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Faceater25/r/Divorce_Men13/12/24 01:57 PM
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Be ruthless. Good luck brother.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/25 05:35 AM
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👏 thank you! No more white knight syndrome for us.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 07:26 PM
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Yeah man i know. It sucks so freaken much and you can’t really even tell anyone the horror and anxiety you are going through. Add on the fact you have to act civil towards your spouse because they could get ticked off and make the world burn costing you everything. Brother if you get married again i will slap you. Please we deserve better. You are the valuable one. Once this is all over move on and don’t contact her no more. I can tell you loved her with every fiber of ur being.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 07:23 PM
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💪
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 07:16 PM
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Then you should be good. I know you are nervous as hell I would be too. You never know what their AP is whispering in their ear. Or their supportive family members. I will pray for you brother
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 07:15 PM
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Prepare for 70% yes to cohabitation. And 30% no to cohabitation So she can get alimony to support her new life style. Talk with your lawyer to see if your evidence counts as a reliable source. If it doesn’t count then Ask if you need to hire a professional such as a private investigator to present the evidence. Better to be prepared than not. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 07:12 PM
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You already know what will happen at the end. When they swipe the kid for dna to see if it yours or not. Good luck man.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 07:06 PM
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I know what you are going through. She has no shame and is willing to do that in the place you called home. Maybe a forever home. Whenever the pain comes up say in your head “I am a free man.” Now here is the hard part. Stop thinking with your heart and your lower parts. Start thinking only with your head. Be cold, calculating and almost a social-path. You have to protect yourself and continue protecting yourself. Your chest hurts because your heart is broken. This is how you know you were reall…
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 02:51 PM
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Man this is a nightmare. Imo you will have to back off on being soft. Im in the same phase and worried my own ex will do this. Good luck man… Get with your lawyer and strategize. You might have to pull a “she/he extended the duration of the divorce so she will have to pay for the lawyer, motorization, and court fees.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 02:53 AM
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It is tough to keep friends when your ex believes she is the victim and tells everyone her version of the story.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 02:02 AM
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No man. Women have a greater libido than men. I purposely checked my wife’s dms and lo and behold there was all the energy she kept away from me.
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/25 05:09 AM
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So one problem you have is the meditations don’t work. Use the post meditation techniques. Don’t let your mind wander. Every time the feelings come let them go. If the feelings come 100 times forgive her 100 times. If it comes 1000 times forgive her 1000 times The moment you realize that she was just an illusion the better. Move on and with time you will find love again. But now you will know what to expect. Sorry you are going through this. I made a promise to liberate myself so I would not let…
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/25 02:51 AM
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Ok after careful thinking you and her are compatible then. Great! Don’t lose her
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/25 11:00 AM
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Ok really look far back. Back when you were with your ex. Was she always this supportive? Regardless you are doing the best possible route.
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/25 07:03 AM
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Different paths same location. It all leads to the same place. Block out the women and focus on yourself. Personally i would not want to be involved with a woman trying to steal me emotionally when she doesn’t know i am divorced. I was vulnerable when i divorced and craved human touch but i knew better than to trap myself again. I promised i would never be this weak again. You right now aren’t in a good place mentally. Yes you have peace but divorce is not easy for any man. Good luck brother.
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/25 06:56 AM
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Even future doctors and current doctors can’t have a happy marriage. What are the chances for regular men to have happy marriages man. A man just wants a loving wife and a good job that can provide for his family. Why god. Why do you make it so hard for us. Also yeah just ignore her threats. Shoot that could be a defamation lawsuit for her ruining your life if she tries to sabotage you.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/25 06:51 PM
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My wife said she never loved me. She only cared about me. This is really common and she hung around for 5 years married but 9 total pretending to be my everything and best friend. I realized to waste my time. Next thing I know she is calling some stranger husband and telling him she loves him. I sacrificed everything for her and he got everything for free. After we filed a few months later a topic came up and she, a cheater, said that men shouldn’t result to violence when they are cheated on tha…
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/25 04:32 AM
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Thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/25 08:29 PM
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I agree. Also just don’t marry.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/25 10:58 PM
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I think you will find woman who are into you won’t be too bothered with all that. That, that stuff you are worried about is all in your head. But of course they are legitimate reasons to worry about; However, if you think about those problems then it will reflect onto the woman you are trying to develop a relationship with. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/25 01:41 AM
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Family law lawyer. And get one for yourself. Do not share lawyers.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/25 11:27 AM
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I am sorry that all of this has happened to you. You deserve better. Men deserve better.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/25 04:37 PM
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You have one life. Live the life you want. At the end only your god can judge you.
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/25 03:00 PM
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The best advice is to Forgive her. This is for you. When you have your intrusive thoughts just reply with the phrases: “i am a free man.” “I have moved on.” Reprogram your mind and this will reprogram your heart. I am sorry you are going through this. It tears apart the heart and makes you question everything. I know from experience. Good luck. Big hugs and stay strong.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/24 02:46 PM
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Leave before 6 months turns into 10 years. You will have to pay alimony which equates to half the time you have been with her. Good luck and search for a lawyer today!
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/24 02:39 PM
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Friendly. Fingers crossed she doesn’t screw me over in these 6 months of cool down period and change anything with have an agreement on. Yes she stabbed, me as in betrayed, in the front and in the back when we were together. But i forgave her. For me. So i can be free of resentment. I wish her the best because I still love her.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/24 02:32 PM
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You are a stud for making it through. Great job. Yes. Not marrying again is a great idea my guy. You are free! I am so happy for you.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/24 06:38 PM
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I usually turn to my faith in times like this It doesn’t matter how strong or smart I am because using any of my attributes would just make my life worse. For example revenge. For times like this it is important that there is no understanding god’s plan he has put for us. If we rely on our own instincts of course we plea why have you forsaken me oh god? Many times have I prostrated and begged god to stop because the divorce is a nightmare. I have surrendered and just let god do his thing. And ac…
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/24 05:44 AM
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I am glad you have the consciousness to realize we are in one big clown show. The worst thing is I paid and encouraged her, my ex, with the spiritual tarot card trend thing. Actually anything she has used to cheat and break my heart was something I provided for her. Be it through cash or love. Something as little as her phone she is using to cheat. I am just done with her. Thats what they do. When my friend’s ex spouse left she accused him of daily rape. She got her and his family on her side Ev…
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 06:39 AM
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You are on the right path
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 01:22 AM
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Thanks for the reminder. You saying you were a millionaire said it all. The fact that you checked every box but she was still unsatisfied. Basically, it reminds me of my wife and our situation. My wife was set for life but gave it up for “change. I want to be independent.” Every romantic promise we said to each other was out the window. I went from being her forever one and only to being nothing as soon as the papers were signed. She immediately went window shopping for new prospects to traumati…
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/24 01:18 PM
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Thanks for the reminder. You saying you were a millionaire said it all. The fact that you checked every box but she was still unsatisfied. Basically, it reminds me of my wife and our situation. My wife was set for life but gave it up for “change. I want to be independent.” Every romantic promise we said to each other was out the window. I went from being her forever one and only to being nothing as soon as the papers were signed. She immediately went window shopping for new prospects to traumati…
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/24 01:17 PM
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Thanks for the reminder. You saying you were a millionaire said it all. The fact that you checked every box but she was still unsatisfied. Basically, it reminds me of my wife and our situation. My wife was set for life but gave it up for “change. I want to be independent.” Every romantic promise we said to each other was out the window. I went from being her forever one and only to being nothing as soon as the papers were signed. She immediately went window shopping for new prospects to traumati…
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/24 01:17 PM
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Part of love is responsibility. At the end of the day it is your decision. Live a good life without regrets. Even if it means putting yourself first.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/24 12:30 PM
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We pretty much agreed on everything so we did mediation with a lawyer. It made everything far more affordable. We just paid the lawyer we both had. Instead of i the man paying my lawyer fee and then her lawyer fee. But if she is a psycho narcissistic demon have your own lawyer. Watch out for alimony and make sure your retirement fund is safe. If you are going to be debt free with the sale of the house and the cars paid off you should be good then.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/24 03:25 AM
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I am sorry brother. I am commenting too because i am currently going through divorce and it just helps a little bit. It is not you. It is not her. Nothing lasts forever. Enjoy the time you had and will have together and move on. All this shit you are bottling up is making you suicidal. You, yourself are not suicidal. Just let it go. She already has emotionally and physically. Take the hint. I hope after all this you can sit down and just chill and happiness finds you again. You aren’t alone. You…
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/24 09:54 AM
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Thank you this is a very important lesson that I will carry with me forever.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/24 05:00 PM
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More than ever do I believe in god. The fact that I can forgive every single time the painful thoughts of her actions that were inflicted upon me emerge. Is enough proof to me. I forgive her for my self. It takes a heavy load off my broken heart. He has been with me the whole way. I will do the right thing for his love for me and my sake. Amen brother!
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/24 05:50 AM
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Thanks. I was so angry. I bottled it up it and it was so much I wanted to kill myself. My Pride was destroyed because of her. She had woven herself into my life and my family’s life. The small communities we are a part of has a big influence on our actions. I am moving on now. Start a new chapter of my life. Thanks for reaching out it means more than you know.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/24 10:18 PM
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Thanks for standing up for me.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/24 02:56 PM
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Yes we have a lot in common then. My wife will put more effort on her pursuit for those new guys. Do stuff with them she wouldn’t do with me because she is lazy. And hell that hurts so much. But in the back of my mind I have always seen this behavior from her towards other dudes. For exampleSomething as small as playing a genre of game she would never touch when she is with me. But all of a sudden she is willing to try so she can spend time with the new guy. This here was a red flag. For me. It …
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/24 02:55 PM
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You are absolutely right. Every case is different. It is a fantasy. This chapter is closing. It is hard to move on but I must. Men deserve better. I deserve better.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/24 02:46 PM
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Any story told by men or on this reddit is only a part of the horror we went through. You can blame pride or the ego for our lips being sealed. So far the divorce process is honest. But who knows if that will change down the road Always be vigilant. Thanks for talking with me. Made my life less of a hellish nightmare. Hope your day goes well.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/24 02:43 PM
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I agree with you. Thank you for taking time out of your day to comment. It helps a lot. Everyone’s circumstances are different. Mine is especially different but the same story for most providers. Because she relies on me for everything. Literally. That is why this divorce was a shock to me. And yet I knew deep down the divorce was going to come eventually from her past actions. But I have come to terms that for this individual Whoever has her next good luck bro.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/24 02:15 PM
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Start by getting a lawyer. I am sorry brother. I will pray for you. I know the pain you are going through. Make sure you hang out with friends and take care of yourself. Remember you don’t have to suffer you need to take care of yourself too. Buy some new clothes and renew or continue doing your hobbies. Take care.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/24 02:11 PM
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