receive 37% of all of the likes on Hinge. Women in the bottom 50% of attractiveness still receive 18% of all likes. This is more than all men combined, which receive 14% of the total Hinge likes. Most of these likes (9 out of 14) go to the men in the top 20% of attractiveness. So how bad is it to be a less than average attravtiveness man? The bottom 50% of men combined, which represents 1/3 of the total Hinge users, only receive 1% of the tota…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 12:30 PM
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The women who agreed to go on the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:33 AM
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No. Most men can’t afford to be picky. They’ll date whoever agrees to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:30 AM
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Women choose men, men don’t choose women. Therefore, dating requires no effort on the part of the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:23 AM
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That’s an adjective. So, there’s your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:24 AM
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He found that inequality on dating apps is stark, and that it was significantly worse for men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:22 AM
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-Insert every adjective and descriptive phrase known to man here- women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:09 AM
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Then go get one. Dating apps are packed to the brim with them and it doesn’t even require you to get out of bed. You’ll have one million and one suitors by the end of this calendar day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:06 AM
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No. All men can’t afford to be picky. Or are denying that average men are valueless in the eyes of women? Unless Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:03 AM
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I don’t blame them, either. You can’t force attraction. Just stop with the “men” bullshit. There’s plenty of men who would be grateful to have you. Start saying what you actually intend to say: Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:34 AM
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There is nothing I can do to improve myself in the eyes of men Chad. In the eyes of Chad. Not men. There are millions of men who are desperate for female attention, affection, and relationships who would worship the ground you walk on until the day you die. However, these men are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:19 AM
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If “self-improvement” made you healthier, happier, and more fulfilled, but also made you lose inches in height or made your hairline recede, not a single man would be spewing this “self-improve is for yourself, not women” horseshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:05 PM
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Simps, cucks, and “ass kissers” exist because women receive that attention from men just for being women. Men do not receive attention from women just being men. Unless Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:09 AM
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No, it isn’t. Women receive attention from men just for being women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:55 PM
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Pick Me’s are not real. They want to be “picked” by the exact same men as all women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:49 PM
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https://www.psypost.org/the-devil-effect-homely-men-who-misbehave-cant-win-for-losing The researchers found that whether a man transgressed a social norm was a much greater put-off than whether he was unattractive. Normally women do not feel differently towards a homely man who toes the line. If that same ugly duckling, however, transgresses the boundaries of right or wrong, a magnified or ‘double’ devil effect comes into play. He is then viewed in an extremely negative light, much more so than …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:44 PM
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Women already take the initiative romantically … with an extremely small pool of men that they’re actually attracted to. If you need to chase her, she doesn’t like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 08:56 PM
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No u
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:57 AM
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No u
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:53 AM
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And most women think most men are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:47 AM
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Then they weren’t that attractive. Most men are not nor do they know anyone who hit that genetic jackpot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 03:46 AM
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Okay, well if anyone actually bothered to read the study, including OP, after breaking down the data, 30% of men aged 18 to 24 had zero sexual activity the year prior and the rate of sexlessness doubled among men aged 25 to 34 since the year 2000. Between 2000-2002 and 2016-2018, the proportion of 18- to 24-year-old individuals who reported having had no sexual activity in the past year increased among men (18.9% vs 30.9%; age-adjusted odds ratio [aOR] for trend across survey periods, 1.20; 95% …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:17 AM
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No matter the year and no matter of the statistic, it’s always shown that most guys have sex, and they have sex frequently. In this survey study of US adults from 2000 to 2018, sexual inactivity increased among men aged 18 to 24 years and 25 to 34 years This study found that sexual inactivity increased among US adults, predominantly younger men, between 2000 and 2018, with potential public health implications.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:42 AM
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That says “inactivity”, not “activity”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:29 AM
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Nor did anyone ask you. But here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:12 AM
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Conclusions and Relevance This survey study found that from 2000 to 2018, sexual inactivity increased among US men such that approximately 1 in 3 men aged 18 to 24 years reported no sexual activity in the past year. Sexual inactivity also increased among men and women aged 25 to 34 years. These findings may have implications for public health.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:11 AM
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Irrelevant. When Chad’s involved, all this caterwauling about the “orgasm gap” goes straight out the fucking window.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:50 AM
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Is anything worth it in 2024 as an average guy? No. does that learning curve seem worth it, especially in this day and age? There is no learning curve. There is no learning how to make women like you. Women decide if they like you within the first 5 seconds of looking at you. The biggest bullshit myth perpetrated among men is that you need to pursue women. No, if women wanted anything to do with you, they would let you know it or at least make so abundantly clear that you’d need to suffer from w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 11:35 PM
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They aren’t blind, deaf, and dumb, they’re perfectly aware of their genetic blessings and the rewards it brings them. This is most evident when Mr. Norwood comes to collect, they’re on the first flight to Romania to get that Cabbage Patch Doll hair stapled to their heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 11:24 PM
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It is great to be born a man. Yep. Unless you’re an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 11:09 PM
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no-win situation For men, yes. For women, no. is it normal for a guy to feel insecure if he discovers that his partner uses toys? Yep. Do you think Chad ever gets lectured about clitoral stimulation or the orgasm gap or the need for outside equipment before he gets it in? Hint: No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:15 PM
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We also can be kind about it, gentle about it We are. People exhibit civility, albeit often poorly veiled, when discussing things like this. This is why women say you’re not “her type” rather than just saying you’re ugly, for example. This is what I liken to the way you seem to describe, and perhaps relish, the idea? Nope. Women decide who gets to plant their seed in her “dirt” and relish at the idea of Chad digging it out and ploughing it. As the male, I am nothing more than a passive observer,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:31 PM
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We're not running through the jungle anymore Nope. We’re not. Our DNA still thinks we are, though. Good luck changing that shit anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:59 PM
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I never said it has changed from our hunter days (though this is not true anyways) Yes, it is. Given that evolution is a process and we’re still evolving, we’ve developed adaptations in things such as disease resistance and digestion, but otherwise, no, we’re more or less the exact same. I said that sexual selection probably didn’t have as big a role in how our species evolved The argument isn’t about what appointment of natural or sexual selection played, it’s that when sexual selection is at w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:57 PM
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So you disagree with your original comment now? No. You don’t need to be fucking Einstein to intelligent enough for resource procurement and survival. Understanding cause and effect and trial and error are more than enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:45 PM
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Our DNA that programs our genes and therefore our attraction triggers have not changed one single iota from primitive man until this very moment. And what triggers attraction in women? Smaller, weaker males, of course. No, wait, no, that’s on Bizzaro World, here on earth, it’s the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:42 PM
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Yep. Intelligence isn’t a trait you can see. Physical attractiveness very much is. And wouldn’t you know it, that’s the metric women are dialed into when making decisions about which men to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:37 PM
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No, it’s not true. The leading cause of death among primitive man was childbirth, men always outnumbered women. Women living longer only began around the time of the Industrial Revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:19 PM
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idk why but I dont like her voice and the way she talks That’s the best part. She always sounds like she has a smidge too much spit in her mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:50 PM
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Very reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:49 PM
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I have absolutely zero interest in what’s considered to be “conventionally attractive” or “universally appealing”. For example, everyone I know thinks I’m weird for wanting to ejaculate inside of this woman so deep and so hard that I’d knock one of her heart valves loose. https://m.youtube.com/shorts/pr_495GzF88
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:27 PM
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What’s the alternative? Letting every short, little mouth-breathing hemophiliac with prescription lenses procreate because he’s such a sweetheart of a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:23 PM
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That is the answer. Women don’t like men as much as men like women. That’s biological, natural, and the way God intended it. If you’re a man, women aren’t supposed to like you unless you won the genetic lottery or provide some material gain. If women actually liked men, they wouldn’t be so insanely discriminatory towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:21 PM
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Most men are too weak and not anchored in their own reality to be able to pull this off. That’s the problem as you see it. The problem as women see it is that most men are just ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:04 PM
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Chad receives more pussy than he knows what to do with. Men receive rationed out duty sex and that’s if they’re of sufficient financial standing. If women are going to fuck sub-optimal men, they better be getting something out of it. The system is functioning as it should.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:29 PM
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Why does it sometimes seem that men like woman more than woman like men? Women are nature’s filtration system. It’s their job to only be attracted to the fittest men and flush the rest of the male gender and their shit genes down the drain. It’s not malicious and it’s nothing they can help. While this seems wildly unfair to the vast majority of men, keep in mind: We’d all be cross-eyed and mentally stunted and still living in caves if women allowed every mutant to breed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:57 PM
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I said women are attracted to physically attractive men, not social skills. You said you know ugly guys with wives. The contention that they’re not attracted to them was never challenged nor questioned by stating ugly guys get married, a point I never made to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 07:20 PM
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No one moved shit. Women are attracted to attractive men. Most men aren’t attractive. The minority of attractive of men have no incentive to settle because they’re given pussy on tap without any time, money, commitment, or loyalty invested in return. Therefore, the motivating factor is not physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:09 PM
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I can drive down to the city center or a busy restaurant right now and find 5 couples with ugly men and hot women in 15 minutes No, you can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:03 PM
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Being married doesn’t mean the man in question is attractive or even fuckable. He serves a purpose and it isn’t to provide sexual gratification.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 06:00 PM
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No, that’s not how it works in real life. That’s how it works in Willy Wonka and the Autism Factory. She’s either attracted or she’s not and she knows within 5 seconds of looking at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:40 PM
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Human biology isn’t different in your tiny bubble either. One gender always has leverage in the form of options and it’s never the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:34 PM
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Okay. I was pointing out the woman in question listing positive traits about the man in question is not stating nor implying that she is attracted to him romantically or sexually. You can keep talking to yourself now that I cleared that up for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:28 PM
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The statement, within the scope of meaning I outlined, stands Except it doesn’t. Women are attracted to a wide variety of men, from shy nerds to extroverted social butterflies … as long as they’re tall, thin, and handsome. Liking different flavors of Chad isn’t being attracted to a variety of different men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:53 PM
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If you need four different disclaimers before a statement, then it’s bullshit. Fat men are the same as most men in the eyes of women: Ugly, but possibly useful given a few mitigating factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:44 PM
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No, that’s called having an acquaintance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:38 PM
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And if she ever gave him the password to her phone and social media accounts, that hairy ugly dude and “hot” wife would be broken up five seconds later.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:31 PM
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Humor for adults and children are different. I can’t believe I just had to write that out, but here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:24 PM
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Horseshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:22 PM
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The appeal is that’s funny. Most scripted television in the format of a sitcom is meant to be funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:17 PM
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Sometimes a funny fat guy oofy-doofs his way into a relationship as a placeholder ATM. Women are not attracted to fat men and they’re not fucking their sense of humor. This would be the same scenario for the run-of-the-mill non-Chad without being either fat nor funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:11 PM
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And that’s not attraction nor is it indicative of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:09 PM
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Okay. The thread is about men, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:09 PM
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No, its just priorities and self respect No, it’s precisely what I said it is. Men have priorities and self-respect, but are never desired purely physically or sexually, so if that scenario presented itself, they would naturally feel positively about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:05 PM
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That’s the result of being spoiled rotten by way too damn much romantic and sexual attention. You become bored with it, then resentful of it, then outwardly hostile towards it. Unless it’s coming from Chad, then it’s just peachy keen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:00 PM
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And the women they don’t find attractive don’t want them either. If someone is truly ugly, social skills are all they have to compensate for it. “Oh my God, did you see the social skills in that guy?” said no woman ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:57 PM
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Women want men to improve their social skills “Improve their social skills” = Stop being ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:49 PM
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how would you feel if a woman tells you she finds you attractive for a fling, but not HV enough for a relationship/marriage? Flattered.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:46 PM
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They openly say most men are so awful, that this is the preferable option. Cats are cute and getting shitfaced is fun. If the alternative is settling with a man because you couldn’t go better, I’d go for that option, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:30 AM
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is it over for me according to this book No. Autistic women find men the exact same way all women find men. Automatically discount the lion’s share of men right out of the gate for being unattractive. Realize finding an attractive men is like finding a needle in a haystack. Give up. Either settle, get drafted into Chad’s rotation, or start slugging Sangria and stocking up on Fancy Feast.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:24 AM
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And what motivates this desire to change him? They never seem interested in changing the great big fat fuck who gets light headed from standing up too fast. That guy never gets taken on as a project to help them see he needs to “implement positive changes in his life” so that can see the woman is “wonderful enough to motivate him to change”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:47 AM
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Those women still judge those men by their looks. If they’re of sufficient financial standing, they’ll pretend not be absolutely disgusted by them. That’s the absolute best a non-Chad can hope for: A woman who doesn’t openly express her disgust for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:25 AM
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When a guy goes to prison have you ever heard the term ‘gay for the stay’? Yes. It’s more commonly known as “rape”. These folks think arraigned marriages is how people are supposed to be. And those folks are wrong. Women aren’t stupid or bad at choosing partners. They choose Chad and then let the chips fall where they may.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:21 AM
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They don’t give a shit. If the guy sticks around, great. If not, they still got blown out by a man that in any just universe never would have looked at her twice. Women used to compromise on a man’s looks when men held economic leverage, now that women are outpacing men in college and the workforce, there is no longer any need to compromise. If no Chads want to marry, then cats it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:17 AM
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Believe this if you want, but I am attractive although I never wanted a relationship or a girlfriend young Whatever you need to believe to get you through the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:44 AM
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Would you enter into a long term relationship with a woman who wanted one just as badly as yourself, but physically repulsed you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:38 AM
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They are many attractive guys who want long term relationships, not all of us are fuckboys Women decide if you’re attractive, not you. And they’ve obviously made their decision in your case.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:35 AM
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For not dooming themselves to a long term relationship with a man who deeply desires one, but is also unfuckable?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:34 AM
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They would only date guys who are also interested in this These men are typically not attractive. instead of chasing fuckboys and men who don’t give a fuck about them These men are typically attractive. Physical attraction is what’s taken into account. Whether or not the man in question is a decent person is entirely incidental. There’s also nothing wrong with this. People need to feel attraction in order to enjoy fucking someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:31 AM
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For guys I know broke guys that are players, so it's not money It’s never money. It’s physical appearance. Can a 5'6" bald man get unlimited dates No. Women will be repulsed by him. without being super rich? Yes. Women will pretend not to be repulsed by him. For women Just kinda stand there. Or remain seated. Makes no difference other than whether the man’s ball bag will be in your field of view when he approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 09:10 PM
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There’s a looks threshold you need to pass to be an active part of a woman’s social life as a man such as being a “friend”. If you pass this primary step, then you’ll eventually take the next step when she deems it necessary. There’s a reason all those “guy friends” she tells you not to worry about are all good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:00 PM
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The truth is a lot of these problems stem from policy and economic issues Funny how these policies and economic issues never seem to slow Chad down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:59 AM
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If we're really going to assume this is based on biology shouldn't your inability to find a partner mean your genetics aren't beneficial enough to be carried on and you should just accept that lol? Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:02 AM
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Knowing that women don't want your semen, don't want to be impregnated by you, gives men a subconscious and or conscious feeling that they are not good enough in this world And you’re right, you’re not good enough. The flaw is in believing this is unusual and therefore indicative that there’s something wrong with you. There isn’t. Women aren’t supposed to like you. They’re biologically designed to be nature’s filtration system, only allowing the fittest genes to be propagated. Most men don’t mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:59 AM
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“There was only one guy in the room that was 6ft+, Muscular, Chiseled Jawline, etc Yes. Good genes. “There’s only one guy in the room that actually works out and takes care of himself” No. Working out doesn’t change your height, build, or bone structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:48 AM
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Horseshit. The minority of attractive men who women smother with pussy don’t get commitment because they’re “jerks” or have “zero personality”. They don’t get commitment because they don’t want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:23 PM
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Men who actually believe what women say.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:39 PM
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They just acknowledged the grievances that most men have are legitimate, correct, and accurate, but because they’re women, no one is calling them entitled, incel pieces of shit. The Vaginal Hivemind and their Blue-Pilled Simp Muppet Brigade are predictably silent. These women are not wrong in the slightest. The overwhelmingly large majority of the male gender disgusts them physically. It’s a win-win. Get Chad or get cats, both are preferable to settling with a normal man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:37 PM
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Yes, it has nothing to do with you either completely lacking any reading comprehension or just seeing things that aren’t there because you want to be mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:52 PM
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Yes, sometimes women, much like other human beings, lie to make themselves look better or to give the illusion they have the logical/moral high ground. This behavior is otherwise known as “completely normal”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:17 PM
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And also “nasty shit” is a descriptive phrase, I’m ascribing no moral dimension to it like you are because you’re just looking for a reason to be mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:13 PM
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That’s to illustrate that women are gaslighting men when they tell they’re not interested in sex with most of them because men are terrible in bed, they don’t know what they’re doing, orgasm gap, etc. The actual reason is that they think most men are ugly. When they’re actually attracted to the man in question, orgasm gap be damned, they’re going at it with gusto.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:11 PM
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How is enjoying sex with attractive men “abuse”?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:56 AM
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For the doomers, the anatomy always works the same and the best thing you can do is just not be fat and be willing to please someone else. Women will do the nastiest shit imaginable with absolutely no benefit to themselves or any concern for their own “pleasure” as long as they’re doing it with Chad. All that bitching about the “orgasm gap” goes flying right out of the window when they’re actually attracted to the man in question. They’d rather have that than any average, unattractive male who “…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:34 AM
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I had to give it up a decade ago because no woman could ever compete with my fantasy. Spoken like a true non-man. Pussy’s pussy. There is no mental compare and contrast moment before jumping at the opportunity to get up in those guts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:57 AM
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I don’t even think that sex and relationships is what they really want anyway. I think what they want is status and adventure Yeah, that’s exactly what we want. While we’re pumping one off, we’re thinking of adventure and status, imagining how it must have felt being a Conquistador in the 15th century, leaving our hollow, fruitless lands behind and finding untold riches in the New World where the natives revere us as White God-Kings. Nothing gets those balls brewing more than thoughts of status …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:24 AM
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An uncomfortable truth for men is that we can EASILY get dick if we want and getting a relationship only takes a little bit of effort. But especially since it's been thrown at us our whole lives, we usually don't even want it We know. That’s not the problem. The problem is whenever we address this, women behave as if we’ve just escaped from the fucking whacko basket and that getting a relationship is just as hard, often harder, only models and celebrities have orbiters, and that they live lives …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 11:37 PM
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No, you can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:47 PM
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The male posters are sometimes overly cautious and tip-toe around what they really want to say and this comes across as full-blown autism because no normal speaks in such a way. The ones who just come out and say it sound completely normal, saying what we’re all thinking anyway as is to be expected under the protection of the anonymity of the internet. Then they get banned and the hyper sensitive, egg-shell walkers grow larger in number giving the illusion that everyone here needs to be in the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:08 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:37 PM
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Being an unattractive male leads to complete invisibility. Rejection not necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:39 PM
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This happens to a lot of guys in their mid to late 20s to early 30s. Women they haven’t spoken to in years come out of the woodwork because they’re ready to settle, can’t lock down any men they’re actually attracted to, and run through the mental roll-a-dex of “guys who were nice enough, seemed intelligent, and weren’t absolutely god awful to look at”. Don’t fall for it. Lie and tell them you deliver pizzas and watch those “let’s catch up” texts suddenly stop rolling in just as quickly as they s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:25 AM
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No. What no one believes is the gender with unlimited options would ever settle for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:24 AM
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Uh huh. They’re dogshit ugly and are abusive on top of that. Yeah. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:15 AM
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No, I’m not a homosexual. But I’ve never seen a gorgeous man bring turned down because the woman in question was depressed. On the contrary, it’s when the Beta Blue Balls she settled for finds out she did shit with attractive men that she never allowed him to do with her that they trot out the “I was depressed and didn’t realize how toxic the guy was being” horseshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:13 AM
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Funny how none of those horseshit excuses ever come up when Chad wants his bag drained.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:02 AM
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Most men are good, decent people desperate for female companionship and would be absolutely terrified of doing or saying anything that would jeopardize a relationship should they ever luck themselves into one. Most men are also ugly to most women. This should tell you these men you swear up and down are ugly aren’t actually ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:01 AM
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You’re right. It stopped because he became too good looking, too in shape, and too well-hung.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:57 AM
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Talking doesn’t suddenly make your ugly husband fuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:49 AM
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Jk no one would breed with something that thinks like this Yep. Unless they’re a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:11 AM
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40% to 60% of personality traits are heritable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:24 AM
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If financial independence for women is all it takes to completely nullify all interest in men, that should tell you something. If that’s all it requires to write off 90% of the opposite gender, that should tell you women just biologically aren’t attracted to most men. And is there anything more vagina-drying, effeminate, and gross than a man who insists on 50/50 because he really believes he should be loved for who he is and not what he has?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:46 AM
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LOVE WOMEN WHO LOVE YOU And that’s never happening if you’re not Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:57 PM
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Well, we just covered ugly so cross that one out. Ugly and unattractive are different indeed, but for the purposes of attracting women, they’re basically the same. You might as well just be invisible. And being broke doesn’t have anything to do with how you look, so that one is invalid. Since most men are unattractive, this is the only bargaining chip they have left with which to compensate. There’s far more women in relationships with men they’re not physically attracted to than there are attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:16 PM
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LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 10:51 PM
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Better looking and still short, broke, ugly, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 10:50 PM
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Bitter revenge fantasies. Nothing more, nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 10:44 PM
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Most men are good and desperate for female companionship. Most men are also ugly. Striking the balance between good looking and good behavior is far from replaceable, not just good men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 10:34 PM
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women are less likely to remarry after divorce, so men actually replace women more often than not. Because it’s less likely to find a man who she can monkey branch to. She surpassed the last one, he outlived his usefulness, now the next rung on the ladder had to be drawn from a smaller pool of men. But continuously choose not to. It almost seems like men aren't this great source of emotional and material prosperity that you make them out to be. If women regularly choose being poorer and single o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 10:32 PM
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Nope. Already explained how it started and why it changed. Women admitting that Chad gets away with bad behavior is a relatively recent development while that “the bar is in hell” bullshit started years before.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 10:10 PM
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Women initiate the lion’s share of break ups and divorces. They replace men constantly. Chad isn’t easily replaced, and unfortunately in most cases, isn’t replaceable at all if she were lucky enough to lock him down to begin with. Women deal much better emotionally than men being single and sexless They can stop being single and sexless at any moment of their choosing. This brings emotional satisfaction knowing it’s entirely up to their choosing. so to suggest being hot alone is enough to make t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 10:08 PM
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just having duty sex only and not willing to be open-minded to be more passionate? If this even happens to begin with or happens with such frequency that it needs to be addressed, she’s not attracted to and likely never was. Either leave or get used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 10:03 PM
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Okay, but when they say something that would get a man absolutely crucified for saying, they just keep their mouths shut, proving it’s not what’s being said, but which gender is saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:59 PM
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Hence the operative word “could”. Many women are more than happy to settle with absolute shitbags because they’re hot. And when 90% of the opposite gender is physically unappealing to you, that’s a risk you’re willing to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:57 PM
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Women would just be prostitutes Or they could just enter into completely hetero-normative relationships, have all their needs, wants, and desires met while avoiding the social stigma of being an actual escort or sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:53 PM
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I also want to feel desired in a relationship and if it’s not 50/50 then it feels like I’m just trying to chase and convince her/win her over while she doesn’t offer me anything back You, as the male, are instantly replaceable and therefore expendable. This is rarely true in the reverse. Therefore, the onus is on you to give her what she wants and that’s material, not emotional or sexual because that’s not why women enter into relationships with men since most men are hideous in the eyes of most…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:33 PM
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Outside of this sub How convenient. Look at all the hate for certain celebrities or female politicians Yeah, that’s the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:15 PM
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a random man is seen exhibiting unsavory behaviors then he simply isn’t seen as an option. Therefore, the rhetoric is not about all men. This is precisely why the goal posts had to moved. Once women realized there was no good defense against the argument these behaviors were only tolerated because the men in question were attractive, they just switched up to the “relationship” bullshit. If one single woman had found a good argument against the original criticism, it would have been parroted ad n…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:14 PM
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call out poor behavior from their own gender I don’t even think it needs to venture into outwardly and objectively poor behavior. I’ve never even seen two women disagree with each other. Look at this sub: It’s a debate sub. It’s on the internet and completely anonymous. And yet whenever a woman breaks ranks and doesn’t give the typical female response, she’s either ignored or outright accused of actually being a man. I’ve seen woman say 100% blackpilled incel talking as statements of fact, but w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:37 PM
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No. Describing typical female in-group bias with a flippant phrase does not imply hate. You’re just looking for things to be angry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:41 PM
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We know. This is code speak for “there’s not enough Chads”. Blame God for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:26 AM
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Bullshit. It was a criticism aimed at men as a whole who exhibit behaviors deemed unsavory before even meeting, during the date, or immediately after. Once the vaginal hivemind couldn’t figure out how to circle the wagons and countet the criticism of “There’s plenty of good, decent men you could date, but they’re invisible to you because they’re too ugly, short, or broke,” the goalposts switched to “Oh, we were talking about once you already have a relationship”. Shameless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:24 AM
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For that reason they dont really need a man anymore like they did in the past. Yet when men accrue opportunity, education, and wealth, the first thing they think about is obtaining female companionship. If all it takes is financial independence for women to completely lose interest in men, shouldn’t that tell you that women just aren’t biologically attracted to men? (Unless Chad).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:04 AM
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That doesn't imply that dating is easy Yes, it does. just that if you're already with Chad then he can get away with a lot of unfortunate behavior FTFY.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:38 PM
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Where did you get this idea from? That “the bar is on the ground/in hell” horseshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:00 PM
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The only real male “friends” a woman keeps are men she’s physically attracted to on some level. There’s a reason why all those male “friends” she feels you not to worry about are always good looking. “Friendzone” means you’re ugly and she didn’t want to hurt your feelings, so she just made some shit up about wanting to be just friends. She doesn’t. There’s a reason she ignores your texts or just responds with the enthusiasm of a corpse. I know, every woman here is BFFs with a guy who looks like …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:05 PM
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Should men who are average commit to women for a relationship? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:02 AM
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If you’re of higher academic achievement and earn significantly more money, that makes you perfect marriage material. It doesn’t make you fuckable, but that’s not why women marry men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:41 PM
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No, it very much isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:40 PM
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Yep. Not every man can be Michael Phelps, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:39 PM
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I know. A very specific proportion of lean muscle on a very specific body type that most men do not and can never possess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:55 PM
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Women liking muscles doesn't mean they like pro-bodybuilder physiques. This is what you said which is the crux of the issue. Men think “muscle” means exactly what it sounds like: Big, built, bulging muscles, like the build of a wrestler or bodybuilder. Women think “muscle” means low body fat and lean features, like the build of a swimmer or a diver.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:47 PM
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No shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:32 PM
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Height Yes. beard No. face Yes. tattoos No. emotional detatchment No. Muscles No. Tall, lean, handsome. That’s all they want. Beards are disgusting, tattoos are irrelevant, and muscles only matter to men, not a single woman can name a single bodybuilder.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:49 PM
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The solutions are all unethical. However, if the shoe were on the other foot and women proposed the exact same solutions such as lowering one’s standards a tad, the questions of ethics would go flying right out of the fucking window.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 12:34 PM
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I did answer the question. If this were having an overwhelming negative impact on young women the way it is young men, it would be recognized as a problem and as with all problems, solutions would promptly be suggested.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 12:28 PM
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It’s not really about whether the current situation is working It’s like everything else in life: It’s not a problem unless it begins negatively impacting women. And the way things are working now is positively impacting women. No more pretending to be attracted Mr. Beta Blue Balls in exchange for him paying for your entire life, just get your own bag up and fuck Chads from the apps when the mood strikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 12:17 PM
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Nope. Other men are every bit as judgmental, mean, and nasty as women are and just as likely to think a guy is weird for trying to make a friend. The reaction oscillates between “Is this guy gay or crazy?”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:07 AM
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Anyway why do you assume that all trans men feel isolated and miserable solely for being men? Because men are isolated and miserable solely for being men. No one listens or cares when men say this and if they do, they’ll find one million and one ways to snake it back around to being the collective fault of men from beginning to end. Here’s one of your buddies finding out the hard way: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=2uz3JJ50erc&pp=ygUXSmFtZXMgYmFybmVzIGxvbmVseSBtYW4%3D
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:53 AM
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You cannot connect with a picture Unless it’s Chad. Otherwise, you could, shit, I don’t know …, read their bio or start chatting with them? Just throwing that out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:43 PM
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It's not a myth though is it, dating apps are clearly a sausage fest Why? If women were so interested in dating average men as this idiot claims, they could easily find one on the apps with absolutely zero effort on their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:25 PM
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I love how a literal grifter is never called grifter as long as he says all the female-approved muppet talking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:23 PM
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Horseshit. The leading cause of death was always childbirth. There were always more men than women until roughly the time of the Industrial Revolution. And yet most men still ended up as genetic ends. Most women didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 03:40 AM
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The average man could beat the shit out of a woman and rape her if he wanted. Yet twice as many females as males reproduced throughout our history as a species with the discrepancy growing to absurd levels during certain bottlenecks. That should tell you violence, especially against the child-bearing gender, was never without consequence. If it were without consequence, every cross-eyed and mentally impaired or otherwise genetically unfit male would have left behind a brood of children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 12:00 AM
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Men are still violent and scary. Women are still independent and self-sufficient. Either men aren’t violent by and large or women aren’t capable of being independent and self-sufficient by and large. Or you’re just full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 11:40 PM
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And that’s certainly what always drove the institution of marriage: Ability to provide a comfortable standard of living? No. Prowess for physical violence and destruction? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:03 PM
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Nothing has changed, women are just honest about their intentions and desires because they no longer need to keep the hamsters on the wheel or dangle the carrot. They’re blowing men out of the water in every metric from higher education to employment to home ownership. Men have essentially lost the one bargaining chip they ever had: Financial security. They’ll figure out a way to keep civilization going. They’re going to have to since men are approaching near obsolescence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:41 PM
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As women continue to outpace men in college education and the labor force, the amount of men who can stand on equal footing or higher with a woman becomes smaller and smaller. It doesn’t matter if men quit or not. They’ll eventually be either fired or deemed not qualified for the position to begin with. (Unless Chad).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:29 PM
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Are women really wary of men? Only if they’re unattractive which is what most women consider most men to be. So, practically speaking, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:23 PM
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If your logic was true no woman would be loyal because we almost always have an abundance of options. And when your gender is not physically attracted to the majority of the opposite gender, this means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:56 PM
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No, there is. You know it’s true because admitting the truth makes women seem incredibly spoiled by their choices and absolutely amoral by who they actually chose and for what reasons. No one is expecting you or any woman to be honest about this shit. It’s fine. We all understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:51 AM
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There’s nothing “incel” about the truth. That is the conundrum most women who break ranks from the vaginal hivemind “we’d rather die with wine and cats than be with a man we’re not attracted to” response to having a relationship. You can have a man you’re attracted to, but since all women are attracted to the same small pool of men, that means every other woman is attracted to him as well. (and that’s assuming you even succeed in locking him down to begin with) You can have an average man who ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:43 AM
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You know good and goddamn well there are one million and one men who would worship the ground you walk on until death do you part. But you won’t date them because they’re ugly. Such is the conundrum of Chad chasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:36 AM
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I just don’t understand it. Am I crazy and are these men seeing a totally different reality to what I’m seeing? No, there’s nothing wrong with you, your appearance, your height, your personality or any other that other bullshit. You’re completely normal. Most women just simply aren’t attracted to most men. The attractive minority of men: More non-committal pussy than they know what to do with, The unattractive majority of exemplary financial standing: A wife who isn’t attracted to him, sucks him…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:24 PM
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In order to be a woman’s “friend,” like any man in any woman’s social sphere, there’s a minimum looks threshold that has to be passed. Most men don’t pass that threshold. Thus, most men don’t have female friends. It has nothing to do with hobbies or interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 10:41 AM
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He can lower his standards all he wants. Doesn’t mean the women will.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:27 PM
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There is a lot of variety in what women find attractive but that is effectively a constant. Different flavors of Chad is not variety. You can look like an ex-con or a non-threatening nerd as long as you’re tall, lean, and handsome. ”chubby chasers" don't really have a female equivalent. Yep. Even over at that stupid fucking “ForeverAloneWomen” sub everyone points to as proof that unattractive women have it just as hard, they had two threads recently about needing physical attraction before anyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 10:12 PM
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The amount of men saying “no” is hysterical as if their chances would be any better with an overweight/obese woman than a woman of normal weight. Fat girls have standards, too. And most men don’t meet them, either. Bonus: Here’s plus-size models admitting they won’t date fat guys. https://whisper.sh/stories/09e9086b-03de-4087-ad5b-7f003ce2c312/Plus-Sized-Women-Admit-They-Arent-Attracted-To-Overweight-Men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:51 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 10:09 PM
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The point wasn’t that the apportionment still wasn’t enough, it was that it will never be enough because the problem, at its core, is that wife is just simply not attracted to her husband. Lack of attraction leads to resentment and resentment leads to hatred. Of course, as civilized people, women try to point some other bullshit reason like not doing enough chores as to why they want to leave their husbands because admitting the truth sounds incredibly coarse. Women have zero problem with Chad l…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:04 PM
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Horseshit. Men are attracted to most women. Women are not attracted to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:43 PM
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If I insinuated women were wrong for approaching men they were physically attracted to, that would be a great “gotcha” bullshit game to play. But I didn’t, so it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:47 PM
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Yep. You’re not practicing ESP or telepathy to read their minds or scan their souls for impurities or flaws. You’re looking at their faces. Just like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:33 PM
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chads They like these. men They do not like these.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:55 PM
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No, physically attractive. Women are just as shallow as everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:52 PM
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Men have to approach first You didn’t mean what you wrote yourself? After she’s made it clear she’s attracted to you, you’re free to proceed however you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:51 PM
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The dirty little secret is women will make the first move or at least go out of their way to make it obvious she wants you to make the first move if she thinks you’re physically attractive. Most men have never experienced this or have actually seen this happen because they’re not at that level of physical attractiveness or know someone who is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 05:11 PM
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They hyperfocus on men allegedly not doing their "fair share" of housework Men are participating in maintaining the household and child-rearing more now than at any other point in history and women still aren’t satisfied. Your wife doesn’t hate you because you left dirty dishes in the sink, she hates you because she’s not attracted to you. And she likely never was.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:39 PM
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-WHOOSH-
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:09 PM
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Funny how not a single woman crucified you for saying this like they would if a man said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 11:46 AM
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Cool. Thst wasn’t the criticism. I described the criticism offered as an explanation to why men don’t get dates with women. Once that criticism was shown to be bullshit, the goalposts were promptly picked up and moved. In your case, it’s now been moved to “Yeah, they act normal now, but what about a week from now?” It would be much less exhausting to just tell the truth: Most men don’t get dates because most women think most men are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:51 PM
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The polite comment was about how the guys interacted with her... I guess? Women claim men on dating apps are sex-crazed maniacs who can’t hold a normal conversation and immediately start sending photos of their genitals and that this is why they don’t get dates with women. Patently false bullshit, so after this experiment, the goalposts had to be moved.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:35 PM
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Both the Oxford English Dictionary and the American Psychological Association disagree with you. I already know you don’t give a shit, just throwing that out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:37 AM
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Because none of that has anything to do with personality. Personality is defined by traits, qualities, and characteristics that are entirely dependent on your inner personhood, hence the term “personality”. And that’s still gaslighting bullshit. Chad can be the most pedestrian, boring, non-alternative “normie” and women will still be colonizing his dick and ballbag.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:49 AM
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that's not what makes you go on a date, attraction is No shit. Doesn’t seem to stop the gaslighting and bullshitting that if you’re a failure with women, your personality must be to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:40 AM
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Deny physical attractiveness, blame failure squarely on personality. Find a bunch of dates with pleasant, polite men in 1 calendar day. ”Yeah, but they’re ugly.” It’s just so shameless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 10:02 AM
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if they can find a Chad who picks his own socks up off the floor and can wash dishes without being told to do so Fixed that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:45 PM
0

Yeah, you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:55 AM
1

Women don’t care. Unless too many Chads start shunning women in favor of porn and video games. Then they’ll care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:31 AM
4

Perfectly normal women don’t like sleeping with very attractive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:14 PM
2

and they are more important than looks Why? Women aren’t fucking your social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 07:55 PM
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To men that were inadequate mates, and therefore the cause of the genetic woes No, to men who were among the fittest minority capable of impregnating and protecting and providing for multiple women at once. Any man could easily rape any woman, but those who couldn’t challenge the fittest men couldn’t and therefore didn’t. If women didn’t selectively breed with this fit minority in our pre-modern era, we’d all be cross-eyed, mentally impaired, and immuno-compromised. Humans are a matriarchal, com…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:58 PM
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Most men throughout the history of our species did not reproduce. Most women did. This idea of monogamous marriage, taking our entire existence on this planet to be length of my arm, would barely cover the tip of my pinky nail. It’s made absolutely zero bearing on mate selection on a biological level. Nothing changed: AF/BB, cheating, hypergamy, women were always playing the same games. The only thing that changed was male delusion. Now that that’s being beaten out of them good and proper, we ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:40 PM
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Cool. Things that make men attractive are genetically determined. And most lost that role of the dice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:15 PM
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You can’t say women are only afraid of ugly men without then clarifying that since the overwhelmingly vast majority of men are unattractive to most women, when they say they’re afraid of men, they aren’t being deceptive. They’re not conveniently leaving out Chad. They’re not even considering Chad when speaking about men in general because Chads are outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:17 AM
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Women are afraid of ugly men. Women think most men are ugly. Ergo, women are afraid of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:11 AM
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and we know he is a good egg. If the Blue Pill “Work on Your Personality” Muppet Brigade doesn’t tear your asshole inside out like they would if a man said this, I’m going to be very unsurprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:21 PM
1

Yeah, they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:57 AM
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I’m glad they don’t. Whenever a woman lets the mask slip and inadvertently proves every single incel and blackpill belief correct, other women never crucify them like they would if a male poster wrote a similar post. What do they do instead? Nothing. It’s fucking crickets. The fact that they’d fight with a man from today until tomorrow, but fall completely silent when women say it proves frustrated young men aren’t wrong about a single grievance they express regularly on this board.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:54 AM
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Emulate the men in those pieces of fiction all you want, but if you don’t look like them, get ready for a restraining order.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 10:51 AM
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They don’t know because they don’t need to know. They’re choosing you, you’re not choosing them. Look at this sub: For every one woman who makes a thread asking a question for men, there’s one million and one men making threads asking questions for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:33 AM
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Which you also decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:01 AM
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Which you also decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:14 PM
11

Yep. Go to any dating app of your choice. You’ll have ten million suitors by the end of that calendar day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:18 PM
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Because you could choose to stop being single whenever you feel like it. Being in prison wouldn’t be so bad if you could walk right out the door whenever you wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:12 PM
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Why? He fucked other women. That’s what he liked to do. It’s unreasonable to expect him to stop doing what he likes just because he’s in a relationship with you. That’s the exact same logic behind your original argument. If it’s logically inconsistent, then it’s a fucking stupid argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:58 AM
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He liked to fuck women who weren’t you before you met, too. Therefore, you wouldn’t have a problem if he still fucked other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:53 AM
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Yes, that’s exactly what she’s saying. This is the vaginal hivemind response to skirt responsibility on their part when the Jonah Hill bullshit blew up. By this logic, whatever you did before entering a committed relationship is and should always be perfectly admissible. For the woman, not the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:20 PM
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Nope. Women are the ones fucking them non-stop, not us.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:40 PM
11

That paranoia is notably absent when Chad shoots his shot. Funny how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:21 PM
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It’s understandable. I have no problem with it. I wouldn’t call it “wise” or “intelligent”. You don’t need to be a Rhodes Scholar to put that plan together and realize it could have some legs under it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:09 AM
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Children? Sometimes. Chad? Always. Men? Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:49 AM
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There’s nothing wrong with it. It’s perfectly natural. The problem is women telling the unattractive 80% that the reason they struggle is because they’re misogynistic pieces of shit who hate women and don’t view woman them as human beings and their toxic, desperate, entitled personalities are to blame. We both know that’s bullshit and that the truth rarely stretches beyond “Because you’re ugly”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:22 PM
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You aren’t entitled to marriage. Work on your personality, shower, touch grass, treat men as equals and human beings instead of video game obstacles to be conquered with marriage as the reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:18 AM
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Age-gap relationships exist for the same reason all relationships exist: Because the woman decided it. If she didn’t want the old man in question, she would have had zero problem telling him and his swollen prostate to fuck off just like she does to men her own age every single day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 06:25 PM
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Then use whatever example is relevant to you that would you make you question his motives and level of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:03 PM
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Because being non-sociable detrimentally affects males more than females when it comes to being sexually desirable/available to the opposite sex I was part of the last generation to be raised pre-internet and instead of computers, I just stared at the television all day and night. I hated sports and I never did any extracurricular activities except ride bikes with the other kids and destroy other people’s property late at night when we got bored trying to find an unscrambled pornographic channel…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:10 AM
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Nope. There’s one million and one motherfuckers behind that one who will happily tolerate that bullshit if the man in question does the sensible thing and walks away. Women never lose. That’s for men to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:13 AM
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No, it absolutely does. If a man you were interested in spoiled another girl rotten, but demand you go 50/50, you’d wonder why he’s not generous with you like he was with her and if he tried to lecture you with some nonsense about holding you to a higher standard, you’d say “Fuck that bullshit” and leave. And rightfully so. Allow men access to this knowledge that they’re being treated markedly different, and objectively worse, and allow them the same opportunity to rightfully walk away as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 08:20 PM
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Bullshit. If you liked him as much as the Chads you fucked, you’d treat him that way. But you don’t. And that’s okay. Just stop lying about it and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:17 PM
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No, they don’t. No woman ever just says “I’m putting you through shit I’d never dream of making Chad go through”. It’s always about how they were different people back then, toxic relationships, the brain doesn’t stop developing until they’re 50 years old, they had to be diagnosed with depression, had bad self-esteem, and one million and one other excuses. Just say “He was hot, you’re anything but, get ready to put in inordinate amounts of effort for all this shit I gave away freely and happily …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:21 PM
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The problem is women lying about it. What do you think “it” is referring to in this context? Lying in general? Lying to me specifically? Come on, Reddit. I know this is where reading comprehension comes to die, but holy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:10 PM
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It makes perfect sense. Everyone who isn’t mentally handicapped understands what’s happening. The problem is women lying about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:35 PM
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And ever will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:38 AM
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lacuti3, my favorite poster, missed you so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:28 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:51 PM
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What is unreasonable about what she said?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:48 PM
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The truth is that most women have never had one man in their romantic/sex life they've been truly attracted to, including their husband/father of their children - they just settled for someone good enough I don't even blame the fuckboys, the average man looks so hideous, that the few exceptions will never be forced to act in a responsible way This is something no one speaks about publicly - unlike the male loneliness 'epidemic' which is widely discussed. Should be called male ugliness epidemic. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:36 PM
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“Pick me’s” are not real. Male attention is the most abundant resource in a woman’s life which is why it means nothing to them to the point that it’s considered a nuisance. They want be “picked”, but picked by the same small pool of Chads every group of women want to be “picked” by.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:33 AM
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What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill? The fact that I do not suffer from a mental handicap of any sort.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:44 PM
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Sexual dynamics caused by human biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:13 AM
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She’s the one who decides the fate of the male, makeup or not. Bullshit argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 02:46 AM
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“Shut your mouth and get to work. Also, I don’t love you. Never did. I’m going to take a nap. Night night, Mr. Right.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:42 AM
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Only ugly men are predators. And since most women deem most men to be ugly, most men are therefore one small step away from the Texas Chainsaw Massacre. But once they see Chad, all that predator shit goes right out the fucking window.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:18 PM
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Father as in biologically sired children of their? That’s 45% roughly. There were several bottlenecks through human history, all with the same result: Most women left behind offspring, most men didn’t. This is how humans evolved and this is where our biological triggers for attraction formed, long before the creation of sustainable agriculture and the subsequent creation of civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:02 PM
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The leading cause of death among primitive man was childbirth. There were always more men than women. And most of those men ended up as genetic dead-ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:26 AM
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Women are free to tryout for any professional sports league, including the NFL. The problem is the best female athlete in X sport will always be absolute shit when compared to a mediocre male athlete in X sport. This means no woman will ever make the cut, never join a team, never sign a contract, and never earn a dime. So, in order to have a fair shot at achieving their professional athlete dream, they opt out of competing against men and compete against other women in their own separate league.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:04 PM
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Some Western Women seem to live in constant annoyance at knowing that some where, a man who they deem beneath them is getting “more” than he deserves. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=J0QHnyQbPCc&t=105s&pp=ygUcQXVzdHJhbGlhbiBzcGVybSBkb25vciBpbmNlbA%3D%3D 1:44
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:28 AM
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This only applies to men who women deem unattractive which is most men. When Chad gets pushy and sexually aggressive, women can’t spit out excuses for him fast enough: “He’s a guy, that’s just how they are,” “Boys will be boys,” “He’s not gay, so obviously he wants sex,” etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:21 AM
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Every Western nation should start constructing their own Great Wall which splits the country in two. The next generation will then be categorized and sorted: Men on one side, women and Chads on the other. Everybody wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:04 PM
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Nope. Never learned to be attracted to women, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:10 PM
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So the ideas rooted in the agricultural era that a woman isn't worth as many goats is just not relevant anymore Okay, but I didn’t know any of that shit until you just wrote it and I’ve had a reflexive, natural negative feeling to a woman telling me about her sleeping with other men since as far back as I can remember. Not an idea that was either taught or learned, just a genuine feeling straight from my soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:34 PM
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If your biological need for sex has been stopped because you think you're too unattractive for a relationship Women are the ones who put a stop to it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 06:08 PM
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Is it because they believe men enjoy this? The fastest way to get a woman to NOT do something is by telling her men enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:15 AM
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Like if a woman sees a more attractive woman getting attention from men rather than her A very particular type of men, not regular men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:26 AM
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Your ninja edit aside, that’s still not what it says. It’s breaking down age brackets of the already established age bracket of 15 to 49 year olds who already sired a biological child.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:34 AM
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No, that’s not what the link I posted said at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:16 AM
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Why do you need to be married to biologically sire children?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:53 AM
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Among men aged 15–49 in 2015–2019, 55.2% had not fathered a biological child https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr179.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:45 AM
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Women complain when their choices in men don’t work out. And that’s even worse because they’re the ones doing the picking and choosing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:32 AM
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“I really don’t have that many options regarding romantic relationships with women. Let me fuck myself further by filtering out any more possible options. And let’s filter for things which mean absolute dick in terms of attraction such as education and income”. Yeah, that’s what men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:21 AM
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That woman is single for the same reason as every other “single” woman: Because she wants to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:42 PM
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It’s hard for average and below average women. The difference is average and below average men will take an average or below average woman. The inverse is not true in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:58 PM
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He was tall, reasonably attractive And there we go. Even if there are trends, they are loose with tons of exceptions. Okay. Then why is anyone supposed to be swayed your one particular “exception”?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:40 PM
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Oh, I already knew all of that. Every single woman on this sub has dated a disabled Filipino circus midgets who turned out to be an absolute raging asshole who treated them like garbage. And this man is only ever brought up or mentioned whenever the claim is made that ugly men with no romantic options tend to be grateful for whatever comes their way. Never under any other circumstance is this man ever brought up ever again, almost as if the woman is just lying because a man can never be correct …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:03 PM
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No. No man thinks this way. 90% of normal men have absolutely zero options and if they lose the one relationship they lucked their way into, that’s it, they’re dying alone in a studio apartment. Whereas the woman can go pick another man to put up with her bullshit by the end of that same calendar day. If a man is behaving in an even semi-entitled fashion, that’s because he has options. If you don’t want these men in your life, choose men without options who will treat you like a queen and be gra…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:43 PM
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Now she owes me and I don’t owe her ANYTHING else. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:18 PM
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men and that men are the gatekeeper of relationships . But is it true ? . No, men don’t gatekeep shit in the act of reproduction and that’s how nature intended it. Women are humanity’s filtration system and most get filtered out immediately just in looks alone. Why people overestimate how difficult is for women to get commitment ? Because it is hard for women to get commitment … from men they actually want. In the average woman’s eyes, the average man is a beige-colored genderless blob, an absol…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:12 PM
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Horseshit. Yes, 90 year old church widows are nice. They’re from a bygone era that’s never coming back.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:42 AM
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After all, there is no reason the wife can't make efforts Women make absolutely zero effort for any man except Chad. He’s rare, unique, valued, and desired. You’re not. Dance, monkey, dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:43 AM
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So, now they’re the same as every other group of men. Good. That’s progressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:12 PM
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And? Is there any country on earth where the reputation of men is generally good?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:03 PM
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It’s just the damndest thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:14 PM
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but also somehow incapable of doing basic tasks Men have two basic tasks: Be hot or pay for her shit. Most are not and will never be the former and there are a limited number ways of proving you’re capable of the latter upon first inspection, such as paying for the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:25 PM
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If the woods were crawling with Chads, you couldn’t keep women out of the motherfucker, grizzly bears be damned. But to answer the question, another man. Fuck bears
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:21 PM
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One of the main questions has been why Pearl, the poster-girl for red pill men talking points and dating woes, is still single. For the same reason every single woman is single: She chooses to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:23 AM
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I wouldn’t be surprised if this becomes a dystopian reality Dystopian for who? A woman would be better off being the third or fourth wife of a wealthy man than being some average dork’s one and only. I don’t see any benefit monogamy provides to women unless the man in question is attractive enough to make that kind of commitment worth it (and the amount of men who cross that threshold is astoundingly low).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:46 AM
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do most educated and successful men want ambitious women? It seems that way given that people tend to marry within the same economic class. This has been studied and it comes down to the fact that men just fuck who’s around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:35 AM
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What if she knows it’s bad and doesn’t care because to her, the positives outweigh the negatives? Who are you to judge?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:14 PM
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No. They can vet. They just choose not to enforce it when they want to fuck the guy. If they enforced it, they would therefore be obligated to turn down a man they want. Why the fuck would they do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:54 PM
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I've witnessed first hand just how bad women are at it. I'm shocked at how oblivious some of my female friends have been to red flags that the average guy could probably spot from a mile away Women aren’t stupid. They can spot red flags a mile away just like everyone else. They just let them the slide when the guy is physically attractive. They have absolutely zero problem weeding out men based on red flags when they’re unattractive, even if no red flags are actually even there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 06:44 PM
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You’d be surprised at the number of women who do the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 06:26 AM
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Anything you hate doing feels like labor. Key phrase being “feels like”. You can’t tell a person what they’re feeling is wrong or how they should feel instead. So, no, we can’t put an end to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:40 AM
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Not at all. Women are primed and trained to want Twu Wub from childhood Until he gets laid off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:28 AM
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It’s an observation. If a man makes anywhere close to this same observation and posts about it, he’s fucking crucified.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:14 PM
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I’ve not heard any such woman suppose that settling for less than Chad would be better than being alone like she ended up. They all reconcile with being alone with their cats Why isn’t everyone ripping your asshole inside out, calling you an incel, saying you need to work on your personality, and touch grass like they would if one word of this was posted by a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 07:05 PM
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The idea that men are "low effort" Is absolutely true … for Chad. And since these are the men are women are either actively pursuing or passively holding out for, why should they make an effort? Why do they need to?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:43 AM
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So, it’s attraction. Then if most men find most women attractive then can you blame them for giving them a chance for just existing? You’re allowed to do shit based on attraction, but men aren’t? Bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:29 AM
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Why don’t women give men a chance solely for existing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 11:12 PM
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You’re not gonna get it by just existing. Why? Women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 10:26 PM
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Women have to lower their standards and expectations a lot and on top of that they end up working while also taking care of the home and children Nope. You can just stay alone and get all the intimacy you want, whenever you want, from the few attractive men there are via dating apps. Just fuck them and leave it at that. This is an option men don’t have.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:16 PM
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If the man cleared your laundry list of barriers of entry to have access to you, how is it that you’re the one on the short end of stick? I know you’re going to say they were master manipulators and they ended up killing a bunch of kids and burying them in the backyard while you were at work, but maybe you have a slightly different answer aside from what always boils down to “I pretend not to see red flags when the guy is attractive”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:51 PM
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Why is she that upset if it’s only day 4?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:16 PM
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Does the status quo remain the same? Why wouldn’t it? The status quo is optimal: Neutralize and render unattractive men irrelevant by making your own money and fuck whatever Chads that pop up once in a blue moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:15 AM
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Are you dating women over 40? With kids? Who are obese? I’m just saying, if you aren’t, you’re looking at the same top 5% of women that all other men seem to prefer. Two points: Women choose. Men are selected. What makes you think overweight women, older women, or women with children aren’t clamoring over the same small minority of men as every other group of women? What makes you that they wouldn’t rather just be alone than settle for less like every other group of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:23 PM
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Is the real threat to women in the dating market the trauma dumping AI? Absolutely nothing men do that leads to them leaving the “dating market” is a threat to women. Video games, pornography, OnlyFans, sex robots, sex dolls, AI girlfriends, nothing. As far as they’re concerned, this is just the trash taking itself out. Unless too many Chads start turning away from women in favor of all this shit, then they’ll feel threatened. But as it stands now? It’s a blessing, not a threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:20 AM
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Would you ever hit a woman? No. I wouldn’t hit a man smaller than me, either. If Yes/No, Why? Because I’m huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:39 PM
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You sure did.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:25 PM
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No. You’re the one who was upset and I was taken aback by that because it should have been obvious what the point was.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 09:23 PM
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Do you think I was giving her the same dismissive, belittling “advice” men receive when they make any remark about dating women in an even vaguely negative manner in any kind of sincerity? Or do you think I was trying to make a point about the chasm of difference one gender receives over the other when airing their grievances about issues like this? Between the two, which is more likely?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 08:04 PM
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Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:44 PM
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I agree it’s a fool’s errand. It doesn’t matter how charming, witty, or humorous you are if you’re ugly. Men still sharpen those specific qualities, that’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:40 PM
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Those men aren’t ugly to you and me. They are to women, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:35 PM
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Yeah. Those are developed and cultivated because they need to be to stand out from the other one million and one men they’re competing with to get in your pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 07:34 PM
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"you'll take what you are offered and be happy with that, even if shit" I never once used the personal pronouns “I” or “me”. You may want to work on that reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:12 PM
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You tried to make a point and it didn’t work. Yeah, it did. They made a passive observation you agreed with, that’s A-OK. I made one you disagreed with and you start in with the bullshit personal attacks based on your own assumptions when I never once used the personal pronouns “I” or “me” the entire time. You’re not smart. Whoever told you that lied to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:14 AM
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No, you simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:04 AM
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I never did, either. You made a bunch of bullshit assumptions about me. Each person here is has a unique and subjective life experience, you can’t say “people here are all x, y, and z.” despite what you personally believe. Which is also subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:45 AM
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That’s not why they lie about it. Conceding that physical attraction is a requirement and that most men just aren’t physically attractive to most women puts the man into a position of victimhood. It’s conceding that he’s a victim of poor genetic outcomes he has no control over. And a woman would rather die than ever admit that a man has any problems in life that aren’t somehow his own fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:40 AM
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So now all that subjectivity bullshit goes out the window when you agree with something. Color me shocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:28 AM
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u/Prudent-Conflict-557 Come tell him he’s not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:16 AM
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If it’s entirely subjective then why did you speak so confidently about what is and is not normal as if it were objectively factual 5 seconds ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:46 AM
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No, it’s normal. Most men have very few, if any options. And being content with something you’re biologically hardwired to want when it’s offered instead of being a goddamned struggle to obtain like it usually is would otherwise be known as “completely rational”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:42 AM
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Yes, talking Chad into settling with you will probably take some convincing. Normal men? No. They take whatever’s offered and they’re happy to have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:35 AM
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Relationships don’t happen unless the woman decides they happen. Don’t like age gaps? Blame the woman. Maybe she’s attracted to enlarged prostates.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:24 AM
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Yep. Chad just needs to get on a loudspeaker like that motherfucker from Mad Max and plead for normal, average men to just walk away and stop the horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:29 AM
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Assume you're dating a woman Plus she likes you a lot! Alright, now assuming the man doesn’t stop seeing her because she’s not funny, which no man in his right fucking mind would do, I think it’s safe to assume she would be devoted to him. Unless she suddenly stops “liking him a lot” which is not only possible but very likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:22 AM
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She's attractive, in good shape, feminine, friendly, not combative, enjoys homemaking, low body count, faithful, etc. Whatever your boxes are. Plus she likes you a lot! Gee, I don’t know. A woman who only exists in the fevered dreams of the average man suddenly comes to life and devotes herself entirely to him … but she doesn’t have a funny bone. You’re right, that is quite a pickle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:01 AM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=7h7SFdB9iPQ&pp=ygUTV29tZW4gY3J5aW5nIHNpbmdsZQ%3D%3D There are tons of these compilations on YouTube. Bonus: Men are indeed smugly laughing at them and saying the “this is what you deserve for passing on nice guys,” just like OP said.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:15 AM
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But all the men ready and willing to commit are ugly. Might as well swing for the fences and hope you get lucky. Remember that old maxim about following your dreams? “Shoot for the moon, if you miss, you’ll land among the stars”. Except in this case, it’s “If you miss, you’ll still land on Chad’s dick”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:05 AM
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Women treat attractive men the way that men treat women. They bend over backwards to get, hold, and keep their attention. This is often gut-wrenching to witness because women never develop any type of charm, wit, or humor to attract men because they’ve never needed to. Then when they fall into this rare one in a million situation where they actually desire the man because he’s attractive, their brains turn into mashed potatoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:01 AM
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Men are allowed to have preferences. If they don’t want commitment, you’re not entitled to it. Maybe try working on your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:19 PM
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No shit. Incels were never mentioned and she said “smugly laughing at these women”. You may want to learn how to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:24 PM
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and a total inability to even briefly call into question their own world-view. This is why you never see the women here debating or arguing with each other the way the men do. And any time a woman dares to share an opinion that breaks from the accepted vaginal hivemind norm, she’s either ignored or accused of not really being a woman. Whenever you read something posted by a woman that would get a man who said the same thing absolutely fucking crucified, she’s never attacked. She’s just ignored. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:59 PM
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People are sitting around smugly laughing at it saying "HA you're going to die alone this is what you get for not dating the nice guy!" There is absolutely nothing wrong with a woman mourning the life she’ll never have with a physically attractive man who provides her with children despite what average men have to say about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:47 PM
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A woman would never settle with a man where this dynamic existed in the first place. Unless he’s Chad. In which case, he could commit murder in broad daylight, she wouldn’t give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:12 PM
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Men’s sexuality is viewed as predatory, perverted, and nasty. Unless it’s Chad. Then women say the same “boys will be boys” bullshit they complain is employed to excuse natural male behaviors they don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:45 PM
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Dying alone doesn't equal only partner yes, it does. Also reality most women die alone even when married so now what? You lived an entire life with a romantic partner/spouse up until that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:17 AM
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Men could go get some friends, no? When we say “alone” in the context of this thread, are we talking about it in the most literal sense possible or do we mean it as in having no romantic options? Between the two, gun to your head, which would you choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:37 PM
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You do. Doesn’t mean you want to fuck the men who give it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:51 PM
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Not that big of an accomplishment when you have zero attraction to the lion’s share of the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 06:44 PM
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Women choose to be alone, men are forced to be alone. It’s like a monkey soothing itself by saying the humans are in the zoo, too. Yeah, one is in the cage against its will and the other put it there against its will. But they are, technically, both in the zoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 04:17 PM
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In the high violation, the perceptions of the facially attractive male’s personality (M = -.40, SD = 2.26) were significantly less negative ratings than the perceptions of facially unattractive male’s personality (M = -1.01, SD = 2.06), t(167) = -1.85, pone-tailed .05. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12147-015-9142-5 In the judicial system, unattractive defendants are also known to receive more severe penalties than more attractive ones, even if they committed the same crime. “A man w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:35 PM
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Male user makes slightly disparaging remark about women based on lived experience Female user demands peer reviewed documented proof of said remark Male user posts study Female user tells male user to touch grass and stop learning about women from studies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 12:46 AM
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So, the problem is lack of economically viable men? Is there any other parameter by which a hypothetically economically viable man be rejected by you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:40 PM
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So are women. Men still want intimacy and a family. Maybe women just don’t like men. Never have. Never will. (Unless Chad)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:38 PM
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And what’s stopping the woman in question from saying “I could take care of myself, but I don’t want to” and finding a man to do that for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 03:22 PM
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Higher education in women is inversely correlated with the birth rate. Why doesn’t the same thing happen to men? I’ve never met a college-educated man who eschewed the idea of finding a wife and pumping her full of his frosting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:19 PM
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Yep. Men aren’t the ones doing the choosing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:49 PM
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How can the average woman afford to be so picky with who she dates? Because they’re biologically hardwired to reject all but the best men she can get. As women blow past men in education and career, the pool of men considered the “best” becomes smaller and smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:24 PM
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are fine with someone sitting next to them. Woman. People don’t mind a woman sitting next to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:51 AM
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Of course you don’t think that. When you have unlimited options, but don’t want anything to do with 99% of them, you might as well have no options. And that’s totally fair. You still have them, though. so you tell me why women defend broke losers I just explained why. Women will fuck a broke, loser Chad. For my own satisfaction, post something where a woman is defending “broke losers” and is using the phrase “broke losers” to describe them. I’m curious to see whether or not this actually exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:01 AM
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And why exactly would the gender with unlimited options date a “broke loser”? If a woman’s fucking a broke man, he’s making up for it by being incredibly good looking and in that case, the trade off is worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:10 PM
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… For those very specific men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:42 PM
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pick mes are just women who prioritize male validation over everything else Women don’t need male validation. There’s nothing more abundant in a woman’s life than male attention. That’s why it’s absolutely worthless and means nothing. Unless it’s coming from very specific, highly sought after, and desirable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 07:24 PM
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Has anyone noticed that pick-me women are always single? Why is that? Because they’re chasing the same small pool of men as every other group of women. “Pick me’s” aren’t real. They don’t want an average man to pick them. They want Chad to pick them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:36 PM
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I’m going to keep an eye on this thread and if every woman on this sub doesn’t rip your asshole inside out like they would if a man said this, I’m going to be very disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:39 PM
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What do you guys think about this? I thought a person’s sexual past and “body count” wasn’t a basis on which to judge their quality or character as a romantic partner? Or is this only applicable to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:34 PM
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Most men are attracted to most women. Most women are not attracted to most men. Therefore, every woman has and will always have options. They just don’t/won’t like any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:45 AM
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We have no idea if you find us subjectively creepy or undesirable until after we have approached you subjectively creepy or undesirable subjectively I have a bridge to sell you when you have a moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 12:22 AM
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How exactly do women age worse than men? Most men can’t get a woman to give them a chance when they’re young, fit, and healthy, I can’t imagine the gifts Father Time brings in the form of male pattern baldness and diabetic compression stockings is going to suddenly make the ladies wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:43 PM
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Being a celebrity means jack shit to men. We decide if we like you by looking at you. Most average men receive zero attention from women and that’s because most women aren’t attracted to most men. All she has to do is go on whatever dating app and she’ll be flooded with a million suitors within 5 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:28 PM
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Being a celebrity means jack shit to men. We decide if we like you by looking at you. Most average men receive zero attention from women and that’s because most women aren’t attracted to most men. All she has to do is go on whatever dating app and she’ll be flooded with a million suitors within 5 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:46 AM
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…. What?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:30 AM
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Alright, get on any dating app of your choice of you’ll have a small army of them beating down your door in 10 seconds as soon as you give them the green light. And you don’t even need to leave the house to get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 03:01 AM
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Because you’re a woman and women put up barriers of entry for men that men don’t put up for women. The good news is there are plenty good, kind, short little fat guys walking around all alone and dying for a scrap of female attention. The bad news is they are good, kind, short little fat guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:58 AM
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Most women aren’t attracted to most men, these red pill idiots are no exception. Conversely, most men are attracted to most women. Your problem won’t be finding a man who will grow old with you, your problem will be finding a man who meets your astronomically high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:44 AM
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Whatever they want would be preferable. I’m a huge fan of freedom of choice. I partake in it myself quite often.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:31 AM
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You’ve made this “men aren’t attracted to women past 20 years old” thread one thousand times. Why don’t you go find a guy who would be grateful to have you and would worship the ground you walk on and would love you til death do you part? Because all those guys are ugly. Let’s stop the bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:12 AM
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It hasn’t been debunked as evidenced by the difference, frequency, and variety of our X and Y chromosomes, life expectancy was roughly equal, disease, drought, fire, and famine didn’t discriminate, women were more likely to die young than men because most women birthed children and childbirth was often lethal, warfare wasn’t advanced enough to change anything until after the development of sustainable agriculture, and no one said anything about eugenics.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:29 AM
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Horseshit. Most women throughout the entirety of our species reproduced. Most men didn’t. This is because we’re a polygynous species: One dominant male with the fittest genes impregnates all the females.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:21 AM
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Compromising. Not settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:41 PM
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First of all, you’re appealing to Chad’s gaze, not the average man’s gaze. Which goes back to the original point: Very few men are considered physically attractive by women. men aren't upheld to beauty standards that condition them to groom themselves and appeal to the female gaze What makes a man attractive to women is decided entirely upon features which are genetically determined. This is how it’s supposed to work: The top percentile of genetically males reproduce, the rest get their shit gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:37 PM
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This dynamic is predicated upon differences in biology. Have they genetically engineered humans with these differences removed in wherever the fuck you’re from?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:11 PM
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So, the gender with infinitely more options can’t find someone better. The delusion is almost endearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:52 PM
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So where does this belief come from? Women want physically attractive men. Very few men are considered by women to be physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 09:19 PM
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so who is giving up on who Men are giving up on women and women don’t care (until Chad starts giving up, then they’ll care, but that’s unlikely to happen).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 06:44 PM
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Yes, really. Only one of the two people involved can walk out the door and find someone better in 5 seconds. And it’s not the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:59 PM
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Connect with women who value you Absolute best case scenario: She values you about one tenth of how much you value her. Women aren’t bad people, they’re just not men and therefore the level of value and interest will always be much higher in the man than it ever could or would be for the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:32 PM
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You’re missing the point. Even if she does like you, the imbalance of interest will always be there no matter what you do. Of course, this dynamic gets flipped on its head with men in the top percentile of attractiveness, but women don’t force those men to go through the courting process, they just fuck them and go home.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:18 PM
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she is not that interested And she never will be, no matter what you do. You’re vastly overestimating the level of worth a man has in a woman’s life. Just pay the damn bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:05 PM
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No, it’s low standards, not no standards, hence the stipulation of being “fuckable”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 08:01 PM
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“How can you eat that pre-fab processed mystery meat you get out of a can? How hard is it to book a reservation at a proper steakhouse and order a Kobe ribeye?”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:56 PM
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The Chad gaze. Average men are unattractive and their “gaze” is creepy, bothersome, and entirely unwanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:37 PM
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I made an obvious statement that men aren’t picky and you disputed it. Attractive men can be picky. They’re in the minority and therefore not worth mentioning. You’re disputing that which implies you’re in that minority which is consistent with what I’ve seen posted here. All the men here are in the minority (or they’re lying). There is no debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:31 PM
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I forgot every man on PPD is an alpha redpilled self-made millionaire with peak physical fitness whose also a personal finance manager at Goldman Sachs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:25 PM
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My man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:54 PM
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a recurring theme, and new source of friction, appears to be the new phenomenon of most couples (LTRs, marriage) now having a female with significantly more past sex partners than the male Unless you live in Saudi Arabia, this isn’t a “new phenomenon,” it’s industry standard and has been for quite some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:02 PM
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If so, then do men bear collective responsibility for this? Men don’t give a fuck. As long as she looks somewhat sorta vaguely fuckable from a distance in foggy weather, we’re good. Women don’t give a fuck about what men think or want. They’re the ones doing us a favor by having relationships with us, never the other way around. This leaves two other groups enforcing this standard: Other women and the extremely small pool of men women are ACTUALLY attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 03:47 PM
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Relationship expert says men shouldn't date if they're broke Unattractive men shouldn’t date if they’re broke. If a woman is genuinely physically attracted to the guy, he could live under an overpass, she wouldn’t give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:15 AM
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women will do just about anything to be perceived better by men Chad. Not men. Men are an infinite and therefore worthless resource. No woman on planet earth needs to compete for a man. Chads, on the other hand, are a completely different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:12 PM
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Are we supposed to believe that older women suddenly start digging dumpy men with hair loss and wrinkles??? Most women aren’t even attracted to men when they’re young, virile, and in the prime of their youth. Why is it often advised for physically unattractive men to date women their age because younger women are only going to want him for his money? It’s nonsensical to advise men to date anyone. Women choose the men, the men don’t choose the women. The only exception is the small minority of me…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:52 PM
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Go choose one right now, tell me how well you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:30 AM
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while refusing to date women their age Those women their own age would need to choose them first in order for them to reject the offer. They aren’t. No woman is. Hence the cat lady revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:11 AM
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They’re not problematic because women choose men, men don’t choose women. Women are nature’s filtration system to keep the gene pool as clean as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:05 AM
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Most men are mild mannered, normal dudes Yep. Most men are indeed mild mannered, normal people capable of rational, objective reasoning and introspection. This is why most men don’t approach women. They know that they’ll be rejected at best and possibly humiliated at worst. So, who DOES approach women? Weird, strange men with weird, strange temperaments.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 07:53 PM
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They’re forced to stay alone, women choose to stay alone. Keep trying to make it seem like men and women operate in a sexually and romantically similar manner, I’m sure you’ll change the nature of humans. No one before has done it, but I believe in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:08 PM
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If women can’t find the man they want, they’d rather just be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:33 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:06 PM
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There are barriers of entry for men that don’t exist for women. If he’s not crossing your barriers of entry, and assuming you’re an average woman with average barriers (have money or be hot), then he’s probably not crossing any other woman’s barriers, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:52 AM
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Holy shit. No one ever said it was deliberate. Again, you’re seeing shit that just isn’t there. I understand that this is due to nature and biology and there isn’t shit to be be done about it. Go look at other replies in this thread where guys are expressing genuine anger. There’s even a few of those replies on this very comment I made. Go fight with them, channel all that crazy towards people who deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:40 AM
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Disinterest isn’t an action, the descriptor “aggressively” doesn’t fit. Hence why I just explained it wasn’t meant to be taken literally, it was just a funny way of saying “they don’t care”. You can say I was trying to “frame it” it a certain way all you want, it won’t make it true. I was just pointing out something that should be blatantly obvious to the original poster I was replying to: There is a chasm of difference in levels of interest between the genders regarding each other as potential …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:29 AM
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Your male family and friends aren’t potential romantic partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:18 AM
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Not everything is meant to be taken in the most literal sense possible, believe it or not. When people say “Thst’s cool,” they’re not referring to the temperature. Crazy, I know. No one ever said it was a fault even suggested women were “defective men”. You’re seeing shit that isn’t there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:17 AM
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“If all men (as options for romantic partners) disappeared tomorrow”. There.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:34 AM
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“If all men (as options for romantic partners) disappeared tomorrow”. There.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:33 AM
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Chads are men, yes. But their lives are so radically different, they should be placed into their own category. Lions and tabby cats are both felines, but they’re nowhere close to living the same lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:26 AM
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Yep. Now finish reading the rest of that sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:21 AM
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I was about to stipulate that they’d notice because men keep the infrastructure functioning, but then I just assumed people were smart enough to know I meant this in a strictly romantic sense. That’s why I didn’t say “If all men (as options for romantic partners) disappeared tomorrow”.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:20 AM
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Most men are attracted to most women. Most women are not only not attracted to most men, but aggressively disinterested in them. The comparison is wildly uneven.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:16 AM
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Men threatened that raise of realistic dolls and now raise of AI-girlfriends would make dating pool suddenly dry for women, so women would realize how mean they were... But this won't work. It is a delusion. If all men disappeared tomorrow, women wouldn’t care. Now, if all Chads disappeared tomorrow, that’d be a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:15 AM
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Yes, Chad has the privilege of treating women the way women treat men: Disposable and infinitely replaceable. Revelatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:06 AM
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You love to provide for others. Plenty of great men out there ready to commit and share your life that you built as an equal partner. They’re broke as shit, but why does that matter? He’s everything you want aside from that, but it’s not problem because like you said, you love to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:21 PM
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Alright, great. Plenty of great men out there who are also broke as shit. Go make one your husband and share those “gifts” with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:16 PM
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Look at what I was replying to. I even quoted the portion of his post that I was addressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 07:12 PM
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Top 5% of men have more than double the amount of sexual partners than the bottom 50% of men. It's the same for women. Meaning, a small group of promiscuous men and women mostly fuck each other because that is what they like to do. Most men and women do not take part in this and have low number of sexual partners. Attractiveness in men only weakly correlates with number of sexual partners over a lifetime. It's personality that determines if you are promiscuous and do what is necessary to get it …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:16 PM
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What do you mean? The studies really do explicity ask for committed romantic relationship. Monogamous is just about sexual partners and irrelevant to the percentage of people in committed romantic relationships". I just checked it again and it doesn’t even use the word “relationship”. It just asked if they were single. A way more plausible explanation would be that men just are in casual relationships while women think those are committed relationships. Restricting it to Chads doesn't work out m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:10 PM
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Relationship. No one was ever questioned about a “committed, monogamous relationship”. Who is having those hallucinatory standards that somehow an equal number of men seem to meet? Chad who’s dating a rotation of these all at once which is why there’s twice as many reported single men of the same age cohort in that same Pew study.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:32 AM
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Holding out for a top 1 percent man to marry you is like waiting to win the Powerball lottery. The problem isn’t that their standards are too high (and don’t get me wrong, they’re fucking bordering on hallucinatory), the problem is they actually don’t care if they ever find a man who meets those standards because they are genuinely happier alone than being with someone less than perfect. That’s how actively and ferociously indifferent and uninterested they are in 90% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:46 AM
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Cheating as in doing the cheating or being the victim of cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 10:28 PM
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Insecurity = When a non-Chad male disapproves of anything a woman says or does.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:52 PM
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or rather, the inevitable exceptions they'll make to their doctrine Yep. “We’re going to stop fucking guys we’re already not fucking anyways!” isn’t the threat they necessarily think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 07:43 PM
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And God knows the most important male opinion in a woman’s life concerning her appearance is the one from her stupid boyfriend/husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:58 PM
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Why is that not outlined in the 4B protocol then? And that part is never going to gain traction because even though 90% of men might as well be blobs of genderless jello to women, that remaining high quality 10% will still make them want to look, dress, and act like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:46 PM
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sex with men, child-rearing, dating men and marriage with men So, exactly what they’re doing now? Except Chad, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:39 PM
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As a man, you can have as many biases against women as you want and express them in any way you want. But only if you’re handsome enough to get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:33 PM
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Okay, then it’s their fault. Point remains.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:16 PM
3

You belong to the gender which has unlimited options and that’s what you settled on. That is entirely your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:03 PM
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Keep in mind, men are generally seen as more "aggressive" and are responsible for most of the assaults that occur in our society. Exactly. They all say they’re absolutely terrified of being murdered by men if they’re truthful with them which is why they tell little white lies and sugarcoat everything. So, why would you listen to someone who’s just telling you what they think you want to hear instead of the truth because they’re in constant fear of being murdered?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:56 PM
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and a feminist. I think this went without saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:13 AM
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no u
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 11:49 PM
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Yeah, that’s exactly what I said. Look, there’s nothing wrong with working up a quarter chub over whatever new video game, but let’s not pretend these hobbies consumed their life because they just had too much sexual and romantic interest and got bored with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:44 PM
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And, in turn, they’re not a fan of someone engaging in something for fun that they engage in so they don’t put a gun in their mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:53 PM
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It seems like I only get these type of responses from men, never women Men fill their lives with these pointless hobbies and bullshit because they’re socially and sexually isolated. A woman is never isolated, so it rubs them the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:45 PM
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no u
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:46 PM
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But Chad can sit around eating chicken sandwiches and smoking pot 7 days a week and still have a dump truck full of pussy backing into his driveway whenever he wants. Chik-Fil-A and marijuana aren’t THAT goddamned interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:45 PM
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The true “pick me’s” are going to be in spaces where high value and desirable men are present Yep. Pickmes aren’t real. They want to be picked …. By the exact same small minority of men as every other group of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:59 AM
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Make a choice and stick to it then no one’s to blame. Fuck Chad or torture Billy Beta Prey Eyes with a series of probing interviews he’s stupidly paying to partake in. Don’t do both at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 04:14 AM
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TLDR: in the past, the exclusivity from the start of dating was the default Women speak from both sides of their mouths on this issue like they do everything else in life. One minute, they’re telling you the dates are extremely important for vetting, spotting red flags, gauging the man’s level of interest by how much effort he puts into the dates, how much he spends, if he attempts to ever go 50/50, and on and on and on. Then the guy gets upset because she fucked someone else during this period …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:27 AM
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Correct, but he can get better/more women the richer he is. I don't know what's so complicated about that No, he can fuck just as many with or without the wealth. The wealth is shared with a partner. When you can have all the pussy you want, what incentive is there to settle? There isn’t one. That’s what makes it a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:14 AM
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It isn’t attractive. The attractive man is attractive is attractive. Plus he can buy shit. This is called a “perk”. If he went broke the next day, he wouldn’t stop slinging dick. You know that, you’re just pressing this “women are attracted to resources” RP bullshit because you’re unfortunate looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:51 PM
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Expecting a man to have basic skills is giving him shit? No. Giving him shit about not acting on those “basic skills” when and how you think he should is giving him shit. My bf is attractive and he cleans so my point still stands. Next. No, it doesn’t. This is entirely dependent on if other women find him attractive. That’s kind of how this whole “having options” thing works.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 01:37 PM
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and still be attractive Same principle applies. Physically attractive men have options and don’t have to put up with any shit a woman would give an average man. If you want Chad and also don’t want to clean the house, hire a maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 01:26 PM
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Yes because Chad better get his ass up and wash those dishes and clothes… Or else what? He’ll just go fuck another woman or five or ten. That’s why physically attractive men get away with bad behavior, the woman knows she’s easily replaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 01:18 PM
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Hot. Hot + wealth. Obviously they’re going to choose the second one. The problem is the second is rarely combined with the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 11:52 AM
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I said it implies a moral failing on the part of the man, not that it was a moral failing on the part of the man. Women paint that picture because it makes them seem morally upright and justified in being a cold, frigid bitch to the man they had to settle for because Chad was never going to pay her bills and give her a nice, big house to take away after she divorces him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:17 AM
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Because it implies a moral failing on the part of the man. “You’re not getting rejected because of your height, it must be because of your horrible, misogynistic attitude.” “You’re not getting deadbedroom’d by your wife because she’s not attracted to you, it’s because you’re a lazy slob who can’t pick up after himself.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:41 AM
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Looks/Money/Status Delete the last two. The dirty little secret is that women are the exact same as men: Your money, career, status, and all that other bullshit don’t make you physically attractive. They’ll make you a perfect ex-husband, but not more attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:36 AM
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Because even though it was decided by luck, that man still had to be born with a literal winning genetic lottery ticket. The woman just has to be born, winning ticket or not, perhaps no ticket at all, and dick will promptly begin to accumulate and puddle around her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:24 AM
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Plenty of mushy, dad bodied husbands keeping the house spic and span hoping for a crumb of pussy. Then one day they realize it was never the house being a little messy that was turning her off. It was his love handles.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:21 AM
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They’re lying. You think they’d give a shit if Chad left the dishes in the sink and let the laundry pile up? They’re not attracted to their husbands and probably never really were.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 03:28 AM
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OP is a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 11:54 PM
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They are. By 2030, almost half of all women between ages 25 and 45 will be single. Making your own bank and fucking Chads on the side is infinitely better than going through the hassle of deadbedrooming the STEM dork you married by claiming you have vaginismus.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:23 PM
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Bangmaids aren’t real.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:46 PM
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Everyone call her an incel, tell her 80/20 is bullshit, the problem is her personality, and that she needs to touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:32 PM
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So refreshing to see honesty from a woman for once. In the past men used to compensate for this unequal value of trade in a relationship by being providers now the average man wants to split everything in half. This relationship dynamic is not attractive to women ergo the male loneliness crisis. Absolutely true. But also in the past, the male making up for his inherent worthlessness and replaceability with being the provider was matched by the woman not being ran through by a Chad marathon prior…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:12 PM
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emotional attachment is more influential Until he gets laid off/fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:37 PM
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What do you mean the Bluepill is a bunch of gaslighting bullshit? You mean to tell me that if Cristiano Ronaldo didn’t love himself, he’d suddenly stop being smothered in pussy? Whacko alert.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:34 PM
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From the third link: The target audience, of course, is men. From the Lebanese woman’s link: High-value American men should become passport bros. Don’t they deserve better than the filth they are limited to in their own country…? High-value American Target audience isn’t men and the competition isn’t about men. Target audience is Chad and competition is for getting Chad, as always. Nothing to see here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:08 PM
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I rarely see anyone suggest a realistic solution Dating works the way in which women decide it’s going to work. They’re happy with the current arrangement. There’s no solution because there is no problem. Unless you’re an average man, then there’s a gigantic problem, but no one cares about you and never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 10:55 AM
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How would you describe “lady game”? Non-existent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:22 PM
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That’s great. Go make the Chad with good genes pay for the kids he squirted in you in then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 10:37 AM
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Whatever helps you sleep at night, Mr. Money and Power.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:30 AM
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https://img.ifunny.co/images/c16bf3437f08f67499475a697f2af1a00fdfa623b729012aa40f272e06227fe7_1.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:28 AM
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What shame? You can’t help it. I’m not bald myself, but everyone I know is either bald or on their way there so I sympathize.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:32 AM
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My theory is that there are not enough attractive guys to go around. Women’s new hivemind response is “We don’t need to depend on men anymore, so you’re not in competition with other men, you’re in competition with our peace and quiet”. Which is vaginal code speak for “If you’re not hot, don’t waste my time”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:21 AM
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No, being hot makes men hot. Women aren’t fucking your maturity or responsibility,
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:02 AM
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This. When women talk amongst themselves, the only ones they ever mention criticizing them for not being married or having kids is other women. But in public, as usual, they need to blame it squarely on men because of something they read a guy say on Twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:10 AM
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For the average man, aging is just putting a hat on a hat. When they’re young and virile, in the prime of their youth, average men struggle to get any woman to pay attention to them. Then you get older and it’s the same shit plus bald.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:34 AM
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You left out the part where these women want absolutely nothing to do with 90% of men, just like every other group of women. I love the assumption that just because they’re overweight or older aged, they’re going to give an average guy a chance. They’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:24 PM
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Being ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:10 PM
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The fabled “personality detector” all women claim to possess which enables them to sniff out violent predators, creeps, and misogynists from a mile away seems to experience total system failure in the presence of tall stature, square jaws, visible cheekbones, lean physiques, and full heads of hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:54 PM
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That friend of yours is a real scum bag too “She fucked my friend” and “He’s a real scum bag” are essentially the same sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:17 PM
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If he’s using the history of our species as an argument, he’s a certified non-genius. Most of all our male ancestors died as genetic dead ends while almost all the females reproduced. We’re a polygynous species: A few alpha males impregnated all the females. Just like now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:24 AM
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That are illegal and can still turn down customers for any little ick, But the wife who can have any and as much dick as she wants anytime she wants, or better yet, can just walk out the fucking door, just sits there being a perfect little angel for this absolute bag of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:19 AM
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she was a girl I work with, she’s comes from a traveler family Now it all makes sense. Because God knows we all have that one friend who comes from a gypsy traveler family and grew up in a horse drawn wagon. Why didn’t you clarify that sooner?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:59 PM
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If she’s unhappy, she can tell him to fuck himself or leave him. Why am I supposed to be in an awe of a person willingly giving into this miserable arrangement? Doesn’t this count as that fabled “manipulative” or “toxic” abuse I keep hearing so much about? Where’s the feminist sisterhood telling her to dump this scrote and go live out her dreams?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:30 PM
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Personally knew one yourself. Isn’t that convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:27 PM
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Then stop doing all that shit. What’s he going to do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:26 PM
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Current data, I don’t know, but it was retracted. https://www.deseret.com/2015/8/4/20569426/study-that-found-husbands-prone-to-leave-sick-wives-was-flawed-researchers-say/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:25 PM
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My life involves more than just a few meals and laundry. Because you’re choosing it to be more than that. No man is going to walk out the door because you stopped living like Little House on the Prairie and started feeding him Wonderbread and Del Monte canned fruit cocktail and hired some Guatemalan to cut the grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:22 PM
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The beta has a limited purpose for a limited time: Money and children. He doesn’t need to physically be there to provide once she has the right conditions for separating. Betas make perfect ex-husbands: They don’t even need to be within your line of sight to do their job. This is also why no wife is begging and bitching for him to start fucking her and fucking her good. He’s not there for that. He’s there to bitch about not getting sex to himself in the privacy of his own mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:18 PM
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That study is bullshit and was redacted. No, that wasn’t my argument. This woman is a figment of the feminist imagination . She isn’t real. She doesn’t exist. Nor should she. The hen-pecked pathetic beta husband is definitely NOT a piece of anyone’s imagination, he’s real.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:12 PM
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All of them. That’s why women bitch. It works. Men are more involved in child rearing and household chores now than at any other point in human history. Has it helped anything as far as the quality and longevity of the marriage? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:06 PM
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Yes, it’s impossible to cook a few meals and put laundry and dishes in a machine and then take care of children while he’s gone at work all day until they’re old enough to be shoved into daycare or forced into public school for 8 hours a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 10:04 PM
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No, that COULD be a wife, but a woman is only capable of being that selfless to keep Chad happy, not a beta provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:52 PM
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Have you ever met a man who does everything his wife wants, works, pays all of the bills, taking his chores seriously, is a great father for the kids deeply included in parenting, provides great emotional support, takes everything on his shoulders when she gets sick, and gives her amazing orgasms every time in bed with no fault ever? Yes. Because one false move and his life is ruined, emotionally and financially. and gives her amazing orgasms every time in bed No. The beta is deadbedroom’d on pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:49 PM
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Have you ever met a woman who does everything her husband says, cooks, cleans, and gives him all the sex he wants whenever and however he wants all while keeping her mouth shut? Yeah, me neither. Fucking coo-coo made up fantasy land bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:23 PM
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I forgot this sub is Bizarro World where women are blind to physical appearance and also morally and emotionally rational and consistent 100% of the time and never do stupid shit for a hot guy and all these disgusting, hideous ghouls of men are the ones out cheating because they’re so sought after by other women, they actually have the option to cheat in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 03:42 PM
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Because they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 03:37 PM
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Attractive bums get into relationships all the time. Now, they’re not tolerating his lack of employment because of his personality, so there has to be something else about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 03:24 PM
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And being attractive is an entire package: physically good looking, emotional stable, socially aware, intelligent or skilled in some way, successful, all of those are part of what makes someone attractive Physically attractive is all you need. Why are you pretending like this obvious fact is super overcomplicated?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 03:11 PM
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Okay. And that would prevent those girls from getting a deep dicking in what universe?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:26 AM
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but then complain about women being "dumb" and "uneducated" No one says this. Men don’t give a fuck about your education or your career. And before you start that bullshit about how men marry women of the same status, that’s because men fuck who’s near them. All in all, from the second I heard that women are supposed to be as sexy as a dominatrix but also be as modest and Christian as a nun No one says this. Women don’t need to be “good in bed”. All sex is good for men, you’d literally need to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:22 AM
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A woman’s greatest dilemma in life: All the men she wants to settle down with are Chads that every woman wants, all the men ready to settle down with her are ugly betas that no woman wants. Finally a man comes along who’s both: Chad and ready to settle down. So, naturally, he’s going to die alone because that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 03:18 AM
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but I rarely hear them talking about what they do to show a man they appreciate him According to every single woman on this sub, women in relationships live lives of endless, back-breaking labor and servitude akin to a chamber maid in 15th century medieval England.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:07 PM
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Literally not a single soul has ever seen me or caught me or even known that I’ve watched pornography. I wait until I’m alone, volume off so I can hear if there’s a door opening or an unexpected visitor, squirt one off, clean up, back to business. It’s takes a total of 5 minutes. Maybe 10 minutes if it took me a while to find the exact right clip I wanted. How in the ever living fuck men are consuming porn with such frequency and such visibility that it even becomes an issue in their relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 07:51 AM
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They do choose the wrong men, but on the flip side, those men are hot. Otherwise, why pick them? Yeah, eating the entire cake was a bad idea, but it damn sure tasted good. Otherwise, why eat it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:22 AM
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And between those two pieces of advice, they forgot the only advice that matters. Be handsome. Be attractive. Don’t be unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:16 AM
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Unless you came out of the womb with a winning genetic lottery ticket, being a heterosexual man comes with a steep price tag. You need to work, produce, and provide to even convince a woman to consider you as a human being. This is by far the most fucked deal among all the different sexual orientation arrangements, bUt wOmEn nEeD tO sPeNd MoNeY oN mAkE-Up!!1!1!!!1!! Yeah? Go ahead and wipe all that shit off, the dick isn’t going anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:15 PM
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Men don’t decide who gets sex and relationships. Women decide. So, any relationship dynamic you have a problem with, including age gap, blame the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:02 PM
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Women by contrast seem to be mildly repulsed by men Because they are. It’s not their fault, it’s their biology. Most women who ever lived in the history of our species went on to reproduce. Most men ended up as genetic dead ends. We are a polygynous species, one dominant male impregnates many females. If it didn’t work like this and women allowed fairness in the area of reproduction, we’d all be cross-eyed, immunocompromised, and mentally deficient. Women are nature’s filtration system for male …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:39 PM
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Or you’re lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:14 PM
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Yeah. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:51 AM
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Yep, that’s what I believe. Oh, they’ll MARRY an uggo with money and deadbedroom him and claim they have vaginismus or some other made up horseshit, that definitely happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:50 AM
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Cannot tell you the amount of manlet Pakistanis I see crushing pussy because of their rock solid confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:46 AM
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So essentially, it's like asking the good men "hey just work on yourself while most women in your age group (20s) finish having their hookups with alpha men. By the time they get older and start worrying about their future, you will have build a great life for yourself that will attract them!". Something touch grass something go to Wal-Mart something most men are drowning in pussy according to this bullshit self-reported data something something personality something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:37 AM
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All relations between men and women only occur if the woman decides they will and women base that decision exclusively and entirely on how the man looks. rEsOuRcEs is what guys who were fucked genetically tell themselves will save them so that they can sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:29 AM
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What level does a man have to be in to have access to immediate sex? This is a Chad-only privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:47 AM
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/u/SyllabubSure5715 Go crawl up his ass for saying the same thing I said yesterday,
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:44 PM
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And everyone is different, some woman love skinny men! Yeah. Some. I remember when I was a kid and all the girls were going crazy for those fat tubs of shit in NSync and the Backstreet Boys and let’s not forget the most popular actors at the time like Matt Damon, Brad Pitt, Ben Affleck, you know, all those fatties.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:41 PM
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Goofy isn’t a physical attribute.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:15 PM
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Find me online. Talk about interesting things. Woo me. Don't ask me what I bring to the table. Feed me. “Be hot or don’t even bother” You left out that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:46 PM
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Can’t any woman, anywhere, at any time, day or night, get any dick on the side with absolutely zero effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:17 AM
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It’s not the ideal feminine state for women to want to procreate with short, weak men, is it? We can talk about the ugly truth of nature all day, but for practical, modern monogamous relationships, most men are happy to commit to one woman. I can’t believe I just had to explain that, but here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:11 AM
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That’s the beauty of average men, they know how to value, appreciate, and treasure what they have and be perfectly content with it. And now you’re going to say “I don’t want a man to commit to me just because he couldn’t find anyone else” or whatever bullshit excuse the collective vaginal hivemind has decided is the reason why they reject perfectly nice, loyal men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:06 AM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:57 AM
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Nope. Monogamy benefits men. Most men have enough trouble getting one “piece,” much less “side pieces”. I know Chad can have his pick of the litter, but the average guy doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:55 AM
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So why does it feel so aweful? Every time my gf watches porn or thinks about someone else while pleasuring herself or tells me about her crush or screams someone else’s name while we’re having sex it feels horrible. Every time she tells me she wants a threesome or to open our relationship I feel miserable. It physically hurts because it makes me so sad. For some reason, I really really want her to be obsessed with me and only me. To act like a dog who loves me with all her heart and only me. Why…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:50 AM
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A word for someone who struggles to get laid AND doesn't hate the opposite sex? These things are normally called “average men”.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 12:33 AM
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… What?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 12:27 AM
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To suggest "banned" is to act like no man in history has ever had sex with a woman, which is ludicrous. Most men WANT to eat at the buffet. Only an extremely small minority can. How can you know this? Who decides what is reasonable and why? Because men and women are different. Your “rancid” = Expires in a year. My rancid = Rotten with maggots crawling on it. That’s all well and good, neither gender can control what they find acceptable, but, objectively speaking, I’m much more reasonable and acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:56 PM
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I didn’t say most of the time, I said banned. Yes and I’d be grateful for it because your standards are borderline hallucinatory for what “rancid” is and mine are perfectly reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:25 PM
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That’s like saying men have a nice life because they’re banned from entering a buffet, but still appreciate all the food looks delicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 07:08 PM
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Slightly different post, same problem. You’re welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:42 PM
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We all know that no woman can ever be “single” because the option of sex, dates, flings, and relationships are available 100% of the time at a moment’s notice. Single for women just means “not married”. Let it be weird to think. Again, no one cares. The point is this is a massive shift in American society and if it wasn’t, they wouldn’t have wasted their time and money gathering the data and creating this report.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:40 PM
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You already posted about this, didn’t you? Either way, no, you can’t “build” attraction, women know if they want you within 5 seconds of looking at you. And she doesn’t want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:28 PM
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They’re putting off having children if they’re planning on having them at all. In the meantime, that specific demographic doesn’t have kids. Assume all you want about if they will decide to actually have kids at a later date, no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:20 PM
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Men and women are not 50/50. One is valued no matter what, the other is a complete waste of oxygen unless they provide adequately. So, why would a relationship ever be 50/50? Better question, who’s expecting it to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:14 PM
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Okay. I read the report, though. And that’s what it says.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:08 PM
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I still find most women I see on any given day to be attractive on some level even though my dick is as limp as could be at the time and sex is the very last thing on my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:54 PM
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https://www.morganstanley.com/ideas/womens-impact-on-the-economy Report. https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/45-percent-women-are-expected-to-be-single-and-childless-by-2030 Article about report.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:52 PM
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Almost half of all women between 25 and 45 will be single and childless by 2030.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:33 PM
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Because hot guys exist and you’re a woman. I want my wife to enjoy herself under the roof I provide for her, but if she wants to get out there and work herself to an early grave like I’m doing, fuck it, I can’t stop her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:27 PM
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Do you make every guy wait? Absolutely not. I don’t even want you leaving the house much less going to work. That’s my job, literally and figuratively.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:22 PM
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The post you replied to stated AI will much more advanced in a decade, and, eventually, virtually indistinguishable from a real person except that they’re on a screen. Then you attacked him about how it will never be a real relationship. No shit it won’t be real, everyone knows that, but it’ll be good enough for men who can’t have the real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:32 AM
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No. But you said this: Lol yes, going out to eat with your AI girlfriend will be indistinguishable from a real person If they could go out to eat with a real woman, they wouldn’t feel the need to play make believe with a machine. How you missed that point is so far beyond my comprehension that I’m not even going to question it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:00 AM
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So, women either lockdown or hookup with the small minority of men they’re actually attracted to while the other 95% of men sedate themselves with their electronics. How is this any different from what’s happening now?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:19 AM
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but they’re old/fat/single moms/etc and get rejected. Why would these women want these men which no other women want? Single mothers, older women, and overweight women would just accept any man who approaches? They don’t deserve to have standards, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:43 AM
1

Men who turn to AI girlfriends never had the option for that kind of relationship with a woman to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:39 AM
3

And they will have no choice but to start “dating down.” No, they’d rather just stay alone than “date down”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:18 PM
0

No, that’s women deciding that, as I just explained, but you can’t read.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:11 PM
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We’re not the ones fucking them. Women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:50 PM
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If a man has options, women view him as high value, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:43 PM
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they have subpar looks, social skills and finances, and the dating world being as cut cutthroat as it is makes the battle to find someone all the more ... impossible. So in a system where failure is guaranteed, why even try? The problem is too many men are still trying and the more they fail, the more isolated and angry they feel. Lonely, angry, romantically deprived young men in too large an amount is a recipe for disaster. You show me a guy who has given up entirely and lays on his futon watch…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:08 AM
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Yep. The sexual disinterest was there from day one and the dead bedroom was the goal, not an accident. But men are lonely and will talk themselves into believing anything a woman tells them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:17 AM
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Why don’t women ever extend this willingness to tolerate “asshole” behavior when the man exhibiting it is unattractive? It’s almost as if they choose men based on how they look, personality be damned.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:46 AM
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“Women” and “single” are antithetical. They always have the option of engaging in sex, flings, dates, or relationships at a moment’s notice. Only men are capable of being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:10 PM
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Also being short, black, fat and a virgin doesn't exactly translate to success. This is the cause of all your problems. If you were tall, lean, and handsome, you’d have zero problems with women. They don’t care about your character or personality, they’re not fucking your sense of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:06 AM
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If a man made any reference to “Chad and his harem,” his asshole would be torn to pieces and he would be gaslighted by being told this is an incel fantasy and that he needs to touch grass. But when a woman says it, fucking crickets.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:09 AM
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Why isn’t everyone here jumping your ass and calling you an incel and saying your personality is awful and that you need to touch grass like they would do if a man said what you said? Mighty odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:49 PM
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If he can afford to have you drag his ass on your world travels, he’s the one working. Otherwise, you wouldn’t be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:35 PM
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He works his ass off for that nice, big house he put you in and then you tell him that’s the last place you want to be. Yeah. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:10 PM
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So the idea that people would "train" how to behave in a relationship, take away some anxiety, make them feel good about themselves, confident and boost their ego to then go and pursue a person might be a good idea. Women don’t need to do any of this shit to find a partner and none of this is the reason why so many men can’t find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:31 AM
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Hence the word “if”. Plenty of broke women who wouldn’t give head, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:52 PM
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If she were pretty and willing to go down on him on the first date, she could be fucking homeless for all he cares. The amount of lying ITT is honestly astounding. And for what? Just to prove women wrong that all men care about is looks or some shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:27 PM
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How else would this affect the dating market? Women are nature’s filtration system for male genetics. The most fit are allowed to be passed on, the rest go down the drain. In the entire history of our species, most women reproduced while most men didn’t. Most men are just expendable waste. Removing this natural filtration system and allowing the expendable waste to have their own kids seems like a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:20 PM
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Lives in her mom's basement? Don’t give a shit. Plays video games all day? Don’t give a shit. Struggling with debt? Don’t give a shit. date a woman who is broke? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:34 PM
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It’s completely normal. Every guy around you is going to claim to be crushing it, but they’re all lying. They’re just as invisible to women as you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:34 AM
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I see men calling out women for lying and denying about behaving the way you describe, not whining. In fact, I don’t see any legitimate whining, but women claim the men here do it so much and so often that I just give them the benefit of the doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:25 PM
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When women talk about “men” approaching them, they’re talking about Chad. Men don’t exist to them. They’re, at worst, absolutely invisible and, at best, some beige colored blob. Take your elevator shoes and bald spot and keep it moving, chief.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:14 AM
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I don’t know, but they need to pick a new name. Manosphere isn’t humble enough. Ugly-Hosts-with-Fat-Viewers-Sphere would be more fitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:53 AM
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I’m not talking about the OKCupid study, but since you brought it up and didn’t understand the data you were looking at, men still received FAR FEWER messages from women and the least attractive bottom percentile of women still received many more messages than the most attractive top percentile of men. Women just don’t like men. Unless they’re Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:25 AM
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Most women aren’t attracted to most men, so that’s all a bunch of bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:12 AM
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If you’re handsome, you don’t need manipulation. Women just say they were manipulated because they’re afraid of seeming shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:58 AM
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They don’t. Why would they have more realistic standards? They’re not also attracted to handsome men and would rather be alone than settle for a man they’re not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:57 AM
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They’re selectively broken around handsome men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:39 PM
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Manipulation skills = Looks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:38 PM
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Women don’t get aroused now? Delusion indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:37 PM
3

Why would those women be any more or less accepting than any other women? Are you saying they don’t have standards or don’t deserve to have standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:36 PM
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Incel = Involuntarily celibate. Their dynamics are the same between the genders as they were in high school: Interest is shown to all the women, interest is only shown to the most attractive guy there if there even is an attractive guy present, there often isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:52 PM
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You can be an incel and be working class, lower class, upper class, any class.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:45 PM
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Then incels wouldn’t exist, they should all be drowning in mentally ill pussy (which is redundant, but for the purpose of argument).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:30 PM
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Smaller and smaller amounts men are fucking more and more women. What kind of men do you think they are? Five foot tall Pakistani gas station cashiers?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:21 PM
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Horseshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:18 PM
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Because they’re ugly. Only Chad gets away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:16 PM
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Horseshit. https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/bioe.13134
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:13 PM
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No, that’s always the case. If the guy were ugly, she wouldn’t even look at him, much less tolerate “asshole” behavior. Is today open house on planet Earth for visitors from Bizarro World or some shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:05 PM
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Creepy = Not Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:59 PM
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Nope. He’s hot, she’s horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:56 PM
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No, it isn’t. Most women are not at all attracted to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:55 PM
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or that she was deceived. Funny how those magic personality detectors that can smell misogyny, creepiness, and various icks from a mile away suddenly burst into flames when the guy is handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:54 PM
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Yeah. They’d be equally desired if they were just hanging around Jesus Christ, the delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:51 PM
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Probably because they don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:46 PM
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It’s always because of their trauma or their broken home or their unspecified mental illness. These things also mysteriously never compel them to sleep with ugly, short, fat, or broke men. It’s never that the guy is hot so she doesn’t care how he behaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:42 PM
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Right. You just made sex sound like it’s not important. So, what difference does it make if the guy has a penis or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:06 AM
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Given all the caterwauling women make about how sex isn’t important, I would say he would make a perfect mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:53 AM
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Unless they want to upset someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:59 PM
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Or try telling them what I just said. The vaginal hivemind had no problem making assumptions blaming the mens’ personalities and poor lifestyles whenever the topic came up, so it can certainly shift to this point instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:53 PM
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You insinuate it by giving them bullshit advice whenever they post about how they struggle with women. If you all just said “Look, we’re not attracted to most men and never will be. Get a dog if you’re lonely,” that would be a step in the right direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:40 PM
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That’s all you can do, uggo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:04 PM
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No one says that. Run along now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:21 PM
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Nope. You’re ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:54 PM
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They will goddamned DIE before they admit men have problems that aren’t their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:00 PM
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Yep. You’re chasing something that’s biologically designed to want nothing to do with you or 90% of your entire gender. Just walk the fuck away.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:52 PM
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Not bad at all, just nature taking its course. Just pointing out that fact in case any man was reading that and thought he still had a shot. Nope. That’s a very small clubhouse. And you ain’t in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:52 AM
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Men women are attracted to make up an extremely small minority of the male population. The more men who accept this and completely walk away from women, the better. It causes nothing but needless mental and emotional anguish. And you don’t need to reply and tell me what’s attractive in a man differs from woman to woman and that your last boyfriend who you were madly in love with was a Filipino circus dwarf with one eye, we already know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:49 AM
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Women like attractive men sexually though. No shit. How many men meet the threshold for “attractive” to the average woman? Eight, nine guys in the entire solar system? Women go weeks, months, even years without physically laying eyes on a man they find genuinely attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:42 AM
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She still thinks you’re physically repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:50 PM
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She still thinks you’re physically repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:50 PM
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She still thinks you’re physically repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:48 PM
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It’s popular because men still haven’t figured out that attraction cannot be negotiated and no amount of alpha bullshit will fix that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:06 PM
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Monogamy provides no benefit to women, so it’ll probably have to go at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:16 AM
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Pickmes, much like the fabled “bangmaid,” do not exist. They do indeed want male attention, but if’s attention from the same group of men every other group of women want it from. No normal, average man has “pickmes” throwing themselves at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:00 PM
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We can. It’s be a one way ticket to dying alone and no one noticing until people start noticing a funny smell. But we can.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:08 AM
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No shit. The difference is women are much more discriminatory towards men than any man could or would be towards any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:02 AM
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That’s why there will never be a single answer men can refer to. Tall, lean, and handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:12 AM
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That’s not what I said. I said there’s absolutely nothing wrong with most men. If there’s nothing wrong with them, what do they need to “redeem”?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:10 AM
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That’s the dirty little secret: There’s absolutely nothing wrong with most men. Except how they look.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:55 PM
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It isn’t my anything. I said something you didn’t like so now you’re angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:25 PM
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The only applicable advice is “Become hot”. But women have a pathological fear of seeming shallow so they blame your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:30 PM
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Exactly. A woman couldn’t be alone if she fucking tried. Wherever a vagina exists, dick will find it and begin to pool around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:14 AM
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I’ve never heard anyone say that about another person. Then again, I’ve never been in a recovery group.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:18 PM
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Be handsome. Be attractive. Don’t be unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:04 PM
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Because they were hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:02 PM
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If the average woman woke up tomorrow in the body of the average man, she’d throw herself off a fucking cliff.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:14 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:38 PM
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I hate that word and don’t like “intercourse” much better, so I just spell it out instead of saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:22 AM
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It has existed just as long for women as men, back when it was still called “sex tourism”. The women are mostly older overweight Western European women who go to the Caribbean and West Africa to find a fit young man who will have s-e-x with them with an unspoken agreement he will be compensated for it. Unlike the women, who will often marry the man and move to his home country, these fit young men string the women along promising love, commitment, and eventually marriage while continuing to flee…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:19 AM
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Yep. They never have that sense of “stranger danger” when it’s a man they want to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:28 PM
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Women don’t notice or care about anything men do. Unless too many of the small pool of men they’re actually attracted to start doing it, too. Then it’s a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:22 PM
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What incentive does any woman have to offer the “bare minimum” to any man? Don’t like what she’s offering? There’s one billion motherfuckers in line behind you waiting to take whatever she’s offering and be grateful for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:19 PM
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https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2013/10/this-is-the-average-mans-body/280194/ Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:57 PM
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If there were a “right environment” for men to get casual sex, that environment would nothing but men in roughly 1 to 5 milliseconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:54 PM
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Chilling to think about, thoughts? The average man won’t even notice a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:40 PM
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According to the National Survey of Family Growth, as of 2002 the most sexually active top 5% of American heterosexual men had 38 lifetime partners; but as of 2012, that number had become 50 Räsänen writes, “The 5% is [] having half the (penile–vaginal) sex in the world.” In applying the Gini index – a measure of income inequality – it is seen that the distribution of lifetime sex partners for both men and women is as unequal as the wealth distribution in the countries with the largest economic …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:27 PM
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But regardless of how myopic it makes you, just keep spending time with the same people, reinforcing the same rhetoric, getting the same outcome, and have a great day This is the exact description of someone who thinks anyone believes this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:43 PM
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Your experience is the factory default setting for men. 90% of men come out of the womb having lost the genetic lottery, so attracting women is an option that’s just simply off the table. The only recourse left is to attain provider status. Women still won’t be attracted to you, but they might begrudgingly ration out a little pussy here and there to convince you to pay her bills. I know every single woman on this sub married a hideous ghoul who also can’t work or provide for her because he’s dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:05 AM
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The fact that you think anyone would believe this came out of a normal, heterosexual man’s mouth is just .. beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:38 AM
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Malagasy mock turtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:53 PM
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Men used to components for this by being providers now they want to split everything 50/50. Which is why we have the male loneliness epidemic. This level of honesty from a woman deserves respect. I agree wholeheartedly. A woman should never pay a dime for anything to make things “fair” with a man. Dick is the most abundant, and therefore absolutely worthless, thing in the known galaxy. Also, while we’re at it, men need to stop with this “I want her to love me for who I am, not what I have!” hors…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:34 PM
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Most men aren’t supposed to have signs from women because most men aren’t supposed to reproduce. If women weren’t so extraordinarily picky and discriminatory towards which men they decided were worth sleeping with, we’d all be cross-eyed and mentally handicapped. We’re the disposable gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:27 PM
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Why can’t they make it abundantly clear so there isn’t all of this unnecessary stress and guesswork? They do if they genuinely find you physically attractive. Since most men aren’t or know any men who are, they’ve never witnessed this and think this all some big, grand scheme of shit and mind games women are playing. No, they’re not playing games, they just don’t like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:13 PM
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I said horniness has no bearing on whether or not a woman is deemed worthy of romantic attention. Heterosexuality exists and functions as it does whether you’re horny or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:08 AM
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Except that’s not the dynamic at play for women. I just explained what it was, but you have no reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:02 AM
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It has nothing to do with horniness. Most men find most women worthy of romantic attention, horny at the time or not. This is the inverse for women. Most men are entirely invisible as a romantic option to most women, horny or not. And no one is angry, conveyed a tone or sense of anger, or even brought it up except for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:59 AM
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Exactly. They don’t realize that looking “perfectly fine” or “not bad” in no way constitutes physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:43 AM
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They want men. An extremely small percentage of men which fit a specific physical criteria. The other 90% of the male population could disappear tomorrow, women wouldn’t notice or care.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:41 AM
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When women are speaking about men, whether positively or negatively, they mean Chad. This explains why it sounds like they’re talking about fucking aliens when they say anything about men or the male character. And you don’t need to reply to me and tell me your last boyfriend was a permanently disfigured acid burn victim who was also a Bengali circus midget, I already know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:56 PM
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Do you have a source on that? Source? A source. I need a source. Sorry, I mean I need a source that explicitly states your argument. This is just tangential to the discussion. No, you can't make inferences and observations from the sources you've gathered. Any additional comments from you MUST be a subset of the information from the sources you've gathered. You can't make normative statements from empirical evidence. Do you have a degree in that field? A college degree? In that field? Then your …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:06 PM
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You’re the only woman the women here ever disagree with which is how I know you’re telling the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 11:29 PM
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Never said that. Like, at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:57 PM
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The point is the guy confessed to being a child rapist in his profile. That’s a bad profile. But he still got women messaging him left and right because he’s hot. If you’re not hot, don’t use a dating app. That’s the only advice men need to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:49 PM
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So, you’re not contradicting anything I said. I know you think you are, but that’s not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:46 PM
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If they’re deemed worthy of having of a chance to demonstrate that “chemistry”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:28 PM
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Yeah, it’s the “bad profiles”. https://twitter.com/chimericide/status/1165723033203564544
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 05:13 PM
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Okay. They passed your looks threshold. And?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:57 PM
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“Chemistry” doesn’t matter unless a man passes a woman’s minimum looks threshold first. Because the average woman has more options has more options that is beyond all comprehension, meeting this threshold becomes increasingly impossible as more time passes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:45 AM
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in fact I would argue we are having the heart attack right now Men are. Women aren’t. Nothing is ever a problem until it negatively impacts women,
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:59 PM
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And what is it about a 40 year old woman that will make her happy to give a chance to a man no other woman wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:52 PM
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At this point I think something might be wrong with me like I must be borderline ugly. Yet online friends (men, and women) will be shocked when they see photos of me, and get attracted to me, but I don't think I'm anything special. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you and you’re not just imagining this: Studies have shown that men are FAR LESS likely to approach a woman today than even just a decade ago. This shift happened quite quickly, Also, too many men know the truth now: Women are no…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:09 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=LvGgYcpSi8U&pp=ygUZSXJlbGFuZCBsb29rIGZvciBpbiBhIG1hbg%3D%3D
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:41 AM
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a mommy-bangmaid to These aren’t real.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 09:23 AM
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Socially liberal benevolent misogynists? That’s a lot of words for “handsome”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:35 AM
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repelled by physically unattractive men Fixed that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:27 AM
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If she were actually attracted to you, she wouldn’t be doing that shit. Leave her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:06 AM
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LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:47 PM
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Men fuck and marry the women who are near them. As a consequence, they end up with women in the same social and economic class, usually. This has lead to a gross misunderstanding among women that men are pursuing them because of their academic or career achievements. No, they just pursue you because you’re there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:56 AM
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a man dating a younger women(18-24) is "preying" on these women and there is a power imbalance. Yet I've never seen these women criticize wealth gap relationships Relationships form when women want them to form. If they didn’t want these men, they would reject them. Women have absolutely zero problem rejecting men their own age and men with subpar finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:41 AM
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Yep. I have no idea why men put such an insane amount of labored thought into something with such an obvious answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:43 PM
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No, it’s not a lie. And it should be obvious why she did that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:31 AM
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Most men are met, at worst, with frigid indifference, and at best, with cagey, uncomfortable engagement. If she’s engaged, interested, making an effort to hold your attention, she’s making it obvious. The reason 90% of men find unfathomable is because of the caveat I stipulated earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:49 AM
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If men haven’t stopped, they should. When a woman is interested in you, she will make it obvious and you would need to have warp-speed turbo autism to not notice it. The caveat is that this only applies to conventionally attractive men, normal men have never received such attention and thus fall into the trap of believing that it’s their fault because they’re not approaching. No, it’s not their fault and they’re absolutely correct in their decision to not approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 08:15 PM
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They're good looking and tall, there's no reason to dig any further. Exactly. A woman’s low self esteem, attachment disorders, trauma, and all that other bullshit never kick in when the man in question is short, bald, ugly, or broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 01:17 PM
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The top 3 most sexless countries in the world are countries with extremely low rates of overweight and obese people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:35 PM
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They only care about the standards and preferences of the small minority of men they’re actually attracted to. The other 90% of men can have all the preferences they want, women don’t give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:23 PM
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Google “Chadfishing”. Click images. Click videos. It’s all fake? Or is it more likely that women are just shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:12 PM
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Chadfishing proves physical attractiveness trumps personality, no matter how good or bad it’s perceived to be. It has absolutely everything to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:54 PM
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https://www.redalyc.org/pdf/997/99752039007_2.pdf https://faculty.wcas.northwestern.edu/eli-finkel/documents/EastwickFinkel2008_JPSP.pdf https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1002/per.2087 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19558447/ https://www.researchgate.net/publication/321133457_What_kind_of_love_is_love_at_first_sight_An_empirical_investigation Women prioritize physical attractiveness, not personality, when it comes to choosing men. Shocking, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:22 PM
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Attraction is non-negotiable. You’re not going to “date” her into being attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:53 PM
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Horseshit. Chadfishing is a common social experiment with a universally similar outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:48 PM
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grooming https://theredarchive.com/r/Chadfish/so-far-the-biggest-blackpill-ive-came-across-with.242497 personality https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/rt6u2d/chadfish_experiments_for_all_you_idiot_bloops/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:30 PM
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Do wife have some kind of obligation to make sex easier for her husband? No. If she were actually attracted to you, it wouldn’t be an issue. There’s nothing you can do to change this. Attraction is non-negotiable. Deal with it. You got bamboozled and now you’re trapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:52 PM
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Modern women's desires, preferences and choices are there own and no amount of pseudoscience, statistics or psychoanalysis will change this. Yep. Attraction cannot be forced, coerced, or negotiated. She knows if she’s attracted to you or not by one simple action: Looking at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:03 AM
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Men and women’s sexuality is not the same No shit. Hence my disagreement with the other user’s statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:29 PM
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No, all women have options. The problem is they don’t like any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:47 PM
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Well the men I know who are getting offered sex are pretty average Horseshit. Women have unlimited options, men don’t, so there is absolutely zero incentive to offer non-committal sex to a “pretty average” man. And let’s not forget the endless screeching about the threats of abuse, rape, pregnancy, and the dreaded “orgasm gap”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:04 PM
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nowadays men don’t need to do anything special to get laid. Yep. Except be tall, lean, and handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:55 PM
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there would only be 3-5 guys in the entire universe that meet those criteria? Yep. And they’d rather stay single than pair up with anything less than those 3 to 5 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:52 PM
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“Age gap” relationships are the exact same as all relationships - they form if the woman decides for them to form.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:43 PM
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