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| 8 | Why is it 2nd Marriages Fail Even More Than the 1st?Half of all marriages end in divorce. BUT, only 33% of ppl who get married ever get divorced. So, SOME people get married, divorced, married again, divorced again, married again, etc. That skews that statistics. Second marriage, 60% chance of divorce. Third marriage, 70% chance of divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/08/26 01:47 AM |
| 1 | My ex's boyfriend thinks he can discipline our teenage children and that he has parental authority over my kids.Varies by state, but in my state the judge is required by law to consider the child's wishes at age of 13. A friend had a son who refused go to mom's house at age of 15. Mom called the cops. Cops confirmed that Dad was allowing the kid to go and the cops said they cannot force the boy to moms. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/26 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Got everything figured out with Finance. We just disagree on custody.In many states, if you have 50 / 50 custody, you owe zero child support. Is she fighting for the kids or is she fighting to get a peice of your paycheck? | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/10/25 04:28 AM |
| 3 | STBX is trying to keep all the pets. We had originally agreed to split them up...Let her keep it to free yourself. I understand the sadness and the sense of true loss, but it is better for you to get to the end and move on. But... put up a big pretense of a fight. If you cave early, she will pick something else to go to war over. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/25 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Future Inheritance and potential divorce questionVaries by state. In my state, law is VERY clear that inheritance is yours and yours alone. With caveats. If you move to a joint account ... then it belongs to both. If you use that money to support the family ( or her) then she may have a claim. Give her access, like an ATM card, pay her bills, give her an allowance with this money, pay the mortgage on the family home, she may have a claim. But, again, rules vary by state. ... and if she hires a crafty lawyer, her lawyer may still take a crack a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/07/25 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Divorce rates in reality seem off from the commonly cited 50% statisticMOST people who get married do not get divorced. Of those people who do get married, some people get married and divorced and married and divorced and so on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/09/24 03:14 PM |
| 4 | Divorce rates in reality seem off from the commonly cited 50% statisticIn other words, MOST people do not get divorced. But, some People get married and divorced multiple times. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/09/24 12:26 PM |
| 7 | On deed ,on mortgage & refinance questionI would NOT sign the deed until the mortgage was removed. If you do sign, you will lose any interest in the property but still be liable for the debt. If MY attorney advised me otherwise, I would likely follow MY attorney's advice, but barring that advice, I would not sign | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/12/23 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Loan assumption-Optional to sign or divorce decree boundFair enough | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/23 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Loan assumption-Optional to sign or divorce decree boundEither be a really nice guy and sign OR ..... Is there something else she gor that you wanted? You can use it as a bargaining chip, but I probably would not. If you are bitter, don't sign. If not, sign and move on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/23 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Loan assumption-Optional to sign or divorce decree boundIs this a document from the lender??? Or just something she/her lawyer created? | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/23 12:40 AM |
| – | Confused after EPO by wife in TexasPretend you want to reconcile and get her to admit she made shit up. Get it in text or email. Then file for divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/23 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Ex fighting me on paying half for kid’s bracesSometimes you can throw money at a problem. Just pay out of pocket, send her a written request for compensation, and accept that you are paying for it. Keep records, and if she ever drags back in court, use that opportunity to ask the judge to make her pay jer share. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/23 11:41 PM |
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