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| 2 | How do guys who are settled for make the most of it?Yea, and end up going to prison for arsonry and attempted murder. Very bright 🤦 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Older man/younger woman relationships are idealPlenty of young guys not having a problem dating, especially girls their age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 05:13 AM |
| 3 | Older man/younger woman relationships are idealThat's because it's rear. And if she does, she may be one of those escorts or sugar babies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 05:11 AM |
| 3 | Older man/younger woman relationships are idealThe majority of young women date and want guys their age whether you like it or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 05:10 AM |
| 3 | Older man/younger woman relationships are idealI agree too lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 05:09 AM |
| – | Older man/younger woman relationships are idealWhy would you be in relationships with guys you don't like?. We're these situationships or long tern relationships? Young guys do want relationships, you just have to date guys in your league and not outside it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 04:24 AM |
| – | Older man/younger woman relationships are idealShe probjust wasn't all that into you, maybe it was just a fun thing or she was drunk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 04:21 AM |
| – | Older man/younger woman relationships are idealYou never met someone your age who wanted a relationship with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Should men be encouraged to still pursue women who are in relationships, or engaged, so long as they're not married?Why not get with someone who's single though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Is it fair to say that being a genuinely nice guy WITH the ability to be not so nice when needed is the most attractive thing a man can be?I think you just need help. See therapist. I'm not even joking.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 11:50 PM |
| 6 | Who has more sexual options: An average looking woman? Or a male celebrity?Both have an overwhelming amount of options, but the celebrities may have more fans and options due to popularity. Some average women can start a YouTube channel and become popular enough to have over 100,000 guys lusting after them. If she promotes herself online and goes out enough, then she will have so many options naturally. Since you're talking about sexual options, it will be higher. As far as relationship options, that may vary. It really depends on the celebrity popularity and average g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 11:02 PM |
| 0 | Is it fair to say that being a genuinely nice guy WITH the ability to be not so nice when needed is the most attractive thing a man can be?Dam right many men are the same. That's why you have incels on here complaining about only attracting land whales, fat shaming them. If I were them, I'd date plus size women if they were the only ones showing me interest I would definitely give them a chance even if I had size 2s, 4s, and 6s showing interest... Incel: oh no, she is fat, I can't date fat girls... Then who will you date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Is it fair to say that being a genuinely nice guy WITH the ability to be not so nice when needed is the most attractive thing a man can be?Many men don't have standards and will put their things in any hole. Why would I want to sleep with a man who has no standards? It's gross. I feel sorry for the women who get into relationships with these guys. Yuk. Imagine sleeping in bed next to a man who likes sticking his thing in Lord knows what when you're not around. Goes to show how desperate some men are, when they are the beggars and not the choosers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Is it fair to say that being a genuinely nice guy WITH the ability to be not so nice when needed is the most attractive thing a man can be?Options is having many guys to date. I think you're confusing quality with options. You mean the quality of options aren't good for some women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 06:10 PM |
| – | Do you need looks to be sexually attracted to someone?I lust and love my husband. If I weren't attracted to him, I wouldn't have married him. Attraction is first impression to sparks and chemistry. But some people would sleep with someone they aren't attracted to, if they're under the influence or a desperate man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Is it fair to say that being a genuinely nice guy WITH the ability to be not so nice when needed is the most attractive thing a man can be?If you guys say we have options . Saying that we can sleep with Chad's and Tyrones, and get married while you guys watch it all unfold, how do we not have options all of a sudden? I'm getting tired of coming here having some of you guys in here getting upset with my comments because I say I dated cute guys, got married to a guy I didn't settle for, etc... it's like you guys are just jealous and miserable to see others doing well. The problem is, that you guys don't want to date your looksmatch w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 08:29 AM |
| 5 | Is it fair to say that being a genuinely nice guy WITH the ability to be not so nice when needed is the most attractive thing a man can be?How does a woman have no options? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 07:10 AM |
| 3 | Is it fair to say that being a genuinely nice guy WITH the ability to be not so nice when needed is the most attractive thing a man can be?I mean, if a woman finds a man unattractive, even if he's nice, she can't force herself to romantically like him if she feels no spark. Obviously if she finds him attractive, sure, she may give him a chance if his personality is good, on top of him being attractive to her. No shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 07:07 AM |
| -3 | Is it fair to say that being a genuinely nice guy WITH the ability to be not so nice when needed is the most attractive thing a man can be?Do you not see women that you feel is ugly too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 07:04 AM |
| 1 | There are a lot more certain attractive qualities a man must have compared to a woman in order to have a healthy and fulfilling relationship.OK. You're proving my point. If men don't stop pursuing land whales, then this will continue. You will continue seeing women who.weight more than you getting dates while you sit back and hate on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 07:02 AM |
| 3 | Men's hatred/disdain for women is due to one simple fact..they don't understand them.Because ik women that think men just inherently hate them and want to do them harm for no reason other than that they're men. I think that there are some crazy men out there who are trying to do harm to women. But I know how to distinguish a sane man from a crazy one as a woman, so I don't generalize ALLmen. There's crazy men, and there's crazy women. No gender is angelic and perfect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 07:01 AM |
| 5 | Men's hatred/disdain for women is due to one simple fact..they don't understand them.Yea, I don't think men in general hate women. I think it's mainly those incels who hate women. Or even some misogynistic men may hate women. It's silly to say ALL MEN do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 06:57 AM |
| 1 | There are a lot more certain attractive qualities a man must have compared to a woman in order to have a healthy and fulfilling relationship.So if men are dating them then they won't change. That was my point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 06:54 AM |
| 1 | There are a lot more certain attractive qualities a man must have compared to a woman in order to have a healthy and fulfilling relationship.So you mean to tell me you are in a relationship with someone you find repulsive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 06:49 AM |
| 1 | There are a lot more certain attractive qualities a man must have compared to a woman in order to have a healthy and fulfilling relationship.But many men date and sleep with "Land whales" ....so if there are men willing to date them then they won't feel the need to change themselves because some men find them attractive. Stop hating on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.I'm confused to the point that you are trying to make... it may have worked for other women, maybe. But the point was it was very uncomfortable and inappropriate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 06:44 AM |
| – | How can the average woman afford to be so picky with who she dates?Right, exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 11:10 PM |
| – | How can the average woman afford to be so picky with who she dates?I have a question. What makes the man the top 20%? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 11:09 PM |
| 3 | How do you show your interest in a guy?I keep hearing a ton of guys in this place complaining that that is not enough or that they are too socially challenged to puck up on such cues. Don't listen to them. I'm a woman listen to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 11:05 PM |
| 1 | How do you show your interest in a guy?Yes, eye contact, especially alot of it, approach her if she's doing this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 11:04 PM |
| – | How can the average woman afford to be so picky with who she dates?Men here tend to assume any fit white man with blue eyes is automatically super attractive. It's really weird. It's mostly ethnic men who say this. I think they're both above average but I'm not sexually attracted to either of those men and I think they're cute at best - definitely not hot. I'm a face gal - Jake has a better face than Ryan, but it's still not exciting to me 🤷🏿 I don't think they are cute, maybe decent looking? I think someone like Alessandro Dellisola is gorgeous. The sharp jawl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 10:59 PM |
| – | How can the average woman afford to be so picky with who she dates?Those guys aren't considered to be conventionally attractive. The men who played Superman, 50 shades of Grey, The Duff, 16 candles(the boy she ended falling in love with), Zac Efron in his prime, Johnny Depp in his prime, Leonardo Dicaprio and Matt Bomer, in their prime, are/were conventionally attractive men... actually Matt Bomer still is attractive today.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.No, I fell like he was trying to get me to come to his place in San Diego and sleep with him for money. I'm not some whore loose on the streets. And I wasn't treating anyone like a dog, but you're undermining how I was treated. I guess he thought just because he was cute, he can get away with it. Not with me... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.The woman who tried to murder me for rejecting her worked in a library at the time. Again, abusers do not wear uniforms. But that's that one crazy lady. That's horrible. Sorry, it happened. But, you can't generalize all librarians as murderers just because 1 crazy lady. Go to a book club with groups and get to know the book club members. Go to church. Some churches have singles mixers. Join yoga classes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 08:52 PM |
| 1 | There are a lot more certain attractive qualities a man must have compared to a woman in order to have a healthy and fulfilling relationship.I'm talking about a girl you DONT find attractive at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 08:44 PM |
| 0 | Many individuals engage in simultaneous dating/flirtings. Does it not make dating even harder?The reason why me and some of my girlfriends had a roster at the time was because there's alot of men out there who needed to be weeded out due to red flags and things like, being married, being crazy, being weird, sleeping around alot, things like this we had to weed guys out like this in order to narrow the roster down to men who were actually single, not married, looking for a long term relationship, employed, ambitious, fun, outgoing, kind hearted, etc.... So we did get to know each date, th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 08:26 PM |
| 6 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.Who did he think he was? Telling me to leave my job and husband to go with him to another city 2 hours away in exchange of paying me? I'm not a prostitute and I'm not some easy sleaze ball. I think it was hella rude and he deserved a "shoo" from doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.It's a myth, these men complain about materialistic women but are attracted to them more so than the bookish church lady or other non-materialistic women. And that's why I say," where are yall meeting these materialistic women?",, I asked this because I know they aren't seeking these materialistic women in church or at a book club, no. They are finding these women on one of the most superficial dating apps in the world such as Tinder and bumble, and meeting these women at a bar and night club, d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.So you're implying that it's innate in ALL women to prey on men and use them for materialism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 08:03 PM |
| -1 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.What are those good filters? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 07:57 AM |
| 1 | How do you show your interest in a guy?Married, sorry. But good luck 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 07:26 AM |
| 3 | There are a lot more certain attractive qualities a man must have compared to a woman in order to have a healthy and fulfilling relationship.Umm. I'm not writing, I'm typing..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 07:15 AM |
| 9 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.Well, I'm just trying to ask this question to make some of these guys think about why they keep meeting the same type of women. Certain types of women are more materialistic, so why not go for women who aren't? I'm not asking you this question. This is just for the men who keep running into these girls.. Are these Instagram baddies? Party girls? M..... Try going to a bookclub, church, to meet some women who aren't so superficial. Places like this have calm, down to earth, simple people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 07:13 AM |
| 5 | There are a lot more certain attractive qualities a man must have compared to a woman in order to have a healthy and fulfilling relationship.I'm confused by what you're trying to say. Options of guys wanting sex, isn't options in a girls vocabulary. Options of girls who want sex with a guy, is considered options to a man from a males viewpoint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 07:04 AM |
| 26 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.Where do yall go to meet these superficial women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:52 AM |
| 4 | How many men who feel like women reject “nice guys” would proudly treat their girlfriends and wives like princesses and simp for them?I feel like we're coming at this thing from totally different perspectives here. Me too.. dating isn't simping but paying for everything, her bills, her rent, taking her shopping, I think that's what some men would call simping, especially if you aren't in a relationship with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:51 AM |
| 13 | Most men allow themselves to be used by women just to get sex and validation in return.OK, I think alot of people know this already, it's pretty much common lifestyle for alot of men to preposition women and show off their fancy cars and talk about how much money they make in order to try to impress and tempt girls to date them or sleep with them. We know this. And I am not talking about ALL MEN. Just have to put that out there. I literally had a guy (after telling him I was married) tell me to forget my husband and my job and to come with him, he has money. I looked at him like h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:45 AM |
| 7 | How many men who feel like women reject “nice guys” would proudly treat their girlfriends and wives like princesses and simp for them?I just thought that simping was going above and beyond to impress or satisfy a girl that you really liked or wanted to sleep with. Like, putting in effort, such as planning a cute or fun date, taking her to her favorite places, buying her her favorite little things like her fave snacks, making sure she's taken care of and is happy and comfortable. Not just texting/calling back and forth on the phone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:36 AM |
| 13 | How many men who feel like women reject “nice guys” would proudly treat their girlfriends and wives like princesses and simp for them?If that's what some guys consider to be simping today? Then my God, that's horrible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:30 AM |
| 6 | How many men who feel like women reject “nice guys” would proudly treat their girlfriends and wives like princesses and simp for them?You weren't simping, you were just being normal with a girl you liked by communicating with her daily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:28 AM |
| 15 | How many men who feel like women reject “nice guys” would proudly treat their girlfriends and wives like princesses and simp for them?I thought simping was spoiling a girl by wining, and dining her, taking her shopping, paying her bills, and cashapping her? Sending good morning texts is nice, but I wouldn't say thats spoiling or simping at all. Seems normal to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:26 AM |
| 3 | How do you show your interest in a guy?I get shy when I see a cute guy so I'd just look at him if I think he's cute, probably smile aittle. It's a feeling, when you looking at someone. I can't explain it, but, all you got to do is look at the girl and see if she's making eye contact with you, alot. And smiles at you. Then, approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:17 AM |
| 1 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityF | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:14 AM |
| 8 | How many men who feel like women reject “nice guys” would proudly treat their girlfriends and wives like princesses and simp for them?Perhaps it's just being grateful, but to be honest being able to spoil and be affectionate and caring to someone is what I've always wanted anyway. As a husband, you should treat your wife and spoil her if you can. And your wife should treat her husband too. You guys are supposed to treat each other. Every week, my husband and I go shopping for a couple of outfits, and he gets me nice new things, and I get him some nice new things too. We treat each other. I take him out on a date, and he takes … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 04:36 AM |
| 3 | How many men who feel like women reject “nice guys” would proudly treat their girlfriends and wives like princesses and simp for them?What does simping mean TO YOU? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 04:30 AM |
| 7 | How many men who feel like women reject “nice guys” would proudly treat their girlfriends and wives like princesses and simp for them?How do you put her on the pedestal? Examples, please, because I've never heard of a man worshipping and putting a woman on a pedestal. How is that even done? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 04:30 AM |
| 6 | How do you show your interest in a guy?I'd agree to go out with him if he asked. I don't really show interest, I just look. Then look away. That's it, then move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 04:27 AM |
| 4 | There are a lot more certain attractive qualities a man must have compared to a woman in order to have a healthy and fulfilling relationship.When I was dating, many guys seemed to just want sex, but I also had guys who wanted to date, but fewer. So, I wouldn't consider many of the men who courted me as options if they just want sex. Doesn't matter now because I'm married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 04:02 AM |
| 8 | How many men who feel like women reject “nice guys” would proudly treat their girlfriends and wives like princesses and simp for them?How is a woman worshipped? What are some examples because this sounds crazy to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 02:30 AM |
| 7 | There are a lot more certain attractive qualities a man must have compared to a woman in order to have a healthy and fulfilling relationship.But, would you be in a relationship with a woman that you found unattractive to you? How do you even fathom sleeping with a person that you (forgive me, I don't mean to be rude) found repulsive? It's like a troll watching me from behind the trees in the forest, and I start walking faster to lose him but then I notice the troll is still behind me, so I start running because I'm scared, creeped out, and find the troll disgusting to me. So I couldn't put myself in a situation with someone that I do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 02:25 AM |
| 2 | There are a lot more certain attractive qualities a man must have compared to a woman in order to have a healthy and fulfilling relationship.That's why I said alot of guys standards are low, and someone got mad at me for saying this. But it's true. Obese women, tall women, disabled women, have been seen in relationships with guys that aren't even bad looking. So what that tell you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 02:14 AM |
| 10 | There are a lot more certain attractive qualities a man must have compared to a woman in order to have a healthy and fulfilling relationship.Imagine being in a relationship with a man, who just git with you because he couldn't do any "better" in his mind, so he treats you like crap as opposed to if he was with a woman that he found attractive and wonderful by treating her like a princess. It's not fair for the woman who knows he wants someone else, and she's just a placeholder. Horrible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 02:04 AM |
| 4 | Direct Approach: “can I sit down here?”Ummm. It depends where you're asking her. Because I've had someone ask me if he can sit with me on the bus and I said no. But if he would had said, can I sit here, instead of can I sit with you, I probably wouldn't mind that. This was on the greyhound a few years ago. Also,, where?. If I'm at a restaurant eating at a booth by myself, and someone asked me if they can sit with me,.I would decline because it's weird to me. I don't know you, and it feels a bit random and invasive. But, at a cafe, or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Many individuals engage in simultaneous dating/flirtings. Does it not make dating even harder?You hate people who've done nothing to you? Make it make sense? You don't even know me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 01:59 AM |
| -1 | Many individuals engage in simultaneous dating/flirtings. Does it not make dating even harder?I was in college when I did this, and I lived off grants and loans and focused more on my studies than working at the time. But everyone is different, some would date on their days off and date less people each week. It really varies person to person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 09:55 PM |
| 0 | Many individuals engage in simultaneous dating/flirtings. Does it not make dating even harder?Yes, it works. I met my husband doing this, and my best friend has too. I know different people personally who've done the roster dating and succeeded at finding a match. We don't just go for the first guy who hit on us. We exchange phone numbers with guys who interests us. It could be 5 guys, it could be 15 guys, it could be 30 guys. Then we rotate them by going on dates to see who meets most of our standards( is he cute, is he employed, is he fun to be with, is he feeling me?, things like that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Many individuals engage in simultaneous dating/flirtings. Does it not make dating even harder?I dated one guy from London, after we kissed, we were together. Got a place together, but it didn't work out. He was the first European I dated. In the USA, alot of people have a roster, I think it's because we want to test our options because you never know, if you just dating or trying to get to know one person, what if that person finds a better option for himself/herself? That's why we have roster just in case it doesn't work out with 1 of the guys.....move on to the next, and eventually fin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.”Either way, there's cities with obese people who are in relationships. So I don't think being obese keeps you from being in a relationship because I see some in relationships when I go to different cities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.”Yea, well if you live in certain areas, you don't really see many obese people. I live in southern California near a beach by San Diego, and there's alot of health cautious people here. So, if you live here, you'll see mostly athletic to average-slim built people. And most guys approaching me are either athletic or average-slim, around 5'7 to over 6 feet. The women tend to be slender, or athletic too. Then again, there's alot of attractive people in California. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 07:37 PM |
| -1 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?So, what do you want women to do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 02:24 AM |
| 19 | How young does a wife have to be for a husband to get “wife goggles?”I'm a woman and I don't know what this means | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?Ye, I know some men got standards, but there's more of them who don't, basically I'm agreeing with the point you're trying to make | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?Well, idk if it's true because I never had a 5'4 guy approach me for dating or sex. So I wouldn't make such a broad generalization of them paying for casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?Lmao. You think all short guys are paying directly for sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?I'm really not pink pilled or any pill, I just don't know how to set my flair up to "no pill" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 12:42 AM |
| 5 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?Incels.is This is their website where they congregate and bitch about not getting pussy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 11:48 PM |
| 0 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?Why, he will basically tell you what he's looking for, either fun or commitment or to see where it goes. It's up to her if she want to just sleep with him or actually hangout and get to know eachother too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?You'd be surprised | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 11:39 PM |
| 9 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?There's chads and chadlites, then normies, then subhuman, that's how they talk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?Right it's cringey. Like, imagine your wife telling you," oh honey, you were one of my options and I couldn't get chad 1 nor chad 2 so I settled for you baby, I still love you though". . Wtf! 😲 🫨 🫢 You'll start thinking," am I good enough for her".... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?Yea, imagine telling your husband, " I just settled for you" or telling people, " oh I just settled for him because I could not do better" .. that's crazy, wow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 11:29 PM |
| 3 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?You said a girl can hop online and get a chance to sleep with the top 0.1% of men and said you think women want it all. Not all women want to be used for sex, and just because a man is handsome, doesn't mean most women will just sleep with him without being in a relationship with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 11:23 PM |
| 3 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?I think women want it all Being pumped having sex with a random man just because he's handsome? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?I think the hottest woman ever is Megan Fox, and she'd be my first choice. Unfortunately i dont think i can pull her, so ive had to "settle" for my current girlfriend Why does it have to be settling? Why can't it just be, your girlfriend was one of the hottest girls or cutest girls you dated so you chose her out of the other hot girls? Why?!?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?Okay, but as a man would you do the same? Go for women you are most attracted to if you can? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.”Oh okay, so you saying they all ugly. Mmk My point is that if you’re an average guy, you don’t need secret techniques from Redditors I've seen some of these guys' pictures, and they aren't as bad looking as they think they are. I tell them to keep approaching women nonstop, which means " keep trying"... some of them do try but they give up too soon, you have to keep going for things to pay off or work... You can easily pull ugly women. And you can easily pull average women Some say it isn't "eas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 11:03 PM |
| 5 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?Sweeten the deal by offering casual sex first. I think that's unnecessary. Just find a man who'll want you. My husband had many other options. Find a man who will see YOU as the best option out of all his other options. Settle for an average guy who is more willing to give commitment because he has fewer options. If you want to, go for it. Because if you haven't gotten the type of man you really want even after trying and putting in effort for some years and don't want to be single, if you don't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Women demand a partner next to whom they can live an influencer lifestyleI was single for long at one point. I thought that no one would love me, just want to sleep with me. But I finally found someone. And I think you can too. I believe there's someone out there for everyone. Don't beat yourself up. You deserve someone like anybody else. It just takes time and puting yourself out there. In this current dating market, I know it's bad nowadays. I married years ago before the dating scene became what it is today. So it may take some of you guys more time to sift throug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Women demand a partner next to whom they can live an influencer lifestyleI hate people like you for being there to show how pathetic I am. .I hate myself for existing. I used to think this way about people I seen doing better than me. Not no more, because I have a roof over my head, clean clothes, food to eat, clean water, music I enjoy listening to, books I enjoy reading, places I enjoy going. Being homeless at one point in my life, humbled me.and made me more appreciative of the little things that I did/do have. You should find this inner peace within yourself too,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?I agree with you. But the incels on here disagrees for some reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 10:12 PM |
| 1 | I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man.I agree with this but for some reason I didn't get all that when I first read your other comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 10:08 PM |
| -1 | Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.”. A lot of people talking about sex on this website are ugly. I'm sure they're not as bad looking as they think they are. And I've seen plenty of different looking people in relationships who weren't "chads" and "stacies"....I just don't get it... So when this guy talks about his unique wisdom for picking up women, you’ll be a lot less impressed after you actually see the women. Why? Wassup with the women he's pulling? I mean, atleat he getting women instead of being picky and complaining about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 10:01 PM |
| 3 | Women demand a partner next to whom they can live an influencer lifestyleWhy? Because picturing a handsome fit high earning man in the kitchen with a whole apron on cooking 🍳 😋 insults your (clears throat) "manly" hood? Traditional gender roles don't go in my household. And we are fine with this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 09:23 PM |
| 4 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?Why you think unconventionally attractive or unattractive women get thousands of likes and hundreds of matches? Think about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 09:18 PM |
| 7 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?There's alot of men out there who don't have standards when it comes down to casual sex. Many are willing to sleep with obese women or women they deem as unattractive. Many men are constantly horney and willing to sleep with whatever they can get honestly. While women, many women can be more pickier with who they sleep with. I mean, many men are the main ones constantly approaching women daily, just sausage fests all over the place begging for any woman to sleep with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 08:01 PM |
| 1 | I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man.I'm pretty relaxed,, almost all the time, actually about to have some home cooked pasta and garlic bread being prepared by my hubby 😋 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 07:17 PM |
| 0 | I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man.It's stupid to expect someone else to subsidize your lifestyle, but I think it's perfectly rational to view the average salary as not good enough. I mean, there are men and women out there who don't mind paying for everything in the relationship. There's plenty wealthy women and men who don't mind it. So I guess since it is a lifestyle that is being enabled, that is why it exists. You don't have to live that way, no one is forcing you to. So it shouldn't matter to you, why you so upset about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 07:15 PM |
| 4 | Women demand a partner next to whom they can live an influencer lifestyleWhere does this 3% come from? Either way, most average earning women are with average earning men, and the average woman doesn't demand that a man make 6 to 7 figures and can cook and clean. Only a very minority want that, so it's not like every single woman wants a wealthier man because, realistically, most know they can't get one. And being wealthy isn't the be all see all for everyone, I mean, don't get me wrong, many of us would I'm pretty sure like an extra $1,000,000 to our annual incomes,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 07:02 PM |
| 7 | Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.”none of which I will share here because they're all a hilarious compendium of stereotypical "things nerds expect to work in real life but never do" that functioned entirely on blind chance, and I don't want to give anyone here bad ideas I think it would help some guys on here by atleast giving or dropping a couple of gems on how to approach women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 06:42 PM |
| 12 | Women demand a partner next to whom they can live an influencer lifestyleWhat lifestyle? “Being comfortable and well provided for”? I think anyone would LIKE that lifestyle. He's just jelly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 06:37 PM |
| 4 | Women demand a partner next to whom they can live an influencer lifestyleMy man is 6 figures My man loves traveling My man is a fashionista and athletic I was already wanting a man like this as young as 19 years old. Now, I may not be perfect and he may not be perfect either, but he checks most of the things I want in a man on my standards check list and that's all that matters to me. Anyway, my point is, YOUR. STANDARDS SHOULD BE WHAT YOU CAN OBTAIN OR GET. If you want a tall, dark, wealthy, and handsome man, and you can get him, then, those standards are not too hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 06:35 PM |
| 0 | I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man.So you think broke women and obese women have no business dating/being in a relationship? Do you have eyes with vision? Because do you not see obese women and broke women in relationships? Do you? And there's broke men in relationships too, your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 06:21 PM |
| 0 | I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man.Idk why they get so mad at this? I mean, there are women willing to support broke men anyway, so I don't know why they mad at me, just because my husband isn't broke and I never dated a broke man in my life cause they knew better to even try me. Go for women who will still want you even if you're broke. This is nothing personal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 06:18 PM |
| 0 | I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man.Most people would complain about broke people in the relationship if they already agreed on a 50/50 partnership to both bring in incomes, and one isn't trying to work and make money. The women complaining on social media are the ones wanting men with 6 or 7 figures. Their standards are higher, thanks to glamorizing 666 men(6 figures, 6 feet, 6 pack)... this isn't about broke men, this is about women online wanting a man who makes more than 5 figures.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 06:14 PM |
| 0 | I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man.Why are you trying to make this into a lopsided gender war type of thing? If a woman makes more than her husband, and I mean waaaay more than him, and they agree on her cooking and cleaning(because she wants to) then thats fine too. I was just trying to make a point that there's men out there who love cooking and cleaning and also being house husbands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 06:04 PM |
| 1 | I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man.My husband makes way more than me, yet I still make my own income regardless. I admire him. He even cooks and cleans. I'm not slaving around the house and getting beat on. This is a modern household 🏠 >🛖 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 08:09 AM |
| 2 | I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man.but they always look down on them a bit. Ummm, that's not true for all relationships. They would prefer them(their husbands) to be running the business so everything is as it is supposed to be. Some women have their own businesses and prefer to have their own businesses to run. Some of us want to run our own things and have our own things going on. Not all of us are a monolith that wants hubby to run everything. Some of us enjoy the autonomy and independence of owning and running a business. Hus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 07:40 AM |
| 1 | I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man.Some good-looking men aren't good in bed, even some average looking men aren't either. Sex isn't the "be all see all". Other traits about a man has to idk cause a spark where I can't get enough, where a woman just can't get enough and it doesn't start and end in the bedroom. So, personality and character will determine if a man is worthy of being husband material or ltr material for some women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 07:33 AM |
| 0 | I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man.Some people love money," for the love of money is the root of all evil" people have murdered and still murder today for money. Wanting money and getting it is fine, but when you are in love with it, is a different story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 07:29 AM |
| 0 | I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man.By what women, on social media? In general, average everyday women aren't complaining about men not making enough money. That's mostly women on the superficial side of social media, or a minority of women who are wealthy, requiring that. With the income gap that's still prevalent today amongst the average male earner and female earner in the USA is still a thing. I tried uploading link of sources showing that the average man actually out-earns the average women, and this is across all racial gro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 07:17 AM |
| -2 | I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man.Men aren't really needed for financial stability and financial security nowadays. Women earn their own incomes without needing to rely on men to provide. Houses, properties, assets, can be obtained by women without co-signers. Whether a woman is no income, low income, middle to upper income, there are plentiful resources for women to be self-sufficient and pickier with the men they choose to sleep with or marry. Women are running businesses and managing employees and even running households and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Men who are concerned with lack of women in their life, have you even tried maximizing your chances?You have to be able to read the room and tell if a woman looks uncomfortable or not when you approach her. And I'm sure you know when a woman is looking uncomfortable, leave her alone, duh!. But if you finally approach a woman who clearly has an open body language and is making eye contact with you and looks comfortable and is engaging with you then that obviously when you shoot your shot. It's creepy and predatory trying to talk to women who are clearly uncomfortable so leave the ones who are u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Men who are concerned with lack of women in their life, have you even tried maximizing your chances?..." Hi, I just wanted to tell you that you look beautiful and would like to take you out to lunch and get to know one another?" Come on, I'm a nice guy, how about this, I take you out for lunch and if you like it, great then we can maybe continue seeing each other or if you don't like it, then we can go our separate ways, deal?" Text almost every morning, " Good Morning Beautiful" with cute gif of the sunrise 🌅.. do this at least 4 to 5 days a week. Don't call, just text this one text. Ask her … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Men who are concerned with lack of women in their life, have you even tried maximizing your chances?So we want chads and chadlites, and they want Stacie and stacylites? They get mad and say, women only want the attractive men, well, it sounds like they want attractive women too, from reading all their comments. They want conventionally attractive women and slender to slim thick women are attrative to them while an obese woman is unattractive to them, hence they want the attractive girls, like many women want the attractive guy.... so, it seems to go both ways... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 12:29 AM |
| -2 | Men who are concerned with lack of women in their life, have you even tried maximizing your chances?A land whales is over 400 pounds. I'm talking about girls who are slim thick to alittle chubby, if they are showing interest, why not give it a try? I've never been too picky about the men I dated, which is why I think I was able to get married. I opened myself up, that's what I did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Men who are concerned with lack of women in their life, have you even tried maximizing your chances?What does it matter? If a guy is complaining about having no matches, but some girls are showing him interest who just so happen to be on the heavier side, why not accept the attention that you are actually receiving from her and give her a chance to see if you 2 are compatible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 11:58 PM |
| -1 | Men who are concerned with lack of women in their life, have you even tried maximizing your chances?Okay, we get it, alot of handsome men have sharp or square jawline, but are most of the drug dealers, tatted guys, trade workers, guys with piercings,having a hard time dating? Because I seeen some drug dealers, trades men, all these different men who don't have problems dating, and they don't have squared jaws. They look regular.. so...I'm just saying.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Men who are concerned with lack of women in their life, have you even tried maximizing your chances?It's not that they don't "know". It's that people, on average, can't or won't accept them. I forgot to put some do know but they rather date outside their leagues, which is their business, but if they aren't successful with dating outside their league and not getting absolutely any leads even though they are putting in the proper effort and time, then they should date those who aren't outside their leagues if they really want to date someone..... Theoretically, yeah. Realistically, not so much. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 10:58 PM |
| 2 | What is a traditional women in your view and is it feasible in modern times?There's plenty men who can cook and loves to cook. It's just a matter of constantly going on dates with eligible men who want a committed relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Men who are concerned with lack of women in their life, have you even tried maximizing your chances?The "size queens" basically, make it so easy that I don't even have to try. Interesting, what you mean by you don't have to try? Do you just stand there and they like, approach you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 10:27 PM |
| 4 | Men who are concerned with lack of women in their life, have you even tried maximizing your chances?You might end of getting some deranged emo who cuts herself and takes percocet all day. But don't say you have 0 chance with women. What you really mean is you have 0 chance with the exact type of girl you want? Or what? I think the issue here is that we don't know our leagues and what leagues we can get and cant really get with ease. I believe that there's a someone out there for everyone. We just have to be more open when it comes to dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 10:22 PM |
| 0 | Men who are concerned with lack of women in their life, have you even tried maximizing your chances?Right, when I was single, I had a man approach me that I wasn't interested in, I wasn't playing hard to get, I was just hard to get, ya know?. But anyway, he kept pursuing me even though I never showed interest back in him, so after months of contacting me and asking me out on a date, guess what, I finally gave him a chance. Not because I couldn't find someone else(I was single by choice after breakup and wanted time alone) but because I just thought, why not, he seems nice. So we went on a few … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 10:13 PM |
| -3 | Men who are concerned with lack of women in their life, have you even tried maximizing your chances?Tinder is mostly successful for cute or hot men and surprisingly enough, regular smegular women. It's a app based on how hot you look and how many hot people you can hookup with... So, you should go on dating sites for average everyday looking people who are seeking long term relationships, like match.com and eharmony. My brother was having a hard time on tinder so he signed up on match.com and is now dating a sweet nice girl he met on there. You should try it. Oh btw, my brother is balding so h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Men who are concerned with lack of women in their life, have you even tried maximizing your chances?Some guys have game. Game can help some men too. What you say, reading the room, not giving up after a few girls reject you. Things like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 09:42 PM |
| -1 | Men who are concerned with lack of women in their life, have you even tried maximizing your chances?Just shave your head bald, dress nice, and wear cologne. You have to work with what you got. Everyone does | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 09:40 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what are your thoughts on NYC dating scene, is it as bad as they say?OK, I met my husband in California where I live now. I did the same thing, I went on 3 to 4 dates a week, trying to get to know as many men as I can going out to lunch with them, took about a year or so to meet my hubby. All I wanted was a kind-hearted man who made 6 or 7 figures, I didn't mind his height though. I think if I were alittle more pickier I'd probably still either be single or have a more challenging time finding someone. Some people just got to go to other places to find love if th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Can you be red pill and not bash womenMy husband loves helping people, he grew up catholic, Italian blood, so it's in him to be helpful and generous. He's a very cool, nice, down to earth guy who used to be a fire fighter where he had to cook for over 20 different grown big muscular men almost everyday which inspired him to be a very good chef. It makes him happy to cook for me.and his family. It makes him happy to be around me because I make him feel loved, handsome, and desirable. It makes him feel good to know I like to work and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 07:18 PM |
| -2 | Can you be red pill and not bash womenMow the lawn? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Relationship expert says men shouldn't date if they're brokeWell, you'd be surprised with the amount of men with no income in relationships with women who take care of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 06:07 AM |
| 9 | What is a traditional women in your view and is it feasible in modern times?Traditional is a woman who cooks and cleans and care for the kids while the dad(breadwinner) provides. Being Traditional is a lifestyle that couples can still adopt in modern times in western societies. It's a choice today, that can still work. However, women like myself, who is not Traditional, prefers to not be a house servant or maid. Nor am I submissive. My husband makes 6 figures, I make less than him, but I'm not bowing on my knees to be submissive. If he wasn't no longer able to work then… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 06:01 AM |
| 1 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?It's not about thinking you're too good for someone or something, it's about similar interests and attraction. I'm not mean to them, some say I am mean but keep pursuing me, even though I'm married | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 05:03 AM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what are your thoughts on NYC dating scene, is it as bad as they say?Why is it bad for women. I don't know because I have been married for some years now and my girlfriends are married so idk how the dating scene is for single ladies nowadays but I know with my brothers and their friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 04:45 AM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what are your thoughts on NYC dating scene, is it as bad as they say?What's a bagging spree date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 04:43 AM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what are your thoughts on NYC dating scene, is it as bad as they say?That's not just in NYC, but yes, this does happen... Men doing backflips for some sex and company, nationwide... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 04:40 AM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what are your thoughts on NYC dating scene, is it as bad as they say?I mean, I'm talking about attractive men, most men and most women are average looking so it's not the end of the world. Most average people are dating or are married to average people. So it's normal to be average looking, nothing wrong with it. But when you're one of those attractive people, life is just a little easier for them. Constantly getting hit on, constantly getting free stuff, etc... it is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 04:34 AM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what are your thoughts on NYC dating scene, is it as bad as they say?Depends on the type of women. If you're trying to date outside your league, it will be challenging, duh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 04:24 AM |
| 0 | In your opinion, what are your thoughts on NYC dating scene, is it as bad as they say?The person I'm replying to, said attractive AND WHITE. Not just white, but ATTRACTIVE...Because we've all seen some very unfortunate looking white men, and some attractive ones although I prefer dark skinned and Mediterranean men like my husband over light skin even though white, blonde,blue eyed, men hit on me sometimes. As for Asian men. I've dated some cute ones, like Korean and Vietnamese with light skin, but it was just fun when I was 20 years old. There's some very cute Asian guys out ther… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 04:09 AM |
| -1 | In your opinion, what are your thoughts on NYC dating scene, is it as bad as they say?Why they got to just be white, why can't they just be attractive? Your comment is bullshit. I know black , white, and Latino men there who look good as hell, and trust, they ain't complaining. There's incels living in NYC and they're white too, and aint nobody checking for their asses. Smh, there are unattractive whites everywhere, unattractive people from every race. I swear it be a bunch of racist incels on here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 03:58 AM |
| 4 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Yea, it's tough to find someone who likes you for you and not just because of the way you look or how much money you have. But this is a superficial world we live in and honestly we are all visual creatures. It is what it is, and if you are going to spend on a woman, atleast you can get a pretty girl to splurge on, instead of settling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Relationship expert says men shouldn't date if they're brokeGirls would pay for me If girls are paying for you, you're probably kinda cute, idk 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Relationship expert says men shouldn't date if they're brokeI have alot of people miscomprehending me today in this forum, smh 🤦 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 02:38 AM |
| 3 | Relationship expert says men shouldn't date if they're brokeApprerently, the solution is to not date nor see them. Date men who have their own shit, together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Relationship expert says men shouldn't date if they're brokeWhat alot of women fail to realize is that there's men who are hobosexual. Meaning, they are homeless looking for a place to stay and a hot plate, so they look for desperate women who'll take care of them, man-child's. It's a red flag if a man is asking you for money, not working, never wanting to be in public with you, treats you like shit. Or treats you real nice because he's desperate for free housing and food and free pussy. It's a dog eat dog world out there 🌎 🗺 So yea, he may cheat because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Relationship expert says men shouldn't date if they're brokeYou know what, I should had not said broke= man child.... because....nevermind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 01:20 AM |
| 0 | Relationship expert says men shouldn't date if they're brokeI was just saying men who don't want to bring in an income are lazy irresponsible if it's supposed to be a 50/50 relationship and he just wants to lay around all day while his gf/wife goes to work. And she wants him to get a job but he isn't trying hard enough. You didn't say that originally and that's why I commented. This position is completely fine. But why did I have to break this down. Use your brains!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Relationship expert says men shouldn't date if they're brokeLow income is still money, you actingnlike I was talking about low income people who are hard working people. I'm talking about guys who don't want to work, no income due to laziness. What's wrong with what I'm saying or why aren't you understanding my comments? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 01:19 AM |
| 0 | Relationship expert says men shouldn't date if they're brokeI'm sorry but are you broke or something? Because I don't know why you're so on the defense. I was just saying men who don't want to bring in an income are lazy irresponsible if it's supposed to be a 50/50 relationship and he just wants to lay around all day while his gf/wife goes to work. And she wants him to get a job but he isn't trying hard enough. If the shoe fits, dammit 👞 👟 🥿 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 01:09 AM |
| -1 | Relationship expert says men shouldn't date if they're brokeOh, I see what's going on here. If it is a relationship where both parties agree on bringing in a dual income , but one of the parties is being lazy, not looking for a job, playing video games all day not bringing in any income, then he or she is being irresponsible and immature. But if it is a relationship where 2 of the parties agree on one party being either a housewife or house husband, then neither one is acting like an irresponsible child. Because they agreed on one staying home, not requi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 01:02 AM |
| 0 | Relationship expert says men shouldn't date if they're brokeI think that a man who doesn't work or bring in income is a man-child because he is acting like a child by not wanting to work. This is not a gender thing, this goes both ways, if women don't want to work or make money and take care of responsibility then she is like a child aswell. Wtf ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 12:22 AM |
| 0 | Relationship expert says men shouldn't date if they're brokeI'm talking about broke men, literally no-income. What does broke mean to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 11:58 PM |
| 1 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Yea, I see. Then they need to stop complaining about being used for money if they keep allowing themselves to be used. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 11:57 PM |
| 0 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Oh, I see what you mean. But a prostitute gets paid to have sex. A wife who's just sleeping with her husband doesn't make her a prostitute because she's with him, no one else, and you don't pay her to sleep with you, unless you do? Non of my business really what you do behind closed doors is your business, but a marriage isn't supposed to be a financial contract. You're supposed to marry a person you have genuine feelings for, not because their money alone. Some women do sleep around for free, i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 11:24 PM |
| -2 | Relationship expert says men shouldn't date if they're brokeI think that broke men can date too, but, they may have a more challenging time getting the type of girls they really want..... Some women will take in a broke man out of desperation or because she really likes him Some women will not want to deal with a grown man who's relying on her to pay for everything and take care of a man-child | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 11:01 PM |
| 1 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?How is this any different for your typical woman in a relationship? What do you mean? If he runs out of money, she's leaving. She was more than likely with him because of what he can do for her, not him, his money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 10:44 PM |
| 2 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?I'm not an older woman yet, maybe ask them? I'm just speaking for myself and young women in general who prefer guys our age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 10:42 PM |
| -3 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?And again, that man will indeed have women lusting him. Again, I'm referring to the average old man 👴 🧓, not some older hunk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 10:40 PM |
| 3 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Okay, because young guys, on average, look better than old guys. On average!!. But guy #1 doesn't look like your average old man. He isn't average. I'm not calling guy # 2 ugly, but you know what I mean. He looks like the average old man, and most cute, sane, young women wouldn't want him. Am I wrong or being an asshole? Because I'm really not trying to be one. You showed guy # 1 like there's alot of old guys just walking around looking like him. No sir. 👎 this is a rear sighting like an eclipse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 10:37 PM |
| 2 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Age matters to a lot of young people because of the fact that age can show in someone's (particularly old people) face and body. That's one of the major reasons why most young people go for young people their age, plus common interests and things like that. When you think older men or old men, many picture wrinklly skin, sleepy tired eyes, Grey's hairs, sagging balls, sagging tips, beer belly, old stinky feet, low energy, grouchiness. Which makes up the average old men. You don't think 6 pack, m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 10:26 PM |
| 2 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?I guess because I'm apart of that majority of young women who prefer dating guys our age? Why are so many mad about this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 09:55 PM |
| 5 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?if you can withhold using finances to pay her bills or spoil her and shes STILL interested, then yes maybe she just likes older men! Notice how you have to say MAYBE. Goes to show how unlikely it truly is to see old man/young woman couple as being genuine love or romance without it being remotely transactional. but if her interests are gifts and nice dates or vacays, you’re a money mule and would probably be happier seeking a real relationship rather than focusing on how hot you find youthfulnes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 09:43 PM |
| 2 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Yea, replace her with another escort or sugar baby, sounds wonderful. They're using you, unless you don't mind being used and not wanted for who you are. Once the money stops, they leave. 🏃♂️ 🏃♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 09:36 PM |
| 0 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Haja! The young guys have money now! Have their own places. Your ex must've dated losers which can come different age ranges. There's old fuckboys too. my ex is gen-z and according to her most guys her age are feminized, video game addicts or fuckboys. most of them don't have a clue about life and are broke too And that's why there's a sudden drastic increase in young women dating old men!! Yeah Right! 🙄 Still, it remains, most young women would rather date and sleep with guys near their age eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 09:18 PM |
| 4 | Can you be red pill and not bash womenHaha! Like a fairy tale love story huh. ✨️ I have been through the forest and all I've seen were trolls 🧌 🧌 🧌 🧌 🧌 so yea, I don't believe in Disney fairy tales 🧚♂️ or whatever that guy is trying to say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 09:10 PM |
| 1 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Yes, like I said, I agree with the fact that there are outliers of older women dating younger men with an exponential wide age gap. Dedra, is not old yet, she's still good-looking and not old yet. I meant like, old women in their 50s and 60s and up. The issue is whether the young or attractive part is more important. What do you mean? The reality is it’s a continuum from “would never date a much older woman” to “only watches granny porn. I mean, a hot sexy 40 year old women is still desirable. B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Can you be red pill and not bash womenRed pillers mad because I have a husband who cooks? Lol 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆 Red piller::: A man who cooks? The world is coming to an end!!!!!!!! 🌎 🌏 🌐 🌍 🔥 📛 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Can you be red pill and not bash womenDisney movies such as? Cinderella? What do you mean? Elaborate... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 08:33 PM |
| 1 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Oh yes, I know they can fk or sleep with them, but most don't want to just sleep with them, and most young attractive men rather sleep with young attractive or average looking women anyway. But, I'm talking about dating and relationships with them, not just sleeping with them. I do know some older women who are in relationships with young men, so it is another outlier that does happen. Very small minority though, but it happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 08:03 PM |
| 5 | Can you be red pill and not bash womenSo does that mean bloopie women who want men who work and provide are misandrist? Or is this just another example of how men's traditional gender roles are a-ok but women being expected to reciprocate equally is somehow oppressive? Or to put it more succinctly: hypocrisy? No I said both of us cook, but my husband's does most of the cooking on top of working his ass off got promoted 2 times in a year and he still manages to be able to cook and still have time for me and his family. He loves to co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:56 PM |
| -4 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?I'm actually still young.. I even look like I'm still 17. Many tell me this, so I'm going based on people telling me... I have friends who get approached by old men in front of me(I get old men too, but mostly younger guys), and they look uninterested or creeped out. I'm like, wtf. They look like someone's grand dad. I'm like, please, someone come get their gramps(thinking this in my mind, I never say it loud). These men look nothing near like the guy in the first pic!! Many girls and women near… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:46 PM |
| 2 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Exactly....an outlier who is incredibly smoking hot, he turns heads everywhere he goes, of course, but most old men aren't. I just want to make that clear and agree with what you said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:34 PM |
| 6 | Can you be red pill and not bash womenI feel like alot of red pillers are misogynistic. Many of them want women who cook and clean and are submissive. That's insane to me because why would we need to be submissive when we can make our own money, buy our own things, and run multiple businesses? And, why would we need to cook for grown men? Don't get me wrong I love to cook, for me and my husband and my love ones, but I'm not no servant, I'm a wife with a husband who actually does most of the cooking. As far as cleaning goes, we clean… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:31 PM |
| 1 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?But if that guy in the first picture approaches, he might be someone she'd date or sleep with. The second Pic guy would creep her out, not trying to be rude. Unfortunately, we live in a superficial society. Idk what young cute girl out her mind would give second guy any attention, unless she's an escort or trying to sell something to him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:18 PM |
| -4 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Even if the young hot guy isn't rich, most young women would want him more not just for intercourse but also a relationship. Women can make their own money now and old men who are wealthy like to have control over the finances and may be manipulative and controlling. It can be too stressful to deal with for many so many would rather make their own money and get a young hot guy near their age than to put up with some old fart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:14 PM |
| 1 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?I am not trying to brag or toot anyone's horns but, a cute or attractive girl will have tons of men hitting on her, which includes plenty guys around her age,younger than her, and some bold old looking men. Who do you think she'll choose to date and see? The old looking men, or the cute young ones near her age? I'm talking about above average girls with options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 06:52 PM |
| 3 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?It's not the fact that the older women want them, it's really because older men are the majority of men who would actually date them because most young, cute or handsome young men don't want grandmamas romantically, however, some would date wealthy old women as sugar mammas. If old women could, they'd date young men who are handsome or decent looking, and has mature mindset, some may even like a wild boy 👦 😜 but they don't have the options so they "settle" with other old grumpy grouchy men lol..… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 06:47 PM |
| 2 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?When I go out, I see most old men with old women, most young women with young men. Most young women don't want old men, however, there is a minority who'd date them for financial security. Like date, getting paid by the hour to date them. Escort, sugar baby arrangements | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 06:34 PM |
| 5 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?If it has been established that older men are ugly and unatractive, then why would older women want them? Older men, most aren't walking around looking like the guy in the first picture, so most young women aren't checking for old men anyway.. And older women, the average older woman, are typically in relationships with older men since they were young, perhaps high-school sweethearts? Or met during college, or they just met younger. So if they got married when they were young, what are they supp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 06:11 PM |
| 5 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?He is good looking, so, sure he may find some young women who'd date him but you can tell he is more on the mature side even though he looks very good for his age and just overall, most young women in their 20s will choose other guys in their 20s still. Because it's a culture thing for most girls in 20s, we relate more to boyfriends near our age. The guy in second Pic would have to put in more effort if he wants young attractive gf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 05:56 PM |
| 2 | I am tired of the rhetoric that "the friendzone" "isn't real" and the lack of acknowledgment that both sexes can be toxic in that scenarioMen do often lead women on in various ways Then many women who are dating very attractive men aren't deluded persay, but they're being lead on, they are being tricked by some of these handsome men. Like, if he is calling and texting her goodmorning everyday, and spending time with her biking with her, hiking with her, taking her out to eat, holding hands in public, cuddling in public, telling her that he wants to get a place together, live together, how the hell would she not be deluded if a han… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 05:39 PM |
| 2 | I am tired of the rhetoric that "the friendzone" "isn't real" and the lack of acknowledgment that both sexes can be toxic in that scenarioThat's what I was saying in another comment!! I think it's insane to go back to the guy you friendzoned because you didn't want him, because you couldn't get the guys that you really wanted so you say I guess I'll just go date the guy I don't want so I won't be lonely. I don't like this, I think it makes her look desperate and fake. And I hope that guy knows her true intentions and rejects her and finds someone who actually wants him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 05:22 PM |
| 1 | I am tired of the rhetoric that "the friendzone" "isn't real" and the lack of acknowledgment that both sexes can be toxic in that scenarioUm idk about that, but when it comes to nice guys, guys that we see as a good person, we tend to want to hold onto people like that as a friend. Other than that, if I didn't know him and just met(not knowing he's a nice guy ) then I simply reject, with respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 05:11 PM |
| 1 | I am tired of the rhetoric that "the friendzone" "isn't real" and the lack of acknowledgment that both sexes can be toxic in that scenarioOK I see.. Isn't that a bit silly, that she friendzones a guy she wasnt really feeling romantically, and for some odd reason she can't find someone else? Then comes back to the guy friend that she didn't want in the first place and say," Okay, okay, okay, you can date me now because honestly no one that I want, wants me back. I mean, you're not my type but I'm will to put up with you anyways because I have no options"""........ That's crazy. And it shows that she is desperate and may resent you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 04:55 PM |
| -11 | I am tired of the rhetoric that "the friendzone" "isn't real" and the lack of acknowledgment that both sexes can be toxic in that scenarioThat's an exception, not rule if overtime a woman falls in love with a guy friend. But, it's a hit or miss, most guy friends are just guy friends, nothing more. You're really trying to give hope to those being friendzoned to keep on playing a friend. I would not want to date a guy who only befriended me or pretended to be my friend just so that he can sleep with me or date me. That means he is fake, and will lie to me later down the road. Most guys who get friendzone, are seen as unattractive to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:33 AM |
| 2 | I am tired of the rhetoric that "the friendzone" "isn't real" and the lack of acknowledgment that both sexes can be toxic in that scenarioWomen, many women dont want to hurt you guys feelings. That's why they friendzone instead of harshly rejecting because it's not nice. It's hard to tell someone showing interest in you no, especially a nice guy. But you just can't force attraction on someone, sorry, but ya can't man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:26 AM |
| 4 | I am tired of the rhetoric that "the friendzone" "isn't real" and the lack of acknowledgment that both sexes can be toxic in that scenarioHow do they delude themselves into thinking he'd commit? Is he leading her on or something? Or is it really an excuse to keep sleeping with them because, well, they're hot? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:20 AM |
| 6 | I am tired of the rhetoric that "the friendzone" "isn't real" and the lack of acknowledgment that both sexes can be toxic in that scenarioWhat is BB material? If a guy isn't into a woman, how can she be confused as to what they are (situationship, relationship) there's clear signs that show whether a guy is in a relationship with you, dating you, or just simply want sex. If a guy isn't spending quality time with you and only wants to meet up to sleep with you, then clearly, that's a situationship or casual hookup. So why would she still be confused? What's wrong with her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:18 AM |
| 0 | I am tired of the rhetoric that "the friendzone" "isn't real" and the lack of acknowledgment that both sexes can be toxic in that scenarioWhat is a men fck zone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:13 AM |
| -6 | I am tired of the rhetoric that "the friendzone" "isn't real" and the lack of acknowledgment that both sexes can be toxic in that scenarioThis is why people should just say what they want when meeting. If you like a girl, ask her out. Don't just talk to her like a friend and pretend to be a friend. Be honest. Some women may reject you but atleast you know right away instead of going months and years being a friend when you really want more. As a man, you're only hurting yourselves allowing this to continue... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:09 AM |
| 6 | I am tired of the rhetoric that "the friendzone" "isn't real" and the lack of acknowledgment that both sexes can be toxic in that scenarioYou're giving me a headache. Now I need a shot of scotch better yet whiskey | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 05:16 AM |
| 2 | I am tired of the rhetoric that "the friendzone" "isn't real" and the lack of acknowledgment that both sexes can be toxic in that scenarioOK, I'm going to tell you the truth. The reason why women friendzone a guy is because she doesn't find him romantically aattractive. She can't help who she's attracted to. Okay? Here's a tip; If you are romantically attracted to a girl, ask her on a date, and tell her that you're looking for a girlfriend or something long term off bat. Get straight to the point when you approach a girl, so that you won't get lead on or confused whether she likes you or not. Don't waste time, just get to the poin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 05:11 AM |
| 3 | I am tired of the rhetoric that "the friendzone" "isn't real" and the lack of acknowledgment that both sexes can be toxic in that scenarioSo what's the problem with being friendzoned when you can still find someone else ? I don't get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 04:48 AM |
| 6 | I am tired of the rhetoric that "the friendzone" "isn't real" and the lack of acknowledgment that both sexes can be toxic in that scenarioThat it sucks to have romantic feelings for someone who only has platonic ones for you? I feel like it's more of a complaint or venting than a debate. Bitching over women who friendzone you, just find a woman who'd want you back romantically. Dam, what is wrong with some of these guys on here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 04:45 AM |
| 2 | I am tired of the rhetoric that "the friendzone" "isn't real" and the lack of acknowledgment that both sexes can be toxic in that scenarioI feel like you summed it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.Yea, but he said that he is 5'5 and wants tall, slim, hot blonde. If he hasn't got one now , then they probably aren't checking for him or he isn't putting himself in the right places where they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 04:25 AM |
| 3 | Would girl who only sleeps with guys, who make her work for it, be treated the same as a girl who just sleeps around in general?A woman who chooses to have intercourse with a man that she's dating is not being slutty. Randomly sleeping around with different guys, I mean d--hopping daily, strictly sex, is being slutty. But if a woman is spending time and having dates with a man, then it's not slutty, even if he is a fboy or handsome man... alot of people are having sex with someone they're dating before marriage. Back in the day, most women would wait til they are married before sex, well those days are over. Who we sleep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.He said he like slim, tall, blondes who are some of the most sought after women, most of them are going for tall chads and chadlites. I knew his standards were high and trying to date out his league | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 03:27 AM |
| 3 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.It would be better if everyone understood their realistic chances. That being said, I'm not convinced that women are necessarily as committed as men are to having a heterosexual partner at all. Why do you think this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 01:29 AM |
| -2 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.Okay, but this is the problem. Wanting to date outside your league. I bet she wasn't even as bad looking as you're making it seem. Here, we have a woman showing interest but he doesn't want her? The nerve!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 01:27 AM |
| 0 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.He didn't say he didn't find her unattractive but he did mention that she was funny to him. So I thought he'd give her a chance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 01:21 AM |
| 0 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.Why you didn't date the obese lady? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.As for irl, a morbidly obese and severely drunk woman was really digging me at a billiards place. Are only morbidly obese women approaching you? Any slender or athletic women too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 12:46 AM |
| 7 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.Right. This goes both ways for both men and women. If a man wants a beautiful slender blonde 👱♀️ and can't seem to get one, then sorry buddy, time to think realistically and date someone on your level, looks wise. Because they ain't checking for ya. Same with women. If you want a tall 6'3 , dark, handsome, billionaire and you ain't got him, 2 years go by, 5 years go by, 10 years go by and still haven't got him? Lady, forget it. Be more realistic 👌 ✨️ Let's be honest with ourselves on what we ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 12:36 AM |
| 3 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’women like you are the reason some men can sleep like a baby at night after playing women. Some men think they playing them but little do they know he's just one of the guys on the roster and she can do better than him..... I've heard and seen women do this. every time i block a hoe after doing whatever the hell i wanted with them i feel a tinge of guilt before remembering that most women behave like you. I bet you're just an "option" out of so many others and she got over you after blocking her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 12:22 AM |
| 0 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’right But I'm right though huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 12:11 AM |
| 1 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’I mean, you need something to make you feel good. I get it, well not really, cause I've never been an incel and paid for someone's company. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 11:59 PM |
| 2 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’Don't need to be on welfare when household income is 6 figures, actually don't qualify. Nice try though. There will be no woman president. They said there will never be a black president too. I'm going to stir this conversation from racial topics and gender topics because I was just trying to make a point. Good luck, you racist sexist right-broken-down-wing incel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 11:55 PM |
| 1 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’You're turning this into a gender war because your little feelings got hurt for me mentioning a dam pasta and lobsta song. I didn't make the dam song. And you want to argue to feel more SUPERIOR because you feel powerless knowing that women have used you for monetary gains. Ouch sssss. It's not going to work on me. There was a black president and soon there will be a woman president. Hold on tight to your little balls, wait and see | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 11:39 PM |
| 1 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’Men are enabling the lifestyle. I don't know why some are mad about it and complaining. The problem is that a lot of men are always horny and longing for women's company, so they simp | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 11:35 PM |
| 4 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’Now I can provide for myself, and my husband doesn't mind helping financially even though I make my own money now. Men still approach me flashing their money, cars, telling me what they have and can do for me. They are desperate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 11:17 PM |
| 5 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’They're silly.. I had dated a man who provided for me before and would get upset and complain at the same time or after providing things(while I was in school getting a degree and trade) that he was tired of spending money on me. I never asked him for any money, he insisted on it. This is when I was 20 years old. Many men were offering me things, and I didn't have to sleep with them(maybe they thought eventually they'd get some sex? Idk) I was young and naive and was broke in college, so of cour… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 11:14 PM |
| 1 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’I was referring to some song made by some rapper girl saying that she had a roster of different men, and all I was saying was that it's reality for a lot of women(NOT ALL WOMEN) basically implying that many women do have it easier dating with options than some men who come on here complaining about having no options. How that go over your head? I'm not saying women should do it. I'm saying that some women do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 10:34 PM |
| 3 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’Some of you think I'm referring to ALL MEN for some reason. I said some men. Key word SOME. Some men have no standards or low standards. But a hit dog will hollar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 10:24 PM |
| 1 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’Well. There's men who are having a hard time finding a woman that they not only find attractive, but doesn't cost money to date... Because dates cost money. But if you're dating women for free then, congratulations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 10:20 PM |
| 1 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’The point of this post was to point out how MANY men are enabling women to date on easy mode. You're claiming that only a small handful of men are allowing this, I didn't say ALL MEN and I don't think OP meant ALL MEN, but there's a good amount of men enabling women to have an easier time than the average man dating, especially online dating. You never hear about women complaining about not getting matches, but you hear about it with the men, ALOT. That's because a lot of men are simping, swipin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 10:15 PM |
| 1 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’What do you mean, by the way I talk? Iwhat did I say that was wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 09:55 PM |
| 1 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’Explain to me what you said above, how are men raised to be simps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 09:54 PM |
| 2 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’For one, finessing men into simping for you is a skill many women either don't have or don't care to cultivate. I know there's women finessing men, but there's women who are simply existing who still get men approaching them," hey, you're beautiful, I have this penthouse, I have money, I can take you shopping, get your nails done"... I'm like, I'm not a prostitute and I can buy my own clothes, pay for my own meals, get my own nails done, so what else can you do for me other than soliciting me? H… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 09:50 PM |
| 1 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’This is not just stacys. This is beckies too. And average women of all races really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 09:26 PM |
| 1 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’No you did not just compare slavery to this matter or used slavery as an analogy. Wow, but I shouldn't be shocked because I've seen enough in this crazy world... Men can choose to be simps or not Slaves could not choose to be slaves or not I'm not going back and forth with you, you make poor arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 09:24 PM |
| -4 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’This is not a tic for tac battle here... You're trying to deflect an issue, a man issue, which is the reason why you guys are in this situation. Because yall don't want to take accountability. Once one takes accountability, he or she is willing to change, makes the changes, and there -- problem is solved. When you keep yourself in denial, then you don't take accountability, won't change, and keep complaining cause of that. It's easier to some people to stay in denial because making a change take… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 08:15 PM |
| 2 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’Okay, but why are men hopping and jumping over hoops to provide? Men are enabling this lifestyle. But why? You ever hear of supply and demand? If there's no high demand for something that's not being offered, then there's no demand. I mean, if men weren't offering to provide, spend money, indulge women, then women wouldn't be accepting these things if there wasn't any offers to begin with. IT'S YOU, MEN, ALL ALONG. ITS YOU. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 08:09 PM |
| 4 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’men actively complain about women’s egos, about how they get everything they want Right, so where does egos come from? People boosting egos. And who are these people boosting women's egos? Men.... Everyone knows many men will sleep with anyone, anything. Many have no standards, which also boosts many women's egos.... Who's swiping right on all these women's profiles, not caring who they randomly swipe right on? Desperate Men. Who's paying for onlyfans? I'll let you guess.... Once these men start… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 07:59 PM |
| 0 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’Simps, I meant some men need to take accountability for simping and stop getting upset that some women are benefitting from it. I mean think about it, if roles were reversed, men wouldn't be complaining because they'd be enjoying the benefits themselves. If the roles were reversed where the average man would be bombarded with hundreds or thousands of women dm'ing them and taking them out on dates and splurging on them, I'd think you'd all be enjoying it and taking advantage of the opportunity. S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 07:28 PM |
| 8 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’Dont we? I mean who forces a man to simp for women in real life? Exactly. No one is forcing men to simp. This is a choice. I bet if all men stopped simping, it will humble alot of women. And the dating environment will be totally different, perhaps not so difficult for many men as it is today. Men, you can stop thirsting over women's pictures on social media. Things like," oh baby you're so hot 🔥 🥵 "...." baby can I call you"..." baby let me take you shopping"...... Stop it ✋️ 🫸 🫷 ⏹️ 🚏 🚦 ✋️ Yall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 07:10 PM |
| -4 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’If one man isn't willing to do it, another will, simp. Now, the women are players in the game when men used to be the big players. You don't win when you have to pay and can't get some punani with game alone......women win | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 06:59 PM |
| 3 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’shaped by evolutionary biology and sexual selection. Since three beginning of times, women would go for the fittest, strongest man who was best at hunting and gathering and protecting her. Same goes in the animal kingdoms, like with the lions and lionessses. Women today have even more access to more resources ever than before, that we do not need to rely on a man to provide for us, YET, WE CAN STILL HAVE MEN PROVIDE, even if we already have everything we need. Because there is always a thirsty m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketEw. Why are you telling me this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 06:04 PM |
| 0 | Women are not the reason dating has become shitMost women don't get a chance with the top 1%. Many women may experience a fling with some attractive men but, most of these attractive men aren't settling down for average or below looking women. They got the pick of the litter...choices, overwhelming options.... I did mention there will be more lonely women. Meaning that they will be single, by choice, because they rather be single than to be with what they see as "mediocrety".....Having flings with pretty boys or handsome men doesn't make som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 12:19 AM |
| – | If You Could Go On Limitless Dates On Dating Apps, How Long Would You Stay On Them?Yea, I know what you mean. Times have really changed. I'm 30 years old, and see a decline in those going to church, mostly young people. Decline in marriages, decline in birth rates, decline in morality. Increase in divorce rates, increase in single mothers, increase in loneliness. It's a lot that have changed in the dating scene. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Women are not the reason dating has become shitThat's not the point. The point is there's men acting desperate, simping, which is inflating a lot of average to below average looking women's egos. And OP did mention one example relative to this where some obese women are getting away with charging money to store farts in a jar, which is actually truly happening, it may seem disgusting and like a joke, but it's actually real. There's alot of things going on in the world that is crazy, and some are willing to pay a price for some of these crazy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Women are not the reason dating has become shitIt's embarrassing. I still have men approaching me, but many of them will bring up what they do, how much they make or how much money they have and prepositioning me." I make $2000 a day"... " I pay $7000 a month for my penthouse".... "here's $1000, thanks for seeing me".... it's like many men think having alot of money and luxuries will make women value them more and it's sad way of living. You can have all this money but still feel lonely and empty inside because you know deep down in your hea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Modern Dating Doesn’t Actually WorkGo on social media and you'll see. I'm not talking about ALL average women are demanding this. But a growing number of them are.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 08:26 PM |
| – | If You Could Go On Limitless Dates On Dating Apps, How Long Would You Stay On Them?What I've noticed between men who don't really get dates and men who are fboys is that the men who don't really get dates or non at all wants a committed relationship more than the fboys do. You don't really see alot of fboys walking or moping around about wanting to be loved, wanting a wife, etc. They're so busy enjoying hopping from women to women to women to women that marriage isn't even on their minds, until they're old, that's when some of them want to settle down. Because some of them los… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 08:19 PM |
| – | If You Could Go On Limitless Dates On Dating Apps, How Long Would You Stay On Them?Sound like something alot of women used to say..." I want a husband, I want a marriage".... now more men are saying," I want a wife, a marriage", and are longing for these types of relationships more than women nowadays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Women are not the reason dating has become shitBecause I have standards only 10% of women could meet but those 10% specifically don't want to meet my standards because they want to have a ho phase so I should lower them? Why should I accommodate them? Don't go for those 10 percent. Go for more modest women who aren't outside your league lookwise. How long have you been looking for a virgin? Who's a 10/10? Can she be a 7/10? 8/10? Are you a 6 figurenaire, millionaire, multimillinaire, or billionaire? Most importantly, where are you meeting th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 07:59 PM |
| 3 | Women are not the reason dating has become shitAs I said before. Not likely. But the second best option is not commit to anyone and fuck everyone. You really think you're going to find a virgin 10/10 in today's market? As I said before. Not likely. But the second best option is not commit to anyone and fuck everyone. See how unrealistic this sounds? I mean all women were virgins at one point. Even you said "Not Likely"..... you know the odds of finding a 10/10 virgin is like, perhaps equivalent to that of hitting the lotto? emptying his wall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Women are not the reason dating has become shitAnd so will alot of women die alone. There's going to be more lonely men and more lonely women who get passed around guy to guy, used up like a wash rag. By 2030, there will be a lonely epidemic in western countries... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 07:26 PM |
| 5 | Women are not the reason dating has become shitA virgin 10 would take me out of the dating pool. Women insist on acting masculine and sleeping around. See how unrealistic this sounds? Come on man, let's be real. You really think you're going to find a virgin 10/10 in today's market? It is not the stone ages or old world. Unless, MAYBE, if you move to an Islamic country to set up an arranged marriage, but you will need to convert to that religion and I don't think many western men would like that whole idea. Your standards are just as high an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Women are not the reason dating has become shitIf an average woman would rather sell her farts than try to fall in love with her attractiveness match, then I would think that shows some lack of moral character on her part That's not the point. I have seen women(who aren't conventionally attractive) making money doing onlyfans or stripping. Even women who are more conservative have men begging to date them or men soliciting them by offering money and paying for bills and meals all the time to the point that I see why many of these type of wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 06:56 PM |
| 12 | Modern Dating Doesn’t Actually WorkI am 30 years old, and I do notice this drastic shift in the dating scene from being on social media, seeing a plethora of people complaining about how difficult dating is nowadays. On both sides, men and women. It seems like a growing trend for women to date up now, I'm talking 7 figures, 8 figures. I noticed at first that it was 6 figures and still is, but I've noticed an even growing trend of women now requiring men to be a 7 or 8 figure type of guy. Never mind his personality traits and how … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 09:33 AM |
| 8 | Modern Dating Doesn’t Actually WorkThat's because many women today on social media, even some in person, have high unrealistic standards for men,, which I dont have, I'm realistic with what i can get and cant get. I see young women on social media saying things like, "ewww cheesecake factory?" ," He has to take me to Ruch Chris, I don't do coffee dates, only $500 and up dates".... "He has to pay my bills, all my bills"..... "He has to make over $400,000/yr".... many of the women saying these things never had a man who made 6 figu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 09:01 AM |
| 11 | Modern Dating Doesn’t Actually Workknow this is harsh but it's true and yall men need to realize you're not all going to get a gorgeous 50/50 submissive/feminine size 2-6 knock out with some mystical photoshopped body. Only a small select will, and it's odd and unrealistic to see how this generation is seeking this perfect creature of a woman when there's definitely not enough to go around for all of you. I agree to an extent. Because the average woman should not be 200 pounds or obese anyway. Size 2 to 6 should be the average si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 08:45 AM |
| 13 | Modern Dating Doesn’t Actually WorkI'm actually a woman. And I'm not only a woman, I'm a realistically thinking type of woman. What I mean by realistically thinking is, I think logically, not so much emotionally. I try to reason things without too much emotion. Being realistic by looking at the numbers, doing my diligent research on things regarding BOTH genders, and judging equally with fairness. I do not take sides, I step back and take a look at both sides, even myself, and judge accordingly. When I see a woman who wants a mar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Modern Dating Doesn’t Actually WorkMore like a lack of a willingness to put yourself out there into an unfamiliar uncomfortable situation for the sole purpose of meeting strangers. OK. I've read that some people tried putting themselves out there. But, they may have had a challenging time connecting with others at these 3rd places for different various reasons such as autism, social anxiety, ect... So, for many, online has been more comfortable for them because the internet allows access to others who share the same challenges wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 08:04 AM |
| 7 | Rich guys are not on redditWho said there's no wealthy people on reddit?? That's really ignorant to say that because there's a variety of different people on reddit from poor to rich and in between. Reddit is a social platform where many different people can have discussions and get/give advice. It's a very popular social media plantform next to YouTube, tiktok, Twitter(X), twitch, ect. So, I don't know why some come on here and think they know it all when they really don't know 🤷 Another thing I've noticed online is that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 07:41 AM |
| 9 | Modern Dating Doesn’t Actually WorkI'm sorry but I'm not hip to every little slang word online, but what does based mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 07:17 AM |
| 3 | Modern Dating Doesn’t Actually WorkAre those suffering from the lack of third places living in rural areas? I really want to understand what's preventing some people from having access to these places? I'm sorry if I seem ignorant asking this, I'm not trying to be condescending or anything like that. I guess because I grew up in Southern California and am still living in Southern California where there's literally 3rd places within a couple of miles where I live and there's access to transportation like the metro, bus, a bike to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 07:15 AM |
| 10 | Modern Dating Doesn’t Actually WorkMen swiping right randomly on all women's profiles, in order to increase their matches, is actually causing an inflation in many women's egos on online dating apps. I really thought ALL of my likes were guys who were actually interested in me, until I noticed 1) some of them unmatching me after saying hi(initiating hi), and 2) finding out that many men randomly swipe right to increase matches by stumbling upon a YouTube video about men using tinder. So this humbled me alot because even tinder ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 07:09 AM |
| 10 | Modern Dating Doesn’t Actually WorkThe problem is there are alot of women(and even some men) on tinder, bumble, hinge, ect that are just looking for validation and ego boosting. And to be honest, most women are swiping mostly RIGHT on the most attractive guys. I've caught myself swiping on some gorgeous men but I'd even swipe right on average looking men(I was on tinder back in 2019 just curious, never met anyone on there). I had sooooooo many choices or fell like I had many choices because I had access to sooooo many men with a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 06:53 AM |
| 39 | Modern Dating Doesn’t Actually WorkThe problem is the brainwashing from social media telling young women to date better which by social media standards mean 6 feet, 6 figures, 6 pack. Most average women won't obtain that kind of man for long term relationship. I was able to get a decent looking, hardworking man with a 6 figure salary, but he isn't 6 feet, and doesn't have a 6 pack yet, but, he works out 5 to 6 days a week for over 10 years in the gym(used to be a personal trainer and firefighter) used to be a fboy and haddd women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketYall must be slow. The point wasn't about approaching men, it's about approaching old men being seen as desperate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/24 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketI have approached men before, but they weren't old, like you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/24 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketBut you're only 32, you're not old. I'm talking about old men silly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/24 07:27 PM |
| 1 | How come so many guys do not want to go to clubs to get women, even though that is the easiest option?What is a Madonna whore thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 06:03 PM |
| 2 | How come so many guys do not want to go to clubs to get women, even though that is the easiest option?Not every man is the same. Many men here online are introverted and shy, and are more conservative it seems. So they'll feel more comfortable dating women they already know or have met through mutual friends, their little circles. Or even online dating.... Extroverted men, or outgoing men, don't mind cold approaching, going to bars, night clubs, ect to meet women. But there's also outgoing men who don't want to meet their potential wife in nightclubs, but it does happen for some people. Some peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 06:00 PM |
| 1 | How come so many guys do not want to go to clubs to get women, even though that is the easiest option?But concerts are fun. There's gaming girls you ever tried talking to them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 05:50 PM |
| 1 | How come so many guys do not want to go to clubs to get women, even though that is the easiest option?Incels don't go to night clubs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 05:43 PM |
| 1 | 30 yr old, single women in mediocre jobs, shouldn't expect more than average.Going on dates isn't being slutty. It's opportunities to meet with potential mates by getting to know each individual to see who is most compatible with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 05:40 PM |
| 1 | 30 yr old, single women in mediocre jobs, shouldn't expect more than average.I'm lost reading this. I met my husband and kissed him the first date. Before him, I was going on dates and wasn't ready to settle until I met the man that I really wanted and thought would be husband material. I don't get what you're trying to say but dating is fun, and you bitxhing about it lost me. I don't relate or understand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 05:25 PM |
| 1 | 30 yr old, single women in mediocre jobs, shouldn't expect more than average.I didn't say anything about sex. I'm saying that when you meet a very attractive person and you both connect right away, chemistry is insane, and you kiss them on first date. Maybe you never been so attracted to someone that made you feel this way. I kissed my husband the first day I met him on our first date, nothing wrong with that, many people do it and end up married or in a relationship. You seem a little old school and very conservative? A bit uptight? May I ask how old are you and why are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 05:21 PM |
| 1 | 30 yr old, single women in mediocre jobs, shouldn't expect more than average.Guys meet girls all the time cold approaching. You see a sexy girl, you go over to her and start talking, go out for lunch and maybe some sight seeing, next thing you know, she's all over you the next day. It's fun. You're cute, she's cute, the chemistry is extremely high, you can't keep your eyes and hands off each other.. It's fun. Meeting a random cutie, it's exciting, adventurous, and you learn something new hanging with them. But everyone is different and if you feel more comfortable dating… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many women insist that the bar is so low?OK, my question is, why deal with men who don't put any effort into you? You can tell right off bat if a guy will put in effort or not by first meeting him. Like, if he doesn't ask you out somewhere to eat and doesn't blow up your phone or text you good morning everyday, obviously he isn't the type who'd put in effort. I have a few gf who dating guys who put in effort, so maybe your friends are not putting themselves in the right positions and environments to meet men who put in effort or they a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 04:53 PM |
| 4 | If promiscuous women are so low value, why would you still want to have sex with them?I didn't say it was a horrible thing to not want to be with someone who isn't a virgin or who've had casual sex encounters before. I'm saying that there's plenty of men who marries or get into relationships with women because of how attractive they are regardless of them having casual sex before getting into a committed relationship with them. There's plenty of decent men who would date and even marry Meagan Fox even though she has had casual flings before, but since she's very attractive, many … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 04:45 PM |
| -1 | If promiscuous women are so low value, why would you still want to have sex with them?Only men can be promiscuous 🙄 and us women have to be pure, virgin, and holy to be proposed to 🙄 I had dated so many men and married at 23 years old. My husband wasn't asking me stupid question like," what's your body count?", especially since he was a fuckboy too. Most men don't care, as long as you're attractive to them with a nice personality then you shouldn't have hard time finding a decent husband. Incels and red pillers love scaring women online by telling us that no man will want us with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many women insist that the bar is so low?Well, when I was dating, many guys did put in effort. Some didn't not. Not every men is the same. Some men are more romantic than others, some aren't romantic at all. Maybe our definition of low effort is different. What is being low effort to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketYou have terrible comprehension skills here on what I said. Know the difference between "old" and "older" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 06:41 AM |
| 2 | Why do so many women insist that the bar is so low?Maybe because the guys putting in effort with the wrong women, women who dont see them romantically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 05:00 AM |
| 3 | Why do so many women insist that the bar is so low?How are the majority of men low effort? Most women are easily impressed by basic things like a guy being polite, chivalrous, communicating properly and showing interest. Not all women. I know women who aren't easily impressed by these things because there's alot of men out there who try to be nice in order to try and date women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 04:59 AM |
| 1 | How do I find a modern woman that actually is marriage potential?Church? Are you religious? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketDoesn't matter if I'm below average or average, I don't want any old men and my girlfriends don't want them either. Most young women don't. Sorry oldie man 👨 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 04:50 AM |
| 2 | Sexual promiscuity alone doesn’t matter.What's a frumpy virgin woman? OK, and you're just realizing that it doesn't matter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 04:48 AM |
| 0 | What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic?Yea, I think this question vern asked many times now, and I think we already know why | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 03:54 AM |
| 7 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketIdk about you, but there's nothing like a young hot sexy man doting over you. Full of so much energy and listens to the same music, watches the same films, and goes to the same concert. A 60 year old man won't know about Trippies Redd or any of the young artists I listen to. He will want to listen to the singers from the 70s and 80s. Nothing wrong with that because I listen to some music from that time cause of my parents playing the music, but I listen to mostly artists in their 20s and 30s. Ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 02:42 AM |
| -3 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketHow is this slut shaming? And yes, it does come off desperate trying to shoot your shot at an old man. You just look at him, smile, maybe say hi, and he comes over and talk to you. But to each their own ig | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketWell, old average men need to know this or they'll think they have a chance with us young cute women lol 😆. They try approaching my girlfriends and I even had 1 old man, wait 2, but one was an average old man and the other was wealthier but........I wasn't interested. I'm like what this old man going about then I realized he was hitting on me. I was shocked because mostly young men hit on me, but this old man was 69 years old, I'm like no way he thinks he has a chance. But he thought he had a ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketWell, where I am, it doesn't look that way. My husband workouts 5 to 6 days a week at gym, and the beach is full of men and women jogging with 6 packs. I can't count how many obese people I've seen on my hand. It's hard to believe it when I see good looking young and older people on a daily. I've reary seen an obese man or woman. I guess where you live will have more of them? Again, I know obesity is at a high rate in the USA. But, old men are generally less attractive than young men. And you kn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketBut in a general sense, most young people aren’t much better. In general, most young men and young women are far more attractive on AVERAGE. BUT, there are SOME older men who are still incredibly attractive like that one man who play Superman. Dude, if you are one of the handsome older men, why are you so offended by this and arguing? If the shoe doesn't fit? Hello!?!..... Most people in general aren’t that attractive. OK, but look here man, I'm from California and where I work and live--- there… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 11:46 PM |
| 0 | Women, How would you rate your average ex-bf/fwb/hookup?Yea, it is. It's weird because when I'm put together, I get attention like compliments or guys hovering over me trying to get in my pannies. I tell them, nope, I'm married. Many want sex and I'm like, nooooooooo, I'm not easy and I don't cheat on my husband. Weird strange horny guys out there. But yea, I think men are just more open to women of different looks, and women are just more pickier when dating men because many men I think just wanted to sleep with me, nothing more. Glad I'm off the ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 11:35 PM |
| 5 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketLol, you think your little anecdotal stories of these small little happenings are widespread and common? Again, I'm talking about old men pursuing women in their 20s. What is it you don't understand what I'm saying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 11:28 PM |
| 6 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketWhat you need to understand is that the average old man isn't really attractive to alot of young women(balding, receding hairline, beer belly, saggy skin ects) but there are some, SOME good looking men(exceptions/minority) in their 40s and even 50s but this doesn't make up the majority of older men. Most are old looking. Plus, most young women prefer young men anyway. Don't be mad at me, I didn't make the rules. But if you still got the looks and age like fine wine then you may still have a easi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Women, How would you rate your average ex-bf/fwb/hookup?My husband when I first met him he was a 7. Now he's like a 6.5. He's still above average to me. I'm not going to lie and say he's a 10 and he dam sure doesn't think I'm a 10 too, which is fine whatever. But yea, I did find the other guys waaaaay more attractive, but my husband is sexy to me too. Dam, you made me tell on myself 😆 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 11:15 PM |
| 11 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketWhat does this have to do with what I said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 11:10 PM |
| 11 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketYou are 60 mam. I'm talking about us young women. She is 60, he is 80. I'm talking about 20 year old women being pursued by old men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 11:04 PM |
| 5 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketIt's gross. And the few naive desperate young women in here saying ," I'll date them" is disgusting to me. All these young, hard working, nice looking man. It's so weird to me. If another old man approaches me I'm going to scream get away from me you creep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 11:00 PM |
| -10 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketI'm talking about old men in their 50s 60s 70s and up. Maybe you have father issues or some strange fetish or maybe you want a provider? There's no reason why a sane normal healthy attractive woman in her 20s would want an old man, only escorts or naive gullible young women who want a father figure or provider. Nowadays, young men are willing to provide too, so it's really no need to date old men, and it's too many resources and jobs available to women so we don't need a man to provide anyways. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 10:49 PM |
| 12 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketNot bald, paunchy, gray old men with bad backs and creaky knees who groan whenever they stand up. Yea, like, why would I date a old man when I can date very attractive, cute, hot, young, gorgeous men? I'm married now, but when I was single, I had these options, old men need to stop bothering me. I give them the grossed out look and so far it's been working. Shoo old man, shoooo! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 09:36 PM |
| 32 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketNo young cute women are approaching you old men, stop these lies and delutions. No one is checking for yall, unless it's an escort or pyramid scheme recruiter trying to make money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 09:29 PM |
| 13 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketLeave us young tenderonis alone. What is wrong with older women? Alot of my young girlfriends and other young women that I know don't want an old man. Stop this nonsense, it's gross Everytime I'm out with my girlfriends, these old farts try to approach us. And we have to ignore them, it's gotten to the point we ignore them and give them a Goss expression on our faces. Stop it grand PA, there's the senior citizen center, please do yourself a favor and go there instead. Stop harassing young cute g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Women, How would you rate your average ex-bf/fwb/hookup?What's AF/BB? I never dated a chad before. I've had flings with Chad lites? I think that's what you call them. I got married at age 23, so I didn't feel like my time was running out? But I really think it doesn't matter what age you get married, as long as you're happy with your partner. Yea, they didn't commit to me, but I've also dated guys who were average who didn't commit. When you're young in your early 20s, and don't have a problem.getting girls, you don't want to settle down yet. Some me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 09:22 PM |
| 11 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketWait,who's jealous, of who, old men longing for young hot vibrant women with a plethora of choices? 🤔 yea, sure. Dream on old farts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 08:59 PM |
| 28 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketBecause it makes them mad that they can't get a young tenderoni without splurging $$$ they don't got. Their blood boils when they see young hot girls walking by that they can't get aha!!! Lol 😆 😆 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 08:41 PM |
| 14 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketWhoops, did I trigger the gramps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 08:38 PM |
| 44 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketOld men catcalling young women and girls is predatory and very creepy. Most young women date guys their age or near their age. The young women who do date old men which are the minority, is more than likely transactional. For example, when you see a 60 or 70 year old man on a date with a visibly young woman who's in her 20s or 30s, is definitely transactional or a daughter having a lunch date with her father.. Most old men who are able to obtain young girlfriends are usually wealthy with status … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Are shrinking attention spans having a negative impact on dating?The beach, hiking, yoga, plates, Trader Joe's, ultra, Sephora, Book Club, traveling, dining, college ect... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Women, How would you rate your average ex-bf/fwb/hookup?Thankyou! Omg, he texted me that the next morning after I woke up from the night of being with him, " thanks for one night stand, bye..". I woke up in my friend's bed reading that text message to her and she just laughed. I'm like, how was it a 1 night stand when we just kissed. Haven't heard back from him since. Smh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Women, How would you rate your average ex-bf/fwb/hookup?He's 5'9. Height isn't that big of deal as long as he is taller than me, cause I'm already tall | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 07:33 PM |
| 0 | Women, How would you rate your average ex-bf/fwb/hookup?Her guys are 8s or mine?. I feel like my husband is out of my league because I've had a man ask my husband why he married me on my wedding day. I've had a few coworkers mentioned that my husband is Rico Suave. But no one ever saids look at his beautiful wife, it's always look at her man. But I'm OK with it I guess 🤷 🙃 so I don't think I settled, I married outside my league and he makes waaaaay more money than me too, but I'm grateful for him! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Women, How would you rate your average ex-bf/fwb/hookup?😊 omg this all happened when I was 20 to 21, I was so young and much more sexier(now I'm 30 😆 and feel old) I guess Jason was more than kiss..? How come you didn't btw - having him being that handsome etc.. With Jason, he sucked at kissing. He really did, so it turned me off, plus, on our 2nd date I invited my friend to come with us(he had no clue she was coming) so when she showed up, he was having an attitude the whole night and didn't want to watch the first movie we came to see. He kept want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 07:12 PM |
| 1 | For the women out there, what would you prefer in terms of someone making a move on you if they live close by?Just ask her out to lunch. See if there's a spark or if there could be one. Don't feel discouraged if she turns you down, approach women, alot of women, you'll get some numbers and dates eventually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 06:47 PM |
| 0 | Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claimI feel like there's men who act the same way too. If you see that I'm clearly more interested in your friend who is also interested in me, fall back sir. Stop trying to put yourself into the conversation when we are at the beginning stages of trying to get to know each other. I dont know the name for the equivalent to a cock blocker, a pussy blocker? You know what I mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 06:44 PM |
| 5 | Women, How would you rate your average ex-bf/fwb/hookup?My husband was a former fuckboy and stripper. Women would pay for his dates, and wine and dine him lol 😆 😂 🤣.. I still can't believe he married me. Sound like the guys you dated were cute 🔥 🥵 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 06:36 PM |
| 5 | Women, How would you rate your average ex-bf/fwb/hookup?Hookup(no sex) Jason... very handsome, I was with my group of girlfriends(3 of us) who all said," He is fine as hell!" Everyone was talking about how handsome and fine he was when we were walking. He said hi to me and got my number but he also talked to my girlfriends acknowledging them too which I thought was kind, cause some guys would ignore other girls in group when flirting with one of em. Jason was very attractive. He was white, peurto rican, black, and native but light skinned with curly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Women, How would you rate your average ex-bf/fwb/hookup?Have you ever been married? Is your bf living with you ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 06:04 PM |
| 1 | 30 yr old, single women in mediocre jobs, shouldn't expect more than average.How am I missing the point? Sounds to me that you're just resentful towards women who turn down men they just aren't interested in. You cannot force an attraction on someone when there's no attraction to begin with. Not all women require a man to be chad in order to give him the time and day. All he has to do is be her type or simply be attractive and interesting enough to interest her. Why is that a problem to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 05:59 PM |
| 3 | 30 yr old, single women in mediocre jobs, shouldn't expect more than average.Women passing them up is not immoral, it's life. If it were reversed. I bet he would turn down a woman that he didn't find attractive at all, but it's only a problem when women turn down men? I used to approach men before I got married, and some will reject me and some wouldn't reject me. I don't stay fixated on the ones who reject me, I just move on because I know there's going to be someone else who'd like me and want to date me. If I had told my dad I was going to marry one of the unemployed … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 05:52 PM |
| 2 | 30 yr old, single women in mediocre jobs, shouldn't expect more than average.Instead I met guys who were crazy, immature, or unemployed. Me too. I had to go online to find someone who was employed and not immature, but he was a little older than me but looked younger and physically active in shape(40s) and ready to marry after divorce with other ex wife. It seemed like no one my age wanted to marry me, they just wanted to have sex and thats it. Smh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 05:29 PM |
| 1 | 30 yr old, single women in mediocre jobs, shouldn't expect more than average.. I find it hard to believe that you'd pass on a guy who's exactly what you wanted, wants to move at the same speed into commitment that you do, all because, let's say, you have a big work meeting next week so you can't go out with him this weekend. Ofcourse if it's a man that sparks her interest, then she will go out with him. If a cute girl approached you and asked you out, would you turn her down? But maybe she haven't met him yet, maybe the men who's been approaching her hasn't sparked her i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 05:24 PM |
| 2 | 30 yr old, single women in mediocre jobs, shouldn't expect more than average.Okay then, why not continue approaching different women until you find someone who'd like to see you? Because not every woman will be into you, but that doesn't mean there's not a woman out there who wouldn't want you. You have to keep searching for her until you find her. Not everybody is for everybody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debateI've been followed many times, and guess by who? Ding ding ding, a creepy man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debateYea, sure.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debateI surely piss my leg because I had one with a hoodie on and gun following behind me. Don't really see or hear of mostly women doing that, do ya? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 03:30 PM |
| 0 | Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debateHow would you FEEL if you were walking home late at night and there was a MAN in a HOODIE behind you from a distance following?? No one else outside walking but you and that man at night | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debateThankyou. Like, did he really have to ask why some men are seen as creepy? Smfh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 04:21 AM |
| 1 | The phenomena of single women dating married menNo, I heard some of her other songs, but I'll try listening to it later today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 10:48 PM |
| 11 | The phenomena of single women dating married menSome women are very sneaky and weird. I had a "friend" who tried dating and sleeping with the guys I dated, even my husband. I no longer speak to her anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 10:46 PM |
| 19 | The phenomena of single women dating married menSingle women who want husband's but can't get one, are the main ones trying to sleep with our husbands. Just to be perpetually single and a side piece, nothing more.. The jokes is on them... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Men of this sub, do you believe that most men have practically no standards?Chyna was beautiful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 03:52 AM |
| 0 | Men of this sub, do you believe that most men have practically no standards?It's just incel or jealousy talk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 03:49 AM |
| 4 | Why do men catch feelings for their female friends than vice versa?Eventually you're going to get older where your options will be slim to non, unless you're wealthy and attractive. And you won't be able to lead anyone on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 10:29 PM |
| 1 | The best and most healthy relationships in the real world usually involve women who are crazier for their male partner than the other way around.Weekly with my partner, most days we just eat home cooked meals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 10:20 PM |
| 3 | Why do men catch feelings for their female friends than vice versa?Why? How would you feel if a woman you liked lead you on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Why do men catch feelings for their female friends than vice versa?Sounds like she wanted you more than you wanted her. Oh well, but don't lead girls on. Be honest with what you want next time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 09:13 PM |
| – | Bluepillers and/or women, I want you to explain thisIt's not that they don't want a shelter for men, it's that they're placing this shelter full of drug addicted men next to children's school. Don't you know how unsafe that can be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 06:07 PM |
| -1 | Why do men catch feelings for their female friends than vice versa?I know why this is being down voted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Why do men catch feelings for their female friends than vice versa?Hahaha. Wait, you broke up with her, meaning that you were actually still dating her even though she gives motherly vibes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 05:46 PM |
| 1 | The best and most healthy relationships in the real world usually involve women who are crazier for their male partner than the other way around.He seemed boring, or not the type of guy to be adventurous and fun with. Some men just aren't planners and outgoing. My partner now is an energizer bunny(in the bed and outside it) and he just can't wait til the sunrises when he's off work so that we can go somewhere, like our favorite restaurant or trying a new restaurant or cafe. Or going surfing/swimming on the beach, going to Vegas to see a show and gamble(on the 1 dollar machine)...he actually plans most of the dates because he has been mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do men catch feelings for their female friends than vice versa?Haha, I have a resting bitch face, atleast that's what I'm told. And still, some guys approach me by simply glancing over and seeing them looking at me from afar. Some still think that SIMPLY LOOKING AT THEM also means you may be open to talking to them or interested. Now, I just spend most of my time around mostly other women and this has greatly decreased men approaching me, just going places where there's less of them. I've evn had guys approach me while I was with my partner. So disrespectfu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 05:29 PM |
| 1 | The best and most healthy relationships in the real world usually involve women who are crazier for their male partner than the other way around.Over time I got tired of always putting in all the work in the relationship, so my partner quit being my #1 What was the work you had to put in the relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 04:51 PM |
| 14 | Why do men catch feelings for their female friends than vice versa?I think shy men or men who don't socialize alot tend to be hard at reading body language and reading a room. They think a woman smiling at them means she likes him. When, she could be just a nice person or in a good mood that day smiling at almost practically anyone. It doesn't mean she's in love with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 04:42 PM |
| 6 | Why do men catch feelings for their female friends than vice versa?The reason why you're friendzoned is because you're not her type. And, the reason why some men don't mind being friednzoned is because they think it's a way or first step to becoming more than just friends. I let em know, I see you as a brother or father. That usually gives them the hint that you're not interested in a romantic type of relationship with them, and you can't see that and think it's gross However, in some cases, there's men who have female friends too, who see them as sisters, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 04:36 PM |
| 1 | The real wall is menopauseThat's why I said a minority of women enjoy it. Did you even read my comment fully to even comprehend? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 04:33 PM |
| 0 | The real wall is menopauseEw, why would most sane women want to just sleep around? Is that an honor or some form of accolades to give if a woman is able to sleep around more just because she's in her 20s? There's nothing enticing or exciting about being able to spread your legs eagle for so many guys just because they're cute. Most women want a relationship, not to be treated like some dirty rag you use then toss away.. I mean yea sure there's a minority of women who likes sleeping around with random men but those types … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 09:39 PM |
| 11 | The real wall is menopauseThere's no fucking wall. Incels mad that they can't hit them walls(if you know what I mean) so they created " hit the wall"... it's coping mechanism or a fantasy revenge that they've won in their minds, having power over women in their minds by telling us we can't this and we can't that because blah blah or hitting the wall. Its the only little power over women that they feel they have, but its just a strong delusion. Strong copium medicine they're trying to shove down women's mouths. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Are older single women truly the happiest?So just because they're old, it makes them unhappy? How does age and relationships correlate to happiness to you incels? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Are older single women truly the happiest?Are you a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 09:14 PM |
| 3 | I feel like some of you need to get on TRTI know I'm a woman, but I know that men should go to their primary care physician to get their testosterone hormones checked just like us women do. So that you can see if you really need it.. I have estrogen problems that needs management through hormonal medicine prescribed by my doctor. Be careful with scams and just buying supplements online from places that aren't safe, tested on a clinical well known labs, approved by FDA, preferably something prescribed by your physician | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 09:11 PM |
| 4 | Are Situationships for the most part, a result of women not being able to secure men they wish to date?Omg 😲 😱 lol that's mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 06:15 PM |
| 1 | In the Redpill, the general idea is that women want the "alpha" guy or the best of the best, both financially and biologically. It's also pretty known that men are not born equal.I don't think it's talking about women who cheats, but mostly single women on dating apps swipe right on the attractive men the most. The study she showed above was based off of married women who cheats on their husband's with men who are less attractive than them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 01:50 AM |
| 0 | Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income?It's alot of money to those who don't make more than 60k a year or to those who have never made that much. Ofcourse it is to the average or lower earners. But it's really not ALOT of money, when you're paying 4k a month on housing, 400-500 a month on groceries, it's not alot if you have a family of 4, 2 or more kids, daycare, school, extra food for kids, extracurricular activities, ect in expensive cities... But, if you are a man without kids, then it won't be such a financial strain especially … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenWomen have repeatedly said on social media that men are deadbeats, lazy, who don't shower. The women who say that obviously don't put themselves around hardworking, ambitious, clean-cut men. They're always around loser men. I've doing some real self improvement level of effort and then I am now being told, why he's doing all this? That's good, but flexing off a quarter million dollar car and spending hundreds of dollars on dates attracts the materialistic women. Dress modestly, drive low profile… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.I like rejecting fboys because it hurts their egos. I enjoy that alot because all they do is sleep around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 08:44 PM |
| 6 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.I don't get it either it's how I'm understanding and giving logic to the behaviours. I'm trying to understand what you define "power" as in this context? What do you think it means? You try to tell me why someone would not block and keep goading on people sending creepy messages and unsolicited dick picks. Many women do block these creeps. This is why many don't put their pictures up on reddit because we'd get a flood of dic pics in our DMs. Just knowing that there's a female behind a avatar get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 08:42 PM |
| 6 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.I don't chase boys, nor do I chase men. They chase me. But yea, I guess I understand you as far as people wanting validation but dic pics aren't the validation we want lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 08:36 PM |
| 0 | Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income?$150k a year is not alot of money when you're living in Los Angeles or NYC. But if he lives within his means then he can live quite comfortably | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 08:34 PM |
| 7 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.How does this give us power? Why do you feel like this gives us power or control? I'd love to understand this more from you... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 08:30 PM |
| 7 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.It's about the attention not the dick pick itself, That's not the attention women want, well atleast what I want. Attention is men approaching you constantly asking you out,, online and offline. Gentlemen, not hypersexual men, Not a couple of dic pics in your DMs. Definitely not flattering and something most sane women would even brag or blush about. At the end of the day, men just lusting after you isn't something to be commended for, especially since you're just being objectified for your look… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenYou seem like a nice guy, I just think that you're doing things the wrong way, like, by being materialistic in order to attract women. You don't have to be that way in order to find love. Know that you're worthy of love too and stop going after superficial women. If she's already this perfect person, why will she want me? A woman going to the gym, or working out, is seen as being perfect nowadays? No one is perfect, especially just because they work out. And they're not too perfect for you, beca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 07:44 PM |
| 17 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.Nobody wants to see dic pics from some random incel online | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenI thought it's because of poverty or lack of time Yes, but with government assistance and resources that's no longer an excuse now that healthier foods are readily available to them. Hormones can be to blame aswell but even that can be managed to lose weight by seeing their pcp. But generally, it's just addiction to overeating and overindulging in too many junky foods, plus not being active on top of that. There's time to make to exercise and meal-prep. Working out takes discipline, eating clean… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 06:49 PM |
| 6 | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenMost women are overweight or single moms. I skipped over them. I asked some overweight women who were kinda cute, if I offer you better lifestyle, would you be willing to lose weight? They outright told me "fuck off". Even though I am offering them a lavish lifestyle where they can live like a queen. Why are you feeling obligated to date obese women if they're not your type? There's plenty of slender in shape women, maybe you're only matching with obese women on tinder? Also, where you live will… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 06:27 PM |
| 11 | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenI really question why a $200k car counts as a dating expense? If the goal was to date someone who loves you for who you are and build a life and family together, I’m not seeing how an outrageously expensive vehicle would help accomplish that It's probably because he's trying to attract more attractive women like supermodelesque looking women. Luxury cars do attract many women today even if they have their own money. Mostly superficial women. His problem is that he wants to attract the wrong type… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 06:18 PM |
| 5 | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenIf you're looking for something more serious with women who aren't as superficial, I'd suggest you join match.com and eharmoney. Although it's possible to meet someone on tinder, it's still oversatured with shallow people which consists of mostly women looking for onlyfans followers and free meals, and men who just want to hookup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenWhere are you meeting these girls? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenThis varies man to man. Some men do it because not only does it makes them feel good and look good but to also be STRONGER. Men also workout to be stronger so that they can lift heavy things at work or in general, and to defend themselves in a fight. Looking like a weak man, makes some men look like a easy target, especially in certain areas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 05:46 PM |
| 32 | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenIf your girl is on her phone during sex, it’s cuz you’re bad at sex And she's not into you, maybe it's transactional too if you’re spending 200k on a car, your priorities are insane Right, it's OK if he does it for himself and because he loves luxury cars, not solely to impress women if the women you date treat you like shit, it’s cuz you’re picking shitty women. Isn’t that what RPs tell women all the time? And because he's dating women outside his league. Girls outside your league will treat yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 05:36 PM |
| -1 | Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income?Yea, I misread that and what you were pointing out, so please disregard my previous comments | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 05:32 PM |
| 9 | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenYou don't think some of us women don't spend thousands on our looks too?, not only to look good but to look good for men too? And you shouldn't just workout to impress others, working out is to maintain sound health, not just the aesthetics. Spending money on women? Then date women who'd pay for your coffee and meals like some of the women in this group does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 05:28 PM |
| 0 | Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income?No. My partner is the top 8 percent of the USA in income over 200k. I make around 80,000 to 100,000. I live in a major city that is expensive so we both need to bring in income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Why would women be jealous of a young woman getting married, if they want to ride the CC instead?If they have to ask that than, yea they're desiring the same thing, they want what she has, a nice man to marry them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Why would women be jealous of a young woman getting married, if they want to ride the CC instead?I got married at age 22. Before that, I had a bouquet of fresh flowers sent to my job saying ," to my lovely fiancé 💕, (my name)"..... when I tell you the bitter looks on some of my coworkers face was not very smiley happy. I think it's just pure jealousy or some just simply don't care. But, how often do many women get flowers, let alone sent to their jobs? Not many. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income?Why, if he's making all that money? It's enough money to do instacart, housekeeping, blue apron or other chef cooked meals, and daycare, ofcourse he will care for the kids while you go to work. Unless he lives in San Francisco(very expensive)I don't see why it wouldn't work. You also working would really help too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income?Right, I see that. I'm just shocked at the fact that there's women in here bragging about being with unemployed men who don't make money. It's silly to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 05:01 PM |
| 0 | Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income?It's not about wanting a man for his money, it's about not settling for unemployed men who makes no income. Why would you want a man like that? Can you not get a man who works? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income?Well, it's fine he does whatever he wants because he has an income, so more power to him. But if you're not making any income doing the same things(playing games all day, smoking weed all day, sleeping all day,ect) than that's a major problem, I wouldn't be with a man like that. No way Personally, I prefer someone more active who likes the outdoors and going out so he wouldn't work for me, but I'm sure someone else would date him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 04:27 PM |
| -2 | Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income?So is your man working or bringing in income? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 04:22 PM |
| 0 | Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income?Do what you want. As long as you're happy. That's all that matters honestly. But I couldn't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 04:17 PM |
| -3 | Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income?Unbelievable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 04:16 PM |
| -2 | Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income?except when you are at the office, he is hanging out at home, going to the gym, running errands, watching TV, etc. I could never allow a man in my life to do this, if he isn't working or bringing in some income. I've never been desperate to get a man like this, never. It's so cringe He needs to bring in income. I don't want a lazy, poor man. I like men who are ambitious, smart, well spoken, extroverted, active gym rat, eats clean most of the time, has a good heart, loves his family.... not a laz… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income?So, he doesn't work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 04:12 PM |
| 0 | Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income?Ghetto? 😆 🤣 😂 saids the woman who dates broke poor men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income?I never say that. I am as blue as they come on some things except financial stability. I tell women and men to never date someone outside their tax bracket. It’s a recipe for disaster. This. I agree. When one partner makes more, way more, such as the woman, the man can feel emasculated sometimes or don't feel man enough if for example he makes 40k and she makes 200k or more. Most women in that tax bracket would prefer a man who made 6 figures aswell and will be around men who makes 6 figures any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income?I'm not that woman. I've never dated a balding man who makes that low of money, never. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income?OK, he's living good than. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 03:49 PM |
| – | Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income?No, but men should have their own money just like us women. You honestly look silly here saying that you're supporting unambiguous poor men and shame golddiggers and calling them whores when you're so desperate that you're providing for a ful-grown man. Please, take several seats mam. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 03:46 PM |
| -5 | Would you date/marry a man with no job but with income?Never support a poor man if he hasn't supported you. Never be so desperate to settle just to say," Look, I have a Man"... it's not worth it. Because more than likely once he gets on his feet, he may start cheating on you and leave you. Using you as a warm place and hot plate til things get back to normal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 03:42 PM |
| 4 | As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts?How doesn't it mean anything? It simply means becoming the best version of yourself because not only will you look good, but you'll also attract potentially higher quality mates. This is objective. Not an opinion. Investing in your body, health, goals, hobbies will improve your image and how you feel and a lover or mate will come naturally with this If you lazily eat junk food all day, that's already what makes you feel good. Eating junk food all day daily is a temporary fix that makes you regre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 02:39 AM |
| 1 | As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts?If who you truthfully are is a fat slob, then you're gonna have a bad time finding somebody that is attracted to you. Here's where people are confusing who will get who if xyz does 123; If you're obese, it doesn't mean you won't find someone. It means you will have slim pickings in the men that other women may want(6 figs/7 figs/ 8 figs, athletic, decent to handsome, ideally tall, ect) you can still find a man for a relationship though, but he most likely may not be the type of man that other de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall"I think the "wall" is definitely overplayed. They act like suddenly women become cat ladies or something. There's no wall and if a lady wants to be a cat lady, so what? What's the problem? Repilled and blackpilled men online thinks that being a cat lady is the end of the world, why is that? Trying to push your pills down our throats by instilling fear in attempts to make women settle for you now or it will be too late? Huh? Bullshit However, it's definitely true that complaining about "quality" … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 10:52 PM |
| 3 | Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall"Go to NYC, and seriously tell some gorgeous 30+ woman she has that fewer options compared to when she was 18? People would laugh you out of the room. I even asked a group of friends once what they thought about any of this, and they were bewildered anyone would be saying this stuff online. People would laugh or be confused because it's not your typical discussion like it is here online because 30+ women aren't really facing no wall. There's women in their 20s who complain about being invisible a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 10:36 PM |
| 6 | Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall"Everything you've said I could not have said any better. That's why I don't take men online debating seriously because most of these men on here are; guys live in seriously conservative places or smaller towns, or they're socially isolated to begin with. Which I don't relate to because I live in a more progressive, liberal, major city like NYC.LA.. not some incel basement or rural small town with no diversity. I also socialize and am around alot of people when I go out. the way people talk about… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 09:58 PM |
| 0 | Why do girls like to take an article of clothing from boyfriends?What I smelled is fresh laundry detergent because I washed our clothes, so it's more of comfort to me than sentimental. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 09:48 PM |
| 0 | Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall"This!.. women are still waaaaaaaaaaay more in demand than most (95%) men along all age brackets. Mic drop 🎤 🎙 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 09:24 PM |
| 18 | Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall"Revenge fantasy is what a lot of red pillers and black pillers seem to have. They want to see women who didn't want them,-- age and hit a wall with no one paying them attention anymore.. it's really weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 09:22 PM |
| 4 | Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall"Likewise here. I'm told I look younger though. I'm 30 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 09:20 PM |
| -2 | Why do girls like to take an article of clothing from boyfriends?Lol 😆 🤣 it's not that deep. They're just more comfortable clothes, that's all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 09:05 PM |
| 4 | Why do girls like to take an article of clothing from boyfriends?Because men have nice cozy big clothes too. I used to take my exes socks and sweatpants to wear and they were so comfy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 09:01 PM |
| 40 | Why do women ask "Are you seeing other girls?"Umm...why don't you ask her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 09:00 PM |
| 0 | CMV : Hoeflation is crazy but WhoRecession is gonna be wildWomen don't need to be"conventionally" pretty in order to get validation from strangers, followers, things paid for, ect. These things happen for average looking women too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 08:36 PM |
| 8 | CMV : Hoeflation is crazy but WhoRecession is gonna be wildMe too. At age 21, I didn't want to settle, I knew I didn't have to, and I thought I looked great and got alot of attention from men(still do today but by mostly fboys). Attention from Men on Social media is a reflection of what I experience in irl outside, except, it's 100x that in my DMs. I'm not on dating sites because why? When I'm in a relationship and can easily find someone when out and about? Plus, there's alot of weird men on dating sites " Omg split the bill/ don't look at others , don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 08:20 PM |
| -1 | Men of the western society, I'd like to know if you're really not able to find even one decent woman out there?No it's a ," she's nice personality but.....she's too fat" thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 12:08 AM |
| -2 | Men of the western society, I'd like to know if you're really not able to find even one decent woman out there?Click her profile and the last post she made, click that too, and there you'll see a link of the women she considers average that alot of men disagreed to being overweight insulting them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 12:05 AM |
| 6 | Men of the western society, I'd like to know if you're really not able to find even one decent woman out there?Lol, yep...this pretty much shows how humans evolved to having an EXTREMELY short attention span, a millisecond, dam atleast give a full second | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 12:00 AM |
| 3 | Men of the western society, I'd like to know if you're really not able to find even one decent woman out there?Yep, and he's also mad that the hot girl didn't want him because he wouldn't meet her demand$ and put up with his shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Men of the western society, I'd like to know if you're really not able to find even one decent woman out there?The point isn't that. The point is that beggars can not be choosers. I looked at those average looking women she posted, and those women had cute faces. They weren't ugly. And they are options, take em or leave em. You can workout with them and help them lose weight too So what are you going to do? Not date them, then what? If they are your only options, then what are you going to do? Betamaxxx? Seamaxxx? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so aggressively worried about being murdered by men?Incels.is.... This site has guys threatening to harm and even murder women. I reported it to the fbi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 11:11 PM |
| 0 | Men of the western society, I'd like to know if you're really not able to find even one decent woman out there?Depends on the gym you go to There's gyms where there's mostly ripped bodies and there's gyms with average looking bodies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 10:50 PM |
| 6 | Men of the western society, I'd like to know if you're really not able to find even one decent woman out there?If you take pilate classes and barr classes there's plenty of young to middle-aged women, less men, if there are men, it's very few and they typically don't bother the women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 10:45 PM |
| 0 | Men of the western society, I'd like to know if you're really not able to find even one decent woman out there?And women that's overweight to them is considered below average. Not even they are open with dating women who look a particular way, the nerve! And that's their problem,being picky with the options they do have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 10:09 PM |
| 14 | Men of the western society, I'd like to know if you're really not able to find even one decent woman out there?No. A study showed that it takes within 3 seconds for someone to make first impressions with their looks. So, if someone sees you and locks eye contact, it only takes about 3 seconds to determine if that person is attractive to you or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 09:05 PM |
| 5 | Men of the western society, I'd like to know if you're really not able to find even one decent woman out there?Like most western women, she was self absorbed, combative, argumentative, entitled and disrespectful. If you’re good, they leave, if you’re bad, they leave, if you’re loyal they leave, and if you cheat they leave. They leave 70-80% of them time. In the west at least. So… meh… doesn’t really matter at the end of the day. Seems like they're leaving YOU, not the other way around because it's YOU. You are causing problems for these women, and they are tired of putting up with your shit, take account… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 08:43 PM |
| 6 | Men of the western society, I'd like to know if you're really not able to find even one decent woman out there?Like, what are the things that they were doing to him, specifically? That's what I mean by my question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Men of the western society, I'd like to know if you're really not able to find even one decent woman out there?I never maid such a strong claim. "Prevents"? 100% guaranteed, nothing you can do about it? Hardy. Do you understand how there is only so much time in a day? I have dated men who made 6 figures doing loonnnggg hours, 12 to 16 hours a day with 1 to 2 days off week who still managed to date and enjoy a social life. Congratulations, all of your friends chose careers that were not very demanding. Or, they sucked at developing their own careers. Cool, I guess? Whether you have an average earning care… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Men of the western society, I'd like to know if you're really not able to find even one decent woman out there?Never understood how focusing on your career prevents you from being in a relationship. I think it's an excuse to not date or for people who have struggles with dating. Because while I was working and in college I still managed to get into a long-term relationship with someone. Focusing on yourself and career is great but it can be done while dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 08:34 PM |
| 11 | Men of the western society, I'd like to know if you're really not able to find even one decent woman out there?Going behind her back sleeping with other women is disrespect. Why be in a relationship with a woman that you don't find attractive in the first place? And the hot girl didn't even want you either? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 08:29 PM |
| 10 | Men of the western society, I'd like to know if you're really not able to find even one decent woman out there?No. I treated her well. With kindness, and respect. But I cheated on her with a hot girl and eventually she found out. In the same sentence, I can't make this shit up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 08:25 PM |
| 4 | Men of the western society, I'd like to know if you're really not able to find even one decent woman out there?Crazy to say she wasn't that attractive, yet you still dated her and probably treated her like crap. It's you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Men of the western society, I'd like to know if you're really not able to find even one decent woman out there?A woman doesn't necessarily need to be attractive to not be single and wifed or coupled up. I got married at 23, I'm average looking. Many women I know are married since their early 20s who are average looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 08:15 PM |
| 5 | Men of the western society, I'd like to know if you're really not able to find even one decent woman out there?Are you implying that these men who are complaining on reddit about dating aren't average looking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 08:11 PM |
| 9 | Men of the western society, I'd like to know if you're really not able to find even one decent woman out there?What do you mean by them not treating you well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 07:58 PM |
| 0 | She has to like you morebut they don’t love each other equally Why do you assume this or where do you gather your facts on such a claim? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringAs a woman, many say I'm mean, men agree I'm mean but they still chase me and date me. I am not a very nice kind person, and men who date me don't stop pursuing me because of this. I don't feel the need to make them laugh or jester myself or be nice to make them want me more. I think the same goes for attractive men(I'm an average looking woman) they can be bad boys or boring but if they look good, they still won't have trouble getting girls to pursue them even if they're condescending and jerks… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringThey're single because they want women out of their league. Micheal Chad Murray(in his prime and now lol)wouldn't give me a chance so I go for someone on my level instead because that's what I can get, and it is not a bad thing because if I like his personality and his face than I'm not complaining. I'm content. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 03:20 PM |
| 0 | She has to like you moreThan how do you explain the old timers who are still in 30 to 50 year marriages with someone who loves them as much as they love them?..????? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 03:14 PM |
| 4 | She has to like you more😆 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 03:14 AM |
| 0 | She has to like you moreWhy not date someone who likes you just as much as you like em? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 03:12 AM |
| 1 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?It's very rear, or transactional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/24 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Where are the feelings? Do you just go by checklist and numbers?Like, other characteristics other than his looks and financial status. Being attentive, passionate, chivalrous, kind... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.Then men corner chads in street and light them on fire in front of women. Where do you see men lighting CHADS on fire in streets in front of women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 07:33 PM |
| 0 | Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single.Oh no, we are all doomed because we won't all get CHAD,. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 07:26 PM |
| 4 | Where are the feelings? Do you just go by checklist and numbers?there just wasn't the spark. I thought that if someone checks the list I must logicaly fall in love in such person. And I found it but I just didn't FEEL it, no spark at all. I myself don't understand what was wrong. Was he so perfect that he was boring you? Maybe he was boring you unlike your ex? For whatever reason, there was just something about him that didn't excite you like your ex did.... Well later I realized I still love my ex. But stil I should have felt at least something with the per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 02:17 PM |
| 3 | Where are the feelings? Do you just go by checklist and numbers?What are the things he checked off your list? And why you think it didn't work out? A man can have the looks, the money, yet be an asshole or narcissistic person which can make relationships fail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Where are the feelings? Do you just go by checklist and numbers?It's about more than numbers for me now. I've focused on what the man has, instead of what the Man is. And that was my problem when it came to dating. Focusing on how much he has, instead of who he is..... From this, I ended up in relationships where there was constant argument. Yes, everything was fine financially, no struggling or worrying about cost of living and things like that but our personalities clashed. Yes, we enjoyed some of the same things, but it wasn't enough because we weren't co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Do you think safety is one reason why women don't commit as many sex crimes as men?Or maybe… the way women rape is a completely different method than how men rape Well, yeah. Male sex predators force themselves onto you, while some female sex offenders are in what you call a secret situationship with the teen boys lusting after them. They want it, unlike the sexually assaulted girls and women who are coerced and forced. Go to a club as a highly attractive male and the amount of women that will drunkenly assault you by groping is staggering. More than likely they'd like that, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 02:28 AM |
| 10 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”And she can tell from his vibes that he wasn't feeling her, hence why she left. He ain't telling the whole story | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”I'm thinking because they met online. Some people tend to not look like their online pics in person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 11:13 PM |
| 4 | Do people often set their standards to high as a defense mechanism?Some people who have high standards, generally have them because they have no problem getting things within those standards. But, if you are one of those people who have standards that never get met even after doing what you yourself had to do(improving looks, education, health, self-discovery, relocating, ect) in order to obtain them, then it's time to take a closer look at yourself and be more realistic with your standards and what you can actually get. Because, 10 to 20 years go by and still,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 10:03 PM |
| -1 | Do you think safety is one reason why women don't commit as many sex crimes as men?I agree that the teen boys shouldn't be sleeping with the adult women legally, but these boys are coming on to adult women. Like I said, I've seen it in middle school and high-school growing up how teen boys would flirt with the adult teachers and these boys were the cute or attractive ones. Some teen girls do it with some teachers too, but in most cases, male pedophiles tend to be creepy men forcing themselves onto girls and prepositioning them. Sexually harassing girls and women who dont want … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 09:19 PM |
| 9 | Every modern dating problem can be summarized into “Too little respect, Too much hubris”I didn't read anywhere where your date has disrespected you or showed you little respect. They excused themselves telling you they had to go. That's being nice because it could had been worse or really disrespectful if they'd ghosted you without telling you bye bye, or telling you they're not feeling you. Guess she felt because she wasn’t attracted to me my time wasn’t valuable though.And that’s the major issue. People lack respect for others emotions, time and effort, and have to much hubris be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 09:07 PM |
| 0 | Do you think safety is one reason why women don't commit as many sex crimes as men?Many sex predators are creepy men. It's the other way around. Women aren't going out to seek out grown men to take down and sexaully assault. Crazy Men are doing that in alarming numbers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 08:42 PM |
| -2 | Do you think safety is one reason why women don't commit as many sex crimes as men?That's because alot of male sexual predators are creeps who force themselves on girls and women. The female sex offenders such as the teachers molesting teen boys was consensual. I'm not justifying what they did was right, I'm just saying that the teen boys actually wanted it to be done. Like Sarah Jones, Kentucky Teacher, ex Bengal Cheerleader And Debra Beasley LaFave, middle school teacher in Florida. And many others. Attractive teachers who teen boys desired and lusted after. Me, working near… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 08:22 PM |
| 1 | How would you describe “lady game”?We have to know how bad you really want is, and if you would do what it takes to prove your love for us..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 07:42 PM |
| 2 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?In college, I've seen the attractive hot guys with the attractive hot girls, I get it. But, while that was all going on, most couplings were AVERAGE. WEREN'T THEY NOT? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 06:46 PM |
| 1 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?I know it comes from an online dating site study showing the top 20% of most attractive men online that many women on these dating sites swiped right on, but that's dating sites. Alot of people are meeting outside in different events, regular outings, during activities, dining out or having drinks. Dating sites are really limited way of thinking when it comes to dating. Why would you want to meet women online when you can meet them in real life without worrying about being catfish. Alot of peopl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 06:25 PM |
| 1 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?That's 20% of men on DATING SITES! 20%OF MEN ON DATING SITES. Not outside in the real world where most of us are dating regular to cute looking men.. Women tend to swipe right on the most physically appealing men, and swipe left on average looking men. Not that they look bad, we just think that we are supposed to swipe right on the most attractive looking people on these dating apps. But, let's be honest, most average women aren't going outside seeing the top 20% of the those hot men from online… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 06:17 PM |
| 1 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?There are studies showing that attractive people are chosen over average looking people for jobs, regardless of the type of job. However, most people working regular jobs and great jobs are average at the end of the day. But, as far as every single person in the top 10% to 18% percent being all drop dead gorgeous, is laughable to me. Maybe when you go into beauty and cosmetics, and fahsion, you will see more attractive people working those jobs. But, software engineers, physician assistants, sur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 05:57 PM |
| 1 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?Most average people already accepted the fact that most of us won't have the incredibly hot most attractive partner in the world, objectively. You may find some qualities about your "conventionally average" looking partner to be attractive, like, maybe you like their lips, or eyes, ect.... Maybe you may see that they are attractive to you personally. I may find certain men attractive that my girlfriends don't fancy at all. Beauty can be subjective to different people, and many of us find attract… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 05:44 PM |
| 2 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?You did not answer the question I asked here. And overlooked my point in my comment. So you mean to tell me that when you crawl out your shell and finally delve into the world where many people are, YOU SEE ONLY ONLY ONLY HOT ATTRACTIVE COUPLES JUST EVERYWHERE YOU TURN YOUR FREAKING HEAD? Ofcourse attractive men attract alot of women and so does attractive women but average people do aswell. How do you think so many of us average looking people are born? More than likely came into this world by … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 07:43 AM |
| 1 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?Where's your proof that the top %10-18% are all attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 07:26 AM |
| 1 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?Lol, I'm talking about "Average Looking" people, not average income silly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 07:02 AM |
| 5 | How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't?I think they meant to stay open and date different men(not sex or relationships) to see who is the most compatible one you end up with. It's not about having a polygamous thing going on or anything like that. Because if you date only one MAN, by the 2nd or 3rd date(or latter) he may end up being crazy or ghosting you or moving away or something that'll stop all contacts together. So it's smart to have dating options til you find the right one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Female Attraction StandardsWe can argue back and forth til you turn blue about this, but.... The women on Instagram and YouTube, such as social media influencers, are typically the ones who take lavish pictures of their high-end condos, and luxury vacation trips, are the ones more likely to have tbose high standards. And some of them are average looking to a lot of men. But, due to their lifestyles, they feel like they can demand more out of a man, or go after men who are very attractive, or very wealthy. Fine, they can d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 12:47 AM |
| 4 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?That could be true in some cases, but the same actually happens with attractive couples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 12:20 AM |
| 1 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?Well, your claims didn't come with any stats proving that Most Women settle in relationships and that Most men in relationships are good looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 12:17 AM |
| 1 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?Women settle, this is the point. They're not attracted to their partners, is just some time until the new shiny thing appears. Again, this varies from person to person. There's plenty of relationships where both partners are attractive to each other. Prove those guys are average Can you tell me a few average looking well known celebrities to give me an idea of what you consider to be average? We may see looks differently.... Lawyer from a prestigious law school or surgeon I dated a once very pow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 12:08 AM |
| 0 | Female Attraction StandardsYeah but that sizable subset that you refuse to call out fucks up what’s left of the environment for the rest of us. What are you basing this on, the women you see online or in person? Maybe do something other than calling your fellow women “pick-mes”. When have I called a woman pickme? Or are you speaking in generalization? but y’all don’t do shit to deal with the misandrists poisoning the discourse Sound like you have alot of deep, unsolved anger inside that needs to be adjusted. We, or whoeve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 11:45 PM |
| 2 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?So, you're implying that only good-looking men get into relationships? Average looking women hookup I know some average looking guys who have no problems hooking up Relationship is only an andvantage to women, not for men. This is subjective and varies person to person. There are relationships with couples who both benefit each other. VERY RARELY, you'll see that most people with good carreers are lucky or born with money. I personally know some average looking people with great paying jobs. Wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Female Attraction StandardsThus when a guy says women should lower their standards to increase the pairing rates, or pair with men of roughly equivalent SMV rank, these women read this as asking women to take it for team human (again) and fuck guys they find unattractive, or who are inherently unattractive, or both. Some women standards do need to be more realistic. For example, if a woman wants a man who is handsome, tall, makes 6 figures, then she'd have to put herself around men who fit that criteria. Like, she'd liter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 10:52 PM |
| 7 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?OK, but most old men don't have a chance with young women unless he's wealthy and generous. Most old men are regular and no one's really checking for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 10:29 PM |
| 4 | Are more and more women choosing to stay single into their 30s?It's insane lol. I've never heard men outside who speaks like this 😆 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 10:04 PM |
| 4 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?Why are 50 year old men competing with 20 and 30 year Olds for a 20 and 30 year old woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 09:51 PM |
| 1 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?OK you win. You want a cookie 🍪 🍾 🪅 🥳 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 09:45 PM |
| 3 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?Personally I think that's exaggerating what the data is telling us, but it's probably closer to being true than false. Finding the top %20 of men on a dating app as being attractive. How can one rely on such a small study on a dating site when you can go outside and see that the overwhelming majority of people" AVERAGE NORMAL EVERYDAY LOOKING PEOPLE are coupled up?? Really!, like, some of the men on here need to get their freaking heads off their phones and go outside. It is like they dwell in a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 09:37 PM |
| 1 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?It seems like you need to do some more self-discovery. Because, I never even noticed your flair until you brought it up. Your comment screams "INSECURE!" without you saying you're insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 09:29 PM |
| 0 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?I guess some would say I'm a bitch. But, many would also say I'm very caring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 09:24 PM |
| 0 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?Yes, I read the whole thing, which I agreed to mostly, but I disagreed with the parts that I mentioned above in my previous comment. The more attractive you are = the more options you have. Options in what? Dates? Because average looking people have options in dating as well. It just means Jenny team captain of the cheerleaders, or Josh quarterback of the football team has a lower chance of giving you a chance. Of course, Jenny and Josh will be able to choose the best or better options that may … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 09:20 PM |
| 3 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?I do give Average guys the time and day, but, it doesn't workout. In fact, I give Average looking guys the time of day, cute guys the time and day, below Average looking guys the time and day, it doesn't freaking work. I have better experience with the cute guys than the below average looking guys. Cute guys are nicer to me, some of the below average men I've met were mean to me. Good guy my ass. They aren't good because they don't look good. They're vindictive and insecure and mean "Aawww but h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 08:57 PM |
| -2 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?The hotter you are, the more chances and possibilities you have to hook up, to have relationships, to have better career outcomes, to be married. Average looking people hookup Average looking people get into relationships Average looking people do get great careers Average looking people do GET MARRIED Wow, wow. Wow! The ignorance is astounding. Where do you live, and do you know what grass is and ever touched it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 08:52 PM |
| 30 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?What is this top %20 stuff you type of men talk about on here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 08:41 PM |
| 1 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?Most young women are paired with guys their age, not hop-scotching holding hands down the street with old yucky men. The delusion is RRREAL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 08:40 PM |
| 8 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?So your conclusion is that all these single women are just seeing Chads? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 08:37 PM |
| 17 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?If a man isn't introducing me to family friends and talking about future plans than he may just want something I don't want, something casual. But some men lie, in order to get between a woman's legs. "I want us to have babies, move in together, start a family,".... OK mister, we will see...it's a bit too fast to do all of that now anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 08:35 PM |
| 3 | When self-proclaimed “nice guys” say that they are “good guys,” what “good” traits are they talking about?Oh, I wasn't saying you were asking them to brag. I simply said guys who tend to do good things don't tend to brag about it. Hence, the question wouldn't be asked in the first place if a man has proven he's good already through his own actions. I'm basically making a point that's all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 11:31 PM |
| 5 | When self-proclaimed “nice guys” say that they are “good guys,” what “good” traits are they talking about?There are men who actually do good things for their families and strangers, but they don't brag about it, AT ALLL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 10:57 PM |
| 2 | When self-proclaimed “nice guys” say that they are “good guys,” what “good” traits are they talking about?I don't believe anyone who saids they themselves are good. Instead, I look at the things they do, their actions to determine if they're "good" or not. That's why employers and companies ask for reference from interviewees because alot of people like to make such claims about themselves, so, references are other people who knows how the interviewee is really like and will help companies be able to see if the interviewees are who they really say they are through what others say. So never believe s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 10:45 PM |
| 2 | If men’s carnal first choice is younger woman, would you expect older men to be women’s?Most old men have no; Status Wealth Good Looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 08:15 PM |
| 1 | If men’s carnal first choice is younger woman, would you expect older men to be women’s?I think they are just delusional, and, telling them the truth( that most young women don't want them) hurts their ego, when it's just reality proven by statistics, and simply going outside and seeing its rear to see young woman/old man unless he's the top 1 percent, wealthy with status funding her lifestyle. Yet, it still remains transactional, not substantial(not consisting of true love and romance). Once the money stops, she's gone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 08:12 PM |
| 2 | If men’s carnal first choice is younger woman, would you expect older men to be women’s?I was just discussing this whole age thing where I was asking why old men want us when most young women want guys our age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 07:18 PM |
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