FantasticYetHorrible Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Younger woman (20's) wondering if finding a hvm is possible with what im after.	SEEKING ADVICE	FantasticYetHorrible	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/20 11:22 AM

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3	In case any of you need to hear this today The thing is we aren't even flirting. We have been talking on and off for 8 months. He keeps saying he's interested in me but wants to get to know me more. The reason, (I hate to admit it) i'm holding onto a little of hope is because he's a childfree man who is monogamous and believes in getting married. A lot of childfree guys don't want to get married and aren't monogamous in my experience. I will say he isn't the only guy I've been vetting but I was interested in getting to know him more. He'…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/20 05:54 PM
10	In case any of you need to hear this today So I was talking to some guy friends, about this guy (26) I've known for 8 months and hasn't made a move. He hasn't been in a relationship before, so I was a bit caught off guard. Though I'm 22 and a virgin, maybe I'm hypocritical. This guy though seems to have a lot in common with me but I'm still vetting him, if he doesn't make a move soon I'm giving up. So for some reasons thought it was a good idea to get really candid about my expectations. One guy said "I'm not judging you, (totally judgin…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/20 10:00 AM
51	Have you noticed this? It does. I just liked it because of the control I had with men who wanted to submit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/20 11:32 PM
110	Have you noticed this? I know fds is anti kink. When I used to be more into the femdom kink, I always had guys trying to force me to submit. It was so rapy and gross...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/20 10:09 PM
57	BDSM grosses me out so much. To any women reading this, don't allow anyone to pressure you into doing that. It's misogynistic as hell. Oh hell yeah, submissive guys are some of the most insecure, mommy issues type of men. They want the woman to take care of them and they want praise for just existing. Like I enjoy being dominant but come on dude. Get some confidence, you can be confident and a submissive guy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/10/20 03:07 PM
35	The irony of this post is that the comments are full of people saying that they had experienced abuse and were using BDSM as a coping mechanism. The lack of self awareness and denialism within the kink community is just astounding. I was groomed as a teenager and resorted to bdsm. Mostly being a femdom. I'm still terrified of penatrative sex on me. It's definitely a bunch of abused people and abusers. You should not be getting off to hurting someone else. I once had a guy ask if he could make me cry so he could get off. It's a toxic community and they are so against kink shaming that they let actual abusers be idolized. I will say I still have a pegging kink and that probably won't go away, oops.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/20 01:35 PM
12	How do you feel about this? as a 21 year old I am so grateful for finding this sub! Yeh I want my tubes tied but I'm a single under 25 woman so I don't know if it'll happen.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/20 11:57 AM
405	How do you feel about this? as a 21 year old I am so grateful for finding this sub! This. Especially if abortion ever gets to taken away. I would not touch a dick with a ten foot pole if abortion was illegal. Like fr no dick is worth getting pregnant and being forced to have it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/10/20 10:34 PM