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It’s been a while but I need to process this. Will likely do more OYS’s since clearly the basics are still not all the way together. Went for a third plate... Out of character and my frame, I did Phone calls, FaceTime, etc where she revealed past trauma (it’s ALOT, no, it’s a shit ton to include childhood stuff and a sexual assault fairly recently) and her experience with current boyfriend of a month…..including his nice guy tendencies. Also telling me about meeting a dude and texting him, which…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/24 04:49 PM
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You’ll be fine dude but it will suck for a while. Get over yourself and any narcissistic fantasies you have about how things could’ve should’ve would’ve been.
/r/askMRP01/12/23 01:41 AM
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Agreed on the LTR but that status kind of changed with the move…part of why I opened the dating profile up as LDR’s aren’t really a thing. That is a better question. I suppose there’s part of my conditioning that says a strong man does that for others. I viewed it as gift from an abundance mindset with no expectation and truthfully don’t care either way if she appreciated it or not. But the more I evaluate that, the less I believe it. Seems more like caretaking.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/23 01:14 AM
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Let it be done then and follow better beta divorce guide. Minimize time around her and record everything. Stay away from domestic violence accusation opportunities. Come out as clean as you can and with the least long term damage to your future income. Congratulations on the start of a better chapter in your life (trust me it will be if you can be cool and work your ass off on lifting/the sidebar for the next 6 months)
/r/askMRP30/11/23 04:34 AM
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OYS #3 Sidebar: all completed at least once with NMMNG and WISNIFG multiple times. Praxeology 1 and started 2. Mission: no change from last time Health: 6’, 205 Squat 315x10 Bench 225x12 Grappling 3-5x per week Women: I somehow almost ended up like the typical divorced dude who finds an LTR right away. Realized this was trouble and kept a decent distance from the 25 year old. Found myself not having as much sex as before once that plate went to school but kept her around as a plate anyway (long …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/23 04:19 AM
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OYS 2 Sidebar: yes; NMMNG and WISNIFG multiple times; the rational male; all others once and Rian Stone’s latest Background: ~40, 6’, 215 Lifts: Last lifts were - Trap bar deadlift 475x8 and bench 225x10 with a bunch of machines that don’t matter Mission: Stay healthy and strong (bf <12%, 500 deadlift, 200 press, run <6:30 mile), continue excelling in my career and become financially independent enough to be able to live in Southeast Asia, Eastern Europe, and Latin America for 3 months of the ye…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/23 12:19 PM
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Make yourself stronger then give life your own meaning or continue with your nihilistic despair. The second option is much easier anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/23 02:45 PM
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Here to work through other nice guy shit that will eventually fuck me again if not worked on. I see what you mean on the plate.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/23 11:05 AM
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That’s interesting; figuring out the blind spots is the reason I posted so thank you. On saving him: The breakthrough was there’s nothing selfish for why I want to save him from something. That became clear to me with your question since there were no selfish reasons for wanting to. I’ve given enough service to others that when I recognize there’s nothing in it for me, I’m done with it. Granted, it’s a struggle to overcome nice guy shit but if I’m able to recognize it like I did with you pointin…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/23 09:59 AM
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There’s literally nothing from a selfish POV. I won’t benefit from saving him from those perils. From an altruistic POV, I’ll be the good guy who took care of someone else’s kid and maybe he’ll appreciate me for it. Others will see me as the good guy. Plus I can help him avoid the mistakes I made. All of those are bullshit reasons that likely explain why he doesn’t want me around.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/23 07:52 PM
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He’s 13. And dude, holy shit, that’s probably right. A fucking covert contract! I treated that kid as my own so there’s a lot of “if I can just be there for him and spend more time with him then his life will be better”. Really trying to avoid him getting involved with the wrong crowd through some unresolved pain…But truthfully, aside from him having more stuff, I probably won’t make that much of an impact.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/23 07:15 PM
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Still debating on whether to (1) accept it or (2) see a lawyer and deal with a possible shit storm. 2 will be more expensive and likely won’t work. I either win or things get worse. But if it’s what I want, then I don’t see why going all the way in, even if it means throwing money away, isn’t necessary.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/23 05:25 PM
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I appreciate those recommendations. Those numbers are from pre-surgery so now just trying to walk and stretch while it heals.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/23 05:19 PM
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I realized why was a dumb question for me after about a year of trying to figure it out but let’s just say I fucked up. Leadership failure for sure. My attitude, consciously or not, was that “I’m married now so she’ll just take her vows as seriously as I do…this is for life and we said we’d love each other forever…and I can focus on work while becoming unattractive and letting her lead”.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/23 03:01 PM
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OYS 1 Sidebar: yes; NMMNG and WISNIFG multiple times; the rational male; all others once and Rian Stone’s latest Background: No one gives a shit, but for context I’m a long time lurker who divorced about a year ago with a step son who I apparently have no legal right to despite raising him for 10 years. I’m a nice guy let it fuck up a marriage so now I’m fixing my shit. ~40, 6’, 215 Lifts: Fucking disaster of last few months post severe infection. Last lifts were - Trap bar deadlift 475x8 and be…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/23 10:52 AM
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Better beta divorce guide. Your turn is up and it’s time to move on. Or it’s not. Either way it doesn’t change anything (YOUR actions don’t change). Be ok with either outcome.
/r/askMRP24/03/23 03:04 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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