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| 4 | How to deal emotionally with having to give a big chunk of money to a leech?I am in the same boat. Until she chose to separate she had never worked. Her lawyer told her to get a job. She got a six month contract job, and acted like it was the most difficult thing she had ever done. Now it has ended she is going to college.. because that's more fun than working. And then keeps telling me that the amount I am giving her isn't sufficient. She refused to discuss her expenses so .. she is going to continue to get what I am giving. Regardless of the amount, think of it as mon… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/23 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Checkin in.It took a lot for you to write this, and to get to this point. You've had a lot to contend with and you have survived - you can do this my friend. You can keep on keeping on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/08/22 04:42 AM |
| 18 | retainer fee gone?Ask for the billing statement and see where it went. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/22 10:36 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with lonelinessTry checking meetup.com and see what's around. I joined a once/week online group for separated/divorced people - emotional support focused, but they also then meet in person. I see my therapist weekly, and talk to my kids daily. I try to have the TV/music on when at home, and I make a point to reach out to my brother. Someone at my kid's school needed to borrow something so I invited them over and we chatted for 1.5 hours. I talked about my separation (among other things)- talking helps. I'm sti… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/22 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Divorce in NCI got the EX to agree to not selling until our Son graduated High School. The day after it was listed for sale. How does this work with the value of the house changing? Did you both agree to get 50% of the sale no matter what? I refinanced just last year when rates are low, and have a 15 year, but I won't be able to give her 50% of our cash AND 50% of the house - I can't afford to buy her out currently, so this might be an option. But then, as house values are shooting up I'm also worried that i… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/22 08:26 PM |
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