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This has happened to all of us. Welcome to the team!
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/24 01:57 AM
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He said he was just being naughty for the time being and couldn’t go any further. Even that girl said he was not very much interested in sexual talk and there were just some moments he got into it.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/24 04:15 PM
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Ive talked to that girl about all specific details. I know I shouldn’t have but I couldn’t control myself. She gave me proofs. Actually she was angry at him too because he lied to her that hes married. So I think it was not more than that
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/24 05:54 AM
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Sorry I couldn’t understand what you meant?
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/24 04:53 AM
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He asked her to send braless pictures and she sent them. And he said he once/twice dropped her to another hospital.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/24 03:18 AM
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No. He addressed his daughter because he said he loved her the most but he said I can show it to anyone. And he said in it that he wont make any hurdles in divorce process if it happens again. He admitted to every detail and incident that has happened in the past. But like I said it doesnt matter to me anymore for now and he is doing it out of fear. He promised on 21st of September that its a fling and he wont do it again. He was crying like a baby sitting in my feet. He said he doesnt want to l…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 05:58 PM
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Yes Ive tortured myself enough by digging in it and knowing the details. My heart is heavy everytime. I dont have time to sit or lie all day crying. Ive a job. A daughter. My inlaws family I live with. I dont have time to grieve. I get teary eye while operating. Talking to people and all. He has made a video addressing his daughter that he’s done all this and if he ever does it I can show it to everyone including his daughter. Sometimes Im fine. Than its so heavy mostly. Im navigating through it…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 06:31 AM
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Yes. Thats why Ive forgiven him again. Or I think I had no other option than to do this. Hes made a video for me addressing our daughter whom he loves so much. Hes admitted to every cheating and hurt hes caused me. And promises he will do anything Ill ask him including divorce. And I can show this video to anyone including my daughter. And will face consequences.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/24 07:32 AM
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No not at all. So difficult. I told in my post. Ive a daughter. Ive a tough residency and his family supports me alot. My own family is so much dysfunctional and he’s supported me in every matter otherwise.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/24 07:30 AM
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He says those women were in difficult situations and needed financial help for their families. I’m not against him helping others—I’m not a bad person for wanting him to stop. My issue is with why he hides it. He says he hides it so I don’t overreact, but this isn’t the first time it’s happened. Even outside of these women, he often sends money to people, and even his family is uncomfortable with it. The real problem is that he never shares this with me beforehand and then assumes I’ll overreact…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/24 09:21 AM
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He says those women were in difficult situations and needed financial help for their families. I’m not against him helping others—I’m not a bad person for wanting him to stop. My issue is with why he hides it. He says he hides it so I don’t overreact, but this isn’t the first time it’s happened. Even outside of these women, he often sends money to people, and even his family is uncomfortable with it. The real problem is that he never shares this with me beforehand and then assumes I’ll overreact…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/24 09:21 AM
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Ive proofs of his account statements.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/24 09:16 AM
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Thank you for your thoughtful comment. I really appreciate the perspective, and it’s helping me look at things in a different way. You’re absolutely right—cheating is something that’s defined between partners, based on their boundaries and what they’ve agreed on. My husband and I have always had open conversations about transparency, which is why it hurts when I find these secretive conversations and actions that cross the boundaries we’ve set. It’s not just about the fact that he’s talking to o…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/24 09:13 AM
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I really want to work on controlling my tendency to overreact. In the heat of the moment, I forget everything, and then later, I regret it. This time, he literally cried in my lap, and we both broke down. He was genuinely sorry. Every time, I struggle to accept that the man I love could be attracted to other women, even though I know I’m his favorite. Now that things have calmed down, and I’m reading all of your comments, it’s starting to make sense. Thank you so much for the perspective. I want…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/24 09:10 AM
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Thank you. I’ll definitely consider this next time.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/24 09:03 AM
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I might overreact. This time he admitted it was like a fling but “he was in his limits” she was trying to be “frank”. He said whenever he used to come on weekends he’d feel guilty deep inside though “he would only talk to her every 2,3 days”
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/24 06:40 PM
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I just feel betrayed. Everything he said to me the way he loved me in these 4 weeks. I feel so low. Like I wasn’t enough. He swears they’re not at all romantic. Then why. We had talked about it so many times. I said you’re weak about paramedical staff and nurses this doesn’t even perceived well in other doctors colleagues so you much be careful. Yet he slipped. He’s told me all his passwords and says you can have any kind if surveillance from now on. But I feel like nothing matters.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/24 09:26 PM
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He never crossed the line with inappropriate talk or actions, but he seems to enjoy getting to know other women’s personal lives and the attention they give him and I know that because by the context of the bits of conversations Ive read of him with them. He started talking to a lady health worker in the begging of our marriage 2.5 years ago after helping her with something, and it became a constant thing. When he came home, he would delete their chats (we’ve always agreed to be open with each o…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/24 09:16 PM
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Yes exactly
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/24 06:31 AM
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I have a daughter. You name it and hes supportive of every little thing. I think im just in denial. Im no special who cant get cheated on
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/24 05:18 AM
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How are you implying and assuming that sharia law has anything to do with hymen?
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/23 07:14 AM
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IMO you should go for it. Female body is primarily designed to procreate, and your guts telling you to go for it is right. I've conceived at 29, and believe that if I can go back, I would've gone for it much earlier. The logic mind tells fades away with time!
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/23 04:46 PM
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Is you SO supportive of this decision?
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/23 04:05 PM
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Hi, I'm very bad at giving advice usually. But 1 thing I can assure you. Those who really see this act as a sin and addiction genuinely get benefit from marriage. I'm not saying 100% of the times but most of the time. I'm turning 30, got married at 28, and I've struggled with this addiction since, like 26 yo. And guess what, we have arranged marriage. I just talked to him once before my marriage. When I got married, sex was still new to me because I was a virgin. But since I love my husband and …
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/23 01:27 PM
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Thank you! I used to get pretty annoyed, and it always led to a fight, where he'd be apologetic in the beginning and then frustrated and angry at me. Now, I've changed myself from being disrespectfully loud and nagging to being quiet and slowly expressing my feelings. Which he takes really well. Yesterday, he called me twice from downstairs, and that he's coming and didn't come, and then came to get ready for a friend's wedding (which he begged me before to let him go without any drama and I agr…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/23 10:32 AM
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Hey! You have amazing advice, especially talking about some controlling ways. I'm overl all very happy with my husband, we've been married for more than 1 year and he comes on weekends only, and sometimes for more days. And I live with my inlaws. They're great. I want to know how much of the expectations is "ton" of expectation in my case? Like when he spends too much of his time downstairs and has come for just 1 and a half days, I become irritated and angry. Or sometimes when he comes with his…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/23 06:27 PM
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I get it now. Thank you. And I'll give this book a read. But it just happened again. My husband has come for a week, for the first time in my marriage ( he comes on weekends, we both are doctors) Today I was in hospital he had some work in different departments, I asked him, if he got free early, he could come to me and we could have lunch together, but he got more busy, and I had work in ward too. And I asked him to go home and that I'll come in the afternoon. When I reached home, he greeted me…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/23 05:50 PM
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I needed to hear this. I become irritated and frustrated every time I feel like he's neglected something even insignificant. I become resentful, and it brings tension in our relationship. I feel regret immediately after. It's been a whole year. I just can't become compassionate. I tell myself again and again, and then I slip again. I think I should be journalising about it, too. May be it'll help. And any advice would be appreciated. Because in the post, op has realised her mistake immediately. …
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/23 05:56 AM
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Thank you I get it.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/23 06:12 AM
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Now I'm fearful? This fight has really affected us hard. Do you think he'll have resentment about it? I didn't do it in a demeaning way. But I'm hurt, too. I'm just hoping this passes soon and we remain friends like forever.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/23 06:10 AM
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So glad to hear that. Hopefully, I'll be a supportive wife, too, by considering and implementing these pieces of advice and learning from the experiences I'm reading here.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/23 06:08 AM
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This is the best piece of advice. I can't thank you enough. Every word touched my heart. You've got so much wisdom, and I wish you the best and lots of love❤️ And this was hopeful. I'll definitely try not to be nosy. I now realise that if I think he isn't acting maturely, then I did the same in other way. And I'll work on myself. It was the first big fight in 14 months. And my heart is still sad. His too. He's gone now for the week. We spent a good last night together. I'll be in a better positi…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/23 06:06 AM
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Hey! I just saw your profile. You're so pretty. You just have to have confidence in yourself. You're too young to lose hope for love. When I was 18, not only did I feel exactly like you, but I didn't even know that it was all necessary, lol. Because I belong to a religious family, I went to all girls' school, and now, when I look back, it helped me a lot then, than to get depressed not being upto the standards/trends at that time. I've been loved a lot in my mid-20s, in terms of different potent…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/23 12:39 PM
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Thank you for understanding and giving me a great solution!!!
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/23 07:51 PM
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Thank you for this sweet response. I'm definitely going to do it for him this weekend ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/23 06:23 PM
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I agree
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/23 06:47 PM
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I never knew this community. It made me nauseous.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 08:50 AM
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Oooofff!!! What else can be said!
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 08:44 AM
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I'd rather not make any other account to access such communities, who pretend to be so accepting of everything "off anyone's chest" but is actually bigoted!
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 08:43 AM
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Beautiful advice for everyone! ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/23 01:47 PM
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