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You got this! I just beat my ex false allegations in a two day trial stay positive and stoic
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/26 07:46 PM
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Thank you brother! I won full sole legal and physical custody today against all odds. It was a battlefield her whole case was based on lies and emotions. Justice was served for all of the Fathers out there nothing is impossible
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/26 12:55 AM
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Congratulations brother! I have my 2 day trial tomorrow going in for the same thing wish me luck any advice would be appreciated
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/26 04:34 AM
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When you hit rock bottom or become useless to her you will see how fast she will replace you it's sad.
/r/MensRights02/04/26 08:01 PM
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Every time I find a woman I want to love forever my mindset has always been "us against the world" and the involuntary bitter end always falls victim to the brutal reality that it was always "her against me". My grandmother told me at age 85 that when a woman gets bored with you and eventually she will and finds a younger richer more better looking guy your marriage is over it's inevitable unfortunately this rang true for me for my whole life.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/26 04:48 PM
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Spot on!
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/26 04:23 PM
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The feeling is mutual. It's a hopeless investment
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/26 04:20 PM
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Same exact situation here my wife of 14 years said she doesn't love me anymore that she is not happy in our relationship and she doesn't need another man in her life she will stay single forever and will be happy alone fast forward a couple of months she moved in a new guy to her place the irony.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/26 09:00 PM
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For your own sanity you need to tell yourself it was never going to work out no matter what or she would of tried harder to make the marriage work give yourself some grace don't stay stuck ruminating with the what ifs it won't help your situation so try to stop by telling yourself it's your fault. No regrets brother keep your head up we all been there try to stay strong
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/26 09:04 PM
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I'm in the same boat 8 months out I'm happy to hear you made it out the other side brother hang in there. Peace is priceless I'm learning to embrace the solitude and being free of drama. I hope she didn't rake you across the coals in court, it doesn't seem right that women can leave their loving husband to find her so called happiness outside her marriage and get rewarded for it.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/26 01:58 AM
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I'm in this exact situation minus the move away how did it turn out?
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/26 05:57 PM
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Sorry that you're going through this I would invest in a recording device and start recording your conversations with her whatever you do don't lose your temper or cool. In one of these conversations you can give her an ultimatum to stop the gaming and prioritize you and the family if she refuses you can have another conversation on divorce and if she says anything that would be illegal at least you have it documented for the family court and your own sanity. I would see if she is at all willing…
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/26 08:07 PM
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Damn same thing happened to me. Yes indeed forgiveness is definitely for yourself and holding on to resentment for her wrongdoings poison your mind it's a battle for sure thanks for sharing
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/26 06:14 PM
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Yikes what a nightmare man how in hell do you cope?
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/26 06:10 PM
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Sorry brother I'm in the thick of it too silver bullet and all 6 months out after a 14 year marriage. I feel for everyone in here we're all in the same boat the pain is overwhelming at times I know. What helps me is journaling I know it sounds soft but writing down all the things your ex did to you that you disliked and at times made you crazy it helps calm your nerves to let it out on paper is getting it off your chest and to re-read it will show you you're way better off without her. I have co…
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/26 06:09 PM
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Why does he like to torture himself just enjoy the silence 😂🤣😂🤣😂
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 01:40 AM
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She got with the next guy it's his problem now it's all fine and dandy until she reveals her true self God help him!
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 01:38 AM
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So you know exactly what I'm went through seems like a disease of the mind no matter how hard you try to teach gratitude you will never get your point across. I feel for you it's no way to live I wish you peace ✌️
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 01:36 AM
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My ex wife could never stop complaining guys if it was a beautiful day sun shining birds chirping she would be complaining how loud the birds were chirping. I feel like once a woman is stuck in complaining mode it's like she can never go back to just be at peace and appreciative of what she has it always has to be something. She eventually left me to go find her happiness outside of our marriage. I tell you what the price for peace is expensive but damn worth it!
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/26 06:06 AM
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Behind every independent woman is a man paying alimony and child support
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/26 10:23 PM
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I will pray too and I'm sorry you had to go through that man I know it's tough thanks for helping others 🙏
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/26 02:04 AM
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Im sorry for your loss I can relate to you I felt the same way but if you have kids this is not how you want them to remember you by and also your ex will only poison their minds about your legacy. You will get through this brother I promise you're young enough to bounce back look at this opportunity as a blessing a person who abandoned you doesn't love you it was never real. You are on a new path in life now and it will define who you will become and how your resiliency will be a beacon of hope…
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/26 01:48 AM
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Whatever you do don't do what I did beg her back you will only be prolonging the inevitable once your spouse has divorce on their mind unfortunately it will never go away until it happens.just know we all are going through this and we have each other in this community to shield each other and lift each other up for support. Stoicism is your best method don't delay the grieving process sorry for your loss best of luck God speed.
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/26 01:37 AM
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Sorry man I understand completely wanting her back especially when you have kids together but when she doesn't want you it's pitiful trying to beg a woman to love you again. what can we do I'm in the same boat long marriage going through a high conflict divorce. Question how long did the whole process take? It's so screwed up that she can abandon the marriage and the courts reward her. Please give me some advice how to stop ruminating it's tough because everything reminds me of her thank you
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/25 03:39 AM
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Leaving the home is abandonment
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/25 10:22 PM
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She did you a favor man believe me I begged my wife of 14 years to stay with me for the last couple of years and it backfired tremendously when a women losses respect for you it's over Jack it's bullshit I know life is not fair but you can control your thought process and make them positive ones be kind to yourself. like now you don't have to waste your energy trying to constantly please her. Grieve your loss but don't wallow in it. There eventually will be light at the end of the tunnel. This l…
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/25 10:57 PM
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That's rough man sorry to hear that your going through this I'm in a similar situation so I know you exactly what you're going through. I know it's a lot easier said than done but please Stop the negative thoughts man don't let this lady ruin a good hearted soul she doesn't deserve you man you just focus on your kids and trying to make them happy believe me it's a major lifestyle change I know I'm deep in it my stbxw put a false domestic violence restraining order against me so I'm in the fight …
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/25 10:50 PM
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I'm really sorry you're going through this it angers me to hear about the betrayal I'm in a similar situation so I can relate. Your best bet is try to be amicable as you can for the kids because my stbxw refuses to communicate and wants me to suffer and made a false domestic violence restraining order and it complicated everything. I know she did you wrong but find the strength to be cool with her for the kids sake. About the money situation it's too late to do anything now the family court syst…
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/25 04:46 AM
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Start documenting everything I'm going through a high conflict divorce with 2 kids after 14 years married and I regret not documenting all the DV it will not get better start preparing yourself and know things will only get worse I regret not documenting all the DV incidents hang in there brother God speed!
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/25 02:55 AM
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Thank you everyone for your input I'm trying my hardest to keep fighting for my kids I have a domestic violence restraining order against my x because she was smacking the kids around out of anger and found out shes a narcissist and never takes accountability for any of her wrongdoings and now she is very spiteful and refuses to communicate and now making false allegations that I'm a drug addict and reported me and now she is trying to get full custody of my kids. Also she got all my kids friend…
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/25 04:27 AM
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I'm in the same exact boat brother I feel for you I can only suggest don't dwell on the emotions it's ok to sulk in sorrow but not all day. Try to distract yourself with your favorite programs or music. Believe me easier said than done just know your not alone man even if you're not religious pray for peace
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/25 04:45 AM
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