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i probably chose the wrong one, who knows, but either way, whatever connections I made definitely don't benefit me. it's a bunch of middle class at best women pretending to be rich. i did make the mistake of going to a state school (it was highly ranked...i was dumb at 18) rather than a private college.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:00 PM
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i was part of a sorority in college. maybe I didn't do a good job at showing off my parents money and joining the right one because a lot of those girls in my sorority are just downright poor in my opinion. their parents most definitely were not paying for college or their car. they actually had to use their part time job money in college for supplies their parents should have been paying for. it wasn't a "building character" thing either. they didn't have that kind of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:52 PM
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I mean, i have more than enough to pay off my house and still have close to 7 figures in the market right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:48 PM
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jesus can make an appearance too. they wouldn't stop. i'm their only child and they are in their 70s. blood and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:44 PM
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honestly, with the amount my parents give me each year, it could cover my half of living expenses. i do have fairly low living expenses because 1) they gave me half the value of my house as a down payment 2) they buy my car 3) i don't really spend a lot because I have no one I want to impress. like sure, I can spend 40k on a bag. but I want the right people to see I own this bag. I have no access to the right people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:39 PM
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it 100% feels that way. Someone told me that i'm closer to being homeless than being rich the other day. didn't know what to say, but i personally have 800k saved plus my house is half paid off, not to mention my parents have 8 million in the market and they give me money constantly like most wealthy people do (yearly 5 figure gifts for christmas). i don't think I can honestly say I'm close to homelessness just to fit in, and it's getting to the point I don't want to anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:26 PM
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i'm 30. boomers are just to old for me. i want to socialize with other 30 somethings
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:23 PM
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the golf club with social aspects are around 200k to join and 100k/year. regular golf clubs are cheaper, but all you get is access to the course. you have to arrange your own socializing and i guess figuring out who is part of the club to socialize with. my problem is, i don't know who is like me. I'm not part of the rich, but i'm lying when i say i have money issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:21 PM
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the 0.01% ers already have their clubs. the upper middle needs one too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:15 PM
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i know the 0.01% have their own clubs and stuff, but what about the top 5% of society. we need to band together and create our social groups rather than be grouped with the poors. I'm talking people like me whose parents paid for college, gave them their first car or two, and gave at least 100k for the first house. I'm not designer clothes only and 100 million dollar multiple estates wealthy (my parents have 3 home totaling around 3 million), but I can afford nice things regularly. like I can dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:12 PM
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Even in the tourist area you have to deal with scammers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:20 PM
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Are we pro Hamas or pro Israel on this sub? I guess the left of America supports Hamas while the right wing supports Israel. Must be a blow that Biden is showing support for Israel.. On a side note, does anyone else just hate going to poor countries? I don't want to be harassed or scammed while taking a taxi ride. It never feels worth it visiting a poor country..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:05 PM
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Why would you want to do all the chores, cooking, and pay all the bills ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:50 PM
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? She paid for all the bills and did the chores and cooking (while sleeping with him and lowering her value).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:41 PM
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What man does all the chores?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:39 PM
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Median lawyer salary is like $120k, so I wouldn't say 80k is enough of a gap for him to look around and hope to do better. Men who pay for their gfs are looking for trophies they can bring to their friend not actual relationships. Plus I have never heard of a guy who does all the cleaning and cooking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:34 PM
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be attractive and be in medical school or in the top 10 law or mba program and look for women with low self esteem who think that by being nice when you are "poor" means you'll stick around when you are rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:07 PM
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yeah, but as a lawyer she's probably getting 60k at the lowest, and he caps at 200k? maybe? how much better is he really going to get?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:02 PM
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a small bonus, which is less than mine a lead engineer at another fortune 20 (i'm also 20 years younger). anyway back to my point, your dude can't do better than his gf. this one could, and did. if your example could realistically make 1 million + year in 7 years time, would he really be with his current gf? and he's obviously not yet partner. partners make 1 million+ at his firm. he was at the high end of 200k.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:42 PM
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corporate is corporate. good lawyers work for big law firms and spilt profits when they make partner. a fancy sounding title means nothing. my bil is vp of hr of a fortune 20. he makes $130k/year. he's not even practicing? no way he's on track to make millions like this guy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:37 PM
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hmm. that's not big law, so he's definitely not on track for million/year like this one. i don't think they make more than $200k/year. that's not leave your wife money.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:34 PM
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hmm. maybe he's not as successful and can't do much better? not all lawyers are big law making 1% salary. most are making like 120k tops, so can't really attract decent younger women. this one is probably making 200-300k/year (will likely make even more as his career progresses), so it was obvious (to everyone but her) that he was going to upgrade. she is middle class wife material, not 1% material. and middle class women shouldn't be taking on the full financial and domestic load of their partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:25 PM
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never take care of a guy going to school full time. another friend of mine was pretty much a live in bang maid (who paid all the bills) to her boyfriend while he was in school was dumped for someone younger less than a year after he graduated. she should have seen it coming, but men just aren't hardwired to appreciate girls who give them everything. (women too sometimes).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:08 PM
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yeah, no kids and sex is ok if those were my only options.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:17 PM
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Stay single. Neither would appeal to me. Most millionaires are not high status. It's usually a combo of looks, money, and personality. My husband is over 6ft, makes well over 6 figs, spends an hour at the gym everyday, etc. I was his first gf. He was 28.... Being almost universally desired takes a lot more than red pillers think.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:52 AM
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no. his mother has explicating said she is not available for child care duties. his dad is out of the picture. his sister is 500 miles away. he goes out almost every weekend by himself. so do most of my club friend's husbands. they always show up to our meetings with their kids. ​ move down south? we're in atlanta. i've found this to be true for almost all races of college educated couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:08 PM
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well most of these women have been married for at least 10 years, and seem no where near divorce land. my sister in law literally avoided her brother's wedding in order to make sure her marriage stays ok (husband does not think weddings are ok for women to attend)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:05 PM
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i'm in the south, so that's probably half of it. though honestly when i was dating in my early 20s (10 years ago), most men expected me to do everything at home (and kids when/if we had one) and work full time. if i was struggling with housework, i could pay for a weekly housekeeper with my "fun" money. same with any babysitter costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:03 PM
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grandma or babysitter does that kind of work. my sister in law gets her dad/my father in law to take care of her son if she needs to go on a business meeting or if he gets sick. she literally drops her kid off at her parents house even though her husband is still in town. these women are probably in the low 6 figs along with their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:57 PM
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college educated women who married later in life and on their first marriage tend to have like a 20-30% divorce rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:55 PM
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my sister in law puts up with less. i'm part of a women's club (mainly women mid 30s - mid 50s), so they talk about their relationships sometimes. you can also see how useless their husbands are when you ask for things like "paper towels" or maybe talk about cooking and/or their weekend plans. they are always going on male only vacations or having a guys night. Then ask something innocuous about their kid and watch as they have no answer. my favorite is "i couldn't care less what my kid is into"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:54 PM
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...i don't really think that's true. more like she's just so unfilled with life/her relationships that she doesn't know how to do better. probably some symptom of depression. i know if i married the average college educated guy, i'd be taking a lot of zoloft just to stay live. it's hard to live with so much entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:44 PM
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maybe poor ones? i see this with average looking college educated women (but not in highly paid fields like law or md) with their also college educated husbands (but did not meet in college). my guess is the husband feels like he could have married 10 years younger and a bit prettier, so he doesn't respect his wife. i'm in the south too, and we're behind by usually a generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:41 PM
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i see this kind of relationship with college educated but not exceptionally pretty women in their mid 30s - 50s. probably average in their peak years, but settled down by 32. their husbands are usually average looking too, but college educated, so they feel like they could have done better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:39 PM
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yeah... usually are angry the wife isn't happy being nanny, maid, equal financial partner, and sex doll
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:36 PM
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a lot of women are just so desperate to stay married once they are past 35, they'll stick around
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:34 PM
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the real question is why is the bar so low for most men in relationships? don't cheat..often (most women would forgive cheating once in a while) don't need to cook don't need to clean don't need to be a real parent (maybe parent once a month and you're good) don't need to fully financially contribute (pay half the bills and most women are ok) get to hang out with your friends most weekends (moms who do this are generally considered sluts) all you really need to do is do something nice on holiday…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:31 PM
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Yeah, definitely. She enjoys being a 'martyr'.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:13 PM
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He's not fully red pill because I don't think he cheats on her and she wasn't a 16 year old virgin when they met like you red pillers wants. I'm pretty sure when he starts cheating he'll have the nearly perfect red pill relationship. I honestly don't think you can snag a 16 year old virgin who somehow makes enough money to be self supporting and will cook/clean/raise kids. I'm just waiting til he does. She's always defending him like 'at least he doesn't cheat'. Honestly, I would pay a hooker to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:06 PM
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Do you know any real red pill relationships? The closest I can think is my sister in law (she married her hs boyfriend who cheated and left her. Then she married a single dad with a kid who is a decade older because 'high quality men' don't date divorcees). He treats her pretty badly (makes a lot of comments on how she looks/if she eats junk food he calls her fat even though she is underweight and he's a XXL), doesn't do any parenting of his previous kid or the kid they have together ('real men'…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:59 PM
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yeah, definitely. there's undesirable women too. but honestly, good guys get taken by 30. When I think about the single guys i know vs single women, there's probably 1 good guy for 8 women. a lot of guys still believe women exists to take care of them. my brother in law literally never does a single chore. leaves his kid from a previous marriage in my sister in law and mother in law care (he does no parenting) while he vacations with his friends. he's never around for the holidays (too busy hang…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:14 PM
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you don't really hang out with rich people, do you?
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/23 03:02 PM
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lol, don't you know that women are supposed to look beautiful, take care of the children/have no real social life outside your kids and serving your husband, housework, cook and maintain a full time job while your husband can do whatever he likes? you also shouldn't be spending any money on things you like. only his hobbies and interest are worthy to spend money on. he also should be allowed as many boys nights out and trips as he like as his life is stressful and hard, but if you hang out with …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 02:52 PM
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whatever you say to justify your parents loving themselves more than you :D
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:01 PM
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when's the last time you've read stories about men annoyed some girl won't commit to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:00 PM
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shrug, at least I'm not swimming in piles of debt (like most people whose parents don't love them) and can afford a great one because of my parents! ​ Thanks mom and dad!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:57 PM
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aren't men gatekeepers of relationships in your playbook? I never had issues getting into a relationship and eventually getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:53 PM
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hmm. i think it's both. I've never really had to worry about my basic needs (food, shelter, clothes, sleep, etc), so I could always be choosy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:51 PM
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the military sending drones out to kill brown children and other war crimes doesn't bother you, but this does?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:49 PM
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hmm. they could have spent it on themselves (nicer car, more luxury goods, eating out at nicer restaurants, trips without me) but they spend it on me. ​ that's love, at least to me it seems to signify love. they chose to forgo some luxuries and help me out in life. can't ask for more :D
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:46 PM
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sounds like you're just angry you aren't hot/charismatic enough to pump and dump some women with low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:32 PM
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Do you sometimes feel most of problems in the world come from your parents not loving you enough? my parents paid for my college, gave me $200k for a downpayment, and a car when I graduated college. because I was loved, I never really had issues dating or finding someone suitable to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:28 PM
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maybe work for a bigger company?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:56 PM
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Yes but software attracts some of the weirdest people with niche hobbies. Gen z is pretty weird on average though compared to previous generations, so maybe things are looking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 12:39 AM
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Ok. Doesn't mean using sex to get into a relationship isn't messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:48 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:01 PM
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I literally answered that I'm not particularly attached to my genes, so I wouldn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:57 PM
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I'm female, so... And no one is saying castration, just sterilization. You can still have sex and play whatever games you like. You just aren't creating more of you that some women gets to take sole care of and mess up for the next generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:51 PM
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You sound like someone who likes to argue, just to argue, so I think it's best I step away now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:44 PM
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Yeah, I see it this way too now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:43 PM
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Sure? It's not exactly like I'm touting some high unrealistic standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:36 PM
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If someone is having sex with you in hopes that it'll turn into a relationship rather than because they want to, it's a sign they probably don't have a very healthy relationship with sex. It'll probably cause other problems down the line..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:33 PM
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No?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:29 PM
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Because these people end up being the worst parents. Even if you come out normal, there's still a ton of mental scars.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:25 PM
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It's not legal to sterilize them :/ There's trashy men too, I would like to sterilize as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:22 PM
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There's some women out there who are no better than dumb objects.. obviously not all, but there are definitely some.. In general it seems like the red pill is trying to understand these women (you know, the types who marry serial killers, have kids with people who you know aren't going to be good fathers, etc) and attribute that to all women. Like there was a post the other day about some women who had no issue with her husband cheating as long as he brought in millions. Some women you can't def…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:17 PM
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Hmm. Why do you need the red pill to understand women with probably low self esteem? It's not like all women make 'boyfriend' material wait and immediate sex with 'chad'. In fact, you should probably avoid women like this because it's not healthy thinking. Or some single moms who chose to have kids with some questionable people. Like you don't have to date someone like that. There's plenty of normal women out there, but if you treat all women like dumb objects, no women is going to date you..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:10 PM
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It still surprises me that it's considered 'red pill' that women like attractive men that are fit. Like don't you learn that in middle school?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:56 AM
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isn't the idea to have 1000s of plates until you're in your mid 40s/early 50s. then go to a church and find a 16/17 year old virgin girl to marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:21 PM
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how many are actually able to get a "red pill" wife? she should be 15 - 20 years younger than you, and got married before 25. after 30, she lets you have a half open relationship since she's over the wall. was a virgin before marriage. she works full time or is independently wealthy, but does all the cooking and cleaning and childcare. She never tells you no, and provides intellectually stimulating conservations. Her bmi is between 20 -25 and you have never seen her without makeup. she's always …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:01 PM
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I didn't save the links, but these were the things I read to be 'wife Worthy'. Look for a man 15-20 years older. BMI around 20 -22. If you are older than 24 you are used goods. Always wear feminine clothes, long hair, and natural looking makeup. Be a Virgin. Don't give in to sex, but pleasure him in other ways. Do all the cooking and cleaning. Never tell him no. Etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:53 PM
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It's a tenant of red pill that your wife should be working full time (or maybe she's independently wealthy) but either way your money shouldn't be going to her because she'll see you as betabucks. She should also be doing all the cooking and cleaning as that's how she keeps you around.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:41 PM
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Pretty sure that's very much not red pill. She should be working full time (or maybe be independently wealthy) and still be able to make sure you come home to a clean house and dinner ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:27 PM
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Yeah, when you live alone because no matter how fit you are, if your place is filthy, women will be turned off. Once your married (actually pretty sure you aren't supposed to get married, just maybe a half open on your side long term relationship), she's doing all of that work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:12 PM
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Still leads back to the point, what do 'red' pill men bring to table besides sleeping with a ton of women who probably had low self esteem ? It's literally in your guide to not help in the house, not to pay more than half, and not to cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:03 PM
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What kind of lie is this? Most decent health care plans in the USA cover your yearly checkup and lab/blood tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:59 PM
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Sorry, a 20 year younger virgin with a low BMI who dresses feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:34 PM
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It's some ideology to spin plates and stay fit and try to marry some virgin 20 years younger so she'll appreciate you and do all the 'traditional' things like cook and clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:31 PM
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What do 'red' pill men actually bring to the table? They expect you be a Virgin..do all the cooking, cleaning, emotional labor, etc. You should also be self supporting (aka have a job) because a) pretty much no red pill man actually makes enough to fully support a family unless you live in the middle of no where or really cut back on luxuries b) isn't that a tenant nor something? Also add in always dressing up and looking your best. Like what do you get? A guy whose slept with a lot of women wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:23 PM
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umm. roe vs wade was overturned last year buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:34 PM
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you have never been in community musical theater
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:44 PM
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theater
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:13 PM
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sounds like the human experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:11 PM
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Imagine thinking marriage is just about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:39 AM
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