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| – | Dating experiments prove men are picky and not as desperate like they claim to be.As always it just comes down to immutable traits almost nothing else matters to generate outcomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/26 03:33 AM |
| 4 | why aren’t men happier about the fact that they can improve themselves to be more likeable to women?immutable factors have a bigger say than anything within one's control, so this isn't true for everyone. If you have a good skeleton and were raised and socialised well in your childhood then it's possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 11:36 PM |
| – | Old people have no understanding of how dating works todayWell obviously. Their advice is about as useful as "Just walk into the business and hand in your resume" or "Just buy a house or 3 for less than 100k". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Unsuccessful men on the dating regard should just accept it and continue with their livesPretty much the only option that was afforded to me once understood it wasn't on the cards for me. I lead a full life and it's decent enough, but I think it will only ever be decent at best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 04:04 AM |
| 2 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI mean, people literally die due to BBL's yet I see far less opposition to that procedure than limb lengthening. Not defending the validity of it, just an observation on attitudes I have seen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 01:37 PM |
| 2 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI always find it so interesting to see how against limb lengthening surgery people are compared to other types of cosmetic surgeries or body modifications. Rhinoplasty, braces, tattoos, hair transplants, BBL's, lip fillers, tongue splitting, scarification, etc. all seem to be met with a mixed bag of reactions, but people by and large draw the line at someone wanting longer legs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Do men just want to be seen as attractive and nothing else?100% yes, I would trade any number of my good qualities in a heartbeat to be beautiful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 11:47 AM |
| – | Why specifically would you dislike the blackpill going mainstream? It's getting more popular.I don't see it as a social injustice that needs fixing. I am not owed positive romantic outcomes, people are attracted to what they are attracted to and I just come up short in that regard. I don't hold hate or resentment towards women and I don't expect the world to intervene on my behalf either. I see it only as a fact of life that I needed to accept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 11:54 PM |
| 6 | Is inexperience really that unappealing in men?Thank you, it's nice to see people start to openly say this instead of the usual narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 12:38 AM |
| 11 | Is inexperience really that unappealing in men?Unselected men are repulsive to women, this is common knowledge. Past a certain age you will be seen as a failure, and in all walks of life men are only valued if they are competent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Prediction: More and more men will opt out of pursuing LTRs with women because it's not worth it (unless you want kids and a family)When you're not even viable from birth like myself, opting out is the closest thing to agency you have left. Though, when it has been set in stone all along it's not really a choice I suppose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 12:54 PM |
| 2 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIt really isn't important, life is good regardless! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 09:39 AM |
| 2 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThe issue was never those things for me, rather my immutable traits beneath the presentation as I state in my original comment. So in a way you are right, the things in my control were never the issue. Respectfully, there is no logic in you assuming anything about me because you don't know anything about me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 09:04 AM |
| 3 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThat would imply everything about our looks can be controlled, and that the things we don't control cannot have a major say in our outcomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 08:55 AM |
| 2 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADYou can make assumptions about me if you'd like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 08:09 AM |
| 6 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI can attest to this. I lost 24kgs, then added some lean muscle, revamped my wardrobe, skincare, fragrances, the works. None of it moved the needle for me at all, and my dating prospects after all that work have been the same as when I was a fat slob. Which is to say none at all. This isn't to say that these changes aren't a net positive for my life, because they absolutely have been. However, they won't affect or improve romantic outcomes unless your underlying bone structure and skeleton are v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 12:40 AM |
| – | Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends?Obsession isn't how I would describe my experience of these cases. I just took it as high quality information on how viable I was as an option compared to men like youve described. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 02:02 PM |
| 0 | why cant you lust after average men?Average men do not register as an option which is why I stopped even trying to improve as a below average man. Like, why work hard go still be utterly invisible . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Is a man being nerdy a turn off?Depends what he looks like, and ugly dude with nerd hobbies is a dork or a loser, but a hot guy is considered cute or quirky for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 12:09 AM |
| 2 | How many of you are actively dating? Why or why not?No shot lol I learned a long time ago I am repulsive to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 10:57 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵KNICKS IN 4!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/26 03:34 AM |
| – | People Should Be Split Up Into Uggos and NormalsI mean sure, sub5 people don't even register to potential partners anyway so why not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 05:55 AM |
| – | "Not all men" is barely even true and women have good reason to be wary of dating menSame type of people that say "Women aren't a monolith!!! will genuinely turn around and say "all men are evil!!" with full sincerity. Some jokes just write themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 11:22 AM |
| 4 | Many men on Reddit who seek long-term relationships claim that OLD is not working out for them (barely any likes, matches or dates), many women on Reddit who seek the same thing claim that there are almost no good men to choose from (most matches seek casual sex, are incompatible or creepy)It's all about optics. People want to be seen as virtuous so they moralise selection, the irony in it is that they just come off as disingenuous more than anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 11:27 PM |
| 1 | "meet my standards", "not settling", "treat me the way i deserve" ect. All of these buzz phrases at the core is just hypergamy,I think honesty is the best policy rather than lying to oneself and others, but if someone chooses to live that way it's their business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 01:29 AM |
| 3 | Why do BluePill people give such generic and crappy dating advice?People say these things to protect their own self image. They want to attribute their own success to their own efforts and actions rather than the myriad circumstances out of their control that heavily influence outcomes. Therefore, it makes it easier to believe that people who fail are bad people ("Just be a good person bro"), or unwashed ("Just take showers bro") or whatever other negative connotation they wish to place on someone. The idea that someone could fail while doing everything right,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 11:49 PM |
| 3 | "meet my standards", "not settling", "treat me the way i deserve" ect. All of these buzz phrases at the core is just hypergamy,This is observable to anyone with working eyes and women will admit as much when it suits them, and when they can say it in a way that frames them positively. When it doesn't flatter them though they close ranks and dispute it vehemently for the sake of optics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 10:50 PM |
| 9 | Dating offline is honestly worse than online dating for most Gen Z men who want to date Gen Z womenSounds good in theory until all the hobby spaces you're involved in are just dudes that only know other dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 09:25 PM |
| 0 | Am I wrong for thinking the chase is stupid?Never ever chase, if you have to chase its already over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 11:23 AM |
| 7 | The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the SelectorsThe beneficiaries of anything will always deny the unfairness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 07:48 AM |
| -1 | Do abusive men have good personalities?They actually do believe they are good, just the other day this week there was a thread about women choosing abusive men and they were borderline defending them its insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/26 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsI don't support his cheating and I wont dispute fame but "He's a basketball player" is reductive and just insane to read said about Klay. You say there about 10 people on Megan's level as a pop star, he is arguably a top 2 shooter all-time only behind an all-time great. People talking about him like hes some random athlete hurts the soul 💔🥀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsPeople talking about him like he's some average nba guy just hurts to read 🥀💔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Klay Thompson proves the RP theory has alot of truthsI don't even have an opinion on this matter but the lack of ball knowledge in these comments 💔💔 🥀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 06:05 AM |
| – | The majority of women can’t make men feel as desired as women who engage in casual sex with them.I feel like women struggle to engage with this topic in good faith because they either choose to ignore or do not understand why this kind of thing affects men. As long as sexual prowess and desirability are tied to long-standing and widely held views on masculinity, men will feel valued or devalued according to their outcomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 03:11 AM |
| – | Personality and efforts are the biggest lie of all timeYeah this is just the long and short of it, and the only take that is true and matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 01:43 PM |
| – | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.I honestly just lurk 99% of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 10:40 PM |
| – | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.I made peace with the fact I'm not what any woman is looking for. I'm a low value male and thats it, but you gotta move on and so I did. Single life is fulfilling enough for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 12:26 PM |
| – | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.I realised a long time ago I could only ever be guy number 2 to a woman and decided to just not pursue them at all. As I approach 30 I can safely say this was one of the best choices I made in my 20s. I'm not sleeping with a sex worker though, the idea itself feels entirely off putting to me (no shame to people in that line of work!) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 06:56 AM |
| 9 | Men should not be offended by not being "hookup material"The amount of women who fail to understand why this bothers men makes me wonder if they even engage with this topic in good faith. As long as desirability and sexual prowess are tied to widely held views on masculinity men will continue to prioritise being desired in that way. Which is why being categorised as "not hook up worthy" is backhanded at best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 07:54 AM |
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