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Question For WomenFadedTony/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 07:24 PM
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i've never really been a phone call person but i been trying but damn it's hard i was otp w the huzz today and i kept asking some random lame questions like "do you ever forget where you parked?" i'm cooked chat
/r/seduction28/06/26 03:00 AM
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we still doing the "just be confident bro" in the big 26 cool cool
/r/seduction30/05/26 04:41 AM
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happened to me just today at the gym lol kept making eye contact w a girl, then she works out at the machine right next to me, and after works out at the stairmaster right next to me when it was only us two and a bunch of other machines finally work up the courage to break the ice and completely ignored. it's possible she didn't hear me but more likely is she didn't even notice me at all lol or didn't want to get hit on out of 10 times you think a girl is dropping hints 1 or 2 maybe legit but he…
/r/seduction20/12/25 06:19 AM
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can someone tell me the difference between negging (disrespect), roasting , teasing?? i don't ever neg girls think it's super dumb and played out but things just ended between this girl and i bc her comments i didn't like but she says that's how she shows affection?? so it left me confused if i should walk away bc i don't tolerate disrespect or brush it off
/r/TheRedPill24/08/25 08:51 PM
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probably a mix of both
/r/TheRedPill14/04/25 11:39 PM
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this hits home bc my fwb just ended things w me after she got off bc lmao what's funnier is i even told her about this phenomenon
/r/TheRedPill26/03/25 12:24 AM
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that's fair thanks for your perspective and yes big agree on your last point! sex should be enjoyable for both parties so we can't be afraid to be vocal on how to improve or how it can be better edited: piv is penetrative in vagina
/r/seduction01/07/24 05:51 PM
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i just don't see what a woman in a ons encounter has to gain from faking an orgasm? a relationship or consistent partner sure and i'm not sure how common faking an orgasm is i mean i haven't had sex w a lot of women (20-25) but i honestly don't think a woman has faked it once w me, they either tell me they came (unprovoked they just tell me) or don't say anything at all i always ask them how i can be better or please them more but most tell me they can't tell cum from piv (maybe to spare my feel…
/r/seduction01/07/24 05:16 PM
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thanks for sharing that video is gold
/r/seduction14/05/24 12:42 AM
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if a girl shows you high interest do you think it's ok to show high interest back? or is it just a matter of time until they lose it and take a step back after you showed it
/r/seduction14/05/24 12:20 AM
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100%
/r/seduction14/07/23 09:11 PM
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I recently started approaching more, but only girls I've seen before at places I go like the gym. I've talked to a few girls there but one I think is super cute looked nervous when I tried to talk to her is that a bad sign?
/r/seduction31/05/23 06:38 PM
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I've been hitting the gym for months and I've noticed a few signs: Girl at chipotle gave me a free extra scoop of chicken, this parking attendant woman let me slide w free parking, at the gym a girl asked me for help (twice) so overall ppl (especially women) will be nicer. But at the same time I went to a club the other night and tried to talk to a few girls and nothing. Just goes to show normal day to day attraction and club game/attraction are two different animals.
/r/seduction23/05/23 12:21 AM
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takes one last look around (like the Will smith clip from fresh prince) I'm leaving mate, this is my last comment ever and you will be the last person I reply to. hello productivity, serotonin, and happiness. Goodbye echo chamber and dopamine spikes. I'm deleting Reddit, I'm finally free :')
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:27 PM
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I got banned from r/dating bc I participate in this sub. The mods there think this sub is toxic. I tried to explain to the mod that this is a neutral sub, but I was wrong bc I see it now. This sub is toxic af, men vs women. It's impossible to have a "neutral" or close to "unbiased" debate when both sides are coming into this w a full clip of ammo and a chip on their shoulder. Men bad women bad yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:47 PM
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How will us men know if a woman has us in the "maybe" category? Because a whole other dimension to add is that we could be in that category and have absolutely no idea. A lot of times us men will not ask a woman out bc maybe they are just being nice? And we don't want to be seen as a creep. Thus after time the woman will either lose interest or enough time will have passed where the woman will be able to find an ick and he will be turned into a no. And the man will have no idea that he had an op…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:33 PM
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All the women in my life think I'm funny, handsome, charming etc. but it hasn't translated to any success on dating apps unfortunately. And there's no way my shy ass will approach a woman in public. So I think us introverted men w great qualities might be doomed. Dating/love is an unfair game so it's better to not dwell on it and just accept it. But that's ok you don't need a relationship to find fulfillment. If you have a great support system (family, friends, therapist etc), decent/great caree…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:06 PM
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I would argue men 22-26 who are not looking for a relationship are either getting sex/attention from women already (which means they are most likely good looking aka chads) or they are burnt out from dating and just focusing on themselves (like myself) And most single men would def fall into the latter category and not the "I don't want to settle down even tho I have plenty of great women options" category that I believe you are trying to portray
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:20 PM
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Men will absolutely settle down, w the right woman. Men will have sex w a lot of women he wouldn't relationship on his way to finding a woman he would consider marrying. So what you think of "not wanting to settle down" is his "my standards are low for sex but high for LTR, so I'll take my time to find a woman ill marry and have fun w these other women that want me now" Tbh good men are actually pickier than women when it comes to finding a ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:12 PM
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Ahh that hurts more actually, thanks I hate it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 02:17 PM
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Personally I would much rather be ghosted then get that text. And that's the thing tho, what's the best way to figure out your flaws?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 06:40 AM
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That one sounds p good, makes it more about you than them. I want to ask women so bad the reason why they reject me but know I shouldn't so I never do Although what I do know is, if my physical appearance is attractive enough then more than likely the woman will be able to overlook any "flaw" they think I have (and if it's solely based on appearance then that works too)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:25 AM
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Non confrontational but not necessarily a "push over"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:06 AM
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I like to do random things/adventures that interest me so my ideal partner would be one where they would have genuine fun trying and going to new places w me (planetariums, hikes, museums, festivals etc) My love language is quality time so this is huge for me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:10 PM
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Wait not having female friends is a red flag?? Can women on here confirm this pls Do friend's gfs/wives count? They all like me and think I'm a great guy at least lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:11 PM
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It's states in the prompt he never cheated on her So as close to 0% as you can get. As someone who uses condoms every time and gets screened often, it's a huge plus for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:28 PM
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Option B She has a 0% chance of having any STDs, obviously loyal, and committed. She is not impulsive and is relationship focused. I do not see any downside.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:38 AM
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This girl wanted me to pick her up from a concert and take her back to my apt. I go to pick her up from a parking garage downtown but when I get there she's not answering. She finally texts back that she has to take care of her drunk friend and drive her friend's car home for her. Well that's an L ok I'll just go home. Omw out the parking garage attendant wants me ti pay $20 to leave, I'm like I was here for 5 minutes? She says nope more like 9, and only less that 5min is free :( It's a 15 floor…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:31 AM
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imo it would only refer to potential partners. But I imagine the partners women dated before that didn't treat them well didn't start off that way although I assume women would call those relationships as "dating down"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:56 PM
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Tbh the only thing I'm shocked by during purge is that there are any women here left by then end of it. I guess idk why I'm here either so I can't talk lol but it's not a debate at all just "women bad men bad"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:13 PM
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Average is a 5, so 7 is above
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:15 PM
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Any women that are interested in seeing my face card lmk I'll pm you and you can tell me why I'm single lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:13 PM
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You can def seek help for yourself wo using therapy specifically. You're right it's not for everyone although I would still argue it would definitely help a majority of ppl in general
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:48 AM
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Lol ouch why are we catching strays too, we didn't post this. Let's stop fighting generalizations w generalizations, op is a troll and baiting you. Do better OP
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:27 PM
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Bro y'all stay trying to dunk on women in this sub wtf, seek help instead of avoiding responsibility for your lives and you will be happy. Notice I'm not saying MORE happy bc a happy person would NOT post this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:18 PM
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Lmao so true The amount of times I end up matching w a "prove your worth to me" type of girl w dry convos gives me the ick. Why even match w someone if you're going to put in no effort at all while I carry the banter? I will never understand, heal and humble yourself bb girl not every man is your cheating ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:24 PM
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If you truly believe that then I do not see a point in continuing and I don't want to participate in this conversation, take care
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:25 PM
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With all due respect I believe you are overestimating your abilities and underestimating the conniving human mind. Even 75% accuracy is still burning the lives of 25% of ppl due to false accusations. Only in the most extreme cases I agree it would be easy to identify.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:23 PM
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I think any sane person would want rapists/abusers out of society. Disagreeing on how to go about doing so is an entirely different conversation. These FB groups seem like a scorched Earth method. I don't understand that last line?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:20 PM
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I would disagree w that. If you would be able to tell w 100% accuracy which is which I would be very impressed. I don't think I'd be able to tell tbh, bc each post is a one sided story, no one is ever the villain in their story.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:14 PM
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Wow thank you for providing one of the only sensible comment in this thread and not using it as a platform for a gender war. Is it that hard y'all to NOT trash men/women and actually have a thought-out opinion free of spite?? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:40 PM
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This Men vs Women war is so awful. Every platform, both genders are complaining who has it worse and which gender is "evil". Such a simple, tired formula: take the worst from each group and use it as a measuring stick for the rest. It's funny how easy it appears in other areas too, humans are so simpleminded. Dems have it worse no republicans have it worse, my sports team always gets screwed by the refs, etc Tribalism is a nightmare, stop w the group think and treat ppl as individuals. This FB g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:20 PM
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The ppl agreeing w this flawed question are clowns tbh, I do my best to try to see all sides but I just can't w this one lol seems very short sided "single hurr durr must be for a reason" If that's the case every single person will stay single indefinitely until they change something or everything about themselves which is not true at all, in some cases absolutely but not most. Most just need to put themselves in a situation where they will MEET ppl
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:59 PM
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I think the biggest piece that crumbles this comment is: There's A LOT of ppl in a relationship that are "undateable" or shouldn't be dating but their partner is settling hard or doesn't know their own worth
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:22 PM
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Tbh I feel like whatever insecurities you have you think is the "worst" one to have. We hype up our negatives when we should be hyping up our positives imo Most all of our insecurities can/will be overlooked. Work on what you can control and positive self talk :) treat yourself w respect and others will too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:09 AM
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I came here to comment the 5th grade version of this lol thanks for putting it so eloquently and clearly. We're all biased whether we want to admit it or not, and ironically the more you acknowledge these biases the more "unbiased" you can be. And it's pretty funny how easily you can find ppl's insecurities based on their actions and what they choose to react negatively to
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 05:13 AM
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Thank you king
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 02:23 PM
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Sexual compatibility is a thing, I would not pursue further tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:05 PM
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"You like young ppl bc you're immature" seems like the more immature take tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:12 PM
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I dated a girl earlier this year, she was 23 and I'm 30. Tbh I feel like I have more in common w early to mid twenties girls than ones my age. Obviously in any relationship age gap or not it could not work out for a variety of reasons. We only get one life we should let consenting adults date who they want imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:55 PM
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Tbh a more submissive woman would love a red pill man and a more dominant/strong woman would want a blue pill man. I feel like like a modern woman would typically want a blue pill man. And I have absolutely no stats to back this up but if the definition of a red pill man is putting himself first, building his career/looks to the max etc. then I would assume that they typically would be more successful and be able to provide more resources for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:46 PM
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Agreed, just swiped left on woman who's bio said "working on my second degree, what do YOU bring to the table?" Like you're assuming that's all I should want, what about your qualities? Why would I want to spend time w someone w that mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:51 PM
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I got the complete opposite reaction he seemed respectful, only part that could be seen as rude maybe is "it seems shallow" and "coasting thru life" but that's his opinion not attacking ppl. Just bc someone has preferences and does not agree w a certain behavior it doesn't mean they are "above" them imo. And ironically aren't we doing the same? You judging him and me judging you for judging him lol
/r/seduction17/10/22 05:19 PM
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It would be one? Bc the other isn't participating in arguing. There are some things that you can't talk things out imo. For example my ex wanted to go out or travel every single weekend and I wanted to save money and stay home at least once or twice a month. My thought process is if we can't enjoy each other's company without doing that then there's a problem. No talking is going to work. Two different mindsets. And there are other issues so small where it's not worth arguing and just going alon…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 07:42 PM
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Idk I tried this w my ex and I just agreed w everything she said bc I didn't want to argue and she was still wanted to know why I didn't have anything to say lol. I wasn't happy and left so I agree you should let shit slide 80% of the time and only focus on the 20% when shit actually matters, when you argue over every little thing recipe for disaster
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 06:35 PM
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Unpopular opinion inc: My choice is 1. I do not want my wife to cheat on me and If she acts like she loves me and does everything to make me happy then how would I even know the difference between real/fake lol you all must be FBI agents or something ?? It's funny bc I bet a lot of ppl who said 2 are in relationships w ppl that are "acting" like they want to be w them anyway lol (not wishing that's the case but statistically has to be true no?)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 06:13 PM
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Are you saying men friend zone themselves by not asking? And that women do not know who they would and would not date prior to the man asking? I can see the logic behind the first one and agree. But the second one I find it hard to believe and so I'm asking for insight on any signs that women have already taking you off as a potential partner category.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:53 PM
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Do you think it's possible there were women sexually interested in you without you knowing? Maybe you are confusing them w someone that you thought just sees you as a friend bc they did not show it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:22 PM
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So you are/were able to tell every single time when a woman is into you? I feel like that's a minority of men tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:09 PM
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Sorry I thought this question would be great so it's not so awkward on either party. I think "friend zone" is a trigger for some ppl and gives off nice guy vibes so maybe I should have said "subtle signs you're not interested" instead
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 09:00 PM
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Boom, roasted. Catching strays from the comment sections lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 08:49 PM
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Tbh men are screwing up the dating market not the women. Women are simply taking advantage of the field that men built. Average to below average men and simps are blowing up the heads of average to below average women on social media w attention, compliments etc. while the "hot" men (9s and 10s) are getting free/easy sex and attention from 7s and 8s (women) who now think that is their "league" and relationship range even tho those same guys would not want a LTR w them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:43 PM
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I agree women do no lose value, that is gross. My only thing is health wise, I've only ever had one girl ask me to use a condom (that I was already planning on using). Which I know is super anecdotal but all my friends don't use condoms lol I'm the minority I guess. But if a woman sleeps around a lot, gets checked regularly and uses condoms w the men she's w I have NO problem w that and think that's responsible and I immediately think highly of her. We only have one body so we should take care o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:40 PM
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My thing is STDs, I ALWAYS use condoms. And I get checked regularly. I was dating a girl who later hmu for fwb but I knew she dated a couple guys after me and I asked her to get tested before we would have sex again. Also although anecdotal I've found girls are the ones that were annoyed w condoms lol so I knew they weren't using them w other guys
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 06:12 PM
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We'll have to agree to disagree on this one. Enjoy the rest of your day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:27 PM
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I think my main point is looks> age at the end of the day. And ppl will not know your age until they ask if you still look like you're in your 20s. I think we all know ppl in their early 20s who could easily pass for 30+ lol and so vice versa is also true. If someone looks like they are in their 20s and acts like it as well, no one would know the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 02:00 PM
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This is the thing tho, just like women aren't able to determine 5 foot 10 from 6 foot, they also aren't able to tell 30+ yo old men that still look in their 20s. When I went to Italy there were American foreign exchange students flirting w me who were 20 and thought I was 25 lol To me it's not about the exact age and more so about the age range like does someone look like in their 20s or 30s if that makes sense bc I think that's the most important thing bc ppl have an idea of what a 30 yo male l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:56 PM
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Ppl are too age focused imo. I agree w the above commenter hot is hot and not is not. I would argue college aged women would rather fuck a hot 30s guy than an unattractive guy their own age most if not every time. I think ppl forget how many ppl their own age look old af already.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:55 AM
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Eh I was 29 dating a 22 year old, I never got the "no connection" or "nothing to talk about" thing that most ppl say about age gaps. I feel like we clicked more than most women my own age and there was no rush for kids and marriage. But I do stay pretty up to date w everything, trends and culture so idk if ppl my age (early thirties) just have the boomer mentality of "everything was cooler in my day" thing going lol and I look young for my age. I feel like if 2 ppl like each other they will vibe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:42 AM
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Gas Heighting
/r/seduction05/09/22 03:07 PM
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Yikes I would never want to have sex w someone who feels like she's only doing it bc she HAS to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:02 AM
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Holy fuck TIL I'm fearful avoidant. Going to research more about attachment styles now thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:46 PM
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"Women don't like funny guys, they just think the guys they like are funny" Works w all genders tho tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 09:13 PM
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If a woman is going out/dinner w her friends 99% of the time if she's posting she'll post them too. If you don't see a face just a plate it's bc they are w a man/partner. I know bc I do this too lol I'll show me mates but not me dates
/r/seduction04/08/22 02:38 PM
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Wow I was thinking of downloading OLD apps again but fuck that Gentlemen I will be continuing to build myself up as much as possible and I highly suggest you do the same. fix your flaws physically/mentally/financially. Then women will show YOU genuine signs of interest and you don't have to work that hard to get them to like you anymore bc they already showed you they are. WAY EASIER and you can control that. Why cold approach/ chase women that aren't even going to be interested in you unless yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:24 PM
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Why is every other post on here basically "women bad" There's not going to be any women left here to give us any insight guys lol it's already getting close to an echo chamber in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:04 PM
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Physical: just shy of 6 feet, short curly hair, hazel eyes, dad bod but been going to the gym consistently and changed my eating habits completely so finally getting off this quarantine weight. Nice skin and beard. Non physical: I like reading, biking, obsessed w self improvement, not jealous at all, pretty low maintenance, and have my own place. I can cook. Have a degree and decent career but working on my side hustle. Caring and empathetic. Don't get butthurt and super understanding. Great sen…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:23 AM
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I want to thank you bc I think this is exactly what I needed to hear. I have a fear of being labeled as a "creepy" guy so I go out of my way to not approach women but maybe it's bc I'm just scared myself. I went out to a bar w coworkers and a female cw asked why I wasn't talking to women there and I said I didn't want to be a bother. She later introduced me to a random woman she had met there who ended up dancing w me. Instead of using that as fuel I disregarded that as "she was just drunk and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:43 AM
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Where do we find intellectual women?? The problem is they're never outside lol maybe coffee shop is the only place I can think of. All I see intelligent women do on my IG is read, work/hang at their cool computer setup and post memes. I'm dying for a stimulating convo w a significant other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:04 PM
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Hey OP, are women liable for child support in the reverse situation as well I'm assuming, if a single father's child sees her as a motherly figure? I was unaware of this wow
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:06 PM
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As I get older I understand most women around my age late twenties/ early thirties are going to have kid/s. And although I thought I wouldn't ever date a woman w kids I think that door is cracked a little. Although a woman w kids wouldn't be my ideal choice it's not an immediate deal breaker anymore. So your post might have merit as I assume other's DBs lossen up as well
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:01 PM
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I guess I'm the minority of men who are affected by this. My whole strategy relies on how to be least creepy as possible bc based off what I read on here from women: the creep threshold is incredibly low. Sometimes I legit walk the wrong way on purpose if it's just one woman in front of me just so she doesn't think "this man is following me". I need to take my own advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:55 PM
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Mainly stories or opinions from online, generally it's "men bad" and "men creepy" Which if any shy guys are reading this, friendly reminder that the internet is not real life and generally women want to be approached just; A) in the right circumstance B) nice, friendly way C) if they seem uninterested try to read their body language beat you can or obv. If they straight up tell you no then kindly take the L and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:33 PM
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I don't mind asking women out and getting rejected. The part I don't like is when women tell each other who has tried asking them out and poison the lake water. I remember being in 5th grade and a girl asked me out and I said no (politely) and then a boy I didn't even like started going out w her. And what did I do? ..Keep that shit to myself, it's no one's business. Imagine that at 10 years old I had more self awareness/empathy than a lot of 20 something's lol wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:58 PM
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It's the creepy man fallacy, quiet/reserved men most likely will not approach out in public But all the creepy" or player (f boy) etc. men will. And if they approach well then most likely they have done it many times before. And if they approach badly then the quiet/reserved men hear about it and never want to approach (confirmation bias) bc we a) don't want to be a creep and b) don't want to be rejected by misinterpreting social cues
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:55 PM
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For sure and I don't blame women at all for that, if anything I blame "hot guys" for dating/sexing average girls, stick to your league pls guys Half /s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:51 PM
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Huge dating market imbalance. Not sure how it could be corrected. Women's SMV is overinflated (social media contributes to that) "Hottest guys" 8s,9s,10s will settle for sex for Women that are 7s and some 6s. So now those same 7s and 6s think that's their "league" so that "prices" out the men that are 7s and below and making them do the same which imbalances the market
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:04 PM
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Wow Estrogen is so complex buddy is questioning its existence
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:07 PM
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Thank you for the detailed response I agree I want my future daughter, mom etc to strive for a good man and I have no problem w high standards. My main issue comes w the sub's negative outlook on men and how I believe that affects their dating life which then becomes a self fulfilling prophecy of "there's no good men". Woman should treat every new date as a clean slate and not hold any past experiences against the new person. Women (and men) aren't some "prize" to be won, we're human. I would no…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 03:50 PM
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FDS Women: why wait 3 months+ to have sex? if you like the guy and want to sleep w him then do it. Why follow an arbitrary rule, so instead of potentially getting ghosted after the first date you get ghosted after 3 months? Lol way to waste everyone's time Congratulations, you played yourself. Also, you aren't JUST looking for a HVM, you're looking for a handsome, funny, charismatic, financially healthy etc. man that will ALSO commit 100% to you aka what every other woman is also looking for. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 03:02 PM
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Basically have a goal in mind before texting her. Don't text for no reason. You can start a convo getting to know them but your goal at the end is to set up a meeting, date etc. that's how I took it as and how I've seen this kind of advice on other platforms. Don't over text (long paragraphs) just match their energy or less if you can. But yes you're right it's not literally just logistics like "hey let's meet up on X for Y" and then that's it, show your personality and have a goal/plan in place…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 05:56 PM
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Are y'all going to the gym ? I wanna start lifting again but unsure w the pandemic and all. Just been going for runs/biking/basketball but I'd really like to get my lifting routine going soon
/r/TheRedPill16/08/20 09:56 PM
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If you're a dude struggling to get pussy you can still change, it doesn't matter if you're any of the shit OP is talking about, we're dynamic not static. We're not NPCs in a game we're the lead actors in our own movie. Our destiny is not defined at birth, or even by our environment (OPs point about the 2 brothers growing up in the same home but both having different perspectives on women). Fuck determinism It's not that hard. Pussy is never guaranteed. It's all a numbers game. You just gotta put…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 03:37 AM
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This is so true. I remember seeing something about ppl will waste time watching a dumb YouTube video and then feel bad so they watch a "self help" video to feel more productive but it's essentially the same thing Happy Cake day btw
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 03:00 PM
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That's fair, I've read about 4 self development books and still find substance in them so far but yeah you're right after so much they might be redundant lol
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 02:56 PM
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I get that; I personally would rather read self development books that give me practical examples applicable to life. But I agree there's still plenty of great stories and ideas in fiction that can help too
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 02:56 AM
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Just finished power of the habit, reading 7 habits of highly effective ppl rn. Great list still plenty more I wanna read on there
/r/TheRedPill03/08/20 02:51 AM
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I agree, I've seen this happen plenty of times, it's hard for me because The "creeper" fear has really fcked my head up, a lot of times I think the girl is just being nice and I don't want to come off as creepy asking for her number when she wasn't trying to flirt at all Social media is slowly killing off guys that would approach girls but I imagine are put off by not trying to appear too aggressive It's so dumb because if you asked girls I imagine 99% of them would WANT to meet their partner vi…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 05:12 PM
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When I was like 19-20 and still new to “game” I went to this party and starting talking to this older girl, like 23. She seemed to respond well but for some reason I told myself I couldn’t get her because she was older. So I talked to this 18 yo instead. Flash forward a couple hours and I made a move and she backed up from my kiss and put her arm around me and said “nuh uh, you gotta earn it” So my dumbass was like ok, and kept giving her attention all night and left with nothing. The next day I…
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