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Jordan Peterson respects women so I'm guessing they are going by sound bites.
/r/MensRights09/04/22 06:52 PM
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I hope this one actually passes trials and goes well in human bodies. Fingers crossed.
/r/MensRights25/03/22 10:30 PM
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I'm confused. Calling the police would do. Also, he's not anywhere near her so she could have told him to call if that's what she wanted. Men should not be obligated to risk their lives for a stranger. I would not risk my life for a stranger, either. The only time I would is if I know I have a good chance, but here there's no context whatsoever. For all they know, they could've been shot or something. And if her female friend was among them (?) what did she do exactly?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/03/22 05:01 PM
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You're welcome!
/r/MensRights21/03/22 01:29 AM
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Wow. I'm so sorry that happened to you. Wish I were there to defend you. I just mentioned this to my sis today about her shirt having an entire news article over her tits so obviously people are going to look directly at her tits (she doesn't care at all because she's not psycho btw). I don't even understand why other women get offended at anyone looking at their breasts. There's nothing perverse about gazing at the human form of an adult. I realize that's not what you were doing at all in this …
/r/MensRights20/03/22 11:53 PM
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I'm not refuting it at all. I agreed with the chart and thanked you for sharing it more than once. I explained it more than once. I was grateful for the chart and said we should all look at things like this. But in regards to the meme that it is under, I made the distinction that both sexes in the meme would be dealing with everything if they were in a single or non hetero or poly relationship. At no time did I argue with you or deny the facts of the chart. I even plussed up two of your comments…
/r/MensRights19/03/22 09:21 PM
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Yes, exactly. And I'm linking the article to the original post that you decided to add it under. For single people, the meme changes and those stats don't matter. Not sure why the endless snark but ok.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 06:11 AM
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lol yes, but many people are single and some rare folks are polyamorus. I just wanted to add the disclaimer in so I didn't seem to be ignoring the others. But like I said, I appreciate the info. I think people need to be exposed to statistics instead of just making wild guesses due to personal anecdotes.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 06:00 AM
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Oof.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 05:47 AM
1

This is the thing that always gets overlooked. Single men don't just all live in filth and squalor eating Twinkies all day.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 05:45 AM
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Helpful, thanks. *When it comes to hetero couples.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 05:45 AM
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18 is not a teen how? The word teen is in the number. Besides that, it's fine if we disagree. I didn't mind this and I'd like more people to be concerned about the wellbeing of teens, not just female ones though.
/r/MensRights07/03/22 11:04 PM
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Thank you for admitting that. In a shit mood due the subject matter, but no excuse. I hope you can forgive my harsh tone with you. Thanks.
/r/MensRights07/03/22 10:50 PM
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Not good enough? False. I said immediately, it's on me to get away or curse the guy out. I'd rather do that. Why do I need to call the cops? My bf is not being hurt. If I answered, "My boyfriend needs to do something and I'm not calling the cops," your reply would stand. But it doesn't because that's not what I fucking said. I never said a man should beat up anyone. The fact that you assumed that as my expectation when it's not mentioned by me at all, ever, is your problem and not mine. I do not…
/r/MensRights07/03/22 10:22 PM
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wtf? There is no dead or hurt bf in my scenario. Protecting my feelings? You mean my sanity? I ended up suicidal with everything that happened and had little support from those that were closest. Sexual assault and the trauma that comes with presenting to strangers isn't something to dismiss. What do I need to protect my bf from in this situation? Reread OP AND my comment. I never said that a man had to do anything in this situation. Is there a part of my comment that is unclear? Please point it…
/r/MensRights07/03/22 10:08 PM
1

Ah, yes. I assume you use that argument when people speak against all forms of fgm, including those that do not remove the ability of pleasure. Because you can't possiby be a hypocrite who cannot put two and two together. You are the most disingenuous person I have had the misfortune of speaking to. I was very clear and gave multiple examples. Unnecessarily removing body parts is not and will never be on the same level as diaper changing and you damn mother fucking well know it. How long did it …
/r/MensRights07/03/22 09:57 PM
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As someone that has been assaulted, the process of calling the cops and everything is more traumatizing than just getting away from the person or cursing them out and hoping it's deterrent enough for them to leave you alone. I had to sit in a closed room alone with a male officer describing in great and specific detail what occurred after I was just assaulted by a man. I was terrified. It's worse when it finally gets to court, you will have to stand in front of a room full of strangers there for…
/r/MensRights07/03/22 09:12 PM
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International Women's Day is good to celebrate. International Men's Day is also good to celebrate. Through I completely understand the frustration when it rolls around, as you can't help but be reminded of how differently these days are viewed.
/r/MensRights07/03/22 08:21 PM
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Avoiding the point of how your other comments go against MRAs in entirety when you dismissed this as an unimportant issue. Agency. Bodily autonomy. The same rights in the West women have and continue to make known when it comes to our personal body. Your "I had it, I'm fine" comments are dismissive of the entire movement and are exactly what we need society to stop telling men-"It happened, you're fine, get over it." If you can apply this logic to the a male body without his consent, then why no…
/r/MensRights07/03/22 08:17 PM
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You called them crazy. Not just these. You said the majority have "lost touch with reality" which is once again, calling them crazy. Point blank. Why can't you take an insult when you expect them to? Let me guess. No answer. Because you haven't given anyone an answer to anything. You only deflect. My comment on this article was in agreement with not using fake blood or theatrics yet I avoided insulting the movement or, more importantly, going against exactly what being an MRA is all about- male …
/r/MensRights07/03/22 07:50 PM
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You were rude to them before I even lifted my finger. Everything I wrote pointed out what's wrong with everything you said and was informative, regardless of your disregard of it. You have not shared any info yourself, however. Just your own personal anecdotes used to insult an entire group of protestors, as shown in the article, you have not communicated with as opposed to an individual. You. And you're still replying with what I have already refuted and claiming none of it is of interest. I fo…
/r/MensRights07/03/22 07:35 PM
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It's a public forum. My comments are not to be read by just you, remember? They're there and completely fleshed out for a reason. Let me guess, you got to "a" and dropped out? Congratulations. Oh but what's that? You'll still respond with a meaningless reply that has nothing to do with what was said? Or will you go radio silent this time to stick it to me? Either way, lol.
/r/MensRights07/03/22 07:27 PM
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It wasn't just insults, but instead of taking the 60s to read it, you'd rather keep complaining that it even exists. If you don't want a well written rebuttal then, pro-tip, respond to no one. You have made the same limp argument in every comment yet refuse to read everything I have said in my last comment that show you how hypocritical it is. You still think you're saying something, when your words are hollow due to your own comments. I did not and have not contracted myself. You have. You clea…
/r/MensRights07/03/22 07:22 PM
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I read all of your garbage. If you speak in a public forum, expect a response. I do. I responded even after I attempted to end the conversation, because if someone responds after that, I do have the decency to reply even if I think they're an idiot. And I also take the time to actually reply to what they specifically have written instead of simply quoting them and whinging. You're welcome.
/r/MensRights07/03/22 07:08 PM
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This isn't surprising. You're an idiot. You respond but don't have the decency to read. I guess because you're lacking the skills I already mentioned.
/r/MensRights07/03/22 07:03 PM
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Projecting the issues I have with you onto me? Cute. To disown a non-consensual and medically unnecessary, in most cases, removal of any part of the human body IS morally correct. I am fine with others seeing my comments. Unless they too have an issue with reading into context as you seem to, they'll also be fine. This is a public platform and as I said, my public comments to you ALL stand. You do nothing for this particular movement above except shame those who are trying to change something. Y…
/r/MensRights07/03/22 06:58 PM
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I already told you, what I said to you is NOT my strategy. I have been speaking on this for years prior as a feminist and have convinced everyone in my life. I'm not virtue signaling, I'm cursing you out. I feel strongly about it because I should and you don't, but you fucking clicked in here just to put down these men. For attention? Fuck you for the umpteenth time. You lack basic reading comprehension. Edited- hilariously bad autocorrect
/r/MensRights07/03/22 06:09 PM
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Yes, it does. I strongly hate anyone condoning child abuse just because they turned out fine. "My father beat me and I'm fine. Beating kids isn't something people need to stop. People protesting physical child abuse is laughable and a waste of time. Look how I turned out, I'm a normal, healthy person." ^ This is you. Understand that this is you. Then shove your bullshit morality up your ass. I owe you no kindness. Don't think because you didn't get it from me that it doesn't exist for most peopl…
/r/MensRights07/03/22 06:03 PM
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I already wrote a reasonable comment under this post and have made it more than clear that my comment to you was personal within it and now two extra times. You can keep at this if you want, but I refuse a back and forth with someone who is grandstanding about what others will think but doesn't give a shit about it himself. All my comments under this story stand as they are. Also, the fact you think my reaction to you being dismissive to a human rights violation is over the top shows the exact p…
/r/MensRights07/03/22 05:47 PM
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I'm speaking to YOU directly. You already know what's wrong with this if you're here and you ignore it. You want me to list out what you already know? Will you pay me for wasting my time? I explain it reasonably to people when I know they have not already dismissed it for idiotic personal reasons. So it's personal speech. Not generic. I don't need debate or educational lessons from you, thanks.
/r/MensRights07/03/22 05:40 PM
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For the men not understanding that this issue is mainly not about the result of the act but about the removal of human rights from either sex is disturbing. Why are you even here. That said, this issue should be spread with less theatrics. It's unnecessary to use fake blood to prove how bogus this forced removal is.
/r/MensRights07/03/22 05:37 PM
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You realize many women who undergo female genital mutilation also claim to be fine and encourage their daughters to do the same? Fuck your experience of it and fuck people wanting their kids' genitals to match theirs. The choice should be made at 18. This is not about the effect. This is about a human rights violation. Removing a child's finger nails would eventually not affect them. They would callous over. They'd still have use of their fingers. Removing a young girl's labia will not stop her …
/r/MensRights07/03/22 05:31 PM
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Seems like she was just waiting to take out her held in misandry on any man that angered her. He probably thought they were on decent terms. Blowing up out of nowhere isn't healthy for anyone. Really disturbing behavior.
/r/MensRights04/03/22 08:05 PM
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There's always someone.
/r/MensRights04/03/22 08:03 PM
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Literally both sexes are being held responsible in this situation. Neither has any humane way out now. So what they said makes sense in this context as that's exactly what they are telling women to do: avoid pregnancy or else.
/r/MensRights04/03/22 07:13 AM
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As a woman I still support it. No one should ever be forced to interact with the opposite sex on a deeper level than makes them comfortable.
/r/MensRights02/03/22 09:44 PM
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Agreed. This sub is getting ridiculous again. I'm glad there are people looking out for others. And she's a teen, not a grown woman.
/r/MensRights22/02/22 02:34 PM
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To avoid the endless guilt tripping and raging of his most likely abusive mother.
/r/MensRights12/02/22 09:33 PM
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They're more likely to believe whoever called in first in a couple. And men usually do not. Saying what you're saying will discourage men from calling at all. In a n event a stranger calls, it's a toss up depending on who looks the most stable or who has marks. I just read the actual facts about the Gabby Petito case: Look at how police gave Laundrie a fist bump while Petito was hyperventilating. The 911 caller said she saw Laundrie hitting and taking Gabby Petito's phone. But the cops showed up…
/r/MensRights11/02/22 06:19 PM
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Many feminists have vilified male sexuality and the male gaze in order to present female sexuality as superior. It's certainly not equal. This is so sad.
/r/MensRights11/02/22 05:20 AM
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If a neighbor calls and the cops show up, if neither wants to press charges or wants the cops to force the other to leave, nothing happens. Even if there are bruises, wounds, etc. on victims the male victims are much less likely to allow the cops to press charges. You can refuse that your abusive partner be arrested. Obviously, women do this too and that can eventually result in her death. But cops won't just barge in arrest anyone male or female. Not saying the system is perfect and their aren'…
/r/MensRights11/02/22 03:39 AM
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A man trying to advocate against sexual assault and sexual violence.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 10:59 PM
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I've heard police actually mention why men get taken away more often- it's based on whoever called the police first, which is usually the woman. When it comes to violence, police have noticed that men regularly refuse to press charges against a woman which leaves her to live her life without any consequences. I'm guessing this is because society has programmed many men to believe that as long as they're still upright and breathing, the abuse isn't bad enough to take legal action against. (I'm no…
/r/MensRights10/02/22 07:53 PM
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Yes, I've noticed so many young women standing up for men who are being abused in any way, like we should for each other. I love that for society.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 07:42 PM
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I understood you perfectly. Some people read too far into someone's intentions on Reddit. I appreciate the balanced perspective.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 07:44 PM
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Some is also caught on tape which helps a lot. But I agree with everything you said here regardless. Attractiveness is a big deal for men when it comes to any kind of abuse which is sad and wrong.
/r/MensRights30/01/22 07:10 PM
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He has a lot of support from both sexes.
/r/MensRights30/01/22 03:03 AM
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This is dark.
/r/MensRights21/01/22 01:13 AM
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True. It's just that people won't listen to that. It's unfortunate.
/r/MensRights19/01/22 10:10 PM
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The only solution to that would be a change in morality and also becoming a pro-life society because society paying for everyone's child support in taxes would be a massive toll on the economy and children would still end up fatherless in huge amounts. Most people would not support being pro-life or not having sex unless ready for a baby. Even I understand getting an abortion if as a woman you realize the man has lied and will not take responsibility. Or you find out how violent he is after beco…
/r/MensRights19/01/22 09:57 PM
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Idiotic that they can't see the clear difference of judgment. Honestly, I advise not to have sex with anyone you could not feasibly raise a child with, man or woman. Because this issue will never go away even if the judgment becomes the same. But that's just my old school position and no one will listen anyway. I understand being disturbed by men who take zero precautions and are happy to dodge any responsibility because that happens a lot in the black community, even if bm date out the child ab…
/r/MensRights19/01/22 09:36 PM
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THEY DON'T. I ALREADY SAID THIS MORE THAN ONCE. ffs dude. Jesus. Just because they are not gendered and I stated them as such does not mean men benefit in relationship self defense. It is valid in every other sense of self defense against males and is used fine in those situations.
/r/MensRights14/01/22 05:23 AM
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"But is effectively is not gender neutral." Is literally what I said. You literally start an argument with me over something we agree on. I mention self defense laws are written without gender BUT men effectively do NOT benefit from it regardless. I'm starting to think you are just shit posting out of boredom. There's literally NOTHING to argue about. Leave me the fuck alone.
/r/MensRights14/01/22 05:21 AM
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Nothing here was a moral debate. My definition of self defence is based on law not my inner emotions. And I defined it as it legally should be used in the court of law if judges and juries were not bias against male victims. If you want to start a country where you base laws on your emotions, go ahead. Has nothing to do with anything stated here at any point. If you want to deem US law as irrelevant, you can do that in your head. Not reality. If it were irrelevant, this sub wouldn't exist.
/r/MensRights14/01/22 05:18 AM
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It can be. But it's not. In use in court it is gendered against males and those both male.
/r/MensRights14/01/22 05:14 AM
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Manslaughter is not a verdict of complete innocence. It's a verdict of manslaughter.
/r/MensRights14/01/22 05:13 AM
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I agree it's not right. That's why I said most states with sense. But again, it does not get anyone off scot free.
/r/MensRights14/01/22 05:11 AM
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Technically it is gender neutral, sure. But it is effectively not gender neutral. Self defense is also not effectively gender neutral, but it technically is by law. My point was not that judges are unbiased in abuse cases. Or any cases for any reason. My point was listing situations that should, by law in my country, count in a relationship as self defense and an excuse to kill an attacker. And I made sure to say "person" in either situation, not woman or man.
/r/MensRights14/01/22 05:05 AM
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And I wrote this in response to you saying there are feminists who think murder in response to overall abuse is ok: "Well no one should stoop to that level to support that." I don't know how anything got miscommunicated, but I already agreed.
/r/MensRights14/01/22 04:54 AM
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Rape in most countries is defined by penetration. The gay panic defense applies to unwanted sexual advances not just someone existing as a gay person and it is banned in most states with sense. Gay panic defense has never gotten anyone a verdict of innocent after a crime in the US. It may be wrong that it ever existed, and it exists in multiple countries, but to, as a random person on the internet, decide that all U. S. Law is irrelevant to a U. S. Case and someone from the U. S. defining the la…
/r/MensRights14/01/22 04:48 AM
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The vast majority of countries do not consider rape by definition as something women can do. That has 0 to do with this case or self defense. And you cannot kill gays here and site homophobia. Are you living under a boulder somewhere? This is not a Muslim law country. Yes, I can site what's legal in America. This case is in America. Our laws are the ONLY relevant laws here.
/r/MensRights14/01/22 04:25 AM
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You have absolutely no reason to be arguing with me on this. At all. I am in a men's rights sub. I understand self defense and the two scenarios I listed were with that in mind. Nothing was about cold blooded calculated murder after a crime. Nothing even implies that I believe that's acceptable. Go argue with a feminist who believes that crap.
/r/MensRights14/01/22 04:17 AM
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I never mentioned revenge at any point. If you want to be more specific and say moment then sure. If you are being violently physically forced to stay in an area, forced to stay meaning there is literally no way to leave and you are being attacked in order to stay, any kill in this situation is also legally self defense where I am from. That is an imminent threat that you could assume will escalate. It being an accident or not is irrelevant to me and the law. Any murderous retaliation against an…
/r/MensRights14/01/22 04:10 AM
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The comment I responded to was specifically about karma, not the case. I never said she was an angel. You are reading into my comment things that don't exist. I did not defend either her, the murder victim who was proven abusive, or him the murder suspect. I merely pointed out the incongruity of abuse and murder. And if being violently physically forced to remain in an area you are trying to leave or being severely beaten on the day of the incident is not self defence, then what the hell is?
/r/MensRights14/01/22 03:38 AM
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The two scenarios I listed were self defence. And I never said anything about her being a victim. She just isn't the possible murderer.
/r/MensRights14/01/22 03:25 AM
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Well no one should stoop to that level to support that. Unless there is proof that the person of either sex attempted to leave yet was physically forced or violently threatened to stay, or was severely battered previously and on the date of the murder. This guy wasn't severely battered. So I have the same opinion here I'd have of a woman doing this-not warranted.
/r/MensRights14/01/22 02:06 AM
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No. Hitting someone and murdering someone are not equal crimes.
/r/MensRights14/01/22 12:54 AM
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Very true, well said.
/r/MensRights30/12/21 09:24 PM
2

Sarcasm aside then, for any man who does this, these are the actual consequences: It would leave you with a domestic abuse charge and f your life up because you could be in jail for an entire year depending. You would also have a hard time being hired anywhere and be ostracized by your friends and family. Any children you have or will have could be taken from you and given to their mother as full custody.
/r/MensRights30/12/21 09:20 PM
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Yes. I know where we are. If you have been here for years like I have, you would understand how ridiculous your statement is. Everyone here knows legally men can not defend themselves physically to that degree against a woman and not go to jail even when fully warranted. And if you're being sarcastic, add an /s.
/r/MensRights30/12/21 09:03 PM
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You would go to jail no questions asked. They won't even care if she started it. Not very bright.
/r/MensRights30/12/21 07:18 PM
0

I understand. I suppose I just disliked the phrasing as it can imply something deeper.
/r/MensRights18/12/21 05:09 PM
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Harassment is harassment. She's conflating it with the joke of innocent flirtation from a man deemed attractive vs. innocent flirtation from a man deemed unattractive. An attractive man who doesn't take a firm no for an answer and genuinely starts harassing a woman is not brushed off as ok.
/r/MensRights18/12/21 12:52 AM
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Great take. The problem is constantly ignoring biology as a way of "progressing". I don't understand supporting that bs now but having issue with it at any other time.
/r/MensRights17/12/21 12:52 AM
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Two things can be true at once. There are atrocities against women and men. There doesn't need to be any division in human suffering. The criminal justice system is a sham for everyone, unfortunately. If you are in a feminist sub, you'll see constant crimes against women highlighted and here it's the reverse. But they all occur.
/r/MensRights05/12/21 05:05 PM
3

Wow. I had no idea about those stats.
/r/MensRights02/12/21 06:20 PM
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Vile society we live in where that is an excuse.
/r/MensRights01/12/21 01:36 AM
2

I know his was more light-hearted, but still surprised to see him there. I don't think he's an asshole though.
/r/MensRights30/11/21 01:20 AM
2

Yep. Hopefully we get to that point soon and people stop denying that we are different.
/r/MensRights24/11/21 08:35 PM
1

I'm glad you found someone who understands you as a man and men as a whole. Reminds me of how we women always want someone to hear us out but can get offended of they tell us how to solve the problem or that we are the cause of the problem. It's true, most men just want blunt and direct advice.
/r/MensRights24/11/21 08:26 PM
1

Ah, therapy. That's something big that I didn't consider. All true.
/r/MensRights24/11/21 08:17 PM
2

Well explained, very thorough. Men should not only be seen as expressing proper emotion when they emote in a stereotypically feminine way.
/r/MensRights24/11/21 08:09 PM
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Most men emote differently than women and always will because women are usually not attracted to openly emotional men. They have gotten mostly bred out.
/r/MensRights24/11/21 07:14 PM
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He has no proof it's his child and it's fully her decision. Women make that final decision with our bodies alone, men get no say so we alone should pay for it.
/r/MensRights21/11/21 06:30 PM
2

White single mothers produce criminality at the same rates. Single mother household is the common denominator regardless of race, but black people suffer it more than others.
/r/MensRights14/11/21 01:14 AM
1

Someone with sense, thanks.
/r/MensRights14/11/21 01:13 AM
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She's talking about reddit's chat and pm feature. And that's why posts like this hurt our cause. She's right that many men cannot control themselves but to go argue with women like her when it's a complete waste of time and helps prove their point.
/r/MensRights11/11/21 05:55 PM
1

Understandable. That makes sense too.
/r/MensRights09/11/21 11:11 PM
2

As a woman, I use the bottom of my shoe to push down the flusher if it's not automatic. Maybe you could use the bottom of your shoe to lift and close? Hope that helps because that is gross to have to do that.
/r/MensRights09/11/21 06:49 PM
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And part of that 43% are kids of both genders. Not sure why people can't just talk about humans. If she were to call out of specific group, it should have just been children.
/r/MensRights07/11/21 06:53 PM
4

Exactly. Too many assumptions here on this post.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 05:48 PM
3

Wow. To the first question, if I were in your shoes, I'd answer, "What do you mean? I'm his father." And to the second I'd answer, "To continue being his father. Obviously." Then I'd stare at the guy like the idiot he is. So sorry that these questions were even asked of you as if they don't answer themselves.
/r/MensRights31/10/21 04:13 PM
1

This isn't SJW, this is how I see things. I have a family full of immigrants that came here with tons of money and had jobs already in place here (jobs waiting for them). I know tons of Middle Eastern and Asian immigrants specifically that also come and already have a job and are wealthy already. You can verify if someone has a job or not, regardless of where they come from. Again, I don't know why it has to do with a specific group. Idk how it is in your country, but in my country, Landlords do…
/r/MensRights30/10/21 09:25 PM
1

Renting to someone you know nothing about and renting to immigrants are two different things. You meet the person or people that wants to rent from you first and speak with them and ask for referrals. That's how it works here anyway. Certainly, I doubt I'd rent to anyone if they couldn't prove income, immigrant or not. Lacking proof of income, something all landlords check before renting, isn't based on an entire group of specific people, however.
/r/MensRights30/10/21 03:24 PM
1

I feel like that would make you a type of "bigot" in a sense, though I really hate that word because it's ultimately meaningless since it can be applied to nearly anything. So that's really not the term I'd use. I don't understand the problem in renting to immigrants regardless of when they arrived there? Unless I'm missing something. And for someone who is in a family that rents properties, families, especially single mothers, with multiple children usually are the worst tenants, but I wouldn't…
/r/MensRights30/10/21 02:36 PM
3

Fully agreed! Can't believe it hasn't been done yet.
/r/MensRights30/10/21 12:06 AM
3

Yeah! Those blue things, you're right. We need those in women's bathrooms. I should start a petition ha
/r/MensRights30/10/21 12:03 AM
6

That's it's own kind of discrimination and it sucks.
/r/MensRights29/10/21 11:55 PM
3

Both women and men are capable of living in filth. But yes, there are immature, disgusting men who make the rest look bad. Don't think that makes it fair to discriminate in most situations.
/r/MensRights29/10/21 11:52 PM
5

Just ignore people throwing "incel" around.
/r/MensRights29/10/21 11:49 PM
2

Here's a view into a typical women's bathroom: toilet paper on the floor, unflushed toilets (yes, even with poo), pee on seats, pee on floor, toilets clogged with God knows what, tampon smells, musty lady bits smells. I almost always feel unclean leaving a women's bathroom. That said, I have rarely seen inside men's bathrooms. I also think women's pee smells worse for whatever reason? Like maybe because we pee in toilets and not urinals it enhances the smell? Idk...
/r/MensRights29/10/21 11:43 PM
5

I assumed all those only women renters posts were always creepers.
/r/MensRights29/10/21 11:35 PM
3

Small penis syndrome only applies to men who have body dysmorphia. SPS or SPA is not linked to actual penis size. You cannot link dick size to aggression in any reliable way. 45% of men think they're "small" and this could apply to any of them if they have self esteem linked to that belief even if it is not objectively accurate. Doubt the woman that tazed the dog had a penis at all. Also, I have no clue why you believe there's an overlap between people who stand for the flag and people who won't…
/r/MensRights29/10/21 09:39 PM
7

Technically, as heinous as these cops were, they did not kill the dog. The dog was killed by a car after being found by his friend. It slipped out of the leash. This is a very sad story either way. People call the cops way too much in certain places.
/r/MensRights29/10/21 08:09 PM
4

People stand for the flag because they respect their country and fellow Americans, not because they support evey thing every single cop does. When we stand for the flag, we're not supporting the Americans who are thieves, murderers, rapists, pedos, kidnappers, etc. either. The 300,000,000 people here are more than these idiots that did this to this man, which most everyone would be disgusted by if this were presented in MSM. Although, I agree no one should be forced to do so. Also, we aren't sad…
/r/MensRights29/10/21 08:07 PM
0

Agreed. That was worded horribly.
/r/MensRights26/10/21 05:49 PM
2

Is she paying for her own food? If you both can't even communicate clearly, then why bother? I would tell her upfront, "I want to meet for coffee. It's easier this way for the first time. If we like each other, we can go get pasta." She comes off as too entitled to get the hint, but maybe she's simply genuinely ignorant of why you want that. And I don't have her point, just yours.
/r/MensRights24/10/21 02:34 AM
4

This is my take as well. Not to mention that when female soldiers are targeted first, male soldiers want to protect them. It's a complete distraction. Weak military is incredibly dangerous to all of us, even in the name of equality. But if men only continue being drafted then men need their authority and respect given back.
/r/MensRights19/10/21 07:58 PM
1

But again the difference is she was not forced into one option or the other. Difficult decisions are still decisions.
/r/MensRights19/10/21 04:35 PM
4

I think it's worse because it involves forced slavery to a rapist and rape baby in the form of likely child support and no one legally considers this man a victim. If he wants nothing to do with the child because of this trauma, society and his child see him as a terrible waste of life. Most of society fully understand women who have been raped giving up the children or having an abortion readily, no judgment given, only pity. Even most pro-life people want exceptions in these cases! Men don't e…
/r/MensRights18/10/21 10:56 PM
8

Not the best comparison imo. The draft in this country has always been solely men so those comments are valid. There's not really a good comparison to it for women.
/r/MensRights16/10/21 09:00 PM
1

This is wonderfully said.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/21 11:39 PM
0

Why label this as false accusation then? As you said, most men here would never do this, especially, like they said, during a pandemic. Most men know this is extremely wrong. I don't think him being drunk equates to her accusation being false. Is the bail too high? Sure, if he had never gone to court over anything like this, then yes I'd think so. They wouldn't give an elderly woman sexually harassing a man anything like that, nor would they believe the term "monster" associated with her, whethe…
/r/MensRights15/10/21 11:32 PM
0

If she's constantly trolling then she should get banned, sure.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 05:58 PM
1

Same kind of bullshit that feminists use against men. Seek one out and assume their intelligence level, physicality, etc. just to belittle them. 1 to 1 comparisons like this online always include sexist assumptions that may or may not be true about the individual and they help no one whatsoever. They're just a personal ego boost to the lacking. Do what you want, it's still ineffective, unprovable specifically in the way you phrased it, and not in the spirit of this sub.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 04:12 PM
-1

Did you not understand my comment? I didn't say men and women in general are equal. I'm saying you cannot compare intellect and physical strength 1 to 1 over the internet with no proof of abilities on either side just based on sex.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 03:46 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 03:25 PM
-1

This isn't what this sub is for. Proclaiming yourself superior against a woman just because you're male is illogical. There's no proof of these things on the individual basis you brought it to. This is the kind of unnecessary sexist garbage that gets subs like this shut down.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 03:23 PM
1

That's not even what the comment said. If you re-read it, your comment makes absolutely no sense as a reply. Julie is not the average feminist, she's a radfem and an extreme terf. She specifically centers her feminism around men being oppressors, less than, and dangerous.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 03:07 PM
2

What a ridiculous reason that teacher needed to speak to the child's mother. The comments all support the routine denigration of fathers, single or not, as well.
/r/MensRights14/10/21 06:28 PM
1

These are just for the clicks.
/r/MensRights13/10/21 08:04 PM
0

That's unfortunate.
/r/MensRights12/10/21 10:53 PM
-6

Part of this sounds like the kind of extremism many feminists say about men.
/r/MensRights12/10/21 10:26 PM
8

More men play video games than women for longer hours than women. The male streamers that get huge treat things like a business and more male viewers watch Twitch so of course they'd gravitate to male streamers. It would be like wondering why the most famous fashion influencers are almost all women. They're making something that's not a problem a problem. "The future is female" slogan is sexist and unnecessary in my opinion. Boys and young men have to grow up in this world too. Now, there is occ…
/r/MensRights10/10/21 09:55 PM
1

I know they've forced adoption and forced sterilization. Didn't know anything about forced abortion.
/r/MensRights05/10/21 06:43 PM
2

I don't think this country will ever force abortion on women. But maybe I'm wrong.
/r/MensRights05/10/21 06:18 PM
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I think it'll be a shit show even though it will be fair. We women are usually a liability on the field compared to men. We are also a sexual distraction. The amount of sleaze going down in the military is always getting higher and higher. And many women will simply get pregnant to get out of serving because neither men nor women want to be forced into possible death. A weak U.S. military is asking for us to be overrun at some point. So I agree with them, but maybe for different reasons. I think…
/r/MensRights04/10/21 11:55 PM
3

Then reply with "Then also all misogyny is caused by misandry and a gynocentric society that the patriarchy supports with laws and subsidies." It's his very own logic that they cause each other. Easy.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 12:37 AM
4

Do not call me "girl" I am a grown woman. And my points all stand. Argue people's points if you come here to disagree on good faith. Do not strawman the people of this sub. It's completely disrespectful.
/r/MensRights17/09/21 07:58 PM
3

Again, literally no one said that. Not even the title asserts that women are "always lying" not even mostly lying about assault. I'm now convinced that you are here just to be disingenuous.
/r/MensRights17/09/21 07:54 PM
3

I never once said I was more reasonable than you or even that anything you said was wrong, I said you are arguing against nothing that I've said and that you are confused. I'm here because I saw what my father went through and his ultimate death due to actions of his ex wife and my mother that he could not overcome. I know countless men who have been sexually abused and ignored. Homeless and ignored. Abused and ignored. I know multiple men who have been lied to about their child's paternity and …
/r/MensRights17/09/21 07:31 PM
6

No. I'm actually not playing devil's advocate so I don't need that excuse of an "out". I'm clarifying that we read this statement in two completely different ways and then you went on a tangent that had nothing to do with me or my opinions.
/r/MensRights17/09/21 07:18 PM
4

Did you read my comment at all? Your replies have nothing to do with me. I presented how I read it. I did not agree with what you're thinking I'm asserting. Maybe ask OP for clarification instead of arguing with me over things I didn't assert or agree with at any point in time.
/r/MensRights17/09/21 07:14 PM
7

You are highly confused. Saying women who make false allegations go unpunished does not at all equate to saying most allegations/accusations are false.
/r/MensRights17/09/21 07:08 PM
6

I assumed the "without punishment" only applied to making false allegations. Which is true the vast majority of the time.
/r/MensRights17/09/21 06:33 PM
3

I respect that this is not hypocritical. I'd be fine with full on everyone gets rights (men getting paper financial abortions) OR no one gets rights. Cherry picking does not make sense.
/r/MensRights16/09/21 12:19 AM
1

Tearing is actually quite common. Doesn't mean she can't have more if she wanted. It heals.
/r/MensRights14/09/21 09:05 PM
1

Clearly those poor, poor women are being mind controlled by conservative men! Women who vote the way feminists don't want never have legitimate minds of their own! Can't you see they hate themselves!?1! /s
/r/MensRights08/09/21 06:25 PM
8

Lots of people are saying this, but he has kids. Not the smartest move if it can be avoided.
/r/MensRights03/09/21 10:53 PM
2

Yes, exactly. The point isn't if you like it or not, because most women who are circumcized in Africa and the Middle East also don't mind it, but it's that you had no say. Thanks for hearing me out and understanding. Sometimes men who are circumcized just dismiss the whole point.
/r/MensRights03/09/21 05:28 PM
1

Boys can be legally subjected to circumcision without them being old enough (18) to decide what they want. No girl children in the West are subjected to any parts of our genitalia being cut off, even something like labia, which many of us women have complaints about not liking, is thankfully illegal to remove as infants. About 100 neo-natal circumcision deaths occur annually in the US alone. That may not seem like a big number, but if any child dies in a completely avoidable way, I think that's …
/r/MensRights03/09/21 04:58 PM
1

Parental rights and bodily autonomy rights are the biggest ones imo.
/r/MensRights03/09/21 12:43 AM
3

I'll add to this list that we women have the right to keep our genitalia as is, not risking infant death from infection or shock after the procedure or a deformity. At least in the West and most of the world.
/r/MensRights03/09/21 12:42 AM
1

Wow. That's horrifying. Your culture is not a culture I'm very familiar with. I completely understand your feminism. I think sometimes we (people who only know western culture) get caught up in our definition of feminism as it applies to us. It's wildly different in other parts of the world for women. Thank you for explaining this because I think it helps others here to see a different perspective of places where feminism is actually highly valuable and necessary.
/r/MensRights31/08/21 01:21 AM
2

Safety first.
/r/MensRights30/08/21 10:46 PM
2

Was going to comment this.
/r/MensRights30/08/21 10:45 PM
0

I'm guessing you are feminist in an area that is not the West if you are simply looking to allow women equal opportunities to succeed. There are certainly some places that do treat women like breeding units with no say from an alarmingly young age. Being openly sold and such.
/r/MensRights30/08/21 10:45 PM
1

No problem. I've asked the same question in the past myself.
/r/MensRights28/08/21 10:54 PM
7

Not useful imo. Films will be useless if they cannot mimic certain facets of reality or showcase negativity in the world.
/r/MensRights26/08/21 08:39 PM
3

Yes. That's what /s means.
/r/MensRights26/08/21 02:34 AM
2

Glad to hear that, ha!
/r/MensRights26/08/21 12:16 AM
3

Both genders get beaten, raped, and slaughtered there so there's really no reason to downplay either sex suffering in that country currently. Neither comparison was really necessary in that thread from you or the other commenter.
/r/MensRights26/08/21 12:15 AM
6

Just because I'm half naked and twerking doesn't mean that men can comment on my body in a sexual way! Other women can tell me my ass looks great though, especially if they're bi and would literally sleep with me just like the guys commenting. Thanks, Queens! /s
/r/MensRights25/08/21 11:48 PM
2

The point is not that we shouldn't care about the atrocities befalling women and children. The point is society does not care half as much about the men being shot at and murdered. They also expect them to sacrifice themselves for their country but do not expect the same fight from women which is in direct opposition to what is being taught, that women and men are somehow equally capable in all ways and have equal value. Even you belittled male deaths in your own comment with the comparison, tha…
/r/MensRights23/08/21 08:02 PM
2

You're correct in a sense, wrong wording. Women feel shame and guilt more often than men, not stronger. And we can't simply apply it to everything for convenience. These feelings are centered more around puberty, sex, and motherhood. It has nothing to do with feeling shame for hurting men with ideology. I really only brought it up to mention a way women feel that men don't as often because men do feel deeply there are just divides in how, for what, and the frequency of negative versus positive e…
/r/MensRights22/08/21 11:30 PM
3

Apparently much more than being an independent woman who doesn't need a "useless" man, which can be yelled from the rooftops and applauded. Go figure.
/r/MensRights22/08/21 04:57 PM
2

Is that the excuse they're using now? lol The excuse used to be that it was a counter joke to "get back in the kitchen." Not sure what making sandwiches has to do with genocide, but they somehow made the link.
/r/MensRights22/08/21 04:54 PM
5

I think it is more accurate to say women are more emotionally expressive and act on emotion moreso than men. There was a brain study done showing that men feel deep emotion, but report it as less than experienced and women felt less emotion than males, not by much though iirc, but reported they felt highly emotional. Women do feel stronger feelings of guilt and shame than men, however.
/r/MensRights22/08/21 04:51 PM
9

It just seemed like they linked all male groups that are not feminism together and called it a day.
/r/MensRights22/08/21 04:47 PM
2

I think the same can be said about these teen girls and feminism as well. I was a feminist at 17 then immediately noticed the double standard and got out. There are still some things I like about feminism, but they always spiral out of control like the body positivity movement starting as a beautiful thing then turning into women encouraging other women to be ok with being unhealthily overweight while demanding men find them attractive. The obvious issue is, the teen girls' voices, and the voice…
/r/MensRights22/08/21 04:39 PM
1

Basically this is being red pilled. I think there are still things we can still accomplish, but they'll probably need to be pushed as things that "also harm women/women's sons" which is frustrating but the only way men will be seen as humans that deserve full rights and certain protections.
/r/MensRights20/08/21 10:31 PM
1

Where does it say they are a woman? Did I miss it?
/r/MensRights20/08/21 10:28 PM
2

Same thing happened to me. Don't remember even being there.
/r/MensRights17/08/21 09:00 PM
4

I'm not sure the argument is that it's not toxic there, the argument is that there are toxic subreddits for women that don't get and will never get banned. To allow the hypocrisy is highly dangerous. It should be both or neither.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/21 05:23 PM
3

You're welcome. Have a good one, friend.
/r/MensRights03/08/21 03:18 AM
8

That's so rough. I'm at least glad you spent time with your son. He will never forget that. He'll always be grateful for how much you valued him with all the odds against you.
/r/MensRights03/08/21 02:50 AM
10

Yes, I understand. The people that say that don't get what men have to go through to see their kid for any decent amount of time in states like that.
/r/MensRights02/08/21 10:48 PM
23

I know fighting in family court is expensive for men but $100k? And she hit you with false accusations? Jesus Christ. And they always say that if men wanted 50/50, they should have tried harder. Ffs.
/r/MensRights02/08/21 10:40 PM
95

This is so disturbing. The fact that women like that are so sure you're evil simply because you are male with a child is horrifying.
/r/MensRights02/08/21 10:35 PM
1

Are you sarcastically saying you're white or I am? I'm afro Latina.
/r/MensRights01/08/21 03:29 PM
1

Ah ok. I felt it was sarcasm but wasn't sure. Thanks for the clarification!
/r/MensRights01/08/21 12:13 AM
2

Yes. Shows how entitled women are, and have been for so long, that they could tell a man to walk into his death sentence, something they would never do, and think they are right to do so.
/r/MensRights31/07/21 12:10 AM
1

Are you ok dude?
/r/MensRights30/07/21 05:11 PM
2

I would argue men commit suicide at higher rates because they feel they are actually commiting a selfless act while women who commit suicide must get past seeing it as a selfish act. That's the difference between how men and women see their inherent value to those around them and society at large. Someone had mentioned something similar on a post a few days ago.
/r/MensRights30/07/21 04:58 PM
2

My father kept mentioning it and crying out for help before he did it. My mother's decision was to lock ourselves away from him at night so he couldn't "hurt us." He did it while I wasn't home so I highly doubt her idea of him wanting to kill me too. Crying more doesn't help men in that way. If being more emotional was a fix for suicide, most women who commit suicide would never have committed suicide. However, being more emotional expressive when warranted wouldn't hurt men who want to do so. I…
/r/MensRights30/07/21 04:55 PM
2

You could call it more fair. Men risked their lives in war or in manual labor jobs and women risked their lives in childbirth. Anything went wrong, there wasn't a divorce, the wife simply picked up the slack (maybe selling food, her labor in someone else's home, or homemade clothing). But now men have modernized society for women past the point they would need to risk themselves on average to have children so men should no longer have to work their jobs mainly to pay for ungrateful women. (No, n…
/r/MensRights30/07/21 04:38 PM
1

That's fair. Thank you for the clarity.
/r/MensRights28/07/21 11:35 PM
3

Sorry you lost me at mentally disabled people never being able to have sex. That's a big no from me. If you think all drunk sex is invalid and non-consensual then fine I guess. You're certainly not a hypocrite even though I think that's a strange way to see things. Drunkenness is a spectrum, so I don't see how you're so dismissive of it all as not coherent enough to consent or not, but that's your view.
/r/MensRights28/07/21 11:27 PM
3

This is the issue I have with this logic: who decides that the drunk person doesn't want drunk sex? People have drunken sex all the time, so unless it's to the point where they are unconscious, drunken sex would have to simply be drunken sex. Otherwise, you'd be taking away someone's agency to have sex while drunk. What about two drunk people having sex? Neither actually consented to sex? It doesn't make sense. Intoxicated ≠ incoherent. But I do agree there are tons of feminists who do see this …
/r/MensRights28/07/21 10:46 PM
17

I've been saying this so much. It has also led to murders of white men as well. It's so arbitrary to believe anyone on the basis of their biology being supposedly more pure in the eyes of society (white > black, women > men).
/r/MensRights28/07/21 10:33 PM
1

You didn't explain how they're more to blame for this situation, you explained how they have it much easier than their boss/men in the work place, which I don't disagree with. Bosses shouldn't be simps who allow women to suck their dick for higher placement. Sex from women is not valuable enough to warrant that behavior, yet they reward them. Neither sex should be operating this way. I'm not arguing that the women that do this don't have it easier, of course they do. It's unfair and fucked up. B…
/r/MensRights28/07/21 05:11 PM
-1

I think it's a fair point. It's cyclical poor behavior. Both are to blame. If a woman wants something based on merit, we can get that and then some in today's era without that trade. We have no need to do this and it isn't respectable. However, neither is a man giving an unqualified woman a position based on her giving him some sex. It's all absurd and hurts women that actually do the hard work and hurts men that don't want to have false sexual experiences with women based on a power trade inste…
/r/MensRights27/07/21 11:14 PM
1

I don't disagree.
/r/MensRights25/07/21 05:32 PM
1

I would argue that he shouldn't have to pay if he 1. Never wanted the child from the beginning (which if he has multiple with one woman is not the case) 2. Wanted to see his kids but was allowed absolutely no time with them. 3. Had 50/50 custody where he covered the expenses while they're with him. 4. Genuinely cannot afford it. Because he still wants to be involved AND the mother takes care of the kids most of the time, it makes sense to pay child support even though I don't necessarily believe…
/r/MensRights25/07/21 02:38 AM
0

Technically, you shouldn't have to. They aren't your kids and are receiving financial help already. But explain that to the "some woman" in your hypothetical scenario.
/r/MensRights25/07/21 02:32 AM
1

I'm sorry that happened to you. That's fucked.
/r/MensRights17/07/21 11:43 PM
1

And she looks so sweet and cute which makes it even harder for people to see her as she truly is. The passes women who admit to rape get are limitless...wolves in sheep's clothing. And people cheer it on. The fact that she can proudly say she raped "some kid" who kept saying no shows how she knows society is.
/r/MensRights17/07/21 11:42 PM
2

There's nothing wrong with wanting to have sex with the person you desire. That's the first mistake, that we as women demonize male sexuality as something disturbed and perverse when it is natural and we experience it too.
/r/MensRights06/07/21 11:28 PM
1

This one isn't that fair. She said more than basics. Being a woman or man is difficult if one puts genuine stock into what the media and idiots around us tell us to be.
/r/MensRights14/08/20 05:02 PM
1

You explained very well! & Same to you! :)
/r/MensRights16/07/20 01:37 AM
2

I can understand your point of view on this and now agree. Thank you for laying it all out this way. :)
/r/MensRights15/07/20 05:18 PM
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I truly do understand your point that most people won't see the reasoning behind this gap or that term, but that's just because of the misrepresentation of it. I'd rather correct it than say it doesn't exist because feminists will always rebutt that it does exist, and it does. It's not large, but it is there. People need to know why it's there instead of dismissing it or it leaves people looking for answers and the only people they get them from are usually feminists using the term for their own…
/r/MensRights15/07/20 01:49 AM
-3

There is a wage gap, but it's not from sexism. It's from women making vastly different choices than men. That's what the person stated. It exists, but it's misrepresented so that feminists can exploit it to prove some imaginary point. It's pretty clear in the statement and yet people aren't comprehending it.
/r/MensRights15/07/20 12:47 AM
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I don't know why people thumbed you down lol. Edit for the people still not understanding 🙃: The wage gap exists, but not how feminists purposely misrepresent it for their own rhetoric. It does exist, but it is does not exist because of mythical, widespread, sexist bias. That was the point of the comment.
/r/MensRights14/07/20 11:57 PM
2

So it bothers her when people say All Lives Matter, but she thinks those bothered by All Parents Matter (on fathers day) are "fragile". Does she not realize that she burned herself? What a fucking idiot.
/r/MensRights21/06/20 10:23 PM
-8

Without context, I can't interpret this. If a woman was talking about a serious issue and not putting down men and this guy just posted this, then "shut up" is simply an understandable albeit dismissive response.
/r/MensRights15/06/20 09:19 AM
2

The joke should've at least been "Simply kill the person who said that" which is most likely the mom honestly. Just because Mommy dearest thinks all men are rapists and you need to remain covered at all times, it doesn't make it true. Either way, let's not kill people lol. Dark jokes that make sense are fine imo though.
/r/MensRights13/06/20 09:11 AM
8

I get where you're coming from, but your thinking is very black and white and human behavior isn't. His response wasn't idklol and I don't think most others would respond that way either. I've heard my mother say racist things about whites on occasion. My Dad, whom she loved and who passed away, was white. My step father, whom she also loved dearly, was also white. I don't recall her saying those things to them. She also never directed those things at me specifically. I don't think her view of t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/20 01:54 AM
3

Thank you for that suggestion. I'll do my best this year.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/20 10:18 AM
3

Agreed. I wish I had people in my area to organize certain things with. It's kind of uphill until people get it, but it's worth it as everything helps. Thank you for the inspiration.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/20 09:38 AM
8

Firstly, thank you for doing what you're doing. I believe it's because we're taught that boys and men who need help are weak and that weak boys and men don't deserve much of our help. They are expected to sort things out themselves or with a simple direction or two. A man's worth is based on him taking care of himself and he gets bonus points for caring for others. We also all learn from a young age that men are morally upright if they help women. Women are not raised with the thought they are m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/20 08:52 AM
7

Exactly. Shameful.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/20 06:31 AM
36

I don't even have the proper words for how upset I am? I saw the other day that there were funds being collected on Tumblr for black girls to get mental health check ups in the wake of all this current chaos, and I just stared at the screen wondering why and how black boys were being excluded? They just witnessed multiple men who they may look like in a few years being killed all over TV and the web these last few weeks, so why not them as well? There's no logic in this game whatsoever. There se…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/20 04:43 AM
1

I suppose, but those trans people seem the extreme minority since transtrenders cause people to take the trans community less seriously after all the work that's been done. But I understand what you mean completely.
/r/MensRights27/05/20 06:23 AM
2

I don't think people read you purposely wrote transTRENDER not transGENDER. Not even proper trans people respect transTrenders.
/r/MensRights27/05/20 06:03 AM
4

I agree, it's disgusting.
/r/MensRights25/05/20 12:23 AM
11

They either say horrible shit to make their kids "different" than the "others" i.e. "You're better than all the other [insert gender here] because I raised you right and you don't [insert sexist generalization here]. That's why I love you." Or they emotionally disown them making them the scapegoat of the family.
/r/MensRights24/05/20 09:48 AM
4

It's a shame. I mentioned 'taught' because many times I've seen men specifically tell other men to do that during arguments to keep their marriage. It's terrible that men can also be naturally conditioned into it in.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/20 03:12 AM
10

There was a moment as a young girl when I realized that men are taught to apologize to their girlfriends or wives even when they know they are not in the wrong. Which means there's a pervasive idea of "just let women think they are right even when they're wrong" simply so our feelings don't get hurt or so that a normal argument or adult tantrum stops. People don't even treat children this way. It's ultimately condescending to women (even though I know it's normally not done with ill intentions) …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/20 11:50 PM
3

How is this different than putting a man's face up and saying he's a rapist? I have no clue whatsoever what is the truth in this case and refuse to spread it in the same way people carry on with online metoo accusations.
/r/MensRights21/05/20 12:52 AM
27

Looks like it to me.
/r/MensRights20/05/20 11:01 PM
1

Yeah, I find it funny, but my issue is it can't go both ways and still have people laugh in a work environment. It's like jokes about Americans vs jokes about any other country or white people vs any other race. There are unnecessary double standards because people think certain jokes against certain groups are serious and threatening.
/r/MensRights20/05/20 10:50 PM
1

Understandable.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/05/20 02:23 AM
1

I fully agree with your take. These posts do feel like an unnecessary tone change from other more meaningful posts.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/05/20 02:21 AM
2

I agree with you bringing this up, though I'm not sure if I agree with the why because you didn't state it. I don't want to use other cases to dismiss this one, as they're all relevant in the grand scheme of things. But unfortunately, the courts are certainly lenient on many people who deserve more jail time. Anyone can use certain cases to prove hate or bias against/for any group. Personally, I would rather focus on the statistics that show women overall get less jail time than focusing on indi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/05/20 02:14 AM
2

They aren't arguing against that point at all. They are responding to the bizarre claim that women weren't "allowed" to work. It's commonly said and it's bs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/20 11:09 PM
3

Well said. Especially when it's anger with some part of society that negatively affects men, it's always treated as invalid and immature emotional expression. Yet women can freely express anger with all men or all society.
/r/MensRights18/05/20 10:54 PM
1

I think the idea is very good, and agree the phrasing is unfortunate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/20 12:00 AM
7

You disagree with people preferring to stay home or something else? It seems it's saying many, not all, people would prefer to choose to stay at home. I don't think people who would prefer that choice look down at it as restrictive "unpaid labor", they simply prefer home chores and/or caring for their children to an outside job. And if you stay home, there's nothing stopping you from doing anything you want with your extra hours free time as you aren't forced to only do domestic chores and you a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/05/20 12:49 AM
0

See. I appreciate that. Thank you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/20 07:23 PM
3

So you won't bother to list even though I also clearly asked. If someone is trying to understand and believe what someone says is true, why not provide evidence? Why not put in a minute amount of effort to gain a peer? It's a sufficient answer if one isn't trying to address a point so I suppose you have no point. Feel free to keep the imaginary list in your mind.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/20 07:07 PM
3

"Can you ... list any"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/20 07:00 PM
9

I would genuinely like to believe you, but you don't seem to believe it yourself or you would make a list. Even three topics would be better than that useless cop out.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/20 05:07 AM
1

I don't at all think it should be considered discrimination when not available. I just have no issue with them being available.
/r/MensRights09/05/20 07:42 PM
3

Well, that's shitty and hypocritical of them. Obviously not a surprise, unfortunately.
/r/MensRights09/05/20 09:28 AM
0

Did you hear me stop you from calling them women? I said I don't care.
/r/MensRights09/05/20 09:07 AM
0

Yeah, I still see literally no issue with them being offered at school or elsewhere for "free" or for a reasonable fee. But I guess we can agree to disagree on it. Good for you for being so prepared, but I see it like condoms where they should be readily accessible. Just because I don't need the tampons doesn't mean someone else will be as prepared and I'm not going to judge them about that. Who knows what's going on with them. I'm not about giving them out for free everywhere, but if an establi…
/r/MensRights09/05/20 08:13 AM
2

They're in college and money is probably tight. Adult or not, not everyone is prepared every single day for a surprise period or surprise heavy flow which might make them run through their packed extras and not everyone is going to go around asking others if they have a tampon to spare. I think it's valid. An alternative would be a 25¢ tampon dispensary. But they should be accessible on campus.
/r/MensRights09/05/20 07:37 AM
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You don't have to like them, but they're there, they use the men's bathroom, and they bleed. Whatever you personally call them is irrelevant to the point and I don't care.
/r/MensRights09/05/20 05:14 AM
9

Yes, I completely understand. If I were in that kind of environment, everything would look pretty bleak. When things are that blatantly sexist at a place you come to learn and feel welcome, the tampons in the male bathrooms would simply become a reminder of, as you said, "female domination" there. I totally agree and can see your point.
/r/MensRights09/05/20 05:10 AM
8

Like I said, I'm fine with tampons because that can be a genuine emergency if it comes at the wrong time of month or one has an unexpected heavy bleed day. Perhaps, as a man you can't really see the point, which is perfectly understandable, but it happens more than you think and can be a horrible experience. I like the thought of colleges providing "free" condoms as well as a necessity for both sexes. But, yes, I'm definitely not fine with them having women only safe spaces or special study area…
/r/MensRights09/05/20 04:48 AM
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I guess I kind of see it that they'll use your money regardless so at least tampons are functional necessities that keep people in class. That said, it would be nice to know that they use money towards any possible male necessaries as well, but I can't really think of any atm so I still can't personally argue with it.
/r/MensRights09/05/20 04:38 AM
6

I never know if these texts are real or not so I end up not caring.
/r/MensRights09/05/20 04:24 AM
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Both do. Constantly.
/r/MensRights09/05/20 04:04 AM
4

If the University wants to provide free tampons/pads on their dime, I'm cool with that. You wouldn't believe how many ladies/trans men have their period on a random day of their cycle and are caught with no backup product. Everything else you mentioned is terrible. People shouldn't have to pay to hear a bunch of moral grandstanding. You're there for class.
/r/MensRights09/05/20 04:03 AM
3

A fantastic mom! Glad to see there are parents out there that don't shame their gamer kids and are happy to share when their kids do great things for others.
/r/MensRights09/05/20 03:51 AM
1

Not my country. Doesn't matter which gender they are if they don't see the sexes equally. Man ≠ non-misandrist automatically.
/r/MensRights07/05/20 02:57 PM
1

Now this I agree with as being common stay at home parent routine if the couple in question has several children, but none are old enough to make their own meals or clean. When the kids are young, you can't watch TV all day without being a neglectful, abusive asshole. True.
/r/MensRights04/05/20 10:54 PM
8

Good flip. I swear these people never recognize their hypocrisy.
/r/MensRights04/05/20 10:44 PM
4

Until celebs get on board, we have a constant uphill battle.
/r/MensRights04/05/20 10:29 PM
3

Agreed.
/r/MensRights04/05/20 10:28 PM
5

No. That's what gets people bruised, maimed, or killed. We women are not children and being mature to the ones of us that don't deserve it only reinforces the already established inequality.
/r/MensRights04/05/20 10:27 PM
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As a woman, I read nothing there that was "woman hate". If I punch a man and he hits me back, there's nothing wrong with his action and it is not misogynistic. If it works with a male on male scenario, it should apply to a woman on male scenario just the same.
/r/MensRights04/05/20 10:25 PM
2

The blatant hypocrisy will unfortunately lead to eventual failure. It's obviously wrong both ways, but some people just don't get it.
/r/AntiFeminists01/05/20 03:44 AM
5

Yes, we do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/04/20 06:57 PM
3

Oh! You're Japanese! I understand. That's definitely a cultural thing. I'm American. Glad we could agree to disagree. 🙂
/r/MensRights17/03/20 04:18 AM
1

Fair, but abundant to one person isn't abundant to another. I'll respect your view when it comes to extensive mods even if I might have a different idea of that.
/r/MensRights17/03/20 04:00 AM
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PSA- Most women who hurt men are not covered in tattoos or multiple piercings. They are normal looking soccer moms, business women, teachers... Sure, some are tatted, but that is NOT a tell. I don't just say that to defend body mods, I say it because some people honestly believe that you can "tell" a woman's behavior by how she looks. Not true, and this is how people fall into the "but she looked so sweet" trap. I'm a woman with piercings and tattoos, no social media though. I don't abuse, certa…
/r/MensRights16/03/20 09:16 PM
1

Cool. It's your body. Honestly fuck what anyone thinks. I guess you could lie, but honestly they'll stop caring and move on after a few days or even hours if you don't let them know. Your life is your life and you don't owe anyone any info. If you explained it though, they probably wouldn't care at all. But do what's comfortable.
/r/MensRights12/03/20 03:09 PM
2

Yeah, sometimes difficult to tell so I get it.
/r/MensRights11/03/20 10:33 PM
3

I hope you're doing this for you or some medical reason and not because of any social pressures. Can't you just tell him or her you're having a medical surgery and need the time off? Doesn't need to be specific does it? If it's specific on the sick note, he or she will see it regardless. Anyway, good luck.
/r/MensRights11/03/20 10:19 PM
2

It's obvious sarcasm, so they don't think that.
/r/MensRights11/03/20 10:14 PM
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"Yes, you get murdered. By other men." Said in the most smug, dismissive tone she could muster. This makes me so fucking angry.
/r/MensRights11/03/20 10:09 PM
19

Accepted? Carry whatever weapon you're comfortable with and knowledgeable about using that is legal where you live.
/r/MensRights11/03/20 10:06 PM
10

People notice it, they just think men deserve it and/or can handle it. Which is obviously bullshit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/03/20 09:56 PM
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I hope men and women that care about these double standards all tweet "Not today, women." on that day. Not because they agree with how petty and sexist that statement is in either direction but to prove a point. When internet feminists and whiteknights rage, link them the original tweet and remind them gently of the definition of equality.
/r/MensRights09/03/20 09:03 PM
5

I really don't see the issue in noting how anti-male helping a woman cheat on her male partner is. I said the same thing back when I was a feminist about how you can't preach being pro-woman and then help a man cheat on his wife, thus hurting a woman. Guess how that worked out for me? 🙄 That being said, he doesn't deserve a rape charge over it and I don't see how your message implied you think he did. I will say for myself though, I am still sympathetic to him even if he made a dick move. This t…
/r/MensRights07/03/20 05:29 AM
2

I get what you're saying and I'd have to agree.
/r/MensRights07/03/20 02:17 AM
9

I'm think I'll be a traditional woman if I marry because I work from home and want to homeschool any future children and breastfeed each for at least 1-2 years, but I enjoy equal pay dating and I don't expect gifts at all for any holidays or my birthday from even my family. I also don't expect a fancy engagement ring, I actually think those should be earned at the ten year mark after kids lol. However, I cannot argue with MGTOW after recognizing the power that women hold in relationships over me…
/r/MensRights07/03/20 01:10 AM
1

I've been sexually assaulted several times, twice by other women. There are men who have been raped by women as well. Yet, any phobia one has of women is not forced onto all women. Women are never told that they shouldn't do something because someone might be afraid of them. Even if you are open to hearing what men are afraid of, you didn't bring up that any man in this line could be frightened of all these women or uncomfortable because of them did you? Even if they were uncomfortable, I don't …
/r/PussyPass03/03/20 07:20 PM
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Yeah, I'm a woman and there's absolutely no reason a woman should ever be scared of a bunch of men in the women's bathroom unless they clearly aren't using the bathroom. If they're all standing in line as my example mentioned why the fuck would anyone need to be afraid? If one man was simply standing in the woman's bathroom, sure, the woman may want to head out, but a bunch of men standing in line, an exact reverse of what's pictured? Really? That's what feminism does, make people into terrified…
/r/PussyPass03/03/20 06:42 PM
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Outside of the internet, most women do not call themselves feminists. Either way, those that don't can still be sexist, so it's a good move to get to understand someone instead of look for a label, I agree.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/20 01:18 AM
9

haha good on you 😆
/r/MensRights02/03/20 07:04 AM
61

Because you aren't insecure and constantly looking for validation.
/r/MensRights02/03/20 07:01 AM
105

Although I think both should just be about the gender intended, that's a fair point.
/r/MensRights02/03/20 07:00 AM
5

Peeing in view, even a glimpse of genitalia, while in the proximity of minors is illegal in America. Maybe not elsewhere. But if someone complained, you'd have the possibility to be ticketed and fined, or straight up jailed, depending. It's no joke. Would it definitely happen that someone calls the police? No. Could it happen? Yes indeed. No matter which bathroom the guy is in. Edit: to add, boys and men would not have an issue with this. It's that fact that women and girls are there that causes…
/r/PussyPass02/03/20 04:43 AM
0

Yes, I'm aware.
/r/PussyPass01/03/20 11:53 PM
1

I didn't say it would be rape. Rape and indecent exposure are different things completely. The fact that there are urinals there would not necessarily absolve a man of indecent exposure.
/r/PussyPass01/03/20 10:56 PM
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No, not rape. That's extreme. It would be indecent exposure if any girl caught a glimpse, which is a sex crime. If there are any minors anywhere nearby, the crime could result in being listed as a sex offender. It's illegal (for a man) to pee in public because of that law. All it would take is one neurotic mom in there to call the cops because some guy supposedly made eye contact with her 13 year old while peeing for there to be a possibility of a charge, even if no other women there cared.
/r/PussyPass01/03/20 10:17 PM
9

I honestly wouldn't be surprised by that happening also, yup.
/r/PussyPass01/03/20 09:27 PM
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Of course. I'm not upset with the men. I'm upset that they are being forced into a position where they cannot be comfortable.
/r/PussyPass01/03/20 07:10 PM
234

I'm guessing the men's bathroom was empty for the most part given that men rarely go to Taylor Swift concerts in groups and these women saw an opportunity for a shorter line. I don't really care about this on its own, I just hate that the men probably feel too uncomfortable to use the urinals. And of course I also hate that if this situation were reversed at a mostly male attended concert, it would just take one uncomfortable woman posting a pic of an all male line to Twitter for internet femini…
/r/PussyPass01/03/20 06:42 PM
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Shouldn't even matter if one is underage considering no one would see anything, but in a society that assumes men are perverse it's an issue.
/r/PussyPass01/03/20 06:36 PM
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Yeah, if he did use the urinal in front of these young girls, there'd probably be some undeserved disgust and accusations of perversion.
/r/PussyPass01/03/20 06:34 PM
4

Yes, agreed. That was dismissive and terrible of them.
/r/MensRights01/03/20 05:51 AM
4

Yes and it's a pretty funny comment imo.
/r/MensRights01/03/20 05:35 AM
5

If it's against the rules, it's against the rules. Your comment is completely bang on, though. Least you tried.
/r/MensRights01/03/20 05:33 AM
3

Honestly, many adults act like children and somehow still have idiots that choose to coddle them. I don't see how she can apply that to men yet not women.
/r/MensRights01/03/20 05:29 AM
1

I agree the law should be consistent. I agree that there are pro-lifers with crap arguments, but I don't really care as much as their beliefs aren't law. If the laws were pro-life and the majority of the media was pro-life, then I'd have incentive to point out any hypocrisy or rhetoric flaws they have. One issue I have with some pro-life people is they are against birth control. I don't see how someone could want to prevent abortion yet also keep women from accessing what can best help prevent i…
/r/MensRights01/03/20 02:11 AM
1

I'm not religious either so I wasn't really going into religious groups or religious groups wants or needs. But if religious groups wanted to pay for a woman's fetus and raise the child, there's not much I would say against it. I see that as no different than adoption. Then there's the children themselves, many of which would desire a parent yet have none. Certainly not ideal, but at the same time, many babies/children exist in terrible situations and the solution offered isn't for them to kill …
/r/MensRights29/02/20 09:04 PM
1

With how much better medical science is getting at keeping preemies alive outside of the womb, do you think you'd have a different outlook if we could continue the life of a few week old fetus? Or will it remain the same because those fetuses would still require medical assistance? And what of babies that are full term yet still require medical assistance to survive past a day or even into adulthood? If we rely on "can it survive" to assess it's value, wouldn't that apply to more than just fetus…
/r/MensRights29/02/20 07:09 PM
2

People should ultimately be able to shame whatever actions or behavior they want to shame. It's not up to anyone else to be ok with or validate any other human's life choices. Ever.
/r/MensRights29/02/20 06:56 PM
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I mean, I'm a woman and...no, I don't need anything electric to come. If that's common then I don't know what to say. I do think that women ultimately don't care much about size when they're in bed with someone, but the shaming of size still occurs and can be damaging to those who it affects. If you don't find it serious then good for you.
/r/MensRights29/02/20 06:51 PM
1

For a man paying every meal out: common, yet ridiculous expectation. For men driving them everywhere and buying them whatever they want, when they want?: Not as common. Sounds like women's romance fantasy.
/r/MensRights29/02/20 06:42 PM
1

What a surprise!!! Who knew!?! (Sarcasm) Maybe people will really take it seriously now.
/r/MensRights29/02/20 06:24 PM
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This is how men in power keep their power: publicly bending over backwards for women while ignoring or insulting other men. Works every time.
/r/MensRights29/02/20 06:19 PM
4

Even surpassing males isn't enough to stop the complaining somehow.
/r/MensRights29/02/20 06:17 PM
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She's thinking the words complicated/complex are used to assign a level of intelligence. Clearly she's not the brightest bulb. Not even sure how one could be insulted by that label. For the second commenter, of course it's wretched that anyone would beat someone over a text message, but abuse is not gendered and the kinds of people that do that can obviously not be reasoned with. Too many feminists (even just many women in general somehow) have this idea that rapists, abusers, or murderers are j…
/r/MensRights29/02/20 06:10 PM
1

Imagine paying out the ass to attend a college and being treated like that. Can't even get a useable restroom like you're some kind of animal.
/r/MensRights29/02/20 05:56 PM
1

I should add (and sorry for not adding this in my last post, I'm too casual about clicking send): I'm aware of what the current legal reasoning is, that the fetus is within her body and that is why nothing can be done. I do go through that in another comment somewhere under this post. My issue was with how the slogan is widely used and how it does not describe the woman as being a host to a living thing. You agree that this is on purpose to make it more flippant so it's ultimately more 'convinci…
/r/MensRights29/02/20 04:25 AM
1

But if you read my edit, doesn't the comparison fall flat? Even if you argue that I own my womb as a woman and therefore I choose what's inside it, doesn't it have zero real-life, congruent comparisons? The argument would have to stand on its own, I believe.
/r/MensRights29/02/20 04:17 AM
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I haven't heard it being commonly viewed that way so thanks for that. I'm not someone who believes I can make others birth children they don't want to, but I do think that if that can be done, we must give men paper abortions. I do believe that I would find some of the reasons men have for not wanting a child to be born after they helped make it to be cruel in the same way I view it on women's end. But I will be much less critical of choice when it stops being hypocritical. Edit-Hmm, I would lik…
/r/MensRights29/02/20 04:06 AM
1

Ok, gotcha! : )
/r/MensRights29/02/20 03:56 AM
2

Many modern feminists are fully pro-sexworker as they believe sex work is valid work and I haven't seen any feminists against surrogacy. Where are you seeing or hearing those viewpoints? Are they common where you are from? I'm in the U.S. and have never heard such rhetoric at any point. Many are against sex trafficking which is where people, mostly children, are forced into sex work, and we should all be against that. If you are pro-sexworker, I think feminists have actually done a lot for peopl…
/r/MensRights29/02/20 03:54 AM
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I didn't argue for abortions being necessary. I argued that the reasons for having one varies. I'm not validating or invalidating each reason someone chooses, just staying they exist.
/r/MensRights29/02/20 03:39 AM
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Well, some are some aren't. You certainly don't seem like one, so it always depends. Try not to start disliking all of your female peers simply because some are being cunts. Extreme views about an entire gender ultimately only cause constant frustration and fear.
/r/MensRights29/02/20 03:13 AM
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I agree that their words could be perceived as charged by some people even if I still don't find it too relevant in this case myself. And I appreciated reading your post. Thank you for it.
/r/MensRights29/02/20 03:09 AM
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Sorry, I reread your reply. I misunderstood your point in my first glance. I apologize. I actually disagree that it does not imply that it is a part of her body. I actually find the "host" argument less reasonable/logical. If one knows the fetus is its own entity, it makes it seem more cruel to terminate it imo. Do you view it this way? Is that a common view of it? I always heard that it was being compared to stopping periods or sperm.
/r/MensRights29/02/20 03:03 AM
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In my opinion, the slogan intentionally glosses over the fetus inside her technically being it's own entity at a certain point. If you were to cut an arm off, you wouldn't have ended, or terminated an arm. No one could argue the arm was "killed" (I'm not saying I'm fighting for people to use the term killed, only pointing out the difference in applicable terms.) You would have simply removed the arm. No heart would be stopped or brain activity stopped. May seem unimportant to some people, which …
/r/MensRights29/02/20 02:59 AM
2

Here's how I see it. Even if someone was asking about their dead children, if it was a legal question with a well known, obvious answer and posed in this sort of matter-of-fact way, I would not expect empathy from every responder. It would be nice to see, I might give it myself, but I would not expect it. I guess that's where the divide mainly comes in here. Let's reverse it and put it in a world where a father can get a paper abortion and that fact is well known by society. If a woman asked, "T…
/r/MensRights29/02/20 02:24 AM
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I just don't think their responses are that deep. They used a common slogan that probably represents their view of abortion as they answered and ultimately it is why he can do nothing legally. Outpouring empathy should not be expected from others when purely asking a legal question in a legal forum. It really doesn't matter what the question is. If someone asked about a dead spouse in a legal forum and expressed no emotion doing it and the answers weren't empathetic, I really wouldn't care or be…
/r/MensRights29/02/20 01:31 AM
2

You are correct.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/02/20 12:17 AM
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To a lot of these feminists, words equate violence if directed at a woman. And vile words from a man to a woman, in their perspective, is an acceptable excuse for violence towards that man. With all the "equality" they preach, you'll somehow never hear them accept a man hitting a woman just because she was being a verbally hurtful or verbally threatening. Edit-clarity.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/02/20 09:53 PM
17

Ugh. Let's start with the fact that they hypocritically call Depp "alleged abuser", but do not give the same title to Amber. Their bullshit is aggressively exposed from line one. Given that this is the same guy that publicly joked about killing the president, I can't take that private text (which is completely removed of literally all context) as a serious threat. It wasn't even sent to Amber. It does read as one of the most appalling things I've ever read, however. If I didn't know how dark his…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/02/20 09:48 PM
1

True.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 09:06 PM
4

You're welcome. Sorry if I possibly came off as rude or abrupt, I just keep having to repeat what I mean in other threads and at the same time I don't want to come off like I agree with how hypocritical the laws surrounding abortion are. Have a good one.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 06:28 PM
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I actually disagree. It should be taken more seriously as sleeping with multiple people is a chosen lifestyle and being fat usually comes from a chosen lifestyle. Men do not choose their dick. Everyone should be able to judge people on their life decisions.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 06:22 PM
4

Constitutionally, suicide is not illegal. Some states have laws about attempts, and that is obviously hypocritical. Again, I do not agree with the sentiment and I'm not debating what should be or shouldn't be acceptable by law. I am only agreeing that it is the way it is currently legally seen.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 05:57 PM
1

My mistake! Thought you were the OP. Edited.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 05:50 PM
1

Nothing he said implied he was looking for people to reach out to him with condolences, which is the point being raised here. All we know is he asked a legal question and got the legal answer. Perhaps it was truly meant to be snarky, or perhaps you're just reading it that way because you are anti abortion? Maybe both are true, or neither are. Even so, as this person pointed out, this question is asked multiple times. I honestly think it's truly ignorant that one could live in a place where abort…
/r/MensRights28/02/20 05:49 PM
1

Under the current constitution, abortions are legal because the baby is inside of a woman. The slogan is flawed as I mentioned, but it doesn't matter when legally the gist is exactly that. I'm not going to go into some kind of debate about how abortion should be seen when this man asked a legal question on a legal forum and received the applicable answer of how abortion is seen by the courts. Regardless of any personal feelings about it, or correction of words, the answer is exactly why nothing …
/r/MensRights28/02/20 05:33 PM
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It isn't necessarily a feminist lecture, though it wouldn't surprise me if the person is a feminist. They are reiterating how abortion is legally seen to a man asking if he can do anything. He can literally do nothing and that answer is exactly why. I don't think abortion is ok at all and even I would point it out in a similar way if someone asked a question about legal actions. I have seen other MRAs phrase it similarly, too. There is literally no recourse, unfortunately.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 05:27 PM
1

That wasn't a lecture. That is how this situation is legally seen. If this were not a legal question and it was simply a man saying something to the effect of being heartbroken that this happened to him only to get told that, I would understand your point.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 05:22 PM
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Neither comment mentioned that he must be "happy" about it, which is illogical, and neither did I.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 04:48 PM
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Yes, I agree. When I say lie, I mean with words. That's usually how the word is used. That's why I pointed out the time one needs to get to know a person means what they say.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 04:47 PM
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Men baking is a normal thing, they just usually also do it as a job. Your co-workers just sound a little jealous that you did something they're probably not capable of and didn't think to do themselves. I agree that if you were a woman, no one would be asking if your boyfriend made them because the media doesn't usually show men baking for fun. And also because when people assume a man did the hard work a woman presents, there's a mini riot lol.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 04:43 PM
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I agree with everything you said! Sex makes babies so people should stop throwing it around, especially if they are concerned about the consequences. Doubt they will though. Not even the STD rate is deterring it. And also something to note, a woman can lie about her values. It definitely takes time to know someone to make sure they aren't pulling the wool over your eyes by saying what you want to hear. Too many people don't want to wait until the time has passed to sleep together.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 04:29 PM
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There will be push back especially if they can use a man's skin cells to make an egg. Probably looking at decades and decades before it's anywhere near perfected, but it's better than not trying.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 04:23 PM
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Why do go to an extreme? I don't think he's happy about it, that makes no sense. There are a complex set of feelings one could have about this situation that run the gamut, but nothing he said pointed to me thinking he was happy. However, nothing he said pointed to him wanting comfort from strangers either. He also posted to a legal forum. Doesn't sound like a place where people will offer comfort, only legal advice. Correct me if I'm wrong and the community there usually expresses empathy in th…
/r/MensRights28/02/20 04:20 PM
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I'm agreeing that a fetus/baby is not a woman's body. I do think however that the reasons for abortion are not as simple as not wanting morning sickness. Just like the reasons a man would want a paper abortion ultimately vary. Regardless, I would never kill a child in my body.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 04:11 PM
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Yeah, I'm a woman and it's true that many of us do lie, especially in our teens when girls are really learning how to manipulate situations. I don't know if we lie more than men do, or that it's just something engrained in us, but I do know that those of us that lie immediately play victim as you mentioned. And it usually works for them. That's definitely extremely dangerous. Women can also be very passive aggressive and are more prone to starting rumors about each other, even those they claim a…
/r/MensRights28/02/20 04:05 PM
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My body, my choice is definitely a flawed "slogan". It does ultimately make it seem as if a woman is removing like an ear or toe of her choosing. Even if someone is pro-choice, they should be clear that it's a separate body that they are killing/terminating. That doesn't make people comfortable though, so they ignore that for a slogan that doesn't address it.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 03:59 PM
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They gave him the right answer to his simple legal question as it stands under the current law. He didn't seem to be looking for comfort in any obvious way. I guess you mean they didn't have "sorry for your loss" added to their answers?
/r/MensRights28/02/20 03:56 PM
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Sorry that you're being bullied. I think it stems from the idea society has that girls and women can never do as much damage as boys or men, whether emotionally, mentally, or physically. Obviously, as you know, that's untrue.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 03:49 PM
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Yes, I'm much better now that I've fully processed it. Thank you for asking and thank you for the well wishes, same to you.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 05:34 AM
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I was sexually assaulted by teen girls as a little girl. There's absolutely no outlet for discussing these things in normal society. I honestly think the number of female pedos/hebephiles is just as high if not higher than men. It freaks me out after my experience that people are so quick to leave their kids with women or girls thinking they won't or can't do something horrible! Kids are never left with men or boys as easily. And the number of rapists are nearly 1 to 1. Sorry to hear about your …
/r/MensRights28/02/20 04:13 AM
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Geez that's fucking bizarre and shitty.
/r/MensRights28/02/20 04:06 AM
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I can't listen to it for more than 5 seconds. The sound of someone whispering ticks me the hell off. I feel like my ear's being assaulted. But yes, when an innocent woman gets hurt there are rarely those who would joke about that like they do a man getting hurt. I think both are fine if they're just jokes, it's just the hypocrisy that many have about it that gets me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/02/20 05:53 PM
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Continue therapy for your self worth issues and make sure people around you aren't reinforcing the idea that men are beneath women. If they are, cut them out of your life where possible. Cut down on viewing media that reinforces that idea as well. Remain active in online communities that are male positive and that point out double standards until it becomes normal for you to fully accept how wrong those double standards are. Good luck. Edit: Try to remember in your daily life that no one is bene…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/02/20 03:53 PM
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Well, if you feel that way about it, I suppose we'll have to agree to disagree. I prefer to go with what I know for sure could reap tangible results. I even think women will stop being so flippant about pregnancy if they know the men legally don't have to support them.
/r/MensRights26/02/20 06:59 PM
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I know the difference in words, I simply mistyped. My mistake not noticing. Thank you for the correction though. My point is you will not get the Western world to vote that abortion should be illegal. It simply will not happen. It's been done before in America and the people tore it down. Because it won't happen, most believe it's best to move to plan B for equality's sake. These new parental rights for men would be a hard fight, but not impossible. It's not just about saving one's resources but…
/r/MensRights26/02/20 06:20 PM
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I didn't say "we will never get anything done in the modern world so why even bother". What I am saying is that the idea that we can force ALL people to be pro-life when it has never worked in all of history is a fool's errand. I NEVER said that abortion does not bother me or that I value worldly possessions over the lives of children! Wtf? Why would I mention that I would never kill a baby in my womb if I didn't care???? You seem like someone that just likes to moral grandstand. Instead of argu…
/r/MensRights26/02/20 03:58 PM
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I'm not shocked that there are some women out there that are ignorant when it comes to how their bodies work so I agree with some of the sentiment in the OP. I do think it's perfectly fair to note that some women simply don't know, even though they should. But many do women trick men into this position and have been doing it since before pregnancy tests existed. Tricking men by guilting them into caring for a baby the woman isn't sure is his (or is sure is not his), lying about being pregnant, a…
/r/MensRights26/02/20 02:40 PM
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I'm personally a pro choice woman for myself as I'd never kill a baby my body grew, but to think I can force other people to go that route when voting shows that many will not is ludicrous. Even when there were laws making abortion illegal throughout America, they were still done, along with infanticide killings. I can't make other women stop doing this as others won't give it up. And unless we all begin adopting multiple children, it will become unfeasible. People will not start behaving morall…
/r/MensRights26/02/20 01:57 PM
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Do you have children together? If not, she's calling you probably because she's knows you still feel enough about her to not block her and she's exploiting your clear lack of boundaries.
/r/MensRights26/02/20 03:28 AM
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Even in a reality without abortion, legal or back alley, women can adopt out their child and owe nothing. So technically it would still be uneven.
/r/MensRights26/02/20 03:18 AM
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You seem to be resentful as fuck. Stop talking down to these men just because you had a shit time being giving birth and raising your kids with a terrible excuse of a man. Completely irrelevant as no one is denying your hard times existed.
/r/MensRights26/02/20 03:06 AM
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The reason there isn't male birth control is the difficultly in making one. There is one that recently passed safety tests. The biggest issue is that it needs to give a reversable effect which has been more difficult to figure out for men. Trust me when I say most men would do backflips to get a pill that allowed them to fuck without worrying so much, even if it had some side effects. Why so pissy about it? You went from trying to be helpful to just insulting men for no reason. We women have bir…
/r/MensRights26/02/20 03:00 AM
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Then my mistake.
/r/MensRights25/02/20 09:27 PM
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The government and society pussy foots around Jews lest they be called Nazis. I don't hate Jews or anything, I'm sure most are normal and decent, but that sh!t is sick and inexcusable. We know that absolutely no where else and done by no one else would that be legal or socially acceptable.
/r/MensRights25/02/20 08:46 PM
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I don't know if you're just being silly for a joke or you're missing the point. The entire female gender shouldn't be looked at or spoken about mostly in two extremes.
/r/MensRights25/02/20 08:40 PM
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How does someone even get to this point of ignorance?
/r/MensRights25/02/20 08:35 PM
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Oh, I didn't see this until now. Thank you for the clarification and I apologize for taking it as condescending. That's my mistake. When I called the comment heinous, I meant that it came off like you were saying that was common rhetoric here and if that were the case, those comments would be terrible. If it's not the case, it does come off like you are falsely labeling people here as accepting of such things when we do try our best to set sexist men straight in this sub.
/r/MensRights25/02/20 07:03 PM
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Also, to clarify some of why we dislike Feminism here: It does not regularly open up true discourse with men about men's issues. When it does, the solution is usually all about men needing to work on themselves and become more like women in the way they express themselves or behave. Men expressing they feel hurt by how women or the government treats them is met with criticisms of their manhood. The usual responses are "women have it worse so you can't complain" and as mentioned in the first comm…
/r/MensRights25/02/20 06:53 PM
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No one is a feminist by birth, but people are female or male by birth. There is absolutely no equivalent in that comparison. If one attacks actions or affiliation, it's different than attacking something one cannot change and has no say in. Just like if I said that I dislike Catholic priests or popes, I'm not saying I dislike men. Or if I say I dislike Conservatives, I'm not talking about biology but a group and a set of beliefs. You get the vibe that people here are against feminism because we …
/r/MensRights25/02/20 06:29 PM
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Where do you see people saying violence against women doesn't exist? I'm a woman also and have never seen that to be a common sentiment here at all. I don't think I've seen it once even though I have seen a couple comments in seas of comments that were downvoted for being sexist against women.
/r/MensRights25/02/20 06:02 PM
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Found to be lying and not enough evidence to convict are two different things.
/r/MensRights25/02/20 06:00 PM
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Any time, kiddo! Good luck with everything! Make another post here if you ever need some extra guidance from us all again or want to update.
/r/MensRights22/02/20 02:35 PM
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They could also just be bluffing for effect. Who knows.
/r/MensRights22/02/20 02:01 AM
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No one said anything about abuse being a gendered problem! That's the point of us! Abuse is abuse and that's what we try to make clear here. This particular boy is dealing with abuse from women so he phrased it as such. He probably wanted to go to people who wouldn't make excuses for the actions of these women. It's safe here for a story like this. It is taken seriously. I am a woman and didn't feel personally attacked by any phrasing here. You are playing victim olympics against a severely abus…
/r/MensRights22/02/20 12:54 AM
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You are not stupid, kiddo! You shouldn't have to deal with these things and shouldn't expect yourself to have known exactly what to do! It's ok, don't get down on yourself about it. You sound incredibly smart to me. I'm not sure exactly how emancipation works in the U.K. as I'm in the U.S., but hopefully you can Google the process. I would definitely talk to your school counsellor first if you've got one. Definitely report to an adult at school or an adult you know all the abuse and the injuries…
/r/MensRights22/02/20 12:40 AM
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When talking about places like U.S.A, Canada, and the U.K. many feminist talking points aren't correct. Like the notion that it was ok for men to beat their wives or that women couldn't work. If you watch some of her videos or debates, she goes through some examples. When it comes to the Middle East, I have no clue what goes on over there as I don't live there and know no one personally that does, sorry. Most MRAs who mostly exist in "Western" countries as I do, don't usually undermine or even d…
/r/MensRights21/02/20 05:49 PM
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Karen Straughan was the first person to get me to see the revisionist history most of the Western world buys into. It's crazy how quickly people were led astray.
/r/MensRights21/02/20 05:08 PM
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Well put.
/r/MensRights21/02/20 05:05 PM
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They live in a bubble of victimhood and can't possibly understand that harassment is an ungendered issue.
/r/MensRights21/02/20 04:59 PM
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Pervasive brainwashing.
/r/MensRights21/02/20 04:55 PM
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You have a few options. You could call child services on your own behalf. Make a thorough report of EVERYTHING that has happened to you by your family members. Try to write everything down if you can. Be very specific. Take pictures of what's on the fridge or any bruises or injuries you may have and keep them in your phone or in your computer. Secretly record any incidents arguments or taunts against you, which I believe is legal in the U.K. You could also explain in detail the abuse you are suf…
/r/MensRights21/02/20 04:43 PM
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Wow, that's awesome! I avoided that show because it was so different from the comics, but I'm glad they have morals in it.
/r/MensRights21/02/20 01:52 PM
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Really? It's common for men to want to be fathers. It's just also accepted that no one can force a woman not to have an abortion. Even when there are laws, women who want an abortion will circumvent them. And thanks for caring! I'm better now than I was before. : )
/r/MensRights18/02/20 11:41 AM
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I actually went through a year or more of my teens with gender dysphoria due to my depression and wanting to detach in strongest way from the women around me who were abusing me. It got better when I realized not all women are the same. Why do you believe you're hated in MRA circles? Wanting basic rights that women receive is a common desire for male MRAs. Not everyone is as vocal when they agree with someone. I would think hate would not be directed at you from MRAs and you may be incorrectly a…
/r/MensRights18/02/20 11:16 AM
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There it is.
/r/MensRights17/02/20 02:10 PM
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I'm sorry you feel such deep pain from it, but I completely understand. I keep to myself for some similar reasons. You can find a woman who will value you as a person and date you with the desire to be a good partner and respect you as you'd respect her. Wish I could point you in the direction of one, but I guess you'll find each other when it's time, perhaps unexpectedly. Until then, try to find something that makes you happy and get deeply involved in it. Do it daily if you can! Live for yours…
/r/MensRights17/02/20 02:09 PM
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Say nothing else to her. Film it. Get her fired.
/r/MensRights17/02/20 01:51 PM
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Guess you're right. :(
/r/MensRights16/02/20 03:54 AM
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lol Same here
/r/MensRights15/02/20 03:05 PM
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Awesome! I agree.
/r/MensRights15/02/20 02:54 PM
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Just because a woman is pregnant, it does not make her a whore. It just makes it seem like you think women who have sex are whores. You probably wouldn't be downvoted if that label were applicable here.
/r/MensRights15/02/20 02:24 PM
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That would be acceptable to say if the same sentiment was applied legally and socially to women.
/r/MensRights15/02/20 02:21 PM
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Sure, same for a woman. But only one is forced to take parental responsibility no matter what. There lies the issue.
/r/MensRights15/02/20 02:20 PM
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If a mother ever needs any kind of government assistance, the state will try to obtain child support from the listed father(s) of her children. Edit: I may have sounded dismissive of your fairness and morals when I wrote this and that was not my intention.
/r/MensRights15/02/20 02:13 PM
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I believe if women can abort, men should certainly be allowed a paper abortion relinquishing parental rights and being excluded from any child support. I am pro-life for myself as a woman, but I can't tell others where they should stand. I can only tell others that wherever they stand, it should be as equal as possible to where they stand on men's parental rights. Hearing women screech about their rights to abort while saying NOTHING about giving men any rights close to that drives me so far up …
/r/MensRights15/02/20 12:22 PM
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If a woman sleeps with more than one man during the window of conception or even within a several month period, she shouldn't claim any man the father without being sure with the help of DNA. That means that when this happens, it is ultimately on purpose no matter what the mother wants to say about it. Anyone will a real sense of responsibility would make sure.
/r/MensRights15/02/20 11:59 AM
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You know it.
/r/MensRights15/02/20 11:54 AM
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The counter arguments I've encountered (only from fellow women mind you) were, "Not everyone is a slut like you must be! When you're married you'll realize that real men know their wives aren't lying!" and "It would ruin families! Just because a woman cheated doesn't mean her whole life should be ruined and the child should suffer!" and "Oh, so the government should be in control of that too?" and "I'd be so insulted if my husband allowed them to test our child after I gave birth!" and "Just bec…
/r/MensRights15/02/20 11:45 AM
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That was really satisfying! In stereotypical fashion, she probably ended up as one of those "Men are trash!" women.
/r/MensRights15/02/20 11:33 AM
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Even if a kid did enjoy this kind of thing, that doesn't mean it's ok to oblige. Only female pedophiles and hebephiles get that disgustingly immoral excuse.
/r/MensRights15/02/20 10:58 AM
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My Dad and father figures have always wished me happy Valentine's as a little girl and even just yesterday now that I'm an adult. The day is about love, a feeling one can have for anyone in a pure way. People bothered by this are just idiots. I'm sad you even have to ask this question on the internet.
/r/MensRights15/02/20 10:50 AM
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Unfortunately, it doesn't matter to them how much men suffer from homicide statistically. To many people, when men suffer at the hands of other men, whether those men are individuals, gangs, or the "patriarchal" government, their suffering is cancelled out.
/r/MensRights15/02/20 10:38 AM
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I'm not a man so I apologize, but I hope this helps regardless. Do yourself a favor and calmly explain your position early on with studies, statistics, and some real life examples. Explain why it means so much to you. Try to do this in a way that does not sound preachy and do not act defensive. Then, let them respond with their own thoughts. Before this conversation, you can bring up some current examples of men's issues (i.e. "Did you hear about that case in the news today...? What do you think…
/r/MensRights15/02/20 10:29 AM
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Great to hear!
/r/MensRights15/02/20 10:11 AM
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I wonder if these people ever say this stuff to their fathers, sons, grandads, male professors, male friends...or do they just avoid men entirely?
/r/MensRights14/02/20 10:58 AM
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That's because it is. Of course not every feminist is bad, but the movement as a whole is simply looking for benefits without merit while neglecting men's issues or bringing them up simply to tell men their problems will be solved if they acted like women. It's nonsense.
/r/MensRights14/02/20 10:45 AM
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lmao!
/r/MensRights14/02/20 10:40 AM
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I like at the end where he lists the moral of the story. Too true.
/r/MensRights14/02/20 10:21 AM
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This shit's too common. People are brainwashed.
/r/MensRights14/02/20 10:17 AM
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Yeah, some people are freaked out about kid's thinking a white straight male slides down their chimneys, as if Santa's a real person and somehow a woman doing it would be less bizarre. Some people are too far gone.
/r/MensRights14/02/20 10:11 AM
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Seeing the hypocrisy in Feminism to the point where I stopped calling myself one. Then I saw one of Karen Straughan's videos and it opened my eyes. I found the men's rights movement to be equally welcoming to both sexes, so it was easy to take part. I grew up seeing the men around me suffer, some to the point of suicide, so helping raise awareness about men's issues is the least I can do.
/r/MensRights14/02/20 09:37 AM
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I think transgendered people are just as ok to exist as everyone else. But the minority of them that are loud, angry, and desperate to overthrow the sex they've decided to become from the inside need to be put in their place.
/r/MensRights14/02/20 09:32 AM
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Good!
/r/MensRights14/02/20 09:29 AM
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When women complain about men's behavior, it's progressive and men's fault. When men complain about women's behavior, it's toxic and still men's fault. sigh.
/r/MensRights13/02/20 08:11 PM
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I agree. Women know and many project this behavior onto men. Well explained.
/r/MensRights13/02/20 12:52 PM
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That's a proper women's rights movement.
/r/MensRights13/02/20 12:42 PM
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As much as I'd want to encourage you to drop the feminist label, it might be best for you to keep fighting for true equality from the inside so to speak. And obviously, your affiliation is your choice only. I respect that you've grown and learned and realized your past actions came from a misplaced need for power and that men's feelings matter as much as yours. That's awesome! I don't think any group really tackles the topic of sex the way I'd like to see it tackled, but the MRM doesn't have the…
/r/MensRights13/02/20 04:52 AM
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I'm feeling the exact same way about this, unless I'm missing something.
/r/MensRights13/02/20 04:13 AM
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I remember being assualted as a teen. When I told the older women I knew, including my mom, I was met with "it could've been worse." And "you don't have enough to go to the police". The latter turned out to be completely false! I wanted to go to the police a.s.a.p, not wait until later. But I was met with this bs. Mind you, I'm a woman. Don't listen to people around you even if that's hard. Assert yourself if you feel what happened is wrong. Please go talk to your boss about this if it's still c…
/r/MensRights13/02/20 04:08 AM
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Ok, thank you for explaining. I obviously believe otherwise. I think we can work on several things at once and should, whether for our generation or the next, but I at least have a better grip on where you were coming from.
/r/MensRights12/02/20 08:25 AM
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First: I am a woman, so I've never experienced that disappointment. I also never said it was "unjust", I'm basically saying it makes sense it's a woman's decision because it's inside of her body. Second: The whole point of being an MRA is to find solutions to inequality. Not saying well that sucks. Thirdly: Parental rights is one of the BIGGEST issues in this movement, hands down. Why are you dismissing artificial wombs to this extent? Why do you think men should just suck it up instead of encou…
/r/MensRights12/02/20 07:59 AM
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Why would I not realize that we can get pregnant multiple times? Why assume I'm a complete idiot? A woman can get pregnant 50 times and abort 50 times or get pregnant 3 times and abort only once. It literally solves nothing to know that. Nothing at all. It's still 100% out of men's hands and that is the point of the conversation. Adoption obviously does not produce the same desired result. With surrogacy, a form of a abortion regularly occurs. It's called "selective reduction". Even when carryin…
/r/MensRights12/02/20 05:19 AM
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Thank you. It would be wonderful if we could all come together and leave any and all extremism behind! That's the goal for sure.
/r/MensRights12/02/20 05:02 AM
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The fact that she's so obsessed with that state of his genitalia while he thinks it's fine screams psychological illness on her part. I don't understand how some men let things go this far.
/r/MensRights12/02/20 12:47 AM
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Agreed, it is heartless and superficial, but that's to be expected when a lot of sex these days takes place between people who do not love or even at least respect the person they're having it with.
/r/MensRights11/02/20 03:57 PM
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I'm lost. You want men to tell other men to stop flirting with their dick size or dick pics? I don't think men in general encourage this behavior. Seems like something they all know isn't appreciated by most women. It's as someone mentioned, men that do this do it because that's how they would like to be approached by a woman. Also, these men are looking to be pre-approved instead of ending up being rejected later on for their size. Then some are simply exhibitionists or desperate for a self est…
/r/MensRights11/02/20 03:22 PM
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C'mon girls. Not the place for this. I'm sorry you're having a hard time and feeling disregarded by your Dad, but this sub is not a sub that acts as if men are all angels. Unfortunately, some men are bad, but 99% of people understand this fact. We're here to make sure women and men are held equally responsible and are viewed as equally human. We do not try to dismiss situations where men exhibit poor behavior. Keep self soothing as you have been doing, continue to realize this situation is not y…
/r/MensRights11/02/20 09:58 AM
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I'm glad she mentioned she doesn't push women's issues to the side. That's the argument people use against us. They genuinely believe we're saying "f women that are actually in need". I do think most women's issues are really just issues that both men and women deal with, but it can help to phrase it the way people want to hear it.
/r/MensRights11/02/20 09:48 AM
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They're pandering to the wrong kind of women. Most of the women that join the military don't care about wearing 'bling' (wtf lol) or short skirts while working. Why would they even want to recruit such mindless shallow women on purpose? God forbid their outfits aren't on trend!!! Sounds like a good way to have even more problems than they have already. Also, it needs to sound serious. It doesn't need to sound like a normal 9-5. They are still handing their lives over to the government. Women bei…
/r/MensRights11/02/20 09:41 AM
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I'm not a scientist so I can't really lay it all out for you, unfortunately. They have had success with a lamb so it has worked. I'd look up an explanation of how on Google as it will be explained better by a scientist than by me.
/r/MensRights11/02/20 09:15 AM
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Funding the research? Research funding isn't only given by governments. If you mean paying for use of the artificial womb, I would imagine it would have to be paid by the parent or parents, possibly with the help of insurance.
/r/MensRights11/02/20 09:12 AM
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Eggs possibly made from skin cells! I see, that would be a great way to circumvent needing a woman's involvement. I'm excited to see where this will go and will look into the companies I can support. Thank you.
/r/MensRights11/02/20 09:05 AM
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Yes, I am aware that the "my body, my choice" argument would die. But I wonder if it will simply become, "my egg, my choice." You know how feminists like to move goalposts.
/r/MensRights11/02/20 08:50 AM
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Are you saying you believe the government would have ultimate control over a child born artificially? Why would that be the case?
/r/MensRights11/02/20 08:48 AM
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As much as I have concerns, it seems like the best new solution. What are your other "more reasonable conclusions"? Even if a man asks a woman about wanting children before hand and she agrees enthusiastically to wanting them, she will still abort if she decides to. Even if a man wears a condom, there may still be accidents and she will still abort if she decides to. The point OP made is that indeed the woman will retain this right to abortion because the baby is inside of her body. The possible…
/r/MensRights11/02/20 08:45 AM
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Basically, a baby will be incubated outside of a mother's body within a man-made womb.
/r/MensRights11/02/20 08:33 AM
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I will ask you some genuine questions, if I may: Does anyone behind this mention there will be laws in place to prevent a woman in a couple choosing to use an artificial womb from deciding to "terminate" the baby in the artificial womb? Women having abortions isn't truly about the baby being in their body, it usually happens because they've decided they don't want to be a parent. In our gynocentric society, do you think there is real hope that a man's want to be a parent will be put over a woman…
/r/MensRights11/02/20 08:30 AM
10

It's both. By saying adult women aren't responsible for our actions they are also telling us we're stupid, more ignorant than normal children. And you're welcome.
/r/MensRights10/02/20 07:47 PM
1

Because they think long hair is "too feminine" but being bald can make men seem like they're old/"creepy". (I don't share those opinions btw.)
/r/MensRights10/02/20 07:13 PM
2

I'm too disgusted to write a proper comment honestly. All I hope is that he divorces and also disowns that trash daughter.
/r/MensRights10/02/20 07:01 PM
7

Exactly, I agree.
/r/MensRights10/02/20 05:51 AM
1

Did I read correctly that they are punishing him for purposely finding that the child is not his? And that it would possibly qualify as an exception if he found out accidentally? What a sick """mother""" btw. How do we attack these kinds of laws?
/r/MensRights10/02/20 05:32 AM
2

Good article. I like that it pointed out the circular logic used by feminists that make it seem that a woman should always be perceived as a victim no matter her actions or level of honesty.
/r/MensRights10/02/20 05:03 AM
5

It's funny that they believe men should be taken out of the equation for a woman to be able win. Shamefully shows little faith in a woman's ability to write great literature. They could have even added a category that awards fiction with a woman protagonist, open to all sexes. Anna Karenina was written by Tolstoy. Men do read and write about women's lives and do read and enjoy work written by women.
/r/MensRights10/02/20 04:52 AM
4

She's disgusting. The hoops she jumped through to make Johnny look terrible in this is nuts. With the audio, there's no excuses or maybes that should be handed out by feminists, yet here we are.
/r/MensRights10/02/20 02:58 AM
1

He is capable of making his own breakfast, but she does it for him. She is capable of working to bring money into the house, but he does it for her. There is nothing here that shows one controls the other unless you think they both control each other.
/r/MensRights09/02/20 10:44 PM
1

But you see he is literally providing money for her and his children's entire living expenses so why should she not take care of the household? That's the least she can do. She's an adult living rent free and doesn't have to work a real job. She probably also gets to spend more time with the children than he does. If the genders were reversed, would you not applaud a man for doing all the housework if his wife was providing financially for the entire household? He does that all for her and she d…
/r/MensRights09/02/20 03:58 PM
2

I'm glad they got her to admit it and have the written proof.
/r/MensRights09/02/20 03:48 PM
4

A high maintenance woman who can't pay for all of her own maintenance...? What a prize!
/r/MensRights09/02/20 03:38 PM
3

Good! 🙂👌 Edit: To avoid seeming like I agreed with something inaccurate now that her comment is gone, I was agreeing that she should indeed remain single.
/r/MensRights09/02/20 03:33 PM
1

"Maximum female benefit". What is that exactly?
/r/MensRights09/02/20 03:23 PM
1

If you allow yourself to think that, I hope you also think that the man is enslaved by providing financially for not only a wife but multiple children? Either there's two slaves or none.
/r/MensRights09/02/20 03:05 PM
3

I think they actually mean that we've done a 180.
/r/MensRights09/02/20 02:05 PM
6

Wow, I had no idea. Surely doctors know this can happen, but they take the money anyway.
/r/MensRights09/02/20 11:03 AM
1

Your anger is understandable and I'm glad you could release some of it. I'm sorry to hear about the trauma you've experienced. If you speak to some men you know, they'll probably have some similar experiences and give you the hands on support you need. We've got to keep working to have voices like yours heard and taken seriously by everyone. Again, I'm so sorry those things have happened to you and you certainly deserved none of it.
/r/MensRights09/02/20 10:55 AM
69

The shorter explanation is: 1. Disappointment in feminists not putting children's issues first or even putting children at risk, which BLEW MY MIND. 2. Disgust in the popular feminist rhetoric, some of which I perceive as immoral. 3. Threats of violence like #killallmen being allowed to go on for so long without real repercussion. 4. Not taking responsibility for or eradicating extremist views, simply claiming No true Scotsman. 5. Asking from male allies what would never be given in return to th…
/r/MensRights09/02/20 05:59 AM
1

What the fuck does she want? A blood pact??
/r/MensRights09/02/20 12:26 AM
5

I've been very poor before as a teen and needed menstruation products. My mother took me to a church that was providing food for the poor and FREE pads and tampons. They weren't the best, but they were amazing for me. There are ways to access these for free so no sex should be allowed to steal a certain thing unless we can all freely steal food, baby formula, warm clothes, etc. I don't know if these women that bullied this store are communists or just stupid (or both).
/r/MensRights09/02/20 12:16 AM
1

Flawless correction!
/r/MensRights08/02/20 01:00 AM
1

So many normal people, men and women, give a shit. My take is that the corporations and Hollywood bow down only to "woketivists" and feminists. The majority of people are not their first priority, but looking "woke" and bowing to gynocentrisism is. I've since looked and feminist outlets are not raging like they were when they thought Johnny was guilty so there's literally no pressure on actors or companies to call her out. However, I've looked on Twitter now and there are tons of women with #Jus…
/r/MensRights07/02/20 02:30 PM
4

What women at the current time are happy about proof she abused Depp or still on her side after recent revelations? I'm not on Twitter, but are many feminists still supporting her? After all this? I've only seen her remaining support from the public, male or female, erode immediately. But the corporations she works for and fellow actors are definitely turning a blind eye so far.
/r/MensRights07/02/20 06:38 AM
1

Well, I'm not sure which is correct as I've read that Vanessa and Johnny, and watched back then, that they were already living seperate lives much before Johnny and Amber got together but possibly not before they met. I don't see where either of them mentioned cheating or being cheated on, and they were such a private couple it's difficult to tell either way. I didn't mean to assert what I saw was factual, but I don't think asserting he cheated is factual either.
/r/MensRights06/02/20 10:09 PM
6

From what I've heard, they were already separated for a year or so when he met Amber.
/r/MensRights06/02/20 09:30 AM
1

Well, both pregnancy and aging can cause sagging breasts. Breasts swell and expand during pregnancy due to hormones and growing milk ducts, then can shrink leaving sagging skin. Even women who get pregnant at 18 can experience this after pregnancy. And then of course some women are more genetically and hormonally predisposed to non perky breasts anyway, regardless of age or pregnancy.
/r/MensRights05/02/20 05:35 AM
7

Well, why don't most women who are routinely abused record it? Just a guess here, but it probably doesn't always come to mind at the time or it's just plain fear. The ones who don't are possibly scared of what will happen at the hands of their abuser if they found out they're recording secretly. No one likes to be recorded secretly, especially not those who want to pretend they aren't abusive. The abuser usually has such a psychological hold on the victim that it's almost like you're paralyzed i…
/r/MensRights05/02/20 05:03 AM
2

Are your parents living with you? Do they know her behavior is like this? It could be for any number of reasons, but it does seem like she is gaslighting you as someone else mentioned. You should not be made to feel like a criminal when you aren't, especially in your own home around your own family members. Please notify your parents A.S.A.P. if you know they'll support you in this and ask her bluntly why she does this. Make sure to let her and your parents know how terrible it feels to be treat…
/r/MensRights05/02/20 03:55 AM
2

I agree with everything you said. I was going to mention the points about bodily autonomy and resentment in my own post because it's common, but I could not find the right words for it so thank you for writing such a comprehensive explanation. And yes, I don't want to demonize formula as some certainly need it, I just meant it just should never be first choice imho.
/r/MensRights05/02/20 02:15 AM
4

Extreme double standard. How does this even happen?
/r/MensRights05/02/20 02:08 AM
1

But you don't have to give up your seat on public transport so not the best comparison.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/02/20 01:41 AM
1

Ha! This is the correct question! Being male doesn't make it easier to stand up.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/02/20 01:39 AM
2

Thank you. I genuinely wonder if he was given clues to her behavior and just ignored them? She sounds like the type who could be spiteful and territorial when it comes to children during a divorce or even just in general while raising the children. The type to say she has the authority because she carried them. I hope that won't be the case and she opens her eyes to her unfair behavior. Highly unlikely though with so many of her side.
/r/MensRights05/02/20 12:51 AM
1

They make those claims partially because formula can be more convenient than always pumping and certain people believe women work too hard caring for children as it is. Unless a woman is unfortunately incapable, it makes no sense to avoid.
/r/MensRights05/02/20 12:45 AM
2

The comments are beyond upsetting. Every time I see how little men are respected in marriage or as parents, I can understand why so many are abstaining from both in this era. I can't even counter their reasons anymore when things seem so commonly one-sided when it comes to respect. It makes me both angry and terribly sad. He only wants to help. I also don't understand a woman not trying to breastfeed. As a woman, I just find it selfish to not bother to try. Yes, it can hurt and be annoying but s…
/r/MensRights05/02/20 12:30 AM
7

PETA has always detailed any points they have by promoting new idiotic things they want us to be upset about. Even Twitter feminists wouldn't agree with this as they're unironically comparing women to cats and dogs.
/r/MensRights05/02/20 12:00 AM
1

No problem!
/r/MensRights29/01/20 04:47 PM
1

I don't for a second believe Kobe ever raped anyone. However, the motivation to rape is not always that a male or female perpetrator can't get laid. The motivations to rape are varied just like the looks and social standings of the perpetrators are varied.
/r/MensRights29/01/20 12:18 AM
2

My mistake! You're correct. Reddit didn't load all of her posts in for me on mobile the first time. My apologies to you.
/r/MensRights28/01/20 11:46 PM
0

I don't see anything like that on her profile. Edit: I was incorrect.
/r/MensRights28/01/20 11:43 PM
1

I assume you're unaware, but your comment posted several times. Just a friendly fyi! I know technical difficulties happen.
/r/MensRights28/01/20 11:39 PM
1

A start, but they are using incorrect data.
/r/MensRights28/01/20 11:31 PM
8

Feminism doesn't understand why certain people don't take it seriously in the West, but it rarely condemns its own psychos. Where are the feminists making sure she loses her fucking job because of this vitriolic sexism? Trash.
/r/MensRights28/01/20 07:13 AM
5

Reading through the comments from people who have been to that show, they have no signs giving the audience cues.
/r/MensRights16/01/20 10:01 PM
7

That's good to see some progress in society taking the lives of men seriously.
/r/MensRights14/01/20 07:40 PM
3

Bingo.
/r/MensRights13/01/20 12:34 AM
1

Not being subordinate does not equate to being dominant. You are being purposely disingenuous in your interpretation of my opinion which was more than clearly stated. I am supporting men's suggestions of how they see fit to obtain their rights. The HOW has already been decided here, by men mind you, and it does not follow your plan whatsoever. MRAs in general are noticeably against sexism of any form, unlike you, welcoming in many female counterparts to their cause. Notice the word is counterpar…
/r/MensRights07/01/20 02:15 PM
2

No woman will give someone talking down to them their "understanding" as you're asking. Of course men shouldn't give people talking down to them their understanding either. But the response shouldn't be sexism for sexism. It should be pointing out the hypocrisy within a movement and offering up facts as others here have done. Do you "understand" and "listen" to feminists and then do as told? Surely not. This mirrors their same nonsense about how men are simply allies whose opinions are not on pa…
/r/MensRights07/01/20 03:31 AM
7

Who is exactly is cleaning and cooking in male single homes? The dog? Recognize married men work 4.6 hours more a week than when they were single and married women work 1.6 hours more a week than when single. Men work longer hours across the board. To encourage men to do more at home wouldn't be to ridicule their work effort, which they've proven is solid. And if I were to continue on your line of reasoning, I'm sure in those extra 3 work hours, the dishes, vacuuming, and laundry can all be done…
/r/MensRights07/01/20 03:01 AM
3

In what world will you accomplish anything by attempting to tearing women down? You see what happens already. They use words like yours to prove their point of why feminism is necessary and continue to practice it in its severely flawed form. Enough sexist comments and suddenly "all MRAs hate women" (which is obviously bullshit). Women need to support men's rights in order to accomplish true equality, but it will be lukewarm support from most if they only arrive to see more of the same.
/r/MensRights07/01/20 02:52 AM
3

I agree, feminism does do that to men regularly. Can't really ask others stop being sexist while being sexist can you? That's exactly why we all speak against feminism. The group has made sexism against men accepted and even applauded by society, yet they also ask men to respect them and care about women's issues. Doesn't work that way no matter the direction. I understand the jokes like the above quips on how women would actually spend 4.5 hours a day "cleaning" lol, but it doesn't help bring p…
/r/MensRights07/01/20 02:39 AM
3

I'm a woman and have no reason to be destroyed or to destroy men, verbally or otherwise.
/r/MensRights07/01/20 02:25 AM
8

No need to attach the traits of lying and manipulating to all women because of feminists who most women don't claim.
/r/MensRights07/01/20 02:20 AM
5

Please site sources of any nationwide (in the U.S.A., sorry that's where I live so that's where I focus on) hysteria surrounding women raping men or children that resulted in lynching, or tar and feathering, removal of genitalia and the like. Even just one case would help. I've have genuinely never heard of such a thing or been taught at any point in any part of my education that that happened. Women were indeed lynched but not, to my knowledge, in any large effort to "protect" men or to give ju…
/r/MensRights03/01/20 05:11 AM
6

Sorry my response took so long, I responded to you at the end of my night. Here's the thing, I "understand" hate from many groups, but I won't ever get behind anyone excusing it and dismissing the feelings of those that deal with it. I'm a mixed race woman and I could easily hate men and male and female whites if I wanted to blame everyone the same race or sex as those that have made terrible decisions in the past or currently. But you know what that would be? Sexism and racism. Why excuse or de…
/r/MensRights02/01/20 09:49 PM
6

Telling men to "grow the fuck up" while they are being talked down to and their sex is being negatively generalized is the exact opposite of what someone would do if they really cared about "Toxic Masculinity". You aren't even practicing what you preach. Anyone who used that term properly would explain what it's used for without repeating one of the primary things it supposedly is in place to dispose of: men having to bottle up hurt and shame and just "suck it up"/"grow up"/"man up" no matter ho…
/r/MensRights02/01/20 05:17 AM
30

Exactly. It is.
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