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THIS is next level preparation and honestly more than most people know to do. For anyone reading this who doesn't know - you can freeze your credit at all three bureaus for free, It takes about 10 minutes per report and prevents anyone from opening new accounts in your name. The IRS Identity Protection Pin is equally smart - prevents someone with your SSN from filing a fraudulent return in your name. Get it at IRS.gov/identity-protection Both are free. Both are easily reversible. Both take less …
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/26 11:35 AM
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Ha — solid life advice in hindsight. Unfortunately the DeLorean is in the shop so we're working with what we've got. 😄
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/26 07:47 PM
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Really good point and you're right for high earners that's a smart strategic move. What I'm covering is the other end of that — people who didn't have that leverage going in and are now dealing with the fallout after the fact. Different stages, both important. Great post by the way.
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/26 12:18 AM
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Appreciate the feedback. Everything in that post I learned the hard way or researched myself. If any of it helps one person navigate the financial side of divorce better than I did — that's enough for me. What specifically didn't land for you?
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/26 10:32 AM
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Still alive and kicking after all of that is not a small thing. That's everything. What you just described — the isolation, the insomnia, the 70 hour weeks, drinking to cope, contemplating suicide twice — that's not weakness. That's what happens when someone dismantles your entire life at once and you kept showing up anyway. 51 and officially starting over is not a setback. A lot of people never get the chance to rebuild on their own terms. One thing worth saying directly — if those dark moments…
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/26 09:13 PM
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Really important questions and you're smart to think this through before making changes. A few things worth knowing — California specific: On redirecting your paycheck:Yes. There is no court order requiring you to deposit into that joint account. You can redirect your direct deposit to your own account. Open a separate account first, then change your direct deposit with your employer. Do it quietly and cleanly. On your legal obligations while separated:Without a court order, you have no legal ob…
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/26 08:59 PM
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I've posted the same language in a few different places, most likely effects of copy pasta?! Just trying to get the word out there for newly divorced folks.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/26 02:08 PM
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Here you go! https://youtu.be/id5dDyIRAGE?si=5scDxHgxL0cB9NQH
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/26 02:06 PM
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Here you go! https://youtu.be/id5dDyIRAGE?si=5scDxHgxL0cB9NQH
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/26 02:04 PM
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Yes — and it's more common than people think. A few patterns I've seen: Hidden spending stops. If one spouse was quietly draining the budget — subscriptions, habits, lifestyle creep — suddenly the money actually goes where you decide it goes. Forced financial literacy. A lot of people who let their spouse handle everything suddenly have to learn. That education compounds over time. One income, one decision maker. No more financial disagreements. Your money, your priorities, your call. The first …
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/26 12:20 AM
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