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Supposedly it’s takes half the time of your previous relationship to get over your ex. I say it can be done even sooner. What you need is a good solid group of friends to shoot the shit with. A wolf pack. Otherwise you’ve been doing good pushing yourself to be a better version of you OP. Continue to stay on your purpose. It may seem a bit rough right now but in the long term you’re going to look back and smile at all the hard work you’ve been putting in. Guarantee.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 07:35 PM
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Frank Underwood - House of Cards
/r/askTRP04/05/21 03:30 AM
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Stress eating
/r/askTRP20/03/21 12:21 PM
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Currently living in a similar area to you, yea man I know what you mean. Honestly I think it’s a location thing. The south has more overweight people than any other part of the country, it’s definitely more noticeable here. Thankfully I live near a college campus with an endless supply of birds on tap. If you can try and move near a city ASAP.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:14 AM
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Do you believe the lockdowns from last year accelerated the process?
/r/askTRP16/03/21 07:29 PM
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You’re right. OP should do what he wants to do. His frame is his priority. I apologize for the bad advice.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 01:34 AM
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It is possible. Commonly referred to as “wingman”. However keep in mind attraction cannot be forced. There’s a possibility your old plate and/or your friend may not feel one another from the start. If you’re not feeling this particular plate anymore than just cease contact.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 01:21 AM
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The only thing plates belong to is the city. She’s not yours fam.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 01:14 AM
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You have to be careful doing this OP. By reaching out to text her on this manner you are entering her frame. This can come across as needy which can backfire on you. I’d wait a few days. With these snowstorms rolling in there’s no telling how the roads will be. In the meantime focus on yourself and be on your purpose.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 01:12 AM
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Definitely recommend picking up some hobbies you would be passionate about.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 07:12 AM
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Honestly I would wait. Give it a couple days to let it simmer. You don’t want to come off as needy through text. If she truly wants to spend time with you she will do it by any means necessary. She will come around. In the meantime just focus on other things. Continue talking with other women so you don’t accidentally get oneitis with the religious girl.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 03:50 AM
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What you mentioned OP is in my opinion the best thing about TRP in general. It truly is a life changer once you start applying the principles to your daily life. Yea there is good information on how to properly interact with women which attracts majority of RP men but that is just surface level TRP. Looking deeper there is SO much more. Between all the how to get laid post there is lots of solid advice on how to be a true modern man. I can’t speak for the rest of community but I appreciate post …
/r/askTRP04/02/21 07:15 PM
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Early - mid 30s for sure.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 06:53 PM
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If OP is texting for logistics and keeps getting rejected he needs to stop going by the script 100%. There’s a balance to everything man. I completely agree with texting for logistics but acting like an answering machine will not bring this man the women he wants.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 04:12 AM
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Any chances you don’t take will be missed opportunities. Do you want to look back on your life and see nothing but missed opportunities? Get out there and prove to yourself you can do it man.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 04:07 AM
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Exactly. More opportunities for us in the long run. Y’all should be thrilled.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 04:01 AM
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I’m going to run off the path and say texting for logistics only is no longer applicable. Yes the game remains the same but not only do the players change, the levels change as well. As a player in the game you must adapt to each and every level. A few years ago when I was on my online dating spree I used the text only for logistics strategy. Occasionally it worked but looking back I ended up losing a lot of ass from being too scripted/robotic. Once I became more experienced with messaging I leg…
/r/askTRP04/02/21 03:58 AM
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What does being a badass mean to you? An influencer of sort? A cool hobby people are interested in? A man anyone can look up to for inspiration? I also want to give you props for working on improving yourself man. You’re already ahead of majority of the population in that aspect.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 04:15 PM
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You’re lacking a sense of purpose OP. Ask yourself what’s the reason why you’re wanting to improve. What’s your current goal in life?
/r/askTRP30/01/21 04:09 PM
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Get off the internet. Ignore. Continue working on who you are in person. Actions speak louder than words.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 06:56 PM
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All plates eventually break. Some will slowly fade. Others will quickly ghost without warning. Depending on how you handled those plates oftentimes they’ll come back into your rotation. Could be from a “ping” text or randomly running into them out in public. The game is always in play.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 08:16 AM
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If you’re new to the whole cutting back on porn thing I recommend starting off small. Try to withstand from jerking off for a 4-7 days. After a couple successful attempts try and go two weeks. From there just keep going until you feel like you no longer feel the need to look at it.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 08:10 AM
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I don’t remember if it was said here or on the main RP sub but years ago someone once mentioned this in a thread. “Being redpilled is like putting all your skill points into persuasion on your main character in a video game. Suddenly you have these extra chat options on how to interact with the outside world.” Since I’ve read that quote my perspective on life has drastically changed for the better.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 08:05 AM
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Just ignore the topic and change it to something else. Emotionally she is still tied with her ex if she keeps bringing him up. However since this is your plate and if you are regularly fucking her then you should have nothing to sweat about. Enjoy that no attachment ass, it’s free.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 07:58 AM
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There’s two possibilities you need to consider moving forward: Alcohol can prevent you from finishing depending on a number of factors. It’s fun having drunk sex but don’t get into the habit of being inebriated during sexual encounters. If you’ve been jerking off to porn for a good while there is a chance you could have ED. No worries though man. You’re simply just not used to the real thing. I recommend cutting back on the porn so you can “reset” yourself.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 07:54 AM
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To inspire younger generations to rise up and become something great for themselves. To help those who are young understand that “constructive” criticism is okay and important for personal growth. To pass down skills that keep our society in check. To keep the family unit stabilized. We need strong willed people in general to keep us as a species afloat. A lot of good values in our society are being lost right now. Lots of things have changed in the past 20-30 years that has driven a wedge betwe…
/r/askTRP12/12/20 09:18 AM
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This is where it gets tricky. You’re absolutely correct that text should just be kept to logistics only. However remember you are also wanting these girls to invest in you. Just strictly replying like an automotive message system will result in them getting bored with you very quickly. Being too and chatty goofy will result in them not taking you seriously and categorizing you as a beta male. There’s a certain balance, that sweet spot, between hot and cold where everything runs at a natural pace…
/r/askTRP12/12/20 08:51 AM
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And I found you’re problem. You’re making yourself way too available right from the get go. A few years back when I was your age I was running into the same problems. The numbers would come in but their interest would dry up faster than water in a desert once the texting started. It took me a long ass time until I realized I was making myself too available. Purposely I started keeping myself preoccupied with the gym, work, and other things to bring more interest into my life to the point I was o…
/r/askTRP12/12/20 08:29 AM
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OP you are showing signs of neediness and outcome dependency. Like sharks who smell blood in the water, a woman can very quickly tell if a dude is rushing to throw her in the sack. I guarantee your hunger for sex is showing through you’re interactions a little too much. Relax man. Don’t focus so hard on wanting to bust a nut into some random. Yes cold approaching can be exhausting. It sucks when you don’t get results but guess what. You’re going to continue approaching a 100 more times. Then ano…
/r/askTRP12/12/20 08:06 AM
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I try to keep it natural and banter a bit. I don’t bullshit with them though, I legit try to learn about them. It helped me when I tried to plate them later on.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 05:19 AM
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Everyone’s game is going to be different from one another. What works for some may not work for others. Personally I never give the girl my number. The times I’d done so I never heard back from them ever again. What I used to do was have the girl give me her number. Afterwards I would send them a picture of myself. I noticed an increased response to this method. Overtime I tweaked it even more and had the girl take a picture with me. I would send them the picture as a reminder of not only what I…
/r/askTRP13/11/20 03:45 AM
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She is the prime years of her life, perfect time for her to taste the world as she see’s fit. Sooner or later she is going to want to venture out and try the next new thing. I just want you to be aware that there is a very real possibility she will mess with your head and leave you. That’s just the nature of the beast. You seem to have oneitis for her which is expected. You’re going to probably get hurt messing with this girl. Just as long as you know. For now enjoy her time. Play the field the …
/r/askTRP13/11/20 03:25 AM
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I can tell you right now that mentality will set you up for repeated heartache in the future. Relying on women to fill a void in your life is making you more needy in the long run. What happens if/when that girl leaves you? You’re going to go right back to being lonely and simping. In all honesty you need heartbreak to learn how the world works. Maybe you need a couple girls to run through you like paper. Use you for their own gain. At least you will toughen up as life goes on. I understand not …
/r/askTRP13/11/20 03:19 AM
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Men can handle being alone better than women can. When things get tough men don’t require a shoulder to lean on, sympathy, etc. Women are far more likely to look for sympathy during hard times. I take this has to do with how we came up in the world as as a species. And the other poster is right as well. Don’t surround yourself with bad people. Likes attracts likes. Build your frame up more and go find yourself a good group of men you can relate to as your wolf pack.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 03:10 AM
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What exactly are you eating?
/r/askTRP11/11/20 01:23 AM
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When it comes to sex depending on what kind of emotions are being displayed makes the difference. Prime example: In my current LTR there’s times when her and I are sitting around the house, eventually we both end up horny from teasing. This leads to us fucking just for the fun of it. Maybe there’s a plate that hits you up after a night at the bar. She’s looking for a fun end to the night. No strings attached sex. Just wants to get her guts scrambled. This is considered fun sex Sometimes my girl …
/r/askTRP10/11/20 10:25 PM
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You’re absolutely right. Until that lifestyle is fully achieved you have to fake it until you make it. You can try and live it all you want but if your head isn’t 100% in the game it’s going to be harder to push through.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 09:46 PM
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There’s a difference between fucking, hate fucking, and making love. If you plan on keeping your plates/future prospects intact you’re going to have to throw some feel good sensations into the mix during sex. You can’t just blast their pussy into oblivion every single time. I recommend you read up on Sex God Method by Daniel Rose.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 09:41 PM
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Next time you find yourself in a similar situation and you do manage to actually have sex dont immediately send a “good feeling” text right after. Go on with your life and chase your purpose. Live in a state of abundance. You’re too preoccupied to be sending cringe text like that. I promise women will come to you knowing you are out there being your best.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 07:42 PM
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You must achieve an abundance mindset.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 07:35 PM
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To be completely honest I doubt you’ll hear back from her anytime soon. If ever. You are suffering from ED (erectile dysfunction) man. You’ve gotten so used to looking at porn the moment the real thing showed up your mind didn’t know how to respond. I highly recommend cutting back on the porn. Until you get that straightened out you’re going to keep running into issues. Also never ever send a text like that again.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 05:55 PM
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Best thing to do is to maintain a solid frame. When he starts to act up treat him like a disrespectful plate but otherwise keep it professional. He ask you a question? Give him short answers. He disrespects you? Smirk and go on with your business. He cockblocks you? Flip the script and make it weird. Suggest a threesome. You should not be phased by this dude. He does this shit because his “territory” is being threatened. Deep down this loser is afraid of you. Use that knowledge to your advantage…
/r/askTRP10/11/20 06:52 AM
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PM me what’s going on with your life man. I’d be willing to help out. That goes for anyone else out there who needs someone to talk to.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 03:48 AM
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I have no idea. Sounds like some generation Z stuff.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 03:04 AM
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You’re overthinking it OP. Be glad she just mentioned sex. That’s a good signal for potential plate status. Now with that being said listen to me very carefully. Don’t get too invested from the jump. I can tell you’re already showing slight neediness towards this girl based off the text you sent her. The moment she catches a whif of neediness she will back off and you will end up frustrated. Just play it cool and be natural. At some point you want this girl to be the one sending you those hangou…
/r/askTRP10/11/20 02:47 AM
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I’m a big music head but honestly this is a terrible idea. There has to be a physical presence in order to get a girl’s sexual attention. The last thing you want to do is a virtual concert. You’re just asking to end up getting labeled as an orbiter.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 12:23 AM
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Last year I took a great interest in watching Alpha Male Strategies on YouTube. In my opinion dude legitimately has the best video material out on the web. He’s extremely to the point. No bullshit. No gimmicks.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 11:11 PM
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It’s a marathon, not a sprint. The only person you are competing against is yourself. There’s no time limit to self improvement. Every day should be a new learning experience. I’m not gonna lie monk mode can be a lonely but honestly it’s supposed to feel that way. One of the most overlooked aspects of monk mode is coming to terms with being lonely and accepting it. Once you’ve truly embraced enjoying your own company you start to realize that it’s okay to be by yourself. Suddenly you go from fee…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 07:35 AM
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It’s only the friend zone if you’re expecting to get something out of it in the long run. If by chance she happens to come around again then by all means roll the dice and link up with her. Otherwise just carry on with your life. Meet new women. Get on your purpose. Build a better you.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 07:13 AM
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Nothing wrong with keeping light contact, as long as it’s platonic. Don’t expect anything else considering she’s no longer going to be around you.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 07:03 AM
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If you plan on eventually upgrading one of your plates you’re gonna have to vet them. Go over what each one brings to the table (excluding sex). Like really think about what kind of things they’re into. Hobbies, personality, friend circle, family background, everything. All this things add up if you plan on upgrading the girl. Compare the pros and cons to your own worth. Do you share majority of the same interest with your plates? Do you enjoy spending time with them outside the bedroom?
/r/askTRP08/11/20 06:49 AM
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What exactly are you looking to gain from being an LTR again?
/r/askTRP08/11/20 06:07 AM
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Who told you you’re fucked up? The world or yourself? Take the time to sit down and really evaluate how you carry yourself and more importantly ask yourself what is your purpose as of this moment.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 05:58 AM
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You’re not her priority and neither should she be yours. In her mind you are just another person she’s barely known for two weeks. She’s hardly put any sort of worth on you at this point in time, which can be changed. Are you talking to others girls or just this particular one?
/r/askTRP08/11/20 05:56 AM
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It does sound weird I’ll admit. I was a late bloomer. Didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22 but soon afterwards I took off. Until recently I loved hooking up and spinning plates. Especially with the industry I work in, it’s easy. Then it got old. It may be because I’m older now but my priorities have definitely shifted.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 08:23 PM
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My recent ex did the exact same thing a few months back. I actually made a thread about it on here Best course of action is to ignore and stay silent. All she is doing is trying to get a reaction out of you and validate herself Deny her that
/r/askTRP10/01/19 05:29 PM
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Haven’t read it yet but I’ll definitely look into picking it up
/r/askTRP19/09/18 06:40 PM
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I’m not gonna lie I was very reluctant to post about it. I know some others here meditate as well, I was hoping to get some insight from them
/r/askTRP19/09/18 06:24 PM
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His first two albums (Trilogy and Kiss Land) have a special place in my life. I've listened to both countless times because of the underlying themes his lyrics contain Him and I are around the same age so I can somewhat relate to what he experienced from his late teens to now
/r/askTRP19/10/16 01:25 AM
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The closest I've ever gotten was during sex, whenever I go on vacation to the beach, and when I'm listening/working on music
/r/askTRP19/08/16 12:10 AM
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About 30 mins - 1 hour after I wake up Usually I'll have about 4 hours of free time to hit the iron before work
/r/askTRP18/07/16 05:39 PM
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