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Punch him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:59 AM
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That's because men do it as entitlement. Asking someone if they are capable of cooking a dish is different from asking someone to cook a dish for you. The latter is asking for free labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:04 AM
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I mean it's no hard. Just give them the ingrdients and the recipe. Poha upma etc is super basic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:54 AM
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Something as basic as poha?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:52 AM
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But I feel like dating even 5 years below my age pushes me into the creepy zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:49 AM
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Damn. You going all out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:48 AM
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smh learn to cook. Poha is basic as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:47 AM
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That's because our leader is literally without any vision or good policy ideas. That's what happens when you elect a village idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:47 AM
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In India you can just walk into any barbershop.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:46 AM
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I personally need that individual chemistry because on an emotional level, my sense of masculinity and self worth is pegged to what a sexual partner feels with me vis a vis other partners. This can't really be cured by therapy. So it's a non negotiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:45 AM
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Okay, lust then. Women who feel anxious still get uncontrolled lust. So do some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:30 PM
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Lust so intense that you can't even control yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:15 PM
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But they don't. The flaws ruin things later. Women with deeper insecurities DO get insane chemistry
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 05:13 PM
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Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:33 PM
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Only the former. May or may not be thr latter. Doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:09 PM
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Failed relationship doesn't mean they don't have insane chemistry. Lots of women say they had insane chemistry but the relationship didn't work out. My point has only to do with chemistry. Nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:46 PM
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Few weeks to few months. And how much they feel aroused in your presence. How excited do they feel to be with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:44 PM
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It is what it is. Tbh I don't understand how more people don't think of these things. My brain is pretty much wired this way. Like I see people having kids and I wonder how they aren't worried that the kid will come out with Downs Syndrome Or debilitating genetic diseases, or be born and then get bullied and commit suicide. Or other bad stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:32 PM
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they bring their own problems in, Different thing from not having chemistry. Women who are insecure do get chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:23 PM
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Do you think women who feel this way don't get insane chemistry?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:13 PM
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How can you ever get chemistry if someone doesn’t s always too worried, paranoid, anxious, co dependent to actually be able to be their authentic self so insane chemistry can happen. But by presenting my anxiety as is, I'm being my most authentic self.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:08 PM
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Why not? Do you think women who are insecure never get insane chemistry with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:48 PM
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In my case my brain is already primed to think in those lines, so I would always be wondering until I was reassured otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:23 PM
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I gave up after 2 days of scrolling ngl. Got bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:22 PM
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I actually changed the age range to below 30 and the cute ones showed up. I'm convinced that above 30 the cute ones are all taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:21 PM
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Thank you for the reply bro. Sometimes I feel like thr world would judge me for voicing this opinion irl so I don't. But I would rather die than date someone if I knew they had had better chemistry with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:17 PM
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Q4A: would you continue dating someone if you've been dating them a while and you're into them but then you somehow find out that they had absolutely insane chemistry with their ex and they don't have it with you? I think this is one of the scenarios that my brain plays out the most and it's what I feel most anxious about wrt relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:10 PM
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30-38
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:05 PM
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I don't blame them. I would never want to settle down with a woman I wasn't attracted to either. Younger people will feel this even more strongly than I do. Honestly I do feel that this is best solved with plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:43 PM
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I dunno if it's bad but it's very stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:36 PM
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More power to you. I'm giving up playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:34 PM
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Possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:31 PM
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Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:26 PM
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You're a baby though. You're not eligible to weigh in on adult topics until you reach 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:25 PM
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I'm also reading Samin Nosrat's Salt Fat Acid Heat, maybe that will help me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:24 PM
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I'm slowly learning how to cook (found a nice but v cheap online paid course). But tbh building intuition is hard. Needs a lot of repetition.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:24 PM
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XUV 700 is a heavy car.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:23 PM
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For my age range, yeah I legit couldn't. Maybe I really care about good looks, I dunno. But I suspect it's more that all the cute ones are (obviously) taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:17 PM
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I have a hypothesis that with the acceptability of single people in society rising as a whole, most not-good looking people will remain single because no pressure to couple up and no one hot enough left to motivate you to go after them. Atleast after their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:17 PM
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Nah this is bullshit. I have female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:14 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:13 PM
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Thanks bro
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:09 PM
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A friend bullied me into making a Hinge account. I swear to God, I didn't find a single cute woman that I would be into. Turns out it's true that after 30 all the good options get taken off the market. Oh well. I'm just gonna give up and focus on building an awesome life for myself. Hope all the single and hopeless people here do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:08 PM
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So the thing is, it hurts if she's had better sexual chemistry with other dudes. And the proof of that is she has had hookups in the past but not with you, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:07 PM
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I'm actually thinking of the reasons why the flavor wasn't popping more. So far the possible causes include - not enough salt, I added water in the middle and it should have been hot water, I didn't evaporate enough water at the end/didn't cook it long enough, should have dry roasted the powdered spices before using them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:39 PM
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I can't jerk off tonight because I handled raw chilli
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:38 PM
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Looks delishus
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:36 PM
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Really good. Although a little more salt was needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:31 PM
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I made Cashewnut Curry today. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:24 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/1tj8o1inr7ig1.png?width=1220&format=png&auto=webp&s=d72b8aaf19f7d636c89e6ec830e11078effaffd7 This book was published way before the dot com bubble, bro. It's the book that introduced the general population to the EMH.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:21 AM
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No, it was always a hypothesis. Unless you have any source that says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:17 AM
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No like I showed you, it can seem like they're getting lucky again and again, but really it's just that they were part of a large cohort and through sheer probability, they made 10 or 20 right calls. And Fooled By Randomness did not create the Efficient Market Hypothesis (it's a hypothesis not a theory). But the first time the general public was introduced to the EMH was the book A Random Walk Down Wall Street. https://youtu.be/R_1OhC0E4t0 here watch this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:11 AM
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I guess I'm a 20 year old in a 34 year olds body.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:59 AM
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Yes. In fact that's the biggest reason I want sex. Sex just to bond doesn't excite me as much as it does when done for ego and validation. I can easily love someone and not want sex with them if it won't give me any validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:59 AM
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You should read Fooled By Randomness by Taleb, he talks about this. To us it seems that Buffet et al made it through sheer hardwork. But think about how many people started investing at the same time as Buffet. Most of them lost and were never seen again. Taleb has a nice thought experiment. Suppose you find out the address of 10,000 random people. To 5000 you send a letter saying Stock A will go up. To the other 5000 you send a letter saying Stock A will go down. Stock A goes up. So now you tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:58 AM
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Could be. I will admit I'm inexperienced. But at least to me rn it feels like it would be very gratifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:49 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:41 PM
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I should also start posting the foods I make.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:35 PM
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But see. It depends on things that are skill and things that depend on luck. Like if I go to med school and become a surgeon, with 10 years of practice I can become a good surgeon. But I can't necessarily become a good stock picker because the market behaves more randomly. And since this is other people's approval we are talking about (and since people are so varied), this is more like stock picking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:32 PM
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I think if a woman only wants a man for sex then it's more gratifying for the man, as opposed to when the woman also has feelings for the man. Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:27 PM
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Except agents produce shitty and insecure code because AI has trained on shitty and insecure code. If you're anyone who wants to use AI agents to code up an application and charge people money for it, be my guest. But when it inevitably breaks over time, it's your rep that gets trashed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:18 PM
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Mhmm
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:16 PM
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We will. I'm telling you. Look at automation in the past and you see almost nothing has led to this quantum of job losses.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:18 PM
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That is never going to happen by overreacting, I can promise you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:14 PM
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Even if you're right, that's still going to eliminate a lot of jobs. Companies won't need to keep every employee they have now on to supervise the AI. Nope, the only way this happens is if companies literally don't give a fuck about code quality, and application stability. AI is just not very good at anything that isn't boilerplate and things that have been done a million times before and have solid documentation on the internet. Like, think about how much time it takes to actually review all of…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:51 PM
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Except by overreacting you play right into the hands of companies and capital owners. As to how useful it is, it will always need human supervision. It will always need it's output reviewed for any commercial application that cares about security or privacy etc. And so the idea of it massively reducing the # of developers required is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:38 PM
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Even if AI can't replace people yet, that is what it's being developed for Yes and it will never succeed. In fact it's already showing slower improvements. People should be scared of the prospect of their labor no longer having any bargaining power. The antidote to that is unionizing and organizing, not doomposting on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:27 PM
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People aren't getting laid off because AI can do their job. People are getting laid off because the global economy has gone to shit thanks to Trump tarriffs and on top of that Big Tech is putting almost all it's eggs in the AI basket, which requires money. Money that can be taken by cutting staff and absorbing the payroll.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:19 PM
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Praying
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:06 PM
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I'm really fucking tired of people doomposting about AI taking all tech jobs, on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:05 PM
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Some schizo dude got shot dead by a cop. He didn't say anything on it until days later. He also pals around with Bernie (who refuses to call the Israeli war a genocide) and AOCIA (who voted to fund weapons to Israel).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:40 PM
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No, but I am slowly learning to cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 08:13 PM
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He's already been cancelled by the left.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 08:13 PM
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Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 08:08 PM
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He didnt kill himself plain and simple. This is standard MO of the uber elite.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 08:08 PM
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Then new JJK season OST slaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 08:07 PM
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Can confirm. Do not hikikomori. Find a routine that has you getting out of the house or atleast doing something routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 08:05 PM
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There's a subreddit for people of my country who are in their 30s. It's mostly people in their 30s and single. Most of thr posts are about people being single and lonely. Reading them has made me feel melancholy ngl. Life can be sad sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 08:02 PM
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I'm gonna buy a v cheap but really good online cooking course. I will learn a system to meal prep base gravies and use it to make tons of new dishes. I am so psyched.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:42 PM
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Hey, how is everyone today ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:40 PM
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Hey, how is everyone today?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:51 PM
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That
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:56 PM
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No I'm saying do you think the act of it is wrong, not the confession of jt at the wrong time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:06 PM
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There is a war going on in the AskIndianWomen subreddit. https://np.reddit.com/r/AskIndianWomen/s/cGFcvd6vYp All because one guy confessed to jerking off to photos of women he knew. So I have a question - is it wrong to do that? Jerk off to photos of people you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:04 PM
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What if you're not the most exciting lover they've had. Shouldn't try to be #1 husband until you can be #1 best sex imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:42 PM
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Which ones the real one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:41 PM
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Beans, chickpeas and lentils. Best
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:39 PM
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Meh, it's Brianna Wu. The Israel loving transphobe. Her opinions are irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:38 PM
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Bro please start a blog with all of these. Thanks. I will look at them any time I need motivation to keep working hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:33 PM
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Congratulations bro. May it happen for you more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:32 PM
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Weird ngl. Most men have trained themselves to never make a noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:30 PM
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So, there's this weird thing that happened yesterday. I was browsing the subreddit of this one city subreddit in my country. The city is known for its casual sex scene. And the comments were split b/w those who were saying getting sex is super easy there and they see everyone around them sleeping around etc. And there were others saying they had lived there all their life and they never saw anything of that sort. It has me convinced that getting or not getting sex is all about your social circle…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:29 PM
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Instagram brainrot I bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:25 PM
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Is my gender dumb? Are men idiots?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:25 PM
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Yes I agree, after all hooking up is such a shitty thing to do to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:45 PM
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He's the best for her in the metrics that matter to her. She doesn't seem unhappy. I really hope that in the coming decade it becomes normalized to not only want someone but also confirm with them if the reasons for wanting them are rhe same as the reasons they want to be wanted for. Do you feel the same about men who fuck sluts in their youth, "sowing their wild oates" or whatever, and then find a nice wife material woman to cherish and love and have children with? There is literally a saying "…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:41 PM
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Yes I'm sure social outcomes were better in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:37 PM
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Yes I agree. They had class back then and didn't chase casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:32 PM
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Yes I'm sure it's gross the way do it now but wasn't back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:30 PM
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Yes I agree they didn't try for casual sex in the past. Men didn't just try to get sex back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:28 PM
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Yeah, people never had casual sex before porn
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:26 PM
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Yes having desire for sex without commitment or attachment is gross and unnatural
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:23 PM
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I disagree. Men fear paternity fraud. It eases his mind. It's like this. Suppose you suspect your SO is cheating on you but you have no proof. And the feeling of is-he-cheating-or-not completely destroys any sense of sanity a human being might have. Too much uncertainty about something men care about a lot. The paternity test gives certainty one way or another. So there is merit to his request in that it eases his mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:22 PM
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Indeed. We deserve to be hated for the crime of wanting sex without attachment or commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:20 PM
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I know my response was to that only. To say yuck to a mans desires. I'm sure we deserve it for the sin of having desires in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:19 PM
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Yes I'm sure men's desires are to be invalidated. We don't have feelings after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:16 PM
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Quarantine the kid
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:01 PM
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I mean a lot of men only care about what they think will get them laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:00 PM
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I'm doing good. Slowly getting a routine going. My boss is happy with my work. I hope to keep upskilling. Everyday now I wake up with the mission of trying to become the kind of man who could have gotten laid. And then work towards it. Baby steps but I'm making progress. Hope you get a good job offer soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:58 PM
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As far as I can tell, men absolutely care about what they think women want. Whether that is what women really want, I can't really say. Also to clarify even further - when I say, what women want, I mean what women want for a casual encounter. Basically, for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:56 PM
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I do think he is reasonable. I empathise with him. I don't care if she can't just move on. Let the relationship break if that's what it takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:55 PM
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I don't think they're trying to gaslight me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:51 PM
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Men value what they think women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:50 PM
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From our POV she trapped him. Should have let him go if he's no where near the best. I wonder if some women's best can only ever be guys she won't be into. Like some kind of reverse gender Madonna Whore complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:49 PM
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Nah I like having diverse perspectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:47 PM
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Hello, how is everyone today?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:46 PM
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Best sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:18 PM
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I'm the opposite. I'm a coward but I'm also a worrier and an anxious person who has obsessively read every cheating story he could find online. And imagined living through it. If I ever get cheated on, I'm not going to get mad or get angry or cry. I'm just going to pack up my shit and walk away. Fresh start.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:17 PM
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Tbh just read books. Good books. No point in debating online because online leftist debate is trash tier. You will see idiots calling Nordic countries as socialist or whatnot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:15 PM
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I wish I was attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:13 PM
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Honestly for me I would rather they say how hot they find me and how good I am in bed and how I drive them insane with lust for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:11 PM
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You can just not date those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:10 PM
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I'd add a little more to this with a story. My grandparents grew up very poor. India was even poorer back then. They had nothing. Not even the good sense to not have 3 kids. Which made them even poorer. As a result they ended up becoming miserly, even after they had achieved prosperity (massive big house). It's the same thing. Men who got sex easily, stop overvaluing it. Men who got it late + had to work hard at it - I doubt sex will never not be something they chase as a means to prove themselv…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:10 PM
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Nah I'm straight, I think the before was cuter. After screams skinhead.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:05 PM
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Say it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:04 PM
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If he's 23 then I am the King of England.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:02 PM
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Tbh I feel the same from a switched gender POV. And what I hate even more is if you express discomfort with this you get called a bigot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:00 PM
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Sneaker culture is so abhorrent to me. Consumerist af.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:57 PM
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Hello, how is everyone today? I saw a post about how dating is great in this one city in my country and it made me feel regret and the pain of my lost 20s. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:56 PM
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Unc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:55 PM
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No this is actually a fair take. I can easily imagine myself loving a woman but not being as sexually aroused by her as with another woman. I think this is true for most people. That's why true desire matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:55 PM
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The latter. Have enough of the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:34 AM
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I'm split about this. My good qualities are - I'm fiercely loyal and sincere. Plus I get gratification by making other people happy, which means I will do everything I can to make my wife happy. Also I don't usually lose my temper, I'm calm, I listen, I don't judge. But my bad qualities are - as I've said earlier, I feel like I'm a pushover who can't stand up for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:37 PM
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It's also a lack of third place avenues in a lot of places. Gets worse once you leave college.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:06 PM
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Some of them. No, if as a couple. Yes, if as friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:05 PM
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Tbh it makes me sad. A decade and I barely saw any growth. All I've managed to do is get a job and move out. Now I'm trying to prevent the next decade from be coming like the previous one. But I legit feel like I lack so much life experience that I'm a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:04 PM
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That dudes good looking though. I would rate him above her on the looks scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:02 PM
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Anyway, I'm just going to give up on getting a girl friend tbh, because like I said a couple days ago, I have shit assertiveness skills and I'm incapable of standing up for myself. So instead I'm just going to spend the rest of my life trying to overcome this and to become the kind of person who's deserving of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:01 PM
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But tbh in that case men who chase true desire are also valid in their place.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:00 PM
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Tbh I've never noticed this. Like with married friends, it's not like other women check my friends out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:58 PM
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But also tbh, I can kinda see where this comes from. She wants to be chosen. She wants the married guy to leave his wife for her. Although that's going to be disastrous, it's not illegal. She can do what she wants. Tbh it should be the same for men who are looking for the spark and chemistry over stability in a relationship. The red pill dudes who chase after true desire should not be criticised for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:57 PM
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Okay so I got a little red pill dose today. Before I procceed. #NotAllWomen. But, today I got to know about a woman who actually chases married men. Wtf. Like a real woman. I always thought this shit was bullshit. But it's true. What the actual fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:41 PM
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I only get AI gf ads on YouTube.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 10:36 PM
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So the moment I admit that I feel I'm unworthy of dating on reddit, the algorithm starts showing me hot women. This sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 10:32 PM
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Yes but most of them are online ones. Haven't really met too many of them. One guy used to live in my city and so we used to hang out a lot. But then he moves countries. We all talk daily though. If I lived in their cities we would hang out every weeknd or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 10:32 PM
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Like I said, you keep doing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 07:33 PM
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Not really weird to me. But you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 07:30 PM
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That's the thing though. What seems laughable to you is brutally heartbreaking for the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 07:23 PM
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Not for this. Can't really afford therapy at the moment. Maybe I'll try reading books on assertiveness skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 06:20 PM
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Cap
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 05:57 PM
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The thing is I don't know how to fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 05:57 PM
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Hopefully. I hate the Freeze response.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 05:57 PM
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33.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 05:56 PM
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Not laugh at men when they talk about their problems? That would be a nice start.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 05:33 PM
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Just marry into another culture smh. I was raised bilingual and I'm Indian.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 05:32 PM
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Why would you be missed?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 05:31 PM
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I have another confession to make. This one is scary to admit but The truth is that I'm a coward. I'm a coward and have low self esteem, and am unable to stand up for myself. And I am absolutely terrible at confrontation. Now there's some nuance to this. I'm very good at debating. Online or offline. And I've been in physical fights thanks to MMA. I can handle those. But heated verbal arguments (which happen a lot in India), I absolutely get overwhelmed by anxiety and shut down. And that also mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 05:29 PM
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Hey, how is everyone today?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 05:24 PM
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I don't think they have toilets in McDonalds here because most McDonalds are in upscale malls that have separate toilets.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 05:23 PM
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Brootal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:25 PM
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I want to get something off my chest (although I'm sure I've said this here before), and this place is as good as any. So here goes - I want what Red Pillers call "true desire"from a woman. But as a virgin who is terribly worried about how good he will be in bed, if I did get true desire from someone, I would probably shut down. For the first time, I definitely would need to take it slow. So why am I saying all this. Because if I take it slow, then it won't feel like true desire. Which is why I …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:13 PM
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That sucks. Hope you feel better soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:37 PM
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Hello, how is everyone today.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:29 PM
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I'm getting comfortable again and I dont like it. I need to start pushing myself out of my comfort zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:29 PM
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If your perception of people doesn't change based on actually knowing them How hot they are? That doesn't. At all. It's purely based on physical form. I might become fond of someone but I will not lust after them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:46 PM
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Not yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:43 PM
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Of course your perception of how someone looks changes depending on context In the initial meeting. After that, the lust part is set for a while. Especially if they're hot. The biggest thing that makes me lust after a woman is if she has a beautiful face and a curvy body. Clothing doesn't do much here. And once I lust after her, her clothing doesn't really change anything unless it's like super gross in some ways. This feeling of lust is very different, much stronger and more pleasurable than th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:42 PM
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I do but that's why I refuse to settle down. I shall forever be chasing my idea of what my youth should have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:38 PM
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And those impressions are likely to change after date two when he changes his outfit No, that kind of desire is inspired by a personals physical form and it doesn't just change based on what they wear. Bring properly, primally, lustfully into someone takes a bit more knowing them usually, if you've just met you're usually just a bit interested or curious at most. Respectfully, maybe this applies to you but not to everyone. I want someone to lust after me so hard they're losing their mind. I want…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:35 PM
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What do they really know about you after one date or whatever cutoff you have for "genuine desire"? What he looks like, his vibes. Do you really want them to be that into their superficial first impression of you? Sure, why not. Do you really think that's more genuine than them getting to know you properly and being attracted to you after knowing all those things? Yes. Because it's pure lust based on physical attraction. It feels more primal, and ergo more authentic. An uncontrolled base urge th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:30 PM
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Hey, how is everyone today?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:20 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:18 PM
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Okay I'm not getting triggered by these messages anymore. Maybe I'm finally learning to let go.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:18 PM
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Persian, and other languages derived from it, are some of the most poetic in the world. I've never read poetry more beautiful than in these languages. Other languages don't really come close.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:17 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 04:08 PM
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I do somewhat agree with this. I don't think they're superior as a man, but they do have superior social skills and lack of inhibition that I wish I had.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 04:00 PM
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Hey, how is everyone today?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 04:00 PM
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Pretty but not very very very very
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 06:46 PM
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But then Zairs claim of it being an economic problem is untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:08 PM
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I feel it's because America is atomized in a way other societies aren't yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:00 PM
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Valid
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:58 PM
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Goodbye for now brother. You were nice to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:57 PM
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If that were true, poor countries would have worse fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:57 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:56 PM
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He will still be on the board. And the governor obeys the board. That's why the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:21 AM
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Doomscrolled the Minnesota subreddit. Damn murca, y'all fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:19 AM
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Obviously I'm not saying every women does that. I'm just mad that enough do that it's a thing. I'm allowed to be mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 07:14 PM
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It's not about toxicity brother. The point is that women chose to marry guys they don't think are fun or exciting. I think that's a shitty thing to do to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 07:00 PM
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I don't actually remember and that comment got deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 05:32 PM
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No see I don't want to be a Chad to everyone, just to someone. And I have no issue with most women thinking I'm not fun or exciting. It's with the whole being backup when they've had their fun. It makes me rage. It's why I have decided to never get married. It will save me from this. I can't be husband material if I am never a husband. But still, the way women view stable men as backup makes me rage. Not just for me but for all men like us.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 05:27 PM
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No I don't wanna just get laid. If I did I would get an arranged marriage. I want to be positiviely regarded, I want to be seen as hot and fun and exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 05:15 PM
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Maybe I'll try it someday. I can get T without description here online and free home delivery.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 05:10 PM
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All I want is to be seen as exciting, fun and hot. The other virtues that would make me husband like, are just addons. I don't care if a woman likes them or not. But they're not what I want to be wanted for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 05:08 PM
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Was off, had so much stuff to do to fix up my place. Plus I caught a 7 day ban because I said something on r/virgin and this absolute banshee of a woman accused me of inciting violence (I was not).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 05:06 PM
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This is interesting to me. I also get very horny at times when I'm v anxious. I wonder if there's a link. I've thought about doing T, but I've been told it won't really do anything for me unless I go to levels above the normal human ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 05:04 PM
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If lust is different than love, then society should tell us that when we are kids. At least my society lied to me, when I was a child. But also, in that case, we should do away with marriage as an institution. Lust is all that matters. And you don't need to live with someone to love someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 05:02 PM
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You know, I notice every person here has a thing. Yours is the "I have a gf I love" thing. But you do it so much, that now it's starting to ring insincere.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 05:00 PM
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I found something to rage about. https://np.reddit.com/r/TwentiesIndia/comments/1q7jz4z/husband_material_guys_are_unfit_for_dating/ <image> Trying to not let it get to me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:55 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:05 PM
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People should not have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:56 PM
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Hey, how is everyone today.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:53 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:10 PM
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Hey, how is everyone today.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:05 PM
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Depends on how hot she is
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:55 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 02:40 AM
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It feels right this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:50 PM
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One thing I've realised that bothers me. Women say if a man is inexperienced past a certain age, there's something wrong with him. When I hear this. I feel judged. And if women can judge inexperienced men, it should be socially okay to judge women who are experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:49 PM
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It was right this time tho
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:47 PM
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It isn't just therapy but most psychology still is not science. Replication crisis. You should ask neuroscience people what they think of psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:46 PM
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pyschology is a science No it is not. Not with a replication crisis. Even the APA says therapy only "somewhat works" for 75% of people. Hardly confidence inducing. The therapist matters more than the therapy modality. That alone tells us that therapy is not very scientific at all. Your belief in psychology is misguided. It is a nascent field. We hardly know anything about the human brain. We don't even have a paradigm of consciousness. You know how you feel about the relationship before having i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:42 PM
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Because fundamentally these are emotional truths. And so I only accept that which feels right. Rationally I know it's right, but it doesn't matter. Because I know what I feel, so it will not work for me. Although even it did say in it's advice that it's useless to force yourself to accept an LTR if you don't feel wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:29 PM
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Yes. Because I just crave validation. It's a drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:21 PM
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This time I just asked it to explain to me why I feel the way I feel. I think it did a p good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:04 PM
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I am. But this will always be a part of me. That can't change. This conditioning is why I will never accept being settled for. A lot of men genuinelg don't care if they're not the best their partner has ever had. I can't ever be that person. Some things are pinned too deep to ever come out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:03 PM
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It can't be undone anymore. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:59 PM
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It's the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:57 PM
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It's cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:56 PM
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ChatGPT telling me that I'm not wrong for wanting women who lust after me and show desire explicitly is healing me a bit ngl. I acknowledge that yeah maybe sometimes women wanting a relationship doesn't mean that she doesn't lust after the guy. But I also acknowledge that the way I am conditioned now, means I will always be afraid that maybe she's settling for me if she wants a relationship with me. So I will always chase casual sex. Probably won't get it. That's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:55 PM
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It's not my fault man. I was a child. I was conditioned into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:49 PM
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Im p sure women disagree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:44 PM
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Tbh I'm afraid I'll be judged for my lack of sexual skill and be dumped and that will be my worst fear come to life. Much better to let them know early on so it hurts less
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:18 PM
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tfw I'm crying now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:09 PM
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I asked ChatGPT why I feel this way. This is what it said: Thank you for saying this plainly. What you’re describing is psychologically coherent, even if it’s painful and confusing. I’m going to help you understand it — not judge it, not dismiss it, and not endorse conclusions that will hurt you. I’ll break this into what you feel, why you feel it, and what it’s actually about underneath. 1️⃣ Let’s name the feeling accurately (this matters) When you imagine: “She had casual sex before, but with …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 09:06 PM
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If a woman has had casual sex /relationships in the past, but only wants a serious LTR with you, then why does it feel like she's not into you? Atleast whenever I imagine this scenario that's how I feel. Like she's not as into me sexually and if she doesn't also want casual with me then I don't want her. I guess I just want to be wanted purely for sex. I crave to be objectified sexually by hot women. Nothing would feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:40 PM
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Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:05 PM
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Lol. I'd totally cuddly you bro, no homo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:05 PM
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Heh. Hugs bro
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:51 PM
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Good for him ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:37 PM
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How does your husband feel that he had to work harder to get what you fuckbuddy got and therefore by implication you're not as aroused by your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 06:33 PM
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Tonight is one of those nights where I wish I had some one to cuddle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:57 PM
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That's based.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 05:56 PM
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Do you guys ever feel sad that your life isn't how you expected it to turn out?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:46 PM
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Wife/SO >> Parents. Anyone who can't stand up to his parents for his wife/SO is a pathetic cretinous trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:39 PM
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To all those who are sad - don't give up just yet. Keep trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:37 PM
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Hey, how is everyone today?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 03:36 PM
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If thats how it looks like then maybe it is. I dunno, I'm lacking perspective. What I can tell you for sure is that I definitely like women and that validation from the women I like is what I crave the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:40 AM
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No I definitely like and want women too. Which is why not just any woman will do. Only a woman who I find hot, her desire is validating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:36 AM
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Honestly, and without exaggeration - for a lot of men, the best that women offer, is validation. Men are not really seen as men until they are with a woman. So a woman offers validation of a mans masculinity be desiring him sexually. That is what a lot of men crave.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:19 AM
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I saw another one of those "the guy was inexperienced and the girl rejected him for that" type of post. This one didn't trigger me though. Which is a win. I think I've felt so bad for myself, felt so much regret about my 20s, that I've hit a saturation point. Now I'm slowly transitioning into this phase where I'm focussed on making my life awesome for myself. If someone comes along that's fine, if not, I have to live with myself anyway. Might as well make it enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 10:17 AM
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To all those who are sad: don't give up yet, keep trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:49 PM
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Hey, how is everyone today?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:48 PM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 07:09 AM
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Well I got a job, I got my own place. I will start getting money from January. Step 1 now is to focus more on my self and invest in my self. I will have money to groom myself, do skincare and shit. I will also start taking away a portion of my pay and invest it for my hair transplant and plastic surgeries. Step 2 is to join a gym which I will do once my finances stabilize (they should by March, I have to buy stuff for my apartment first, rn I sleep on the floor). Step 3 will be to socialize more…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:31 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:24 AM
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Too anxious to ask women out or make a move, always afraid that I'm crossing boundaries. I feel like I need permission to ask women out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:23 AM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:15 AM
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DMCA is cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:12 AM
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Yeah this year went by so fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:10 AM
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Today is one of those days where I think about how other men get hookups and casual sex, and feel inferior to them because of it. I wish I didn't. It sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:09 AM
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XD
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:39 PM
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It's not about that. It's that it's unfair to be with someone if you know you're not as into them as you would be / were into other people. That's fine for friendship but not romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:46 PM
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Show
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:45 PM
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To all those who are sad : remember, don't give up just yet, keep trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:40 PM
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Hey how is everyone today?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:39 PM
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Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:38 PM
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the thing is he's not my exact type Then no. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:38 PM
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ever wonder if the actual purpose of this subreddit is for aggrieved men to extract endless emotional labor from the female users? I mean how? The female users can just not respond. Easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:36 PM
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I want to believe. Although I don't rent but own a flat, I've read enough horror stories. Old ass upper caste uncles need to be brought down a peg.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 01:35 PM
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Life feels so strange these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:39 PM
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Okay now I'm curious. Would you date a Paki? An Afghan?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:44 PM
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You don't even need that. Just high dose of SSRI will kill all desire dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:43 PM
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Protect her from your mom first.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:42 PM
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I'm ngl I don't trust this type of research. For one this is just a headline. And then it says research "suggests". Plus psychology replication crisis. Unless it's a high quality study high on the evidence heirarchy, this type of stuff might as well be rage bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:39 PM
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Reminder: don't give up yet, keep going.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:32 PM
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Hey, how is everyone today?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 04:32 PM
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Former group is idiots. Latter group is well cultured gents.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:35 PM
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That's cuz they didn't test mine
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:34 PM
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Hey, how was everyone's week?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 01:58 PM
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Really? I doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 01:57 PM
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Hmm. Do you have any links to those interviews?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:45 AM
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But she will help to break this lack of confidence that you don't know what to do? Well my lack of confidence isn't just about how to have sex but also how to create sexual tension. I'm basically too afraid to make a move because I don't want to be seen as a creep. I don't think a prostitute can help me with that. Plus I don't think doing it just once or twice would help. Practice makes perfect. I know I use the word virginity but really it's about inexperience. And that can't be cured by just h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:45 AM
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Elaborate pls.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:37 AM
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Because that would break my self esteem permanently. I would have an albatross around my neck. That I was so unwanted that I had to pay for it. In my eyes, that's pathetic. I don't judge other men who chose to do it. But I would judge myself. It should be clear after all my time here that I care about being desired. A prostitute will have no desire for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:37 AM
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No that's the thing. To me it will prove a point. On the face of it, it seems worthless. What's the point of becoming attractive if me being a virgin makes it useless anyway. I do it because it proves a point to my self. It calms my harried soul. It makes the pain of loneliness a little more bearable. It makes me feel less shit about myself. It makes me feel not utterly worthless. I feel less like human trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 11:05 AM
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They'll know when they figure out that I don't know how to kiss her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:59 AM
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I'm kinda working my way towards that yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:56 AM
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It never worked for me. I just felt there was something very wrong in not exploring every single thought that came into my head. Not reacting to thoughts, is so utterly horrifying an idea. It would make me, not me. I think in ACT style of therapy they call it fusing with your thoughts. For me that happens really fast. Sometimes I don't even realise it until I've been lost in a thought train for 2-3 hours or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:41 AM
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Nani
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:30 AM
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It's nice to see that meditation works for someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 10:22 AM
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Since I am soon to be 34 and a virgin, And since no woman will ever want an older virgin I am coping by trying to become the kind of guy that women want. Even though it's too late now, it will bring me some solace to know that I can become that kind of a guy. That it would have been possible, had I gotten there earlier. Life sucks and is brutal. We have little that gives us joy and so we cling on to that little with all the might we can muster. Such is the way of this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 09:38 AM
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But I think that's because of the stigma of being a pornstar.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 09:20 AM
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Real
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:52 AM
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Genocide.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:51 AM
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I doubt a woman would ever be truly crazy for a man without first having slept with him. Like unless you're good at sex, no woman is going to go crazy over you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:43 AM
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Yeah see the I don't know how to make it fun, especially when I'm anxious. Plus, I was raised to believe that you're not supposed to touch someone until they explicitly let you. So I won't be able to just touch someone without asking oermission etc. It prolly will be awkward I guess. Life sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:39 AM
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Controversial opinion: pornstars actually enjoy their job
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:25 AM
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Reminder: dont give up yet, keep trying
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:28 PM
2

Hey, how is everyone today?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 04:18 PM
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Most men have a normal baritone. A few blessed ones have bass. V jelly of those guys. But high pitched ones can wear leather pants and sing soprano in a band and get groupies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:19 AM
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It won't work on me if she's not cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:17 AM
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She thinks you're ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:17 AM
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It wasn't the actual act of kissing but how to create romantic/sexual tension. Basically in the reel the guys asks her for a kiss. And she says to 'make a moment' (by which she means create romantic/sexual tension) and then kiss her. And then she asks him to look in her eyes. And so he asks her if should gaze into her right eye or left eye. This is obviously exaggerated for laughs. But I realised I have no clue how to create romantic/sexual tension. Nobody has ever taught me. And my parents neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:16 AM
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Just saw this YouTube short that rubbed up on my anxiety. It was supposed to be a funny reel about how inexperienced guys don't know how to kiss. But ngl it hit me hard. I don't know how to kiss. I'm sure the first time I try to do it I'll be a nervous wreck and it won't come off as sexy and the woman will leave me. Life sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:07 AM
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Really? Because I would much rather sit in the back and have another person drive me. That way I can focus on the book I'm reading. Because it's more masculine to be relentlessly working on gaining knowledge than it is to be stuck in traffic. I'm p sure if you're stuck in traffic and horns are honking all the time, your T levels drop by 5000% and your Cortisol spikes by 786%. Driving sucks and cars are pathetic. No car will ever sound like this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s6WGhBQLykw Just li…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 12:27 AM
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Maybe. I'll admit I don't know how life works, I'm just a sheltered, isolated guy who's only now beginning to find his foothold in this world. But I do know this much - if I ever was dating someone and I found out that they didn't list after me as much as they did with other men, I would be shattered. And this will never change no matter how old I get or how much life I experience. This need for validation is at my core and I bet it is for a lot of other men too. Which is why it makes sense for …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 12:23 AM
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I think women in their earlier years seek excitement and later stability. And we just want to be the guys that women are excited to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 12:11 AM
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Suit yourself. I'm gonna have fun being petty to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 12:01 AM
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Maybe stop confusing y'alls feelings with what women actually want. I'm sorry, but what we think and feel is just as important when we're talking about human relationships? We believe that bad boys have women lusting after them. We want to be lusted after. So we try to become like the bad boys (atleast some of us). Don't exist. I know this rationally. But we are all conditioned into this system of binary genders. And so even though I know rationally that masculine and feminine traits are BS, I f…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:51 PM
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Lol. You want to needle him? He told me yesterday that he would prioritize his mum over his wife. Which is very stereotypical Indian male behavior. And it's the one single trait that Indian women HATE in their men. Because usually the MIL makes the DILs life hell. Needle him on how he's a cuck for not being willing to stand up to his mom for his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:46 PM
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The thing is most of us are too anxious and overthinkery to be bad boys. I'm trying to work on this, but I think short of drugs, I never will be the stereotypical bad boy. To truly be one I would need a different brain, because I suspect that most "bad boys" have brains that simply doesn't inform them of consequences. Like for eg, I once saw a bunch of teenage boys playing. And one just picked up this huge rock and just lobbed it at another guys head. This was like a proper rock, that needed two…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:44 PM
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The thing is, we feel women want bad boys for their physical appeal and because they have traits that are considered masculine. And with the not bad boys, they are liked for traits that aren't very masculine (like being supportive, kind etc). And I guess we want to be wanted for traits that are masculine. It's not enough enough to be liked, but what are the reasons behind them liking us also matter. And if the answer isn't insane levels of lust, then it's not worth it. But I also suspect that mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:38 PM
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Okay, this specific part is BS. I really don't trust psychologists. A lot of them are trash, the entire field is filled with charlatans. No serious academic would write "they ooze testosterone which leads to boldness".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:36 PM
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Absolutely same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:33 PM
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A live-in roommates with benefits situation would be amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:33 PM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:23 PM
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Based mod posting based takes. If she doesn't like you as much as you like her. Walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:22 PM
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Opening jars and shit? And also because some of us are nice, loyal people who would move the world for our loves ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:13 PM
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Cars are gay. Public transport is best. 1000hp ? Who cares. See the kind of displacement locomotives can do. That's REAL power. Cars make whiny noise. Locomotives make the entire ground shake when they start up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 11:12 PM
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I struggle with this also. I realised just yesterday that I get self esteem by knowing/doing things better than others. Like if I'm better than 99.9% of the population at something. Then I don't feel insecure about it. So now I've set goals for myself. I'm going to get really good at my job, at a sport (wrestling hopefully), at grooming myself, at socializing. Doing all of that. It's a lot tbh, but I have time, given as I'm single as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:04 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:01 PM
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Lol Good luck in the future brother. Ngl, this is the one trait that women from our subcontinent HATE in men. Because it makes their life tough post marriage. A man who can't stand up to his mother for his wife is not a man worth marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:59 PM
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Educated and attractive women date competent and attractive men Not so sure about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:58 PM
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Dunno about cutesy little princess. For me atleast I want to be told that I matter and I'm not less just because I feel anxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:56 PM
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This is what I'm slowly trying to do. Got the job. Learning how to cook. Gym soon. Let's see if things work out if I give my best.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:55 PM
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I would like to be jn a relationship but not rn. In a couple of years when I have levelled up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:52 PM
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Indian people HATE Pakistani people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:49 PM
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They are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:48 PM
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If you call your mum everyday then you are 100% certifiably someone who will put his mother over wife. I sense a lot of wife - mother in law fights in your future.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:48 PM
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Lentils and rice
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:47 PM
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Ngl, that's kinda hot. I'm not into BDSM, but something about this is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:45 PM
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Reminder to all sad PPD frens Don't give up just yet, keep trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:44 PM
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Lern2cuk
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:43 PM
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Why not just jerk off if horny?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:43 PM
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Hey, how is everyone today?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:43 PM
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Oh hey it's the Hennesy guy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:53 PM
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I thought that was Taylor Swift
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:46 PM
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Mother Kamala?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:45 PM
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My favorite Viking fact is that the women of England loved them because unlike the Anglos, the Vikings actually bathed regularly, self groomed, smelt good, and were courteous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:31 PM
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I dislike my mom because she's a religious idiot with 0 critical thinking skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:51 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:45 PM
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Oh lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:33 PM
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Not always a good thing. You could end up Thomas Covenanted
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:30 PM
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Brootal. Do more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:24 PM
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The thought of a woman who Im dating me telling me that she met another guy and slept with him gives me the ick. I don't know why. It shouldn't because we aren't exclusive. But it does. Maybe because it brings into contrast my own inexperience, undesirability and inability to make a move on women. Sigh. Life do be cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:22 PM
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Lentils. And rice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:17 PM
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Its bad for your skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:17 PM
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While I agree with your take, I also think that if you're attractive women will forgive your flaws more easily and more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:16 PM
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Neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:11 PM
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Must be a really nice burger I guess. Personally I feel burger is to little food for too much money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:07 PM
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Never had this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:06 PM
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But it does begin to feel performative and fake after a while no?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:06 PM
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Weren't you already in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:04 PM
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Ninja because these people were working class and ingenious and they still have a sick reputation to this day. Spartans were gay (look it up).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:04 PM
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Zomato?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:03 PM
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just looks so pretty with how soft their features I'm ngl I always thought women loved sharp chiselled features.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:03 PM
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Not that it's my place but I'm getting v sad/melancholy vibes from you today. Is everything okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:02 PM
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But then you don't have any reply to the fact that most people do suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:59 PM
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Hmm true. You're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:57 PM
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I mean when you say "I see the difference between me and them" in response to someone saying that most people are self centered, it's valid to point this out. In essence - he said most people are selfish. You pointed out that you are not. I am pointing out you being a good person doesn't change the validity of his arguments. Most people be shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:56 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:52 PM
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You're missing nuance. A lot of RedPillers don't want love (even though they might claim otherwise). They want proof that their physical form is so incredibly attractive that women just fall over for them. Basically they want the kind of treatment that Brad Pitt gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:50 PM
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Not to put someone down when they're hurting, but dont you think you're drawing conclusions about all women from just you? You say you have principles. Well most women don't. They're just like men in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:49 PM
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To all my single sad men of PPD: Come let us strive to become the kind of guys that women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:42 PM
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Nah we changing now. Our mindset now is that we need to become the kind of guys that women approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:42 PM
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What food did they have at the office party?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:41 PM
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No cookies I'm afraid but sure, a debate we shall have. I disagree with your premise. Men get friendzoned because 1) Women know that the guy likes her 2) Can (and does knowingly) use him as her personal butler/money pit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:40 PM
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A small debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:36 PM
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Fellow sad people of PPD: Don't give up yet, keep trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:36 PM
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Hey, how is everyone today?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 02:35 PM
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Brootal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:08 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:18 PM
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Hugs bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 06:18 PM
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Is this about college enrollments?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:49 PM
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The latter because the latter will make me angry at life and thus push myself to grow as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:48 PM
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It's also how sensitive your hair follicles are to DHT. Native Americans never go bald.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:43 PM
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It would have to be a really good series. Not Breaking Bad because that's a trash show (yes).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:35 PM
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Excellent. Just delete that app.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:33 PM
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All the single male PPDer friends. Let's stop chasing women and instead become the type of men that women would chase. Let's become the prizes instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:32 PM
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More proof that women will do anything, break any rule of theirs if they find you hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:32 PM
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Dear god. That is an ungodly amount of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:29 PM
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Dunno about that but Canines rule. Felines drool.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:29 PM
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<image> Notice how she says the hot ones have "insane level of attitude". The entire post implies that she would date guys she finds not hot as long as they shared a good conversation etc, and those men weren't desperate creeps. Which means she would be willing to settle, sexually. And that makes me mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:25 PM
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Hey, how is everyone today?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:21 PM
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That's a very tough question. So many good ones. I really like the AoT soundtrack
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:35 PM
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Yeah I'm trying to work it out. I might be being a little too pessimistic. Tbh thanks to the fucking shitty AI companies RAM is getting more expensive and my laptop is 11+ years old now. So I was thinking of getting a refurbished laptop that's high end. And pay it off over a couple months. Although that would still leave me with a lot of money. Let's see. Next month though I have to get stuff for my house, so I won't save much next month. But from January, maybe I can both save and also have som…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:04 PM
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You know your life would be easier without Instagram..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:58 PM
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Saw it a day Or so ago on reddit. Maybe on this sub. Don't remember. But it was done by Kinsey. So it was solid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:44 PM
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So I'll have a choice now. Save up money for 2-3 years and go to grad school with a good bank balance, which will give me some financial safety. Or not save much, but I can use the money and go out and have hobbies. Socialize. Etc. Basically sacrifice regularly consistently socializing for 2 years to save more money. Or socialize now and be in a slightly more precarious position financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:40 PM
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Could be. But I've had this kind of stuff since I was a kid. I also tend to maladaptive daydream. So I guess it could be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:35 PM
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Yeah. Glad someone understands what I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:31 PM
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Whenever I feel low on self esteem I listen to anime music and imagine I too am a protagonist in my own Anime, grinding away at life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:30 PM
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I'm sorry I don't mean it as an offense. I'm sure you will provide the child with love and support. But I am convinced that for a man to be attractive he must have parents that are toxic and push him to become toxic and narcissist. It is the only way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:29 PM
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I do think bluePilled women will have incel sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:02 PM
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I do feel like I missed out tho. And if I do ever get into a relationship, I'm probably going to end up doing something stupid because of this feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 04:51 PM
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I mean it kinda feels like getting with a girl that wants to so you aren’t a zero count would be better than being miserable you aren’t at zero. You're right. If someone I liked, liked me, and didn't mind my V card, I'd be happy in that moment. But removed from that moment, I just wish for rage. The more rage I feel, the less anxiety and sadness I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 04:22 PM
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It's not. It's emotional behavior. It doesn't make rational sense. And that's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:58 PM
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I'm actually good. Although I wish my day had been more productive it was still pretty good. My boss asks me for help and not my colleague. Which means they think I'm competent. And that makes me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:47 PM
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Look up Millind Soman tbh. He's still as good looking as he was in his 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:46 PM
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Sure. Done.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:43 PM
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It's still going to be humiliating. They will still kinda look down on you. That won't change. If you want to get laid as an older virgin you'll have to go through that. That's okay, nothing wrong with that. I might too. But I do wish sometimes that all women would be against it because then I would be angrier. And I like it when I'm angry, because that's when I don't feel any fear and I stop giving a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:40 PM
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No, I want to feel empowered.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:38 PM
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I already don't. Since childhood. Indian home cooked food is v anti processed food.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:30 PM
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Okay sorry bro. I'll stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:30 PM
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It smells and tastes like grass. "Earthy flavor" is a euphemism for "grass clippings"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:22 PM
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Left leaning men suck if they drink matcha lattes ngl. Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:21 PM
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Ngl, sometimes I wish that the% of women who would date an older virgin was 0 (it's around 49%, saw a new survey a couple days ago). Why? Because that hurts. And now, I've kinda learnt to like the pain. It motivates me to push harder. To become the kind of guy women would want to be. That way if a woman ever does like me, and then she finds out I have my V card, she will feel robbed. I like that thought. The capacity to hurt others by becoming so good that they want you, but they can't have you …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:20 PM
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I think his real frustration is that he's not tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:18 PM
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What about left leaning men. Are they more masculine that conservacucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:16 PM
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Hello, how is everyone today?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:15 PM
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No? I don't think you know too many fighters if you'd say this. The best fighters are usually the most polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:48 AM
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You're really obsessed with her job. Ironically, v jobless behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:46 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:46 AM
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This is just creepy. Why does he want to control women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:45 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:44 AM
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Canines rule, felines drool
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:42 AM
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Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:41 AM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:41 AM
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inb4 her dad decides to arrange marry her to a close cousin and she goes along with it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:40 AM
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They don't exist. Tight short skirts and cleavage. 🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:39 AM
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The latter
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:38 AM
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Don't give up yet. Stay consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 02:38 AM
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In a non market economy, Entertainment would cease to exist This is so utterly stupid and wrong lmao. We've had non market economies in the past. Guess what? They still had entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 07:28 PM
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You're right I am. But I use the rhetoric to highlight just how important it is to me (and men like me) that we not be lied to. Although I do support the man walking out on his wife, but yeah he's obligated to care for the kids. Just not under the same roof as that woman. And unironically, the risk that women could lie to you and then you're trapped and have to share progeny with them is an excellent reason to be childfree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 06:37 PM
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Hugs bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 06:33 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 03:16 PM
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Hey, how is everyone today?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 03:15 PM
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But then, what about pushup bras and corsets that thin you and makeup and BBLs and boob jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:27 PM
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About 90kg Or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:37 PM
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It is. Go to prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:18 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:49 PM
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I'm antinatalist so I won't ever be dw.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:11 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:09 PM
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Yeah yeah, whatever you say kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:45 PM
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Adults adulting don’t need a dictionary to know they are adulting In which case I am an adult because you don't offer any definition and clearly I "don't need a dictionary to know" that I'm adulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:38 PM
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That's a lot of words for "I realise that there's no real objective definition of an adult so I'm screwed and I will now try to avoid putting my neck on the line by offering a definition".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:35 PM
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Then what does?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:31 PM
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See how you’re just trying to hone in and cheery pick? You're the one who is cherry picking. You're the one who thinks being 18 doesn't count as an adult, earning things does.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:29 PM
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Adults earn things. If that's the definition of an adult then I have a job that pays me. So again by your own definition I'm an adult anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:26 PM
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The only point proven is that by your own metric, you don't count as an adult, no one does.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:25 PM
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A family, Three properties, five bank accounts and leadership positions in both professional, community and alumni organizations. Well whadayya know, I also inherit 3 properties. Everything else just says you get acclaim from other kids. So by your own metric, why should anyone listen to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:23 PM
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By that logic why should I listen to you, child?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:19 PM
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Because those 'boys' are over 18, legally making them adults. Not children.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:18 PM
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Any person who abandons their children had no self respect That's bullshit. Children ain't that important.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:15 PM
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Hey, how is everyone today?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:14 PM
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I don't think it does unless stress. I'm kinda fat rn but jerk off atleast once a day. Most days multiple times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:13 PM
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Brother I'm an antinatalist. The only humans that are important are the ones I care about personally. The rest might as well be pawns. No skin off my nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:12 PM
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otherwise things like domestic abuse verbal and physical wouldn’t exist if people could just walk out Those count in "he will hurt her", in which case yeah she will lie and if he walks out that's a good thing anyway. So it doesn't matter if she lies then. But apart from circumstances where people don’t see any other option but to lie bcs they are scared for their safety or something then I agree that lying is not okay and if you want to leave bcs of it then I think it’s valid Yes, thank you for …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:11 PM
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Self respect > Kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 02:10 PM
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That's where I'm a fundamentalist. If they lied, then he gets to walk out. Any criticism is invalid. The reasons don't matter to me. Because if the reason was anything other than he would hurt her, then the reason doesn't matter. And if the reason is that he would hurt her, then SHE should walk out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:51 PM
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Okay well then I'm saying if he walks out cuz lies then the criticism is invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:47 PM
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Same. My #1 requirement will always be honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:47 PM
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Ya I hope it isn't that many people but just in case, a man should be allowed to walk out of a relationship without criticism if the woman lied.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:42 PM
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Agreed completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:41 PM
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This entire thread https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/NDBwFZWpJF Obviously not all women, but enough women. And so it's fair to leave a woman if she lied, no matter how deeply entangled your lives are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:39 PM
5

This thread https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/4u1klW607E
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:37 PM
2

Hold on one minute, let me post receipts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:37 PM
4

If women think it's okay to lie to men about stuff then it's okay for the men to abandon the women once they find out they've been lied to. She might borne him children. Doesn't matter. A man who is lied to by his partner has NO obligations to his partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:09 PM
1

Should have blasted us with it ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:52 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:52 AM
1

Your gf thinks he's mad hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:38 AM
0

Just don't drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:37 AM
1

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:35 AM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:35 AM
0

Nah. It's worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:34 AM
0

All it says is that you think lying to your partners is okay and I think it's the worst thing in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:34 AM
0

Leave them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:22 PM
1

You might have been called worse, but you can't BE worse. If you lie to men about this then there's nobody worse than you. Child predators are less reprehensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:21 PM
0

I want men to have the truth even if it's painful because the truth is the only hope they have if being able to improve. Period. When you lie you take that away. So fuck lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:20 PM
1

Agree to I am right about this and I'm sorry but you're a fucking horrible person
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:17 PM
1

Read my message again. I said the lying is the problem. Not the didn't have an orgasm part. If your partner asks, either tell the truth or walk away. Lying is not acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:16 PM
1

Cocaine
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:15 PM
0

I want women to not lie to women, the consequences of the truth be damned. I don't care if the truth is so harsh that the man just completely shuts down and loses control over his life. He still deserved to hear the truth if he asked for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:15 PM
1

Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:10 PM
1

The lie one. But that's fake confidence. I don't count it as confidence at all. And I think people who lie to their intimate partners should be placed on a list or something. So that everyone knows to avoid them. Fuck lying. Unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:10 PM
3

It's one thing to not tell people things, another entirely to lie. If a woman lies because the man in insecure then the woman is to blame. If the guy can't take feedback, she should walk away. But if she lies then she's the bad guy and she is at fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:07 PM
2

Confidence based in lies is BULLSHIT. I would rather go unconfident my entire life than experience even one second of being confident but on false assumptions. Do. Not. Lie. To. Your. Partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:05 PM
2

If that's what she's worried about she should leave. But never ever should she lie about this. Lying is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:00 PM
2

Sorry but the why doesn't justify lying. Period. It would be much better if she leaves him. That's much better and more preferred to being lied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:59 PM
1

I'm sorry but this is bullshit. By this very logic, it should be okay for men to cheat as long as the woman doesn't find out because 'she suffers nothing.' People deserve not to be lied to by their intimate partners, even if the truth hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:58 PM
1

Doesn't matter if he's insecure. People deserve to not be lied to even if the truth has negative consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:57 PM
1

Doesn't matter tbh. People STILL deserve the truth if they ask for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:55 PM
2

Tfw just a few days ago this would have sent me into a doom spiral. Feels nice to not care anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:54 PM
1

Hey, how is everyone today?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:49 PM
1

She is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:22 PM
1

Hello, how is everyone today?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:18 PM
1

Hope you recover.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:24 PM
0

Eh you can't just assume she will settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:51 PM
1

I mean that's okay. She's not settling. She's entitled to chase what she finds attractive. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:47 PM
1

Hey how is everyone today?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:35 PM
2

So in my new job, the code I wrote works. But the code my superiors wrote did not. So I have to debug their code tomorrow. Feels good to know I am competent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:13 PM
1

Hey, how is everyone today?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:08 PM
1

Yes. They use British English in the school and bureaucracy and the courts. Our media is America saturated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:51 PM
3

Yeah she should only date big dicked guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:50 PM
1

What the fuck. Hope that guy falls into a pit full of spikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:46 PM
6

Lmao brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:25 AM
1

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 06:24 AM
1

You should leave this house.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:44 AM
2

You know what I hate. I hate podcasts and podcasters. These things have popped up like some invasive species of weed, and completely taken over the media ecosystem. And the absolute worst offenders are the masculinity podcasters. I don't really give much fucks about Fresh and Fit types because I don't live in the West, but this cancer has now reached my country and we have podcasters giving stupid fucking self help advice on masculinity and how to be a man and how it's so tough to be a man. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:43 AM
2

Never said they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:42 AM
2

No. Some of us dont want to pay for it, we find it demeaning to ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:39 AM
0

Well I hurt everyday anyway so it's not like that's something new.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:39 AM
2

Thats fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:38 AM
2

Do men understand that it’s just as insulting for women to be viewed as hook up Material as opposed to wife material Kind of. Like I can see it cognitively. But emotionally its impossible for me to feel how women feels about this. I think it's one of those things where you can only empathise with the people who have your experience, but you can sympathise with others. The best remedy is as you said, but also be upfront about what you want and expect. I will be straight forward with any woman if …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:21 AM
2

Nah society judges men who leave women because of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:54 AM
2

K
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:30 AM
-1

The true way to defeat women is to make a society where women are valued as much as men, if not more. And to socialize men in a way where they respect women. Basically defeat the patriarchy. In such a society, the women will lose their default position as an object of desire and men will automatically not simp for them. There will be no female or pretty privilege left.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:24 AM
1

He's bsing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:21 AM
2

Fuck podcasters. They offer negative value to society. I want a global tax on podcasting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:14 AM
3

Lol. This is just the female gaze version of "she boobied breastily".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:13 AM
2

Read like the second or third para imo. It's describes a specific archetype. Basically the relationships can be different but there's those that have a strong degree of emotional enmeshment and those that dont. And I'm wondering about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:12 AM
1

You know what I hate. I hate podcasts and podcasters. These things have popped up like some invasive species of weed, and completely taken over the media ecosystem. And the absolute worst offenders are the masculinity podcasters. I don't really give much fucks about Fresh and Fit types because I don't live in the West, but this cancer has now reached my country and we have podcasters giving stupid fucking self help advice on masculinity and how to be a man and how it's so tough to be a man. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:11 AM
1

Yeah that's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:08 AM
3

So I have this thought. And it's hard to explain but I'm going to try. But I think there are two types of relationships. In the first type is where both people retain their strong identities. They take time apart very regularly and very consistently and work on their hobbies and their own social networks and their sense of selves. And then there's the other kind. It only happens in very long term relationships. Where both the people love each other, and genuinely care for and respect the other p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:58 AM
1

That's a kink in itself. The good wife who cares about you kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:52 AM
2

I think this is fair. I agree with this. But the only thing I would add is - if he can't evoke this feeling in her despite trying, then he has the right to move on to another woman. He has no obligation to give her a relationship/marriage and he should not be judged negatively for moving on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:52 AM
1

Agreed tbh. Scott Ridley is so an ahole. I can confirm this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:50 AM
2

That is an abomination. Where are the curves ? Where's the fat? Where squishy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:46 AM
2

Damn bro. I didn't expect such a positive message in the morning. Cheers. Have a great day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:45 AM
1

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:44 AM
2

Agreed. Unless you get her preggo. Imo most men should get a vasectomy before they ever have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:42 AM
1

You can always become one tho. Just save up money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:41 AM
2

Marriage is scary. What if you're just not good for each other and haven't explored options and then your personalities change in your 30s and she falls in love with another dude and now you're giving away half your stuff and she takes the dog just to spite you. Nah, if you marry young you're almost certainly marrying wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:39 AM
1

This seems over exaggerated. I personally know more good guys than bad. All of them are married. Only 3-4 of us aren't married including me and most of us are clearly manchildren so it's fair. And even then I'm the only virgin. I get not being able to find good guys on dating apps. But there's tons of them irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:36 AM
1

Nigerians are usually based. This must be an exception. What class is he teaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:35 AM
1

Especially L&L.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:34 AM
1

All those men are losers. Every. Last. One. Of. Them. Prolly made insecure because you're a reminder to them that some women cannot be chained.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:33 AM
1

Least gay Gen Alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:32 AM
1

Eh I dunno. By that logic a 30 year old guy is promiscuous if he has an n count over 6. That's not that much for people who can get hookups. It's not really promiscuous until it gets into 12-13+
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:30 AM
2

That's an amazing hairline shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:28 AM
1

Is he Indian?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:27 AM
1

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/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:27 AM
1

Oh and too late. Your neighbors already call you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:25 AM
1

Bird 3 Excellent_Badger 0 To the victor go the spoils.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:25 AM
2

Hmm. I think what you should do, is write down what your ideal life looks like, and that will give us an insight into what your lifestyle would be like and the kind of gay community you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:24 AM
2

You can 1) read a book 2) learn a new skill 3) meal prep 4) Invade Poland 5) go help out at the soup kitchen The world is your oyster.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:22 AM
1

Oh no wonder I don't know her. Tiktok be banned here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:22 AM
1

That sucks. Hope you're back to full health soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:08 PM
1

Eww.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:19 PM
2

Who is she though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:18 PM
1

It's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:18 PM
2

Hello how is everyone today?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:11 PM
1

As long as people are truthful that this is the reason they want a relationship, I see nothing wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:11 PM
1

Disagree. The main reason men want relationships is consistent access to good sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:07 PM
1

Well then that's just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:29 PM
1

Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:29 PM
3

No, she's right. Details fkn matter. If she's doing that then she's good at her job
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:46 PM
1

Yeah well I am declaring that the hookup is only valid if she has valid desire for the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:45 PM
1

They said the same thing about after 30. But I've read enough examples of dudes after 40 still being max horny. So I don't buy this. Stay healthy, stress free, don't have kids. And if you really do lose libido, check your T levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:40 AM
0

Women if they don't work out will become chubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:39 AM
1

You also have 10x the T levels of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:38 AM
1

I mean I've also driven in old city areas that are perpetually traffucked. It's not that difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:36 AM
1

Nah I did it for many years. And the large part of my route was an NH.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:31 AM
1

I did not. Bare naked bike bro. Hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:27 AM
2

Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:19 AM
2

I'm assuming cuz she works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:19 AM
2

Which is why a marriage before 32 Or so is fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:18 AM
1

In India its uncool to have a horn in a bicycle. It's associated with rural people who used to have a ringbell on their cycles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:18 AM
1

I would apply but you're only 24 and not Indian + you're working out so not chubby anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:17 AM
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That's what is scary. That people are going into this stuff blind. It also happens when people have kids. Nobody discusses what they will do if the kid turns out retarded and needs life long care. Who will care for the kid then. How much would it cost. Or if the kid has autoimmune diseases, what then ? If the kid dies in an accident or is murdered, how will they deal with that grief? People need to think about shit before taking these major life decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:16 AM
1

Nah that ain't true. If I ever get into a relationship we are having that discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:08 AM
1

Less than youd like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:07 AM
1

Yeah that's fair. What's genuinely frightening to me is people who DON'T discuss all this and just rush into marriage. Like I imagine myself doing that and it feels so scary. Marriage is no joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:49 AM
3

You can't tell me women don't have hookups because they think the dude is hot and want to sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:42 AM
1

Ya but it's veggies. I'd get it if it was a home cooked meal. But it's veggies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:59 AM
1

Horn on a bicycle?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:04 AM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:26 AM
2

I'll come to your wedding bro dw. Just make sure the food is good. (main reason to attend weddings is good food, don't disappoint me Or shame your ancestors).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:22 AM
1

Why do you have to walk up an hour with a big bag. Also, not to "in our days" it but I had to bicycle everyday in Indian heat to school and back. And one side was a steep slope. And our bags were heavy af.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:21 AM
1

Brootal. But I see the point. Stop smoking. Or eating yourselves to death. Go for a jog or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:18 AM
1

The question is what would you do though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:46 AM
2

The real wall is menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:43 AM
1

Okay assume she's your long term gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:09 AM
1

Why not divorce her if she doesn't approve?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:08 AM
1

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:04 AM
4

Q4M: if you're married to a woman for many years, but she hits menopause and now she doesn't want sex no more but your libido is still strong - what would you do ? Q4W: in that scenario do you think it's fair for the man to leave that woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:01 AM
2

Til hes a fed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:52 AM
1

I would worry that he might be crushing over her. But if he gave her veggies I would care less. Free stuff. I can use them to cook her something nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:50 AM
1

They have free will to make poor decisions for themselves but I actually don’t have to respect it at all. In which case EVERY decision you have ever made is open to being disrespected, critiqued and mocked by society. And every insecurity you have is invalid. In that case you don't deserve any empathy and you never ever get to cry or even feel sad if anything bad ever happens. Like, the worst tragedy of your life could happen to you, and you wouldn't deserve empathy or support. You have to be ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:50 AM
2

It's just free veggies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:41 AM
1

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:38 AM
1

Not sure if this counts as blackpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:37 AM
1

That's exactly what my mentality is and there's nothing crazy about it. You need to respect people's agency as long as they don't directly hurt anyone else. People's desires always come first. Not society's wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:37 AM
1

You never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:30 AM
1

I already get messages like this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:27 AM
2

Why? What's wrong with taking veggies?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:27 AM
1

This
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:26 AM
3

Why is it that every one of your crushes except Luigi looks the same. This is basically Zohran but older and more divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:25 AM
1

Doesn't matter. If someone wants to be self destructive, then it's their right to. It's only bad if there's an outcome they didn't want that happens. If I want to get fat and obese then it's a good thing. It's only bad if it happens but I didn't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:24 AM
1

Yeah no, no point dating a woman who doesn't want as much sex as you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:20 AM
2

Society still needs to function. I'm an antinatalist, so I disagree with this premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:20 AM
1

Yep. Kids need to be the side effect of sex not the goal of it. The goal should always be holy shit he's hot I want him to make me cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:56 AM
4

https://np.reddit.com/r/teenagers/s/XaJCDuY9UF And this is why the social media ban for kids sucks. Fuck Australia for this. Fuck Albanese.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:38 AM
3

I am still pooping. Been over half an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:25 AM
2

The men here are more of an exception. Most RP men (and I know because I used to hang out in that subreddit) aren't like this. Like yeah nobody irl could in a million years guess that I am purple pill. But I'm a very rare breed. Most of my friends who lean RP always gave themselves away sooner or later. And the only reason I didn't is that I am mostly blue pilled except for one or two things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:19 AM
3

Rub it in their faces. Those losers need to hurt more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:14 AM
3

They give themselves away by 1) talking about redpill shit 2) or asking you your body count 3) or watching manosphere reels They'll say shit like "you're not like those other girls" and other such bs. V easy. I'm surprised this is even a question. I can spot one of my own a mile away.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:13 AM
1

Nope. Only one full of shit is L&L.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:11 AM
1

The problem is internal, the solution is external. This guy should go ahead with LL.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:11 AM
1

So thats why ur so weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:09 AM
1

Nah, even for junior devs, AI still makes enough mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:06 AM
8

If a woman has sex with a man for any reason that isn't "Oh my god holy shit he's so hot I want to fuck him", then the reason is illegitimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:05 AM
1

Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:05 AM
3

That's hella stupid. Even the Nazis had a defined power structure. Didn't make them good. Same with dem frats.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:02 AM
1

Nah. Bigger is always better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:00 AM
1

I am pooping rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:59 AM
1

No I am not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:59 AM
1

No it doesn't lmao. Anyway dude, you can keep rambling. I'm going to sleep now. Goodnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:32 PM
1

No. Only 2 statemenrs talk about young people. Smh. You really didn't read.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:22 PM
1

Oh no. For example, one of thr most famous Blue pilled male dating advice giver is Dr Nerdlove. He used to do PUA. He says this. Wait I'll show you https://www.doctornerdlove.com/did-i-get-dumped-for-being-bad-at-sex/ https://www.doctornerdlove.com/should-i-admit-that-ive-never-been-in-a-relationship/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:19 PM
1

There was no contrary evidence just a contradictory statement by one woman that showed sampling bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:17 PM
1

No. It's a known fact that Gen Z men are more conservative. There was contradicgory statements by women. But on my larger point I won the opinion poll anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:12 PM
1

yes they lie. Thank you for vindicating what older virgin men have been saying for so long now. Finally someone who doesn't fucking gaslight us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:04 PM
1

None (except one) really contradicted my original point. And there were only two talking about age specifically. One of which tended my way with Gen Z being more conservativr.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:02 PM
1

No, because as a commenter later pointed out, even Gen Z are more conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:58 PM
1

No it started with my post saying most men don't pull their weight. To which you said nowadays. To which I pointef out that even nowadays men don't. Because nowadays means these days, not "young men only", and as I have proved, Boomers DO get into relationships, still.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:42 PM
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They're not as cute as dogs plus they grow to become snooty. Dogs don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:41 PM
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Nope. Go back to where it all started and I gave the exact same logic I gave here. That MOST men don't pull their weight. Because it's mentally taxing. So they will only do it for someone special. Someone for whom they are the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:37 PM
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It doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:35 PM
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I love dogs. I dont love cats. Bring on the downvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:33 PM
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No the point is still that OVERALL, as in the sum total of all men in the US, when sampled, yields men who don't pull their wieght in a relationship. Why? Because it's work. And a man will only do this work for someone who's special. Ie for someone for whom he is the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:33 PM
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Right so they didn't divorce at all? Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:23 PM
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No it means close to that, which is where Boomers at the low end were 20 years ago. You can't tell me they weren't relationshipping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:16 PM
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"40 or so". Ya 41 is right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:05 PM
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getting into relationships in the past 20 years are millineals and GenZ”? Past 20 years? Bro the Boomers were like 40 or so 20 years ago. I was 13. Not the age to get into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:01 PM
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And I’ve seen model relationships of millineals and gen z where they found the balance in chores. Sampling bias. There's more boomers + gen X men than there are millenials + Gen Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:58 PM
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I've seen 70 year olds have manual labor jobs lol. Cmon bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:52 PM
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Ugly cat
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:49 PM
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Not all oldies live in a nursing home. The nursing home point is to prove that oldies fuck. Which means almost certainly that oldies relationship. Because if oldies in nursing homes fuck, so do the oldies who have their own place. And 100% guarantee many of those have relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:47 PM
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Yes but if oldies are ducking, then oldies are also getting into relationships. Just as not every young person pursues casual sex, same with the oldies. That's fucking obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:44 PM
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Don't kick me. Dogs > Cats. Always.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:38 PM
1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:38 PM
1

Yes I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:37 PM
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A little bit of a tangent, but this is funny to me. Because whenever a dude complains about how hes an older virgin and he's doomed because nobody wants to have sex with an older virgin(cuz they don't know what they're doing), the standard response by the more feminist leaning dating advice givers is that the experience doesn't matter because you have to relearn with a new person anyway. And then there's you disproving them all. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:35 PM
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Do you think if they're having casual they aren't also have relatiinshios?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:33 PM
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Gen Z men are more conservative so just you wait a few years and I bet they also will not carry their weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:32 PM
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Ok bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:31 PM
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Tell that to all the other women in that thread though. They aren't complaining about their personal sitch but they definitely disagree with this analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:30 PM
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Yes? Did you miss the part where nursing homes have STD epidemic. The only ones not getting laid are anxious dudes like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:30 PM
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Already posted it in a new post on this daily thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:29 PM
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N count is meaningless though. Just make sure you have the best chemistry ever with future husband and he's your best ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:28 PM
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I already told you the hill I want to die on. In my own words. You're now doing a strawman by ascribing to me a position I don't hold.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:27 PM
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It's the opposite. If most relationships that start between young people are egalitarian then women have nothing to complain about, and that famous Emma Clit comic about mental load is utter bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:26 PM
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Okay bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:24 PM
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Does the relationship exist today? Then it's a relatioship that counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:24 PM
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Nowadays isn't age specifc. It's just couples these days. Which includes boomers as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:22 PM
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The hill I want to die on is that a majority of men don't pull their weight in a relationship and for a man to do that the woman must be really special (as in he must be the best she's ever had).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:22 PM
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Yes? Didn't know boomers didn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:21 PM
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I think you should re read. Also yes politics but most men lean conservative so that favors me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:21 PM
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No? This was obviously my question. Literally go and read what I have asked yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:20 PM
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There's people older than 49. The largest cohort of men is Boomers. 49 is basically millenials.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:20 PM
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She also says 'majority of men' and that's age independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:19 PM
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Younger generations = egalitarian is on my side because there's more older men than younger ones thanks to the Baby Boom and the now diminishing birth rate. The pretty egalitatian one says even the younger men are more conservative. Only a chunk of X and Millenials are egalitatian.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:18 PM
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The question is overall. Otherwise one can easily find subpopulations. The question was men overall, in the US. Not just younger men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:17 PM
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<image> Wrong in fact, and wrong when you account for which side the moderates lean (which has been measured).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:16 PM
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Even more https://preview.redd.it/0ynatvhg376g1.png?width=1220&format=png&auto=webp&s=57ab45ba246b4169657a46aefb788d1a8753b0a0
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:15 PM
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More https://preview.redd.it/2299ihid376g1.png?width=1220&format=png&auto=webp&s=812e6b9e6724d70ca1f006f8687b97f9ec0319ee
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:15 PM
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Start counting https://preview.redd.it/oht6ces9376g1.png?width=1220&format=png&auto=webp&s=acdeee6907af1cfb3dc123c2dedb13aa4e308fe4
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:14 PM
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No, most women said that men don't. One said it falls along political lines, and we know more men are conservative than not. There is no balance. Even the Buddhistpilled guy was disagreeing with you yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:12 PM
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Okay since everyone thinks I should have posted links Here ya go https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/cn9vGLOinl Also remember that more men are conservative than not. Keep that in mind as you read that thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 03:06 PM
2

Nah I'm over it. I'm gonna die a virgin and I'm okay with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:59 PM
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No. I don't like the idea of getting head. Am man. You're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:53 PM
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Do it a couple more times and she'll say the magic word thrice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:53 PM
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No it's not. I'm sorry but hard disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:52 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:37 PM
2

Everything is on yesterdays daily
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:35 PM
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I'm not hiding anything. They're welcome to go to yesterdays daily. And "works for them" is bs if it isn't equitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:32 PM
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So yesterday Lift_and_lurk and me had a little debate. He said most men in America now contribute equally to household chores in a relationship. I was like nuh uh. So we asked the women of PPD in the daily post. I won 2:1 .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:28 PM
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Find it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:25 PM
3

That is nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:24 PM
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So after tallying up all the votes from women, I have been proven right yesterday. Lift_and_lurk was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:24 PM
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Hey, how is everyone today?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:23 PM
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Yes, but I don't really hate this country. Not anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:30 AM
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Good to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:24 AM
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Is it that bad in America? I have social anxiety but it's contextual. I can shop no problem and also handle phone calls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:18 AM
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Nah, most jobs aren't useful to society. Except for the like the very shit pay ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:17 AM
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Wish it worked the opposite way also.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:16 AM
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He will. Apart from finding an unbiased juror, it seems the police didn't follow proper procedure so evidence could be rendered inadmissible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:15 AM
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RIP
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:13 AM
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What about "Stop trying to make fetch happen".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:12 AM
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How did you feel ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:11 AM
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I guess maybe I'm an obsessive control freak. I hate letting control go. To accept that I don't really control the outcomes of my life, that hurt ngl. Still does a bit. Maybe time will make it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 07:10 AM
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I cope with it now by trying to work as hard as I can. In my head if I do that, then I can't be blamed for bad outcomes. After all, I did all I could. It clearly means the universe didn't have any configuration where I could have gotten what I wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 06:25 AM
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I dunno, your last para in the first comment, that makes it seem like you're contrasting your partner against the average male.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 06:22 AM
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I think one of the hardest things I've had to do and am doing in life is letting go of my expectations of how things should be. I still hope they will be. But it's important to try even if you think the outcome will not be what you hope it will. Along with this comes an acceptance that maybe my life won't go the way I had planned it to go. But it's important to try nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 06:14 AM
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Where is "How do you like them, apples? "
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 06:08 AM
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Why is this a flex though? You said most partners help out with household chores without complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 06:08 AM
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The US is clearly weird as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:20 AM
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inb4 you buy a vintage Ford Mustang.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:20 AM
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Wear a mask. That's what Batman does.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:49 AM
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I'm going to disagree. The future is in those sleek and curvy sedans.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:48 AM
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I've been watching Chinese car videos. American and European car brands are done for, globally.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:48 AM
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Meh. Humans are fickle. Everyone cheats anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:08 PM
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It's true for relationships too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:04 PM
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India. But my main shrink has a child on the spectrum so she specialises in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:02 PM
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With all due respect I doubt I will stop caring about when/if I have had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:59 PM
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I do get along well with autists. Best friend is one. But him and every shrink I have ever met and every online autism test I could give, have all cleared me of autism
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:57 PM
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I don't have autism
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:55 PM
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I'm not suppressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:51 PM
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Not really. Some people need to feel emotionally safe before they can be vulnerable in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:44 PM
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It's more when men tell the woman because they're nervous. But meh, who cares. Worse things in life than rejection, or even dying alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:37 PM
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Animals > Humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:32 PM
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Meh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:32 PM
1

I don't know. I just feel angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:25 PM
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Yeah, I don't care anymore that women wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:19 PM
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Yeah well, I'm just angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:19 PM
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Yeah but like rn I feel so angry. I think there's worse things out there. Worse pains. Most people are unempathetic piece of shits anyway, so why give a fuck about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:12 PM
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Do you only date a woman if she's the best sex you've ever had I'm a virgin but I definitely would if I was pulling girls. Like I'm a desperate 33 yo virgin, but even I would walk away if I didn't feel absolute fireworks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:09 PM
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No. Fuck hiding things. Fuck this feeling of shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 05:00 PM
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He needs to do both, make the money and do the house chores. That's what it means to be good in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:53 PM
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I honestly don't care if women refuse to date virgin men. What's the worst that will happen? That I always get rejected? So be it. There's much worse things to be in life than a grown up virgin. And if anyone makes fun of me for being one, let them. Those people are all pathetic cretins anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:51 PM
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It doesn't mean that, but it CAN be a signal of that. Why take that risk?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:49 PM
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Why is it rare
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:47 PM
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I'm cool with this. N counts are meaningless anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:47 PM
1

A majority of men in the US are conservative yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:39 PM
1

But overall ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:28 PM
1

But overall?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:28 PM
3

In this moment, I rage Not because of any phony God. But because I realise the evolution of consciousness was a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:03 PM
1

Overall though, do you think men pull their weight? Not just men of your age or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 04:02 PM
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I can guarantee, even in most modern couples, the mental load and even the chore load mostly falls on the woman. But let's see what the women have to say about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:45 PM
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Q4W: Okay so Lift_And_Lurk thinks most men in the US pull their weight in a relationship in terms of doing the household chores and caring for the baby. So women, since y'all know other women, what is your take on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:40 PM
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Keep reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:34 PM
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I'm a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:30 PM
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So like, imagine reading it so carefully that you lose the plot. That's what Generalised Anxiety feels like. So maybe don't read too carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:30 PM
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God I feel so angry now. Nothing makes me rage more than animal abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:29 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:28 PM
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Are you sure? https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/are-men-finally-pulling-their-weight-around-the-house/ar-AA1wU05n
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:27 PM
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Ok, see how that goes. Most people do adult things like basic chores and cooking because they alike being adults Brother if that were TRULY the case, most women wouldn't complaint about their husbands not pulling their weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:22 PM
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They attacked the dog. I hate every one of them. There's one thing I can't stand it's animal abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:22 PM
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Some women say that men should not care if they are/can be the best/most attractive to her. This is wrong. Why? Because all relationships increase the load on the man if he is to be a good partner. If he's going to cook for her, keep the house clean, bring home the bacon, keep himself fit and attractive etc, then she has to be worth it. And why would a man do all this for a woman that doesn't feel he's the best sex partner she's ever had?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:18 PM
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dw she will triple talaq you in a couple of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:03 PM
1

Shitty jawlines and pale skin. 0/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:02 PM
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Jingle Bells.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:02 PM
3

Hey, how is everyone today. Hope y'all had / will have a great day
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:01 PM
1

He's not though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:28 AM
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Women hate bald dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:28 AM
1

I could. I already own a house, so rent isn't an issue. But I'm not sure I want to. I would rather events play out so that I pass away before I really hit like late 60s early 70s because being old sucks and is not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:27 AM
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Long story. I'll tell you some other time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:36 PM
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I mean itll take some time. Next month is when I get my first adult wages. And most of it will be spent buying stuff for my haus because I don't even have a bed frame yet. The month after that is when I start saving, join a gym, start going out on the weekends etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:33 PM
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I mean I'm slowly trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:29 PM
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As much as not getting sex sucks, being single in your 30s is a superpowee. Your time is yours. You can get fit, learn new things, keep growing. People in relationships, especially people with kids, it gets much more difficult. All my friends have kids now. So now this will be my growth arc while they all stagnate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:26 PM
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Whatever they are (tbh I think it's mostly women who want to be moms but they recognize the kind of man they're attracted to will never be a good father), they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:25 PM
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Second; there is much more to relationships than sex, sex is extremely important no doubt but it’s not the foundation of a relationship. Not for me I guess. This will always be the bedrock of any relationship for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:25 PM
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Lots of women aren't like you. I've had debates with women over this who straight up told me sexual attraction isn't as important once you get old/start a family/marry. So our paranoia is based in reality. It. Is. Valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:22 PM
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The point is, our paranoia exists because the object of our paranoia exists. There are posts from women pretty much admitting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:11 PM
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Im saying she not saying yes to him but then going and being with a guy who only meets her at a hotel pretty much proves that she is less attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:09 PM
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Never said it was, I'm saying both are probably worse. She definitely isn't attracted to him as much either. Because that's what happens in these cases. Women settle. This is reality. So yeah it makes sense to be paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:03 PM
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I agree with the RPers. Keep her as an option because she keeps you as one. Don't ever give her your feelings but it's okay to make her believe you do. Use her for sex while you keep looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 04:01 PM
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Keep calling it out, I will keep criticising those who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:58 PM
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I'm not saying they're the same. I'm saying I ALSO doubt that she was more or even equally sexually attracted to him than the hotel guy. Again we have women's posts on reddit admitting as much. The husband they married isn't the most sexually attractive but is stable. Our paranoia exists because these cases are real.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:58 PM
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I'll vent where I want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:57 PM
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You don’t make the rules? Then who does. My feelings do. They control me, but they are not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:57 PM
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Liking you the most doesn't mean she settled. In terms of sexual desire and pleasure, yes she did. That's the metric us men use. To us, that's all that matters. I'm saying she is as sexually attracted I honestly really really really doubt that. Really.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:56 PM
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Yes I absolutely agree. 100%. But I was talking about the reverse scenario. What if she desires you but you're lukewarm on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:55 PM
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It’s ok for me to keep crying about this foot that bleeds every time I shoot it! Yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:54 PM
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Q4W: For me, and for a lot of other men who are afraid of being settled for sexually, the key point of a relationship is the sex. But women don't seem to think the same way. They'll be in a relationship with a guy they like, even if he's not the one they're attracted to the most sexually. So now I want to pick your brains. What's the point of a relationship for you. What do you get out of it that's more important than sex and sexual validation?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:53 PM
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I also said it's okay to vent (what you call as bitching).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:51 PM
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No we don't make the rules. We just report our internal feelings on what id and isn't acceptable. Just as we don't choose the foods we like, the music we enjoy, rhe people we like, we also don't choose these rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:51 PM
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The point is men want to be wanted for certain reasons and not others. And theres nothing unrealistic in wanting to be the best. If you're not it just means you and her aren't a good fit. Because for the right person you will be because the chemistry and sexual attraction will be that level of insane. We don't want to be liked romantically so much as we want to be liked sexually. And really you've basically conceded here that our paranoia IS based in reality. It is possible that she settled for …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:50 PM
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My rules are its okay to feel bad and vent. It's okay to live true to your feelings. Even if they be self destructive. My rule is that what you call the "victim mentality" is just as valid a say of living life as any other.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:47 PM
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Ma'am there's enough posts from women saying they're with their husband who isn't the best sex of their life but that's okay because other things matter more. This is a nightmare scenario for a lot of dudes. It's 100% based in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:45 PM
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I came up with a theory today. Men NEED to have standards. Even despite men. Hear me out, as to why. Most of us red/purple pill guys, we hate the idea of being the safe option. But if we date a woman just because she says yes, and not because we're into her, we are doing the same thing to her. The only valid reason to date a woman you don't like is to build up experience (same as getting a first job). But after that, we should have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:45 PM
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Women also complaint if they find out something they don't like about something a guy they like. It's okay to complaint. Expecting a guy to not complaint that life isn't being nice to him, is bonkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:42 PM
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Because we are paranoid. We don't want to be settled for in terms of attractiveness of sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:38 PM
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Isn’t going to again because “you found out” something you don’t like. That's pretty fair. Even women do it if they find out something they don't like about a guy and they too feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:31 PM
1

Hello, how is everyone today?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:31 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:48 AM
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Good luck with that. You know what Indians will do to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:35 AM
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I don't see what's so dehumanizing about "she's not as into me as she's into other dudes"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 09:07 AM
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I don't see it as "make him wait" as I see it as "she was not as into me as she was into other dudes".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:43 AM
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I mean it's only dehumanizing if it's a compulsion. If I go on a date and I feel like she isn't as into me as Id like, I don't date her. What's dehumanizing about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:41 AM
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Also this is where I'm going to disagree. I see nothing dehumanizing about wanting to be the best. Or asking your partner for the truth about how they really feel about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:24 AM
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I mean they've gotten pissed off at me for saying that. I think because they felt judged, even though I specifically wrote that I was not judging them but talking about what SOME men want. I think they knew that if their husbands realised (these were women with ltr partners they said they had settled for in terms of excitement and sexual attraction, it was specifically in an offmychest thread about this), they would leave them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:23 AM
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Not exactly the same, but some women do get pissed when men talk about how they only want to be with a woman if she finds him more sexually attractive than past partners. Then it's all about how relationships are about more than sex and stability > fun etc etc and how men are bad for wanting to be the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:53 AM
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Tbf it is difficult for those who are not white and live in white countries. But yeah 99% of the population this doesn't even apply to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:49 AM
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Had a video call with family last night. They said I have begun to look a lot like my father. This is good news because my father looks extremely Chad like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:48 AM
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Lmao. Cooked. She can never visit him in India. Hope Trump doesn't kick them out, theyd get fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:24 AM
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I'm going to disagree because what happens is that the white guy gets fetishised. He's not wanted because he, particularly, is attractive. It's because he's white. And only a (admittedly decently sized) subset of the local population who do that. Like I live in India, I know women who simp for white guys, and I know women who wouldn't touch one with a 10 foot pole. Many women who date, hookup, the whole 9 yards, have no interest in a white dude. Like he needs to offer her the things she wants in…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:23 AM
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My life has to be better with him than without" is always going to be a loaded statement here No, if this is a loaded statement to someone, they are not capable of being a good partner. They should never date.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:20 AM
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All men who say that are trash. Period. If they can't add value to a partners life, they don't deserve one. Whiners who just want to go back to the era where a bangmaid was guaranteed due to women being economically (and literally) disenfranchised.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:19 AM
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Tbh it isn't an issue for most men. Most Chinese men live in China. Indian men in India. Thai men in Thailand. Korean men in Korea etc. It's only when you have the ones who grew up or moved to a White country when this becomes a problem. Otherwise, genuinely, non issue. It's height and looks that still matter even in those countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:17 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:04 AM
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That is the plan. I have a job now. Slowly going to start socializing also.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:53 AM
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Ask more women out I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:19 AM
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It's true tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:17 AM
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Bro I like you but I will never agree with this idea. It doesn't matter if I think I can, it's not always achievable. That is reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:15 AM
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I love this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:58 AM
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Disagree. Women here are nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:58 AM
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That's literally me lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:57 AM
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Come to India. Near zero people who were blonde as kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:54 AM
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I think Hasan is okay, the problem is that he's a streamer ie a professional yapper. Which is why sometimes he doesn't know what he's talking about but he's obligated to talk about them. For eg, the farm protests in India. He was all like see this is solidarity this is how protests work farmers good BJP bad etc etc. The reality is that the farm protests were done by the farmers of one state. Said state has never had land redistribution the way other states have. As a result it's large land owner…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:53 AM
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It's not womb envy though. Trust me. I'm very happy that I don't have a womb. But I do think women are nice and I wish I had more female friends. Nice ones though, not mean ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:46 AM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:41 AM
1

The OG Sakura was the cardcaptor. 90s kids will remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:39 AM
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What’s stopping me from moving to an ultra poor country with Worthless money and declaring myself a billionaire This is just passport broing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:38 AM
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The influencers are frauds. But the ideology borne our of a fear of being settled for, kinda valid. Atleast that fear is definitely valid. People don't like being someone who their partner doesn't desire as strongly as her past partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:38 AM
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I can't lie though. Women are nice. I don't get why people hate them. Yes, rejection sucks. But if you're friends with them, women are amazing. Way more empathetic than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:37 AM
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Android is better
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:32 AM
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Put drugs in nursing home water supply that kills libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:31 AM
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Found the Ashleigh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:26 AM
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Morales only have meaning if you stick to them EVEN IF it doesn't get you good results in life, by definition. And so, complaining about people who don't follow moral truths is meaningless. The people who do complain are just jealous. You cannot, philosophically speaking, believe in morals, and also complain about people not being moral. Since sich complaints are silly, those who choose to be immoral should easily ignore those complaints by other people, as philosophically and logically invalid.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:22 AM
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Brootal. Also no, not yet. I need a map
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:20 AM
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If you want to get Chad you should listen to what Chad listens to, ie Baby Shark
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:17 AM
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I do think point 1 has some substance to it. Not saying he can't find a woman, but internalised racism and hating your own race is 100% a thing in some Asian women who grew up in America. There are enough American born Indian women who "never date Indian". The excuse given is "he reminds me of my dad/brother", but that's a bit silly when you think about how in every Asian country women marry men of their own race and he doesn't remind them of their brother/dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:16 AM
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Good luck and good bye bro
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:13 AM
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Thanks bro. Software engg
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:12 AM
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Fragrancemaxxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:38 PM
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Looks like a grenade
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:38 PM
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Or Bath and Body Works
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:19 PM
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Some Sephora shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:19 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:15 PM
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You missed the sale.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:15 PM
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<image> This is very funny
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:09 PM
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As a principle, I will never ever simp for a woman that I want to sleep with. Those women have to choose me and simp for me. I will definitely simp for people I like non-romantically though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:03 PM
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Men want to be chosen only for their looks. Men want to be objectified.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:46 PM
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Catch-22 is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:45 PM
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Thank
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:45 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:44 PM
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No, she's nice. Stop being mean to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:40 PM
2

Fast is when you sleep together 2 hours after meeting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:39 PM
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Depends on the secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:37 PM
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I made an account and got 0 matches. Weird as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:26 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:21 PM
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Those guys are losers. The goal of sex is for the man to make the woman feel good, including orgasms if she can get them (but no putting pressure on her to get one).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:20 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:07 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:07 PM
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So I read this in a book, but if you keep the date moving to 3-4 activities in like 2-3 hours then she will feel like she spent way more time with you than she actually did.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:06 PM
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I know what you mean. I have felt the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:05 PM
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So I got the email, I officially have a job now. Yay. Time to build my life now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:04 PM
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How is everyone today?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:03 PM
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Oh okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:10 AM
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I'm unsure if I should post my economically engaging thoughts here Please do. I love to shit on neolib "but ackchually" types.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:07 AM
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"Eat the rich" & Wealth tax sounds very promising but it is very difficult to execute. Stupidest take I've seen in a while. I keep forgetting you're literally a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:05 AM
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Catharsis, venting, feeling less alone etc You didnt answer the question tho (instead you asked me one)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:52 PM
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He would do it because as a 42 yo (or even a 33 year old), dating a 21 yo is ewww and yucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:50 PM
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Time is about to speed up waaay more ngl. Until I was 27 I barely felt like time was passing. Now it feels like every thing happened yesterday and I'm just hurtling along on this out of control ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:49 PM
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Wait you're 22 ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:46 PM
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It's 2 December already. Time flies. Feels like yesterday that it was February. Insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:42 PM
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Q4W, and only honest answers please: Do you really feel that the insecurities and fears of the men who post here, are all exaggerated, if not absurd? Like do you really think there's no merit to the insecurities us men have here? Do you really think our fears of being settled for are unwarranted?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:20 PM
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Lol. Tfw I never played Fallout
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:18 PM
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Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:14 PM
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, I know where you can find the alien blaster. Ooh, tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:03 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:37 PM
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That's nice. Did you eat them as is, or did you cook them into something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:31 PM
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Thank you brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:09 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:09 PM
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"I plan to get plastic surgery" is woe-is-me?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:01 PM
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Sad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:53 PM
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I was a virgin until 34 How did you get over the virginity Catch-22. Asking for my self
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:52 PM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:51 PM
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For whatever reason, life feels like a video game rn
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:49 PM
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Wimin are nice tbh. I bet they smell amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:48 PM
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concubines Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:45 PM
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So Napoleon who created a constitution, won in lots of battles and widely known is beta, Got cucked by his wife tbh. You should have picked Ghengis.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:39 PM
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W aura
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:38 PM
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Thx.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:31 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:30 PM
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Also, my boss told me this unofficially but I have been hired. The HR should call me tomorrow. Now I can slowly start building up my life. And become more sociable, fitter etc. Going to try and see if I can find someone who thinks I'm hot. If not, well, I'll enjoy the journey of trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:30 PM
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I was so busy today I didn't get time to cook. Thank god for leftovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:29 PM
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Hello, how is everyone today?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:28 PM
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Watch A Man's Life next
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:48 AM
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Will see if and when that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:26 AM
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Being several women's best sex and that alone will get you nowhere in life Except for the part that I don't care about other parts of life I care about this. life except getting a call from Mary Jane Rotten-Crotch on a late Saturday once in a while because she knows she's gonna have an orgasm. I'll gladly take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:14 AM
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That's why everything I do is anon
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 01:37 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 01:37 AM
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He created white people. So he's your creator
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 01:36 AM
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Idgi
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 01:36 AM
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Arranged marriages. He's describing AM
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 01:35 AM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 01:33 AM
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Bird 2 Excellent_Badger 0
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 01:28 AM
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How is this woe-is-me though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 01:27 AM
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https://youtube.com/shorts/_sduFb9Y9lY Americans, how true is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 06:37 PM
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One thing that makes me feel less bad about how I look is famous ugly people who get laid.. For eg <image> This fugly misogynisgic no jawline podcaster goes on dates. Which means women can't care that much about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 06:35 PM
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That's the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 06:28 PM
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It's not gay as long as I say no homo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 06:19 PM
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Disappointing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 06:17 PM
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Do you wanna tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 06:09 PM
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I disagree. But I'm too sleepy to argue tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 06:04 PM
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My friend pointed out that every Leftist guy seems to birth a right winger. For eg Walt Disney or his dad. Or Pete Buttigeg or his dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:59 PM
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Yes but even on those, only a small minority make good money. The name of the game is attention. And on a site with 10,000 10/10s, you need either preexisting attention (think Belle Delphine) or you need to do something that catches attention (Bonnie Blue)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:58 PM
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Wanna lick mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:56 PM
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:( Hope your life is much happier from now on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:55 PM
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Just because it's in my head doesn't mean it's fixable. I think that's the fundamental disagreement you and I always have
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:53 PM
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Yes and you should open the links because so many straight up say they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:39 PM
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I mean I KNOW rationally that this idea of what a man is, is just a figment of society's imagination. But I still feel judged and less than I guess. I don't control how I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:35 PM
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:( Hope that's all behind you now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:34 PM
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Ya. You get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:33 PM
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Tfw you have a gradnfather less conservative than your dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:33 PM
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Tell him you love him uncountably infinitely. That infinity is larger than the other type of infinity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:27 PM
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Because I feel like to be a man is to fit the stereotype. And I don't. And that makes me feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:23 PM
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No because it would be large scale and for nerds. Like there were times I socialized. Specifically when I was put in theatre camps. And on the internet I met friends I could hang out with irl and not feel like I'm an alien who doesn't fit in. My friends tell me I would have done better had I grown up in a large metropolitan city. Because there were more kids like me who liked books and anime and video games (back when not everyone had a PC and anime was not mainstream).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:23 PM
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No. I went to school. Didn't fit in so didn't socialize much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:19 PM
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Based. Hope you become a millionaire soon enough
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:18 PM
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Do you ever wish you were less like you? I don't fit a lot of the masculine stereotypes of behavior. I overthink everything. I'm nerdy. I don't really like travelling. And I always try to have plans for what I want to do. I wish I was more like the normal male stereotype. Because, since I don't meet the stereotype, I feel like I'm not man enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:18 PM
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Oh okay, that makes more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:02 PM
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Hmm. Could be. Tbh I think maybe coding classes just suck. I always learned using tutorials and books. Classes never did it for me when learning to code. I once tried a Stanford coding MOOC and it was trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 05:01 PM
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Good for you in that case. I could never. I always want to do something where my brain feels challenged to solve problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:57 PM
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That's why I believe govts should create programs for us that help us socialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:56 PM
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Coding is best.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:55 PM
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That's more boring though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:55 PM
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Why the fuck are you talking about 7 years ago smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:55 PM
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I'm Indian. We only make mom jokes. Or sister jokes. Dad jokes are rare. So my mind isn't conditioned to go there
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:53 PM
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You teach there?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:52 PM
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Ya it's still a conservative country. It's just finding these people is tough because these people almost certainly aren't very outgoing. But that also applies to a lot of the male virgins here (me included).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:52 PM
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Since all the Indian dudes were crying about n count and how you can't find a virgin woman anymore, here's something I pulled up in like 2 minutes of searching. https://np.reddit.com/r/TwoXIndia/s/9qb7WTSApZ https://np.reddit.com/r/TwoXIndia/s/qOsQXoU57P https://np.reddit.com/r/TwoXIndia/s/vKgMnRv8YA https://np.reddit.com/r/TwoXIndia/s/vF6SxZa82b https://np.reddit.com/r/TwoXIndia/s/iXcgyetUER https://np.reddit.com/r/TwoXIndia/s/7Vc1jfzBzi https://np.reddit.com/r/TwoXIndia/s/5AGdQgwAYO Literally …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:44 PM
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Diploma/bootcamp for 4 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:26 PM
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If it's just one type of workplace then definitely biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:16 PM
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Same reason your mums so fat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:14 PM
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Idli batter would take too long to ferment. Fried rice maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:12 PM
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Eh, as long as you eat once a day
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:11 PM
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Semen doesn't have that much protien tho (Sorry)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:10 PM
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So I climbed up 11 flight of stairs. By the end I was so winded. When I do this type of stuff, I get endorphin high. When I am high on endorphins it's hard to feel bad. But it has to be intense anaerobic exercise. Normal cardio won't do it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:09 PM
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Irl will have the opposite bias. You are more likely to see outgoing women. Those types are more likely to have bfs and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 04:07 PM
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Any average looking woman in India has been hit on by like 500 guys by 25, away from parents 1) not all women live away from their parents after graduating college. 2) even of those that do, there's a fair few who are committed to an arranged marriage 3) there's still others who drown in work and never date or even try. Again, there's enough women in 2xIndia, crying about being a virgin past 27 (aka the cutoff age beyond which AM gets more difficult). They don't need to lie on that subreddit. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:50 PM
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There's a gene that makes it taste like soap for some dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:45 PM
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I have that gene. Can't have coriander.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:43 PM
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You'd miss out on a delicious dish.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:40 PM
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Did you tell her that Americans don't wash their butts, just wipe it with paper? Yuck
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:38 PM
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Unless you don't want to get married. Such women also exist (hopefully).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:36 PM
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Why don't you stop helping her now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:35 PM
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What will you do once she asks you why you're not talking to her ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:33 PM
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This is VERY GOOD. Less population is good for India.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:32 PM
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Lol. Y'all don't know how insanely popular this in in India.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:28 PM
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Maybe the real reason is that face >> height. And the short ones were all less face card than tall ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:25 PM
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Why don't you do this since you do care about body count Step 1: make sure that all the property you buy is in parents name Step 2: get arranged married. Make sure talk to every prospect and tell her that you're a virgin and it's important for you that your partner also be one. Step 3: get married Step 4 (optional) : if you ever find out that she lied to you, divorce her. You will avoid alimony Just make sure that you never own property. If you do, transfer it to your parents and then wait 2 yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:23 PM
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On the one hand I always imagine myself as the not Chad in these stories and feel bad. On the other hand, if it was mid sex, then I don't feel bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:18 PM
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Dope and based.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:12 PM
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:( Hope you bounce back soon
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:01 PM
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Okay, get some sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:46 PM
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Because people liked me cooking yesterday, I'm gonna post some more. I made beans and rice today. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:43 PM
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Kek, this is why virgins like me are doomed. Women be on their guard about inexperienced folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:41 PM
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She's cute though. Would
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:40 PM
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He won't go through with it. At best he'll make a profile, ger some likes, feel sad. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:39 PM
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Yes. You're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:38 PM
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I mean she's right. If you did love her you'd know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:38 PM
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This, is what they call, bullshit. Because I can open up TwoXIndia right now and find many posts where women in their 20s and 30s say they've never done anything. They're even sad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:38 PM
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Hello, how is everyone today?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:37 PM
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The best thing to fight depression, anxiety and sadness. Is exercise. You don't have any energy left to hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:36 PM
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I've definitely been called an understanding guy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:36 PM
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Frankenstein, for me, is the ultimate antinatalist story. When the creation hates the fact that he was created, and fights against his own creator.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:35 PM
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And I feel even with women who do feel desire right away, different women will feel it for different men. Like I bet some women are into big burly guys, and others find them yucky and lean towards slender tattooed guitarists or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:19 AM
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Make me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:00 AM
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That's sad. Crows are so intelligent and dope. Fuck the other birds. Crows are bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:59 AM
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Bird 1 Excellent_Badger 0
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:58 AM
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I think if a woman feels insecure of porn then the man needs to stop watching porn and become the pornstar that SHE craves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:55 AM
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I think a lot of red pill men look at desire as linear. For them, women have a vessel of desire, and the closer you are to being a stereotypical Chad, the more of her vessel you can fill up. In this worldview, if you're anything less than Chad you will always be an inferior man, for every woman you ever date. I honestly don't agree with this. I believe chemistry exists and different people want different things. Women's desire vessel comes in different shapes and it's more about who fits that sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:54 AM
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That's a you problem. I exist. All I care about is becoming the best a woman has had. Fuck compromising. Fuck being settled for. I would rather die than have that happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:50 AM
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Only 15 minutes? Bro get a desensitizing gel. Women expect a lot longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:48 AM
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This is how they use you and then toss you away. Only ever be useful to friends who reciprocate, and women who actually want you. Srs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:44 AM
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D. They're all great
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:42 AM
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A and B. Tbh B is the highest. I'm not sure how I would respond to C.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:41 AM
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I'd run. Those guys have insane schedules. Never date a doctor or a lawyer if you want to actually spend time with that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:40 AM
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Gold Dad Digger. Amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:39 AM
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Definitely what someone who has moved on does. Rant online.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:38 AM
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Many such cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:37 AM
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I'm not bitching about AI. I'm bitching about the hype. They're talking about how software engineers will be obsolete in 6 months. Meanwhile, I use this thing daily and everyday it falls short of the mark. Catastrophically so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:36 AM
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That is meaningless. Like the trivial solution to a pair of equations. The only meaning to being the best is when you defeat other men to claim the title.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:35 AM
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Not just looks though. I'm saying the bad girls. The ones who only want fun and to not settle down. The bi polar ones. The crazy ones. Anyone but the looking for commitment and long term ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:56 AM
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So are gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:53 PM
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Oh nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:51 PM
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Which country
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:51 PM
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Dowry exists. Men on the subcontinent already are gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:50 PM
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Okay this is an excellent response, and you put my heart at ease. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:34 PM
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Okay. Next time you meet someone who's sad, or depressed, or addicted. Just tell that person to change how they feel. It's all under their volitional control.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:32 PM
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That's a misunderstanding on your part (because nothing about what people feel or desire is voluntary or volitional), but alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:30 PM
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The point of this conversation is you asked men here "why be stressed about this", and I clearly explained why. That's all. I don't know where the therapist bit comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:24 PM
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I never said they were. But that doesn't preclude being afraid of being settled for. Or worrying and stressing about it. It's not a stupid thing to stress about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:20 PM
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Thank you. You're the best
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:14 PM
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I mean to me it feels like I'm being settled for. And that's all that matters. Everyone has different criterion on what they value, this one's mine. But it's not really a choice because what I feel isn't a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:06 PM
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As painful as that is, still hurts less than being settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:04 PM
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Not stupid to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:03 PM
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For me, unironically, I'd still rather be the best. But different men will ymmv.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:48 PM
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That's what women say.... Brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:32 PM
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Maybe. I definitely haven't. I still want to be the hot fun fling guy over stable relationship guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:30 PM
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Smh y'all lack taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:28 PM
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You're v wholesome for Chad's woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:17 PM
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<image> Improvise Adapt Overcome
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:12 PM
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That's fair tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:11 PM
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Thank you. It's nice to be loved unconditionally by someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:11 PM
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Yes but that's my point. If the vibes mattered more than just the metrics of your body then the filter wouldn't be a thing. But it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:07 PM
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Maybe you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:59 PM
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No, the idea is if you're comparing passion from one and not bringing that same passion to the other, then you need bring that passion. My comprehension of that line is very different from yours ngl. I see it as flings have passion relationships don't because they get stale and boring and because what these women look for in a relationship is different from what they want in a fling. Anyway, I'm slowly realising that there's not much that us men can do about that anyway. Women won't change. It's…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:54 PM
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'But are you comparing him to unhinged passionate sex with a fling'. Like, the idea in this statement is that that you have uninhibited sex with a fling (as opposed to OP's fiancee who OP said is middle of the pack).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:34 PM
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Lmao. Okay that was brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:32 PM
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I mean I don't find that kind of porn erotic, so no (I hate anything that isn't one man one woman). But many dudes do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:31 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:30 PM
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You can't tell me women don't also do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:27 PM
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I think the trick is to never settle down as a man. Or have kids. Always have one foot potentially out the door. That way they either date you for your other qualities or don't date you at all. Either way you never get settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:26 PM
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Why do people find her disgusting? Like her body her choice. Plus she definitely pushes boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:24 PM
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But doesn't that feel like a generalization to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:24 PM
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Damn. Til. Didn't know cooking was a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:23 PM
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Yeah that's the idea now. I won't be toxic. I will try to be exciting and fun. One more thing that I suspect happens is women look for a stable guy when they want to settle down and have kids. I don't ever want kids anyway, but I was always partially open to the idea of marriage. I'll nix that as well now. Much less likely then to ever get into a relationship where I'm being settled for, because if settling down isnt on the cards then the woman will have to want me for my other qualities, not th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:22 PM
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By this logic the only women who like bad boys all have unhealed trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:20 PM
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No. In this case we just want to be seen as exciting and fun and be lusted after. Like the way this woman talks about how her love life is on fire when she's dating a guy "she's not supposed to", makes it feel like her love life won't be on fire when she's dating who she's supposed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:19 PM
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Goes for both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:17 PM
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Okay no I will push back against this. It's women who are saying that the bad boys are more fun. For eg, the screen shot above is from this article https://nypost.com/2023/02/23/jana-hocking-the-real-reason-women-like-bad-boys/ And here's what she's saying <image> Note that this isn't from Reddit and it isn't anonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:16 PM
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Damn, I can't believe I'm getting downvoted for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:12 PM
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Lol Bonnie Blue wanted to film with barely legal teens in Australia.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:11 PM
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No good jawline on anyone except Math.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:08 PM
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The best language is unironically Persian. And every language derived from it is also beautiful and poetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:07 PM
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Nah, I have a better idea. Let's just find the bad girl instead. Why should only men feel insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:06 PM
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So I just had a thought. We've seen so many "women think sex with the bad boys is hotter". Why don't we also start teaching guys that "sex with the bad girl is hotter". I think we should start teaching all the men this, right from when they're in kindergarten. Remember how Sheryl Sandberg said that women should date all the bad boys but them settle with a nice girl. We should do a version of that and teach it to all the boys Why should only men feel insecure about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:05 PM
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So what. It's hot when she's older.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:03 PM
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Not really. She's a hot MILF.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:01 PM
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The thing that bothers me about this kind of stuff is the idea that the good guy isn't fun. I think I won't be toxic but I'm going to try and be fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:59 PM
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40 yo bald men get in here. https://youtube.com/shorts/939OwmXsVlI this dude's aunt is an absolute MILF and into bald men. Hope fuel.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:57 PM
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Hmmm. That actually makes a lot of sense. I definitely prize sexual compatibility over relationship compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:53 PM
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We usually shower in the morning here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:40 PM
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https://youtu.be/zpMqTRadZXM turn on subtitles, they have english ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:35 PM
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Oh gosh, that's hard to decide. My favorite dish to eat is definitely what I posted. It's a comfort food that Punjabis absolutely love. But tbh my favorite dish to cook has to be this thing called upma. It translates to salted wheat, and it's basically this dish of semolina. It's super simple to make, I make it at breakfast. And I love how it tastes. A little sour with the sweetness of sauteed onions to balance, some crunch from cashew nuts. It's a breakfast item from the South of India. I love …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:33 PM
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Q4A: if I use a sunscreen daily, is a moisturizer also needed?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:29 PM
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