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| 2 | The more I try, the less I get. The less I try, the more I get.I don’t have Tinder. It is worthless. Online dating is something I have done but the quality of women I get outside of it is a million times higher. For a night out I will either wear a sport jacket or a polo, depending on what I’m doing. I can dress nicely in any style - and although yes the focus tends to be more formal he does offer lots of tips on casual wear too. I do wear a suit to work (not everyday, and obviously pre-covid), and I have gone to after-work dates in a suit. | /r/seduction | 31/07/20 11:54 AM |
| – | The more I try, the less I get. The less I try, the more I get.Lol as long as you are in decent shape and dress well you can get smiles from lots of random women. I am not in the top 95th percentile of general physical looks (I am above average but def not 95th percentile), but I am in good shape and I sure as hell dress in the top 95th percentile. A woman doesn’t see men the same way, they see a lot more than just the physical attributes. Women focus so much on their clothes because they mimic what they find attractive in men (kind of like how the body bui… | /r/seduction | 30/07/20 10:04 PM |
| 18 | Harry's epic profileThis is on par with the mythic “No fatties - if you don’t love yourself why should I?” | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/05/20 02:08 AM |
| 1 | How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and womenI‘m 34, trust me, your prospects will get better assuming you a) continue to progress in your career, b) stay in shape, c) get some real life experience/wisdom/good stories. I have never had it this easy as far as getting women, and I have always done well in that department. I don’t want to date girls under 25; sure, I’ve slept with several in the past year but no thanks as far as a relationship. The 26 to early 30s girls are the best. Mature enough that they know what they want, still very att… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 03:55 AM |
| 2 | Carol had her life all planned out, now at 45, with fetid eggs and a Vassar degree, she's wondering WAATGM?Wait...insurance covers this shit?!? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/04/20 04:55 PM |
| 3 | BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive.I know a few people that speak it, including a German girl I’ve been talking to a lot throughout this quarantine (she is a close friend of a relative, I met her in person right before the shut down started). She speaks 4 languages so I figured I should at least get to 3 (I also speak Spanish). I’m generally one of those “always be improving” types and I needed something new to learn. :) As far as how I am learning, I try to simulate immersion as much as possible. I watch Deutsche Welle (think BB… | /r/seduction | 14/04/20 11:15 AM |
| 5 | BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive.Ja, es ist eine toll Sprache | /r/seduction | 13/04/20 01:55 AM |
| – | BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive.Ich lerne schnell Deutsch Getting close to A2 level after 10 days of doing pretty much nothing else in my free time woohoo 😂 | /r/seduction | 12/04/20 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular Opinion: There's no way women hit the wall at 30When I was in my mid 20s, I dated women in their mid 20s. Now that I’m in my mid 30s, I date women in their mid to late 20s. I don’t like “the wall” metaphor because in most instances it’s not that abrupt. That being said, most women look a good bit hotter at 25 than they do at 35. I can date both ages, why wouldn’t I go for 25? Hopefully I won’t be single in ten years, but if I were, yeah I would go for 30-35 year olds, just because of maturity differences making it hard to have any sort of rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/20 09:32 PM |
| 1 | The best part was where people would suggest to lose weight, she'd do nothing but whine.I don’t understand how people can be so lacking in common sense. It’d be like some guy saying “I’m a broke drug addict who hasn’t had a job in years, why can’t I get a hot girl with a good job to go out with me?” | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/03/20 09:20 PM |
| 2 | If men suddenly were repulsed by women who wear make up, most women who wear make up would stop wearing itLol so what? If women stopped being attracted to money I’d probably just go be a ski or beach bum somewhere. Does that make society a matriarchy? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 10:53 PM |
| 1 | So it turned out men are really 'intimidated' by single moms. Thats why men don't like dating them. Too good.She sounds fun | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/03/20 12:48 AM |
| 1 | How many men can afford a stay at home wife?Lol no they won’t. They’ll clean your toilets, make just enough to survive, have 5 kids, and they’ll all vote Democrat. XD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 01:14 AM |
| 3 | How many men can afford a stay at home wife?I agree with you. One thing to note though is that the reality is that not everyone is intelligent enough to do high paying jobs, regardless of motivation. I make very good money and am a libertarian btw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 06:01 AM |
| 1 | A Good social circle is SEVERELY underratedIt worked well. I met current girl I’m dating on apps, though. In general it’s good to have friends when you’re single, and obviously friends of friends are some of the best girls you’ll find. | /r/seduction | 16/01/20 05:25 PM |
| 1 | A Good social circle is SEVERELY underratedNumber one thing I worked on after I got divorced was getting more friends. | /r/seduction | 10/01/20 03:20 PM |
| 1 | My biggest regret in game so far +3 things I learned from it. Been beating myself over it for days now. Never againDude I don’t get it. You were on vacation - what were the odds that she even lives in the same city as you (or a close one)? | /r/seduction | 01/01/20 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Feeling inaquedate in NYCBesides “hot”, what type of woman are you looking for? Different women prioritize different things, so let’s start there. I don’t live there, but I’ve been many times - as you said NYC has a lot of attractive women and a lot of high quality men. It depends on what you’re looking for whether or not it’s a good place for you. Me personally, strictly from a dating perspective, I would love to live in NYC. There are a lot of extremely intelligent (and beautiful) women there, and those are the type o… | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 04:28 PM |
| 1 | How can I meet new girls? I'm 31.You need to prioritize getting friends. Go do some activities with others (look up meetups, and focus on making friends with dudes, not hitting on chicks). Ask your co-workers what they’re up to that weekend. If they for example are doing a party with friends you will likely get invited. Hell you can also post on this forum “anyone else live in X and want to hang out?” Seriously, right now you just need some friends. | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 03:55 PM |
| 2 | How to behave solo in clubs/barsI lol’d at the thought that the barista at Starbucks is higher quality pussy than the girl you’d meet at a high-end club. | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Theres a second type of loneliness that NO ONE talks about.That’s the type of loneliness I’m dealing with right now. Dating a lot of women, but lonely nonetheless. | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Okay I get it nowLol I’m not trying to write an essay here, just saying some quick points. Fit>thin>fat for body type obviously, that’s common sense. If I were not in good shape I would consider getting everything tailored, but thankfully off-the-rack items usually fit me very well since I know my sizes. That being said, my tailor and I are on a first name basis. I also judge women for their fashion choices, which is a great turning of the tables. For example, if I see a chick and she’s wearing sweat/yoga pants … | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Okay I get it nowThis is true (person I was responding said he’s thin, so he should be ok), especially as far as off the rack, cheaper items of clothing go. I’ve also found there’s a correlation between people who dress well and people who are in shape (obviously it’s not always the case). | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Okay I get it nowLearn to dress well. For fucks sake I see soooooo many men who don’t know how to dress well. Not even as far as what they’re wearing, fit is often terribly lacking too. You’ll know you are dressing well when you are getting frequent compliments on dates, at work, etc. It’s such a huge ego boost that never gets old. Last thing I’ll say is budget does not matter. You can look great on a budget if you know what you’re doing. | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Okay I get it nowOnce you get really good with women the question is not can you date a woman, but is a particular woman good enough for you to be in a serious relationship with. Add in that as you get better your standards also get higher. | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Can you guys suggest some music which makes us confident, sexual and more masculineI’m gonna date myself a bit, but I loved listening to Let It Rock by Kevin Rudolph before a night out clubbing haha. | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 05:27 AM |
| – | Advice for a girl who is a beginner when it comes to dating and struggles to talk to guys?Honestly the biggest thing is to work on your looks. I don’t care how good a personality a girl has, if she’s fat or ugly there is no way in hell I am going to date her. Fix your looks and you will get confident in other areas and a virtuous spiral will occur. Or, you could just stay overweight and complain, the choice is yours! | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 04:35 AM |
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