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I never look at that stuff. I am me and there is no test that can measure the extend of my future possibilities. If you believe you are a certain way then your mind finds evidence that you are that way. It is more productive to think you are limitless and all things are possible.
/r/seduction28/09/25 07:01 AM
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Yes. Count out 4/4 rhythm and step out on best 2 and 4. Move your arms as in doing common tasks like bricklaying. It's cheesy but effective. I can dance because my parents were really good dancers. https://youtu.be/SWv7GaK7SlY?si=nLRadpe6O7uQycEq
/r/seduction27/09/25 11:29 PM
24

The best dance instructions said no one ever.
/r/seduction27/09/25 10:35 PM
99

I don't approach I just mix in the floor and then they close the gap. Then I teach them some cheezy dance moves.
/r/seduction27/09/25 10:23 PM
2

This is painfully obvious advice.
/r/seduction27/09/25 09:15 PM
0

What did you do?.
/r/seduction27/09/25 08:48 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/shorts/V3SqEF6S-n8 No tattoos.
/r/seduction27/09/25 07:02 PM
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punani
/r/seduction27/09/25 10:27 AM
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Disagree 1000%. Your vibe can convey trustworthiness. As a teen 17 I used to be a baby sitter because I was a trusted individual. Women implicitly trust me because I'm a relaxed chill person. People tell me I carry myself well. I don't do cold approach. When I do approach my rejection rate is very low and if I am rejected it's fairly trivial. I've never had a single woman in any of my photos. I've never used a female to drive interest. Women just instinctively know I'm a man who attracts women a…
/r/seduction27/09/25 07:02 AM
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He's holding up a mirror to your behavior. None of ye are acting like men.
/r/seduction27/09/25 06:48 AM
1

I get this in the gym as a tall guy. A few guys stare me out. When I'm out I notice guys pulling their girls closer to them when I walk by.
/r/seduction27/09/25 06:40 AM
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Obviously from your list you have no idea what is actually involved in becoming a man that many women desire. Your understanding is strictly from a male perspective. and largely sourced from existing books. To become funny and charismatic you have to be around people with these qualities. I am lucky in that my entire friend group from my teens are hilarious. You don't actually have to be funny to make a girl laugh. You have to be relaxed. You have to constantly practice to become master social e…
/r/seduction26/09/25 08:20 AM
1

Not entirely though. My own country is having a similar issue with less people going out but its not at crisis point. I was in Poland last week and there's a huge abundance of women there.
/r/seduction26/09/25 07:31 AM
2

I find that not to be true at all. On the contrary in fact. Women are always looking at other men. If they aren't looking then the person simply isn't interesting enough for them to observe.
/r/seduction26/09/25 12:58 AM
2

I was in a club in Poland and it's was 5 girls to every guy.
/r/seduction26/09/25 12:46 AM
1

I disagree. In countries that are free from illegal Immigrants the nightlife is buzzing like Poland, Romania and Russia.
/r/seduction26/09/25 12:44 AM
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All his takes are garbage.
/r/seduction26/09/25 12:42 AM
1

do or do not, there is no try.
/r/seduction25/09/25 07:22 PM
1

The more you tell yourself you are a bad at it the more the neural connections get strengthened. You need to start telling yourself you are fantastic at getting women. Do it falling asleep and the first thing when you wake.
/r/seduction25/09/25 07:19 PM
4

You did good.
/r/seduction25/09/25 07:09 PM
0

That one section just exemplifies female nature.
/r/seduction25/09/25 07:07 PM
1

I'm 52 and I don't have that problem. I have no Tattoos and I'm always changing my look.
/r/seduction25/09/25 05:42 PM
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I feel sorry for anybody who up voted the above post.
/r/seduction24/09/25 05:50 PM
0

I know a guy but he has allegedly a horse cock.
/r/seduction24/09/25 03:56 PM
4

It does happen. They don't fall directly in your lap but they will make it easy for you to bridge the gap.
/r/seduction24/09/25 03:53 PM
-1

"Be your best self".
/r/seduction24/09/25 03:51 PM
1

I have never looked for advice. I found out by experimentation.
/r/seduction24/09/25 03:50 PM
1

No it's not not normal.
/r/seduction24/09/25 10:26 AM
7

I don't.
/r/seduction24/09/25 10:21 AM
1

zero difference.
/r/seduction24/09/25 10:20 AM
1

Be naturally funny.
/r/seduction23/09/25 04:36 PM
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I disagree it's actually very true. If you have been around women you know how volatile they are. The case you describe is pertaining to individuals that can't read social cues. I lost count of all the times at weddings where a girl would say no sex is going through happen tonight and 30 mins later.... Even one time a girl put pillows between us stating that nothing would happen.
/r/seduction23/09/25 09:02 AM
1

It you master state change and you are in charge of your emotions it most definitely works. It's the alter ego effect.
/r/seduction23/09/25 06:58 AM
1

Catch me if you can. Hitch. Oceans 11 Casino royale.
/r/seduction23/09/25 06:56 AM
1

You are never faking confidence. Every child had it but at some point in life you decided that you weren't confident anymore.
/r/seduction23/09/25 05:06 AM
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She's playing with you.
/r/seduction22/09/25 09:17 PM
3

Respectfully answer my question first and don't shout at me either.
/r/seduction22/09/25 01:26 PM
1

The things you say after the opener to stoke interest.
/r/seduction22/09/25 12:29 PM
3

Where are you going?. The opener actually doesn't matter it's the follow up. From what I can observe you are a person that reads buts does not understand the reason why such an opener may work. Learn standard ones and then make your own.
/r/seduction22/09/25 11:54 AM
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I'm not advanced. I just have experienced worse. I've realized that when people speak ill they are projecting their own negativity on the target. It has nothing to do with you and that's why the person should not get invested in it. Minimise your L:s and maximise your W's.
/r/seduction22/09/25 06:19 AM
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You were called a freak and unattractive 4 times?. This is life. There's is no reason to allow it to effect your demeanour. So what?. Who gives a fuck. It's not brutal the language you use is overdramatic. Life is tough wear a helmet.
/r/seduction22/09/25 12:26 AM
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Undivided attention.
/r/seduction21/09/25 10:53 PM
1

Strange but a friend of mine who is 6'6 said the exact same thing last night.
/r/seduction21/09/25 12:07 PM
4

I think you are mistaking friendliness for sexual attraction.
/r/seduction20/09/25 03:46 PM
1

I give up on trying to convey what I am talking about . It's way more macro than you are describing.
/r/seduction20/09/25 03:42 PM
2

Europe but I've travelled and I pretty much have the same experience in every place I've been. My other tall friends are fine it's an observation I have made observing other tall guys.
/r/seduction20/09/25 03:38 PM
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I'm 6'5 and I've learned from hanging with other tall guys that all tall guys are not created equal. I am not super hot or anything like that but I'm in ok shape. I get a lot of IOIs. Girls fake bump into me all the time. I rarely get rejected cold. I don't think it's confidence because I used to be painfully shy even then I had girls following me. I didn't even realize that I was popular. I just noticed that girls were always around and nice to me. Girls are friendly and guys are nice to me as …
/r/seduction20/09/25 08:09 AM
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Premise 1: mentioned debates, then someone critiqued that interactions with women shouldn’t be like political debates and he’s right. Premise 2: That said, I was on debate clubs for several years and I think frame control came easy to me because of it. You are totally missing the point it's not about the debate or the topic it's about observing the power dynamic within the debate and applying it to normal interactions. Which is exactly is what you describe on the last part. You apply but deny.
/r/seduction20/09/25 07:47 AM
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Hard to know really unless you ask her because all these things are subjective but if I was to guess it means you are someone who gives the impression of being cold. You mention you are not tall but in my experience as a tall person it's not intimidating to women but is to men.
/r/seduction20/09/25 07:18 AM
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That won't happen. I've never seen it happen. The worst that can happen is she will walk away.
/r/seduction19/09/25 10:33 PM
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Absolutely
/r/seduction19/09/25 09:14 PM
2

It takes intelligence to get the underlying meaning. It's ok if you don't understand it. God loves you all the same.
/r/seduction19/09/25 08:23 PM
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It's from psychology not pick up.
/r/seduction19/09/25 07:46 PM
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If you want to know what frame control is look at this. It's a master class. Left leaning people in debate try and cause context shifts by gas lighting, insults, redefining words interrupting etc. It takes a strong frame to navigate this. https://youtube.com/shorts/NtwhGJTvMUs?si=Vcw7oSX-fCOSzdFJ https://www.youtube.com/shorts/luDcEs0B2IM https://youtube.com/shorts/wXh-muIWJ68?si=tB9IYmbqOGe3Xrgy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cwSXDr7XkNc
/r/seduction19/09/25 07:26 PM
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I'm almost 6'5. I have a dad bod. Good physicality with not great definition but I'm definitely better than every other guy in my demographic. The way I am does not affect my SMV. Going to the gym would fix that quickly.
/r/seduction19/09/25 06:47 AM
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You don't even have to be in shape. I'm 6'5 and I'm 224 which is overweight yet if doesn't hinder the me. I must be ok looking because women select me.
/r/seduction18/09/25 07:46 PM
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I noticed that too. I thought even though I'm nearly 6'5 and have good physicality I wouldn't stand out. That wasn't the case.
/r/seduction17/09/25 04:01 PM
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Disclaimer : I actually had this as a draft. Im back from Poland. The girls and people in general are really icy on the street but away from that they're fine. As a white person I felt weird. They don't seem to like people who aren't polish. I had no problems meeting women in the clubs and bars. Bars were overflowing with attractive girls. I got a lot of IOIs. One girl kept looking at me. The girls have no problem staring at me. Some of the really good looking girls have really obnoxious masculi…
/r/seduction17/09/25 03:59 PM
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Your technique is pathetic. Too much validation your end. The more you validate a girl the more your value depreciates.
/r/seduction17/09/25 11:10 AM
1

I would say "I really enjoyed talking to you I think you and I should meet for a drink".
/r/seduction16/09/25 05:49 PM
3

Be unpredictable then when you're unpredictability becomes predictable, become predictable again.
/r/seduction16/09/25 09:56 AM
1

10 years ago this was normal practice.
/r/seduction15/09/25 10:01 PM
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I live by this.
/r/seduction15/09/25 02:57 PM
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An original one that has nothing to do with her attractiveness.
/r/seduction15/09/25 02:56 PM
1

Let me reframe. Here is exactly what happens. You look at her. She recognizes you as higher value than her. She immediately believes you are judging her. She gets nervous and uses a self pacifying gesture. If you identify she's nervous then you are actually the one in control. She's worried you won't like you. So then you must act like the one in control.
/r/seduction15/09/25 12:34 PM
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She does that from anxiety and attraction.
/r/seduction15/09/25 08:34 AM
2

I went bald at 18 didn't shave it all off until a girl persuaded me at 24. It has never been an issue.
/r/seduction15/09/25 08:32 AM
2

You have only done 50 approaches?. That's miniscule..
/r/seduction11/09/25 05:44 AM
0

Who says I'm talking about one city?.
/r/seduction11/09/25 05:40 AM
1

I've noticed women are always checking out men in very discreet ways.
/r/seduction10/09/25 09:02 PM
1

Prepare in your mind before the main event. Work out every single scenario and have a good response ready.
/r/seduction10/09/25 08:59 PM
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You don't need a study just observe a bar and you'll see that in real time.
/r/seduction10/09/25 08:55 PM
2

adapted from here ; https://youtube.com/shorts/fP0bggSs2RI?si=H6dizMcgMDTtUB2I
/r/seduction10/09/25 07:17 PM
2

I don't think that's true definitely not in western Europe.
/r/seduction10/09/25 06:48 PM
0

You mean to tell me you let a tiny little woman dictate your self worth?. The problem is you seem to be dating unsuitable women. If you are using the apps quit and come into the real world.
/r/seduction10/09/25 06:38 PM
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You have so little self awareness it's scary.
/r/seduction10/09/25 06:14 PM
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This post brings me back to the days when the PUA forums had quality material. I would also like to add that you should become delusionally self forgiving. The difference between confident people is confident people make their failures seem small and their successes HUGE. The counter example is someone who makes their successes small and their failures HUGE.
/r/seduction10/09/25 04:26 PM
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That's what confident people do naturally.
/r/seduction10/09/25 04:22 PM
-1

II find it comical that you think I give a shit about validating myself to anybody or I indeed care about anything you say about me. You really think highly of yourself.
/r/seduction10/09/25 04:20 PM
1

It's not. You have to impress a girl before she introduces you to her friends.
/r/seduction10/09/25 12:18 PM
-1

https://youtube.com/shorts/4-Fg0_9xI68?si=U74GGZCb4c8CoMcx You only appear 'high status' when it's on paper, not in your head. It's not. The feedback I get from people confirms I am high status. I know how I am treated verifies that.
/r/seduction10/09/25 11:49 AM
1

You're thinking in terms of hierarchy. If you totally ignore hierarchy then you appear naturally high status.
/r/seduction10/09/25 05:32 AM
1

Was she inebriated by any chance?. That's the problem with clubs and bars.
/r/seduction10/09/25 04:55 AM
1

If you learn to relax you will be the one making them nervous. Often I have made girls nervous so I have to calm them down.
/r/seduction09/09/25 09:44 PM
2

This Friday go to shops and say this to every female cashier. "Happy Friday" and watch her expression. Or even do it on Thursday and then say oops I forgot my bad. It's a start you'll probably get smiles and thats positive reinforcement.
/r/seduction09/09/25 09:37 PM
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Do you ever talk to random people in your day to day dealings?. I'm not talking about work.
/r/seduction09/09/25 08:53 PM
0

I can't either and I'm tall and reasonably good looking. In real life I crush it though.
/r/seduction09/09/25 08:50 PM
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That's a big gap from 17 to 30. What exactly have you been doing in that period?. What experiences have you had?. I used to have a fear of small dogs. The bizzare thing is I'm 6'5 and 230. It came from childhood and I never faced it. Eventually I sat down and analysed what exactly was the worst outcome of that scenario and that was getting bitten by a tiny thing which probably would not even hurt. Then I realized it was bollocks and that was the end of that. The worst scenario in your case if yo…
/r/seduction09/09/25 08:41 PM
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Well I didn't personally.
/r/seduction09/09/25 06:31 PM
1

Just start talking to shop assistants every day and don't waste your money. Don't think it as approaching but rather sliding. If you talk to women and get them to smile everything just compounds from there.
/r/seduction09/09/25 06:29 PM
-3

I don't know. You tell me.
/r/seduction09/09/25 06:22 PM
-5

Are you an incel?
/r/seduction09/09/25 06:11 PM
2

Only Tristan Tate fits that criteria.
/r/seduction09/09/25 05:42 PM
1

All men look the same to women. Grey sweats gym runners etc. No individuality.
/r/seduction09/09/25 05:30 PM
1

While it's interesting it's also a fantastically unrealistic and totally idiotic assertion.......
/r/seduction09/09/25 04:29 PM
-1

Most men are weak. She's not looking for a weak man.
/r/seduction09/09/25 04:24 PM
-12

bobs and vegene.
/r/seduction09/09/25 03:32 PM
1

Who was this someone ?. Was it someone you would like to be or respect ?. If not tell them to fuxk off and wear whatever that allows you to perform to the best of your abilities.
/r/seduction09/09/25 11:30 AM
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Therapy is a waste of time. All therapy does is reinforce the neural pathways. What you want to do is dissolve them.
/r/seduction08/09/25 04:02 PM
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Self hypnosis and buy some Paul McKenna audio will fix that. Read psycho- cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz. He was a plastic surgeon that carried out procedures on people. What he found out that even their flaws had been corrected they still believed they were still inferior. Don't care about other guys. Care about you and becoming your best self.
/r/seduction08/09/25 03:02 PM
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It is easier.
/r/seduction08/09/25 06:07 AM
5

Own it. My hair disappeared in my early 20s. I shaved it and people say I suit that style. So Own it and become comfortable in who you are. That or be miserable for a long time.
/r/seduction08/09/25 04:11 AM
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I have no idea. I ran her and she said I can see you. I looked up can't see her at all. A minute later I can see her coming. I really don't know.
/r/seduction07/09/25 08:11 AM
1

I know a pseudo intellectual when I see one. Flowery words no substance.
/r/seduction07/09/25 06:15 AM
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The first time a girl approached me I was confused I didn't know what to do. Another instance was going to a clinic I met a beautiful pharmacist and she gave me her pager number. Later I found out that was not allowed in the hospital.
/r/seduction07/09/25 06:14 AM
1

I don't think that's a good example because the left has such a grip on society all the normal definitions have been redefined so much they are nonsensical in the real world.... The world is crazy these days because people are using those crazy unrealistic (official) definitions that you speak of. The definition of feminism and n the 1970s is very different to present now that feminism has been absorbed into that ball of shit alphabet soup. Even chatGPT won't tell you the truth but a filtered ve…
/r/seduction07/09/25 05:52 AM
2

I read about it before. It's to do with how men and women filter their environment. Men filter and focus directly where women filter a large amount of stimuluses.
/r/seduction07/09/25 12:43 AM
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Exactly. In my country people who swing are considered strange. The vast majority of women would not be into fringe weird stuff like polygamy , bdsm. We don't state we are exclusive because the moment we start going on dates there's no one else in the picture that's a social expectation.
/r/seduction06/09/25 11:16 PM
0

Grape doesn't count. Napoleon was 5'7. He was average height for height standards in that era.
/r/seduction06/09/25 11:11 PM
9

The James Bond effect.
/r/seduction06/09/25 07:13 PM
1

True, Usually they are in two's just standing around talking.
/r/seduction06/09/25 07:13 PM
32

If you are on the street usually a women will have noticed you a long time before you even saw her. I found that out by arranging to meet women and discovering they could see me a long time before I saw them. Knowing that any girl that looks at you as you approach has some curiosity towards you.
/r/seduction06/09/25 11:36 AM
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I think its only a US thing. In Europe I don't think its as widespread as there.
/r/seduction06/09/25 11:32 AM
244

Stand adjacent, smirk at her. Order my drink look back 60 secs later and if she's closed the gap or her body is pointed at me I say "hello".
/r/seduction06/09/25 10:04 AM
9

I had a girl drive 100 miles to see me because her friend told her I was in a particular pub that night.
/r/seduction06/09/25 09:10 AM
2

Same here.
/r/seduction06/09/25 09:02 AM
1

Great stuff. Your doing excellent. Just have sex with the girls you genuinely like a lot.
/r/seduction06/09/25 09:00 AM
4

Great lessons to be learned here. I picked it up faster though. To be a real ladies man it takes a tonne of focus and energy. That energy is better focussed on career. This is precisely why 35 year old guys do way better than their 20 year old selves. They have found their place in life which is sustainable and the women just glide into their life. Their persona has been set at that point. Chasing women is very time and energy consuming.
/r/seduction06/09/25 08:51 AM
1

Women use guys as entertainment sometimes. I am tall and I've been used as a deterrent by girls who didn't want guys approaching them but had a boyfriend. I hadn't a tonne of experience so it worked well for my social proof and for practice.
/r/seduction06/09/25 08:42 AM
8

You need to expose yourself to more women so that you have more to think about because this can become a unhealthy obsession.
/r/seduction06/09/25 08:34 AM
1

True a 10 is a Victoria secrets model. 5'9 + long legs no tattoos.
/r/seduction05/09/25 05:40 AM
1

Lies
/r/seduction05/09/25 05:01 AM
9

Be the guy that gets attention from other girls.
/r/seduction04/09/25 10:44 PM
2

Women see men like wallpaper bland. If you're tall women will make eye contact with you. It's true about women not really that bothered by good looking men. I think its a lot to do with your presence and confidence.
/r/seduction04/09/25 07:50 PM
1

Not if you have blue eyes...
/r/seduction04/09/25 07:48 PM
0

Wateva
/r/seduction04/09/25 03:10 PM
3

Gen Z is fvked
/r/seduction04/09/25 03:06 PM
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Don't be lazy. This sub is full of people that just want a quick easy solution. Be imaginative. Spend hours thinking about things to say. Work out conversations in your head to apply in every scenario. This approach while challenging will serve you in every aspect of existence. There's no cheat code in life.
/r/seduction04/09/25 03:00 PM
2

No hablo espagnol.
/r/seduction03/09/25 05:27 AM
1

Look clean that's the height of appearance. Style and fit is really for the man. It makes him feel good and that's what does it. I know for a fact since I changed my walk and movements I get way more women observing me.
/r/seduction03/09/25 05:25 AM
7

Talking to people everywhere and every day until you become relaxed. Your main issue is because you aren't a fucking social person and you are expecting to suddenly just be able to do it at one opportune moment. In your day to day life just talk to people and when that girl comes along you'll be a little more apprehensive but you'll have enough social intelligence to drive through it.
/r/seduction03/09/25 05:18 AM
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It's evolutionary but a lot of men have it worked out in early teens except guys here.
/r/seduction03/09/25 05:10 AM
3

Reminds me of that tic tok video of the teens that "discovered" a new way of writing that didn't involve taking your pen off at every letter. They were just using cursive writing which is centuries old.
/r/seduction03/09/25 05:06 AM
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The reality is some women especially ones that would be considered larger than average have X factor. They are endearing individuals.
/r/seduction02/09/25 01:09 PM
3

Me too. I don't look great in photos but I have no shortage in women who want to date me.
/r/seduction02/09/25 01:06 PM
2

I've read 5 of these.
/r/seduction01/09/25 07:03 PM
2

What do you get exactly and I'll fill the void.
/r/seduction01/09/25 04:12 PM
1

You are stating the obvious you don't need a study cited by Harvard to know those basic truths. I believe the preconceived impression is purely vibe. The reason I'm saying that is because I know guys who are tall and have all the attributes still have difficulty drawing women.
/r/seduction01/09/25 02:18 PM
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I don't have to. I'm tall and hot. I've never been invisible to women.
/r/seduction01/09/25 02:11 PM
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If you're not preselected then she won't show interest. Women don't show interest to strange men they haven't met already unless he has perceived sexual value. You'll have to talk to her and maybe she might warm to you. Hoe math explains it here https://youtu.be/Vh0hj9ZD9FY?si=UfbXOGRunT34GdHy
/r/seduction01/09/25 09:37 AM
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Gullible people will believe this only.
/r/seduction01/09/25 06:51 AM
1

Rejection is just feedback. Data points to improve. That's my take on it. In my personal view you guys are both correct. Pickup is called an Art and not a science for a reason. In art many techniques are applicable and all achieving the end desired result. I'm 6'5 and when I am about the city I observe. Quite a few people look at me and place themselves in my proximity so when that happens I move. I don't like rejection but it's part of life. That's my technique.
/r/seduction01/09/25 06:47 AM
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I remember when I was in property maintenance on one instance this girl got locked out. I met her I took out a large ring of keys then she said "Do you ever dream of being a jailer". From that day on I knew exactly how to talk to women.
/r/seduction31/08/25 11:50 AM
1

oily skin is good long term.
/r/seduction31/08/25 05:38 AM
4

>"Women prioritize how preselected you are over everything else". This is so true. At least in my experience. If you are a man who women perceive other women will desire then it's easy.
/r/seduction31/08/25 04:05 AM
1

Self hypnosis works. Generally if you have to keep the conversation going she's not interested or shy.
/r/seduction31/08/25 03:51 AM
2

Instead of writing huge lists try to find a person who embodies these characteristics, resembles you physically and looks who you admire and try to emulate them. It doesn't have to be one individual. It could be a different persona for each situation. Also don't say I wanna. Say I choose to be ........... Or I see myself as . ....
/r/seduction30/08/25 09:01 PM
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I remember when I first started if I tried to talk to girls they would always say immediately that they had boyfriends but as I got better they never mention boyfriends until way into the interaction. That's my observation on that one. To be truthful I don't know the answer to that scenario. I speculate that they want to have certain guys on hold just in case.
/r/seduction30/08/25 06:20 AM
1

ok
/r/seduction29/08/25 12:10 PM
1

Firstly https://www.grunge.com/img/gallery/stop-signs-used-to-look-a-lot-different-than-they-do-today/intro-1664225260.jpg Hold that image in your mind. When you hear silly self talk recall it. Talk all those statements and write them in the positive form. Use them as affirmations. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/3F7A2Z9DbBs https://www.youtube.com/shorts/1BBrUSrLfs4 https://youtu.be/9ZczfBX5L2Q?si=ah6QEA_wGGAp8waf
/r/seduction29/08/25 08:00 AM
1

no
/r/seduction29/08/25 05:06 AM
61

Exactly what you did.
/r/seduction29/08/25 04:53 AM
4

Although articulated poorly this is the single best post I've read on this sub and many will not understand this because they've never experienced what the OP is explaining.
/r/seduction29/08/25 03:55 AM
5

It's bad to you because you have never experienced being in the present. You are on autopilot day to day that's why. If you practiced meditation you'll recognize and identify with what is being said here. It's high level consciousness. It's legitimate in my experience. The world moving slowly is a real thing to people who meditate regularly. It's demonstrated in the film star wars. The Jedi is essentially a person who has attained a high level of enlightment. In that you achieve such strong focu…
/r/seduction29/08/25 03:52 AM
1

Anything with Chase Manhattan.
/r/seduction29/08/25 03:49 AM
1

Glad to hear that.
/r/seduction29/08/25 03:48 AM
1

My own experience is that I've always attracted women easily. Even when I was introverted and shy I had admirers. I'm older and I still get looks some deliberately come into my proximity some talk to me and virtually all are nice and receptive. I don't know what the secret sauce is. Some say it's because I'm tall but other guys are tall and they do worser than average guys. I think it's mindset. Being shy forced me to totally blank women which I believe made them more interested in me. Regardles…
/r/seduction29/08/25 03:44 AM
1

No
/r/seduction28/08/25 10:43 PM
2

It's only hurtful when you acknowledge it. I would have said and youre the dumbest woman Ive ever dated.
/r/seduction28/08/25 04:16 AM
1

That is lies.. ...
/r/seduction27/08/25 05:19 PM
2

I experienced the opposite.
/r/seduction27/08/25 05:17 PM
-1

Yes. Things were piss easy. Nowadays women have really an overbearing sense of sense and over confidence to the point they don't respect men. It's sad really. The average looking girl has 300% more confidence than any guy. I meet more women nowadays that I would consider total dickheads. The system has broke the guys down. For the vast majority of men feminism has won. There are outliers there that are older or just don't give a fcuk and they are winning in this game. The classically masculine m…
/r/seduction27/08/25 01:53 PM
2

You need to look at other men and watch how they dress and act and outmatch them. I'm 50 and I wear leather jackets. Younger people compliment me on my clothes. I'm a little overweight for my height 224 lbs @ 6'5 but I have the physicality so it works. I can see why women are repulsed by most men I get the train from work and the smell of BO is disgusting. Basic hygiene.
/r/seduction27/08/25 05:58 AM
3

People forget to mention Mystery is 6'5 so already he has a modicum of preselection. He's already ahead of the curve..
/r/seduction26/08/25 02:11 PM
1

I read it at 24 and I thought it was useless. The only page I liked was the page on IOIs.
/r/seduction26/08/25 11:19 AM
1

This is not the way grown men communicate. I'm not trying to shame I'm trying to wake you up to the fact the way people write demonstrates to the world their thought processes. It's really important to read, write and talk clearly and coherently. The more intelligent and communicative you are the better your quality of women.
/r/seduction26/08/25 02:36 AM
2

I agree I'm probably not a great person to give advice because I've actually never really had to work hard to meet women. In life women are really receptive to me but I was really shy and nervous and somehow I still had loads of options. I learned a lot from my mother she was a waitress in a very lucrative restaurant before sir met my dad and she knew a lot about making herself likeable. In fact I've always wanted to have that power. I'm really close. It's a game for me to find a girl who obviou…
/r/seduction26/08/25 02:22 AM
1

For the love of God please fix your communication. Communication is everything. Don't type b or u. It's juvenile. You are 20 years of age. On the subject of approach anxiety it is always there the difference between confident people and anxious people is that they make their fears small and their wins big. Anxious people do the opposite. If you want to stop it altogether you can do self hypnosis and set triggers to make yourself relaxed when you see a girl then visualize a successful opener and …
/r/seduction26/08/25 02:17 AM
2

That book changed my life. I still use its principles.
/r/seduction24/08/25 05:48 PM
2

You need more abundance. Typically guys have little or no options fantasise about service staff.
/r/seduction24/08/25 03:15 PM
21

Not giving a shit about outcome.
/r/seduction24/08/25 01:12 PM
-4

Ain't that the truth.
/r/seduction24/08/25 11:15 AM
10

As a 6'5 male and athletic I used to think the same. I was so wrong...... Maxwell Maltz wrote a book on this. My advice become deliriously self confident. Reduce your handicaps and inflate your strengths. A person has an image of themselves sometimes tall people see themselves as being short and short people imagine themselves as being tall. Girls and people pick up on this. It effects their experience of life.
/r/seduction24/08/25 09:27 AM
1

The Brad P fashion bible was a good source for not strictly fashion but how different personas present themselves to the world.
/r/seduction23/08/25 03:51 PM
46

It's a feminist shaming tactic. It never was a thing before the internet. I dated strings of 20 year olds when I was 35. Their family didn't care. Guys with no social skills say that frequently and then there is guys who listen too much to brain dead feminists over 30. These are people who are miserable and want to try and impress their worldview which is trash on you. A self aware man will reject that. Your worldview is yours and has nothing to do with me... I am a man and I do what I please do…
/r/seduction23/08/25 03:44 PM
1

Saudi is hell in earth.
/r/seduction23/08/25 10:18 AM
9

Your imagination is very impressive.
/r/seduction22/08/25 07:41 PM
2

It isn't a video game.Being good in real life takes a lot of work. It takes practice, experimentation and confidence. You just have to go on dates and talk to women and try something different then see if it works. Flirting isn't words it's very all encompassing thing that really boils down to making people feel good but simultaneously specifically not being a people pleasing person.
/r/seduction22/08/25 04:49 PM
2

TLDR; Nothing beats raw action.
/r/seduction22/08/25 08:44 AM
5

I learned that from my Dad. I always noticed when mam asked for anything Dad would always say No. He was a slight a hole about it. Eventually she would be get her way but not without resistance. I found out that same concept applied to every woman I encountered. Like Dad I have mastered the art of pissing women off while simultaneously making them very Interested. My Dad was a ladies man in that he was a selected man so he knew women. On the other hand my mam lived with her 10 sisters from that …
/r/seduction21/08/25 04:05 PM
-5

That approach is called the throw a tonne of shit against the wall and see if some sticks.
/r/seduction21/08/25 09:26 AM
0

No, they're two separate methodologies.
/r/seduction21/08/25 08:55 AM
-7

Loads but a favorite of mine is going into a group of girls and saying "excuse me but could one of you lovely girls help me with something. In my case one of them will step forward. It's a psychological experiment I do. You can try this anywhere but a no risk environment is a supermarket. Go up to a group of girls working there and say "well I've been walking around here for ages like a lost puppy looking for ..... Can one of you girls help me. It works for me because I'm tall and I found out a …
/r/seduction21/08/25 08:54 AM
0

The suggestions here are dreadful and unimaginative. My lines would not work for you because firstly you didn't have my personality and I speculate you aren't 6'5 either. I ask them to do something for me. I've found if you can get a girl to do something for you then you have it in the bag. I use situations all the time I see a girl doing something interesting and I interject on the conversation. I do this all the time in fact I look for opportunities to practice this. I've never had a bad react…
/r/seduction21/08/25 05:59 AM
2

Judging by the options you have, it isn't many and they are typical of guys who are not really extending themselves out into the world socially. These are 'safe' options. Do you think she might have been setting you up with her daughter ?. Did she tell you much info about her daughter's status previous to meeting her in the house. If you get involved and it goes bad you will lose A as a friend. As for staff you really never can tell because they are meant that he friendly. The thing is to try an…
/r/seduction21/08/25 05:42 AM
1

Why so?
/r/seduction19/08/25 08:06 PM
1

What a bad mindset to have. Just go outside and stop making excuses eventually you'll get the hang of it.
/r/seduction19/08/25 08:03 PM
1

I disagree. Sometimes guys are quarantined for their friends.
/r/seduction19/08/25 09:35 AM
3

Hoe math describes preselection succinctly. Preselection is where women you've never talked to instantly are interested in you.
/r/seduction19/08/25 09:34 AM
0

You obviously missed what I was doing there. I suppose that's why you're here in the first place.
/r/seduction19/08/25 05:27 AM
1

I think you and I should go out for dinner. Isn't that a great idea.
/r/seduction18/08/25 09:11 PM
1

Self hypnosis will fix that. Essentially you are looking a way to switch state and SH achieves that.
/r/seduction18/08/25 01:02 PM
1

I used to meditate a lot and I found only recently you can do all of the above in a very short period of time with self hypnosis. I have triggers to bring myself into alpha state in a microsecond.
/r/seduction18/08/25 08:45 AM
2

The pitch is flooded game postponed.
/r/seduction18/08/25 08:36 AM
1

Nervousness only works when you are both anxious. That has happened to me. In general women are very impressed with men who like themselves to the point of arrogance.
/r/seduction18/08/25 08:35 AM
1

It's also safety too. A man that rapports with many women is seen as a safe option. I do this too in daily. Women in daily life subconsciously communicate who they want to deal with.
/r/seduction18/08/25 06:56 AM
1

I've better things to do than rotations. Like building empires. One good one does me.
/r/seduction17/08/25 06:31 PM
1

She has a very high interest level but could be unstable. Text her and tell her you don't have time for her bullshit that you have far more important issues to deal with. I guarantee you won't lose her but vet her for hot/ crazy. Also don't be afraid to tell a woman to shut the fuck up. Here's a classic example of this: https://youtube.com/shorts/ak6X8YxHgMs?si=uilU_RmL_qdCOgqi
/r/seduction17/08/25 06:15 AM
1

If she doesn't ask your name you have nothing there. In fact if she doesn't want to know anything about you you are not getting anywhere. There's usually a match of energy when a guy and a girl has mutual attraction.
/r/seduction17/08/25 06:11 AM
1

I learned on my 20s that it's really important to be relaxed no matter what because once you get nervous she will get nervous. I hae a similar issue going to a clinic. I walked in and saw a beautiful girl there to examine me. I got nervous and she got really nervous. We were both very attracted. The next week by pure chance or design she was my pharmacist again this time she had full makeup and done up. I had decided that I was never going to be nervous from that day. Anyhow she have me her page…
/r/seduction17/08/25 06:03 AM
10

I disagree. I've gone out heaps of times solo and had great times and success.
/r/seduction17/08/25 05:54 AM
1

Time is a creation you can make time.
/r/seduction17/08/25 05:53 AM
4

you need to do a lot of things: change your job, move to another city, talk to 1000 girls, be a man and swim in ice water, sleep in the forest, learn how to fight, go to the gym... I never did any of those things ever. I always had women into me to be truthful I don't understand it even now 20 years it hasn't stopped women are always making themselves available to me. It's not difficult at all.
/r/seduction16/08/25 05:53 AM
3

Are you feeling ok?
/r/seduction15/08/25 12:04 PM
1

It isn't complex. Just go about your life and talk to everyone become good at communicating and everything will fall in place.
/r/seduction15/08/25 05:48 AM
2

I am 6'5. You're correct in one respect. I will tell what they do care about. Say you're a 6'5 male you walk into a room and a lot of people both men and women look at you, some of the guys may show respect or look at you with hate etc. Women really pick up on that. Some people call it presence. Not all tall guys have it. It is possible as a shorter guy to emulate this but you must have confidence.
/r/seduction13/08/25 07:04 PM
3

I know a few sales guys who are 5'6 and they do get action.
/r/seduction13/08/25 06:18 PM
3

LOL wheat waffles is a clown and a man. Women view attraction way different to men.
/r/seduction13/08/25 06:17 PM
1

I don't know what to say because just yesterday I was sitting on the steps outside my office and I spontaneously said Hi to a girl she stopped and we chatted now I have a date in the weekend. What I'm saying you don't have to do approach just weave it into your day to day life.
/r/seduction13/08/25 06:16 PM
2

How to win friends and influence people.
/r/seduction13/08/25 02:43 PM
2

You are just not matching with the right females. A lot of this is them projecting their issues on you. It's good you are catching this early and not later.
/r/seduction13/08/25 10:54 AM
1

PUA and all that stuff is for autistic people really. It's a by numbers approach for non socially adept people that's what it was designed for. Social people like me and others will always find it pointless.
/r/seduction13/08/25 09:04 AM
1

That's your counter argument lmao.
/r/seduction13/08/25 08:57 AM
1

Not true.
/r/seduction12/08/25 04:01 PM
2

I can see why she kissed another guy.
/r/seduction12/08/25 06:46 AM
-1

If that ever happens again. Just move into her line of vision and smirk at her. See how long it takes her to ditch him. Yes they do get annoyed. I've seen girls stamp their feet and then rush out of the venue it's funny to see lol.
/r/seduction11/08/25 03:10 PM
6

You also cannot write coherent English you need to work on that.
/r/seduction11/08/25 08:07 AM
1

Ok. So could you truthfully say that you could cease the sessions tomorrow morning. If the answer is no then you are dependent. As someone who has gone through trauma I've gone to one therapy session and it ended by the therapist saying that I was perfectly capable of fixing myself and further sessions weren't needed. Here's a question for you. In world war 2 there were virtually no records of PTSD on American troops why do you think that was so?.
/r/seduction11/08/25 06:25 AM
1

When you answer mine first.
/r/seduction10/08/25 09:19 PM
1

Do you worry that you are going through life not even understanding basic concepts yet holding very wrong, very stupid opinions about them? Pray tell me what "basic concepts I don't understand and very stupid opinions I hold ?".
/r/seduction10/08/25 09:13 PM
4

First of all change the way you describe yourself. You aren't a loser only you see you as a loser. You're not a loser you are just lost. You need to find your way back to when you were a happy person because I'm sure you were. You also need to rewrite your script to I'm a wonderful person and I radiate love to everyone I meet. Imagine the love radiating from you. This works wonders. I would read the expansive personality section on Robert greenes human nature book first. Be grateful for what you…
/r/seduction10/08/25 04:15 PM
0

Therapy is a terrible idea it's designed to keep you dependant. Assuming responsibility to a third party makes you less interactive in solving your own issues. A better way is to accept responsibility and change little by little.
/r/seduction10/08/25 04:14 PM
83

I had a Japanese girl who travelled all the way to Manchester to have sex twice a year.
/r/seduction09/08/25 04:42 PM
0

Is English your first language because you don't seem to get the intricacies of my point, that's not a reflection of your cognitive level though. I was avoiding saying this but for the record I'm tall 6'5 attractive and what people call a select man. This is not in my mind because real life feedback confirms that. As for ego and self awareness I'm many levels above average people as I have studied mysticism and practiced meditation.
/r/seduction06/08/25 09:24 AM
-1

Dont be sorry I am with plenty of high value women. I don't think you understand what I'm saying especially if you are young.
/r/seduction06/08/25 07:01 AM
2

Charisma on command YT breaks it down.
/r/seduction06/08/25 06:59 AM
1

It's easier than you think.
/r/seduction05/08/25 08:30 PM
5

Every hot woman makes you pay in some way or another that's the price of the luxury and if you won't pay someone else will. All men are used, there isn't many women that will meet a man in terms of the effort he has put into her and that's fine.
/r/seduction05/08/25 06:42 PM
1

I used to be slim went to college and gained a tonne of weight. There's a world of difference in dating between 6'5 @ 280 lbs vs 6'5 @ 224lbs.
/r/seduction05/08/25 07:22 AM
-2

I don't like to share because it just becomes part of the diatribe here. What I will say is approach in a confident way and you'll get away with low effort lines.
/r/seduction04/08/25 08:25 PM
-1

Your issue is easy to fix with self hypnosis.
/r/seduction04/08/25 04:27 PM
1

Watch Craig Ferguson clips. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SwmJdp-8pg0 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2hZZtsGe_YY
/r/seduction04/08/25 04:21 PM
3

As always on this sub the best answer is the lowest voted one. Overthinking that's the issue here.
/r/seduction04/08/25 04:19 PM
2

Agree with this 1000%. I had a very interesting life from 20 -34 and to this day I have unlimited things I can converse about.
/r/seduction04/08/25 04:17 PM
-3

You've made so many posts on this already. I don't think anybody can help you.
/r/seduction04/08/25 06:05 AM
1

I think the mistake was to try and touch her while her back was turned. Girls don't like to be surprised by guys they don't know and for that reason you shouldn't also approach from behind always the side or front. It's always better to initiate first touch to the hand.
/r/seduction04/08/25 05:56 AM
1

This is my experience too. I'm very tall so I get bumps or fake bumps or very obvious signals like walking right in front so close you can smell her perfume. At this stage I'm really proficient at recognizing the signals I get which are pretty much the same every day. I know exactly the type of woman who will like me.
/r/seduction04/08/25 03:04 AM
2

Leave her texts unread. If she's into you you'll find out very quick.
/r/seduction03/08/25 03:09 PM
12

what an A hole response....
/r/seduction03/08/25 11:24 AM
1

To move on you need to decide to forgive yourself and all the people around you that hurt you. You're stuck in a loop and you need to break free from that program.
/r/seduction03/08/25 10:08 AM
2

In a relationship one party is more interested than the other. In your situation it is you. The ideal situation is the man is less interested it works out better that way. The woman submits to the man. If it was me I wouldn't pursue it any more because the balance of power is not in your favour. You'll have to give an ultimatum or just cool off you may lose her but this isn't sustainable. You need to man up and let her know that your are the man and she is the woman. Either that or find more wom…
/r/seduction03/08/25 03:56 AM
1

I do that actually.
/r/seduction02/08/25 08:04 PM
1

I stand by the bar and look at the girls make eye contact , smile and then they close the gap then I know I can engage. Women are usually pretty receptive to me I just look for an opportunity to say something.
/r/seduction02/08/25 07:59 PM
4

I haven't heard a whistle in years and from what I hear on the media it isn't a thing anymore.
/r/seduction02/08/25 11:34 AM
1

Don't worry about game become good at talking to people. Everything else falls in place.
/r/seduction02/08/25 10:22 AM
1

You are delaying things with AI. Eventually you will have to come up with the goods.
/r/seduction02/08/25 10:20 AM
-2

I agree., only I would say the dumbest thing this year.
/r/seduction02/08/25 10:18 AM
-10

She will likely get asked out or complimented on pretty much daily basis. That's not true.
/r/seduction02/08/25 10:11 AM
1

Mental rehearsal. Practice it in your imagination first imagine a lukewarm outcome , a great outcome and a rejection. Plan for how you will react in each circumstance and the place you will be executing it in. As a musician sometimes I get nervous and I do a mental rehearsal before each gig it works really well. People often comment on my poise and confidence but the reality I've worked out exactly what I'll do in a given circumstance. Same with girls. I'm totally relaxed all the time. Relaxing …
/r/seduction02/08/25 04:57 AM
1

You don't have to approach, just keep a note of the women who tend to be in your proximity and just capitalise on opportunities. You'll notice that in your day to day dealings women are receptive to you. Practise then. I use every opportunity but I'm a pretty social.
/r/seduction01/08/25 11:14 AM
1

Yes that's one but there's loads. I see the same ones repeated every day. Some people who don't know better would say they are just coincidences but really women close themselves off to men in public all the time. Once you recognize it you can't unsee it. I'm stared at constantly some girls in the Internet like to say oh they just are looking at you because of your anomaly but that doesn't matter because the other girls cannot distinguish if they are. In my world women are receptive to me. I per…
/r/seduction01/08/25 03:35 AM
1

When I say chased I mean that they are making it simple for me to be the interact with them.
/r/seduction31/07/25 09:57 PM
1

Introduce some dark traits. Be stoic, control your emotions, be respected by other men, be a man other women want.
/r/seduction30/07/25 08:18 AM
1

Goes against what rules?.
/r/seduction30/07/25 06:27 AM
4

In the big picture of life this is trivial. If she catches you out just own it and dgaf about it.
/r/seduction29/07/25 06:22 PM
3

I'm 6'5.
/r/seduction28/07/25 09:04 PM
65

Being shy isn't the issue. I was painfully shy and introverted and I still had girls chasing after me. What she is saying is that you don't make her feel anything.
/r/seduction28/07/25 04:34 PM
1

That's not how the judge will see it. If you want younger women just talk to ones outside of your work.
/r/seduction28/07/25 04:10 PM
5

The guy who becomes her bff is the one who acts like her bff. Preselection.
/r/seduction28/07/25 01:50 PM
8

This is not a good idea.
/r/seduction28/07/25 11:58 AM
3

Guys spend far too much time self analysing and trying to copy other people when they should just get to know what their strengths are and work from that. Guys online ask me what do I do but the reality I am 6'5 I have a different personality and poise what works for me won't work for you because you aren't me. Its like clothes not every fit or colour works for every single person. The same can be said for the dating coaches. The single best thing you can do is relax and develop inner peace.
/r/seduction27/07/25 06:22 PM
7

FYI: Those "women" are usually gay men.
/r/seduction27/07/25 02:41 PM
5

It wasn't even a hack. They used firebase as the database and that was publicly available. The devs have a lot to answer for.
/r/seduction26/07/25 09:39 PM
6

That's a terrible take.
/r/seduction26/07/25 05:17 PM
1

You're oblivious to it. Your environmental awareness is insufficient. Also a lot of things you would attribute to chance are actually women putting out for you. Women will only look at you if you aren't looking at them. I used to think the same until my friends told me that when I go into rooms all the girls stare at me. If you go about your day and don't look at women you'll see them do different things. I only understand this from the perspective of a very tall man. I've learned the signals th…
/r/seduction26/07/25 05:16 PM
7

He means "selected". If you are that guy you are abundant with options. Be a good guy.
/r/seduction26/07/25 05:07 PM
1

The stories that you tell yourself are the ones that come true. You need to change the script.
/r/seduction26/07/25 01:46 PM
2

elaborate what?
/r/seduction26/07/25 11:16 AM
1

The thing is do the women show interest in you on a day to day basis?. I'm 53 and I've always attracted younger women. I've never really approached. Women just make themselves available to me and I bridge that gap. If you are getting attention then it will be easy. Just watch for the open doors and capitalize on that. It's easier than before for older guys because the young guys out there just are clueless. They have fallen for the liberal agenda and quite a few are weak minded and just not very…
/r/seduction26/07/25 07:39 AM
4

The secret is to make your w's big in your mind and your l's small.
/r/seduction26/07/25 06:15 AM
1

Stop thinking about the past and future and live in the now.
/r/seduction25/07/25 05:01 PM
1

I'm 196cm.
/r/seduction25/07/25 04:59 PM
4

Yup I'm tall and its my method but in reality women come only so close. You have to make the jump to bridge the gap. I tend to hang at the bar and women come near and then turn their body in a totally obvious way.
/r/seduction25/07/25 01:20 PM
2

Number 1 is the approach tall or good looking men utilise.
/r/seduction25/07/25 11:07 AM
1

How tall are you?.
/r/seduction25/07/25 04:21 AM
-40

He's on YT you clown. Google is your friend.
/r/seduction23/07/25 08:12 AM
1

Or they can get something of value I've had that experience as a tall guy girls use me to deter other men. I didn't care because it was 20 and building experience.
/r/seduction21/07/25 06:40 AM
2

It's a great idea. Actors do this all the time that's why they always look and sound cool. Recording yourself reading every day will improve your tonality and also your fluency. I heard that sly Stallone had his daughters read and record themselves every day with they were kids and not only that he put them through a gruelling workout.
/r/seduction21/07/25 02:38 AM
3

Nobody knows. Could be where she's in her cycle. If it's one off then it's fine. The best way to gauge if a girl likes you is to step back a foot. If she automatically follows you she's feeling you. I used to do that to groups of girls as an experiment and all 4 would move their chairs closer to me.
/r/seduction20/07/25 09:26 PM
5

This is precisely why guys should not get annoyed at rejection. After 1 min she's forgotten about you.
/r/seduction20/07/25 09:18 PM
1

Not only in the club do it in the street as well. In general try and gauge how receptive women are to you. Learn to keep your head straight while looking through your peripheral vision. The less you look at them the more they will look at you. Some are really obvious like she will stand right in front of you and flick her hair.
/r/seduction19/07/25 08:39 PM
2

I'm also 6'5 and fit too. I'm older. If you believe you are struggling then you will find it difficult. I'm honestly fine once I have a reason to talk to someone. Tall guys never realise this but if you're in a club that isn't densely packed the girls who are around in your proximity are probably game. In fact you are probably getting IOI's everywhere and youre not aware of it. Once you look for it you can't unsee it. Behaviours that you thought were random are women making themselves available …
/r/seduction19/07/25 04:34 PM
2

Just even entertaining the thought of that you could be interpreted as a creep greatly stunts your success. The better mindset is I am going to talk to this person to see if I like them. Cultivate a warm expression. Creeps are guys that have an ulterior motive for sex many are socially maladjusted in that they don't recognise cues from nervous females. If you are approaching you give them options to back out. You create exits during your convo. I'll give you an example of this: I was out on lunc…
/r/seduction19/07/25 02:43 PM
1

FAFO
/r/seduction19/07/25 02:15 PM
1

I'm also tall at 6'5 I don't have visible abs. I used to be very athletic. At 102 kg I'm a little overweight. The question is were you ever very good ?. If you were then getting back on track shouldn't be too difficult with a mind-set and identity shift.
/r/seduction19/07/25 02:02 PM
3

I think you should go out and talk to women for as long as it takes for you to learn that pointedly using the word 'female' at any point where 'woman' would be grammatically acceptable will do nothing except increase the sale of rape whistles in your immediate vicinity. m0r0n
/r/seduction19/07/25 10:28 AM
2

Men that primarily go for younger women are predators and require to manipulate their partner to stay in committed relationship. I'd like to see some citations on that. Men that primarily go for younger women are predators and require to manipulate their partner to stay in committed relationship. lol. The manipulate word again. Did you read the part where she stated " I decided to have sex with a older man.". Who manipulated who?. Also, older men can be more immature than men your age because my…
/r/seduction18/07/25 04:01 PM
1

I would not under any circumstance travel 3 hrs away to a strange destination with a random girl I barely know. I guess I've travelled enough and had experiences to know better.
/r/seduction18/07/25 03:48 PM
2

Yes. I heard there are much more aggressive cancers post covid vaccine. I'm not vaxxed either. I know so many people that are sick and it just doesn't make sense.
/r/seduction17/07/25 03:47 PM
1

Not going to be a slave for some corp, sell my time for a pay check to pay check job. No thanks. Not worth my time. Plus soon the economy is going to really suffer with all these sick and dying jabbed people. I agree with this actually. Excess deaths in is now a metric. My own mother had heart failure after being healthy pre COVID vaccination. As for women I don't agree. You just have to look out for the right ones. I meet lovely women all the time.
/r/seduction17/07/25 06:55 AM
2

I found that out a long time ago from a guy I used to know who was a thalidomide baby. He was a really charming guy and had very hot girlfriends. It made me realize that being likeable and charismatic was a super power. Having said that as a early 20 yr old I was shy reserved and scared at conversing with girls but still I was a selected man. Girls would follow me around and chat to me. I even got into some relationships. So really I'm not sure.....
/r/seduction17/07/25 05:51 AM
2

I think seduction is when your get someone to do your bidding by persuasion. Charisma is where someone will do your bidding without any coaxing.
/r/seduction17/07/25 05:51 AM
4

Now I can understand why you dont get women.
/r/seduction17/07/25 12:03 AM
0

People here just say looks aren't everything, and that's accurate. Truth. Over the weekend I got stung in the face by a wasp. My chin is all inflamed and still I'm getting IOIs. That's my anecdotal experience.
/r/seduction16/07/25 12:10 PM
0

Is it Marlon from fresh and fit.?
/r/seduction16/07/25 11:41 AM
-2

I'm just under 6'5. I would have a similar experience to him with choosing signals the only difference is I'm pretty introverted. You're correct about presence. I have that. People are constantly staring at me. I never noticed this until a friend told me now I can't unseen. The downside is guys get really jealous and may want to fuck you up. When I was younger I had a squad of really tall rugby player friends but now I don't have that tribe anymore.
/r/seduction16/07/25 11:38 AM
-3

https://youtube.com/shorts/1Crg-Ij7toc?si=KsByBzJDePYOImCH There's your answer.
/r/seduction16/07/25 09:15 AM
2

Most women dress masculine these days and men dress feminine.
/r/seduction15/07/25 08:04 PM
2

in dating, it's the person trying to impress the other person and convince them they're someone they should be fucking. Well you can do that or else be the one who dominates the frame. Talking excessively can be effective. Realistically girls will talk less than the man especially if they're interested.
/r/seduction15/07/25 05:58 AM
1

At 19 I went on a stag with a group of guys and the first night I did badly. One of the older guys said I was too intense. I relaxed it a bit The next night he said I was on fire and it has been like that since.
/r/seduction13/07/25 01:00 PM
0

Self hypnosis
/r/seduction13/07/25 03:32 AM
1

It's interesting what you said. I get the train to and from work. I've noticed that the girls who sit near me or beside are very receptive to conversation. This sounds silly but I think people find their people energetically.
/r/seduction12/07/25 08:02 PM
2

Its not. She's testing your masculinity. For the record women don't generally call men ugly. If you're ugly she will just ignore you. The only way you can know is if you responded. For that you should have a canned answer that demonstrates you are unfazed. One way is to say "are you feeling okay today" or excuse me I didn't get that could you repeat it again. Or "do you like chocolate?". "You look like you do". I get told I look ugly by men frequently. Men are not my demographic so I couldn't go…
/r/seduction12/07/25 05:08 PM
0

not enough data points to reply.
/r/seduction12/07/25 10:28 AM
16

I'm tall and I stand out so I see a lot of signs as I'm going to work. I'm not sure if its height or looks or both but women do look at me so regardless pre-selection comes into play here. I find when I'm walking girls will purposefully divert their path to cross mine. Sometimes you can observe them lose their train of thought when they are talking to their friends. This is apparent when you suprise them but in general a girl has spotted you a long time before you see her. Women are receptive to…
/r/seduction12/07/25 08:37 AM
1

Number 3 you won't know unless someone tells you. I have a friend who tells me girls are constantly are looking at me and if he was me (in his words) he'd ride all around him. I never notice this. I'll see a few women who are overt doing it but nothing to the extent that he says it is.
/r/seduction12/07/25 08:29 AM
1

Life is tough wear a helmet.
/r/seduction10/07/25 07:39 PM
1

you fast from 8PM to 11 AM. Its actually not that hard.
/r/seduction10/07/25 07:38 PM
1

Does that really work?.
/r/seduction10/07/25 06:41 PM
1

proper order.
/r/seduction10/07/25 06:12 PM
-2

You were here for a year. I'm here for 15 years. I know my people. Yes they are friendly but it's superficially friendly. I'm the same I've picked up the culture.
/r/seduction10/07/25 10:20 AM
1

You can fix it easily by intermittent fasting. It will take maybe 16 months but you won't have any issues.
/r/seduction10/07/25 10:00 AM
2

Your not overweight. You are bordering on obese. I'm 6'5 and I'm 2 stone heavier. I'm overweight.
/r/seduction10/07/25 07:18 AM
3

Preference isn't racism.
/r/seduction10/07/25 07:07 AM
-11

I like MAGA.
/r/seduction10/07/25 07:03 AM
3

No, half of India is here and they're not getting any. Even with good jobs.
/r/seduction10/07/25 07:02 AM
2

80% of ethnically Irish people have blue eyes.
/r/seduction10/07/25 07:01 AM
0

You would not believe how women there are starved for affection. We call them shluts.
/r/seduction10/07/25 06:56 AM
-9

Dublin is very dangerous now. Half the third world was let in. We have never seen the things that are normal everyday occurrences before. We never needed police on the streets until now.
/r/seduction10/07/25 06:56 AM
5

That's not true. Irish people on a whole think Americans are gobshites. I'm saying that as an American born Irish person to has integrated so well I'm indistinguishable from the native population.
/r/seduction10/07/25 06:54 AM
3

I've read it just for entertainment really because I've never had the need to do this. I am reading a book now called CAD which virtually has been wiped from existence which is similar to the premise. I actually am interested in PUA because its very applicable to every aspect of life. I've always seen it like a Shakespearean tragedy where things are great and then it goes all downhill. Gaming was nothing I was interested in I've always preferred having women around for longer periods of time. Yo…
/r/seduction27/05/25 11:54 AM
1

Where do you see her?.
/r/seduction27/05/25 11:31 AM
1

Classy
/r/seduction27/05/25 09:33 AM
1

absolutely fucking stupid that. You weren't vulgar either.
/r/seduction27/05/25 07:06 AM
2

lol love it. At least you died on your feet and not on your knees like a man. Respect.
/r/seduction27/05/25 07:05 AM
1

>, I got banned on hinge for foolishly responding to a height comment with a weight comment in return killing my best app and options. is that true ????. Wild. If it was me I wouldn't want to know here and I'm very tall.
/r/seduction26/05/25 06:04 PM
4

Bad idea. Have you talked to these women yet?. If you are a risk taker wait until a social event happens or arrange a social event yourself and use the opportunity.
/r/seduction26/05/25 02:47 PM
0

lol.
/r/seduction26/05/25 01:04 PM
-4

That would not be a question I would ever ask because I know how to pick up women already. I've never had to read a book or watch YT to figure that out.
/r/seduction26/05/25 12:39 PM
-2

What would one ask a woman (that is of course outside of paid professionals namely doctors and solicitors etc ) for advice on exactly ?.
/r/seduction26/05/25 11:55 AM
1

Just ignore her. She's playing a game with you. She has not a good personality if she's doing this. She's seduced you and you have built her up in your mind. If you are doing anything do something that no other man would do.
/r/seduction26/05/25 11:47 AM
5

They're driven by hormones.
/r/seduction26/05/25 08:56 AM
12

exactly.
/r/seduction26/05/25 08:55 AM
5

https://youtu.be/kpZbaz3Wlfw?si=-5ALZMfiLmjEPBNr&t=169
/r/seduction26/05/25 08:54 AM
0

I don't have any female friends for the simple reason female friends will bail on you in a microsecond. I had a friend from my teens who blocked me because I made a slightly racist joke that was offensive to her but funny to everyone including the targeted person. It bothered me because I shared a lot with her and she have known me better. In my early 20s I had lots of women around me and I learned a lot about female nature. My mother dislikes other women and I can see why. I wanted to learn how…
/r/seduction26/05/25 08:44 AM
-13

Have you ever seen the way most women dress ?. Leather jackets 4 sizes too big. Tits hanging out. Dress up to her arse with runners. If I saw an elegant woman I would though. Ask away to get experience but don't listen to them. In general I wouldn't ask a woman advice on anything.
/r/seduction26/05/25 08:26 AM
4

perhaps they never were cool in the first place.
/r/seduction25/05/25 08:06 AM
1

Have you any experience ?. Are you starting from scratch ?. The reality is at 35 most men are at their very best but that's guys who have experience.
/r/seduction21/05/25 03:35 PM
5

Taking action. Another thing nervousness is not a big deal if you own it. Even say I'm a little nervous talking to you because this is not something I do often. I remember walking into a hospital clinic and meeting the hottest trainee pharmacist I've ever seen I instantly became nervous and then she was very nervous so it was two wrecks trying to communicate. I did end up with her because she gave me her pager number.
/r/seduction19/05/25 05:13 PM
1

You need to be good socially before you even consider doing this.
/r/seduction19/05/25 05:08 PM
1

yes. That's what my comment says.
/r/seduction19/05/25 10:32 AM
1

The fact this has to be stated is a sad indication of our times.
/r/seduction18/05/25 11:53 AM
4

I've hung out with bboys and bgirls all through my teens and 20s. I've never been good enough to do it at amateur/ pro level but in a club I am definitely noticed.
/r/seduction18/05/25 11:38 AM
1

Agree. If you knew how many interactions I had to go through with women to learn exactly what is stated here. I learned the hard way by experimenting.
/r/seduction17/05/25 08:03 AM
1

I am nearly 6'5 and what you say is true but I do have a fantastic personality. I have always believed in improving myself no matter how good I perceive I am there is room for improvement.
/r/seduction16/05/25 01:33 PM
2

If your a half decent guy women will just gravitate to you in the club. They'll be in your proximity.
/r/seduction14/05/25 12:14 PM
2

The best way to approach life is to treat it as a game. If you can disassociate all emotional reaction you can survive. Just forgive yourself for making mistakes. Draw a timeline in the middle write the words NOW at the far left write PAST, in the fra right write FUTURE. Cross out both the far left and right and circle NOW. This is a powerful thing to so. Keep that image in your mind. There is absolutely no advantage is being stuck in the future - ( anxiety ) or the past ( regret ) . Unstick you…
/r/seduction14/05/25 10:53 AM
1

Say "Hello".
/r/seduction10/05/25 08:43 AM
1

Why would you care?. Look at it this way, how many guys in your demographic would have girls look at them never mind have sex with them. It's a single percentage.
/r/seduction10/05/25 08:43 AM
1

no
/r/seduction10/05/25 08:39 AM
1

This idea could give you a world of problems. I would just try and work with what you got. There's fantastic women everywhere.
/r/seduction05/05/25 05:18 PM
36

The real key to flirting is to make a girl feel good while creating surface tension in the interaction.
/r/seduction03/05/25 08:54 AM
1

legality has a lot to do with it. Authority has deemed drugs to be such a detriment to a person that they draft laws to outlaw them. On the other hand this isn't the case therefore there is no equivalence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 12:09 PM
0

Go to Marisa peers channel on YT. Learn how to self hypnotise and then listen to scripts or visualise your desired outcome. Do that for a few weeks and you'll have no issues.
/r/seduction27/04/25 12:06 PM
-1

Or molded by toxic feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:48 AM
1

That's an idiotic response. Drugs are illegal in most countries. No comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 06:31 AM
1

1000% true. I've always had girls approach me. I did study PUA and got the mystery Method book but I only read one page of it. If you present yourself a certain way women will be drawn to you.
/r/seduction27/04/25 06:24 AM
0

Self hypnosis.
/r/seduction26/04/25 09:56 PM
1

The truth will set you free.
/r/seduction26/04/25 05:02 PM
8

Nobody is looking at you or validating you. Even she will have forgotten about you in 5 mins.
/r/seduction26/04/25 01:54 PM
6

Watch out in eastern Europe for beautiful girls that want to bring you to a specific venue. You might end up being the one who is gamed.
/r/seduction26/04/25 09:59 AM
1

If you are tall or distinctive in a unique way as you traverse the environment girls will look at you. You can exacerbate this by opening friendly conversations with random girls.
/r/seduction23/04/25 03:08 PM
4

I got that last week. I was at a bar and I turned around and I see a girl behind me smiling with the most insane happy smile. It was very apparent.
/r/seduction23/04/25 06:37 AM
26

The way she looks at you. There's a distinct look that a girl gives you when she's into you.
/r/seduction23/04/25 06:30 AM
1

Behave as you own the place.
/r/seduction22/04/25 02:05 PM
1

They aren't that picky that's a manosphere or colour pill myth. You only have to get away from your video games and basement to realize all guys of all sizes and attributes have a chance in the dating world.
/r/seduction22/04/25 01:22 PM
8

Read how to win friends and influence people. Use that that knowledge to go around shops and talk to all the female assistants. They're great because they have to be nice to you but the exercise is to make you relaxed talking and making eye contact with women. When you get comfortable then you can move the goalpost a bit and experiment.
/r/seduction22/04/25 12:13 PM
1

That's exactly how I did it in 2000s. The friendzone was a buffer for her friends. The trick was to make a girl who was in a relationship like you so much she wanted to set you up with a friend she really liked. It worked like magic. In fact I did it last weekend. I met Brazilian girls one who was in a relationship. She tried to set my up with her friend. The girl wasn't interested but still it was ok.
/r/seduction22/04/25 06:11 AM
3

I've watched his YT vids. He's terrible at pickup. I know English isn't his first language but still the banter doesn't flow.
/r/seduction21/04/25 08:49 PM
2

You made a good decision. Once she feels unsafe its game over. There are two situations with women. One is she's immediately attracted to you and its instantaneous the other is you grow on her by exposure. In you were situ 1 your walk the other day would have sealed the deal. If she talks to you just say "I took your advice and I went to the café and got myself a delicious chocolate cake". While you do this smile. This works because you are engaging her imagination.
/r/seduction21/04/25 09:54 AM
4

From experience I know none of you guys are going to get her.
/r/seduction21/04/25 07:19 AM
1

The people looking for advice nowadays are vastly different from back in the day.
/r/seduction21/04/25 07:08 AM
2

Charismatic and or a Big D.
/r/seduction21/04/25 07:00 AM
2

Nothing wrong there. You stated intent clear but probably too early way before she has the idea of you and her in her mind. Delivery was probably sub par and that's why it was rejected. There is no real come back here. You did it too early before you had rapport. Your neediness is very apparent by your words 30 mins or an hour or 8 hours isn't a long time. Concentrate on your study now. The problem is that if she thinks you are stalking her she will become nervous and maybe disappear. Good thoug…
/r/seduction21/04/25 06:57 AM
3

Do you know how you get confident at this stuff ?. The answer is trying failing and celebrating small successes. In the art of the deal Trump says that when you start having small successes they build into bigger ones and that is the truth especially in dating. To be truthful for your first interaction you did fantastically well. The only mistake you made was the length of your interaction. Inexperienced guys think that at your first interaction you need to really need to protray your best self …
/r/seduction21/04/25 12:14 AM
0

Girls just walk away or ignore me but that's rare because I have charisma..
/r/seduction20/04/25 07:35 AM
1

Haram.
/r/seduction20/04/25 07:12 AM
1

The first three paragraphs are nonsense. Your last three paragraphs is where the wisdom is.
/r/seduction19/04/25 10:32 PM
0

Great answer. As always the best answers are not the up voted ones. Some guys approach from behind that really makes a girl feel vulnerable then they wonder why she told him to f off. I hardly ever get bad reactions but that's because I'm 6'5 and other women are into me.
/r/seduction19/04/25 10:22 PM
9

Don't hate on women.
/r/seduction19/04/25 10:19 PM
3

Let me get this into perspective. If you are a marketing a product and it converts 5% of potential customers to buying customers that's actually a really good campaign.
/r/seduction19/04/25 10:17 PM
1

Its extremely important to approach a woman from where she can see you. You have way better responses if you approach in a slowly. If your energy is off she'll pick up on that too. Even when you think you have everything on point girls will just be mean to you. Less successful guys think Tall, attractive, charismatic, interesting, monetary stable men have 100% success but this is not true. I know because I am one. Of course you'll get better results by reading the room better to gauge womens rea…
/r/seduction19/04/25 08:33 PM
1

I'm working remote for 20 days so I was wondering what city is the best for women, food and cheaper accomodation.
/r/seduction19/04/25 06:42 AM
-1

So did Hitler that's why it's still there.
/r/seduction19/04/25 06:40 AM
1

No issues. Krakow is a student city. The young people speak better English than me and I'm native English speaking. The older folks don't but that's not your demographic here.
/r/seduction19/04/25 06:37 AM
2

I have always attracted girls. Ever since I was 17. I was an awkward nerdy shy person and still girls would be interested in me. I've never had to learn PUA stuff.
/r/seduction18/04/25 05:22 AM
3

I was approached by a fine Swedish girl. She was really nervous.
/r/seduction17/04/25 04:28 PM
1

but I lack the fundamental skills to open up a conversation, and if I do, I don’t know how to keep it flowing properly. So how exactly are you witty and charming ?.
/r/seduction16/04/25 10:52 PM
2

Are you for real??
/r/seduction16/04/25 10:45 PM
1

Keep that for a special moment.
/r/seduction16/04/25 01:44 PM
4

No to flowers. Not for a first date. A first date is just a meeting to see if there's some mutual connection. Don't get too wound up about it.
/r/seduction16/04/25 10:44 AM
1

You're correct you don't have the context therefore you have a lot of missing data points in which you are building up your own hypothesis which is demonstrably incorrect.
/r/seduction15/04/25 08:04 PM
1

You are correct.
/r/seduction15/04/25 06:37 PM
1

There's nothing wrong with that "theory".
/r/seduction15/04/25 06:37 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/7VoLzHaCyvw It takes a lot of bottle to do and you need excellent social skills to execute it. Heres a fantastic example: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wGFx_T9VNDU https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QnY9vHjB9BE
/r/seduction15/04/25 04:07 PM
1

https://youtu.be/xZ0Xdew--H4?si=RKrqNr6wzxedi5Lr
/r/seduction15/04/25 01:32 PM
1

Same here but a lot when I'm out in pubs.
/r/seduction15/04/25 07:01 AM
2

Do you get it every 30 seconds lol.
/r/seduction14/04/25 06:02 PM
2

Learn the rhythm for example in salsa it's 123 rest 567 rest. If you listen to the rhythm on you tube with only a clave and just move to it. Tap it out with your hands and Imprint it in your mind. Once you get that your in a good place.n
/r/seduction14/04/25 05:58 PM
1

Maybe the hallway is the problem.
/r/seduction12/04/25 04:47 PM
1

No need to shame.
/r/seduction12/04/25 11:10 AM
1

You're just their entertainment. You need to get out in real life.
/r/seduction12/04/25 08:28 AM
1

Best answer lol.
/r/seduction11/04/25 05:56 AM
-1

It's going to get annoying pretty quick. You'll have to dive in and dominate the chatter.
/r/seduction10/04/25 09:19 PM
2

Self hypnosis every day. Drinking relaxes you. The same can be done with hypnosis. My trigger to relax is when I see a pretty woman
/r/seduction08/04/25 09:29 PM
1

Select men don't have that issue.
/r/seduction08/04/25 09:28 PM
0

That's not true. Women are approaching, it's just very subtle. She's not going to walk up to you instead she may hover in your general area.
/r/seduction07/04/25 11:00 PM
2

Look up YT and search for elicitation and chase Hughes. It's a CIA technique for getting info without interrogation. https://youtube.com/shorts/gB9Q0Sxbly0?si=ffIvICxB5Vg0Ox1X
/r/seduction07/04/25 09:35 PM
8

The problem is the stigma and stereotyping of the guys who are less competent socially and confident that come across as creepy. If you are a warm guy who respects boundaries there typically isn't an issue. Regardless of what you hear on subs women are always checking out men.
/r/seduction07/04/25 09:25 PM
1

The ONLY way to see it.
/r/seduction07/04/25 09:22 PM
2

Correct that's the problem today back in the past a teen would have to go through a ceremony to establish he was a man. Nowadays there's nothing. If you can pull apart an engine and rebuild your going to be 1000% more confident than the other guy.
/r/seduction07/04/25 09:22 PM
1

Exactly
/r/seduction07/04/25 09:17 PM
3

As you go about your day use open doors to talk to women. In shops make small talk. The purpose is to become likeable. When you become likeable then you have status especially if people notice you and want to talk to you. Talk to everyone.
/r/seduction07/04/25 09:13 PM
1

The mystery Method is an algorithm. Algorithms rarely are compatible with human interactions. Also Mystery is 6'5 and by default he probably has more options than the guys he was coaching. I bought the mystery Method when it came out. I read 3 pages and I never looked at it since. One of the pages was the Iois which was useful.
/r/seduction07/04/25 04:28 PM
2

Awful lines. Lead with statements instead. Look up elicitation.
/r/seduction07/04/25 09:07 AM
0

Go to the bar and look across the bar. If I see someone interesting I'll smirk at her turn my head. Then look back again.
/r/seduction07/04/25 12:58 AM
1

You overthink too much.
/r/seduction07/04/25 12:53 AM
1

You don't give a lot of data points to work from. In that case one must speculate.
/r/seduction06/04/25 04:33 PM
2

It happens. I learned the hard way too but I was actually meeting in person. When you talk to enough women you'll know exactly what to say. my text game is bad too but that's not how I snare women.
/r/seduction06/04/25 12:32 PM
14

You should never ask that EVER. Assume you are attractive because she's talking to you. It's that simple.
/r/seduction06/04/25 12:23 PM
1

You're the one with all the rage. ;-) with your girly response. Did I trigger your oestrogen levels?. Testosterone in your veins is a good thing. For a man testosterone is life. You should try it some time.
/r/seduction06/04/25 12:05 PM
-7

Life is hard wear a helmet. People nowadays like to externalize their problems like women constantly blame men for their problems. Another thing is going to see a therapist. That's externalizing and placing the onus on the said individual to solve your issues. People who are successful don't externalize their failings. Taking full accountability for everything that happens to you is a very powerful thing. People who do not socialize and play games all day class their issues as autism. ADHD is a …
/r/seduction06/04/25 08:18 AM
6

Practise. Iron sharpens Iron.
/r/seduction05/04/25 06:12 PM
4

A trainer is going to hype you up and you may do well for the time you are with them but when you go back to normality you will realise you wasted money and more importantly time. Trainers only work for people who are nearly there and need small push.
/r/seduction05/04/25 06:09 PM
6

I wouldn't say so. You probably just are too well preened. Women feel insecure around guys who they perceive as higher value than them. I use to spend ages getting ready , now I don't bother so much.
/r/seduction05/04/25 03:35 PM
1

You're afraid because its in your hardwiring to keep your self safe. As an adult you need to break that script and rewire your brain with a script that says you are good to approach a girl. Everybody has this issue and overcomes it. You're not alone. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eqmUBrgnEHg
/r/seduction05/04/25 02:57 PM
20

Rizz is a terrible word. Charisma is the correct one. Charisma is being engaging being magnetic and captivating. Very few women have that. Yes they can be alluring and sexy but thats not charisma.
/r/seduction05/04/25 12:24 AM
3

You're obviously a select man. I get the same but I've worked hard on my social skills. Young girls don't smile at people they find creepy.
/r/seduction04/04/25 04:36 PM
4

I'm 50 and every single night I go out I get invitations from women half my age and less. The last night I was out a group of girls started talking to me and this isn't an isolated experience. I actually ignore women all the time but it doesn't stop them. I am very tall and semi athletic so that all helps. Just go out and be a cool guy. If you're worried about being a creep don't bother because you aren't going to give the vibe out that's effective.
/r/seduction04/04/25 04:36 PM
1

yes.
/r/seduction04/04/25 04:24 PM
1

You need to become observant. Look at the girl and observe everything and try to come up with an original line. By the answers here virtually no one here knows how to actually talk to women in interesting and original ways. I had a convo with a girl about air fryers today. There's millions of ways to talk to girls. Spanish girls said hi to me the other and I responded no gables Espanol. I learned it the other night. The reality of openers is that if she likes you it's going to be very easy. If I…
/r/seduction02/04/25 10:18 PM
5

You're not a natural so but in your defence if you have to lie in a hospital bed for two weeks you may need to learn how to walk again. The trick is to to do a little bit each day.
/r/seduction02/04/25 04:31 PM
1

Definitely not on a reddit sub. Lol You don't find these people they find you.
/r/seduction02/04/25 08:33 AM
1

Anxiety is just thinking about the future in a negative way. Just focus on the now. I self hypnotise and set triggers so that when I meet girls I relax instead of get nervous.
/r/seduction02/04/25 05:14 AM
1

This has to be the dumbest post I've read in ages. The reality there are far fewer chads than you think this is a social media construct. If you are a cool relaxed guy with baseline looks you will go far. I'm 6'5 not model looking but still distinctive enough to draw women to me.
/r/seduction01/04/25 02:11 PM
25

How to win friends and influence people.
/r/seduction01/04/25 02:10 PM
30

Major L to bring apples to the orchard.
/r/seduction31/03/25 12:22 PM
1

If you're a player then 9/10 you don't mean it. That defines a player.
/r/seduction31/03/25 05:22 AM
1

The best advice here is always on the lower rated comments.
/r/seduction30/03/25 09:18 AM
2

You use weed. I use self hypnosis. Same effect.
/r/seduction30/03/25 08:07 AM
1

Manipulative.
/r/seduction30/03/25 08:05 AM
2

That makes sense. I can see why you can't get her now. You choose the easy lay over the girl you allegedly like a lot. The mind boggles.
/r/seduction30/03/25 08:05 AM
0

Just go out and talk to people I mean EVERYONE. Talking to people and improving means you become likeable and charismatic which makes women gravitate to you.
/r/seduction30/03/25 07:52 AM
2

Yes it was bad. I was previously very healthy. I hiked a lot and was very physically fit. I only started hiking last week again exactly one year later. Back to you. You're content. That's what I say to people. Only children are happy all the time. The comments about dopamine crash are 1000% true. You're in a good place believe it or not. Every now and again you'll slip. I'm pretty confident but every now and again I'll feel everything is out of control then reframe. Be grateful, practice gratitu…
/r/seduction30/03/25 07:41 AM
5

That's not depression. Depression is being able to do absolutely nothing. I had it post COVID and I spent 4 weeks getting up everyday going down to the living room and staring at the wall for hours. It's all over now but when I'm slipping out of dream state in the morning I feel that feeling you have for about 5 mins. I think it's because my dreams are really scary. I'm no psychotherapist but I effectively do self hypnosis. My thinking here is that you could have unresolved subconscious issues t…
/r/seduction29/03/25 10:59 AM
1

This is a really poor mindset. Women are not responsible for your happiness. Take accountability.
/r/seduction28/03/25 04:05 PM
3

Guys who can talk do better with women. I don't know what to say. The mind boggles.
/r/seduction28/03/25 11:15 AM
2

Noooo
/r/seduction28/03/25 11:13 AM
5

Practicing walking like a general. Women do notice it.
/r/seduction27/03/25 04:07 PM
1

It's never happened to me ever.
/r/seduction26/03/25 06:33 PM
1

I'm the opposite. I'm exponentially better when I'm sober.
/r/seduction26/03/25 03:58 PM
41

In cold approach yes but if you spend a while with them they could warm to you over a period of time. Generally a girl decides if she wants to have sex with you in a few seconds.
/r/seduction25/03/25 11:03 AM
1

>. She ignored you or quickly rejected you Thats not a brutal rejection even the "chads" get that.
/r/seduction24/03/25 05:26 PM
3

A BMW is a brokies car.
/r/seduction24/03/25 12:27 PM
1

Simples.
/r/seduction22/03/25 09:40 PM
1

Your main problem is your life has been so comfortable you don't know what real problems are.
/r/seduction21/03/25 11:15 PM
2

Learn the rhythm first it's 1-2-3 5-6-7 Beat 4 and 8 are rest steps. Tap it out with your hand. https://youtu.be/l2tC8F9txq4?si=4Wo-VN8iWf43U46_ https://youtu.be/q5FOwr-jDwQ?si=bIIvnPAMUZMoGaP8
/r/seduction21/03/25 10:55 PM
2

The people who post here are clueless.
/r/seduction21/03/25 06:12 AM
-1

If you want to learn. Watch Craig Fergusons clips from. You tube. https://youtu.be/qV63s6fsx6I?si=dP6XeqqVA_SQ924q
/r/seduction20/03/25 10:37 PM
4

Intent
/r/seduction20/03/25 10:20 PM
1

try talking to her........
/r/seduction20/03/25 11:28 AM
6

Putting sodium laryl sulphate on your skin is not a good idea. Just wash your face .
/r/seduction19/03/25 07:02 PM
3

That's no flex.
/r/seduction17/03/25 08:02 PM
1

I was once or twice back in the day but didn't get tested because the girls then weren't the prostitutes they are now.
/r/seduction17/03/25 07:59 PM
1

Depends on the guy and his comfort on his environment.
/r/seduction17/03/25 07:50 PM
2

You don't go out with women you just find a very attractive one talk for a while and end on good vibes. Or you can be a guy that has perceived preselection he's tall or handsome or both and girls check him out which sets the ball rolling.
/r/seduction17/03/25 07:49 PM
-3

Very few men have #3. It's manifested in society in the people who manage they surrender to idiotic ideology like wokeness etc. Very few men will stand up and give a controversial opinion. It's weak and lacking in masculinity. If you are a man who displays this he will most definitely stand out and have hardship.
/r/seduction17/03/25 08:45 AM
1

Does she come into your proximity often?.
/r/seduction16/03/25 10:02 AM
2

You are wasting money.
/r/seduction16/03/25 08:36 AM
6

Nope. Any gen Z girl will take better photos and realistic ones.
/r/seduction15/03/25 10:10 AM
1

As always the best comment is the lowest up voted.
/r/seduction15/03/25 01:17 AM
2

I'm bored reading your post.
/r/seduction14/03/25 09:37 AM
1

You have to find your tribe. My tribe was street dancers, producers and musicians. Find people like you. Move into a house share situation. I've lived with loads of girls in my early 20s. You are very young, a lot is going to change in the next 6 years for you. I didn't have a tonne of friends when I was younger and I still don't. Friends come and go especially one they get married and have kids. If you have good energy, a very funny guy and attractive then there's no issue here.
/r/seduction14/03/25 09:34 AM
1

This is the problem with today. He's sad. You need to fucking stop acting like helpless children and be men. There are plenty of legitimate reasons to be depressed. One of them is post covid. I've been there I've looked into the abyss. If you have PTSD post natal too is another but not being able to get a woman isn't one of them. Life is tough, wear a helmet.
/r/seduction14/03/25 09:17 AM
-1

Watch the language which you speak to yourself. i have good energy, i’m a very funny guy, im attractive. Good Affirmation. More of this. This is the frame you need to adopt when you approach girls. they’d think i was trying to pick them up and instantly go on the defensive. and i feel like if i were to preface by saying something like “i’m just looking for friends”, they wouldn’t believe it anyway so why even try you know? Assumption based on no empirical or anecdotal evidence. The whole idea of…
/r/seduction14/03/25 08:35 AM
1

Just say I would if I would if I were a socially intrepid person.
/r/seduction13/03/25 07:05 AM
1

10 is subjective I would a woman with tattoos not a 10 ever. A 9 or a 10 is a Victoria secrets model.
/r/seduction12/03/25 10:46 AM
-2

I self hypnotise and and suggest that when I talk to a girl I'll become relaxed which works magic ✨.
/r/seduction12/03/25 10:45 AM
2

Being confident with who I am.
/r/seduction11/03/25 11:10 AM
1

Sometimes women just use guys as entertainment.
/r/seduction10/03/25 01:07 PM
2

True. If you're a person who authentically carries yourself as a likeable person then you'll never be asked that question.
/r/seduction09/03/25 07:24 AM
1

Any girl who is not a Victoria secrets model is fair game to me.
/r/seduction09/03/25 07:05 AM
1

Exactly that the key be present.
/r/seduction08/03/25 08:24 AM
1

Self hypnosis will fix this.
/r/seduction08/03/25 08:23 AM
0

I would just make a face back and smirk at her. Just say your friends bailed on you. Just to be transparent It's never happened to me.
/r/seduction08/03/25 08:17 AM
1

Paul McKenna's scripts are better.
/r/seduction07/03/25 11:04 PM
1

You can fix that easily with self hypnosis. Set a trigger so that gives you the desired response. No improv no nothing just pure subconscious power.
/r/seduction07/03/25 06:03 PM
1

You remind me of being a BMW owner. I'll replace the coils nah didn't fix the issue. $200Plugs, $100 MAF sensor, $400 injectors $3000 Head gasket $2000 and still you haven't fix the problem. You could spend 10K and still not be able to pull meanwhile some construction worker is out there barely showering doing fantastic.
/r/seduction07/03/25 05:56 PM
1

The first thing to do is walk right into her line of sight pause look for an imaginary friend , walk slowly and see if she's receptive.
/r/seduction07/03/25 05:53 PM
2

That's your opinion and not a fact.
/r/seduction07/03/25 05:51 PM
3

And the thing is you don't have to be good. I used to hang with bboys and I learned a few things that mesmerised women.
/r/seduction07/03/25 05:50 PM
8

Even if you prance about like Trump does you'll still get female attention because of the confidence you display.
/r/seduction07/03/25 05:48 PM
1

It's a state change. You can do the same with self hypnosis.
/r/seduction05/03/25 09:15 AM
11

Amsterdam
/r/seduction04/03/25 11:30 AM
1

Depends on your mindset and how well you blend with younger people.
/r/seduction03/03/25 03:31 PM
1

If you plan to go to slovakia do not watch the film hostel. I'm glad I didn't see it before I'm went.
/r/seduction03/03/25 03:25 PM
3

Spam
/r/seduction03/03/25 03:19 PM
1

Lol what did I just read. Elon Musks latest baby mama is a YT influencer. Get off your fecking high horse.
/r/seduction03/03/25 08:17 AM
1

Yes I was an amateur swimmer. I was not jacked. It didn't really matter because then every single teen of both sexes were in shape. Overweight people were rare. I'm 6'5. I think I'm mid but considering some of the women who like me I'm in not sure. My mother said I was handsome when I was a teen.A girl publicly humiliated me and called me ugly once. It hurt me for a long time. Looking back I was pretty ok more pretty boy looking than masculine but my physicality made me masculine. I'm different.…
/r/seduction03/03/25 07:58 AM
1

I wouldn't say that. I was the same at 18. Everywhere I went at least a few girls would be into me and the strange thing is I'm way older and things are just the same. It's has always been easy for me. Any night I go out women way younger try to get my attention. If you consistently attract women then you are a select man.
/r/seduction03/03/25 07:43 AM
4

He needs to ask chatGPT to find out..
/r/seduction03/03/25 07:30 AM
0

Some men always win because they have greater confidence, self belief and drive than others.
/r/seduction02/03/25 06:55 PM
1

Although this is AI its actually good. I live by this.
/r/seduction02/03/25 10:27 AM
1

fair enough.
/r/seduction02/03/25 09:54 AM
1

If you are getting the 'bf' line a lot you are coming on too strong. I never get it but in a way it's not great because I can talk to women for a long time before they tell me.
/r/seduction02/03/25 07:58 AM
-71

Say please and I will.
/r/seduction02/03/25 07:51 AM
1

Its probably because you didn't really solidify a connection. It's hard to do because you have to be unique and memorable. One thing that is never stressed on this sub is that women's temperament can change a lot in a very short space of time. If you are used to dealing with specific women they can be deliriously happy on a Monday. Meet her on a Tuesday and they'll give you the bitchiest attitude and on Wednesday they could be in tears. Don't take it personal.
/r/seduction01/03/25 08:54 PM
1

Dominance is easy. I am the man and you are a woman. if you project that attitude women will submit to you as a natural reaction.
/r/seduction01/03/25 05:42 PM
8

That's not true.
/r/seduction01/03/25 09:12 AM
1

I'll tell you what to do and its simple. Do you go to the same bar frequently?. In bed right before you go to sleep imagine seeing that girl and walking up not directly to her. Position yourself close to her within 5 feet or so. Look at the bar person then turn to look at her , make eye contact and I'm her imagination see her smile back then imagine her closing the gap and walking up to you and you talking to her. Imagine yourself surrounded by the most beautiful girls you can dream of and they …
/r/seduction01/03/25 08:59 AM
1

Nothing really. Guess I'm lucky. I've always attracted women with little effort since age 17. Even when I was a total nerd with glasses full of doubts and shy they still went for me. I lived with girls and their friends unbeknown to me we're into me and they used to always come up to the house to see me. I don't know how I did and still can do it. I've gotten better and funnier and rejection is very rare.
/r/seduction01/03/25 08:46 AM
1

Improve on what you have. The power is within.
/r/seduction28/02/25 12:55 PM
1

The website wasn't great. It was pure promotion. The book has everything.
/r/seduction27/02/25 10:20 AM
15

generic.
/r/seduction27/02/25 10:02 AM
1

Nope. I'm very tall so people treat me as dominant but not all tall guys are like this. Its mindset. To women a man who is feared or respected by other men is sexy that's my experience.
/r/seduction27/02/25 10:00 AM
4

The main component of skin cream is sodium laryl sulphate thats engine degreaser. Think about it.
/r/seduction27/02/25 09:57 AM
2

Dominance.
/r/seduction26/02/25 09:04 PM
0

the body language project.
/r/seduction26/02/25 09:01 PM
0

If you want to change your life you have to make sacrifices. You giving up gaming will signify to your unconscious you're serious about changing your circumstances.
/r/seduction26/02/25 07:52 PM
1

Lose the weight first step. Stop playing video games and do more creative interactive hobbies. Playing guitar guitar or piano is a million times better than gaming.
/r/seduction26/02/25 08:47 AM
0

You don't know me. Trust me you are going to learn the hard way.
/r/seduction26/02/25 08:39 AM
-1

You are going to find out the hard way. Women are not sugar and spice. They want a man not a fan.
/r/seduction26/02/25 06:27 AM
1

Women are very easy to talk to The trick is to throw logic out the window. If a girl like you she'll just play along.
/r/seduction25/02/25 10:50 PM
1

It really simple. Guys communicate with women like they are other men. That's why guys send dic pics. They assume women would like it because they would like it. It's explained well here https://youtube.com/shorts/siyykDCUKX8?si=YKX2FqpvgmXV-UN2
/r/seduction25/02/25 10:48 PM
1

The PUA method was developed for socially inept and autistic people. Normal guys don't need this.
/r/seduction25/02/25 06:18 PM
5

Beta. ........
/r/seduction25/02/25 03:08 PM
1

Let me tell you. You suffer more in imagination than reality. Go for it.
/r/seduction24/02/25 02:51 PM
3

Lol
/r/seduction24/02/25 02:33 PM
1

Women are usually drunk on nights out. They probably forget who you are unless you make a really good impression.
/r/seduction24/02/25 02:32 PM
2

It's actually all about being a man that girls perceive to be attractive to other girls. I was tall, nice guy and shy and I always attracted beautiful women. I once got rejected but a girl who said I was too skinny so after that I bulked up as lot. I was painfully shy and some of my early girlfriends I didn't even talk to much. These days I'm more of an a hole than then but that's because I have options and women know that. According to this sub I should not be a guy thats successful with women.…
/r/seduction24/02/25 08:50 AM
-2

As a mature man I can say all the best answers here are the down voted ones.
/r/seduction24/02/25 08:39 AM
1

https://youtube.com/shorts/q0j6Lz_1VoA?si=lN60Ey3Z9kiVHlrA
/r/seduction23/02/25 03:43 PM
0

Set boundaries. Tell her exactly what you do not tolerate. If it's me I say "look it you're into rosters and dating multiple men at once then I'm not for you I don't do it and I don't want a gf who has that attitude". Just say if you do x then we are done. It's really that simple.
/r/seduction23/02/25 08:53 AM
1

Some guys have it and others don't.
/r/seduction22/02/25 07:14 PM
3

Agree. I get groups of girls approaching me on nights out.
/r/seduction22/02/25 06:49 PM
-1

Women that age are easy to get.
/r/seduction22/02/25 06:39 AM
3

>I have plenty of begineer oriented posts, you can skip this one for now. LOOOOOOOOOOL
/r/seduction21/02/25 08:37 PM
0

Einstein
/r/seduction21/02/25 08:36 PM
-3

We understand it perfectly well. You'd swear by your arrogance that you are the only guy on planet earth that knows how to get women.
/r/seduction21/02/25 08:29 PM
1

That's good. Hitting on every woman is not something you would do in any setting. I intuitively know the women who like me. Usually they will place themselves near me. Or sometimes when I walk up to a woman I'll know straight away from her reaction. I'm preselected so its not difficult for me to find nice women. If I see a group of women looking my way and smiling I'm going there.
/r/seduction21/02/25 07:09 AM
2

Exactly but a lot of people here seem to have social ineptness.
/r/seduction20/02/25 09:09 PM
1

If women think you're a creep then youre shite with women. I've never been called a creep in my life. I did make one or two women uncomfortable when I started off but nowadays I have no issues there.
/r/seduction20/02/25 09:05 PM
2

This is so true. I can start convo's with women anywhere. If your vibe is good and safe women will cross your path.
/r/seduction20/02/25 09:02 PM
1

Talk to people everywhere you go. It's really that simple.
/r/seduction20/02/25 08:04 AM
1

Lol
/r/seduction20/02/25 08:03 AM
0

Noo
/r/seduction20/02/25 08:02 AM
1

Playing with you. I would cut ties because there's nothing respect there.
/r/seduction20/02/25 05:43 AM
1

Practice talking first. Flirting done badly or with little self awareness can be problematic.
/r/seduction19/02/25 09:31 AM
2

25.5 seconds.
/r/seduction19/02/25 06:06 AM
1

Your uncle probably has heard of PUA. PUA is about 30 years in existence and in 2000 was pretty well publicized. Also if you are around women a lot you figure a lot of things out. That being said my father knows about affirmations and positive thinking even though he doesn't know what it means. He always says everything will work out in the end. That's exactly what Louise Hay said years ago. The thing is these things existed long before they had a name.
/r/seduction19/02/25 06:01 AM
0

Go to Tenerife
/r/seduction19/02/25 05:50 AM
0

You have to learn to be social with everyone. Talking to girls is not different to talking to anybody else. You have to increase your charisma and likeability. If you are good at talking then you will automatically be good at talking with women.
/r/seduction19/02/25 05:49 AM
-5

Cringe
/r/seduction19/02/25 05:38 AM
2

Money
/r/seduction18/02/25 11:09 PM
1

You do know you can say anything to girls no matter how ridiculous because women don't process logic like we do. It's easy to talk to them and even impress them in person.
/r/seduction18/02/25 10:10 PM
1

I meditated for years then I discovered I could get the same results with 10 mins of self hypnosis.
/r/seduction17/02/25 06:40 PM
1

Yes. Just go where girls are, smile and laugh and you're gold. People complicate things by accepting the terrible takes on this sub and the "pill" media.
/r/seduction17/02/25 01:08 PM
1

You mean you can't go through 115 pages.
/r/seduction16/02/25 11:29 PM
1

Self hypnosis.
/r/seduction16/02/25 07:49 PM
1

Yes I can verify this from experience.
/r/seduction15/02/25 04:47 PM
1

https://youtube.com/shorts/siyykDCUKX8?si=wU1ddSdDda-dG4DU
/r/seduction15/02/25 01:07 PM
-1

Don't ask questions. Recall experiences and watch her reciprocate.
/r/seduction15/02/25 07:44 AM
1

Just walk on. Opportunity doesn't always present itself. Every guy will understand. It's no big deal.
/r/seduction15/02/25 07:42 AM
6

I'm going to talk to this girl to see if I like her enough to date.
/r/seduction14/02/25 05:46 PM
4

Hate to say it but if the vast majority of girls approaching you are not attractive then that's your lane.
/r/seduction13/02/25 10:22 AM
0

Dumb
/r/seduction12/02/25 10:12 PM
0

Watch Trump and you'll get it.
/r/seduction12/02/25 10:10 PM
0

You have a typical defeatist attitude. You may not become the person you model but you will be the best version of you.
/r/seduction12/02/25 10:07 PM
1

So true if you told your friends you have a rotation they would the think you are weird. Even the girls have unspoken rules too.
/r/seduction12/02/25 01:09 PM
1

Have blue eyes and you're gold.
/r/seduction12/02/25 12:02 PM
5

It's because you are a higher value man than most. Women who are truly into guys don't act like children.
/r/seduction12/02/25 06:33 AM
2

Well 8 9 10 is subjective. Your 10 is my 6. This is real life. Reddit is an echo chamber of people reiterating garbage programming. The chill energy is easy to exhibit. You can do it by meditation or quickly by SH.
/r/seduction12/02/25 06:29 AM
0

I recovered in 5 seconds because I've had real problems in life.
/r/seduction11/02/25 06:07 PM
1

I never compliment actually and if I do it's very indirect. A compliment is pointless when there's no rapport built. Say anything. She talked to you first which means she's receptive. The only no no is tell a girl she's tall. They just don't like it.
/r/seduction11/02/25 09:56 AM
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Yes it is. It happens to me all the time. I'm very tall 6'5 so girls bump into me so I notice them. I didn't know either until I saw this short. When it does happen which is about 3 or 4 different women every night I just talk to them. https://youtube.com/shorts/3b6GB-cU4Xo?feature=shared
/r/seduction10/02/25 10:22 PM
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Because it's easy. Cold approach is talking to women. I think dating apps are stupid because they have no mystery. Walk around the place make eye contact with girls you like and see if they are receptive. It's easy to spot the ones who are attracted to you.
/r/seduction10/02/25 10:15 PM
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The thing is I didn't realise it. Other girls would make snide remarks about my girlfriends that I didn't know I had. Also in work every girl knew my name even though I had never talked to them. First day in a job a girl tells me she knew me in kindergarten even though that was impossible. Girls appearing in my proximity. I'm older now and I still have it. I don't go out socially much now but every night I do I'll always have a girl or group of girls approaching me.
/r/seduction08/02/25 10:29 PM
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Some guys have it right from teens. I'm one of them. Its weird that I always had women interested whether I was rich had a car or whatever.
/r/seduction08/02/25 05:47 PM
3

Mother jokes are so puerile.
/r/seduction05/02/25 11:23 PM
4

The number one cue is observe the girl with a guy she isn't attracted to and then bring a guy she fancies into the mix. The reaction is entirely different. If she is outgoing then she may become shy. If she's shy she may become bold but it's not set in stone because each and every woman is different. A girl who is flirting you will laugh excessively. She will diminish her value in your presence. If she's a mensa person she won't tell you. For example I met a girl who said she worked in IT she sa…
/r/seduction04/02/25 12:03 PM
24

1000%. I don't remember a single experience of ONS but I do remember when I had supermodel like girlfriends that I had a fantastic bond with.
/r/seduction04/02/25 06:28 AM
1

Who is this clown 🤡
/r/seduction03/02/25 11:26 PM
0

You are completely missing the point.
/r/seduction03/02/25 10:58 AM
1

the first thing is to move where she can see you then go for it. Say Hi.
/r/seduction03/02/25 10:53 AM
2

The game changer was your confidence skyrocketed. It has nothing to do with your dental aesthetics. $1700 is actually very miniscule for aesthetic treatment. Learn to control your state and you don't need this.
/r/seduction03/02/25 10:50 AM
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There is no other version of me. I am me. I didn't learn tricks etc. I've always been attractive to women so being me works. I've improved incrementally over the years. Instead of asking random people how to navigate the dating world I experimented. PUA isn't just good for dating it's applicable to every real life interaction.
/r/seduction03/02/25 08:06 AM
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Don't be a spastic just lose it slowly. Even if you only lose 30 kg it will make a world of difference. Just cut all sugar from your diet for a start. For the love of God stop making excuses why you are in the position you are in. There are people who are worse than you in life. Be grateful for what you have because you don't have real problems. You don't live in a war zone with no running water and you have sanitation facilities. You can walk and talk and breathe clean air. The reality is your …
/r/seduction03/02/25 07:11 AM
2

Yes it may. I lost 30kg but I lost it over 18 months and I didn't have any.
/r/seduction02/02/25 10:46 PM
2

You can do that but youre going to have loose skin and that isn't attractive.
/r/seduction02/02/25 04:57 PM
2

Intermittent fasting will drop the weight. It will take 2 years.
/r/seduction02/02/25 08:51 AM
1

preselected by women.
/r/seduction01/02/25 07:18 PM
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Next.....
/r/seduction01/02/25 05:56 PM
1

This is untrue if you are a select man.
/r/seduction01/02/25 05:51 PM
1

Look at her like she is the love of your life.
/r/seduction01/02/25 08:37 AM
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ever hear of google.
/r/seduction01/02/25 08:05 AM
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6 months lol. Come back in 20 years.
/r/seduction01/02/25 08:04 AM
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You shouldn't be scared. If you are really doing it in the gym you should have fire in your belly.
/r/seduction31/01/25 04:07 PM
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I'm not arguing because there is no argument. I am correct by every metric.
/r/seduction31/01/25 09:55 AM
0

You can do the same thing listening to YT on NDE. Visualising bad things is not advised.
/r/seduction31/01/25 06:54 AM
2

Women like that are potentially dangerous in my experience.
/r/seduction31/01/25 06:43 AM
1

How many dates have you gone on?
/r/seduction31/01/25 06:38 AM
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Don't ever do this. Thoughts become things. Imagine yourself as having the most fantastic life ever.
/r/seduction31/01/25 06:34 AM
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There is. Self hypnosis is really effective. You go into trance and set a trigger for you to be relaxed when you talk to women.
/r/seduction31/01/25 06:32 AM
2

Models is just a synopsis of what you learn when you date about 50 or 60 women. It's a good book to impart all that knowledge but it's far more fun to learn it yourself as a gradual learning process.
/r/seduction31/01/25 06:30 AM
2

You have to learn how to converse with people before you can talk to girls.
/r/seduction31/01/25 06:26 AM
2

Holding frame is just being stoic. There is no holding anything. If you are a cool guy you will be a cool guy in all situations.
/r/seduction29/01/25 05:33 PM
1

He doesn't either.
/r/seduction29/01/25 05:21 PM
1

You need to write more than two lines.
/r/seduction29/01/25 05:17 PM
1

pass
/r/seduction28/01/25 06:36 PM
1

I would not worry about it. Everybody gets it regardless of how attractive you are. Sometimes girls do these things as dares. Either way she's a disgusting individual who delights in trying to manipulate people.
/r/seduction28/01/25 01:32 PM
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I only know W's.
/r/seduction28/01/25 01:29 PM
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Take it from me. If youre tall and reasonably attractive every city is good.
/r/seduction28/01/25 01:25 PM
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I had a girl from Tokyo meet me in Liverpool. I would disagree with your statement.
/r/seduction28/01/25 01:23 PM
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Just go out and meet people instead of this bullshit thinking. It's not hard.
/r/seduction26/01/25 08:21 AM
1

Visualize yourself as a lion. Anyway it's hard to know unless we saw you because your whole style demeanor may be off.
/r/seduction26/01/25 08:14 AM
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I remember being in a date and getting into an altercation with a guy. The girls was visibly impressed.
/r/seduction26/01/25 08:12 AM
-1

Forget about FWB. Concentrate on one girl. You are not connecting because the energy you are putting out is in conflict with the ones you meet. You want a long term relationship go after that.
/r/seduction26/01/25 08:02 AM
1

Not true. You can gain muscle mass by visualising.
/r/seduction23/01/25 09:16 PM
1

Virtually every thing in this Sub that is voted highly. The best advice has the lowest votes because they're not telling you what you want to hear but what is a reality.
/r/seduction23/01/25 09:15 PM
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I'm 6'5 I can confirm it's easier but not as easy as you would think.
/r/seduction23/01/25 09:03 PM
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Nice. If you have blue eyes you are set. Even attached women will stare into your eyes. Its a bit unsettling actually.
/r/seduction18/01/25 09:39 AM
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Guys don't realize no matter how unattractive they think they are there is a few really attractive girls that like them.
/r/seduction17/01/25 05:15 PM
2

You can do the very same thing by walking down the street with her. If you are genuinely pre selected women will be looking at you.
/r/seduction14/01/25 05:52 PM
0

I am not your mom.
/r/seduction12/01/25 02:06 PM
0

Pretend you're James Bond. Watch clips of him being stoic and recreate.
/r/seduction12/01/25 09:37 AM
1

The proof is going out there and proving it for yourself instead of lame posts in Reddit.
/r/seduction12/01/25 09:34 AM
1

I had an experience where I was in a hospital and i walked into a clinic. I saw in front of me the finest girl I have ever seen. She was a pharmacist about 5'9 -10 dressed really elegant and really feminine . My first reaction was too get extremely nervous she got nervous and both of us were like wrecks. I got out of the office fast. I swore I would never let that happen ever again. I had another clinic visit and as it turned out I had the same girl ,this time she was dressed like she was going …
/r/seduction11/01/25 08:03 PM
0

Mental rehearsal will work better.
/r/seduction11/01/25 07:19 PM
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Walk up and say hi .
/r/seduction10/01/25 07:50 AM
1

Just go to Stirling cooper yt channel and watch his vids.
/r/seduction10/01/25 07:43 AM
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I'm also 6'5 only I'm older. Been there. Tall people are different to everyone else we stand out and some of us are preselected. I would avoid hook ups. Go after quality women because you can get them. When I was 23 girls would approach me all the time in work out in pubs and clubs. I was painfully shy. I did a few ons with girls I still know, one passed away last year and it was devastating. My advice is to up the bar make yourself a high status male and go after quality women. I've always went…
/r/seduction10/01/25 07:39 AM
1

Who is this clown?
/r/seduction09/01/25 01:19 AM
1

I would never so that. Usually 2 girls together are not looking for a third wheel.
/r/seduction08/01/25 08:38 PM
1

And you looked for her on social media....... Weird.
/r/seduction08/01/25 09:04 AM
1

The way you analyze things is not very masculine. You need to just take it on the chin and her out of your head.
/r/seduction08/01/25 08:48 AM
1

Its astonishing to me that every nuance is posted here. No one can actually problem solve. Its weird. Well I have never experienced that girls always come back.
/r/seduction08/01/25 08:45 AM
1

Yes that's in the game. I don't use props ever. My openers are patterns I say that are unique to me and probably useless for other people. I talk to people like people. I have developed them from talking to tonnes of women over the years. I have a unique take. In fact I figured them out from attending interviews. I really learned a lot how to steer conversations and manipulate so that I could say what I want to say. Interviews are the best for that it's not far from trying to get a woman home.
/r/seduction08/01/25 08:38 AM
1

My suggestion would be to say hi and crash and burn. This thing is a muscle you have to practice doing it. After a while of doing it you will instantly think of things spontaneously
/r/seduction07/01/25 09:21 PM
1

What exactly do they do when they get a date ? go to the toilet and then come back. Folks do it the hard way. AI is killer of creativity.
/r/seduction07/01/25 09:18 PM
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Well that's my point. Its a script built by observing real social interaction. I already have a long time ago. I've done it by hanging out of women living with some , going in dates, banging her friends and playing BFF etc. At this stage I am improving trying different things. I have a million ideas on how to approach but I don't want to share because the so called coaches would steal them. Bartek matches my style of humour.
/r/seduction07/01/25 09:13 PM
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What if you live in Nevada?
/r/seduction07/01/25 09:02 PM
1

That's normal convo. That behaviour is replicated across the animal kingdom. PUA's were autistic people who wanted to break down normal human interaction into steps and formulae.
/r/seduction07/01/25 08:35 PM
1

If guys are calling you gay they're insecure about your looks end of.
/r/seduction07/01/25 07:50 PM
1

If you're a nice guy lose your temper and tell I am sick of you toxic fucks your gf is a 4. Lay it on thick. I've had a similar experience but it was way more subtle. I used to hang around short guys and they were extremely jealous that women would constantly check me out. I had a friend who was good looking extremely well endowed but short and the amount of effort he has to put in was unfeasible. I decided to break 15 years ago and find friends that supported me good guys who were also short bu…
/r/seduction07/01/25 07:44 PM
1

I am 6'5 and for me it works. I get it a lot even though I'm not really Chad like. Sometimes women will tease but I can read women really well.
/r/seduction07/01/25 07:37 PM
1

Owen is a clown. The best natural infield I've ever seen is this guy. https://youtu.be/RHpnbmHmb2I?si=2wHLayg3KHv1dpSp https://youtu.be/8qAs9FUEZzU?t=74&si=QjNJCuUiIqYoi-5m
/r/seduction07/01/25 02:30 PM
1

Kayak
/r/seduction07/01/25 01:53 PM
1

They seem to be trying to sabotage your efforts. Is there jealousy there?. Yeah you're best rid of them. As for choosing signals I do that personally. You seem very confident which is great.
/r/seduction07/01/25 01:52 PM
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Good lord. Really. I've never heard that before. Are these your 'friends' ?. You do realize that if you allow people to disrespect you women won't respect you either.
/r/seduction07/01/25 11:48 AM
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There's no down side to what you did. Men don't think about this. I personally don't care. Being accepted even platonically by a beautiful woman if she is indeed she is hot is a bonus.
/r/seduction07/01/25 08:27 AM
1

I tried self hypnosis and suggested that I am comfortable with eye contact. I fixed it in about a day.
/r/seduction07/01/25 08:18 AM
0

In coffee houses I talk to women this way. Its almost always in the queue. I say something generic about chocolate cake or something and see what the temperature is like. I never go tables because there's no escape route for the girl.
/r/seduction07/01/25 08:15 AM
1

Why do they belittle you ?. That's useful feedback.
/r/seduction07/01/25 08:09 AM
1

Your tribe is loyal.
/r/seduction07/01/25 08:08 AM
1

yup. I had a few.
/r/seduction06/01/25 08:28 PM
1

You convolute the whole process it really isn't that complicated . You encourage overthinking and that doesn't solve anything. Therapists spend years with people because the therapy process is dogshit. Also you can fix approach anxiety relatively easily with self hypnosis.
/r/seduction06/01/25 07:10 PM
2

I'll tell you an uncomfortable truth you could be best friends with a girl all your life. One day you'll say the wrong thing or post the wrong thing and she'll block you forever.
/r/seduction06/01/25 07:02 PM
2

RSD isn't a person. wtf which shows you are clueless .
/r/seduction06/01/25 04:47 PM
1

Nothing beats raw action.
/r/seduction06/01/25 04:46 PM
5

Nailed and that's the thing that is never said here. Every woman is different and no matter how attractive you are unless you have celebrity status you are dealing with a salami slice of all available women. So the trick is to identify the women who like you then you are on a winning game.
/r/seduction06/01/25 04:20 PM
2

Be kind not gentle.
/r/seduction05/01/25 10:42 AM
3

Had lots of interested women in my life but I didn't know how to convert to dates. I don't really like PUA especially the mystery method. PUA helped me to understand communication which is really the key. It started at that but just became continual improvement to have a better life and be in control of my path.
/r/seduction05/01/25 10:36 AM
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There's no point in using other peoples ideas. You say you have boring lines so get out and work on your observation skills. Don't rely on AI either these are lame ways and offer no learning. I'm 6'5 and very physically intimidating so I don't stop girls at night in dark alleys. I have to be mindful. I'm also Irish it's in our DNA to be likeable so women are receptive to us. Here's how you work on your skills go out about daily life. Pick a random person and ask yourself how can I talk to this p…
/r/seduction05/01/25 09:42 AM
2

I complimented a girl once. I said "You look cute" she replied "So I'm cute" I said yeah "You're cute like a crocodile".
/r/seduction04/01/25 11:02 PM
1

No compliments. Compliments are pointless unless you elicit an emotion in the girl. Saying you look amazing means nothing to her but if you're talking for a while you take her hand look in her eyes and whisper in her ear you look amazing that's a whole different level.
/r/seduction04/01/25 10:55 PM
2

She walked away.
/r/seduction04/01/25 05:56 PM
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It's easy to do this actually. It just takes consistent practice. I can explain it without a wall of text too. You can do this in a semi hypnotic state. So when you are going to sleep imagine your desired self. Make the image clear then imagine stepping into your desired self. Make it your nightly routine. Instead of worrying imagine you living your best life. Kobe used to do this every night. It works. I do it all the time not so much for dating because I'm where i need to be in that domain. If…
/r/seduction04/01/25 11:51 AM
1

Voluntary celibate now. Women want to get with me but I have loftier goals in life. You'll lose money chasing women but never lose women chasing money.
/r/seduction04/01/25 10:18 AM
1

Its true too. I know plenty of guys my height who do abysmal with women because they don't have the mindset.
/r/seduction04/01/25 08:13 AM
2

what was the point of making 2 identical posts?
/r/seduction03/01/25 03:38 PM
4

fck never say that.
/r/seduction03/01/25 12:32 PM
3

Don't go from happy new year to a close. It's bound to fail. Talk to her a few times and watch if her face turns to big radiant smile when she sees you. Then you're good to go. You can do it but the result is you aren't learning anything. If you are calling a girl beautiful then do it indirectly unless you are a select man with experience who has options in which case you have excellent social eq. It will work then.
/r/seduction03/01/25 12:26 PM
1

Of course you can't because its inbuilt in our natural programming. You have to rewire your brain consciously either by habitual learning (try and try again ) or subconsciously through hypnosis. The first thing is to RELAX once you relax all this comes naturally.
/r/seduction03/01/25 12:23 PM
3

Read the posts in this sub I'm not your mother. You're a big boy.
/r/seduction03/01/25 12:21 PM
1

I've never been flaked on ever.
/r/seduction03/01/25 12:19 PM
1

If you are hopeless do something about it. I don't care. nobody cares here either. Be jealous be mad , be so mad you start taking action.
/r/seduction03/01/25 12:16 PM
4

Push pull is games for children.
/r/seduction03/01/25 12:11 PM
2

yes
/r/seduction03/01/25 12:10 PM
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Well I'm 6'5 athletic and reasonably good looking women are receptive to me in daily life. I'm a select man and this has been the case since age 17. I like myself and I have high self esteem. You have a really poor mindset you are not ever going to achieve anything with that. The words you speak and the stories you tell yourself are the things that will shape your life. The very greatest people were delusional until they made their vision a reality.
/r/seduction02/01/25 07:05 AM
0

It's great advice. It's how I live my life. Even the most handsome guys get rejected.
/r/seduction02/01/25 06:53 AM
1

Yes. The latter one I read a decade ago and I knew exactly what the cues were because it's illustrated perfectly. Google it more and you'll see what I mean.
/r/seduction01/01/25 11:16 PM
5

You'll meet quality women if you are a quality man.
/r/seduction01/01/25 09:14 PM
1

If you are getting looks you are select for sure. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pMG2GAQbwks I have been select all my life (since 18) regardless of money status etc. so its normal for me . I thought getting older would change that but it hasn't. I dress better and communicate better because I want to be the guy that the women look at when I go into a bar or club. I am pretty introvert but the amount of attention I get is very overt that some guys really dislike me.
/r/seduction01/01/25 06:16 PM
1

Its more about cultivating good relationships than pump and dump.
/r/seduction01/01/25 02:52 PM
1

As usual the best advice here has the lowest rating.
/r/seduction01/01/25 02:50 PM
1

The body language project book a far better source. I acquired it years ago. Its specifically for the dating domain.
/r/seduction01/01/25 02:49 PM
1

He makes her feel something. If he can make her feel feminine then that will move mountains.
/r/seduction01/01/25 02:48 PM
1

thats just being relaxed.
/r/seduction01/01/25 02:40 PM
1

Learn self hypnosis and soon as the nerves happen the subconscious will relax you.
/r/seduction01/01/25 02:39 PM
1

What height are you?.
/r/seduction01/01/25 10:09 AM
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I'm 6'5 and I'm way older than you trust me women don't care about age if you're a cool guy.
/r/seduction01/01/25 10:07 AM
6

Those numbers indicate the bar was low.
/r/seduction01/01/25 10:00 AM
1

It does sound crazy doesn't it. Women are wired strange. Girls with boyfriends will stare at me maybe it's because of my supreme self confidence also I don't look stare or ogle women so then women look at me. Its a better strategy because guys overdo their attention which lowers their value. Yes it's mainly perception but as I found out a long time in the mystery method book that if you demonstrate that you are selected then that is the deal clincher. So if I walk into the bar some girls look at…
/r/seduction01/01/25 09:51 AM
3

Preselected means that you are perceived as being a man other women would want. I am very tall I am preselected because women perceive that other women may be interested in me. If I walk into a bar and a few girls check me out then I'm a select man especially if other girls see this.
/r/seduction31/12/24 05:15 PM
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>the very last thing I want is for I want is for women to think I want to abuse them in someway. Huh. Why would that even cross your mind ?. You should be careful with your words because the subconscious reads it like this-- I want to abuse them in someway. Words are powerful. The mind-set is I want to make her feel safe talking to me. If women feel safe around you its 60% of the effort. In reality you are going to creep some girls out. That's unavoidable. Its happened to me 2 times in my life. …
/r/seduction31/12/24 04:10 PM
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I don't understand this. There are girls everywhere. You aren't restricted to the gym. Start talking to PEOPLE in general. Old people are great because very few younger people even acknowledge them. Become a PEOPLE person and women will follow.
/r/seduction31/12/24 10:36 AM
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You are doing excellent actually. You are holding back so she has to reach to you and it appears she's very interested.
/r/seduction31/12/24 10:14 AM
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Nothing has changed only you. I found that out after my covid experience last year coming out of hospital and having a bad brain fog episodes. The days I wasn't on I did poorly now that I am nearly back to normal I find most women receptive to me. Your energy is a real thing.
/r/seduction30/12/24 11:00 AM
2

They go after men who don't spend time theoreticising why certain men are popular with them. I've never seen a girl that I know with a bum because that isn't the type of women I attract.
/r/seduction30/12/24 09:16 AM
1

Getting on with her friends initially is vital. Girls use their friends to vet guys. Its all about status in the group.
/r/seduction30/12/24 09:10 AM
1

Nailed.
/r/seduction29/12/24 10:16 PM
3

I wouldn't let a stranger touch me ever also telling her she's beautiful doesn't entitle you to her. It's an unusual situation and may have some other context. Drunkeness is also a factor. The problem is some people have gone through life without accountability and they exhibit bad behaviour eventually some one should check them and that should have been you. If it was me I would say " Are you always a self entitled bitch ? " that would be my response because I have boundaries on how people trea…
/r/seduction29/12/24 11:09 AM
1

She's teasing you or she was trying to bait and switch her friend.
/r/seduction29/12/24 11:01 AM
1

Just google reprogram your mind by hypnosis and try different sources until you find one that works.
/r/seduction28/12/24 08:18 PM
1

Firstly I don't respond to orders please goes a long way. I know it because I studied it. I wanted to find a quicker way to get results than meditating. It works exceptionally well for me. Just google reprogram your mind by hypnosis and try different sources until you find one that works.
/r/seduction28/12/24 08:18 PM
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yes, A lot of people meditate but I tried that and it's a very convoluted way to achieve a relaxed state. In hypnosis you can set a trigger that activates when an event happens so it switches your state automatically. I have a trigger for being able know what to say to anyone at any time. I set that because I had a really tricky manager who was always trying to catch me out. I don't have that problem now but in everyday life it translates to knowing exactly what to say to women on the spot. Hypn…
/r/seduction27/12/24 04:13 PM
11

I used to drink a lot then I stopped. I found out there's no difference when you get used to it. the alcohol changes nothing It's just a state of mind. Self hypnosis is a far better way to control your state by a mile.
/r/seduction27/12/24 04:07 PM
1

nope pay any 20 year old girl $50 and she will do a better job.
/r/seduction27/12/24 02:37 PM
3

alcohol courage
/r/seduction27/12/24 02:31 PM
1

What do your failures look like?.
/r/seduction27/12/24 08:21 AM
0

Everything is an inside job. I don't make excuses and blame third parties for why I would be unsuccessful in life. The only thing I can control in life is how I react to it. I control my state of mind. If you don't program and control your own state then other people will do it for you. If you believe the world is a certain way then your RAS will look for things to confirm it. That's why its important to guard your thought and words. I don't get people who do not look after their own mental well…
/r/seduction26/12/24 07:46 PM
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>: They approach life with a sense of self-doubt. They think, “I could never land that amazing job,” or, “She’s too beautiful for me.” Men today are so weak. the bar to succeed is so low because of this.
/r/seduction26/12/24 01:58 PM
1

A big one.
/r/seduction26/12/24 08:45 AM
1

It doesn't annoy me. I do well in life. The price these girls will have to pay later on is immense. There is always a payday to easy money. Feminism ruined everything. Even saying that the bar has never been so low to get attractive women .
/r/seduction26/12/24 07:16 AM
1

Putting sodium laryl sulphate on your face is the worse thing you can do.
/r/seduction26/12/24 07:05 AM
2

Anxiety is caused by overthinking. You cannot overthink yourself out of overthinking,
/r/seduction25/12/24 11:43 AM
1

What age are you?
/r/seduction25/12/24 08:35 AM
10

I live near a university. There are women everywhere.
/r/seduction24/12/24 02:27 PM
0

I'm not looking for advice. I'm 6'5 fit and attractive. You read too much PUA nonsense. >Rarely will this happen because their ego is high, they won't make the first move unless they are pretty sure they won't be rejected. You will see the exact opposite, men will move in their vicinity. Definitely not my experience.
/r/seduction24/12/24 10:53 AM
1

What if a group of 6 girls look at you?. That happened to me last week.
/r/seduction24/12/24 09:51 AM
2

It's hard as an Indian. I know a guy at work who is 6'3 jacked attractive face a little shorter than me and he is single. He is friendzoned by tonnes of women. Personally I don't understand it.
/r/seduction24/12/24 09:12 AM
1

What a garbage take. I've rarely encountered really drunk girls. Yes it may be loud but if you observe closely the girls who are into you move into your vicinity. As for competition that's BS because what inexperienced guys don't realize only a slice of the female population go for each guy. It doesn't matter how good you look the exception is when you have high status. The idea that there is a static group of girls that the same guys compete for is bollocks. There is no competition. She decides…
/r/seduction24/12/24 08:55 AM
1

If you're very tall like me, have a confident manner and is not needy , women will automatically assume that I'm a man other women will be attracted to and their right. That's preselection.
/r/seduction23/12/24 07:30 AM
2

Same here. I'm in my 50s and I must look around 30 because all the other older people around me say you wouldn't remember this because it was years ago. I notice it most when I'm in clubs and bars on work nights out I'll see groups of girls staring at me and also any girls I talk to will be 100% receptive. Girls will also make eye contact and bump into me. I generally don't look at women so they are more overt in their interest. I'm also really tall and in ok shape. I'm physically huge so I thin…
/r/seduction23/12/24 07:08 AM
3

You must look good. I'm on the same position.
/r/seduction22/12/24 11:43 PM
1

Pass
/r/seduction22/12/24 01:27 PM
4

such a dumb post.
/r/seduction22/12/24 12:16 PM
3

Not being like the 10 guys who approached her.
/r/seduction22/12/24 10:48 AM
2

I am in the 99th percentile of male height.
/r/seduction22/12/24 10:40 AM
1

Your friends can open conversations so why aren't you asking them?. Getting a few ideas from people on a sub isn't going to make you great at this. You have to go out in life and talk to people. As for openings if she indicates she likes you, you can say anything. I practice this in daily life I observe women and think of what would be a good opener. I'm always testing my ideas on random girls , shop assistants, old people whoever really. The beautiful thing is women think different to men so yo…
/r/seduction22/12/24 09:21 AM
2

Try this as you go to sleep. Imagine you are in a venue in real life and a girl is flirting with you. Imagine you are relaxed and calm imagine the way you would respond to it and in your imagination prepare a response. When it does happen you will kickstart into the routine that you have worked on in your subconcious. This stuff is like magic.
/r/seduction21/12/24 08:58 PM
2

You have to work on your self image see yourself in a much greater way than you presently do. Its actually really easy to do. The way you see yourself is the way greatly determines how successful you will be in life. I don't get guys today they are so weak willed and so undetermined to succeed. The first time I was with a girl I didn't get anxiety I just got on with it I must have done good because she wanted to drive me 60 miles home. Anybody who says well I can only be confident if I am looksm…
/r/seduction21/12/24 08:49 PM
2

You would be amazed at the amount of guys that have built up an image of living happily ever with a specific girl who is not really feeling it her end. If she was really into you I would imagine she would bring you to the bedroom and subtly hint. I've had that experience so I know. Personally I think you haven't enough feedback from her to make a move. I think you have been friend zoned. If you are wrong you may lose your friends. However you can force a response by telling her that there is a g…
/r/seduction21/12/24 01:50 PM
1

Tate has some great takes on action. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NDeHsUtUOB4
/r/seduction21/12/24 11:32 AM
1

This is bad programming. Shameful. Don't listen to the pills they don't have a fucking clue what they are talking about they exist to extract money from naive men. There's guys out there who don't shave, wear construction clothes and still bang all around them.
/r/seduction21/12/24 11:19 AM
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The only point that is actually valid is #7 and its a point that is completely true in my experience. The only thing you don't have to approach women who like you will naturally move towards you but you have to be observant.
/r/seduction20/12/24 09:18 PM
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You learn this stuff by just practising it isn't rocket science.
/r/seduction20/12/24 05:47 PM
1

Flirting = Craig Ferguson.
/r/seduction20/12/24 11:33 AM
1

There is a very simple solution. Don't go deep. Talk to her for 10-20 mins. Say "I really enjoyed this convo I think we should go on a date. I use this method waiting for taxis all the time.
/r/seduction20/12/24 10:33 AM
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You can also use body language in a suggestive way. As a man you can rock your hips when you are talking to her I do this a lot when I'm feeling turned on and talking to a woman. I never compliment women. I indirectly compliment women by making comparisons , the whole idea is to get her to picture things in her mind and make her feel good. Telling her she is beautiful is monotone it's just words it doesn't have any impact. I remember once getting a coffee and the design the girl did was amazing …
/r/seduction20/12/24 10:23 AM
2

How come as a 6'5 man women are not afraid of me but men are ?.
/r/seduction20/12/24 10:07 AM
10

The way you walk forms a huge impression on how a woman perceives you. Walk like you have an army behind you.
/r/seduction20/12/24 09:55 AM
13

Women also go against their intuition all the time.
/r/seduction20/12/24 09:31 AM
1

Yes maybe in your scope of life experience. This is where every guy goes wrong. It's not that big of a deal.
/r/seduction19/12/24 05:02 PM
3

Ok then the tonic.
/r/seduction19/12/24 05:00 PM
2

The only way to break tension in a musical piece is to resolve the root note.
/r/seduction19/12/24 04:24 PM
1

hello
/r/seduction19/12/24 04:21 PM
2

If you are going to do this always do it where there are people around. If she doesn't feel safe it wont work.
/r/seduction19/12/24 08:52 AM
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The number one rule make a girl feel safe. A lot of guys don't get this because they think that women think exactly like them. As a guy I am safe so therefore the girl is the same. This is incorrect thinking. If you do talk to a girl give her outs so she can leave. I do that all the time. I'm 6'5 and for some strange reason to me girls are completely comfortable talking with me anywhere. Guys are very intimidated by my physicality though. I think it's an energy thing.
/r/seduction18/12/24 06:37 AM
5

As a nearly 40 year old man who has seen it all I think guys with no experience should not be posting here.
/r/seduction18/12/24 06:27 AM
5

You dont have a lot of experience. Come back to us when you're 33 and you have gone on 100s of dates and met multiple 100s of women.
/r/seduction18/12/24 06:19 AM
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The OP is very young with very little experience. This is precisely also why coaches aren't that useful. Every woman is different and you have different behaviors associated.
/r/seduction18/12/24 06:18 AM
1

Good answer. I was testing you. My response would be "You sound jealous. I can't help it if girls want to talk to me".
/r/seduction17/12/24 02:00 PM
1

>ew your such a player I saw you talking to other girls". The surface frame is the context here. She's framing you as a player for talking to girls. so how do you reframe that?.
/r/seduction17/12/24 10:05 AM
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Yes but I am 6'5 and I have an attractive face so it works for me. One woman at a time is enough for me.
/r/seduction16/12/24 08:43 PM
1

I am bald too. what's the question?
/r/seduction16/12/24 05:30 PM
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>She made wide eyes, the disgust look as well, and then started shaking her head side to side laughing like “fuck no” That's a soft rejection. You're toast if her friends reject you. That happened to me last weekend actually and I'm 6'5 athletic and attractive looking. I just went up to the wrong woman. The really strange thing about women that even if you are average you can have a wide range of women into some very beautiful some not so but that's the way it works.
/r/seduction16/12/24 11:28 AM
0

Im the opposite I'm terrible with as alcohol.
/r/seduction15/12/24 03:36 PM
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It's all a sham because every girl is different and you basically have to search inside to find YOUR strengths to be attractive to a portion of women out there. Virtually no one here knows what a 10 actually is. Your barista with tattoos is not a 10. Most guys will believe they are 10s when in reality they are 6. It doesn't matter how attractive you are and how much money you earn. As a person with normal status that's how it rolls.
/r/seduction14/12/24 10:31 AM
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Plagiarized.
/r/seduction13/12/24 08:59 AM
-2

I disagree.
/r/seduction12/12/24 02:22 PM
1

Why would one give two fucks. Be a man.
/r/seduction12/12/24 07:40 AM
2

In the club IOI is easy. The girl will generally close the gap between you. Some will fake bump into you. This is all by design. I get the fake bump all the time. Some will give you this look which is hard to describe. Some will look at you and smile. Some girls giggle. If one likes you she will tell the group and when you turn around you'll see 5 or 6 girls checking you out. Hair touching or touching herself in general is a good sign.
/r/seduction12/12/24 07:34 AM
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I'm 6'5 and I've never had an issue even when I was painfully shy. I've never really tried they come to me as I go through daily life. So you are invisible to women?. Are women receptive to you?.
/r/seduction12/12/24 07:15 AM
2

Easy mode ? How?..
/r/seduction12/12/24 07:09 AM
1

In the apps yes but not in real life.
/r/seduction12/12/24 06:50 AM
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You cant get rid of it permanently its part of your survival mechanism. What you can do is program your mind to change your state so that when you feel anxiety your subconscious changes it to your preferred state. Don't rely on a third party when you can do it yourself.
/r/seduction11/12/24 09:01 PM
0

That's idiotic. Put way the stupid phone and go out and talk to people.
/r/seduction11/12/24 06:24 PM
1

No there is no cure only management All creatures have anxiety. Meditation is the long way to address it self hypnosis yields far quicker results.
/r/seduction11/12/24 06:24 PM
4

How to stand out from other men is not being like other men. If you look at other men you will see they are overweight, dressed poorly etc. The bar has never been so low. I'm very tall so that has advantages but being fat and tall does not work. I have to be a lot of other things. You stand out from other guys if you are confident, go after what you want in life and treat women as a nice to have rather than a prerequisite in being happy in life. You will know if you stand out from other men beca…
/r/seduction11/12/24 10:38 AM
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Its nothing to do with age. I dated 22 years old girls at 35.
/r/seduction10/12/24 10:37 PM
2

Barca women are easy to pull if you have blue eyes. I used to do meditation but self hypnosis is the way to go. You can make your mind react a certain way due to an external stimulus instead of being nervous you can make a trigger to make you relaxed. Its by far the most useful thing I have learned. People don't inbox me because I'm fed up of writing response and getting nothing reciprocated.
/r/seduction06/12/24 09:28 PM
2

Sure isn't delusion wonderful.
/r/seduction06/12/24 04:15 PM
1

Its a far better relevant source than that wall of text you posted.
/r/seduction06/12/24 08:12 AM
1

85
/r/seduction04/12/24 06:03 PM
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She's wasting your time while you could be with a fantastic woman. Don't collect women friends. Its ok to have one or two but they have to be invested in you.
/r/seduction04/12/24 01:06 PM
3

When I was 20 there was a 50 year old dude in work who saw it all. I told him I was bringing a swedish girl on a drive. He said you giving her a length. I said no not yet. He said "if you can't eat it , drink it or fuck it it's not worth your time." Words of words wisdom.
/r/seduction04/12/24 01:04 PM
0

Just say what??. I'm not your best friend. Just give a dick response to her so she doesn't see you as her fluffy bff. Or if you want to let her know say I'm looking for female advice I have this girl into me and I want to buy her a Christmas gift bla bla.
/r/seduction04/12/24 06:57 AM
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When I used to chase a lot of girls I realised sometimes girls keep you around out of pure boredom. Some women used to keep me around because I was big and intimidated other men they may have been attracted but I didn't know for sure. Some girls you want but have no interest in you. Some are so gone on you they are virtually stalking you. The thing is you test the water and if it isn't favorable move on think about the next fantastic girl who you haven't met that you will click with.
/r/seduction04/12/24 06:52 AM
3

Or maybe he has practiced and was rejected a lot.
/r/seduction03/12/24 10:04 PM
1

I am 6'5 and in ok shape so I do rate myself above average 6 and its plain to see anyhow because I have a lot of women into me.
/r/seduction03/12/24 06:12 PM
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The wall of text shows you think to much and that mindset will get you nowhere. if she rejects you so what. >I'm also mad at her for reacting like that. I did everything I could to respect her by not displaying it publicly with my voice and the famous "Hi, sorry to bother you but..." and to really put her publicly in front of people and in front of me, I did it discreetly so she wouldn't feel pressured but she didn't show much respect I think. The least you can do if you don't like it is give an…
/r/seduction03/12/24 05:34 PM
1

On the delusional scale you are prob a 10. Women rate guys fuckable or non-fuckable..
/r/seduction03/12/24 05:31 PM
1

I've never met a 9 or 10 in my life and that include the models I met at fashion shows.
/r/seduction03/12/24 05:29 PM
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Self hypnosis
/r/seduction03/12/24 11:35 AM
2

she's not being nice She's into you.
/r/seduction02/12/24 06:10 PM
2

If you aren't congruent with a cocky /funny personality then its not going to work for you. You don't just read a post on it and instantly become funny its a lot of practice. but if you want to get an idea of where you need to be look at old craig ferguson clips on the net.
/r/seduction30/11/24 04:08 PM
1

I think all Latinos would but I'm European my folks were good dancers my best friends parents were champions their sons did street dance and bboy. I watched and somehow by osmosis I picked up a lot but normally I like to silly dance like the Trump moves and they are just as effective.
/r/seduction29/11/24 12:38 PM
1

I can naturally dance because I was surrounded by people who could. Never trained just can do it.
/r/seduction29/11/24 08:12 AM
1

Exactly.
/r/seduction29/11/24 08:09 AM
1

Salsa is difficult if you play to 4/4 time all the time because it's 1-2-3 rest 5-6-7 rest and repeat. Whereas 4/4 is 1-2-3-4 repeat.
/r/seduction29/11/24 08:02 AM
-1

I'm over 1 M net worth and I wouldn't consider 2M a lot. 5M is about right.
/r/seduction29/11/24 07:49 AM
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Do whatever you want. Just be careful that you aren't deluding yourself. One thing is that you are mature and you are nervous talking to random strange women don't do it. It works when you're 18-24 but after that You are expected to be socially adjusted. I"m 50 and I wouldn't hit on girls but I do have funny conversations with girls which make them like me. I have always attracted younger girls to me and not with a lot of effort. I have never told a girl she's beautiful instead I've segued into …
/r/seduction29/11/24 07:45 AM
1

I'm 6'5 and at 240lbs I am overweight. I used to train a lot nowadays I don't do as much because I realised that it isn't about the training that makes you attractive it's the mindset. Even as a skinny beanpole guy I got women and as a 224 lbs guy I got women. I did train and became very big. I'm actually like Jason Momoa in stature. Working out and gaining mass is very important when you are young to ensure that when you are older you have a good level of default strength. You'll realize this i…
/r/seduction29/11/24 07:26 AM
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You write a lot of nothing in your posts.
/r/seduction29/11/24 07:14 AM
1

Yes it's the hermetic philosophy "as above so below".
/r/seduction28/11/24 03:47 PM
0

I found your post as mundane as the things you talk about.
/r/seduction26/11/24 09:50 AM
3

Yes become comfortable with the uncomfortable.
/r/seduction26/11/24 08:48 AM
1

I found out something profound when I was sick for month with COVID. When you get sick you lose bulk and when you have a lot it doesn't affect you. However if you are weedy then you could be reduced to an invalid the same goes for cognition work on your brain because with you get older your IQ falls one std deviation. That's a lot.
/r/seduction25/11/24 03:18 PM
1

When she stares at you she's evaluating you or you look like someone she knows. Its positive usually. She has a guy but she's thinking about you and her. Women do this all the time. I get it a lot. I'm extremely tall so girls try to evaluate if we would look good together. Sometimes when I'm out I'll see girls with a neutral face staring at me. This is more obvious if she's in a group of 3-4 and all of them are looking the same direction. The looks women give are receptive, neutral and disgusted…
/r/seduction25/11/24 08:20 AM
3

No. If she asks you for a drink she's sees absolutely no value in you other than a cash cow. Sorry it's true.
/r/seduction25/11/24 08:13 AM
2

Sometimes your timing can be bad and the not yet isn't always a rejection for instance there could be people around that she doesn't want to be seen as easy. I've noticed this at weddings when I got women back to my room they would explicitly say it isn't going to happen but within 10 mins we're naked. Another thing to realise is that women use guys for entertainment. As a 6'5 guy when I was younger girls would talk to me purely because they weren't single and I was a huge deterrent to other guy…
/r/seduction25/11/24 08:11 AM
1

Reprogram your brain to be calm and relaxed at all times like I do.
/r/seduction25/11/24 12:26 AM
1

Do the trump dance in front of her. If you do it right she should laugh. Pay attention to your space because usually in clubs the girl who likes you will move close to you making it easy for you to just say hi.
/r/seduction24/11/24 07:51 AM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U9Y4X9kDZts
/r/seduction23/11/24 09:51 PM
1

Same in moldova. Tate was nearly killed in Moldova.
/r/seduction23/11/24 09:49 PM
3

Say I want to meet you because I have a surprise for you. If she says what then say "if I told you it's not a suprise". Bang you're not a nice guy anymore. You're setting boundaries. The reality is you may have not messed up because sometimes women use men to entertain themselves like a gay BFF.
/r/seduction23/11/24 08:55 AM
1

I don't want to. The kind of women that give up easily aren't the ones I want.
/r/seduction23/11/24 08:53 AM
1

Correct
/r/seduction22/11/24 11:30 PM
1

Firstly just by posture you won't have presence. People who cause other humans to notice them are way beyond using good body language. It comes from having a very infallible sense of self. interactions with girls are closed loop. You say something do something and watch the response. So you are constantly observing for feedback. The thing is, its the natural flow and nothing is forced. If you think I'll do 1 and then 2 and then 3 you'll fail miserably because women aren't like that. They are con…
/r/seduction22/11/24 11:30 PM
5

Romania by a mile. Beautiful intelligent girls with decent racks. Poland is good too. Personally I wouldn't go next or near a Muslim country but if you know someone there and they like you they are likely to introduce you to hot single girls thats my experience.
/r/seduction21/11/24 06:35 PM
-1

Its only dumb if you don't understand it.
/r/seduction20/11/24 05:44 PM
-1

If you find it hard then that is what you should be doing. If you are trying to find things to say then you aren't prepared socially. Do you know you can rehearse in your mind what to say?. Its not rocket science.
/r/seduction20/11/24 06:54 AM
1

Lol
/r/seduction20/11/24 06:46 AM
-1

You need to learn self hypnosis and use your fear as a trigger to action. Its not that hard to do either.
/r/seduction19/11/24 07:24 PM
1

Being a musician helps. If you understand rhythm and have good rhythm you can bring that to the table. I remember the first time I had sex I visualised playing the girl like a guitar and it had a very strange effect on her. I was expecting to be a disaster but it was the opposite I'm fact. There's a reason why girls like musicians.
/r/seduction15/11/24 05:47 PM
2

Women want men and men don't give a shit about this. They are masculine men. Guys who are natural don't even think about it. They get on with their life and women come to them.
/r/seduction12/11/24 05:28 PM
0

.
/r/seduction11/11/24 03:35 PM
1

Self hypnosis.
/r/seduction11/11/24 02:40 PM
1

I'm the opposite. I used self hypnosis to suggest confidence without drink.. Drinking makes me worse. It really just a state change if you can master your state then things work out.
/r/seduction11/11/24 02:39 PM
0

This is why there are winners and losers in life. The man who wins is the boldest.
/r/seduction11/11/24 02:30 PM
1

This is explains it https://youtu.be/XtlBjA7WYSM?si=pZaCrztxHuQEtc65
/r/seduction11/11/24 10:47 AM
3

No it's common. I feel the same.
/r/seduction11/11/24 10:46 AM
1

The speigel method. Its very quick but you can just wait until you are just about to sleep and suggest then .
/r/seduction10/11/24 04:35 PM
1

Just say "That's interesting" and don't say anything else. That creates a void in the conversation. I use it on managers all the time. Or you could say red is not really my colour. I prefer purple.
/r/seduction09/11/24 06:56 PM
14

I self hypnotise every single morning. The way the world works is that if you don't program your own mind other people will do it for you. Whether its the echo chamber or your educators or populations or social media if you are not defining your own beliefs and values other people are. Its astonishing the power of what the subconscious mind can do. The problem is people these days are too lazy to dedicate themselves to a lifetime of self improvement.
/r/seduction09/11/24 06:35 PM
5

You weren't her type. In addition to this you waited 4 months+ by then any chance you had probably fizzled out.
/r/seduction09/11/24 08:00 AM
0

A lot of tall guys are like that actually. I'm tall and I know four guys like that. They think they have to learn the mystery method to get women when women are literally throwing themselves at them. Personally I only find certain women attractive.
/r/seduction08/11/24 09:22 PM
2

True. If you look into histories these people who post are on a self help crusade and they have issues beyond porn. I look at some porn and I don't see women as lust objects because I talk to women a lot daily.
/r/seduction08/11/24 07:24 AM
0

Who would have thought that making eye contact would cause a girl to approach a guy. That's Elon musk level genius thinking there.
/r/seduction08/11/24 02:39 AM
1

Another state the effen obvious post.
/r/seduction07/11/24 03:16 PM
3

I've held a girls hand so she could steady herself up to put on her heels. It was a pretty devastating move.
/r/seduction07/11/24 03:10 PM
1

The look. Girls have a look when they are interested which isn't hard to spot.
/r/seduction02/11/24 08:28 PM
1

She gave me her pager number without me asking actually. Thank you :-)
/r/seduction02/11/24 08:15 PM
0

I have friends who are taller and much better looking than me and think they're average. The mind virus has made men believe they aren't good enough when they are. I see girls come on to my friends and they don't notice. They read all the PUA stuff when all they need is to say hi to the girl they want to to talk to. >The only problem now is with women. I'm so inexperienced and I'm getting constantly rejected in that way. How ?. >Plenty of cute girls around. Talk to them. Smile at them.
/r/seduction02/11/24 09:40 AM
1

Record your voice talking normally. Then record your voice telling a story adding dynamics to your voice.
/r/seduction02/11/24 05:42 AM
1

Don't try just do. When you do find a script on YT that relaxes you. Trigger the relaxation by suggesting that that's how you will feel when you approach or talk to a woman. That's how you will be natural. It's all about relaxation.
/r/seduction02/11/24 05:30 AM
-2

Your 6'4 and you're getting rejected. You must be royally fucking up. I'm 6'5 and at no time in my life I was stuck for women no matter how shy I was or how bad I was at conversations. I remember once bagging a pharmacist in a hospital during a clinic visit. We were both incredibly nervous she was tall very good looking and classy.
/r/seduction01/11/24 09:57 PM
2

I'm pretty good but a game changer was self hypnosis. Your subconscious is way more powerful and observant than your conscious mind.
/r/seduction01/11/24 09:47 PM
2

Only happened to me once.
/r/seduction01/11/24 11:04 AM
1

Not if you are trying to sleep with her. I learned that a long time ago. I was trying to get with a girl in work by being nice and one of my workmates who was very good looking just kissed her right in front of me while I was talking about her life. never again.
/r/seduction01/11/24 06:23 AM
2

Women bang some men, the rest are for validation and moral support. You are in the latter.
/r/seduction01/11/24 05:38 AM
1

Yet another post stating the fucking obvious.
/r/seduction01/11/24 05:33 AM
2

Women harm men far more often than men only it's not with brute force.
/r/seduction01/11/24 05:32 AM
1

All the best comments are always at the voted at the bottom here.
/r/seduction01/11/24 05:28 AM
2

My advice is approach a lot of women and once you have a large enough sample size you will see a pattern emerging then you will have a very good idea which girls are receptive to you and it will be less of numbers game.
/r/seduction31/10/24 08:54 PM
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self hypnosis. You have to shift your mindset to a more positive one. One quick way is to stand up tall and walk like an army is behind you. Your mindset follows from your body language.
/r/seduction31/10/24 01:18 PM
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If you can't eat it, drink or fuck it it isn't worth your time.
/r/seduction30/10/24 05:16 PM
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Have a hard life.
/r/seduction30/10/24 12:45 PM
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How are you so dumb is the question here.
/r/seduction29/10/24 12:50 PM
7

This is so true. I have had a dude look me from head to toe and it actually is very uncomfortable. It's the main reason I don't really look at girls anymore.
/r/seduction29/10/24 12:48 PM
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You peak when you get your life together.
/r/seduction28/10/24 06:42 PM
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Its a student town so its pretty easy to just meet girls by default.
/r/seduction28/10/24 01:48 PM
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Learn how to relax while around girls. You can't be funny if you aren't relaxed. Watch a lot of funny people. The thing is girls laugh at thing guys they like say. So you have to have her like you before she will laugh. So that's more important than being funny. Craig Ferguson is funny. Trump is funny. I could say comedians but they are pros and you need actionable advice. I read the comic toolbox to understand humour. A lot of humour is just timing. Be around funny people. I had a best friend w…
/r/seduction28/10/24 06:22 AM
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The book of Proverbs
/r/seduction28/10/24 06:04 AM
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Great
/r/seduction27/10/24 10:57 PM
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FInd a pub or a club with a balcony and do a bit of observing. Watch the girls and how they react to men in their vicinity. You'll learn a lot. As you are walking around make eye contact slowly with girls if one gives you the look say hello. Talk a bit if its unsuccessful so what. Do it again. Say anything it doesn't have to be amazing.
/r/seduction27/10/24 12:11 PM
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Concentrate only on your W's. All you need to do is talk to (people) women you meet in real life. Go into shops and talk to the girls use simple short convo's. Do this a lot and you will find you won't have to approach they will position themselves so you can talk to them.
/r/seduction27/10/24 08:44 AM
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Did you not ask them ?
/r/seduction26/10/24 07:37 AM
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It's more subtle than that. If you observe the world instead of living in your head you'll see girls choosing you and then you know you're good to talk.
/r/seduction26/10/24 07:35 AM
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What ?. It's garbage. If you really looked into the origins of these things and see exactly how they are classified you would realise its complete lies.
/r/seduction26/10/24 07:33 AM
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I tell people what I know to be true. That's from actually house sharing with girls, dating their friends, having random encounters , bringing girls home and not riding all of them but talking to understand them. I've had models , overweight girls every race. I'm supposed to be attractive I don't really know about that but my real life experience would support that. I've talked to 1000s of women and a large percentage like me. I've virtually never been ghosted. I do make mistakes as it's impossi…
/r/seduction26/10/24 07:07 AM
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People used to. The post 5 years ago were way better than nowadays. All the decent people are gone.
/r/seduction26/10/24 06:59 AM
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You become what you believe you are. People today are hypnotising themselves to believe they are X these days. The hive mind is scary.
/r/seduction26/10/24 06:54 AM
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Wat the fuck is neurodivergent ?. I hate to say this but if you are a classically handsome man you already have women trying to get with you every single day of your life. Whether you can see it or not they are there. It's not that hard. He's basically telling you how to stand out from every other guy. Being polarizing is very easy, don't agree with her on everything she says. Be sexually aggressive. Have an edge talking to her be risque. Don't be needy. Do other things in life that doesn't revo…
/r/seduction26/10/24 06:49 AM
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Being alpha isn't something you can become. It has nothing to do with dating. If you are a leader of men in that when bad stuff goes down your an alpha. I consider myself a leader of men. I tend to gravitate to leadership at the moment I'm being put on a management path in work because I'm competent and extremely good with people. But this is something I learned from being working on building sites as a 13 year old and digging foundations. My dad is an alpha he's a foreman. They say the apple do…
/r/seduction26/10/24 06:26 AM
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Everybody wears badly fitted gym gear. Every man wears gray bottoms. I personally don't wear gym clothes outside of the gym. I put in jeans and a leather cafe racer and I'm good. Stand out.
/r/seduction25/10/24 06:29 AM
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If you are handsome then don't cold approach just hover in an area and see who closes the gap. I wouldn't go near a campus because you could get a rep. Of course you can go to bars near the campus. Anyhow the best way it is to practice on the women you see in day to day life and observe how receptive are they to you. This is easier here in Europe where we don't tip and also staff are not obligated to be nice to people. The best thing I ever learned is how to to hypnotise myself to do things like…
/r/seduction25/10/24 06:05 AM
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I've been there 3 times and its always crazy.
/r/seduction24/10/24 06:39 AM
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It's a crazy place.
/r/seduction24/10/24 06:34 AM
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I've never met a girl who doesn't smell anything less than roses.
/r/seduction22/10/24 10:39 PM
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It's not that fuking hard. You get the cojones to talk to a girl fck that up. RE evaluate that then try something else. What you guys wantbus some instant download to automatically become brilliant with women. It doesn't work that way. Life is not a video game. It's a lot of hard work and even when you think you got it right it can fail miserably.
/r/seduction22/10/24 10:30 PM
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I'm bigger than Jason Momoa. Guys aint saying shit to me. Actually I lie. One time some turkish guys wanted to tuen me into a kebab one night and the crazy thing is I wasn't hitting on girls they just gravitated to me on the dance floor.
/r/seduction21/10/24 08:10 AM
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Nailed. Look at other guys and you'll realize why they aren't in relationships.
/r/seduction21/10/24 07:41 AM
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The height thing is bollocks. All the guys I knew who were really good with women were 5'6. Being short or bald is not the handicap other people would let you believe. I'm the latter I am tall 6'5 but lost my hair when I was really young. Agonised over it so much it stopped me getting girls. That is until a girl said I should shave it because I would look sexy. That context switch was enough to make me realise I am enough.
/r/seduction21/10/24 07:34 AM
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That never happens to me maybe it is because I'm very tall and athletic so I dunno. It helps for me because I tend to get groups of girls staring at me when I enter a room and the social proof that comes with that. It appears to me you are being a bit blunt in your approach. I would slide into the conversation. I don't approach. I usually just find a reasonably empty spot and the girls find me. If I do say something it can backfire too. That's life. I have a habit of telling girls they are tall …
/r/seduction20/10/24 10:21 AM
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Unfortunately no 4 is learning by habitation. Learning by habitation works but is very convoluted. Children under 7 learn rapidly because their brains are always operating at theta level. There's far more effective ways to achieve this. One is self hypnosis which isn't difficult to do and very quick to work. You can wait until you sleep and do them just before you nap. You can listen to a script you get off the internet. You can spend 4 mins in self hypnosis and walk straight into a room with no…
/r/seduction20/10/24 09:35 AM
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I have been self hypnotising myself for a year now. I have studied it in depth. Its really important to program your own mind because if you don't others will do it for you. It really changes your life. I have triggers that I set that I use when I want to change state rapidly. Don't recite them. Wait until you go to bed and just before you sleep visualise the outcome you want. You can also do this first thing when you open your eyes. This stuff works.
/r/seduction20/10/24 09:25 AM
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No its actually science what you say here.
/r/seduction20/10/24 09:20 AM
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The affirmations are more effective if you do it in the hypnagogic state thats is when you are falling asleep. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wrTb3zZCPg4 Kobe did this every night.
/r/seduction20/10/24 09:19 AM
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Just being relaxed in her prescience is all the demonstrating higher value you have to do.
/r/seduction20/10/24 09:17 AM
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Your mind-set is your problem. You are basically saying you can't talk to random girls. Of course you can but you have to practice every single day.
/r/seduction20/10/24 08:44 AM
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I'm going out tonight and I'm challenging myself to at least talk to 5 women. Frame it this way instead Tonight I'm going out to have fun and talk to women. Its not hard to approach. Stand at the bar in an empty part. If a girl comes near you turn your head and smile at her then see what happens.
/r/seduction19/10/24 08:50 PM
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I didn't mind because they were pretty attractive so a lot of social proof was being generated by talking to them. Your best move is to leave the group of girls go and talk to other girls or people and then maybe come back.
/r/seduction18/10/24 07:47 PM
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Yup Girls collect guys on their nights out like trophies. If you entertain them they'll stay with you buts its only in that moment in time. As a 6'5 dude I found a lot of girls with bf's would use me as a deterrent from other guys on nights out.
/r/seduction18/10/24 11:19 AM
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One word drunkenness. She may have forgotten who you were the next morning. If a girl really likes you she will get back to you.
/r/seduction18/10/24 08:02 AM
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You are going to have to go to exclusive places where the competition is going to be tough.
/r/seduction13/10/24 10:16 PM
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The only time that happened to me was when I met a VS model. That's how relaxed I am.
/r/seduction13/10/24 10:12 PM
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The only good comment here. It's true to say apps worked fine until they were gamefied.
/r/seduction13/10/24 09:53 PM
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Congratulations Incel comment of the year. I never give any women attention. I don't look or stare at women ever. It works to get them interested in me.
/r/seduction13/10/24 09:47 PM
2

Most men don't stand out.
/r/seduction13/10/24 09:45 PM
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It's hermetic wisdom. The mirror principle is a real thing and the solution to your problems. The energy you put out is bringing these circumstances.
/r/seduction13/10/24 09:04 PM
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You think the problem is the women but it's actually you. If you change you you will get the type of woman you want.
/r/seduction13/10/24 06:39 PM
1

I'm 224lbs actually.
/r/seduction13/10/24 06:37 PM
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You are the one with issues not me.
/r/seduction13/10/24 01:36 PM
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agree 1000% as a 12st 6'5 dude I got girls. As a 16st 6'5 dude I got girls. If I go out in a shirt that is slim fit I get girls. If I wear a shirt that is 3 sizes too big I get girls. If I wear clean clothes I get girls if I'm looking like a construction worker I get girls. It's all ATTITUDE.
/r/seduction13/10/24 08:03 AM
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When I see a huge block of text I just think feminine. You are seriously overthinking things. People who overthink are not fun.
/r/seduction13/10/24 08:00 AM
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If you're skinny with no muscle, you aren't unattractive, but you aren't attractive either. Fat with big muscles, again, it cancels out on the other side of that spectrum, so you aren't attractive or unattractive. None of that applies to guys 6' 3+.
/r/seduction12/10/24 07:55 AM
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This has nothing to do with your physique. Your personality is the problem here. You are not standing out. 20 lbs is nothing.
/r/seduction12/10/24 07:54 AM
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You need to first learn how to be 1000% relaxed. That's the key to everything really. Once you are relaxed you can then observe the girl and then find things to be funny about. The thing is flirting isn't just saying things.
/r/seduction11/10/24 08:13 PM
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Do what girls in clubs do to me. They stop right in front of me take out their phones and make faces while they are scrolling. Some purposely bump into me and apologize. Ive seen your situation before in a bar. The girl walked in front of him turned around and walked behind him. That didn't work so she walked right behind him and flicked her hair so violently she hit him. He got the message then.
/r/seduction07/10/24 05:54 PM
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I know how but i don't want to share because i learned by trial and error.
/r/seduction01/10/24 06:52 PM
1

Read the comic toolbox - John Vorhaus and take ideas from that.
/r/seduction01/10/24 06:51 PM
3

I'm a indigenous Irish person and I have never heard that in my life.
/r/seduction01/10/24 06:49 PM
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He's a little to woke / nice to be truthful. When youre 6'3+ women expect you to be dominant. I know this from experience. If he had a tiny drop of Ahole he would do better. He's learning though.
/r/seduction30/09/24 05:23 PM
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When I'm in the club after a hike I'm not thinking about nerves approaching women. I'm thinking how the fuck am I able to walk after the day I had.
/r/seduction30/09/24 03:09 PM
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I know an Indian guy that is 6'3 works out and looks the part. I don't see him get a lot of women which is a mystery to me.
/r/seduction30/09/24 03:04 PM
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Sales is what he used to do. My friends are Sales people and are really good at game.
/r/seduction30/09/24 02:58 PM
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I'll tell you a secret. The less nervous you are the more nervous she is. Sometimes people approach who are nervous but when they see how nervous the girl is they become relaxed. If you see it as fun then it won't seem so bad. I'm terrified with heights but as a hiker I have had occasions to rescue people. I've also fallen into rivers , got stuck in sinking mud , chased by elks. I'm terrified but the rush I get is insane. Approaching a girl is nothing compared to nearly dying.
/r/seduction30/09/24 02:48 PM
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Bartek social is the only person who does real infield.
/r/seduction30/09/24 02:39 PM
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This sub is full of amateurs. There are women out there who like the most obscure things.
/r/seduction30/09/24 02:38 PM
5

I am 6'5, athletic and attracive. I don't get anything in apps but when I walk into a bar its the difference between night and day.
/r/seduction30/09/24 12:29 PM
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"if" . This is the stupidest shite I have ever read on this sub. pseudo statistics.
/r/seduction30/09/24 12:18 PM
1

Or just be me walk in the bar and girls are looking at you anyways. No VS model needed.
/r/seduction29/09/24 10:08 AM
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Dont
/r/seduction29/09/24 10:02 AM
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Say no because any woman who behaves like this is not not worth my time. She doesn't respect the OP.
/r/seduction29/09/24 09:57 AM
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Nope unless you do something for me. Then I suggest something crazy. Don't buy a drink until value is exchanged.
/r/seduction29/09/24 09:56 AM
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Look at the positive part you got laid and you had to make no effort. It reminds me of me I used to do the same. It seems to me the girls who want you aren't the ones you desire. I started meditating and in doing so became relaxed. Then I started practising on people every day usually servers in shops. Age or status sex doesn't matter. You are trying to cultivate the energy of a cool person. I'm still shy and an introvert but I drive through it. The other day I'm in a shop and the new girl at th…
/r/seduction29/09/24 09:53 AM
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You need to change your words. You are hypnotising yourself to fail. Whenever I go out at night with the sole intention of meeting girls, I feel like any girl I'm attracted to is not interested and would laugh at me if I started a conversation. I know it's not the case but no matter how much I tell myself that it doesn't change how courageous I am. I'm aware of how rejection is very common but it feels like my nervous system will do anything to prevent me from approaching or being confident arou…
/r/seduction29/09/24 09:41 AM
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Firstly it's science not a concept. It's easy for me because I have visualised all my life and I can go into state easy enough from partaking in competitive sports. Learn it to gain complete control of your mind. You'll have to read up on it. Google hypnagogic state and suggestion also Marisa peers YT channel. The way she goes into state is really easy and takes only a minute. This is the key https://www.youtube.com/shorts/MFp_14yi1p4
/r/seduction29/09/24 09:36 AM
2

I was dancing with a girl and her husband arrived in the club. She never told me that she was married.
/r/seduction28/09/24 09:44 PM
1

Me neither though her friends can be very problematic at times. Some try to ruin the whole interaction.
/r/seduction28/09/24 03:21 PM
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It happens sometimes when I don't look for choosing signals.
/r/seduction28/09/24 03:14 PM
2

You can totally short circuit this by self hypnosis. Some people can fix it in one try, others in 20 days.
/r/seduction28/09/24 03:09 PM
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I'm 6'5 and attractive I've had women just turn around and walk away from me. Everyone gets it.
/r/seduction28/09/24 03:06 PM
3

Statistically how "scarily common is it" ?. Choose the right ones and you'll never deal with this.
/r/seduction28/09/24 03:04 PM
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Now go to a random dude compliment his shoes/outfit anything you find attractive now talk to him for few mins, good you're now social. lol
/r/seduction27/09/24 06:48 PM
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When you are charismatic everyone you meet is receptive to you. I learned it from my mother who was in the service industry for years. In your case you are approaching in a way that isn't making her feel unsafe that's where most guys fall down. Once she isn't threatened by you you're good. I had to learn this because I'm way in excess of 6 ' tall and I have the stature of a bear. You probably are charismatic but you aren't exercising it daily. With everyone just be friendly you will see people l…
/r/seduction27/09/24 07:48 AM
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Some girls seemed upset that he wasn’t approaching them or wasn’t really giving them the attention they craved. Whole time, dude is just having fun in his own world. Totally can relate. It's funny to watch actually. I have had girls storm off out of the nightclub. This same thing happens to me too. On my side it's height rather than looks though I am handsome. I had one nearly bad experience. I was in Eindhoven in a club and some Turks got a little jealous of me. I went to the restroom and saw t…
/r/seduction27/09/24 07:21 AM
1

Like everyone else. Try one thing see it works if it doesn't try something else.
/r/seduction27/09/24 07:14 AM
1

It never happens to me because I don't want anything to do with women like that. I'm also not on apps because I function optimally in reality. I'm tall and attractive so I can pull anywhere if I choose to.
/r/seduction27/09/24 03:01 AM
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Trying to impress says it all really.
/r/seduction26/09/24 11:55 AM
1

I gained a lot of weight in college. I went from 224 to 270 @ 6' 5. I went to being invisible to women especially in college. Around COVID I discovered a thing called intermittent fasting. In 18 months I dropped to 220. First night out after lockdown I went out after my restoration to my proper body weight I was approached by 3 girls. That was great because it really restored my confidence after three years of dread. Fasting has changed my life I look really good with a small amount of gym visit…
/r/seduction26/09/24 07:20 AM
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This story sounds like manufactured nonsense or just stupid Americans not being able to hold their drink. Using words like out alpha makes me lol and what age are you talking about superpowers.
/r/seduction26/09/24 07:12 AM
1

The only person who can help you is you. Of course you can fake it everybody can.
/r/seduction26/09/24 07:04 AM
3

excel spreadsheets.
/r/seduction25/09/24 04:58 PM
1

I'm picky. Do you think you could make my shortlist ?.
/r/seduction25/09/24 04:12 PM
3

You need to learn womanese.
/r/seduction25/09/24 09:15 AM
2

I'd never let a woman dictate to me like that it's setting up a bad precedent.
/r/seduction25/09/24 08:58 AM
1

Demonstrating value means showing you that you have values and people value you.
/r/seduction24/09/24 07:53 PM
2

Self hypnosis. Works astonishingly quick on some people.
/r/seduction24/09/24 04:10 PM
1

I don't think you're in a position to ascertain his attractiveness level only women know that.
/r/seduction24/09/24 07:31 AM
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They are surrounded by guys who like them. She has friend-zoned them they are bland. When she sees a guy who is even a little bit more interesting than her satellite bfs then she bites.
/r/seduction23/09/24 04:52 PM
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Pretty girls are easy pickings.
/r/seduction23/09/24 04:46 PM
2

I don’t take life for granted. Gratitude is the ultimate door to happiness and self fulfillment. If u can be thankful for the SMALLEST things. For example: when I was in my mid-20’s I realized and told myself “Holly shit I’m depressed AF right now” But I also told myself “ok I’m depressed how can change myself for the better. So I started small, u can’t think your going to wake up tomorrow & be the most self confident, highest self esteem dude around. This is the key.
/r/seduction23/09/24 02:55 PM
1

Just YT self hypnosis script inner game
/r/seduction23/09/24 02:08 PM
1

What is reality?.
/r/seduction23/09/24 08:37 AM
2

Bartek Social by a long shot https://youtu.be/XiTquXaxHO4?si=LCn1T7Tgkxc8uQrh https://youtu.be/hVRmdEkfXQc?si=DtF9kYJ2o4k19Wfj
/r/seduction23/09/24 01:19 AM
1

I use a self hypnosis script. I was ok before but as of late I'm crushing it.
/r/seduction22/09/24 09:11 PM
3

People used to say that about me and my real life experience would correlate but like yourself I did not really believe it. That was my biggest mistake actually. Don't make the same one.
/r/seduction22/09/24 08:49 PM
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if you are as attractive as other people say then girls will move into positions that you can approach them. When I was 18 the girls who liked me sat beside me or conveniently ended up in the canteen near me. This is as true for me today as it was then.
/r/seduction22/09/24 07:43 PM
1

Can you please DM me too please?.
/r/seduction22/09/24 01:01 PM
1

You not wanting to make a girl uncomfortable is working against you. This isn't even a good mindset. You should set your personality up so that it even is a thing that you have to think about. You should be perceived as safe. When I was learning I made 2 girls on two occasions uncomfortable. It's all part of learning sexual boundaries. If a girl called me a saint I would reply " Yes but how do you know I'm not really a sinner". That straight away sets up a difference tone even though you've chan…
/r/seduction22/09/24 07:21 AM
4

All that Bs you only see on the Internet. Mature people have bigger fish to fry.
/r/seduction22/09/24 07:06 AM
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I could not care less as I only go for the women who like me and there's a lot of them. I don't think I have ever met a man hater ever in real life. Instead I get a lot of girls who feel safe around me. In fact I used to mind children in my teens because of that. The key is to be perceived as a safe person. Even the really feminist ones are quite reasonable. All those weirdos you speak of are on the Internet and in the whatever podcast.
/r/seduction22/09/24 07:04 AM
1

It only works if other girls on the floor other than your target is interested in you. If when you step on the floor a group of girls look at you then you are good.
/r/seduction21/09/24 05:11 PM
1

There is no try.
/r/seduction21/09/24 08:32 AM
2

Thing is, I'm full of fear and I feel mentally blocked. I'm always overthinking, being afraid and stressing to make a move. I don't know why the fuck it stresses me out so much but it does. I've literally had girls hit on me on their own in a club and still fumble it. I am fearless and mentally strong. I make decisions with clarity and confidence, never letting overthinking or anxiety hold me back. In social situations, like when girls approach me in a club, I handle it with ease and charm. I am…
/r/seduction21/09/24 07:44 AM
2

Thing is, I'm full of fear and I feel mentally blocked. I'm always overthinking, being afraid and stressing to make a move. I don't know why the fuck it stresses me out so much but it does. I've literally had girls hit on me on their own in a club and still fumble it. Words are powerful they shape the reality you experience. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/c88Iu-I-Yaw If you have girls then you are attractive and selected so your programming is incorrect. Go to chatgbt and ask how do I reprogram …
/r/seduction21/09/24 07:38 AM
1

You could talk for 10 minutes and when it’s time to close she’ll reply with she has a boyfriend. This is actually good. If she talks to you for a few minutes you are doing something right.
/r/seduction21/09/24 06:30 AM
2

People are lazy. Learning how to control your mind is an invaluable tool.
/r/seduction21/09/24 06:11 AM
0

Self hypnosis. It's easy to do and many people get very quick results. You have a learned behaviour that is actually natural to everyone. You need to break the cycle by going into trance and telling your subconscious that when that emotion triggers its ok. Then suggest when this happens I will be totally relaxed.
/r/seduction21/09/24 06:04 AM
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You've read tonnes of books yet you want more recommendations for books and videos. A classic example of if you keep doing the same thing you'll get the same results. Stop communicating like you do with males. Women are very different communicators. You need to go into female mode then back to make mode. Craig Ferguson does it extremely well.
/r/seduction21/09/24 06:01 AM
0

you argue like a girl.
/r/seduction20/09/24 11:15 AM
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It delays real action so I disagree. My tip about hypnosis is a far superior one because controlling what you think is the key.
/r/seduction20/09/24 06:37 AM
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Self hypnosis - Go into trance and suggest that you know exactly what to say to girls. Suggest you are always calm and relaxed. Do this for 20 days and you will see huge improvement. Anyone who downvotes this has never experienced the power of hypnosis. You're missing out.
/r/seduction20/09/24 04:51 AM
3

FOR THE LOVE OF GOD NO. Find a real person and talk to them.
/r/seduction20/09/24 04:47 AM
2

I'm also a SWE. I don't let myself believe I'm autistic. I also still keep to myself but I doesn't stop me from being social. Talk to people. Nobody knows how to initiate conversations until they try and fail. There is no algorithm or shortcut.
/r/seduction19/09/24 10:33 PM
0

That point is null and void.
/r/seduction19/09/24 04:05 PM
0

I wouldn't waste time because I know exactly what a woman is like when she is madly attracted to you and that isn't it.
/r/seduction19/09/24 02:12 PM
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Tell me your an incel......... Yes I know exactly what I'm talking about. I have house shared been friended , hung out , banged multiple women. I have always had girls into me follow me around ask me out on dates. I've done everything. I'm socially very capable I tick all the boxes and still I could not get laid every week. That's what inexperienced guys don't understand. Of course you can lower your standards but that same girl is going to be multiple guys. It's not my bag. It's not possible to…
/r/seduction19/09/24 08:34 AM
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I never attended boot camp because I don't need it. As a tall attractive man I don't get laid every week nor do I want to. I'm selective too there's not exactly a tonne of 5'9 girls out there. 1 a month is very doable for me. There's an incredible amount of effort involved in getting a quality woman.
/r/seduction18/09/24 09:10 PM
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Before going to this bootcamp or coaching I was hardly getting a girl a year and now I get laid once a week with a hot girl. That is not going to happen to one doing a boot camp.
/r/seduction18/09/24 08:49 PM
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Awesome response. The reality is no one cares.
/r/seduction18/09/24 08:42 PM
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If you overwhelm with charm it isn't charm.
/r/seduction18/09/24 04:38 PM
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What is the meaning of the word definitive? complete and final
/r/seduction18/09/24 04:34 PM
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Of course, doing a lot of dates was often an emotional rollercoaster That's bad programming. You're a man.
/r/seduction18/09/24 04:32 PM
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You do realise that men who are attractive to women have to put in a massive amount of effort to get to that point. Most of us start in our teens and that's why by mid 20s we have it worked out.
/r/seduction17/09/24 05:15 AM
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I hate to break it to you but there are seriously handsome guys who some women think are ugly. Women have their types and some ugly men are their types. I am tall and attractive and for every 10 women I meet only 2 or 3 will find me attractive and that's the way it is.
/r/seduction17/09/24 05:10 AM
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I had a friend who was a thalidomide baby and he got fine women because he could talk to women.
/r/seduction17/09/24 05:08 AM
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What do you mean by dominant?. The desired effect is be a semi a hole now don't make it a total habit but just be a little disagreeable. I think that's all you need to do.
/r/seduction16/09/24 06:04 PM
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That's what women do to me all the time.
/r/seduction16/09/24 05:59 PM
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It's not mental bloat its dopamine overload.
/r/seduction16/09/24 04:47 PM
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It happens to us all. Not many people are built for that lifestyle.
/r/seduction16/09/24 04:45 PM
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It is not the same thing tennis coaches know who they are up against. They have a history and stats. They can train their player to expose the weaknesses of their opponent.
/r/seduction15/09/24 05:37 PM
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lol.
/r/seduction15/09/24 04:47 PM
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Every woman is different which is why dating coaches are a waste of time.
/r/seduction15/09/24 04:47 PM
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I used to hang around street dancers and I picked up a lot by osmosis. I'm not a pro like they were but I'm better than 90% of people. I basically learned the thriller which is pretty much the dancing in every single music video out there. The combos are changed slightly but it's essentially the same thing. I think I must be good enough because feedback in the real world is very evident to support that. I know if I move my hips a certain way subtly women pick up on that. A Brazilian girl taught …
/r/seduction14/09/24 09:21 AM
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Write a real life scenario where you wanted to talk to a woman.
/r/seduction14/09/24 08:17 AM
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Used to happen to me frequently when I was very young and inexperienced. I'm tall and attractive but my strike rate is 2-3 /10 women. That's considered good actually. Nowadays women never tell me they have boyfriends until it's late. I think it's a lot to do with the energy you give out and how cool of a guy you are also if you are needy that's a real red flag for them. She could have a bf. But honestly I think you are just asking the wrong women out.
/r/seduction14/09/24 08:10 AM
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The problem with this you look at this like a maximiser. I don't think 3-4 days is going to transform you. If you are weak socially then you are way behind the curve. The only exception is you are England check out Bartek social. His vids are really good and he does cold approach for real unlike the rest of them. If it was me I would buy a new wardrobe and learn self hypnosis.
/r/seduction13/09/24 06:26 PM
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Get a coach who looks like you and is successful.
/r/seduction13/09/24 06:24 PM
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there are a lot of people near and they are near each other too, would that mean that everyone chooses everybody? No, Its here https://youtube.com/shorts/3b6GB-cU4Xo?si=BD1_7Pb-h8DXNPmc You've seen this vid already because you commented on it. That's how close she stands to you. I don't really understand female group dynamics to be truthful. I can only describe what I experience.
/r/seduction13/09/24 07:34 AM
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Girls and guys do this. Laugh a little louder so she can hear but not too loud and see what girls look at you and smile. That's a good test.
/r/seduction13/09/24 04:04 AM
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I was amazed when I found it because it happens to me every single night I go out. Girls fake bump into me and apologise. In the gym some women will follow you around the machines.
/r/seduction12/09/24 05:21 PM
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I used to go to a store but the girl double taked me a lot so I knew it was more.
/r/seduction12/09/24 05:03 PM
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Girls who want you move beside you. It's their non committal way to approach. Smile see if she closes the gap further then you're gold. What happens to me is that if I'm in a club or a bar the girl who has her back to me wants me to approach. if you ignore her she will either bump into you or fake bump into you. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/3b6GB-cU4Xo What happens in this video above happens to me every night I go out. Another thing you can do is watch groups of girls for who looks at you whe…
/r/seduction12/09/24 04:10 PM
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You can't be a creep if you are self aware enough to realise that you may be a creep. The reason is creeps are not self aware. Creeps are guys that don't take no for an answer. Creeps are guys that hang around women for extended periods of time in their immediate proximity. Normal guys don't do that.
/r/seduction12/09/24 07:21 AM
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My advice is if a girl pops up right beside you say to her "Are you stalking me" she says no you reply "keep it up because I might start to like it" then smile. No fucking bullshite openers like you're cute etc. That's for amateurs. If you want good openers watch craig fergusons clips I presume your English so you're familiar with Craig. https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLMX9NTAtCgOfHSW57ouNZQbjQOx7x2m2a&si=TJNYFwK1nU__rfBK
/r/seduction12/09/24 07:05 AM
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That's awesome. I don't get a lot of votes but I know what I'm talking about because i learned from experience and not books or YT. Since 17 I've never had to really work hard to find girls. I'm not a chad either. What happens to me is that if I'm in a club or a bar the girl who has her back to me wants me to approach. if you ignore her she will either bump into you or fake bump into you. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/3b6GB-cU4Xo What happens in this video above happens to me every night I go o…
/r/seduction12/09/24 06:59 AM
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