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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DYLD3zqAex3/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:41 AM
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Japan scoring headers innit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 10:20 PM
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Let's play football
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:34 PM
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Watched a YouTube video involving a practical experiment around dressing for the male gaze and saw this comment: "My boyfriend wishes I'd wear a sundress once in a while. Never gonna happen! Don't care about the male gaze, not even his!" Got curious and ran a gender-swapped version through ChatGPT, Claude, and Gemini in fresh/incognito chats. Same basic prompt, only changed the gender and clothing item (female/sundress, male/button-up). All three models seemed to frame the woman's refusal primar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:40 AM
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Matchmaker Storytime
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:51 PM
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This is what healthy boundaries look like
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:01 PM
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But it's better to be faster
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:31 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:37 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DY22ZjjTTUX/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:44 AM
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The Dating Market Explained
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:40 AM
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This guy on IG is tackling some claims from Professor Neil that use this paper for evidence: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DYmkNMlsL7w/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== https://www.instagram.com/reel/DYsCTm3szmV/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Some of the criticisms of the study are: The sample isn’t fully representative of “all men” since it only surveyed sexually active men aged 18–34 from the U.S./Canada, mostly White or African American. A number of the s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/26 07:53 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DX7f0L8JIhL/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 11:40 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:01 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 10:52 PM
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<image> I fell in love with you. WE fell in love with you! Guys like us don't just fall out the sky you know! Also, brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:54 AM
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Skadoosh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:39 AM
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I'm the iceman I'll cook some rice man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:19 AM
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No, I saw that part. I just don’t think the surrounding context makes it sound equivalent in intensity or desirability. According to her, the toxic partners inspired a more “fired up,” “amazing,” and “frenetic” kind of attraction, while the healthier relationship requires her body to “catch up” to her brain through therapy and learning to appreciate a different kind of experience. That may not technically mean “worse” overall, but it absolutely suggests that toxic dynamics can produce a stronger…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:04 AM
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You’re arguing against a position I never took. I never said “being nice = sex,” and I never said women consciously want abusive relationships. My point is much narrower: people constantly describe niceness/kindness as the baseline or bare minimum for attraction and relationships, yet obviously non-nice people repeatedly succeed in both. That directly contradicts the claim. And I’m not “cherry-picking.” I’m responding to examples women themselves shared about their attraction patterns and relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:04 AM
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The point is that the commonly repeated idea that "nice guys" fail because they think being nice is anything more than table stakes is not supported by the situations people actually report. The first men in these stories were clearly not nice, so niceness obviously was not table stakes here. Their words also don't need to be "gospel" to be worth incorporating into a broader understanding of attraction dynamics. You seem to think people like this and the attraction levers involved are some rare …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:03 AM
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Someone posted the original thread yesterday, but these specific comments need to be highlighted: <image> Crazy how the toxic guys who, as far as I can tell, were not "nice" as a baseline, inspired "amazing" and "frenetic" attraction and sexual chemistry, while the smart healthy relationship guys have sex that is "different" and "not as fired up" with the women still unpacking the effects of those past toxic relationships in therapy even a decade later. But remember, "being nice is literally the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:37 AM
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"Where do men get the idea women care so much about height?" Meanwhile, women be like: Before we started dating I didn't see my boyfriend as a man cuz he wasn't tall
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:15 AM
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Silver
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:24 PM
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Many women prefer men who show certain “protective” or chivalrous behaviors, even while recognizing the downsides. A 2018 study in Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin (Gul & Kupfer) found that women consistently rated men with benevolently sexist attitudes or behaviors as more attractive romantic partners. They were aware these attitudes could be patronizing, but they still preferred those men because the behavior signaled a willingness to protect, provide, and commit, which are traits as…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:18 PM
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Completely disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 04:40 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:22 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:43 AM
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Men would this work on you?: How to hook a man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 07:27 AM
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Bruh that ain't even hypergamy that's just lowkey racist, she didn't say he was ugly or anything, just Indian. Brutal Inshallah CityBoyJJ shall complete the Great Shift and cease the injustice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 07:23 AM
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If Men Had Emotional Lawyers: https://www.instagram.com/p/DVL4LYMDUXy/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 05:30 AM
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Go on a shopping date with her and pick up a few nicer pieces you can reliably use for dates. Otherwise, a simple formula works for most situations: straight or relaxed fit dark denim, chinos, or dress pants. Pair them with cotton polos, sweater polos, or button down shirts in solid colors or simple patterns. Avoid novelty prints. Fit matters more than anything. Slim or relaxed is fine, just avoid skin-tight or overly baggy. Finish with clean leather sneakers, boots, or dress shoes like loafers,…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 09:43 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 08:38 PM
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So I don't disagree with that connotation existing, but that's kind of the point of the comment, that same association doesn't exist the other way round. She flew him to Korea, and I'm not entirely sure how you reach the conclusion that it isn't taking them out of their comfort zones. It's a bit of a reach to assume that changing everything at once, or even changing things in large waves wouldn't be a little bit of an uncomfortable process for the man to undertake, even if they are ultimately ok…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 06:48 AM
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IG Reel: Giving my Husband a Korean Makeover I know the reel is probably a bit of a glorified ad, and no hate to anyone in the reel, but it and the wholly supportive comments got me thinking. It's a bit weird how chill people are with the idea of women "fixing" or "improving" their boyfriends in this way (seen it over and over), but so vehemently against a man having any aspect of his girlfriend that he'd like to work towards changing (Love her for who she is, you shouldn't try and change your p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 04:46 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUlmYp_iPy2/?igsh=Zmt6bmkzM2x3M2to
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:32 PM
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Does this woman deserve all the glaze from the comments?: https://youtube.com/shorts/j7iE2IhL03Q?si=5e91PrfVFpWwyC5n
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:06 AM
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Nah he's shared a link to one before, it was on a forum for moms
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:10 AM
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"I don't really care much that he feels this way" is crazy, forget love, do you even like the guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:52 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/1qnrqpr/21_days_on_hinge_31f_oc/ <image> 31 year old woman in London over 3 weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:50 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/1qngexg/oc_end_of_year_dating_app_review_21m_living_in/ <image> 21 year old guy in London over 2025
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:49 PM
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The video discusses the psychological effects of testosterone and how it influences male behavior and well-being. It highlights that testosterone significantly impacts motivation, anxiety, risk-taking, pain tolerance, and social interactions. Key points include: Psychological Impact (0:56): Testosterone makes effort feel good, increases motivation for social status and attracting mates, reduces social anxiety, encourages risk-taking, and even lowers pain sensitivity. Winning and Testosterone (4:…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:29 PM
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Men don't need more therapy. They need more testosterone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:29 PM
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Is bro spittin?: The Evolution of Dating: By Decade
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:08 AM
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First
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 12:22 AM
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She's a matchmaker, this in within the context of her online matchmaking service
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 03:27 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DTN9q7dEWMr/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 12:13 AM
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Just for having a crush? No, those aren't entirely in your control. Depending on who it is and how they've acted towards them since those feelings came up? Could be cheating, could be nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:11 PM
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Part 2
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:36 PM
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Derrick Jaxn core
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:36 PM
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Says one thing, chooses another
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 01:16 AM
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Haven’t gotten to it myself yet, but you might consider The Evolution of Desire by David Buss. He’s one of the leading researchers in evolutionary psychology and human mating. From what I understand, it’s more descriptive than prescriptive fyi
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 07:03 AM
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<image> Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 12:33 AM
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Nah, just internet diffusion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 12:28 AM
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Two twos to my word croski
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 07:26 AM
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Video Summary: This video discusses Victoria Everest, a fitness influencer who was exposed in a leaked video admitting to creating a false sexual assault allegation against a man. Key points from the video: Leaked Admission: A leaked video shows Victoria Everest admitting that putting a false rape allegation on a man was "not exhausting" (0:29-0:34). She states she wanted to "take him to the cleaners, babe" (1:14-1:15) and that she "hates him because he's so much like me" (1:17-1:25). She admitt…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:58 AM
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Anyone heard of Victoria Everest?: False Accuser Gets Charged... Still Thinks She's the Victim
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:57 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/k7qfihao9p8g1.png?width=1452&format=png&auto=webp&s=bab4957e3a660a746d00285aa0f8987d53b28856
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:31 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 02:04 AM
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Based and Community-pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:50 PM
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<image> Brutal (Unseen Abuse Edition)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:37 PM
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Brutal (Ignored Male Emotional Labor Edition)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:30 PM
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Brutal (Celebrity Crush Edition)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:25 PM
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wallahi I have failed to reach the podium
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 07:38 PM
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trois
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 11:59 AM
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1st
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:22 AM
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Can't wait for internet women to use this to excuse anything they do before their 32nd birthdays
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 12:44 AM
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It's a celebration of a milestone not actually being achieved, and just highlights the fact that they're missing the actual substance of the event. Pokimane is a famous internet streamer, Anita was one of those Buzzfeed type feminist personalities in the 2010s, other lady is a random person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:25 AM
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But why does it have to be the specific versions connected and centered around the part they aren't engaging in? You could just buy yourself a ring, why specifically an engagement ring? You could just throw a massive party, theme it around a cultural celebration or some other aspect of your life or something, but nah you make it a celebration of the thing you are explicitly not celebrating. It just comes off as sour grapes or narcissistic tendencies. And yeah I guess it does show that some peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:19 AM
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Pokimane just got herself an engagement ring. Anita Sarkeesian did a wedding themed birthday party for herself. I found a couple different stories of women marrying themselves. For some reason, these are all painted in a positive light by them even though it's really just kind of sad. What is this specific kind of public L called and what would be the male equivalent?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:57 AM
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Did she come in heels but leave in her cozy fit?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:46 AM
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When Women are guests on a Male podcast
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:31 AM
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From our small sample, we have: Sweeney: 1 man, 1 woman Ms. Universe: 1 man Neither/meh: 2 men, 1 woman Too small for any real distinction, but "meh" wins
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 08:17 PM
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According to the original reel/science, most women prefer the woman on the right (last year's Ms. Universe, from Denmark) while most men prefer the woman on the left, Sydney Sweeney (I'd also pick her based on the photos). Original Reel
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 08:13 PM
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Q4A: Who is more attractive, left or right? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:28 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:23 AM
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1st
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 05:21 PM
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No, your clothes cost too much
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:55 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 09:25 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/vt520ld24i1g1.png?width=1170&format=png&auto=webp&s=d62a4106b3e5b8b56343cbd3a7849e58fb38c33d
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 11:02 PM
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Yeah, this makes it pretty clear you’re not arguing in good faith. I’m not required to pass some purity test because the person who reposted a video I referenced has unrelated baggage. That’s not how evidence or discussion works. You dragged in a completely unrelated controversy and then demanded I pretend it has something to do with the clip I referenced. That’s bad-faith guilt-by-association and I'm not obliged to treat it like a serious issue. I shared that tweet because the video itself was …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:44 PM
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<image> oh the brutality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:22 PM
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Image from the link that you provided: https://preview.redd.it/j0r18ppgwh1g1.png?width=2426&format=png&auto=webp&s=8e87f41c4acf4b6a83ffe18d95318dcb3131f0c4
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:15 PM
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Image from my other link: https://preview.redd.it/anu6gnnbwh1g1.png?width=1084&format=png&auto=webp&s=798c0f9a61d36e5bace33cd2db00c5145aca4f13
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:14 PM
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Alright I'm pretty sure you just want to drag me into a stupid back and forth, but I'll take the bait. These are the images from my link (2nd will be in a different reply): https://preview.redd.it/2uoeauzksh1g1.png?width=1084&format=png&auto=webp&s=377082186328a0b1d69743ab9ca9721c613c0289 No mention of Hitler or anything politically relevant, unless you consider Myron Gaines account name political in and of itself. And the image/video isn't about what Myron says, it's a video taken by Akaash's w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:14 PM
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Where did I agree with or even reference Myron's stance on Hitler? When did I identify myself with him to the point of being part of a "we"? I posted a link about the drama with Akaash and his wife. You’re the one who dragged in something completely unrelated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 06:36 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/r15jte159g1g1.jpeg?width=1084&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8d649af92acf362e1c54fbf50c5ae45dd6f1bfbc Same energy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:43 PM
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Somehow it gets worse man, insane work: https://x.com/MyronGainesX/status/1989519924482511061 https://x.com/koolaid_warrior/status/1989521337183052176?s=46
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 08:19 AM
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This Akaash thing goes beyond brutal, this is Mortal Kombat Fatality levels of brutal: https://np.reddit.com/r/Flagrant2/comments/1ouzyum/oof/ Youtube vid for some extra context
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:43 PM
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dog
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:58 AM
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Yeah, I think this is at least somewhat true. I saw a video last time of a guy talking about something similar, a drunk girl at a frat party wanted to sleep with a frat member, and when he declined and tried to get her sorority sisters to get her out she said something along the lines of "I'm gonna tell everyone you raped me and they're gonna believe me cuz I'm a pretty white girl" (story starts at 9:00). There was also that girl who had a threesome and then accused them of rape cuz she didn't w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 09:53 PM
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That comes from a bit of a misunderstanding of how the legal system handles these cases. Everyone starts with the presumption of innocence, that’s a cornerstone of criminal law. The issue with SA accusations (outside of how tricky situations can be to assess) is how “sticky” they are socially, even after a not-guilty verdict. But for someone to actually be convicted of lying about it, a court would have to be convinced beyond a reasonable doubt (which is like 95+ percent) that they intentionally…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 09:27 PM
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Generic Hallmark/Lifetime movies about the big wig corporate girly rediscovering the magic of Christmas when she returns to her small town be hittin sometimes ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 05:29 AM
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many such cases
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:39 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:23 AM
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Can't vouch for or say I've seen them, but it looks like there's a 1949 Samson and Delilah, and a 2018 Samson
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:19 PM
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It's from the Bible, long story short: Samson = chosen judge of Israel with supernatural strength (Old Testament, pre Jesus) Strength tied to his Nazirite vow (including never cutting his hair) Weakness for Philistine women (the enemy) led to downfall Delilah (Philistine) extracted the secret (she asked like 7 times I don't know how bro fell for it) → hair cut → strength gone → captured and blinded Final act: God restores his strength, he brings down the Philistine temple, killing himself and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:04 PM
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nah Samson's was the 3rd one too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:52 PM
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<image> brutal. advice: leave
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:25 PM
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Theoretically, self-esteem can be independent from external factors, but humans aren’t really built like that. We’re social beings and a lot of our self-image comes from how we think we’ll be perceived by others. Even at home, when you look more put-together, you’re still applying standards shaped by the culture you live in. If someone grew up completely isolated from other people, they wouldn’t care about jeans vs. sweatpants since they’d have no reference point for what “looking good” even mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:41 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DL86cFloy8d/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:22 AM
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Yes if I wear a nice outfit I feel more confident. I don't know what you mean by whether it should or shouldn't be that way, it's a studied phenomenon (enclothed cognition), that's just how humans work. It makes sense, the clothes you wear are a contextual social signal, if you dress in a way you anticipate being positively perceived you'll reflect that anticipated response internally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:13 AM
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darn it nvm
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 04:28 PM
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third
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 04:28 PM
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It's a 1 minute short just watch it From memory: Skinny jeans bad, simple outfit with little bit of flair good, argyle sweater good, being a gentlemen good, mixed messages on texting after a date
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 10:20 PM
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Q4W, are they spitting facts?: Girls Give Honest Advice to Guys: Fashion & Dating Tips
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 06:00 PM
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<image> Casanova came back
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:25 AM
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Will Your Boyfriend Still Be Hot in 20 Years? Men, this is what needs to be done to be alpha yogurt Chad when you're 50 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:01 PM
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Lol he's been like that, Aba & Preach have like 3 videos calling him out on it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qnq5qNUTqhc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 08:53 PM
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<image> Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 08:47 PM
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I Asked 100 People to Rank Their Own Attractiveness This was an interesting video, girls at 11:30 and 23:43 were most the most attractive imo, and the girl at 27:06 is a living caricature but I guess she helps defeat the "these people only exist online" claims
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:35 AM
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2nd
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:27 AM
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I'm in my bag these days
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 04:32 AM
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2nd
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 04:31 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/a3j5qsa1x8uf1.png?width=1226&format=png&auto=webp&s=011a97f547d053ada33312b7f69113b757483ab8 Yeah but this time we're right
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:34 AM
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No problem, it happens. However, the catastrophic statements will continue until morale improves
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 08:24 AM
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Alternatively, https://preview.redd.it/zawk1pbyk8uf1.png?width=1080&format=png&auto=webp&s=b8ce42b5aa83cb57c36a5a6e22c615e1533c358b
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 07:27 AM
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What are you talking about? Marriage rates have been trending down for decades, the average age of first marriage keeps going up, and many developed countries are now dealing with aging populations and shrinking birth rates. That’s the opposite of what you’re claiming. https://preview.redd.it/ohruzdujk8uf1.png?width=2160&format=png&auto=webp&s=55c90936cb16a314459da517482ce00d3bab9cf3 https://usafacts.org/articles/state-relationships-marriages-and-living-alone-us/ https://ourworldindata.org/data-…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 07:24 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DO4-Vl_k3y-/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 07:14 AM
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third
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 03:45 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DORICw6jiQz/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:30 AM
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third
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:24 AM
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For the cat posters
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:07 AM
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sorry that just means you're a performative male aka a covert misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:42 PM
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At a quick glance, around 11, but they all need different haircuts
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:41 PM
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Are you the nah id win because you're the strongest or are you the stand proud because you're the with this treasure I summon? Always bet on hakari
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:39 PM
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There's really people like this out there huh: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DPPcc_dkX8J/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 02:37 PM
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Women before hitting the wall: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dll6VJ2C7wo After the wall: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rK5TyISxZ_M
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 02:00 AM
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My point stands on its own. If I wanted to, I could find examples of women who look attractive with little to no makeup, and I’ve seen women themselves say they get approached more when they’re not heavily made up or that their partners are more attracted to them before the daily routine. But how does me showing pictures of women I think are attractive sans makeup add to the original conversation? That risks turning it from a logical assertion into a critique of random internet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:28 PM
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I never claimed that I, or men in general, are only attracted to women with zero makeup, so I don’t feel a need to defend that. Personally, I don’t like the caked-on/heavy makeup looks and usually prefer lighter or more natural styles. That doesn’t mean I can't find someone with heavy makeup attractive, but it’s not my preference. Besides, some of the most popular styles right now are literally “clean girl” and “no makeup makeup.” Meanwhile, more outlandish looks are straight up called “man repe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:59 PM
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Grooming is reductive: shaving or cutting your hair just sharpens what’s already there. Makeup is additive, it creates the illusion of features that don’t exist. Not saying makeup is evil, but they’re not the same thing. Cologne/perfume? Both sexes use it, but women also buy more. Putting your best experiences on a resume isn’t the same as inventing jobs you never had. That’s the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:32 PM
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Because they failed to overcome it and are showing the deficiencies associated with growing up without a father as a woman. The failed father's insult is in being a "deadbeat". Why is a man who's too emotionally bonded to his mother insulted as a "Momma's boy" when the mother is the one that instigated that dynamic? Same principle
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 09:33 PM
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I don't see it as a literal "whenever we're not together there's a 25% chance she's cheating" but more like a general marker of her supposed loyalty. It's not ideal but something has to give here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 04:59 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:19 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:19 PM
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think you might wanna switch to schizomaxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:51 PM
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I'm a 10: Status Games She knows it's not true (or she's delusional)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:49 PM
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I'm going: Face: 8/10 ($4) Body: 6/10 ($3) Personality: Moments ($3) Crazy: Phone ($2) Loyalty: ($3) I'd also be willing to switch face to $3 and personality to $4
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:45 PM
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You Get $15 to Build Your Ideal Woman <image> Guys what's the build gonna be? I gotta say this version is definitely tougher than the one he did for girls to answer Edit: You have to put at least $1 into every category
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:43 PM
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I'd say yeah, and Ivory > Charcoal but it also depends on your skin tone
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:38 PM
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Louis is out here coping
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:35 PM
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lol I'd take a "10/10 to me" if it was authentic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 02:58 AM
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I've seen a bit of his interview material, I think he's funny but not laugh out loud funny, more like you worry for his sanity funny. But he laughs at himself enough that you'd probably end up laughing just based off that Short film he made: Robert Pattinson Desperately Needs a New York City Hot Dog | GQ
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 02:57 AM
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College Girls Have $15 to Build Their Ideal Man <image> Ladies, what's the build looking like?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 02:13 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:18 AM
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<image> brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:45 PM
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Duplee's 7 Levels of Rapper video needs to be knighted or something, I've genuinely seen the format spread across every subculture and niche that crosses my Youtube feed at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:12 PM
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Because the system was not designed and created to unilaterally uplift men at the expense of women. If it was, men wouldn’t also be the majority of the population experiencing adverse outcomes in a large variety of circumstances (Apex Fallacy essentially) (Source 1). Secondly, I don’t reject that women have issues that are more prevalent among them as a group, however I do reject the ways in which some of these are presented and the narratives that are constructed around them in modern discourse…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 10:48 PM
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3rd
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:36 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 04:25 AM
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This Charlie Kirk stuff, specifically his "empathy" quote really shows how quickly discourse can break down on the internet nowadays, not even considering people's opinions on him, just on a factual relaying of his words. **People on the left quoting Kirk:** > "I can't stand the word empathy, actually. I think empathy is a made-up, new age term that — it does a lot of damage." + Makes it seem like he didn't care about others at all Scrolling Instagram, I come across this reel (with 80k likes) cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:03 AM
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third
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:22 AM
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wouldn't you like to know, weather boy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:57 PM
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No more pills, we're going by Chinese pick-up schools of attraction now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:56 PM
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Why Women Love Tall Men (according to science)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:59 AM
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Yeah, if it's at least a little interesting i'd listen on 2x speed, if not I'd probably throw the transcript in GPT and get the takeaways
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:47 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 07:09 AM
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Interesting lecture on the nature of love: Why You Need to Give Sex Up, To Find True Love | Plato’s Symposium Explained
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:36 AM
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I just watched the new Pop the Balloon episode, the disgust some women seem to have at even the thought of a man playing video games is not something I'm able to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:34 AM
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<image> Thetinmen stay goated: https://www.instagram.com/p/DOIz-7TDNTz/?igsh=b2h6bzZtdTc2Ym9k
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:57 PM
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First Edit: Third it is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 02:27 PM
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It's available to free users with limits
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:48 PM
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So it sounds like you're saying weaponized incompetence is fine, as long as it's used to avoid being taken advantage of. Is that your position?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 05:16 AM
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I checked, and I’d say your definition is a bit narrow. “Weaponized incompetence, also called strategic incompetence, is when someone knowingly or unknowingly demonstrates an inability to perform or master certain tasks, thereby leading others to take on more work.” - Psychology Today Fits the video to me. She faked not being able to do something she could do, which shifted the task to her partner. Personally, if I plan on doing a task later, especially with that same person around, I wouldn’t p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 05:09 AM
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Thank you, this is exactly what I'm getting at
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 05:00 AM
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Okay, a lot of the responses here seem to defend this as “helping the fragile male ego,” like it’s some noble act of emotional caretaking. For clarity, my issue isn’t that the wife asked for help, or that she should have done it herself just because she’s capable. It’s that she pretended she couldn’t, when she clearly could. If a man pretended he couldn’t pack his own lunch or do laundry just to get his girlfriend to do it for him, most people wouldn’t hesitate to call that weaponized incompeten…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:50 AM
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I disagree. I think a lot of men just want to feel appreciated for their contributions, whether or not their partner could’ve done the task themselves. From the responses here, it seems like appreciation only counts if the man does something the woman couldn't have done. If she could’ve done it, then it gets turned into a joke or made to feel like a performance, like a 5-year-old with dinosaurs. "I could’ve done it fine, but I’ll *allow* you to feel like your help meant something." Feels pretty …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:40 AM
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I meant "you" in the general sense, not towards you specifically. So pretending you can't take the doors off, when you actually can, in order to get your spouse to do it for you, doesn't qualify as weaponized incompetence because...?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:12 AM
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So preemptive weaponized incompetence is a thing now? You can be capable of a thing and still not need to be the person doing it 100% of the time. You also don't need to pretend you can't do that thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:02 AM
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On a larger scale, it delegitimizes women's arguments about weaponized incompetence because it shows they engage in the same behavior and don’t see an issue when the roles are reversed. On a smaller scale, it creates a relationship dynamic where one partner intentionally makes themselves look helpless to manipulate the other. If you want him to feel needed, just tell him you’d really appreciate his help, no need to pretend you’re incapable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 11:06 PM
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Yeah but there's a difference between asking them to do something for you as an expression of love vs pretending you can't do it to force them to instead. And I'd say they can perform helpfulness in whatever area they are better in or enjoy more, not because the other person has to pretend they can't do it, but because it's good for the relationship to do things for each other
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:56 PM
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It's better to exercise for the long-term though, cuz then you won't lose muscle along with fat, and your body will naturally burn more calories in the long-term
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:29 PM
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Q4A: Is this short video an example of weaponized incompetence or is it a woman "being in her feminine"? Tldw: A wife tells her husband she can’t remove the Jeep’s detachable doors and asks him to do it. Security camera footage shows she is entirely capable of removing them on her own. Women in the comments say this is to “let the man feel needed,” or blame hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:06 PM
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Man I hope so, still that's someone's life right now, except they might not even know it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 04:32 PM
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Brutal (Overheard Fiancee telling friend that being single mom led her to date me) It's crazy that the comments are trying to tell OP that no it's actually a good thing and he should take it positively that before she'd date for adrenaline and now that she has a kid she's dating for a better environment for her child
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 04:14 PM
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anxiety, keeps on trying me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:23 AM
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u/Reasonable_Mouse789 not quite the same but this video goes over women's preferred body fat % Spoiler: It's between 13 and 14.2%
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:01 AM
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The Gwyneth Paltrow gambit for Astronomer crisis management is an interesting one, we'll see if it pays off
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 08:58 PM
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There's like 10 dudes committing the red flag of taking shirtless pics to show off their muscles, I though that was an immediate red flag? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 08:34 PM
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Are We Dating the Same Guy? Inside the Viral Facebook Groups Changing Online Dating
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:29 AM
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Yeah I like it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:56 PM
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Gen Z Stare
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:14 PM
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first
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:21 PM
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I like it, but I'm iffy on the buttons, think it'd look better without them. Leaning no
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:49 AM
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Talking about people in 30s + 40s: "The men I spoke to who are doing quite well... they're having a lot of fun... the women I spoke to are not having fun, they say that dating used to be fun in their 20s"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:14 PM
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"Nice guys who have basic social skills and a job seem to have more romantic options than ever, especially on dating apps" - Real thing said by news reporter on TV
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:14 PM
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Fair enough, think it has a nicer drape though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:13 PM
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This little news segment is a small goldmine
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:09 PM
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This one's better
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:52 PM
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Says she's a relationship coach, but there's no credentials. Do you just wake up and decide to make people pay you after your friends tell you you give good advice or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:50 PM
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b-b-b-based feminist woman?!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:49 PM
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There was a study done on this, women rate a man nearly a full point higher in a high status car (Bentley) as they do a neutral car (Ford Fiesta). I've also observed women, both on social media and in real life admiring cool or expensive cars, and I have no reason to believe that would not have an effect on their perception of the car owner. <image> Link to Study
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:53 PM
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u/Ok-Abrocoma-8005 has been active for 15 minutes and done nothing but insult people <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 07:40 PM
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I got it from the Pop The Balloon sub, the creator said they watched all the episodes and used the trends they saw to create it: https://np.reddit.com/r/PopTheBalloon/comments/1lv95b6/comment/n24e8pp/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:36 PM
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https://pop-the-balloon.streamlit.app/ <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:21 PM
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The Science Behind an Attractive Outfit If you're gonna watch it do the audience poll
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:29 PM
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I definitely notice this when it comes to the idea of men paying for the first date. Lots of women will say it shows "generosity" or the capability to take care of a family, despite the fact that it's a weak proxy that anyone can display once or twice without any deeper relevance, compared to consistently showing kindness or thoughtfulness, things that are harder to falsify over time. If you want the man to pay it doesn't need to be backed by some great moral insight, you can just like that it m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:32 PM
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Some positive relationship content: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DLEF3F9OXyQ/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:56 PM
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From reading your comment, it seems like you might have self-worth/esteem issues that would be good to work on. I looked at your profile and I wouldn't say you're ugly, and even if you were, plenty of unattractive people have been able to have happy and healthy relationships. America has its fair share of unattractive people, but it also has some of the most attractive people in the world. I think your issue is really in how you're framing and interpreting things to end up putting yourself in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:11 PM
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This is revisionism, Messi is the goat but Lamine Yamal is far and away the better player at 17 and has shown up over and over in big matches this season
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 01:44 AM
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The Sequel w/ their kid: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKTr3L1xIG9/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:11 PM
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Yes – Doesn’t like drinking alcohol – Doesn’t like doing physical activity (maybe) – Dreams of getting married and having kids – Thinks watching porn is bad – Has small breasts Maybe – Voted for Donald Trump (no + maybe) – Voted for Kamala Harris (yes + maybe) – Wants to live in a motorhome and travel across the country (no + maybe) – Lives on a farm and is all about the farming lifestyle (no + maybe) No – Uses cocaine at least once a month – Openly dislikes religion – Has Bipolar Syndrome – Wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:50 AM
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Yes – Different race (maybe) – Goes to church every Sunday – Really quiet – Really talkative (maybe) – Waiting till marriage – Stay-at-home mom (maybe) – Lives with her parents No – Different religion – Smokes – Asexual – Lives 1000 miles away – Alcohol issues – Does OF – Has two kids – 50+ sexual partners – Taller than me (maybe) – Gets drunk + hungover weekly – In a sorority – Doesn’t want kids – Dislikes video games – In the military (maybe) – 6’3” (maybe) – 200 lbs (maybe) – Same name as my …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:15 AM
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Mulan, Rapunzel, Tiana, Jasmine
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:01 PM
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Quadeca - Monday
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:52 AM
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What's toxic about it? He's teaching him to understand his emotions, no? He didn't ever reprimand him for the act of crying either, and explained the events that led up to it and what he needed to do to remedy it. I'd say it's tough love, but what would you have done differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:32 AM
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What part do you think he's too young for? It sets a good foundation for the kid to learn emotional regulation, and the dad does all of those things in his process as well
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:03 AM
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Q4A: Is this W or L parenting and does this show a gendered difference in how parents act? https://www.instagram.com/reel/DI1MmIzO15j/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== The comments have a bunch of women talking about how they just want to scoop the kid up immediately and dry his tears etc etc, and though I'm sure there are plenty of women who would've acted more like the father here, I'm inclined to see his actions as a more masculine way of dealing with this situation. Also I'd…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 04:13 AM
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Relevant reel: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DILpWLsxUC2/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Personality seems to play a role only after you reach the threshold for attraction. I'd argue this is more of a short-term thing though, in long-term contexts having a desirable personality probably has more of an effect, especially for women's attraction to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:47 PM
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Yeah like I said it does looks like the interviewer was being a bit bad faith, but honestly that just adds to my point. Despite being the victim, the woman's actions contributed to what happened to her, and many people not only point that out, but uses it to absolve the aggressor of their personal responsibility, while in other contexts that line of thinking suddenly becomes unconscionable. It's just a really blatant double standard in modern discourse. Reminds me of this Bill Burr bit on hittin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:14 PM
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I need to start posting my saved videos here, I'm too much of a perfectionist when it comes to presenting my ideas and have like a million saved at this point. But this one's pretty new so imma just let it rip. I generally hold the opinion that most people are hypocrites in some sense and that some cognitive dissonance is largely part of the human experience, but it's funny to see it play out ideologically. There's this viral video of a pro-life interviewer getting sucker punched by the lady she…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:34 PM
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Man but relevant reel: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DHzaPDoylBA/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:14 AM
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My timer has French-Toast a minute before
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:32 PM
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Tres
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:13 PM
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Case in point, start pattern interruption maxing (this is not an endorsement of the types of messages this guy sends): https://youtu.be/qxPQK5CSbh4?si=Kv5U3-DdgWXx-xNM
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:56 PM
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This story is crazy, but ngl I feel like he should've taken one look at her and known what type of a person she was, she has those vibes: Stalking, FAKE Pregnancy And Premeditated SA! TikToker EXPOSED Summary: This video is about a TikToker named Denisha Carter who is being exposed for her actions. Here's a breakdown: Denisha harassed a man online after they had a one-night stand. She lied about being pregnant to manipulate him into seeing her. She tried to get his address to dox him. She lied a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 03:13 AM
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Saw this on ig, top 2 comments were dudes saying no your wife deserves the world for sticking with you, they had like 30k likes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 03:07 AM
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Go check out this thread: https://np.reddit.com/r/Advice/comments/1iegaur/my_fianc%C3%A9e_admitted_she_doesnt_find_me_physically/ Some comments: "Confession here: I have never been attracted to my boyfriend. I've known him for decades and when we were in college, I stopped seeing him for that reason because I was young and shallow and had lots of options for beautiful fellows. He had a decent physique, tall enough, slim enough, but I just wasn't into really pale blonds (he was teased in school a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:09 AM
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SMV test: https://smvcalculator.replit.app/ Video I got it from: How Do YOU Compare To The AVERAGE MAN?? My results, I estimated some of the inputs though: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:22 AM
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No way that's real, bro's just showing interest 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:57 PM
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Case in point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:53 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/4sm8xe67nyke1.png?width=1354&format=png&auto=webp&s=63569bb782699efd7396833325f5952b3d563c7a
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:54 PM
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do you feel like you fall into the archetype for being an attractive black man (like more street or Duke Dennis nonchalant dreadhead type), and do you feel it affects your dating success?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:28 AM
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Save this thread for the next time someone argues that physical attraction is an obvious standard for women and shouldn't need to be stated, cuz there's a bunch of women in the comments talking about how they don't care about physical attraction and that it's not important. According to one commenter: "Because for men this things are important. For women your looks is far, far on the list. I would go for guy that is respectful, has strong moral integrity, honesty, kindness and patience. Find me …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:41 AM
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Same vibes: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DABPJwhuDJ8/?igsh=MWR5cnFvMG5xeTBtcQ==
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:50 AM
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Interesting. A family member of mine grew up Catholic but later left and often shared their concerns about some Catholic practices, including this one, so I wanted to hear from someone who actively practices the faith. I obviously don’t have the same exposure as you, but it’s an area I’ve been curious about before. I can see how looking to the saints as role models and inspiration could be valuable, but veneration seems like it might take things a step further than what I’m comfortable with. Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:13 PM
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What's your opinion on the veneration of Mary and the Saints in Catholicism and do you believe it clashes with the proclamation that Jesus is the only mediator between God and man? "For there is one God and one mediator between God and mankind, the man Christ Jesus" 1 Tim 2:5
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 08:44 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:43 AM
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Hard to say, but I'd say unless it's to create a power imbalance you can abuse, no, not necessarily
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:11 AM
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I find it funny that she sounds so in line with red pill ideas/hypergamy even though her content seemingly has no overlap with dating content, so this is legit just how she feels : https://www.instagram.com/reel/C-TMx0UO1rD/?igsh=MWhjZm93ZHlpc3FxZg==
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:31 AM
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The rest of what point? Your entire argument is predicated on the Tiktok being representative of the "low-quality" options available to women. And like I said, if a man is low quality for not spending $3 on cheese for his burger, you are not being serious about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:50 AM
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Yeah this didn't happen and the woman in this video has issues. So first she claims she got up and paid for the entire bill after eating and then blocked him. (And why is paying for the both of them some sort of big deal when she apparently decided to do so of her own volition because she was so disgusted by financial responsibility?) Additionally, the video says nothing about him being "cheap" with the waitress, they had a normal restaurant interaction. Then after she gets hate for it she (defe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:22 AM
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I wasn’t talking about kids Well I don't think many people contest that older women can still have relationships, just that they aren't in position to demand as much from them. I don’t know why redpill men think women don’t know their biological clock, but if a woman isn’t a mother by 40 it’s probably because of something unfortunate that happened to her or it isn’t very important to her. Because women talk about it or show it through their actions. Cases in point: Example 1 - 38 yr old single d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:55 PM
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Yes I agree, but telling men all women prefer to date over 6 ft is not productive. Most men >are under 6 ft and their wives didn’t settle for them and most likely finds them attractive. Sure, but telling the 5'5 guy whose struggled with dating and doesn't understand why, since he has everything he thinks he needs (a decent job, kindness, thoughtfulness, being a gentlemen) that women like taller men does help him understand what his problem is. Maybe he starts wearing boots at add a little height…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:03 AM
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It's not really about that, it's more about the assumption that everyone is conspiring together with >their gender to create an outcome. If lots of women like flowers on dates, it's not a conspiracy that they all got together and decided >that men should bring flowers. That's where the thinking of most people on this sub collapses. Maybe I haven't paid attention but I haven't particularly noticed people saying that men or women consciously decided as a group to do something, just that that's wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:31 AM
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But do you disagree that women typically do care about income and height? You should treat people as individuals, but you can also acknowledge ways in which masses of individuals tend to act the same. No, it shouldn't cause you to treat them differently, but it lets you know that there seems to be some sort of gender divide, or at least a perceived gender divide. Everyone is against the grain on something, but most people are with the grain on most things or else that wouldn't be the grain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:36 AM
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Personally, I find this kind of thinking a bit reductive. Yes, I agree, not every man or every woman falls under the umbrella of "men do x" or "women do y". And I agree that people aren't necessarily going about life hyper analyzing every choice they make to specifically hurt others, gender based or otherwise. But noticing and studying trends in people's decisions, and seeing how and why they may differ isn't a stupid thing to do, especially when you can notice substantial differences and perhap…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:14 AM
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If I'm reading what you're saying correctly, I'd have to somewhat disagree. In my head (and probably most men's) the defining feature of a hookup person is sexual attractiveness, and there may be things that prevent them from being LTR material, but the fact is, they're hot. Whereas being LTR material decreases the need for sexual attractiveness with greater value being placed on other aspects of the relationship. Which is why you can be marriage material without being hookup material (good but …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:18 PM
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The original post off of which this is based, as well as OP's rendition of it both fail to use the word "just", because being told "you're not just hookup material" is a completely different statement in meaning than "you're not hookup material". The fact that almost everyone I've seen defend this statement inserts a "just" into it shows that you recognize the difference between the two but won't openly acknowledge it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:13 PM
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I'm not even joking but you might need to go to therapy for this. If you intellectually understand that she's a great gf but don't emotionally respond to it, you should probably figure out why so you can fix it now instead of regretting it later.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 07:16 PM
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Okay, been a lurker for a while and this post finally prompted me to make an account, so I'll try throwing my two cents in. What you have to understand is that generally, as a woman, receiving sexual attention from men doesn't seem inherently special because "men only want one thing". A man being sexually attracted to you isn't a big deal/doesn't say anything in particular about his overall feelings for you. What is a big deal is a man being emotionally and relationally invested in you (using yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:27 PM
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Well in this case, it's because at least sexually, both guys get the same thing - sex, but one guy got it by existing and the other guy got it as a reward for extensive investment. I think you're conflating everything else that comes with marriage with the sexual aspect here. On the surface of it, the married guy isn't getting anything sexually Mr. Casual sex didn't, it just cost him a lot more to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:16 PM
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