| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1253 | Amazing | General | FadingHonor | /r/MensRights | 20/09/25 01:46 PM |
| 563 | Why is it so frowned upon for a man to have boundaries in a relationship, and even if he has them he’s scrutinized and forced to justify them? | Social Issues | FadingHonor | /r/MensRights | 09/01/26 03:14 PM |
| 534 | Men’s sexual pasts(or lack thereof) is subject for cruel jokes but never a woman’s(post + comments) | Social Issues | FadingHonor | /r/MensRights | 16/09/25 11:05 AM |
| 300 | Comments sided with OP thankfully, but a terrible story nonetheless | Social Issues | FadingHonor | /r/MensRights | 18/09/25 06:19 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Why is it so frowned upon for a man to have boundaries in a relationship, and even if he has them he’s scrutinized and forced to justify them?Yup, I think so too. Thank you! | /r/MensRights | 10/01/26 03:43 AM |
| 3 | Why is it so frowned upon for a man to have boundaries in a relationship, and even if he has them he’s scrutinized and forced to justify them?Check DM | /r/MensRights | 09/01/26 07:16 PM |
| -25 | Why is it so frowned upon for a man to have boundaries in a relationship, and even if he has them he’s scrutinized and forced to justify them?I don’t even think it’s feminism, cuz feminism is equality. This is straight up misandry imo. | /r/MensRights | 09/01/26 05:50 PM |
| 6 | Why is it so frowned upon for a man to have boundaries in a relationship, and even if he has them he’s scrutinized and forced to justify them?I think it’s because I reposted it on here and another men’s rights place, but when I screenshotted these a few hours ago, OPs comments were consistently downvoted, as well as anyone who supported OP, and the top comment was someone calling him “a little boy”. But if people are going over there to show supposed to the OP and turning the tide, I’m glad, because he’s not in the wrong here, and indeed he’s better off breaking up with someone who doesn’t respect his boundaries. | /r/MensRights | 09/01/26 05:26 PM |
| 8 | Why is it so frowned upon for a man to have boundaries in a relationship, and even if he has them he’s scrutinized and forced to justify them?This person deleted their comments and responses but tried to claim we hate women lol, when we’re the ones saying boundaries should be respected irrespective of gender. Imagine being so against an idea you decide to fight the side in favor of consent and boundaries lmao. Kinda shows you how crazy people can get when their world view is challenged just a bit. | /r/MensRights | 09/01/26 05:23 PM |
| 7 | Why is it so frowned upon for a man to have boundaries in a relationship, and even if he has them he’s scrutinized and forced to justify them?No, it’s narcissistic for you to come in here and talk about your preferences and making it about your preferences as a woman when it’s about a man being shamed for a boundary. I could care less what you’re into, but the fact you specifically chose to talk about that on this post where a man is being shamed for not being into a sexual activity and you’re saying you really enjoy it. Like imagine a woman is being shamed for not giving BJs and men come in and are like “oh I love it when a woman mak… | /r/MensRights | 09/01/26 05:11 PM |
| 9 | Why is it so frowned upon for a man to have boundaries in a relationship, and even if he has them he’s scrutinized and forced to justify them?Okay. Good for you? Not sure what that had to do with a man being shamed for enforcing boundaries… bit narcissistic ngl. Edit: u/Educational-Hall1525 why delete your comments? You were so sure coming on here and telling us about your oral sex preferences and calling us “woman haters” for supporting boundaries and consent. Why delete it now since you stood by it? | /r/MensRights | 09/01/26 05:02 PM |
| 59 | Why is it so frowned upon for a man to have boundaries in a relationship, and even if he has them he’s scrutinized and forced to justify them?The most upvoted ones were calling him “a little boy” for having a boundary and OPs comments were constantly downvoted into oblivion, as well as those supporting him. And someone who said OP has the right to consent was called an incel for believing in a man’s right to consent lol. Thats why I posted this. But yeah there were supportive comments too. | /r/MensRights | 09/01/26 03:41 PM |
| 36 | Why is it so frowned upon for a man to have boundaries in a relationship, and even if he has them he’s scrutinized and forced to justify them?I hate to say this, but you’re part of the issue. He said his previous girlfriend was abusive and manipulative. He just has a boundary. Maybe he’s not compatible with his current girlfriend, but he isn’t obligated to do something that he doesn’t want to. He should find someone who’s okay with him not doing that, instead of compromising on his boundary. Respecting your partners boundaries and making them feel safe and secure is also a pretty rewarding experience in a healthy relationship. | /r/MensRights | 09/01/26 03:32 PM |
| 91 | Why is it so frowned upon for a man to have boundaries in a relationship, and even if he has them he’s scrutinized and forced to justify them?Right? It’s outrageous! And before someone comes at me, I do believe the woman in this hypothetical totally has the right to not give her boyfriend a BJ and she’s not a bad partner because of that, just like I feel like this dude has the right and isn’t a bad partner because of that. | /r/MensRights | 09/01/26 03:26 PM |
| 244 | Why is it so frowned upon for a man to have boundaries in a relationship, and even if he has them he’s scrutinized and forced to justify them?Leaving the actual issue of the act aside, I really feel like if the genders were reversed in this situation and a woman had made this post about not wanting to engage in oral sex with her partner, and her partner did something as egregious as keeping a tally of the number of times he went down on her, public perception would totally be on her side. The man in this scenario is not shown the same courtesy society would’ve shown the woman. | /r/MensRights | 09/01/26 03:17 PM |
| 7 | Sexism on other subredditsWhat subreddit? | /r/MensRights | 03/11/25 03:41 AM |
| 0 | Are alpha widows becoming more common?I genuinely didn’t know that my bad. People always lumped them together so I got a bit confused. Thanks for informing me, I’ll make the distinction next time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 03:18 AM |
| 6 | Are alpha widows becoming more common?A traditional, conservative wife usually. So both | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 02:58 AM |
| 10 | Are alpha widows becoming more common?Count your lucky stars. They’re insufferable, exactly like the dudes that post about and fantasize over marrying a “tradwife”, but the female version of them. You’ll feel like blowing your brains out after a convo with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Men are of very little use to a woman in a personal relationship.Men don’t need women and women don’t need men. Let’s all lowkey just rot in bed individually and consume negative content the algorithm pushes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 10:42 PM |
| 3 | If Women are hypergamous, then Men are the Prize. Make her work for it.New cope dropped. “Nah I know my worth, just gotta find someone who’s willing to work for it”. Let’s all just die single man, it’ll be chill, trust. Men and women should lowkey just die alone. The best days of man are behind us. I saw a driver flip his right turn signal on, take a left turn on red, and hit a truck today and they got out and yelled at me, and all I did was stand behind them and wait for the green. I flipped her and her husband off and they called the cops and cops came and were c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 10:07 PM |
| 1 | I'm hurt by people saying my circumcised penis is mutilated.I’m an uncircumcised dude, and I think it’s fine if you are. It’s not “mutilated” that’s an exaggeration. But I think the point is, a baby doesn’t have proper agency. If they let people choose when they’re old enough then it’s okay. Idk if I’m making sense. | /r/MensRights | 21/09/25 03:45 PM |
| 10 | AmazingI’m not going to deny her experiences. I’m sorry if she has faced that. But I don’t think this messaging is right nonetheless. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/25 09:08 PM |
| 4 | AmazingShe implied it should be extended to said parties spouse as well, for being a gender traitor or something. Not rage bait cuz she’s made multiple videos on it. If you happen to find her page you can see it. She doesn’t state it in the video, but implied it and liked comments that implied it, and responded to them. I obviously disagree with that delusional take. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/25 06:43 PM |
| 14 | AmazingMy bad for saying you’re one of the dumbest people I’ve interacted with this week. I’ll correct that. You’re one the dumbed people I’ve interacted with in 2025 lol. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/25 06:38 PM |
| 12 | AmazingI agree. When you use ad hominems and other crude language, you open up opportunities for the argument to be derailed. Let’s keep it on topic which is that these type of statements are unacceptable to make and endorse, and this is a harmful attitude that vilifies and demonizes men. Young men shouldn’t have to grow up seeing this on social media. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/25 04:29 PM |
| 1 | AmazingSomeone put it in the comments | /r/MensRights | 20/09/25 04:03 PM |
| 1 | AmazingSomeone left it in the comments | /r/MensRights | 20/09/25 03:45 PM |
| 20 | AmazingShe said majority of little boys are rapists. Respectfully gtfo here. I believe it should be morally good, bare minimum good, humans who don’t condone rape vs. rapists and people that condone rape. Not men vs. women. Yes, unfortunately, women do tend to face more SA and it’s HORRIBLE. You’ll never see anyone disagreeing with you there. But let me reframe it like this; should we stop caring about women committing suicide just because men do it more? Should we accuse women of trying to “outperform… | /r/MensRights | 20/09/25 03:16 PM |
| 23 | AmazingI’m not aware, so correct me if I’m wrong, but I thought 4b just means they don’t wanna do anything with men? She is a full blown misandrist and man hater. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/25 02:58 PM |
| 9 | AmazingWish I had an answer for you buddy, but unfortunately idk why it’s allowed | /r/MensRights | 20/09/25 02:50 PM |
| 11 | AmazingInstagram | /r/MensRights | 20/09/25 02:40 PM |
| 13 | AmazingYup and I did that | /r/MensRights | 20/09/25 02:33 PM |
| 5 | AmazingSomeone in the comments put her Instagram handle. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/25 02:27 PM |
| 11 | AmazingI thought it was a subreddit rule since most subreddits require this to prevent brigading | /r/MensRights | 20/09/25 02:23 PM |
| 13 | AmazingLet’s not devolve into ad hominems. Let’s call it as it is. Her statements are ugly and not okay. Devolving into personal attacks will take away from the point that these are not okay statements to make or endorse. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/25 02:22 PM |
| 27 | AmazingI thought I had to for sub rules | /r/MensRights | 20/09/25 02:15 PM |
| 425 | AmazingAccording to the last slide, majority of little boys are 🍇ists | /r/MensRights | 20/09/25 01:47 PM |
| 8 | Comments sided with OP thankfully, but a terrible story nonethelessNo. She made it about herself and painted herself as the victim. That situation, along with others, has made me realize the world is cruel and unfair. No use expecting justice, parity, or fairness in this cruel world. I’ve become very disillusioned and disappointed with our world. I think the future is bleak and it’s never gonna stop. We just soldier on, one day at a time, and try to find the meaning of our existence in this fucking mess of a world. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/25 03:18 PM |
| 6 | Comments sided with OP thankfully, but a terrible story nonethelessNo I completely understand I also had childhood obesity due to a medication. I could only lose weight as an adult(a year ago is when I started) when I didn’t need that medication anymore. I just tried to argue that people making fun of my height(I’m 5’7) just hurts more than weight. Cuz height literally can’t be changed even in theory unless you do a surgery and disable yourself. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/25 10:46 AM |
| 20 | Comments sided with OP thankfully, but a terrible story nonethelessWhich is crazy to me. I think things people cannot control should not be shamed, but things we can control is fine. I used to be obese and I am short. Guess which jokes bothered me more? Short ones, cuz I literally can't do anything about that. I was able to diet and work out to get where I am now(overweight but not obese, still working on it), but I literally can't do anything about my height, so those height jokes hurt way more. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/25 01:41 AM |
| 29 | Single Men have better mental health than married men nowadaysNew cope dropped guys. I’m not single cuz I can’t pull, I’m prioritizing my mental health ☮️🕊️🧘♂️😌 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 11:39 PM |
| 131 | Comments sided with OP thankfully, but a terrible story nonethelessI’ve had a friend kill himself cuz he told a girl he trusted about the same issue listed above. She laughed at him and said very cruel things and told everyone on campus. He ended himself with a shotgun, and his little sister found him like that. It’s been 2 years, and she’s still traumatized and can’t speak. Idk what’s the word for it, but she’s never been able to speak since that day. That girl killed him essentially and got away with it. The body positivity movement should be extended to men … | /r/MensRights | 18/09/25 06:22 PM |
| 3 | Men’s sexual pasts(or lack thereof) is subject for cruel jokes but never a woman’s(post + comments)He didn’t escalate anything lol. Both of them made fun of each don’t sexual pasts (or lack thereof). It was equal. Being the bigger person doesn’t work against bullies. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/25 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Men’s sexual pasts(or lack thereof) is subject for cruel jokes but never a woman’s(post + comments)Saving this. We are doomed as a society btw. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/25 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Self-Improvement will NOT improve your attractiveness to womenAgreed. I improve myself for myself. Lot 57 lbs since January, reached a healthy weight, hit the gym etc. I feel better. Genuinely, I feel nicer. I improved myself cuz I didn’t wanna feel like shit and will continue improving myself cuz it feels good to improve myself. Not doing it for women. I think as a whole, men should be told from a young age to not place their self worth and masculinity in their ability to attract women and “bang chicks bro 🤙” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 02:02 PM |
| 12 | Men’s sexual pasts(or lack thereof) is subject for cruel jokes but never a woman’s(post + comments)I agree. Also this isn’t me lol, I’m just reposting another dude. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/25 01:01 PM |
| 22 | Men’s sexual pasts(or lack thereof) is subject for cruel jokes but never a woman’s(post + comments)Braindead take truly. He showed her a mirror, just did the same thing she did to him back to her. If she didn’t like that, it means she shouldn’t have done what she did in the first place. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/25 11:41 AM |
| 2 | 800 Chinese women went to a dating event, No Man showed upDon’t they have a skewed sex ratio? I’m pretty sure there’s more men than women in that country. How would/did this happen? | /r/MensRights | 02/06/25 07:48 PM |
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