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Buddy just stop embarrassing yourself already lmao. And no I aint pissing on the lawn, ur just pissing your pants out in public and somehow try to argue that this is a good thing. And you can at the end try to argue that status is this important thing. But if you look at which group gets in the most relationships and who sleeps around the most you find out that it's those of low economic status. These are inherently people without status. Yes certain cultures put status on a pedestal. But even i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:59 AM
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Because ur fucking sperging. I couldn't care less if you have friends or not. You just need to do something better with your time and energy lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:39 AM
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Imagine getting this triggered lmao. Buddy do yourselves a favor and go outside, get some fresh air, get yourself some tea and maybe talk to some people. This is fucking sad. But I am glad that you at least realize that the obsession with status is stupid when it comes to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:31 AM
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Except for the fact that it proves nothing whatsoever. People thinking that something they don't have is important, and other people finding it amusing because of how false it is ain't proving them right. It's cute to see you coping though lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:15 AM
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Any normal dude who knows he makes roughly the same as the women on the other side of the table lmao. Money doesn't grow on trees.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:53 PM
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Cause they don't have any lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:08 PM
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Don't communicate it in advance. You shouldn't expect to pay for someone's bill. Just ask for your part of the bill and if ur date doesn't vibe with it then that's that. Having these conversations beforehand is insanely awkward and decreasing your odds for anything positive to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:02 PM
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Can you show me where this is stated? Because I have never seen this before.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:08 AM
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I thought that you were saying that reddit will have a problem with you saying that you hate feminism and non-problematic stuff like that. Unlike people trying to bait you into saying actual bad things to report you. People trying to bait people they don't agree with in getting banned is a tale as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:04 AM
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So your entire argument is based on the most stupid conspiracy theory ever "Women shouldn't complain because they actually like it". Yeah the female council one day sent out an email to all women so that a large portion would lie about their enjoyment. Cmon, get real buddy. This is such a stupid argument. You can surely think of something better. By your logic that it's easy, convenient and enough options then men also shouldn't complain. Dating apps aren't good for anything but hookups. And eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:58 AM
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Yes. You got manually reported. But these reports often don't get handled by real human beings. Simply because that would be incredibly slow and expensive. So you probably got reported, the system flagged said comment when it reviewed it and you got a temp ban. Hence when you appealed it you got a different outcome because those are usually not automated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:48 AM
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In other words you got hit by an automatic system and after manual review they lifted the ban. I don't see how this helps your argument here 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:38 AM
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She isn't traditional, she just wants to be treated in a certain way. Good luck to her, I would personally bounce instantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:32 AM
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I have a hard time believing this because you can say so much worse even about "women". Are you sure that they didn't just strike them for another reason after getting reported? Because from what I have seen a lot of people in the MRA sub definitely don't have much of a filter. That being said reddit is absolutely dogshit so I can definitely see them pulling what ur claiming.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:28 AM
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Because those are some insanely bad traits. It doesn't mean that you are doomed because of it. But if you can't get laid while you have those traits then it obviously will affect you negatively. You not having those horrible traits could be the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 01:53 AM
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Holy shit ur still here doing this shit? Fuck me that's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:10 AM
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I have never seen a gold digger or a murderer. Does that mean that they are an urban legend? Like cmon bro, something being uncommon doesn't equate to it not existing. I have personally not encountered a lot of different types of people, that doesn't mean that they don't exist. This is a silly line of reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:05 AM
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Thats what Im saying. Your logic and ecuses helps out guys like Nick Fuentes ignore criticism. Why would that be the case? If the word racism and nazi have the same impact as before then this wouldn't change anything. It's clear in your responses that you are trying to win an argument in the dumbest way possible. Because you simply choose to ignore the stuff you know you can't argue against.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 08:01 AM
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In other words the advice given doesn't work. M8 if this was some eye opening stuff then after reading up on it you should be able to get somewhere after applying it. Yet this isn't reality. It's not a science to study. It's simply bad. The only parts which are good are generic and something most people already know. The shit thrown on top of it is stuff that decreases your odds lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:58 AM
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In my ideal feminist world? Most men are second class citizens? What are you talking about? You are just yapping m8. I am not a feminist, I am not trying to promote feminism, how mentally fucked are you that you are creating these demons? Also feminism has not resulted in lonely men. Feminism didn't make the internet a second world for people (or for a lot of lonely men, their primary world). The fact that most dudes haven't ever asked a woman out, or have absolutely no clue how to navigate aski…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 07:48 AM
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His group will claim theyre being wrongfully labelled. And normal people will call them delusional Nazi's. And that would've stayed the same if they didn't try and claim that. These are not the people in question. You are labeling people who are clearly wrong with those who aren't. If enough people will use the word racist to not only describe racists but also touch upon another group of people, then guess what will happen to that word? It will lose its original meaning to also include the new p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 12:59 AM
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Okay? I am not talking about Nick Fuentes. You are comparing some dude who clearly is being labeled in a way which makes sense vs people who aren't. You are shifting the narrative to try an argument which you have already lost lmao. There is a difference when Nick Fuentes gets called a Nazi vs Moist Critical. Because yes, I have seen people call him a Nazi. And when enough people partake in such behavior (which has slowly been happening over the years) the word will eventually flip. It won't hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 12:44 AM
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You are very much talking about people misusing words. You will literally see the same trajectory with that as using a word in a completely different way. Look at the word Nazi for example. In today's day and age it very much is not just used as it did when Hitler was in power. It now very much gets used to describing people who have somewhat right leaning stances. Which is why a lot of people especially those who are older are very mad when it's used incorrectly. And you can write it off as "cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 12:27 AM
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So by this logic what I said about you must be true since you are firing back at me. And what would that be lmao? That I am a woman? Is that supposed to be a dig? Anyway naw you are incorrect for sure just find it funny a woman trying to critique me when you don't have to have any skill at all. When most men actually do need it. And this is why I am not bothering with responding to the rest. Because you can't read lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 12:14 AM
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You are just flat out wrong. There is a reason why the word "gay" now means "homosexual" instead of "happy". Yes you can still use it as "happy" but people ain't gonna think about it, simply because it has not only lost its meaning but shifted. If a word gets used differently for a long enough time then it will eventually change what it describes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 12:04 AM
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No it doesnt what you are saying is silly. The word has been around for a long while, you acting like its anything new. I can understand if it just came out and I'm trying to use the new hot word or something. Everyone, including those offline that are younger then 50 will know what that means. Maybe even those older then 50 in todays day and age. So it doesnt say anything extra like what you claiming. Yeah the word has been around for a while yet absolutely see no use irl. You using the term un…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:55 PM
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Yeah, except you ain't gonna accomplish that by any redpill rethoric. Hell, there is a reason why the redpill to the blackpill pipeline is so big. Because the advice absolutely sucks, gets you nowhere and you eventually give up. Enjoy ur future life of VR porn m8.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:38 PM
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You are using urban dictionary slang, this ain't a term people out in the real world use. Hence my comment. I know what it means but you using it unironically says way too much about you lmao. An orbiter and a normal friend are not very easy to differentiate for women, for the simple fact that most male single friends they have would have sex with them if they would allow it. And this advice won't get them in this position. Simply for the fact that you shoot your shot after you gage her interest…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:26 PM
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A stretch? A 25 year old with 5 sexual partners is in no world close to being promiscuous lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:06 PM
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If you think that they are "waking you up" then it shows that you really are lost. This is a sign that you really need to change your life around for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:05 PM
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Referring to friends as orbiters says a lot about you and how much time you spend on the internet wasting your time. And you shouldn't make your intentions clear from the get go. You need to build up a little report. But if you're interested in them romantically or physically then you should do so while ur still acquaintances. Doing so will increase your odds by a lot, unless you are in places like a club and just want a one night stand. Because people are a lot more open and willing to go on a …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:03 PM
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Men aren't being mentally abused by those idiots. Because men aren't listening to them. It's only a very small portion of dudes who are beyond down on their luck who get indoctrinated in this crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:59 PM
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Hell no lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:26 PM
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You are comparing to a time where people were more social because the internet wasn't as prominent, the living cost was a lot less so people don't have to worry as much about making ends meet and women needed a man to actually have a normal liveable life. No shit that we are having less sex. This has absolutely nothing to do with men not having as much edge as they potentially once did.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 09:40 PM
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What are you talking about? This isn't about losing interest. He gained a deeper interest and if it's not reciprocal that shit can definitely be insanely tough. If your feelings don't go away you are only hurting yourself, so stop being friends is a logical conclusion. And often not one that was easy to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:19 PM
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Why are you assuming that it's just once? Especially when I have said over and over again that rejection is one of the most basic concepts anyone understands? Only the filthy sheltered rich don't understand it. And men do not face rejection every single week when it comes to this specific subject. But if it would be the case then they don't have much of an emotional connection with the women that reject them. And thus won't be impacted so badly that they couldn't stay friends. Sure they can have…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:57 PM
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This week to my second problem, which is most women have never been rejected so they don't understand not wanting to be friends anymore. It's clearly in response to this portion of his message. He is arguing from the point that women don't understand the feeling so they can't relate. The point of saying was to shut down this very flawed line of thinking which he is arguing from. You can't make the argument "you shouldn't judge men who don't want to be your friend anymore when rejected, when you …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:58 PM
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Firstly op I can assure you as a women I've been rejected and it sucks. And unfortunately once you cross that line it's best to block each other for a while and heal before coming back to each other. She clearly didn't claim anywhere here that women get rejected more often than men. You are either insanely wrong, lying or the message was edited.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:38 PM
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M8 you really can't talk about that stuff with ur comment history lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:28 PM
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If you live a normal life then you understand what it's like to be rejected. It happens all the time not just in this setting. This comment is absolutely stupid. Especially when most people also understand how it feels like to get your heart broken. And even if women somehow didn't know it whatsoever. It still doesn't impact the comment you are responding to whatsoever. So what is your goal here?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:25 PM
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They absolutely aren't. Some might be, because no group is a monolith. But it is a very small minority. What you are fuming about is simply people being upset that someone who they saw as a friend suddenly drops them. And maybe the feeling of being used. And on another note you really need to either actually interact with women or grow a spine. Because what you are describing in the last bit isn't how normal women act like. I don't know a single dude who was expected to do "boyfriend" stuff whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:22 PM
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People don't get feelings because of what you have to offer. The problem very much lies with the social decline that has been going on a bit before most of us were born. This is why there are plenty of average and below average men and women are successful, because they not only put themselves out more but also know what to do. You don't have to be a golf club owner who is a 10/10 lookswise with the most ideal dick size. There is a reason why the most sexually active class are those who are stru…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:40 PM
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Yeah, sure thing bud. Ur once again ignoring every time women do judge each other. Hell depending on your argument you will probably agree that women judge each other for a lot of stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:24 PM
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Cool so ur full of shit. This is the biggest cop out ever. I am right because everyone who goes against my point is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:15 PM
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You shouldn't ask people online for this stuff and especially not on platforms like this. People in places like this most definitely do not reflect the broader population. If you want to know the opinions from terminally online people then you're in the right place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:14 PM
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Then reiterate it. Because I can't find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:10 PM
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No, you are calling people who are against it hypocrites. Now argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:07 PM
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Yes, they do. Ask anyone in this thread who is against it. How much do you wanna wager?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:06 PM
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They do, what are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:04 PM
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So you have no clue on anything but are blowing smoke at people who do (at least for their pov)? What are you doing? You shouldn't be having any aggressive stands if you claim to not have a clue. Don't try to start a debate, go somewhere to gather information instead. This is a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:02 PM
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Nice non-argumen, how do you know what's best? You aren't saying anything, make some arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:57 AM
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Lmao mfer is just racist and salty that people judge him for it. Edit: and he edited his msg to hide that he is against interracial relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:48 AM
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Maybe you want to make at least an argument why it's hypocritical. Because you don't say anything to refute specifically. So I will just say it outright, no it's not hypocritical at all. No one is forcing people to stay out of them. People are only rightfully pointing out that it's not in the best interest of the young person. Simply for the fact that its an almost guaranteed way to get hurt. Obviously it can go right, but the odds not only go insanely against it, it's also in favor of getting h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:34 AM
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Nah nah nah women don't have legs silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:14 PM
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Yes it's a relationship, just not a romantic one (unless both of you have decided to be in one but that isn't what you are going for). You also have relationships with bosses, friends, family, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:34 PM
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Not something which they can expect but definitely something that will happen is to be walked home at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:30 PM
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Ur a torso on stumps. Or even worse shaped like a bobblehead figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:22 PM
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This shit was written by a bloke who was a nobody for the vast majority of his life. Hell when this was published he was a nobody. He only gained popularity because of wildly different reflections within Parerga and Paralipomena. Him basically ranting about women because he was a loser does not prove anything at all. This is like claiming that all women teachers are a sexual threat against young students because a small portion of them have raped boys. Some people resent women and some people re…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 08:21 PM
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M8 there was nothing to respond to lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:05 AM
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Obviously. But those who are struggling and who won't on their own say "fuck it" will not have a good experience with this. Because they probably won't let go and find more relief from the encounter compared to the shame and disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:58 AM
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Yes but people who struggle with this obviously puts a lot more importance compared to someone who naturally decides to just lose it with whoever they manage to find. So when you force this idea down their throat when they don't believe in it themselves then it will have a wildly different effect than what you had. So stuff like relief will on average not be greater than the shame and hit in their self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:52 AM
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Yeah, putting your penis into a hole you can see and feel is so difficult. You truly need to have experience with this prior otherwise you will never find out how.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:43 AM
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You can simply lie. These 2 situations won't change the impact you have on women at all. If you can lie and use women in the way you are describing (not talking about prostitutes here) then they also have the ability to say they aren't a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:41 AM
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No. Just someone they are attracted to and preferably someone they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:38 AM
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Not enjoying it and choosing to get it over with someone you practically view as a troll (because this is the vibe I am getting from the intention of his comment) makes a huge difference. One you can easily chalk up to just not enjoying the experience. But with the other it comes with baggage, especially when a lot of the dudes who struggle put high importance on these things. Which in general won't turn the experience into a net positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:37 AM
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I never claimed that it was the main issue. You are trying to force that idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:32 AM
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Of you? Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:28 AM
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Nope I am a dude. And it's insanely easy to see how unconfident dudes who are even less confident in their appearance will react to such a thing. This isn't building yourself up, this is burning your hand in the spirit of getting done with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:42 PM
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I wonder why one might feel ashamed when fucking a prostitute or someone they don't deem as attractive and instead the opposite. Because that was the point OP was trying to make. Which is gross, but I digress.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:39 PM
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Nope, a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:38 PM
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M8 not being able to find the hole is absolutely a none issue nowadays. Everyone has watched porn and you can look at the anatomy of a vagina with a single google search. Cmon now, these aren't problems anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:38 PM
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M8 what are you talking about? Ur absolutely skitzo posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:36 PM
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If you ever get to a point where you are so truly desperate because you think that you are a lost cause then you will have some money to blow. Just pay for it and have a somewhat fine experience. You are basically saying that one has to punish themselves to get over it which simply isn't the case. And you also don't have to use another person for both of you to feel worse after it. But even then you aren't gonna fix any issue, even if you go through with it. Ur still gonna feel as shit without g…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:46 PM
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M8 just no lmao. That's the easiest way to lose it. And cool you have done it, now what? You didn't enjoy it and nothing in your life changed except maybe now you feel more ashamed about yourself. Cause you clearly didn't think highly of that woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:38 PM
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Men and women don't need each other to live their lives. It's as simple as that. People want connection though, but that is something very different. There is a huge difference in acknowledging this, and trying to use it as ammunition. Yes women who spout it hatefully probably aint gonna have the nicest life (or think very cringely back at this) but this has nothing to do with some women being in abusive relationships. Hell women who unfortunately find themselves in that exact condition and get …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:23 PM
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Am I denying that? I am simply saying that you ain't gonna get the women you want with such a personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:17 PM
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I don't want to say it buddy. But that is quite a self report.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:40 PM
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Ofcourse it can. You don't have to be perfect. But if you want a happy relationship which isn't toxic then you don't want to have such traits on either side. Or a very frustrating one, which feels like a roller coaster. You rather have a partner who is trusting vs one that constantly thinks that you will cheat on her?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:39 PM
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And the inside of different vaginas also feel different. Because it comes in different shapes and sizes as well amonst other factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:37 PM
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And dicks feel like dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:06 PM
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Dude what are you talking about. Obviously there are horrible women out there, this has always been the case. This isn't the cause why men suddenly are finding it more difficult to date in today's age, because the amount of horrible women hasn't increased. And I at least assume that other dudes ain't gonna try and date them, that would be common fucking knowledge. So what are you crying about? Ur absolutely sperging over nothing lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:28 PM
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It makes perfect sense it's just not the sole problem but it most definitely impacts things. Especially when you factor in that because women don't need a partner and the social narrative of needing one has shifted opened up to other priorities. Women nowadays choose to focus on school and work more and more, just like men have done for ages. This will obviously delay when women will get relationships and the amount of relationships they will get into. Financial independents give you freedom to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 12:10 PM
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And so do men, what is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:47 AM
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If the only "flaw" is the dude's height then obviously him lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:31 AM
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Still doesn't answer what the bad traits are and even who they go after and how. You are asking a question which is way too simple because a lot of factors come into play. For example if you go after vulnerable women then certain bad traits will be a benefit. Simply because they are way more likely to be manipulated by it. While if you go after very stable and put together women then those red flags will absolutely ruin your chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 11:04 AM
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Depends what the bad personality traits are he possesses, and how they both go about trying to get a partner. If one only goes out of his house for groceries and work then the other parts really don't matter much. Because this will probably cripple his chances to almost nothing anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:36 AM
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Extroversion to a degree definitely is a more beneficial trait. Simply because it's a trait which usually corresponds with higher social skill and want, which will obviously aid you in getting a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:25 AM
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More men are single because they lack skills and drive to get a partner paired with the fact that women need men less and less. But that doesn't change the fact that if you want to have a partner who you actually want to be with and have a relationship that will last, you got to be the absolute best version of yourself and have as little negative personality traits. Because yes if you are a manipulative shit who goes after vulnerable people you can easily get a partner. But this is not the relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:23 AM
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I didn't mention leaving born children at all. And I don't give to shit about population decline, but governments do. Hence why things to make it even worse won't get green lid, especially if it also fucks with the economy short term which will happen in this instance. Also you can't just mention a random acronym, especially when the most popular one isn't what you're referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:03 AM
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Lmao if that's real then that's funny AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 11:38 PM
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This doesn't have to do with standards. This has to do with the difficulty of breaking off a bond for someone you love. Which is something not exclusive to either side. Hell I know more red pill blokes who have suffered through this than any other demographic. And my favorite examples are Sneeko getting cucked and Charlie Kirk's wife practicality moving on within days (which indicates how good that relationship was behind close doors lmao)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 10:35 PM
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The comparison of single mothers with sperm donors is insanely silly. Because there is a huge difference between having the conscious decision of raising a child without a partner. And suddenly being left abandoned by someone while you are solely left in a very difficult position. Someone who chooses to get pregnant has the ability to prepare. Not just financially but also planning every step of the way and getting help in advance. Which is different if someone becomes pregnant and suddenly thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 10:30 PM
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Yeah if they have been together with each other for a while then that is logical. I don't get why you are acting like that is odd lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 10:19 PM
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Why would a woman go on a date with a dude if they wouldn't be into them? This means that they are already to some degree open to having sex with them. You don't have to be special lookswise to have a one nightstand. They can just want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 06:08 PM
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If they went on a date then she thought of him attractive enough yes, but this situation doesn't mean that she found him more special. You don't think that women also fuck dudes who they don't find ugly when in the mood?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 06:03 PM
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Not at all. It can be for the very opposite reason. She might think that she doesn't want to end up with that person and just decides to have a fun night. It can also be because she is drunk or simply in the mood. Or hell if there is a big time gap between one and another she could've also just changed. And many other reasons. Using stuff like this as your way of determining this won't get you far.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:59 PM
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Soooooo him getting with someone he thought saved herself because she lied about it means that he didn't have standards? Yeah, that makes a lot of sense lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:54 PM
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I mean if she sleeps with one guy after a week and another guy in one hour, she's into both of them. It's the degree of intoness that matters. Having sex quickly is a proxy for that since no better measure exists. If she has sex with someone in an hour then you can probably assume that they just wanted to hook-up. This isn't an indication that they are in love with them at all. Hell it isn't even an indication that they find them necessarily that hot. Because depending on the person and how they…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:49 PM
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The vast majority of male spaces aren't infected with this. Only ones which are focused on it. You won't see some online space focused on league of legends have a "men are victims" complex. The same goes that an online space for crocheting doesn't have a "women are victims "complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:37 PM
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And the entire topic was simply people online ragebaiting men. So why are we still talking about this crap? But hell even if we need to take it seriously (because yes a portion of women did indeed mean it), you aren't factoring in which situation if it would go wrong is more dire. And what a man can do to you vs a bear is most definitely a worse fate. Because one definitely can mean a lot more than just be the cause of your death. And that fear stays even if it doesn't end up happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:34 PM
1

Lmao, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:20 AM
1

It certainly hasn't come to the point yet where it is used incorrectly enough. It probably isn't even over 50 yet. And if it is it aint by much. Come back in a few years and you might be right. But until then, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:04 AM
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No. You just don't know the definition. That people use a term wrong doesn't change the definition of a word.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:35 AM
3

Yeah because your face changes so drastically when you get in a relationship 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:47 PM
4

Guess that every ugly dad is a millionaire 🤣🤣🤣 Like buddy what are you yapping about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:43 PM
3

🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:47 PM
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I don't believe you in the slightest and fuck no lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:47 PM
8

I am dating a woman. I highly doubt that you have had any luck 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:15 PM
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No it's because they want to be with the person or to fuck. The same applies to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:23 PM
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I am a dude. Never paid for sex. Neither have any of my friends and people I seriously know lmao. So try again m8.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:50 AM
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Just because other people use it this way doesn't mean that during a somewhat serious conversation people should use it incorrectly. Because it completely changes the post. Because what you are implying is just fucking stupid to do. You shouldn't actually display red flags, because this can impact your chances with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:40 AM
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Nothing to do with age. It's become a buzzword.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:38 AM
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No. A red flag is a specific term. People claiming that splitting the bill is a red flag had no clue what a red flag is. These are signs to be careful for an individual because they can be a danger. It isn't a turn off or an incompatibility issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:29 AM
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Your terminology is wrong and what you are suggesting is quite a waste of time how you describe it. Just be yourself, if what you want doesn't align with someone like splitting the bill for example then you aren't compatible and you can move on. Don't just do things you know won't work on people you don't want to be with. Just instantly shut it down and move on. This will save you time. And you shouldn't be an actual red flag just because you aren't compatible because this information can be sha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:24 AM
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Yeah, not remotely in the same way. You can easily thrive as a ugly person. It's just a tad bit harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:17 AM
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I am not a woman. Just not a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:15 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:14 AM
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Okay? Being born ugly (which lmao, not even the case most of the time) doesn't impact your actual living. This isn't comparable. You are just making the comparison because of the lack of pussy in your life 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:21 AM
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Yes you may not. But that says more about you lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:20 AM
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No. They live in poverty. It's sad that they are in these situations where they feel the need to do this. People exploiding it are sad, pathetic and gross. Also this isn't dating lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:46 AM
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I have talked about two different sets of women. Who are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:36 AM
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Even without these problems listed about prostitution it's still pathetic. And no if people knew what passport broing entails they would heavily judge you for it. Because what you are doing is fucking women who are throwing themselves at you out of desperation to better their lives. And you knew this beforehand and chose to go there specifically for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:11 AM
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No, it can be actually denied. But that is most definitely not the majority of cases. Especially not in healthy relationships where it almost never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:05 AM
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Yes no one owes you their body. And just because there are alternatives that doesn't mean that they are great. Porn is fine. Literally almost no one judges people for watching it. People just don't want to hear about it. The main thing that gets criticized about it is the industry behind it. Or using it while in relationships if the partner doesn't like it, which doesn't apply in this conversation. Prostitution is simply sad. Men and women don't view it highly. Paying for sex is just pathetic. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:02 AM
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Yes they do because most people very much like the option for themselves or their friends. No dude who is sleeping around or has friends that do want them to accidentally become a father. Because birth control isn't perfect and shit happens. And it kinda is yeah. Although I would extend it to themselves and people they care for. Because random strangers don't get sympathy but friends who are struggling do. And no it is beneficial for both. Dudes love to use the same get our of jail free card. Es…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 09:56 AM
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Yes because politics is only about abortion rights. The majority who did vote for trump if the opinion was presented would choose for it to stay legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:17 AM
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1/3 voted for trump. About half of those are male. And the majority of people within that didn't put in their vote because of abortion. Especially if you take into account that not even all places got affected by it, which you could know beforehand. So no, ur wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:46 AM
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Yeah I get that I am just saying that there really aren't that many men who are against abortion nor random men getting laid. So the scenario ain't real. Like yes obviously there will be some who think this way, that's almost always the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:54 PM
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Most dudes don't care if random dudes can get laid. Most people do care about getting access to abortions. Simply because it's beneficial for both sexes. What you are saying is simply wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:42 PM
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But the basic information is out there. It truly is not undocumented it just is a lot of work for certain people. Everyone knows what good qualities and bad qualities are. When someone looks good, when they don't. You can literally go out and see how people respond to each other in a sexual/flirty/romantic brain. Most people who do struggle do so for certain reasons and some might be harsher than others. Some people are just not a catch and others are simply just way too timid and not putting th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:09 PM
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Definitely not all of them. But dating is exactly like that as well. The mediocre manage all the time in dating. So if you want to have criticism on one you should also criticize the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 05:56 PM
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Some people go to college and study their ass off and also fail. This really isn't different. You can suck in any aspect of life, and not receive any help depending on the cards you have been dealt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:49 PM
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He can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:54 PM
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It isn't nearly as common and easy to prove. This is. So, they wrote it into the law. Like what is difficult to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 11:35 AM
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It does. You know that this only applies for cases like post partum psychosis. Which unlike insanity is a temporary mental condition. It is something women can very easily get over. Thus instead of locking up women in facilities and letting them rot for a longer than they need to, they get a reduced prison sentence. Different circumstances result in different sentences. And just because this is not something men can get, doesn't mean that women are suddenly babied. I know that this is already so…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 11:21 AM
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I already conceded that. Yes and with this information obviously your previous talking points fall flat. You now know why it has a lesser punishment. You don't want to budge away from the notion which now is abundantly clear that it never was based on logic and reasoning, but based on a preconceived agenda. Your argument hasn't changed because you are stubborn and want to push the idea that women get babied. It should've changed. So, just stop and take the L.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:42 AM
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You're correct, I may have misinterpreted the law. And that was all you should've said. Buddy you were wrong just drop it. Stop pushing your shitty agenda. Admit defeat. Walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:11 AM
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If you can't understand the point I was making then there is legit no point in arguing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:24 PM
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Cute. Not the point I was making. Not the original point you were trying to argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:11 PM
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Yeah, and I hope that you can see the difference between the two. Wtf do you think this comment achieves?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 02:12 PM
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It's a dominant thing to do. So yes, it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 11:41 AM
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You are right why would the more dominant party act appropriately. It truly is a mystery.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 11:19 AM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=x0YGZPycMEU
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:49 AM
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Computer says no. Thank fuck that there are guardrails in place for stuff like this. That way self serving people like you can't try to take advantage of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:37 AM
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The logic here is impeccable. Man I really wonder how you are black pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:38 PM
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Most of them don't. Some of them are indeed just stupid. Like why are you trying to use brain dead idiots who you would never date as the standard. Like if we would engage in this then every group would just be the most horrible people in existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:21 PM
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I think the funniest part is that the same people will argue that women need to marry quickly. If you want people to take marriage more "serious" then you should discourage people from marrying when their brains are still developing. Also I find it very telling when you want to uphold the idea of marriage over the happiness of the person you supposedly love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 01:22 PM
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Why are you shifting the goal post to "at the same time"? This is such bad faith lmao. Especially because no one cares about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:58 PM
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I do think that women have it worse, but that doesn't cancel out the struggles men have. Both are shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:46 AM
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What? I literally said there that they are not getting fucked over in a worse way. I literally said that they both are getting fucked over by eachother. My point from the start was both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:18 AM
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Then why try to argue that it's a thing men are specifically at risk for. I am sorry but if you want to look at things logically then the real difference between dating is that women are easier to get dates compared to men. But they need to be a lot more careful to not get played or worse... If you add everything up I personally wouldn't say one has a real advantage. Both have hands which they wished didn't have. And the grass will always look brighter on the other side. And I personally am glad…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:07 AM
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It all balances out. And if we want to actually be honest not in the women's favor. There are as many deadbeat men as women who are in relationships. They both fuck eachother over in similar ways. The only difference is that because of biological differences men can do way more harm without even trying. And you it time and time again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:50 AM
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Location can definitely change it, if you have no morals or aren't aware of your actions. Waving money around to pick up vulnerable women to do what you want is a strategy which unfortunately works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:48 AM
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Just no. Men aren't expected to pay because other countries then mine are starting to normalize splitting the bill more and more, you very easily can choose to do so as a man without trouble. Men and women are expected to impress each other. In today's society men and women both work and both contribute to expensive the, idea of a provider is extremely outdated. Both are at risk of being discarded, disrespected and divorced. The only one that has actual merit to it is that men still at large nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:46 AM
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This is an extremely small portion of men. Most aren't thinking about this at all. Also men really don't get exploited or fucked over by women more then the opposite way around. Also men shouldn't walk away, they should just not focus on it. They should just go through life making it the best version for themselves. And keep an open mind when opportunities arise. If you are miserable, bitter, etc then the chance you will strike gold is incredibly small. Because you are insanely likely to fumble …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:37 AM
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A 25 year old doesn't have much problems dating a 30 year old. And there are enough younger women who are into older men, or at least are into the life they could provide at that point. Like if we remove morals from the story, going after damaged young women and showering them with love and gifts is effective. These men know it thus they give this "advice". Because they couldn't care less about those young women. And the dangers that this "advice" will bring them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:30 AM
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I personally don't care one bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:52 AM
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The same reason why men call women whores and similar things, to get under their skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:50 AM
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Wtf are these terms, dude get off the internet ur spending way too much time on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:04 AM
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Wtf is this post? No shit that he holds back in a work environment, everyone does. You can't make certain comments in a work setting that doesn't mean that he is a totally different person when he is home. And what does the fact that he probably has sex and masterbates have to do with any of this? Almost everyone does so, I really don't get what ur so paranoid about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:03 AM
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"A lot of people" is still a huge minority. Most people have friends. And I am gonna be honest, if you have no friends then I guarantee that your shots at finding a partner are almost nonexistent anyway. Unless you are insanely attractive and thus can easily get women with online dating apps you need to have social skills. People without friends don't have those generally speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:21 AM
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Yes, I get that. But that doesn't matter. Because my argument still is men don't think they are in danger of them. So they won't use these platforms. Also mental abuse is indeed a problem. Financial danger really ain't much of a problem, this is very much more a scary thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 05:30 PM
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I do when I see it. Now what's your next shitty attempt to dismiss abuse? Can you just put them all together in one comment. Will save us some serious time before you either have to admit that you are in the wrong our quintuple down on your dismissal of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:25 PM
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Maybe men would be a lot more comfortable in doing so if people would not instantly dismiss it. This is almost always what needs to happen for these things. A good example is MeToo, women were a lot more comfortable coming out with their stories after it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:16 PM
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Imagine choosing the absolute most tone deaf way to engage with something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:12 PM
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True or not the reality is that men in general care a lot less about this then women. Which probably also has to do with how we are shaped/raised and because we are stronger. If my gf would slap me it would simply not have the same physical ramifications. Both are obviously insanely bad, but it is definitely why a lot of men don't think twice about it. Obviously this is not to undermine the violence and treatment. It's vile and should see some sort of ramifications. And the public lens should sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:10 PM
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Without even reading I can confidently engage with this. No. You're wrong. /Thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 02:40 PM
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Because men usually don't need to ask around if a girl is a danger to them. They can just ask their friends for advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 02:38 PM
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I doubt it as well. Which if I am not mistaken I have consistently said. But it would show that she did it deliberately to baby trap him. Which probably isn't all too legal. So although probably unlikely there is a chance, and some is better than none.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:46 AM
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Yes but they could potentially request to see her to provide proof of payment. And they can ask which day she went and to which store and potentially ask for camera footage. Hell court could force them to give it (I highly doubt they will but it's possible). So if she lied he might not have to pay child support. Although I highly fucking doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:22 AM
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You very much allow black pill rhetoric on this subreddit lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:37 AM
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Your friend is an raging idiot holy fucking shit. Either way if he has proof that she would go on plan B then he might be able to fight her in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 08:10 AM
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I just love how instead of having the normal take and state "I have sympathy for young couples and their first bad relationship" she instead only focuses on women. Girl, both men and women experience this. Why are you trying to make it seem like 1 of the two is a victim lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:08 AM
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Yes most people around that age don't look for something serious. They are at a time and a place where they are just there to study and party. Obviously they aren't gonna be interested in finding the one yet. They will just have a few fun experiences before they grow out of it and then it will matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 11:41 PM
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It literally wouldn't if he wants more than just sex. Which if you are looking for an actual serious relationship instead of just something casual applies to both men and women. Both men and women have periods in both these things. It really doesn't differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 11:06 PM
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Welcome to a subreddit full of basement dwelling neurodivirgrent men. Like fr people here just don't know anything about social situations lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:59 PM
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Most dudes have had multiple gfs ur just fucking lying to feel better about yourself lmao. Like buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:56 PM
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No shit but the same applies for woman. If she wants a one night stand then she isn't gonna be as critical about his character as long as he is safe and fun for that one moment Imao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:08 PM
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It's very much a metric of success for both. This take is just delusional. And men usually go after women who look good, and dressing well is part of looking good. This really isn't a difficult concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:07 PM
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No. Unlike a lot of people here I actually talk to people lmao. And even if it is more, it doesn't matter because for both when looking at serious dating it's very much both men and women who want this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:01 PM
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So he is just crying that people are weirded out by him and potentially calling him a pedo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 03:51 PM
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Absolutely vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:54 PM
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Most people in frats don't date seriously. If those are your frame of reference then you aren't thinking straight. There is a huge difference if you are trying to have sex or a serious relationship. Most dudes come eventually to a point where they want to find someone to marry or the equivalent within dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:06 PM
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As listed they aren't common at all. Not even close to being common.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:58 PM
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Fair enough m8.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:37 PM
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Not as standards. If it was about positive traits then yes. But those aren't the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:29 PM
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No it's not. And I am sorry but I am not gonna listen to someone who is blackpilled about this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:24 PM
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Know*
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:13 PM
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That's a very hard ask for someone on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:31 PM
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Ahhhhh the daily Lilith rage post. Right on time for my mandatory tea break.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:14 PM
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Fuck me this edit is way more deranged lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:00 PM
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No. Ur not. Ur going on a weird tangent about a commonly used phrase lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 11:58 AM
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No. Wtf are you yapping about?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 11:55 AM
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I mean where else are you gonna shoot your shot with women? And no. Both matter when trying to attract a partner. This isn't about making friends or hanging out with coworkers or family lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 11:50 AM
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Hey woman find men in uniform hot. Pull that shit off 😤 But obviously this isn't about when you are working. It's about how you clothe yourself when attending social events. Having a sense of style and such will obviously increase your odds. Looks matter, and this definitely is part of it. Just as your posture plays a big part in how you look for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 11:42 AM
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Absolutely unacceptable. This demands the death penalty for every woman still alive!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 11:15 AM
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You can contest it if you can proof that you didn't commit the thing. If he aint the father then he is good to go. If you want to issue the law itself then you need to make a case and take it higher. Just as if you think that you shouldn't be able to get fined for speeding. Dude, in the court of law. No shit. Read what I wrote lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 10:46 AM
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Almost any car related one lmao. Got caught speeding? You will get a fine and you need to pay for it. Don't agree with it? You can contest it in court. What are you talking about? He still would be a murderer lmao. Caught ur uncaught.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 10:29 AM
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Most dudes have standards when it comes to relationships. Just because there are those who are insanely desperate and those who only care about beauty doesn't contradict this. And fair enough I thought you were self inserting. Your logic is solid when it comes to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 10:19 AM
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No. With certain things they don't. The state is very much there to protect its people. And making sure that the father can randomly dip isn't doing the opposite. They can try and fight against it through the legal system. But just like many other things you will just get the "punishment". In our context a dude can't do much more. And that is perfectly fine. Use your head. This is like trying to argue well without murdering someone what can a murderer do besides trying to defend himself in the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 10:14 AM
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Yes. And the state here ensures that the child has a good upbringing. And if you don't want to be in the life of the child, or you did something extremely messed up they will ensure that you contribute to its costs. You don't need the consent for this. Because if we don't have these measures we will not only fuck over society but also innocent women. The state is there to protect and this is a necessary evil. There is no better system for this unfortunately. And if there is trying it out is a hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 10:05 AM
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No. In certain contexts like these they really aren't. Same as if I steal something the state doesn't need to get my consent to give me a fine and jail time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:56 AM
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No. This says everything about you and your standards. I as a dude will reject a woman if she isn't interesting. That is if I would still be looking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:36 AM
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Yeah and let the rest of the population fund the child, over my dead body. You get a girl pregnant then it's your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:09 AM
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The term "anymore" is doing a lot of lifting. And it falls flat because it still implies that he did this when he was. Also Leo gets shit on because he rotated through many women and broke up with them when they reached a certain age. Unless I am wrong George doesn't have the same patern.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:57 AM
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Consent doesn't matter. The government couldn't care less if you are or aren't happy about it. The damages of men being able to walk away is too high. Fucking over large parts of the population by forcing them to solo parent will be catastrophic for the economy. Thus a lot less women will fuck men and produce children because of how risky it is, which in turn will fuck over the population and slowly kill your country even more. The only other option would be to increase taxes so the government c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:54 AM
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Yes because every man who is in a relationship is super interesting and dresses well. M8 stop with the this bs lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:45 AM
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Wow you just managed to dodge everything that relates to the topic. No one is arguing that it's surprising that he sleeps with young women and that they are into him. That's quite literally not the problem people have with these age gaps lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:44 AM
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Dude this is just not true. Why are you trying to push a narrative which is so far removed from reality that it hurts. People aren't just critical about this on ugly dude lmao. Hell the men and women who are critical about this aren't even solely critical about men doing this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 08:29 AM
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This entire post is a great example why certain women say that the bar is in hell. Like cmon look what this dude is writing, he very is the text book definition of what they are talking about lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:21 AM
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No shit, because you are so insanely far gone that you can't accept reality. You don't need to be tall or have a huge dick to get a girl. Like buddy. Cmon. Also yes there is dick surgery but it's insanely scuffed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:04 AM
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No. They simply don't. Ur just insanely mind fucked into believing they do. And what do you mean can define what it means to be interesting? Buddy grab a dictionary. It's extremely self explanatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:54 AM
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Yes, it would fix your problem! Because that is one of the most damaging things right? And hey you can also get surgery foe your small dick. Please proof everyone that you are right all along. And that these factors really are which are holding you back 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:44 AM
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ChatGPT is better than any therapist i've ever had 🤣 Excellent trolling sesh my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:38 AM
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You can get surgery for it. Please do it and come back to us when that hasn't changed your situation one bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:38 AM
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Sounds like he doesn't even have a relationship with his mom at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:35 AM
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Those very much aren't standards for women, those are things you want to push onto women . The only two points you made for women who are actually mainstream are: - get in shape - be well groomed And hell you even have the standards for men wrong. Women don't demand more then half the crap you listed. The only ones that have merrit are: - have a solid physique (literally same thing women have to do lmao) - live by yourself (depends on how old you are) - dress on point (what a shocker that you ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:34 AM
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Nah man it's clearly because these bitches only go for the top 20% us average men don't stand a chance 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:39 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:00 PM
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No. Men are just physically stronger. Thus from back in the day they obviously ruled. But now in a day and age where strength doesn't matter much they finally can push back. It's literally that simple. Now I think at least where I am from it is dead. That being said obviously you will still encounter the scars of the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:03 PM
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It's because they don't know how to talk to them like a normal dude. Either they just have no clue how to talk in general, or can't do more than small talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:37 PM
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People can be satisfied from many things in life besides kids this also applies to women. And it is extremely simple you don't want kids? Easy solution don't have them. If it ever changes you can always get them then. You want kids? Sick! Just get them when you are in a stable situation. But what? Your partner has the opposite view? Then it is for you to decide if they are worth sacrificing your stand or the opposite. If this happens then cool crisis averted. If not then you break up. Easy as pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 03:21 PM
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Ain't that the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 10:10 AM
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Yeah but it very obviously isn't. You are just using it as an excuse to post it here lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:23 AM
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This isn't a debate. This is a call to action, well a attempt of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:57 AM
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Exactly why bothered by these women. Just ignore it. Ohhh wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:33 AM
3

Do what you want to do. But why bother others with this nonsense?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:18 AM
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Yeah imagine being so surprised that people don't want to be affectionate towards you while they are upset. Like imagine making a post asking why women don't want to provide sex when mad with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:27 PM
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I have to disagree with you here. Yes a lot of these videos are because those women get harassed and good on them for fighting back. That being said, plenty of these women are also just plain assholes. And just do it for attention. And they might not be the majority. And they might see pushback from people online. It doesn't mean that people can't be scared of it happening to them. This entire thing is unlikely to happen to you. But just like many other things which aren't likely to happen, it d…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 07:54 PM
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Why would you see something that boring online?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 07:35 PM
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There is no good dating manual period. These things are extremely useless. You can't learn from them even if they were good. Simply because it's information overload and people don't know what their problems are. People who are struggling with dating need targeted help.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 07:15 PM
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Ofcourse, but that doesn't change that it is more difficult for them. They need to actively put in the work, while dudes who are insanely attractive can just casually use dating apps. Because those apps really are mainly used for casual sex anyways. And even when not let's be real it's all about the pictures because you can't take much away from someone's bio. Especially not compared to pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 07:10 PM
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I don't see why, but I also don't see how this is relevant to anything lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 07:07 PM
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Yep, therapy lmao. I didn't do this, you were misconstruing that somehow my friends needed to settle. So I stated the obvious. And why am I here? Literally because people like you are extremely entertaining. I personally love to argue about nothing. It's insanely funny to see people like you sperg. Like look at your comment, it's comedy gold. Especially because it's just fueled with anger because you can't get your dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:58 AM
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You are clearly broken by how bitter you are about this subject lmao. It isn't a deflection it's advice which if you should take. And no. They didn't have to settle. I am just saying that my girlfriend is better looking, why wouldn't I think this about my gf. I literally said that those woman are also beutifull. It's so insanely obvious what you want to read, and you clearly need therapy because of it. It was fun to laugh at you, have a great day m8. Well as good as you can have them lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:39 AM
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If you don't like it then condemning one side isn't gonna fix anything. It's hypocritical and weird. This dude clearly doesn't care for the inverse, if he did he would't try to get one up on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:08 AM
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No, it does. Going after men online makes sure they can push back in a safe way and get rid of frustrations. Them pushing back irl would not be safe but hiding behind a screen is. Also why are you so obsessed with women shitting on men on the internet? It's the internet everyone is toxic to everyone. Men do this to women and women do it back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 10:21 AM
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Your claim is based on nothing. And within multiple friend groups, my own relationship and those of older people I can easily see what I am talking about. Hell if I look further I can do the same thing as well. It's not easy to crack the code, you are just insanely far off lmao. And now you are trying to talk about my relationship which you clearly know nothing about is just comedy gold. Dude you need therapy, not trying to force this crap down your throat 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:40 AM
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Fuck me another dude thinking that trash tv reflects reality. Just no. This is such a dumb argument, these people are hand picked because of shit like this. They want to create an absolute car crash because that shit gets views. If you really think what you're saying then I am sorry but you simply are clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 12:19 AM
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No we don't lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 12:16 AM
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Yeah sure thing bud. I know plenty of those people. They are all just bouncing from people to people. I also know people who are not good looking who found love and build a life. Funny how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:42 PM
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Just no. You can choose to ignore it because it's easier for you to accept it. But flat out no. There are those who are insanely good looking and thus can easily get with people. And those whose charisma is insanely high who can do the exact same shit. In your scenario literally no girl unless they are as fucked will take this beautiful man long term. And they simply are a minority so he will be held back. And the ugly dude will obviously need to put in a lot of work to offset his looks. But thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:24 PM
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As a dude who is dating a beautiful woman. And has friends who also date women (less beautiful but still amazing looking) I can tell you, no. Women don't want you to treat them like crap. It's really simple. They don't want this made up bs that you're suggesting, you simply aren't keeping the flame alive. And this can be through natural reasons or because you are simply not trying. That being said and you agreed, no one wants a push over. You need to still be a person. No dude in their right min…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:15 PM
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What are you yapping about lmao. It's simply how shit works. You cannot like it but that doesn't changes shit. Yes you will. Because now you suddenly need to choose who to go after. There isn't just 1 choice at the time lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:07 PM
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Depends on what. If you want to look at you getting with them long term then no. It's a check which both you need to pass. A one night stand or other forms of casual fun, no fucking shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:05 PM
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No. This simply is false lmao. Choice paralysis is a thing. And not just that, I already said that people will always slip though the cracks in high amounts. More isn't better at a certain point. There is a thing as too much. And if you can't understand that then you have a lot to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:52 PM
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You don't have to. But people approaching you is easier to filter then you going after anyone. So it decreases the amount you need to filter. And filtering isn't perfect and things will always slip though the crack if the volume is high enough. If almost everyone who you approach will try their shot to get laid, then it becomes a lot more difficult then to be more passive and decrease the people you need to vet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:19 PM
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Most people do just fine. It's still a minority who truly aren't happy. Obviously certain people have bad experiences but these things won't change with more women shooting their shots. Especially with the problems they face, because lots of men would sleep with a girl even when they don't want anything further. So if a woman approaches them it's easily interpreted as an easy one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:48 PM
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Almost no one wants someone who kisses the soil under their feet. Your reasoning makes no sense. I will tell you exactly how it is. Women definitely care about a partner who treats them right. They definitely want that. But it's not the only thing, it only is one of many. People want a partner who they find phisically good looking, and those who also turns them on. Attraction isn't just looks or personality it's both. And people have baseline levels which you need to clear. And after that more m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:22 PM
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Doesn't matter for the discussion. It is clear that a lot don't. Hell a lot of dudes also don't like it, but they don't have the luxury of getting approached so they need to do it. Hence the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 07:55 PM
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No. Absolutely not lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:30 PM
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\thread I guess lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:28 PM
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Okay? Except this isn't happening. So why are you fear mongering exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:18 PM
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Cute. Me knowing your hobbies doesn't tell me jack shit about you as a person. I couldn't care less if a girl states what her job is, if she has a pet and likes jogging. These are not interesting, I can't become interested in someone because of that. I need to know their personality and what not. Looks however, is something you can gage from a profile. Because they got pictures. If you want to pretend that this isn't the case and literally the only thing you can gather then you are just lying to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:14 PM
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Women don't have to approach men. Men don't have to approach women. Do what you want. But if you notice that things aren't working out for you then you might wanna change your strategy. Women broadly speaking in the position where they don't have to approach, so many don't. Because approaching people isn't everyone's cup of tea. That's it. It really isn't more complicated then this. Women aren't hiding, they simply are in a position where they don't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:11 PM
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I ain't gonna read your AI prompt. No it's not harming men and women. Men can still be traditionally masculine just not every dude needs to fit into that category. And the parts of traditional masculinity which are objectively harmful are being talked about and condemned which will only do good. Because this way people will do something about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:08 PM
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Yeah you can tell so much from a persons bio. You can really tell alot about someones personality from that stuff. Get real. Men and women don't read it, because both know that this shit tells jack shit. You can tell infinitely more about a person from some pictures then 100 words on a screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:56 PM
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Neither, and luckily for anyone life isn't this binary so you don't have to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:00 AM
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Neither lmao. Return to sender.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:59 AM
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If you think that anyone takes these shows seriously then it proves you really don't know anything. Shows like these are universally agreed to be trash tv. People watch it because it's an entertaining car crash.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:29 PM
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You don't have a theory. You just said x is true, now here is how it affects women. Except you are just flat out wrong. And with your track record, a good example is the case I just mentioned says enough about your understanding of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:23 PM
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Okay? So what I said is correct lmao. You are trying to argue semantics now. Which really isn't the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:18 PM
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Where did I mention who you blamed? You still think women are ruined because of it. That is the delusional part lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:09 PM
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Ohhhhh wait ur the guy that thinks women are ruined because of dating shows like love island. It all makes sense now lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:07 PM
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I think that you either haven't really found love as an adult, or you never had it as a kid. And because of one of these two you are romanticizing love as a teen. At that age you are however run over by hormones. Which definitely makes you probably have a higher lust response. Especially because you went from having none to suddenly a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:00 PM
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People here don't care for stats they just want to be right or at least perceived that way. That's why people try to pawn off surveys with 200 participants as fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:46 PM
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Yes. And that makes them still about twice the man compared to your average american.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:57 AM
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Nice try with this insanely low quality rage bait. Windmill flowers strikes again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:55 AM
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None, so they can't harm no one lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:36 PM
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Yeah except this won't reach those women. And this entire thing is just fan fic. These women are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:08 PM
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It's great advice but it alone won't fix your situation. If you are a bit socially awkward it might make you get some much needed social skills. And you are in a new environment to new people so you can find some potential targets to shoot your shot. But you still need to put in active work. And not all hobbies are equal. Because there are plenty which have almost no women who partake in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:52 PM
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So you agree that it is a characteristic so they are judging men based on them. And they don't agree with what these men want from them. Because they aren't okay with their views of them submitting. In other words they vet these dudes and will reject them. In other words you are contradicting yourself and make no sense. Especially if "tHaT's ThE pOiNt" because by this logic it doesn't matter if they give you resources or not, you won't know either way. Like I said you literally have no clue what…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:50 AM
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Except they are judging his character. They want someone with the characteristics of a provider. And they definitely won't take the first one they come by. It's simply a requirement. They will continue to vet the men. Dude it's the main subject of your post. Ur literally crying that these women pick and choose what they want to be traditional about. And it's clear you have no clue because otherwise you would realize that the vast majority of these men are good at hiding their true nature. And/or…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:42 AM
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Cute theory. And how would these women not having a backbone and boundaries exactly help? You are arguing that these women need to put out and give back what these types of men want. This isn't gonna change that. Also these women also keep character in mind. You are literally talking about something you have no clue about lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:34 AM
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Okay? And? If no dude who wants to be a provider wants to put up with these types of women then they will stay alone. They will eventually change their behaviour or wants if they want to be with someone. In other words things will eventually turn out fine. This is a none issue, and there aren't any real victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 11:21 AM
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Of course it is irresponsible. This will harm everyone involved. Unless they know that they will be supported by whatever to make it work out. Then I think it's a risky move but not something I will outright criticize.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:54 AM
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Most men complain about it because they didn't want the children. Hence why they barely if at all look after them. Of course they are gonna complain about being affected this comes to no one's surprise. But in the case of 50/50 custody it is extremely stupid that you have to pay your ex to do their job. In these situations they shouldn't get any, if they can't look after their children then they aren't fit to care for them. And they shouldn't have as much custody and instead focus on getting eno…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:33 AM
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It's as valid as the reasons OP provided. The only point that has merit is about your body changing after having a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:27 AM
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Women initiate divorce more so "chances of becoming a single mother" is a backwards claim. These "unrealistic" expectations are insanely oldschool and have fallen out of favor. Not only that but you can literally weed out the men who expect this from you insanely easily. literally applies to both men and women. the financial burden is not usually placed on women. Men often earn more than their partner. Not only that but in most cases couples decide for women to cut back or quit their jobs to tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:22 AM
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Okay? The same can be said about this place. Buddy just stop. Ur take was insanely stupid just own up to it and/or move on lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:15 AM
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Sure, whatever this point is supposed to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:11 AM
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They aren't pushing narratives. It's just trash tv. No one takes this crap seriously. It's just entertaining to watch assholes create drama. Women aren't influenced by this. You are choosing to ignore why people are pushing back against this post lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:18 AM
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People here are horrible. Their reasons why doesn't matter much. It's hilarious that you have this take lmao. Because you had a problem with people watching those shows. Not being on them. You are engaging with horrible people in a worse way. Because this is way more active and engaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:15 AM
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Okay? You choose to ignore everything she said and not engage with it. No one is saying that women don't watch this. But quite literally no one takes these shows, people or relationships seriously lmao. It's trash tv. People know this. Hence why they watch it. It's entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:14 AM
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I don't have a problem with that. But if it is coming from someone on a sub this toxic then it is just insanely funny. Because you are choosing to interact with horrible people lmao. It just feels really hypocritical to judge others to watch toxic people interact with each other. When you actively choose to engage with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:04 AM
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Imagine having trouble with the concept of finding love. Someone to grow old with. Finding that one person you want to spend your entire life with. Do you ever care for this stuff at all? Because if you have a problem grasping this, then I have to assume you only care for your future children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:02 AM
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This probably is the funniest take I have heard from someone who interacts with this sub. I would much rather interact with someone who watches trash tv then unironically participates in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:53 AM
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People watch this stuff because it's slop and filled with drama. Like cmon you used love island as an example. Virtually no one thinks that these people are great. What exactly do you think that people take away from these shows? I have literally never seen anyone giving praise to these shows, contestants or relationships lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:52 AM
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This is such low quality bait it ain't funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:30 PM
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Yeah because the women are clearly not into it as well. It's not like not all men do it. And even when they do it it isn't all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:24 PM
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That's true. But this is too far away from what most people want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:51 PM
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Because this sub is an anomaly. This isn't real life. A normal person would read 3 titles and nope out lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:50 PM
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There is nothing to compromise. People have agency over their own life. Let it go. And no, there isn't animosity between the genders because of this. Most people don't care lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:35 PM
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Nah it's a lot more fun and also bonding.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:18 PM
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imagine being that poor soul. Man I wouldn't wish that on any guy or girl to have a partner like this unless they are exactly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:18 PM
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To my defence the moms of these dudes are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 11:05 AM
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Ohhhhhhh stop it. Don't try this bs off accusing a side of pressuring the other. If you want to go this route both sides are literally hitler and both deserve it. And why are you surprised that people prefer their partners to be in shape? This isn't just something men want. Both sides are victims of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:58 AM
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I assume she knows because she is obviously his right hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:43 AM
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Ahhhhh is it ma'am? I always fuck up the spelling of that word.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:38 AM
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Please mam, can I have a crumb of pussy please 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:31 AM
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Yeah, you aren't fooling anyone 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:27 AM
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Then you aren't using your eyes lmao. Like posts like these aren't rare: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/DSuVmI8UfN
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:17 AM
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Going to a club alone as a woman is begging for trouble. Also OP if a girl is in a group she still is approachable. Just make sure it's a nice experience and almost no one will have a problem with you trying. Obviously there are assholes in the world but this goes for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:16 AM
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That's a fucking insult to 12 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:02 AM
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Dude stop crying. This is embarrassing. Let her live her life she isn't harming anyone. If she wants to sleep around until she dies she is more than welcome to do so. And if she later regrets this decision then it's her problem. Focus on your own happiness instead of getting angry about nothing. If this is how you normally act then no one is surprised that you can't manage to get a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:01 AM
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No. This isn't a common misconception among women. This is your problem. No one needs to drop their standards. I am not even gonna comment on your extremely flawed perspective about women and who they go after. Let's just argue from the perspective of your delusion. Individuals don't need to please others for the sake of it. If the requirement for a partner is unobtainably high and they are okay with being alone then there isn't a problem. The moment their want for a partner becomes high enough …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 09:55 AM
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You can only base it off looks. You can't get to know anything noteworthy from someone's profile. And no, it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:55 AM
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Of course they want it on easy mode. Everyone wants relationships to be easy lmao. No one wants it to be a drag. Everyone want to be so compatible that these things go smoothly. Now what the lonely men on this sub want is just pussy. They aren't even thinking far enough to consider what they will do once they can get hold of a crumb. But what does this have to do with me pointing out that there are women who will put up with someone for x, y or z? Even though those are exceedingly rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:58 PM
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What is that last sentense supposed to meaning? Did you get a stroke?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:06 PM
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99% of the content on this sub is not worth discussing. Like lets be real lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:34 PM
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I am not complaining. I couldn't care less. Fuck me I respect the hussle. But if we wanna have a conversation about these things then it's worth it to mention. I think that I was very clear in my wording that this isn't anywhere near common. It's not something to actively care about. Especially because literally no one here will ever be in a position for this to come up lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:31 PM
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I mean some do but are an extreme minority. There are definitely enough women who only get with someone for their extreme wealth to know that it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:39 PM
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No. It's up to an individual to do what they want. Just don't break the law and please don't be a nuisance. That's literally the only thing someone should follow. No random woman should not sleep around with someone because some dude on reddit doesn't think that it's okay lmao. This opinion is beyond silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:35 PM
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No one says that it is easy. You are right you can't fake these things easily. It will take you a lot of work to get there. But it most definitely will increase your odds by a fuck ton. The advice isn't shallow. That being said. Confidence isn't everyone's problem when it comes to dating. Hence why trying to take advice from people online is practically useless. No one who doesn't know you can't do much for you because it is a guessing game what ur flaws are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:32 PM
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She is obese though? And lets be brutally honest this is a really bad picture. The pose with the location and lighting is bad. Her facial expression is very much off and her hair looks slightly fucked. Her pose also don't do her any favors. Like what do you expect that subreddit to say? Especially when they need to be "objectively". Fuck me they even tell perfectly good looking people that they are a 5. They are definitely gonna completely pull her and this picture apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:36 AM
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Who would've guessed that using a platform where you can only base people of their looks benefits attractive people. Like cmon, this is common knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:27 AM
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That is so not true. I also think that the vast majority of men get aroused by seeing nude videos of women. Pffff get a load of this gall.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:20 AM
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Hard no. It might make it slightly more difficult but not nearly enough to see a huge impact. You can very easily get friends even with a face fit for radio.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:19 AM
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Most are arguing for women not to care about looks. I really don't see how this isn't exactly what they are asking for. Now would they want something else in a perfect world? Sure. But that's not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:58 AM
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I think that all American men secretly are purple. Good luck debating that 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 12:44 AM
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If you think that it was sound then you are simply also lost. It really isn't that complicated lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 12:07 AM
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No. You are just angry and hurt. You don't need to be debated you need therapy lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:30 PM
-1

Sorry trying to debate you would be as effective as debating anti vaxxers or flat earthers. Especially when that really is what it boils down to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:28 PM
-1

Most dudes on this sub reddit are basically begging for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:21 PM
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Tl;dr I can't get pussy and I am angry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:17 PM
2

That would be a hard pass for me personally. I wish them the bestest of luck to find love though. Even in the case if I would be unable to get love just like the question is geared towards, I wouldn't change my opinion on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:07 PM
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I know. I am saying that if he wants to be critical it's weird to go after the 3rd person engaging in it. OP and the first commenter would make a little bit more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:27 AM
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It really isn't lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 09:01 AM
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They asked what red pill means by women taking accountability. I respond with them having sex with them. Because that's quite literally it. If you can't understand how these things relate with each other then there is no point in talking with you lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:59 AM
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And what is the post about? Accountability. Aka they have to have sex with certain people. That's what these dudes mean by it. So yes within the context I definitely did.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:53 AM
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Yes there is. Wanting sex is more than fine. Trying to coerce or push women into having sex is bad. Not a difficult concept to grasp right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:49 AM
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I mean in the study you linked to women have it a lot worse than men. I even told you the pages within the article (like numbered within it). Don't get me wrong the numbers from the male table are disgustingly high. But every single point mentioned within it except made to penetrate is a lot lower than the one about women. Rape is at 22 mil, sexual coercion is at 15, unwanted sexual contact 33 and the none contact one is 38. Both are horribly bad but one definitely has it worse. And OP didn't wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:45 AM
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Okay I found it. Now what is exactly your point here? I am not trying to be a dick but I don't get what these numbers are supposed to say by themselves in this context. Because these are numbers about male victims of sexual misconduct. I don't get what this has to do with the conversation at hand. It's interesting to see the numbers though especially compared to the one about women on page 18 (because this table ur talking about is from page 26)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:18 AM
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Okay? And? He engaged with it. If you want to say something against it then ur barking at the wrong tree.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:59 AM
1

Dude just tell me the page number.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:58 AM
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It's almost like he also just now tried to use anecdotal evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:51 AM
1

Where is this mentioned in the document? Because I am not gonna download it and I get 0 matches when searching in the online version.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:50 AM
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Yeah man and you can clearly feel it. Phew. So rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 11:14 PM
1

Yes, feel lust. But that is extremely different. No one can give you advice at that point. Because you already know what you need to do. You just don't know how yet. You can't learn things like flirting online.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 09:07 PM
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I am not arguing that you just need to keep a checklist. Obviously you need to feel things for the other person if you want love and not just sex. But these things you can't learn from research. You just need to socialize a bunch. And apply those skills to dates. You aren't gonna learn how to interact with people meaningfully from the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:49 PM
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Doing research won't do anything to gain a spark with someone. You really don't need to push any emotional buttons to get a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:32 PM
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I am not. My argument is that what is hindering people is them not being ready to take action. Research in both stages won't do much for getting partners. People generally know what is or isn't attractive. Unless they have some mental problems for whatever reason. But at that point personal research is unfortunately not gonna do much. And they instead require professional help, or are just doomed to basically fail. That last part is insanely rare but fair to bring up. Now lets talk about your po…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 07:29 PM
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Sex, they need to fuck you. That's literally the only thing the red pill wants out of women. It's really not any more complicated then that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:42 PM
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I mean if you don't know how to read then sure. Except I have touched briefly on plenty of reasons why OP doesn't know what he is talking about. You trying to dismiss that is obvious because you have no arguments against it. Me pointing out that OP hasn't made any good arguments in this thread or any other one doesn't change the situation. Good try though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:35 PM
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Same goes for men. Neither go soley after them unless they are in it or barely out it themselves. Well atleast the smart ones. And before you will say it, no. This isn't the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:18 PM
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Research aren't gonna help those people. Because google isn't gonna make them realize that they need to actually talk to people. Like cmon. Those type of people can very easily find a partner. Most barbie dolls and muscle heads can easily snatch someone up if they try their shots for a while. This isn't a difficult concept either. They don't need research, they need general help in their life. And the average person already know what the opposite wants, because it doesn't differ from men to wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:48 PM
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You don't even have to do any research. Almost everyone already know what people look for. They can literally just critically look at what they want and think are positive traits. People here simply don't want to do any serious work. They rather bash their heads against the wall with something they know that won't work or not try at all. And blame the world for their failure because it is easier to accept the alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:36 PM
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Yeah. He could be right. But he will never be the one to let people know. because for waaaaay too long he still has to manage to put up a single argument that holds any sort of weight. He is punching way above his weight with this one. He simply isn't knowledgeable about the skills needed to tackle conversations like this. This entire thread is a great example. Because he is trying to use surveys which are badly setup and have no people taking them. Hence why he is using lousy arguments like wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:28 PM
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I personally know more then 5 women who have been raped and no men who have been falsely accused. So what does that say?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:59 PM
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Because he is desperate to prove that women are worse. He has been trying this for way too long. There is a reason why he is active on r/MensRights lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:54 PM
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Survey of 225 women where 18 admitted to lie to someone at some point in time. Cmon. This survey says jack shit and fuck all. Can we stop trying to use surveys who have no real numbers to them as some sort of effidence. Because cmon. This does nothing. Also your claim is still insanely bad in itself. Because even if there would be a lot of false accusations. Men and women aren't as unsafe. Women still have the short end of the stick. Yes this is a problem. It is bad. But let's stay real. These a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:03 PM
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It isn't dead. Far from it. People are just doing it less because it requires a lot more effort and feels worse if they get let down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:47 PM
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Before you start with the "what about women who don't want kids". Obviously we're talking about the general rule here, not the exceptions. If you are smart enough to recognize this then you should also be smart enough to apply it for both sexes. This post either is rage bait or you just hate men so much that you can't think straight. And with your post history who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:50 PM
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Not really. Maybe for you. Not for all men lmao. Most men don't aim to go on dates with women who want to use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 11:24 AM
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You don't think that going out to dinner with a stranger who is trying to trick you into buying their meal is a waste?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:25 AM
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It clearly isn't obvious if you think that I don't know what getting separate orders means. Yes you get separate orders. You still need to pay for your order. If you wouldn't go on the date in the first place then you can just stay at home or go out with someone else and thus save your money. And not only save your money but also your time. Preventing the date by not going to a restaurant is more effective. Which you can accomplish by setting up cheap first dates. That is my argument. I don't th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:19 AM
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Hahahahaha I low key respect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:05 AM
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That is so trashy lmao. Like I respect it a lot. But man going out for coffee sounds so much more pleasant hahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:02 AM
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What is difficult to understand here? If a woman only goes on a date for a free meal then splitting the check will not prevent the "date". You will still waste your time and money on her, you only decrease the money lost. By going on cheap first dates you will filter these women out. Because they are less likely to go on the date in the first place. They will just try with a different person. Dating is to get to know people, you shouldn't spend a lot of money to get to know them. Unless you are …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:59 AM
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Or just go on cheap/free first dates unless you know them beforehand and can judge their character. This will instantly fix this issue without conflict lmao. If you go with your route you will still potentially waste time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:49 AM
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I am. That is not arguing bad faith though. And your argument isn't leading into the second one. Your argument is completely void of logic. You were arguing no love vs a house and a job, when this never was the premise. Hence why I am calling you out. And there is no talk about the quality of relationships here. OP is talking about the skill of easily getting relationships. Because if we want to argue quality then we open an entirely different can of worms. This is very much out of the scope of …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:22 AM
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If you are gonna make this dogshit argument at least be consistent. You can't in good faith want to argue no love vs a lesser house in this situation. It should be "would you rather have a job and a home or love" or be realistic and make the argument "would you rather need to put a little bit more time and effort into finding a partner if it means your job and house will be of higher quality or be able to find a partner fast and your job and home be lesser". You being bad faith and making awful …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:59 AM
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Yes. Quality. He is arguing that the quality of these factors are less important than having an edge in finding a partner. This is just an insanely stupid take. You are comparing something that affects your entire life vs something that affects you for maybe 10ish years if we want to be liberal and realistic. I choose to ignore your homeless and jobless argument because LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:46 AM
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This is bait or OP only ever interacts with human beings through a screen lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:33 AM
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You cannot seriously try to argue that housing and jobs are less important than having an easier time finding a partner. This is beyond privileged. Even if women have an advantage finding a partner it isn't impossibly hard for the vast majority of men. Hell it is extremely doable. Once you find the person you want to be with this entire benefit basically disappears. This isn't the case with things like jobs. These disadvantages will not only remain but obviously have much greater impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:25 AM
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Lmao what the lack of pussy does to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:30 AM
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Well being racist doesn't mean that you view other races as lesser. It's thinking that they are lesser or equal. This is how you sound. You are absolutely destroying the definition of a word to try to make the word work because you want your narrative to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:26 AM
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I stopped reading before you big list of whatever. Because it was perfectly clear to me that you have no solid basis for it. You can't minimize a word so much that it loses its own definition like you are doing. You can't argue that hypergamy suddenly is about preferably dating higher OR equal, this not only is butchering the definition but this is just what people do. Men and women aren't different in this regard but it also just isn't what the word means. You are watering down its meaning to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:20 AM
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Exactly just how the source of world hunger is caused by the lack of pre-installed U2 albums.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 09:10 AM
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I get that it's fun to engage with bait but cmon.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:01 AM
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Because you go to the wrong places lmao. You can get extremely cheap and fine quality food extremely easily in Japan. A good example would be that certain places sell bento boxes for 50% off at the end of the day. And these places are already cheap as hell. You can get an entire meal for not even 2 euro. Another good example is how cheap travel by train is and the list goes on and on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:19 AM
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This guy isn't in the military. And even if he was this is so obviously not the same thing. Look at the way she looks at him. You need an emotional bond to get that. Not just lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:14 AM
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She is showing so much more. Dude you can literally see it in her eyes that she has feelings for him. This doesn't happen from talking to someone for 1 day. This is someone that you need an emotional bond for. And because they have this, both of them are able to act completely carefree around each other. You can't expect this, this would be 99% of the time fake that early. Just look at the way she looks at him. This isn't achievable from hanging out for a few hours. This woman wouldn't show this…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:12 AM
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The two were friends before this clip, because she isn't a waitress from this place. Almost no relationship starts from this point. It's fine that people want it but it's simply not realistic. You need to have a little window to get to know each other before you get here. And it might be a tough pill to swallow but it's best to be grounded in reality. Especially if you want to get this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:38 PM
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Japan very much is low earnings. They just haven't changed the prices on practically eveything in ages there. So their salaries reflect that. Hence why as a tourist everything there is incredibly cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:31 PM
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Their work culture simply is a lot different. It's way more hardcore and dedicated. There is a reason why everything in Japan looks so amazing to foreigners. That's because it comes at the expense of the people. They got words for death and suicide because of work for a reason in their language.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:29 PM
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No, it isn't good. It is just there. There isn't anything positive that comes with being insecure about someone's past. That being said it also isn't a horrible thing to be insecure about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:29 PM
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Good luck lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:29 PM
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Yes posts which are solely or mainly about looks get removed. If it is a minor part of it then they usually don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:24 PM
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You don't have to agree with the post. But how can you look at this and be like, nah this is a post about peoples looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:16 PM
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Died in a car crash. I am sorry to inform you m8.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:15 PM
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Nah because I have a friend who has a cousin whose uncle's late window's acquaintance once had ordered a plumber whose nephew got cheated on him because she wanted a guy who didn't shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:13 PM
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Thats so fucking funny. Man this place just attracts some very colourful people 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:06 PM
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That's wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:05 PM
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Dude. No one is forcing you to fuck someone without a condom. And you can also get something like a vasectomy if you want to fuck without a condom but have these trust issues. Obviously if a woman would actually baby trap a man then she is horrible. But this post is not only fear mongering in nature, but also randomly goes after feminism when it has nothing to do with this. Why are you trying to push some random agenda with this random post? Why do certain people here need to make everything abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:01 PM
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Yes, but she is also trying to argue that the majority of men would do this. Hence why I call bs. And women very much partake in the same behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:40 PM
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I am gonna be completely honest, I have never heard of her ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:32 PM
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Yes. Because once again. Doing this shit as a man is a lot more difficult. So they go through these paths. There are plenty of female baby sitters and teachers and what not who also engage in pedophilia. But these things are not only less reported, partially because boys think they lucked out. But they also get lesser sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:20 PM
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Yeah, because they can just do it in the real world without push back. Unlike men who will see pushback irl so they instead opt to go online. This isn't rocket science lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:11 PM
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Congratulations on understanding words. But that doesn't change that men and women who are older both go after 18 year olds. You are trying to make this a gendered issue when it really is not. And no. If the age of consent would be lowered it will be met with outrage. Most men don't agree with this, same goes for most women. Just because a minority doesn't have a problem with it doesn't mean the rest won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:01 PM
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What are you yapping about? 18 is seen as legal by men and women alike. This is such a none argument. You got both men and women pedo's and if we want to be completely honest atleast one of the two see's push back. Not just by men but also women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:49 AM
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Okay, its clear that you don't care about a conversation or debate and you just want to be perceived as right. Hence why you are only deflecting. Have a nice day lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:47 AM
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Physical violence isn't the concern. You are blatantly choosing to miss the point that I and others make. Either talk about the conversation at hand, admit you're wrong or don't engage. This is a pathetic attempt at deflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:20 AM
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This is such a blatant lie. No. The public opinion on pedophiles is not positive. Not by men nor women. Most people would find this disgusting. Why do you think that when a pedophile gets outed in prison that they often get beat up or even killed. It's not a sign of respect or praise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:12 AM
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Your arguments make no sense at all. You are talking about something that is very much legal but people are becoming more and more against it because of the dangers that come with it. And try to argue the exact opposite to show how this is stupid? If you want to compare it to things then let's at least follow the same logic. Something is legal but people are figuring out that this thing is actually harmful. A great example is the very thing you are trying to argue with, two consenting adults. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:10 AM
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The mental brain rot is strong. Buddy you just made your mind up beforehand and everything that diverts from it must be a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:29 AM
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Nice copy pasta work. ReVeAl yOuR gEnDeR -specifically ask the question to men only-
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:27 AM
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Let me guess you aren't allowed to be in a 3 mile radius from any school?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:16 AM
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Okay? But this conversation is now turning to effectiveness. I have already said what the link was and what the usage of the insult does. Because no, it's not like calling you fat. The usage of incel is trying to attack his image. Which has worked. Because almost no one takes him seriously. And this definitely took a role in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:33 PM
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Most insults don't have much effect. But they are still insults. Like calling someone an idiot really doesn't hold much weight. Almost no one is gonna become upset if someone calls them dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:19 PM
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This is just not how insults work. If I would call you mentally challenged and you wouldn't be bothered by it then it doesn't change what just happened. I would still be trying to insult you and the usage of "mentally challenged" in this context was still an insult. You can't seriously type out this entire comment when you can't grasp basic concepts. It doesn't matter if you fully know the meaning of an insult or if the insult lands. They still are insults lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:18 PM
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Thats funny. But nah. Go read this it's an entire copy paste: This is literally the most reddit question ever. I never would've imagined that I needed to explain how insults would work. It's only use is to be insulting. It doesn't have to be accurate. If I would call someone mentally challenged then that doesn't mean that they actually are. I am just saying that they are incredibly stupid or an action of theirs might be. It basically insinuates that something mentally needs to be wrong with you …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:05 PM
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I am gonna redirect you to this comment of mine: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/0YIFBbIuR Because I am not gonna explain this once more. Especially because none of this is complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:03 PM
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This is literally the most reddit question ever. I never would've imagined that I needed to explain how insults would work. It's only use is to be insulting. It doesn't have to be accurate. If I would call someone mentally challenged then that doesn't mean that they actually are. I am just saying that they are incredibly stupid or an action of theirs might be. It basically insinuates that something mentally needs to be wrong with you for doing that or being that stupid. Or take the insult "fagot…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:00 PM
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Because it is an insult. How is this difficult to grasp?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:01 PM
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You not being into this because of Andre doesn't make it not sad just less. Your intentions don't matter because you simply are just wrong about the crap you are saying lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:57 PM
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No one needs to read more then the tittle. No. Go outside. Stop being in these echo chambers. You aren't in touch with reality. This isn't the reality of most men. The red pill doesn't realize anything. It's just jaded men trying to make other men jaded. Or men who want to exploit men for fame and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:54 PM
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No, it is not lmao. Justifying the behaviour isn't PTSD. No, you absolutely wouldn't. Cmon, let's be real. You can hold a stance while being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:37 PM
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Lmao she didn't tell him no. She told him to fuck off. That is not a normal response. This is just problematic and she should do something about it. Her tensing up and what not is something that should be addressed by a therapist. It isn't PTSD from the way she talked and her reasons as of why it happens. It is clear she just is atm a nasty person. You can try to justify it but no one will be fooled by this. If the roles were reversed you would have the exact same mentality I have. If some dude …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:23 PM
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Just no. And even if it is, it still doesn't excuse any of her behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:50 PM
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This isn't PTSD, this is her just being a bad person. If it was PTSD then she wouldn't try to justify it afterwards. She would've known that what she did was wrong. She simply is a cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:12 PM
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It really doesn't matter that you are on edge. You responding to someone innocently asking you out with "fuck off" is just fucking pathetic. You are acting like a cunt for no reason and now try to justify it to yourself. Take some responsibility, you tensing up and rejecting him is fine, and people can show compashion towards it. The way you actually acted however isn't, there is no good reason you can muster up to spin this into anything but you being wrong here. Be an adult and do better, if t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:11 PM
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No. You can get plenty of sympathy from women. Ofcourse not all of them but it's the same in reverse. You really need to stop being online so much. It's so obvious what is happening here. lmao you seriously commented "You are not a woman hater unlike me" in this threat. There is the reason why you get no sympathy anywhere from women 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:14 AM
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Yeah, why not join a comunity you don't want anything to do with. Especially one that is as tiny as the goth one. People will eventually sniff you out and that will be it. There is no point of trying this strat unless you actually care about the culture. Especially with how the women in it are against the fetishization off goth women. This will literally not help anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:48 PM
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Yes. But a normal vacation would also have that. You shouldn't look at it as just prostitution. It's a vacation where you can live the fantasy of being a fuck boy. Just going out every night having fun and ending up with a different girl. The cost for the girls is almost nothing the rest you can justify it by maybe over spending a bit on a holiday. So the prostitution part is dirt cheap. Also with the amount of girls you can get with and it being more like an escort because it's not just sex. Sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:30 PM
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Yes. All things which aren't that expensive in third world countries if you have a bit of money. Also it's not just prostitution it's prostitution with an entire vacation package. And not just that the prostitutes in question also hang out with you. You get so much more for your money. You just have to have no or really bad morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:23 PM
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If you hate women then passport broing is just cheaper prostitution. Only difference is that you have all your fun in a short period instead of spreading it out over a period. Either way 🤢🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:26 AM
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Almost no one is gonna be rich enough to pull this off. And even if you do unless you are insanely rich nothing will change. You will still need to keep impressing them otherwise they will just latch on to the next person with money. You have a way better shot to actually find love.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:22 AM
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Of course not. Now that this is out of the way, why are you using a random woman's mugshot for this? This is insanely weird behavior, if people don't read your disclaimers (which isn't weird with the stuff you post) then they will assume that this random woman is a sex offender. Don't you see anything wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:37 AM
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I still can't grasp how out of touch people here are to disagree with this. But it definitely is a big part why this place is so entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:26 AM
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You don't have to lie about this. You can just say that you don't like that type of stuff. You don't have to be a virgin to not enjoy this. And there are plenty of women who are a lot more reserved when it comes to physical touch. Or you can twist it a little to what you might expect to be the case. And say that you don't like this type of behavior unless you have a deeper connection. And that you need time to build up towards something like this. You don't have to sabotage yourself for the sake…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:11 AM
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If you are gonna argue from the likes of stuff like the red pill then sure I will give it to you. I just didn't know what you specifically meant because you also included this sub. And this simply isn't how people use it the majority of the time. And because every other user tries to redefine what certain terms mean, I didn't have a clear grasp off what you were arguing. Like a few days ago someone tried to argue that the manosphere simply are just male spaces for example. I don't know if that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:49 AM
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No. You are being vague. What spaces are you talking about. Are you talking about r/TheRedPill, r/thepassportbros/, r/short, r/ForeverAloneDating, r/ChristianDating? I can't look inside your head. You aren't mentioning names so I can only apply your talking points to this sub. Because it is the only space you outright mentioned. And it really shouldn't matter in theory what spaces you are talking besides this sub reddit. Unless you are now trying to walk back on the claim that it happens here as…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:36 AM
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No I am not gonna show you otherwise. You can't expect me to go though the effot while you literally just said this "While I didn’t put in any actual references (cause it’s Reddit and I’m not gonna cite on Reddit)" The term simply isn't used like that in places like this sub. It is used to self insert and talk about people like them (because struggling people on this sub want to push the narrative that they are like the average Joe). Or to talk about the majority of men. And I am using the term …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:21 AM
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You are trying to push a narrative that people use the term "average men" as a template to label others. When more often then not they use it as a template to excuse their own lack of success. Your entire claim is simply not what is happening the majority of the time. And the only reason you were arguing it was to make a very generic point. And I am not dismissing anything. You are just dragging this entire post out for no reason whatsoever. This is like the equivalent of this meeting could've b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:58 PM
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This entire post is incredibly vague and long winded. It says nothing while using a lot of words. The entire point you want to bring across was "Try to figure out who you want to be and become that person. Don't try to fit yourself into a different/wrong mold." And somehow needed around 500 words for it. While making weird claims about what people mean when they talk about average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:41 PM
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Ahhhhhh another windmill flowers post spawned from some random tiktok clip that no one cares about. It's like clockwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 06:38 PM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 06:35 PM
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Yes. If you regularly wash your skin it will reduce it a fuck ton and it also is how one can get rid of it. It is a sign you aren't taking care of your personal heigine. If someone has multiple spots all year round when not in puberty or has a condition then it very much is. Also I am done because I remembered who you are and it is insanely unproductive to have any reasonable conversation with you lmao. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:50 AM
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I am quoting what we both said. You simply can't read lmao. I clearly stated beforehand that this is an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:41 AM
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Unless you have some sort of condition are more likely to develop the condition themselves Why are you questioning my intellect?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:37 AM
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Things like having pimples isn't a sign that you are taking good care of yourself. Unless you have some sort of condition this is a very obvious tell. And stuff as body hair falls under grooming. So try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:22 AM
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No one likes completely natural people. We have progressed to take care of ourselves. This is for men and women. Women also don't like men who don't take care of themselves and make themselves look presentable. Now, what you claim men want is absolutely wrong. And it is very much that you are just saying it to make a statement. Because no. Most men don't want women to take botox or have breast implants and such. What people understand as natural doesn't mean ungroomed and not taken care of. This…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:16 AM
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Certain people want to show off. Men and women alike. Why do you think that terms like "trophy wife" exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:12 AM
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I mean even if you disagree or not. In this instance both would be working towards their own orgasm lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:21 AM
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Okay? If someone can't get pussy then they can go to the gym. It's not hard and it is very much encouraged. So what's next lmao? The reason why people are lonely really has nothing to do with them being manly or not. It has a lot more to do with women being more equal and thus doing what lots of men have done for ages and prioritize their education and work for a while. People in general are not socializing nearly as much as before and thus not having as many chances. And then over usage of dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:57 PM
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And? You don't have to become an entirely different person for the opposite sex. If we want to go that route then both sexes will become less happy in general. There are plenty of women who simply don't care much about masculine men. There is no need for all men to be masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:34 PM
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If you want this to happen then we need to regress. There is so much more to be a man than the stuff you just claimed. There is not 1 right way to do so. The stuff you are praising here is very much praised by men every step of the way. But phrasing it isn't the same as fitting into the mold yourself. Western society has figured this out and it is time that you should do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:26 PM
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Yes. But the vast majority will still end up with children just less and later. Those who will stay child free will still be a Minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 08:45 PM
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You know that most women are having children later in life nowadays right? Instead of not having them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:46 PM
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It doesn't matter how a movement, organisation, idea or whatever starts. The only thing that really matters is what it grows towards. And in pretty much all of the cases that you are talking about isn't pretty. Too many people within it are doing things which damages or are just generally hateful towards another group. This is the only thing that people will see when looking into it. So if these things don't self police then you will rightfully get certain reputations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:19 PM
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So everything comes back to one comment. One comment doesn't prove that an entire side is lying about something. Like I said way earlier you just wrote a comment trying to disprove another comment. It doesn't go deeper. You are punching so far above your weight here it isn't even funny. So let's circle back. If this is a claim that gets made regularly by normal people. Can you point towards it. Because a comment with 32 likes says jack shit about basically 99.99% of the world lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:45 AM
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Okay? And this has to do with what? Want to make any specific claim or just make a general statement which says nothing but hur dur dur x bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:23 AM
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Your entire post is just proving your statement while comparing the numbers for men vs women. It isn't doing anything more. This post doesn't go against any of the comments you just mentioned. And this comment you are providing now is quite literally correct according to your data. You claimed 28% of women don't receive any payment. And men don't get it 38% of the time. If you look at the numbers in your surveys (which btw is a weird source to use for this entire thing but I digress) way more me…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:08 AM
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Okay slow down. None of these cases prove what you are claiming. The first is saying I know (of) men who don't pay child support when they have to. This is true there are men who avoid paying them. I don't think you disagree with that. The second is talking about men choosing to not have custody and then being confronted with child support. This isn't talking about them paying it or not. The third also isn't talking about men not paying child support. The fourth is being critical of men not want…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:06 AM
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If this is a lie that the "blue pill is known to repeat" can you show me multiple instances of people making this claim? Because me and most people in this threat from what I can see have never seen it. Which would indicate that it really isn't getting pushed much. Because it very much comes across as you pushing back on one comment and then saying SEE THEY LIE!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 08:42 AM
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Why is this a post and not a comment? What other purpose does this entire thing have besides proving a comment was wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 08:26 AM
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What are you talking about? This has nothing to do with anything. If you got cheated on and you wanna vent about it almost no one will have problems with it. But you need to go to the correct places for it. And especially don't randomly inject it into a conversation like this lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 08:19 AM
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You are allowed to complain. But in your position it is incredibly weird to do. So don't be surprised if people will criticize you for it. You can't have your cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 08:15 AM
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If you don't want to change that is completely fine. But if you are gonna go that route then you also shouldn't complain on certain places on the internet. And you definitely shouldn't become toxic about it. Like it is so incredibly easy to just go on with your life. No one will shame you if you just decided to focus on other parts of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 08:13 AM
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Girl it was the first result. Go google yourself. It isn't hard to find. And you can keep calling it out. But if you do, call these specific dudes out. Because you are lumping in every men when you clearly know that this isn't the case. And I will tell you straight up. You calling these pigs out won't change them. They know that what they are doing isn't good. They just don't care. You are wasting your time and energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:56 PM
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You are talking about men in general. You are trying to hold normal men who dislike this crap accountable because of a minute minority who are scum. If you can't see why this is silly then there is no point in having any form of dialog.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:47 PM
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Have you tried using google or youtube? There are plenty of men online who have called this shit out. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4wH2kKQS7ak Here is the first thing I found when searching. Literally takes 2 seconds. Now that this is out of the way. Why do you think that movements like the manosphere and red pill would call this out. They actively don't care about women. And they actively want to not have responsibility. You are now complaining that shitty people are shitty. Like why are you…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:35 PM
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What a shocker red pill men (who are a vast minority within society) don't respect women. And they don't want the responsibility of being a father or paying for child support. You are literally just making a fuss about bad people being bad. No shit that this group won't show sympathy. Why do you think that no one respects the red pill movement lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:27 PM
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Virtually no one likes them. No one supports dudes doing this. So what is your point? You are acting like any normal well adjusted person hangs out with people they know abandonedtheir child and their mother. People who complain about paying child support literally have the reputation of being lazy bums.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:24 PM
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There is a huge difference with the groups. Because the uptick in 4B is caused by women being scared about their well being. People join MGTOW because they can't manage to get a partner. One is a lot more sad then the other, and one is a lot more serious. Which is why one group talk bad about the other sex it gets interpreted differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 04:36 PM
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What one might say and how they actually act are very different. In cases like this they are almost always lying to others and maybe even to themselves. They are just desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 03:53 PM
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It only applies to some. Not just not everyone. It applies to almost no one. It is basic but doesn't mean that the person you are with wants to have sex. Or atleast not the same amount as you. Some are more then fine with having sex one a week or even month. Or those who are ACE just don't want it at all. Because was insanely easy to use them as an example. Because the majority on this sub even have standards. Even when they can't get anything. Seeing people here say they will take everything is…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:57 PM
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Okay so you agree that this doesn't involve everyone. And even here you say that they need to have sex. Which is another standard. Funny how this is turning out isn't it? Also keep in mind. Most people here are quite far removed from regular people in experiences and opinions lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:47 PM
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Sure thing. Thats why you seen dudes here daily complain about fat, ugly, high n count women and those who are single parents. Cmon don't be ridiculous. Guys just like women have standards. They won't just date any girl with a pulse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:39 PM
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This is such an obvious lie it isn't even funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:24 PM
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Who is claiming this? The only argument I have heard is that because guys have less options they are more likely to try and make it work. Not because they love their partners unconventionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:10 AM
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Yeah but people that get into relationships at collage don't do that from just going to class. People socialze in these places. Hence why they date. And you not going anywhere were people might approach you will hurt your chances. People who are shy still do these things now and then. And if you can't find the courage to put your self in locations/situations where you might get lucky. Now imagine when a guy is struggling with the same thing, because he also needs to do the aditional step of walk…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:11 AM
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Okay? But this doesn't mean that you are disadvantaged more then your male counterparts. And it also doesn't mean that you go out or not. In general or to bars/clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:23 PM
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Probably because you aren't that attractive. As shallow as it sounds it usually is the reason. Also depends how you spend your time and where.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:59 PM
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No. Certain don't others do. The difference is that they will just not interact with others. Because you can go to a whole lot of public spaces where almost no one will interact with you. They can still be approached there by strangers. But hard cold approaches really don't work well and that is a different conversation. And why do they do that? Simply because some people who are shy have hobbies or interestes which requires them to be outside the house and in social locations. It literally isn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:57 PM
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People literally use it for both instances. It literally just depends on the context and person. I am not disagreeing that it doesn't often mean the same. But you are flat wrong if you think this is the only way it is getting used. But this is a really pointless conversation and doesn't change anything from what I have said so far. My point remains the same, if you want to continue this conversation you are more then welcome to now we both what we both mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:45 PM
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No it simply doesn't lmao. It literally just means to leave your house. Just because most people do interact with others while going out it doesn't mean that everyone does it. If I am going out to run some errands then I am probably not gonna talk to anyone. If I am going out to the club then it obviously is different especially as a social person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:37 PM
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Yes, but if all your hobbies happen to be outdoor ones, or you like to be in places where it is quite people even when shy can put up with it. And this happens way more then you think. Also shyness have different levels of severity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:28 PM
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That is flat out wrong. Just because you are shy doesn't mean that your interest won't align with things where you need to be in public for. Or that like public locations more than at home. They are just shy and won't be as likely to interact with people. Hell I know definitely a few shy people who regularly go to music events. One dude who is insanely shy goes to them every other week. Yet I have never seen him have a conversation longer than 30 seconds with people, 30 seconds is long for him l…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:21 PM
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No because we still live in a society where the majority of women don't actively chase. Yes they are disadvantaged compared to outgoing women but it simply isn't on the same level.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:13 PM
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She isn't an influencer. She isn't giving anyone advice. She is just some dumb bimbo on the internet that no one cares about lmao. And if you think that it's unattractive when men do this shit. Then maybe you should wake up because no one likes this garbage. That being said it's a windmill post so obviously it's a trolling attempt. And I have no clue how she is still allowed to do this stuff on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 07:18 PM
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Dude this still depends highly per person. Normal people have flaws. This isn't a situation where you can answer yes or no without knowing specific details. But I would say that in most cases having 2 parents is better. So obviously neither parent needs to be incredible to raise a child properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:03 AM
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This is the most pathetic attempt at a gotcha I have seen in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:00 AM
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It depends, like if the dude would be amazing then obviously it would be very important. But if he is an awful human being then not. Like he needs to be able to act normal with his kid and wife and besides that show good morals, make, time, etc. There are so many variables that would come into play if someone is a good parent or not, and that ultimately decides the answer to your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:40 PM
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She should do what she wants. Whether it is a smart decision or not is a different question though. And to answer that you need to know a lot of variables.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:42 PM
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That was your point, lmao wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:27 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:24 PM
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I am. You just shouldn't make shitty posts trying to argue for some alternative motive lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:21 PM
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Girl anyone who would've engaged with that comment normally wouldn't have the insanely stupid take of if a small business would do it it's bad but if big corpo would do it then ur a dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:18 PM
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You are 100% right about this. And luckily for anyone he most likely still needs to gain 30 victims 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:14 PM
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This 1000% is ontopic. It's insanely clear what you really want to achieve. This post is made because you want to get away with this type of behavior. Not because you actually think it would be good for women or children lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:13 PM
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Ohhhhhh wait it's you. Yeah nah 1000% a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:10 PM
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Yes but it goes at the expense of the mother or others in their life. And that is if it goes well. Because if you look at the stats children from single parents have a more likely hood to turn out bad. Yes we indeed should. And the better strategy is where things are going. Adults having children later in life when they are with the person they love. And if we wanna go with the route of helping out single parents. Lets broaden this and extend it to all parents. Which would make their lives easie…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:53 PM
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No. There is literally no need to look from another angle. It's absolutely insane to try to argue in favor of this. Yes you can raise a perfectly fine child. But the chances are a lot more slim. And regardless of support there will be strain on the child and the mother. There is no benefit, only drawbacks. And no. If we would invest in single moms more other places would get less funding and it still wouldn't make the parent situation better than the default. Which is having both parents present…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:40 PM
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No. Not only would this be encouraging people to be in an absolute shit situation. But this is also bad for the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:34 PM
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Can you at least try to not appear as a troll?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:31 PM
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Dude. It's a FWB. Both parties are expected to use each other's bodies. What are you smoking? She is clearly in the wrong. He is stating he wants something and instead of her accepting it she has secret and alternative motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:05 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:06 PM
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If someone would use the word transactional in the context of a relationship? That to get anything you need to do for something. For example, you want sex? Then you need to do the dishes. You want a backrub? You need to cook dinner. Things like that. Instead of both just wanting to do nice things for each other and keeping both needs met. You NEED to do something in return either before or promise you will do it after.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:05 PM
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It's literally just a holiday to fuck for cheap. This entire movement is basically realizing that instead of paying for 1 or 3 hookers, you can instead go to underdeveloped countries and just hookup with a bunch of women because they are desperate to try and better their lives. What would or wouldn't this solve? It's just a different form of prostitution. Which depending where you are from might be more or less ethical. Because if you live somewhere where prostitution is illegal, there is a very…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:48 AM
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Yes and this was already explained lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:41 AM
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Sorry to hear m8.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:48 PM
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Dude women do. This isn't a question. You can pretend that they don't but that won't change stuff. An attractive man who is a good partner obviously will be snatched off the market fast. Because even if you don't agree with women wanting good men. You at least agree that they make for good partners. So if someone is attractive which at least in your eyes is important and they manage to make it far in relationships. How do you think that they aren't gonna be snatched?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:47 PM
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Yes it is something they care and look for. It is a very big portion of what they want. And another one is being good looking, because people date who they find attractive. And we are talking about this combination. So I don't get your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:34 PM
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It's literally one of the two given characteristics you gave. Obviously it is relevant for the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:28 PM
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No, but them being good men probably does.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:09 PM
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Can't seem to access it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:02 PM
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Don't you have google?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:55 PM
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I have done this. Now close your eyes. Thats the amount of sexual partners you have had and will have 😂 Unless there is a reason why you are fantasizing about 5 hairy and naked men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:49 PM
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Imagine thinking that having a n-count of 6 is bad for someone who is 25 or older lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:48 PM
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Good and attractive men who want to be in a relationship can very easily do so. Divorce stats won't change that fact. Now unless all these dudes sleep around loads or are insanely picky they will indeed be snatched off the market quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:38 PM
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I think that when it comes to these surveys it scales up. Simply because of ego. Women don't scale down because of ego, men do scale up though because of it. Women would scale it down to basically not scare others off which wouldn't impact survey's nearly as much as guys wanna pretend that they sleep around lots.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:34 PM
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Yes. It won't balance each other out lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:29 PM
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Lmao sure thing bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:11 PM
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No it is worse. She admitted to me that she just created it so she could stir the direction of conversation to men admitting that men commit violence against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:56 PM
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Yeah if enough but I highly doubt that enough will do it. I can say from living in a country where prostitution is completely legal almost no one does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:01 PM
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Yeah, but we are talking about averages. This very much isn't the majority and to counter it there are way too many people there who have never engaged in sex. Which really wouldn't come to anyone's surprise if you look at their work culture and what not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:47 PM
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Well let me spill the beans. I can safely say that this is nonsense lmao. Hell japan is most definitely the same. Which tbf with the state that that country is in is a way funnier lie than Turkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:40 PM
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Because some people have huge egos. Or do you really think that the average sexual partners in Turkey is 14.5? People lie about too many things. And in this case it is to look better themselves and their country lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:28 PM
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People don't call it transactional because it means something different in this context this is with many words. A good example are the words "smash" and "bad" When it comes to the word smash if you use it in the context of a sport like volleyball for example it means to hit it insanely hard with your flat hand. In the context of food it means to devour. And the word bad in the context of a woman can mean that she is extremely hot or that she is of poor quality. And you can figure this out in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:25 PM
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Because when someone uses the word transactional this isn't how it gets used. Because something would technically fall under it doesn't mean that it actually is the case in practice. Words have real world implications and they even change depending on the context. So in this context, it means something completely different than what you are advocating for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:09 PM
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Not really because it is a pointless way to describe it. Because when people use the word seriously it is used in a completely different way then OP is trying to argue. Yes every relationship is technically transactional if you think about it. But you also got transactional relationships. The latter is what everyone in the entire world would think of so the former is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:59 PM
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Yes. Let me reiterate if you want you can argue that every interaction with people is transactional. I think it is silly. The same applies to this. Because with your line of thinking. What would be a situation that isn't transactional?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:42 PM
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I literally said you can argue that every single action one can take is transactional. I just think this is missing the word. The same goes for relationships. Because if you describe a relationship as transactional. Everyone knows what it means. And that isn't just any normal and healthy relationship. Words mean different things in different contexts. So that's how things should be applied.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:34 PM
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Everything in life is transactional if you want to argue in a silly way. Because you can make arguments that things like donating money is transactional, because you gain some sort of satisfaction by the idea of doing something good. I personally think this is very silly and the same goes for the claim of relationships. A relationship should be mutually beneficial which isn't inherently transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:20 PM
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Not really. If anything women are in a more fortunate place in society to deal with them. And have been given better tools if you look broudly. That doesn't mean that the intent to deal with it is greater. When I look around throughout my life I have seen both parties equally giving up and choosing self pity over dealing with situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:08 PM
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That's not how that works. You respond to a statement with another one. In this context it would imply what I am saying. And the rest of your message is so stupid that there really is no point in engaging with. Especially with your flair. Because objectively the red pill movement is something you should be against. So it's safe to say that you are extremely hypocritical and thus can disregard what you are arguing for lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:11 AM
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Dude. You clearly quoted me saying what you said about women and flipping the gender around. And then argued that it isn't some but instead most. It's clear as day what you just said. Don't try to deny it now and suddenly add more bells and whistles. So let's try this again. Why are you blaming women when you believe most men do exactly the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:58 AM
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Also to add. There is a good reason why men operate more in groups when it comes to this. And that solely is because this rhetoric against women was highly moderated against on mainstream platforms until recently. Thus these hateful men couldn't freely express it and thus needed to gather towards specific groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:24 AM
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I have seen enough feminist who advocated for it. I never cared to look into it because I have better things to do with my life. I really don't care what branch or organisation someone is from. If they say outrageous shit then I will just laugh and brush them off. Especially because it really doesn't matter if a group or as many individuals engage in the same rhetoric. Especially because you will never truly know if someone is operating alone or in a hidden group. At the end of the day there is …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:18 AM
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Yes it is. Because all this is one giant pissing match between idiots and sexist. Both use the same tactics. One isn't worse than the other. Just because one has a dick doesn't make it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:02 AM
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Okay. So by your words most men engage in this. So why are you throwing a hissy fit when women do the same? Can you at least try to make a compelling argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:57 AM
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Movements? Why do you need movements to prove anything? You can go online and literally see thousands on both sides engage in the same pissing match everyday. This is a none argument. And plenty of people within feminism engage with this as well. So you can literally claim that feminism as a movement does it. Especially because other feminist in the public eye don't push back on it enough to snuff it out. Thus becoming part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:55 AM
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Wow women are human who would've thought. You can apply everything you said here to men as well. Some aren't abusers, never pumped and dumped a woman, told them to abort their child, never voted for their own self interests at the expense of women and never nutted inside other women while he was married. Wanna try again?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:52 AM
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Ahhhh interesting. I myself am not American so it's fun to see the cultural differences. Because I definitely think that protestant is quite a bit more laid back where I am from. But that probably also has to do with the fact that the majority where I am from don't believe in any religion. Sucks to hear that the culture your husband was in was tough on him. But from the way you talk about your relationship it sounds like this isn't much of a concern for him anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:49 AM
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Yes. He 1000% is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:22 AM
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Women haven't betrayed men. Please come down to earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:03 AM
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Yes and it's the exact same tactic women also employ. Both sides use random arguments to undermine and dehumanize the opposite side. Either for personal gain (like money and fame) or to justify their shitty behavior. The same goes for saying that men can't face discrimination. Just because it isn't systemic oppression doesn't mean they can't face it for the fact that they are male. All you are doing is blindly ignore what one side does and condemn the otherside for the same thing. There are no b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:02 AM
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Yes but nuns are a bit more extreme than your average person. Unless I am wrong you were talking about it in the context of sex before marriage. If not then I completely misunderstood you hahahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:34 AM
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Nothing you said is gender exclusive. Men and women both do everything that you are angry at men for. The irony about this entire post is insanely funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:28 AM
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Fake and I mean very fake. Too many people simply lie about this stuff even when it is an anonymous form lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:06 AM
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Taking a vow of celibacy doesn't mean that you have no relationship experience. Most people who take this seriously do date with a few people before tying the knot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:02 AM
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That doesn't mean that it isn't a red flag. A red flag is just a sign to be more mindful because it can be a bad thing. Doesn't mean it is a bad thing. Plenty of people who have no experience because of innocent reasons. But also plenty who have no experience because of some serious reasons. And the older one is without it, the more likely it is to fall on the bad side of the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:59 AM
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Girl this isn't a gender specific trait. Both men and women do this. Not all but enough. Hence why you see the same type of rhetoric with different justification from both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:53 AM
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It still would be a red flag. Because even if you didn't go to college most people would have some relationship experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:48 AM
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A red flag is simply something to be careful about. It isn't necessarily a problem or a bad thing about the individual. But it is something which can be a tell that you shouldn't be with this person. For example if a dude in his 30s is trying to flirt with a 19 year old this is a red flag. Can their relationship be amazing, sure. But this definitely isn't the case with most instances. The same goes for someone with no relationship experience. Because at certain ages people start to have them so …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:42 AM
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You actually listened to that? My god you are stronger than me then. Because my lord that shit was absolutely horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:28 PM
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Cool so your entire excuse that this wasn't what you think but instead those of redpill men was a lie. You do believe in this crap and indeed wrote an entire femcel rant. How are you complaining about anything if you aren't arguing in good faith? This is absolutely ridiculous lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:27 PM
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Attack? You just wrote a bunch of nonsense. Why are you surprised that people will call it out? If it walks like a femcel, sounds like a femcel and looks like a femcel then it probably is a femcel. If you don't want to engage in this type of rhetoric then you should approach it in a normal way lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:12 PM
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Then why didn't you set your flair accordingly? You are aiming a question at a certain group, make your life easier and directly target your question to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:04 PM
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You're doing the lord's work. Good luck 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:52 PM
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it's such bullshit to say that men don't value women. This is femcel content. Do you want to attract those who you want to end up with? The best way to do so and to keep them is to be the best version of yourself. This isn't rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:50 PM
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They aren't but that is because there aren't as many 50 year olds who are in the dating market. This is my entire point. Nothing changes but the dating pool becomes smaller because how older you are the fewer people single in your age group. This is for men and women alike. And if you get older and your dating life hasn't become hard then that is a flex. And however you want your dating life to look like doesn't matter. If you are 50 as a woman and want to fuck a bunch of guys that's a positive …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:04 PM
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You are absolutely hopeless lmao. No one is saying men can't be bad. No one is saying that what Israël is doing is good. No one is saying that the helpful and good information on that subreddit was bad. The bad parts were bad. Your entire rant here says enough about how objectively you argue. And your ability to process information. You are arguing against yourself. Not my points. You not understanding the argument rape is bad no matter what speaks volumes. And you clearly not caring about innoc…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:38 PM
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No one is arguing that that is a bad thing. This is exactly what needs to be taught. But this isn't what is being argued about. Being a toxic cunt has nothing to do with wanting a good partner. Them being hateful and toxic makes them hateful and toxic. Not them wanting a partner which isn't toxic themselves. And yes. What Israël does is bad. And it isn't surprising that their victims push back. Now explain to me how that justify raping innocent people? Who isn't the government and haven't done a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:25 PM
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Dude. This is always the case. No matter a woman's age. The only difference between older and younger women is that one's pool is bigger than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:17 PM
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Lmao just stop. You basing ur entire post on a manga trying to get as close to hentai without getting labeled it says enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:07 PM
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Ohhhhh definitely when it comes to the toxicity and disgustingness. Luckily this sub doesn't try to claim to help people or give advice. And is only there for people to have debates on. And people can actually push back on people being toxic and what not without getting nuked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:06 PM
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Cool. Now lets read some who aren't wholesome. A sex trafficked women gets forced to be raped by men while seeing barely any or even no money from it. A single mother who can't make ends meet sells her body so she can put food on the table for their kid. Probably because she fled from her home country and couldn't find any way of supporting herself. An 18 year old thought she could make enough money selling pictures and videos of herself online so she wouldn't go into student dept. She never mad…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:03 PM
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Ha fuck no. I have no problem with women doing sex work. But this is going way too far. It very much is an occupation which only a very small select actually likes and profit from. While for most women it does serious harm. We shouldn't promote it for what it is, because things like this have real life consequences if you can't grossly profit from it. If I meet someone who does sex work I won't put them down. Hell I will most likely be very curious and if they are cool I would have no problem be…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:58 PM
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This is all fun and games. But it is clearly bad behavior and not something that should be encouraged and actively shot down. FDS did the opposite. Lets ignore the fact that these women most likely weren't pushovers before, but they are just disgusting women. This is an overcorrection. And for a place to help women this does the opposite. The type of argumentation you are using is very akin to propagandists. This is like saying that Hamas raping women is fine, because Israël has raped and killed…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:52 PM
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It's not dead. But it is dead on this platform. They simply moved house. They made a website so they would be left alone. Which plummeted their userbase but definitely improved the sub. Because now the only content is the handbook they made which truly isn't horrible. There is some decent stuff in it when it comes to not get played and whatnot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:21 PM
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No, it was to laugh at losers. And apparently there were way too many examples of loser men doing it for it to become this big. Blame the toxic men for souring the title. Not people who dealt with them. It's clear that you are the one here with an agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:05 PM
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I never said that the subreddit did. Users within it did. And they got 0 pushback. Which is bad for a sub trying to help women. Because people coming and reading this type of stuff trying to learn is very much the opposite of helping.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:04 PM
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The agenda was to laugh at dudes calling themselves nice guys while acting like cunts. Buddy just stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:00 PM
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That is a bit of an exaggeration. More like 1 in 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:59 PM
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Threads. That isn't the same as an over arching goal of the entire subreddit. So it reflects in the moderation and pushback. The pushback which is a thousand percent better than the one FDS had. Because one gets it, even if it isn't as much as you like and the other was none because you would get banned. You very clearly are if you don't want to admit the differences. You are basically trying to argue that a dude pirating software for personal none commercial use is as bad as a company doing it.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:56 PM
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Askreddit and askmen aren't subreddits made specifically for dating advice. It is there to ask questions to a group of people. So the moderation reflects it. Which makes complete sense. This is a lot less strict because it has a simple goal. And with every comment made people are free to push back. FDS is made to give good dating advice and to help women with this step by step guide. Them not moderating their subreddit to achieve this goal obviously is bad. Especially when within the subreddit y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:49 PM
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That's because it is the mainstream term. When people refer to others on the internet as a nice guy, this is what the vast majority will think. It's internet culture. Trying to argue against the term is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:40 PM
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Yeah but they do get downvoted to hell which is already a massive difference. Even in this sub people will clown on you for it, which really says enough because half the userbase defends it. Like cmon look for 5 seconds into AITA where those stories mainly get shared and you can clearly see where public perception lies. Also, why should this get removed? Stating that you want something in a random sub is completely different then posting it stuff in a dating advice form.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:38 PM
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Go on r/niceguys and find out for yourself. Like cmon this term is very well known now. Everyone knows why those types of people are less.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:32 PM
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I lurked every now and then and saw it plenty full. It genuinely was just funny to see how extremely hateful some garbage people were and people egging them on because pushback wasn't allowed. So the people with a brain stayed silent and psychos would pat each other on the back. And I agree that the reverse is plenty on the internet. But those weren't prevalent in serious big spaces on this platform. Because they all got taken down or quarantined eventually. There is a good reason why it had the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:28 PM
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No there isn't. This is such a subset of a subset. What are you talking about 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:19 PM
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The sub reddit was horrible. It was actively supporting a lot of delusional and sometimes even hateful takes. Without the ability to crack back. The moment where you allow women to literally have takes like "men need to do X, Y, Z without me giving anything in return because women are superior" without pushback was the moment it became a massive joke. There was some genuine decent advice here and there but my god. What a shit show that community was, they definitely weren't equipped to give advi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:15 PM
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Buddy... Having a piss kink is also more prevalent now than it was 20 years ago. That doesn't make it mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:10 PM
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It's literally just stats. If that "kills" your dreams then you are doing something wrong with your life. But if you ask me the same applies if you watch content like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:43 PM
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Real life man have 1.5x the D as internet men 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:25 PM
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Ur bf clearly isn't DiCaprio then 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:02 PM
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Nah that is impossible. Haven't you heard? Men don't want anything to do with you hogs. Females hit the wall at the age of 25 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:49 PM
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I mean men do want to date women over 30 if they are in the same age range. But lets pretend that this isn't the case, the same would indeed also be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:26 PM
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Talk. Because he hasn't. He asked once about the logistics. Because he doesn't want to babysit and they don't have the money. His wife gave him a solution by saying she will get a second job and that was it. From what he has written, this was the extent of his communication towards them. He should bring up to his wife that her solution isn't acceptable, because he wants to see her and spend time with her. And try to bring up the topic of abortion/adoption. Because his step daughter isn't in any …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:07 PM
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Yeah just no. Japan is notorious for being insanely hard to befriend and date people as a foreigner. If you think that your chances are slim in the western world then they are non-existing there. I get that ur a weeb but save yourself the trouble. And if you don't believe me there is an insane amount of evidence for this out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:41 AM
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You know that they don't have subtitles there right bud? Also good luck trying to date a Japanese girl lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:24 AM
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Of course it isn't. But you can't stop it. You can only do your absolute best to raise them well. And make sure that they are in a supportive environment where they feel free to share stuff. To pipe up. This dude doesn't know how to talk to his wife. Is his wife supposed to read his mind? He has a polar opposite view on it which won't change. Try to save your marriage if you care for this woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:19 AM
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Yes. But it most definitely isn't this. The vast majority of dates aren't like this. Not for gen z or in general. Thus it isn't mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:38 AM
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Yes it is. Because what you are talking about is just normal human behavior. This isn't exclusive to women. Men also also filter out women before they meet. Women in general are a bit more picky, sure. But that doesn't mean that men will date everything that has the sexual organ that they are into. And no this isn't mainstream. This still is something that only a minority does. You are simply making up lies. Or you have really been brainwashed by some ragebait content.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:20 AM
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Everyone knows that it is easier for women to get dates. But when women argue that it isn't better it isn't hard to underestand. Because most people go on a few dates and know the experience of not clicking with someone. People can definitely understand that this is something that would be insanely annoying if it happened every time. And almost every dude knows that women definitely are in more danger while doing it. Plently of men have heard stories about what happend to women they know. Hell I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:02 AM
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If your relationship is good then definitely not. If it fails then you can be almost certain that it wouldn't have survived anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:18 AM
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Just don't tell. Easy as pie. You don't have to be transparent about everything. And if you desperately want to, just tell them after 6+ months of dating if it is going well. If they love you they would probably not care much that you have done this in the past. Don't sabbotage yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:44 PM
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If men truly don't want to be single, why aren't they dating women who they aren't attracted to? There are plenty women who can't find a partner, just go for them 🙂.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:41 PM
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And you can simply not go to spaces where they comment and if they do so you can block them. With ohter words you aren't forced anything. Stop this nonesense already. You are trying to pretend to be a victim yourself. Everything you have said is drenched in hyprocracy. Just stop. Act like an adult already.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:48 AM
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No on is forcing you anything. You are choosing to engage with it. Hence why you make daily post that you hate the user base here while keep coming back. You can't have your cake and eat it too. You can't take the moral highground while engaging in the exact same behavior that you are trying to call out. Stop crying about it and take some responsibility. It really isn't hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:16 AM
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People who have this mindset shouldn't become a parent. If the only thing that you are focused on is profiting from the pregnancy then you aren't fit as a mother. Not only that but a mindset like this is ludicrous. The man's job during pregnancy and the recovery time is to make it as easy for women as he can. This makes complete sense, every step of the way. Punishing him for something you wanted, doesn't. But man if this is what you expect your partner to pay then I don't want to know how high …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:20 AM
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This is a whole new level of whoring yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:10 AM
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Cool, the fact that you acknowledge that kids frequent that sub says enough. It being flared 18+ does nothing. If you really care about how you might influence kids, then you simply wouldn't post in these places. Cut the bs. And the fact that you got offended over me suggesting that your comment history might influence kids badly without looking at them speaks volumes. Don't make stupid claims you don't believe in, I aint gonna accept "rules for thee but not for me".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:18 PM
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Yes that is a lot healthier then keeping it to yourself. Atleast you are getting your frustrations out this way. Obviously there are better ways to deal with it. But there are so many worse ways that this is fine. And yes I do. Hence why I am telling you to block people and not engage with it if it is bothering you. That would be showing personal responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 07:22 PM
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No it's still healthy when. Because otherwise in the vast majority of cases they will bottle it up. And that stuff has a more severe consequences. If you don't like it try to help them or ignore it. But complaining that they are complaining is quite hypocritical, you are doing the same thing. And yes there are plenty who think like you on the internet and express it. You are choosing to engage with it. Which definitely isn't healthy if you get bothered by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 07:14 PM
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Okay? And? That's the problem of their deadbeat parents. Random people on the internet don't need to act like role models. And my god if this is the worst they do then it really doesn't matter. But if we wanna use this type of logic. Should we look at your comment/post history to see if it is up to snuff? And not "potentially harmful" for young impressionable kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:57 PM
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Not really because shallow or not the end result is the same. Realizing that something is shallow isn't gonna change how you feel about something. And this isn't some minor decision, we are talking about finding a life long partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:45 PM
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People complain. It's healthy and good to not bottle up these emotions. People probably shouldn't do it so much online, but there is no real harm in it. Because if you don't like hearing it then you can just ignore it and block those who do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:13 PM
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You are not owed anyone anything when it comes to these things. But if people do certain things for you and you refuse to do anything back then obviously you aren't gonna make it far.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 01:22 PM
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This literally reads like a kid trying to pad their word count for an essay. This entire post could've been written in 3 sentences. Jezus christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 01:19 PM
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Why? Because you would be insecure about it? I would argue that most social and well adjusted people don't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 11:51 PM
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No. They can be feminist. I am just telling you, that you aren't automatically part of something just because you share certain beliefs. You still need to opt into it, and depends on the belief you need to be accepted into it. I think feminism is a great example, because I think most people would agree with what they stand for. But like many and I mean many others I wouldn't call myself a feminist in a million years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:44 PM
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Simply because you still need to opt into it. And in theory certain ideologies can restrict people's access to it. Which happens rarely and I mean rarely. I think the only one I can think off ontop of my head would be something like punk, which was as much of an ideology as a subculture. You aren't automatically a feminist, egalitarian and a humanist. Most people don't care multiple flags even though they would align with multiple ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:35 PM
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Yes it is, but that doesn't change what I said. I am talking broadly about how people join whatever. Me saying club doen't matter for the topic at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:28 PM
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It's cute that you think that a movement designed to get laid cares about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:23 PM
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Yes because the space openly invites anyone that wants to join and is for women's rights in some capacity. Either closer, equal or superior because I have seen large enough groups of feminist which advocates for any of these 3. As long as you are onboard with it, you are fully allowed to join the cause. Men, women or whatever alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:18 PM
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Most guys don't care about it. You really are conflicted with the real world and spaces like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:11 PM
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Because you aren't part of a club because you share characteristics, even if you share all of them. You only do when both parties agree upon it. You actively need to want it, otherwise you can choose to stay out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:06 PM
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It's a space which openly invites men and women. So no, it's not a space that isn't for you. It's for them to decide who the space is for, and they agreed (for most of it, there are so many conflicting idea's within the movement) that it's a none gendered space. If you agree with the points and want to join the club you are more then welcome to. This isn't the same as lgbt, which instead of saying hey you can join us. They claim, aslong as ur cool you can party with us, but ur not us.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:03 PM
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I really hope for your sake that ur trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 06:16 PM
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Buddy even you don't agree with your own logic. Hence why you are saying that high value men can afford to be picky. You can't just use that reasoning along with the rest. It's clear why women can be pickier. Guys are far more likely to take them. Not because they have too many amazing options.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:06 AM
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Yes and you can do the same with dealbreakers. You know why? Because people can be wrong about how much they care about it. Would it technically be a dealbreaker? No, but you can use the exact same argument for standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 10:19 PM
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Standards are a form of dealbreakers. They are just dealbreakers where they need to have x, y or z. A standard can be that they need to go to the gym 4 times a week, if they don't do so then it is a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 10:09 PM
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No one is talking about being a hobby twin. But being completely different people often won't work. Because it's almost impossible to balance time spending together and recharging. If one person wants nothing less then spend their weekends going to the woods, going on hikes, etc. And the other only wants to rot inside. Then either or both need to sacrifice their time. And if one or both doesn't like it, shit isn't gonna work. We aren't talking about less outdoorsy people here. We are talking abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 08:17 PM
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Standards are there for a reason, it's to increase the odds to be with people who you might have chemistry with. There are too many options out there and you can't give everyone a chance. If you are a very outdoorsy person who loves to exercise, then you aren't gonna get far with someone who is the opposite in most cases. Even if you have chemistry it's not weird to choose to not waste both your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 07:58 PM
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Seems like you have a bad personality Deal about it. i WiSh PeOpLe ReAd WhAt I wRoTe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:30 PM
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Lmao, just no. It's cute to try to back paddle but everyone can read what you wrote. It says a lot about your perspective of the world around you though, and thus your view about women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:12 PM
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This is such flawed logic I don't know where to begin. If you follow it then homeless people have insane value, because they aren't picky and have no options.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 11:25 AM
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Dude isn't direct, he is just being rude/crass. You are trying to cover that up by calling it direct but they very much aren't the same. You can be rude while being direct. But then you wouldn't go on a tangent like him. You don't need to sum anything up. I get what he is doing. But this entire view is drenched in hatred not objectivity. And no, it isn't a personal attack to use the information that he provided himself about his character and use it to ask a question. I didn't call him anything,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 10:09 AM
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Nope, most men are fine. Most dudes aren't struggling much. Those that do have and always will be a minority of the population. The same goes for women. Most are doing fine for themselves. This gender discourse thing is completely blown out of proportion lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 08:58 AM
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Most men are completely fine 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 08:38 AM
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He isn't being honest nor direct. And no personal attack has been made. He got asked a question and responded. This is going off from there. It's very funny how you instantly dismiss every bit of pushback he faces. And he probably wouldn't respond like this to women, but that wouldn't swing a pendulum in anyone's favor. He is self inserting himself in his first post and added on it in replies. The only positive thing he could think of was that he has some money. This isn't gonna get you with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 08:15 AM
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You can't go from don't assume things about people and then go on a tangent about how women are awful, and then speculate about the things I do. It's clear what is going on dude 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 07:55 AM
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So why are you surprised that women didn't want you? This is clearly you admitting that you aren't a catch. How are you somehow blaming women for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 07:34 AM
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Because you don't need to know jackshit about the video to be able to participate in the actual topic. Dude there isn't gonna be anything groundbreaking in it 😂 And what has me being in a relationship has to do with anything? That I have dated and been successful. Dude it really wasn't difficult to figure out the point I was making.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 07:32 AM
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I am not watching a 20 minute video about some random nobody. M8, what are you on about 😂 And yes. I have. I am in an amazing relationship lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 07:25 AM
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This is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 07:17 AM
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I watched for idk 2 minutes? And she literally is just bashing women for their standards. What are you on about 😂 But the even bigger question is, how did you find this absolutely dog shit video?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 07:16 AM
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Okay, and ur behavior lmao. You know the topic of the entire conversation 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:10 PM
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I personally think that the phrase "men only want sex" definitely is true. But it definitely is not for all and usually it's only a phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:09 PM
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Yes but one is a lot more likely compared to the other. In most cases they wouldn't care if you managed to take the time from other stuff during ur down time. But that is if you have it. If you spend all your past time on gaming obviously it's both. But the real problem is not you playing video games. It's you not spending time with your gf. Or in worse cases doing chores or a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:02 PM
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Okay? I highly doubt that if you would be uglier that you would treat women overall better. I think you would do the same thing but with a less attractive group of women and maybe less success.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:51 PM
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No, it's a way of saying that they are neglecting other stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:34 PM
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They don't, the one you talked to does. Which probably is because she knows someone who is affected by this. It's clear that it's a sore subject to her for whatever reason it may be. But that doesn't mean all women think the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:08 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:33 PM
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It's a lie they tell themselves to feel better. They want to believe that they might not be good looking, but have something to offer that those who are desired don't. And that's all it is. There is no logical reasoning behind it, they try to come up with stuff like. If you're good looking you don't have to be nice, so because they don't need to be they aren't. Which not only isn't how people work, but you can also spin it back that ugly dudes get more pushback so they are more bitter. In the en…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:19 PM
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No. This is not how this comes across. She is very much wording it like an absolute idiot. The way she is phrasing it boils down like "I don't desire your body. This is a problem with you, because I do with others, just not you. But hey, ur in luck because I like you enough despite it." No one wants to hear this. Now, what she is actually thinking can be wildly different. She can absolutely love his body (now or from the start). But that doesn't change how words get perceived. This is the same a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:42 PM
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No. Ofcourse not. But they wouldn't want to marry a girl that they don't sexually desire. People want to be with those they deem the total package. And they want to be perceived the same way. This isn't a difficult concept. She said hey I wanna marry you even when you are undesirable. This isn't a compliment. Any "compliment" with a but attached isn't a compliment. Unless it is drenched in sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:09 PM
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If she would've said that he was husband material then there wouldn't have been any problems. But saying that they wouldn't want him for just his body (not wanting a hookup/fwb while insinuating that they would with others) is why he is upset. This has nothing to do with husband material being a compliment or not. She just straight up insulted him while trying to compliment him. It's like saying "you are hot for a fat girl".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:04 PM
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Go nuts my guy. No one is stopping you for doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:44 PM
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Except all the top answers are, I would choose a man regardless of his physical traits lmao. This comment is absolute chimera 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:32 PM
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Dude it's very clear that you don't engage with vegans. Most are chill, some are lunatics. And no TRP is not famous for hiding it. They are famous for needing to hide it. Which says enough about the movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:56 PM
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None of this is gendered lmao. And it's rich coming from a dude who turned to one himself. And in each ideology it depends, some are insufferable some aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:24 PM
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Yes it is. It's designed to try and get with as many women as possible. Without keeping in mind morals. You hiding your ideas won't change that it's a movement intended to pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:18 PM
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If you wanna go with stereotypes then a mens way of communicating is to not do so at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:03 AM
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I mean it's impossible to know which side of the coin this stuff lands. But from what I have personally heard, definitely not. The only situations which I know personally where the girl lied was when they weren't gonna get with that person, and just getting out of things as smoothly as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:58 AM
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It highly depends. Because yes if you just fake it without trying to communicate you are shooting yourself in the foot. But if you have tried many times to get your partner to get better by telling them what they need to do and they disregard it. Then it isn't too odd that they will just fake it to get it over with, IF they are happy within it. Which a lot are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:44 AM
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Society definitely doesn't put all the burden on men. Society definitely does put the majority of it on men. But that doesn't mean that women don't get blamed and shamed. The difference is that a lot of men take huge pride and importance in their ability to have sex. So when this isn't the case it hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:30 AM
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I am not a male feminist lmao. This is simply common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:14 AM
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No they have not lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:13 AM
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Ur asking me how kicking someone out of your life is the same as saying your children at some point need to find their own place. Buddy. Just. Stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 11:31 PM
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Please try this because it will not only be banned as evidence, but now you got revenge porn as one of the charges against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 11:22 PM
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You are commenting about a subset of women who are a red flag getting with men who are red flags. These are a minority of the dating market. Most women won't burn their fingers on the likes of this. And when they do, they learn from it or they wanted some casual fun. Because some red flags don't matter in certain situations. For example, you want a one night stand? Who cares if the other party is a known cheater? This doesn't matter in this situation. And yes. Some people would date people soley…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 11:10 PM
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Some are, some aren't. It's easy to see where they land though. If some dude who wants to be a rapper, is trying to look like a gangster then he obviously is a red flag. This isn't every rapper do, you got plenty who got their inspiration from artists like Logic. Which from my understanding is quite clean although I don't listen to him so I can be wrong. But even if these two are red flags. These are two super small portions of dudes women go after. If rappers and drug dealers are what you are w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 10:54 PM
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Not really. Most women don't go for the same terrible dudes. And those who do often have some serious baggage. The only red flag that is somewhat glaringly obvious that you mentioned here are drug dealers (because they often will let you know). And the women who go for them almost always do it to get drugs or gifts (because they got quick money). This is not your typical woman lmao. The other one you mentioned are not things that you would know upfront. Because no, being a rapper isn't automatic…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 10:45 PM
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I am a dude so I am not gonna comment from your completely different scenario, but do the original thing. If I have loved and cared for it as my own for years? Yes. Why is this a question? Obviously the news would be horrible. But unless you are an absolute shit dad you have an emotional bond which should be water tight. You can't go from "I would take a bullet for you" to "get out of my house you parasite". If you would abandon the child, it says everything about how you are as a father. I real…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 10:35 PM
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Hold up you are now talking about a completely different topic. This has nothing to do with needing to pay child support when the child isn't yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:48 PM
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If that's the case, why are Americans constantly crying about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:37 PM
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If we are gonna talk about allowing it legally, yes I think it should be the case. And I have no clue why this isn't a thing in America. But I would love something else more, and that is for these dudes to get custody rights. Which is something they are lacking as well. But let's be real for a sec. If you completely cut ties to the child in this situation. You are a shit parent. You clearly didn't care about what you perceived to be your child. And I think that future partners should be aware of…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:29 PM
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It isn't advice. He clearly is just trying to justify his bad behavior, hoping for people to agree that what he is doing the correct thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:01 AM
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I gave you the only reason why I want to befriend anyone regardless of sex lmao. But damn I didn't know that you only found guys interesting. Sorry m8, I didn't know that you were a gay bloke who wants nothing to do with women. You should have said this earlier because this makes a lot more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:34 AM
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You are accepting it. Leave her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:31 AM
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No. The dude should pipe up, and ask what is going on. Depending on the answer and what not you should try and fix it. And if it isn't fixable, or she simply doesn't wanna fuck you anymore and this remains. Then you can be an adult and decide to stay or leave. This is the normal and respectable thing to do. You will simply be in the wrong if you end up cheating it's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:30 AM
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You very clearly don't lmao. You sperged out in many comments here. This wouldn't happen if you were fine with it. This is so clearly a defence mechanism, it hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:25 AM
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Name 5 reasons to be friends with a man. Dude, what are you yapping about? People befriend people because they like each other and wanna hangout every now and then. No one sane thinks "what can I get out of this?"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:23 AM
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🤣🤣🤣 Get therapy lil bro. You clearly need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:18 AM
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Lmao ohhhh no, the anecdotal evidence from a dudes perspective who clearly doesn't like women. Nah this definitely very valuable and not biased at all 😂 I am sorry but a dude who says shit like "making the mistake of being friends with women" really doesn't know what he is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:14 AM
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He did not. But you being red pilled and relating says enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:59 AM
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Look at his first post he made in this sub like 3 days ago. He is saying that people should advocate for men to choose better. The comedy writes itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:57 AM
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How tf are you making this post in the same week as "Telling women to "choose better" does more harm than good; we should be telling good men to choose better." Dude. Follow your own advice. Choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:56 AM
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Lmao. Okay this is insanely funny. You don't mind? Us? Are you actually a cuck 😂 Because holy fuck I have never seen a cuck gone rogue this hard. Also how are you saying this crap and in other comments say that you don't want to leave her. You clearly don't want her. What are you doing to yourself 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:41 AM
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You can't have your cake and eat it too buddy. But if you try, then you shouldn't cry if "chad" will fuck your girlfriend behind your back.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:25 AM
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Dudes on this sub really need to post after they jerked off. Because I guarantee you that posts like these will disappear. This is nothing but some fantasy this dude has because of the lack of pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:22 AM
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Girl why are you on reddit for advice? You know this dude, we don't. Having a colorful past doesn't mean that they can't change nor that they will cheat. Talk to some friends about this instead random dumbasses online 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:36 PM
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Okay. How is someone who doesn't have much money, supposed to give away money? Does he need to loan or steal it? We are talking here about a dude who doesn't make much money and supports 3 people minimum for the last 18+ years. If he is somehow able to do this, what is gonna be left of it. Do you have any concept about how anything works?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:42 AM
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So your main point is that women now have to work. Which is funny because this was already the case almost everywhere. Unless you were really well off you couldn't live off one salary. The only place where this was a thing was America and it was a short and unsustainable little while. Regardless of feminism, with how the world was going the end result would've always been that women needed to work again. But luckily for you, you now have equal pay. Which without a movement like feminism wouldn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:32 AM
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Because not everyone has a rich daddy. Also parents? Parent. In your world your mom wouldn't have much to give away lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:28 AM
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Yeah thats cute. I am arguing that if you are an absolute piece of shit cunt that you can find people who are insanely stupid to sleep with. And that getting them to consent to it is way easier then women who are promiscuous. I am not saying that the people you know are stupid lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:30 PM
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Not necessarily. But that was also not the direction I was going. If we are talking about easiest then the obvious but dark answer wouldn't be legal. And if we are talking consensual then I would go with people with a very low intellect.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:03 PM
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No, if we are gonna talk about those who are the easiest to bang then the conversation will become a lot darker.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:10 PM
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It's not all subjective. There are things which very clearly work or not. Yes within it you can go a million directions. But certain things work for you and certain things don't. With my body type certain clothes look bad. This is the case with everyone. And certain clothes work with others and certain things don't. There is personal taste which is indeed subjective. But what you are claiming is just false.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:11 PM
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No. There simply is too much to go over. I am not gonna type out everything that can be wrong with someone. I am sorry but that is not realistic. But things are really not difficult to acknowledge and if they are then you have a lot more to worry about. An example of what can be a problem is how you look. And there are a lot of things that can be wrong within it. Think about everything that has to do with it. Some of them are: - do you have a haircut that matches your face - do you know how to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:51 PM
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Self reflection is an art in itself. But usually if people set away their pride they can you find their own flaws. And if not you should ask your friends and family to be brutally honest. And no it is not. This conversation is to make yourself attractive so you get to a point where you can get dates. The stuff you are talking about is one step further and what you can do to increase those odds with more targeted subgroups. Those things are very specific and thus the things to increase your odds …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:14 PM
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Not really. If you look at genuine parts of one self you can improve to benefit your dating life then it will help no matter what. It doesn't matter what your goals are. And I am talking about real things and not learning a language because I like certain ethnicities more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:52 PM
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Just no. Doing stuff like this will improve your life drastically in way too many areas besides just dating. This goes with every area one can think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:04 PM
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You shouldn't do it because of dating. But you also shouldn't be surprised that ur chances will go down if you don't. The same goes with other areas in life like socializing, hobbies and being driven, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:58 AM
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It has always been rude to call someone a land whale and stuff like it. The fat acceptance movement is truly shit and it taking over the body positivity movement is truly shameful. No, you shouldn't be a cunt to people who are fat. You shouldn't be a cunt to anyone who isn't doing anything socially unacceptable or harmful to others. But trying to shift public perception on abnormal bodies isn't right. There is nothing wrong with having a little bit of extra weight. But there is a point where peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:39 AM
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No. They don't want women to be abused. They just want to get laid. They are creepy and know it, but they don't want to change their behaviour. Yet they still expect to be rewarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:03 PM
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Cool post but it isn't worth reading because it isn't limited by relationships. You can have sex outside them and if you are in one you can choose together to not be exclusive sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:57 PM
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Almost everyone likes neither lmao. Unless we are talking about criminals who do stuff which isn't that bad or if people have no clue about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:11 PM
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This is such a huge self report and it isn't even funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:30 PM
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No plenty of times it will still be seen as creepy. The only exception is if the person is into it then it is excused. Also if you are only comparing the action then you already lost. Because there goes so much more into these things than just the action alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:48 PM
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It isn't lmao. If you are weirding people out then obviously they don't want to interact with you. How are you gonna like people who inflict these emotions?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:36 PM
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This isn't a threat to feminism. Feminism will be fine with or without it. It has such a history and in itself a core belief most women (and also men) agree with, that it doesn't matter how it evolves. There are already a million strains and a couple extra popping up won't change mainstream perception. The damage has long been done and it didn't change anything. This won't be any different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:07 AM
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Your logic behind why your time is more valuable doesn't make sense. To the extent where if these are the sole reasons then your time is less valuable than a man's. I don't think one's time is more valuable. But the way you are phrasing it you have an expiration date. This doesn't make your time gain value but detract.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:59 AM
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Ahhhhh is that why Margaret Thatcher still gets so much love. Because people love women no matter what. My mistake. I completely forgot that people really really like her!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:37 AM
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By a select few? Sure. Not enough for it to differ. Public opinion wouldn't change.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:27 AM
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No, he would've had pretty much the same amount of support. The hatred for the shit they are doing is simply way too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:12 AM
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I find it funny that there was literally a post that women aren't approachable because a girl rejected a guy who approached her coldly. If you want women to accept dates by cold approaching or dating apps, then you can't also be upset that people vet in the dating period (which is indeed one of its purposes).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:54 PM
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Cool the first google result states "Women (52%) are more likely than men (44%) to say they would describe themselves as a people-pleaser." Unless you state are wildly different this aint it fam. This by all means can't be labeled as disproportionately.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:38 PM
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More likely literally states that it affects both genders so no. It isn't gendered. Like dude do you even realize the stuff you type out?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:33 PM
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Wow another random article, you really got me now. Anyway here are 200 articles about why the earth is flat. Obviously this now proves that it is flat. Checkmate liberal 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:26 PM
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Literally no one cares about some random fuck off news article. This isn't gendered. There are plenty of dudes who are people pleasers just like women. This isn't an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:20 PM
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What are you talking about dude? This isn't a gendered thing. This has nothing to do with femininity. And not even that you clearly have no clue what people pleasers do. It's in the name, they try to please people. They do things for others instead of thinking of themselves. That's it. None of this post made any sense lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:53 PM
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Or, hear me out. People should learn how to cold approach. Just going up to someone and asking for their number is gonna work almost never. Cold approaching has always been, strike up a short conversation with someone to gage them and THEN go for it or not. And depending on the social setting the easier it is. If you are already in a social setting where you can easily strike up conversation and what not, and even get flirty ur chances are gonna increase by a lot. Public transport isn't it fam. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:07 PM
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Autism isn't a masculine trait. What are you talking about lmao? And please explain how something which hinders your social abilities should benefit you in social situations like dating and shooting your shot? I can't tell if this is bait or ...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:25 PM
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About a prostitute? Cmon be realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:12 PM
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Okay? Why are you pro emasculation then? the process of making a man feel less male by taking away his power and confidence This is the definition from Cambridge. What about being against this screams sexism and superiority? You can't say it in the same breath as "I think people should be who they want, and be able to present themselves however".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:06 PM
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€3,50 And that is my final offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:59 PM
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No it is not. Let's not talk about people shaming men when they aren't portraying themselves as masculine. This is mean spirited and obviously not good. But trying to emasculate someone isn't good however you look at it. And when the roles are reversed everyone will agree with it. If some girl who has masculine features tries to go wedding dress shopping and they are putting her down because she isn't feminine, that's very much fucked. No one with a brain will read such stories and think differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:49 PM
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Ahhhh fuck my bad lmao. It's so funny because almost every time these people don't have friends or family. And then try to debate that having it is overrated. But this thing that they have 0 context about is what will fix their issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:37 PM
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They?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:28 PM
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Dude the same goes for men lmao. Most men aren't interested in being with a bum for a long time. Maybe some casual fun, or when they are students because people don't have money at that stage. But people kinda need to live and such 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:05 PM
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Most men and women don't care much. Most men and women just want a partner who can contribute. There are some men and women who definitely do care. You got plenty of dudes who are freeloaders just like women. And there are plenty of dudes who won't give the light of day to someone who is lower in rank. None of these traits are gender specific. You can argue that some appear more in one over the other. But that is a wildly different conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:36 PM
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Some people are creepy, some people are assholes. What do you want anyone to say? Yes it isn't nice to call someone a creep, there are other things which are also not nice. Water is wet. You stating that it is okay when they are being a creep really makes it so there is nothing to argue about lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:35 AM
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Everything proves the red pill wrong lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:24 AM
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No. You can't just say nuh uh. This is very much a term the red pill used to describe everyone else. Ur just plain wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:18 AM
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Buddy not even 0.001% of the population is red pill, the rest is all blue because being blue pilled is simply not to not be red pilled. Can you please think logically for 2 seconds about what you are saying? You really assume that pretty much the entire population thinks the same? Fuck me there are more blue pilled people who think like red pilled people then red pillers. Every claim about how blue pill does something is insanely foolish.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:24 AM
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I am not saying that you are. I am talking generally. I was being lazy and "this" was not about ur comment but the sex part. And I agree with everything you say here. But within this sub reddit I do think that most men who are in this position really only care about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:47 PM
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Yeah, just like him lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:28 PM
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It does, so lets not pretend that it isn't a big component to what these people want. It is disingenuous to say they only want it, but the same goes for this. And for a lot of people here it really is their main concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:27 PM
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Friendship and family indeed can't replace romantic relationships. But they can fix loneliness. These two things are different issues. We as humans are social creatures so we need comunity. And you can go about it in different ways, but things like friends and family are the easiest way to acomplish this. Acomplishing this will elliminate loneliness. Not only that but these bonds are the most stable way to ensure that you will keep them for the longest time. Because in the case that your relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:22 PM
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No shit Sherlock, I know what it is about. And it is a beyond stupid pharse 90+% of the time. And this dude has tried to argue for it plenty of times and none of them were wise. I am just joking around and turning it back on him and using the phrase the same way he and many others are doing. Very ignorantly. This phrase doesn't get used to help people, it's to blame and shame. And because he has been alone his entire life, this is a nice way to demonstrate how fun the phrase is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:46 PM
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No it's just really funny to turn it back around lmao. Because you can apply the same thing to people like you. Men who are terminally single.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:02 PM
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Dude just choose better. It totally is your fault for not going after the good women. It's just that simple. Or does this street suddenly only go one way?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:25 PM
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How are you so confident while typing up such bs. Also how is it your initial reaction to ask for evidence when someone tells you they have been raped. I could understand if they would accuse someone you know but this is just insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:57 PM
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Okay, choose better women to approach. There that should fix your loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:47 PM
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Ahhhhh I just opened ur profile and now I know why ur so adamant about all of this. Dude you really should get off the internet and turn your life around. This stuff isn't gonna help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:32 PM
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Definitely. But these dudes are also insanely unconfident because they take these things to heart. Which also tanks their chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:09 AM
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Yes if you decide to not even play the game you will obviously not win.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:58 AM
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Except this isn't true. There are plenty of ugly dudes who get with women. Often not the most desirable, but the ugly dudes with way too much charisma often manage to score quite well. I have seen it too often while clubbing. And if you don't want to believe this, then that's fine. But there is no point in further arguing lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:29 AM
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This isn't reality because it is far easier to win over people with looks. You aren't gonna be able to show off your personality not nearly as easily as your looks. And because we live in the day and age of dating apps and social media this obviously is accentuate. The bottom line is, if either is exceptionally great you will be off well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:11 AM
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Your reasoning is close to making sense but you dropped the ball at the end. You can't only have this example without also doing the reverse. Because in the case where there are two equally attractive dudes but one has a bad personality, the other one will also always be picked. What the reality actually is, is that both axes should be at an acceptable level. This is the case besides exceptions to the rule. OR if one or the other is absurdly high. And if you truly want to be accurate you also wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:01 AM
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Depends on the kids lmao. But to be serious. In this picture ur painting there obviously only is one outcome. Obviously she is in the wrong, why would anyone be okay with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:31 PM
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It literally is just an incel talking point. People here keep bringing it up not because they truly mean it. They say it because they want a partner and/or sex. Every thing I have heard from dudes trying to rational it is insanely flimsy and within 2 seconds of pushing back against it the cracks start to show. They think that they are ugly and women need to give them a chance. Because appariently that is the only way in their eyes to get with someone. They are simply just bitter and single/sexle…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:02 PM
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If we are talking about what is fair then you can't have a one size fits all solution. You need to look at multiple factors to determine this outcome. Because if it is gonna be very difficult for the stay at home ? to bounce back to a livable situation after the split, they should get some more (if possible). But if they have a lot of money to their name because they inherited it for example then they obviously don't need extra help. And it would probably be fair if they got less. Another exampl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:12 PM
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No, this image definitely depicts mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:35 PM
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it's not that those men devalue these women, they find it hot and probably hope they are down for threesomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:10 PM
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Ur making shit up. And not only that leaving 70 comments. Just stop. Leave it in 1 reply at the time or don't comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:52 AM
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Getting addicted to it when it was good and socially acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:47 PM
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Nah, hard disagree. When using twitter you have better excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:44 PM
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Not wanting to date someone who uses reddit 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:39 PM
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Can you blame anyone who thinks like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:34 PM
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You are making a post arguing that people are using very small edge cases to make arguments. You are doing that right here. Almost no one is making these arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:11 PM
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If you don't get enough nutrition then your body will not function normally. What is this argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:07 PM
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If you can function normally without something then it isn't a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:51 AM
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No, not really. Not having sex doesn't mean that ur mental health will be bad. Of course it can impact it, but so can anything else. Things like this won't impact it badly enough for one not to function. And it can be dealt with in many ways which doesn't include having sex. Someone not getting a signature from my favorite artist could impact their mental health, and even heavily weigh on their mind heavily. But no one will argue that this is a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:51 AM
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This entire comment proves that you lack a brain. Just stay mad lmao. These are the most pathetic attempts of gotchas. Holding someone captive against their will and doing things to them which they don't consent to isn't the same as your lack of pussy. It's funny how pathetic you are 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:21 AM
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Cute thing. But not only is this legit torture, but I am also not a woman. You not getting laid isn't torture. And torture definitely has a lot of negative mentally and physical impact. And you trying to use this as a gotcha says a lot of why no woman wants to be near you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:09 AM
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No. You just don't need it. It's not difficult to comprehend. This is a want, a luxury, you don't need it to survive or to be healthy. Just take you for example. You clearly can't get pussy and you are still alive and kicking. And if you aren't in good health then no doctor will tell you that it was from lack of pussy. You have no argument, just stop lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:59 AM
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Lmao just no. I can verify as a guy that it isn't needed for anyone's survival. And it also isn't needed to be in good health. This isn't like a billionaire saying you don't need money to be happy. Also from what I can remember, you just don't trust or like women. Why are you weighing in on any conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:45 AM
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Not only is there a huge difference between liking the thought of something and actually liking those things in person. But also a lot of times these topics are brought up when they don't like it and/or the other person didn't get consent for it. So many stories about this topic start off with dudes doing shit like this off the bat, without them knowing each other and her saying that she is into it. Which obviously won't go well with a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:50 AM
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No. Women say sex isn't a need because it isn't a need. If you think it is then I am sorry but it's a good thing that your dna isn't gonna be passed on. This is like trying to argue against a flat earther. And your comparisons are horribly bad, because those are actually life threatening and hindering. While not having sex isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:42 AM
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It doesn't matter what type of response you want you are never gonna get it. You aren't starting things in a way which will garther the response you are looking for. This is like me "suggesting" to r/-insert my country- that all foreigners to go back to their country of origin. No one is gonna respond kindly to that, because no one asked for my suggestion and it just comes off as ignorent and disrespectful. What you are describing isn't my way or the highway, it's people shutting you down becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:15 AM
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Within normal discourse? No. You are allowed to give your opinion whenever you like, but it isn't socially accepted 24/7. And you not knowing the difference says enough about your social skills, which explains perfectly why your friends don't respond well to your opinions. And the same goes for making post on the internet. Yes you are allowed to say what you want, but others can share their opinions about it. And some random guy trying to tell others what they should do, because that is essentia…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:57 PM
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That's because these aren't debates. They aren't interested in you telling them what to do or not. If you are telling them something then they didn't ask for your input. The same goes online, you throwing your opinion out when no one is asking for it will garner this response.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:45 PM
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Okay? But if this is your real argument, why are you making a completely different claim initially?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:41 PM
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If you truly think that you won't ever get with a woman, then why do you care about it being a dealbreaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:13 PM
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Dude just keep this information to yourself it's no one's business. It doesn't matter if women are cool with it or not, sharing this information is weird and a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:11 PM
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You will be surprised. And no. I didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:46 PM
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In the last paragraph he is saying that he doesn't get pleasure from degrading women. What he said in it is very questionable, but that's besides the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:57 PM
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Some like it some don't. Some find it degrading some don't. There are multiple factors that come into play with this. If you don't like it because you think a certain way then just move it into a different direction, maybe have a talk and at least don't ask for it. Nothing more needs to be said really.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:50 PM
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You can also just be very gullible, oblivious, not very intelligent (EQ and/or IQ), come from a toxic household, etc. Trying to put all women who do this in 3 boxes is unrealistic. Things like these aren't as simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:42 PM
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This is such low tier bait it hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:10 AM
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Sure thing. But in that case. Women should also do the same and hell while they are at it take as much of their money. Because fuck it. If men are gonna act like cunts women might as well follow along. Why is this post still up? This post is just brain dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:02 AM
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That's because they are arguing it for the benefit of men. These is like the perfect combination to be easily played and to be settled down with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:27 PM
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No. They advocate for both lmao. This is simply false.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:07 PM
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Age gaps definitely were an issue. Hence why we got age of consent laws. We didn't always have them, but at a certain time period realized the harm without it. And now later down the line we are figuring out more things when it comes to age. We have done it before and we are doing it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:07 PM
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Ehhhh not really. They just don't want to hear about it. Because women usually don't really like hearing about dudes masterbaiting. They don't care that they do it except a few exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:29 PM
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Keep crying 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:09 PM
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Me? Incel rethoric? You were literally crying over chad. Ur not gonna dig your way out of this lil bro 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:03 PM
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Buddy. Stop. You already admitted that people do it. Ur just upset that you can't get ur dick wet. You showed your true colors. There isn't anything else to discuss lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:58 PM
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I am a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:57 PM
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So you agree that men pump and dump. Conversation is over. You admit that ur full of shit lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:50 PM
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Okay? I am sorry but what are you doing? If you aren't gonna take peoples words then what are you trying to do here? Cry that you think that you are treated unfairly? This is no way to have a dialog.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:49 PM
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I couldn't give two shits if a dude buys a flesh light or a dildo for his own pleasure. Nothing sad about it. But a full on sex doll lmao yes. If a woman would do that I would have the same opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:28 PM
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Why are you trying to hide the fact that some dudes just want to fuck. Everyone knows it already why try to hide it. You are way too late trying to cover this up lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:25 PM
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Mfer is trying to label emotional intelligence as new age lingo lmao. Self love was already weird but my god that one is beyond funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:12 PM
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No. This isn't a red flag. This can be someone who isn't compatible with you, but those are highly different from each other. You really need to learn what a red flag is. Because this doesn't come close to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:29 PM
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Because these dudes are scared of people taking the money they don't have from relationships they aren't in. They just see mega rich celebrates lose half their shit and think that they will ever be in this situation. And that those dudes are being scammed. (Even though in many of those situations those women worked over time to make ends meet for both of them before he blew up.)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:23 PM
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This almost always is a decision both parties made. If not tell your partner to step up and find a job. It really isn't complicated. No one is forcing you to be in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:13 PM
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Yeah you can, but the odds are in your favor and even when they aren't they usually behave completely different when they aren't hiding behind a screen. Like most won't do anything obscene and just try to de escalate the situation and try to get away.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:05 PM
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Buddy. Commonly? You are mentioning an article which states that some of the people diagnosed with bipolar are actually narcissistic. Bipolar isn't a common occurrence. This is as bad as delusional women claiming that men are predictors. Because some of them rape and murder. You don't have scientific acknowledgement. You trying to run with this has more merritt for you being narcissistic then what you are trying to claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:58 AM
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Cute. And women do way more around the house, which if you add everything up, they are definitely getting the short end of the stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:33 PM
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And men argue that women need to do all the cleaning, cooking and constantly provide their bodies to them. All while they can do nothing all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:27 PM
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You don't need the red pill for this. You really don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:24 PM
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No. It's you making random assumptions and keep moving the goal post. You automatically assume that they are at fault and making a mistake. Because the concept of simply growing apart is too difficult for you to comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:18 PM
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Btw I am glad you were able to grow a spine, and got out of your shitty situation. I truly mean that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:22 PM
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I am sorry but the only shit you are talking about here is very basic well known shit. Hell you should've already known before dating to not let people walk over you. If you need to be taught stuff like this from the red pill then you have bigger problems going on in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:17 PM
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Maybe, maybe not. That's for them to find out, not for you to worry over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 06:14 PM
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The first comment is about a specific story. It is very clear who she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:00 PM
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Yes. I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:43 PM
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Cool. So you are choosing to miss anything she said. She doesn't want to. She is trying not to. She isn't doing anything bad. She is trying to better her self.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:43 PM
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What bad thing is she doing? She is asking for help. Asking what she can do to not do these things. She is clearly trying to get over the damage that people have inflicted on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:05 PM
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As long as you claim to be a feminist you are part of feminism. There is no further policing. Because those who have tried saw major aminocity. Everyone who claims to be a feminist is one. This by all means changes the movement and its ideology. Because people have polarizing views about it. Hence why it is disjointed and a shell of what it once was. It has no direction and it is doing way too much all at once, even things that go against what once were its principles. Things change. If you like…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:01 PM
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No. You just have no clue what modern feminism is. Everyone. Can subscribe to it. There is no internal moderation for who is and isn't a feminist. Thus what you get is a highly different version of what the movement once was. Just how over time neo Nazis subscribed to the skinhead culture and changed it. The same happened to feminism. You got those who legit do what it initially was meant out to be. You got those who are women and subscribe to the idea of equality and obviously this was once the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:53 PM
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No. It's not just comment on the internet. These are feminist. Just because you don't like them doesn't change this. You sound like an Skinhead who can't accept that his subculture turned racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:31 PM
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Ohhhhh right it's you. Yeah nvm this conversation is done lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:03 PM
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They know what it is. They also know that it isn't what it once was. Because the movement lost its guidance and is all over the place. Most do nothing, some do good, some do bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:39 PM
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Yeah things change and in this instance for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:37 PM
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No. You just want to trap some poor woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:37 PM
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You are asking if he is afraid of feminism. He answered because there are enough lunatics who are feminist that claim these things. It's not difficult to see how it is relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:36 PM
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There are a lot of feminist (mostly online) who think this way. That's the connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:14 PM
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Feminism and equality aren't mutual. You can have problems with feminism yet want equality. Feminism truly is a movement that has run its course. It has no direction and doesn't do anything. There are as many people doing good things under it as doing negative stuff. You got the feminist who shed light stalking. And you got those who have meltdowns because a dude asked if they could take a chair that wasn't being used at their table. So no, I am not worried about feminism. It's just there and do…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:12 PM
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FDS the place that tried to instill the idea that women shouldn't give two shits about men. Because they are better than them so they should be treated like a queen. Yeah nah FDS was quite literally just a bunch of misadrist women with ego problems trying to ruin the chances of other women. Yes they had some okay points. None of them were groundbreaking or exclusive to themselves. Just like the red pill. If you fall for this stuff then you really can't be saved.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:04 PM
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If it is just a bunch of mumbo jumbo and anecdotal garbage, yes. The same goes for when a dude is writing a novel about why women suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:01 PM
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Okay, if this is the case then what? Why do women need to care? I am sorry but that isn't how things work in life. Nothing will change for women. The only thing that might change is that men will be taught how to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 12:56 PM
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Yeah people go though low points. But if you identify that the problem is that you don't love your partner anymore and you can't fall for him again things are done. Marriage is a very old concept and thus things have changed. And one of those things is this. There is a reason why you can divorce someone for reasons like these. Dating and marriage in the west hasn't gone to shit. People have gained standards and women have rights and face no unnecessary judgement. You are simply not with the time…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 12:52 PM
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It's cute that you reject that idea. But people simply don't want to be unhappy. If you don't care for your partner's happiness good luck maintaining a relationship. With how you currently view things, you aren't cut out to be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 12:46 PM
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Nope. Not really. People who simply don't love each other divorce all the time. And people don't make it a big deal. I knew plenty of people that did this, even with kids. And the result is that everyone is still on good terms and in the end happier. People don't judge them for it, they might ask why at the beginning because it comes at a shock but that's about the extent of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 12:45 PM
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Just no lmao. You have no clue what you are talking about. And at this point ur not adding anything you are just regurgitating bad points. It is indeed not. But divorcing someone isn't the same as viewing someone as disposable. No, ur trying to push a narrative. I am turning it around on you. Because your argument doesn't have the best interest of your theoretical partner in mind. And that says a lot about you as a person and why you are making these arguments. Yes. The problem indeed isn't the …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 12:43 PM
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It very much can and it is doing it. The reproduction within birthrates is normal and expected. There are multiple things that influence this, and we are now have a perfect storm where we can see some very noticeable differences. WWII claimed a lot of lifes and set back the luxary of living quite a bit. This results in birth rates going up drasticly. So that has happend for a generation or two. In the mean time the life expectancy and luxary have both sky rocketed. This results in a drastic decl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:37 AM
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It's not. It's a sign that we are in a moment of time where living conditions are great and life expectancy is high. This is quite literally an stable and expected stage in civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:17 AM
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Only a very and I mean very small percentage do this, and that is because they either have no backbone or are trying to swindel someone. I already said that normal people don't go into them just to end it. No, it really is. Law and morals aren't the same thing, but this isn't inmoral. You just don't like it, which really isn't a standpoint coming from love. And if you sign a legal contract you can break them. This is with every single one. You believe this to. Otherwise you would also find it in…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:53 AM
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If this is where your argument stems from then it has nothing to do with marriage itself. Because in a lot of cases there arent children involved, or they are old enough to not effect them in the slightest. But even in this scinario splitting is often better for the child in the long run. Yes the children come first, and what do you expect their environment to be like when the parents aren't happy with eachother? It isn't gonna be great, which will be a lot more damaging when they are subjected …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:25 AM
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We live in a different time. Back in the day when marriage was started. Sure. Ur life was so shit that this wouldn't be a concern for many anyway. Nowadays? Fuck no. Get with the times, this is simply not how anyone with some self respect lives. The fact that you care more about the concept of the vows then the person you are with. Says enough that you shouldn't get married. If you want to shame someone into staying with you, when they aren't happy with you anymore. And they don't love you, then…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:33 PM
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This also is a no brainer. You aren't happy? Stop doing it. This is a no brainer to anyone who respects themselves. Hell it also is a no brainer who loves their partner. Or do you want the person you claim to love to be unhappy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:09 PM
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Nothing being wrong doesn't make things good. This is literally saying, if you aren't happy you are allowed to leave. Your partner doesn't need to be doing a bad job or be abuse or whatever. Sometimes things simply don't work out. Yes it is intended that way. Doesn't mean that it needs to play out like that. It's something that was set up in a different times. We know a lot more now and have much higher standards. The bottom line is that people change. It's inevitable. And sometimes that means t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:06 PM
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By this logic if you divorce someone because they are abusing your children and you then you are a liar. Dude there is a reason why society don't take people who have these hardcore idea's about marriage seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:33 PM
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Okay? So many things are commitments, that doesn't mean that you aren't allowed to stop any of them. This is a very normal occurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:29 PM
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No you are flat out wrong. In certain cases it definitely is completely logical. If one party is a stay at home parent they should get 50% of the stuff because they sacrificed the ability to have an income to take care of things around the house. There are also other reasons why it might apply. But this by far the easiest case to understand why.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:26 PM
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People usually don't want to break up when they get into these type of relationships, that doesn't change that people over time want to break up. This isn't lying in any context. And while we are at it just no, it isn't always wrong to lie. There are so many contexts where it is completely fine to lie, not just fine but the correct/moral thing to do. This is cute and all but it also doesn't make it inmoral. If you aren't happy in a relationship leaving isn't inmoral. Do you just need to suck it …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:20 PM
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No they don't lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:25 PM
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First of all yes you can, second of all almost no one is making that point ever. But you can definitely get a supermodel as an average looking dude, you just need another start like money or charisma to be insanely high.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:26 PM
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Yes there is. And everyone knows it including you. You don't even believe this, you just want to push a narative which doesn't need this line of thinking anyway. Just stop, it's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:51 AM
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Uhmmmmm why is killing in video games okay, but it isn't okay in real life 😡 Dude there is a clear difference. That being said, if you aren't comfortable with your girl reading smut. No one is stopping you from setting a boundary and leaving her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:39 PM
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Damn with this logic murder, rape, pedophilia, canibalism, etc are all legitimate and great lmao. Like cmon, does anyone really need to explain to you why this line of thinking is insanely flawed?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:18 PM
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Nope it is not. You can get through life just fine without it. Stop making excuses for why you deserve something. Because you flat out don't. It's that simple buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:26 PM
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Buddy first of all I am a guy. Second of all no. This doesn't cause harm. Just as not having a jacuzzi doesn't cause harm. Wanting something is so far removed from causing harm. I am sorry this stuff is a luxury. And if you want to pretend that it isn't then something is seriously wrong with you and you need professional help. You can go through life without any problem without ever having sex. Stop pretending just because you want something lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:20 PM
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"harm"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:41 PM
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Trump has nothing to do with the manosphere. But yes he isn't gonna do jack shit for men, he doesn't care for them unless they make him money lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:34 PM
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There is one. But it is fought on the internet in places which lets be real no one cares about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:45 PM
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What is there to attack? It's bs. This is like arguing that the sky is green. No it simply is not. And you would simply know this is true if you went outside and spoke to women lmao. Hell you can even see plenty of online clips of women who are outspoken and do just fine. And good job. A questionnaire of 2100 people. Which don't have any relevant questions on it to go anywhere. This is exactly what I am talking about. This is nothing. It proves nothing. It can be a starting point of some actual …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:33 PM
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That isn't blue pill philosophy. You are so incredibly brainwashed it isn't even funny. No. Normal healthy people promote having boundaries and having self worth. It's so funny talking to people like you, because it is obvious why you believe this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:24 PM
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If you want to believe that lie then go ahead lmao. Because the concept, sure. The execution fuck no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:21 PM
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Where am I claiming this? I agree that the points you mentioned is holding people back. I am just saying that there are things that especially together (which most of them are) are doing even more harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:19 PM
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Yes, and I also know dudes who put in 0 effort and never worked on their social skill who are in relationships. That doesn't change the fact that it is something that is holding others back. Same goes for your example.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:00 PM
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Wow another example of something that is just a normal thing. Which normal people know and red pill people try to claim is their talking point. No shit that having self value and not being a push over will help. Water is wet lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:58 PM
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I think that the biggest issue are things that aren't inheritly peoples fault. The decline of socializing and how easy it is to escape to the virtual world has turned a lot of dudes into this. All while the world is in a much more difficult place then it was for generations, a huge one is our financial situation nowdays. I do agree that the things you have listed are part of the problem but I definitely don't think it is what hurted dudes the most. It definitely isn't some minor issue though. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:16 PM
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I definitely see where you are coming from and I do agree with you there. Because it not always is outright the context. But often it either is or atleast in the back of their minds. Because when talking to people who think like this. They often are looking for validation. So if you would tell them "yeah if you looked a bit better then your odds would've been better" they will take it as "see if I wasn't as ugly I would've a shot, but I am not so I absolutely fucked". Because 8/10 these people a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:58 PM
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In the context of many conversations they don't. Because incels and random loney fucks on the internet value looks way too highly. You don't have to be "chad" to get dates, if you are an average looking dude you look more then good enough to get with girls. Hence why people say looks don't matter. Also keep in mind that we are on reddit. Not in a bar with regular folk, people who flok here usually are cut from the same cloth. And they are definitely more of the terminally online kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:38 PM
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They don't count because not being red pill will also give you the same insight. It's common knowledge. You really don't have to explain to people with a brain that focusing on how you look by dressing well and styling your hair, going to the gym, making sure you got a good job, etc will all make you more attractive. And that kind of stuff will obviously help you out when it comes to getting dates. These aren't red pill talking points. Them trying to claim it is, is like selling air. I am not go…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:14 PM
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It does matter. Because they are doing all off this for something which simply doesn't work well. Sure if it would actually get you better odds then atleast it would be understandable. But they are doing all this for something which is actively hurting their chances. There are parts which red pill "teaches" that indeed work, but these aren't exclusive to the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:51 PM
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Not really. People will just complain about something else. It's in our nature. And even if they disapeared for a while, eventually you will get new people who can't seem to get laid. And even if that magically disapears then like I said they will find something else to bitch about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:29 PM
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Nothing would change lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:02 PM
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Having empathy and being toxic aren't mutually exclusive. Especially when having more empathy doesn't state who this is reserved for. And it also doesn't state how toxic they are when they would qualify for the label. Metrics like this don't prove anything on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:13 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:58 PM
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Average sexless PPD user.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:47 PM
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No it shows that you don't talk to women. That's it buddy. You have no clue how women act, hell I doubt that you even know how dudes act lmao. And no it isn't reported from what I can remember that bit of research you are talking about was not just badly set up, but it also had almost no sample size. The fact that you are trying to lean on it says enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:28 PM
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Didn't know that you were depressed. Sucks to hear m8. And for me? Nah shit is just casual entertainment lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:31 PM
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Within their own? No. Within groups of their friends, aka one, two or three degrees separated. If you don't know any who have done that, then that would be a first for me. Not saying ur wrong, but that would surprise me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:27 PM
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So miserable, with friends and a girlfriend lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:23 PM
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Most people have a few friend groups. This sentiment very much is that of people who are way too much online lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:56 PM
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Yes. They do. They just don't change shit lmao. Shit still happens, and it happens a lot. Even if they don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:55 PM
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Literally doesn't matter. People have different friend groups. And every now and then those merge, can be parties going to concerts you name it. And people who meet through friends often date. You can ask any person who is slightly social and they will agree with this. Even if some women don't like it it doesn't change the fact that it doesn't happen. These people on facebook aren't gonna stop anything from happening lmao. And also these women are mostly talking about dating within the same dire…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:53 PM
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Jealous of what? Some dude who admitted he doesn't have friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:37 PM
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Yes I am a figment of your imagination. Wake up Michael you have been in a coma for 2 years. Wake up. But no. I never claimed that the internet is fake. I don't claim all women like it. I claim that so many do that the few that don't won't matter. And why you may ask, because if you actually talk and hangout with people you are fortunate enough to make friends, and hang out with people and go to parties. And then you will see this happen before your eyes, time and time again. Stop being offended…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:36 PM
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Ahhhh so you have no clue how to keep them. That is even worse. Good luck trying to keep a gf lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:27 PM
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Because the dude is on facebook...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:21 PM
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You have joined a few Facebook groups. Dude. Stop. This isn't reality. So many people date within social circles. Not mostly in their inner one, but definitely a few rings out of it. Just because some people don't like it doesn't mean they all don't like it and that this stuff doesn't happen a lot anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:21 PM
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Dude that can't manage to make friends, thinks he can get a girlfriend. Like cmon. Learn how to walk before trying to run.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:16 PM
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Buddy I already said that they end up with someone they like. Why can't people like you understand that women who sleep around don't end up miserable and/or alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:38 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:37 PM
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This is just straight up bs lmao. There are plenty of women who are outspoken and sleep around. Which very much proves that men like them. This isn't a new thing either, and in the past these women eventually settled down and nothing is indicating that this will change. And there are a fuck ton of dudes who listen, are emotionally available and everytime you listed. Hell most dudes in stable and healthy relationships are like this lmao. Your entire viewpoint probably comes from your parents and …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:34 PM
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The few things that the red pill is right about aren't exclusive to the red pill. I think that this explains everything you need to know about this topic lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:29 PM
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Cool, so you admit it's shit. My god just being a social dude that takes care of themselves has better odds. Why would you ever convert to something which will lower it lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:22 PM
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How often do you flirt with women? Because it's cute if ur hot but if you aren't doing the required steps to get with them then obviously shit isn't gonna work. And also how good are you with stuff like this? Because you can look amazing but if you come over as not interested or creepy, or whatever then you aren't gonna get any results.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:52 AM
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Looks obviously matter. But simply not in the way the people here think. People here want to pretend that you need to be a 9/10 dude to be able to get a girl. And that's why it is getting push back.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:29 AM
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Yeah but they are the product. So they can get away with it. If you want to increase your odds as a dude on these apps. Then having a good Bio will help. Although you are correct to have some actual good pics will do you a lot more good. Which is also something a lot of guys don't have. I had friends that would go to the woods (just an example) together for a nice walk and to take some good photos for each other's profile. I definitely think that more guys need to do shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:51 AM
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Nope. People here just want a girlfriend and/or want their friend(s) to get one. That's literally the only thing. They want someone they find attractive to love them back. And they view themselves as a nice guy. That's it. The dudes here are simply struggling and don't know what to do to fix it. And in most cases instead of trying to figure that out, they give up mentally and just blame their misfortune on random things which really don't matter. You think it's unfair? Okay? And that is gonna ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:35 AM
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this in itself doesn't prove that they have it harder. But it does set a president. Men are tough, violent and hard and women are weak and soft. Hence why we send men to war and leave the poor women home. And this does reflect also in other areas. Because this attitude doesn't stop here. Men are more often expected to take hits and set backs and bounce back. They shouldn't dwell and complain about it for too long and should men up. Also like I said men are viewed as more violent and what not so …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:41 AM
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Aight just for future reference, it ain't smart to try to use SS as an abbreviation. Because no matter what you want it to be, people are definitely gonna think of the Schutzstaffel. It definitely does makes "but at this point the SS is an inconvenience" a lot more true lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:05 AM
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I disagree that it is inheritely shifted towards those who want kids. I think that it can go either way. And the qualities you gave aren't inheritely given to all those who intentionally get kids. So many parents who wanted kids are still lousy parents. Preparing for the future is one expect. But I think that a lot of people who are child free are more thinking about the planet. And what consequences their actions have. Which definitely is thinking about the future. But not only that, parents mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:06 PM
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I said 0 to piss them off. But they have a lot lower value then it's mother. Because if you like it or not, not all human life is equal. For example a murderer or a rapist in my eyes don't have much value. And something that is so underformed also has not much. Which is why I really couldn't care if a mother decides to part ways with it, because their well being (whatever the context) is more of a concern that that thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:48 PM
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Not really. Someone can be a bit overweight yet still be insanely active. And someone who has fucked 1 dude, 3 dudes, 6 dudes and 9 dudes can all have the same morals. If you want any that is fine. But be real with yourself. It definitely comes from the exact same place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:49 PM
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No thank you, I nailed it on the first attempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:47 PM
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Gaming what? The vast majority of red pill dudes barely get laid, and that is if they do lmao. Almost no one is legit mad at the redpill, they just look at people who fall for it with disgust. You have a better shot at getting laid by dressing up as a boy and going to church than following the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:18 PM
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Groomed vs arrested for grooming.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:36 PM
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Ofcourse that logic also applies to good looking men. I never said it wasn't. I have made the claim for the start that everything goes both ways for both the good looking and the not so. And no ofcourse not. There are "chads" who are angels, devils and everything in between. But you want to argue about dudes who have no options will do everything to keep a relationship going. And if you want to argue that then you also should weigh in the negative that comes with that. I personally would say tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:49 PM
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It isn't another way of saying they aren't willing to put in the effort. Some people aren't fit for eachother. And those who have options can recognize that and make sure both are better off. Someone who feels they don't got any options will make things work which comes at a cost. Which in the long run will result in things that a lot of people here seem to fear. Stuff like dead badrooms for example. And yes I know you said that it could be argued. But I thought it was an interesting point (not …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:27 PM
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Yeah nah, it highly depends on their personality. It's cute that you "value" something more, which still depends on your nature. But if you treat what you value shitty then they aren't gonna stick around. I would argue those who know their worth are way better to date. Because they won't bs around as much. If things aren't working out then they aren't as likely to waste everyones time. And if you want to argue that uglier people develop better personalitis by necessity, I will counter it that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:55 PM
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I mean people are flawwed and most relationships happen when people are young and not mature. This paired with people often going in relationships for consistend sex and because they can't be alone and you get bad experiences. Even if most people are everything you listed. That doesn't mean that they don't have their nasty moments. And if you aren't in a relationship you will either not witness them much, or it will just not affect you as heavily. Like a friend did something nasty? You two go yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:52 PM
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Because if you act normally then you won't linger in peoples minds. Unless you have more then just a basic interaction with them. If someone is an asshole that shit definitely is something you will remember. Hell just look at youtubers for example. How often have they said publicly that no matter how many nice comments they get, the few that are negative will stick out and keep them up at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:35 PM
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This happens because a lot of dudes relate to being not attractive. So they try to inject themselves. They are saying give me a chance. And people like me. And that often is some dude who is nice but not attractive, or some absolute cunt who thinks he deserves pussy. Also keep in mind. A lot of people who come to places like this got bullied when they were younger and never got over it. They still see some better looking dude fucking with them while they get everything they want. Obviously anyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:32 PM
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Thank you 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:40 PM
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Sure thing buddy, whatever helps you sleep at night. Incel BS lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:05 PM
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Yes you do. Because they mean the same thing. Just said differently. Dude stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:35 AM
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If you admit that certain people are more desirable than others then you agree with this as well. You are just anal on the symantics. This is exactly what people mean with it. Also no shit they aren't leagues they are in leagues. It is insanely clear what people mean lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:15 AM
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Yes and some are more desirable than others lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:02 AM
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So many dudes high standards are also superficial. Must be skinny, low body count, not taller than me, big tits and ass, must be submissive and must do the cooking and cleaning. You simply can't only bring up one side's stuff and then blissfully ignore the other. You aren't arguing in good faith. You just want women out of your league to fuck you lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:52 AM
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Yes because it affects their body. I already said that lmao. You are quite literally trying to force an argument that not only no one cares about. But also one that everyone sees past it instantly lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:14 AM
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Yes because they aren't carrying them. You can't force medical procedures on other people. Or do you want to live in a world where someone could decide that you don't need your right arm anymore? This has to be the stupidest gotcha I have ever seen lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:03 AM
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They already go out with people they are attracted to. This is a statement that changes nothing. And going lower on the spectrum doesn't change your odds. Uglier people don't have better personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:59 AM
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I highly disagree because none of these things are intrinsically traits of either party. So many people with children don't have any of these traits. But from two I definitely think that people who want to be childless think way more about the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:56 AM
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You think that I have examples laying around? This is a very difficult thing to ask. This isn't something that gets posted every week. I couldn't even give you an example of a video similar like this for men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:47 AM
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Can't a dude go to sleep? Not everyone lives in murika.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:43 AM
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You can't say people shouldn't date people they aren't attracted to. And then try to say they need to find people they aren't attracted to attractive. You are literally contradicting yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:43 AM
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Don't pick people you are attracted to, pick those who just like Ben Shapiro keep you as dry as the Sahara Desert.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:52 AM
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Because there are less people who wanna be child free. Perportional shit is about equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:07 AM
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You are reading it wrong m8. They are saying that society made it legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:57 PM
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Yes because those children have 0 human value. Unlike their parents. Sucks to sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:55 PM
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No one is defending her. They are just pointing out that she is obviously in a really shitty headspace and hope that it changes. The same would probably been said to a dude. Because similar things have been said about men in the past. I definitely agree that there are things where women get off easier then men. This ain't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:52 PM
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Yes but it is a safe way to get some knowledge of it. And after it you can figure it out through trial and error. And going to parties is an amazing way to do that. Not with direct friends but those friends of friends. It sets you up so much better to find someone you can have romantic interests with. Which is imo a different longing and need then loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:31 PM
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It is a different way of communicating. But this is still the basis. So if you don't know how to do that then you really aren't gonna get anywhere. And another benefit is that you can safely experiment with flirting and what not. All while also observing other people doing it. It's probably one of the better ways of learning it if not the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:17 PM
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No, but it gives you the skills how to hold conversations with men and women. Conversations which aren't set in just profesional lives. And in this scenario you will be but in situations where you will communicate with strangers aka friends of friends. These are valuable skills to have especially within dating. And for the longest time people used to find their partner through parties. Either by tagging along with friends or because they set it up. If you don't have many friends you are missing …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:09 PM
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Then enjoy proving that women don't hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:02 PM
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So you are claiming that both men and women hate each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:59 AM
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Okay? Proof to us that women don't hate men then. I think that this thought exercise will be enough to come to the conclusion that this isn't something you can necessarily "prove" all that easily. This is something you can easily gather from just going through life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:50 AM
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Get a gf then. If this is what is gonna fix all your problems then what is the problem? If you are struggling to get a gf and have no friends then what do you think will happen? You have absolutely nothing. Which will not only make people lonely. But it also comes with a lot of other problems. And hell, having friends especially with both men and women will give you the social skills which will increase your odds by a lot. And though them you can meet people you might eventually start dating. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:46 AM
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This is way too vague. What context are we talking about? Are you talking about approaching strangers to try to get their number?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:33 AM
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I highly disagree. I think that paying for sex workers is insanely lame. But agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:32 AM
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As a dude I have to disagree with you m8.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:17 PM
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But to be serious. Men can also get validation even from women. Being social as long as you aren't just hanging out with men will get you this. That being said sex can definitely be a whole lot more difficult depending how you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:09 PM
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This isn't true. Men can very easily get male validation and also sex with men. Cmon m8 don't lie to yourself 😝
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:07 PM
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That is so much more pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:52 PM
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What the lack of pussy does to a fragile dude's brain. My thoughts and prayers are with you 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:03 PM
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Disagree? All you do is cry lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:48 PM
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Everyone loves complaining. Regardless of sex. Why do you think that it is a trope for male characters to complain about their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:22 PM
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Yes but filtering is hard, and can still leave you with many options who look good on paper. And hitting a 90 is not an objective 9/10. It is about hitting personal check boxes. For example are you physically attractive? Yes or no. What that is for someone highly differs. It might be an objective 9 or a 6. It's all about how compatible you are with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:18 PM
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No. I am disregarding someone's pov because it is clouded. If a girl let it slip that they have resent towards men I will also stop listening lmao. Ur just angry because you most likely feel attacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:10 PM
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Fair enough. But what I meant was none they tried anything with. I was speaking loosely because I thought people would gather what I was talking about. If you have too many options you can't try them all. And no, if you know that you can get 90 then you won't go for 80. Especially when you are fine with waiting. Which a lot of women are. Hell even me as a dude have higher standards than 80. And no. This 90 isn't 90 for every woman. This is highly subjective with a base of what everyone agrees to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:08 PM
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They indeed don't. But on reddit this precedent definitely is set. So regardless if you deserve it or not you often just won't get it. Which is what is being discussed. Obviously if someone is being a hateful cunt they don't deserve empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:59 AM
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Who is saying none? It's just difficult to find the few that do. Especially because a lot of these options just want casual sex. Which is often not mutual. And why would you accept 80% when you have many options? If you want a bit longer you will get around 90%. Men would do the same if they felt like they had many options. But this is all speculation because you don't know if it exists or if it is even set up well. And obviously women are gonna be selective on dating apps. They are the product.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:57 AM
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I couldn't care if he doesn't get laid if it was in a vacuum. But if you say stuff like that then I already know that you aren't observing stuff from a clear view. So there is no point in reading his thoughts on women. Because this entire thread stems from him being bitter towards women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:45 AM
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I disagree with your reasoning behind it. Because these are two different issues. One has to do with that they can't seem to attract the opposite sex. And the other is that they have so many "options" but none of them align with what they want. But I definitely think it is completely fine to brush it off and tell them "sucks to suck". Because this street indeed goes both ways. If you want to dismiss someone's struggles then don't be surprised that the same will happen to yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:21 AM
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Men being tortured by lack of sex Thank you for notifying us that we can stop reading. Holy fuck what an absolute hilarious slip. Lil bro it is clear what your issue is with women 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:17 AM
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Except he is clearly saying that this is how to acquire your soulmate. He has mentioned multiple times that this is the only way to get love. Where did he say he doesn't want it himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:38 AM
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Yes. This dude is very much trying to get the attention from somewhere else but real women. Which very much indicates that he most likely isn't succesful with them. So how does this take equate to BuT pEdOfIlEe AnD RaPiSt ArE mOrE sUcCeSfUlL wItH wOmEn ThEn Me 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:53 AM
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No I don't get the point. What does any of this has to do with anything I wrote?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:46 AM
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If you look at his profile then you can see that according to reddit he is active in r/replika and he has mace posts about sex dolls. I don't think that it is difficult to put 2 and 2 together and go out on a limb and say that he is guessing. At this point I really don't even think he lost his virginity. Which in itself wouldn't be a problem. But if you are gonna act like you know how to get with women, and you value sex this much it is insanely damning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:07 AM
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Just like him from what I can tell from his post history. The dude has many posts about replika and stuff like sex dolls. It isn't hard to see that this dude doesn't fuck and thus tries to get the experience though other means. What I don't get from dudes like this is how they still think they got everything figured out. Like you clearly are doing something wrong. Why do you want to give advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:59 AM
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None of this will get you anything long term hell it won't get you anything short term either. This entire post just represents one's fragile ego. Hence why you are calling people losers who are just acting like normal human beings. You don't value love you just want to live some sex fantasy. Which is why you are scared that other people might get sex faster, that they get to do more sexual acts and why you are are focused on other people's sexual performance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:55 AM
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Of course this dude has a dick maxing flair 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:28 PM
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Buddy. What are we discussing? Do you know what context is?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:17 PM
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I never claimed this. What are you yapping about?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:13 PM
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Okay? And? A ton of serious relationships start from arranged marriages. Does that mean that everyone should have one?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:10 PM
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Do I need to? Your points were simply extremely bad. Stating that you want to wait with sex isn't giving the impression of anything you said. You just want a serious relationship so you don't want to fool around. This isn't saying that you aren't worth their time, you aren't attracted to them or that you have done anything different in the past. If they weren't into you physically then they wouldn't have gone on a date with you. Same goes if they thought you aren't worth their time. And how is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:03 PM
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None of these points make sense. If you want to argue that telling a dude that you aren't planning anything like this is weird, fair enough. But these reasons aren't logical conclusions. This is as logical as thinking someone hates dogs because they said they like cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:55 PM
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I don't need to click this to know that it is utter bs lmao. Also my god ur account is a gold mine 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 06:17 PM
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If you are gonna put this on your profile then there is no way that people will think that you want a serious and long term relationship. It comes across as trying to trick people into a hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:26 PM
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Except men aren't slaves. Buddy this isn't comparable. This is just utter stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:41 AM
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Also just no. Just because I have not been on two subreddits doesn't mean that I have not seen or heard any red pill material.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 10:02 PM
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Can you point directly to where on these sub reddits it claims this? Also it was a question, not a gotcha lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 09:57 PM
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Okay if that is the case can you show me where they are saying that dudes are rapists by nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 09:45 PM
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Coming from a dude m8.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 09:35 PM
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This dude is arguing that it is easy to become misogynistic because women have it easier when it comes to dating and because some do porn. He even said that he genuinely agreed with people who thought this rhetoric because in his mind women have it better. I am sorry but him being misogynistic himself is insanely likely. Almost guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:26 PM
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Then I misunderstood you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:23 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:18 PM
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That isn't misogyny. It just isn't nice. Someone who does porn is close enough as a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:18 PM
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So. Let me get this right. It is easier to hate an entire group of people nowadays. Because some do porn and most have it a bit easier when it comes to dating? What is this absolutely insanely stupid take? I am sorry but if you hate women over this then you simply aren't a rational and mature person. Coming to this conclusion requires so much mental gymnastics it hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:01 PM
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Do you know the definition of the word "usually"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:07 PM
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And those people usually don't use Tinder for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:03 PM
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It's just a term people used for being friends after being rejected. That's it. Nothing more, nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:01 PM
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Women who say that they look at people's bio do so. That doesn't mean that they all do it. It's really not that hard to understand. Just because one girl rejects so many dudes so quickly doesn't mean every woman does this. That being said obviously your pictures are gonna do most of the work. It's fucking Tinder. An app mainly used for casual hookups. Why would someone care much about someones personality if they only want to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:55 PM
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It does. But it just isn't serious. They don't want anything more than a friendship that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:34 PM
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Yes people in the friendzone can be used. But the same goes for people in the friendzone desperately trying to change the other party's mind. But in most cases someone just gets rejected and that's it. And it's on them if they don't want to be friends or want to do stuff like hang out 1 on 1. Also most of the time no one is forcing you to pay for their stuff. This definitely falls on you as an individual not the other way around. I definitely have sympathy if someone legit gets used. But this de…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:24 PM
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Yes. But usually people don't wait months between dates. Quantity usually doesn't have a huge drop off. Which definitely is different from quality. Which more regularly varies in an impactful way. If the quantity or quality is abysmal then obviously nothing will happen (with some exceptions). In most cases when someone is a legit candidate both these things aren't bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:18 PM
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You don't understand the difference between something that is okay, great or amazing? Your future isn't looking bright.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:59 PM
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Exactly. Although there is a fair point about not wanting to date someone who just isn't able to make time. If someone can never go on dates, then you will probably move on to look for someone who does have time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:38 PM
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Okay? But that doesn't mean that you click with certain people better than others. You measure this through quality. Not how often they are available.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:32 PM
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Bad dates are out of the question. The comparison is you having a lot of okay dates vs a handful of amazing dates. The latter is way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:21 PM
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Measure what? Because if you are talking about compatibility then no, that will always be quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:14 PM
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It's really not that unheard of. Especially if you factor in how often and many people fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:01 PM
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You know that birth control isn't perfect right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:14 PM
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hmmmm you might be correct because the red pill has changed significantly from what it once was. Still your dad doesn't lead to begin with. And using two disfunctional people as an example on how relationships should work is abysmal. Stop using ur parents as an example for anything relating to this. That being said. I do agree that neither men or women should automatically lead. In most cases it should be divided unless one taking charge works best for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 11:36 AM
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First of all how is this a red pill talking point? This literally has nothing to do with it. Second of all don't use your parents as an example. Because you brought up this exact same situation a few days ago, and admitted that they were both absolute idiots in this situation. Your mother didn't check if they had the funds and also didn't check it with the person who "should know it". You didn't bring up this additional information back then, deleted the post and now suddenly try to run with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 11:24 AM
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I mean no one will disagree with this right? Like cmon surely not. This is the most water is wet type post I have probably read here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 10:08 PM
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Depends. In some cases probably, in others not. But they definitely don't like that they are virgins. So it is an effective insult most of the time. Even if they rationalize it as it being the fault of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:51 PM
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Its an insult. Not necessarily used against incels. If someone identifies as it why would be they offended? It's more that other people don't want to be labeled as such. Although in this case incels definitely will be offended, because they are most often ashamed of the fact that they are. Them being called a virgin would do the exact same thing in this situation. For a normal person it wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:46 PM
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Dude it's currently one of the most popular online insults. This has literally nothing to do with feminism. You truly are obsessed. I am not in the mood to go off topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:14 PM
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What are you talking about? Most people that use the term incel aren't feminist to begin with. How obsessed are you with feminism that you are turning a random conversation about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:07 PM
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Doesn't matter. In this instance it is an insult and not the actual thing. The image paired with it in itself is just insanely sad and pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:05 PM
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It definitely is a part of it but definitely not the entire picture. It is mainly to point out that they are a loser. Because the image that gets sketeched in most peoples their mind when they hear incel. Some extremely over/under weight dude, in the basement of their mom. Surrounded by filth. And being insanely hatefull and bitter against the world and primary women. Because they can't get laid when that is their ultimate goal. All while having no friends and probably no job. Hence why this is …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:34 PM
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Yes but the emotion of lust will dissipate when you are no longer horney. Which will be resolved by masterbaiting. Also to go off topic a bit. These are not the only emotions that people have to suppress in public. The best example is anger. If I get angry with someone and want to bash their skull in. Then obviously I need to control myself. This is just part of being a functional member of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:03 PM
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Not necessarily. I can say from personal experience that it isn't. But even if it is. That isn't the same as the emotions you were talking about in your post. You were very much talking about lust and the feeling of horniness. Which both gets resolved by masterbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:45 PM
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Yes. Because his post is about how women as a whole behave. Just, no. And yes again. He is making stuff up about an entire group of people. Because of a few bad encounters. Your reading comprehension skill is absolutely abysmal. Try again dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:56 AM
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This entire post is made with the assumption that men don't have an outlet and need to suppress these emotions. They simply don't. No one is gonna stop you from masterbaiting when you are home. Nothing needs to be changed. And men being overrun with these emotions is a very bad excuse for being bad in bed. Especially when your point is that they don't care about the other party involved. I am sorry but if you are only gonna focus on your own pleasure, then you shouldn't be surprised that the oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:46 AM
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I love that you are saying "your experiences aren't the entire fucking world" when that is literally what I am saying. I am not claiming that he has experienced this. I am saying that this doesn't reflect all women. Learn how to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 11:28 AM
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Nothing is stopping you from doing so. Its a free market, go nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 07:46 PM
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Your friends sound awful. I have never witnessed this within my friend group and people where I am close enough with to hear these things. Except if the person venting is at fault, and people know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 07:44 PM
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And thus you rather side with the gf of your friend? Over your friend? The one you probably know a lot better?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 07:41 PM
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Fuck yeah m8! That is fucking dope! Keep that shit up! Also don't get discouraged if you remain a single for a while. Things take time. And people move at different speeds. But I legit have no doubt that you will end up just fine. Good luck out there!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:55 PM
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What consent? Maybe saying no? That is this about. He is offended and is trying to argue that this is misstreatment. This is text book manipulation. He is just trying to argue in favor of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:46 PM
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No it isn't and the fact that this is the point you are making says enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:43 PM
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I have literally said for the first comment what people are arguing. Thats where we continued our conversation. Just like how I told you that your post is correct. But that is not what people are mainly sperging about. Thats it. But hey lets stop circling about this topic. Have a great day m8.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:38 PM
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Yes I can. Because mine is grounded within the concept of concent. Unlike the one he is arguing which is grounded in manipulating people into rape. Thats literally it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:36 PM
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No, it objectivly isn't. And I already know that you can't make any argument to back it. All you want is to manipulate women in doing certain sexual acts with you. Thats it. Everyone can see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:34 PM
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Buddy. I answered you in the first line of my comment. There is indeed no problem with this. But people on this sub reddit aren't arguing this. Just look at this comment Np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1i50rvp/comment/m80smiu/. This is what people have been arguing for the past few weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:33 PM
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No it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:27 PM
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Thats fine. Leave her. Do everyone a favor. But that is not what people here are arguing over. They are crying that she said no.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:23 PM
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Not sleeping with you on the first date is treating you worse. Not wanting anal sex with you is treating you worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:21 PM
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Buddy 3 people in a random subreddit doesn't reflect anyone. These animals are a vast minority. Some people want to legalize canibalism. Who cares about these 20 weirdos. Do you know what rape is? You are literally arguing that people need to put up with stuf they don't concent to. Because these people aren't arguing about seeing their partner change over time. They are arguing that they are entitled to stuff like anal sex, because they did it with their ex. Do I need to spell it out to you, how…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:19 PM
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Yes it is common sense that it doesn't matter why someone doesn't want to do something. They said no thats the answer. That is it the topic is off the table. Unless there is a contract that they can't back out on. Or they got paid to do the job and can't manage to retrieve it. Or if it is a legal matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:06 PM
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I am not. But this is common sense. If someone doesn't want to do something they shouldn't need to unless there is a damn good reason for it. Being on a date or in a relationship with someone isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:43 PM
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No. virtually no one is arguing this. This is like karma farming on this site with saying "guys I think rape is bad". No shit, people know. This isn't controversial. And no. It doesn't change if it was 20 years or a few weeks. There is a reason why she doesn't want to do it anymore. Because she doesn't want to Why are you arguing that people should do something they don't want? And within the context of sexual favor, you are practically promoting rape. Do you know what no means? Whats left to di…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:41 PM
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No. That isn't a disclaimer. I am ignoring it because it contradicts everything before it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:32 PM
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No one is arguing against this. People are construding this into things like demanding women to fuck them on the first date and doing certain sexual acts, because they have done it in the past with others. That is something that people rightfully are critisizing because it is nuts. If someone doesn't want to do it then they don't want to do it. The fact that they have done x, y or z in the past shouldn't matter. If you want those things out of your relationship that is fine. But then you have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:20 PM
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Not really. You can clearly see way too many dudes within this sub which she is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:25 PM
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Also honestly dude ur fine. Just make sure you're moving upwards in life. However that looks for you. Make sure to socialize with people and if you are vibing with someone you are interested in shoot your shot. I wouldn't dwell too much on this. It's not gonna do you any good. And if you are a normal dude things will eventually turn out fine. That is if you put yourself into the right positions for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:16 PM
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That's the same of what most dudes here are for. But that doesn't make people automatically sexist. She often has very faulty opinions. But it doesn't equate to hating most or even all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:13 PM
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I get that. But your views on how hookups work doesn't change by the rest of the stuff you have commented.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:11 PM
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Okay? But this changes nothing from what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:01 PM
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I can tell you that the vast majority of hookups happen while people are intoxicated. No one thinks anything off it, what you are saying is the most reddit thing I have ever read.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:49 PM
1

Or maybe I just know my friends lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:27 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:45 AM
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This is just buzzwords galore. No it is not lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:32 AM
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Thats because most of them are super relegious and it is very much stigmatized to divorce. It has nothing to do with the n-count it self.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:32 AM
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