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| 28 | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationships | Discussion | FaceRaterDemon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 08:20 PM |
| 22 | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from? | Question for BluePill | FaceRaterDemon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 02:56 AM |
| 1 | CMV: being Bluepilled is still aligning yourself with a pill | CMV | FaceRaterDemon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 05:08 PM |
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| 1 | CMV: being Bluepilled is still aligning yourself with a pillIf theyre a free agent that would assume that both the red and bluepill are a team which would imply the bluepill is a pill 😳😳 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 03:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: being Bluepilled is still aligning yourself with a pillYea see thats what i was saying, there must have been a set of beliefs under the satire if it is to oppose the redpill so I honestly have no idea but thats what lead me to believe it had core beliefs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 03:39 PM |
| 1 | CMV: being Bluepilled is still aligning yourself with a pillI dont actually think the core beliefs of red pill are different to what bluepillers call common sense, its just they developed misogynistic views so the bluepill was created to clash them imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 03:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV: being Bluepilled is still aligning yourself with a pillSo if you believe some of the redpills core beliefs but not all of them are you read or bluepilled? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 03:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV: being Bluepilled is still aligning yourself with a pillThe blue pill was a satire created to oppose the red pill (according to the r/TheBluePill subreddit) Also in reference to the second point, im talking about some of the core beliefs of redpill, if you disagree with some but agree with others, does that make you bluepilled? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 06:12 AM |
| 1 | CMV: being Bluepilled is still aligning yourself with a pillAh ok i see But surely if it was made to oppose the redpill then it has a criteria of things which it disagrees with the redpill on? Also where do you fall if you partially agree with redpilled ideas, but disagree with others, does that make you bluepilled? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 05:45 AM |
| 1 | CMV: being Bluepilled is still aligning yourself with a pillYeah this is probably the best answer because the people who align themselves with the bluepill online quite obviously have some set of beliefs IMO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 05:09 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Tiktok told me that I never jumped to that conclusion, i was just asking a question to bluepilled people. My decision to not research bluepill, because i never cared to has nothing to do with critical thinking, nor gullibility 4 when the only piece of information that i have about the blue pill is that all they talk about is personality, critical thinking cannot help me to fill in the information gaps. Please give up on this stupidity and check up on your definitions 🙏🙏 It doesnt require critica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 05:28 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Oh yeah lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 05:10 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Last point i agree with, i have spoken to alot of these people though and you do have to feel for them, there was a guy who was 5”5 and allegedly ‘subhuman face’ and a very bad stutter which couldnt be fixed with speech therapy, and so he had social anxiety and even if he didnt have social anxiety his personality would still be hindered by the fact that he would find it incredibly difficult to speak I think that was the first time i felt quite alot of empathy for some of those people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 05:09 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Brutal 😔 i agree tho tbh, but this is just a theoretical so the digging to find her isnt really important we just have to go off the assumption that he will find her Jfl at that tho digging to find someone genetically deformed 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 05:06 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Yeah i agree with that although i heavily disagree with the moneypill, i think its a stupid concept, that could easily lead to artificial relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 05:04 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Thats not obvious from the name is it. You wouldnt hear “blue pill” and be like that must mean not pilled. So again another information gap. The only piece of information i had heard about the blue pill is that all they talk about is personality Ergo its the only piece of information i had Ergo everything else is an information gap. Stop trying to make problems its making you sound silly lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 05:03 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Very sorry to hear that, wishing you the best :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:59 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?His physical attraction is 0/10, his personality is 10/10, Im not sure if youre saying that he wouldnt be able to date above his physical looks or whether you’re avoiding the question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:59 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Please do keep in mind though, a 0/10 would be someone with genetic deformities, while a 3 or 4 would be a normal below average person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:55 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?I dont think anyone else agrees with you, so please elaborate on why/how (please dont take this as an attack or me saying youre wrong because my current views are different. Im open minded and interested in other viewpoints but everyone thinks im red/blackpilled) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:54 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Im not pilled in any direction i think they are all wrong but all have kernels of truth. I just find speaking to people and debating on these topics interesting lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:52 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Competent answer, i wont try and get a numerical answer out of you now, thank you 😊 🙏🙏🙏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:51 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Just want number. This is theoretical situation. The only thing the woman and the man are different on is looks, everything else is the same, class, education level, money, etc, the only variable is the looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:50 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?This is a theoretical, what happens in practice doesnt matter because its a theoretical situation. When they give an answer, it will likely have required some deeper processing and also coming across the kernels of truth in the red and blackpills. Hence why i am getting alot of people avoiding answering it and doing what feels like virtue signalling, although i know this is a very nuanced topic and a difficult question to answer. I think it mostly challenges their views in that the personality c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:48 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Thank you for the brief and simple yet informative response. Im getting alot of what feels like virtue signalling because it is pretty grim to say that personality couldnt pull you up in this situation. I think some of the people here would disagree with what you said about the looks threshold though, i think thats a relatively redpilled/blackpilled concept I agree in this situation but it’s obviously a very nuanced topic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:45 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Small caveat tho Ok now ill cut it down so it is easier to give a better answer because i know the question is nuanced and it varies person to person and also you could cherry pick examples of very very ugly men with very good looking women The context is this: it is a long term relationship/marriage, the love is authentic and real (ie didnt just marry coz the guy was rich) and you have to be able to get the same result consistently, giving every 0/10 man a perfect personality, they will all gen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:42 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?I think the theoretical is very much based on the fact that the person is a 0/10, it requires alot of mental processing to reach an answer, in which you would probably come across the kernels of truth in the red and black pills. im a firm believer a 6/10 could wind up marrying a 10/10 because they are a perfect match personality wise, however i dont think a 0/10 man could wind up with a 4/10 women, so i think it is a very interesting theoretical to get insight from bluepilled people in particula… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:42 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?I didnt do anything gullible, it was just an information gap i had never heard of anything about the blue pill other than that they talk alot about personality. Me being gullible would be me believing something untrue. I cannot be gullible if i wasnt given anything to believe. You may want to check your understanding of english, or alternatively the assumptions you put onto people because of a one paragraph post they wrote online. That attack was entirely unnecessary lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:32 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Thank you for answering 🙏🙏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:26 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Im simply interested in opinions and trying to make people challenge their views. This is a theoretical, this theoretical is entirely unobservable because people born with genetic disorders will likely be greatly effected in other areas which prevent them from socialising effectively enough to have a perfect personality, and also there are other deterrents like the risk of the child of these people being born with the genetic disease aswell, which would make these men further undesirable. Thus w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:23 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Im asking you to go simply off your opinion, absolutely no data involved, im not particularly looking for scientific responses, just opinions from bluepilled people, In reference to your second part, these men arent just ugly, they are gentically deformed. Do you think that these men could consistently, with a perfect personality, get girls who are not genetically deformed, that is an easier question to answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:19 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Whats the highest do you think they could consistently get with a perfect personality though, do you think it would go up and if so, how much. Thank you for giving an answer regardless, it does feel as if some people responding to the question are avoiding it and virtue signalling because it isnt a nice realistic answer (in my opinion) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:17 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Yes those are the men im referencing, this is a theoretical simply to make people challenge their views | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:15 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Completely agree, could you answer the second question perchance 😁 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:13 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Never too nuanced to give me an average of all the results you would expect to find out /10 😁👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:09 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Stay single… brutal, sounds pretty blackpilled to me lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:04 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Ok now ill cut it down so it is easier to give a better answer because i know the question is nuanced and it varies person to person and also you could cherry pick examples of very very ugly men with very good looking women The context is this: it is a long term relationship/marriage, the love is authentic and real (ie didnt just marry coz the guy was rich) and you have to be able to get the same result consistently, giving every 0/10 man a perfect personality, they will all generally end up wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:03 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Just so you know, im not here to argue in any particular direction, just here to make people challenge their own views for deeper mental processing 😁👍 and so it may come across as me arguing for the red/blackpill at points when im more just interested in the answers people will give | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:03 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Ok now ill cut it down so it is easier to give a better answer because i know the question is nuanced and it varies person to person and also you could cherry pick examples of very very ugly men with very good looking women The context is this: it is a long term relationship/marriage, the love is authentic and real (ie didnt just marry coz the guy was rich) and you have to be able to get the same result consistently, giving every 0/10 man a perfect personality, they will all generally end up wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:01 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Ok now ill cut it down so it is easier to give a better answer because i know the question is nuanced and it varies person to person and also you could cherry pick examples of very very ugly men with very good looking women The context is this: it is a long term relationship/marriage, the love is authentic and real (ie didnt just marry coz the guy was rich) and you have to be able to get the same result consistently, giving every 0/10 man a perfect personality, they will all generally end up wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:01 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Ok now ill cut it down so it is easier to give a better answer because i know the question is nuanced and it varies person to person and also you could cherry pick examples of very very ugly men with very good looking women The context is this: it is a long term relationship/marriage, the love is authentic and real (ie didnt just marry coz the guy was rich) and you have to be able to get the same result consistently, giving every 0/10 man a perfect personality, they will all generally end up wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:00 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Im talking abour authentic love, long term relationship. Where personality has the greatest effect. I think no one ever has an answer to this question, maybe because theyre virtue signalling because whatever the answer is it will still probably be pretty brutal, and also because it is very nuanced because of course it varies person to person and you could easily cherry pick examples where a. 0/10 has ended up with a good looking woman So ill cut it down This is for a long term relationship, with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 03:56 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Even if you werent you could still find a woman because there are also going to be women who are pretty fugly. Also i would argue that all of that criteria is contained within the red and blue pill, just with varying degrees of importance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 03:51 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Ok, please could you answer the second q in my post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 03:48 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Do you think a person with severe genetic disorders which completely mess up the face and give an uncanny appearance (0/10) could get a woman who is low level attractiveness but with no genetic disorders (2.5/10) and i mean consistently, because you can always cherry pick examples. I personally dont think this could happen (consistently) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 03:47 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Then the next question i would ask is what is the peak level of physical attractiveness that a 1/10 man could have romantic relations with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 03:44 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?I think there is a difference between unattractive and assholes/awful because there is part of the asshole personality which is assertive and sure of yourself and thus masculine, which is attractive. I would frame an unattractive personality as being boring, antisocial, and unsure of yourself more so than being an asshole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 03:42 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Then i guess my next question would be what do you think the highest level of attractiveness that a 1/10 man could have relations with would be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 03:39 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?As I said in the post im not very well versed in the bluepill, i didnt even know until 1 minute ago that they thought looks played a role lol. My bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 03:38 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Do you disagree with the degree to which the black and redpill say looks are important | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 03:37 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Ah ok, thanks for clarifying. I guess this should be a blackpill vs bluepill argument and ignore the redpill. Because my question is pretty much all revolving around looks and physical attractiveness rather than anything else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 03:36 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?I said in my post that I wasnt talking in reference to the misogynistic views which i assume you meant by hatey. Im mostly talking about their views on looks and how important they are for the dating market | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 03:34 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?I do think though that an unattractive personality can really bring a good looking guys appeal down. Also its definitely not just money and looks. Also money is more of a redpill thing than a blackpill thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 03:32 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Yeah I was grouping gender roles under misogynistic but of course the belief that these views are misogynistic varies between people and cultures. I personally dont think these views are inherently misogynistic but I didnt want to write something which would cause a separate debate I guess a greater question is, how far do you think personality can increase your smv. This question is obviously very nuanced because imo a 6/10 guy could be a 10/10 with a perfect personality but it doesnt have the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 03:29 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 03:20 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Any chance you could go into greater depth on that first sentence, thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 03:20 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Hence do you believe there are kernels of truth in both the red and even blackpill (because genetics are the greatest determinant of how you look) there is only so far you can go without surgery | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 03:17 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Can you just answer the question. Yes i believe that 1/10 looks can make you unable to have any sexual relationships and love that doesnt come from your family or friends And i also think that there is no way a 1/10 could get a 10/10 with personality. Just because i am begging a question doesnt mean i am not asking it. Your comment was pointless and a waste of time replying to. Just because you wrote your comment all eloquently doesnt mean your reply was intelligent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 03:14 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Also then surely the redpill or maybe even the blackpill applies if you are unable to get the 10/10 girl with personality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 03:03 AM |
| – | Do you guys honestly not understand where Redpilled and Blackpilled people are coming from?Near impossible, i mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 03:02 AM |
| – | Do men want a woman like this?Firstly, this isnt love, this is completely seperate to love, this is just fulfilling your gender role in a relationship. The fact you think this is love shows that youre very pilled. This is a very extreme case, fulfilling your gender role is fine and how a majority of relationships are run Giving the man full jurisdiction to do what he wants and to control your life is not love, nor a normal relationship, and so is not optimal. I would probably enjoy this treatment for a few weeks but I would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Do men want a woman like this?If this is your idea of love and relationships I assure you YOU ARE BETA BUXX JFL 😹😹😹 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Do men want a woman like this?What are you on about. I just disagree, genuinely. Your relationships (if you have had any) thus far have not been founded on love. They have been founded on sexual attraction at best | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Do men want a woman like this?Its not a question of gender roles, its about having your wife as a sex and looking after chuldren slavery | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Do men want a woman like this?Just explain it 😭😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Do men want a woman like this?No i dont want to be an atm not a husband. Idk if youre beta buxx or something but that isnt how relationships work jfl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Do men want a woman like this?Correct about what | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 12:09 PM |
| 4 | Do men want a woman like this?Im literally a man 😭😭 you arent going to have relationships with real love if this is your ideal relationship with a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 02:53 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Assuming all else equal, looks and neurotypicality are the most important factors in both dating and general lifeYes the non NT pill is very brutal but you could try low inhib maxxing they talk about it on looksmax website, but be aware it is an awful place you dont want to get stuck in. I think if you are high inhib and non nt then drinking alcohol it will make it worse but maybe low inhib non nt might make you show less autistic symptoms, not sure. Good luck to you regardless and dont turn to the blackpill, just try to learn how to NT larp lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 01:29 AM |
| -2 | Do men want a woman like this?This isnt what love is and your brain is horrendously warped. You want a slave, not a wife | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Do men want a woman like this?He needs to be getting alot of head to be caring for 2 kids that arent his jfl 😹 probably in that situation, praising him like a king and giving him anything he wants is the best you can do However in general i dont think men want this. Best relationships are where both partners are like absolute best friends, who also deeply love eachother, and of course act as a partner to one and other and also have sex lol. As a man i dont want a slave or overly tradwife woman i want someone who i can enjoy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 01:13 AM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsI dont understand the wording. You will not manipulate me into thinking about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 01:08 AM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsCan you just explain it 😔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 01:05 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Assuming all else equal, looks and neurotypicality are the most important factors in both dating and general lifeAlot of the people that end up on incel forums (you dont have to type it like that btw lol) are people who are nt and literally develop autism like tendencies when interacting with people in the real world because the forums make them so high inhib that they cannot speak to people properly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 01:04 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Assuming all else equal, looks and neurotypicality are the most important factors in both dating and general lifeI suppose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 12:54 AM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsYeah pretty much what i think summed up lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 12:23 AM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsOng the only time the red pill is remotely applicable is in short term unserious relations Imagine having to think all the time about dropping “game” on your wife or girlfriend so they will have sex with you Just fucking laugh 😹😹 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 12:21 AM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsTrue tbh although i do think there are some problems with the dating market that have come with the boom in social media and entertainment industry that have made it harder for less good looking men to find connections. However that doesnt mean that these me are right in their beliefs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 12:17 AM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationships😹😹😹 real lol. But hard to know what comes first. I think its a cycle and they perpetuate eachother ie lack of sex makes man overthink, man who over thinks too much has gets no relationship or sexual experience Then eventually falls into inceldom and misogyny and is permanently prevented from having relations until they escape | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 12:10 AM |
| 3 | What do you think of hypergamy?Men can do it to lol. Theres a guy called hoe_math on tiktok he explains how to avoid getting used for money pretty well. While of course I understand the brutality of the world towards less good looking men the blackpill massively over exaggerates how bad it is Its not over friend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 12:08 AM |
| 0 | Too many women want a father, not a husband.I didnt do any of that nor did i say it was a utopia nor did i say that either gender is incapable of filling the role of the other. You must have misinterpreted what i said because the person I originally replied to got it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 11:45 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of hypergamy?Yeah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 11:37 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Assuming all else equal, looks and neurotypicality are the most important factors in both dating and general lifeYou can also knock on the door (personality) and they might open it 🤷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 10:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Assuming all else equal, looks and neurotypicality are the most important factors in both dating and general lifeBasically by extension youre saying looks and personality are the most important because it is extremely difficult for someone with autism to have a personality that is attractive because they struggle to understand emotions, so basically just a mixture of all the pills lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 10:58 PM |
| 5 | What do you think of hypergamy?Not bluepilled but i dont really think its a bad thing. Id do it too to women if the opportunity arose. It is advantageous regardless of sex to increase your social standing, and your money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 10:55 PM |
| 3 | What do you think of hypergamy?Hence them saying it is educational hypergamy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 10:53 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsBlud this has nothing to do with pua this is all to do with when youre in a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 10:34 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsFag ass boi i we went on one date and i only paid for it because i had a gift card for the restaurant. One time i threw up coz of food poisoning and was extremely ill for 2 days. She bought me flowers, a drink to make sure i have enough energy in my system and some food to help me heal I didnt ask her for any of that. On christmas she spent hours making a whole personalised box and ordered personalised jewellery for me and also gave me some sweets I bought her a necklace and some sweets and robb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 10:33 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsI referenced pretty much everything you said at the end But also you cant compare proffessions to human emotion and interaction, it is much more nuanced, you dont want to be actively thinking all the time about the situation you’re in or your love will be unnatural, applying the pills or creating rules for yourself on how to behave will detach you from the relationship and make it feel like a job or a project rather than a relationship Thus ruining the experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 10:27 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsI retracted some of my point. Its not bad to analyse in hindsight but you wont have proper love affairs trying to do it based of analysis and also following the pills and what they say to do. Your love will feel unnatural and you wont be able to be yourself. Either way the relationship will fail. You dont want to spend your whole life living a lie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 10:15 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsIdrk what you mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 10:14 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsExplain? People always no what they want they just might not want to say it to not hurt your feelings, or they dont want to have to say it out loud for you to so something about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 10:13 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsYes because every person is different and relationships work if you are actually a match and not just putting on a ruse to try and impress women. That guy might get ons at a club. It doesnt matter in relationships. If your personalities aren’t compatible, you arent going to win her over by redpilling and improving your looks or getting more money. The best youll get is sleeping together once. Im sure when you run into that as a girl it must feel so plastic and fake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 10:12 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsThis is true for everyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 10:07 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsI utilised alot of manipulation in the 6 months after we broke up and i understand it a great deal. Also if you know a person well enough you can see when theyre acting out of character I somewhat pride myself in my ability to recognise and also utilise manipulation even though it is a bad thing to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 10:05 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsYou learn through experience and reading the other person what they want. Everyone secretly knows what they want but they dont want to have to say it out loud for you to act on it. And no of course not it doesnt all lie on one persons shoulders. I was just cherry picking an example | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 09:54 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsYou do not get it just as accurate as the people involved jfl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Your location is the biggest factor in success in datingGood point actually. Although idk if you would count china as developed or not but ive had 3 older women from china comment on how handsome i am (one being my school teacher jfl) that i dont really get from other races. Idk 🤷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 09:51 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsI suppose so for non NT people but you will get the best experiences and most authentic love when you dont have to think alot about it. Me just doing what i wanted to do made for a brilliant early relationship and also a messy end. But i would rather have the extremely authentic, real love that i had at the start, and deal with the messy end, than have the relationship still going on but im analysing my every move to make sure everything is going well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 09:47 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsI also learnt alot about myself as a result of us ending things. I would probably go back into the relationship and change things if i could. But the 6 months afterwards were not worth it whatsoever. But they were exciting and fun. I dont think there was anything that could be done to undo the toxicity which arose once we broke up and no amount of analysis could give me an answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 09:43 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsThe point is if you over analyse a relationship while you’re in it. The way you behave will feel robotic, and you will compromise yourself and eventually either the relationship wont work out or you will hate being in it because you are just following a set of rules you have created for yourself on how to behave. When it is better to go with the flow. Furthermore it is rare that you get as much insight as i gave on the nature of a relationship, if you look at relationships from an outsiders pers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 09:40 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsKeep it that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 09:35 PM |
| 0 | Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women?Preselection 😁 wealth is cope for not being attractive enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 09:35 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsYou ask the person what they want. There is no way to understand why human brains act the way they do with out vast study of human psychology (not vast study of relationships) also if you really want it to work your way just learn manipulation tactics Pretty evil but pretty consistent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 09:34 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsYou cannot understand relationship dynamics the same way you understand peoples relationships and the fact that you are making that comparison as if human emotions and cognition, aswell as literal parts of relationships you have no idea about are as simple as a heart attack screams cope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 09:32 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsBetter to learn through experience and then hindsight. You dont know what goes on in relationships behind closed doors. It is pointless analysing relationships you arent in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 09:26 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsView* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 09:24 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsSo real 💀💀 debating people on this topic is fun but being around it enough will give you a warped world ciew | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 09:24 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsWdym | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 09:23 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsIonships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 09:23 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsNot everyone on this subreddit is incelled but their way of thinking is seriously autistic and overly logical and will lead to failed relat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 09:23 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsYes this girl is only going to be capable of having proper relationships if i keep her blocked and dont interract with her at all. She had a couple rebounds after we finished things and of course they all failed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 09:22 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsNo no no no no it was not like that. Do not take this as some blackpill lesson. I didnt cheat officially but i didnt some stuff that people may consider cheating or similar too it. I did something which i didnt consider cheating buy looked very very bad in hindsight. We were very extremely in love. Got into a relationship 2 weeks after knowing eachother. Said i love you after 3. We saw eachother everyday for 6 months and it only stopped when i went on holiday with my family. Our relationship was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 09:21 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsIf you over analyse it you will have fake relationships which feel unnatural | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 08:53 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsAligning yourself with any of the pills puts you one step of the way to inceldom, and will give you non nt views of relationships, being on these subreddits and forums is funny but because theyre echo chambers they have mortifying effects on your views on relationships. I need to get out of here tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 08:42 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsMaybe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 08:33 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsI havent really spoken to her in person for like a year but i can tell there is still very high emotions still going around from both sides but i know its not right ro get back with her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 08:31 PM |
| – | People in this subreddit brutally over analyse relationshipsHer jfl coz i did some things which im not particularly proud of We kept at it for like 6 months after we broke up anyway but it was destined to fail Now she stalks me and i have her blocked on everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 08:28 PM |
| – | the manosphere and the ‘bluepill’ are two sides of the same coin.Bluepill real for long term relationships, blackpill real for short term Red pill is just self improving to get to a level where you’re attractive enough to be in short term relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a mute guy?How can he explain? Hand gestures? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 08:03 PM |
| 0 | Would you date a mute guy?Mute 6”5 8/10 mafia boss sigma male doesnt speak because hes mysterious yes 5”6 mute no 😔😔 Jokes aside tho how will you interact with them? And also how can you be socially awkward when you cannot contribute? Genuine question. Sounds brutally truecelled but you could definitely find a mute girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 08:03 PM |
| 5 | Why do women think sex is a one-sided thing?On the first point, women in general control whether or not you have sex, because the man is the one who nearly always has to make the first move, yes women might give you some subtle hints but will rarely actually make a move. Hence a man who is able to have sex with lots of women is a brilliant seducer, and a woman who has alot of sex is easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 07:58 PM |
| 2 | CMV: "Protection" against false raep accusations is misogynistic💀💀💀💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 07:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Protection" against false raep accusations is misogynistic1 sounds rapey 2 I understand, 3 is definitely not bad in anyway 2 is weird but also the most surefire way to ensure youre safe from rape accusation Youd rather be safe than sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Hey, men: You should stop expressing how hard it's to be single.Holy shit high iq i never even thought of this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 07:49 PM |
| – | I hate how society has idealized and romanticized people from bad homes as suitable long-term relationship partners.Yeah so same thing childhood trauma lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Too many women want a father, not a husband.Read all my other stuff, also my statistics werent about who makes the most money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Mens quality of life and health is poor because of women’s workplace needsu/TermAggravating8043 comments on this? Genuinely interested in your insight no bad faith | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 06:52 PM |
| – | I hate how society has idealized and romanticized people from bad homes as suitable long-term relationship partners.Give them a chance but stay aware that a fucked up mental model of relationships, caused by a broken home can make these people self sabotage relationships theyre in and cause pain for everyone. Brutal truth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 06:48 PM |
| 4 | Hey, men: You should stop expressing how hard it's to be single.Yep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 06:46 PM |
| -7 | Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women?Men age like wine women age like milk thats the cruxe of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women?Its not really seeing her as a 20 year old but seeing her in the same light that he did when she was 20, even though she looks significantly worse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women?No its not imagine he genuinely sees her that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 06:44 PM |
| -2 | Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women?Basically all stems from women sleeping around is washed up but man sleeping around is a good seducer Also that women age badly but men age like wine In a marriage you wouldnt expect either person to lust after better looking people, its a marriage founded on trust and love and respect A woman with 50 bodys age 30 is going to be seen as ugly and ran through and no man will want to marry her hence, hitting the wall A man with 50 bodys age 30 will be seen as handomse, even possibly seen as still i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 06:43 PM |
| 0 | Woman Claims It’s Hard To Get Sex, Is That True?Yes but the ugliness / personality level for women to not get sex is considerably lower than for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 06:40 PM |
| 4 | Hey, men: You should stop expressing how hard it's to be single.Actual relationships are irrelevant to inceldom because it is all based on short term relationships. Once they are unable to get short term relations / ONS they turn to inceldom and then become misogynistic and then are incapable of having long term relationships anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Anyone tried passport broing?Im sure it works but cuck and weird as shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 06:33 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Whats your thoughts on the phrase “ Meeting the Right Person at the Wrong Time”?If you meet the right person at the wrong time, when you meet them again, they will be the wrong person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Your location is the biggest factor in success in datingNo only really applicable for passport bros going to asia because being white is associated with being rich handsome and powerful Also you will probably be taller and maybe in better shape than the people there because they have less access to all the things someone living in the west has (Constant supply of food, gyms, knowledge about muscle growth, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 06:32 PM |
| 1 | When Men lead with money but instead of attracting love, adoration and respect, get chaos and ruckus.V good take | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 06:29 PM |
| 2 | When Men lead with money but instead of attracting love, adoration and respect, get chaos and ruckus.Yeah but you dont want money to be a lead if you’re looking for anything long term | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 06:29 PM |
| 2 | When Men lead with money but instead of attracting love, adoration and respect, get chaos and ruckus.Very good take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 06:28 PM |
| 8 | Hey, men: You should stop expressing how hard it's to be single.This is a bad take because women dont care what men bring to the table for short term relationships and short term relationships and ONS are the Cruxe of the problem of inceldom. Women will sleep with hot guy regardless of personality or what he brings to the table on a ONS, incels become incels because they are too ugly for women to want to have ONS with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: For Men Who Think Most Dating Advice is "Unhelpful", What Would You Prefer?There are some issues with the dating market spouting from the entertainment and social media industry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: For Men Who Think Most Dating Advice is "Unhelpful", What Would You Prefer?Holy shit high iq response. Do you see incels hating women the same way as some black people hating white people? I think its actually a very good comparison | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 05:07 PM |
| 4 | Q4Men: For Men Who Think Most Dating Advice is "Unhelpful", What Would You Prefer?Some of that stuff is true I can give you an explanation in a non misogynistic and respectful way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Too many women want a father, not a husband.Yes parenting should be a 2 person job they are both of your children and both parents are important for the development of the child. Men should not be saying that only the mother should parent because not only is it misogynistic but it will also have negative effects on the child Also of course there are times when the mother will be incapable of parenting or will want to go and have some free time away from the children and the man should of course fill the role. Women going into the working … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Too many women want a father, not a husband.You are only looking at the last 50 years and not human history as a whole You made an irrelevant point because you dont have a response to what i said about the biological pull for mothers to become the primary attachment. Nor the extra capability that women have to parent and raise children This has been instilled in us as humans, from before humans existed and we were still apes, and whatever came before that Literally look at any other animal that doesnt have a society around it and you will… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Too many women want a father, not a husband.Thats not neanderthal, that is homo sapien, its not that the man protects really, its that the man provides Hence hunter gatherers, men would go out and hunt/get food, Women would look after the children and also teach them hunting techniques Please take in to account that none of what im saying is suggesting that each sex is incapable of filling the others gender roles Both are possible. But there is no biological drive to do so, unless they are forced into a position when they have to do it. (… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Too many women want a father, not a husband.Men are capable of developing fraternal behaviours and hormone release in order to parent, typically single fathers, which is why the gay men are able to parent effectively Furthermore gay men usually have much lower testosterone, and higher estrogen (or much higher test and much lower estrogen, hence they have “Doms” in gay relationships) so the higher estrogen will show more feminine characteristics when adopting a child | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Too many women want a father, not a husband.I still dont reallt get what your point is, im not saying men aren’t capable of parenting, and men being single isnt linked to them not being good parents because “mur the woman should do it” The woman has a biological pull to want to look after the child, many more hormones are produced after birth by the mother than the father, in order to promote an attachment, the woman becomes a housewife, not because of gender roles, but because due to hormones aswell as the selfish gene (a metaphor for wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Too many women want a father, not a husband.The rise in lonely men isnt due to this way of thinking. It is to do with mainly social media and entertainment industries Porn has melted the brains of young men and ruined their perceptions of what normal women, with no procedures, sex and relationships are supposed to be like. Similarly, for women, shows like Euphoria, Ginny and Georgia, Shameless, etc have glorified toxic relationships, one night stands, and women want to live this life because it is more exciting Furthermore with tiktok and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Too many women want a father, not a husband.You made some stupid points completely irrelevant to what i said because you don’t understand the biology behind it at all. Mur women can leave relationships mur women have the choice whether to have children or not. Women always had the choice to not have children. Yes women werent able to leave shitty MARRIAGES. Neither of those points make any reference towards the fact that women are better biologically equipped to look after children and run the home and men are less biologically equipped H… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Too many women want a father, not a husband.Please could you explain “men blaming biology for not taking responsibility” what does that even mean. Nothing i said was neanderthal in any way and it was this type of thinking that had allowed humans to survive for so long smh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 03:59 PM |
| -2 | Too many women want a father, not a husband.Im not a lonely young man i stated fact towards you. It is low IQ as shit if you dont think it is biologically ingrained into us as humans to fit into our gender role, these arent just societal constructs, they are parts of our biology for millions of years, Women are BIOLOGICALLY better at caring for young children because of the hormones they produce, Men are biologically much stronger and muscular, faster, more athletic, and so they became the provider. Even if the woman makes more than him, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 09:50 AM |
| 5 | What's one of the most profound things you've learned about dating?Love is much more chemical now, based on dopamine rushes, and addiction, toxic relationships are becoming more and more desirable because they seem more exciting. It is less about being there for eachother, mutual love etc and more about how exciting that is That is not to say that you wont find relationships based on mutual love and respect, but typically, in dating culture it is honestly all about ONS now, and so all about how horny you can get the other person not about connection and love | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 11:05 PM |
| 5 | What's one of the most profound things you've learned about dating?It can but you have to compromise yourself and become someone you arent to make it work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 10:54 PM |
| 3 | What's one of the most profound things you've learned about dating?Real 😔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 10:54 PM |
| 9 | What's one of the most profound things you've learned about dating?Hurt people, hurt people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 10:53 PM |
| 9 | What's one of the most profound things you've learned about dating?Real 😭😭 it worked for a bit but wasnt worth the effort, when we got back together it was already destined to fail | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Too many women want a father, not a husband.Most couples, i was talking to my mom about it, She told me, it doesnt matter what they say, it will always end up that way (people filling their gender role) mostly because we are biologically better at carrying out the role associated with our gender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 10:50 PM |
| -1 | Too many women want a father, not a husband.Thats a myth tbh, gender roles will always exist because even if a girl has money she will likely want the man to pay just so they can both fill their roles, it is biologically ingrained into us to be this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 10:49 PM |
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