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6

I'm never in trans spaces so unlikely to ever find out. But sounds complicated.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/23 06:56 PM
2

Tiny dongs
/r/AllPillDebate22/04/23 09:51 AM
0

Ukraine can't ban males from all universities anyway, only domestically
/r/MensRights20/04/23 10:27 AM
2

Turnaround, walk away and keep going.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/23 11:57 AM
6

Yes you can observe the mental conflict in everything they do and say. Some real gymnastics going on in there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/23 10:18 AM
8

Even so far as a trans identifying woman cannot advertise a product. Not because they are against capitalism, because it doesn't directly benefit their narrow agenda. When was the last time members of this group discussed the class war or sweatshops? Again because they see poor or struggling men and don't think it's worth their effort. Same mental health.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/23 09:31 AM
5

The original female liberation goal ended long ago. Now it's about female supremacy from a socially conservative platform.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/23 09:27 AM
9

And have you noticed how they hate trans people. Because they see Trans people as men - as their inferiors or subordinates. Somehow perverse or not whole people. This group now link with trad Cons on conservative optic social issues.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/23 09:25 AM
3

Feminism is anti-libertararianism. The clue is in the name liberty / liberal. It's anti liberal and freedoms unless the freedoms are for that particular group.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/23 09:12 AM
3

Other men say it to project their insecurity. Feminists say it to hurt men. Man up doesn't mean anything in reality.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 08:06 AM
1

I want to be a stay at home wife and read books and eat chocolate. Lol. Fuck that, get to work.
/r/AllPillDebate14/04/23 07:30 AM
3

Nothing is guaranteed
/r/MensRights14/04/23 12:24 AM
1

7 different women? Yeah not buying that.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 07:54 AM
2

Corps just care about profit. They are doing it deliberately for engagement.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 09:45 AM
1

For me it's not about who does the cooking and cleaning and who goes to work. More about specific men's rights and attacks in the media. I'm not against equality but some feminists do hate men and that's problematic.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 01:14 PM
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Pew data says the number of black single males is almost double. White single males / females about the same. Women overtake men after 50. The data suggests rise of incel is a myth. People are much more likely to be single due to religion.
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 12:06 PM
1

Good for you. Where has this notion come from that men's rights equal traditionalism though? that's trad con red pill nothing to do with men's rights imo. Men are men full stop.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 11:59 AM
2

OK buddy. Not sure what you want me to do about it. I live in the west.
/r/AllPillDebate08/04/23 05:38 PM
3

I haven't procreated yet but I take your point.
/r/AllPillDebate08/04/23 05:30 PM
2

Egalitarian society is the main aim. A quest for facts and reason wherever it may lead. Take the gender pay gap which is really a pay differential. Knowing this fact offers the best chance for men and women.
/r/MensRights08/04/23 01:03 PM
17

More this trend continues the men's rights movement becomes bigger and stronger.
/r/MensRights08/04/23 12:57 PM
2

Blue pill is just the ambivalent default position or remaining in the contented experience of ordinary reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:15 PM
3

Blue pill just means ignorance to red pill and following the orthodoxy with very little resistance. It's NPC society in general not a group with any defined mission.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:10 AM
12

Men going abroad for pussy is nothing new.
/r/AllPillDebate08/04/23 11:04 AM
2

Modern dating in a nutshell.
/r/AllPillDebate08/04/23 11:00 AM
2

I don't cook but you can cook and pay the bills. Yeah I'm good thanks.
/r/AllPillDebate08/04/23 10:57 AM
8

I think it just applies to men's rights being disregarded. My interest is supporting fellow men and the next male generation growing up. Feminists and trans have their own battles. Largely I try and not get involved in other groups agendas because you can't win those debates and the culture wars are tedious, and you end up in weird coalitions either with the religious trad-cons or nutty far left. Quite frankly I only have so many f@cks to give.
/r/MensRights08/04/23 10:42 AM
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There's a lot of scarcity mentality on here that don't understand a man doesn't have to be desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:39 AM
1

Any emotionally stable person wants an emotionally stable mature partner. If you've decided to partner up and life is good, why invite chaos and drama? You get to a point in life where you see the red flags and won't deal with it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:31 AM
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Yes, multiple, I liked them all. But people are complex and dealing with past trauma and expectations and behaviours. When you yourself haven't put in the necessary work you can attract the same sort of messed up people that makes relationships dysfunctional. So that's what I'm doing now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:25 AM
3

"I don't like planning"
/r/AllPillDebate05/04/23 07:27 AM
23

Yes, men better shape up or 40 something females will use chads for breeding. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:45 AM
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You seem to want to argue with me about my own lived experience. Bit strange. But hey this is Reddit.
/r/MensRights31/03/23 01:05 PM
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One experience is not evidence of a general trend. I've literally proven two things with multiple examples.
/r/MensRights31/03/23 01:01 PM
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Experience is a form of evidence.
/r/MensRights31/03/23 12:48 PM
11

"recreational use only" She ain't a Park mate
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:59 AM
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In my experience I have done the majority of cooking. Young modern women don't know how to.
/r/MensRights31/03/23 07:36 AM
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It's a two way street. If a woman doesn't know what turns you on either teach or dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:17 AM
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Personality and money. And I don't mean lots of money but you can't be broke and aimless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:39 PM
1

Why groom or bathe or wear nice clothes at all. Just be a tramp.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:24 PM
1

My ex was 120lbs at 5ft 7. She was quite thin naturally. Some women just carry weight differently and have high metabolism. Depends on hips, ass, boobs etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:06 PM
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Height and structure. I do think taller men can hide being 30lbs overweight easier. Regardless of weight they are all attractive ladies, just depends on personality and preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:02 PM
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And also other women and just feeling good about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:51 PM
1

Always have a skin care routine and stay out the sun.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:01 PM
1

Why can't it be both? To appear attractive and for own self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:58 PM
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Exactly. His DHV is fame and legendary guitar skills. Would females rather f@ck an incel or a sexually confident man? Case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:49 PM
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It's much easier for women so less valuable. Easy to be a prostitute. Hard to be a gigolo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:40 PM
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Sex is an achievement when a man's aim is to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:36 PM
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Because it's way harder for men to be a man whore. That's proper graft.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:33 PM
4

Yeah look and fiddle diddle away. I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:09 PM
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Simple. You stand out by not being these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:12 PM
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It sounds like a headache. I'm a one in one out guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:22 PM
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Translation: she got pumped and dumped and ego couldn't handle it.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 11:37 AM
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Pair bonding is completely natural. People generally are biologically motivated to find a mate long term for stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:17 AM
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Never lead with money. Just compensating for lack of skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:26 AM
2

Get a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:25 AM
2

Don't live to work. Work takes up part of week. Then eventually you get old, retire and die. Go explore, travel and experience stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:15 AM
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Looks are subjective. As long as she fit and healthy I don't care about perfect looks. I'd likely go with an 8 for intelligence so we can have interesting conversations and clever humour.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:11 AM
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I agree men and women have different biological imperatives. A woman is probably more likely to cheat for emotional reasons. A man just to get off / opportunity. But it's still sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:04 PM
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Again that's a distorted claim. "Data from married adults ages 18 to 29 says that more women are guilty of infidelity, with 11% of the women from the surveyed group admitting to having an affair. In comparison, only 10% of men from the age group are guilty." https://discreetinvestigations.ca/infidelity-statistics-who-cheats-more-men-or-women/#:~:text=According%20to%20the%20General%20Social,gender%20gap%20varies%20per%20age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:00 PM
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Also in relationships women want sex and have high sex drives. They're just less inclined to put it about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:47 PM
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There's more consequences for women to have random sex, pregnancy for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:46 PM
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Women exhibit sexuality in different ways. In a committed relationship they want to bang. Some sleep with multiple partners but there's more consequences. I was watching a podcast with onlyfans models and a couple of those chicks had 300 counts at early 20s. So clearly they like to have sex often.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:27 PM
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I read it. Women are sexual and want to have sex. There's some quotes from scientists in this article: https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20160630-the-enduring-enigma-of-female-desire
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:22 PM
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What does it prove. Women on average think about sex 10 times a day, men 19. So what? Women don’t have lower sexuality than men. What they have are more variable patterns which you haven't even mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:07 PM
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I disagree. Women can be horn dogs too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:43 PM
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TMI
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:41 PM
3

Yeah and claims you were controlling and abusive before moving on to next sucker.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 12:34 PM
3

The man goes out to work and pays for everything. The woman stays home in frilly dresses and bakes. What a scam.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 12:30 PM
2

Tradwife is cosplay
/r/MensRights28/03/23 12:27 PM
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Hard disagree.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 12:08 PM
2

That's not what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:24 AM
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I'm talking about regular dudes not world famous celebs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:07 AM
1

All smoke and mirrors anyway. Tate got assets seized and in detention right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:38 AM
5

It comes from early experiences and socialisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:25 AM
3

"taking up exciting hobbies, learning public speaking skills" I'd rather be that guy. The alternative is staying shy and awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:21 AM
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That's not what OP said. The second guy is developing his skills and evolving.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:08 AM
1

How do you know the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:44 AM
1

What difference does it make who murders you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:14 PM
1

This in no way represents my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:26 PM
0

Agree. In my gym they banned cameras and men have their own sessions. It's awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:42 AM
1

People look, natural
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:39 AM
2

Stop making false allegations and men won't be scared
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:37 AM
0

I don't know why it matters so much what other people do. Get the fuck over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:35 AM
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I think young people need encouragement in general
/r/MensRights27/03/23 07:29 AM
2

What people say anonymously in forums and do in real life - two different things
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:27 AM
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Hard to say. As long as T levels are acceptable it shouldn't be a factor. Low testosterone is linked to depression, low energy and libido. I think a lot of our personality is due to genetics / parents and environment / upbringing and all that influences attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:42 PM
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Ban Tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:52 AM
1

IMO people don't reach maturity until 30s. And even then plenty are idiots and remain idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:48 AM
4

It's great being male. I wouldn't change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:39 AM
2

Yeah, the house is not filthy, bills are paid and you're not a bum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:36 AM
1

Same. A corrupt couple of Muppets. Hate the show.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:34 AM
1

The numbers are skewed by race and religion anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:01 PM
1

Not Russia
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:54 PM
2

It could do. Might not come up at all. Some people are secretive, others more open.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:50 PM
1

I never ask. If she wants to talk about her numbers fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:47 PM
0

Intelligent men can filter out garbage as it's just shit we've heard before.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:20 PM
5

I listen to politics, psychology and business content and read books. I'll also engage in tech, travel, fitness and holistic health and future of our planet, the natural environment. Some of the red pill stuff is entertaining but only takes up about 10% of time. I like long form conversation and academic debates too, where they really drill down into subjects. I'm an engineer, interested in people, systems, how things work and why. In the real world I'll talk to an expert or mentors and ask ques…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:11 PM
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Ban Tiktok
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:14 AM
1

What two consenting adults do is nobody else's business.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:09 AM
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More the merrier. Pimpin' ain't easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:09 AM
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What consenting adults do is nobody else's business.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:50 AM
1

A lot of girls will shit test you. Not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:42 PM
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Masculinity is about the masc / fem balance within yourself. As a true authentic expression. Hyper masculinity looks inauthentic because men aren't like that totally and fully, people like Andrew Tate are playing a character.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:31 PM
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He's involved with other girls. I went to Europe for a month and screwed around while on a break with another girl from home. He likely doesn't see you as important. Sorry. Move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:13 PM
1

Would no male friends be a red flag for a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:06 PM
0

3 red flags: if she has no female friends (why?) / if she has all male friends (pick me) / if she has all male gay friends
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:00 AM
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This! Several people have said same thing. It works and we should listen to the married people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:51 AM
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I'm all for that. I like territorial women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:47 AM
1

I'd never date a bisexual person so irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:29 AM
0

It's called commitment and boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:24 AM
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This. And it works the other way. I wouldn't spend alone time with other attractive women as it violates boundaries. I'm not talking about business meetings.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:21 AM
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"I'm going to move into this dodgy neighborhood and leave the windows open"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:15 AM
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Not MY male friends. You're missing the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:13 AM
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Orbiters. It's the same if partner wants to go out all the time to nightclubs without you. She / he looking for opp to cheat or will cheat. Red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:11 AM
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I'm insecure for not letting my GF blow other dudes? Err OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:07 AM
3

Spending date time with other men and fucking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 10:28 PM
0

I wouldn't date a bi person
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 10:18 PM
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Mothers that weaponise the kids like this are demonic. I feel sorry for the kids and father.
/r/MensRights15/03/23 09:58 PM
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Same. This works and she should naturally want to do that to be respectful and I would do the same. Not boundaries as such just a mutual understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:37 PM
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Me neither when in committed relationship. It just causes issues and insecurity on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:32 PM
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Don't know as not gay. Ask why your girlfriend (or wife) would want to hang with men alone. Huge red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:23 PM
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When in a couple it's a bad idea and not something I would want to do or has ever happened. If a girl or guy wants to do this ditch asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:20 PM
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It's totally not OK to hang out with straight dudes or straight females unless gay or in couples. Or an age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:17 PM
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Much younger women and older women and men more at risk of child with autism. Found this: Even so, the absolute chance of having a child with autism is low even for the oldest parents. The researchers in the 2017 study calculated that about 1.5 percent of children born to parents in their 20s will have autism, compared with about 1.58 percent of children born to parents in their 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:13 PM
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Was a documentary about femcels and some of them were thin. Just had social issues, mental issues and low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:25 PM
7

Don't sit next to her
/r/MensRights14/03/23 10:59 AM
9

Stop worrying what women want and lean into your authentic self
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 08:44 AM
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Testosterone is real. If masculinity is a construct why do we have high levels of male hormone associated with masculine behaviours. It has a basis in biology and evolution 100%.
/r/MensRights13/03/23 03:01 PM
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Jung clearly thought masculinity was real
/r/MensRights13/03/23 03:00 PM
4

Masculinity is real.
/r/MensRights13/03/23 02:07 PM
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Toxic masculinity is made up. There's assholes and decent people of any sex. And criminal behaviour.
/r/MensRights13/03/23 12:07 PM
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Agree. It doesn't exist.
/r/MensRights13/03/23 12:06 PM
1

Trad con and Christian right. Why secularism and separation of church and state is better for citizens imho.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:23 AM
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Women have rights here, that's why they come to UK from Afghanistan, Iran etc. Can stuff face with burgers and work in a cubicle for giant corporation until death. It's fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:14 AM
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Feminists should want equality for all. But equality of outcome is impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:01 PM
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Most men want equality of opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:27 PM
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Male feminists get least of all. At least the tubby / weedy bearded ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:23 AM
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Don't mind. Someone has to look after the kids and childcare is expensive. Two 2 year old costs £3000 per month.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:19 AM
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I'd just write back: if you want to be called Dr take it up with management. And sign off with "Dr xxx"
/r/MensRights12/03/23 08:14 AM
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They didn't ask and didn't want to know. Just kind of trusted me to get on with it. The Brits have a strange approach to sex talk anyway, likely a hangover from Victorian times. History of double speak and cheekiness. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/No_Sex_Please,_We%27re_British_(film) The mainland Europeans are more open and matter of fact about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:25 PM
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We had a big thing with teenage pregnancy so the government did loads of sex ed in schools. And the rate came down. I guess there's advantages with liberal patenting and drawbacks. I trust Americans or Australians the same as Brits. I guess there's good and bad folk in all countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:08 PM
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Parents didn't worry too much, they were busy with work. Had freedom to do what we wanted about a group of 20 of us and my close friends about 7 or 8. I threw a massive party at 15 and half the damn school turned up! Yeah people used to hook up but we were all pals hanging out f/m. Started drinking at 15 roaming around the neighborhoods and nightclubs at 15/16/17 getting into adventures. Was so much fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:37 PM
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No. Complex and unworkable idea. Possibly against human rights leaning into eugenics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:10 PM
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I do think women have an added safety risk with persistent men that might turn violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:01 PM
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We were doing that at 15 in UK. Boys / girls mixing and staying over. Pretty liberal. I think there's more of a religious thing going on in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:50 PM
1

I think it's to do with economics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:15 PM
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Baby rabies is real in 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:08 PM
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Ran through 300+. Illustrates well why finding a suitable partner is so difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:04 PM
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Women shouldn't feel obligated to talk to anyone. Men too for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:01 PM
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Women and men aren't economically free. Just switched slave masters to a boss and corporatism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:54 PM
2

We are witnessing western entitlement, 200k years of evolution didn't start now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:51 PM
27

Don't need positive affirmations. But the constant double standards is pure hypocrisy.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 07:02 PM
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Also complained over 50s leaving workforce is fuelling inflation - what a donut
/r/MensRights11/03/23 06:58 PM
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Saw a video of an Indian dude beaten by wife in the street, nobody did shit
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/03/23 06:41 PM
1

She might be a nurse or summat
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:19 PM
1

I put 40k still got nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:17 PM
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Average woman is a fat, broke midget with 17 kids. Face facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:15 PM
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Have to date broke Midgets
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:13 PM
2

1.485% Thought I was being flexible too. Good luck men of America you will need it!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:11 PM
3

So women didn't mine the coal Pinocchio.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:10 PM
0

Can women produce sperm? Nope. Have to keep some of us alive for milking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:20 PM
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The obvious issue is men and women can't have babies alone. So both would die out in 100 years. So unfortunately until bone marrow evolution yeah you do need our sperm - sorry. Maybe a few men would be kept alive for milking purposes. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:09 PM
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The following jobs were done by men during the war as they were protected occupations (important skilled jobs needed for the survival of the country): Doctors Miners Farmers Scientists Merchant Seamen School teachers Railway and dock workers Utility Workers - Water, Gas, Electricity (The list above is also known as the reserved occupations in World War 2) Some men were not fit enough or were too old to join the army so they volunteered as fire fighters (fire workers), ARP wardens or joined the H…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:03 PM
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Yes woman play a crucial role in all that but I'm not reliant solely on Women for mental health. Male psychiatrists exist and Doctors. And just as reliant on male friends and brothers as females if not more. We go to men's groups and play in men's sports teams. It's all men btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:56 PM
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Not true. Everything a woman can do a man can do except have babies. The 99% male dominated professions are men's jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:35 PM
1

They choose not to. Also male Labour units are way more efficient at the physical level required.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:28 PM
1

They think things just appear out of nowhere, flick and switch and lights just work. Turn a tap and clean water comes out. Turn on ignition car starts. Pump gas and gas is pumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:19 PM
3

Men rely on women for safety and security? What??? Women are entirely reliant on men above and below ground for modern society. Stop deluding yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:18 PM
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Same. I learned those soft skills early. I love cooking and food. Read about the Renaissance man early in life and it kinda resonated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:10 PM
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Agree. I never said I follow my parents opinions on everything. But they do know some shit you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:04 PM
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In US or UK? UK is in a mess right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:57 AM
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I find it hard to be a nationalist as I'm republican (anti royalist) non religious anti racism and pro abortion. I lean towards pro European. Nationalism is wrapped in the empire and all that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:49 AM
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I'm British. In European terms Biden is centre-right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:41 AM
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My mum's high IQ, she got a first class degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:30 AM
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She can spot the crazy ones and the good ones a mile off to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:25 AM
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Yes she wants what's best for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:15 AM
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True. Older women have knowledge and wisdom and are less prone to wild irrational emotional outbursts. Imagine if the matriarchy was 25 yo chicks - society be dark ages within weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:12 AM
9

I've noticed a few bad faith infiltrators here but 90% are cool as f@ck dudes. An angry feminist cannot hide for long before the mask slips.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 11:09 AM
-1

Mines the same. Even though she's a feminist. She knows deep down most women are trash and bad news.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:05 AM
1

I love my mum. We have a great relationship. She is a massive leftist old school feminist and talks nonsense from time to time but I humour her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:01 AM
0

I didn't say all are evil or miserable. Or even use those words. Men and women are different. there's a reason anti-ageing beauty products are marketed at females.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:04 AM
6

What in the ever loving Christ did I just read? The sugar babies? 😂😂😂
/r/MensRights10/03/23 09:56 AM
-1

They don't have a choice. Females become Incels and Cat ladies or Karens. Or all three.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:12 AM
1

I think women have it worse. They hit 40+ and wonder where all the good Men have gone. Chronic singledom goes through the roof and they hit menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:22 AM
3

I don't know what top 5% means tbh. Considering half population are dumb as bricks and plenty are unavailable pretty sure he's right whatever it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:12 PM
2

Do you know and trust the girl friends?
/r/MensRights09/03/23 07:59 PM
11

I wouldn't hang out with woman like that. Either clear platonic friends or dating. Steve should get a life and quit orbiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:44 PM
1

Can't mathematically prove shit. Unless we go meet every woman in the world and find out what they think. Imagine some do have prejudices, some don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:38 PM
1

Nice can be manipulative. Or just plain beige or boring. Different from kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:35 PM
3

Couple of proper Muppets. Hate that show.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:32 PM
2

Decent men are the harmonizing group in society. We keep the stability, peace and order.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:04 AM
1

HELL NO. And that goes for any habitual drug taker. Especially weed - you stink.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:34 AM
20

Just ignore it. Happy men's day everyone
/r/MensRights08/03/23 12:12 PM
5

Exactly. Sell the house. Or perhaps, and this is a crazy concept, get a job.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 12:08 PM
4

I'm actually agreeing with this. Two different life phases. Ideally I'd want to date around same age. I get on with younger women as friends but I see them more as my little sister. As they are as old as my little sister. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:49 AM
2

Yeah complaining about everything European.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:27 AM
3

No it doesn't mean they have mental issues. Jeez.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 01:09 AM
2

The utter contempt every year of men's day. I simply stopped posting about IWD as taken for a mug.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 12:46 AM
51

Spanish divorce rate highest in world. Can see why now.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 12:40 AM
59

So for 15 years he was providing a home and money. That's the deal, she could leave at any time.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 12:37 AM
8

"Most men live lives of quiet desperation and go to the grave with the song still in them."
/r/MensRights08/03/23 12:24 AM
1

Makeup was a way of showcasing masculinity and social rank. The peasants did f@ck all fashion and make up as silk and whatever was expensive, just kicked around turnips mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:22 AM
16

Correct. Just be attractive and have money. Don't be unattractive and broke as that's creepy.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 12:12 AM
10

A woman is only interested in attractive book club guys. The book interest is secondary. Cos let's face it everyone there is interested in books.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 12:11 AM
1

Men wearing wigs and make up was nothing to do with gender bending. The fine wig was a signifier of money and status. The pale make up high class because working outside was low class. A bit like peacocking of it's time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:29 PM
9

That is the reason. It's not primarily about females. I see myself moving to another country and future elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:25 PM
6

I don't particularly like the western culture. It's making me miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:08 PM
6

Just said American women are fat, broke and entitled. No Aliens involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:05 PM
12

Should be happy men are leaving then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:44 PM
6

Beautiful. The American dollar is strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:41 PM
3

Bucaneering on high seas. Rule Britannia. That's how it all started. Turnips and snaggle-toothed wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:37 PM
9

What the other guy said. Women in Britain are fat, entitled and woke. Also regularly voted the ugliest in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:12 PM
13

Correct. Chicks are getting fatter at X2 rate. In UK this is happening too. My theory is access to fast food and laziness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:10 PM
2

Fine. But if one of the 57% of men who are not that's no good.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:09 PM
2

It didn't because it's a relatively new set of theories from western universities. Related to postmodernism and taken up by Marxists and feminists. Even though half the feminists rebelled and hate gender ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:13 PM
6

They want taxes and labour. Living off daddy then daddy state then new daddy.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 01:56 PM
7

Not in UK. Real simple. Don't know about US.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 11:51 AM
79

Right. May as well work for self. Or do nothing.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 08:46 AM
17

Men are correcting the pay gap. It's what they wanted to happen.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 08:46 AM
22

Funny how they frame it as men not going to work. Lol. Men been working forever.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 08:23 AM
3

Or considered not whole. Even though singular living is the default setting.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/03/23 03:19 PM
3

Men do a lot of the heavy lifting chores. Men on average work 1/3 more hours. And if men live alone they do everything themselves like women. Not clear cut but we never hear this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/03/23 12:09 PM
3

I don't know if women are more outgoing tbh. They tend to have circles or more requirement for social structures.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:40 PM
4

The problems exist in relationships. Getting a date or whatever is easy. I've often said it would be ideal to have two house next to each other rather than all encompassing living in same space.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:05 PM
3

Relationships are the hardest part. Nobody talks about it hardly. The divorce rate and unhappy couples is sky high. Living together is problematic for both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:02 PM
5

No problems with female only spaces. Men have spaces too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/23 09:41 AM
1

Doesn't prevent STDs but could be good solution for couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:54 PM
3

Biologically speaking women's primary usefulness is having babies which ends at 40. But we need mums and grandmas. Mens primary usefulness is provider and protector which peaks later.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:36 PM
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Gender ideology would suggest gender is fluid what with the ever increasing number of genders one can attach to one's self.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 03:53 PM
6

Agree. Trad Cons offer just another type of gilded cage. Men have to unionise so to speak, connect on spiritual level. And also help ourselves and our pals.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 03:28 PM
3

Is gender fluid?
/r/MensRights27/02/23 12:32 PM
16

What's a cis man??
/r/MensRights27/02/23 12:16 PM
6

You have to push comfort zone to develop self esteem. There's no other way.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/23 12:01 PM
4

Shared interest groups are the best way to meet people and form connections. Agree with nearly all this - get offline. These people are not friends and will add nothing to your life or stop loneliness.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/23 12:00 PM
1

Does purple pill have any real world application? I mean if it's in the middle could be more of a spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 05:54 PM
1

I just thought purple pill was somewhat in between red and blue. End of day it's just shit someone made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 05:52 PM
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Women do run companies. But the one's that succeed aren't dumb enough to exclude 50% population. Some chicks tried it with a cafe and failed.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 04:18 PM
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Nobody mentioned the pandemic. Bars all went table service, stopped the DJs and social mixing. All went weird for two years and hasn't fully returned.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:44 PM
1

Agree. I did fine when I was flat broke. Just having a job and some means is acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:58 PM
1

The "end of the world" gets hyped way too much here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:53 PM
1

Dating has been pretty constant for as long as I can remember. The vectors are slightly different with more options for online dating. It's difficult for most people (m/f) to find true connection and a subset of people have no success at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:52 PM
3

Nobody waits 6 months to have intercourse. Get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:46 PM
1

You literally berated him for leaving you alone. Men can't win can they?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:50 AM
1

Good take. Leave those selfish women alone with their Cats. If you want a child find a good mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:48 AM
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Sounds crazy but let's go further. In many cultures husband has many wives to perform various functions. Would free up women's time if she only used 1/5 on man. It's actually women's liberation to take many girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 08:22 AM
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Obviously not, I guess you see celebrities and some might date with age gaps but not the norm. I know some couples that have age gaps but no idea if that's getting less common. I suspect it probably is as women are more independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 10:15 PM
5

But wouldn't a regular 40 yo man just date a 35 yo anyway? I mean that seems more appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:45 PM
9

I've seen dudes kinda blossom 30+ and others decay fast. Just depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:40 PM
4

But most 40 yo men don't have a boat and aren't dating that age anyway, so it's kind of irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:36 PM
7

Agree. Gets a lot easier to feel comfortable. But expectations spoil it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:29 PM
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It gets a lot easier. But dating becomes more complicated as people have more baggage / expectations. Just stay in shape, be relatively OK looking and don't be a weirdo. Women hit you up on Facebook and online dating. But generally speaking hot 23 year olds aren't interested in your old ass, so be realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:25 PM
2

I'd self ID as a woman or non binary and avoid the draft
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 09:20 AM
2

Well here's a range of students views, it's a bit old but accurate on what I remember https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=1532370
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:17 AM
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41% had a ONS according to this poll: https://www.studentbeans.com/blog/us/heres-why-students-are-choosing-one-night-stands-over-getting-into-relationships/#:~:text=More%20and%20more%20students%20are,they%20would%20consider%20having%20one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:03 AM
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I must've imagined it all then. It definitely seemed like the majority were partying. Hook ups seemed common.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:46 PM
3

At University here it's normal behaviour to go out and get drunk and copulate. Might be different in US as the legal age is 21 not 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:40 PM
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It's nearly always drunk women with ONS though. People go out and have sex. It's normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:31 PM
4

Monkey branching. She likely got dumped and it's just your turn again.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 11:13 PM
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as they don't want to catch an STD nor conceive a child Contraception works too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 03:24 PM
1

Perfectly fine. I wouldn't want to date someone too old or too young as don't think that would work at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:20 PM
1

Is there something inherently wrong with a high number of partners and where is the line? I'd be more curious why they had no partners..unless it was for religious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:16 PM
1

It's OK to have preferences. I'd prefer someone around my own age tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:15 PM
4

I thought slut shaming was bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:04 PM
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I think it's different for men, men are expected to be experienced and behaviour is almost encouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:52 PM
11

I'll identify as non binary and dodge the draft. Thank you leftists!
/r/MensRights20/02/23 09:00 AM
10

Look we can be anything we want today. I'll self identify as a different gender. Job done.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 08:59 AM
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The term has been co-opted by media now as a catch all for sexless men. It's in a similar vein to bald shaming, short shaming. Bullying. Double standards basically.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/02/23 08:36 PM
1

They don't see it as cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:23 PM
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I think people generally have other shit to worry about ATM. A relationship is not essential.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:40 PM
1

Women lie better
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:38 PM
2

Followed by two questions. The implication being what's the purpose of women being on a men's rights forum. Not a sexist remark at all. It is you trying to "gatekeep" here, not me.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 03:30 PM
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No sexist remark made. I asked two questions.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 03:22 PM
2

Try the feminist subreddits, you are sure to get a warm reception
/r/MensRights17/02/23 03:18 PM
4

The poor guy is being discriminated against. It's him with the disability. She has a mental disability but that's a different thing.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 12:17 PM
12

I've seen some sights in England. Like a woman in full make up and red high heels working out. I shit thee not.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 12:16 PM
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Why are women even on a men's rights forum, what do you get out of it? What's the agenda?
/r/MensRights17/02/23 12:10 PM
0

There's not a lot of support and constant demands on my time and money.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 12:08 PM
2

Disagree. Too much relationship content about women. Saturated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:29 AM
2

If a dude is kind, honest, principled and well mannered - top 10%
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:27 AM
2

Men and women cheat at roughly the same rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:08 AM
3

I'm sure they do realise it because they live it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:03 AM
2

But so many aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:59 AM
1

Not crazy, fairly open and curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:28 AM
1

With respect why would a stable person want to deal with an unstable person. Men are sick of crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:27 AM
3

Bullshit theory. Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:23 AM
3

Kids aren't like the parents. That's like saying two brothers are exactly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:17 AM
2

No they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:16 AM
2

What is the "world view". There's 8 billion in the world each with a unique experience! I tend to think we exist in groups or mini tribes. What I am trying to say is don't give up hope. There's people out there aligned with who you represent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:18 AM
1

Men might decide it ain't worth it and robots are acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:58 PM
1

Sex bots will replace females
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:27 PM
2

Don't try and win her back. A fools errand. Best way to deal with toxic females that don't respect you is run away ASAP.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/23 09:46 AM
1

She could get you good weed though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:49 AM
4

I think you are right. Would be cool if more men could chill at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:48 AM
1

It's true. Europeans don't care about big muscles. The beauty standard is more athletic like a soccer player.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:29 AM
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What I understand is different women want different things. It's not a sexy answer but that's the truth. And also don't try and argue in all female groups. And also men look for different things. Yes we are perhaps more visual but beauty is subjective. Personality and chemistry is important. When you get past that "oh this person is good looking" phase there needs to be something more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 10:13 PM
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Not really. But if you get older and more successful and stay relatively fit the tables turn. The decay in female attraction is much steeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:44 PM
1

This is the experience of man. You just noticed?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:41 PM
3

Welcome to the patriarchy. Either invisible, treated as predator or mocked on national TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:41 PM
2

You'll be largely invisible or treated like a threat or predator or some Dad to patronise. You won't have any special services or schemes available. Welcome to the patriarchy.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 12:37 PM
1

Get sucked off down alleyway
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:54 PM
0

The catch is women make the buying decisions and are spending men's money. On a sidenote I used to work for TD Ameritrade.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:48 PM
12

It's not hard to earn more than unemployed people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:47 PM
2

An objective viewpoint on improving humanity is useful and following the science wherever it may lead.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/02/23 12:45 PM
0

50 isn't really that hard to do. If you consider time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:32 AM
2

Agree. Make advance without making advance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:31 AM
2

It's crazy. But 25 was old to me at 18. Women at 30-35 are still young imho.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:29 AM
5

Nobody ever talks about genital mutilation either
/r/MensRights12/02/23 09:26 AM
1

Get some help.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 12:21 PM
2

Don't care. I say what I want, if someone don't like it they can suck my big hairy British balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:37 PM
2

Fortune 500 average height 6ft. But world leaders are short.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/02/23 06:56 AM
10

It's genuinely creepy. I worry for the future of the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:33 PM
4

Everywhere in west is swinging towards inequality for men
/r/MensRights02/02/23 01:14 PM
1

No I thought you'd replied to a different message. So I was responding to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:10 PM
0

I don't care. I'm not a woman. But it will likely be good for you unless we get some right c@nts running the show.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:10 PM
2

Of what? Well the cons are having to work more to afford cost of living and then getting sick and dying. I can't see much benefits. Oh you mean women ruling everything. Again no benefits to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:04 PM
1

I'm living it. Not Santa. Maybe you don't have to pay soaring bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:00 PM
1

We are all under the rule of capitalism atm, that's fucking us.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 10:58 PM
1

The pendulum is only swinging one way, women are just more adaptable to modern life and will rule most things in short time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 10:57 PM
1

In my country we've had two female prime ministers recently, the Queen, the police commissioner all female. At one point 5 most powerful figures were all female. I fail to see how that is patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 10:55 PM
2

We don't live in a patriarchal society, women are absolutely smashing it on most metrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 10:52 PM
13

Just the realisation in general that you are seen as a disposable Labour unit until you get old and die is a fucking depressing thought.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/23 10:48 PM
4

More egalitarian. In Norway the chicks approach you.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 02:00 PM
1

Sometimes I'll blank or just look annoyed just to fuck with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:11 AM
2

Squeezed Middle class less marriage and less kids. Educated people question bringing kids into this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:28 AM
2

Kids for the rich and poors. Middle classes less.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:26 AM
5

Northern Europe beats USA, probably Southern Europe too
/r/MensRights01/02/23 06:17 AM
8

Scandinavian countries
/r/MensRights01/02/23 06:17 AM
4

I feel emotion but hate for individuals or groups is exhausting. You mug yourself allowing others to live in head rent free.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:08 PM
-4

You can do it these days. Good luck.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 06:53 PM
20

I don't have hate in heart for any gender. Hate is such a negative all consuming emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:38 PM
1

Bit basic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:03 AM
1

I feel sorry for those poor lads.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 10:00 AM
12

Marriage seems to be for women and children. And even then women initiate divorce way more often.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/23 06:44 AM
2

Pegging I believe they call it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:04 AM
6

I think it's true for men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:51 PM
10

I find it hard to believe at least 1 female out of billions globally won't touch your willy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:16 PM
4

Don't gaslight me bro 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:10 PM
3

I feel little pressure or think about numbers after many encounters and girlfriends. I don't remember half of them. When you get to a certain point body counts or any of that shit won't even be an issue. Nobody really cares about my current status I don't think. People are self absorbed, thinking about self and work and kids and all the rest of it. I probably would like intimacy and to find a long term companion at this stage but it's not essential.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/23 10:30 AM
1

The results are in. Men should not get married and sleep with as many women as possible. Thank you science.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:35 PM
1

Number 1, I'd go for the tramp every time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:12 PM
3

About power, thought she could do it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:57 PM
4

She groped him good and proper. He should get a massive pay out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:56 PM
5

I just go early mornings. Tends to be more serious people and not Tiktok Muppets and Instagrammers.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 10:59 AM
3

Buddy, I got a pull up bar, push up handles, Kettle bell and Yoga Mat for cheap. Weights are more expensive and obviously you need the room. But over time you can pull a good set of equipment together.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 10:57 AM
3

Ignore them. Literally ghost if you find this information out. Never enter into debate or give compliance.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 09:49 PM
2

Many do. Best ignored or mocked.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 09:46 PM
6

Pick up artistry is apolitical. Right wing people make it right wing. Left wing people may rail against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:31 AM
17

Meetups attract lonely SJWs and orbiters looking for an opportunity to white knight. Don't give them any ammo. Just be friendly and sociable and do your sexual business like a Ninja.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/23 10:27 AM
8

Yup. Men can have standards too, shock discovery.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:46 AM
1

Unfortunately we have to go to places where other human beings are and open the speaky-hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:26 PM
5

To be fair to women, they score better on at least one: The average of openness and agreeableness for females (29.44 and 31.36 respectively) were higher than the average for males (27.61 and 29.45 respectively). Thus, the scores of openness and agreeableness for females were significantly higher than males (both, P<0.05).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:14 AM
8

Are we just saying humans in general exhibit these traits? I'd agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:04 AM
1

I don't think attraction is a choice and most people aren't in elite circles. I know quite a few age gap relationships and not always same formula. Come to the conclusion it's whatever makes people happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 09:00 AM
9

It beats being dirt poor and no way out. You could help others. You could start a business. Go to college. Travel. World's your Oyster.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/23 08:20 PM
1

I'm 6ft but I have to say the best dudes I've ever seen with women are under 6ft tall. I don't know why this is the case but maybe they try harder in other areas or just have advantages elsewhere that matter more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:46 AM
2

If a successful guy made a ton of money he probably wouldn't go with a broke not top tier 35 year old woman as men have options too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:31 PM
3

The older dudes I know that got with younger women are just great attractive guys. Some got it, some ain't never had it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:23 PM
2

Correct. It's up to the woman to decide that. Otherwise they wouldn't pursue the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:16 PM
2

Maybe more men will assume the care provider role and the women will do manual labor and that's our destiny. Maybe robots will takeover. I dunno what the future holds.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:05 PM
2

So why is the figure going up then? How many couples have you surveyed to reach that conclusion? If the couple come to agreement on work and childcare that's their business. Personally my Dad stayed at home with my brother cos his missus earned more money. Wasn't practical to do anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:57 PM
2

"There is a big societal shift in attitudes toward gender roles and parenting taking place, as more dads are staying at home and tending to childcare. According to the Pew Research Center, an estimated 2.1 million fathers were stay-at-home dads in 2021"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:51 PM
2

It's a harmonious and symbiotic relationship. Men and women are not in competition. Or shouldn't be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:46 PM
0

I don't really get the premise of the question? Women are working and contributing to relationships economically too. Some men are staying at home with the kids. That's up to individual couples to decide what works for them not "society".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:44 PM
5

Are you joking? The world (modernity) would plunge into the dark ages real quick without men. Only delusional and ungrateful people deny this reality. And the physically vulnerable groups would be the first ones exploited and pillaged in a post apocalyptic world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:36 PM
1

Cat is too busy doing Cat business, eating, general lounging etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:08 AM
7

Order expensive items. Eat the food. Go to WC. Escape out the window. Run!
/r/MensRights25/01/23 09:40 AM
51

And they celebrate this behaviour in the media. Never miss a chance to defraud and disempower men.
/r/MensRights25/01/23 09:38 AM
2

Lol. Even wetter than that in England.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:26 AM
0

Blue collar are left leaning to blue labour here. Some are right voting. But the proper Conservatives need to eat a good Steak and lift weights.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 05:24 PM
2

Conservative guys tend to be no chin, wet handshake, weedy where I come from. The liberals are the Brutus McChad Thundersocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:07 PM
8

Men work more hours on average and choose different jobs. Yet women are a greater % in higher education.
/r/MensRights24/01/23 03:50 PM
13

Women want to be desired or be desirable. They take it as insult if you do not give away your power.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:50 PM
2

It should be renamed the AM pill group.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:47 PM
8

Raw sexual magnetism is both a blessing and a curse. A cross I have to bare. But I'll do it for the both of us. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:36 PM
4

Men and women can be friends but sex gets in the way. Even when I've tried to make "just" friends they always want more and become hostile if they don't get it. The only way round this is have friends who are married or different ages or do things in groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:26 PM
13

Correct. It's a gender pay differential. There's no gap. Women are doing better than men now.
/r/MensRights24/01/23 10:04 AM
0

Some feminists believe that it's the patriarchy oppressing men.
/r/MensRights24/01/23 10:03 AM
1

Mano what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:07 AM
4

Men are conscripted to go to war not women. The person that walks into a burning building is likely to be a man. I would say death to save others is the ultimate sacrifice. https://eu.usatoday.com/story/news/world/2022/02/25/russia-invasion-ukraine-bans-male-citizens-leaving/6936471001/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:10 PM
2

Self sacrifice, physical courage, good in a crisis - masculine traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:23 PM
3

The stereotypical Army dude is hyper masculine. Dads always seemed masculine growing up. Especially Dad's with big forearms and old man strength that can fix shit and didn't say much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:07 PM
8

That's basically what red pill is. A framework to be aware of. Not a religion or a science. Tate selling shitty courses and human trafficking or whatever has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:51 PM
7

I always thought of the red pill philosophy more like a framework. Not a group with members. It's certainly not run by Andrew Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:48 PM
3

There's still loads of useful self development content within the Manosphere. Some of the new channels are complete bollocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:42 PM
1

I know what you mean, like pretty boyish types with diamond shape faces not square jawed brutes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:39 AM
4

Dating app evil empire - wahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:37 AM
8

Correct. We don't use that terminology as it's a made up gaslighting word.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 01:32 PM
3

Well he's in Romanian detention about to be charged, so....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:07 AM
2

Politics and religion. Terrible conversation topics.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 09:50 AM
9

Excellent advice 👍
/r/MensRights21/01/23 07:37 AM
7

Maintain a strong frame. Don't get pulled into pointless arguments and rabbit holes. When adult keep a safe distance, they are someone else's problem.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 07:37 AM
1

Been to all those countries and the winner on the notable good looking people quota was Denmark and second was Norway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:05 AM
1

I had a mate from Florida at college absolutely slayed the local marketplace but he lived over here a while and had worked it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:52 AM
1

A different accent helps. Americans didn't have any game last time I was in Europe but that might have changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:44 AM
1

No. You just need to stop making talking to girls the focus of life and quit seeking validation from females. Try and get some balance.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 08:18 PM
4

Correct. It should be banned from the male lexicon. Or at least mocked and ridiculed.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 07:04 PM
4

"Kupers suggests toxic masculinity is 'the constellation of socially regressive male traits that serve to foster domination, the devaluation of women, homophobia, and wanton violence'. This definition is clearly linked to men's bodies, and is embedded in notions of male deviance, violence and marginalization." https://academic.oup.com/ia/article/95/6/1251/5613459
/r/MensRights20/01/23 06:58 PM
66

In my country all men didn't get the vote until 1919, same time women got the vote. Working class men always been shat on.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/23 06:38 PM
1

Agree. Do it for own well being and to feel good. Bros before hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:32 PM
18

I don't think toxic masculinity exists. It's a made up term derived and propogated from bullshit gender studies academic theory.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 06:27 PM
2

Sounds like you need to work on self development, life and self esteem.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 09:22 AM
3

For me it was about drinking and partying. Once I stopped all that I lost interest in womanising and chasing tail. They're a complete waste of masculine time, energy and resources.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 09:03 AM
4

Why do you care who average men choose?
/r/MensRights20/01/23 09:00 AM
2

Incels are the Communists of the Manosphere
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:47 PM
1

Why would society be conspiring against women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:13 PM
7

Imagine you ghost a girl and she doxxes you publicly, scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:44 AM
1

More like Idiot phobia. Lol.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 10:27 AM
1

I'm not scared of that. Most people are conflict avoidant and don't want to fight.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 10:24 AM
1

I'm cool with anyone that's cool in return. Anyone being rude is not worth the mental bandwidth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:02 AM
5

Most men do not have androphobia.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 12:52 AM
2

CATS.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:43 PM
0

Creepy is creepy. Confidence can knock you up a couple of rungs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:40 PM
0

Some women are raped multiple times. Victims of human trafficking for instance. The 1/5 stat is nonsense.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 04:11 PM
7

Imagine how men feel having to read these nonsensical articles.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 05:53 PM
11

I think it's bad for men in America. Going to be more unwanted pregnancies or less sex freedoms.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 05:51 PM
9

It's a bit depressing. Not nice to see people so miserable and hopeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:47 PM
1

How many men under 30 are deeply religious as a %?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:37 PM
1

Who is "society"? If someone has a problem I tell them to go fuck themselves and carry on with my day. But nobody ever says shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:56 PM
1

Weird question. I judge people as individuals on a personal level, sex has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:54 PM
3

Nobody likes rejection as it can lower self esteem. But you are right, in this case there's all the stress associated with moving home and prospect of homelessness. It's higher up the needs chain.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:24 PM
1

My mum knows most women are garbage. A good woman will always tell you the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:20 AM
1

Experience of different relationships. They get insecure and want to extinguish the very thing that attracted them in the first place. But I've seen it with other guys who are happy to take a back seat. They stop seeing friends, reduce hobby time and let the female organise social life and end up with nothing. Not in all cases. Just something to be aware of. I'm sure there's controlling men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:43 PM
1

Of course it does. It's just way more common for older men to father children with younger more fertile partners. There's a longer male fertility period. Men can father children at 70.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:13 PM
1

Agree. It would also increase or sustain attraction if not together all the time. I know some couples that strike a nice balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:00 PM
5

It's both really hard to make adult friends and life gets busier and more demanding. And yet you also require many friends or you ain't considered normal. Very confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:57 PM
1

Which part do you disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:26 PM
1

Graduate. Middle class. I'm not American.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:26 PM
1

If it's acrimonious the friends almost always take the females side because she can turn on the waterworks and men are more self contained. I think the Man should have own friends and interests and not get swallowed up like a bookend, that's all I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:23 PM
2

I'm not old old. I don't have to freeze eggs or go on TRT. Everythings working fine. Bloods are great. Testosterone high AF. Erections every morning. I would expect physical decline at some stage but not yet. Things work poorly at any age if lifestyle isn't good. But I'm European not American.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:18 PM
1

My Dad had two more kids at 45 and 50. No defects. My grandparents had 10 kids. 9 healthy, 1 had down syndrome but that was a later life pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:12 PM
-1

It's funny how many women want to lock down social men though and dominate social interactions. It's a common theme. Then when they split the woman takes the friends. I feel like the man should fight for independence and have a life outside his relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:06 PM
7

This post is just to make ageing women feel better. Men have much greater options and more longevity post 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:00 PM
2

Only takes one of them suckers to get through. Know loads of guys that had kids in 40s and 50s. Can't say the same for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:57 AM
3

There's class warfare going on in that dynamic too. I feel we can't generalise about men and women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/01/23 11:44 AM
2

Once she ensnared him and got the DNA it was game over. A sad yet not unfamiliar story.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:58 PM
1

They are single for a reason. Many of these people pushing 40 will never be successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:49 PM
2

Alpha widows.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:48 PM
0

Yeah I like well travelled interesting and intelligent partners. I don't look at Instagram chicks and think that's the pinnacle of human aesthetics. A lot of the time it's lighting, makeup, filters and surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:56 AM
1

Nobody has ever asked. And I don't want to know. I think it's weird being a totally open book. Some things need to be kept in the past imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:30 PM
2

What if they don't want to discuss it? I'd personally find it creepy to keep asking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:20 PM
2

Wanting to know gay experiences is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:07 PM
2

That's weird. People have a right to privacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:13 PM
9

I ain't converting to a prehistoric third world religion. Bacon sandwich are delicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:09 PM
2

Men already taxed highest. Put the most in and take the least out with a single person premium.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:57 PM
8

Why was a non binary trans dude in a panel of 10 men? When that group represent 0.2% of the population. Vice is clearly far left culturally Marxist media propaganda.
/r/MensRights13/01/23 12:25 AM
6

In my country the elites had a stranglehold on rights until acts such as 1918. The 'Representation of the People' Act was passed. All males over 21 were now eligible to vote. At the same time women were allowed the vote. Not to mention the working class struggle which was vast majority of men. Working in poor conditions, war and all the rest of it. Longevity and health for men is only just closing the gap slightly. In 1841 it was aged 40. That's hardly a powerful hand. So through the lens of his…
/r/MensRights13/01/23 12:17 AM
7

Well women are outperforming men on many metrics. They should have people on willing and able to explore this topic beyond the "patriarchy". Self selection bias weighted towards a certain narrative. Not much positive Masculinity talk. It was kinda like men are in crisis but we don't know why, oh the patriarchy. Women are experiencing a little bit of that power men have had for centuries. Wtf?
/r/MensRights12/01/23 10:47 PM
5

I watched it all. There was a much wider deeper conversation to be had imho.
/r/MensRights12/01/23 10:38 PM
17

Vice has it's own agenda, a narrative. And any conversation has to fit within that narrative.
/r/MensRights12/01/23 03:15 PM
3

Define masculinity for yourself and find your tribes. I go to a local men's group and we follow Moore's Jungian model. Basically a man has to put different hats on but is always centred in his masculine values and missions balanced by positive feminine traits. Your authentic self. Neither the tyrant or the weakling, the apex is the King in all his glory. Outside interference is just "noise".
/r/MensRights12/01/23 12:09 PM
10

A good relationship with two people aligned is challenging to find for anyone. But not impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:50 AM
8

Murky subcultures are interesting too. There's all kinds of people on Reddit in general from all over the world. Some of the subreddits are quite wholesome and engaging. Lots of useful info.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:45 AM
3

A Hero
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:48 PM
0

Yeah why not. Marriage not necessary but I'll happily be a man of leisure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:35 PM
9

Millions of skilled men and women are keeping society going. The people at the top are replaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:31 PM
2

Maybe young girls but I can kind of understand that, but the Karen aged group are venomous and angriest. I literally can't say anything on community forums without some form of abuse. Some of the men are grumpy and perverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:39 PM
3

43% men under 30 and 38% women reported suffering online abuse in the last year. Although more women self reported being more upset by the experience. Data here: https://www.pewresearch.org/internet/2021/01/13/the-state-of-online-harassment/ Just anecdotal but more women can be extremely abusive and toxic online. Probably because there's no consequences. I'd say men more physical threats. Although it's rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:23 PM
3

The stats would suggest that's a minority. And that half the abuse is coming from women online. And more men are suffering abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:16 PM
7

Agree with you tbh, this post is anti-scientific garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:59 PM
8

To be fair men are selfish, abusive etc. too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:22 PM
1

It's quite a fun sub in a brain-farty way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:20 PM
4

There's a lot of dumb posts and clueless incels on here. But at least it's uncensored and mildly entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:17 PM
4

When I was 20 I thought 25+ was old. It's just two phases of life that ain't compatible. Even though I might occasionally look and think she's attractive, but that applies to all ages (and men too).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:11 PM
1

Agree. People don't start maturing until late 20s, early 30s. Younger people should go off and find themselves not get stuck with some older dude that works all the time, thinking about retirement plans, housing and is relatively boring. I've no interest in hanging out with 21 year olds and they don't want to hang with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:07 PM
1

I wouldn't prefer a LTR with a much younger woman. Older men want equal status too unless they Leo DiCaprio.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:04 PM
1

I don't know anyone dating student age women unless they are around the same age. It's about life phases and shared values. Alignment as you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:53 PM
2

Agree, assuming post. Most men do not prefer 18-22 year olds for relationships despite age. It's pure BS. When settling down in a partnership or marriage the age gap is negligible or it might be greater or lesser. But that's not a consequence of age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:48 PM
9

Sex is better when two people know each other intimately. ONS are lame mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:05 AM
6

It's OK to hold realistic dating standards privately but we don't have to be a dick about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:03 AM
1

Worker drones and sex slaves of the future.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 07:38 AM
1

Or she's been divorced multiple times so the common denominator is her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:26 PM
1

Some do. Some don't. Who cares. You get older anyway. The trick is just try be happy at life stage that you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:23 PM
1

Everyone I've been with has at least one ex-partner, me included, so what difference does it make. People are only virgins in very limited circumstances or youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:19 PM
0

I don't care. This seems to have come from ideological right wing red pill channels not from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:55 PM
2

She's manipulating you. A naughty child gets put on the naughty step not rewarded. When she understands she can't get an emotional reaction she'll stop doing it. Unless you have done something wrong, in which case apologize. Women that constantly shit test and create drama aren't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:18 PM
1

The apex is between the tyrant and the weakling. The sweet spot. Masculine / feminine traits in balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:12 PM
1

Give her a little cuddle occasionally and whisper sweet stuff, leave love notes or small gifts. Cook her a nice meal or surprise with a reservation or event. Who doesn't love nice surprises?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:05 PM
3

Got to try a little tenderness pal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:44 PM
10

I've heard this scenario time and time again. The man shows vulnerability and gets punished. Feminists call that "internalised misogyny / patriarchy" or some other blame shifting term. Like anyone would be devastated by such events - crying is only human.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/23 02:42 PM
6

True. And we can observe these weird factions making strange alliances with each other - like the trad religious right and feminists on trans people. Class politics and the human element shunned for ideological purities.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/23 02:26 PM
12

Separate all these movements into sub groups from the far & trad right to the 4th wave man hating Feminazis. And it begins to make sense.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/23 12:29 PM
1

Non of your business ya pervert
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:16 PM
5

Girls are outperforming boys at school before college. But instead of asking why and fixing they are fixated on women being disadvantaged.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 10:46 AM
53

Mate, you don't get that time / life back. One shot only. I persevered with a toxic female 2 years and consider it wasted time investment. Leopards don't change spots. My friendly advice would be focus on personal growth. Look after yourself anyway :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:31 AM
119

With respect why did you marry her? Sounds terrible. I'd be reassessing life tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:10 AM
2

Good call. I'm sick to death of hearing about this one guy even if he is a top G. There's way more interesting topics to discuss.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/23 10:07 AM
1

It's not about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 09:22 AM
3

Practice makes perfect. Experience matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:32 AM
3

1) close to 100% 2) 10%
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 08:46 PM
2

I've had plenty of women approach. They aren't as direct as guys though. Half the relationships made the first move. And not all unattractive women either. I put it down to energy. A lot of people give off bad or desperate energy. Like when I am going through some shit subconsciously sending out "don't approach" vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:21 PM
1

I really don't care. What do you think I'm doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:39 AM
-5

I say delete. Don't see how it's related to men's rights. Although I don't care that much either way tbh.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 09:47 PM
4

Younger people shoveling burgers down pie hole and sitting on fat ass watching Netflix can talk. Wouldn't get too smug about middle aged obesity. From the CDC: "The obesity prevalence was 39.8% among adults aged 20 to 39 years, 44.3% among adults aged 40 to 59 years, and 41.5% among adults aged 60 and older"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:19 PM
5

I kinda like unconventionally attractive women. More about personality and chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:09 PM
21

Metabolism slows down, stress, overeating standard Americans diets, testosterone reduces, menopause. Not inevitable but you just have to work harder to stay in shape. Married men / women likely get more comfortable about growing fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:04 PM
1

Yes, put the kids first. That's why as a man seriously weigh up the dynamics of taking on another man's kids or having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:56 PM
3

Down to the maturity of the individual. Legal adult at 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:51 PM
1

I love being a Man. Men are awesome. Sorry to disappoint you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:20 AM
-1

Don't have kids then. It's your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:16 AM
-1

Wrong. "Women are more than twice as likely as men to be diagnosed with anxiety and prescribed medication including antidepressants to relieve its symptoms, the study found.21 Mar 2022"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:02 AM
0

Women are a support act for Men. Men run the game and always will. All hail the powerful patriarchy!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 09:56 AM
1

Beeeeffcaaaake!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:22 PM
11

Nice guys finish last. Stay mean and dangerous Kings.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:17 PM
-1

Sounds like woke bullshit to me. I think it's down to individual preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:36 PM
-1

I mean dating preferences. It's OK for black to date black exclusively. But somehow it's white supremacist to want to only date whites.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:23 PM
-1

OK to have preferences. Culture is one of them. It just sounds harsh vocalised.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:07 PM
5

Somebody has to do it and the women fucked off.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:19 PM
4

It would depend on dynamics of a relationship. Some women want to do things for their man. Although in my experience 75% can't cook for shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:02 PM
1

Yes. I'm a great cook. I have to clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:01 PM
1

Exactly. I can hire a cleaner too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:00 PM
1

Kids feel tension and parents not getting on. I am pleased they split up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:47 AM
1

Not when the parents are fighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:40 AM
1

I'm right. And that's the end of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:35 AM
1

That's bullshit. It's worse when they stay together.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:28 AM
1

I had good parents, they just didn't want to be together anymore. Maybe when you go through puberty you'll understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:25 AM
1

My parents divorcing had fuck all to do with me. I don't see how it's relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:25 AM
1

https://www.nationalreview.com/2017/11/men-are-increasingly-marrying-better-educated-women/ https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2016/02/160210170618.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:14 AM
2

Which studies? Intelligent Men definitely want intelligence in a partner. Everyone married I know has at least a degree and works a professional career. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/slightly-blighty/201802/why-intelligent-partner-can-be-so-attractive%3famp
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:56 AM
1

Yes we do. It's one of the most important things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:18 AM
2

Fat chicks need love too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:12 AM
2

It's just the douche bags created content. Nothing to do with red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:54 AM
9

Cos they join men's spaces to spread social justice
/r/MensRights02/01/23 09:53 AM
6

The men are under marshall law, so they have to stay and fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:38 AM
1

Maybe there's a false perception that we should just be happy all the time. And some people feel like there's something wrong with them if not, when in reality life is a series of ups and downs. You do eventually have to take responsibility for yourself - therapy, pills, action etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:18 PM
2

6ft 6???? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:49 PM
1

White, no kids, over 5ft 5, no preference on house or income. Must be educated and intelligent but no extremes right / left. Could be thin or slightly overweight but not huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:44 PM
4

Hopium. Good word that mate. If my grandmother had wheels she'd be a bicycle.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 12:08 PM
12

Idealistic post. Relationships are hard work, ups and downs. Expecting the nature of western women to alter from experienced reality is fool's gold.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 11:42 AM
2

I also don't buy into this flawed TradCon crap. It's just another trap for men.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 11:18 AM
2

Read his book in the 2000s, actually pretty good. Based on the Double your dating, Ross Jeffries techniques. This dude used to operate from London.
/r/RedPillBooks28/12/22 10:58 AM
3

Cool, never been but sometimes watch the Japan travel vlogs and looks an interesting culture. I like Japanese and Korean food. I actually hope it gets worse for men here, like that boiling frog theory, it's so bad in the west that guys are being slowly boiled to death but need to wake up and jump into action before it's too unbearable.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 10:19 AM
10

Because people generally aren't willing to put the independent work in that would significantly improve their outcomes and lives. They want to "fit in" so follow the mainstream when the margins are found by unplugging and searching at the extraordinary edges.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/22 03:58 AM
1

I agree with all this. People want to be around other people that make them feel good. I think that's being lost in the conversation. That's never changed. Nobody is saying optimizing looks / grooming aren't important.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:28 AM
1

Nobody is saying don't work out etc. but unless you're some genetically gifted super good looking dude you ain't trading off looks to begin with. There's other things to develop. I could run through a list if it helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:14 AM
-1

I'm not old. Just not a clueless wee kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:22 PM
1

True. You can only gain that wisdom from taking an ass whoopin and learning the lessons life will show you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:54 PM
9

Young people on here place way too much emphasis on looks. Looks fade ultimately. We are a depreciating product. So have something else going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:32 PM
4

I scanned it. Dead against open relationships. There's a good Louis Theroux documentary on the subject. It's almost always the man being cucked to please the females fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:28 PM
4

Open relationships never work out, someone ends up getting hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:26 PM
6

Baking and stuffing multiple cakes down pie hole by looks of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:22 AM
3

There's no obligation to do anything. It's your life buddy. Forget society and expectations.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 07:07 AM
1

Where did you go?
/r/MensRights26/12/22 10:28 PM
1

I like football and fighting. I think it comes from early masculine bonds and playing sports as a kid for years. It's how my Dad and uncle communicated with me. And there's something about preparation for sport, the rituals and training that's a "bit" like going to war. So it's rooted deep in DNA.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 09:08 AM
2

Well hard drugs and excessive porn are destructive behaviours. Obvious plan would be get a handle on that first.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:40 AM
3

Fucking is a hobby I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:15 AM
18

Mods are visiting girlfriends boyfriend until 27th.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 08:12 AM
0

Focus on yourself. Avoid women and keep hold of your money and house. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:07 AM
2

Most guys grow out of 12 year old stage of crack addiction and comics. However some stay in permanent adolescence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:04 AM
14

Happened to me more than once in UK. Drunk women are out of control and no repercussions.
/r/MensRights25/12/22 10:06 PM
2

I made the point and backed up with evidence. If you choose to ignore that's not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:49 PM
2

Bullied by women, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 09:09 PM
2

I am a bad boy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:06 PM
2

He explains it on the blog "On my BSc Psychology course, only 11 out of 156 (7%) students were men. On my MSc course, only two out 17 (12%) students were men. During this time, when asking questions or discussing something specific to males, I was often shot down. I felt a bit like an antelope amongst 145 lionesses, and if I shared anything that was deemed to be ‘different’ to the experiences of my female colleagues, it was invalidated. After a while it started to make me feel that my views were…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:19 AM
1

https://www.centreformalepsychology.com/male-psychology-magazine-listings/why-are-so-few-psychologists-male-insights-from-a-psychology-trainee
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:01 AM
1

Clinical psychology is dominated by women and feminist ideology in UK. Although it's advantageous to be a man in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:59 AM
1

I don't care about body count or any of that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:52 AM
3

This is where American men fuck up. Stop leading with money and focus on your unique strengths.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:44 AM
1

Don't know what you are saying. Men are attacked at twice the rates. It's a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:27 AM
8

One of the many problems is misinterpretation of the law, is arguing with a female misogynistic? Is having bad thoughts a crime? There's too many vague areas. And we already have laws to deal with the obvious crimes (assault, groping etc). If this goes through surely they have to make misandry a hate crime too.
/r/MensRights25/12/22 01:09 AM
1

I've no interest in Asians. Only ever dated white (90%), hispanic and black. However access to Asians is limited either through religion (Muslims) or Japanese, Koreans are shy university girls or someone older that works in a food shop.
/r/MensRights25/12/22 01:02 AM
14

I think this is the misogyny as a hate crime bill. Which sounds OK in theory until you look at the detail.
/r/MensRights25/12/22 12:40 AM
1

I'm just saying if I did a snap poll of people I know, most or all are conflict avoidant, peaceful and wish men and women to be living in harmony. There's a subset of dangerous or deviant males making it worse for all of us but the same could be said of crazy chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:26 AM
3

Men are attacked way more statistically speaking. Law abiding men are under constant threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:18 AM
2

Not binary situation. Socio-economics, politics and global forces. Nobody is to blame. Nobody votes or campaigns to make life worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:15 AM
0

No, men and women are biologically compatible. It just takes some work to long term pair bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:12 AM
5

Gen Zers are weird as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:52 PM
7

The truth is we are all disposable units. And you're likely only important to a few people - family and close friends. Once that sinks in its easier to gain perspective on our mundane and transient existence.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 02:52 PM
1

Gravity is sexist.
/r/MensRights24/12/22 02:34 PM
0

Did you really just write all that? I tried to make it as stupid as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:29 PM
4

Because they want to shut us up.
/r/MensRights24/12/22 02:22 PM
0

Do it here. Put in the Constitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 01:41 PM
0

Of course I am serious. We could ship in women from China / Russia.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 01:37 PM
4

You could be hearing from a 17 year old chick with pink hair and teenage angst that just got dumped. Ignore.
/r/MensRights24/12/22 11:17 AM
2

Better for getting weak men sure. No real man is going to put up with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:59 AM
0

Maybe men should have 3 wives enshrined into law. Would reduce infidelity rates and create more time for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:35 AM
1

Disgusting. Should be banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 06:59 AM
1

Women need to get 2 jobs and pay 75% as men are the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:06 PM
1

Get off Reddit and talk to people in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:11 AM
1

I don't watch them or care tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:52 AM
1

Sounds like BS. What's all this stuff about hunting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:51 AM
0

Marriage is pointless. I'm never getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:48 AM
2

Men are able to control their desires. Maybe this is just you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:45 AM
3

Of course that's the ideal for anyone. But I'm not that desperate tbh, that I would give up being single unless it was good.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 07:28 AM
8

They get you on taxes even if single.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 07:23 AM
5

There's a lot of material from abroad. They scratch around for domestic stuff because women aren't oppressed in the gynocentric west.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 01:57 AM
7

Feminist circles are way more hardline and toxic. Men can actually have a conversation and disagree agreeably. You can't say anything that veers from 4th wave feminist narrative without a barrage of abuse and / or reputational damage.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 01:45 AM
22

I'm still pro extra men's rights on the subject of paternity. I just feel everyone should have access to reproductive healthcare in a modern western civilization. If it's something you feel strongly about give her the push and find someone that aligns with your values :)
/r/MensRights19/12/22 01:24 AM
64

Being pro-abortion isn't feminist per say. It's just not traditional religious conservative.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 01:20 AM
3

Jesus Christ that's heavy. Can't you just refuse paternity? She sounds like a right nutter.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 01:15 AM
13

Sorry bro. I didn't mean to make you feel bad. I'm just pissed for men in general that have this thing done to them without consent.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 01:06 AM
4

Not a lot of people know this but I lost virginity to a 35 year old woman as a teen. She was at my college as a mature student and we used to go back to her place to have sex during the day. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:05 AM
2

This is a good point. Two consenting adults. If it works for them who am I to question it. They beat the odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:01 AM
20

Genital mutilation. Thankfully not a big thing in my country.
/r/MensRights18/12/22 04:49 PM
83

Respect. Having part of willy chopped off sends chills down spine.
/r/MensRights18/12/22 04:46 PM
2

Behaviours - are clear to see when dating. Weaknesses - Not a deal breaker. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses. Dark thoughts - not obligated to reveal thoughts, everyone has dark thoughts from time to time. You might want to reveal depression or suicidal thoughts or something similar. If it's much more serious, say involving children - tell partner and seek help immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:21 PM
2

A lot of this gets ironed out in the vetting process does it not? Like you can see if they treat people poorly, have anger issues, are dishonest, have poor relationships, weird fetishes. Who they are reveals itself. Unless they are full on psycho or a very cunning sociopath. So I think the lesson is clear about taking time in relationships and using intuition.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:11 PM
2

I know what you're saying. But I think it depends. I can think of scenarios where stuff can be kept secret and others where it definitely needs full disclosure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 03:58 PM
3

Say 20 years ago they got in a car drunk and ran a person over. Went to jail. They might be a changed person today and want to leave that in the past. Do you tell everyone you meet about it? When do you tell them? Do they need to know and how will it effect relationship? Lots to consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 03:16 PM
1

Depends what it was, who against and how severe and other factors. There's certain acts I could not forgive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 03:08 PM
1

Yes. Everyone has dark thoughts, flaws and strengths. The main thing is honesty. I trust someone until they give me a reason not to trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:58 PM
2

https://www.inc.com/business-insider/how-to-become-more-charasmatic-according-to-psychological-research.html
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:59 PM
7

Because charisma is a collection of behaviors, you can learn it. You can also have more experiences and adventures which develops character and a more interesting personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:32 PM
1

What if they were kinda interesting / dangerous but not quite type physically, nautical adventures, fighting off Sharks, rock climbing, sky diving etc. - does that make a difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:03 PM
2

Short, troll like features, one eye looking east one eye looking west, wooden leg - does that guy get an audition?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 12:47 PM
15

You can develop a personality, can't grow 8 inches and become magically handsome. I'm not saying personality isn't important. Sorry lads but if you're a midget battle-toad looking m'fer best bet on getting rich :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 12:13 PM
16

I don't understand the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 12:04 PM
42

You're young Bro. Don't worry so much. Get a plan together and go for it.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/22 11:58 AM
5

Men are more lethal. But Women are definitely capable of out of control aggression or acts of reputational destruction. Any man with crazy ex-wife / GF can attest to that!
/r/TheRedPill18/12/22 09:42 AM
9

Masculinity is the capability of violence or aggression if required. The act of assault or being the aggressor or being a bully is not inherently masculine.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/22 09:31 AM
7

Correct. There's no wage gap and women aren't oppressed in the west. There's no patriarchy. Example: I can't get postgrad funding even though I'm from a poor background and area because I'm a white man. A richer woman can purely on basis of being a "minority".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:52 AM
5

Can't be that and a wage gap. Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:08 AM
1

A 90 year old man. Passport for proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:55 AM
5

Fair point. It's more challenging.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 10:55 PM
2

I don't worship any man or woman. Treat each as individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:22 PM
6

Halo effect. Being presentable gets a foot in the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:15 PM
8

Yes it's not hard to find dates if you're well put together, groomed, pleasant and all the rest of it. There's someone out there for everybody!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:11 PM
1

The wall remains undefeated. It hits us all. I think it depends on the person. If you stay in shape and get lucky genetically can prolong the peak. I think I am more confident and self assured now, however there's an ebulliance that comes with youth, a kind of get up and go super charged energy which definitely ebbs away.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:08 PM
1

"Since first European contact in the late 19th century and then through various independent Tanzanian administrations there have been attempts to settle the Hadza. These efforts have largely failed, and the Hadza pursue the same way of life today their ancestors have for hundreds of years." https://safarisafricana.com/african-tribes/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 01:34 PM
1

It's different societies my friend. We don't hunt with spears, go through initiation ceremonies and wear loin clothes. At least in the city anyway. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 01:24 PM
1

No I didn't say that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 01:12 PM
1

Because modern western societies in the information age live differently to African tribes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 01:02 PM
1

I would argue in modern information age traditionally feminine skill sets are as much about survivability as ability to hunt or chop wood. Urban survival! ideally men should try and balance the masculine and feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 11:15 AM
9

We do get negativity from people and family. My dad was really hard on me growing up. It's just as quite an imposing man people rarely say shit to your face. I appreciate honesty though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 11:02 AM
22

As a boy and man you rarely hear a positive word. We are just expected to get on with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 10:55 AM
2

Ancient tribes are usually patriarchal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 10:54 AM
2

Yes, I treat gay friends just the same. It's no different from having a straight pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 09:25 AM
9

Dating is OK. Try not to get her pregnant or tied down. You have other shit to do.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/22 09:18 AM
2

And get divorced too :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:27 AM
1

As I've gotten older protect sperm more. I mean that's my DNA man. 9 months later a baby could pop out. Hello!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:06 PM
1

Could go Monk or MGTOW or the female equivalent. Or become a part time Lesbian. Or just spend time alone and focus on other stuff. Do what you wanna do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 06:03 PM
19

RIP big Kev. Gone too soon.
/r/MensRights16/12/22 05:58 PM
5

My dad remarried in 40s. My step dad remarried in 40s. Both younger women. Know others too. Age doesn't matter. There's someone out there for everybody. Any third parties opinion on the relationship is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:02 PM
1

Correct my friend - only men have the agency of change. I don't hit the gym or look after skin to please women, I do it for my own self esteem. Any relationship success is a by-product of our own agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:51 PM
1

IKR. Why do they care so much. It's just douche-baggery.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:35 PM
-2

Have you seen women lately? Focus on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:32 PM
6

Tough paper round. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:28 PM
53

30 that looks 20. A 20 year old is too young. And looking 10 years older is not a good sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:27 PM
1

"Quarantined". Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:26 AM
1

Why is there no "red pill" groups on Reddit? Did they all get banned? Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:21 AM
1

Agree. I'd put it 1/10 are attractive to me. In sense of types and personality. Maybe goes down to 1/20 potentially long term (and of course if I am attractive to them). And that's within dating parameters not population wide. The idea dudes don't have basic standards is false. And I agree it's hard to find a life partner (but not impossible).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:16 AM
1

I'm talking reality of daily life not the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:02 AM
3

True. Women make most the buying decisions. Marketers speak to vanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:55 AM
1

Most guys as they get a little older don't particularly want to date or hang around young girls anyway as life phases and lifestyles and mentally not aligned. So it's a moot point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:49 AM
11

I felt that. The attached / married women thing is an eye opener.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:38 AM
5

Genuinely I've found all the house shares with younger women are an absolute state. They are dirty and untidy, leaving make up, clothes and shoes everywhere and lack any common sense or basic DIY skills. Airheaded about changing a plug, a lightbulb, using power tools,, basic boiler maintenance. Drunk women shreik a lot too. I've found men to be much better.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 04:01 PM
23

This guy was in British version of big brother and got voted out first week. Lol.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 11:58 AM
10

Much bigger problems in society ATM. But it's fun to thrash out ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:08 AM
12

People can be horrid to each other and do and say bad or rude things. But generally we have basic social norms that most follow and are expected in public life with some degree of flexibility and context: Shaking hands when greeting someone. Saying "please" and "thank you" Apologizing when one makes a mistake. Standing up when someone enters the room. Making eye contact during a conversation. Listening when someone is speaking. Offering help when someone is struggling. Respecting personal space.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:26 AM
2

Not everyone in Poland is a conservative though surely?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:23 AM
1

Yes it's usually through shared friends, shared interests, work or online dating. Familiarity and trust anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:46 PM
1

Really it's up to guys to socially calibrate, approach in the right way in the right places at the right times. I don't particularly want to cold approach or proposition strangers either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:19 PM
1

Conservative and trad conservative could mean different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:19 PM
1

I'd become a Lesbian. Dudes are too hairy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:17 PM
1

If time is scarce it's valued more. If available all the time valued less.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:09 PM
1

There's way less funding for male therapy groups and refuges. Men are often expected to deal with stuff alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:03 PM
1

I think it's because Men may have less emotional and social support structures than women. And actually that's not entirely our fault. Women get most the funding.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:00 PM
2

Rare things are valuable things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:01 AM
3

Yes, keep own timetable and quit being so available.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 09:00 AM
7

My theory is society is reflecting the turbulence of the times as we lurch from crisis to crisis. People living under stress. Maybe it will all calm down soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 08:52 AM
1

I don't think it works like that. A man who is addicted to prostitutes is not a guy to date anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:32 AM
1

Women cheat all the time and men do. There's no difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:22 PM
2

It's liberating. The world's your Oyster. Think of it like a blank canvas and you are the artist of your future life.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/22 07:41 PM
1

I'm not even saying you shouldn't loan or gift to girlfriend or subsidize. I'm saying keep control of finances, options and sanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:39 PM
1

Large pool of same type of people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:06 PM
1

Marriage is only for kids and women. I advise no independent non-tradtional atheist men to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:52 PM
1

I've found lots of men's groups. One was doing steel work and chanting in a sweat lodge. Proper ancient style!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:21 PM
1

There's plenty of men's groups. We can join one or start one. Everything from sports to mental health to walking clubs to entrepreneur / personal development type stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 06:18 PM
4

Attention is a currency and addictive - chick-crack
/r/MensRights13/12/22 06:08 PM
1

Who do below average looking chicks date?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 05:48 PM
2

The difference is I know I'm not a 10. Someone could say it and that's nice but it's not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:19 PM
0

How about take makeup off. Line up 50 men and 50 women, interview on interests and hobbies and let's see who is objectively more ugly and boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:14 PM
4

It's only cos women can wear makeup to hide or enhance what they actually look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:11 PM
2

Standards in past are variable. Today I'd go for 5ft 5 or taller, not massively overweight and a kind person. She'd have a job or career or a business and likely be university educated or at least intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:38 AM
2

I'm "successful" by objective standards*. A lot of these relationships or Interactions were when I was flat broke too. I could pick up a woman in a bar now easily or go on dating sites and setup many dates. I'm barely 6ft and broke my nose at 27 in a fight so it's wonky. I'm quite athletic and muscular which helps I suppose but I've seen skinny or fat guys be successful so it doesn't matter too much what you look like naturally imho. I was quite obsessive about the game in 20s but it doesn't mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:16 AM
1

Men might not say it but would be dissatisfied when a partner isn't good in bed or doesn't want sex. We just don't talk to friends about it. A man is likely to move on or look elsewhere in those circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:04 AM
13

Sadly it never ends well. They can't get over the hatred for Men.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 08:11 AM
1

America already did and it sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:58 AM
1

Because realistically capitalism and the free market exists in a mixed economy with strong social policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:59 PM
4

Send them a message. I've no idea. Thought it was a niche thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:48 PM
2

Where I live it's nearly all Asian men delivering food. Women might work in shops, some are part time and studying and others are older. Never thought about it tbh. Seems legit way to make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:45 PM
4

Nothing wrong with sex transaction. The locals get something out of it or they wouldn't be doing it. Prostitution is world's oldest profession.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:16 PM
1

Datingover30 is full of simps, soyboys and Feminazis. Loserville.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:27 PM
1

In UK I was going out to nightclubs at 15/16. It's a different vibe and culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:28 PM
1

Nothing against Americans personally but they tend to think they are centre of the world and socials reinforce the egocentrism. 7.7 billion other people live differently and think differently, different dating cultures and languages.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:23 PM
6

Middle aged Women also have pressures of family, ageing parents and children that they provide more pastoral care for (on statistics) as well as trying to keep up with employment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:28 AM
3

Actually men and women attempt suicide at similar rates - men are just more successful. Suicide is the biggest killer of Men under 45 in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:22 AM
2

Why is anyone unhappy? We just have an epidemic of depression and people self medicating or popping pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:21 AM
7

I've got other priorities and demands on time. Women just aren't that important. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:39 AM
10

Have you tried getting to know people one on one? I dislike groups and groupthink. You might lose "friends" in numbers but the friendships you do make will be richer and higher quality.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/12/22 03:07 PM
2

True.True. It's trying to be comfortable in discomfort and saying fuck it what's the worst that can happen? I fail. So what, start again. But maybe I win this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:00 PM
2

For hyper analytical people it can be difficult to move forward as we think about all the stuff that can go wrong. I am trying to get better at listening to instinct and not so much rational part of brain. Sometimes taking quick action is best way forward to gain momentum.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:45 PM
2

Yes they made plans to have a kid, they planned home and wotnot. But nothing is guaranteed. At some point you have to make a decision or decision is made for you. Analysis paralysis. I'm kinda more talking about everything going on in world, it's too big and lots of moving parts. Quite often people rely on experience and a best educated guess to get them through or sometimes blind faith!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:07 AM
2

People don't have time to plan and micro manage every situation so make a rough calculated move. Some things work out, others do not. Same generalisations about marriage or this group or whatever. Humans been doing it since dawn of time. Nothing is guaranteed but birth, death and taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:55 AM
0

No reptillian brain, as opposed to rational part. What "checks out"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 09:02 AM
3

Everyone is replaceable. His life would be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:48 AM
1

I'd tell him to get some self respect and move on. You clearly don't respect him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:40 AM
1

Men are pre-programmed to spread the seed, some stronger urge than others - reptillian brain
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:39 AM
3

Don't do him any favours, he should leave
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:36 AM
1

People make general rules all the time to get through life. A calculated guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:24 AM
52

Masculine power threatens people that don't have it. Just keep being yourself.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 08:22 AM
2

It's whatever two consenting adults want it to be. A traditional hetero couple, two liberals, two lesbians or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:20 AM
0

Brush teeth go to the gym and ask a female out. eventually one will touch your winkie. There's no magic formula.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:19 AM
1

Middie class are being squeezed too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:33 AM
1

Poor people can date other poor people or the working and middle class as we will call them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:33 AM
1

So what's 80 then, super old?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:31 AM
2

The average guy doesn't work out in 20s. Half of young people look skinny fat or fat to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:48 PM
1

That's what I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:46 PM
2

Daddy state takes care of it or moves on to another Man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:07 PM
7

Yep. Either abortion or the woman can choose solo.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:44 PM
1

BS. Some Men grow into their looks and look better later. Average looking guys can maximise their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:06 PM
3

Depends what "old" means. I see a 65 year old as old not 40. It's all perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 02:06 PM
1

Mandatory DNA tests and no financial payments if the Man doesn't want it in all cases except marriage or co-habitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 01:57 PM
2

Suppose nothing is a certainty, maybe incentives to have children will emerge.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:56 PM
4

It looks like Men and Women are not having children or choosing to wait. So there's going to be a lot of childless people in future and depopulation. I don't have a strong view on that either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:54 PM
2

https://medium.com/hello-love/study-predicts-45-of-women-will-be-single-by-2030-1fbc99bad6a8
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:53 PM
3

https://burkrosemann.medium.com/why-almost-half-of-the-population-will-be-single-childless-by-2030-cca154f113f2 Seems like the population is not having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:52 PM
1

I know, show us the money!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:18 PM
2

So what happens when bars, restaurants, shops and cafes open in your walkable suburb? Kind of invalidates part of isolation theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:01 PM
2

No, even if horribly disfigured or disabled if I made a commitment would stick to it faithfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:50 PM
8

Britain was a proper shithole for years for anyone except the wealthy. Wasn't until post industrial revolution and 20th century things started to improve (despite two world wars). The last 50 years a high point, probably in America too?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:40 PM
23

Yes childbirth was really dangerous for the mother too. No electricity or central heating. Dating is a first world problem today. We are lucky to be born today.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:30 PM
11

Yeah that was pretty ropey. When life expectancy was 30 and Men got worked to death in fields and mills. And women were kept basically or ended up as whores on the streets. Hard times.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:22 PM
24

Men above and below ground mining, logging, building and maintaining systems are the very reasons for our modern lifestyles. I salute them.
/r/MensRights09/12/22 08:10 AM
2

Yeah I'm a massive liberal. Voted twice for democratic socialism and twice for green party. Also Red Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:58 AM
3

Equality in 2022. Get out there and make us some money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:53 AM
0

Sounds like Men have our own issues to deal with tbh. Not even considering children in a cost of living squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:48 AM
2

As a Man you are missing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:44 AM
1

Men are much more likely to go into trades and higher earning professions right now. I do believe there's a gender bias though and world is changing. Women will overtake men in western world as higher earners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:39 PM
2

I feel women justify it more and are usually better liars and much more emotional cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:31 PM
5

All this pill stuff is interesting but we still have to live a life and time will pass regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:28 PM
1

Self acceptance
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:04 PM
1

No, being very attractive won't get you better people or even be a good person. It can even be a hindrance and lead to undeveloped personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:06 PM
8

Yes plays a role and men will feel better anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:53 PM
2

Also marriage isn't a universal life goal. Just like having kids isn't. And how do we measure happiness anyway, contentment? Pure joy? Money? Friendships? I'm unsure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:16 PM
4

The idea is acceptance in your current situation and status not continually grasping for the external to make you "happy". So no I do not accept that married people are happier in all metrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:03 PM
6

Accurate on the cooking though.
/r/MensRights08/12/22 10:11 AM
23

Be witnesses to this claim surely
/r/MensRights07/12/22 11:31 PM
1

When Leo hits 60 he might start dating 30 year olds. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:30 PM
4

He so fat can't see ball sack.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:14 PM
24

I wouldn't date a two times+ vaccinated person. Only pure bloods. Might make special exception for one timer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:28 PM
4

Get out more. My daddy remarried a 23 year old. He fat as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:23 PM
0

If you go in with a scarcity mindset maybe that ends badly. Or you will meet someone aligned with your values eventually. At least you're being honest about future goals and aspirations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:14 PM
4

I would say that's true in majority of cases and relationships are mostly give and take.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:10 PM
10

Me neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:07 PM
12

Mmm yeah I'd get out more tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:06 PM
1

I never said it did. But women do get with older men who aren't rich. Happens quite often.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:47 PM
2

Fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:43 PM
-1

The male self care market is growing fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:10 PM
1

I am also inclined to date younger by 5-10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:07 PM
0

Yes there's fat Men. Not my point. Women appear to be getting fatter at a quicker rate. Maybe it's the fat acceptance movement?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:05 PM
1

27.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:52 PM
3

Given the choice we all know what Men prefer. Settling for less is another matter. The female gaze / mentality Vs reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:44 PM
1

You said why would I question, I am saying why wouldn't I.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:41 PM
0

Women are getting fatter and fatter at a faster rate. The gender longevity gap is shortening.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:40 PM
13

Given the choice Men don't place as much value on degrees, career and socioeconomic status as women. And place more value on youth, beauty, fertility. That's why Leo DiCaprio has 23 year old chicks on boat not 46 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:37 PM
1

Bit weird but OK
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 02:40 PM
0

https://nypost.com/2017/06/20/study-reveals-why-men-are-more-likely-to-get-fat-if-theyre-married/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:56 PM
1

Yes I'm not saying there isn't good stuff. It's just one less thing to worry about or grind for. The married people I know never seem to have any free time and some have health problems. I believe high levels of stress are a contributing factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:54 PM
2

Studies show all kinds of things. "The study shows that married men have a higher Body Mass Index (BMI) than their non-married counterparts, adding approximately three pounds or 1.4kg to the scales."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:50 PM
3

Yes but kids are a responsibility to pay for. Men work 1/3 more hours on average for these reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:39 PM
3

That's just nonsense. Women have double the rates of obesity last 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:37 PM
1

There's an active campaign to disempower Men. https://www.dictionary.com/browse/masculinist
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 01:03 PM
4

We all know there's a bias against Men in fields of psychology and education, in media too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:46 PM
4

A single Man has limited stress. He might be lonely but if you can work through that there's not many stress factors and less demands on time. I don't care what feminized statistics say.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:18 AM
3

Narcissism has nothing to do with authentic Male empowerment. Seeing yourself as the main character in your movie is quite a healthy mindset and an upgrade from most the negative self critical mentalities.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/22 10:57 AM
3

I've lost count of the Men who say do not get married. And nearly everyone seems to get divorced. But I guess the happy ones are just getting on with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:54 AM
1

Women can also milk daddy state way more than a Man can ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:51 AM
5

I read a report saying married Men tend to be heavier. Don't know what to believe or if any of it really matters. Single guys that don't want to get married don't, same for women I suppose. But marriage isn't a reason for health because divorce is so stressful. Kids and wife are stressful too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:48 AM
1

Screaming at the Sky helps
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:30 AM
2

Women are getting angrier apparently. Men staying the same. https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-63874001
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:20 AM
1

Lost me. All the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:01 PM
1

Don't know what that is, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:59 PM
1

He was just explaining the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:55 PM
9

Likely 90% population don't know what red pill is anyway or show no interest. It's a niche subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:52 PM
1

Nobody was saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:47 PM
1

I can't find many in my area. I'd like a woman to be athletic and health conscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:40 PM
1

Nobody is obligated to give a reason. Infact probably best not to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:38 PM
1

No means no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:29 PM
1

Well adjusted people don't go on a rampage or act vindictively when you simply say "no".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:27 PM
1

Their "pain" isn't my responsibility. Grown adults need to deal with rejection like Men have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:15 PM
1

Which is honestly about 90% of female western population. I've never had a GF overly interested in gym or sports or running.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:10 PM
1

Yes, you have to be more creative in rejection or just have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:08 PM
1

4 of them. They talk. They can sense your disinterest and seek to undermine. I've experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:59 PM
1

Women get nasty and vindictive when you reject them or show no interest. Reputation destruction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:42 PM
3

Equality means the crap stuff too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:55 AM
5

Exactly, this idea Men love to work all the time and be away from family or leisure is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:23 AM
3

If women are choosing careers and not having children it makes the role of Man as breadwinner redundant. I'm ok with that. Commutes, 60 hour weeks, stress, not seeing family, enjoy women you've earnt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:18 AM
68

It's possible just difference between an attractive guy and unattractive.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 09:01 PM
7

I read somewhere 95% divorces in graduate couples the woman inititates. Make of that what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:59 PM
1

OK. How many pills are there?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:21 PM
1

Misanthropy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:17 PM
2

I honestly don't know what black pill is. Are people making this shit up?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:12 PM
-3

Women initiate 75% of divorces. Maybe us Men should look in a mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:08 PM
3

Thanks. Costs nothing to be kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:01 PM
0

We're clearly not the same socially and physically and brains are different. All proven by science. And I mean real science not a gender studies degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:10 PM
1

Smart phones have caused social decay. Everyone staring into a screen and virtual worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:59 PM
1

And pseudoscience like Astrology or Shakra healing, crystals although some Men believe in that too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:55 PM
4

To be fair I have heard accounts by friends that say they do stuff like hold keys in hand in case of attacker. Or they feel scared to even go for a run as they get cat called so often.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:49 PM
4

Yes that's why I give females room particularly at night when they are feeling vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:42 PM
30

The harrassment thing is real. I often cross the street if I see a lone female coming at a distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:33 PM
68

Other factors: 1) Men have better things to do now. More distractions. Other priorities. 2) A socially distanced pandemic. 3) Men are routinely told approaching random women in public is harrassment. 4) Cost of living crisis. Less money spent on dating. More thinking of future. 5) Extended adolescence. Living at home with mummy well into 30s etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:26 PM
2

It's competition and social validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:52 AM
100

Welcome to double standards. I too have noticed the mundane and boring personalities and lack of effort or creativity - they are everything they despise of Men.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 08:53 AM
1

Depends if I had a girlfriend or not or how busy I was. Tended to have little relationships and was monogomous. Then periods of going out and chasing. ONS can be pretty disappointing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:51 AM
3

The pay gap is a pay differential
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/22 07:37 AM
2

I think it's more a lifestyle compatibility thing. Like I wouldn't want to date someone that smokes as a non-smoker. And I would likely irritate them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:28 AM
2

I had sex, pretty geeky, just got to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:20 AM
0

Already nailed my dream girl multiple times
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:44 AM
10

France is cool place to visit though
/r/MensRights05/12/22 06:39 AM
0

Totally disagree, people's wants and needs and behaviour changes through life phases. Unless stunted development or lack life experience as a reference point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:10 PM
2

Yes light and dark, not binary, we co-exist in world.
/r/MensRights04/12/22 12:15 PM
0

It's our duty to know what they want and provide. Otherwise why be in a relationship, just have a wank.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:54 AM
3

Takes two but a woman that can't please a Man will get dumped just like a Man would.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:50 AM
1

My dad was a player so no worries. He's old now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:34 AM
2

It's hedonistic pleasure. That's OK for kids but adults need more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:30 AM
4

Yes, don't have sex. Become celibate or turn to God.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:28 AM
3

Men are our own worst enemy sometimes. But Men aren't to blame for everything wrong in world - it's just dumb.
/r/MensRights04/12/22 10:47 AM
4

Fair enough. Just means someone who isn't ripped and is a dad like age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:23 PM
5

BMI is a joke metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:20 PM
1

You are saying young women are superficial gold diggers and should not be trusted. I wouldn't say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 12:45 PM
34

A dad bod is just another way of saying middle aged spread
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 10:54 AM
1

It's all about the boat
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 10:52 AM
1

Young women prefer to be on Leo DiCaprio's super yacht.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 07:10 AM
1

How often are they taking these long haul foreign trips? I thought Americans got 2 weeks vacation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:29 PM
1

Fine. So it's a long way for Amercans to travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:14 PM
1

Not the point I was making.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:08 PM
7

European mate. We travel more I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:03 PM
1

I don't mind the occasional fuck punctuating sentences. But too much is vulgarity. Also bad manners is off putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:23 PM
3

I would never mention Red pill in real life. It's just info you incorporate into life or reject. And it has nothing to do with what anyone else thinks is good or bad or ethical. It either works and improves your life or it doesn't. No obligation to speak or debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:16 PM
3

Men have always had to be desirable since the first footsteps on the sand. Even when women were "given away" in marriage they still hated the geezer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:13 PM
1

Red pill isn't a physical pill. You can just be aware of red pill content and who is saying what. An intelligent person filters information.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:10 PM
1

I'm really interested in clinical psychology and Men's issues in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:08 PM
1

I hate the term slut. Women enjoy sex too believe it or not. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:06 PM
1

Yeah been rejected loads of times. Just move on. They probably did me a favour. It's another guys problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:03 PM
3

I usually travel 3 or 4 times a year. I'm nothing special. But I could make it seem privileged via social media. Which is what's likely happening here. We get a distorted view of other people's lifestyles. We don't see the bad bits.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:00 PM
3

Just metropolitan Women on dating apps bigging themselves up. About yoga, travel, fabulous friends and whatever other nonsense. Real life is a lot more mundane. Doing a PhD isn't usually highly paid anyway and a lot of work time. Take it all with a pinch of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:54 PM
1

Healthy age gap relationships. A 30 to 40 gap isn't such a big deal. Both Millennials. The 30+ women probably wants kids etc. An 18 year old girl and 35 year old man are at totally different points of life and maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:02 PM
3

I found it really normal around the 18-25 mark for slightly older guys and girls to date. But this is England and Europe and Australia. Maybe America is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:59 PM
2

OK. All the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:54 PM
1

Nothing weird about life experience, it just happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:53 PM
1

I'm not talking about 18 year old girls dating 35 year olds. Men in 30s don't want to date 18 year olds anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:47 PM
1

A few years ago, not that long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:46 PM
3

Only takes one of those suckers to reach the egg. My dad had kids at 50. I know two other guys that had children later. Erectile dysfunction can happen at any age - psychological not just physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:45 PM
2

Yes they can be immature mentally but so can young Men. I also dated a 22 year old when I was 27 - seemed a good fit mentally. Have also dated same age or a bit older - also a good fit. Depends on the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:41 PM
1

Why? Girls mature faster than boys. It seemed quite common at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:33 PM
3

Biological and societal reasons why women might want or accept older guys and Men if possible choose younger. Why age gaps exist. Men can have babies at almost any time for one, women cannot. Younger the better for healthy reproduction. Men offer security, stability and emotional maturity later. In studies Men's physical preference stays about 23 regardless of age. Not the same for women who place less emphasis on youth and fertility indicators. "In 64 percent of heterosexual couples, the man is…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:31 PM
1

Good stuff ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:10 PM
2

Using the "general populace of women" you may as well stick to personal anecdotes as basis for conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:09 PM
1

Ok so there's no issue. Have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:03 PM
3

"Sara Skentelbery and Darren Fowler (2016) investigated the attachment styles of heterosexual women who date older men. They note that research reveals a negative view of couples when the age gap between them is significant. They also recognize the commonly held belief that women who date men who are 10 or more years older have unhealthy relationships with their fathers. But is it true? According to their research, the answer is no. In their study of 173 women, 44 of whom were dating men at leas…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:01 PM
2

Peer reviewed studies. Do some research. All the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:57 PM
1

Not in my experience. Dated a 18/19 year old at 23/24 for 18 months. Went to college a bit later and boinked loads of college age girls 18-22. The age gap was barely noticeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:51 PM
4

Yes because women are on here bashing men unfairly and constantly every day. It's delusional. The data and science is clear on age gaps: 56% of women state they prefer to date a guy older than them – and 45% of those women want their man to be between 5 and 15 years older than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:41 PM
-1

Try and get over it. A mature Man has much to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:29 PM
1

Adult age is adult age. I'd take on a case by case basis. The Man might be a dirt bag whatever the age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:25 PM
1

Don't be bitter. Just get on with your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:12 PM
-2

It is only women. Older accomplished Men have nothing to be jealous about. It's usually younger guys that chase the money / status.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:09 PM
1

Good, older women should get on with their lives and just accept the fact many women prefer older Men and Men prefer younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:04 PM
3

"Research shows that when it comes to establishing long-term relationships, the majority of women, of all ages, are typically interested in older men. A large study of more than 12,000 participants in Finland found that most women prefer same-age or older male partners throughout life, while men, regardless of age, tend to prefer women in their 20s."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:03 PM
1

I know of a few 5 to 15 years. I don't believe it is uncommon. Way more rare other way round.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:01 PM
2

Funny how I know of so many then including parent that remarried 12 years younger. Sorry I don't believe it is rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:59 PM
0

Not on a 5 to 15 year gap. Which is quite common in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:57 PM
-1

Yes, it's used by bitter women that feel the passing of time and envy. And annoyance that Men ain't paying them as much attention. Not all but a good %.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:55 PM
7

This doesn't add up. I know plenty of age gap relationships that are healthy. Women want older Men. The same doesn't usually apply the other way round. 5 years is average gap between Man and woman, I even know 8 to 20 years gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:51 PM
1

More likely to get a high five
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:47 PM
10

It's the fact that Man own age is taken off the market. Competitiveness creeps in and envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:46 PM
1

Not all. A good % do. And envy / frustration shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:43 PM
3

The red pill / blue pill manosphere stuff has been around for years. Don't worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:19 AM
1

There's more consequences for women to sleep around. Pregnancy, STDs, safety issues, stigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 09:02 AM
1

The comments are clueless and delusional.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 07:23 AM
7

Stalin was a player
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:12 PM
2

I'd hope the majority of boyfriends / husbands would be right there with you - it's a return to the damn dark ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:14 PM
2

Yes I fully support women's right to abortion and bodily autonomy. Some hard right religious fundamentalist supreme court judges took it away.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:07 PM
1

Read the "two wrongs don't make a right" bit before assuming I don't support women's access to reproductive healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:00 PM
0

Yes I think there's a crushing media / societal influence on what is conventional or desirable. Young Men feel it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:58 PM
4

More women go into higher education than Men. Could Men be victims of patriarchy (traditional working class gender roles etc.). Or is it evidence of no patriarchy? Same with the gender pay gap / differential. I am open to learning from all sides. The debate continues...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:56 PM
14

A lot of 3rd and 4th wave feminist rhetoric today does cross the line from attacks on sexism into attacks on Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:43 PM
0

I see it more as self acceptance. Like I may have this small imperfection but I'm OK with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:35 PM
6

Women are right about Men. It's the bad faith actors who clearly despise Men that cause the disconnect. And that's likely vice-versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:33 PM
2

Women tend to more self critical than Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:18 PM
8

Said it before - Men are our own worst enemy. We give attention away too cheaply instead of treating like valuable currency.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:57 PM
-1

Women do. It's not entirely their fault. Validation through attention is way too easy. Inflates ego like a balloon and leads to disappointment when reality hits. Men tend to be rejected early and often for a healthy dose of realism and self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:51 PM
10

Haha. I'm completely screwed on the promiscuity part. Keep it on the low.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 01:46 PM
1

healthy levels of testosterone. Balance of masculine and feminine traits. Lean Masculine. Partner: don't mind. Take on individual basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:41 PM
2

I don't care, up to them. Men are pilloried for having specific standards or preferences. Gender double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:31 PM
1

I'm fairly good looking and not short of offers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:23 PM
–

No, don't ever say a number. Be vague about it. One, it's personal private info. And two, she won't take it very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:51 PM
15

Have you seen the quality on dating apps? Women tend to have an overinflated opinion of themselves. Guys tend to be far more realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:46 PM
1

We definitely get more introverted as we age. There's less time, less energy and more stuff to do. More focus on stuff that really matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:51 AM
1

I wouldn't even bother approaching or asking anything. If a woman wants a conversation she can strike one up or indicate attraction - I might reciprocate depending on how I'm feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:37 AM
1

It's horrid. Two wrongs don't make a right. A medical procedure with life changing consequences is fully a Man's right and choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:27 AM
-1

Men don't have a job. We don't have to listen or do anything. Just like women don't have to listen to Men whining or having a tantrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:22 AM
1

Red pill awareness isn't even about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:17 AM
1

Red pill isn't all about getting women. It's a lifestyle philosophy and awareness. The PUA community is all about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:16 AM
1

That's right. Just stop watching these dumb videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:14 AM
2

It's a bit different conversation though, talking about general attraction and marketplace value not an outliers preference for nerdy short guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:13 AM
17

Structural engineering by any chance? Welcome to the corporate world, fucking shit.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 07:38 AM
1

Be a bit upset being judged on parents getting divorced after 14 years. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:33 PM
1

I never said it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:22 PM
1

Don't reply then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:10 PM
1

Or reaching potential. Things that are rare have high value - self evident.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:08 PM
1

Over yourself mainly, self mastery, but you likely become a leader too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:03 PM
1

Yes. There's a power in becoming that Man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:59 PM
1

Like when you are captain of your own ship. Only one Man can be president so forget that. Those Men who have shit together are rare so have value.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:56 PM
1

Yes lots of Men, but the top 20% will get a shit load of attention. More scarce so have more value.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:53 PM
2

You're mixing up personal power with authoritative power. A man has lots of power but must become.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:52 PM
3

But you judge on individual outcome not statistics. It's totally irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:26 PM
0

Age gaps in marriages are 5 years average.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:24 PM
1

Disagree. There's plenty of horny women who want regular sex with the right man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:45 PM
0

Every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:41 PM
1

You can get good values from a single parent. Don't be so naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:34 PM
5

This is the dumbest most vacuous list of criteria I've ever witnessed. I wouldn't date any asshole that had such a judgemental (poorly educated) mentality two parents or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:32 PM
2

Interesting reading for ya: https://burkrosemann.medium.com/why-almost-half-of-the-population-will-be-single-childless-by-2030-cca154f113f2
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:27 PM
1

Don't want kids particularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:25 PM
2

On dating sites. Just my experience. There's plenty of single women. Apparently the number is set to soar and 40% will be childless by 2030.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:23 PM
-1

Men have power but I didn't realise until later. That's why women when they find a good single man at 40 want to hold onto him because it's like rocking horse shit. The biological clock is ticking by 30 too. Younger Men think women have all the power in 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:11 PM
3

Everyone doesn't have kids. But a significant portion has kids or wants them soon in 30s. I'd say it's about 50/50 on dating sites. I have dated 2 or 3 single moms, was alright, there's usually some drama involved and you won't be a priority. I feel bad for the kid when you make a bond and then disappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:02 PM
0

Men are actually the prize. But many Men don't realise it until we step into our power. Feminists agree as they believe in patriarchy which is a power structure with Men at top.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:48 AM
2

The Man is actually the prize. That's why dating sites are full of women looking for a Man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:45 AM
0

I like my independent time as have stuff going on. But the no relationship thing is a put off. Many Men after 30 don't have time to waste on no future. You could just pay for sex and it would be with someone younger and hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:24 AM
0

Sweet as dude!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:49 AM
5

This is true. You can easily become jaded and resentful. I try not to be. But I feel you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:48 AM
14

I disagree with Men all the time. Main thing is we have a robust discussion and agree to disagree. You rarely change someone's mind completely. Some women and men take it to heart like their beliefs are entire identity. We must get beyond it.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 08:44 AM
11

In UK we have rail strikes and women work in system also. I have no issues with this angle either. They are all just trying to get better pay and conditions. Part of it is safety on the railways which effects passengers too.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 08:39 AM
1

1 or 2 but know your limits. Don't fill pretty head full up with nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:33 PM
2

Ambition for work, ambition for family, a better life. If not moving forwards going backwards. Not just about making loads of money, it's about contributing your potentiality to society too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 06:29 PM
2

Not just the 3rd or 4th wave feminists. It's the white knight orbiters. Always some "right on" justice warrior coming to the rescue. Nobody trusts these Men.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 03:19 PM
2

Some Men wank in a sock. They have standards.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 03:17 PM
1

Why do people follow Putin? I guess cos he projects power despite diminutive stature.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:50 PM
1

A few Men and Women I know that appear happy tend to have hobbies and activities. Again anecdotal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:44 PM
2

Women can get attention (currency)from Men without much commitment. Look at Facebook and OnlyFans.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:36 PM
2

10 out of 12 world leaders are under 6ft. Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates? I mean it's rare to reach those levels but height shouldn't hold you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:32 PM
4

Men do crucial jobs that only Men can do efficiently due to superior physical strength. If women could do these jobs they'd be doing it already. Example: https://www.futureforestinc.com/six-benefits-of-logging-forests/#:~:text=Provides%20necessary%20materials%20%E2%80%93%20Logging%20is,and%20other%20kinds%20of%20commodities. We can also do the information jobs and nursing. Unfortunately Women are required for babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:28 PM
6

This is true also. Men pay majority of taxes. Which then gets funneled to single mums on welfare. A large % of Men working overtime are doing it to keep a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:19 PM
4

I don't think Women are happier single. Know plenty of unhappy single Women and Men especially as middle age creeps in. It's true that most marriage divorces are initiated by women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:15 PM
1

Agree. Women don't need Men for relationships. Society needs strong capable Men though unless we want to live in the dark ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:12 PM
3

Not much you can do about height to a degree, can wear lifts. Plenty of powerful short dudes. Look at world leaders or CEOs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:42 AM
1

Confidence endures. Looks fade. You might never be rich or famous. Work on the things you can control.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:36 AM
0

It is crap. She's likely smashing other dudes. Make sure you seal the deal early. Unless religious reasons sex is healthy part of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 08:01 AM
2

Can't she pay you now?
/r/MensRights29/11/22 07:51 AM
9

The baby ain't yours. Move on don't look back.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 07:42 AM
1

A man should develop ambition. Doesn't have to be work. Otherwise you are but a useless hedonistic pleasure seeker.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:39 AM
8

Didn't want the kids. Refused to acknowledge. Happy days.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 07:11 AM
-2

My age range is 12 years younger to 2 years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:59 PM
1

40 is missing the boat. Biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:57 PM
0

Women are fine alone? They are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:50 PM
1

Middle aged single women are fine alone - which is handy really as chances of finding a Man rapidly decreasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:44 PM
0

Multiple Cats and box wine lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:43 PM
0

Yeah too middle...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:19 PM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:10 PM
1

Evolutionary reasons. Yes top 20% of Males are having 80% of the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:35 PM
0

Because it's different for a Man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:32 PM
0

Because sex is good and natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:26 PM
1

Neither. Do what you want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:09 PM
0

This is a really poor post. Men having less sex is not a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:58 PM
2

Deprogramming. It has gone way too far in schools.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 04:41 PM
1

Not my fault Americans are so fat. Stop consuming so much and destroying the planet.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 03:44 PM
3

They do?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:42 PM
0

It does. Scientific projections and modelling is terrible. Look at the scamdemic.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 03:32 PM
2

It's an unverifiable and unscientific claim that X will cause Y so far in the future. Look how many claims and projections environmentalists got completely wrong over last 50 years. JP is saying the climate alarmism and political response isn't justified. Humans have a way of working shit out, but too many moving parts to predict with accuracy over a few years.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 03:06 PM
2

JP seems to be a lightning rod for hate and I don't know why. Most his advice is pretty conventional.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 02:46 PM
0

I live in the socialist Republic of South Yorkshire, the hyper socialist bit with highest house prices ironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:12 PM
-1

Quinoa belt, suburban England. Social justice warriors everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:08 PM
-2

More or less. It's at least 80% radical feminist where I live. Centrist women hard to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:04 PM
0

Went on a red pill women sub and it was basically a trad conservative attract high value (wealth) Man by being pretty and traditional forum. Non wanted to pay for their own meal. So it's either that or raving feminists. What a time to be a Man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:59 PM
2

JP believes that the error margin of the climate prediction models is greater than the predicted changes, not that climate change isn't real.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 08:13 AM
1

Dutch cap works too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:06 PM
3

Female contraception is available.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:42 PM
1

Boo Trump. Boo.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 03:08 PM
35

It's funny watching teachers getting worked up about Tate and Jordan Peterson influencing the youth. Like there's not 1000 things more important going on in the world.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 02:44 PM
5

YEE-HAW!!
/r/MensRights27/11/22 01:13 PM
3

I think there was woman's suffrage, well documented. My issue is with third and fourth wave feminism not being about equality.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 11:43 AM
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They can only debate students, they get exposed otherwise.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 11:28 AM
4

BS. Red pill and Men's rights are not mutually exclusive with political establishment Conservatism.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 11:22 AM
13

Putting faith in right trad Christian politics is just swapping one ball and chain for another.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 11:19 AM
1

Yeah and I've been learning about red pill for years. It's not the same thing as trad conservatism.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/22 10:57 AM
1

I don't want to get married. You're mixing up traditional conservatism with redpill philosophy. Love isn't about money anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/22 10:47 AM
2

I don't get my education from Turning point gotchya videos for sure.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 10:16 AM
10

I'm not educated in the US you Muppet.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 10:10 AM
9

Screw Owens, bollocks to republicans
/r/MensRights27/11/22 10:04 AM
1

We're in a cost of living crisis. I don't see why heaping financial pressure on Men is enjoyable. Doing longer hours isn't enjoyable. Every relationship is give and take and that's something to work out individual basis. But no I think Men that lead with money and pay for everything are simps.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/22 08:54 AM
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I don't date radical feminists for these very reasons. People on the extremes do not deal with nuanced thought or logical reasoning well.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 08:37 AM
1

Dating multiple times can get costly. I think women earn money so should pay sometimes. I'd have a negative impression if they weren't independent.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/22 07:31 AM
2

I don't understand either. Anyone intelligent makes a judgement on person they are dating as an individual. The difference is being redpill aware or being a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 07:05 AM
4

Such weird logic. They also want Male allies and strong Men to jump in harms way and save the day when it suits.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 10:12 PM
2

A psychopath or sociopath to some extent doesn't necessarily rationalise because they are the persona. Behind it they often don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:04 PM
3

They were observations by the author from his work life under bosses not a guide. He talks about it on podcasts. He's not saying "do this" more be aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:59 PM
1

Single moms need love too daddy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:30 PM
1

Entire life is about connection with each other. Show me one person that has 0 relationships that is happy and I'll show you 99 that are sad, lonely, depressed. Scientists even proved loneliness kills people!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:22 PM
1

We are social creatures. So yeah the sex part isn't needed but the relationship part feels needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:16 PM
1

We do need healthy relationships though. Total isolation is damaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:10 PM
1

Sex isn't a need. You can be healthy single and many are. Food, water, shelter are needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:08 PM
2

It is subjective but in general terms of attraction what is inappropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 02:37 PM
14

I think Men could be more socially calibrated generally. Like you can take risks by being playful and fun without being a dick or totally inappropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 01:23 PM
19

Unfortunately true. Men will get criticism and pushback even when they articulate politely a perfectly reasonable position. Women rarely ever get pushback for shitting on a short or bald guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 12:33 PM
20

Yes it's really useful to know where our food comes from and sources of modern convenience. Connects us to other people's struggles instead of just being a self indulgent whiny ass-hat.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 12:11 PM
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It's a lazy "go to" move to shutdown your voice. I get impression most hear pejorative terms in media and don't really know what it means or how to apply. And then sheep-like switch to another trending term. Or it's used by people who really do have an agenda against masculinity. Non of this seeks to understand the problem of loneliness or depression.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 11:51 AM
1

I'm aware of science and all the red pill stuff. I try not to be too cynical when dating. Life is a lived experience not data and statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 11:11 AM
1

I prefer taller women. I usually date 5ft 6 and over. Had a 6ft girlfriend and she was great. Don't worry there's preferences for all sizes :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:25 AM
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