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| 2 | I don’t miss being with her but I miss the family dynamic and seeing my daughter every day.Same. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/24 01:41 PM |
| 3 | SOON to be ex wife?Wow, same experience here with the checking. I tried maintaining peace and saying I just wanted to start working towards financial independence. Even though she was actively divorcing me and having an affair, she demanded that my paycheck was hers and screaming at me that this is war....... Is she crazy? | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/24 03:03 PM |
| 7 | Wife left meGood analogy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/24 11:43 AM |
| 2 | What am I not seeing here?I had a debit card that I rarely used. She dealt with all the finances so I started off just knowing nothing. Account numbers, pins, ECT. She did a good job holding me off for weeks saying she was working on getting me the information, but never did. I didn't get the billing mail. Once I finally worked up the energy to deal with the banking, it took me days to get them to give me access. Once I got access and pulled my credit report, I saw just how much trouble we were in. I spent a lot of time … | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/24 08:47 PM |
| 4 | What am I not seeing here?Something I learned in counseling when I was in the same state of mind as yourself. It's ok to seek reconciliation as you also continue to create and ENFORCE boundaries. If you demand respect, and enforce your boundaries while also seeking peace, and your partner goes further away from you, then that's their problem, not yours. In fact, this method will ensure you don't waste time with someone who would destroy you in the end. Think of it in terms of warfare. You want peace with another nation w… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/24 02:37 PM |
| 5 | Coming up on a year since separation heading to official divorce.Everyday is a new day to win the day. Winners don't give up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/24 01:08 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone considered Legal Separation? Why did you choose divorce instead?What a nightmare. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/24 10:49 PM |
| 2 | How long did your contested divorce take from filing to agreement?Looking at over a year so far. Unless we settle outside of court. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/24 12:08 AM |
| 7 | Trying to get over the financial loss and jealousy"Comparison is the thief of joy." 🤌 Justice comes for everyone in the end. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/24 12:45 PM |
| 4 | Trying to get over the financial loss and jealousyTo be able to forgive your enemies is a miracle. Once it happens, you can sleep peacefully, after a long cry while on your knees. I am going through some crazy divorce stuff as well. Get stronger in every way possible! https://youtu.be/Wcf5b3mENJU?si=2Kaf8s0G46Wbgrq7 | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/24 12:32 PM |
| 4 | Trying to get over the financial loss and jealousyRisking it all for love which is priceless if found. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/24 12:27 PM |
| 4 | Remaining friendsNo. To me she is like the prosecuting attorney. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/24 12:02 AM |
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