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I think the problem is bigger than simply who is attractive and who is not, because even attractive people in Gen Z struggle socially, and no amount of handsome will solve a socially awkward person. I myself know many conventionally attractive guys and girls who have never dated, more guys than girls tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:31 AM
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Communicated boundaries? With someone I have never before communicated with? Socially we are only allowed to make ourselves uncomfortable, if you make others uncomfortable that is called harassment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:32 AM
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Did these corrupt bankers happen to be expelled from 109 countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:37 AM
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well thats what flirting essentially is. you risk making someone feel awkward or uncomfortable and its 2025, we cant do that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:22 AM
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yeah but we cant just go around making people uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:08 AM
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it ca still rub someone the wrong way. Let's say you just make a perfectly family friendly kid friendly joke, nothing sexual, that can be taken the wrong way, if you wink that can be taken the wrong way. At the very least it will make the girl uncomfortable or awkward. Flirting is dead
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 11:51 PM
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also forgot to mention, anything that is considered flirting can also be considered harassment. You know how it is with the flirting vs harassment memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 11:31 PM
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And not everyone parties Do you know any place I can meet people without it being a bar a club or a party?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:44 PM
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I don’t drink I don’t want a partner who drinks I don’t like environments where there is alcohol I don’t like being around people who are drinking You seriously saying that without alcohol and parties that forming relationships is impossible? And I can confidently say I’m not gonna meet the type of girl I want at a party or a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:19 PM
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I don’t drink nor do I want a partner who drinks, nor do I enjoy being around those under the influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:17 PM
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Well I’m not trying to hookup. I want something meaningful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:09 PM
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I do not enjoy the company of people under the influence. Also I said partying is poison for the soul. No parties ok. Not one person has ever been able to give me a genuine solution that doesn’t involve alcohol or an environment that has alcohol in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:34 PM
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Ok the commuter school part I can’t do much about I don’t drink and I frown upon bars and parties. Partying is poison for the soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:30 PM
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From my observations it appears to be that way. I have never seen a man complain about being approached or creepy women. Women have complained extensively about being approached and creeps. That is what I meant. My post is simply what I have observed in Gen z first hand as a part of Gen z myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:29 PM
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I’m at a commuter school And I don’t drink or go to parties bars or clubs, partying is poison for the soul. Also I’m a junior right now, studying mechanical engineering.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:27 PM
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Answer the question Did people meet each other without cold approaches before the internet or did they not Also every weekend? I don’t go to bars clubs or parties and nor do I drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:50 AM
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And now you’ve resorted to childish insults Tell me, did people or did people not meet each other without cold approaching before the internet? It’s always Reddit warriors like you who defend the cold approach with every cell in their body because they know without it they have no social ability to connect with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:44 AM
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I tried to make it more social, nobody wants to be social, the moment classes end everyone is just racing to go home
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:42 AM
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You’re telling me before the internet that cold approaching was the one and only way people met each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:36 AM
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Yeah I get that, I just want to at least be acquainted and meet someone more naturally in person before I make a move
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:20 AM
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In a third place you don’t go in like you hunting for a girlfriend. You meet people organically and you find someone you vibe with, and it just happens naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:14 AM
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I said nothing about myself Why does everything always default to the assumption that the guy is unattractive Cold approaching was demonized for 2 decades, and cold approaching is not something I wanna do, I don’t want to just ask out strangers and make it a numbers game, I want to get to meet someone organically and find “the one”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:05 AM
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But you said I need to be chris hensworth
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 08:03 AM
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But if I’m not Chris hemsworth why you tell me to cold approach then
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:56 AM
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Appreciate it brother, thank you, wishing you the best as well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:54 AM
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I’m a dude bro. What I’m saying is no more cold approaches but also no “third places” to meet anymore Men can’t approach Women won’t approach because their minds are stuck there Add phones and headphones to the equation And you get an ever isolated generation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:53 AM
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Still not acceptable to approach women tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:51 AM
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I know everyone wants the top partner, but when it comes to cold approach, I ain’t no Chris hemsworth, so what makes u think I’m getting a yes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:50 AM
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I think it’s the opposite Creeps are still approaching Civilized men who are good arent
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:48 AM
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That’s too 0.0001% dudes. Let’s have a realistic talk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:47 AM
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Well I’m a mechanical engineering student and a college wrestler, so in my experience at least, whoever made the rumour that athletes and guys in high income degrees get girls is a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:34 AM
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Bro I ain’t trying to get into a relationship just for the sake of being in one. I put a lot of thought and analysis into the girl I choose to make a move on and I only make a move if my pattern recognition and profiling says that yes she could be the one. Think of it like a machine gunner vs a sniper.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:31 AM
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I don’t want a partner who drinks, I’m not a night life type of person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:50 AM
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Well I wouldn’t say I’m average, I’m above average on height (not 6 ft though) and I’m a college athlete, I’m well groomed, I dress well, but damn I got a black pilled friend, does it really just come down to being a top 1% guy with model like looks and 6ft height because I know tons of guys that aren’t any of that and are in a happy relationship with wonderful young lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:49 AM
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Idk bout everyone else but if I were to cold approach, I wouldn’t do more than one a month max, realistically far less than that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:45 AM
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Alright then let’s look at it like this, Whats the success rate on cold approaches? I’m not gonna spam cold approaches if I was gonna approach, I’m doing one approach a month max, realistically less than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:39 AM
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I frown upon such a lifestyle Also, religious reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:51 AM
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Well yeah that would be good, but it ain’t gonna happen, so cold approaches are a no go and women won’t approach, we are back at square one
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:49 AM
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Don’t Wanna Be Labelled A Creep
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:46 AM
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Well I’m no Henry cavil and neither is 90% of the male population. I’m not 6 feet but I’m close, but close only matters in horseshoes and hand grenades, and most dudes aren’t 6 ft either, so then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:44 AM
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But what about all the stuff about women saying they don’t want to be approached for the past two decades
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:41 AM
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Im a guy who respects other peoples space, this world doesn’t belong to me Cold approaches are a thing of the past, you gonna be seen as creepy if you do then today
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:09 AM
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Whats with everyone else’s university’s being social hubs while mean feels like solitary confinement I’m at a commuter school but it shouldn’t be this bad
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:04 AM
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I’m in the same boat so idk why you asking me brother, but cold approaches are long gone and ain’t ever coming back I would recommend you something, but honestly idek bro, we both dying alone Welcome to the club
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:03 AM
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Not one dude I know at my university cold approaches ever, idk what world you living in but here it don’t happen. Women have made it clear they don’t want to be approached. Do you seriously think walking up to a stranger chatting them up and trying to get their number is a good idea? Ever heard of stranger danger? You can’t just go about disrupting people’s days while they’re getting groceries or studying on campus or eating or walking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:02 AM
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What kinda university are you at, cuz mine is the exact opposite, nobody social and you see maybe 2 couples a day max I’m also at a commuter school so maybe that’s why but still
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 04:57 AM
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Only in bars/clubs/parties Irl don’t go about disrupting people’s days to try and get their number
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 04:55 AM
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Imo, going up to a random stranger while they going about their day and chatting them up and trying to get their number is inherently creepy no matter how respectfully you do it. You are being disruptive, the lady is not there to be approached, she is there to do XYZ.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 04:54 AM
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Well in my university, there is very little socializing in general, and far less between guys and girls. Guys stick to guys and girls stick to girls. I’m also at a commuter school so maybe that’s part of the equation and is skewing my observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 04:52 AM
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Well I’m a university student, and my observation is that nobody here really likes to talk to each other that much, and an overwhelming number of guys here are single (myself included) and some of these guys I see and wonder how the fuck is he single, and some guys I see with a girlfriend and I think how the fuck did that happen. Ykwim. Also, cold approaching is gone, to go disrupt someone’s day, especially when that someone is a stranger minding their own business to chat them up and get their …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 04:51 AM
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But here’s one thing, society lacks a “third place” and cold approaching is a thing of the past. Simply being a hygienic and somewhat attractive man isn’t going to do you anything on its own as the pipelines to meet people are gone (unless you count apps but apps are straight nightmare fuel)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 04:47 AM
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I’m a university student and the social environment around me is all the guys sit together and all the girls usually sit together, and people rarely talk to each other. I’m also an engineering student so maybe we all just trying to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 04:44 AM
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