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Question For MenFalse-Purple3882/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:10 PM
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I’m in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:07 AM
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Wym the only reliable way?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:52 AM
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I tried back when I had a profile. It didn’t work. That’s what I’m telling you. I live in the US. Al is a state
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:49 AM
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Fair enough. And I haven’t been back on apps since my relationship ended. I’d get few matches and most of them would abruptly stop speaking to me. I had a fully fleshed out bio and tried to be appealing but it just didn’t work. I don’t see why I’d be shadow banned. And I live in AL.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:35 AM
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Men are outright hateful and hostile to women they don’t personally find attractive. You see it in the vitriolic statements they make about fat women and single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:11 AM
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since yall insist you have them and I am in a generous mood If you wanted an actual response then why did you make this statement. what are they Similar to what men claim to have. No one is interested, no approaches, no matches etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:07 AM
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Why is any acknowledgment of reality bitter and vindictive now 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:03 AM
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Ah yes the pipeline to mythical man hating
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:00 AM
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Women have never used entire political systems to harm men. Women have never barred men from getting an education on the basis they are male. Women have never created terrorist organizations or religions centered around abusing men and robbing them of basic rights and freedoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:34 AM
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It isn’t though. Misogyny isn’t a new concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:29 AM
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Nothing I said in my comment was a matter of opinion. It was an objective statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:13 AM
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internal hate Broad conclusion based on nothing factual. your personality Attempt to make a conversation about society in general about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:47 AM
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The majority of ‘feminist’ subs on Reddit are ran by men. Take your complaints up with the council of scrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:50 AM
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Men have hated women for the entirety of human history and you’re acting as if the concept is new. Emerging into adulthood as a woman is literally shaped heavily by the realization that all the men you once admired hate you because you’re female.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:39 AM
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Not false Men never accept accountability for anything males do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:09 PM
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MeN pRoTeCt There’s literally numerous incidents of them raping their own kids, stfu.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:09 PM
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It’s literally evident throughout this entire subreddit. You all perpetually mald about any criticism of men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:00 PM
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Ik what a generalization is. Most of you objectively do have a men are wonderful bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 04:53 PM
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The fact you enact violence against your own daughters proves you lack honor and integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 04:52 PM
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My standards aren’t inflated. They’re based on the average man in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 04:51 PM
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It might be the global average but it certainly isn’t the average in western nations which was what he made this post about. I otherwise agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 04:51 PM
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I misread your comment as saying she should use “some men”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:15 PM
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LMAO no, no they don’t. The sex that has shown time and time again they will desecrate the most sacred bonds to satisfy their demented and immoral sexual urges does not have “honor, principles, and integrity”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:08 PM
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None of this comment is based in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:05 PM
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Why do you object to the criticism that many of the men here are emotionally volatile and illogical?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:05 PM
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Why? Men don’t put “some” in the title when making generalizations about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:00 PM
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? What relevance does this have to me? A 5’8 man will never be tall to me because the country I was raised in has a higher average height than 5’8 for men. A man making 50k a year will never be rich to me because 50k is average for the country I was raised in. Idc if that hypothetical man then has more options in another, poorer country.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:18 AM
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If I live in the US then why would I give a shit what the average height of a man in China or India is??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:10 AM
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People look at the average in their country because it is the figure that is relevant to them. Has nothing to do with being “spoiled”. You’re being illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:06 AM
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Going to see scream 7 this weekend and am anticipating it to be terrible. Wish me luck ig
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:03 AM
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Why does the average in india matter at all when you made the title of this post about women in the “developed world”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 04:56 AM
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I mean he also thinks the average male height is 5’7 when that’s literally below average and considered short.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 03:37 AM
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Your last paragraph proves you have no point and that this is just nonsense. A bald fat man isn’t in the same league as an attractive 30yo woman. Also the average income and average height you have listed are both incorrect. Unless you’re living somewhere like india I don’t see how either of those figures would be correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 03:36 AM
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rare Lmao. No. And I had a full bio with okay pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:39 AM
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Men overinflate the amount of matches women get dramatically. I’ve only gotten around 200 matches total from an app I’ve been on for three years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:45 AM
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She’s objectively above average too. So this is just more of the “all men are gay” pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:43 AM
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That woman is above average first of all so it’s crazy you’re trying to ‘humble’ her by implying she got with a man more attractive than her from OLD. Second of all the scenario you’re talking about almost never happens. The vast majority of women don’t even want a man who is more attractive than them. It would be embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:41 AM
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This is a relatively new thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:37 AM
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marriage has historically functioned as affirmative action for men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:07 AM
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The worth of something can be objectively measured.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:59 PM
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are they Yes. Stating they want women to engage in sex they don’t like bc “if she really was attracted to me she would” is emotionally manipulative garbage. your personality is more repulsive than your sexual history can ever be Why are you assuming what my “sExUaL hIsToRy” even is? Or that you know anything about me from this brief interaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:57 PM
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male centered nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:55 PM
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Again. Women don’t react to that information by demanding he perform certain sex acts or “YOU ARENT ATTRACTED TO ME REEEEE”. Which is exactly how you scrotes are reacting to women’s previous sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:50 PM
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You people are seriously embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:39 PM
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No. Being fine with being mommybangmaid doormat isn’t or at least shouldn’t be normal. Being ok with mediocre sex in which the man doesn’t even reciprocate shouldn’t be normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:37 PM
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You and all these other women are pathetic. That is if this isn’t a scrote larping. getting on your knees… without physical reciprocity So you settle for subpar sex and think this is normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:36 PM
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I believe the arrangement is designed explicitly to screw women over 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:34 PM
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women aren’t acting rapey by demanding you engage in sex you hate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:33 PM
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often coerced yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:31 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:54 PM
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You’re proving the entire point of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:53 PM
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Doesn’t mean she has mutually enjoyable sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:52 PM
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No. And you thinking that simply means you want some low self esteem woman to manipulate and use for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:33 PM
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I’ve never had casual sex. The idea repulses me. I haven’t seen many women happy with engaging in it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:31 PM
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I don’t understand why this is directed at men when women also have difficulty with online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:28 PM
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That doesn’t mean it’s worth it. It means they don’t want to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:27 PM
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women desperate to be in a relationship will tolerate you stringing them along, more news at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:21 PM
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the benefits of a good relationship outweigh the negatives for men maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:20 PM
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Fwb is a scam for women. Like pyramid schemes or splitting the bill 50/50. expecting demanding boyfriend stuff Yes how dare women expect a bare minimum of the men they have sex with at least pretending to like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:17 PM
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Your entire argument is essentially that women are never allowed to decide they don’t like something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:12 PM
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Why are you conflating attraction with will engage in sex she hates to appease me And why do you find that desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:02 PM
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A proper partner WANTS to try all of that stuff with their current partner Proving her point again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:31 PM
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You literally describe expecting women to tolerate sex they hate. you shouldn’t get serious with her unless she hooks up with you Your words btw. You think women are obligated to continue having sex they don’t like in hopes of getting commitment bc “well she did a hookup once reeee”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:19 PM
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Sex without orgasm is both redundant and automatically horrible. Idt you comprehend her point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:16 PM
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So you admit you manipulate women into fucking you by not stating your true intentions and think women who fall for your shit should spend their entire lives having sex they hate with repulsive fail males like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:12 PM
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So you want women to have sex they hate. And you don’t see an issue with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:09 PM
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This is why women should never under any circumstance discuss previous sexual experience with current male romantic partners. Males are incredibly manipulative and think we owe them anything and everything we did for a previous partner regardless of whether we enjoy it or not. It’s sociopathic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:06 PM
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It literally is you expecting women to tolerate sex they likely don’t enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 02:05 PM
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Most women don’t really care about this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:06 PM
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It’s not really a date unless it’s a dinner thing. And these people you’re describing seem to not date with a specific goal in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:02 PM
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I think you’re defining stranger differently and you also have a bizarre timeline for when these things occur. I didn’t even meet my ex in person until after we had been talking for about a month. Three dates is like two months of knowing the person. That’s plenty of time to decide on commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:23 PM
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I mean it’s weird to me to not have a definitive answer by that point. If it’s the third date I’ve likely been seeing them for two months.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:01 PM
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It’s strange to me that you’d go on three dates with someone and exclusivity is still undetermined.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 01:17 PM
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I think you people are just dating wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 12:44 PM
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Are you able to type “straight” correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:35 AM
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No. People seek out those who are compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:59 AM
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You’re just oversensitive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:57 AM
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Not wanting to have sex with random men isn’t being sex repressed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:57 AM
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Someone you’ve gone on three dates with isn’t a stranger, unless you’re dating wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:51 AM
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That’s a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:50 AM
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Ironically I think this is more precise than the original.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:50 AM
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I have an issue with the conflation of promiscuity & sex positivity in your post. Also some of these scenarios don’t exactly make sense with where you’ve placed them in the hierarchy. people who sleep with someone off online dating within a few hours of meeting them This is flawed because in these scenarios, the amount of time people spend talking before they meet varies significantly between individuals. I talked with someone for about a month before meeting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:48 AM
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This doesn’t address anything I actually said. You’re just monologuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:44 AM
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I think most men don’t actually want a relationship. They just desire sex and view a relationship as something they begrudgingly do to have sex. They seem to resent having to perform any ‘loving’ or ‘considerate’ behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:23 PM
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idt there’s any way to ‘stop’ it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:06 AM
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Men started it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 09:57 AM
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It doesn’t matter what skills you develop if you’re fundamentally not what most people are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 05:18 AM
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This is only really possible if you live in a liberal area.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 05:16 AM
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It’s hard when you aren’t compatible with most people. You end up not reaching certain milestones socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 05:13 AM
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Rp men do hate women. That’s just reality. They despise the female sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 05:04 AM
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Feminism has always been for female liberation. It’s not for men. because men and women antagonized each other so much No. Men antagonized women. For centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 05:01 AM
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I largely agree with your first paragraph about how individuals are enmeshed with their perspective cultures and that shapes what they view and accept as a norm. I disagree with your statement regarding misogyny. All misogyny is rooted in a hatred of women. I think you could reasonably claim all sexism against women isn’t rooted in a hatred of women, but sexism is much more broad. The urge to protect women isn’t really the product of a gender bias specifically and not all men have it. I’d argue …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:27 PM
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No it’s just factually incorrect. It’s utterly delusional to believe rapists wouldn’t significantly skew male even if you include that data point. You simply aren’t living in reality. Inclusion of that data point isn’t going to flip the sex discrepancy or change sex differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:17 PM
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Redpill nonsense isn’t rooted in any science, it’s rooted in misogyny. Specifically the “women are incapable of intellectual thought and love being abused” kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:16 PM
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And that point is factually incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 09:54 PM
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Men severely overestimate the degree to which sex shapes personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:31 PM
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Abuse is inherent to the porn industry A video of actual people engaging in sex acts isn’t the same as words on a page
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:25 PM
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Books are not porn. This claim relies on a purposeful distortion of romance books being comparable to porn videos. They aren’t the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:45 PM
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? So you just ignored the part you’re quoting?? I said very clearly that even including those men remain the majority of rapists. That’s an objective fact. You do not get to obfuscate reality because it hurts your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:44 PM
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I have a male victim complex and know nothing about your life but must conclude it’s easy because I’m a moron Uh huh. Also me pointing out reality and disagreeing with male nonsense isn’t “saying nothing”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:42 PM
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so you deny the fact that for all of human history men have specifically subjugated women because of their sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:36 PM
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I addressed what could be addressed. If he’s not willing to specify how he is defining it then why do you expect us to blindly agree there is an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:35 AM
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What relevance does any of this emotional rambling have to my comment? You want to talk about those things? Fine: - Misandry isn’t a real problem; majority of women are male centered - Defamation and “gossip” aren’t sexed - Paternity fraud is rare - False allegations are less common than actual rape - Baby trapping is literally a tactic used by male abusers so the idea it’s only ever been women doing this is false - Rape is defined as unwanted & forced intercourse. And even with that comprehensi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 03:02 AM
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No it’s because men are allowed to exist in their natural state, women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 02:57 AM
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No I’m not going to entertain this “women are evil” circlejerk you and other men are wanting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 02:56 AM
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No. It’s a relevant question as to what he’s defining as toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:03 PM
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I’m not op, I was generally agreeing with your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:36 PM
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The phrase “it’s extremely rare that they [women] understand that examples are meant to show the spirit of your meaning” has an undertone indicative of a low opinion of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:21 PM
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I mean women who are blunt or straightforward often get labeled ‘rude’. So do women who are “too” opinionated and women who openly criticize people or concepts “too much” are “miserable”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:17 PM
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Tbh it seems like from this reply you’re condescending to them and that’s why they aren’t receptive to whatever point you’re making in those conversations
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:15 PM
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Well the thing is what women should or shouldn’t say in certain social groups is dictated by the specific dynamics of that particular group. Men sometimes criticize women for not critiquing other women in mixed sex spaces but that’s often intentional to avoid men dogpiling or weaponizing that criticism to be sexist. There’s also an element of women being expected to be “nice” as well as general conformity that kind of contributes to the self censoring women do. I think it’s reasonable for anyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:11 PM
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Your original point was “I thought women didn’t dress for attention” which is generally a rebuttal women make to men acting like they have a right to harass them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:02 PM
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That’s fair but it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:01 PM
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You’re going to get people who say it doesn’t happen all the time regardless of how you structure your argument. I think the best thing to do at that point is reframe and ask them about the nature of that specific situation. That prevents purposeful deflecting or them talking about something more broad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:00 PM
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I’m asking you for an explanation as to why women shave and who benefits from women shaving. You have yet to answer that question. It’s either for themselves for whatever reason or it’s for someone else. It’s not a coincidence that the majority of women remove their body hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:58 PM
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And that’s an irrational framework.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:56 PM
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I read what you wrote. It’s an illogical conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:54 PM
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A lot of times men use “toxic” as a pejorative to say “she’s doing this thing I don’t like that has nothing to do with me and should stop that”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:52 PM
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You don’t even specify what is supposedly so toxic about these women, you just vaguely allude to “manipulation” and “entitlement”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:51 PM
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Observing reality is “having a victim mentality” now? Why are you so against critical thinking and basic social analysis. Women certainly aren’t shaving their entire bodies or subjecting themselves to waxing because it’s fun. So why are they doing it and who benefits from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:48 PM
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This is illogical. I can say women wearing revealing clothes dress to appeal to the male gaze without saying or believing those women want to be sexually harassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:46 PM
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Yes. Women famously only have sex with men who remain in a suit the whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:44 PM
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Or maybe men are respected in a way women aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:37 PM
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I wonder why you think socially influenced choices don’t exist and that every choice a woman makes is automatically empowering and for herself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:35 PM
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Maybe you shouldn’t tell any women they’re defective because they don’t like being harmed during sex. You’re a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:30 PM
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You wrote this whole paragraph with emotional language calling me insufferable because I basically said “no women don’t shave their whole body for funsies”. Why is the most basic statement about reality a problem to you people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:29 PM
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Are you all just dating women that don’t like you? “nobody” making you feel desirable is just odd if you have a dating history
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:27 PM
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It’s not. The ‘bEnEfItS’ you’re talking about are exclusively “men are more attracted to them”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:25 PM
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Men don’t really care what appeals to the female gaze which is why most of them look the way they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:23 PM
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some women like this also if you don’t like this is bc you’re a defective prude
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:22 PM
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Self hating women are the only ones turned on by being mistreated. I’m not a prude just because I don’t desire to be physically harmed or degraded during sex but the fact you think that is extremely telling of the kind of person you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:22 PM
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This isn’t a valid point. Women say that in response to males sexually harassing them. That’s a separate issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:21 PM
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No I didn’t. Women do not watch porn as often nor do they tend to watch porn that specifically dehumanizes men. Second of all people who have a problem with men watching porn also have a problem with women watching it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:15 PM
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It’s not 2 different women You’re pulling that out your ass
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:51 AM
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Oh look another man who doesn’t know what feminism is. Fun. There are different kinds of feminism They don’t all agree on everything Women wanting a life outside of MommyBangMaid ™️ isn’t an intrusion on ‘male spaces’ Majority of women don’t even consider themselves feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:02 AM
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It literally does happen. The fact the majority of women waste their time shaving proves this does happen. They only do this because they’re subjected to social ridicule when they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:00 AM
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They still cater to the male gaze. Largely anyway. As I said, women who don’t exist but they’re socially penalized
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:59 AM
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Women are frequently penalized socially for not catering to the male gaze. The idea they aren’t is incongruent with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:55 AM
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Being leered at by gross perverts isn’t “better” for our wellbeing. Wearing mini skirts in the dead of winter isn’t better for our wellbeing. Being socialized to believe your existence is purely ornamental isn’t a privilege. You only think it is because for some bizarre reason many men actively want to be sexualized
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:52 AM
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Why do you males always reply like this with the implication this was some universal opinion among women? There have always been many women who don’t believe that catering to men is ‘eMpOwErInG’
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:49 AM
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I read it just fine the first time. “can” in and of itself frames this as a personal freedom when it isn’t one. The ‘freedom’ to objectify and debase yourself for male entertainment is grotesque
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:43 AM
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Nice way of saying women wear revealing clothes because it benefits men, and men dress in a way that benefits men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:37 AM
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they can display themselves in this way The fact you and so many other men view this as a privilege demonstrates a complete lack of understanding of the female experience. It’s like it doesn’t occur to you all that women don’t like being objects at all. Not once did you mention that. Or how repulsive it feels to come to the realization that the people who interact with women romantically and sexually often don’t view them as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:36 AM
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Porn is disliked & criticized by many women explicitly because it degrades and dehumanizes women. There’s not a double standard here. women are encouraged to wear revealing clothing To appeal to the male gaze. It’s weird you’re trying to reframe that as ‘empowering’.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:32 AM
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What’s wrong with my response? I don’t agree with the notion that dating is easy for women or that women treat men particularly bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:56 AM
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How is it problematic to reject someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:29 AM
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Also not what I said. I said in the context of sex men are the oppressor class. This is basic reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:53 AM
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Not necessarily but I do think it’s inconsiderate to you for them to say those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:51 AM
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I don’t think those people actually hate men but I don’t think it’s generally good praxis to make jokes like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:47 AM
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Well your statement is kind of vague as is, you didn’t elaborate much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:39 AM
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The dynamics within heterosexual relationships consistently and overwhelmingly favor men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:48 AM
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No. My position is it isn’t comparable to a white person being racist to black people because black people haven’t systematically oppressed white people. Men have in fact systematically oppressed women. If you wanted an actual equivalent comparison you could’ve mentioned black people who say they hate white people. But you didn’t do that. Precisely because you know your argument would fall apart. I didn’t say women were born victims or are incapable of being criticized. I said misogyny exists as…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:46 AM
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You do not. And it’s evident from your comments you don’t grasp what it means. I also didn’t say sex was what defined a person as good or bad. I said men are the oppressor class concerning sex, not women. Which is a basic fact. hinges on the belief that a persons sex is their preeminent future Incorrect. and the basis of whether they are good or bad Incorrect. you’re sexist and your beliefs harm women Incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:42 AM
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It’s relatively common for men to believe that to be female is to be submissive or intellectually inferior. The dominant narrative, even in western societies, as to why there are fewer women in STEM is that women lack the intellectual capacity for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:11 AM
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Again. You’re deliberately ignoring the existence of misogyny and the systemic nature of it to make this comparison. Women are not the oppressor class in reference to sex dynamics. Men are the oppressor class in reference to sex dynamics. If anything it is men not women who are comparable to nazis or the kkk in this analogy. I don’t think you even understand what radical feminism is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:09 AM
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The average man holds misogynistic beliefs. According to your logic he would be incapable of caring about women. Would you agree he isn’t capable?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:54 PM
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It’s not comparable at all. Once again you’re erasing relevant historical context. You’re purposefully positioning men as the oppressed when that hasn’t at all been the reality in terms of sex dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:53 PM
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This isn’t comparable at all. You’re completely erasing the systemic history of misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:47 PM
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So if you’re being logically consistent you’d agree then that the average man simply cannot care about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:43 PM
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Majority of women described as hating men simply engage in basic feminist analysis. I think there’s an issue of gender bias in these discussions where the bar to consider a woman a misandrist is extremely low but a man could literally assault women and men would claim he’s not misogynistic. Your original question isn’t really answerable due to this dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:39 PM
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zero examples reee I was literally called that on one of the discords. Second of all a prominent passport scrote in the main ppd discord literally refers to women as “holes”. So try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:31 PM
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Males, especially “red pill ones”, including passport scrotes do it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:27 PM
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This is mental gymnastics to defend men viewing women as worthless. Truly women should stop having children with you people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:25 PM
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Yes it is. And the fact you even ask that proves my point entirely. The vitriol you males direct at women is somehow acceptable but women thinking men are trash after centuries of them brutalizing us is somehow ‘radical’
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:57 PM
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Again this is factually incorrect. You have a distorted perception of what we mean by gender abolitionism. We aren’t referring to sex. Sex is an immutable characteristic. And idk what it is with men perpetually arguing about things they know nothing about, but my flair literally says radfem. I don’t care if something is perceived as “anti trans”. The entire concept of gender identity worships gender roles and expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:37 PM
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by peace of mind I mean not worrying about making money ?? You make zero fucking sense. Women have to work and my commentary was explicitly critiquing the expectation for women to be sahms anyway. Are you incapable of actually reading what you’re replying to? female “vessels” Women are people not “vessels” you deranged loser. it’s funny how feminists- It’s funny how people who have no grasp of what feminism actually is about make idiotic statements about feminism claiming it’s contradictory beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:34 PM
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Again this just shows how delusional most men are to women’s actual lives. Women absolutely categorically cannot “be whatever they want and still find men who will love them”. And “lust” means nothing. It has no value.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:27 PM
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It’s objectively what would occur
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:25 PM
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It’s not a lie. Women want actual friendships with men and it’s ruined because men just view women as things rather than people. Also you’re proving my point that you all hate women in this reply. I mean you literally admit that you can not fathom women being multidimensional and having hobbies or interests outside of being a mommybangmaid. It literally doesn’t occur to you that most women have interests that don’t pertain to children or men at all. It’s as if you can’t grasp that women are actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:17 PM
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I think you simply don’t comprehend what “gender abolitionism” refers to because you’re describing it incorrectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:11 PM
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peace of mind Lmao. No woman dating men has ‘peace of mind’ the fuck are you on. if you want to be rich make the money on your own This rebuttal is odd given the fact I just said women should have jobs instead of wasting their lives being sahms.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:08 PM
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how it reads is of zero concern to the guy ok and how males interpret women wanting legitimate friendships is of no concern to women so what actually is the point of this conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:06 AM
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I just told you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:03 AM
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Men don’t really want meaningful relationships from that, it just seems like they want sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:14 AM
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I think the difference is women actually want meaningful relationships with men they do that to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:52 AM
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It’s exactly what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:00 AM
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Western women don’t call men “worthless holes” nor do they go abroad to take advantage of poor men. Apparently you don’t grasp the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:49 AM
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reeee women should waste their lives away being a sahm bangmaid and WITHOUT compensation or else they’re gold diggers You males really don’t think before you say any of this shit do you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:41 AM
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So you’re basically whining that women aren’t content to be stuck at home doing nothing meaningful with their lives? The narcissism is astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:38 AM
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This is a distortion. The issue isn’t society ‘forcing women to be more liberal’. The issue is women have the burden of splitting finances 50/50 on top of the traditional roles they’re still expected to do because men are largely lazy and selfish. Women complain about men seeking out women 15-20+ years older than them because it’s predatory. Women don’t complain men “care about bodies”, women complain that men care about sex to the exclusion of all else. You’re labeling women refusing to accept …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:30 AM
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I didn’t say men don’t reject women. My stance is actually that they reject them unless they just want to use them for sex. The feelings aren’t really reciprocated. So in effect what men do in these situations is actually worse
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:21 AM
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Look at any and every man ever who has publicly spoken about why STEM has few women. The narrative is “women just aren’t interested in anything of value”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:35 AM
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This is an entire lie lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:34 AM
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I really don’t think it’s likely. Again I’ve been in this situation and I know it won’t be reciprocated so I just do the responsible thing and ignore it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:34 AM
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Yes he was in civil court
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:33 AM
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They would use them for sex and then reject them for a relationship bc “she’s fat/ugly/etc”. How is that more morally sound
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:32 AM
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I’m literally a woman. Why are you attempting to dictate to me what I do or don’t find off putting. Women feel betrayed when the whole ‘friendship’ was just a guise to fuck them. And no. Men don’t find it creepy because males are just oh so empathetic and altruistic, they don’t find it creepy because they want sex and will often take it from anyone offering.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:30 AM
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Maybe mra scrotes wouldn’t be protested against if they didn’t perpetually promote rape and call women subhuman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:25 AM
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This revenge fantasy you have is just that. I’ve only ever been with one man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:24 AM
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We are telling you it does not read as if you’re interested in her as a person at all. It reads as if you want sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:22 AM
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It’s the way it’s done that’s an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:21 AM
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I mean I don’t think that’s accurate. If he developed feelings after the friendship began then I don’t think anyone would find that off putting. Also with women ‘doing the same thing’, men for some reason don’t seem alarmed by their friends doing this so maybe that’s why
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:33 PM
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The president of the US literally was found liable for rape in civil court. You can not be this stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:28 PM
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Well I wouldn’t be friends with someone who is loud and obnoxious and wouldn’t date anyone like that either. But yes it would be rare for an undesirable woman to have that reciprocated
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:26 PM
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Loud and obnoxious are personality characteristics. If she were loud and obnoxious she wouldn’t be a friend. It’s weird to frame women’s physical preferences as shallow but men’s as not. By placing “loud and obnoxious” next to fat and ugly you’re framing men’s preferences as more legitimate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:11 PM
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Islam isn’t the only form of religious misogyny you idiot. Misogyny is embedded in christian doctrine too. wahh muh circumcision A: Men invented that, men can fix it. B: Since when have men ever cared about violence against women and girls? A man could rape a woman and set her on fire and you know what these males will do in response? They’ll run to twitter saying she deserved it and she was asking for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:10 PM
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My point is it isn’t really any different from men. People tend to be biased in favor of people who they think are attractive. It’s just an unfortunate reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:02 PM
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women know, men don’t No I think if they know their friend they would have some idea if it would be reciprocal. Also as a woman who has liked a male friend, I really don’t believe this claim that men would “very likely” reciprocate. Just bc he’s friends with her doesn’t mean he views her in that context. She could be ugly as you mentioned or fat or otherwise ‘undesirable’ to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:56 PM
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Even if true though, does that matter? Because would a man still be friends with a woman who had unreciprocated romantic feelings for him? I don’t think he would. Especially if he’s not attracted to her
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:51 PM
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Circumcision wasn’t invented and proliferated predominantly for aesthetics, it was done predominantly for religion. Which yes men created. So yes it is mens fault. Abrahamic religions don’t even allow women to be ‘head’ figures of churches/mosques/etc but you want to claim a problem created by these religions is somehow the fault of women? You’re biased or stupid, pick one
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:46 PM
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women are more loving than men 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:45 PM
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Radical in this context means the ‘root’ as in the root of women’s oppression. You’re using a definition of ‘radical’ that doesn’t actually apply here. The issue is your passive aggressive insistence that centering men is ‘feminism’ and that feminists should focus on men rather than on women and girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:43 PM
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Circumcision is motivated by regressive religious nonsense which was created by and for men. So try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:40 PM
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It depends on if the friendship only happened because they were romantically interested in her. It comes off like the friendship itself was sort of a lie. Also I think people should know their friends well enough to know whether or not their feelings would be reciprocated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:38 PM
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things that benefit men also benefit women Yeah no they typically don’t. Watering down feminism and making it male centric instead of doing work regarding women doesn’t help women at all. grow a heart Do men care when female children are mistreated?? Because they definitely don’t seem to, especially not “redpill” males. Circumcision is a male problem. Men expecting women to do the work on their behalf is lazy and entitled. Caring about other people is all well and good but there is not and has n…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:57 PM
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No. Men all only want sex. Everything else they say and do is merely a polite veneer over their sexual motivations. Men admit this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:55 PM
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Men aren’t romantic and never have been. The “romance” any of them demonstrate is artificial and designed explicitly to convince women to have sex with them under false pretenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:42 PM
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All men only want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:35 PM
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Men aren’t romantic, they just want sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:33 PM
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Women are the only romantics. Women largely desire to love and be loved. Men simply desire to use you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:28 PM
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Denying the existence of misogyny as a problem in america isn’t “acknowledging objective reality”. You’re spineless and male centered
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:44 PM
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There is zero benefit to being female. Nobody genuinely cares about women’s feelings, that never actually happens. It’s like you people think women’s lives are a fucking fairytale.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:33 PM
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And yet every comment from the men shows you all think only hot, extroverted, socially adept women exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:30 PM
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There’s zero benefit to existing as female
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:28 PM
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They’re entirely deluded as to what lives of ugly, socially awkward, very introverted, or otherwise ‘undesirable’ women actually look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:25 PM
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More delusions
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:24 PM
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The dominant narrative, even in western society, regarding the lack of women in STEM is literally that women are too stupid to gravitate to those careers. So yes women are treated as inferior
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:22 PM
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You males are so disconnected from reality. There is zero social grace afforded to socially awkward and introverted women. We are a pariah to everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:20 PM
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Where are you morons getting this idea that anyone has ever genuinely cared about women’s feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:18 PM
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What negatives
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:15 PM
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Again. Why can’t you lazy fucks do your own activism and stop demanding feminists do it for you. Males don’t care about any women’s issues, so why do you all feel so grossly entitled to demand we care about yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:13 PM
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Why is it feminists responsibility to do men’s work for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:12 PM
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Circumcision is supported by men. Take it up with your male counterparts and quit pretending to care about injustice when you embrace an ideology that says women are subhuman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:10 PM
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Kissing men’s ass won’t make them respect you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:09 PM
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This is such a distortion of reality holy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:07 PM
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Yes? I feel like being socially stunted and awkward is an easier experience for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 12:05 PM
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It would be great if you and everyone else born male would quit appointing yourselves as the authority on the female experience. You fundamentally don’t possess the same experience and your nonsense about people supposedly being nicer to us is just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:49 AM
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It directly disproves your claim that male fetishes are censored at all. but not only women read novels Yes. I’m sure there’s romance novels that appeal to men if they desire to read the genre.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 06:04 AM
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Male fetishes are not censored nor scrutinized. The very platform we are having this discussion on allows males to openly fantasize about raping women in gross porn subs like “women are things” that dehumanize women. And unattractive men are the default in pornography. Media specifically made for a female audience also often shows shitty men women are expected to pretend are great. And gaming as a hobby doesn’t belong to men either 💀 there are women who play video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 09:00 AM
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This isn’t ‘hot’. This is a behavior of men I find to be incredibly irritating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 08:57 AM
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YOU made a claim. Acting like it’s entitled or lazy of me to ask you to support YOUR claim is highly irrational. I haven’t seen it. I don’t watch mainstream news. None of my responses have been in bad faith but judging by another commenter pointing out flaws with what you’re arguing compared to what you linked, you are. Quit forced teaming same sex attracted people like myself with your male supremacist pornified media bullshit. Gay media being censored isn’t a justification for why content prom…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:24 PM
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I was going to read the article he linked but now that you’ve said that nvm 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:11 PM
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Again this is still presenting it as inherent or some kind of default norm
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:10 AM
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this happened but I won’t show proof of it occurring and just expect you to blindly believe me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:14 AM
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I don’t think it’s possible for a man to genuinely respect or appreciate a self hating woman who allows him to treat her like shit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:11 AM
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Value can be objectively measured. Men who go for pickme women objectively have no value as partners. And no, men marry women they don’t love all the time. this depends on who you select as a partner Yes and pickme women select shitty men who don’t love nor respect them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:13 PM
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I’ve never even heard of this, you probably made it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:11 PM
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I’m sick of being expected to accept this narrative that this is a natural part of female sexuality and I’m abnormal for rejecting it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:09 PM
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I’m sorry, I thought you were the person who originally posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:09 PM
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I don’t care what pathetic self hating women you’ve met that let you treat them like worthless garbage. I am not them and they do not represent me or the majority of women. It is true, you’re talking about this as if it’s inherent to female sexuality and you continue doing so in this same fucking reply. I didn’t use the word selfish. I said femdom caters to male desires, wants, and narratives just as much as “maledom” does. The entire reason it’s even sexual for some men is because they perceive…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:32 PM
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You literally imply it with “female sexuality” as if this is inherent to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:15 PM
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No. “maledom” also caters to male wants, desires, and narratives. “Female sexuality is inherently submissive” is a male supremacist narrative “maledom” props up perpetually. No, you didn’t respond adequately to that point. You didn’t acknowledge the fact you and other men are talking about this as if it’s inherent to female sexuality and as if this is representative of most women. There is no selfishness in the ‘female’ fantasies you described and I reject the notion they’re inherently part of f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 12:08 PM
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Femdom still largely caters to male wants, desires, and narratives Women don’t benefit from being subjected to this abusive behavior at all and it’s irritating it’s constantly framed as an inherent part of female sexuality It’s not irrational nor is it hatred to dislike or criticize the sexual dynamics within heterosexual relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:10 AM
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You’re literally promoting the idea women all like violent and degrading sex while attempting to shame me for imaginary misandry. Your hypocrisy is astounding. Moreover you make the asinine claim the women are the ones benefiting from that abusive arrangement. Also pity for what 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 08:14 AM
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I don’t want “surprise” nor “rough” sex. I’m tired of this being spoken about like it’s an inherent aspect of female sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 08:11 AM
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Maybe not all tbf but certainly all of the ones parroting this nonsense about nearly all women having a gross rape kink
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:34 AM
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women age worse Scrotes go bald at 30 and have the nerve to say things as delusional as this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:16 AM
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Are you genuinely attempting to argue that the dynamics between men and women aren’t shaped by systemic structures
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:14 AM
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And the dynamics within heterosexual relationships are literally built upon centuries of misogyny and male propaganda designed to indoctrinate female children from birth to believe that they must have a man to be happy and they have to enjoy being shoved into a submissive role
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:13 AM
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this behavior got them what they wanted It got them disrespected by a zero value man who doesn’t love them and is frankly not likely capable of being loving. Pickme women get cheated on as soon as they age out of the demographic men find more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:06 AM
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Ah yes demanding sexual submission and forcing deranged violent kinks upon women isn’t bad or inherently misogynistic, just “different”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:01 AM
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Yes male sexuality is disgusting, particularly where you filth demand sexual submission and then have the utter gall to frame it as female narcissism. When the reality is it’s degrading, dehumanizing, and serves zero benefit to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:00 AM
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the studies don’t paint an accurate picture but my subjective dick gargling opinion does reeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:57 AM
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verbal abuse choking and slapping Those literally are socially accepted behaviors within sex in modern american society. Because men’s precious porn has normalized that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:57 AM
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male preferences have been shamed for decades This literally never happens in any meaningful way. The entire world is deeply male centric to the point male preferences in literally anything and everything are treated as objective universal facts rather than personal opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:54 AM
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Cnc is literally the sexual fetishization of rape and is inherently anti female.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:52 AM
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He doesn’t have a source bc he’s making it up to justify men’s sexual violence towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:48 AM
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Men think everything revolves around them and their grotesque alaskan bull worm like appendages.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:45 AM
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Again with the projection. The homepage of every mainstream porn site and the business practices of those sites have zero relevance to an individuals search history. Their homepages are based on the most popular videos. Which are nearly universally videos promoting violence against women. Pornhub, one of the biggest porn sites, was literally caught allowing videos of literal rapes to stay up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:43 AM
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Those aren’t “women’s preferences” It’s a small minority of women you disgusting fuckwits choose to listen to over all other women because it reinforces your preexisting beliefs about women. It’s a rebuttal to this act you males do of pretending you’re so virtuous when in fact your ‘fantasies’ are depraved and nearly always involve violence against women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:40 AM
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Ah yes because gross rape kinks are an inherent part of female sexuality and whatever is promoted in female smut is totally more depraved than the noble male fetishes of: “having sex with my step daughter” “ai generated child pornography” “worthless hole gets raped” “women are things” “anal gangbang destroys dumb cunt whore” etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:38 AM
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That’s not what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 09:51 PM
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He’s clearly far more into other men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:11 AM
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I like a very specific genre of man both in terms of personality and appearance. I’ve been more willing to budge on the latter when I was looking for relationships but never the former. Men who don’t fit what I’m looking for are just sort of invisible to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:08 AM
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It’s comparable to porn imo. And no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:05 AM
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oh so patriarchal The US elected trump for a second term and has a secretary of defense who agrees with religious nutcases who say women shouldn’t have the right to vote. The US is a misogynistic and sexist country, you no longer get to dispute that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:03 AM
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Not because men somehow care about it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:01 AM
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Who said anything about looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:01 AM
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what are you talking about The general tendency of men to perceive their subjective opinions as a universal truth in arguments pertaining to gender dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:00 AM
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Where are you even getting that 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 03:33 AM
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This is delusional and yes, it has zero factual basis. It isn’t even congruent with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:54 PM
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i’m just a defective woman Then what was this supposed to mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:54 PM
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anti change, do nothing for others This has zero factual basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:01 PM
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You’re a male centered woman I guess because you’re defending pornhub’s continued existence and pretending the tea app was worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:00 PM
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No because men perceive that as sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:59 PM
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that’s not the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:58 PM
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It absolutely isn’t radical. Men don’t care about the sexual abuse of women at all. Men don’t care about revenge porn. Pornhub was caught hosting videos of actual rapes and males like you still defend the existence of the site. Also when did I say I wasn’t for making it illegal? Oh right, I didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:26 PM
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No. I’m saying women have a different perspective and this opinion that you can’t platonically cuddle with anyone is very male centric and porn brained.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:24 PM
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Lot of words for no, pornhub was not taken down despite hosting videos of literal rape Also yes, their primary focus is to see porn. Porn which is an industry rife with misogyny and the abuse of women. Why is it perfectly acceptable for men to view porn which dehumanizes, degrades and abuses women? Why is it perfectly acceptable for men to view said porn on a website that was caught hosting videos of actual rapes and sex trafficking? Why is it that men have a right to be angry about women saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:22 PM
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This isn’t the question men seem to think it is. Women have an aversion to doing that with men because men make everything sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 06:17 PM
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Women aren’t responsible for the majority of violent crime
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:57 PM
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It’s not sexual just because men say so. Men are not the default. The male perspective isn’t the default human perspective. They would be against it because men make it some weird sex thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:54 PM
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there is no such thing as platonic cuddling But women do this with female friends all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:49 PM
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The average person every where knows what pornhub is. Pornhub hosted videos of women literally being raped and sex trafficked. Has pornhub been taken down? Are any of the males acting indignant over the concept of the tea app boycotting pornhub? No right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:48 PM
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It’s not paranoid, men repeatedly expose themselves as unsafe people
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:46 PM
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Revenge porn is an extremely popular practice amongst males
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:45 PM
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It’s not radical. Men don’t care about revenge porn sites. That’s just reality. Therefore men malding about women on the tea app is massively hypocritical. The tea app was also literally made by a man with the purpose of ‘exposing’ women anyway. So what does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:44 PM
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Men always tell women to choose better but get mad when better isn’t them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:41 PM
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I don’t really like cuddling, many people don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:34 PM
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This is just male solipsism
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:33 PM
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I was about 22 when I finally realized you can’t treat men the same as your female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:31 PM
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I’ve cuddled platonically with female friends. Men just sexualize everything so it feels impossible to have a normal friendship with them if you’re a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:29 PM
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This is solely because men have to make everything sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:28 PM
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So I have some issues with this idea. I don’t entirely agree that people have only their own subjective lens from which they see the world. Other things you see and observe are filtered through that lens, but there’s still some level of connection with the perspectives of other people. Also I don’t think it’s accurate to necessarily say that a specific conclusion is either rational or subjective. It can be both, even in instances where it’s not technically true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 03:22 AM
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I don’t agree that everyone necessarily shares that same starting point. Some people are more focused on hard data while some others take a more nuanced approach to understanding human interactions and how everyone functions within society. Regardless, the issue is with presenting a subjective opinion as if it were a fact as much as the existence gravity or the earth being round. Essentially it’s the same issue that leads many to thinking that sociology isn’t a real science. Because it’s work th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:46 AM
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I think people may use their subjective anecdotal experiences and extrapolate that into broader conclusions about the human experience. But due to a subjective starting point, it’s common for those conclusions to be flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 01:23 AM
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I’m talking about men explicitly stating a subjective opinion and claiming it’s an objective universal truth that I must agree with. This isn’t specifically about red pill nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:04 AM
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are you disputing the idea that the manosphere represents a significant proportion of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:53 PM
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? According to what exactly? You’re assuming they wanted to be dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:16 PM
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Again. Sex matters. The way you interpret things will inevitably be through a male lens.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:16 PM
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No, I’m saying enough believe that to establish a clear pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:15 PM
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Understanding something in the abstract doesn’t equate to actually experiencing it. What is difficult about this concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:36 PM
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not happening
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:34 PM
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Male lens. The lens through which you see the world, as altered by your maleness. And for the hundredth time, no, men don’t have to be a monolith for there to be an observable pattern or even such a thing as a male lens. you’re seeing things through a radfem lens I interpret the world through a female lens. So? Still doesn’t change the fact that you’ll never fully understand the female experience. Idk why you’re even arguing about this. provide an example You wouldn’t get what it actually feels …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:30 PM
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It’s the objective truth based on what men themselves say. Or are you saying men are liars?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:21 PM
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What are you even speaking about? You’re mad I didn’t agree with your nonsensical “aCkShUlLy ItS oNlY wOmEn WhO fOrCe MiSoGyNiStIc StAnDaRdS”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:15 PM
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They can be explained. They can never be fully understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:13 PM
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You literally referred to women as “submissive”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:11 PM
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Idc if you listen, I already addressed that. You’re still a man. Whatever women even tell you is still filtered through a male lens. You cannot seem to comprehend this, for whatever reason. I know more about the female experience than you ever will simply because you aren’t female and never will be. No, it wouldn’t be a failure on my part to explain it. I don’t know what you’re not getting about the simple reality that you will never experience life through a female body and therefore will alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:09 PM
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You’re literally taking a study that shows women are less likely to start conflict and describing it in the most negative male supremacist manner possible. Less likely to start conflict doesn’t equate to submissive doormat like men desperately want it to. I’m tired of this hateful narrative you all push.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:01 PM
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once you have the numbers which never actually happens
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:52 PM
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This hasn’t been my experience. And why would I take anything on a reality tv show seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:46 PM
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They’re aggressive and don’t “politely” ask for things. I’m not denying that studies exist, I’m saying you and other men interpret them incorrectly to suit a male supremacist agenda. The idea that women are inherently submissive is toxic and misogynistic. It has harmful ramifications.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:45 PM
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Men don’t need to be a monolith for there to be observable patterns It doesn’t matter how “good” an explanation is, it’s not the same as actually having that experience It doesn’t matter what I explain. Men will never grasp what endometriosis does to someone beyond a basic medical understanding. They don’t relate to the experience, they don’t have the experience, they have little comprehension of what actually living with it is like I also find it very telling that nobody would ever have the hub…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:40 PM
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They do demand. That’s what they tend to do. It’s a pattern. I never said women’s communication style is bad It’s heavily implied throughout this post. it’s not even a stereotype It’s a stereotype propped up by flawed interpretations of studies that are clearly meant to reinforce anti female, male supremacist ideas. Women aren’t “naturally more submissive”, that’s a load of crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:37 PM
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His whole argument is flawed because: a: men don’t listen to women b: listening to someone doesn’t mean you understand their experience I can talk about my experiences all I want to. My father will never actually understand what it’s like to live with endometriosis.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:33 PM
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there are men who have more knowledge about women’s experiences than some individual woman This is quite possibly the most delusional and arrogant statement I’ve ever seen a man make. You know nothing whatsoever about the female experience and you never will. Because you aren’t female. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:31 PM
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Interested in using her for sex, not interested in her as a person or dating her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:29 PM
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Where are these women exactly? Because I’ve had one relationship and it took forever to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:28 PM
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Men generally think their subjective opinions are objective universal truths, that their angry meltdowns are rational analysis, and that they have more authority to speak on the female experience than women. This is a pervasive theme anywhere in which both sexes discuss gender dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:27 PM
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Nope. You’re the one who is wrong. But you’re a typical “man perfect man do no wrong” npc so it’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:23 PM
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well you’re wrong 🤷🏻‍♀️ be happy with that I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:18 PM
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I literally gave you an example of the literal vice president of the United States subscribing to this idea. You rather conveniently didn’t acknowledge it. The US president, vice president, and the secretary of defense all adhere to this idea and you’re demanding I pretend it isn’t a prominent feature of american society.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:14 PM
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Disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:11 PM
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It is the dominant narrative. It’s literally observable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:03 PM
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It’s the dominant narrative throughout society that a woman must ‘accomplish’ motherhood and marriage to be considered successful. The US literally has a vice president who attacked “cHiLdLeSs CaT lAdIeS” nonstop, essentially claiming childfree and childless women contribute nothing of value to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:56 PM
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How would you know what women in your country are taught, you’re a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:44 PM
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Relationship advice is a hate sub? A subreddit for women disengaging in heterosexual relationships is a hate sub? A subreddit for people of either sex to lament on their self image issues is a hate sub? A sub dedicated to a missing girl who was found to be murdered by her father is a hate sub? A subreddit about pro life people being unreasonable is a hate sub? A subreddit dedicated to women who find vaginal sex painful is a hate sub? A sub dedicated to people coping with being raised by mentally…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:43 PM
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None of these are hate subs. Quit deflecting from the original point. How is it a logical leap? Also nothing you have shared has been “facts”. It’s all your subjective opinion. There’s also nothing “manipulative” about it. Anyone can go to my profile and see the subs I’ve been on. None are “hate subs” unless you’re deranged and believe women are obligated to give men sex. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:26 PM
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Criticism isn’t misandry The last feminist subs remaining on this hell site aren’t “hate subs” “hate subs” lmao <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:17 PM
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Criticism isn’t misandry The last feminist subs remaining on this hell site aren’t “hate subs”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:13 PM
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Don’t hate men How is it a big logical leap?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:09 PM
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I didn’t ascribe fault to anyone But yes, men are partially responsible
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 02:08 PM
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How were they not gaining financial independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:52 PM
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ask your grandmother no not like that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:51 PM
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The common line of thinking goes: Women today have financial independence and free choice, and they are deciding not to settle, therefore women in the past were just settling to survive and were thus unhappy. Its a huge assumption Not really, no. There is no reason women would’ve been ‘happy’ while stuck in marriages that were abusive at worst and degrading at best. especially women (who are more emotional and make decisions based on vibes) This is based off what exactly? Like if we asked our gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:49 PM
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No. I’m very opposite of that, I don’t really perceive people flirting with me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:43 PM
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They also exhibited bias that women’s communication is apparently the default standard when in any relationship both communication style should be considered equally What “communication”? Men don’t “communicate”, they just demand things. Plenty of studies show how submissive traits are more common in women than dominant traits compared to men due to less testosterone So while complaining about imaginary misandry, you’re being blatantly misogynistic and pushing the “wahmen submissive” myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:41 PM
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Because women are gaslit from birth by society as a whole to view marriage and motherhood as the pinnacle of female achievement and believe their life means nothing without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:24 PM
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I said deluded not “stupid”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:09 AM
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there was nothing of value to reply to, you’re literally deluded
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:28 AM
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you’re so profoundly delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 10:04 PM
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I don’t have male friends
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:14 PM
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Men don’t love women at all. They want sex. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:13 PM
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The proof is misogynistic morons like ben shapiro literally citing women essentially being incapable of intellectual thought as the reason there’s less of us in STEM. they’re not saying they’re too stupid, they’re saying they’re not interested Same picture 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:12 PM
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Ignoring the fact this is directly related to male behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:10 PM
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“never had a real struggle” I literally live with a chronic illness and was raised by my grandparents but sure jan
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:14 AM
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proof The dominant narrative in present day western society is literally that the lack of women in STEM fields is simply because women are too stupid to be interested in science or math.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:13 AM
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“misinterpret” How can you misinterpret a direct quote 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:12 AM
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Women aren’t men. Love men so much? Go fuck men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:10 AM
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Back when I was looking I’d filter out people who: seemed like they drank or smoked to an excess, were materialistic, not interested in anything serious, posed with guns/money/dead animals for photos, just stuff like that. I didn’t really care much about specific income or if they were living at home, just what their future plans were
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:12 AM
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I have fairly reasonable standards but men would complain about those too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:52 AM
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Ons are as I described
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:17 AM
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yes I am
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:05 AM
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No, it’s based on what I’ve observed for mid women, based on the ones I’ve spoken to. I’m below average. Men seem to only be interested in women if they’re hot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:54 AM
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🤷🏻‍♀️ I’m just saying from my own experience, if you’re not hot men just don’t really show interest in you. I’ve had one relationship and it’s only because I met him through an app and I texted him a lot in the beginning to develop a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:49 AM
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You’re way off lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:47 AM
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This is untrue. They approach attractive women. Not mid women and certainly not ugly ones. I’ve never been approached by men in that context.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:46 AM
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this hasn’t been my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:35 AM
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You claim they receive a level of attention they simply don’t. Ugly women especially don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:26 AM
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they don’t get the attention you claim
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:56 AM
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I’m talking about sex as it is practiced
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:55 AM
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You’re certainly attempting to silence me by trying to shame me as “misandrist” because you don’t like women speaking out against men’s harmful behavior towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:18 AM
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Nobody promoted abusing men. Stop with your gaslighting nonsense and reply to what was actually stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:14 AM
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<image> Ill leave you with this since this is what you’re doing rn
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:07 AM
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Yes men frequently say that here All men are like this, not just imaginary “chad” Your passionate about silencing women and branding them misandrists for pointing out the existence of misogyny My father frequently complains nonstop about his wife, the nature of his complaints demonstrating he doesn’t even like her as a person, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:06 AM
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You are such a melodramatic child. Yes it is a reality men use women for sex and don’t desire an actual meaningful connection with us, based off what they say out of their own fucking mouths. Women speaking about how men treat women isn’t “bullying”. And your weird revenge fantasy is just that, a delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:55 AM
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Criticism isn’t hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:44 AM
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It’s evident from what men themselves say.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:43 AM
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Women didn’t historically rob men of dignity and rights just to whine about the modern man resenting them. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:43 AM
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I don’t hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:42 AM
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You called her a bully because of what she pointed out as a pattern in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:24 AM
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I find it interesting how when women and girls weren’t doing as well in education it was “women just too stupid to be interested in math and science because of their dumb femoid brains”. But now that boys and men are struggling it’s “the education system is failing males” from the exact same people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:22 AM
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It’s evident from what men themselves say
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:19 AM
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You’re blind. There was literally an argument between me and another woman when you initially wrote this crap. I pointed it out and you refused to acknowledge it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:18 AM
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Women are “bullies” now for pointing out what men have been saying all along: that they don’t love women, don’t have the capacity to, and simply want to use us as sex toys
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:15 AM
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Men so badly want love but are incapable of showing it for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:14 AM
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Maybe not all, but the ones complaining about the “male loneliness epidemic” are usually like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:11 AM
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I empathize with men like that and can somewhat relate. I think they struggle primarily because they’re expected to initiate those interactions. That being said, it’s debatable the percentage of men here who are like that, and personally I assume they’re not the majority of men making these posts/comments whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:10 AM
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No, not at all. But frankly the way men act towards women provokes that reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:07 AM
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chad is a caricature of what men think women are attracted to and something many men have grown a homoerotic fixation on
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:05 AM
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Well I’m not a sex worker and I fully agree with her point that men are sex obsessed. So come up with a better argument
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:03 AM
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you talk about this resentment as if men did nothing to provoke it, it’s disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:02 AM
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Women aren’t “harder to pleasure”. Men just simply don’t care if sex is enjoyable for women. Which is why mens constant obsession with sex is self centered and annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:00 AM
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we aren’t saying women should go for men they don’t like Except that’s the point most of you make 95% of the time. when 80% of women go for 20% of men it creates resentment When men have historically robbed women of rights and dignity, when men constantly use their physical advantages over women as “proof” of their superiority, when men pretend aforementioned advantages no longer exist whenever it’s convenient to forget them, when men use women for sex and will lie to get sex, when men make it c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:56 PM
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It is in reality what most men are whining about. They don’t really desire an actual emotional connection with anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:49 PM
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men using your body to masturbate into isn’t something that will make you happier or healthier
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:47 PM
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It’s inherently meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:46 PM
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Every woman isn’t a radfem, stop with your scrotal delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:44 PM
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It’s also just delusional because he’s comparing a desire for actual love to wanting to use women for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:44 PM
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Most men are sex obsessed, it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:42 PM
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Talking to real people is directly what leads to this conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:41 PM
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No? I was literally disagreeing with another woman while you made this asinine argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:38 PM
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This isn’t reflected in reality. I don’t get approached by anyone as a woman who doesn’t often wear makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:38 PM
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It’s literally what I’ve observed and experienced. Men don’t really like women who eschew social norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:36 PM
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That just guarantees you’ll get a man who doesn’t even like you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:35 PM
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The vast majority of males to ever exist will always be taller than their female counterparts. That isn’t an unrealistic standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:34 PM
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no man would ask you on a date to begin with if you dressed like that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:50 PM
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I mean my ex would literally mention when I wasn’t wearing it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:21 PM
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A lot of men say this but I don’t think they actually mean it. There was a noticeable difference when I wore makeup compared to when I didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:02 PM
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No it’s not a different issue. And yes, the average western male literally is like this. “communication” won’t fix anything because men lie to secure access to sex all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:28 PM
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Not nearly as rigid ones, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:26 PM
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🤷🏻‍♀️ It’s a reality that men use women for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:26 PM
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It is though, based off what men themselves say. I don’t believe I need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:05 PM
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I think millions of women are more willing to accept a comforting lie than a hurtful reality, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:04 PM
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This is inaccurate. If she showed up putting in as little effort into her appearance as the average man, you’d be disgusted
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:02 PM
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It’s realistic. I don’t see how it’s condescending
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:02 PM
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No, that’s just simply all men. Doesn’t have to do with whether the attraction is mutual or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:55 PM
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Unusual tbf
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:17 PM
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It’s not “below her standards”, she’s talking about men who just want to use you to masturbate into
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:16 PM
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What do you mean like “what”? Men have preferences that exclude women who don’t perform femininity, ugly women, fat women, weird women, etc and they’re very vocal about it. You impose certain standards for women as a collective but then feign ignorance when women point it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:11 PM
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Women disagree with other women here all the time. You choose to be blind to it because it doesn’t suit your narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:05 PM
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They have very little grasp of how mid and ugly women are treated both generally and in the context of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:03 PM
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And yet you wouldn’t date the woman if she didn’t look like that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:02 PM
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wild interpretation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 02:01 PM
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It’s an accurate statement for the vast majority of heterosexual arrangements. Men are simply shallow people and seldom ever have any appreciation for women’s qualities as people. Our existence in their minds begins and ends with “sex thing”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:59 PM
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Men are unwilling to equally split anything other than financial matters. Why should women split a damn thing if we’re still expected to do everything else? The man you describe in your last example is literally the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:53 PM
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We haven’t “moved away” from gender roles. Women are still expected to have kids and do a disproportionate amount of childcare and household chores. Why should women also split the check on top of that? Also what is this delusion that women just have thousands of matches on apps? Men really have no comprehension of what life is like for average or ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:51 PM
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Those women are happy because they believe in an illusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:48 PM
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Since when are men ever nice to women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:46 PM
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There’s not really anything positive about marriage for women beyond maybe tax benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:44 PM
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Women don’t really think of men in the context of population percentages like this when you’re referring to who is or isn’t attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:41 PM
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No this is just delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:31 PM
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Yes it’s possible women have a warped view of attractiveness. But that’s not really related to OPs claims because he’s falsely claiming women view themselves as attractive when that’s generally not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:23 PM
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Yes you literally are. I mentioned the vitriol directed at “terfs” just for you to falsely claim “it’s not as bad as what they say about trans people” and for you to state “I’m not that worried about it”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:03 PM
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Because despite the fact that most women actually hate themselves and spend our entire lives trying to appease society by altering our appearances in whatever way that is possible, this isn’t enough for males and they seek to make women even more miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:01 PM
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You’re contradicting yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:04 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:03 PM
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So you think it’s acceptable to send women rape threats for stating that our lived experience is connected to our female sex and that no male can actually understand our experience? You’re vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:28 PM
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Women do disagree here 💀I literally have an idiot libfem woman defending the vitriol I stated “terfs” get when I was explicitly referring to people feeling entitled to send us rape threats.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:27 PM
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No, you’re not concerned with the concept of fairness as it relates to men and women at all. You want everything to be as male centric as possible. Rp ideology is one that is committed to screwing over women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:26 PM
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Stating a male isn’t a woman isn’t hatred I’m literally referring to you self centered assholes feeling entitled to send us rape threats you moron
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:23 PM
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He’s not extreme. Most men are like this to some extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:11 PM
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It’s not just rp men. Men as a whole don’t view women as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:10 PM
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He hates women and therefore shouldn’t date them. Most men are like this but are either selfish or lacking in self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:06 PM
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Men don’t offer women “love”. You simply offer the illusion of it. You don’t actually love women. You love sex to the point of deifying it. Men don’t protect women, understand women, nor truly commit to them either. The affection and veneer of kindness males offer is simply to maintain the lie that they “love” women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:05 PM
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Rp isn’t concerned with fairness at all. That’s laughably ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:02 PM
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This is melodramatic nonsense. Nobody outside of pill spaces even knows what a “warm approach” is. They just approach women they know. That is the norm. OLD is for people who struggle socially. And I don’t believe men are really all that concerned with “bothering women in public” enough to avoid cold approaches, unless they’re particularly awkward or shy in which case they weren’t going to do it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:52 PM
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This is a profound delusion. Most women hate themselves, they categorically do not view themselves as more attractive than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:48 PM
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Their endless reeing about cellulite is just further proof they hate the female form. Most women will have cellulite. It doesn’t matter how small she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:47 PM
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I was more depressed while in a relationship, so the idea women are more depressed while single isn’t supported by anything I’ve seen in my reality. Women complain about males dating women far too young for them because it’s creepy and predatory, has nothing to do with the jealousy you’re imagining “men are expected to meet more-“ No. I don’t know where males are even getting this lie. Women’s standards are the lowest they’ve ever been in the entire history of human civilization. “men told to lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:45 PM
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Those rules are in place because: A) Reddit B) Men will deliberately ask questions in bad faith to create division among women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:37 PM
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The vitriol that’s socially accepted when directed at “terfs” is insane and disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:36 PM
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women don’t confront each others worldviews in a meaningful way The only reason you believe this is because like so many men, you don’t understand female social dynamics. There’s a lot of things I disagree with other women on. There’s just venues in which you discuss that and ones in which you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:34 PM
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This is all anecdotal from your “uncle” we’re just expected to blindly believe exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:30 PM
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Why are men obsessed with penises? Why do you all have to make post after post about it? It’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:29 PM
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I don’t really relate to excluding certain people from my dating pool based on a lack of social skills. It just isn’t something I prioritize or care about with men or women. It might be because I’ve struggled socially myself, but I just don’t value that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:22 PM
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I just don’t really relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 10:23 AM
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In reality most men don’t split chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:54 AM
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Kind of. But also don’t really understand why women would care about that outside of maybe being concerned about unsatisfying or painful sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:53 AM
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That definition is a bit inaccurate and is used just to make feminism more palatable to men. It’s about female liberation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 08:48 AM
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modern feminism Because modern feminism is entirely libfem 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 08:47 AM
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I’ve become completely disillusioned with men. The man you describe wouldn’t actually split household chores, regardless of what he says.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 08:46 AM
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I’m confused as to why there’s been an influx of questions here explicitly relating to older male virgins. It’s an odd thing to be focused on and I personally don’t see the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 08:22 AM
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I don’t think it’s that women aren’t sexual beings. I think our sexuality just doesn’t mirror men’s. But it’s hard to say what our sexuality truly would’ve been without the repression it was historically met with. I don’t think there’s any demographic in which women’s sexuality is fully accepted honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 08:18 AM
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The entire world is male specific. There’s entire countries women can’t go to because men are so hostile towards women. Every mainstream, organized religion uses the ideology of male supremacy in its doctrine. This is utterly delusional. You want more male centric spaces? You can create them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 08:11 AM
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It’s not really “a virgin man”. But the behavior of men has further radicalized me and made me have a rather depressing view on relationships. I want to be happy and build connections with other people but it just seems unrealistic at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 08:04 AM
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I think it’s an apt descriptor of a couple of recent posts here. Love your name btw
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:21 AM
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Will y’all please stop posting here to have interactive porn
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:28 AM
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we hold them accountable Do me a favor, go look at who the president of the US is then get back to me. Calling them atypical is objective. You’re being whiny and annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 11:34 PM
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No. It’s objective. Either something is atypical or it isn’t. We don’t default to calling male criminals atypical because men are the majority of violent criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:35 AM
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Yes? What’s the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:43 AM
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But it’s an objective fact that these aren’t typical women. Majority of violent crime is committed by men. That’s relevant context. It’s necessary to understand their specific pathology and prevent that imo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:42 AM
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These aren’t typical women Women are framed as victims in reference to gender based violence because we typically are
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:02 PM
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? All this shows is that men are sex pests
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:46 PM
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Yes? This is a dumb question.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:45 PM
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What is it with men conceptualizing sex as a form of welfare women owe you? If I’m not interested that’s not going to magically change because he has money 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:42 PM
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I had a hard time grappling with being attracted to women when I was a kid due to how specific sects of christianity treat or speak about same sex attracted people. When I entered into my first relationship with a man, I had a harder time expressing what I wanted or liked or didn’t like relating to sex than what I think would’ve been natural. I often wonder who I would’ve been without the specific experiences I had as a child, or the cultural and religious influences surrounding me when I was a …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:29 AM
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I’m not saying you have to justify it to anyone. It’s just strange to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:58 PM
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Still weird and invasive to me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:44 PM
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It’s just bizarre to me that there are people who are fine with no concept of privacy existing within their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:45 PM
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What does this have to do with anything I just said? Men aren’t held to hardly any standards anymore. They’re not expected to offer commitment or pay for anything. Those barriers that were traditionally there are now gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:42 PM
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What social standard? We’re talking about interpersonal relationships. That comparison you’re making makes zero sense in this context. A woman leaving after her bf/husband asked for a paternity test isn’t an example of a “social standard”. It’s a personal boundary. And you’re complaining because you think you get to dictate what reaction a woman can and can’t have to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:41 PM
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Nope. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:39 PM
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No. The fact you’re malding over what reaction a hypothetical woman has to this proves you simply don’t want to deal with the natural consequences of your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:38 PM
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No because women are less likely to commit crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 08:38 PM
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? That’s literally not what I’m discussing at all. It’s not even remotely close.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:47 PM
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It’s not about “should”. It’s about does. Realistically idt you can claim mens propensity to commit crime doesn’t affect sentencing disparities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:42 PM
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What point are you making at all. Because all you’ve argued is that somehow women aren’t entitled to leave a relationship if he asks for a paternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:40 PM
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chad “chad” is just some concept of a “perfect” man that men like you have a homoerotic obsession with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:19 PM
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It’s not mocking to point out the obsessive fixation is weird and annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:53 AM
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I’ve never gotten an abortion. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:09 AM
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No it isn’t. And frankly you weren’t born female so you’d know nothing about life as a socially ostracized female.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:54 AM
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every single one of you making the tone deaf argument that women and girls magically have a support network that fell from the fucking sky 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:51 AM
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Women who don’t create social support don’t benefit from it 💀 It’s as if you people have never once spoken to women who are socially ostracized
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:50 AM
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? You think female infants have strong social support? What delusion is this? And no. The why isn’t irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:49 AM
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This is the real crux of the issue. They want women to tolerate men spitting in our faces and do so after having a kid for them. They can’t handle the natural consequences of their asshole behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:45 AM
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No, you males just label anything you don’t understand as rooted in “ego” because you’re severely lacking in empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:44 AM
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as if every man who asks for a dna test is spitting in the face of their child’s mother Because they are 💀You are factually attacking her character. why the outrage Because she just permanently ruined her body and altered her life pushing out a kid for some ungrateful worthless sack of shit that thinks nothing of accusing her of being a cheating whore and a bad mother? Are you braindead?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:42 AM
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Men seem to think you don’t have to accept the consequences of your actions. Asking for a paternity test comes with the consequence of ending the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:35 AM
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This is just insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:31 AM
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I don’t know nor care. Asking for or seeking a paternity test marks the end of the relationship for most women. I think this post is simply rooted in the fact men don’t want to accept the consequences of getting that test done. You don’t get to dictate the way the mother reacts to your insulting behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:30 AM
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They wouldn’t align because men don’t like assertive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:21 AM
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Higher likelihood to get custody isn’t even true, men get custody when they bother to ask. We have stronger social support because WE create it Theres less pressure to contribute financially because you’re expected to do literally everything else We don’t and shouldn’t have to be drafted because we don’t reap the physical benefits of having been born male if there even are lighter sentences for the same crimes you can’t prove mens higher propensity to commit violent crime doesn’t factor in
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:20 AM
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Don’t work well in a relationship you personally would want
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:39 AM
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I have kids Meaning if you and your wife didn’t work you’d be a single dad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 07:39 AM
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I didn’t mention specific sex acts I explicitly stated women can be interested in less conventional sex I’m addressing the fact that men are pushy and inevitably will cause less assertive women to give in to things they don’t like
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:32 AM
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Men do this all the time. You didn’t provide any sources or facts either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:39 AM
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Because generally speaking the other person doesn’t actually have any interest in you beyond something surface level. Doesn’t feel like they actually want to know you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:32 AM
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Women view it as creepy and stalking adjacent. Even women who tend to have limerence or had in the past. Men seem to mostly view it as a compliment of sorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:31 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:30 AM
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dark recesses of the female mind 😂 this is delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:28 AM
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a culture that worships abortion I live in a red state 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 04:28 AM
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You really believe he made this post with a complete innocuous purpose in mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:40 AM
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attention Every time this discussion occurs men point out meaningless things. woo hoo women get comments from random strangers online (even though men also get that)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:33 AM
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why are you fap farming? this is disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:31 AM
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Women also reply to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:28 AM
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You’re talking about men replying with pseudo sympathetic statements because they really actually want nudes. It’s devoid of anything meaningful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:25 AM
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women are seen and heard what fucking fantasy world are you living in
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:19 AM
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There is zero meaningful benefit to being born female
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:17 AM
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You can keep your mythical “female” privilege and go fuck yourself. All I’ve ever wanted in life is to truly connect with others and find someone who actually sees me and loves me. All of which I will never achieve because I was born female. And men are never interested in actually connecting with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:15 AM
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I had a discussion with men about the subject of limerence. They literally don’t seem to conceptualize these things the same at all. They think it’s flattering usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:13 AM
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No, they aren’t. Men are no longer required to give commitment prior to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:08 AM
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Idt most women are envisioning something particularly expensive when we say dinner date. Just a restaurant you sit down to eat at that isn’t a fast food place.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:09 AM
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Several. Next
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:05 AM
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I think women perceive that as part of character or at least an incompatibility. Because the argument is if he doesn’t pay for dates then he likely doesn’t like you. And I think women often end up with men who don’t really like them because those particular men just don’t want to be alone. Which eventually results in the women being treated poorly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 12:00 AM
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I’m in my 20s. This narrative that women who criticize age gaps must all be bitter middle aged women has no basis in reality. It’s made so they can feel better about having sex with women young enough to be their daughters
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:58 PM
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You wrote this post to justify why you’re not a disgusting perv? Reddit isn’t your personal journal. And no. Women mean exactly what they say by “when I got older I realized how creepy it was”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:57 PM
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Observable patterns exist, get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:55 PM
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I’m not talking about crossed eyes or lazy eyes 💀 That is an actual medical problem that often manifests in decreased quality of vision. I’m talking about the bone structure. I perceive my eyes as not being symmetrical with one another. The point was I don’t inject this into every single conversation the way men weirdly obsess over penis
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:53 PM
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It’s weird to be so fixated on it you inject it into every conversation. And no I don’t believe there is a subreddit where women mope all day about not having huge breasts. At most you have r/ugly which has both ugly women and men talking about their experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:51 PM
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So you’re a single dad complaining about single moms on reddit 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:45 PM
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Your preferences are fuckable and does what I say That’s why it’s degrading.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:44 PM
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men don’t find boss bitches attractive We’re very aware men don’t find women with their own opinions and mindset attractive. You all say it all day everyday unprompted on this subreddit and your manosphere podcasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:43 PM
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most successful people are very self involved, very disagreeable, competitive and not loyal at all Where’s your proof for the last point? And do you describe successful men the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:40 PM
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I think the truth of the matter is men don’t appreciate us or see us as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:39 PM
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a good woman is a good woman regardless of her educational or career background Which means you’re likely defining good woman simply as “sexually attractive”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:37 PM
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Why do men act like you’re the only people ever to be insecure? As if you have a monopoly on feeling undesirable? I have body image issues. I’m not posting about how I sincerely think my eyes are uneven 24/7. I’m not making an entire subreddit centered around it. I’m not making a community called r/obliqueeyeballs. I don’t turn every single conversation I have into complaining about my asymmetrical eyes. You’re making yourselves insufferable to be around by centering literally everything around …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:35 PM
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You’ve yet to disprove my point. Women’s standards for sex are generally abysmally low.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:28 PM
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Standards regarding a man’s character are much lower. Men no longer have to pay for dates, they no longer have to offer commitment, they aren’t held to practically any obligations in modern dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:27 PM
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Feminism isn’t supposed to be palatable to men. Libfems did that and now present day ‘feminism’ no longer serves women. simply seeking fairness It’s hard to believe men are concerned about fairness given the history. As far as resentment goes, misogyny happened first. “Misandry” is solely reactive in nature. most men aren’t going to fulfill the emotional script expected of us I literally just would like men to stop talking about how they believe women are inferior subhumans 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:25 PM
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The standards for what makes a man attractive are far lower
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:23 PM
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I don’t find normie men attractive so if you thought you were going to get a gotcha here you’re mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:22 PM
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You’re completely disregarding coercion as an issue. Also who said anything at all about sluts?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:22 PM
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Men post about this more than women do. And it goes far beyond just posting about insecurities. Men just have a bizarre fixation on penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:21 PM
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It’s not mocking. I’m not even talking about mens insecurity. I’m talking about this constant obsessive posting about dick. It’s weird and reads as gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:20 PM
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?? I’m not taking about men being insecure about their dicks. I’m talking about mens propensity to speak about penis and have entire posts dedicated to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:18 PM
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No I say this because literally not a single woman I’ve ever met has this constant fixation on penis. It reads as gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:19 AM
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Women don’t conceptualize and categorize our attraction to others in this manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:53 AM
0

This just seems like you briefly read something about 4B. The term decentering in this context means to deconstruct the idea that you need a relationship to feel whole. It’s exploring the same concept as the book, “In Search of The Magical Other”. It’s good advice for anyone to follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:52 AM
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Why are men obsessed with penises? I have never even met a straight woman this fixated on dick. It’s bizarre and homoerotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:48 AM
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The sexual dynamics between men and women in modern western nations benefits all men by making women’s standards for sex the lowest they’ve ever been in human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:46 AM
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I wouldn’t say it’s perfect. It’s that modern dating caters to male sexuality. At least within the context of most western societies. women are kinkier than ever before This is a product of pornography warping people’s minds early in adolescence. Not a natural product of women being sexually liberated. Women can be interested in less conventional sex. But modern western societies push certain sex acts as the norm, therefore creating a social paradigm in which women who don’t do those things are …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:45 AM
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This is a water is wet statement. This isn’t a revolutionary idea. The only people who need to hear this are men who won’t really listen anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:40 AM
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No. You’re basing this off the assumption that all women are extroverted. Every other day is fine. Complaining you didn’t get extensive messages one day is annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:26 PM
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means days without responses, 2-3 compliments per date You all are exhausting and emotionally draining.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:21 PM
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You are attempting to dictate to women what does and doesn’t work for us You’re being a disingenuous liar by pretending my issue with your statement is a lack of agreement My issue with your statement was the dismissive language you used which I explicitly stated Nothing you’ve said throughout the entire course of this conversation has been logical; it’s just been “I should be able to tell women what does and doesn’t work for them based on my flawed understanding of what dating is like as a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:27 PM
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Once again. The action youre idiotically demanding women take results in us being used for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:22 PM
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No. You have a bizarre obsession with labeling anything women do that you personally don’t understand as “ego”. You’re not speaking on behavior. You’re trying to dictate to women what does and doesn’t work for us. You literally were dismissive 💀 The phrase you used is factually dismissive. You didn’t address it “logically” at all. You made an incorrect assumption about what the issue even was, rooted in your own bias. You were dismissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:21 PM
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There is nothing illogical about what I said. You’re whining on the internet about women not mimicking male behavior. Your central complaint is literally about women not approaching men. An action which literally would lead to women being used as fleshlights if they did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:18 PM
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How do you not comprehend that “being settled for” is an issue directly relating to security and stability. It’s not deflecting. You categorically don’t understand what it’s like to date men as a woman and you never will. Therefore, no. You can’t dictate to women what does and doesn’t work as if you understand anything from our perspective. You got called an ignorant fuck because that’s what your dismissive ass “you didn’t get a fairytale ending” was giving.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:14 PM
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super proactive texting me, constantly complimented me would get very little attention
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:47 PM
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Yes you objectively are attempting to guilt women into signing on to being perma fleshlights for random men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:43 PM
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That’s not about ego. It’s about security. It literally is about practicality. telling me I can’t speak on dating dynamics because I’m a man No. I very specifically stated what would you, as a MAN know about what would be a good strategy for women looking for a partner. Doesn’t get a fairytale ending and gives up You’re being condescending at this point and you aren’t worth engaging with. Me not getting a “fairytale ending” wasn’t the problem you ignorant fuck. if your approach didn’t work adjus…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:40 PM
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No. Because you’re presenting this false dichotomy as if there is a demographic of men for which this isn’t true. All men have those same expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:20 AM
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The meaning of my statement is very clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:19 AM
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Men always expect something in return. Have you ever dated men?? also think women should be submissive This is all men. Yes, even the ones who gripe about having to pay for dinner or insist on splitting everything 50/50 financially. Also where are you getting this idea that women believe men to be altruistic? We know you aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:38 AM
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I’m saying the ones who are and don’t believe in trad gender roles should pursue more The issue with this is, like I said in another comment, equality in heterosexual relationships only exists as far as it can benefit men. So why should I split bills evenly for a man who still will leave me if he doesn’t get sex when he wants, still won’t do his share of household chores, and still views me as beneath him? I’m getting literally no benefit in that scenario. Additionally, approaching men as a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:34 AM
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Liberal men still don’t split anything other than financial responsibilities most of the time. Politics of the individual are entirely irrelevant in this context. Heterosexual dating dynamics still reinforce gender roles & expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:30 AM
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it’s a valid concern but not a reason to avoid it Are you serious? avoiding initiative because some men might waste your time Yes. I refuse to be someone’s fleshlight. And I refuse to allow you or anybody else to guilt me into feeling bad about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:08 AM
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Men say this, but the truth is they don’t like assertive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:06 AM
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Idt it’s conservative for me to say heterosexual relationships still reinforce gendered roles and expectations that are harmful to women and therefore why should I split the check when men still hold me to those standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:05 AM
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most women don’t describe themselves as feminists most women aren’t feminist even by principles the issue with this “gotcha” men always pull is that, gender roles are still reinforced in heterosexual relationships regardless because men think “equality” in relationships solely extends to paying bills
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:03 AM
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There is literally no other species of animals in which the natural order has been so warped by social intervention. Females in other species of animals aren’t culturally gaslit into giving males they don’t like a chance. Men have warped the natural order so much via patriarchy that you’ve become entirely unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:01 AM
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You’re so blind to women’s actual experiences that it literally doesn’t occur to you that some women don’t want to be around you 24/7 regardless of how much they might be interested in you romantically. This is why men are exhausting to date or socialize with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:58 AM
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It has nothing to do with “ego”. Approaching him increases the chances of you getting someone who just settled for you. not just bad luck but bad strategy What would you, as a man, know about what would be good strategy for women looking for a partner? You’re not a woman. It’s irritating when men presume to know how women should operate our dating lives. message first, have realistic standards Aside from what I’ve already addressed about this being ridiculous, women already do this. I did this. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:56 AM
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Not a single man who attempts to argue with me about the validity of Marilyn Frye’s words here ever provide a reason as to why it is untrue. What she said is a readily observable reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:17 PM
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Men already thought this. There is no “encouraging” them to think this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:15 PM
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When women say sex is objectifying it’s abundantly clear we’re not claiming sex is naturally terrible. We’re explicitly referring to male behavior regarding sex. Fact of the matter is most men only conceptualize women as something for them to do sexual things to and they’ve made this abundantly clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:26 AM
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Men can say “choose better” all you want. What most of you really mean is “choose losers”.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:10 AM
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It’s just delusion. They don’t love us, they don’t even like us. They have no real appreciation of us at all. Our existence in their minds begins and ends with “sex thing”. To quote Marilyn Frye: To say that straight men are heterosexual is only to say that they engage in sex (fucking exclusively with the other sex, i.e., women). All or almost all of that which pertains to love, most straight men reserve exclusively for other men. The people whom they admire, respect, adore, revere, honor, whom …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:14 AM
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I have zero interest in being a perma fleshlight just because I might be infertile. None of you people think before you post anything here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:02 AM
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To say that straight men are heterosexual is only to say that they engage in sex (fucking exclusively with the other sex, i.e., women). All or almost all of that which pertains to love, most straight men reserve exclusively for other men. The people whom they admire, respect, adore, revere, honor, whom they imitate, idolize, and form profound attachments to, whom they are willing to teach and from whom they are willing to learn, and whose respect, admiration, recognition, honor, reverence and lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:31 AM
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women can and have always expressed their desires This isn’t factually correct. Historically women weren’t allowed to, present day men complain about it and shame women out of doing it. That ‘song’ you’re manipulatively referencing was literally meant as a joke, nothing more. men’s standards are villainized Where exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:29 AM
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What are you rambling about
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:23 AM
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Yes because women rejecting the oppressive nature of artificial femininity and heterosexual relationships is totally the same as men whining about how they can’t get virginal brides to wait on them hand and foot anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:52 AM
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I don’t give a damn, I’m not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:48 AM
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misandry is normalized Get back to me when women are mass raping men and have created entire religious systems to subjugate the male sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:47 AM
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No you have it backwards. Those female influencers exist solely because men worship literal rapists like andrew tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:46 AM
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It’s really ridiculous how you males say this shit and constantly frame yourselves in the “gender wars” you created. Men say far worse things about women everyday in front of their sisters and daughters with no repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:45 AM
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if not totally pro men they label it toxic It’s really just this. Men think women who don’t kiss their ass must hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:43 AM
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this sub is anti male content The men here promote taking women’s right to vote and violence against women on a regular basis. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:40 AM
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That’s literally not the same thing 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:38 AM
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This is a ridiculous comparison that really showcases how much men lack empathy for women. You think a literal rapist & sex trafficker and someone who literally abused his pregnant wife are equivalent to women making jokes about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:37 AM
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This isn’t factually correct. Men are the majority of pedophiles, and when you actually account for the fact women are around children more than men, men are disproportionately responsible for physical abuse of children
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:30 AM
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regardless of frequency why does it happen
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:29 AM
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It’s not equality when males are allowed to dictate what is and isn’t good for women. Fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:39 PM
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it doesn’t have much basis in fact Then why do men purposefully try to ruin women’s success and why do men constantly disparage women’s education/career
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:32 PM
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This is an outright lie lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:26 PM
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My parents weren’t boomers. But no a happy boomer marriage essentially doesn’t exist. Women just pretend their happy because they’ve been taught their happiness doesn’t matter. I reject the idea that marriage has been nothing but a shit deal for women You can be delusional all you want. Doesn’t change facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:21 PM
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women have encouraged men to be less selfish and more positive And yet men remain as selfish as they’ve always been. men are shamed for expressing preferences This literally doesn’t ever happen. What happens is men say vile shit or state their ‘preference’ in the most disrespectful way possible. It’s not enough for you scrotian morons to simply state “I prefer fit women”, you have to go on entire tirades talking about how you hate “fat bitches”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:19 PM
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It’s literally said because men started this bullshit of blaming abused women. Y’all lack accountability as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:14 PM
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Bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:13 PM
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Men advocating for us to be raped, beaten, or have our right to vote taken away is totally fine. Women saying men are misogynistic trash is evil misandry and how dare you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:12 PM
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There are men on this subreddit who literally promote violence against women and you think women simply acknowledging mens overwhelming tendency to be violent & self centered is worse? Every day men prove they don’t empathize with women and never did.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:11 PM
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custodial fathers As if the majority of men have any interest in raising their kids lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:10 PM
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what? men are inherently violent and your crime stats prove so
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:09 PM
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They always want to make this false equivalence because the reality of male nature hurts their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:07 PM
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other men who care about those women’s wellbeing “protector” men are a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:06 PM
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Men also do leave their wives the minute they develop a terminal illness so quit lying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:05 PM
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Child support isn’t even relevant, most men don’t love their kids unconditionally and it shows through their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:04 PM
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He doesn’t? He doesn’t appreciate my grandmother who raised me either. You morons always make this assumption that every woman complaining about men had a perfect life and it’s annoying. happily married boomers That doesn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:58 PM
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Because most men are very male centered. Heterosexual sex is largely centered around piv despite the fact most women don’t orgasm from it and some women find it painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:57 PM
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This doesn’t disprove what I’m saying at all. Men do in fact treat sex as something for themselves rather than something they do with women. I never said it’s irrelevant to the woman’s pleasure. I said men largely don’t care about the woman’s pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:55 PM
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feminist nonsense No one is more under appreciated than wives and mothers lmao. It is oppressive because men are ungrateful fucks as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:50 PM
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Funny because women have never truly been appreciated by males during any time period of human civilization. But sure we should feel bad because women are finally opting out of dating assholes who do nothing for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:49 PM
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That caricature of women isn’t positive 💀 men will make up any lie to suit their argument
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:47 PM
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What male is actually paying all of the bills in the current year? That’s not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:46 PM
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They define femininity in the most regressive way possible then accuse women of being misogynistic when we criticize the concept or reject it entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:46 PM
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women don’t like male centered sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:35 AM
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No. It’s based off what generally occurs. Sex within heterosexual relationships tends to be extremely male centric
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:27 AM
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If there’s less women committing the crime then less women will be charged
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:18 AM
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I mean this in the least rude way possible but how does that contradict what I’m saying at all? ED affected your ability to enjoy sex as a man. Has no relevance to the fact sex is generally male centric in het relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:15 AM
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I’m talking about what generally occurs. Why do men have a pattern of assuming you’re talking about yourself when you’re talking about an objective pattern
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:14 AM
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Braindead misogynistic take. compete in spaces that were never designed with them in mind Because males think they’re the default human and that assumption has reflected those spaces you’re referring to. Not because the “wahmen stupid and only useful for breeding” idea you’re pushing. Motherhood is by itself just another obstacle women have. There isn’t anything “powerful” about motherhood. It’s an arduous process. the solution to declining birth rates is for women to waste their lives being sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 06:16 AM
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I’m not talking about that extreme of an example. I’m talking about women just engaging in sex they don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 01:30 AM
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You act like the size difference between men and women has no effect on how comfortable a woman feels to say she doesn’t like something. This attitude is delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:36 AM
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You’re reaching
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:34 AM
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you’re denying something that has no logical basis to be denied No this is literally projection. You’re denying the nature of men and pushing the false narrative of “wahmen just as bad” despite nothing in reality being indicative of that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:10 PM
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it’s not about capability it’s about willingness, sex is largely viewed as being for men with women’s desires being secondary if ever met at all
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:38 PM
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both of them were provided with sex The reality of how this actually plays out is the woman gets a mediocre to horrible experience. That’s not an equivalent exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:35 PM
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Sure. While getting sex that provides her with nothing. So not all men is effectively just a male marketing technique
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:32 PM
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What are you talking about? You are deflecting. The one thing that nearly all rapists have in common isn’t race. It’s sex. And you’re demanding women pretend that difference doesn’t exist because it makes you uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:27 PM
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This isn’t realistic. Most women don’t enjoy heterosexual sex. It’s heavily male centered.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:25 PM
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? how is that at all relevant to this? Men really have to insert their desire to use women as fleshlights into every possible conversation solely for the purpose of gleefully disturbing women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:25 PM
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and the woman ignored that which would be fixed if women stopped believing in the “not all men” nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:23 PM
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So you agree then that “not all men” is a pernicious lie? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:21 PM
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That is what it literally means though. The issue is most women don’t enjoy sex with men because sex within heterosexual partnerships is specifically set up to benefit males.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:19 PM
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No, they wouldn’t. Because women aren’t men. This argument is just a product of projecting men’s specific violent tendencies onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:16 PM
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Look at you deflecting from the root of the problem which is males.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:15 PM
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You’re being delusional. Majority of rapists are and have always been males. Your personal experience doesn’t change that. This is just men attempting to deflect from the fact they are the majority of rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:32 PM
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No when a man rapes a female child the news refers to her as a “underaged woman” to obfuscate the fact the man is a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:24 PM
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So? American men constantly insist the rapes of teenage girls aren’t rapes and perpetually refer to those girls as “underaged women”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:23 PM
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Because women committing rape is uncommon to begin with. Men just don’t want to acknowledge that reality because it makes them look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:22 PM
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He’s attempting to obfuscate the issue of male violence by doing the “wahmen rape too” argument. Which is just delusional because women don’t commit rape at the rate men do and never have. Men just want to avoid acknowledging their own behavior as always
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:21 PM
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Majority of rapists have always been men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:18 PM
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I’ve literally looked up the definition. The actual law doesn’t dictate it can only occur via penetration. The issue is the FBI only counts penetrative rape in rape statistics. Non penetrative rape still exists as a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:18 PM
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You’re disgusting. I “reached puberty” at 8 years old. You’re promoting pedophilia and ought to be ashamed of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 03:35 PM
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That men as a whole are the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:27 AM
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feminism is defined by feminists as equality of the sexes It’s very frustrating that men forget there’s different subsets of feminists whenever it’s convenient for them to do so. Many feminists don’t define feminism this way. Radical feminists explicitly don’t. This is a watered down definition that simply enables males to derail feminist discussions. feminists don’t believe in equality No, feminists simply aren’t concerned with issues impacting men. Because feminism is for women. women have som…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:27 AM
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Idt men’s weird fetishes are a result of a higher libido. Women just don’t have the same ones as men. The heterosexual female equivalent of a foot fetish would be women obsessed with hand/forearm pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:51 AM
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Because men do objectify and degrade women. Majority of men don’t respect women nor appreciate women as whole people. no man will claim to feel objectified or degraded Because: Women (as a whole) appreciate men as people Your career is something you actually work for Women aren’t making countless podcasts centered around telling men how they “don’t care about your career or education” or any traits that make one who they are The framing of this question is also wrong. I don’t view sexual attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:49 AM
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How is this not an admission of her being right? Stating it’s a consequence of “women’s preference” is a fallacious argument. Regardless, you’re literally admitting in your second sentence that men are pushy. Stating boundaries are “highly subject” is an admission men push them. Stating being the one to initiate “implies probing women’s boundaries” is another admission that men are pushy. but that’s a SOCIAL game ew just no
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:36 AM
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No, but christianity itself is a problem. Similarly, men themselves are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:13 AM
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My guess would be hobby meet ups but most people don’t go to those.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:30 PM
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Sex negative is just code for feminism that criticizes misogynistic kinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:25 PM
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I resorted to apps because I’m not social enough to find a partner in traditional avenues.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:52 PM
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I didn’t derail anything. I pointed out you’re delusional and drastically overestimate the amount of “options” women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:57 PM
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I think the conflation exists because the majority of people seek to pathologize people who are different from the accepted norm. The accepted norm appears to be extroverts in a lot of places. Maybe this isn’t the case in some european countries or in like Japan. But it’s definitely true for the US and I’d imagine to some extent latin american countries because they seem to be more extroverted
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:55 PM
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It’s not lazy or entitled at all. It’s simply an observation based on male behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:53 PM
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I read it. I thought it was stupid. It has nothing to do with being “lazy”. The rationale from other women is if you have to approach him he simply doesn’t like you. As for me I don’t approach anyone. I generally want to be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:45 PM
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Why do I need to “invite an approach”? The very notion of this is stupid. Either approach or don’t. Also you’re entirely off base with your mantra bitching about women. I didn’t “spend time learning how to give invites” because I find that stupid and I also don’t notice nor care for many social norms. Has nothing to do with this caricature you’ve created that “doesn’t want to learn any skills wahhh”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:41 PM
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My perspective might be heavily shaped by being from the United States, but society is heavily centered around extroverts with them essentially being deemed the ‘default’. Extroverts have no concept of you just wanting to be left alone. You’re seen as defective or told you’re lying or that you simply express love wrong because you don’t want someone else around you constantly all day every day. It’s especially worse if you’re female because some idiots think women are ‘supposed’ to be bubbly and…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:29 PM
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I think it’s flipped. But anyway I think the amount of men interested in their female friends is very exaggerated. The closest thing I have to male friends are online and I can say with absolute certainty none of them would ever be interested in me in that context.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:18 PM
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They truly don’t get it. I don’t really get approached by anyone in a romantic context. They’ve brainwashed themselves into believing all women get thousands of men approaching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:13 PM
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No you’re literally just delusional. I rarely if ever have men approach me in public. demonstrating they’re interested in being approached And how exactly would someone even do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:12 PM
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I don’t see why it would be performative in the context of online forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:23 AM
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Men vocalize their feelings about women all the time. It’s just in a distinctly negative way. I rarely ever see them say something positive about women as a group. Whenever they say something positive about an individual woman it’s usually in juxtaposition to how they see women as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:10 AM
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I don’t really believe men simply enjoy women’s company after viewing how many of them speak about women. Those men would be the exception not the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:01 AM
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Cool. Not what the comment I replied to says.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:59 AM
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The question is flawed to begin with. Men don’t fall in love with their female friends. They just want to fuck them. That’s not the same thing. If you do get feelings for a friend, it’s often better to just let it die off anyway instead of ruining the friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:28 AM
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introverted women are just ugly Saving this for when the scrote cabal claims introverted women aren’t stigmatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:24 AM
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Again men overestimate the amount of attention attractive or mid women receive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:21 AM
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And your alternative for women who have difficulty dating through traditional means is what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:20 AM
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unlimited options Men drastically overestimate the amount of ‘options’ women have. You sign up for dating apps as a woman because you’re unable to find someone through traditional means.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:20 AM
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female refers to sex sex isn’t assigned it’s observed nobody can ‘question’ being female because it’s a lived reality, you either are or aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:41 PM
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Because he’s arguing in bad faith, that’s why. He literally lied about a comment I made on another post. What he claims that comment states is radically different from what was actually stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:25 PM
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She’s saying femininity or what you associate with being “firmly cis” isn’t innate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:24 PM
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He doesn’t care about accuracy nor understanding feminists. He outright lies about things women say to suit his own narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:22 PM
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<image> This is what the linked comment states for full context. It doesn’t state anything close to what he is claiming. But as per usual men get to make up things entirely and be believed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:20 PM
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along with homophobia Majority of radfems are lesbian or bisexual. It’s an immense fucking work of fiction that you males have manufactured that radfems are some heterosexual, rich women who aren’t bogged down by any ‘real’ problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:10 PM
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Maybe you have haters because you literally lie about what someone says.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:07 PM
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Don’t respond to this post. This man outright lies about replies women make so he can act like you’re insane. He doesn’t want to understand your perspectives, he just wants more things he can misconstrue because he’s a liar and clearly bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:06 PM
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The difference is there’s literally nothing proving this assertion. The entirety of human history and interactions prove mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:01 PM
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What relevance does that comment even have to this discussion? That comment was about women not having spaces of our own to discuss female issues. You’re an incredibly manipulative and toxic individual frankly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:00 PM
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That’s literally not what that linked comment says at all. I’m sick of people constantly misinterpreting everything I say on purpose in an effort to portray me as crazy. It’s malicious lying. Never said women can’t make decisions for ourselves Never said women can’t “feel properly” Never said men don’t belong in society Quit lying about what I said to feel better about evidently being a horrible human being. I don’t hate men and that entire paragraph about male labor is something you made the fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:58 PM
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he’s not bitter, diminishing, misogynistic, controlling That’s all men. To varying degrees. what exactly do you think is on hold right now It’s a general statement. Women give up their careers, their hobbies, their educations all the time for men. I don’t need I just let him If you didn’t feel you needed it then why would you let him. It doesn’t matter that you’re not a legislator. You have a child. That child will go on to push these same ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:14 PM
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I don’t pander to men I pander to my man Difference without a real distinction honestly. his reciprocation What reciprocation? Rp males aren’t reciprocal. I have a life of my own Which I’m sure you always put on hold at his convenience. I did just fine on my own Then why is it that you need someone else to control everything. you don’t have to put down other women The issue is what the ideas you’re pushing promote about women as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:44 PM
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pandering to men and having no life of my own made me so much happier Why are some women like this? it’s really nice to be able to submit to your man Why are you too incompetent to control your own life?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:30 PM
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Those women you’re describing are a tiny percentage and are relentlessly mocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:39 AM
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you’re automatically assuming it’s shallow to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:37 AM
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I want to spend my life with my wife While you whore around with other women pretending that’s a marriage. Mhm.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:59 PM
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As much as I’ve seen the scrote sector bitch about this, I haven’t seen a single woman describing a man as creepy when he was just socially awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:58 PM
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Charles manson literally was creepy you braindead muppet
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:56 PM
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They don’t want women to exercise discernment. They outright want women to be abused. That’s all this shit is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:55 PM
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Why do you assume it’s based on physical appearance? This is the exact problem she’s talking about. Literally doesn’t occur to you that there are mid looking non awkward men who are creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:54 PM
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Creep isn’t a term for unattractive or socially awkward men. It’s a term for men who seem sexually predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:48 PM
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this is just code for he’s not a creep unless I, dick haver, sees it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:44 PM
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This is just you failing to deal with the fact you aren’t suitable for a romantic relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:42 PM
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Are ugly women destined to wander the earth alone never really being loved or understood by anyone? Survey says yes. Men are entitled to expect more though, as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:06 AM
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Mras and feminists are diametrically opposed. I’m not “misleading”. I’m pointing out reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:05 AM
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Liberal lifestyles don’t inherently deconstruct misogynistic ideas and expectations. Liberal men aren’t less misogynistic than conservative ones, it’s just expressed differently
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:52 AM
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men in this comment section
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:43 AM
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It’s pointing out what you’re saying is completely flipped in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:36 AM
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reee everything you want you must want to do 24/7 What part of everyone isn’t an extrovert do you not comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:15 AM
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This is so backwards. It’s men who want mommy bangmaid trad wives but whine on the internet about any expectation to be providers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:13 AM
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isn’t making more than 60k Which means he doesn’t qualify for the trad wife he claims to want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:12 AM
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how she looks and the emotional fulfillment she provides This is exactly it. This is the extent to which most men ‘love’ women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:08 AM
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Literally no man would be willing to essentially give up his life to be a sahd for a woman making 50-70k. You hold women to different standards
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:06 AM
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You can only be as egalitarian as men are willing to be. Why should I split bills when even liberal males are still convinced women must be bangmaids?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:05 AM
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I dont get why such people date and complain about it I don’t get why extroverts are so narcissistic and solipsistic that they believe their behavior and wants dictate the norm. It really doesn’t occur to you at all that socialization is WORK
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:02 AM
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high eq Doesn’t exist in men. aren’t going to get that man So? That’s their business. and frankly don’t qualify according to whom? most men don’t qualify for the women they seek, yet no one ridicules them to this extent men’s standards and preferences matter And yet womens somehow never do. be ready to compete Only pathetic losers compete for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:58 AM
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You wrote this a second time and still somehow didn’t notice that society isn’t something you just get the choice of opting into.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:54 AM
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Majority of what you listed are issues within society as a whole. There is no “consenting” to them, they’re just pushed on you from birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:52 AM
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Because men believe they’re the only ones allowed to have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:51 AM
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The level of social interaction other people need from you can at times be exhausting and difficult to keep up with. I’ve gotten burnt out a lot trying to make everyone else happy. I don’t think they understand that some people really do need time by ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:45 AM
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it shouldn’t feel like effort It’s fine to say it doesn’t feel like effort to you. But projecting that onto everyone else and saying we should find joy in processes we find exhausting is annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:26 AM
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talking to the person I love doesn’t feel like effort to me Maybe that’s the fundamental difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:24 AM
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Why do you need something to act as a replacement? Why are you incapable of being happy alone? This codependent attitude is completely bizarre and unhealthy. no other relationship comes close to the emotional intimacy as a romantic relationship I don’t understand this mentality at all. My friendships with other women have had more depth and emotional intimacy than a romantic relationship likely ever will. your partner should always be your first priority Absolutely not. My relationships with my …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:21 AM
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This is nonsense. Modern women still perform femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:00 PM
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Yes they do. Why else would you all whine incessantly about how women must be feminine. How you don’t care about anything that makes us individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:56 AM
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you’re not as unique as you think Most women have very little standards particularly for personality and don’t vet well. And even if not, once again, so what? Men have very particular standards themselves, men are less likely to waiver from their standards, and men frankly don’t care about personality at all to the point they view women as interchangeable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:55 AM
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It’s a general theme I’ve noticed among men where they drastically overestimate the attention women receive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:59 AM
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No. It’s men projecting their own violent fantasies onto women. I really don’t think any of you grasp: - How many women hate 50 shades of scrotal degeneracy - How many women consent to sex acts they don’t enjoy or actively hate because men are threatening and women are taught to feel bad for not giving in to their whims
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:50 AM
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women have strict personality standards that go beyond someone being likable This isn’t true of most women. Even as a woman who this does apply to, so what? I want someone compatible with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:17 AM
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Sorry, but men opine far too much about how they don’t care about our career, education, hobbies, or interests for me to believe the title statement applies to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:16 AM
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The link you provided doesn’t show a quote. It links to one of your comments which is based in your subjective emotional response to my replies. You’re complaining about something that was never said.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:14 AM
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ambiguous standards controlled only by them So it’s only women who culturally define what love is now? terminate the relationship on a whim Everyone can do that. If you have a problem with that then you’re a controlling person who really shouldn’t be in a relationship to begin with. men have clear needs Sex isn’t a need. It’s perceived as a need by men because men deify sex and view it as the only thing that matters in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:13 AM
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I don’t agree. Two of the men I’ve seen speak about this estimated that the average woman gets approached 500-1,000 times in her lifetime which is completely ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:10 AM
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No, female responses name something that actually matters, male responses name their demand for constant sex and adulation
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:06 AM
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Men have historically had far more of a choice in marriage than women. since you believe women can do no wrong Quote. Where. I. Said. This.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:05 AM
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Quote where I said women can do no wrong. You have yet to do so and I have asked three times. You’re mad because you think accountability looks like blaming women for men’s behavior. There’s literally no data suggesting women “pushing men to suicide” is common and the way you phrased this proves my point exactly. You’re angry I don’t view women as responsible for men’s behavior. The most recent post on that sub was 157 days ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:56 AM
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You’re not contributing anything to this conversation. Women didn’t even have the right to decide who they were going to marry for the majority of human history. So no, it can’t possibly be women who made marriage transactional. Try again. expectation for men to be tall, good looking, muscular, rich, kind, caring, open, vulnerable, supportive You either are tall or not, there is no pretending. Same applies to being good looking. Women don’t expect men to be particularly muscular. That’s more pop…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:33 AM
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Women generally aren’t the ones murdering others when told no. r/WhenWomenRefuse is it that men feel entitled to sex or is their reaction a natural response to not getting what they want Men feel entitled to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:19 AM
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I don’t and would not engage in a threesome in a committed relationship. Many couples who do this, do in fact implode their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 01:05 AM
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women can do no wrong Quote where I said this. if women did it more often men wouldn’t see it as sexual interest Untrue. Men will interpret anything as sexual interest. problem that women could end if they wanted to If it’s such a problem why don’t men compliment each other? you’re a radical feminist so that’s kind of part of the problem by definition Yes, men interpret any woman advocating for herself as a problem because you want women to have zero boundaries. We know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 01:04 AM
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It’s a deterrent to dating men at all tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 01:01 AM
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Male mods = males are being allowed to dictate to females what is and isn’t acceptable speech = not a feminist space
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 01:00 AM
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Why is it that men feel entitled to define what women’s sexual preferences are then act indignant when you’re confronted with the truth that you’re pushing falsehoods explicitly designed to benefit males to the detriment of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:59 AM
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No, they expect it. And throw tantrums when not given it. So yes, this is moral outrage over women doing the same thing men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:58 AM
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This is all a lie. It is men who made heterosexual relationships transactional. The recent flip in women viewing them as transactional is entirely the fault of men. Women are disillusioned with the very concept of love due to men’s behavior. This is true, everywhere. you don’t have to be anything you don’t like Men & rp women repeatedly state women must be feminine and submissive. So yes. There is an expectation placed on women to pretend to be someone we aren’t to appease men. women wonder wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:57 AM
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Men not receiving compliments is their own fault. Women learn from experience that men perceive this as sexual interest and therefore stop doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:49 AM
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Because I don’t believe in the idea that someone can love more than one person or actively desire more than one person. If I were cheated on with a man it would mean that my partner didn’t desire me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:47 AM
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No? I’m literally bisexual. If someone cheats on me with a man, it means they wanted a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:41 AM
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Very telling that nearly all male responses are “she gives sex” while female responses just express a desire to actually be loved and understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:40 AM
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Someone with similar interests who isn’t loud or extroverted. Someone who is understanding of the fact that sometimes I want to be myself and that being around others constantly is stressful to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:38 AM
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The person giving a compliment has to value the feature they’re complementing for them to take notice of it. Men have spoken ad nauseam about how they don’t value anything indicative of intelligence in women. I think they have to view you in a fully desexualized manner for them to appreciate it. The only compliments from men on features like that have been from teachers or family.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:33 AM
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The amount of attention & praise men think women receive from the outside world is severely inflated and inaccurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:26 AM
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women accept compliments more than men do This isn’t really accurate. We say thank you because that’s the polite thing to do. As far as internal perception of compliments I’d actually say women are far less likely to believe you. When people have complimented me I generally either think they’re lying to be polite, or they want something.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:25 AM
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They’re terrible parents and traitors to their sex class. More often than not this behavior very specifically manifests in them enabling the sexual abuse of children and particularly their daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:21 AM
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I’d be more offended if they cheated with a man. But I’d feel more offended if a woman cheated on me with a man too. If they cheat on me with another woman it means they just didn’t like me that much. If they cheat on me with a man it means entering into the relationship was self defeating to begin with because I would never be able to give them what they actually wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:17 AM
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That’s fair. I just get extremely frustrated with creepy men who constantly use “well some women like it” as an excuse to push this onto all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:46 PM
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No. You’re making a false comparison. I’m specifically stating this about sex acts that are harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:45 PM
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This is my whole point. I shouldn’t have to begin a convo with “btw I really don’t like being hit or choked could you not”. The responsibility should be on the person who wants that to ask
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:44 PM
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I don’t see men arguing most women are anything Bullshit. Men in the replies on this post are repeatedly saying the majority of women like this. Quit fucking lying to suit your own warped narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:37 PM
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I’m not claiming this is YOUR desire, I’m just claiming that this is reflective of female sexuality Do you not read what you actually type
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:35 PM
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I have never once sought this. Quit projecting your violent fantasies onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:33 PM
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I’m calling people who allow someone to strangle them mentally unhealthy, yes. That shouldn’t be a controversial statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:32 PM
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I exclusively screw sane women Your statements say otherwise. I don’t believe mentally healthy women desire abusive sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:57 AM
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no you don’t need to communicate those things Then why must I communicate I don’t want to be strangled? Why are men so deranged that they’ve convinced themselves all women want this and that a woman who doesn’t must explicitly state so or he’ll do it anyway? I’m not being irrational Yes, you are. your position is you don’t like how mainstream bdsm has become and it shouldn’t be your problem to be pro active to avoid it Yes. It shouldn’t be my problem that deranged males like you have internalize…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:52 AM
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Oh okay. Do I also need to communicate I don’t want to be murdered? Do I need to communicate I don’t want to be stabbed? Do I need to communicate that they can’t steal a kidney from me if I happen to fall asleep? You sound irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:37 AM
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this is factually incorrect No, it isn’t. I watch primarily horror movies and true crime content. I have zero desire to be bludgeoned to death. One of my favorite movies is misery. I have no desire to hold men captive and attempt to paralyze them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:24 AM
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Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:57 AM
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The ‘evidence’ he used were porn searches. - the media you consume doesn’t translate into what personal desires you have - those stats will be skewed because it has to be based on women who seek out porn in the first place, and more likely than not relies on self reported sex from porn accounts
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:57 AM
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You literally argued this is something most women desire and that I have to explicitly state I don’t. There’s men under this post arguing that all women must like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:51 AM
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The point is men project this idea onto all women and I’m sick of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:37 AM
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most men aren’t sadists In the most respectful way possible, it’s kind of hard to believe that when so many of them like OP will try to justify being violent towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:36 AM
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You keep using weight as a reference point for “body type”. Body type is about the proportion, not the weight. Proportion wise, pear and hour glass bodies are still viewed as more attractive. There isn’t a romanticization of all personalities in women though. This isn’t reflected in the women men actually date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:27 AM
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Idc what mentally ill self hating women you screw have asked you. That doesn’t have a damn thing to do with me and my preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:24 AM
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The mentally ill self hating bimbos you fuck aren’t a reflection of all women and I’m sick of you sex pests screeching about how women love being abused because you love being abusers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:18 AM
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in appreciating different body types No. Hourglass and pear shapes are what’s seen as attractive in women. That hasn’t changed because of body positivity. feminine and girl boss personalities romanticized in women which allow for more fluid personality How does a feminine personality being romanticized in women allow for more fluidity? Girl boss personalities aren’t romanticized by men. They’re explicitly mocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:08 AM
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It’s literally what that communicates. I’m sick of this narrative men constantly push that women love violent sex and that women like me are abnormal and need to explicitly state “no I don’t want to be strangled”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:54 AM
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And? What does that have to do with the fact they need it to live?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:53 AM
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There is no set timeline. People need hiv treatment because they’d die without it. It’s really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:36 AM
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men feel wrongly entitled to strangle you, it’s therefore YOU who should tell them NOT to do something you OBVIOUSLY wouldn’t want because teehe men are violent children who think women love being abused
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:31 AM
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You didn’t debunk anything and now you’re acting obtuse. Need means that withheld the person will die.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:30 AM
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Didn’t you know? women are responsible for what men do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:27 AM
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Idt I need to define live without. I think it’s very clear from that phrase what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:17 AM
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It’s literally what is expected of women. Quit playing dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:16 AM
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I shouldn’t have to communicate I don’t want to be strangled. It should be obvious. Quit making excuses for mens violent behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:12 AM
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They think because you saw it on porn once you must want it. Why stop there? Men clearly want to be murdered since they watch so many violent movie genres.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:09 AM
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I’m really fucking sick of this narrative they push 24/7 that all women secretly love being beaten during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:07 AM
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compared to women that desire it and aren’t being honest They desire it because of what? Because you say so? Go fuck yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:06 AM
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They don’t want to listen. They’re fundamentally sociopathic. They have to convince themselves that women love being abused because that’s what they love doing. I’m fucking sick of it. They make me want to kill myself or spend the rest of my existence as a shut in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:06 AM
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all wahmen love being strangled te he
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:03 AM
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Pornography doesn’t equate to what sex you actually enjoy I detest 50 shades of scrotal derangement I have zero interest in some male being rapey and aggressive with me sexually. I don’t like being strangled. I don’t like rape simulations. I don’t like being beaten. The fact men can’t get it through their thick fucking skulls that, no actually all women don’t desire abuse, shows you’re sociopathic. The only feminists who critique kink are radical feminists I hate erotic novels, romance novels, r…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:02 AM
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I think there’s a distinction in how needs are being defined by people. I generally have a very literal and narrow interpretation of what constitutes a need
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:56 AM
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if it’s just a free meal You’re not getting the point. You’re expected to put in all of that effort because you’re going to see him. Whether or not you have sex is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:54 AM
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talk about leopards eating your face I’m an ex catholic atheist who has never supported mass immigration. I’ve explicitly criticized islam because of its immense oppression of women and the other harm it causes. This doesn’t apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:53 AM
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If men actually loved women then they wouldn’t go on long winded diatribes about how they don’t care about our education, careers, or anything that makes us individuals. Men have made their perspectives and motives very clear. I don’t understand this idea that women should just not listen to that and act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:51 AM
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What is the point of this question? The issue is he will expect sex anyway, on top of having the ridiculous expectations I already listed. Which is why dating men is honestly just stressful
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:48 AM
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men can’t just show up an unshaven mess Since when have men ever removed the majority of body hair? This doesn’t happen. I don’t really care much about men being manly. The expectation for women I often feel is more rigid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:46 AM
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Mental health treatment isn’t really a need in this context either unless you’re literally a danger to yourself or others without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:41 AM
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primary reason women say sex isn’t a need is because it would be inconvenient No, it’s because it literally isn’t a need. If you can live without it, it isn’t a need imo. It’s a want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:40 AM
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Millions of people follow a religion whose prophet explicitly married and had sex with a 9yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:11 PM
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This week in scrotal delusions: women with low libidos are evil bitches, more at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:09 PM
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These responses are literally because men expect women to date men we aren’t attracted to and men do invent problems with literally any hobby or interest a woman has.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:07 PM
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Women viewing relationships as transactional is essentially caused by men. They’ve made it abundantly clear it’s all about the pursuit of sex for them, so why shouldn’t we also be transactional?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:04 PM
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Absolutely not. Conservative men aren’t compatible with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 10:56 PM
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What is even the purpose of this question? It’s bizarre you think women lay awake at night distressed over having “so many options but still rejecting them anyway”. you’re not desperate to find a man You answered your own question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 10:54 PM
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men also have to pretend Notify me when men actually have to wear makeup, shave their body hair all off, and when men avoid eating before dates so they look as thin as possible. you could just not go It’s every date with men. At that point your only option is separatism. I really just think you all have a problem with the idea of women benefitting from het relationships at all. We’re supposed to be miserable to make the precious males happy to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 10:45 PM
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what? dating is largely pointless since heterosexual relationships are heavily male centered, why is it a problem when women are trying to get something out of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 10:43 PM
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Idc about your delusions nor do I care about your fantasies about me being miserable My opinion isn’t changing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 10:41 PM
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No they can’t. Even if they could that’s entirely irrelevant. Any space in which males get to dictate to females what can and can’t be said isn’t a feminist or female oriented space.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 10:41 PM
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because you’re a jerk to them reee Because it’s always women’s fault for what men do. - I’m not purposely rude to anyone in person - I’m speaking about a pattern I’ve noticed, not personal experiences - It’s literally observable that men expect empathy from women but never reciprocate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 10:40 PM
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I have observed a lot of relationships externally and while I think women tend to be more expressive than men, I don’t think they’re necessarily more emotionally dependent. I think very often that men’s emotional outbursts just aren’t looked at as emotional because it’s typically expressed in anger. What I will say from looking at my own friendships though and what I’ve had difficulty with, is that women often are more oriented to needing to see people in person to maintain a connection with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 10:22 AM
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Yes and no. I’m less emotive than the average woman. But I also think how emotionally dependent women are is heavily exaggerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:27 AM
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I think this is way off base. My ex explicitly stated I wasn’t emotionally expressive enough and this has been a sentiment repeated throughout my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:13 AM
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It’s more like men expect sex regardless of what you do and men treat relationships as transactional so why can’t we. This is just moral outrage over women doing the same things men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:53 AM
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foie gras oh yeah, animal abuse, how lovely
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:52 AM
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I don’t understand the faux outrage over women who look at relationships as transactional when: - Rp theory is entirely founded on men viewing relationships as transactional - Men everywhere view relationships as transactional - Men & women in this very sub will talk endlessly about how women have to be ✨feminine✨ and pretend to be someone we aren’t to get men to date us. If I’m expected to be miserable doing shit I have zero interest in then yes, the least he could fucking do is pay the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:50 AM
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where did I say women have to be doormats Not assertive = she lets people push her around. why is peeing sitting down associated with women Because of anatomy. she’s not Your response to me stating I dislike the expectation to perform femininity was to assume I’m masculine. certain expectations Right so you expect women to be doormats.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:16 AM
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The ability of being able to both admire their feats in every other field and to want to have sex with women isn’t really that cruel and disgusting. But you make it like that because hating men is just as a necessary habit as washing your hands. I don’t hate men. The issue is that men literally don’t admire women. Most of you simply view us as an object to extract sex from. Many men won’t date fat women. The issue isn’t their preference. It’s the way they speak about fat women. Everyone gets les…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:40 AM
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If every interaction you have with your partner is you making them feel responsible for your happiness, you nitpicking minor things to be negative about, you constantly telling them nothing they do is good enough, then that is beyond what is acceptable. This should be obvious and shouldn’t have to be stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:36 AM
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No. You should support your partner to the best of your ability. That means advising them to seek a professional if they have something like bpd or ptsd. Some just like using ‘emotional support’ as an excuse to leave their mental illness untreated and make it everyone else’s problem. That’s not fair to the person you’re partnered with and I’m sick of condescending people like you and the other man I replied to pretending this doesn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:34 AM
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My ex literally did have bpd. Idc what sex you are. It is absolutely inappropriate to make your partner responsible for the consequences of YOU not maintaining your mental health. It’s fine to want mutual emotional support. It’s not fine when the relationship turns into you constantly making them responsible for your emotions. Idk why this is so difficult for you to grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:32 AM
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Why do women have to be doormats? Why is assertive automatically a male trait? And why is a woman who dislikes artificial femininity somehow automatically masculine? And why can’t women be assertive if they’re in relationships with males? Neutrality and nuance doesn’t seem to exist to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:29 AM
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I don’t see why wanting someone to love you for who you are is automatically interpreted by you people as “tolerate me being an abusive narcissist”. That’s literally not what is meant by that message. It’s about loving someone as a whole person instead of expecting them to compartmentalize themselves for you. I could make a copy paste of your post from male pov Yeah. Because the way a lot of people conceptualize love is flawed and based on an idealistic more palatable version of the person they …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:27 AM
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what is an unacceptable demand ex: Expecting your spouse to manage your untreated mental illness. It’s very simple. There’s literally no reason for you to have difficulty understanding this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:49 AM
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I don’t think you understand what we’re referring to when we say we want men to stop treating us like free therapists. Men use their female partners for emotional validation and support beyond what is an acceptable demand. That being said I think it’s naive for women to look to men for emotional support. They’re not generally good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:21 AM
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You don’t think the expectation for women to be submissive and ✨feminine✨ is an expectation for us to pretend to be someone we’re not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:08 AM
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Finding the right fit for a relationship isn’t about who makes your friends jealous. That’s an immature outlook to start with. I think the women you’re describing are emotionally stunted. Personally I only use insta for bug and plant photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:02 AM
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If you have to pretend to be someone else in order for the other person to love you then they simply aren’t capable of loving you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:53 AM
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No, it isn’t. I want someone who is actually capable of loving me for me. Not someone whose ‘love’ is entirely dependent on me being the perfect blow up doll. What’s toxic is the idea that women should center our existence around what men find fuckable. I don’t care if men find my hobbies or interests weird or don’t understand the purpose of them. I don’t care if men think I don’t perform femininity ‘enough’. I’m not a fucking doll. I don’t exist for ornamental purposes. this isn’t about changin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:51 AM
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You don’t have any other pictures? 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:09 AM
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Fds is radfem adjacent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:51 AM
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I didn’t say they did Yes you did. You said it here: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:50 AM
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My point is that if males are being allowed to dictate what females can and can’t say then that is entirely antithetical to a ‘feminist’ space. The term terf is a problem by itself but I’m not getting into that right now
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:49 AM
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I guess society isn’t for women Finally you’re getting it 💀 It’s not a feminist space or a female oriented space if males are allowed to dictate to females what we can and can’t say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:25 AM
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If a sub is modded by men then it’s automatically not for women. There’s nothing misandrist about that statement. You just think, like most men, that males getting to dictate female speech is perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:19 AM
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Citation needed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:06 AM
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I don’t watch ‘rage bait’. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:37 PM
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Again. There is absolutely nothing intimate about being used as a fleshlight. Intimacy is an emotional concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:35 PM
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Scrote isn’t pink pilled lingo. It’s radfem. Always has been. women aren’t less violent than men Yes, they are. You’re not some mythical exception. This pattern is noticeable throughout apes. lesbian relationships That study that misogynistic homophobes love to cite included ‘lesbians’ who were abused by men and also didn’t explicitly state how they defined lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:34 PM
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How is having an objective view of men catastrophising? Idk why men perceive me saying “men are inherently more violent than women” as some admission that I live my life in a bunker terrified of my own shadow.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:32 PM
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pretend men are all perfect wittle angels or wear burka Proving my point as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:20 PM
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Intimacy and sex aren’t the same. Being used as a masturbatory object by some random scrote isn’t “intimate”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:17 PM
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Women don’t get intimacy from hookups, no one does.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:16 PM
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I’ve already addressed why saying broken vagina isn’t an appropriate rebuttal to someone calling you stupid. You were called a dumbass because you were acting obtuse and deliberately pretending to not grasp the very simple point I was making. You said I have a “broken vagina” to dehumanize me, to reduce me to a thing that men stick things in, and to reiterate mens perception that the purpose of a woman is simply something for you to screw.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:10 PM
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I didn’t say anything about hyper aggressive. I said males are inherently more violent than women. And I have several men arguing that because I don’t specify more violent than women every time I say it (because that should be an obvious implication) that somehow I’m being inaccurate and ‘misandrist’.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:03 PM
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Yes you all do. You expect me to specify verbatim “men are inherently more violent than women” every single time this discussion comes up as if that wasn’t clearly the implication of what the fuck I said to begin with. The whole fucking world has to cater around male feelings all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:58 PM
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No. You’re simply wrong. Look at the amount of men who don’t give oral. this doesn’t exist Yes it does. and if it does it involves inserting something into the anal cavity So do you believe it exists or not? And regardless, that still proves my point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:57 PM
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You’re making an inaccurate comparison. The behavior of my father is reflected as a much larger societal problem. There is no epidemic of women being narcissists. Nor are narcissistic women rewarded by society in the way men conceptualize.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:55 PM
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Literally look at the replies to my comment 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:53 PM
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? I said they’re inherently more violent than women. Why do I need to state verbatim “the human male is inherently more violent and aggressive than the female” for men to not have a bitch fit? I’m sick of being expected to walk on eggshells to appease everyone. The “more violent than women” is abundantly clear and I shouldn’t have to constantly spell it out because you all want to pretend to be too stupid to understand what was intended from that statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:51 PM
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Idk why men push the idea that this is a selection issue. This pattern is observable throughout the male demographic. It’s evident in how they speak about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:49 PM
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I don’t hate men. I’m sick of their double standards, misogyny, and constant demands to act like I don’t see any of it. Women have never once oppressed men on the basis of sex. Comparing “misandrists” to white supremacists is entirely dishonest. You want a more accurate comparison, the males are the white supremacists.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:48 PM
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Literally look at the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:46 PM
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I don’t have male friends irl. My father does frequently go into meltdowns where he’s screaming and he’s done this since my childhood. Idk why men frequently use brothers or fathers as talking points when often we’ve literally seen them act erratic at best, and more unfortunate women literally have been assaulted by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:46 PM
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Men are males. What would you prefer I say? I’ve also referred to them as men. So what? Loser is a subjective insult. Sexist is an objective observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:43 PM
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It’s not dishonest. Men are inherently more threatening & violent than women. This pattern is observable in other apes. Only men think they’re the mythical exception and demand for women to pretend we don’t notice the same pattern
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:42 PM
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non functioning vagina This is an irrelevant personal attack and you’re far from the first scrote to say it. It means nothing to me and frankly just makes males look sociopathic. men are making most of the money There isn’t a big wealth gap in the majority of couples. You’re making excuses for why it’s somehow acceptable for men to expect women to split bills 50/50 and also do all of the childcare and household chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:41 PM
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What? Men have never once been oppressed by women because of their maleness. This is an objective fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:39 PM
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Idk what you and other men want women to do. You all consistently act as though we should stick our heads in the sand and pretend this difference doesn’t exist at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:38 PM
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It’s not incorrect, it’s reality. Men value sex for what they get out of it. Majority of them couldn’t care less about making it pleasurable for the woman. If this still isn’t clear to you, look how men react to female fetishes that don’t generally benefit men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:36 PM
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Men aren’t marginalized for being male. The comparison you’re making falls completely flat when you acknowledge that reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:35 PM
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It’s a daily occurrence in this sub that when women point out males are inherently more aggressive and violent, men start screeching about misandry and claiming that’s not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:33 PM
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Literally look at the reactions of men here when women point out males are inherently threatening, aggressive or violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:32 PM
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If they don’t hate fat people then why is their number one complaint in regards to dating, repeated across all platforms, that “I don’t want fat bitches reeee” If men don’t hate 30+ women then why exactly is the dominant narrative that women “hit the wall” at 30? Men repeatedly say to anybody who will listen that they don’t care about any of the qualities that make women individuals. They just want sex. The issue with the conversation around single moms is simply that men insist on blaming them …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:12 PM
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It’s not an incorrect assertion. The fact is for the majority of human history males have been conditioned to believe sex is something that exists to entertain them, and that the feelings of the woman involved are entirely irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:04 PM
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why do women prefer hookups to relationships They don’t. What planet are you living on. say they’re looking for something casual So? People say a lot of things. I could say trump is in a homosexual relationship with elon musk and that they burn money while laughing at the poor. Doesn’t make it so.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:02 PM
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The primary reason this irks me is honestly just that these same men will insist that males aren’t more aggressive or violent than women. This is a pattern observable in other apes, but the human male must be the mythical exception because ✨scrote feelings✨
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:59 PM
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This is a stupid comment. The concept of icks are literally just things an individual woman finds unattractive. Instead of saying they have ‘icks’ male discourse around their preferences sound like this: I hate fat bitches Women over 30 are worthless and may as well be dead. I don’t care about your degree or career, I just want sex on demand and someone to do my laundry Single moms are everything wrong with society Did I mention I hate fat bitches?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:52 PM
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What does the majority of women having low self esteem have to do with this convo? Unless you mean they find the men ugly? Which: - goes against the entire narrative that women only fuck/date a certain percentage of ‘top’ men - has no factual basis and is irrelevant to one’s ability to enjoy sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:51 PM
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Majority of men don’t offer anything on a sexual level. They’ve been conditioned to believe sex is for them and something they do to women. Not a mutual experience
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:34 PM
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The people who actually need to hear this aren’t going to listen. Testericals cling to the idea that women love mistreatment because it absolves them of responsibility for treating women like garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:33 PM
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? It is in fact modded by males. Was exposed as being modded by males years ago, probably before I even finished highschool
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:28 PM
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No, I’m pointing out reality. Young women don’t enjoy fucking octogenarians. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:28 PM
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You’re all so hypersensitive to any criticism of males
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:26 PM
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? The percentage of mentally ill women doesn’t change the nature of my statement. It only further condemns these men who seek out women decades younger than them. Because the only reason you’d purposefully seek a mentally ill partner is so you can take advantage of their fragile mental state
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:25 PM
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incorrect sexist The fact it’s modded by males makes it not for women. And therefore not feminist. Have the day you deserve, thx
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:24 PM
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That the scrotal narrative of “women love fucking geriatrics uwu” is a lie men tell themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:23 PM
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I don’t see what the difference is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:22 PM
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Sex isn’t intimacy. Idk why so many people conflate that but the two aren’t the same. Second of all, hookups guarantee sex that isn’t enjoyable for the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:22 PM
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This is cope. Rp males aren’t referring to a 10yr difference when they reference age gap relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:21 PM
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More than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:20 PM
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women don’t come full circle on both sides of what they’re doing What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:20 PM
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This is most men. After talking with many Ive honestly just come to the conclusion they’re not really capable of truly appreciating women as people. There may be a few rare individuals who do. But it’s not common.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:17 PM
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Yes. Sex work is exploitative. Oral sex is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:15 PM
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That sub is modded by males. So you manipulative fucks can quit pointing to it as a source for “feminist” answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:01 PM
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A lot of gen z women are opting out of dating entirely because most men aren’t good relationship prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:00 PM
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This is beyond delusional. Women and girls are taught from birth that we’re defective and inferior to men. Social media literally reinforces this. Men following women on social media that they want to screw doesn’t disprove this point. Men wanting to fuck you doesn’t mean they respect you either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:57 PM
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You’re not listening to anything I said. Women don’t go 50/50 because WHAT MALES CONCEPTUALIZE AS 50/50 IS NOT ACTUALLY 50/50. Read what the fuck I said before you reply to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:54 PM
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There’s numerous other examples I can point to. But as usual men are never the problem to any of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:32 AM
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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14210781/rape-chat-groups-sisters-mothers-advice-uncovered.html I literally replied to you earlier with a link and you didn’t respond. You all just want to ignore the problem because it’s inconvenient to your “wahmen just as bad” narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:19 AM
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Women saying mean words is equivalent to a terrorist group that bombs girls schools? You’re deranged and evil frankly. Again let me know when the radfems start taking away the basic human rights of males and selling male children off as sex slaves. Hasn’t happened. Never will. ETA: Blocking or deleting your account after you made the audacious claim that women distrusting men is equivalent to a literal terrorist group hellbent on destroying women as people is cowardly as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:02 AM
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Women practicing discernment to protect ourselves from male violence in a world that blames us for male behavior isn’t misandry. You can die mad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:00 AM
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I don’t know the facts of the case Of course not. Because contrary to your delusions, society as a whole doesn’t care about women’s issues and never has. there’s no evidence to show they were rapists So you’re defending men who literally created a chat for the purpose of giving each other rape tips. Thanks for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:59 AM
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The fact the chat exists clearly doesn’t bother you that much because you think it’s melodramatic for me to bring it up. It’s not irrelevant at all, it’s directly related. you’re saying the same thing over and over Yes. Because males can’t get it through their thick skulls that women saying mean words isn’t equivalent to men brutalizing women and girls. It needs to be repeated because you continue making this false comparison in the first place. You haven’t debunked a single thing I said. And no…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:57 AM
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you’re misandrist reee I’m not beating or raping men. Try again. for their lack of empathy and over representation of their own issues Idc what delusional men criticize radical feminists for. Men mocked feminism before we even had the right to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:52 AM
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Define radical feminism. Because nearly every man who makes idiotic comments like these is incapable of correctly doing so. You think feminism is just women speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:15 AM
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That misandry doesn’t and won’t exist as a real problem unless and until women are actually treating you the way you treat us. Which btw, isn’t happening. There is no female equivalent to the taliban nor the american far right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:14 AM
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The case in germany alone found 70,000. This entire screed is cope because you can’t stand the fact males are inherently untrustworthy due to their violent and sexually predacious behavior. Notify me when women are creating entire religions with the purpose of brutalizing the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:12 AM
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Again. Quit being melodramatic. Let me know when women are mass raping men or creating chat rooms to share rape tips with each other. You know, like males are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:10 AM
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the definition I’m referring to is non legal Which therefore means virtually nothing beyond stats aren’t accurately reported. Doesn’t substantiate the idiotic claim that rape is an equally distributed crime among both sexes. I read the info on that website. Nowhere did it say penetration. Either provide a screenshot or I’m going to conclude you’re making it up. ETA: I went back and reread. It literally includes “contact” which doesn’t specify penetration. So again, you’re wrong. It does in fact …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:17 AM
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Not applicable. As usual men on this sub can’t structure a factual argument and resort to making shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:15 AM
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No, objective fact. You’re whining because women say things you don’t like. That’s all misandry amounts to. It’s not a real problem. Again let me know when women are brutalizing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:11 AM
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The fbi literally relies on US law. There is nothing in US law that defines rape by penetration. The CDC isn’t using stats from the department of justice, if they are excluding rape victims who weren’t penetrated. What are you not grasping? You made a false claim that US law requires penetration to categorize rape. It doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:10 AM
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You’re proving my point. Males lack empathy and don’t comprehend what sex based hatred even looks like. You live in a world that despises women and girls because of our sex, that created entire religious systems to oppress us, but delude yourselves into believing you’re the ones hated on the basis of sex. It’s pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:02 AM
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It’s not misinformation. I literally gave you a link. https://www.law.cornell.edu/uscode/text/10/920 Cornell is more reliable of a website than wikipedia. Thx. Quit pushing mra lies as fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:00 AM
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For the three hundredth time. Rape isn’t defined by penetration under US law.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:51 AM
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Because many people desire to believe they’re a part of something much larger. It’s comforting for many to believe in something beyond just yourself and the physical world. Women probably gravitate to new age religious beliefs more because they’re generally less patriarchal. this isn’t like listening to a muslim street preacher Why not? What’s the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:44 AM
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That’s a very disingenuous interpretation of what he’s stating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:42 AM
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I don’t think that necessarily holds true across the board. Getting into a relationship won’t automatically fix loneliness. For some people I think this is just their default state of being. There’s a level of loneliness I’ve always felt. I think whether or not it’s possible to remedy depends entirely on why you feel alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:41 AM
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Men raping women and girls is whataboutism? Thank you for proving my point. You have zero comprehension of what sex based hatred even looks like. Let me know when women are creating entire religions to oppress and sexually abuse men & boys. Or when women are demanding that men’s right to vote be taken away.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:31 AM
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switching between democracy & dictatorships What the fuck are you even talking about? I’ve already provided a link that disproves your false claim that victims of non penetrative rape are excluded from how rape is defined in US law. There is no stipulation that the victim must be penetrated for it to be categorized as rape. You were wrong and frankly at this point you’re just lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:27 AM
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What relevance does this have? We’re discussing rape. The fact of the matter is US law doesn’t exclude victims of rape who weren’t penetrated. I literally gave you a link stating how US law describes rape. You were wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:25 AM
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Radical feminism isn’t conservative. Our criticism of gender identity as a concept, pornography, and surrogacy isn’t rooted in conservative beliefs. It’s rooted in an entirely different premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:23 AM
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I didn’t “slip in” anything. Where are women congregating and promoting the abuse of males? Oh right. Doesn’t happen. Meanwhile males: https://www.telegraph.co.uk/world-news/2024/12/19/telegram-rape-chat-groups-germany-investigation-70000-world/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:26 AM
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You’re literally lying about how rape is defined in the US. It’s not defined by penetration at all. https://www.law.cornell.edu/uscode/text/10/920
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:25 AM
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Male depravity ex 30,470. Saving this for when the brigade of jar openers claim to be the altruistic sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 11:25 PM
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Generalizations can be based off fact. You’re being obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 11:19 PM
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Radical feminism is explicitly for women. Why is it that every other demographic is allowed to center themselves in their own movements except women? I didn’t say it was aimed at women. I was describing ops perspective. There is no “understanding of male preferences” that women ‘need’. We understand male preferences because they’re obnoxiously shoved in our face 24/7 from birth till death. We get it. You think women should center our existence around what you find fuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 11:18 PM
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a woman needs to penetrate a man to rape him Rape literally isn’t defined this way under US law. https://www.law.cornell.edu/uscode/text/10/920
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 11:14 PM
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The law in every place on earth doesn’t define rape this way. There are only a few places where rape is legally defined this way. It is men who defined sex and rape by extension by penetration. You don’t get to blame women. Rape stats don’t stop having predominantly male perpetrators in places where rape isn’t defined by penetration so this is entirely irrelevant. Men are and always have been the majority of rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 11:13 PM
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No. You’re simply incorrect. Women’s spaces barely exist due to mens constant intrusion. And no female oriented space exists where women talk about sexually abusing men. This literally doesn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 11:12 PM
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Women are people and people make decisions against their best interests all the time. This is an observable reality and shouldn’t be controversial. I’ve never shot up a school or killed people for rejecting me neither have any actual radfems. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 11:10 PM
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So you’re claiming that all generalizations are false?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 11:07 PM
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There are hardly any spaces for women to begin with due to males perpetually invading any space we make for ourselves. The idea there’s a space for women that promotes the abuse of males is an outright lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:17 PM
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To their own detriment you mean. There is zero female benefit in rp. Just like there’s no female benefit to be found in religion, and there’s no female benefit coming from republicans. Twox is also a sub modded by men so you males can quit claiming it’s an uber feminist space.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:16 PM
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I’m thoroughly convinced most men simply want women to settle for a lifetime of unhappyness because “well at least you’d be married” 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:13 PM
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I don’t know why you’re talking about this as if it’s surprising to you. Redpill is misogynistic. It’s entirely centered around “how can men abuse women more and get away with it”. Looking to rp for advice as a woman is like looking to patriarchal religions or the porn industry for advice as a woman. These sources don’t value your existence. Why would you bother taking any advice from them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:12 PM
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You’re completely ignoring anything she said. The entire point of ops post was that redpill is sexist towards women and offers nothing of value to them. It’s the same ‘advice’ we’ve had shoved down our throats from infancy about how we should center our entire existence around male whims.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:09 PM
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Yes, it does. If a significant amount of men participate in those things, you can’t reasonably claim that says nothing about men as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:06 PM
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I’m so sick of hearing this “not all men” commentary. It adds nothing to the conversation. It’s just a way to silence women when we say things men don’t like. I already addressed why few women go 50/50. And it’s entirely because what men conceptualize as 50/50 isn’t 50/50. They want the bills split but still expect her to do all the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:05 PM
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Majority is a generalization. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:03 PM
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Incorrect. And also not relevant to the point. The point is men don’t want a partnership. They want a bangmaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:18 PM
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Cdc That’s a US org. Nothing in US law makes rape impossible for women to be charged. Second of all, it is MEN who defined sex and by extension rape by penetration. You don’t get to blame women for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:17 PM
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No. Women want relationships with individuals who actually appreciate and value them as people. Which is clearly impossible with males.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:15 PM
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plenty of couples don’t have the males paying the majority so idk what you’re on about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:15 PM
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We’re not talking about the nonsensical concept of gender identity. We’re talking about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:14 PM
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It’s not “whataboutism”. And the fact so many males feel entitled to disregard the rampant sexual abuse of women and girls with that phrase proves my exact fucking point. You don’t know what it’s like to actually be hated because of your sex and you never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:13 PM
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They’re men. You don’t get to claim their behaviors aren’t reflective of men as a whole when a significant portion of them do this. You don’t get to define misogyny as irrelevant and then lecture me about “downplaying the issues of others”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:12 PM
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It’s reflective of the majority of males.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:11 PM
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It’s not “whataboutism”. It’s a relevant point. Men love to pretend misandry is a real issue, meanwhile it’s men who are raping the opposite sex in mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:10 PM
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https://www.telegraph.co.uk/world-news/2024/12/19/telegram-rape-chat-groups-germany-investigation-70000-world/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:09 PM
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Contributing doesn’t mean you’re paying the bills entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:08 PM
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Separatism is about more than just being unmarried. It’s about opting out of dating men entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:00 AM
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What struggles of men? And why are women expected to give out energy that isn’t reciprocated?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:54 PM
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I don’t think this is particularly relevant. Majority of women aren’t going to opt for separatism because it’s seen as an extremist stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:51 PM
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They think all the vile things they say about women are perfectly fine and if we’re offended, we’re simply too sensitive. But if you point out men’s crime stats or how much they truly despise us, it’s a problem and you’re an evil misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:09 PM
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Women aren’t responsible for nearly all sex crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:07 PM
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Males expect women to cater to them 24/7 because we’re socialized to and because pickme women continue to. So when women actually advocate for ourselves it’s ‘misandry’.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:07 PM
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misandry! Yeah, sure, notify me when women are raping men in mass and when women create chat rooms to share rape tips with each other so they can assault the men in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:05 PM
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The fact of the matter is most men simply want someone they can extract sex and household labor from. They don’t want a partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:03 PM
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claim that most women want an equal partner while most men are looking for bangmaids Yes? That’s the objective truth. Men don’t want a partnership with women. They want to lord over women. They lament on their podcasts about how they don’t care about anything that makes women individuals. very few women are willing to go half financially This is literally because what men conceptualize as 50/50 isn’t actually 50/50. Every single male who claims he wants to split finances, still expects the woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:02 PM
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Males love to complain about narcissistic women like this but the fact remains that these are the women they choose to date. They have no empathy for women abused by men, so why should we give them a response beyond “choose better”?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:56 PM
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The “core message” is that women exist for you to abuse and then discard. You grew into an adult who blames all women for your mother’s failure to protect you from your stepfather. You can’t logically consider that a success.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:55 PM
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Why should women change to cater to men’s whims? This is antithetical to reality. Women spend our entire lives being discouraged from entire hobbies and career fields because “men don’t like women like that”. Everyone expects women to center our existence around the desires, and sensibilities of males. Women aren’t loved for who we are and we never have been throughout the entire history of human civilization. Women are ‘loved’ exclusively for how much we sacrifice for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:52 PM
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Ugly men cheat all the time because they’re audacious. What are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:11 AM
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Most men don’t care about women’s interests or hobbies. They’ve said so repeatedly. So this spiel he’s doing about “women just need to be normal people, it’s so easy” is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:07 AM
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I’m not talking about shallow displays of appreciation like gifts. I’m talking about actually valuing someone’s opinion or respecting what they think. Men don’t demonstrate this behavior towards women. It’s not an opinion, it’s a readily observable reality that most women are male centered. And the fact men react in this manner to criticism proves my point. You assume, falsely, that I must hate men because I don’t pretend they’re perfect. It’s not about having a say in what’s already happened. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:09 PM
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Yes, it does. I’m not doing this post modern nonsense with you. Words mean things. Appreciation has an objective definition. Respect has an objective definition. You can’t observe the behavior of males and then argue in good faith that most appreciate or respect women. Again this makes zero sense. There is no “they appreciate you in their own way”. Appreciation is something for the other person. It’s not a self serving display of emotion. I don’t have “heroes”. I don’t idolize people in that man…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:49 PM
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They have emotional meltdowns every time they’re criticized. But we’re supposed to believe they’re the ‘logical’ sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:58 PM
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What do you mean artificially defining appreciation? Appreciation has an objective definition. From what I’ve observed, majority of men don’t appreciate women for anything beyond appearance. Respect also has an objective definition. But even if it weren’t, if the person you’re supposedly appreciating doesn’t feel it then it may as well not be real. “women do this all the time” No, they don’t. Most women never decenter men and for nearly all women, at least half of their idols are male. It does m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:57 PM
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No. Because this is a general trend that is observable. Men aren’t the ones expected to remove all of their body hair. Men aren’t the ones giving billions per year to a cosmetic industry that preys upon their insecurities. And men most certainly aren’t the ones who feel the need to virtually obliterate their natural features via plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:30 PM
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The vast majority of sex crimes are perpetrated against women and girls. The exact percentage may have changed over the years, but it’s an mra lie that men are the majority of sex crime victims. They aren’t and never have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:28 PM
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Delusional according to who? Important women were erased. That’s a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:19 PM
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Two x is modded by and has heavy participation from males. They aren’t an actual feminist sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:19 PM
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I’m not going to address anything you say and instead I’m going to try to dictate how and what you speak about
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:38 PM
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over 90% of sex crimes are committed against women and girls 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:37 PM
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What I mean by instagram isn’t literally instagram, I mean the “basic” women men claim to find boring. By weird or unusual I mean women with hobbies or interests that veer away from the norm. Like women who like bug pinning or women interested in tarantulas.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:26 PM
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Men say this but then you see a pattern of most men going for the “sad beige” instagram type girls. Men don’t really like weird or unusual women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:04 PM
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No. I posted a quote that in my opinion accurately describes men and you’re having an emotional meltdown.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:51 AM
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Making an observation that men have little appreciation for women isn’t disparaging men. Telling the truth about men isn’t disparaging
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:41 AM
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It’s not about can’t. What Frye was observing was that men have little appreciation for women as people. You’re not understanding her point in saying it nor mine in quoting it. vast majority of historical figures of note are men This isn’t entirely true. Men erased notable women from history for the modern man to claim those women never existed in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:39 AM
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I don’t really agree with the idea that he’s supposed to intuit how she’s feeling. I think women should be more direct.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:36 AM
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Not sex crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:34 AM
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The woman is likely already putting in more effort. Why should she have to pay on top of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:34 AM
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This is true, I have been told this by people who know me. So I guess maybe that’s the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:21 AM
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It’s an established pattern if you notice what women say.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:21 AM
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It’s more so the latter. I have difficulty with emotional regulation so irl I’m often not very emotional at all, while on online communities I lean the other way towards being reactive. But people often attach a subtext to things I say that I didn’t intend
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:57 AM
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I placed the quote there because I feel it accurately describes men. I don’t owe anyone an apology for that nor does it mean I hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:42 AM
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Men expect women to tolerate sex we don’t enjoy. So why is it okay for only men to expect a benefit?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:41 AM
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It’s hard to explain. I feel I’m misunderstood on a very fundamental level. Like when I communicate something people will invent a subtext that wasn’t there or interpret something radically different from what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:40 AM
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I just find it hard to believe that most men have an appreciation for women. I don’t see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:37 AM
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The original quote wasn’t even written by me. You’re being emotional and irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:36 AM
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I don’t hate men. Again this is showing your own bias. I never said any of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:24 AM
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When did I say anything about you being male wrong? Oh right. I didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:03 AM
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Tesla, chomsky, pierre curie, a few others
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:02 AM
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I don’t view only women as having anything valuable to contribute. This is the problem with men. They have no appreciation for women beyond our bodies. The ‘love’ they have for us is often hollow, surface level.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:58 AM
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No that doesn’t include sex crimes. Men aren’t more likely to be the victims of sex crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:57 AM
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What are you even talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:55 AM
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How is it nonsense? This is observable. Majority of men don’t really love women. They love sex with women. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:55 AM
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It’s a quote from marilyn frye. One that I find to be fairly accurate. Men have a greater love for other men than they ever will for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:54 AM
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To say that straight men are heterosexual is only to say that they engage in sex (fucking exclusively with the other sex, i.e., women). All or almost all of that which pertains to love, most straight men reserve exclusively for other men. The people whom they admire, respect, adore, revere, honor, whom they imitate, idolize, and form profound attachments to, whom they are willing to teach and from whom they are willing to learn, and whose respect, admiration, recognition, honor, reverence and lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:42 PM
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As always men ignore the fact that women are targeted more often for sex crimes 💀 Men aren’t more likely to be sexually assaulted than women. Quit using violent crime as a vague phrase to obfuscate the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:41 PM
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No. You’re not saying you want her to show some effort. You’re saying you want her to settle for you showing none.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:37 PM
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If we’re “strangers” then my time is being wasted and there was zero purpose of even meeting. Why is it okay for men to be concerned with their benefit in relationships but it’s a problem when women look for our own benefit?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:36 PM
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You state or would you care that the women being criticized are woke man haters Clearly this was meant to refer to one of the women you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:34 PM
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what exactly makes them unhinged?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:32 PM
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It’s complicated. I want to build relationships with other people. It’s just I’ve always felt misunderstood by others. When I try to connect with other people it just seems like I’m always being interpreted wrong. I use online spaces as an outlet but I’m not exactly understood there either
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 11:31 PM
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You’re proving the point in this very comment. You automatically characterize feminists as unhinged 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 09:55 PM
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Men are disproportionately more likely to commit violent crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 09:54 PM
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The fact you characterize kamala harris as a “woke man hater” tells me none of this is valid criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 09:54 PM
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I’ve always struggled socially so my experience isn’t necessarily representative of my generational average. But my “social life” is pretty much entirely online.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 09:51 PM
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You’re a redpill scrote and you’re malding about gender roles? Please 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 09:49 PM
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Why should women go on dates with a man who clearly isn’t genuinely interested? This just seems like men maliciously wasting women’s time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 09:48 PM
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If I’m a “stranger” then it’s not a date and he’s wasting my time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 09:45 PM
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This isn’t necessarily true. It’s ignoring the fact men view other men’s opinions as having more value than women’s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:56 AM
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No it doesn’t. You’re factually wrong. It’s also irrelevant that razor sales stayed the same because: - most women live with partners OR family - people are creatures of habit, if you’re used to shaving you’ll continue to do so - prior socialization doesn’t cease to exist just because you’re temporarily isolated
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:53 AM
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I can tell you as a single woman during covid, no I didn’t shave. And no, shaving has nothing to do with hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:53 AM
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That isn’t related to hygiene at all. Men also sweat more and are harrier. So you comparing your experience is irrelevant. why feminists pretend men don’t shave armpits The vast majority of male homo sapiens don’t shave anything other than their facial hair, IF that. that’s the reason women shave as well, hygiene I have never once been shaving my legs while experiencing spasms, cutting myself accidentally constantly, and thought “this is so much more hygienic” Women still shaved during covid bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:35 PM
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It is illogical. Men are untrustworthy people. Why would someone ever want to depend on one?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:46 PM
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I’m not using anyone, that’s what men do 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:45 PM
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What you said didn’t warrant an actual response. It’s stupid and illogical to believe that women want to be dependent. No one wants to be dependent. It’s extremely limiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:53 PM
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delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:47 PM
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Why should women be dependent on some random man to provide us with basic necessities? You just want women stuck in abusive situations with no way to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:16 PM
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Who said that? I’m saying they generally want dependent women with no opinions of their own. Despite the fact that none of them would be women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:15 PM
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Why should women provide for men? Y’all bring nothing of value to relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:50 PM
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