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| 12 | Girl says I talk to her like she's one of the guys not like she's a girl? | Outer Game | False-Reality-8607 | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 12:33 AM |
| 8 | How to kill the fear of seeming too needy in a girl so she is more comfortable with initiating? | Outer Game | False-Reality-8607 | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 07:37 PM |
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| 1 | Girl says I talk to her like she's one of the guys not like she's a girl?Any tips on doing that? Flirt more perhaps ? Make sexual innuendos? What Masculine traits are we talking about exactly? | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Girl says I talk to her like she's one of the guys not like she's a girl?Thanks mate , also one last thing, I have this intense fear of coming off as too eager/needy , what is the best way do you recommend that I keep things positive and flirty without making her think she already has me , that she doesn't have to work for it? And is it okay to chase in the beginning of getting to know someone? Being the only person to initiate? | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Girl says I talk to her like she's one of the guys not like she's a girl?That's what I have trouble with, how would you recommend I make her feel desired without coming off as needy? My biggest issue is my intense fear of coming on too strong, showing too much desire , making her feel like she didn't have to work for my attention, as if I'm like any other dude , which is why I resort to pure teasing . | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Girl says I talk to her like she's one of the guys not like she's a girl?Thanks for the reply man , so far I've maintained my dignity I guess, fucked a bit here and there but nothing big enough to cause her to skedaddle (hopefully), mind elaborating on the last bit ? Giving her a path to me validating her? Some examples would be helpful aswell. | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Girl says I talk to her like she's one of the guys not like she's a girl?Wish someone told me that earlier, what do you recommend I do for the other parts of talking, in my mind teasing and banter (though a bit harsh) is how I keep it man to woman I guess, what else do you recommend I do for the rest of the talking to keep it interesting? Flirt? Ask her personal questions? | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Girl says I talk to her like she's one of the guys not like she's a girl?I'm from the Middle East, and women are very conservative here , I've been talking to her online mostly and have seen her a couple of times, I asked to see her one time over a phone call , didn't mention any place in specific, she said that I should let her know so she "prepares things" over at the house meaning talk to her family about it , and also that she'll go out when there's peace between us because she feels like we're in a rivalry always attacking each other (banter), I got pretty busy … | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 12:57 AM |
| 1 | How to kill the fear of seeming too needy in a girl so she is more comfortable with initiating?I show my interest by taking them out on dates and being interested in getting to know them , what more can I do ? Maybe I'm missing something. | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 11:29 AM |
| 1 | How to kill the fear of seeming too needy in a girl so she is more comfortable with initiating?How can I do that? | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 10:46 AM |
| 1 | How to kill the fear of seeming too needy in a girl so she is more comfortable with initiating?How often do you suggest I should text them? Would that be enough to encourage them to initiate aswell? And how do I balance that out without over investing and not seeming needy ? | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 08:27 AM |
| 1 | How to kill the fear of seeming too needy in a girl so she is more comfortable with initiating?If what you're saying is true that would be extremely confusing, because they flirt, show interest, they always make themselves available for dates , they respond quickly with long paragraphs... | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 07:49 AM |
| 4 | How to kill the fear of seeming too needy in a girl so she is more comfortable with initiating?Why? I initiate texts/dates ? Is it a problem to want some reciprocation? At least for texts so I feel that I'm also on their mind throughout the week? Isn't this supposed to be a 2 way thing? | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 12:32 AM |
| 2 | How to kill the fear of seeming too needy in a girl so she is more comfortable with initiating?But I'm not asking for them to invest more, just invest equally, why can't they send me a message once a week or two as well in order to initiate a convo? I don't expect them to do more than me | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 10:04 PM |
| 1 | How to kill the fear of seeming too needy in a girl so she is more comfortable with initiating?You might be right, but what I've noticed is they generally carry most of the conversation, all I have to do is just initiate with the most trivial thing, could be a simple Hi and they do all the work, and go on dates etc... but I feel there's still this Barrier that prevents them from being comfortable enough to make contact, I can't for the life of me see that it's not a problem with my game as opposed to the girls being the type that don't take initiative. | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Ghosted her for a day then she does this. How do I respond?She's what you'd call "wife material" , and it's rare to come across one of those , and I don't want to lose her. Maybe it's over idealizing her. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Ghosted her for a day then she does this. How do I respond?Do you suggest I just call her instead of trying to set up a specific time to do so ? Because a few times she's told me to give her a call at a certain time which I agree with but it doesn't end up happening because I get a last minute emergency or invitation to go somewhere and have to cancel with her, after those occurrences everytime I try to set up a call myself she'd flake or not respond when I hit her up to have a call. My time has been extremely hectic, and setting something up then not s… | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Ghosted her for a day then she does this. How do I respond?My hunch is she might think I'm playing games because she can see my online status/last seen , and I do appear online frequently throughout the day to give a quick response patients who message me (I'm a doctor) , but I don't even open her message until after 10 am because I want to have an actual conversation with her. Women are confusing, also I'm very inconsistent with my time, sometimes I go for weeks without messaging her. I can't decide on whether I'm the problem or she's simply not intere… | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Ghosted her for a day then she does this. How do I respond?In my situation I'm legitimately busy throughout the entire day and when this girl texts me I don't have time to get into a covo so I just wait till 10AM which is when I have my free time and can have a good conversation, this has backfired, now she gets flakey when I try to set up a call etc ... What do you recommend I do in this case? | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Ghosted her for a day then she does this. How do I respond?How can one find that sweet spot ? You recommend an amount to text? And average time to respond etc? | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Ghosted her for a day then she does this. How do I respond?Sound advice | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Ghosted her for a day then she does this. How do I respond?For real ? The thing is how do you find that sweet spot between being too available/needy and being too unavailable/gamy? | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 08:59 AM |
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