Famous_Durian Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Whats the inner game of passing shit tests You make it authentic by actually not caring. If you do, then you have to learn yourself to stop. Not only will you pass shit tests easily, you will also feel much better in everyday life.	/r/seduction	28/02/22 12:44 AM
3	How patient can women be before she loses interest in a potential guy if he does not demonstrate interest or escalate. If its a person at work it gets a little harder yeah as people have gotten in trouble when something went wrong or too far and such. While at work, work is a priority ofc but you can ofc put some flirting and joking in between. I was interested in a new girl at work a few years ago. Shy and pretty inexperienced back then so i didnt do so much even tho she was obviously interested. Other coworkers pointed out how obvious it was, she even asked me out haha. Nothing happened ofc because i didnt ini…	/r/seduction	19/02/22 04:51 PM
4	How patient can women be before she loses interest in a potential guy if he does not demonstrate interest or escalate. Always be flirty and imply that you miiiight be interested but you arent sure yet. How long it takes for girls to drop interest depends on the individual but i’ve had a few girls tell me something should happen on the 2nd or at the latest 3rd date, after that it would just become weird. Like you dont have to have had sex but at least something to put the man to woman frame into motion. If nothing happens she will either get bored, think you dont like her, think you are a pussy etc and will start…	/r/seduction	19/02/22 07:08 AM
18	Dating coach offered me a deal? You can only answer that question yourself. This is basically the same thing as getting a personal trainer in the gym. You dont actually need one because you can learn everything by yourself + there are videos, books, tutorials and all kinds of info everywhere on the internet... but if you feel like you cant get yourself to go through everything alone, dont have the motivation or discipline to push yourself and to stay consistent, then you most certainly could use someone to push you, that holds…	/r/seduction	02/02/22 02:21 PM
1	If you invite someone out for coffee can you kiss them even if it is a getting to know them date and not an established official date? Yeah man for sure. You dont have to literally express to her in words that it is a date. Something like ’hey youre cool, we should grab a coffee, it would be fun. How is X day Y o clock?’ is enough. Have fun and try to set a ’datey vibe’, as in you touch her, flirt and joke around with her. It is very important to not act like a platonic friend because if you do, you will end up like one. I’ve been there. Ask a girl out casually and then just sit there and have a conversation just like any other…	/r/seduction	31/01/22 12:48 AM
6	If you invite someone out for coffee can you kiss them even if it is a getting to know them date and not an established official date? Ofc you can attempt to kiss the girl. Just make sure it doesnt come out of the blue like hehe we just had a coffee, you laughed a lot so im gonna kiss you. You need to take it step by step. Make sure to break the touch barrier from the start by hugging the girl. Guide her through the entrance door by placing your hand on her lower back. Make sure you sit next to her so you can get close and touch her. You will have to increase the intimacy of the touch step by step during the date. Like, you can…	/r/seduction	30/01/22 11:59 PM
1	Do I need to have a Instagram to meet more girls and for perceived value? I might have missunderstood, but OP is: should i use Instagram? Your answer to OP was displaying value would work against him. How did i prove your point by saying displaying value on instagram is actually a good thing to do? I mean, if you go around and say hey i play the guitar, check my video on instagram, that ofc would come off as bragging and being a try hard. If you however just let your photos and videos lay there and let people find out about them for themselves, you will always get a p…	/r/seduction	25/01/22 06:25 PM
1	Do I need to have a Instagram to meet more girls and for perceived value? Bullshit. Displaying value is not the same as bragging or being a try hard. Having a profile with a collection of like 10 photos where you do cool and fun things like for example travel, attend a music festival, doing a fun activity like skiing, being in social situations, preferably with girls (preselection), with animals/pets and with an instrument if you play one will always be a good tool to use. My friend for example plays the guitar fairly good and tries to sing. When he talks to girls he …	/r/seduction	25/01/22 05:48 PM
5	How to stop being intimated by hot girls? Something that helped me is when i met a girl that is easily a 9 or 10 looks wise. I dont know how or why, but i managed to get her interested and attracted and we hung out pretty often and even started having sex. From time to time i had so many ahaaa - moments that she helped me discover like for example they are normal human beings just like anyone they also have problems in everyday life they dont automatically have a confidence level at 150 out out 10 they also have things they are insecure…	/r/seduction	22/01/22 04:35 PM
1	Do you know someone whose life is just an epic wild fun ride? Yeah if there was someone else between me and the other travelers i wouldnt have talked to them, if i took a 15 minute shit before we went out that evening i wouldnt have the chance to talk to them, if we lived in another hotel i would have been there either earlier or later than i was and wouldnt have talked to them etc etc.. these situations are very random and are pretty unlikely to take place if you leave everything to happen by chance, but if you actively try to initiate convos with other p…	/r/seduction	22/01/22 11:20 AM
1	Do you know someone whose life is just an epic wild fun ride? I’d suggest you to travel either with friends or alone. I’ve never traveled alone tbh but every time i’ve been somewhere if i somehow manage to get separated from my group of friends i always end up talking to strangers either locals or other travelers. There was for example this one time we were 5 that went to Amsterdam. The other 4 were going to KFC but i wanted to try another italian place i found on google maps. I told them to go, dont worry about me we’ll catch up later. Got there, stood in…	/r/seduction	22/01/22 09:14 AM
1	Was this a shit test? My take is that shit test or not, either way you did a very good thing there as you showed her you aint tolerating that kind of bs in a honest, straight up way without being butthurt. The most important thing now is to stick to it. If she bails or shows up but acts disinterested, you’re out and if she wants anything from you ever again the ball is in her court as you aint gonna be trying again.	/r/seduction	13/01/22 05:57 PM
1	I realized i did all the wrong moves with this girl i like and now i feel super distant with her, is there a way i can try again? Whatever you do, dont try even harder. You wont change her mind by being even more needy when she obviously has lost interest. Ever. If you want a chance to get her back leave the ball in her court and withdraw yourself from her. Drop all contact and dont text first under any circumstances for a long period of time. If she regains any interest or is curious to find out about you and what your’re up to, she will reach out 1st and that would be infinitely much better than you reaching out again an…	/r/seduction	13/01/22 05:45 PM
2	Rejection due to a lack of attraction cannot be negotiated or renegotiated even if you become a high-value male Yeah, that is also the point of dropping all focus on the girl in question and to remove yourself from her life. Right, the main goal is to build and demonstrate value and use it to your advantage. A friend for example has 2 videos of him playing the guitar and a short one where he tries to sing. Hes not even that good, but fairly decent. He never mentions that he plays the guitar and tries to sing when he talks to girls. When they ask him what he likes to do etc he goes like bla bla and eh i li…	/r/seduction	31/12/21 03:51 PM
19	Rejection due to a lack of attraction cannot be negotiated or renegotiated even if you become a high-value male Disagreed. Yeah it doesnt happen 10/10 times but its a lot more common than you’d think after reading your post. Ive seen many dudes calmly and silently remove themselves from the girls life, get on with theirs, improved themselves and suddenly have the girl comming back all by herself a few months on. Some have even had success by reaching out 1st but in a calm, fun and low investment way. Its amazing what a few months silence (no direct contact), transformed body, new cool skill, fun social ev…	/r/seduction	31/12/21 11:53 AM
8	Want Beautiful Women? Start Walking Away! Great post. I’d just like to add that another good thing about leaving girls that are not interested is that you save lots of your time, energy and emotions. I remember way back when i’d be so, so overinvested in girls that didnt feel the same. It sucks because it becomes like a drug. Like i’ve invested tons of emotions that when i saw her with another guy i’d literally start shaking, feeling like shit, i’d start crying because she was (my drug) was taken away from me in a heartbeat even though …	/r/seduction	27/07/21 08:08 AM
1	Do women bounce the second you show insecurity? I dont think so. Its about the overall. And if you fuck it up at first, you can always fix it afterwards. That is how i managed to escape the friendzone with a very sexy girl. We met on tinder, i was shy, insecure and made 0 moves. No touching or escalating. In the end i confessed my feelings and then she even bro-zoned me. Then we broke all physical contact. Only wrote a few texts here and there during a month. By that time a grew a beard, watched tons of dating and seduction videos and i promi…	/r/seduction	19/07/21 04:09 PM
23	When a woman says she didn't feel a connection or a "spark", is that something that is purely a matter of natural chemistry, or is it a sign that there wasn't enough escalation. Nope and im not saying it was :) i was replying to the last few sentences, it seems that you are trying to skip that part hoping that chemistry will do the job for you. It would be much better if you COMBINED chemistry with being flirty, touchy, escalation etc.	/r/seduction	05/07/21 05:35 AM
298	When a woman says she didn't feel a connection or a "spark", is that something that is purely a matter of natural chemistry, or is it a sign that there wasn't enough escalation. Lets just be friends, i didnt feel a connection, i like you as a person but… and answers like that are just a way for girls to tell you they are not attracted in a kinder way. Ofc you should always show your intentions. Flirt, tease, most importantly be close to her, touch her and try to escalate. 1st of all, that sets the tone of your interactions. 2nd, you are as a man responsible for moving the interaction forward and to make things happen. 49 out of 50 times the girl isnt gonna do it for you…	/r/seduction	05/07/21 05:13 AM
1	I hate the fact that men have to play games with women to get them interested. It's so exhausting Finding stories interesting and witty is subjective as well lol, no guarantees there either. And ofc preferences should always be respected, which is why i said the push pull is to be done in a playful tone. No normal people would reject someone or create a huge drama just because the other person happens to like chips more than ice cream duh. And nowhere did i say the guy needs to tease or push pull constantly just because. Its a good thing to use a little here and there, especially if a good o…	/r/seduction	01/07/21 06:23 AM
2	I hate the fact that men have to play games with women to get them interested. It's so exhausting Its quite simple actually. Just keep setting up small challenges along the way. Like you are within her reach but she hasnt completely reeled you in yet. Something is keeping her from doing it. It can be some stupid nonsense like she likes pineapple pizza so you go like (in a playful tone ofc) pineapples on pizza? Oh god please no… guess we wont ever be able to share a pizza after a date night, guess i will have to re-evaluate what i think of you and then she’d explain herself and there wont in …	/r/seduction	28/06/21 04:41 AM
8	I hate the fact that men have to play games with women to get them interested. It's so exhausting Being straightforward is the right thing to do. Dont beat around the bush, its a waste of time and you dont get anything out of it. Never express or admit your feelings in words to a girl that you like, but rather sprinkle it in here and there by showing her through flirting, touching, teasing etc. Show your intentions. Be like hey i like you, i find you interesting but i am not completely sold yet (= you are a bit of a challenge, she needs to keep investing and qualifying) so lets go have a few…	/r/seduction	27/06/21 06:59 AM