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Thanks for your thoughtful posts. +1
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 08:55 AM
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but the basic dynamic is the same: get the best bargain you can. Yes. ...and women are selling, not buying in a sense. They have what men want, and they hold the cards. Just the best they can get. Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:01 AM
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No, but the women make the final decision on the guy. They control it. most of the time. She can shut the guy down at 2, 3, 4 and 6. Women decide most of the time; most men settle for what they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:55 AM
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The entire exchange of the man showing interest (maybe even as far as asking her out/ for her number). Then, her sizing up the guy and deciding whether to oblige him or not. I guess that it happens online as well, although what information can be gleaned from each other is more marketing-related and may not reveal the big picture. edit: Men can only date in as high a range of attractiveness as women will allow them to. Generally, you're kept within your league by the women that would be willing …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:47 AM
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I have never, not once, been asked by a woman to look at my dick. Two girl acquaintances asked to see mine in my teens. I was embarrassed because I was getting as hard as diamond, so I didn't go for it. So young at the time. Fuck, now I would have had it out before they even finished asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:45 AM
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Mya in one of her songs proclaimed 'I can't stand a man who thinks he looks better than me'. I grew my hair out, and a lot of women tried to get me to cut it off. So, I get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:41 AM
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I also hate when news articles don’t link their sources. I’ve seen too many instances of gross misrepresentation to trust them that much. Yes, you have no idea of who is behind them, or their motives. A good example are those statistics that claim that everyone is really successful in finding partners through online dating apps. If you get a little, most of the stats come from the corporations that run those services.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:37 AM
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I think that it's because men have to proposition women, and men have a strong(er) sex drive. Men have to proposition women, and women normally make the decision as to whether she finds the guy acceptable. Women are less likely to settle, but men will settle more often because they wish to satisfy their sex drive. Men usually abdicate control of the process to the fairer sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:32 AM
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That was pretty good. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:29 AM
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The kids are a burden, though. ...and not just financially. Think of the less freedom that you would have with her. You can have money, but you can't get away at a moment's notice, even for dinner, let alone The Hamptons.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:28 AM
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TBH, I'm pretty shocked at how picky single mothers are. It's mind blowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:26 AM
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Don't forget the face thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:26 AM
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He probably doesn't want to be used for his money, or look like a sugar daddy. I would say that anybody that HAS to work at a job to earn money isn't really that affluent, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:26 AM
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Doesn't 'obese' have to go with fat, and not an extreme case of large muscle mass?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:23 AM
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I have to agree. Also, I don't feel that the 'math' here has to completely add up. Couples don't get out a ledger and calculator and tally everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:22 AM
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That's not surprising. Big, burly dudes are popular with some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:17 AM
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The term "situationship" being in the lexicon proves it isn't. A slang term proves it? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:11 AM
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There's no real evidence of this happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:11 AM
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You said: but no woman in the west is getting murdered by her own family for being perceived Then, you said, "And you can't include Muslims." When you realized that you were wrong. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:26 AM
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Only downside is that you end up in a long distance relationship. Sometimes, it's hard to get past the other person's cultural norms. It works for some people, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:25 AM
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Well, you keep on with the apps that rip people off. You must have more money and time to waste than I do. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:20 AM
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but no woman in the west is getting murdered by her own family for being perceived You said, "no woman in the west". You never said, "no western women". Nice backpedal. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:20 AM
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Yeah, they those men could be seeking one night stands over and over. But, that doesn't mean that they have some kind of harem coming to them, while these women reject all other guys for this one man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:14 AM
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Here's a famous one https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shafia_family_murders 'The interviewed family member also stated that the Shafia family's eldest daughter, Zainab, was in a relationship with a Pakistani boy that elicited much anger from her father; the family member claimed to have overheard the father's threats to kill Zainab.[14]'
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:13 AM
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The male lawyer didn’t fuck the female lawyer because she’s a lawyer. He fucked her because she was there. Smart guy didn't waste his time on dating apps. Smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:54 PM
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your link doesn't verify your numbers https://www.pewresearch.org/internet/wp-content/uploads/sites/9/2020/01/PI_2020.02.06_online-dating_0-1.png?resize=420,311 This guy made a thing that would swipe right on every single woman, but he got no responses https://www.businessinsider.com/man-builds-machine-to-endlessly-swipe-right-on-tinder-2014-12
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:50 PM
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This point possibly take more than half of the discourse on this sub: "women are all sharing the same guys." Are they really? That's a redpill myth. The followers of this religion point to a couple of facebook groups or something, and they apply it to the entire populace.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:37 PM
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Yeah, I don't believe the stats that are put out by those corporations that make people believe that their product works. Look at these companies that give to fake matches to try and get you to buy a paid subscription to reveal those matches. You pay, and then those matches disappear. You cancel your membership, but they keep it active anyway, and you don't notice it for a month or two. These are businesses that are successful by misleading people and even by ripping people off.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:34 PM
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Cher and Alexander Edwards. He's 40 years younger. https://people.com/music/alexander-edwards-facts/ I don't know if these sort of relationships work out in the long term or not. But, I do like that they break the iron-clad 'rules' that some people try to place on whom others can partner with. Now, it's probably a little different when it comes to celebrities. But, still. Is Bryan Ferry worse than Cher just because he's a man? http://adventurel0veblog.blogspot.com/2009/07/amanda-sheppard-on-holi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:31 PM
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According to studies, somewhere around 25% of marriages these days started online. Yeah, but most of those aren't on the apps. No one is good or bad at the lottery. Some people are obviously much better than others at online dating. Online dating is basically shite. But, people are still blaming the users for its shittiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:13 PM
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FYI, in some middle eastern cultures, woman take it up the pooper to preserve their virginity for their future husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:12 PM
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Thats sad and unacceptable but no woman in the west is getting murdered by her own family for being perceived as slut or honor killings. That's not true. Just google it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:10 PM
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Huge burden on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:10 PM
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My boyfriend is also a virgin. You didn't pop his cherry?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:09 PM
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I watched lots of pornos. I watched carefully to learn the techniques. The first time I did it, I was like a pro.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:09 PM
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Savage
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:07 PM
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Well, just look around. How many fit guys do you see with really obese women. I mean, that's real-world evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 09:17 PM
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I agree. So much is lost in online dating. The whole "better pics!" and "send better messages" thing has to be seen for what it is. You're jumping through hoops with little chance of a payoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 09:15 PM
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I think that we need to stop blaming men for the gender's general lack of success on dating apps. This whole thing of trying to get the ultimate pic, the ultimate write-up and sending literally thousands of "good and long" messages has to stop. It's just a big hamster wheel with men running on it. ...and for what? What's the payoff? What are the chances of a payoff?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 09:12 PM
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but it's not like millions of people aren't meeting and dating and having sex and falling in love on dating apps. I think that you're overestimating it a bit. Just to get a date on those things is like a medium-sized lottery win.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 09:09 PM
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Well, it's fantasy, right? The authority figure with power.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 09:08 PM
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Most people these days can't be bothered at all to get into texting back at forth at any length. So, you have to get a meetup almost immediately, which is pretty hard to do. Very few people can express them selves well at all in text anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 09:06 PM
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that they are talking to more bots than women! There were always a lot of people just trolling on those apps, too. Wasting everybody's time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 09:02 PM
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Thanks for that. What I'm saying is that if you're a guy that's a "7" in real-life, you'll likely be considered a "5/10" online. Women on the other hand probably get a boost of a point or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:58 PM
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So... people have no standards now? I'm not sure that (most) people think this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:55 PM
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Men tend to be downrated online, especially on apps. At least, that's how I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:34 PM
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ahh... if he's fit like he says, people will judge him if he's out with a fatty. Reputation is a big deal with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:30 PM
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LOL. Savage
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:29 PM
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Reminds me of a woman that I helped out to be nice. She made it clear that I wasn't her type, even though I wasn't interested in her either. But, she also made it quite clear that I was "her guy", and that I was going to do all her 'guy' shit for her. She also mentioned that her sex drive was non-existent. She showed up at my house unexpectedly a few times, and she even tried to push her way in once.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:28 PM
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I you post your pic on reddit, you're gonna be rated (really) low, unless you're a woman. Like, take what you actually are and subtract 2 or 3 from it. Same as on apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:26 PM
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Standard vetting procedure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:25 PM
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"U BEEN REDPILLED!" Dude! No waaaay!! keanu.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:24 PM
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I've found that people are REALLY LOATHE to set their friends up with anybody these days. Generally, you're on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:24 PM
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They figure that they have the power, and they just don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:32 PM
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What numbers? What study?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:22 AM
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A lot if the ideas and concepts seem to be too black-and-white for me, personally. There's an insistence that there's only one reason why things happen, and claims are made that it happens that way all of the time. There's not enough subtlety. Sometimes, the world is painted in shades of grey, not stark black-and-white.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:09 AM
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I think that you're assuming that everyone that has the opportunity to date is actually dating at every chance. I think that some people take some time between relationships and other will be alone until they find somebody compatible. I also feel as if women aren't as driven as men are, unless they're trying to have kids before they get too old.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:56 AM
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Yeah, I'm not pro at all, but I'm going to start reading about focal length and depth of field, etc. haha...!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:54 AM
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Yeah, it's weird. From different angles, I look like a completely different person. I generally don't look good in photos, unless they are carefully lit, the camera is father away, and the angle is a good one for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:55 AM
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Maybe an app?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:53 AM
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Savage
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:49 AM
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Yes, it's also all relative to what's in the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:49 AM
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plenty would rather wait around They will play the long game until they can get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:47 AM
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Yeah, he comes on super-strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:46 AM
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but I've lost count the number of times woman have acted with hostility towards me. Some women are like that. It's not just an 'autism' thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:46 AM
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1) Most of those women are dating the same group of guys, yes. YEah, I don't buy that redpill myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:37 AM
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There's almost as many women as men, though. While it's not 1:1, it means that an epidemic of single men means that a lot of women are alone too (even if they're just holding out for Superman).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:36 AM
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haha..! Men. No filter. LOL "Imagine HER HEAD on her BODY". 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:35 AM
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It just depends upon the maturity level of the people that are involved together. Some younger people have their act together better than some people older than them sometimes, too. It just depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:30 AM
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I just explained that you CAN live elsewhere, and it's cheaper. BUT, the jobs there PAY MUCH LESS. So you aren't farther ahead just by moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:25 AM
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Yep. They just garnish your paycheck before you even get it in hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:41 AM
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Good for you!! Most people probably aren't as careful and as smart as yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:29 AM
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Toronto's almost as much. There are cheaper places (maybe 600k), but you make less money there. I'm not worried; I'm ok. I'm just giving some rationale as to why people work hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:28 AM
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It depends upon what you value. I guess that sexual release helps you live longer, no matter how you get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:29 AM
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Being broke to man is like being a slut to a women Except you don't get laid much if you're broke-ass
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:28 AM
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A lot of men are worked pretty hard by their job/ boss these days. Canadians put in more hours than the Japanese do now. A starter house in Vancouver costs 1 million to 1.2 million dollars I don't know what it's like in the USA or the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:28 AM
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❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:45 PM
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Yeah, no kidding, eh? I make a joke around my close family that, "I'm waiting for somebody to fall to my level". 😂 You can't help but laugh about it. I mean, nobody's going to just walk in, change diapers and start paying for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:07 PM
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Thanks for the clarification..! That could well be...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:06 PM
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Sometimes, men just want / need sex. When they're not in a relationship, they sometimes try to slake their thirst with a hookup. Why a hookup? Because there are a LOT of women that aren't valuable as a long-term partner, but they are acceptable for sexual liasons. This may be because the women aren't that great looking, have some sort of emotional issues, kids, a bad track record in relationships, live farther away, are cheating, etc. There's a large population of women like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:34 PM
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Most of these people aren't even women, and they're working in the third world, making pennies per hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:29 PM
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It has been going on for a while, and men don't even know it. https://arstechnica.com/culture/2023/05/this-is-catfishing-on-an-industrial-scale/
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:28 PM
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I would say that about 50 percent of the responses that I got were from people that were a bit 'off'.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:23 PM
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you're the person that came up with the 'fleshlight' remark.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:22 PM
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Thanks for that. I'm not going to do this. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:21 PM
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haha..! Yes, thanks for that. Here's an anecdote. I was friends on facebook with a woman that was a part-time model. I chatted her up a few times, but she didn't seem to be very interested. Anyway, she went on an overseas trip to do some modelling. She got knocked up over there, and when she got back home she immediately hit me up. LOL Another woman (also on facebook) I had messaged at one point. She never answered, but she got back to me FIVE YEARS LATER when she became a single mom. Claimed th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:21 PM
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Yeah, but it was more than that. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:17 PM
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Wow!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:12 AM
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When I was doing the online dating thing, I came across many fairly good-looking women that had mental/ emotional problems. The kind of thing that came out before you even had a chance to meet them. I suspect that they had a hard time on the dating circuit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:11 AM
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But what has the change been, overall. Oh, shit, it's calculus
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:08 AM
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dehydrated Wait? I can look better by being dehydrated?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:18 AM
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the standards are astronomically high to the point of being a cosmic comedy. That was pretty good. +1
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:17 AM
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There's a reason drug and alcohol abuse are dealbreakers for me, no matter how attractive a woman might be. It is not worth going through that kind of hell, speaking from the experience of having an alcoholic family member. It can be life destroying.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:16 AM
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Sounds like that Redpill comic where the woman gets all worn out by hooking up with jocks and then marries the nerd when she's all craggy-looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:15 AM
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Not sure what you're going on about then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:11 AM
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Some women have such a high opinion of their own appearance that they don't consider their standards to be "high". They assume that they're so attractive that they just have plain 'ol 'standards'. On the other hand, some women have low self-esteem or sometimes want to get married and have babbies quick. So, they settle, which makes them appear to have low standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:21 AM
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and appreciates being treated like a human instead of a hole for a dick to go into Wow, you people are bitter. Don't like sex? Don't have it. Don't like men? By all means stay away from us.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:17 AM
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Women are practiced and very good at taking their own photos. I personally know some that spend many, many hours putting on makeup, setting up their shot, taking hundreds of photos, selecting the photos and then filtering them. Men don't have the the time and interest to do that, obviously. I always thought that I could look really good getting some pro photos (I'm a guy). It's just kind of weird for a guy to go through that. Anyway, why strive to mislead people (in a way)? But, I guess that I k…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:15 AM
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That 9 with 2 kids is now a 6 at best LOL. I messaged a bunch using online dating back in the day. They may be a 6 or less, but man they were as picky and stuck up as the rest. No messages back. That's when I realized what a waste of time online dating is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:01 PM
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how did she treat her ex in divorce? Yep. They don't make any mistakes the second time around. Does she have debt? I don't like debt, so my first priority would be to get her out of that debt. Also, I imagine that I might get stuck with it if we break up. Because I have stuff that the bank can take and she probably doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:56 PM
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I wanna hear this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:52 PM
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Women, by and large, are not attracted to me at first sight. That's why online dating is so ineffective. women who have previously had no interest in me have suddenly tried to flirt or to arouse my attention DIRECTLY AFTER they met my wife. The fairer sex is really competitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:21 PM
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The problem is that those apps give people fake matches. They can only be unlocked by buying a paid subscription. As soon as you pay, those 'matches' magically disappear. Another problem is that most of the stats come from the corporations themselves. They have no interest in being truthful because they want to make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:18 PM
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bad B-O-T!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:14 PM
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The loss is in that a lot of modern men - me included - never developed any incentive or even a frame of mind towards long term relationships. The concept is psychologically and emotionally alien to me Wait... did you come from a broken or abusive home?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:04 AM
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That means that as soon as shit gets real we have the freedom to abandon ship. It's each party for themselves, and may the best player win. Somehow I don't think that is what the average woman wants. And it's certainly what all the incels in here constantly bitch about. Pretty sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:03 AM
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Relationships are caused by ancient genetic programming designed to keep a human couple together long enough to raise children to adulthood. Keep in mind that before modern times, the maximum human lifespan was 40 years (usually less). Many modern long-term relationships are just an artifact of that programming. It still helps us raise kids, though. (I know that's not very romantic.)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:02 AM
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have freaking child brides then sure ha! Reddit always goes to the pedo thing. Bless your heart. Read: "Age difference in heterosexual married couples, 2017 US Current Population Survey"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:54 AM
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What's uncomfortable about being fit and dressing well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:11 AM
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Other women want you to be the guy who they have fun with and who gives them respite from their family life, distracting/entertaining them and giving them a chance to be a woman, not just a mother and a worker. Yes. I like the sound of this. It is much better for my kids to think of her as daddy's (sex) friend than to have to negotiate some kind of step-mother hell. My head is nodding in agreement. This, of course, means not living together. But that is the only kind of relationship I would want…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:08 AM
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codependent
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:05 AM
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I'm older, so I often come across available single moms with dating potential. Most women my age have kids, unless I go for younger women. Or, luck out meeting a woman with no kids. There are some cute women out there with kids. Heck, some of their kids seem great too. But, the kids thing has never been part of my world. Why am I taking over where some schlub left off anyway (would she even date me if she didn't have kids)? What if I just want to have fun. I want to travel more and be free. I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:04 AM
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Maybe it's better to have a partner that doesn't say, "Wow! What a relief that I can become a human blob, wear baggy sweat pants every day, and cut my hair in a pink crew-cut".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:51 AM
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It's still a guess. They don't need to, they have other ways to lure ppl into buying premium services such as limiting swipes, advanced filters, and seeing who liked you. They're still ripping people off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:49 AM
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That's why the gay men's dating scene is so gonzo. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:45 AM
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So, the ladies actually want 'nice guys', and 'looks be damned'? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:39 AM
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Very, very true. An acquaintance of mine crashed his truck in rage after being rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:28 AM
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39% of couples met through dating apps That's not the 'majority" of couples. The majority (the other 61 percent) didn't meet on apps. I will be willing to bet if this study was done today that number would be over 50,especially since covid happened. Bit of a wild guess there. If dating sites are so successful, it makes one wonder why they post fake profiles to get people to sign up and to buy premium services.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:24 AM
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The common convention is that the word "rate" implies "percent"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:22 AM
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In the majority of couples, the guy is older (51.2 percent). You can see here that nearly 32 percent of men are at least 5 years older than their mate in heterosexual relationships: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:20 AM
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myth of "the wall." So, we all get better looking as we age?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:18 AM
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A percent 'rate' would be divorces per 100 marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:17 AM
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This is what men fear most when it comes to getting married. The woman lets herself go, and is no longer a sexual being.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:15 AM
1

😂 Drink the drink that I have made. Hey, brother, pour the wine!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:13 AM
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a far lower percentage of prospects are good enough for you Yeah, but that's because you probably have a large pool to choose from. Unless, you're lamenting that you have a lot of choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:11 AM
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Which is in large part why I'll never respect girls that show their boobs and ass online for $$. never, ever pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:09 AM
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I think that it's true. They have more opportunities, they generally don't have to approach the opposite sex, and they (usually) make the decision on whom to date. They are also the gatekeepers of sexual pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:08 AM
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Not just spambots. The corporations that own the apps. They show you lots of matches, but they disappear instantly when you buy a paid membership.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:05 AM
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Those apps have all gone downhill after about 2010 - 2013. In the last few years the majority of relationships have been formed from dating apps. Not true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:02 AM
1

If dating sites are so successful, it makes one wonder why they post fake profiles to get people to sign up and to buy premium services.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:01 AM
1

True. Also, anybody can edit their photos like a pro now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:17 AM
1

Yeah, they used to be concerned about magazines for women back in the day. Even before computers, photos were heavily edited.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:15 AM
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A lot of people are holding out, though. They also age and they get less attractive while they wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:14 AM
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as many as 1 in 4 people have met their spouse online I googled a lot of these stats, and a lot of them are sponsored by well-known dating sites. which means the other 75% meet in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:08 AM
1

I doubt that is in-line with most people's experience
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:59 AM
1

and I went from one or two matches a month to about 10-20 per day LOL. Or, maybe stop running in that squirrel cage of online dating and meet people in real life. Women treat those apps like Instagram for rednecks. You send them 'likes' or 'messages', which give them an ego boost. But, other than that, your just bugging them. Just as when men message women on Instagram. Your message is just one of dozens that she got that day. You get ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:20 AM
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Bad bot!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:58 PM
4

He would have to be in the top one percent in looks to get the results that he's touting. But, he says that he's 'average'. BOTH can't be TRUE.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:44 PM
1

That's considered to be a bit of a manlet online.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:42 PM
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It's not that most men have something major wrong with their looks. The real problem is that there are lots of men on apps, and very few women. The women are only really interested in the very top 1 percent of all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:41 PM
1

It's true online, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:39 PM
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OP's a bald-faced liar and is probably a paid shill.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:39 PM
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OP's not going to send an actual photo of his face, because that would blow up his entire premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:38 PM
1

Don't those bots make tons of fake matches to keep people on the app, and even to buy premium services?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:37 PM
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Sending 1500 messages to get one lame-o response wasn't a good use of my time, personally. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:36 PM
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I mean, I'm happy for you. But, I've found that it's a HUGE time suck. You can spend thousands of hours on those apps and literally get nowhere. Then, men get blamed for their lack of success. I know people that messaged subjectively ugly women, and even they never responded. I know of people that made fake profiles with pretty good pics, and good write-ups... and still nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:53 PM
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Online dating is generally terrible. OP's writeup sounds like an advertisement for online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:43 PM
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Well, physical appearance is and always has been important. Online dating changed the game quite a bit because personality doesn't come into the equation at all unless you have good photos. That is, if you aren't attractive in your photos, women won't ever read your written bio. Looks matter in real life quite a bit, too. However, some men find themselves in situations where they can get to know a woman in person, on a personal level. If a guy is a good person and interesting in other ways, he c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:41 PM
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Yeah, they offered me the job, but I didn't take it. At the interview, I asked them if travel to trade shows was involved and she said, "no". Afterward, I read their company company manual, and in it, they said that if you miss travelling to a trade show, the company will sue you for damages. LOL I'm serious. Maybe they stuck that in there just for me? I checked back years later, and the company was in legal hot water in court over various HR issues. That sounds like she wanted to be borderline …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:33 PM
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A lot of women use it as an ego boost. I've seen the same women on those site for years. There are some decent men, but the women often can't be bothered to message anybody back.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:28 PM
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I'll check it out!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:27 PM
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They aren't projecting It's classic projection. The other contributor has no idea of the person's experience with women. The other contributor didn't like what he read, so he resorted to insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:26 PM
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You're all basically admitting that you have such few experiences with women You're projecting. You know what foundation doesn't do? Alter your bone structure. You can make it look quite different with makeup, but it takes skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:51 AM
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It is strange, if I think about it, that humans seem to be very gendered when it comes to determining attractiveness. It's because (most) men don't compete with other men for women. So, the physical attractiveness of men in the immediate vicinity won't change the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:49 AM
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Yes, beauty is only relative to all others in the 'marketplace'
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:47 AM
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https://www.theguardian.com/society/2019/apr/20/the-dad-who-gave-birth-pregnant-trans-freddy-mcconnell
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 04:50 AM
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I don't think that anybody would disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:17 AM
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Interesting way of comparing ejaculating to pregnancy That's your thought process. Not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:10 AM
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Men and women create babies. Yes, women carry the babies to term.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:06 AM
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I mainly agree. Except that while a single man will often take credit for an innovation, often there were many people that contributed to that discovery over the years (both men and women).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:06 AM
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Men are now having babbies too, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:04 AM
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They had kids eventually. But, they blimped out even before that. Scary shit, my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:39 AM
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Try to keep them in check on social media, that's for sure. Try to give them self-esteem so that they don't seek it on the Internet from randos all over the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:03 AM
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women are more valuable because eggs are rare Not really. Having sex is rare enough such that women are valued for being able to provide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:00 AM
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terrible!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:59 AM
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"Woman Boss" or "Woman Doctor" implies that there is a different set of rules for her- but there shouldn't be and, often, isn't. She is a doctor- her prefix is no longer gendered, and neither is her profession. I went to a job interview once. The "woman boss" insisted that the new hire must have, "previous experience working for a woman boss". That's when I started to question whether the gender equality movement was legit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:57 AM
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Or three holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:54 AM
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Oh, shit yeah. THIS. Happens to men, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:54 AM
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He probably is referring to failed marriages and single moms. Maybe bankruptcies?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:54 AM
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Yeah, if you want a Lambo, just don't have kids. I'm not joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:53 AM
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You forgot companionship
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:51 AM
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I personally know of couples wherein the woman was smoking hot before marriage, and became the human version of the goodyear blimp only 1 to 1.5 years later. 😂 Completely unrecognizable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:50 AM
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I'm not sure what it's like now. However, I suspect that the issues that people have with dating on those apps is not necessarily due to flaws that their customers have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:45 AM
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So true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:34 AM
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But... if she gets divorced, how would she be financially better off? Or, you're saying that she would have to work if she got divorced? How does life get less expensive for a woman on her own?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:15 PM
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But, those options waste thousands of hours of valuable time, and they give people false hope. When they discover that those options suck, the man is always blamed for not being good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:13 PM
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Yep. A 6/10 IRL women thinks that she's 8/10 online. A man that's 7/10 in real life automatically drops to a "5" when he goes on a dating site. It's nearly impossible to match with anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:11 PM
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Even if we snapped our fingers and dating apps + social media went away; women would simply choose not to be in a relationship at all rather than accept any old joe blow who isn’t compatible. Dating was easier in the 70's and 80's though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:07 PM
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He means real matches, not the fake ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:07 PM
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and only around 1/5 will actually reply That's actually a very good response rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:06 PM
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instant gratification The issue is that 'gratification' for women became only likes on their, photos and messages that boosted their ego, which they ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:04 PM
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Yeah, online dating and social media in general killed dating. The worst part is that men were blamed for awful state of dating. In reality, it was the corporations taking people's money and wasting their time. It was pretty much a scam the entire time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:02 PM
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I'm pretty tall and not that bad looking. I own my own home outright, have zero debt and no kids. I couldn't get a single message back from single moms. That's when I ditched online dating for good. All of the women simply priced themselves out of the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:58 PM
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I think that case is an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:33 AM
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I can't read his mind, but I'm thinking that she has bigger breasts or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:18 AM
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I see them as being more equal in physical attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:18 AM
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Women LOVE big men. The taller the better. With weight proportional to height. It doesn't matter if you're bald or even a bit older, either. This is probably the number one thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:42 AM
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They seem as picky as the most attractive women online. One would think that they would be more open to communicating. I mean, you have to at least make an effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:21 AM
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Nice girl = normal. Nice guy = weak. This is the correct answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:36 AM
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Even women with up to three kids are really picky. That surprised me in recent years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:33 AM
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aka if you are nice and ugly, she will be scared the hell out and ready to scream the moment you look at her). "truestory.jpg"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:32 AM
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hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:31 AM
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that the opposite sex claims to want "claims" being the important point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:31 AM
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lol what was chasing you down going to do? I have NO idea. I mean, there was a fair amount of traffic and the street had many lanes. It's not as if you could stop and talk (or duke it out). I kind of blamed myself for the way that things went at this company for a while (my experiences there). Then, I just came to accept that my boss was just a bad dude with a lot problems. He just got lucky being where he was at the right time, but he wasn't qualified to be a manager. He's still in the business…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:25 AM
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haha... gonna try and 'win' on semantics
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 12:41 AM
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1.408 billion (2021) And it's one country. who said that it was two countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 11:52 PM
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Companies suffer when they burn people out. I worked in 'tech. Salary wasn't that great. Had a department of at least 5 people at one point. Over time, it was just me left. I said that I would try to keep things going; doing the most fundamental, important stuff. Eventually, they tried to hold me to the standard of getting everything done (of the whole department that was gone), to a high standard. I gave them three days notice and I was out of there. Boss was at some bullshit "tradeshow" doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:09 PM
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Old money is still keeping the market afloat a bit. Younger folks without family money are having a hard time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:04 PM
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oh!! Wow!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:58 PM
1

Like armpit smell? Or, like legpit smell?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:00 AM
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I wonder if they want men that inherit family money and didn't "work for it". Because a guy who does all the work to be High Value isn't "naturally High Value" Sounds like a new level of B.S. cooked up by smooth-brain broads. How do men feel about fake boobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:57 AM
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"Someday baby, I'll take you away from all this!"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:51 AM
1

This urban legend just seems so juvenile.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:50 AM
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You have class, man. Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:48 AM
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profile said I was vegan Could be hard as a rock, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:47 AM
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Slight ammonia smell? Maybe? Some people actually smell like that when they sweat. That happened to me, just one after I was working outside in the hot sun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:45 AM
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ANGRY too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:52 AM
2

Sounds like the Kennedy's
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:49 AM
2

Actually, it's the lower class. Look at India and their billions of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:47 AM
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haha..! She wishes. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=okyLAKclleo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:43 AM
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True. Also, a loose woman isn't normally respected by men as relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:46 AM
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If all that she's good for is sex, she's probably not that attractive to the man that porked her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:45 AM
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Realistically, I'd say you need to be engaged and planning a wedding by 25. Women are tending to do that later and later in age these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:42 AM
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Great comments. +1
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:41 AM
2

This sounds like one of those redpill comics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:39 AM
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It's chemical
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:39 AM
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Especially as she gets older and her physical appearance fades.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:38 AM
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not whatever bullshit you’re fussing about. Calm down. NOBODY said ANYTHING about sex with underage girls. I know that this is reddit, but don't get so triggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:21 AM
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I thought about this the other day. I don't want somebody else's kids coming into my home and touching my shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:04 AM
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Yeah. Get used to the dead dude's 8X10 on your nightstand staring at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:03 AM
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A lot of people on that platform are fake anyway. The problems are right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:00 AM
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being deen as a prize is quite the advantage It's a LOT of power
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:58 AM
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I'm not saying that women aren't qualified. But, a lot of women are getting ahead through affirmative action, and sometimes they aren't as qualified as their male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:57 AM
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You think all women are thieves? No, but everyone is a potential thief.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:52 AM
1

18 or 19?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:52 AM
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Oh and they have to be smart too which you say is a turn off you're thinking of somebody else
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:51 AM
1

and guess what if she has a kid that was cohabitating you now also owe child support for a kid that isn't even yours as a bonus. Yeah, that's the risk of getting in with a woman wherein the father isn't supporting the family. The state usually does anything that it can to keep people off of the welfare roll, and that usually means some dude paying up. I get the impression that it's mostly young people here. They're just getting started for the most part, so they aren't aware of the financial ris…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:49 AM
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It depends on the local laws where you reside. Also- this goes both ways. I've made more than every man I've ever been with so... well, be careful; women sometimes get hosed, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:46 AM
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I'm up here in Canada... so maybe that makes more sense to you. I know a local blue-collar worker, and he cohabitated with a woman for six months. He paid her 75k to basically go away. He avoided court by doing that. Another acquaintance got kicked out of his own house when his lady called the cops and said that he was being violent. It goes on and on. If you have something and your soon-to-be ex knows it, you might end up paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:45 AM
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It makes sense that girls would be more interested in sleeping with guys if they knew they were part of a successful social group, Probably in that case, the male would seem to be a safe option; they entire group approves. if the guy disappeared (anywhere from got bored to got mauled by a lion) after she got pregnant she'd have some sort of social fallback. LOL it would usually go nowhere. I found that really young girls didn't really know how to even talk on the phone, talk to a guy in person, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:42 AM
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+1
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:38 AM
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Glad that you got out of there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:38 AM
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The IS geared toward making men pay, so as to keep as many women off the welfare rolls as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:43 AM
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Y’all really act like men can’t do bad all by themselves like they need women’s consent to monopolize them. Hoarding wealth, starving and enslaving the masses, killing off competition is just as much a factor if not more than just women being hypergamous. Even now this is the case, look how wealth is consolidated, how married men PURSUE mistresses. Women could use their sexual prowess to raise armies and take over the entire world. Why haven't you done it yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:42 AM
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Poor guy. So hungry. But, he paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:26 AM
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🥲 Great you found happiness, though!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:26 AM
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Do you know anybody that has wealth that can be taken?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:04 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:55 AM
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That's why I qualified my point with: if you're a man that has some wealth If you're both at the same level financially, then it's a wash. She can come after you for cash, and you can come after her. But, it's pointless. Also, if you have little in assets and cash, you're at little risk financially, unless you have kid together. Example; if you own your own home, and you have a woman cohabitate even for a short time, you're likely going to have to pay her at least multiple 5 figures to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:54 AM
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Yes, the first time. But, it's different if they get to know each other, through work or social gatherings, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:51 AM
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Where are all these young women with cash? LOL Onlyfans? Also, what kind of money are we talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:45 AM
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Yeah, but you won't have successful long term relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:43 AM
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Unless you know each other personally beforehand. That's why online dating is so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:41 AM
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LOL. "Take the risk!"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:39 AM
2

You probably have a lot of people curious now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:37 AM
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Is it a chin or nose issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:36 AM
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They're not 'sending their best', eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:32 AM
1

Holy shit. How old were you? Is the dude in jail now?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:31 AM
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Also, how attractive are YOU? Did you date Quasimodo because you're a 3 or 4/10?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:30 AM
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It actually happens. Some wealthy men dump their women and trade up again and again as the women get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:29 AM
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The guy has to be a pro bean licker, and the woman has to be a sexual being and not a cold statue. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:28 AM
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I also think that outward physical appearance reflects what's inside as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:26 AM
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Yep. Even if I end up alone, I don't want to be grossed out. Some women are disgusting. Also, you risk your financial future if you get involved with anybody. Most women don't have much or they are in debt up to their eyeballs. Which means that if you're a man that has some wealth, you're going to PAY her in a big way if there's a breakup. It's gotta be worth the risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:25 AM
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Not really an opinion, but it's a trend online that happened that people deny. That there was a phase on online dating platforms (about 2014 -2016) wherein most women stated that they "were leaving the country", or "going on vacation" in their first or second text messages online. Thereby: starting a "chase scenario" wanting some kind of contact, but also being unavailable or trolling by making men wait 3 weeks for another messages, then nothing arrives
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:21 AM
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A lot of women are nuts just like men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:16 AM
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Yeah, most people are just just dummies acting on instinct, while intoxicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:15 AM
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The teens go for it. It's only later that they me-too their abusers when they're already famous and have nothing to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:13 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:12 AM
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did you get a cut of the money?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:03 AM
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Things can get weird rather quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:01 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:01 AM
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Why should some dude move out, have a shittier life, and still not have a girlfriend? I say, live your best life. When you get a GF, then move out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:56 AM
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For young people, it's difficult to get ahead. For some, living with their parents for a bit longer may be their one big chance. I don't think that living with parents is frowned upon as much as it used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:55 AM
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Not with all the free advice available on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:53 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:44 AM
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Well, he's close to getting them young enough
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:42 AM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:38 AM
3

Some people are nuts, too. They'll blow up your phone, show up at your door, etc. I helped a women paint part of her house. Then, I was 'her guy' and I couldn't get rid of her. I had to practically kick her out of my house, and we never even had sex, ever. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:36 AM
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Probably trying to fill some hole in their life or soul. I often wonder if it's really about sex for some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:36 AM
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It's different for a young guy that's ready to explode at a moment's notice, and a new partner is more exciting than a Lambo on nitrous. Those guy's brains are short-circuiting, while you're thinking more logically about the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:32 AM
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People also find comfort in negative ideas that go around in their head, even if those ideas are fallacies and hurt their well-being in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:29 AM
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Too many guys out their think casual sex is their gain, your loss. You assume that men even think about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:27 AM
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I think that somebody that really needs improvement (huge beer gut for example) would benefit more than say, somebody that's already somewhat fit. A man that's say a "7/10" would really have to work hard to get to an "8". But, somebody's that's a "4" could easily become a "6/10" just by eating better and wearing better clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:22 AM
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This virgin thing is for teens, or men that can get them into bed, like DiCaprio.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:19 AM
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Very true. I think that online dating was the beginning of the hardcore reach-for-the-top standards. At least, when you meet in person, you can keep her focus on yourself, rather than her bullshit cell phone. Usually. Of course, women seem to get tripped up a lot when they stop swiping and actually meet some dude in person. Then, it's not as easy. They have trouble making the leap from pro-pics of abs/ marketing copy and the real world. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:14 AM
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That's quite a 'gotcha'
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:09 AM
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Yeah, some guys can get away with it. I doubt that it happens very often, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:08 AM
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Wow. Interesting. I doubt that any man's ex has much good to say about their ex. Do men have such a thing for women that they have dated?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:07 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:06 AM
1

But, I don't think that it's a grey area. Most women won't tolerate men that have multiple partner's no matter what you call it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:05 AM
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Women usually push for some kind of label on what's happening. If a guy's banging other girls, most women won't stay with him for long. There are some sl*ts that will, of course. But, most women have some dignity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:04 AM
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I was thinking of the woman not knowing. If there's funny business, they find out fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:02 AM
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Probably avoided the apps and have a good circle of friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:16 AM
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These were chubby women even when they married, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:16 AM
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Yeah, "funny" often works for chubby guys. Sometimes, it's too obvious, though. They try pretty hard. Like a male Amy Shumer, LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:15 AM
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How often do you see very attractive men with "curvy" e.g. obese, fat women?? Name some Hollywood stars or rich men that like these types and are seen with them? Hugo Weaving and wife https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-3311362/Hugo-Weaving-emerges-sea-pair-Speedos-clutching-bunch-slimy-seaweed.html Pierce Brosnan and wife https://www.nationalenquirer.com/photos/pierce-brosnan-wife-keely-beach/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:13 AM
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It doesn't work the other way 'round for men, though. If you're a fat male, you're rated low. A fat guy is just considered an unhealthy lazy slob. A fat woman by some is considered to be beautiful in a feminine, hormonal way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:08 AM
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"more spherical than human-shaped" 😂 I don't think that I get it up with that, TBH
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:06 AM
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For the most part a man that’s a 9/10 isn’t going to choose a 4/5 even for the purpose of FWB I'm no "9/10", but I'm not going for a "4", as I understand a "4" to be. This might sound odd, but I often approach young, rather good-looking women, because in the back of my mind, the risk of being rejected is worth it. The reward is really high, so I'll take the risk. Also, I don't feel so bad if some near-goddess says, "no". LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:05 AM
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Men: "so long as it's not a bad STD". Just kidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:00 AM
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Men: "so long as it's not a bad STD". Just kidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:00 AM
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Programming over thousands of years (to find the best genetic mate), impacted with the modern-day issues related to meeting and getting to know other people. We don't live in close-knit tribes anymore; we barely know our neighbors.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:58 AM
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Women's standards rising might have the same effect as the average men's value slipping.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:56 AM
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leave your house and meet real people. Haven't been on those things in years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:53 AM
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LOL. Men do that too. The long game.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:47 AM
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Sorry, what does lease mean? It's a rental agreement
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:46 AM
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You can lose a lot of your wealth to these women too. Move in fast? No frigging way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:46 AM
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Also, a man that's banging 4 or 5 women at once would caught be cheating immediately. Where would he get the time? Out in the alley at work during a 30-minute lunch?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:44 AM
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I agree. I don't buy that many women at all are doing this. Women watch their men closely, and they don't tolerate cheating at all. I'm not sure why some are clinging to the narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:43 AM
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What facebook pages are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:41 AM
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Looks are tops online, though. Nobody's going to read what you wrote, or look at your other pics if you're not up to their (high) standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:38 AM
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There is often a disconnect between cause and effect for some people. "X" happens to them, and they hear that the cause must be "Y". However, often we don't really know the reasons, or they may be a combination of things. High School is tough for a lot of people. I'm pretty old, I've travelled and done some things. But, I still get that cramp in my stomach and major anxiety if I walk into my old high school. I still can't believe that it still gets me. I tried online dating around the time that …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:34 AM
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This sub doesn't seem to be too bad. There are a few people that stubbornly cling to certain narratives that aren't true, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:28 AM
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I don't think that this is real. There isn't a small number of men getting all the p*ssy. Most women are very careful about keeping tabs on their guy, and they don't share their men. Women find out pretty quickly if their man is cheating. I'm sure that there are some high-value men that do better than most. But, very few women are sharing the same alpha-males. Some on tinder, and those hitting the club circuit. But, that's a small demographic overall. A lot of women simply do without rather than…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:24 AM
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You can see how it's so different for women on those apps, and they don't have much insight as to why dating is worse than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:14 PM
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Also, it is a proven fact that the more choices that a person is offered, the harder it is for them to choose at all. https://www.amazon.com/Myth-Choice-Personal-Responsibility-Limits/dp/0300169868
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:12 PM
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Those are just games that people play. The reality is that they are either in a relationship or they aren't. Making it a grey area to prove a point isn't helpful. Also, any somewhat intelligent person knows whether they are in a relationship or not. Women are very sure to make those terms clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:05 PM
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This narrative that a small number of Chads are banging the majority of women isn't true for the most part. Also, any somewhat intelligent person knows whether they are in a relationship or not. Women are very sure to make those terms clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:04 PM
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Yeah... for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:02 PM
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Yes, I agree. A also get your point that if assume that things are just down to 'luck', then, we don't do things to change our situation. We feel helpless. Oh, I do have standards, I will admit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:02 PM
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Those apps and social media were the major cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:00 PM
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I think that it's well understood what a 'couple' is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:59 PM
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Hookups don't count as relationships. Sure, there are 3-somes, but they're rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:57 PM
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I don't want to say that people should be 'cookie-jarred'. LOL But, never cut off a personal connection, or a business connection. You never know how the cards will fall in the future. Don't ghost people; try and get them on your FB friends list, or contacts, whatever. Look 'em up in six months if you aren't doing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:17 AM
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haha..! I remember when I was in college. I was 22 or 23, and the younger guys were calling me and buddies 'old guys'. It's all relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:14 AM
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hmmmm... interesting. I know that it has been said that we spend more time online overall than we ever have.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:13 AM
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What people call luck, I call randomness. Imagine a chessboard where the pieces are moved by incredibly strong winds instead of a human hand attached to a thinking person, that is what life is like to me. The random strong winds might create an opening on the board in your favour or you may never get a chance. Good words. I think that it should be pointed out that if OP is immersed in online dating, his chance of winning a large lottery jackpot is more likely than him getting a girlfriend on one…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:12 AM
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Savage 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:09 AM
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True if you type in FWB in the search reddit bar probably get hundreds of questions a week asking about the the FWB dynamic in various subreddits I take reddit stats like that worth a grain of salt, though. Reddit only attracts certain demographics for the most part. But, I get your point. Men are being told to patiently date traditionally while their counterparts are engaged in personal soap operas sometimes lasting for years. By the time the women are free to give a guy a chance they are too j…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:07 AM
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No. they're very even throughout that age range. I'm done chatting with you. https://www.statista.com/statistics/241488/population-of-the-us-by-sex-and-age/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:04 AM
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Most real high value men, like George Clooney, and Jeff Bezos those guys seem like 1 in-ten-million exceptions to the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:02 AM
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I do agree with you... especially with other stuff such as instagram. I just feel that people would get out a bit more without the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:01 AM
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I don't think that the other guy is trying to insult you. 21 is legally an adult, but we don't have a lot of life experience at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 04:59 AM
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I would say 50-60% had sex. Men, young men especially will exaggerate the amount of sex they are having I agree with this. Men lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 04:58 AM
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While women seem to be a part of a revolving door of dates, fwb, fuckboys. Women making bad choices, based solely on physical appearance. I don't know about other men, but the only time that I think of the FWB thing is when I come across available women that are sufficiently attractive and available for sexual relations, BUT they lack important qualities that would make them relationship material in my eyes. This is something that women miss; they want to fix some dude that's willing to have sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 04:57 AM
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I hope that it becomes more common that people get out more often to meet others. I wouldn't feel bad at all if online dating disappeared tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 04:52 AM
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It's not unusual. It may not seem this way to you now, but somebody in their 20's is pretty young. You have a long life ahead of you, and many adventures.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 04:51 AM
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> It's been talked to death in subs like this and sources have been cited. you've been proven wrong here already. ..and it's your argument. I don't think that you have much to go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 04:49 AM
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people of all ages date, though. where are you getting info that shows that, "This is including the 40+ age bracket. Below this the opposite is true"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:21 AM
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It certainly did. What made me laugh was women demanding 'better messages', and it didn't make one bit of difference what anybody wrote. Men really got all the blame for the debacle that was OLD. What a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:26 AM
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Online dating should have been the killer app, but it ruined dating for everyone except for the extremely attractive, and the very unattractive at the other end. It was so toxic that anybody who was unsuccessful on those apps was personally blamed for their lack of achievement. Prior to shitty sites and apps, everybody had to get to know other people in person. The entire person was considered, not just physical appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:52 AM
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Interesting; I never really hear the term used often. Maybe it's a regional or demographic thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:39 AM
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Good points. But, this isn't China. 98 males per 100 females The United States has had more females than males since 1946, according to the U.S. Census Bureau. In 2021, the population sex ratio in the U.S. was 98 males per 100 females. The global sex ratio in the world was approximately 1,016 males to 1,000 females as of 2022.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:37 AM
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Women are less single than men by every age bracket That doesn't seem to be correct. There are nearly equal numbers of men and women. If a lot of men are single, then surely a similar number of women are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:10 AM
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Inferiors people procreate every day. More than top-grade people, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:08 AM
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I thought that most women want kids too? I don't think that it's a Viking bloodline thing. I just think that people like to start a family as part of their life journey.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:07 AM
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It's also about putting yourself out there Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:06 AM
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That's part of it. But, it's also about the size of your social circle in real life. If you have 10 acquaintances, you have 10+ chances of connecting in real-life (plus friends of friends). If you have 2, then you have 2+ chances. If you have a large social circle, then you have lots and lots of chances. Meeting others is the number one thing that is guaranteed to increase your chances. What I'm saying is that if you're not out mingling, your chances are close to zero. Women very rarely approach…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:05 AM
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If anything, dating got better now that women have more agency. It means we don't have to stay in toxic or abusive relationships anymore. You never had to. What were you waiting for? Or, did you need a man to pay for your shite? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:59 PM
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Yeah, that's true. Same for other former high-buck cars. Ferrari Mondial, anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:56 PM
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No woman is going to come out say what she really wants, because she knows that it will make her appear to be shallow. Women may as well be honest about what they want; men know it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:30 AM
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gaslight themselves with the "imma 10" bullshit, knowing damn well they're 150lbs overweight with a 4 face. Hell, it might help you make it through the day without bursting into tears, but it's not helping you romantically. I laughed my ass off, good sir I think that 'confidence' comes from not giving a shit, also. I mean, if I hit on some girl that I find attractive and I get rejected, I usually forget about it 30 minutes later, because, what do they really know? There are many more that I can …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:23 AM
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Some older women can be pretty interesting; especially those who have some accomplishments behind them. Many of them have a certain confidence or air about them that younger women don't have. I like that, but I understand if some men don't. If they have taken care of themselves, and with some good genetics, they can be quite a good catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:21 AM
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Male slut. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:19 AM
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Nobody's buying a Bentley unless they can afford 7500 dollars a corner for a brake job.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:17 AM
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LOL I'm waiting for someone to spout, "But, it's not a zero-sum game"!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:27 AM
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"All things being equal"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:11 AM
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I respect Elon Musk from an intellectual point of view Musk always had money, and he probably ran with the kind of crowd that most of us couldn't. get a cool hobby Some girls were pretty impressed with my 3D printing recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:10 AM
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Were you on a winning team in a popular sport at the school? Also, were you the quarterback? Did you score lots of goals?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:08 AM
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A hot attractive bitch for the win. Of course, it's never that black-and-white
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:06 AM
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"All things being equal"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:05 AM
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An attractive asshole still has his looks. This is so true. ...and some women marry them and stay with them no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:05 AM
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Well, it IS a woman's problem if all of them are clamoring for for top 0.01 percent of men online, and you're not approachable in real-life. Online dating is going down the tubes, and while we have all these means of communicating, we aren't usuing them very well. Both men and women are going to suffer because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:38 AM
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I didn't say 'total control', I only said, "no control". Nobody said anything about 'domination'
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:36 AM
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yes, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:35 AM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:34 AM
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Online, where most women advertise themselves, it's all about physical appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:33 AM
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The problem is that most of you (women) advertise yourselves online in spaces such as instagram and tinder. ..and now, cold approaches in public are considered bad by most women. So... that leaves online as one of the few spaces to approach women. However, online, the only thing that matters is physical appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:31 AM
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Women are the gatekeepers of sexual pleasure. It's very rare for a woman to approach a man, or ask him out. Men do the asking, and women make the decisions. Men have little to no control unless they are the 1/1000 that is attractive and/ or wealthy enough. Men don't like having no control.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:28 AM
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men who think like that see my relationships as some sort of scientific data point instead of just two people trying to find out if they'd be compatible long term. I think that a lot of people's views are influenced by their online experiences. Online, you'll never meet a woman that's willing to go through the motions of "two people trying to find out if they'd be compatible long term", unless she can find a guy in the top percentages of physical appearance. Sounding sincere doesn't do much for …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:25 AM
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I think that it's helpful to understand that women's preferences are different when they're online vs when they actually meet a man socially IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:18 AM
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Notice that women aren't into men doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:14 AM
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But, EVERY girl deserves that. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:13 AM
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Also, online dating wasted a lot of everybody's time and energy. All of that wasted potential could have put man on Mars in less than 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:12 AM
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That the same as when women tell men with long hair that they must cut it off. It's as if anything that might make you slightly unique has to be eliminated by the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:42 AM
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What's 'automod'?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:37 AM
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+1
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:26 AM
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If Seth Rogan is a '6', then I must be a '9'. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:25 PM
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That photo looks like it has been photoshopped a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:24 PM
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I saw a comment here that said Lena Dunham is a 2/10. I will give them the benefit of the doubt because I don’t know what photos they were looking at, but Lena Dunham as I know her (from the show girls in 2013) is at least a 4.5-5. Dunham is considered a "2/10" because she purposely tries to appear as gross as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:20 PM
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Subjective '10's' are almost otherworldly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:09 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:08 PM
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Some men have that 'something' Confident, yet very approachable? Pheromones, maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:07 PM
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Well, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:07 PM
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Ohhhhh yeah..!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:06 PM
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Gonna send it!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:05 PM
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I think that the loudest voices often say that. Of course, the truth is more subtle and nuanced. If men's and women's brains worked the same, we would have no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:05 PM
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I agree; it's sad. A narrower and narrower population of men are being seen as being worthy of dating. I have to say that a lot of women will be left behind because of this as well. With the high standards, there will be a lot of women that will end up alone. Some might feel that they are better off alone if they can't get what they want. I can't help but feel that others will come to regret it later on in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:31 AM
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We're talking chins.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:01 AM
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That's not saying much. 😂 Same for men, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:00 AM
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ah, got it. https://www.reddit.com/r/Botchedsurgeries/comments/b74vap/so_it_seems_crimson_chin_is_the_new_in_thing/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:01 AM
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That's the way that they think, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:28 AM
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Isn't a strong jaw a good feature?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:27 AM
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Yeah, how did Shia get above Scott Baio?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:26 AM
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i think that the chart is intended as a goof on how women supposedly rank male attractiveness. That is, unless you're astonishingly good-looking, you're waaaay down near the bottom of the chart. LOL 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:25 AM
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ha. inverse bell curve
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:22 AM
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LOL. F_cking Richard Kiel 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:21 AM
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yes, a 5/10 IRL is like a 2/10 online.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:19 AM
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Most men only care about having fancy cars I wanna go fast, though don't care if women see me in it I'm too busy driving
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:06 AM
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Hard because you're at work all of the time and on business trips. Also at the gym after hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:05 AM
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😂 gross
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:04 AM
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Given what kind of women most men end up with, it doesn't seem worth it to become super-human. I'm not going to be some 9/10 just to get into the 6/10 market. I don't see how it pays off in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:02 AM
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A lot of those relationships are win-win, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:48 AM
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Women with no sex drive say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:47 AM
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loneliness, isolation and despair are social ills add to the fact that corporations are catfishing and gaslighting people https://arstechnica.com/culture/2023/05/this-is-catfishing-on-an-industrial-scale/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:45 AM
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...or want a full, rich life...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:41 AM
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I think its very hot when a woman tells me about her random hook ups and stuff and quite a few have. It's not my thing. I don't like to think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:40 AM
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Something that should just happen unless you are maybe in the lowest 10% of men. That's the way that actually used to be in the pre-Internet days.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:40 AM
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This opinion seems to be too black-and-white. I don't think that women have all the same manifesto.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:36 AM
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Social media did it. To be honest, I had NO IDEA that women craved the level of attention that they do. It's UNBELIEVEABLE. Seriously, what will they do when they hit 40?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:35 AM
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LOL. Great chart. Savage. Most men would step over their own mother even date a 5 on that chart. This may sound weird, but I wouldn't want to date somebody subjectively 'stunning'
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:33 AM
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I got to the point long ago that even rejection is part of the thrill. I get a major endorphin/ adrenalin boost from the whole thing, regardless of how it works out. Anyway, if you're approaching good-looking women, you have to expect that they will already be in a relationship or really choosy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:25 AM
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if your integrity and respect towards people was predicated on them giving you something in return like sex or a romantic relationship, I would argue you didn't have much integrity in the first place. Took the wind out of the sails of 'nice guy' right there
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:23 AM
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Women don't want a 'nice guy' in the beginning. They want a feeling of excitement. It's later on that they want the 'nice guy' thing, when a relationship starts. ...and there's the problem. Many guys will also mislead or straight lie about things especially on dating apps - claiming to be taller than they are, more financially secure, and claim to be interested in a relationship even if they just want to smash and dash, basically telling women whatever they want to hear… I get the impression tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:22 AM
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Why would a guy approach ask a woman out when it now carries the risk of being filmed and posted online That's gonna be the end of dating right there. Women going to shame men for approaching them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:19 AM
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Hitting up girls on their IG complete waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:18 AM
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This person speaks truth, given a "10" would practically be a goddess, and a "9" would be a supermodel.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:16 AM
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Yeah, in real life, men are on the downlow. Also, you don't advertise whom you're crushing on, because if it gets back to your crush, you might face rejection. Or, you don't talk about it because you plan to ask them out, and you wouldn't want your pals to know if you got rejected. Also, IRL, men can't appear to be aggressively chasing a woman or women. Women get scared off by that pretty easily. You can't bitch about being alone or lonely, because that the call of the loser. If you're alone, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:15 AM
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i don't think so. people find solace in community an common ground
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:09 AM
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Women are not a shared commodity Looking at social media or the OLD meatmarket, one wouldn't come to that conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:40 PM
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I think that OP's point is that it's sufficient that a woman only needs to be physically attractive to achieve dating or hookup numbers. Men have to jump through a lot of hoops to get in the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:39 PM
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I think that this underlines how men and women's brains are wired differently. What concerns me personally is what a waste of time following women on social media is. It's a major time suck, and there's really no payoff. A lot of the pics are filtered, fake. How much affirmation does a woman really need anyway? Maybe it's useful for them if they're making money selling a product or something. If I wanted to see some woman in a bikini, or naked, I could just google it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:36 PM
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It's 'the dream'. Like thinking of owning a fast car someday. Nobody lusts after a compact car with no options or horsepower. Now, some people may not like what I've said, but you need to understand how a man's brain works.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:31 PM
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I can picture in my mind what a woman will look like when she removes the makeup. For me, the attraction is that she takes all that time to look good when it's appropriate; she's not saying, "screw it, I'll just let myself go".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:29 PM
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I don't think that it's an unfair advantage, as most men don't use makeup. So, it's a level playing field. Anyway, I'm a guy, and I wear makeup from time to time. It really worked for me. They even make cosmetics for men. Just be subtle; it gives you an extra advantage. It's especially good if you have dark rings around your eyes, etc. You don't go out like a drag queen, you just use a little such that it improves your appearance, but nobody notices that you're wearing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:26 PM
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haha..!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:20 PM
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Yes! +1. I just found it interesting that I felt as if it could have been written by the fairer gender...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:19 PM
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Men indeed can have sex whenever they want, so long as they have a little extra discretionary income. True, but it can be soul destroying if you have to pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:18 PM
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You're probably a lot mentally healthier with regular sexual release. Your lifespan is probably slightly longer too. It releases stress; you may find that your appetite for sex may rise greatly during times of stress. Here's hoping that everyone gets what they need..! "Sharing is caring!"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:17 PM
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For sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:13 AM
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They partied it up from their teens and on into their late twenties. After that, they're not only broke, but in debt. Then, they want to get up to speed in a financial sense immediately. Usually with some new dude that spent his time not fucking around travelling all of the time, and can pay for shit. I've always avoided those types, because I didn't want to be dude that financed some woman's next big adventure when they decide to just up, leave and 'find themselves' again. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:28 AM
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haha..! Interesting...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:38 AM
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In some regions, the trades get major respect, trust me. Also, the those jobs aren't as volatile as tech jobs. People need water and sewer and/or air condition even during recessions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:35 AM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:31 AM
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In some regions, blue collar dudes make as much or more than STEM dudes. Pro machinists, pro plumbers and HVAC dudes. I'm not kidding. Additionally, in some places, you'll have an easier time finding a job in the trades. Now, obviously, pro nerds working in silicon valley do really, really, well. But, not every city (or country) is like that. I also gather that living near silicon valley is a bit expensive, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:31 AM
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In some regions, blue collar dudes make as much or more than STEM dudes. Pro machinists, pro plumbers and HVAC dudes. I'm not kidding. Additionally, in some places, you'll have an easier time finding a job in the trades. Now, obviously, pro nerds working in silicon valley do really, really, well. But, not every city (or country) is like that. I also gather that living near silicon valley is a bit expensive, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:30 AM
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Yes. They get the attention. I still wonder if they actually find anybody however. Even the profiles that seem to be very attractive seem to be around for ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:23 AM
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This is sociopath-level shit. LOL 😂 They are often the most attractive women in my city and have one hundred thousand followers on social media. I hit on those ones, because I don't feel so bad when I'm rejected. If you get rejected by somebody that's below average, it's a major blow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 12:57 AM
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Savage
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 12:54 AM
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" preferred gender " ?? ALL TWO OF THEM
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 12:53 AM
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"Are you pre-nut attractive, or...?"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 12:52 AM
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I think approaching complete strangers just going about their day is weird, doesn't really matter what they look like. This is the problem. So, you hope that there's somebody in your circle of friends that you can match with. Otherwise, you're stuck with online dating, which doesn't work. I suspect that the men that are successful with the cold approach rate very high in the looks dept., relative to their quarry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 12:51 AM
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That was pretty good. Anyway, I wish that I could see what guy that most women end up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 12:49 AM
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This could be written by a woman regarding men that make passes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 12:47 AM
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Sounds like an odd interaction
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 12:43 AM
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Yes. So, what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 12:42 AM
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I think if you're a man with disposable income($1500+/monthly) I would think that you would need a lot more cash than that. Am I wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:26 PM
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Online dating was a lot better a decade ago, I'll tell you that. Now, they have a terrible reputation, so most of the quality people avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:25 PM
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Talk about toxic. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:20 PM
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Sounds odd. hmmm....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:19 PM
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OP probably appeared more happy and confident because of his interaction with the women, and others responded positively. It probably didn't have that much to do with being seen with an 'average' woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:18 PM
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You think most people randomly trip over someone and the next step is fall in love, get married, live happily ever after?? That's actually the way that it used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:12 PM
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Also, you try mega hard, and you wonder if the available women are trying at all. Quid pro quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:09 PM
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I think that people had an easier time just meeting organically in the (distant) past. There was less competition, too. These days, social media and apps have increased the level of competition by several orders of magnitude. It's like going to a recruiter looking for a job with your resume in hand, and he remarks blandly how amazing it is that he has access to 10 million other resumes just like yours across the planet. So, you have to 'try' making yourself more 'desirable' and 'marketing' yours…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:08 PM
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That's true. But, look at a lot of women. Many don't improve themselves either. Although, I will admit that women are the gatekeepers of sexual pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:51 PM
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And considering that even 100k these days isn't a huge salary anymore. In cities like Toronto, a modest home costs a cool million. In Vancouver, it reached 1.3 million dollars. You can barely afford a home unless you and your partner both make 6 figures AND have a decent down payment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:51 PM
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I no longer have that young, idealistic view of relationships. I went through a grieving phase when I started to feel like this. It occurred to me that a lot of women probably feel this way from day one. I can recall being excited about the prospect of dating as a young man, while most girls seemed weary of the churn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:48 PM
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Yeah, it's like when you're younger and you have to toss off a quick one before your date just so that you can play it cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:46 PM
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Op's onto something here. There are TONS of singles around as you get older. But, you're dealing with people that usually have a lot of kids, went broke and are too old to ever make a comeback, their sex drive may be low, and most come from broken marriages. Most women's physical appearance starts to wane after about age 35. It's really the cheap side of the used car lot. I know that it's controversial, but I also think that this is why some men like younger women. You can go on a cruise or road…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:44 PM
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so, jail?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:37 PM
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LOL I'm unmarried, but a lot of my married co-workers go on business trips all of the time. Even when they get back into the country at 5 PM, they don't go home. They go play hockey and get home late at night. LOL They're not getting divorced because they don't want to start over at middle age.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:32 PM
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The problem with today's world is that you only gain 'respect' by lighting yourself on fire to keep other people warm. Your boss feigns 'respect' for you so long as you also do the job of the person that quit last week. Your female friends 'respect' you for being 'their guy'; doing their house renovations and being on-call for them 24/7. Your family 'respects' you so long as you can hand them 500 to 1500 dollars when they come to 'visit'.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:31 PM
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they literally have 10X demands from the nice guy in their 30s After they quit their job, become a "world traveller", get pics at Machu Picchu, then come back and seeking a man to get them back up to speed immediately. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:28 PM
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The way the term is used in redpill spaces basically sums up to a man who doesnt gets much attraction from women. I don't agree with that; a man could be very good-looking, fit and affluent. But, if he works a lot of hours in a bro-centric industry, he may not get out enough to land a lot of dates. He still has good value, but, he's just not available. I think that there's too often much emotion in the term, "low value". A low value person should actually be considered to be a person that would …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:26 PM
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It's about one percent (1 in 100) In the majority of couples, the guy is older (51.2 percent). You can see here that nearly 32 percent of men are at least 5 years older than their mate in heterosexual relationships: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:18 PM
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All that you have to do is record somebody on your phone saying something sexist. Take it to HR. The person that said it will be out, because companies fear lawsuits and bad publicity more than anything. We've gone far beyond the point where only a man can be held to account. At work, you say NOTHING unrelated to the job at hand, unless you're a big risk taker. It's not the local bar or club.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:48 AM
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If someone constantly distrusts black people, what would you say that person is? This is the winning argument right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:36 AM
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She could actually get fired these days. People voice their personal opinions in the workplace at their own peril.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:35 AM
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Are you asking why women like men that are risk takers and men that bask in the glow of attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:33 AM
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Some women do enjoy the game of getting attention from men, even if they are in a relationship already, or they aren't interested. It may be that OP doesn't take rejection well, which he finds to be embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:24 PM
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It's also competitive. A woman that looks subjectively better can land a better-looking guy. Or, she can do better in her career than her peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:19 PM
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To try to illustrate why I don't think men should feel shame for being "easy", Men that like to get around don't even think about it. Unless they were really drunk when they hooked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:17 PM
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This guy gets it. Not every woman and pull in just any guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:15 PM
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I don't think that it's black and white. Some guys will hump anything. I'm not going to say that I have super-high standards, but some women are gross, and/or there's something off about them. You know, it's personal, and you don't want to get some disease, either. Sometimes, you don't want to get involved with somebody (at all), so you feign going there. Some women blow up your phone, or come knocking on your door later. Obviously, if a woman is attractive, there will be some interest there. Fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:14 PM
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This is the correct answer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:08 PM
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uh-oh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:07 PM
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Yes. All things being equal, I'm sure that women wanted the most attractive man that they could get. But, it was often secondary.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:59 PM
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I do agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:58 PM
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Thank you..! It takes a long to overcome that genetic heritage/ memory too. It's only in the last 50 years that women really started to become interested in careers. Prior to 1960 - 1970, women could raise their children, and it was actually better for families. People started to have dual incomes, but the price of everything went up three-fold.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:56 PM
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For fun mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:28 AM
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a lot of them don't even want anything except sex Terrible!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:26 AM
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Some women assume that young(er) men are immature. Or, she had a negative experience when she was younger and also dating around her own age at that time. She probably had a 5-year plan to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:25 AM
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I don't think that cavemen thought that far ahead. They never had gender politics. Evolution made women into child-bearers and caregivers for those offspring. Men were providers and protectors. That's why our bodies are so different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:19 AM
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I agree. That's probably why it's good practice to not have sex right away, and see if the guy sticks around anyway. But, we both know this, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:40 AM
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I agree. Anything connected to media culture such as musicians, tv radio/ personalities, sports, art, film making, or even writing gets attention from women. Some women date around and sometimes sleep around to get a leg up if they're in those industries too. That's how Jian Ghomeshi met a lot of women. Of course, he went to Uni for Women's Studies. LOL Also, anything to do with risk-taking. Or adventurous stuff that is instagram-worthy. I think that it's all about the attention, or being in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:37 AM
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This is no doubt cos everyone gets depressed, stops thinking so much with their genitals and more with their depressed anxious brains, that fully know "love" alone is not enough. Also, people also get tired from day-to-day life, and their sex drive sometimes wanes as they age. Sometimes, people your own age aren't that attractive for the most part, and you're not really sure if it's actually going to be enjoyable, or that you're doing it because you're supposed to or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:35 AM
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As a man, I totally got the 'dead bedroom' thing that you mentioned. That's probably the number one thing that kills marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:30 AM
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Well, I'm sure he'd be very happy to know that you don't find him sexually attractive. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:29 AM
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Sounds like a digital arranged marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:27 AM
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I know a guy that's medicated for bipolar. The medication makes him like this. He's unflappable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:26 AM
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This sounds like experimentation and 'practice boyfriends'.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:25 AM
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They should make it easier to get out of a marriage without getting taken to the cleaners.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:17 AM
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Women are the gatekeepers of sexual pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:16 AM
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The scale a woman sits in is nearly completely dictated by how she looks and she has little control based on personality, achievements or accomplishments leaving less fortunate looking women with little room or recourse for improvement That's only at first. Physicality gets women noticed. Then, the rest counts for a lot when it comes to staying with her for something other than sex. A lot of women don't realize this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:15 AM
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Most men are completely invisible to women (I believe the same is true in reverse). If it were a restaurant, they aren't even on the menu. OMG. THIS SUDDENLY EXPLAINED EVERYTHING Thank you I should mention that most men scope out everything, unless they are really preoccupied. We rate women in our heads, particularly face, body, dress/hygiene. Then, an overall score is decided. It stimulates the pleasure centers in our brains. More attractive women get a very long inspection. Less attractive wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:07 AM
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Interesting. I don't want to argue, of course. But, I'm just going by what Pitt said. Anything else is just guessing in our minds. I always thought of Pitt being more of a face-man. I never thought of him as jacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:05 AM
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For men, that comes down to them seeking the best genes in a mate. For women, it comes down their valuing a provider/ protector that isn't too aggressive. It's from out caveman days. It doesn't translate well to computer apps thousands of years later, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:02 AM
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What women say that they want and what they will actually settle for are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:00 AM
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Or Treacher Collins syndrome. Learn to play guitar and join a band to make up for it. https://www.bbc.co.uk/blogs/bbcthree/2010/11/love-me-love-my-face-living-my-life-the-way-i-want.shtml
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:58 AM
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Sometimes, people will overlook that physical attractiveness thing if you can keep them around long enough that they get to know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:56 AM
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Physical attractiveness is HUGE in the Americas. In other countries, how you treat your partner, or what kind of provider you will be is sometimes of greater importance. Or what caste your family is from. Or what size of dowry your family can pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:55 AM
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It all comes from several decades prior, wherein the main reason for women to seek out marriage was for financial support. So, looks came second or a distant third, after being stable and ambitious. Back then, some men were literally dirt poor. These days, most men support themselves and probably have a little left over. Most women can easily support themselves. As such, finding a 'provider' isn't their first priority. Now, looks rate very, very high for women. The values have changed over time,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:53 AM
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Well, there is a thing in nature wherein an alpha-male wolf will mount other male wolves in the pack in order to assert dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:47 AM
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gigachad LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:45 AM
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I don't know. I just took him at his word. I really don't know that every really really attractive man is drowning in female affection or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:44 AM
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The anonymity online is what makes it surprising. Most people don't out their inner thoughts and attitudes in daily life,
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:36 AM
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I feel for your kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:33 AM
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Now that you're 'hot', is your 'eye wandering"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:31 AM
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We're talking about Pitt, I assume? You can google the quote. He said that he didn't get a lot of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:30 AM
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Yeah. I respect that. I know what you mean about the divorce rate. I'm established now, but a bit older. There are women in the market, but I know that there's risk getting with them unless I can find one that's in the same place that I am. Single moms from broken marriages are probably the most risky financially. Younger women tend to try and get that "I quit my job and travelled the world" thing out of their system. Then, they want some dude to bring them up to speed in life immediately. Also …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:28 AM
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Sex is probably more exciting for him, TBH Also, he probably feels like De Man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:23 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dM5TAQgY5rI 🎼She looks heavenward And struggles to find the right cliche You've got to find your own space Have a nice day🎵 🎵She's so young She's got the answers (she's got the answers) She doesn't need to question herself like I do Like I do🎶 🎵She's so young She's got the answers (she's got the answers) She doesn't need to question the world like I do Like I do (like I do)🎶 🎵Like the wisdom of ages Will flow from her tongue This is the delusion of the young She s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:22 AM
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Men that wear panties
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:19 AM
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the older partner is always guiding and teaching So, like University? But with sex? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:19 AM
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Some younger women are kind of looking for a father figure, though. Also, a lot of young men that are bald or balding can get dates. Imagine being in your 40's with a full head of luscious hair. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:16 AM
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I think that money/ status only really matters to those that value those things greatly. I believe that most women would be satisfied with a man that's stable and a good provider. Real wealth and showing it off really only targets a certain demographic. If you're a trust fund/ inheritance kid, you can the cars / duds and start to hand with that crowd and the hangers on. But, everybody knows what the deal is. Or, if you earn it, you tend to meet women in your circle that are also smart, motivated…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:15 AM
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He would strike out most of the time without the fame and money. Even Brad Pitt admitted that women didn't give him much attention until he was famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:04 AM
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Personally, I found that as I got older, women my actual age (or close to it) were seeking significantly more mature men than I. So, I was kind of left with looking to somewhat younger women that wanted a slightly more mature, established guy. I'm talking about the world of online dating mind you. IRL, it's different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:02 AM
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I think that people are just burned out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:00 AM
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I found that it didn't matter the pics or the content much. It just never really goes anywhere because the profiles are fake, it's somebody trolling, or they lose interest so quickly for the next dude. Most women are on those sites for validation anyway. You give them a tidbit of attention, and they have gotten what they wanted out of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:59 AM
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I do agree. However, I think that it's more acceptable to be shorter, fat woman in the dating world than it is to be a short, dumpy man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:57 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:54 AM
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Probably before it became a hivemind/ echo chamber too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:51 AM
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to deprogram men from the overwhelming "women are wonderful" gaslighting Just to talk to anybody that's been divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:50 AM
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The downside of that is that your potential mates are getting older and less attractive. Most will have kids eventually. There's kind of a zone where the opportunities are best. Later on, it becomes orders of magnitudes more difficult, unless one is able to lower their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:49 AM
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Don't forget that the harder that it is for men, the harder that it is for women. Online dating is mostly ineffective and sucks a lot of time with no little payoff, no matter what you look like or what you own. A lot of people fear every form of app and social media because of the scam potential these days. It's very hard to get to know anybody through social media (it takes years for trust to build, assuming that others are even willing to make new contacts). We all know the challenges that dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:46 AM
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Interesting thoughts. If women aren’t able to get a man of higher stature then many opt to share, at least for a while. This most happens in a woman’s 20’s, maybe 30’s. Eventually the top guys pair off in their own league and the women are left to pair off with men in their league. All the while all of this is going on, women's attractiveness tends to drop drastically over that time period. Unless she really takes care of herself and has good genes. Meanwhile, men tend to age better in the eyes …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:56 AM
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since women are now mostly independent. Yeah. But, they still have to work. ...and probably can't afford the good life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:47 AM
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Also, they're more likely to do it if nobody finds out, and they don't ever have to talk to that sex partner ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:46 AM
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Men get bored, too. They'll swipe out of boredom, and then nope out when contacted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:45 AM
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Unless the person gets better (pro?) photos, a better haircut, some makeup, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:44 AM
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some people end up dating a crappy person they don’t necessarily want, but they are afraid that they won’t get any better, very low self stem Makes you wonder why women are so picky online. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:40 AM
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or... 6 inches
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:38 AM
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This is also true if you're established. A bad divorce could literally leave you on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:38 AM
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Don't forget that both people change over time in a relationship. 10 years from now... with either of you be 'the one' anymore? Who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:37 AM
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You could take a marker and draw a frog with tits, and it would still get 50 messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:51 AM
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A lot of the photos and profiles aren't real
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:43 AM
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Or, even make a good profile with great pics. Just to see how sad OLD has become.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:41 AM
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Adding to this... it's rare to find anybody that can express themselves in text well for any length of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:40 AM
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Most of the 'hot women' just try to sell you bitcoin.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:39 AM
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The problem is that even if you're an 8/10 in real life, you'll be considered a 6 (at best) online. A woman that's a 6/10 in real life is going to act like a 9/10 online.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:38 AM
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I doubt that most people meet their partners on those sites. It's like winning the lottery now. I remember how many people said that on the okcupid subreddit. Most of it was marketing by okc (paid shills) and liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:37 AM
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Yeah, but simps throw out 100 compliments per minute. Same as 'likes' online.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:31 AM
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Women could take over the world and amass armies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:30 AM
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Only if she's good-looking, educated and comes from the right family background. But, if we're just talking about girls getting dick, that's not "a pedestal"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:29 AM
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Not if you wear a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:28 AM
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Great analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:27 AM
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You'd be shocked what makeup and other stuff can do for men. Yes, they make stuff like that for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:27 AM
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LOL pheromones
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:26 AM
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You can post some (fake) pics of some hot dude, and make up how successful you are. Message some unattractive women on those apps, and I can guarantee that you still won't get anywhere. Matches on those apps means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:25 AM
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The numbers game has more to do with how often you can get out, your social skills, and the size of the circle of friends that you have. Being good-looking and fit means little if you don't know anybody, or can't get out to meet new people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:23 AM
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Smart women know the difference between being valued for the prospect of sex, and being valued for their potential as a life partner (or even as a human being). More specifically, women tend to get too much of an ego boost from being seen as a potential sex partner. Which really doesn't give them that much value, because that's anybody with a vagina, basically. As a woman, getting sex is easy. But, try to turn that into a really good relationship. It's difficult to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:21 AM
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This might be one of those things to keep to oneself, so that the current partner in question doesn't make comparisons.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:15 AM
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Savage!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:14 AM
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I laughed, good sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:12 AM
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We seek good genetics in our partner (which is rare). Obviously, we're not attracted by bad genetics, even if that is rare. It's about our programming.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:12 AM
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I think that we strategize all of the time when we communicate in order to gain some kind of reward that we seek. It's very complex and we usually don't know that we're doing it. Especially in the beginning, where there is reward to be had, and yet there is always some risk of a mis-step and the loss of a potential reward. For example, we to emphasize our good traits and habits first and foremost. While we reveal our bad traits more slowly later on once we have communicated how 'good' we are? It…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:07 AM
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I've seen some women really go at it, though. Sometimes, one gets fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:53 AM
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I think that what has overvalued women is online dating (or undervalued men, if you prefer). Even unattractive women get tons of messages from hungry men. So, it makes even average-looking women feel more valuable than they are, and makes somewhat attractive women practically unattainable. Overall, they often are led to believe that the numbers game and (a huge span of) time will pay off and they will win them some dude that's probably way out of their league. It keeps people single, and everyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:49 AM
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It can be about self-confidence, too. Especially if they were bullied or made to feel inadequate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:45 AM
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Here's the thing about respect. Men shouldn't be fooled into devaluing themselves in the work world. More specifically, they should never assume that working for less or even for free will get them future benefits or work. You have to ensure that you are compensated properly along the way. If you work your ass off, or if you are skilled in many areas, you WILL be given many times more work than the next guy. So, you have to get used to saying 'no' at times, and demanding that you are properly co…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:44 AM
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I just see more and more stuff where people are screwing up and making it more difficult for themselves and everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:31 AM
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They're out there; there's some churn too... people always break up, then they're out there looking (or hoping to be looked at). It gets hard if you're seeking somebody over 30 without kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:30 AM
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Don't forget the cost of ride share/ taxi
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:29 AM
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Game Theory for sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:37 PM
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It's usually not a good idea for men to ask women for dating advice. "Women hate men that post pics of abs!" But, guess which profiles get the most attention on those apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:31 PM
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I've seen a fair number of 'mismatched' couples where one person was significantly better-looking than their partner. Subjectively, of course. I usually assume that they got to know each other personally and organically through a friendship and connected well on other levels. That is, as opposed to the debacle that it is social media and apps. If you're going in 'cold' on some app, looks matter. However, I always wondered why really attractive people rarely seem to get together on those dating a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:29 PM
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and concentrated in couples where both are older. Nope. Look at the chart.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:11 PM
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This is true. My heart always sinks when I talk with a woman, and she looks back at her comrades all sitting with each other (with no men) for the thumbs up or thumbs down. They rarely want their friends to find find anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:10 PM
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ahhhh...!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:08 PM
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Yes, this. It can work against them, though. Lowering their options as they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:05 PM
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Probably Always Sunny in Philly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:04 PM
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Some guys gladly pay it. Everybody wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:04 PM
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You can have "nefarious reasons" at any age, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 09:55 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 09:52 PM
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This seems to a recent phenomenon on the Internet. People trying to police age differences in personal relationships. You even see people sperging out, calling grown, legal adults 'pedos' for dating somebody only a bit younger. There is also a lot of denial out there that the majority of women choose men that are a bit older than themselves. In addition, that age gap tends to widen as single women get older. Those that want to police age gaps in relationships often say that it's about morality. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 09:50 PM
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Older guy here. Friends used to get together more, and do more social things pre-Internet. You would go bananas without social contact, so you would go out. People had common and popular meeting places.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 09:30 PM
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Yeah, approaching them takes nerves of steel, and (sadly) men approaching women anywhere is frowned upon now. The only time that it's really acceptable these days is if you have known the woman for a while, or are friends. Who has time or money to sit at a bar? Heck, it's barely acceptable to talk up women at a bar these days, anyway. Dating is so toxic now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 09:29 PM
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I'm convinced that there are a lot of lonely women as well. You don't hear them complain about it too much, though. You figure, with all of the single men, there has to be a lot of single unattached women. There are nearly as many women as men in the population. Maybe the women are hooking up; who knows? But, what woman wants to do that forever? Or, when she's older and less attractive physically? Good luck. I also personally know a fair number of women that have a very strong desire to be alone…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 09:26 PM
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Yeah, but it happens. Maybe one in one hundred couples sport a huge age difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 09:14 PM
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Dating in other some countries is easier. Women take your interest as a compliment, and the interactions are more positive. I disagree that some app is the solution, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 09:12 PM
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In the majority of couples, the guy is older (51.2 percent). In recent years, a lot of people online really want to force the idea that people can only be withing a couple of years of each other, to try and make it as some kind of 'rule'. You can see here that nearly 32 percent of men are at least 5 years older than their mate in heterosexual relationships: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships People find their happiness in their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 09:07 PM
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I saw a documentary wherein they featured a woman was addicted to some relationship chat-bot. She was also in a relationship with an actual guy as well. It was causing a lot of problems in their relationship; the woman wouldn't give it up even if her partner was going to leave. They stayed together; the compromise was that she got to keep her chat bot relationship, but she has to use it less.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 09:00 PM
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It would make a great Futurama episode.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:57 PM
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The only real reason for (significantly) older men to pick up a teenager is for sex. You'll have nothing to talk about, unless you get some girl that that 1 in 100k with a super high IQ and came from a family that forced life experience on her. Nothing wrong with sex between consenting adults, mind you. But, you can't expect it to last.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:16 AM
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Some older women that are educated and successful are really interesting. A lot of younger women have to rely on their looks (which is fine, BTW).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:08 AM
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But, don't women generally go for men that are older than they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:06 AM
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Did you attend an ivy league school?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:03 AM
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I can't imagine anything more empty than conversing with a machine, and it spits out canned responses that are put together by an algorithm. All the while, some corporation collects your data so that they can sell that data, and also sell products to you. Some people are already becoming addicted to these systems. It's very, very sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:31 AM
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Good points. I have seen, however, that as women get older, they tend to date men that are older than them. The older that women become, they tend towards older and older men. It's not unusual to see a 30 year old woman with a 35 year old man. But, women in their 40's often select men that are 50 or better, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:26 AM
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I think that a fair number of people think this way. That's why you often see folks getting really really angry about relationships wherein there is an age difference between the two people in the relationship. This is true even for somewhat small age differences, and it's especially true when the man is the older one. While I don't know if it's true that older men outperform younger men in the dating sphere, I have read that women are perceived to reach their peak attractiveness around the age …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:24 AM
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