Fair-Court-5505 Archive

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–	Another blue pill lie: The romanticization of "blended families" Eh- your post is exactly why I radically accepted being single for life after divorce 💁🏽. In the earlier years, I’d always say, “no one buys a video game that has already been started, one you can’t reset and start over- just have to pick up wherever the last player left off”. That sucks to many. I appreciate the media trying to normalize it for those who still have hope. As divorce rates are rising. But realistically everything is a little drama and two people making a choice. For me- single is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 09:27 PM
–	It doesnt make sense to believe both that women cannot change their mind about how attractive you are immediately after meeting AND that women lose the ability to pair bond with each person they have sex with. The “women with high body counts can’t pair bond” myth is just repackaged purity culture with bad science. Bonding depends on intent, not your sex history. People grow, change, and pair bond all the time—when they want to. Oxytocin, a bonding hormone, is released during sex (especially for people with vaginas), but bonding isn’t automatic. It depends on context, feelings, intention, and psychological readiness. Having sex without emotional intent (like FWB or casual hookups) doesn’t “damage” the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 09:08 PM
–	It doesnt make sense to believe both that women cannot change their mind about how attractive you are immediately after meeting AND that women lose the ability to pair bond with each person they have sex with. Women can pair bond sexually. It’s a choice. Her body count doesn’t matter. Example- a smart woman isn’t going to pair bond with a FWB- that doesn’t even make sense. Let’s say her body count is 20- but it’s because she had a ton of FWB situations. Then she finds a guy who wants to be with her- she will likely pair bond with him because he wants her and has made it clear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 09:04 PM
–	It doesnt make sense to believe both that women cannot change their mind about how attractive you are immediately after meeting AND that women lose the ability to pair bond with each person they have sex with. I’ve had situations like this- if a man is perceived off limits- I may think they’re nice looking but keep it at bay. Like there’s a boundary. If that man is single, not a coworker, and shows interest- I remove the boundary and my attraction grows because I allow it to. It’s sortve like what men go through when they’re trying to control themselves around a woman they really like. . . The play it cool mindset.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 09:02 PM
1	Dysfunctional women are desirable because they have low standards. What makes you dysfunctional?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 08:36 PM
1	Dysfunctional women are desirable because they have low standards. Agreed. A chick fil a date is for established relationships and friendships lol. Unless we go on a hike and then grab some afterward. Sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 08:35 PM
–	Men need to wake up, women were never truly attracted to you like you thought Never in my life would I have thought that I could agree with something a red pill man has said. Alas. Congratulations	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 12:07 AM
-2	Escorts are the best option for undesirable men So you’re comfortable knowing that it’s not real? You’re comfortable being manipulated?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 01:03 AM
1	What are the real tangible examples of society becoming anti male? 😐	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/25 03:38 PM
2	Women don’t care about cars. And past a certain age you should know that. Agreed. The car isn’t your identity. If it’s nice that’s great. However. If it’s clean- more bonus points lol. It could be a 99 civic and still look nice because it’s clean.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/25 04:07 PM
5	How do you vett men for hookups and long term relationships Is he sexually compatible. Simple. This can be determined via conversation. If he passes conversational cues. Then the whole “am I attracted to him” comes into play. If he passes that Then we shag. If we shag and it’s good for both of us- He’s now added to the roster as a rookie. After a month or 2 if he’s still good- is doing it well- he’s now a sole FWB- after I ask directly if that’s what he wants. (That was my process- I don’t actively seek FWB’s because I’m old) For men who were in the proc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/25 10:42 PM
2	The average dude is creep profiled even before he approaches or expresses interest in a woman Good point. Thanks for explaining that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/25 07:24 PM
2	The average dude is creep profiled even before he approaches or expresses interest in a woman Why are men so obsessed with being average? What’s wrong with average ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/25 12:37 AM
2	I am tired of people pretending there are no drawbacks to having kids later in life Also- the older you are. The higher chances the child will be autistic. Look at the data. It’s in the numbers and undeniable 🥹😳😳	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/25 12:36 AM
1	Telling men to have more friendships with woman is misleading because women treat friendships and dating the same I mean, I don’t argue if there is more truth to a statement. The nuances can remain. Overall. I can be civil and accept valid criticism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/25 12:35 AM
1	Telling men to have more friendships with woman is misleading because women treat friendships and dating the same Touché.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 03:43 AM
3	Out of all the men you meet in your day to day life how often do you meet a guy that you actually like? And why do most men not do it for you? If a man shows that he has his own mindset- isn’t lost in societal games. Isn’t seeking external validation. I’m going to be interested and want to get to know him more. You can tell by conversing with a man if he’s an “warm bodied individual” or a NPC. It’s not about his status, what car he drives etc. It’s .. you can just tell. Hard to explain. Best way I can explain is- when a man can civilly disagree with you, or correct you. That’s a good sign.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 03:28 AM
1	I don’t think men are “intimidated” by strong independent women Idk. Some men won’t be intimidated with high earning women- BUT will be petty and passive aggressive if the woman makes more money. Like jealousy, resentment, competition.. Some men will cheat on that woman for “power” or mistreat her. I’ve seen this happen frequently with high earners. The guy from manTalks on YouTube explained the dynamic - it’s mostly ego driven. It’s like they want to knock her down a peg. Or “put her in her place”	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 03:15 AM
0	I don’t think men are “intimidated” by strong independent women Username checks out	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/25 03:00 AM
1	Men and women don't really need each other anymore Well written, of course we dont need each other anymore.. but most of us still want each other. Some people even love the idea of being wanted, and hate the idea of being needed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 06:30 AM